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Speaker 1: I found out my fiance cheated and the baby is

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Speaker 1: in mine, so I'm going to call the police on her.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a whole So right now is a

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Speaker 1: kind of crappy situation. I've been treating my ex fiance

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Speaker 1: pretty cold and demanding a paternity test for the child

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Speaker 1: she's carrying. All of my friends say I'm being a

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Speaker 1: major a hole, but I don't feel that way. So

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Speaker 1: here's my story. I knew my ex for almost ten years.

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Speaker 1: We go all the way back to high school and

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Speaker 1: have been friends ever since.

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Speaker 2: That's so much history, that is, that's way too much history.

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Speaker 2: That's a painful, painful amount of history.

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Speaker 1: Op. I wonder like if I feel like every time

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Speaker 1: there's someone that's like, oh, I've known them for ten years,

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Speaker 1: fifteen years, the breakup is like instant. Oh, Like it's

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Speaker 1: always just like, no, that's over, You're dead to me.

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Speaker 1: After we graduated, I said e fitt and asked her

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Speaker 1: out and we became a couple. Amazing, congratulations, it's gonna

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Speaker 1: happen so well. We dated for almost six years before

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Speaker 1: she came to me and told me that she was

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Speaker 1: and maybe it's gonna be a happy daddy. Hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe we're just all gonna work out happy in the family. Right. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: absolutely not. I won't lie. I loved her at the time,

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Speaker 1: and this was actually quite exciting to me, so I

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Speaker 1: proposed to her. Wow. She, however, seemed super worried. Why

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Speaker 1: was she worried? What are you so worried about? You

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Speaker 1: got your husband, the father of your child, right right,

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Speaker 1: hopefully Hopefully. I sat down and I talked to her

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Speaker 1: about it, and I told her that even if she

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Speaker 1: did decide to terminate the pregnancy, I would be by

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Speaker 1: her side and I still wanted to marry her. Wow,

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Speaker 1: fucking Op is the good guy of the year. Why why, dude?

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Speaker 1: Why does this happen to the night's sting there?

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Speaker 3: Just like stick down and Mo fucked and Anal? No,

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Speaker 3: dick down in Dallas Anal and wait, no dick down

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Speaker 3: elas Anal and Austin, But no.

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Speaker 1: I think it's dick down in Dallas, tag team in Tennessee,

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Speaker 1: but fucked in Austin Boston. Yeah, legendary song. I'm a fan.

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Speaker 1: I'm a fan. She was super awkward about it, but

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Speaker 1: decided to keep the child and accepted my proposal.

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Speaker 2: Dude, she had now she she was, she knew, but

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Speaker 2: how did she know it wasn't his? Or I guess

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Speaker 2: she's just like she's she's like, hopefully it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Maybe she was like yeah, like I don't know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. So these past seven months have been

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Speaker 1: an absolute rollercoaster. She moved in with me and we

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Speaker 1: began getting ready for our daughter's birth, and we were

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Speaker 1: planning on getting married after she was born. That was

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Speaker 1: until a few weeks ago. What happened a few weeks ago, John,

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Speaker 1: everything changed, Everything changed for the worst. An old acquaintance

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Speaker 1: from high school reached out to me. Oh boy, a

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Speaker 1: friend reaching out to connect. Yeah, to congratulate on the pregnancy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: of course, that's exactly what's going to happen. I was

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Speaker 1: never good friends with him, but he said he felt

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Speaker 1: really guilty about letting an innocent man suffer for his

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Speaker 1: and my ex's mistakes. What This guy claimed that he

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Speaker 1: was the father of my exes child. No, don, and

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Speaker 1: that my ex had been lying to me. No. It

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Speaker 1: turns out that my ex and him got reacquainted about

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Speaker 1: a year ago and started doing it. Oh no, he yes,

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Speaker 1: destroying the lives. Around that time, my ex got pregnant

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Speaker 1: when they began doing it unprotected yep. And the thing

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Speaker 1: is he is not lying about this. He sent me

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Speaker 1: photos of them together, showed me texts between the two

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Speaker 1: of them, and I was able to get my ex's

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Speaker 1: phone and confirm they were real. This is so bad, man,

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Speaker 1: This sucks so much, Good God. Along with this, he

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Speaker 1: sent a string of Facebook messages of my ex admitting

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Speaker 1: to lying to me because I make more money than

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Speaker 1: the real father and she would rather I care for.

