WEBVTT - Awkward Thursday: Long Distance Liar 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:00.560 We did it. 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.000 We've been back a whole week and we finally got 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:03.960 you a new episode. 0:00:04.120 --> 0:00:06.840 Yes, I warm up a little bit. 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:08.800 Yeah, Yeah, you're. 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:09.360 Gonna love this one. 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:11.920 It's very special because it is I don't want to 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:13.960 spoil it, but an awkward Thursday folkus. 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:15.080 Yes, spoil. 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:18.240 Yeah, you definitely did. There's a lot more drama about 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:18.720 to happen. 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:19.360 That's true. 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:20.360 You'll get over it, but. 0:00:20.320 --> 0:00:22.279 I hope you enjoy our first new one of twenty 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:25.080 twenty six. Yeah. No, thanks for being here. Yeah for sure. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:27.400 And hey, comments, what do you got? 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:30.400 Yeah, Leah said, I'm currently going through every single episode 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:33.320 on Spotify because I did it on Apple Podcast. 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:35.320 But they didn't do Wrapped at the end of the year, 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.200 so all my hard work was for nothing. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:43.319 Apple doesn't do a wrap. They're the only company I've 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:45.240 got a wrap from everything. 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:46.479 I know if I started it, Yeah. 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:48.640 They really started it all like Instagrams like look at 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:49.559 your ear? I'm like yeah what? 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:51.400 And Uber did wrap too. 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:55.200 Yeah. By the way, I'm a top like five percent 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:56.600 for DENTI fun in the Old Country. 0:00:56.680 --> 0:01:00.279 Yeah wow, by the way, no one is shocked by Yeah, 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:01.520 I know you very well. 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:02.840 All right, let's get into it. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:06.119 Your first brand new episode of twenty six starts right now. 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:11.320 When Brooke drives across the bridge from her home to 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:17.360 work every morning, she considers her relationship officially long distance. 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:26.319 Anything just from that point, different bros and different area codes. 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:27.279 Am I right Brook? 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:27.520 No? 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:33.800 Lachris motto, that's Brook's way. Well, one of our listeners 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:37.640 hopes that's not the case with his long distance partner, Caes. 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:38.440 He go over two bridges. 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:42.760 Oh no, maybe more And something has definitely changed in 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:44.959 the last month. So we're going to try to help 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:46.840 him get to the bottom of it in a special 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:52.840 awkward Thursday phone call. Lovely, we'll do it next. It's awkward, 0:01:53.160 --> 0:02:01.600 it's Thursday. It's awkward Thursday phone call. It's only the 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:06.000 highest quality. Yeah, And Teddy Roosevelts, the twenty sixth President 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:09.800 of the United States and part time dating coach, once said, 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:13.080 never knew that he was. He said, a healthy relationship 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:15.040 is like a well run costco. 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:19.480 The costco is, Yeah, you. 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:23.720 Gotta have clear rules, members only, and if you behave right, 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:25.920 they might let you sample the goods. 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:32.519 I learned history on the show wows. 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.960 But just like at Costco, all it takes is one 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:40.519 tiny issue in your relationship. One gallon tub of mayo 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:44.560 knocked off onto the floor, one receipt dropped at the 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:47.920 hot dog food court before checkout, and next thing you know, 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:52.680 they're calling managers. Suddenly you can't leave and the whole 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:56.880 store is thrown into chaos. Oh, and nobody wants their 0:02:56.919 --> 0:03:01.639 relationship to be a chaotic receiptless costco go right, I. 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:03.800 Mean, they won't let you out without the receipt. So 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:06.399 I get what you're saying. That recep. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:11.239 Teddy Roosevelt jail so wise and that's why our listener, 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:13.799 Coop has emailed us for help. Cooper, is that how 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:17.560 you're feeling? Does that analogy work to describe your relationship? 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:18.359 Uh? 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:21.040 You know, it was very specific, and I. 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:24.880 Appreciate It's like, I'm trying to figure out what it means. 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:28.240 Yeah, spend some time on you and that's all. 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:28.960 Yes. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:31.440 The bottom line is it sounds like there's an issue 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:33.680 in your relationship and you're worried about it. 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:34.880 That's true. 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:37.960 Okay, okay, all right, So let's get into the details 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:39.280 about that. Tell us what's going on. 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:42.920 Yeah, so my girlfriend and I we've been together about. 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:43.360 A year and a half. 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:44.720 Okay, what's her name? 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:46.120 Her name is Danelle. 