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Speaker 2: I've been wandering.

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Speaker 1: Oh general, it's just gonna I won't torture you guys.

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Speaker 1: I won't torture you guys. But today is gonna be

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Speaker 1: so flipped Jess, because I have we have Larza motherfucking

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Speaker 1: Pippin on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: That is exciting.

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Speaker 1: It's so exciting I die. Like most people know Larza

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Speaker 1: Pippen as like Kim K's best friend, blah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: Me like I knew Larsa Pippen because I'm obviously obsessed

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Speaker 1: with housewives and she's like a throw back housewife, right,

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Speaker 1: So I wasn't. I was familiar with her due to that.

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Speaker 1: And obviously she's fucking Larsa Pippen, so obviously you know

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Speaker 1: that name like everybody does. When she, like it was

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Speaker 1: announced Miami's coming back. We're giving the people what they want.

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Speaker 1: Larsa Pippen is back on Real Housewives of Miami. I

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Speaker 1: was freaking out. Really, yes, I just I find her

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Speaker 1: to be very like she's one of those people where

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Speaker 1: And now she's on Real Housewives, and Real Housewives is

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Speaker 1: all about like giving us exactly who these people are.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's about their lives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I started watching Real Housewives of Miami because of

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Speaker 2: how much you were talking it up. Because I just

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Speaker 2: watched clips because I feel like I'm really busy and

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Speaker 2: but you are talking up Miami. It was you right, yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: And I'm obsessed, and so I started watching and I'm obsessed.

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Speaker 1: It's so good. I really think that the ladies had

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Speaker 1: a phenomenal season. And I say this all the time,

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Speaker 1: like I'm obviously a part of a reality show. I

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Speaker 1: know the drill. These are These are real friendships. These

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Speaker 1: are people who really hang out. It's really their life story.

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Speaker 1: And I watch it from two different perspectives, one being

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Speaker 1: because I've been in these situations where you have your confrontations,

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Speaker 1: but you also have like really beautiful moments with these

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Speaker 1: I also view it from like an entertainment standpoint, like

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Speaker 1: as strictly a viewer. So when certain things happen, like

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Speaker 1: I'll sit there and talk to my mom while we watch,

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Speaker 1: like oh, that girl's a bitch. I would have never

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Speaker 1: done that. But I have like so much respect for

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Speaker 1: like the quote unquote, I sound like said an idiot. Now,

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Speaker 1: the art of making a reality TV show, Yes, because

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Speaker 1: it is not easy. And if everybody like when when

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Speaker 1: I hear people say like, oh, she's just a reality

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Speaker 2: Well it shows yes, No, that's and look at all

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Speaker 2: the reality shows that have failed.

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Speaker 3: That's just a thing.

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Speaker 2: That's just like reality is so many good ones where

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Speaker 2: you're like, this is it. This is the perfect ingredient

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Speaker 3: Right, So no, you have to have respect for that.

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Speaker 3: For sure.

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Speaker 1: I have mad respect for anybody who is on a

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Speaker 1: TV show, which I think everything Andy Cohen touches turns

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Speaker 1: to gold. But we have to give credit where credit

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter you. We're talking about seasons that have been

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Speaker 1: much that when Andy was trying to figure out, like

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Speaker 1: telling us they want Miami. They've been wanting Miami, right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: so they killed it. I believe the last the last

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Speaker 1: It was a two part reunion fantastic. Larsa was a savage.

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Speaker 1: There's going to be a little part that I talked

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Speaker 1: has your week been, Jess? Are you feeling good? There's

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Speaker 3: It's like what moms and dad say. But I went

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Speaker 1: Okay, So how funny is that I went to a

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Speaker 1: Like Batman's here? And I was like, Batman's here where

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Speaker 1: No, I live in I'm a ninety year old okay,

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Speaker 1: Like even Stassy will fill me in on things, like

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Speaker 2: He this is the first time I've ever said it,

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Speaker 3: And then I saw The Batman and I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, he's got this like darkness about him in

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Speaker 2: the New Batman. No spoilers, but it's definitely more like

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Speaker 3: And he is like I was like, I was sitting

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Speaker 2: When I saw like a real he kind of it

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Speaker 2: Have you ever seen any of the other Batman's or no,

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Speaker 1: I actually started watching a lot of like dabbling into

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Speaker 1: of Succession on HBO Max. What do you think it's fantastic?

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Speaker 1: due to COVID, So I'm rewatching that. It's incredible. But

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Speaker 2: So that addition, it's like the comfort, like when you

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Speaker 1: Yeah for you, Yeah, good for you.

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Speaker 3: How is your weekend?

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Speaker 1: Hell us? My weekend was good.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to this new guy.

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Speaker 1: So the first the first time we start talking, we

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Speaker 1: This is twenty twenty two. People don't meet in person

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Speaker 1: for tonight? Said yes, perfect, this is where I'm going. No,

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Speaker 3: Like hit me up.

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Speaker 1: After I said, lol, you're crazy, have a great night.

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Speaker 1: You delete the contact. Yes, I'm a thirty one year

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Speaker 1: old woman, right, I have no interest, no time in

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Speaker 1: coming to your apartment to bang it out. And here's

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Speaker 1: where I'm at, Jess. Yes, he's young.

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Speaker 2: Whatever, go go do your thing. Wait how young are

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Speaker 1: He's like mid twenties Okay, Okay, yeah, which is young

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Speaker 1: for men most men.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I was just like, I'm like, I'm not looking

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Speaker 1: No, No, I don't know you. You're not gonna see me

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Speaker 2: It's also dangerous if you I'm like, that's like to

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Speaker 2: If you say because you are, that's like huge credit

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just looking to parade you around like eye candy, right, okay,

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Speaker 2: But I'm thinking from someone who doesn't maybe doesn't fully

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Speaker 3: You say, well, they don't.

