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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all all suit on don giving them like

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Speaker 1: Steve listening to movie together for Stu. I don't join Jo.

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Speaker 1: You gotta use that turn you. You gotta turn anyone

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. I show will good morning everybody. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on dig me now one and only.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. Steve Harvey got a radio show, Yeah you do.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. But like I said

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Speaker 1: the other day, you got something too, though, don't you.

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Speaker 1: God hadn't done something wonderful for you. You just gotta

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Speaker 1: thank Him for it, you know, in the midst of

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Speaker 1: all that's going on in my life and in your life.

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Speaker 1: You know, I always use myself as an example because well,

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Speaker 1: I mean that way. I guarantee one hundred percent I

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Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. Um, here's the situation, you know,

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Speaker 1: with everything that's going on in my life and all

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Speaker 1: a taxing and a very trying situation. That's very challenging

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Speaker 1: for me right now. Man, God just keeps on, keeps

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Speaker 1: on surprising me. He keeps doing things. And I want

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Speaker 1: you to look at your life. Or for a second,

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Speaker 1: let's make two columns here. Let's make a column of

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Speaker 1: all the things you want from God. You know, just

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Speaker 1: all those things. Let's make three lists. And then the

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Speaker 1: second list, I want you to make a list of

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Speaker 1: everything that you've been asking God for. So I guess

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Speaker 1: that could be a little bit of the same. But

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Speaker 1: this third list, I want you to do a check

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Speaker 1: You know, it's Okay, it's a dream board. You can

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Speaker 1: call it that. I got one. It's a vision board.

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Speaker 1: You know. Every everybody's got something you hope for. Make

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Speaker 1: See this is a good list because sometimes and what

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Speaker 1: back and go, man, that was time, Steve, when you

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Speaker 1: Change is good, but change is challenging. Accept the challenge

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Speaker 1: to me all the time and say, Steve Man, thank you,

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Speaker 1: some of me that's happening to me is happening to you,

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Speaker 1: people you don't even know, discussing your life and your change.

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Speaker 1: raise you above the phrase. He'll keep promoting you, He'll

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Speaker 1: keep blessing you, He'll keep moving you up. He will

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Speaker 1: He'll make you. He'll make you look good to people

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Speaker 1: to all your haters. All your haters will end up

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Speaker 1: just watching you rise. Man, They will watch you continue

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Speaker 1: to grow. That's what God will do for you. Man.

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Speaker 1: You can fool the world, but you can't fool God.

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Speaker 1: God know your heart, He knows your every thought. Man,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Earl of Artingham has been a little

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Speaker 1: of the racial unrest in the United States. I am

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Speaker 1: That was my duke, Duke Thomas smiles, Morning Duke. More

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Speaker 1: the money girl, Morning guys, Junior Junior page squire man. Hello,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Lady Carla Fra morning Duke, and of

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Speaker 1: Stephen Queen, shout and listen. I have any questions this

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Speaker 1: I dude, yeah, he said you were drunk. What do

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Speaker 1: a combination. Next question, yes, yes, Do you have any

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Speaker 1: I'll be there. Lay your flags, and until the star

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Speaker 1: Will you be marching with us too? Yes, I'll march,

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Speaker 1: not long dollar only the only daytime, march what happens

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Speaker 1: at night and start throwing things. The last time I

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Speaker 1: come back after this next breakfast? So many, all the

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that you're doing over there, and to

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Speaker 1: hell with Hannity coming up at thirty two minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour. You heard him, the Duke shall return. The

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Speaker 1: Duke of Idingham right after this you're listening to, the

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Speaker 1: Earl of Dingham decided that he has to rush back.

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Speaker 1: That's saying goodbye. Stephen wants to do this. See how

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Speaker 1: obviously some major hit down. I'm gonna step away now

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Speaker 1: and go and get some tea. Thank you, Thomas Kyle

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Speaker 1: was great, Queen Lady Carl, thank you so much. Bye

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Speaker 1: bye bye Turtles too. That was fun having him around.

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Speaker 1: We haven't heard from him in a minute. Yeah, titles

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Speaker 1: m well les, he switches gears. I'll tell you this.

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Speaker 1: It's time for the CLO. The Chief Love Officer, the

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Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey is back and Steve, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: This first situation here is from Kita and Mobile Cota. Coreta,

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Speaker 1: core Rita. Sure it ain't Coretta, Yeah, I'm sure I'm sure, Coreta. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She's from Mobile, Alabama. She says she got married in December,

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Speaker 1: and one week after their honeymoon, her husband did a

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Speaker 1: you have a son named yes, sir? Is everything right? Uh? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: You'll your fun keep peeing in the pool, slim man.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get into it with you. Your

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Speaker 1: says my son? And in the pool, Well, your son

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Speaker 1: I know that's what he's doing here in their pin.

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Speaker 1: Your son is the one that's penn making faces. He'd

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Speaker 1: we don't allow Man, I'm not gonna city and go

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Speaker 1: If he's not the one, then we will allow him

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Speaker 1: My name is Grin. I'm Grinning the lifeguard. That's who

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Speaker 1: not at liberty to give my lad's name. The bottom

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do is call you Anna, let you

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Speaker 1: my father playing the life board. Get a real job,

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Speaker 1: a summer job. You got a job, and I call him.

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Speaker 1: You said, you know what you ain't about, and you

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Speaker 1: ninety You got me up? Come about you gonna snatch

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Speaker 1: The problem is whatever has been singled out all the

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Speaker 1: He's saying whatever whatever for right now, all I'm asking

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Speaker 1: the next two weeks. If we fell out that that's

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Speaker 1: He ain't staying away from the pool for two weeks.

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Speaker 1: cool you can tell you about his faith. You said

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Speaker 1: get rid of John Lady. Listen, lady, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: is left you Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You just got Frank from your homeboard. You get me. Hello, kids,

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Speaker 1: look man, look up till the doctor. Man. You want

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Speaker 1: to get this bo y'all play too much. Y'all know

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Speaker 1: towards forming now. I thought you was coming to the

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Speaker 1: pool tomorrow. I was coming to the office today. They

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Speaker 1: still was opening the five cock. I'll to tell me,

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Speaker 1: for the common Now take kid of them kids, Baby,

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Speaker 1: I got one more thing. I got to ask you.

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Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land. The

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Speaker 1: Steves has the more this show? Baby, if you a

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Speaker 1: pete in the pool, raise your hand, jeez, Steve got

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Speaker 1: both hand. As a kid though right now is an adult? God,

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Speaker 1: oh God, as a kid, not as an adult right

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Speaker 1: you didn't get out the pool as a grown I've

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Speaker 1: been walking on the beach and walked into the ocean,

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Speaker 1: the ocean. Yeah, and then come on back in, my wife,

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Speaker 1: come time. Why you go out there and peeing that

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Speaker 1: water like that? You know what's pissing in there? It's

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Speaker 1: it's it's about let it go. Yeah. I can't really

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Speaker 1: pick somebody out and tell if they peeing in the pool,

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Speaker 1: or I could tell, especially when they get over that

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Speaker 1: by that jet that you know what when they get

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Speaker 1: by that jet, you know what's going on? You just

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Speaker 1: standing there back? Yeah, you let me go. I know

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Speaker 1: about a jet in the pool. Jet in the pool.

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Speaker 1: You're ye as a kid, not as an adult. Right No,

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Speaker 1: like right now, like you always telling them, you can

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Speaker 1: always tell if I'm peelings I had in Louien in

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Speaker 1: my job. Let mesten coming up at the time of

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Speaker 1: the Are we have entertainment and national news right after this?

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Speaker 1: Oh my lord, you're listening to. Jimmy Kimmel has come

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Speaker 1: under fire for an old blackface sketch and for using

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Speaker 1: the N word in a song spoof. You know he's

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Speaker 1: a late night host, of course, of his own show.

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Speaker 1: He's apologized. In a statement on Tuesday, Kimmel said, I

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Speaker 1: have long been reluctant to address this as I knew

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Speaker 1: doing so would be celebrated as a victory by those

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Speaker 1: who equate apologies with weakness and cheer for leaders who

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Speaker 1: use prejudice to divide us. That delay was a mistake.

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Speaker 1: There is nothing more important to me than your respect,

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Speaker 1: and I apologize to those who were genuinely hurt or

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Speaker 1: offended by the makeup I wore or the words I spoke.