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:47.480 Okay. 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.880 That's always like an important time period for a relationship, 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:51.440 like a year and. 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:53.240 A half, it is like, are we really doing this 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:54.520 or is that fun? 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:56.000 Your mark is big, and an year and a half 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:57.640 you're like, we're. 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:58.280 Yeah, okay. 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:00.480 So that's kind of how I felt about the year 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.480 for sure, okay. And I felt like we were in 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.000 a really good place, in a good enough place that 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.480 when I saw a job opportunity come up that was 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:10.320 in a different city, I thought that we could take it. 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:12.840 And we've been doing long distance for this back half 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:16.240 of our relationship to. 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:18.640 Move with you. You moved and you're doing long distance. 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:20.760 That's exactly right. No, we weren't there yet. 0:04:20.720 --> 0:04:25.159 Okay, I like temporary long distance or forever long distance. 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:26.200 They don't know. 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:28.680 Yeah, I mean I'm hoping it's not forever, Like this 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:30.720 was supposed to sort of be a transition period. 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.680 Okay, I assume since you're still together. She was on 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:34.960 board initially. 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:40.000 Absolutely, and everything was going pretty well except for as 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.360 of recently, just like the last couple of weeks, she's 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:45.479 been acting different, I guess. 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.640 Okay, different mean different. 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:50.960 So she used to like, I mean, I don't sound bad, 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:52.360 but like she's a check off on me, like. 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.599 All the time, like via text or calls or whatever. 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:58.080 Yeah, and like checking up on where I was, what 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.880 I was doing, who I'm with. And then like it 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:04.599 was like a switch flicked and now she hardly does 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:06.599 it at all, and I kind of like I miss 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:08.120 those check ins. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:08.440 Yeah. 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.200 Yeah, it's nice to have a girl nagging you all 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:14.520 the time. I don't trust you. Tell me what's going on. 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:19.160 She's thinking about you every couple hours, you get, Hey, 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:19.719 what you doing? 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:22.919 You felt connected? 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:24.840 Yeah, do a scan of the room right now and 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:26.479 let me know there's no other women there. 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:29.479 I don't think that's what he means. 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:31.839 It's romantic. 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:33.279 I think that was a part of it, for sure. 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:34.920 It was some insecurity for sure. 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:39.839 That you mean stopped because that's a good time. 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:42.599 Has she been going to therapy and the therapy is working. 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.080 Don't joke like that about his girlfriend broke? Come on, 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:49.520 it's funny when I say it, but when you're doing 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:53.440 it's too far. Okay, So you're saying that that change, 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:56.320 that shift in her behavior started happening a couple of 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:59.360 weeks ago. What's going through your mind now, like where 0:05:59.360 --> 0:05:59.839 are you at? 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:03.520 Yeah, I'm wondering, like to what's going on or like 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:05.760 the anxiety of it all. My worst fear is that 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:08.039 there's like some other guys who's trying to step in 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:09.200 and it's taking her focus. 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:12.560 Oh my god, your girlfriend was jealous. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:16.000 Now she's not jealous, So now you're jealous that maybe 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:17.240 something's going on with her. 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:18.760 That's called a toxic relationship. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:22.280 That something's off is all? 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:23.760 Something's off off? 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:26.760 Did you know her more than anybody? So you feel a. 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:28.560 Shift and so you haven't talked to her about this 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:28.960 at all. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:30.040 I've tried. 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:33.320 I mean I've tried to sort of like subtenly make 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:35.960 that suggestion that something has changed. But I feel like 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:38.640 I've not managed to gross the topic. And that's sort 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:39.240 of why I'm. 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:41.640 Here with you guys, because how can you say, why 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:42.360 aren't you worried? 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:43.200 I'm with other women? 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:47.440 Yeah, and just saying everything Okay, it's too generic. 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:49.200 The other way we used to have such a lack 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:49.799 of trust. 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:51.159 Well, I thought you guys. 