1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,079 Speaker 1: But I had dinner with some people over the weekend, 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: and we've done had dinner before. It was, I guess 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: more of like a business setting kind of thing, and 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: it was the thing that you do when you eat 5 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: with people. And it was like, hey, do you want 6 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: to order some stuff and then we'll try you know 7 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like not that share. It's more like 8 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: a romantic thing, I think. But it was like, hey, 9 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: what if we get a bunch of things and we 10 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: all eat it? Say hey, Fred, what don't you like? 11 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: And I generally think I'm not all that picky, like 12 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: I'll eat a lot of different things, okay, But as 13 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: I started to list the things I don't want, I 14 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: realized that I am picky in a strange way. And 15 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 1: I've been listening for a while. You know this. I 16 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: don't want any kind of meat that looks like it 17 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: did when it was alive. Okay, Okay. So like, for example, 18 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: there was branzino and they didn't have the head on it, 19 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: but essentially they cut the head off, they leave the 20 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: tail on. They cut the thing in half, and then 21 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: it's like a butterfly branzino and it still sometimes has 22 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: little bonies in it and stuff it might taste delicious. 23 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't need the tail on it, 24 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: and I don't need the head. And I know that 25 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: they're your pions listening right now and people going, hey, dude, 26 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: you from the Mediterranean. Hey, you're missing out. It's delicious. 27 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: You know, fish with a head on it is good. 28 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: I don't need to look in the eye at the fish. 29 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: It's a weird thing to ask the server though, you know, hey, 30 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: does is that fish going to have the head on it? 31 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, it's a strange thing, 32 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: especially when you're trying to act cool kind of or 33 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: act chill. And then it was like, why don't like eel? 34 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: They didn't have a eel on the menu. But then 35 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: it kind of became a top. It came like what 36 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 1: don't you like? 37 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 2: And you know, Calamari don't comm at him with calm. 38 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: I don't understand Kalamary. I don't get it. 39 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you don't get it. 40 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: I don't get Calamaria. I don't understand why it's necessary. 41 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 3: For me too, because now I'm thinking, like this could 42 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 3: be a rubber brand just in matter. 43 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: That's what I mean, Squid, I'm sorry. The texture of 44 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: squid on its own is gross and then so okay, 45 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: So then we just go deep fry it because that's 46 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: more palatable to a lot of people. Fine, but then 47 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: deep fry a vegetable and give it to me. I 48 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: don't need it. It's I don't get it. And then 49 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: somebody we had this conversation because kalamari was on the menu. 50 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't like the way it smells, I 51 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: don't the texture, I don't like. I don't get it. 52 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: Go ahead and order I don't want it. I'm not 53 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: having it. And then people dip it in marinara or whatever. 54 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: It's like, Well, then now we're tasting now it's fried marinara. 55 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: What is the purpose of the calamari even at all? 56 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: Why is it even there? Have you had it in 57 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: strips deep fried air and then get that in calamari, 58 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: and then I get my deep fright in my air. 59 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if I've had it in strips, I 60 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: don't If it's on the menu, you guys always order it. 61 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: It's wonderful, have ad it. I's just I'm not going 62 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: to partake. I've never said don't get it. Go ahead 63 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 1: and be in bet you don't let us get interested. 64 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: You did, We're forbidden eels a texture thing for me. 65 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: But then after a little while, I'm like, I guess, 66 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: I guess I am kind of picky. Now if someone 67 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: had ordered it, I wouldn't have said a word. I 68 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: just wouldn't have eaten it. Oysters. I like oysters, except 69 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: I got sick not that long ago after eating oysters. 70 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: I can't confirm that it was from the oyster, but 71 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: I have that now I have the association, you know, 72 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: where it's like, yeah, now I see them and I'm like, oh, 73 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: I was really sick for two or three days after 74 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: I bring this up because you gov has they guess 75 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: they serve it a bunch of people, and they have 76 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: the list of the most hated foods. This is other 77 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: people hate anchovy's, liver, sardines, and oysters. Strong or slimy flavors, 78 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: weird textures are the main deal breakers. Most people say 79 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: they've warmed up to something if they used to hate, 80 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: so the opinions can change. But anchovy's, liver, sardine's, oysters 81 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: most dislike foods. Do you guys have any eight five, five, five, nine, 82 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: one one oh three five You can context the same number. 