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Speaker 2: A repeat, will not go.

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Speaker 1: Soggy jack Fruit says, if I don't go, he by extension,

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Speaker 1: can't go because it's my family's cabin. For the record,

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Speaker 1: we are both thirty. We have four children combined. The

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Speaker 1: not sure what it is about his family, but our

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Speaker 1: Every other week at least, whenever they come over. I

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Speaker 2: They just got bad vibes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently like kids always know, you know, they know,

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Speaker 1: they're like dogs smell it on you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like they pass her around while she's screaming, and they

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Speaker 1: and all of them claim that she acts like that

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Speaker 1: because I quote spoil her.

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Speaker 2: She's six months old.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of feel like, maybe you don't like,

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Speaker 1: don't pass around, don't.

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Speaker 3: Be like.

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Speaker 2: Baby starts screaming or the father. I'm like, yeah, big baby,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's an odd reaction. His family consists of his mom,

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Speaker 1: his two sisters, and both of his sisters have one daughter,

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Speaker 1: each fifteen and thirteen. Our daughter doesn't act like this

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Speaker 1: when it comes to anyone else. Family. Friends are complete strangers.

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Speaker 1: She loves people, but the second any of my husband's

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Speaker 1: room with her. That's pretty bad for the husband's family. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it just seems like, yeah, it seems like there's something

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't trust.

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Speaker 1: There's maybe like a demonic energy attached to them.

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Speaker 2: You look in the y.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, I need a vacation. I asked my parents if

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Speaker 1: I could use their cabin for a week next week,

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Speaker 1: and they said yes. My husband, for whatever reason, decided

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Speaker 1: maybe it's just gonna scream and jellybah. Dame says, Oh, no,

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Speaker 1: this is called baby is setting her boundaries.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: So I'm getting text messages saying what should I bring

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Speaker 1: and whatever else. I never wanted them to come. I

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Speaker 1: asked my husband why the f he would invite his

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Speaker 1: daughter does not like these people. It sounds like it's

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Speaker 1: be a longer stand like, yeah, she's getting like, uh

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Speaker 1: I hate these people.

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Speaker 1: The whole point of a damn vacation was to relax,

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Speaker 1: not add more stress to it by basically ensuring that

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Speaker 1: second because she is afraid of his family. He said

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Speaker 1: talked in the past pre baby about inviting them to

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Speaker 1: having our daughter surrounded with all of them for a

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Speaker 1: I told him I'm one hundred percent not okay with that,

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Speaker 1: and he needs to tell them that none of them

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Speaker 1: be around due to her constant baby advice. You need

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Speaker 1: to put her the f down. She acts like that

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Speaker 1: because you spoil her. That's really annoying.

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Speaker 2: Why are they really onto like the spoiling. She's six months.

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Speaker 1: Old, She's spoiled for being held by a mother, like

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Speaker 1: you're holding her too much.

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Speaker 2: Stop it.

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Speaker 1: You need to leave her outside for a little bit,

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Speaker 1: tougher her up, let her.

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Speaker 2: Send the night with the wolves. Uh No.

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Speaker 1: I think it's also just weird that the husband invited

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Speaker 2: That is something like, why would you? I don't think

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Speaker 1: Ever invite other people on a vacation without talking to

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Speaker 2: And it's there.

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Speaker 1: It's her house, it's her house, it's her family cabin.

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Speaker 1: I also think getting advice on how to rear your child,

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Speaker 1: no one wants that. He said he doesn't feel comfortable

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Speaker 1: telling them they can't go because he already said they could,

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Speaker 1: the kids won't go. Better yet, you can stay home

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Speaker 2: Will go without you. Lam dunk. He like drop.

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Speaker 1: He slammed off to his office and shut the door

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Speaker 1: aahle who I was close there? He says that I'm

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Speaker 1: of it because it's me who has to deal with it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so pause, pause here, ye take a little break.

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Speaker 2: This has been a lot. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think, first of all, he is not the A hole,

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Speaker 1: because you should always discuss with your partner, you know,

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Speaker 1: especially if it's not your house it's her place. However,

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Speaker 1: I think they're they're underling there's an underlying issue. I

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like there's solutions to this.

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Speaker 2: I think so too.

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Speaker 1: I think the I think she's not the A hole

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Speaker 1: because they are causing her a lot of stress as

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would want to cut these people out if

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I know, I know, you're right,

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Speaker 2: Yes, No, I think that's I think that's true.

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Speaker 1: I think figuring out solutions, But maybe that's like a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, quick, she lives fast. Yeah, shall I continue?

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Speaker 1: Okay, everyone's the a hole. Yes, he makes a habit

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Speaker 1: he only invites his mom, she will then invite her daughters.