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Speaker 1: And that's Kimmel's response. He says, well, a lot of

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Speaker 1: people this is, you know document, it calls to cancel him.

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Speaker 1: Began Monday Night Yeah, with many citing his black face

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Speaker 1: impersonation of Karl Malone as an imitation and an imitation

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Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety six Christmas album. Kimmel has done impersonations

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Speaker 1: I thought of them as impersonations of celebrities and nothing more.

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Speaker 1: But now he says he finds the sketches embarrassing, and

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Speaker 1: he seems to think the controversy was being used to

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Speaker 1: stop him from criticizing President Trump. So there, ye look him,

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Speaker 1: and I knew about a couple of those things. You know,

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Speaker 1: and it was him really trying to do an impersonation.

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Speaker 1: To call for his resignation at this point is like

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Speaker 1: ridiculous show, because if you listen into what his heart

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Speaker 1: speaks about all the time, he's been fighting the races,

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Speaker 1: the racist antics of Trump since he got in office.

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Speaker 1: He calls everything, you know, and so you know, for

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Speaker 1: people doing that, I ain't with that right there. I

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Speaker 1: know him to be a really solid guy. For him.

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Speaker 1: First of all, let's just start right here with the apology,

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Speaker 1: and I'll tell you something else. I know a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, well, why you always get your president to

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Speaker 1: apologize for just anything he's done. Isn't he a lot

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Speaker 1: more important to you than Jimmy Kimmel? And haven't you

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Speaker 1: heard Jimmy Kimmel at least care about what's going on

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Speaker 1: in this country. I'm all right with Kimmel. You know,

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Speaker 1: when people do change, people do change, they grow, they learn,

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Speaker 1: they change, you know, thee several times, and he's did

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Speaker 1: it as an imitation. He wasn't doing it as a

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Speaker 1: you know. But but now you can't do that anymore,

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Speaker 1: you know. I mean, come on, y'all, we got some

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Speaker 1: real issues. We got to take care of yes, we

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Speaker 1: got that. There's credit laws that's against us. Systemic racism

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Speaker 1: is there's credit laws against us. We need to talk

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Speaker 1: about that, the police, banking, residential zoning, insurance, redlining. Like

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Speaker 1: Shirley said, Oh, we got a lot of stuff concerning

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Speaker 1: ourselves with let's not get caught up in every single

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Speaker 1: aspect calling for people's jobs. Who could really be an

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Speaker 1: ally to you. I just liked Jimmy Kimmel. I've always

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Speaker 1: liked him and respected to God. You know, I knew

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Speaker 1: what he did, I knew how he did it. But

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Speaker 1: you know, once you're a comedian, man, it's people that

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Speaker 1: ain't taking nothing in the form of a joke. And

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Speaker 1: that's that's one of the one of the reasons I'm

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Speaker 1: really grateful that I got out of the stand up

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Speaker 1: game when I did. Who but Lord loveful? Right there, Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: I was watching one of my old tapes. One of

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Speaker 1: my guys came up to me and said, man, steel

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Speaker 1: tripping is my favorite. He said, when you went to war,

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Speaker 1: the reason why you can't go to the army, He

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Speaker 1: said that joke right there, he said, I spit up

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Speaker 1: on my TV though, Ladies and gentlemen, missing trip. No,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much. Everybody. Here we go, Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Twenty seven year old right shot Brooks was funeralized yesterday

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Speaker 1: by family and friends and remembered as a caring father

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Speaker 1: and a loving husband who died thanks to a violent

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Speaker 1: and corrupt system. Doctor Burney's King, the daughter of doctor

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Speaker 1: Martin Luther King Junior, says that young mister Brooks should

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Speaker 1: have been able to go home that night, and the

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Speaker 1: officers should have gone home that night without blood on

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Speaker 1: their hands. This is the great tragedy in our nation

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Speaker 1: that must cease. The white cop who shot Richard Brooks

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Speaker 1: in the back could face the death sentence if convicted.

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Speaker 1: The Georgia General Assembly passed a hate crimes bill yesterday

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Speaker 1: ain't the wake of the murder of Jaga Ahmad Aarbury.

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Speaker 1: The Peach State is one of only four states without

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Speaker 1: a hate crime statute with a previous version struck down

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Speaker 1: by the state Supreme Court, and where that bill given

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Speaker 1: new life after the senseless and deliberate murder of the

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Speaker 1: unarmed young black man. The admitted killer reportedly used a

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Speaker 1: racial slur as mister Aarbury lay dying, and David Ralston

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Speaker 1: is a Republican Speaker of the House today, we have

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Speaker 1: said that we will not be defined by senseless act

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Speaker 1: that our Georgia is better than this. Right. That's the

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Speaker 1: Republican Speaker of the House down there. The bill imposes

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Speaker 1: harsher penalties for crimes that target people because of their race,

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Speaker 1: or gender or sexual orientation. Governor Brian Kemp says he'll

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Speaker 1: sign it pending legal review. The Pennsylvania Supreme Courts is

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Speaker 1: going to hear an appeal by Bill Cosby of his

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Speaker 1: twenty eighteen conviction for a sexual assault. The court will

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Speaker 1: reportedly look at two issues that his attorneys say should

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Speaker 1: not have been part of the court case anyway. Cosby's

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Speaker 1: attorney says some witness testimony that was part of the

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Speaker 1: state's evidence should not have been allowed. They also questioned

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Speaker 1: the use of a deposition that Cosby gave after he

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Speaker 1: was assured by district attorney that that debt position would

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Speaker 1: never be used to prosecute him. The a two year

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Speaker 1: old Cosby has served less than two years of a

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Speaker 1: three to ten year term. President Trump says he intends

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Speaker 1: to issue an executive order protecting monuments that have become

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Speaker 1: targets of vandalism and takedowns. By the way, the Lorry

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Speaker 1: says that another top ranked tennis player tested positive for

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Speaker 1: the coronavirus, and it looks like the coronavirus pandemic has

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Speaker 1: affected one of the biggest religious rituals in the whole world.

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Speaker 1: Saudi Arabia has now officially banned the world's Muslims from

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Speaker 1: attending the Hajj, that's the annual pilgrimage to Mecca next

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Speaker 1: month because authorities stay just not safe. In normal times,

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Speaker 1: any Muslim who is fit and has the money can

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Speaker 1: require to make that trip to Mecca at least once

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Speaker 1: in their lives, not this year. Now back to Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning, Joe, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: The FBI says the news found in Bubba Wallace's garage

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Speaker 1: stall at Talladega Superspeedway in Alabama had been there since

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Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, and they're determined no crime was committed. Now

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Speaker 1: that's according to the FBI. In fact, NASCAR says the

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Speaker 1: item in question is a garage door pool rope fashioned

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Speaker 1: like a news that have been positioned in the garage

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Speaker 1: since last fall. NASCAR adds Bubba Wallace was not the

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Speaker 1: target of a hate crime. A representative said. Although the

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Speaker 1: news is now known to have been in Garage number

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Speaker 1: four in twenty nineteen, no one could have known mister

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Speaker 1: Wallace would be assigned to garage number four last week.

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Speaker 1: The FBI and the US prosecutors say the decision not

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Speaker 1: to pursue federal charges as proper. I see what happened.

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Speaker 1: So it wasn't in his garage since two thousand nineteen

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Speaker 1: at this particular speedway. He gotta sign that night for Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when he walked in, he saw the news for the

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Speaker 1: first time. Got it, understand understandable mistake. Yeah you're thinking, wow,

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Speaker 1: I walked in here, but no, it's just been in

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Speaker 1: there since two thousand and nineteen. Well, who had the

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Speaker 1: news before? There was a garage pulled? The garage pulled that.

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Speaker 1: They made it like a news. It was all white

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Speaker 1: people in there. That's somebody made the news. Let's not

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Speaker 1: get well, well it's a noose not you know, But

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Speaker 1: you can't say it was a hate crime because it's

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Speaker 1: all white people in there. Ain't nobody driving to call

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Speaker 1: black but Bubba. Yeah, So when he got to sign

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Speaker 1: that garage. That's the mistake. It ain't like it was

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Speaker 1: been hanging in there since two thy nineteen. He just

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Speaker 1: noticed it in his garage. That was one he got

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Speaker 1: to sign for Telladega or and he got a sign

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Speaker 1: to it, and then they put it in there. They

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Speaker 1: said it's been in there since last year. The FBI

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Speaker 1: and the US prosecutors again say the decision not to

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Speaker 1: pursue federal charges is proper after reviewing all available facts

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Speaker 1: and all applicable federal laws. So they're not going to

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Speaker 1: um pursue it. They said it wasn't a crime, and

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Speaker 1: it wasn't a hate crime. That's cool. Well, that's good, good, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I know he was feeling some type of way black.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, did you see him? He was emotional.