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Speaker 2: is it like because you keep saying you have nothing

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Speaker 1: I am so deep into everything else in my life

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Speaker 1: I have enough to put into my existing friendships, into

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Speaker 3: Love positivity like that's just your life.

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Speaker 1: I don't have it.

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Speaker 1: If I have extra to give, it ain't going to you.

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Speaker 1: Rights to the people who exist in my life right now? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean my daughter?

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Speaker 2: Yeah okay, So then next Devil's Advocate. Do you think

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Speaker 3: He could have been like, you know, I want to

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Speaker 3: get to know you. One on one come over. It's late.

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Speaker 3: I know you're busy. I'm busy, but yeah, eleven pm.

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Speaker 3: We can chill, we can watch a movie, let's talk.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that was because I'm like, what if

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Speaker 2: that was his vibet me? No, you don't think if

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Speaker 2: you responded, okay, sure, I'll come over after I go out,

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Speaker 2: You don't think that or are you like that's not No,

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Speaker 1: No I don't. First of all, it's eleven pm. You

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The other thing is, yes, I'll come over to your place,

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Speaker 1: this is a safe space. No. Yeah, I'll come over

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Speaker 1: to your place, but not first time meeting you. Everyone

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Speaker 1: i'm talking to right now, they're they're known people by

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Speaker 1: You people are still capable of anything yet they're well known.

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Speaker 1: But for me, it's like, let I may not even

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Speaker 1: That's awkward and uncomfortable. Exactly, Let's go out to a

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Speaker 1: like I'm even like texting. Great, you're great at that.

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Speaker 1: You pass that game. But there's a lot of other

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Speaker 2: Who may have just won me over because it's like

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Speaker 2: And out you meet in a public place and you're

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Speaker 2: well i'll text you later.

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Speaker 2: It also gives him the option to say that if

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Speaker 1: I'm out right because he may not think I'm very

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Speaker 3: That'll even though that will never happen.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that will never ever happen. So who knows.

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Speaker 1: I deleted the contact, so then.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what'd you leave it at?

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Speaker 1: I told him he was crazy? Oh that's and I

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Speaker 3: And what do he saying?

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Speaker 1: Nothing? Nothing wild?

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Speaker 4: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Then then goodbye, move exchange.

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Speaker 1: Maybe twelve types messages in total, maybe more than that,

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Speaker 1: maybe like twelve each. But it was like, it's not

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Speaker 1: a response? Right? Who reached out to? Who? First? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I do you do? Oh? Yeah, I'm in it.

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Speaker 3: I love that, you know, it's great.

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Speaker 1: I've reached out to three people in total through the DM,

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Speaker 1: and I'm horrific at it. You are, I don't what

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Speaker 2: I mean you're asking me who's like the most awkward

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Speaker 2: I missed the dating apps, I like missed them by

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I even back when I was like a

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Speaker 2: Well, because you're also about energy, you say about energy,

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Speaker 2: so it's hard to do that. It's like, yeah, you

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Speaker 2: and meet you, it's like, what what do we do?

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Speaker 1: Right? But we're in a different like day and age

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: Everyone does yes, dms, everyone does, like, so I don't know. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So you said though that you reached out to a

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Speaker 3: It was like you you sent like three emojis or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the one that's going the best.

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Speaker 3: Really, So there you go.

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Speaker 1: So it's all in the emoji.

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Speaker 2: It's all the emoji, even though I've been told, well

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Speaker 2: be like, emojis are so for old people, and.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, emojis are not for old people.

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Speaker 3: That's what I said.

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Speaker 1: No, they're not at all. They're so cute and so fun.

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Speaker 2: Cute and fun and like, I don't sometimes have the words,

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to send you an emoji?

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Speaker 1: Yes, because I and it's kind of like elusive, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like what do they? What are they?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was so funny though, because I was doing that

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Speaker 1: did you do use emojis? And I was like, yes,

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Speaker 1: that's exactly what I did. And she goes, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: You did not send a flame, did you? And I

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Speaker 1: was like, yes, I did, and a little.

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Speaker 3: Like schef hand, I think that's are they Are they younger?

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Speaker 3: Are they like?

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Speaker 1: Yes? No, I think I think like maybe twenty two

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Speaker 1: to twenty four. Oh they're young young, Yeah, they're younger.

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Speaker 3: See. I don't think they know.

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Speaker 2: When people use emojis, and if they do, I think

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Speaker 3: Ironically, I think I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We'll shoot Okay, if you're what is it gen Z?

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Speaker 3: I would if you're gen Z, if you're like anyone.

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Speaker 2: Who's between the age of eighteen and let's say twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I need you to call my phone number and

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Speaker 1: tell me give me like your person respective on emojis. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: is it old to use emojis?

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Speaker 2: Like because yeah, because remember hashtags were in, and then

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Speaker 2: people took hashtags out like a option. Yeah, like if

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Speaker 2: you use a hashtag, it was like so lame and

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Speaker 2: then yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I usually great.

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Speaker 1: I have hashtags on give them la la beauty. Do

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Speaker 1: I need to take it off? No?

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Speaker 3: Because for a business and company, it's different.

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Speaker 2: And like, for instance, the crying laughing faces were in,

437
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 2: as in like I'm dying laughing, and then it was like, no,

438
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 2: you don't use those anymore.

439
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,360
Speaker 3: If you're like dying laughing.

440
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 2: You use the the skull because it means like I'm dead.

441
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 3: I am not, Okay, I'm an eighteen year old brother.

442
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 1: So this is like, well I think that I that

443
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 1: we get a pass right because you want to sit

444
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,439
Speaker 1: here and be like, oh, people aren't using that anymore.

445
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, well what people like the younger generation? Okay,

446
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: well I'm not the Yes, I'm a millennial, right and

447
00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 1: I use this stuff just like if you're ninety, you're

448
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: not going to try to do what gen Z is doing,

449
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: right because you just don't know how you can't keep up.

450
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 2: And also if you're reaching out or communicating with someone

451
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 2: who actually cares, then they're really not worth your time.