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:52.440 Could help me sort of like sort of do a 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.560 harder push to open up and tell me like what's 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:55.320 really going on? 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:59.160 Okay, you need your girlfriend to really open up, and 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:01.839 you're hoping that we the advice to make her do that. 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:06.120 Clearly what I'm doing isn't working. So yeah, okay. 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:08.440 And okill that Like you want to know if she's 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:09.360 seen someone else? 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:10.280 It sounds like do. 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:12.960 You not want him to find that out if he's talking. 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:15.520 The other I mean, my advice is different, So I 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:17.600 need to know, like what's our angle here? 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:21.360 Is it just what changed? Or is it other people? 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:24.480 Yeah, it's a cheating investigation. Yes, okay, what change? 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:25.520 And why are you cheating on me? 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.240 Accusation? I mean, I certainly hope she's not seeing other people, 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:32.239 but I missed her possessiveness. 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:34.680 I like that. 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:37.640 We're just saying it out loud sentence. 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:40.840 That's super clear. Now, okay, we'll come back. We will 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:43.200 give you our advice and help you call your long 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:46.120 distance girlfriend to find out why she's not being more 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.840 clingy and more possessive over years. 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:49.560 Whose phone is this? 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:54.040 And we'll do it in your special awkward Thursday phone 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:54.840 right after this. 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:56.960 It's awkward. 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:58.920 It's Thursday. 0:07:58.960 --> 0:07:59.560 It's awkward. 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:06.200 Third, why can't women be more possessive and untrusting of 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:07.920 their long distance boyfriends? 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:10.240 So many girls are like preachable. 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:14.800 I've always thought this. If they were more controlling, then 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:17.480 we wouldn't even need to help. Our listener, Cooper today 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:20.000 with his long distance lady Janelle, not. 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:22.160 Believe this is what he's asking for, but it's. 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:25.000 True because in the last few weeks, he says, Danelle 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:28.280 has not been as possessive over him as before. 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:29.760 Those are like not at all. 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:32.920 Those are his words, not ours, And it feels weird 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:36.360 to him because usually she's always checking in, like where 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:38.400 are you, who are you with? Prove it to me, 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.760 and that has not been the case as much anymore. 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:43.400 Hold up a newspaper, show me the date. 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:48.400 So naturally he's worried about it and concerned that maybe 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.080 she could be interested in somebody else. 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:53.760 I mean, I will say a shift in behavior at 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:57.040 any in any way in a relationship can indicate. 0:08:56.600 --> 0:09:00.800 That, yeah, people need to stay the same forever. Is 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:01.880 a good point, Broke. 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:03.280 It's a drastic shift. 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:06.560 The bottom line is long distance stuff is hard, and 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:08.480 so we need to help him fix it. How do 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:10.280 we do that, Brook, what's your advice? 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:12.040 I think you smoke her out? 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:16.880 Okay, no, not like that, like you know, like someone 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:20.040 in a hole and you smoke may anyway, maybe use 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:25.400 use the wrong analogy. Yes, Teddy Roosevelt, do the metaphors, 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:30.600 but you scare her right like you, I'm serious. You 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:32.800 bring up whatever it is to you that would bring 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.280 your relationship to the next level. Maybe it's her moving 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:37.800 to the town you're living in, or an engagement or 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:39.240 getting an apartment. 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:43.120 Together, because that shift in a relationship. If she is cheating, 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:46.000 she'll back off like I can't do that. 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:47.960 Yeah, smart? 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:50.560 Does that advice make sense to you, Cooper or you 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:51.720 as confused design? 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:55.160 I kind of hear that, but I'm scared that if 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.400 I do that, she'll lead into that because I'm definitely 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.600 I don't know that. I'm like, oh, ready. 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:01.240 Accidentally is getting married. 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:03.880 I thought you were ready for her to like, Okay, he's. 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:05.840 Trying to figure out where they're at in their relationship. 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:07.080 Jose what's your advice? 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:10.400 Bro? You just say, you know, what's funny living in 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:14.440 a different city, especially the guys. They're way uglier here 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:18.360 than the guys back at home. You're probably tempted, right right, 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:22.400 then laugh and tell her I'm just kidding, But see 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:23.240 what she says. 