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Speaker 1: But I'm no good hair. Well, if I walk in

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Speaker 1: the garage and see a newse I'm gonna figures for

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Speaker 1: me and then exactly and then the turn up is real,

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Speaker 1: all the way turns, all everybody wrong, trying to win.

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Speaker 1: I'm running over. He word getting tossed about is MM

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Speaker 1: which M don't. But he handled it. Yeah, why ill okay?

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Speaker 1: And where dim x l it? Would have been. Might

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Speaker 1: they might have found that news wasn't hate Krame but

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Speaker 1: Steve as Steve definitely hate Cram all right, coming up

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Speaker 1: next and thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. Dozens of mourners, most

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Speaker 1: dressed in white and nearly all wearing masks, filled the

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Speaker 1: historic Ebenezer Baptist Church yesterday for the private funeral of

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Speaker 1: Ray Shard Brooks. Um Ray Shard Brooks, of course, was

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Speaker 1: the unarmed black man who was fatally shot by a

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Speaker 1: white police officer outside of Atlanta's Wendy's Restaurant almost two

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Speaker 1: weeks ago. Uh Brooks was remembered as a giving, loving person,

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Speaker 1: a devoted husband, and a wonderful father of three daughters

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Speaker 1: and a step son. Wow Reverend Berneath King delivered a

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Speaker 1: Martin Luther King Junior, once preached, take a listen. I

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Speaker 1: am here to stand with you in what feels like

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Speaker 1: an all too familiar moment. Having a father killed when

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Speaker 1: I was only five years of age, my heart deeply

634
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: grieves Rachard Brooks's life matters, and he should have been

635
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: able to live, to enjoy his family and watch his

636
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: kids grow up into adulthood. And the officers should have

637
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: gone home that night without blood on their hands. This

638
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: is the great tragedy in our nation that must cease.

639
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: We are here because individuals continue to hide behind badges

640
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: and trainings and policies procedures, rather than regarding the humanity

641
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: of others in general and black lives specifically. Wow Wow

642
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 1: like that Welson. Yeah, I'm very h the cop who

643
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: shot mister Brooks. Of course, twenty seven year old Garrett

644
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 1: Roth was fired and charged with capital with the murder felony.

645
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: They'd have moved him to another jail m for safety reason. Yeah,

646
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 1: they're gonna get you how long, Well, you can't move

647
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: you And I know all white jails, so right at

648
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: some point you're gonna run into a black person in

649
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:45,760
Speaker 1: a minute, Ain't there are no all white jails? Now, Okay,

650
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 1: we in there. I think said, there's amount of time

651
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. You can get in protective because if

652
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: you want to, it's gonna happen. M hmmm, I'm gonna

653
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: tell you high it's gonna happen. They're gonna pay one

654
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: of your little guard friends, one of your little guards,

655
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: gonna turn your hands in, probably gonna be the black guard.

656
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna throw that out there for you. So

657
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: don't get friendly with Harold Banks because he can. You

658
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: watch a lot of TV, don't you before. That's exactly

659
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: how it happens in the movie. Yeah, I know, life

660
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 1: is definitely stranger than Prisoner. Ain't science fiction. That ain't

661
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:30,959
Speaker 1: sci fi. That's real. Everything you see in the movie

662
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 1: doesn't happen, you know. Um, it's it's it's it's a

663
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: sad state for this young man to lose his life.

664
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: Like she said before, he was allowed to see his

665
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: children grow up, and repeatedly it happens. But it's it

666
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,919
Speaker 1: keeps happening just to us. So here's a deal. I'm

667
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 1: going to continue to say it. And I got to

668
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 1: find a way, and I want somebody that send politics

669
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 1: to help me with this. I started with Pcard sellers.

670
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: I asked Paccard sellers on a zoom call we were

671
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: doing with my boys from mentoring mondays. I want to

672
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: find a way to get this forward for mandatory police sentences,

673
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: nothing special against the police. Just can the police be

674
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: upheld to the same law that they are trained and

675
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: hired to hold us too. If they could be held

676
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: just to that same law, that's not asking a lot,

677
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: that's not unreasonable. That's a very common sense thinking. If

678
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: I can't kill an unarmed man and get away with it,

679
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: then neither should you. If I can't shoot a person

680
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: in the back running away, then neither should you. If

681
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: I can't prove that my life was in danger, and

682
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 1: you take another person's life and it finds out he

683
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: just had a sell phone or was reaching for his keys, unarmed, unarmed,

684
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: you you have to do some time, and I think

685
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 1: that will cause everybody a bit of pause. But right

686
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 1: now you could do what you want to do and

687
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: say it's because I'm a police officer. Yeah, well you've

688
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: been a police officer. Should not give you the permission

689
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: to deside whether we die to day or nothing. You

690
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: You should not have that right, not with twenty one

691
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: weeks of training. All right, we're gonna switch gears here

692
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: and try to make you laugh even more with today's

693
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: praying phone call with the nephew coming up right after this,

694
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: you're listening to coming up at the top of the hour,

695
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,

696
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: subject should I cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend?

697
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:47,240
Speaker 1: All right, right now, the nephew is here with today's

698
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: praying phone call. What you got for us, NEF today?

699
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: Your new boss? You're a new bass Okay, your new bass?

700
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: That sounds all right? Okay, I'm with you. I'm so

701
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm with you so far for you franking employees about you.

702
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: I want you want to hear the twist because I

703
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: let I let it run if you want to hit yeah, yeah,

704
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: like a like a head Come on, cad dog runy. Hello, Hello,

705
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Jason place. Yester, how cannot help you? Hey, Jason,

706
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: this is Lyle. I'm giving you a call out of

707
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: human resources. Right. How you doing? You're the former the

708
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: project guy out there? Yes, I am on the project manageers.

709
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: I cannot help you. Listen, you've been training an individual

710
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: out there, I think for the last month or so

711
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 1: you have you've been training a Yes, great guy, um

712
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: doing great work. He's doing good? Okay? How was he is?

713
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: He coming along pretty good with everything? Oh? Man? He

714
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: picking up real good man? He learned to trade. I

715
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: mean he's picking up just let us love from me,

716
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: pick up excellent young walker. And here how many monon

717
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 1: weeks of training out there? I will say probably about

718
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: another week or two or we let him, you know,

719
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: put him on his arm. Okay, and you think he'll

720
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 1: handle it efficiently? Oh? Yes, I think he would be

721
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 1: a great, great employee. Okay, you've been with the company?

722
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 1: How long? Going on about seventeen years? Yeah? My records

723
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 1: are telling me somewhere around sixteen plus, right, right, Okay,

724
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: you've been with us quite a while. And first of all,

725
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: let you know we're grateful of you, of the work

726
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 1: that you're putting in. Well, man, I appreciate a man

727
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: made man. I appreciate it. You have to company to

728
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 1: man and you know, being here to eat many years man.

729
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 1: He let you know, man, I love my company exactly. Listen,

730
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: we got a few adjustments we're gonna be making out

731
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: there on the plan. Here's what we're gonna do now

732
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: you say, gonna be done in about a week or two? Yes,

733
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: about a week. Okay, here's here's what we're gonna do

734
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: on that particular day that he gets released. And you

735
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 1: you definitely know he's ready for everything. Um, I'm gonna

736
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card as well

737
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: as the key to your office. What man, I'm gonna

738
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card that gets

739
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 1: you actually onto the property. And you have you have

740
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: your own parking space too, don't you? Yes? I do. Okay,

741
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna need you to give it your key

742
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: card in your office key and um, well, we'll find

743
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: you another place to park. He's actually probably gonna be

744
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: parking in your space. Hold hold, what you mean you're

745
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: telling me to give him my key parking right, I'm

746
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: talking to your parking space, but your key card to

747
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,359
Speaker 1: get you onto the property and a little electrical card

748
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: there right that as well as your office. He's gonna

749
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 1: actually be taking over as project manager. No, no, sir,

750
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: I'm not giving up nothing, sir, nobody to think over

751
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: the pocket manager. Let's let's first of all, sir, let's

752
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: do this. Let's stone the language down. Okay, we're gonna

753
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 1: find a place for you, but for the time being,

754
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: we're gonna put you back into play until we find

755
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,399
Speaker 1: the game. I'm fignd the place of me, my place

756
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: where right now? I'm not moving from nowhere. That's akay.