452
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: About Oh, if someone emojis, I'd be like, I'm going

453
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: to go feed my daughter now. I well, I actually

454
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: have to get to baby sensory class, so like have

455
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 1: a good one, you know.

456
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it's it's wild. I have no time, no time.

457
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 3: Well that that's interesting.

458
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,719
Speaker 2: I'm glad you deleted his contact because at first I

459
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: was on a like the side of like, okay, wait

460
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 2: a second, let's give this guy a moment.

461
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 3: But you convinced me like you.

462
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 1: Don't have If I'm not looking for anything and you're

463
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 1: not offering me the tiniest bit of what I need

464
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: to like fuel that part of my life, then goodbye.

465
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: I don't need you.

466
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you think there's anything you can do or

467
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 2: say that would make it more clear? Like, yeah, no,

468
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 2: I'm not looking for a relationship. But also I'm not

469
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 2: just hitting you up to like hook up.

470
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: I don't even have time to do that.

471
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 6: While it's like literally I'm saying everything you have to

472
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 6: come so correct from the jump that there's no trying,

473
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 6: like I don't need to have open communication with you.

474
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 1: I don't need to like vocalize my feelings well because

475
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 1: they have to earn that I'm sure at yes, And

476
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: because if I'm sitting here telling you that I have

477
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 1: nothing to offer that includes my vagina, Yeah, okay, yeah,

478
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: you dumb fuck like, Yeah, I have nothing to offer

479
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: except for the most perfect part of me, which is

480
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: the puss.

481
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, get the fuck out of here. Yeah right, what

482
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,200
Speaker 3: are you looking for?

483
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: Then?

484
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 2: Can we just like friendship with a little flirtation and

485
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 2: if you guys connect then eventually something sexual.

486
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm certainly not going to exchange six text

487
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 1: messages and then come over and let you hit karate

488
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:00,160
Speaker 1: your damn.

489
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 2: It's like you say about ocean, but in a way

490
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 2: different context. You're a luxury, She's a luxury.

491
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm not knocking anyone who would go over

492
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: and let him hit after six text message. Hey, I'm

493
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: not there at this point in my life. Read my

494
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 1: freaking book. Yeah, I talk about my whole phase like,

495
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: if you're there mentally, go do it. I'm not there anymore, right,

496
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that I will never have another

497
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:33,400
Speaker 1: whole phase in my life. I very well might right now,

498
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 1: I don't have an interest, right, okay, I have an

499
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 1: interest in taking you around my group of friends. You

500
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 1: can take me around your group of friends. We can talk,

501
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 1: we can do whatever. I'm not looking to, like unload

502
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: my life story on you. Let's just enjoy each other's

503
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: company and if we can do that, and then we

504
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: start making out and my hand touches your pep and

505
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 1: we ended up having sex then like amazing.

506
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay you hear that, boys, you hear that men?

507
00:25:59,200 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: Right?

508
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. Also, I heard that new like

509
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: ho phase age for single women is forties hot. Well,

510
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 2: I mean forties is like the new twenties. Forties is

511
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 2: the new twenties or the new thirties. I used to

512
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 2: hear thirties with people's like women's sexual prime.

513
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it forties?

514
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 3: I think now.

515
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 2: It's probably still thirties or like mid thirties, but I

516
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 2: think it's probably also forties now too.

517
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, Larsa Pippen is in her forties. Stop,

518
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: I know, are you sure? I'm positive?

519
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 3: Look it up?

520
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: Look it up right now on your line.

521
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 2: That's amazing, I'm going to I mean, do you know

522
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: what sign she is no, but we're gonna find out.

523
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: Guess your birthday now, because I want to see how.

524
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 3: Close you are.

525
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: I kind of am seeing her as like maybe a Gemini, okay.

526
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 3: Let's see, or a Taurus.

527
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 1: I could be way off.

528
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 3: And birthday okay, July sixth?

529
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 1: What is that?

530
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 3: Is that Leo?

531
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: July sixth is a Leo?

532
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 3: Is it it?

533
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 2: No?

534
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 3: I think it's too early. July sixth, nineteenth, you guys,

535
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 3: LARSA Pippen is forty seven years old. I'm actually shoshed.

536
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 1: Right, like, what if that is forty seven? I can't wait.

537
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: She's a cancer, a cancer. I was way off that

538
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: was gonna be my actually third choice.

539
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 3: Really yeah? Wow, good for.

540
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 1: I think Leo starts mid July into August or end

541
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: mid or end.

542
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 3: I just know that I'm leone.

543
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 2: It's August fifth, so yeah, yeah, I love a good Leo,

544
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 2: So do I?

545
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: So do I? I connect with Leo's and Pisces. Really yeah.

546
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 2: Do you know what I read the other day that

547
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 2: virgos in a work relationship, virgos teach Leo's patience.

548
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 3: Is that interesting? Really? Yeah?

549
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 1: That's strange because I'm having my psychic teach me patients.

550
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 3: Really I love that I do.

551
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: Every time I talk to my psychic medium, I'm like,

552
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: what the fuck And he's like, la, la, you have

553
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 1: to let time catch up. And I'm like doing like

554
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 1: twenty seven breath workouts, trying not to like throw shit

555
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: across the apartment.

556
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: Patients is hard.

557
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:25,719
Speaker 1: Stassy and Hartford and Bo got Ocean a book of

558
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: her signs, like her entire house and where all of

559
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:34,439
Speaker 1: her and we share. We share three signs and Ocean's

560
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: a triple water sign she has in three of her

561
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: houses pisces.

562
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 2: See.

563
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm reading up on her right now.

564
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 3: That's amazing.

565
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 2: Maybe get maybe we should get a like a real

566
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 2: I know you've had a guest on the podcast before

567
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: who's really into I think zodiac and stuff. But maybe

568
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: getting someone else to do like your and oceans and

569
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: like what I'm gonna going to have to battle, yes,

570
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 2: because that's so interesting to me. I just don't know.

