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Speaker 1: My boyfriend demanded I give him fifteen hundred dollars for

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Speaker 1: a Halloween costume. Ooh, it's laughable. So me Female twenty

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Speaker 1: two and my boyfriend Mail twenty six have been together

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Speaker 1: for around four years. I recently was asked by him

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Speaker 1: so that he could buy a Halloween costume costume for

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Speaker 1: cost idea, you could make it yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Alexis Drake thirteen fifty four.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling a bit unsure of how upset I should

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Speaker 1: To explain his current situation, he currently has around five

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars worth of debt and does not have a

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Speaker 2: Currently sounds like a winner.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy to spend that much money on a Halloween

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Speaker 1: costume and being that much debt ridiculous. When he originally asked,

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Speaker 1: I got quite upset. For the last year, his financial

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Speaker 1: situation has continued to get worse, as I currently pay

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Speaker 1: for his groceries and essentials, and without aid doesn't have

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Speaker 1: basic essentials like toilet paper or soap let alone food

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Speaker 1: and could only meet payments of his rent at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Can't buy soaper food.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man is a stinky just moneyless man. But he

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Speaker 1: has a sick costume homeless homeless.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that that could be his costume homeless

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Speaker 3: because he's the stinky there's no money.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's a really easy it's a really easy

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Speaker 1: causis That's what I'm saying, easy coustume. Or it could

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Speaker 1: be like a nineteen twenties hobo, you know, That's what

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, when they had a little sack and they

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Speaker 1: have like like a worn down suit and they're going

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Speaker 1: from a little uh, from like train to train. When

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Speaker 1: he asked for the loan, it was about fifteen hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars and he wanted to have me open alone since

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Speaker 1: no financial lenders would give him any more money because

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Speaker 1: why would they, dude that he currently has on loan.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I felt like it was my

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Speaker 1: breaking point, but I just cried. I told him he

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Speaker 1: was childish for asking me for money to buy something

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Speaker 1: so stupid. But what if he was going to be like,

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Speaker 1: have an awesome costume?

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Speaker 4: Was it?

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Speaker 3: He was like, hey, I have to uh, I'm I'm

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Speaker 3: going to a Hollywood costume designers party and I need to.

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Speaker 2: I need to.

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Speaker 3: This is me dressing to impress it. This is how

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Speaker 3: I get the job and change our lives.

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Speaker 1: That's how I get my big break.

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Speaker 2: How I get my big break?

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Speaker 1: To spend money to make money Sack exactly. You just

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Speaker 1: don't understand the opportunity. This is an investment. Come on

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Speaker 1: for money to buy something so stupid and haven't spoken

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Speaker 1: to him for the last couple of days. He asked

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Speaker 1: buy his groceries and is in so much debt from

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Speaker 1: buying video games and action figures. The essentials I mean

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Speaker 1: action figures are going up in value. Did you know

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Speaker 1: the best investment you could have made over the last

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Speaker 1: twenty years is buy saying Legos. Legos went up fourteen

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Speaker 1: times the discontinued Legos sets. If you bought every discontinued

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Speaker 2: No free sponsors.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm struggling to figure out what even to do

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Speaker 1: or say to him. The reason he wants to loan

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Speaker 1: so much from me is for more of the same

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Speaker 1: non essential things that got him into debt in the

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Speaker 1: first place. A custom made Halloween costume seems like an

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Speaker 1: outrageous thing to want to purchase in this current situation, I.

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Speaker 2: Would want that exactly.

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Speaker 1: It is ridiculous to spend money on a cost none

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Speaker 1: of us, none of us. Honestly, Halloween is a dumb

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Speaker 1: It's dumb.

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Speaker 2: It's stupid.

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Speaker 1: It's stupid.

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Speaker 3: Who would get excited about like just going all out

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Speaker 3: and dressing upratic?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who the heck would even dress up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's honestly childish, and I won't stand for it.

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Speaker 1: Same Yeah, d we're freaking adults. We will not hit

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Speaker 2: Nope, well hit a bikuiti bottom bough.

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't seem as a big deal since, in

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Speaker 1: his words, it's not a lot of money for you,

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Speaker 1: And I think I just need advice on what approach

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Speaker 1: I have tried to explain the strain his dependence on

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Speaker 1: when we don't live together, and despite me trying to

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Speaker 1: suggest loan consolidation or a selected person to manage his

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Speaker 1: like my approach isn't working. I would appreciate advice on

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Speaker 1: what next steps we can take or what approach I

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Speaker 1: might be able to use, and said in regards to

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Speaker 1: talking to him and trying to resolve this issue in

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Speaker 1: our relationship currently. So we got the TLDR for everyone

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Speaker 1: who's new TLDR. Boyfriend is in five thousand dollars worth

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Speaker 1: of debt and wants a personal loan in my name

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Speaker 1: of fifteen hundred dollars to buy a custom made Halloween costume.

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Speaker 1: What would you suggest doing in this situation?

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Speaker 2: An idea? Tell me we need to take all the

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Speaker 2: debt sowhere.

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Speaker 1: I think you can. I think you can very easily

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Speaker 1: do that, right, yeah, right, I mean it's all you

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Speaker 1: gotta do is some identity theft and then you can

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Speaker 1: transfer some debt.