757
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,800
Speaker 1: I'm not getting into to sign me nothing like I

758
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: I seventeen years op. Ain't nobody said to sign me.

759
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 1: Not a place to move. You got to understand that

760
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 1: part down. I got seventeen years up in him and

761
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: chain a young guy, and this guy got a couple

762
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: of months, and you're telling me the other one to

763
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: do what me move me, Jason, this is a temporary move.

764
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna find something better for you. No, you ain't

765
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: know what this project. Ain't nobody got that understanding. This

766
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: has come from the head and on the head and

767
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: head is I know, the head of people. This decision

768
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: actually come from the vice president. They ain't told me

769
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: none of that. It comes to me first. I'll tell

770
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: you what, Jason, this is something I'm supposed to probably

771
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: not tell you. But let me let me let you

772
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: in on a little something. Yeah, let me hand on

773
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: something because this is gonna be some bull him because

774
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: I shut the whole place up out him. And I mean,

775
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: let me explain something to you, Jason. This young guy

776
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: that you've been training, he's actually the nephew of the

777
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 1: vice president. I don't give a about no neshew or

778
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: no vice president. Man, do you think I care about

779
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 1: some president telling him share the president? I said what

780
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: I said, yeah, man, the nexhew? Who care about the nephew?

781
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 1: They ain't never told me this? Well? Can I expect

782
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 1: you to give your key over to him? No? Hell no,

783
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: I ain't getting nobody nothing. Definitely get the law to

784
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: come and get it. Ain't nobody getting nothing. I ain't

785
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: leaving how that sounds. So all I can ask you

786
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: for is I need your key card and I need

787
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 1: the key to your offers. I need you to empty

788
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: out your things so we can move fixture in there

789
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: and you a place. This is just a temporary slop

790
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 1: right now, you damn all. It ain't nobody getting nothing

791
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: saying okay, and I've been here. I tell you what

792
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 1: I gonna do. I go out there and I tempt

793
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: slap this who have something? Okay? And then I find

794
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 1: out who is boll says or whoever did nest the

795
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 1: bot to be and kick hit because I ain't giving

796
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: up nothing. And I'm talking about job y'all with the

797
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: wrong one, okay, with the wrong one at this time,

798
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:41,399
Speaker 1: because nobody taking nothing. You're talking about beating the vice

799
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: president's nephew you're you're you're losing control here. Uh, Jason, No,

800
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: I ain't losing nothing. I'm gonna think control. I'm gonna

801
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 1: lose and when I kickh how that sounds? And I'm

802
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: gonna kick the boat to see you? All of them?

803
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 1: How that sounds? That makes sound clear to you? It

804
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 1: makes sense. We're trying to just give you someplace to

805
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: be temporarily until I find you another slot. Ain't no

806
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: other blin. My slot is my slot. I'm gonna kick it.

807
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: Gives rats? Not how that sound to you? Turn All

808
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm asking is I need your key card and I

809
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: need the key to the office. Get all your things

810
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: out so I can get Victor moved in within the

811
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 1: next week. Ain't he's Okay? All of them, I don't

812
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 1: give a how that sounds. I don't care nothing about them. Okay,

813
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,280
Speaker 1: because I see you or maybe somebody out here today. Okay,

814
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm tired of it and this ain't gonna happen to me.

815
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get security to come over and walk you out. Okay. No,

816
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 1: ain't no security for to walk me no where? How

817
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: that sounds. I came here, ain't buy myself. Ain't nobody

818
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: for to walk me about the end. Are you having

819
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: problems moving out for the nephew. The nephew okay, the

820
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: nephew is not gonna come in here and take Okay,

821
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: there's another that you need to be aware of. Do

822
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: you know who the other nephew is? Hell no, I

823
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: ain't never seen no other nephew. I ain't know that

824
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: wasn't nephew. Let me tell you who the other one is?

825
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:55,760
Speaker 1: Who who the other one is? The other one is nephew?

826
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: Taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Jason, you

827
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: just got rank y'all lying with me. Man, Come on, man,

828
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: don't play with me. Man, y'all. Man, this ain't no tommy. Man,

829
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: y'all need to put that man. And y'all don't know

830
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: how long the brother man I worked I worked up man.

831
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 1: He man. Ain't no just just baby y'all. But may man,

832
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: y'all got me. Good man, I got you, Man, I

833
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: got I got one thing to ask you, Man, what's

834
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. That's Steve Harvey

835
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: Morning Shot. It is your new boss. I don't care

836
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 1: nothing about. You've been training him. That's who trying to

837
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,399
Speaker 1: be the bass. Yeah, that was a twist. All right?

838
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: Is that almost got your ba whooped again? But why

839
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 1: are you playing all the time? Yeah? Yeah, that's real, right, Yeah,

840
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 1: that's a real that's cold that's cold blood. That is it? Really? Is?

841
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 1: It happens every other week? Rush. Yeah, And it's bad

842
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: for the person that's doing it and for the person

843
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: that's having it getting it done too. It's bad for

844
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 1: both of them. Yeah, toxic work environments. Yeah, really, you

845
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: don't want that. You want it to go smooth. Wa

846
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: one day we get this trump somebody if you get

847
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: his job. You know what I'm saying. You want me

848
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:30,399
Speaker 1: to sing it you that's my favorite part? Okay, wait, okay,

849
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: what is it? November? November? Yeah, we want to sing that.

850
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: November third, Yeah, November third, but November. Yeah, we have

851
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: to do our get it. We have to do our part,

852
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: do our part. Vote vote vote vote vote vote vote. Yeah,

853
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:53,879
Speaker 1: November fourth, we hopefully, Yeah, we'll be saying just that. Yeah,

854
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 1: you need us. They ought to let us help. They

855
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 1: ought to let us move him out to watch got

856
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: to move nothing. We'll get it. Okay. Do let me

857
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: tell you boarding a dress. It ain't a lot of

858
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 1: stuff you can take Okay, no, okay, it's just his

859
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: his clothes. A lot of long times. You know, there

860
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,360
Speaker 1: ain't a lot of clothes. You know, you can't. We

861
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: gotta gotta my faulk fridgerated full of McDonald burgers. Now,

862
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 1: we gotta get that out of there. I just don't

863
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 1: want us to take it for granted. You know that

864
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: he's going to lose that. You know, I'm gonna tell you, right, Yeah,

865
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: folks voted yesterday, Yes they did. They did, Thank you,

866
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: Thank you. Some runoffs in North Carolina and South Carolina.

867
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, they did it all right, all right,

868
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:44,959
Speaker 1: so nephew, thank you. Coming up Strawberry Letter subjects Should

869
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: I cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend? We'll get

870
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:54,359
Speaker 1: into that right after this. You're listening to Show Time

871
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice

872
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

873
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click

874
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

875
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to raise I

876
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,839
Speaker 1: like to keep in practice, buck Alapa, hold on tight.

877
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the strawberry letter,

878
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Should I cancel the party or cancel

879
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,800
Speaker 1: my girlfriend? Dear Steve Anne Shirley. I've been with my

880
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: girlfriend for ten years and we're having our first major issue.

881
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: When I met my girlfriend, she was new in town,

882
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: so I introduced her to my group of friends and

883
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: their wives. There are four couples that hang out, and

884
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 1: we've all known each other since college. The wives were

885
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: all nice enough to my girlfriend, but they've never included

886
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,360
Speaker 1: her in girls night out or invited her to brunch

887
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 1: with them. Whenever we're all together, I make sure my

888
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 1: girlfriend feels included. But now there is a problem that

889
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: I need to deal with. My girlfriend thinks that my

890
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: best friend's wife flirts with me. I will admit that

891
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: my best friends gets a bit out of hand when

892
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: she's had too much wine, but her husband is always

893
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: around and he thinks it's funny. My girlfriend says, as

894
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: a woman, she sees things differently than I do. Last weekend,

895
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 1: we all met at the park for a friend's birthday

896
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: and we got on the subject of race and politics.