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:26.120 Okay, you're trying to see if she's actually interested and 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:28.240 they need the cute guys back home. She may say, 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:31.920 how did you know framing it like a joke, Cooper, 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:33.559 Do you see that emphasizes a joke. 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:35.560 Yeah, I kind of see what you're saying. Maybe it's 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:36.920 a good way to just like break the ice. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:39.240 I guess it. Yeah, I guess that's a different way 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:40.160 to smoke her out. 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.400 As Brooke would say, again, not what you think, Jose 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:45.240 so funny. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:49.440 Anyway, we are going to call your girlfriend Nanell here. 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:51.600 Do you feel ready? You feel prepared with the advice 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:52.920 that we gave you, Cooper. 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:54.640 I mean, it isn't going to be easy, but yeah, 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:55.839 I mean I'm here to do bath. 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:57.760 Okay, good luck, brother. 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.719 We got your back. Whatever happens, I'm gonna dial it 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:02.560 right now and let you call your girlfriend. Good luck. 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:19.600 Hello. Hey, uh no, hey, hey, what what's up? What 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:20.080 are you doing? 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:22.000 Uh? 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:24.120 I'm here calling you? 0:11:26.760 --> 0:11:30.680 Okay, I mean I know I'm at work right now. 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:35.360 Oh yeah, no, I know. I just I wanted to 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:39.040 connect with you. I I had this funny thought. 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:40.880 Okay. 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.320 You know the people in the city where I'm at now, 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:48.520 especially the guys, they are a lot uglier than back home. 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:55.680 What just you You must be tempted all the time 0:11:55.679 --> 0:12:00.680 with the guys in our back home, right, what are. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.240 You talking about? 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:04.800 I'm sorry? What are you talking about? 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:07.760 I'm sorry? I thought it would be a fun way 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:09.920 to like to jump into like a harder topic. 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:15.040 I mean, okay, I don't know. What do you want 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:17.079 to talk? I'm fine? What do you want to talk about? 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:18.080 Yeah? 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:21.800 No, I just feel like, uh, like things between us 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:22.760 that been feeling. 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:24.240 A little different lately, and I don't know why. 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:29.360 I just wanted to like to say, before anything else happens, 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:30.840 like I don't want them to be different. 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:37.720 Really yeah, really, so why do you sound like that? 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:39.760 It's like you don't trust me. You're like you're thinking 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:41.040 about somebody else or something. 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:45.720 Okay, you know what, I didn't really want to do 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:47.600 this right now, but I do think we just need 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:49.760 to be honest. We see each other and say what's 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:51.600 happening exactly? 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:52.640 Yes? No, thank you? 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:53.360 What? So? 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:53.920 Like? 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:55.000 What is happening? 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.160 Here's what's happening. A few weeks ago, I was trying 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:03.720 to call you in you weren't answering, okay, and you 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:07.640 know we share a location with each other, so I 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:09.400 knew you weren't at the apartment. 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:13.520 I know we yoh no, we alread talked about this. 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:16.320 I was at my coworker's place. It's Corey, you remember, 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:18.360 mm hmm, I remember. 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:21.120 And that's why I found Corey's email at your work 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.720 and I sent him a message asking if you were there, 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.320 and he answered me the next day and said, no, 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:26.840 you weren't. 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:34.720 Oh what sorry? Why would you email him without asking me? 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:38.000 That's that's what that's your response. You don't think a 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:39.960 better question? Why would you lie to me? 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.160 Okay? I don't know why Corey's not telling you the truth. 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:48.360 You're the one not telling you the truth? You like, 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:49.720 have you been with someone else? 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:57.080 No? I mean double not anymore? 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:01.120 What happened? No more? 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:06.800 What is happening? Why are there other people on this line? 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:07.640 Was cheating? 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:07.839 Yeah? 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:08.240 Danell? 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:10.040 Hey, you're on the radio right now with a show 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.000 called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. This is called 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:15.840 an awkward Tuesday phone awkward Thursday phone call. 