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Speaker 1: We literally can't do anything without them. And this is

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Speaker 1: how it's been since we moved back to his hometown

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Speaker 1: two years ago. Okay, this changes things. This is Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have told him several times that I'm tired of

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Speaker 1: is and tries pulling the if it was your family,

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't mind. But there's zero comparison because I see

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Speaker 1: not being okay with it. It seems like they're just

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Speaker 1: that's I think they just need to said boundaries. Yeah

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Speaker 1: that I think now, it's it's very reasonable for her

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Speaker 1: and she's like, I hate these people. And also everyone's

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Speaker 1: saying eta is edit to add not everyone the oh

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Speaker 1: got it. I think it was just like edit, there's more, okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you comment, this is we chat, thank you.

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Speaker 2: God musing on the wrong terminology.

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Speaker 4: Put it together.

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Speaker 1: Common sension is my father stop acting like akie gosh

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Speaker 1: h sweetcheek says husband is a huge problem. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: Lisa Marie says that's why baby doesn't like them. They

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Speaker 2: They're all passing around the roops like oh god. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: like they need to move. Do you do you think

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Speaker 1: that your thoughts have changed? Do you think there is

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Speaker 1: What's your thoughts now? Yeah? I think the fixes we

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Speaker 1: your family sorry, change a blends. Yeah, it's your family. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think we need some time with the baby alone.

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Speaker 1: Don't even make it about the wife. Don't bring her up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: then they're gonna blame me exactly. Yea, you know they're

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Speaker 1: This tale relevant comments from Gone Baby thoughts. They say,

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Speaker 1: it seems like he's just Yeah, like he's done a

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Speaker 2: Is like, oh, well, I thought you wouldn't find with it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And he doesn't actually ask her and communicate with her,

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Speaker 1: And I think that's the issue. Yeah, especially because she's

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Speaker 1: hmm and like fix the issues that he's causing, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think knowing that this is something that happens often changes. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He just thinks soggy Jack for responded all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's why I flipped out the way I did. He

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Speaker 1: every single time we go to the beach, a park, anything.

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Speaker 1: He's inviting at least his mother, who then invites his

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Speaker 5: Time for okop relam. I evicted my sister and made

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Speaker 3: She clearly was struggling financial and my aunt could no

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Speaker 6: Take a cruise, let lose money comes. You gotta spend

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Speaker 3: side piece a month after everything was finalized. Wow, take

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Speaker 3: your time, sweetheart. Of course, with the rise of social media,

442
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 3: she only includes me and family photos to make herself

443
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Speaker 3: look good, even though she tosses me to the side afterwards. Classic.

444
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Speaker 3: I don't even have a relationship with my siblings because

445
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Speaker 3: they look down on me for classes and petty reasons.

446
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Speaker 3: It's so crappy, so crappy. Now, with that out of

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Speaker 3: the way, let's start the show, all right. So I'm

448
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Speaker 3: imagining this on the farm, so I'm going to do

449
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Speaker 3: a little twinge of an axle. It's about seven thirty

450
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Speaker 3: in the morning. I was feeding the cattle and having

451
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Speaker 3: a jam session when my dad came out of the

452
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Speaker 3: fleet lot to tell me someone was here to sing me. Uh,

453
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Speaker 3: ask him who was why? Didn't need him to answer

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Speaker 3: me once I saw the angry look on his face

455
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Speaker 3: as it throws his cigarette. He had failed the lad

456
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Speaker 3: a hop off tractor and go walk around the farmyard

457
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Speaker 3: until I spat a brand Porsh with my mother sitting

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Speaker 3: in the driver's seat. Describe what she looks like. Imagine

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Speaker 3: someone doing a crappy job doing James Charles and Jeffrey

460
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Speaker 3: Star heaviest makup forrou Teine at the same time a

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Speaker 3: Karen haircut with only the blondest of high lass and

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Speaker 3: a spray. Then that would make Trump look pale if

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Speaker 3: I had afford. I love this. I often wonder if

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Speaker 3: she'll ever do a face reveal, just so the whole

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Speaker 3: world could see that hunk of Swiss cheese and all that.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. I walk up to her car and

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Speaker 3: politely say hey there to her, before she wrinkles her

468
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Speaker 3: nose and looks at me in disgusted entitled Mom, don't

469
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Speaker 3: you have anything better to do besides wear those filthy

470
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Speaker 3: rags and take that wad of chewing tobacco out of

471
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Speaker 3: your mouth? Honestly, I'm embarrassed that you're even my son

472
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Speaker 3: looking like that. Honey, these are work clothes and I

473
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 3: was working and I just put this show in and

474
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 3: ain't even kicked in yet. Besides what you want, I

475
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 3: love this farm boy. She looks me up and down

476
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Speaker 3: with discuss to look again before she takes a deep

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Speaker 3: breath before speaking, titled, Mom, I need to ask a

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Speaker 3: favor of you. In fact, it's rather important. The only

479
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 3: thing going through my head. She's part of a cult.