571
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 2: I have like the furthest I'm like, I have the

572
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: what's it called the co Star app?

573
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: That's what I have. Yeah, that's what I have. The

574
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: co Star app is bomb. But I was so yesterday

575
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 1: I had the gusbands over and I was reading Ocean. Chart,

576
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: and in one of them it said things to look

577
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: out for with where her you know, signs are placed

578
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: for me, and it was like, watch out for their

579
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: their addictions for drugs and alcohol. And I was like,

580
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: my mom and I looked at each other and we

581
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: were like, we'll just have to keep an eye on it.

582
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: And Logan looks at me and he goes, better check

583
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: her into rehab. Now she's one.

584
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 3: She she could in high school.

585
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: We need to get her into rehab immediately, like because

586
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: I'm so like I think a million miles ahead, like,

587
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: oh my god.

588
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, drugs and out Oh fuck, oh.

589
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: It freaks me out.

590
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 2: Well, good news on that is that both sides of

591
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 2: my my family come from some addiction. Not like directly

592
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 2: my parents my mom and my dad, but but each.

593
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 3: Side of the family.

594
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 2: And the doctors had told my parents that like, oh

595
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 2: your kids, watch out for addiction. Yeah, and none of us,

596
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 2: there's five of us, Yeah, have ever, as far as

597
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 2: I know, struggled with any sort of addiction.

598
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: Okay, well that's big.

599
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like to have like one drink a month,

600
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 3: Like I just.

601
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: Never never, I never, even when we've been out with

602
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, you're like not a drinker.

603
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'll go out and I'll have like one

604
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 2: three cocktails is my max. I know my limits like to.

605
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 3: Drive to and it's always three cocktails.

606
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 2: And then I always have to make sure from my

607
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 2: last cocktail I have the amount of hours before I

608
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: leave of.

609
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 3: Drinks that I've had.

610
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 2: Oh shit, oh my my, would you like to say something?

611
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 3: Let's see me there.

612
00:30:56,600 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: Hi, she's got a big bogger on her face.

613
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 3: Get it?

614
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: Oh ken, you sweet little soul.

615
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 3: She's just staring over she's shoulder right now.

616
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: Anyway, So we've spoken about ocean, Yeah, possibly having addiction issues.

617
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 3: She won't, she won't.

618
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: She will, But I feel like every parent, maybe not

619
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 1: every parent, but I'm hyper sensitive, and I always think.

620
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's gonna date and there's gonna who is

621
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: that little fucker that's gonna break her heart and snap

622
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: him like a little stick.

623
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 3: Right, But you had to learn from that. Think of

624
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 3: how much you learned from your first heartbreak.

625
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm calling his parents, doesn't like in kindergarten.

626
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 3: She's on the phone, She's like, what listen.

627
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: I know it makes me nervous that I'm going to

628
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: be that mom that like rolls up to the five

629
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: year old. If he pushes my kid, listen, here you

630
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: a little fuck her?

631
00:31:52,240 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was on. You would my baby?

632
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 5: You push my kid and we're going totally bro like

633
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 5: you ain't safe? Sorry, all right, Yeah, to act like

634
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 5: a grown kid pushing my beautiful child, I'll throw you

635
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 5: across the yard. Go call the duty anyway.

636
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: Okay, before we cut to a break, before we have

637
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: the beautiful and incredible Larsa Pippin on, I want to

638
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: remind you guys that I am going on tour. That

639
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,479
Speaker 1: is right, give them laala. The brand new tour is

640
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: coming to a city near you. We're kicking off in Irvine,

641
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: but we're sold out, you guys. That is what's up.

642
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: That's our first stop. Then we're hitting Fort Lauderdale, Clearwater, Orlando, Florida, Atlanta, Georgia, Nashville,

643
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 1: New Orleans, Houston, Texas, Austin.

644
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 3: Texas, Dallas, Texas.

645
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: I cannot wait. And you guys, I already spoiled Nashville.

646
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: Who my guests are, Shena and Brock will be in Nashville,

647
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: Tennessee with me. You are welcome. We have the most

648
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: incredible segment that actually Shena came up with because she's

649
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: a freaking genius. But I kind of I like the

650
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: idea of having the surprise element, like surprise guests on

651
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: each you know, each stop in each city. So I'm

652
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: going to keep the rest of the guests under wraps.

653
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: But because I already talked about Brock and Shina and Nashville, okay,

654
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: I write like, y'all already know they're coming, But if

655
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 1: you're in any of the other cities, get ready because

656
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: I am having surprise guests pop up left and right.

657
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:37,959
Speaker 3: I know, I heard her talking to some of them

658
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 3: and I was like, stop.

659
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: I know, it's such a vibe. I cannot wait. All right,

660
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna cut to a break and we will be

661
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: right back with Larsa Pippin. All right, my loves, we

662
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: are back with Larsa Pippen. Oh my god, you're so

663
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 1: gorge Oh you're so gorge good God, I want to

664
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: be you always. First of all, I have to say

665
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: so I'm a Real Housewives fanatic. I really was deep

666
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: diving into you after I found out like Real Housewives

667
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: of Miami is returning, we have Larsa Pippen on and

668
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:14,280
Speaker 1: I just went balls deep into like all things, Larsa Pippen,

669
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 1: how's this season? Like, what are you hating? What are

670
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,359
Speaker 1: you loving? I mean you look amazing, like you're fun

671
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: to watch and level headed at the same time, which

672
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 1: is hard to do.

673
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 4: You know what's funny. I feel like I like my

674
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 4: tone is always so calm. I never really like get loud.