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Speaker 2: She is such a shitthead. Oh my, that is so bad. Bro,

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Speaker 2: that's so bad. That's so bad.

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Speaker 1: Damn dude. This is the worst kind of goal. This

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Speaker 1: is why. This is why you can never be in

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Speaker 1: a relationship with bitches. This is why you can't do it.

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Speaker 2: Take Gate is like in full swing right now because

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Speaker 2: he got banned Instagram from YouTube and YouTube and YouTube.

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Speaker 1: Wow everyone's following. Honestly, I am glad. I am very

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Speaker 1: glad poisoning the minds of young men everywhere. We do

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Speaker 1: not need more in cels on this planet. Like, it's

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Speaker 1: just not something more in need of, So suffice to say,

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Speaker 1: I am effing first. Yeah, dude, how are you not

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Speaker 1: be pissed? Yeah? I can front she cried. I cried,

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Speaker 1: it's a complete utter mess. In the end, I broke

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Speaker 1: it off then and there and evicted her from my apartment.

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Speaker 1: What did I tell you on the spot? Ten years

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Speaker 1: done gone? I mean, but also like I feel like

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Speaker 1: he's a sympathy, doesn't. She's in the process of moving

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Speaker 1: out now, but I have not said a single word

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Speaker 1: to her. I've pretty much told her that I want

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Speaker 1: her completely out of my life. Yeah, begone with you, begone, wench.

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Speaker 1: I also demanded a DNA test the minute the child

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Speaker 1: is born. If it's mine, I'll help her and support it.

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Speaker 1: If not, I've never seen her again. Fair, I've been

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Speaker 1: cold to her. Her and her parents have tried multiple

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Speaker 1: times to work it out with me, but I've refused

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Speaker 1: any contact with them. At one point, she got all

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Speaker 1: of her friends together to try to talk to me,

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Speaker 1: and I kicked them out of my apartment with threats

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Speaker 1: of calling the Pulley all of them. I mean, this

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Speaker 1: is a that's a weird intervention police. They're they're intervening, intermeding,

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Speaker 1: get the hello in from the But like, don't all

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Speaker 1: the friends realize that, like this girl is the complete

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Speaker 1: run Every time she's tried to reconcile. I've shut it down,

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Speaker 1: shut that shit down, not don't it. No, my friends

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Speaker 1: are saying that I am in the wrong here. According

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Speaker 1: to them, she's pregnant because and because of that, I

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Speaker 1: should at least be helping her till the baby is born,

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Speaker 1: even if it isn't mine. Hey, you know the baby

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Speaker 1: is not yours too, Why not you help? Literally, that's

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Speaker 1: the easiest way. It's like, hey, we both know her,

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Speaker 1: don't go out to the plate. Go ahead, any of you,

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Speaker 1: go ahead. I disagree fully, but I could be wrong.

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Speaker 1: Am I letting my own emotions hide the fact that

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Speaker 1: I am indeed the A hole. I don't think the

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Speaker 1: A whole. I don't think the A whole. The one

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Speaker 1: thing I would have done differently is like I get

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Speaker 1: the emotional reaction of like calling it off right after.

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Speaker 1: I would like to be like like leave and I

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Speaker 1: need time to like cool down and then like let's

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Speaker 1: get back together. Like let's not get back together, but

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Speaker 1: like sit down and like I want to know everything,

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Speaker 1: like tell me everything. I don't give me some context? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: can you give me some Like I don't think I

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Speaker 1: don't think it's reconcilable. But I'll at least like hear

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Speaker 1: you out, and I just want to know, because he.

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Speaker 2: Was quick to just be like, Okay, all my assumptions,

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Speaker 2: like in the moment of understanding that she kind of

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Speaker 2: betrayed him, like all the assumptions about whatever's going on

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Speaker 2: are correct, and then he just didn't ask any more

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Speaker 2: questions about it. Like, I think having full context will

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Speaker 2: be helpful for him because then he'll at least know, Okay, like,

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Speaker 2: are all the assumptions I'm making true? And maybe some

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Speaker 2: of them aren't. Maybe there's like a reason for all

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Speaker 2: of this. I can't imagine there is. Yeah, yeah, but

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Speaker 2: maybe there is. And he's actually totally entitled to call

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Speaker 2: it off. But me, I would have done that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: perfinitely