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Speaker 3: It needs me to be a blood sacrifice at tonight's meeting. Me. Well,

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Speaker 3: what is it?

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Speaker 1: Title?

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Speaker 3: Mom? See your sister it's going to be graduating this year,

484
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Speaker 3: and I think it would be only fair that you

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Speaker 3: give her money your grandfather left you, since you obviously

486
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Speaker 3: don't need it. I know what she's after now, my

487
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 3: Grandbabby had put us out twenty five k smackaroons for

488
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Speaker 3: each grandchild that once they turn eighteen they can use

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Speaker 3: for college, buying, a car, a tractor, whatever you know.

490
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Speaker 3: On the catch was you needed to either graduate high

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Speaker 3: school or obtain a ged date. Just graduate high school.

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Speaker 3: Now why would you be asking for this money, you

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Speaker 3: may ask, Well, I'll tell you. She I'd asked my

494
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 3: grandpa after the divorce that not only should her kids

495
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Speaker 3: my brother and sister still get the money, but he

496
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Speaker 3: needed to beef it up by a few grand add

497
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Speaker 3: some nickelbacks to that. My grandpa had a spite, took

498
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Speaker 3: the money originally meant for them and put it all

499
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 3: in mine and told her only his actual grand kids

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Speaker 3: get the money, which honestly is like a good move

501
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 3: because she cheated on them with another Oh yes, yeah,

502
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 3: she cheated on the blood with another man with the

503
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Speaker 3: high life. So you know, maybe that high life will

504
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,679
Speaker 3: treat you to some money you're not the father. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: A few years later, when he passed away, my dad

506
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Speaker 3: had added some of his inheritance into it. So when

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Speaker 3: I graduated, I ended up with nine to three thousand dollars. Wow,

508
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Speaker 3: I spent twenty seven thousand of it on a tractor

509
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 3: and put the rest in savings. Yeah, I add it

510
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 3: onto every paycheck. Well, you know if the tractor is

511
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Speaker 3: like an investment, you know. Yeah, he's working the face,

512
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Speaker 3: working the fields his money. Tractor equals money. Yeah, that

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Speaker 3: green factor equals green backs. Baby me, why would I

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Speaker 3: give her any of my money? She doesn't even speak

515
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Speaker 3: to me anymore? And tied them on because it would

516
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 3: be only fair since your grandpa denied her that money,

517
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Speaker 3: and that's money that she deserves because she'll be attending

518
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Speaker 3: college unlike you. Plus as her big brother, you need

519
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 3: to be responsible, mate. That money was laved to me

520
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 3: to use as I wish, and I shall wish it

521
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 3: be used by mate. Besides, if she wants to or

522
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 3: needs to ask herself, she can do so instead of

523
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 3: this little train muffin that you're coming up to me

524
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 3: with title mom, call me everything under the sun. And

525
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Speaker 3: then she goes quiet as I hear my dad yell

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Speaker 3: out from somewhere. Shut the earth up. You be taking

527
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Speaker 3: this moment. I look at her and say, you never

528
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 3: said thank you and title mom? If you and you

529
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 3: will give your sister that she deserves me when you

530
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 3: do a face reveal, I will. She told me to

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Speaker 3: f my sale and sped off and that was the

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Speaker 3: end of it. That's all for this episode, folks. Until

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Speaker 3: next time, reminder, big up of popcorn containers and lead

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Speaker 3: the theater in an orderly fashion. Was that in the story? Yeah, oh,

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Speaker 3: Op is a great writer. Number one. Yes, Op, he's

536
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 3: a great writer.

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Speaker 4: The southern accent made that story fourteen times better than

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Speaker 4: it would have been otherwise. Thank you, thank you, Oh

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Speaker 4: my god, I like that was a Ford f one

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Speaker 4: commercial turned into a life saga, turned into a soap soap.

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Speaker 3: Soap turn into soap. That was a wild ride, Op.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate you sharing with us, dude, you know what

543
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Speaker 3: you shall always share. One your tractor and two this

544
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Speaker 3: podcast and three don two watch. Make sure you follow us,

545
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Speaker 3: subscribe on YouTube, follows on Spotify, do it all.

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Speaker 4: It's more fun than two o possums and a whiskey barrel.

547
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Speaker 4: And said better, say of John, And with that, we'll

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Speaker 4: see you next day.

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Speaker 1: You do