83 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: Do you guys have any food stuff where it's like 84 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm not. I'm not gonna enough for canin 85 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: just gets cows, anything cow that was once a cow. 86 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I don't get I don't get can tuna 87 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 4: or like bag tuna, like no one's ever like, oh 88 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 4: it smells like tuna in here, and that's a good thing. 89 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 4: Why do you want to eat something that smells like that? 90 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: That's fair? 91 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, that's fair. 92 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: However, just prepared European like tinfish, like or if you 93 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: go to Spain or you go to Portugal that somehow 94 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:13,119 Speaker 1: Stuf's pretty. 95 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 4: Good eats tin fish and it's actually like his biggest 96 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 4: run flag really because. 97 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: Some of it's like super high quality and really good. 98 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: But I would agree that the smell is not is 99 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: not ideal. 100 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 2: I don't want to eat anything that smells like I 101 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: don't want it to smell like. 102 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: But any hardlines on food like we okay, sushi. 103 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 5: I know that's so popular. I don't like sushi, you know, 104 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 5: I guess I hate anything. I eat everything that comes 105 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 5: to my face, but no cold shrimp. 106 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: No cold shrimp. I don't like the little seaweed thing. 107 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 3: In there. 108 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: Cold shrimp is typically cooked, not at a sushi restaurant, 109 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,919 Speaker 1: but like the cold cold shrimp they bring, like for shrimp, 110 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: cocktail has been boiled. 111 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 5: I'm not dipping it in What is that the cocktail sauce. 112 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 5: I'm not dipping it in there. 113 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: I don't like that. 114 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 5: I need like like cold shrimp, like put it with 115 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 5: rice and stuff like make it yummy. 116 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: It's just cold. 117 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: I don't like cold. Oh that's the yeah, the coldness 118 00:04:59,680 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: is not cure. 119 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Jason, surely you have a lung. I 120 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: do I do. 121 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 6: I don't like onions, raw onions. 122 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: I don't like that. 123 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 6: I don't like barbecue sauce of any kind or anything 124 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 6: that tastes like barbecue sauce or barbecue. 125 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: Flavored or like smoked that. 126 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 6: I don't like runny eggs, Like my eggs have to 127 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 6: be shaped and formed like an omelet. They can't be 128 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 6: like all flopping all over the place. I have to 129 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 6: have compact shaped eggs. Okay, so over hard then is 130 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 6: the way you would? Yes? Oh, I will not eat 131 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 6: anything off a bone, not a. 132 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: Bit that that that comes back to the thing where 133 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: if it looks like its original form, like it's a 134 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: little tactile for me. Like I like wings, But every 135 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: now and again you're eating a wing, I'm like, what 136 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: is this? What did I just alm? What is it? 137 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: This looks like it shouldn't be here, you know. 138 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 6: Then you're like you have to like pick the bones 139 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 6: apart to get the meat out of it, Like it's 140 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 6: so yeah, wrong, not for me. Then you don't look 141 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 6: good while you're doing it, anyone. 142 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: Just know. I like, I like slightly overcooked chicken, like 143 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 1: like chicken that's borderlined. I know you're supposed to be 144 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: one hundred and sixty degrees whatever it supposed to be, 145 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 1: But if I need like a little firmer firmness to 146 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:28,239 Speaker 1: my chicken, because chicken that's like right there, the texture 147 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: can be a little like a little i don't know, 148 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: like a little slimy almost. 149 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 7: So you like fried hard? You want your wings fried hard? 150 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 1: Why not? 151 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 5: No? 152 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: I don't want them. No, you have the wings, I mean, 153 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 1: like a chicken breast like you grill it like you 154 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: grill it like grill it. It needs to be cooked. 