675
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 4: And I feel like when I did the reunion, I

676
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 4: was a psychopath. Like it was almost like an out

677
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 4: of body experience, Like I was just yelling, like like

678
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 4: I had Chrurette's. I just was like yelling at them

679
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 4: and I'm not even like that, but I was just

680
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 4: like I think when you do the reunion, it's like

681
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 4: you have a lot of emotions. I feel like there's

682
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 4: things that are like you wanted to say that you

683
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 4: didn't have a chance to say so, Like we just

684
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 4: shot the reunion and I was like I left the reunion,

685
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, Larsa, like you should

686
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 4: have toned it.

687
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: Down, Like no, I get it. And then you you

688
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: do the reunion and it's you see everything that everyone

689
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: else has been saying behind your back all season. Yeah,

690
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: I totally get it. There's girl, But like I don't

691
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: even like that.

692
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 4: I don't even go for anyone. I'm never like I

693
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 4: have like the best vibes. I never like talk about anyone.

694
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 4: Like literally, I'm like, someone could be talking about the

695
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 4: person and I'm like, you know, I don't know, like

696
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 4: I personally don't know her enough to talk about her

697
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 4: like that's normally how I am.

698
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: Have you always been that way?

699
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 4: Yeah? I feel like my like I've never in life

700
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 4: had a problem with anyone. You gotta remember, I was

701
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 4: married for like twenty one years, like I have four kids.

702
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 4: Like I never was, like, you know, in a position

703
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 4: where I had to like defend my character, my you

704
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 4: know who I am. It's like, and I'm sure you're

705
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 4: probably gonna be dealing with this too, Like now that

706
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 4: you're like single or like, it's like a different it's

707
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 4: a different world when you're single as opposed to when

708
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 4: you're with someone.

709
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Completely, I feel like I'm a brand

710
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: new human being and all of the things that I

711
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: thought I knew about life have completely changed. And just

712
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: my outlook and view on what I want, what are

713
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: my and hopes and how do I want to raise

714
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: my child to go out into the world. And be

715
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: like a productive human in society. I know exactly what

716
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: you're talking about. Do you feel like you enjoyed filming

717
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: enough to go back for another season?

718
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 4: I mean, I had a good experience. It was fun

719
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 4: for me. Like when I shot Housewives ten years ago,

720
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 4: i was married, it was different, my kids were so little,

721
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 4: Like it was just different for me this time around,

722
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 4: being single, my kids being older and me asking them, Hey,

723
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 4: do you guys want to film with me today? And

724
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 4: they were like yeah, or they'd say no, So it

725
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 4: was different. It was better this time around for me

726
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,320
Speaker 4: as far as like just being more open to sharing

727
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 4: my life.

728
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 1: You know.

729
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 4: I think when you're like married to someone, especially someone

730
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,399
Speaker 4: that's like, you know, like in the Spotlight, you want

731
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 4: to protect them. And I always wanted to protect Scotty.

732
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 4: I didn't want to make him look a certain way

733
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 4: or have his character be you know, compromised because a

734
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 4: girl didn't like what I was wearing, you.

735
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 1: Know, just like dumping right.

736
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 4: So I feel like this time around, I wasn't worried

737
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 4: about that. I just had fun. It was a good

738
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 4: experience for me. Other than me looking like a lunatic.

739
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think you looked like a lunatic.

740
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: I think like everything you say makes so much sense.

741
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: The thing about you is when I'm watching you, you

742
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: keep it real, calm, cool and collected until someone won't

743
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: let shit go, and then you have to take it

744
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: to one hundred, which I think is valid. But you're

745
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: also talking to someone who takes it from zero to

746
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: one hundred like that. You know what?

747
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 4: For me, I just feel like I'm big on boundaries,

748
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 4: you know, Like if I knew there was a subject

749
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 4: that you were sensitive about, I would never bring it up.

750
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 4: I would never bring it up to kind of like

751
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 4: you to have to, like, you know, just to put

752
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 4: you in a position where you're not going to be

753
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 4: happy with me. I would never do that.

754
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: Do you feel like when you're filming and people do that,

755
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: that they're doing it because they know they're on TV

756
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: or do you think that that's who they really are?

757
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: Like they would cross those boundaries even if a camera

758
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: wasn't on.

759
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 4: It's only for cameras, Like it's not like she would

760
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 4: never say that to me in real life, Like it's cameras.

761
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: Like I know, it was a little crazy. It was

762
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,760
Speaker 1: kind of like shut the fuck up, Like enough already

763
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: what it was.

764
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 4: It was kind of like I don't know. I just

765
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 4: couldn't imagine, like you're this like grown ass woman. Do

766
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 4: you really want to act like this? Do you really

767
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 4: want to like be this person? Because like for me,

768
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,439
Speaker 4: I couldn't. I was like so calm, and I was like, hey,

769
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 4: there's boundaries for me. I don't want to talk about,

770
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 4: you know, someone's husband. I don't want to like I

771
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 4: don't like to have these conversations. It's just not my thing.

772
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 4: I don't leave my kids to go spend time with

773
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 4: women that literally are talking about nonsense. It's just not

774
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 4: my thing. I have way too much going on for

775
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 4: me to like spend time on nonsense.

776
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: You know. No, I think you handled yourself like a

777
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 1: class act. Honestly.

778
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 4: I literally I was so upset. I cried, Like there

779
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 4: were I think I cried like twice. I was like,

780
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 4: you know, when you're so upset that you can either

781
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 4: go one of two ways. So either I'm going to

782
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 4: get up and like flip the table it's going to

783
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 4: get really crazy, or I'm just going to leave and

784
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 4: sob Yeah, like control it, Like I'm not used to

785
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 4: having to control like how I feel you know.

786
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: Yes, there were so many times this past season that

787
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: we filmed that I was like, I'm either going to

788
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: break all of Lisa vander Pump's china over all these motherfuckers' heads,

789
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: or I'm gonna go collect myself and just sob my

790
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 1: eyes out. And I think the sobbing was the way

791
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 1: to go.

792
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 4: I just feel like you can come back from a

793
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 4: good cry, you know what I mean, right, and this

794
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 4: like crazy person and it's like hard to come back

795
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:20,399
Speaker 4: from me, you know.