897
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: My best friend's wife sat by me and we talked

898
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: and agreed on most of the issues. My girlfriend was

899
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: giving me the evil eye the whole time, and I

900
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 1: was very uncomfortable. When we left, my girlfriend was furious.

901
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: So it's our return to host the annual Fourth of

902
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: July celebration at our house. And my girlfriend said, my

903
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: best friend's wife is not invited, but her husband can come.

904
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 1: What the hell? How can I get my girlfriend to

905
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 1: realize that she might be the problem. I love her,

906
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: but I am sick of constantly validating her feelings. Should

907
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: I cancel the Fourth of July get together? Or should

908
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: I cancel my girl friend? Please advise? Are you serious

909
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: right now? You would cancel your girlfriend of ten years

910
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: over this? I mean, I just got to say to that, well, well,

911
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: well aren't you aren't your shallow sir? Aren't you drawing

912
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 1: a line in the sand and picking sides here and

913
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 1: all because you're a little uncomfortable right now? I mean,

914
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: imagine how your girl feels now, mind you? I think

915
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: she's dead wrong, No, I'm gonna say this. She's just

916
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: less than tactful for not inviting this flirty pants to

917
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:35,760
Speaker 1: your party, but her husband can come. Okay, that's awkward

918
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: for everyone. I get that awkward for everyone involved. But

919
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: that's what old girl gets for being so disrespectful to

920
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 1: your girlfriend. She's putting her foot down. I think you,

921
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 1: on the other hand, should should be standing by her.

922
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: You should be supporting your girlfriend and not taking their

923
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 1: side or anyone else's side who comes up against her.

924
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:57,720
Speaker 1: You guys have been together for ten years. You should

925
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:00,839
Speaker 1: have said something a long time ago when they never

926
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: included her socially. You knew all about it and said

927
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: or did nothing. These are your friends. She was new

928
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 1: in town. You introduced her to your group of friends,

929
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 1: and they snub your girl when they have girls night out,

930
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: when they have brunches and things like that. And this

931
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: woman openly flirts with you in your face, in her face,

932
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: and all you do is eat it up and blame

933
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: your girl. Why. I'll tell you why. I know why,

934
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: because you like it. You like the attention she's giving you,

935
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: and the fact that her husband is there and does

936
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: nothing thinks it's funny. That makes it all okay, doesn't it. Meanwhile,

937
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: your girlfriend is feeling some kind of way and she's

938
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: letting you know. And okay, this is a side note here.

939
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: Why is it that men always pretend they don't know

940
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: when a woman is checking for them? You guys never

941
00:57:55,080 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: know this. She was oh when, oh, no, girl, you're tripping.

942
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: You're crazy. Come on, knock it off, guys, you know

943
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 1: what's up? And so do we? Okay, so do we.

944
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: That's what she's telling you. She feels differently about it

945
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: because she's a woman. So I say to you, sir,

946
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 1: if you are considering dumping your ten year girlfriend over

947
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 1: this stupid mess, she's probably better off without you. This

948
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: is over a party, and come on, she's given you

949
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: ten years more than you deserve. That's what I say, Steve.

950
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: We have a difference of opinion here, so we might

951
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: as well get started. Let's just start with the subject

952
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 1: of the letter. Should I counsel the party? All? Counsel

953
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 1: my girlfriend? How is that a question? Now, Shirley says,

954
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 1: after she's been with you ten years. Well, that's why

955
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 1: we have a problem right here. If you've been the

956
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: girlfriend after college for ten years, has it occurred to

957
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: you that he don't want you for no more than

958
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: he already getting from you. If you've been with a

959
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 1: man after college for ten years and he ain't asked

960
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 1: you to marry him yet, something wrong. So let's just

961
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 1: start there. Now, let's go on down the line. You

962
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,919
Speaker 1: got this best friend now for oh, here's the next part.

963
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: You introduced to a group of friends, and for ten years,

964
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: they don't ask her to go to the happy hour, shopping,

965
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 1: to the movie, to brunch. They don't like her. They

966
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: do not like your girlfriend. It's something about her that

967
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: they've all picked up on and detected, and they've decided

968
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: as a group that they don't like her. That's why

969
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 1: you ain't married her, because you didn't detected some things too.

970
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: Now this letter is that's the last straw Now when

971
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 1: she gets a little bit to drink, you'll admit she's

972
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 1: a bit much, and she'd be saying, wow, st and

973
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 1: your butt. Your boy be right there, your best friend,

974
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: and he think it's funny, what dude? Thanks, it's funny

975
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 1: that his girl is hidden on another dude because she

976
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 1: drops ha ha Hi? He him right? Who finds that funny?

977
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: There's something wrong with this whole little group. Hold that thought.

978
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

979
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter titles

980
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:43,480
Speaker 1: should I cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend? We'll

981
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening show.

982
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Should I

983
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend? That's that's a

984
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 1: crazy question. It is. This is just your turn to

985
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:03,360
Speaker 1: do a Fourth of July, and you're considering canceling not

986
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: canceling that, but canceling your girlfriend, who's been your girlfriend

987
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: from ten years, who you don't really want no more

988
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 1: that for what she is anyway, you don't protect her

989
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 1: like you want her to be your wife ten years.

990
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 1: Don't nobody like her. She don't go to brunch half out,

991
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: They don't invite out ten years. And then when you're

992
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 1: all together, you always make sure when you're all together

993
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 1: that my girlfriend feels included. You're forcing her into the bunge.

994
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 1: But now there's a problem. My girlfriend thinks that my

995
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 1: best friend wife furtual me and I will admit when

996
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: she gets a bit out of hand, when she's had

997
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: too much wine and her husband always around it, he

998
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: thinks it's funny. I don't understand that right there, How

999
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 1: that's funny every damn time she gets drunk. I wanted

1000
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: you that ain't funny. But like Shirley said, you kind

1001
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 1: of enjoyed that, so you put up with it. I

1002
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: bet if it wasn't your best friend's girl, I better

1003
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: be something to this. The fact that your girlfriend has

1004
01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: noticed this. Women do see things that men don't see it,

1005
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 1: and surely said why y'all always act like y'all don't

1006
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: see it because we don't. We actually don't. Hey, let

1007
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: me tell you something. If we did, we'd act on it.

1008
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: We don't see it, but since you pointed it out,

1009
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 1: we're looking forward. Okay, okay, see you want some of

1010
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: this big daddy all right? Now? Yeah, what's up with you?

1011
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 1: See that's what it turned into. Well, here's a deal.

1012
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 1: Last weekend we all met at the park from a

1013
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 1: friend's birthday. We got on subject of racing politics and

1014
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,479
Speaker 1: your best friend's wife said by me, and we talked

1015
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 1: and greed the most issues. My girlfriend was giving you

1016
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: the evil the whole time, and I was very uncomfortable.

1017
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: You should have moved, got your ass up off that

1018
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: park bench, and what's set on the other side. You

1019
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 1: saw her looking at you, your stupid ass, you're gonna

1020
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 1: stay there now. That's why your ass was uncomfortable. You

1021
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: saw her looking upside your head talking to this drunk healther.

1022
01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: Then when we left, your girlfriend was furious. So now

1023
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 1: as y'all's time, the horse host the forth of July

1024
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: celebration at your house, and my girlfriend said, your best

1025
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: friend wife is not invited, but her husband can come.