155 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 6: I always overcook it because I'm afraid of undercooking. So 156 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 6: I make sure it's like. 157 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that well, that too, that too, Kiki. 158 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 7: Macha, I get it away from me. I don't want it. 159 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: That's a totally much as that's showing up every day. 160 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: It is that like, hey, Macha for the table, you 161 00:06:58,680 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: know like that. 162 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 7: It's not it's the new pumpkins spice. Get it away 163 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 7: from me. 164 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to try it. I tried to get 165 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: into dire. People are like, oh, it's so healthy. I 166 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 1: tried it for a while. I really tried it, and 167 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: I agree with you. I couldn't do it. 168 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 7: Why are we doing this? Like now, y'all just doing. 169 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: Stuff now, Jackie, we talked about this late late last week, 170 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: I guess. But cottage cheese for you. 171 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: Jackie, yep, that's an absolute path For me. 172 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 4: I don't understand why it's all curdly and everything. 173 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 2: It should not be edible. 174 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I mean it tastes like cheese, which 175 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: is fine, But I agree with you, like what's up 176 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: with the texture. 177 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 7: I don't get it. 178 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 2: It's gross. Same thing looks like mazzarella sticks for me too. 179 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 2: I don't get it. 180 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: You see mozzarella stick. I do get because now talk 181 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: about something, you take something great, deep fry to make 182 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: it greater. Then dip it in marinera to make it greater. 183 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: Now we got greatness, so that makes sense. But that's 184 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: the same like Calamari. 185 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 2: Though Calamario is pretty great. 186 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: Yes, some low ocean and it wasn't slimy to begin with, 187 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: and it wasn't reading. I don't. You don't need there, 188 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: Thank you, Jackie, have an icy glad you called? Now 189 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: this is an interesting one. Whoa, hey, Kylie, how you doing? 190 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 8: Hi good? 191 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 3: How are you guys? 192 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: Hi? Kylie? Weird food for you? You're not, You're not. 193 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: You're just not gonna do it. 194 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 8: I don't understand raw corn like what you know, like 195 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 8: corn on the cob, corn in salsa. I don't if 196 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:32,599 Speaker 8: it's not a tortilla. 197 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't want oh icye so like ground up corn 198 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: turned into something else like a bread or a chip 199 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 1: or something. But you don't need like the kernels. Is 200 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 1: what you're saying, right, It like. 201 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 8: Goes in the same way it comes out and there's. 202 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 2: No personal value. 203 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: Why are we studying that? By the way people say that, 204 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not really looking that hard at what's 205 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: coming out. 206 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 2: If you even take a gander, you'll know you. 207 00:08:55,920 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: Have You'll need to take a gander. Well, that's necessary. 208 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 1: I don't need to want to be proud of myself. No, 209 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 1: I'll take a glance to see if we're like, you know, 210 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: if the form is right, because that's if you drink 211 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:11,599 Speaker 1: it of water and you you know, your nutrients. But 212 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: like if you're digesting things. Probably, but I'm not like, oh, 213 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: look there's lunch. No, you guys are gross for that. 214 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: Thank you, Kylie. Have a good day, you too, Sierra. 215 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: I Siera, good morning, good morning? Hi? What is it 216 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: for you? Food stuff? You're you're not having it? 217 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 8: I can't stand peas and lama babies. 218 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom's saying, pea lady either what's up with? 219 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: What's up with peas? What's your issue with them? 220 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 9: It's the mush? 221 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 8: The texture is I don't like that. 222 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: The texture. You don't like that mush? Okay, okay, well, 223 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: thank you, Sierra. Have a good day. What'd you called? 224 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: I said, gino? You know, and here's another one, gino, Hi, geno. 225 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:56,439 Speaker 9: Hey, how's it going? 226 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 7: Good morning? 227 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: You know, and your culture or where you're from or 228 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: where you eat, maybe there's this is a regular occurrence. But 229 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 1: you're about to tell me, you bless you that you 230 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,719 Speaker 1: don't like something that that we don't. This is not 231 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: showing up all the time, but what is it for you? 232 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 9: So all my friends and family love langua tacos. 