796
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: I totally know. And by the way, I was loving

797
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: the only fans thing. You're hot obviously, and people are

798
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: gonna pay a lot of money to see your kneecap.

799
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. No one could grasp that.

800
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 4: Well, you know what it is a lot of the

801
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 4: girls on the show are not really like up to date,

802
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 4: like on current platforms like social media platforms. So for them,

803
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 4: they didn't even know that snapchats started off sending nudes.

804
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: That's kind of what's right.

805
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 4: Let's started out as and now it's so mainstream. My

806
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 4: kids are on Snapchat. You know, everyone's on Snapchat. So

807
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, OnlyFans started out a certain way,

808
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 4: but they've definitely broadened, you know, their audience, They've broadened

809
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 4: the creators. It's like everyone's on there, chefs, trainers, like

810
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 4: everyone's on there, right, and my subscription's free. So the

811
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 4: fact that I was being like attacked for my only fans,

812
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 4: it's kind of like reasoning with like someone that just

813
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 4: doesn't like use their ring.

814
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: It's just not right. And I also feel like if

815
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: you were on there showing some ass, what the hell

816
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 1: is it to you anyway?

817
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 4: You know, listen, Like, as long as I'm happy, I

818
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 4: feel good about myself. My kids are happy. That's all

819
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 4: I care about. I don't care about anything else.

820
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: Do you feel happy?

821
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 4: I'm so happy. I feel like I'm in such a

822
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 4: good place. I think, like when you go through a divorce.

823
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 4: I just feel like for me, I dealt with like guilt.

824
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 4: I don't know if you like dealt with that, like

825
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 4: having kids. I just feel like you feel like you

826
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 4: let your kids down?

827
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: You know, yeah I do?

828
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, so, and it's hard. It's hard on everyone. So

829
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 4: I feel like for me, I dealt with like a

830
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 4: lot of that, like I should try to make it work.

831
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 4: And that's kind of why we kept working things out,

832
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,280
Speaker 4: Like I would go back because I felt so bad.

833
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 4: But then I just like I had to, you know,

834
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 4: come to Jesus moment where I was just like, it's

835
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 4: never I'm never going to be happy. I'm just never

836
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 4: going to be happy, and either I'm going to get

837
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 4: like you know, I have to deal with depression or

838
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 4: just move on and kind of like work it out.

839
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 4: And we've been really lucky. You know, we're best friends.

840
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 4: We do everything together, We respect each other. I don't

841
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,439
Speaker 4: know what yours, like your situation is like, but it's

842
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 4: like you have to really dig deep at times to

843
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 4: like basically be the best version of yourself and only

844
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 4: do it for your daughter, you know what I mean,

845
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 4: Like just just for your family. Like that's kind of

846
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 4: how I view things now. I handle things. It's not

847
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 4: always great, it's not always perfect, but I always try

848
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 4: to like look at, like, you know, the blessings that

849
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 4: I had from being with Scotty, Right, That's kind of

850
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 4: how I like navigate like dealing with him at times.

851
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: What age were you when you got married.

852
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,760
Speaker 4: I met him when I was twenty one. I turned

853
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 4: twenty two, like fourteen days after we got married.

854
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:52,720
Speaker 1: You were a baby. Yeah, what's the age difference between

855
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 1: you and Scotty.

856
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 4: I think we're ten years apart.

857
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 1: Ten years And what was that like being I'm sure

858
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: you were mature for your aid age at that point

859
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: in time, but nevertheless you were a young girl. What

860
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: was that like being in cause he was like Scottie

861
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 1: Pippen at that time, Like, what was it like being

862
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: the wife of a superstar like that? Did you feel

863
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: like you got lost in the shadows a little bit?

864
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 4: We don't know. We had like a great relationship. He's

865
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 4: very like he's from the South. He's very normal, he's

866
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 4: very quiet. Like you know, I was happy. I was

867
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 4: happy for a long time. I just think, like you know,

868
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 4: how you grow and you can either grow together you

869
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 4: can grow apart. And I feel like I was so young.

870
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 4: I was twenty one years old, Like I never had

871
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 4: a job before, Like I literally was. I met him

872
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,879
Speaker 4: the summer before my senior year in college. I went

873
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 4: back for my senior year in college, and then I

874
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 4: got married. Like everything that I had was basically from Scotti.

875
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: Okay, at what point in time did you realize like,

876
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm living because you said something that

877
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: struck me on the show that you looked around and

878
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 1: realized that you were living someone else's dream.

879
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 4: It was everyone. It was like my kids, Scotty, so

880
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 4: it was like, you got to remember, I have four kids,

881
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 4: so imagine like it was Scotty came first his career basketball,

882
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 4: and as soon as things started to slow down, it

883
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 4: was like I had four kids, So this one wants

884
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 4: to play basketball, and this one wants to play football,

885
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 4: and this one. So I always put myself last, and

886
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 4: by the time it was time for me, I was like,

887
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 4: oh my god, Like.

888
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: Who the fuck am I right?

889
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 4: What do I like to do? What do you know?

890
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 4: I never used to go out without Scotti ever, Like

891
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 4: I was so like committed, like traveled with him ever,

892
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 4: you know, every two days. We never spend any time apart.

893
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 4: We were like together all the time. So literally, like

894
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 4: I was the girl that was in the gym shooting

895
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 4: with him, Like that was me.

896
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, And I love that you guys still have

897
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: maintained an incredible relationship. I can't say the same for

898
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: me and my situation, and I don't think we'll ever

899
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: get to that point.

900
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 4: You never know, because I feel like sometimes like when

901
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 4: you're hurt, you handle things different than when you're just

902
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 4: over it, do you know what I mean?

903
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I'm not I'm not suffering. Yes,

904
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 1: there was a lot of betrayal. What he was doing

905
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: behind the scenes was not the same as the life

906
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 1: he was portraying when we were around each other. So

907
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: it's hard for me to come from a place of

908
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: like mourning a loss when there was there was no

909
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: loss because it wasn't ever real. Does that make sense?