1026
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: What the hell right exactly? You ain't lying, y'all? What

1027
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: the hell you Your boy can come? But hey, man,

1028
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 1: Sheila don't want your wife. Sheila said, I don't even

1029
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:51,960
Speaker 1: know how you say that. Hey girl, hey man, let

1030
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 1: me forth of July thing. Listen, you're welcome to come,

1031
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 1: but huh jacket uh jack um reader reader read it

1032
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 1: on want sheila? Excuse me? I said? My wife said

1033
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: you're welcome her. You can come down, you know you

1034
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: might do. But readers say, Sheila can't come. You gotta

1035
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: come so low to the fourth July. No, no, no,

1036
01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 1: you misunderstanding. Dog. You good. You could come over, get

1037
01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 1: yourself some que get some drinks. Man, you have some

1038
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 1: nice music. But reader don't want Sheila to come. Yeah no, no, no,

1039
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,320
Speaker 1: well you know because she you know, because you no

1040
01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: matter where she drank. It's fun. Man. Look I know

1041
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 1: it's all fun. It don't even bother me, man, But man,

1042
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: my girl be tripping man, look, I don't know how

1043
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 1: we're gonna do this here, but you know you're welcome

1044
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 1: to come because dogs really don't we dogs. But uh

1045
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: ha ha he he she can't come. Cannot come? He

1046
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 1: read it right? How can I get my girlfriend to

1047
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: realize that she might be the problem? She is? They

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Speaker 1: don't invite her know where. She's not really that likable

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Speaker 1: to the group, None of them girls and say, you

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01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 1: know what, let's invite read them ain't know what I'm

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01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 1: saying that listen, everybody, just because she's not married to him,

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01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: and everybody know what else you're doing, dough and the

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01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: wives know it, so they know that your girl ain't

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01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 1: gonna make make She ain't gonna make the race, so

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01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 1: they all ready to cut her out. She ain't the

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Speaker 1: one because you because you know, because you know what, man,

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01:05:56,720 --> 01:06:00,640
Speaker 1: you're doing your thing. But now y'all had this thing

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01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 1: at your house, she ain't having over there. So your

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01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 1: question is what do I do? Do I cancel the

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Speaker 1: party or counsel my girlfriend? But I'm sick of constantly

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01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: validating her feelings. That's what's wrong. You always got to

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Speaker 1: make her feel included in all of that, and you exhausted.

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Speaker 1: I hadn't done that before. Dog. It's exhausted. You always

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01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 1: got to explain dog dog, She tied dog dog dog dog.

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Speaker 1: She did had a long day and he tired of that.

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01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 1: Counsel fourth of July or my girlfriend. I think the

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Speaker 1: girlfriend should cancel him, all right, Steve Poster comments, you'll

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Speaker 1: probably be happy. Yeah she will too. Poster comments on

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook,

1070
01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming

1071
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 1: up at forty six minutes after the hour and trending

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Speaker 1: news out of feeling. Bill Cosby has been granted an

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Speaker 1: appeal in his sexual assault case by the Pennsylvania Supreme Court.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Dave Harvey Morning Show. The Pennsylvania Supreme Court said yesterday

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Speaker 1: that it has accepted convicted sex offender Bill Cosby's appeal

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Speaker 1: of his two eighteen conviction, thus raising the possibility that

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Speaker 1: it might be overturned in the future. The Supreme Court

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Speaker 1: said it will review the appellate Panel's decision in Cosby's

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Speaker 1: case based on the issue that focuses on the witnesses

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Speaker 1: who testified about alleged assault that were not part of

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Speaker 1: the charges, and the second focuses on the prior district

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Speaker 1: attorney's decision not to charge Cosby a decade ago. The

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Speaker 1: eighty two year old Cosby has been imprisoned for nearly

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Speaker 1: two years after a jury convicted him of drugging and

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Speaker 1: sexually assaulting a woman at his home back in two

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Speaker 1: thousand and four. He is serving a three to two

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Speaker 1: ten years sentence. Bill's wife, Camille Kasby, spoke to ABC

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Speaker 1: News last night. Take a listen. My first reaction is hopefulness, possibilities.

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Speaker 1: Now finally there is a court, the state's highest court,

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Speaker 1: that has said, wait a minute, there are some problems here.

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Speaker 1: They can be considered for an appeal. I'm very very

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01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 1: pleased with It's not one hundred percent, but now I'm

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01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 1: looking at something that is possible, possible for vindication. That

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01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 1: is the goal we communicate every single day. My husband

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01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:37,160
Speaker 1: is doing very well, and in terms of visiting him, no,

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01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:40,800
Speaker 1: I do not want to see my husband in that

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01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 1: kind of an environment, and he doesn't want me to

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Speaker 1: see him in that kind of an environment. Wow, wow,

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Speaker 1: you know something. I think that she is well within

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01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 1: her right to feel how she's feeling. It's her husband,

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01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 1: and though the general consensus and the public feels one

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01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: way or her husband. Now, if there will are some

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01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:06,519
Speaker 1: improprieties that happened the way our judicial system is set up,

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01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 1: then he's entitled to an appeal like everyone else, like

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01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: everyone else, because seemingly, and like she said, it's not

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01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 1: but she's hopeful. And you know, if they've done something

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01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:22,559
Speaker 1: wrong in the procedure, you can't do that and then

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01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 1: give the man time, not if you broke a procedure,

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Speaker 1: and that happens in the judicial system a lot of times. Look,

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01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 1: if you do wrong, you have to pay. But since

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Speaker 1: we're talking about it, if you do wrong, you have

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Speaker 1: to pay. Ain't that what all these protests about? Yeah? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, and he's done two years. Like I said,

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01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 1: he's serving a three to ten years sentence. So he's

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Speaker 1: eighty two years old. And on the other side of it,

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Speaker 1: the victim and her lawyers, they feel that what the

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Speaker 1: trial court, what their decision was, will hold up. So again,

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Speaker 1: and it's up to the Pennsylvania Supreme Court to hear

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Speaker 1: both sides of it and make their decision from there.

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Speaker 1: And Missus Cosby said she's hopeful, but she said she

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01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: doesn't want to you know what, I can kind of

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Speaker 1: understand that, Yeah, she doesn't want to see him in that,

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01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 1: and he doesn't want her to see him like that.

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Speaker 1: You know. All right, coming up at the top of

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Speaker 1: the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show right after this you're listening to. All right, here's

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Speaker 1: a question for you guys. You know, we've heard a

1129
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Speaker 1: lot about what's been going on since you know, COVID

1130
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: nineteen and everything. We've been quarantine in the home. Some

1131
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:43,519
Speaker 1: people have gotten a divorce, some people have gotten closer.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's just you don't know what's

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01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 1: going on. Some people decided they didn't like each other anymore. Well,

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01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 1: here's the question from each other. Yeah, yeah, one side

1135
01:10:53,080 --> 01:11:01,560
Speaker 1: of exactly apartment. That's all. It's a little difficult, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: All Right, So here's a question. Are you and your

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01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 1: your significant other, your spouse, are you arguing over how

1138
01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 1: much you should go out and do right now? Because

1139
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 1: you know, some of a lot of the cities and

1140
01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:16,080
Speaker 1: states are opening up so people can go out. So,

1141
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: you know, here's some of the questions. Should you go

1142
01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 1: out to a restaurant? Should you eat outside without masks?

1143
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 1: I mean, should you guys go to an indoor to

1144
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 1: an outdoor birthday party or a barbecue or something? How

1145
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 1: many public places? How should you you know? Should you go?

1146
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:35,760
Speaker 1: Is there a debate between you and your significant other

1147
01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 1: unwhere to go and what to do? And with home

1148
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 1: to do it? These are questions. Let me just say

1149
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 1: this right here, Okay, we ain't having no arguments about

1150
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:52,960
Speaker 1: where to go. All of our discussions that has any

1151
01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 1: argumentative tone to it is simply because she wants to

1152
01:11:58,920 --> 01:12:08,600
Speaker 1: talk when I don't, won't do. You're talking talking in

1153
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:15,280
Speaker 1: the spring, were summer, it's covid. Oh there's coding, and

1154
01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:22,679
Speaker 1: she wants to talk every day. You know I work

1155
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:26,960
Speaker 1: from the house now we all do? Yeah, Well, I

1156
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:30,320
Speaker 1: got I got to get out of here. We talk

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01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:32,760
Speaker 1: all day. She come in here while I'm working on

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01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 1: the talk. What we just talked? Sit out? And you

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01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 1: haven't talked to me today. We talk every day about

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01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: talking to your nerves. It's too much because so bad

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01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:50,240
Speaker 1: and I y'all haven't said anything but today When I

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01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:56,600
Speaker 1: get through today's manniverse got so. I just wanted to

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01:12:56,720 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 1: let you know that after this. You know, we even

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01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: were discussing like tonight, you know, what do we do tonight?

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01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 1: Because anniversary? I got talking talk, But it's gonna be

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01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 1: over dinner at the house. March one thing being the

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01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 1: president of Senators for Disease Control. You know what, my

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01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 1: wife has really made me feel old during COVID. You know,

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01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:28,400
Speaker 1: my wife keeps telling me and she got she she

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01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:32,280
Speaker 1: ain't got. But one more time to say this to me? What, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you are over sixty, you are in the high risk group,

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Speaker 1: but you don't You're gonna quit saying that to me.