233 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, they already give me. 234 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 9: A right time because I don't speak Spanish, but I'm 235 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 9: like the darkest, darkest Mexican. But it's disgusting man to 236 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 9: tacos there, they're ton tacos. 237 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: It's telling Lingua. 238 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,719 Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, much salca or lemon you put on it. 239 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 7: I'm not I'm not eating I won't do it. 240 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 1: And if you go to like an authentic Tacorea, they'll 241 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 1: they'll always have them, and people see it. They must 242 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: they must love them. 243 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 10: You know, your friends and your cousins will trick you 244 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 10: and they'll be like, eat this taco and you won't 245 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 10: see what if there's so much stuff on it? 246 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 4: And I won't do it. 247 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 9: I'm inspecting the taco every I won't do it. 248 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 1: You're not falling for that trick. You're not falling with 249 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 1: the langu and the taco trick't I feel you? Thank you, Gino, 250 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: have a good day, all right. Yeah, so that's another one, 251 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 1: like like you might be listening now, going, hey Fred 252 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: and gino. Those are delicious, like they taste really good. 253 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: What do you care like? You can't it's chopped up. 254 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 1: What do you know like? Just eat it, enjoy it. 255 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: You know you're you're too much in your head about it. 256 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 1: I don't eat it. I don't. I'm not injured. I'm sorry. 257 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 1: I guess I'm gonna get more langua for you. You know, 258 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 1: I'm going to go my whole life, but I'm just not. 259 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: I'm just not going to happen because I I don't. 260 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: It's just too no, no, no, it's too no anything 261 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: else for you, Caitlin, I feel like everyone else listened 262 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: a whole long thing. 263 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 2: You got the cows. 264 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: You know, I don't want part of a cow. 265 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 2: Salmon is too fishy for me. 266 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,719 Speaker 4: I wish I liked it because it's healthy, but I 267 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 4: was scarred by a bite of salmon a long time ago. 268 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 4: You had no cooked fish. But I'm pretty easy. Other 269 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 4: than that, I'm now learning like I thought I was picky, 270 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 4: but I don't think. 271 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: I am, because I really thought like I could always 272 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: find somebody to eat, no matter where I say, find 273 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: somebody eat on fine. I've never been to a restaurant 274 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: where I just can't eat anything. I've never been to 275 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 1: a restaurant where I have nothing. I haven't missed me 276 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: neither away, because wherever you go, they gotta have a 277 00:11:57,080 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: full breakfast. That's right. Threads Show, Next Fresh Show, It's 278 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: K's Judge, Kinky All rise for the honorable judge, Kiki 279 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: your honor, Yes, take it away? 280 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 7: All right, let's step into the courtroom. 281 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,079 Speaker 3: The gavel has been hit, it says, hey, KIKEI am 282 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 3: I wrong for making my husband miss his interview. Okay, 283 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 3: my thirty five year old husband has been out of 284 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,599 Speaker 3: work for six months. I've been carrying the bills on 285 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 3: my salary and working overtime to keep us afloat. Last week, 286 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 3: he finally got an interview for a job he's been 287 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 3: chasing for years, which has truly been a dream opportunity 288 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 3: for him. I was excited and relieved, and the interview 289 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 3: was scheduled at nine am. He said he'd wake up 290 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 3: by seven point thirty to prepare. However, the night before 291 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 3: he stayed up until two am playing video games. I 292 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 3: was reminding him twice that he needed to get up, 293 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 3: and he waved me off and got snappy. So the 294 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 3: next morning I got up at six forty five to 295 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 3: go to work. He was still dead asleep. His alarm 296 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 3: started blaring at seven point thirty and I watched him 297 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 3: snooze it three times. At this point, to avoid an argument, 298 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 3: I decided I'm not waking him up, and I left 299 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 3: for work. He finally woke up at nine point fifteen, 300 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 3: missed the interview, completely freaked out and called me at 301 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: work asking me why didn't I wake him? And I 302 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 3: told him you're not a child. He was livid and 303 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 3: said that I was passive, aggressive, unsupportive, and that I 304 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 3: sabotaged him. Now he's not talking to me, and even 305 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 3: his mother called me to say I should have had 306 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 3: his back. I think he needed this wake up call, 307 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 3: But now I'm wondering if I crossed the line. 308 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 7: Am I wrong? 