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:17.160 Good morning, Cooper. 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:19.800 What the hell are you doing calling a radio station 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:21.119 about this exactly? 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:23.280 Why would you ask for her help? 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:26.200 What are you doing checking my location and invading my 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:27.320 personal faith. 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:32.600 That you said she wasn't possessive enough. 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:33.760 I told you they were talking. 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:35.320 You have a girl who tracks you that thought you. 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:36.240 Could get away with cheating. 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:38.760 Did you cheat, Cooper? 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:40.720 It wasn't like that. 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:41.680 It was just a one time. 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:46.880 There was a one time day. That is, Cory did 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:48.720 lie to her. I was with him. 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.480 So you cheated with though you were with the guy. 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:53.800 Is that what you were saying? 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:58.280 Yes, one time, that's it was. It's never gonna happen again. 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:02.960 Okay with your coworker, Corey. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.240 I don't like that term cheating. Okay, we were experimenting. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:08.880 But didn't you say at the start of this the 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:10.920 guys in your new town aren't as hot as the 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:15.280 guys in your. 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:18.800 I think it's more concerned it's a coworker. 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:23.120 There's a lot of concerns that have been said, Cooper. 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:29.360 Sorry, I mean obviously that's why she had a shift, 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:30.520 is because she caught you. 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.720 Yeah, I didn't know she knew anything. It was it 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:33.680 was one time. 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:38.400 Would you be okay if we called her and she's like, 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:40.440 it was one time, Cooper. 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:42.640 No big deal with her female co worker. 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:44.800 I would totally forgive her for that. 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:49.880 Understanding boyfriend, you know, Why did you wait to accuse 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:51.680 him and confront him about this? 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:54.320 Honestly, I just was curious to see how long it 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:56.160 would take him to realize they messed up. 0:15:56.360 --> 0:16:03.560 Okay, what are you interested in forgiving him? 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:06.080 I need some time to process. But like, I don't 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:07.360 really see us coming back to this. 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:11.360 Okay, Yeah, it's just a long distance. Do you get 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:12.080 that trust back? 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:13.480 Yeah? 0:16:13.600 --> 0:16:16.360 Okay, Cooper, I look, it's safe to say that you 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:19.440 and your girlfriend are probably done after this. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:21.880 I think it's safe to say we're definitely done. 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:25.600 Okay, Well, okay, that's not the ending that Cooper was looking. 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:26.400 All right. 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:29.640 Look, I know this probably feels really bad right now, 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:33.880 but it's not the worst thing. You're in a new city. Clearly, 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:37.400 you're discovering things about yourself, and you have a lot 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:40.840 to figure out. It might actually be the best thing 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:43.080 that's ever happened to you going forward in your life. 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:45.960 What I know. 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:46.680 I'm a shocked. 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:53.120 I thought that was really optimistic. I thought that was 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:55.040 a good post breakup speech. 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:57.040 Yeah, I think he's texting Corey right now. Liked you 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:57.520 blew it? 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:57.880 You might. 0:16:57.920 --> 0:16:59.840 You might just need some time to really just let 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:01.400 all the emotions process. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:01.960 The right way. 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:02.280 Both. 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:05.119 It's just such a bummer, like she was gonna come 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:07.000 visit in like a week. We were we had all 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:09.359 these plans and just the suck. 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:13.440 But you did bring this on yourself though, Remember I agree. 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:15.280 I mean, I have some tickets to a show coming up. 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:16.639 I mean maybe I could see if Cooreo go. 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:22.919 Yeah, I say, why not? 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:24.159 Yeah he moved fast? 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:26.000 Yeah, idiot? 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:29.000 God, what's the show that you have tickets to? 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:30.760 By the way, we I mean we were going to 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:32.160 see Hello Dolly, that was a plan. 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:39.840 And how we didn't see the signs of this earlier. Okay, 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:42.960 point five Rook and Jeffrey In the morning, we're getting 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:45.560 text coming into seventy five nine two. A lot of 0:17:45.640 --> 0:17:48.280 people are in shock over this one. I'll just read 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:52.600 a few. This one says, OMG, what this guy gets 0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:53.679 what he deserves? 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:57.639