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01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 1: I ain't no, damn high risk. I ain't got no conditions.

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Speaker 1: If you left the house, dog dog, I listen to me,

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01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 1: ain't been nowhere since March. What that's love? Well, that's

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01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:05,280
Speaker 1: what love looks like. Let me leave, But no, this

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01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 1: looks like house arrest. The only thing I'm missing is

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01:14:09,200 --> 01:14:14,720
Speaker 1: a brace That's all I'm missing, the ankle bracelet. That's

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01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:16,559
Speaker 1: the only thing. If I had that on, I would

1180
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 1: at least explain that this is love, Steve, this is love. Sureley,

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Speaker 1: Do you do the same thing to your husband? I

1182
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:24,640
Speaker 1: know I do the same. We talk a lot, no

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01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:27,000
Speaker 1: to ask him where is he going? And all listen

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01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:30,200
Speaker 1: talk a lot? Yeah, sometimes yeah, if I care to. Yeah,

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01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:33,400
Speaker 1: let me ask this. Why wouldn't we leave a house?

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01:14:33,560 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: Why do y'all call right after we din left? What

1187
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:43,679
Speaker 1: what is that about? Yeah? We forgot to say something

1188
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 1: when you walked out? Yea, that's all it is. Just

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01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 1: pick up when I Yeah, you gotta do that. You

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01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:56,400
Speaker 1: can't not pick up, but you won't. Oh, don't pick

1191
01:14:56,479 --> 01:15:01,559
Speaker 1: up and see how it goes after right? All right,

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01:15:01,720 --> 01:15:04,680
Speaker 1: So so Steve, now you know what love really looks like?

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01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 1: Coming up more of today's trending stories in this on

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01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,360
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the hour,

1195
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show. All right, can we

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01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 1: get a drum roll? Please? We need a drum roll

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01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 1: right here? Okay, oh yeah we got drums. Yeah we

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01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:32,040
Speaker 1: got drums. Yeah, not m drum Oh yeah, well, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we gotta say this you you alluded to it earlier,

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01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 1: but happy anniversary to you and Marjory. Have made it

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01:15:43,240 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 1: love on your hand up. Wonderful man. Come on, I'm huh,

1202
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:57,720
Speaker 1: I'm actually all honestly, I'm in a great marriage. You know,

1203
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:01,839
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not without his chapel ledges and problems marriage.

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01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 1: But Man, at the end of the day, when I

1205
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:09,600
Speaker 1: look at her, I'm happy. Man, I'm overjoyed. She's just

1206
01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 1: the one for me. Man, I could not have a

1207
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:16,439
Speaker 1: better chick. I could not have a better person. I

1208
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: don't there as a person out there better for me.

1209
01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:21,880
Speaker 1: I just don't believe that this is it. Right here,

1210
01:16:22,080 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 1: I've been with you all the rest of them. This

1211
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 1: is the best. Right I've been with you through all

1212
01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:38,720
Speaker 1: the rest of them. How many lawyers, though, Steve, how

1213
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: many years? This is uh fourteen and I've been happy

1214
01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:53,799
Speaker 1: all fourteen? Here E've been wonderful. He got married, fourteen

1215
01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 1: years of marriage. Blissed all right? More of the Steve

1216
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:58,680
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show and some training news coming up with

1217
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:03,759
Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after after this you're listening to show.

1218
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 1: Dozens of mourners, most dressed in white and nearly all

1219
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 1: wearing masks, filled the historic Ebenezer Baptist Church yesterday for

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01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 1: the private funeral of Ray Schard Brooks. Ray Shard Brooks,

1221
01:17:16,360 --> 01:17:18,759
Speaker 1: of course, was the unarmed black man who was fatally

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01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:22,519
Speaker 1: shot by a white police officer outside of Atlanta's Wendy's

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Speaker 1: Restaurant almost two weeks ago. Brooks was remembered as a giving,

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01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 1: loving person, a devoted husband, and a wonderful father of

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01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 1: three daughters and a step son. Wow. Reverend Bernice King

1226
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:38,599
Speaker 1: delivered a moving message at the church where her father,

1227
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Speaker 1: Reverend Doctor Martin Luther King Junior, once preached, Take a listen.

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01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:45,759
Speaker 1: I am here to stand with you in what feels

1229
01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:50,920
Speaker 1: like an all too familiar moment, having a father killed

1230
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 1: when I was only five years of age. My heart

1231
01:17:56,200 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 1: deeply grieves Ray Schard Brooks's life matters, and he should

1232
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:06,080
Speaker 1: have been able to live, to enjoy his family and

1233
01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 1: watch his kids grow up into adulthood. And the officers

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01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 1: should have gone home that night without blood on their hands.

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01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:21,679
Speaker 1: This is the great tragedy in our nation that must cease.

1236
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 1: We are here because individuals continue to hide behind badges

1237
01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 1: and trainings and policies and procedures rather than regarding the

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01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:40,840
Speaker 1: humanity of others in general, and black lives specifically. Wow

1239
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 1: Wow like that Welson. Yeah, the cop who shot mister Brooks,

1240
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:51,320
Speaker 1: of course, twenty seven year old Garrett Roth was fired

1241
01:18:51,400 --> 01:18:54,559
Speaker 1: and charged with capital with the murder felony. Many moved

1242
01:18:54,640 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 1: him to another jail for safety reason. Yeah, they're gonna

1243
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 1: get so how long do well? You can't move you

1244
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:07,640
Speaker 1: and I know all white jails, so right at some

1245
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 1: point you're gonna run into a black person in a minute,

1246
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:15,719
Speaker 1: ain't there are no all white jails. Now, Okay, we're

1247
01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:21,880
Speaker 1: in there, she said, it's amount of time it's gonna happen.

1248
01:19:22,960 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 1: You can get in protective because if you want to,

1249
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. M And I'm gonna tell you how

1250
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:30,840
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. They're gonna pay one of your little

1251
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:34,120
Speaker 1: guard friends, one of your little guards, gonna turn your

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Speaker 1: ass in, probably gonna be the black guard. I'm just

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01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 1: gonna throw that out there for you. You know, it's

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01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 1: a sad state for this young man to lose his life,

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01:19:42,560 --> 01:19:44,840
Speaker 1: Like she said before, he was allowed to see his

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01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:49,160
Speaker 1: children grow up and repeatedly it happens. But it's just

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01:19:49,400 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 1: it keeps happening just to us. So his deal. Can

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01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:57,760
Speaker 1: the police be upheld to the same law that they

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01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:01,360
Speaker 1: are trained and hired to hold Old Dust two, that's

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01:20:01,400 --> 01:20:04,639
Speaker 1: a very common sense thinking coming up. It's our last

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01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:09,640
Speaker 1: break of the day, last break of the day, and

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Speaker 1: we'll have some wonderful closing remarks from the anniversary boy

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01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:18,840
Speaker 1: himself fourteen years with the love of his life. Yes,

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01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:23,519
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey closing remarks forty nine minutes after right after this,

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01:20:24,320 --> 01:20:29,559
Speaker 1: you're listening, all right, guys, Here we are last break

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Speaker 1: of the day on this Wednesday hump day. I guess, stee,

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01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:41,160
Speaker 1: what do you have plan for your anniversary? Yeah? I

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01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 1: can't go nowhere, so we have no in house. I

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01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 1: no think so, man, think we're gonna do that day?

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01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:53,800
Speaker 1: My wife. Don't let nobody owe you. That's why this

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01:20:54,000 --> 01:21:01,880
Speaker 1: has got to end. I can't see your friends that seriously, man,

1272
01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:05,000
Speaker 1: because she took this way too far, like hand washing

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01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:09,880
Speaker 1: and all this him in my hands. Seriously, mane they

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01:21:09,880 --> 01:21:13,920
Speaker 1: don't even want to be washed, no more dry. That's

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01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 1: a good thing. It's a good thing. But but let

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01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 1: me say this. In cloth, uh I found uh not

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01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:28,320
Speaker 1: the best person in the world, just the best person

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01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 1: in the world for me. Uh See. You may not

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01:21:32,120 --> 01:21:35,800
Speaker 1: feel that way about it, but that's not important to me.