309 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 3: Judge Kiki, girl, you're not wrong, girl, you are not wrong. 310 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 3: If his mother want to get involved, she should have 311 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 3: called him. I don't know, mother's always called. 312 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 8: Yay. 313 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 3: I backed off, right, But no, you're not wrong. This 314 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 3: is a grown man who has been unemployed for six months. 315 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 3: You don't have anything else to do but prepare for 316 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 3: this interview, Okay, you have no other obligations, right, now, yeah. 317 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: A lazy person with no job is that's a bad combination. 318 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 7: I mean, and things happen. 319 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 3: People lose their jobs every day, so I don't want 320 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 3: to even say it's just a lazy person, but this 321 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 3: story here. 322 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: But you're right, no, yeah, I'm talking about this. I mean, 323 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: six months no job, and then when you have the 324 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: job interview, you don't take it seriously. That to me 325 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: is not responsible. 326 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 3: And then your wife is warning you, like women tend 327 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 3: to do, you know, give you a little reminder and 328 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 3: you get snappedy. 329 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 1: She did, and she did look out for him. She hey, 330 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: let's get some rest before this interview. Yeah, and then 331 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: you're like nah, and you keep. 332 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 7: Playing your video games. 333 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 3: And then now, now, since you were a little petty 334 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 3: because you were there as the alarm was going off, 335 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 3: that was a little petty. 336 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 7: You know, she watched the alarm, she watched some snoozy alarm. 337 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: But she was like, I'm not arguing with you, and 338 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: she left. It's not up to her. The terror argument 339 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: that I would make, though, is abo about this sleeping 340 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: through the alarm and her being aware of that is 341 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: this affects her negatively too, so you know she may 342 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: have taught him a lesson, but it doesn't sound like 343 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: he's someone who's going to interpret that lesson very well. 344 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: And ultimately, now this is another job he won't get. 345 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: So how does that affect her negatively? How did that 346 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: behavior really? Did it really penalize him or did it 347 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: really penalize her? Well? 348 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 3: I think at this point she I would be considering 349 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 3: some other things because if this is maybe this may 350 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 3: not be a first time offender where you sleeping through alarms. 351 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 3: You might sleep through alarms all the time, and maybe 352 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 3: that's why you don't have a job. 353 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: Are you guys with the jury eight five, five, five, nine, 354 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: one one three five. She could have woken him up. 355 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have either. But then I guess if I 356 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: don't wake him up and he doesn't have a job 357 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: and I want to stay with him, then that's on 358 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 1: me at some point, like I've chosen this life, did 359 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: you though? Well? Yeah, because again no job for six months, 360 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 1: I know that it's hard to get a job. Yeah, 361 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: it's very difficult to get a job right now. But 362 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: the behavior like this is not going to your point, 363 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: might be the reason why he doesn't have a job exactly, 364 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: And so then the question is is she gonna motivate him, 365 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: She's gonna wake him up, Is she gonna, you know, 366 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: push him out the door, try and help him? And 367 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: and she doesn't have to do that, but if she 368 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: doesn't do that, then he's probably never going to get one. 369 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: And then if she stays with him, then she's choosing 370 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: that life. 371 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 7: So you say leave him all together. 372 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you just said that too, So no, you're 373 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: talking about like, don't even say I'm the only one 374 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: that said that. You're not wrong, you said the same thing. 375 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: I think, honestly, at some point you got to ask 376 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: you and this is a one time deal. Maybe he 377 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: didn't want this. I don't know, there could be other 378 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: parameters here, but I wonder, I wonder if this is 379 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: just kind of not his mentality. And if that's the case, 380 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: then maybe this is what you're up against for, you know, 381 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 1: as a mentality. And maybe this is you know, if 382 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: you choose to continue to be with this person and 383 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: they choose to make those kind of choices and you 384 00:16:58,400 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: can't really complain too much to other people. 