910
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I get what you're saying. Yeah, you're looking

911
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:26,879
Speaker 4: at it like that, And I promise you when we talk,

912
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:28,959
Speaker 4: like in two years, you're going to be looking at.

913
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: It differently, I hope. So. I mean, just the fact

914
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,280
Speaker 1: that you were married for twenty one years, I feel

915
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 1: is absolutely incredible. Something was working. But like you say,

916
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 1: people grow, and you can grow together, you can grow apart.

917
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: So how old was your youngest when you felt like

918
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 1: I need to kind of reclaim my identity because you

919
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: had been living for other people for so long, which

920
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: is great. You're a mother, that's like the epitome of

921
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 1: a mother's love and a wife's love. Like you did

922
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:57,799
Speaker 1: all the things right.

923
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 4: I think like when my daughter was like like six

924
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 4: or seven, I felt like I just was like, you know,

925
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 4: it's just not going to work when they're young. It's

926
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 4: so hard. It's hard to go back and forth different homes.

927
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 4: You know, it's just hard on the kids. So I

928
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 4: kind of feel like I am happy that, like I

929
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 4: did go back, Like we broke up at one time,

930
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 4: then I did go back, and then I spent like

931
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 4: a couple more like another year or so, because I

932
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 4: felt like it was good for my kids not to

933
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 4: feel like we were still together. We still travel together.

934
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 4: You almost have to do everything. Every move that you make,

935
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 4: you really should just think about your kids.

936
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 1: And now that you are, you know, divorce has been finalized.

937
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: How old is your daughter, because she's your baby, she's twelve.

938
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: She's twelve. And what was that like when she was like,

939
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: did she have a choice because I know your boys

940
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 1: live with Scottie.

941
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 4: Oh no, they don't know Botty. They go back and forth.

942
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: Oh, they go back and forth because they're older.

943
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 4: Well, I have one at Vanderbilt. He's twenty one. I

944
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,720
Speaker 4: have nineteen, I have sixteen, and I have twelve. Sophia

945
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:57,280
Speaker 4: is twelve.

946
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

947
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 4: When I shot Housewives, they started school in LA so

948
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 4: they had to go to La so they spend a

949
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 4: month without me.

950
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:04,479
Speaker 1: You're in La now.

951
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, But in a month, I'm going back to Miami.

952
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 4: They'll be here for a month and then they'll come

953
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 4: to me. So they really are with me ninety nine

954
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 4: point percent of the time.

955
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: They love their mamas.

956
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 4: I would do anything for my kids, Like I remember

957
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 4: my son when he was probably like it was Preston,

958
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 4: when he was probably like six years old. He came

959
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 4: home when he was crying because he forgot his book

960
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 4: at school, and so I jumped in the Ferrari blew

961
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 4: every light. I was like, don't cry. I was like, Preston,

962
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 4: I promised if I can't, if this like the school

963
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 4: guards or the school security is gone, I will break

964
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 4: into school and get your books. Don't worry. You will

965
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 4: not get in trouble. So I get there and they

966
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 4: were like, oh, the school's closed, and I was like,

967
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 4: there's got to be somebody. We ran around the whole

968
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 4: entire school and there was one door that was unlocked. Girl,

969
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:49,919
Speaker 4: I got in that room. I got my son's book.

970
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 1: You're such a badass.

971
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm never going to let my kids down.

972
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 4: I was like, oh no, I'll break into that school

973
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 4: I'll go to jail, but you will have a book.

974
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: But you're you're going to have your book. That is badass. Yeah,

975
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: blew every light for the book. I know that that

976
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: is because I don't think people really realize what that

977
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: type of love is for a child until you. No

978
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: matter how your child got here by the way adoption,

979
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 1: you had it on your own surrogacy. When your child

980
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: is in front of you and you see that little baby,

981
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 1: You're like, I will fuck shit up for you any

982
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 1: day of the week.

983
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally totally.

984
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: So what is it that you when you were not

985
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 1: in the relationship anymore, you were living for Larsa? What

986
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: was the first thing that you were like, this is

987
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: what I want to do and this is what I've

988
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: always wanted to do. Was it your jewelry line or

989
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:38,760
Speaker 1: did you have that before?

990
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 4: No, it was my jewelry line. You know. I wanted

991
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,359
Speaker 4: it to think that I was Scottie, but it was

992
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 4: like he was more like, when do you have time?

993
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 4: You don't have time between me and the kids, you

994
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 4: don't have time. So I was like, okay, so next

995
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:50,840
Speaker 4: year I'll do it. So the following year I'll do

996
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 4: and I just like I just never had the opportunity

997
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 4: just because I was so consumed in their lives. But

998
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 4: I did my jewelry line.

999
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Larce Marie, and is that what you're just like,

1000
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: go's your baby right now besides your other kids.

1001
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 4: I love it. Yeah. I only want the things that

1002
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 4: I love doing. You know, I feel like at this

1003
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 4: point I don't want to do things that I don't

1004
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 4: love or believe in. And I feel like for me

1005
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 4: like that was like I love jewelry. I'm the kind

1006
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 4: of person I wear earrings and that goes to the gym,

1007
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 4: so I'm not like, you know where it with sweats,

1008
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 4: I'll wear it out.

1009
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: So right, love it? You love it? And you have

1010
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,320
Speaker 1: to have something that you're passionate about and that you

1011
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 1: can pour your heart and soul into. And your stuff

1012
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 1: is beautiful. Where can people purchase if they're living under

1013
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: a rock, they don't know where to purchase Larza Marie jewelry.

1014
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 1: Where do they go?

1015
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 4: They go to sax or. I have a website Larson

1016
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 4: Marie dot com.

1017
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 1: When did you start this jewelry line that you're like

1018
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: already in.

1019
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 4: Sacks two years ago?

