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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they These are the radio

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Speaker 1: blogs on the Fred Show, like we're writing in our diaries,

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Speaker 1: except we say them aloud. We call them blogs. Paulina,

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Speaker 1: Yes go.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, dear blog man. My mom she's something, Marta.

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Speaker 2: My mom is something. I love her so much. She

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Speaker 2: traveled listening to us right now, live and local. And

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Speaker 2: the thing about my mom though, is, you know, parents

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Speaker 2: always say some crazy things. And I think she really

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Speaker 2: outdid herself yesterday because I was telling her we're on

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Speaker 2: the phone. She was driving and I was like, you know,

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Speaker 2: im like it's hard with Gigi, Like my baby is

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Speaker 2: fourteen months and I hate my parents do that whole

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Speaker 2: month thing. So I'm sorry. I know that's not cute,

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Speaker 2: but like she has fourteen months a little bit over

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Speaker 2: a year, and she is a lot. We're no longer

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Speaker 2: in like we're gonna sit here fase, you know, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna just do like, no, we're not sitting anywhere. There's

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Speaker 2: no sitting to be sacked. Like we are moving everywhere.

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Speaker 2: And she's a lot. You know, I'm trying to cook

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Speaker 2: and it's up up and she said a lot of

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Speaker 2: words too for her age, and she's just like bawling

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Speaker 2: your eyes out because I'm not paying attention to her.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's it's getting really hard. And I told

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Speaker 2: my mom yesterday I needed event because parenting is just

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Speaker 2: so hard.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 2: But I was like, yeah, it's getting really difficult with her.

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Speaker 2: I got to like find activities. We got to sign

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Speaker 2: up to like the park district. We gotta do something.

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Speaker 2: She has to go to school, maybe go to like

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Speaker 2: the military, go somewhere somewhere, like some camp like I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 1: In this case.

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Speaker 2: No, it's just so hard. Somewhere where she'll go for

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Speaker 2: like a period of time, read our energy out, get

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Speaker 2: it out. It's too much for me.

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Speaker 1: Warm just kidding whatever.

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Speaker 2: I mean, listen. And I said, Mom, it's getting hard,

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Speaker 2: and she goes, instead of you know, giving support or

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Speaker 2: things that I need, like at that moment, she goes, Oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: she needs a sibling, I said, mother. I thought she

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Speaker 2: was joking. I said, a sibling. I almost like chair.

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Speaker 1: I've never understood that my sister has the same logic,

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Speaker 1: and I think she's learning the hard way that I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure that's how that works.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that works.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you just pop out another kid and

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Speaker 1: then they just occupy each other. That's just not how

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Speaker 1: that goes.

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Speaker 2: You just gonna like, what feed my other newborn baby?

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Speaker 2: And Chader and Brazer? No, I agree, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I agree, ladies, enough out of you.

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Speaker 1: Is any chance you'd consider him?

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Speaker 2: No? No, I'm trying to plan what I can do

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Speaker 2: to make sure it will never happen, like I'm yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm consulting medical professionals, like, what can we do too?

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Speaker 1: Pretty? She's gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: You can't not give us another pretty baby? Thank you,

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Speaker 2: thank you.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to of course today. No, you don't

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Speaker 1: have to do that. No pressure, you don't have to

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Speaker 1: do one.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think it makes life easier. I don't,

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Speaker 1: I really don't. That's two kids to feed, and well,

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Speaker 1: when they get older, they'll play with each other, know,

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Speaker 1: they'll fight.

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Speaker 2: With each other exactly, and then I gotta go, you know,

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Speaker 2: get involved in that. They say that, okay, think about

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Speaker 2: the kids. I'm a one and done kind of lady.

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Speaker 2: They say that one kid is a vibe, two kids

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Speaker 2: is a lifestyle. I don't want a lifestyle. I want

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Speaker 2: a vibe. I want to vie forever you know how

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Speaker 2: easy it is to just get Jiji and gold places

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Speaker 2: and do things. Nothing. Parenting is easy, it's not. It's

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Speaker 2: the hardest thing I've ever done. But with one, it's

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Speaker 2: just doable. It's manageable. Like we're good either. I have

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Speaker 2: our hobby. Grandma's are super involved right now, her her teats,

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Speaker 2: watching her her aunt. Like we are a village. We

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Speaker 2: are strong, we are united. I think another baby would

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Speaker 2: destroy us all, maybe the downfall of me. It would

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Speaker 2: just be too much. You guys know, I'm kidding. I

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Speaker 2: just I know I appreciate it because everyone's like, she's

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Speaker 2: so cute and this isn't mad, And I agree. I

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Speaker 2: think I made like a good looking So we just

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Speaker 2: let's just.

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Speaker 1: Leave it there, because you never know what could happen

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Speaker 1: the second time. I mean, it could be a disaster,

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Speaker 1: you know what I say. So let's just you hit

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Speaker 1: it out of the park the first time, and you

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Speaker 1: know it's it's requiring a lot of your focus and energy,

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Speaker 1: and so if you're not compelled to have another one.

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Speaker 1: I do not believe that it's somehow is easier. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I just don't buy that. How is that how it

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Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. It's more expensive, it's got to

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Speaker 1: be more stressful, it's more human. It's just I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't get that.

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Speaker 2: My best friend she came over and my besties Lucy,

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Speaker 2: and she has two little ones, the shoe and one

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Speaker 2: literally like, yeah, so now three of us are in

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Speaker 2: the house on Saturday, I after everyone left, I was

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Speaker 2: so overwhelmed and overstimulated. I was like, this is why

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Speaker 2: one one is good. You guys, I'm still saying, I'm

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Speaker 2: still here.

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Speaker 1: Your mom she's crazy. Yeah, well, because you know, I mean,

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Speaker 1: she can say that and then she can be helpful,

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Speaker 1: but then she can go home. Exactly, you know, so

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Speaker 1: your vote only counts half. Sorry, she gets to sleep

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Speaker 1: and rest, right, I feel like you don't have to

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Speaker 1: because she already did it once.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she and this is the thing she did her time,

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Speaker 2: she did her thing. That's why you know, I'm grateful

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Speaker 2: that she was in jail, right, Like, I'm so happy

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Speaker 2: that she's so helpful, but like, exactly, like I can't

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Speaker 2: be responsible for two.

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Speaker 1: I am me and baby, it's to your life without

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Speaker 1: your sister. You know what that's not about? Idea? I

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Speaker 1: love I was gonna say that's that's not the example.

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Speaker 1: That's not the example to use, because I think my

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Speaker 1: mom can picture that too. Actually, a friend show