385 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, right, but tough priorities though, like instead of maybe 386 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 5: playing video games at night, and maybe it's a little 387 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 5: bit different. But why don't you do some side hustle 388 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 5: like go, you know, drive for uber, or do door 389 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 5: dash or do something to bring an income. 390 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: Again, yes, getting a job is very hard. It's not 391 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 2: like they're just handing them mouth these days. But I 392 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 2: think you can still bring in some income. I think 393 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 2: you can still have that drive to do it. 394 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 7: He seems like he. 395 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: Doesn't want to do it, right, That's what I'm getting. 396 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 7: I don't know this man. 397 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 2: I don't want to know this man, but it just 398 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 2: seems like he doesn't want that. 399 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: Because if jobs are hard to get and you want 400 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 1: a job, and you're well intentioned, and you have a 401 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 1: job interview, that might be the one night that you 402 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: take it seriously, yes, and that you don't stay up, 403 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 1: and that you make sure that you're awake and that 404 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: you're at the job interview you and you do your 405 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 1: best to get the job. But again, I gotta wonder 406 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: does this guy even care? Right? 407 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 3: And then I remind you about it and I'm up 408 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 3: late telling you to go to bed, and you get 409 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 3: snappy with me, and I've been kee paying these meals 410 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 3: for six months alone, working over time, sir. 411 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Then then for him to turn around a 412 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 1: gaslight her and be like, somehow this is your fault? 413 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 4: Right? 414 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 7: Do you sabotage? He was waiting for an opportunity, avatar. 415 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 1: No, but I will say, and this is that this 416 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: is not her fault. But how long does this go? 417 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: And we don't have all the context, but how long 418 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: does this go on before you need to start making 419 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: choices for you that may not involve this person anymore? 420 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: That's really you know, hey, Brian, Yes, how you doing? Brian? 421 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,159 Speaker 1: Good morning Kikey's Court. You're the jury? What say you? 422 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 9: I wanted to know what it would it be the 423 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 9: same if the show was on all the footnet of 424 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 9: the woman that was out of work, Because me get 425 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:32,239 Speaker 9: a bad rep sometimes and my wife has been out 426 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 9: of work for over two years, and I'll still pay 427 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 9: the bills and do what I got to do for 428 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 9: my family, and that's considered being a man. But when 429 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 9: it's when it's turned around, you know, why don't we 430 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 9: put as much heat on a woman not being able 431 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 9: to find a job well out here for everybody. 432 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: I hear what he's saying, but doesn't But doesn't that 433 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: depend on sort of the parameter within your relationship and 434 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: what you guys have decided, For example, if you two 435 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 1: have decided together collectively that you both need to work 436 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 1: to maintain your lifestyle, and there's no intensity for her 437 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,159 Speaker 1: to live up to her end of the deal. I 438 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: don't I don't necessarily know that this has to be 439 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: gender based. Right If you have agreed to take care 440 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 1: of the family and she's taking care of the house 441 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 1: and the kids, well that's a job. So you know 442 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: what I mean? So I guess I guess what I 443 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 1: said is is, yeah, he sounds like a deadbeat. But 444 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, your wife, is your life 445 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: predicated on her working too? Are you having to do 446 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: twice as much now or or or is that not 447 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 1: the deal that you have? 448 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 9: We we downgraded our lifestyle, so it's a lot of 449 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 9: things that we don't do in order to in order 450 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 9: for us to stay financially safe. But it's a lot 451 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 9: of things that I would like to like my family 452 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 9: go back to doing, if my wife would see it, 453 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 9: back to work. But for right now, we're maintaining everything. 