1020
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: Fuck? Bitch, good for you, thank you?

1021
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 4: I goes you are to one hundred. I feel like

1022
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 4: you're like that too.

1023
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I try, but it's exhausting with a one

1024
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: year old? Are we dating anybody?

1025
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 4: No?

1026
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: No time, No, I have time.

1027
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 4: I just feel like I got to like figure out

1028
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 4: what I like. I got to change what I like.

1029
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: No more athletes.

1030
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 4: I'm not saying no more athletes. I know that people

1031
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 4: are like. I'm like, it's not like I just am

1032
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 4: in that pool of friends or that hang, right. I

1033
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 4: just feel like I was very comfortable in that temperature

1034
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 4: of that pond, right. I'm used to the schedule, I'm

1035
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 4: used to the conversations. But I do feel like I

1036
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 4: should take my talents to the Mediterranean are like other

1037
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 4: seas and just kind of see, you know.

1038
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: See what's out there, all right?

1039
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 4: See how well I swim? I don't know.

1040
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: I love that I'm in this boat where like, I

1041
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 1: don't even know if you were to place a dude

1042
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 1: in front of me, I wouldn't know how to communicate

1043
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: with him. I wouldn't know how to flirt. I'm like, granted,

1044
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 1: I only got out of this like four months ago,

1045
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: but I'm like, what do I do with this? Who?

1046
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 2: Ha?

1047
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I'm like, I've been putting

1048
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:50,320
Speaker 1: a time capsule and just arrived on planet Earth yesterday.

1049
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: Is how I'm feeling.

1050
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:52,760
Speaker 4: How long were you guys together?

1051
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: Six years?

1052
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's so long.

1053
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: Yeah it's a long time and the same person. And

1054
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,280
Speaker 1: then during that time period is when I got sober.

1055
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: So not only am I diving into new territory, I

1056
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 1: have no lubrication to kind of make me loose, you know, Yeah,

1057
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: I feel you it's rough out there.

1058
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like timing is really important, you know.

1059
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when you go searching for it, it's probably

1060
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: not going to happen.

1061
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 4: I feel like you just have to like lay low

1062
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 4: and be selective, be like the you know, like the stars.

1063
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 4: You don't come out all the time.

1064
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: Ooh, if you come out all the.

1065
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,399
Speaker 4: Time, you kind of lose your stock. Because I feel

1066
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 4: like I used to do that. I still like, like

1067
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 4: as soon as Gut and I broke up, I felt

1068
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 4: like I had to go to like every event. I

1069
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 4: had to go to every party. And now I feel

1070
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 4: like I'm at a place where I'm like I really

1071
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 4: don't care, Like I'm so good, I don't even care.

1072
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 1: Oh, I need to get on that I mean, I

1073
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: think I'm a little bit too much on that train

1074
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 1: where I'm like home sounds much better than going out

1075
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: and like talking to people that I really don't give

1076
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: a shit about.

1077
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 4: Last year, if you would have called me and you

1078
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 4: were like, hey, let's go to like Dave and Busters

1079
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 4: and then let's go, if you asked me to do

1080
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 4: something twice, like I probably'll do it. The first time,

1081
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 4: I'll be like I shouldn't, and then like the second time,

1082
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 4: I'll be like, Okay, if you really want to go,

1083
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,800
Speaker 4: let's go. Like I'm like that person, so I didn't

1084
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 4: know how to say no.

1085
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1086
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have five billion friends, so every time someone

1087
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 4: calls me, I'd be like okay, okay, okay, and then

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Speaker 4: like I was like, I'm exhausted for making everyone happy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you were out every night of the week.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just like day night, like lunch, breakfast, coffee, snack.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and the place is that you know, you

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Speaker 1: and I live in or travel to, there's something happening

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Speaker 1: twenty four seven. You can always find a reason to

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Speaker 1: go do something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, totally, and.

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Speaker 1: It is exhausting. So before I let you go, I

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Speaker 1: have one question. Do you have any age range that

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Speaker 1: is like your minimum and maximum.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I hate to put age on someone

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Speaker 4: because I feel like when I was twenty one, I

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Speaker 4: could have easily been with like a forty year old

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Speaker 4: man because I was so mature at twenty.

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Speaker 1: One, Right, do you feel like you know, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I was because my ex was twenty years older

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Speaker 1: than me.

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Speaker 4: Oh so yeah, so you know what I'm talking. I

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Speaker 4: just feel like sometimes you can can't really put age

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Speaker 4: on it. Like my parents are ten years apart. My

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Speaker 4: uncle and his wife were like twenty five years apart.

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Speaker 4: So for me, I don't like, I don't think of

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Speaker 4: age like that. You know. I see girls that are

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Speaker 4: at twenty five that are like so old, and then

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Speaker 4: I see people that are forty five They're so young, right,

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I think like if I had to

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Speaker 4: put an age on it, I would say, maybe like

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Speaker 4: I should date guys that are twenty eight.

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Speaker 1: Okay to like fifty five. That's great. That leaves a

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Speaker 1: lot of men to pick from. Yeah, I'm kind of

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Speaker 1: on that, not the fifty five. I think like twenty

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Speaker 1: eight should be the for me, the youngest. I don't

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Speaker 1: think I could go back to the twenty years.

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Speaker 4: Girl, Well, twenty years is a lot.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot.

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Speaker 4: It probably like like what you needed when you were younger,

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Speaker 4: you didn't need when you like right now, it was

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Speaker 4: like what you needed was different.

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Speaker 1: Damn, you've given me a lot to think about. You've

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Speaker 1: been dropping mad knowledge and you don't even realize it.

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Speaker 1: Do you realize it?

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Speaker 4: I mean I feel like I'm good at relationships.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, I'm going to hitch you up more often.

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Speaker 4: Speed dial. I got you.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you so much for coming on

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Speaker 1: my podcast, Lars. I appreciate it. I'll say bye bye, baby,