1280
01:21:37,360 --> 01:21:40,240
Speaker 1: And so as you look for mates and choose mates

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01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:42,599
Speaker 1: and decide to make a life with somebody, if that's

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01:21:42,640 --> 01:21:46,240
Speaker 1: what you choose to do, find the person that's right

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01:21:46,320 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 1: for you. I wish you and I wish you well

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01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:52,400
Speaker 1: with that endeavor, because that's all it really matters. The

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01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:56,439
Speaker 1: other people's opinion of them. It doesn't matter, not one

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01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:59,800
Speaker 1: way or the other. You've got to find the person

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01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:03,720
Speaker 1: floats your boat that makes you happy. And I want

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01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:06,040
Speaker 1: to say this to men about relationships. I was talking

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01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:09,160
Speaker 1: to a guy today and I've said it on the

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01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: show many times. He said, Oh, this is my fourth marriage,

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01:22:14,320 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 1: and I'm getting sick of getting married. I just can't

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01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:19,200
Speaker 1: get a woman to understand how I am. And I said,

1293
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:23,720
Speaker 1: what seems to be problem, sir? And he says, you know,

1294
01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:27,040
Speaker 1: I want a woman that gets how this is supposed

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01:22:27,040 --> 01:22:29,400
Speaker 1: to go. I'm the man in the house and I

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01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:33,320
Speaker 1: and I don't want that disputed. I said, brother, how

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01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 1: many marriages you'd have for? I said, you'venn have full

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01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:39,599
Speaker 1: more like that. I said, that's not the way it works.

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01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 1: I said, have you ever thought that marriage is a compromise?

1300
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:45,680
Speaker 1: Have you ever thought that a quality relationship is a compromise?

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01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 1: He said. If I'm the man and were talking it

1302
01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:51,880
Speaker 1: and I say something, it ought to go the way

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01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 1: I say, I said, brother, Thus explains the four wives.

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01:22:56,400 --> 01:22:58,280
Speaker 1: I said, but you're gonna have four more unless you

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01:22:58,439 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 1: change that. He said, you know I ain't with that

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01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:05,920
Speaker 1: fifty fifty crap either. You know it's sixty forty. I said,

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01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:09,040
Speaker 1: as I said, see now you're talking to me, and

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01:23:09,080 --> 01:23:11,400
Speaker 1: he said that's what I mean. I said, well, who

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01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:14,280
Speaker 1: gets to sixty? He said, I do? Oh? I said,

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01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:17,000
Speaker 1: oh you man, I said, that's why you went. He said, man,

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01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:19,120
Speaker 1: I've heard you talk about your wife so many times.

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01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:22,080
Speaker 1: What makes you have a successful man? I say, the

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01:23:22,200 --> 01:23:26,280
Speaker 1: percentage that you use it is off. I said. Marriage

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01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:30,759
Speaker 1: is not fifty fifty. It's not sixty forty. I said, marriage,

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01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:36,240
Speaker 1: it's eighty five fifteen, and we who are men, get

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01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 1: the fifteen. He said, well, that's ridiculous. I'm not taking

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01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:43,360
Speaker 1: fifteen percent. I said, see, you're not willing to understand

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01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:46,720
Speaker 1: how it works. I said, bro, listen to me. I'm

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01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:49,920
Speaker 1: really about fifteen percent of it. I get to do

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01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 1: what I want to do fifteen percent of the time.

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01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:56,799
Speaker 1: I get a space in the house. That's about fifteen

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01:23:56,880 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 1: percent of the house at maybe at best. I said,

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01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:04,479
Speaker 1: but I take that fifteen. I embrace it, I love it,

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01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 1: I own it, I make it mine. I find my

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01:24:08,400 --> 01:24:11,479
Speaker 1: happiness in that fifteen and when I go over there

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01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 1: to her eighty five side, if she's happy, do you

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01:24:17,120 --> 01:24:20,920
Speaker 1: know that she shares that eighty five with me? So

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01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:23,560
Speaker 1: I not only get to keep my fifteen and have

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01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:26,760
Speaker 1: that all to myself, my little man cave, or my

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01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:29,680
Speaker 1: little golf set up in the corner, or maybe it's

1331
01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 1: just your desk in the corner. Maybe you got your

1332
01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:35,000
Speaker 1: video game set up on a little screen. Whatever it is.

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01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:37,040
Speaker 1: You know, you map out a little piece of the

1334
01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:39,679
Speaker 1: world that's just for you, and they keep the kids

1335
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:41,800
Speaker 1: out of it. Don't go over that. That's your daddy's area.

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01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,920
Speaker 1: Every man needs that. If you get that little fifteen percent,

1337
01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 1: take that embrace it. Let her have the rest of it, don't.

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01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:50,479
Speaker 1: My father told me a long time ago, it's your

1339
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:52,920
Speaker 1: job to buy the house. It's her job to make

1340
01:24:52,960 --> 01:24:56,240
Speaker 1: it at home. Fellas, listen to me. It's okay to

1341
01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:58,840
Speaker 1: live that way. You take a lot of pride in

1342
01:24:58,920 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 1: being a provider. You can take a lot of a

1343
01:25:02,960 --> 01:25:06,160
Speaker 1: lot of pride in being the protector. There's a lot

1344
01:25:06,240 --> 01:25:09,719
Speaker 1: of pride in that. Stop trying to decorate the house

1345
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:13,719
Speaker 1: and all that. You ain't what you do. Dog really,

1346
01:25:13,760 --> 01:25:16,519
Speaker 1: it's really not never that maybe some guys out there

1347
01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:18,600
Speaker 1: in frigy tality that the majority of us are not

1348
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:22,320
Speaker 1: let her do it eighty five fifteen. You'll be a

1349
01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:25,400
Speaker 1: lot happier like that. But I'll tell you something, when

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01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:28,920
Speaker 1: it's time for them to give, if you've given them

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01:25:29,040 --> 01:25:36,320
Speaker 1: eighty five, the return that they give to you for that, brothers,

1352
01:25:36,760 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 1: it's immeasurable. Well, Steve, why they get eighty five? Well,

1353
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:46,720
Speaker 1: let's just talk about this for a second. They can

1354
01:25:46,760 --> 01:25:50,640
Speaker 1: do one thing that you can't do, and that is

1355
01:25:50,720 --> 01:25:57,200
Speaker 1: produce a life. They have produced. Every single life that's

1356
01:25:57,360 --> 01:26:02,479
Speaker 1: on this earth today was out to you by a woman.

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01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:07,160
Speaker 1: They ain't a man living that they made one child,

1358
01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:14,240
Speaker 1: ain't incubated one egg. Hayte bought nobody in there. That's

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01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:18,679
Speaker 1: a major accomplishment, man, And for that alone, that puts

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01:26:18,720 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 1: him in a category that we can never ever get in.

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01:26:21,640 --> 01:26:23,559
Speaker 1: I don't care how famous you get, how much money

1362
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:26,400
Speaker 1: you make, but your job, titanly, is how many degrees

1363
01:26:26,520 --> 01:26:30,080
Speaker 1: you got. You can't make a baby. If you could

1364
01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:32,560
Speaker 1: just grab that, fellas and be okay with that, and

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01:26:32,720 --> 01:26:36,920
Speaker 1: honor women and put somebody's daughter on a pedestal and

1366
01:26:37,040 --> 01:26:39,760
Speaker 1: treat her like a queen. The return you will get

1367
01:26:39,880 --> 01:26:43,519
Speaker 1: for that is immeasurable, man, it really really is. And

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01:26:43,680 --> 01:26:46,759
Speaker 1: you will find that you have a much better life

1369
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:51,439
Speaker 1: with somebody than by yourself. I found that to be true.

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01:26:51,720 --> 01:26:55,560
Speaker 1: I wish everybody could get there, but sometimes to just

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01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:58,600
Speaker 1: take a little bit of time. Happy anniversary to me

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01:26:58,720 --> 01:27:01,800
Speaker 1: and Marjree and going out tonight, and I ain't gonna

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01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:03,640
Speaker 1: be in no shape to be here tomorrow morning, so

1374
01:27:03,760 --> 01:27:24,640
Speaker 1: don't look for me. For all Steve Harvey contests no

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01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:28,200
Speaker 1: purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US

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Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For

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Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.