454 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 9: We have a home, two cars, and we're doing okay 455 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 9: because I get the whole men work. 456 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear, I hear you, right, I hear the 457 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: men providing, the man providing thing and whatever. But I 458 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: guess what I would be thinking about is, regardless of 459 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: your gender, what what are our roles? What have we 460 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: decided we're going together? Who is going to pay what bills? 461 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 1: What have we decided? And are you living up to 462 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 1: what you agreed to do? And if the answer is no, 463 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,959 Speaker 1: then that would be my problem. I wouldn't necessarily be well, 464 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 1: you're the man, so you should or whatever, only if 465 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: that's what we decided. But thank you, Brian having the day, 466 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: no problem, Brian her. 467 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 7: Some job links, Brian will how to get back to work? 468 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 7: Yeah he does, he does. 469 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 2: What if she's raising kids? Though it sounds like she's 470 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 2: holding it down at home. 471 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 5: He didn't seem to upset that when Fred was kind of, 472 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 5: you know, explaining that situation. 473 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, again, it's what did they agree to if 474 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 1: you're playing. 475 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 2: Video games at night? That's what I really wanted to know. 476 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 2: I'm very triggered by this. 477 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's right because and is she still expecting the 478 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 1: same life that they had before, but yet she doesn't 479 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: have a job. I mean, there's so many different aspects 480 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: of this, but I guess I would say whatever relationship 481 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: you're in. If you live with someone else and you're 482 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 1: expected to do this, and you're expected to do that, 483 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,159 Speaker 1: and then you stop doing the part that we agreed 484 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:58,119 Speaker 1: to together that you're going to do, that would be 485 00:20:58,200 --> 00:20:58,719 Speaker 1: my problem. 486 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 2: I agree with that. As a wife, I agree with them. 487 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: If if I if we say, hey, I'm going to 488 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: stay home and I'm going to take care of the kids, 489 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna take care of the house, and I'm 490 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: gonna take care of all these other things, and I'm 491 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 1: not going to bring in an income. I need you 492 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 1: to go make up make the income, well, then I don't. 493 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 1: I wouldn't pressure her to make money because we agreed 494 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: that she's going to do the other things that we'd 495 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: have to pay someone to. 496 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 3: Do exactly, and all parties need to be clear on 497 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 3: the agreement. Yes, you know, sometimes people just wake up 498 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 3: and decide that they're done working. Like excuse me, excuse me, cue. 499 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 1: Like somebody said, she could have woke him up. It 500 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: could have relieved the press, It could have relieved the 501 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 1: pressure off of her. Again, I mean, what she did 502 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: didn't exactly help her cause, but she didn't have to 503 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 1: do it. 504 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 3: Right, She shouldn't be obligated to wake a grown man 505 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,200 Speaker 3: up who has been off for six months. 506 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 7: What else are you doing, my boy? 507 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have been. 508 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,199 Speaker 3: I would have been sitting on a computer waiting at 509 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 3: four in the morning, you know, on my. 510 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,919 Speaker 4: Tux and the alarm thing triggers me to like, who 511 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 4: can't wake up to an alarm? Yes, Like even when 512 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 4: I had roommates, it's going off, it's going on, Get up. 513 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: I would have woken him up and left for work. 514 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: This way, it's on him. She's also married to a 515 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 1: man child. Yeah, I mean, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, you're saying, 516 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: leave this man. Yeah, yeah, I mean, just he didn't 517 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 1: sleep through the alarm. He snoozed it three times. 518 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 7: That's a good point. 519 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: He wake up, So this is not he's just not motivated, 520 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: you're saying, And it's a good likelihood that this isn't 521 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 1: going to change. 522 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:33,679 Speaker 9: I'm like you, guys, I got a four m alarm 523 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 9: every day. 524 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 7: That's right, go off, king, put your boots on the ground, 525 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 7: go to work. 526 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and that turns killing you on chunk mail delivery, 527 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 1: chunk mail, I don't know. Hey, we need you, yes, no, 528 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, yes, thank you so much. Have 529 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 1: a good day, Mike. That's right, Thank you, hard working man. 530 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: Right there, he said enough, Yeah, Mike. No, he said 531 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 1: what he said right on his own. 532 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 9: That's right. 533 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 7: Yeah. Mike was triggered too. 534 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 1: He was lost for words almost already period, right, like a. 535 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 2: Good man, Savannah. 536 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: He's a little bit speechless. Hey, Sarah, Sarah, how you doing. 537 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 10: I'm doing well? 538 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 9: Are you guys? 539 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,679 Speaker 1: Great? Thank you for calling him for listening. So Keikey's court. Basically, 540 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:27,360 Speaker 1: this woman's with a guy has been out of work 541 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 1: for six months, had a job interview, chose to stay 542 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 1: up all night playing video games. Lauren went off. He 543 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: didn't get up for the interview. She wants it all 544 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 1: go down, didn't do anything about it. Now he's mad 545 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 1: at her. What say you? Yeah? 546 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 7: Not okay. 547 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 10: My husband had the same issue when we first had 548 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 10: our twins. He lost his job during COVID. We had 549 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 10: our twins in twenty twenty, and he would stay up 550 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 10: late playing video games because he thought he could handle it. 551 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 10: He was so sleep deprived that he ended up sleepwalking. 552 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 10: And he wasn't helping me at all with the twins, 553 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 10: and they were newborns, and it got so bad that 554 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 10: we were fighting every day, and I finally told him 555 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 10: I'm not your mother, and if you want to go 556 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,920 Speaker 10: have someone be a mother too, you can move back 557 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 10: in with your mother. And I think you realized that 558 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 10: I was serious, and he shaped up and never even 559 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 10: touched a video game at all after that. 560 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that sucks that you kind of had to 561 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: put the fire under his butt, but sometimes people need that. 562 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: I mean, at least you gave him a chance to 563 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 1: clean it up. 564 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 10: Yeah. 565 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: No, I not acceptable, because you know, people go through 566 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 1: stuff in life and they get depressed or whatever, and 567 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 1: your job as a partner, I'm sure would beat it 568 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 1: to lift him up, but for how long? 569 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 10: Right? Right? And shame on the mother in law for 570 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 10: even stepping in. Honestly, if that was one of my boys, 571 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 10: I would have been like, you're not moving back in here, 572 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 10: fix it with your wife to better. I raised you 573 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 10: better than that. 574 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 1: Well that, yes, I'll go ahead and say it. Maybe 575 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 1: we know where the problem lies. Hello, you know, thank you, Sarah, 576 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: I have a good day. Thank you, because we all 577 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: I think some people think they're doing kids a favor 578 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 1: when they always have their back, but I think sometimes 579 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: people are they're going to be a product of what 580 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: of what they were raised as and what their parents 581 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 1: continue to enable. Right, So if every time he screws 582 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 1: up he calls mom, and mom calls and yells at 583 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 1: the wife, well then what is why would he Where 584 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: is he getting the idea that he needs to do better? 585 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 7: Exactly? 586 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: Because it's like, no, no, that's my baby boy. He's perfect. Well, 587 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: he's not taking care of his obligations, so he's not perfect. 588 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 1: He's hurting her, yes he is, but maybe he feels 589 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: enabled by it because Mom's going to solve his problems 590 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 1: every time. Hey, do you wanna? Yes? 591 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 9: Hi? 592 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: Hi, good morning? What do you think? 593 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 8: Good morning? I love you guys. I want to say 594 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:48,399 Speaker 8: that he totally is gaslighting her. Yeah, he is just 595 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 8: shifting the blame. He hits snooze three times, like it's 596 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,959 Speaker 8: not for a responsibility. 597 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 7: I agree with you, guys. 598 00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, he's totally guess lit her, not for possibility. To 599 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 8: make sure that he gets up and goes to the interview, 600 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 8: like said, he has. 601 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 1: Not Moby solving your problems. Come on, yeh, I'd be 602 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: so embarrassed. 603 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 7: I love to say I didn't raise him like that. 604 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: Oh yes you did. 605 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 4: Shirley and I feel sometimes like as women, we feel 606 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 4: like we're the moms of our partners sometimes in certain situations, 607 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 4: and we shouldn't. 608 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's true. You know what I mean. 609 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:23,159 Speaker 2: I'm not your memory.