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Speaker 2: Dude, I never even thought that's so clever.

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Speaker 1: It's so clever. No one ever thinks.

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Speaker 2: About like a criminal war often.

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Speaker 1: I know it makes life so much easier, truly, But

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Speaker 1: I mean in terms of like advice, But I don't

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Speaker 1: know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I think I think it's like clear that he doesn't

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Speaker 3: like respect you and just like uses you as an ATM.

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe she yeah, right, you know, like money's important.

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Speaker 5: Money is very important. I never waste a dime on anything.

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Speaker 3: So so maybe she sits him down. Like the first

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Speaker 3: step is just gonna be like, hey, you like kind

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Speaker 3: of always use me for money?

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Speaker 2: What's up with that?

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Speaker 3: And then like see his response, But I don't know,

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Speaker 3: it just feels like breakup, right.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's yeah, it really does sound like he's

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Speaker 1: just she's just being used as like a cash straight up.

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Speaker 1: It's lame. It's lame. I would cut him off. I'll

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Speaker 1: cut him off, cut him off. You break up with him, though,

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Speaker 1: do you break up conversation and if he keeps using you,

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Speaker 1: then cut off?

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Speaker 2: Agreed?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, though, dude, I don't know if I can see

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Speaker 1: your way.

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Speaker 5: Out, but I would break up if you spend that

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Speaker 5: much money on a costume corn.

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Speaker 1: It's ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: Let me invested into a business.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but are you guys ready for these relevant comments?

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Speaker 1: I'm ready, so releds cultural three eight says, tell him

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Speaker 1: it's not a lot of money for you, because you

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Speaker 1: would never in a million years even contemplate something as

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Speaker 1: Foolhardy is taking out a four figure loan for a

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Speaker 1: holiday that's a months away, and b can be celebrated

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Speaker 1: just as if not more effectively, with an old bed

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Speaker 1: sheet and a pair of scissors. Or no, just no works,

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Speaker 1: or simply laugh as you walk away, hopefully for good,

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Speaker 1: because I don't know why you're trying to convince yourself

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Speaker 1: this is reasonable unless you want to spend the rest

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Speaker 1: of your life in debt catering to an overgrown five

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Speaker 1: year old. Every whim and op has a response to this.

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Speaker 1: Oh you ready, I'm ready. I think I'm struggling and

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Speaker 1: rationalizing it because my boyfriend has already invested about seven

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Speaker 1: one hundred dollars into the costume.

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Speaker 2: Some cost fallacy. You know, we might as well keep going.

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Speaker 1: I mean, imagine having half of a great costume. That

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Speaker 1: would be crazy, Like imagine only having your square pants.

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Speaker 1: That would just make you look terrified. Just kidding. And

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Speaker 1: you did a great job, guys, chat so good, Angie,

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Speaker 1: so hard, shout out Angie.

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Speaker 5: She took so much time doing this and did a

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Speaker 5: great job.

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Speaker 2: She did, she did this isn't even it?

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Speaker 5: There was more?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, wait, I cannot wait stick around, So sona dollars

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Speaker 6: has been stressing and nontop talking to me and showing

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Speaker 6: me pictures of the costume he wants and cried to

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Speaker 6: me over the phone about how he always wanted to dress.

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Speaker 1: Up in this costume since he was a child. Well,

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Speaker 1: luckily you're still our child. Yeah, so I guess make

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Speaker 1: it come true. I don't know, maybe grow up, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I also want to know what the costume is.

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Speaker 2: Me too.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna say, like Batman, dude.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking, Like the Iron Man. Come on,

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Speaker 2: they have the Super Specialty, but we didn't know. We

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Speaker 2: did an episode on that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they have

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Speaker 2: a super there's this brand.

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Speaker 3: It's like super super Specialty and they'll, like you know,

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Speaker 3: they'll go all out and on thousands of dollars.

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Speaker 1: We saw that one that one guy that we're a

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Speaker 1: degree away from, like went full Avatar, yes, which is

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Speaker 1: crazy indeed, but dressed up in the costumes, you child.

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Speaker 1: He has never mentioned this character or costume to me

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Speaker 1: since we have been together. He stressed how life changing

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Speaker 1: starve for weeks if it means I have this costume.

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Speaker 3: Happily starve for weeks. Start yeah, yeah, yeah, go ahead,

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Speaker 3: prove it, go ahead, prove it. Save up some money

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Speaker 3: right now. You won't, you won't, you won't. You know

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Speaker 3: who does?

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Speaker 1: Who me?

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Speaker 7: Money boy, which I which I really don't want him

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Speaker 7: to have to do.

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Speaker 1: Reality junkie XO says he hasn't invested seven hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: He has spent seven hundred dollars. He does not have

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Speaker 1: there we go. This is hugely disturbed behavior. If he

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Speaker 1: starts for weeks because of this costume, he wins a

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Speaker 1: Darwin Award. Why are you still dating this idiot? He

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Speaker 1: must be super hot, m because why would you be

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Speaker 1: with this guy? Or maybe he's just young at heart,

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Speaker 1: has a childlike spirit.

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Speaker 5: Or maybe he's like Larry the Lobster.

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, jacked freaking Jack, Larry is huge.

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Speaker 3: Maybe sometimes you know, honestly, what happens is people get

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Speaker 3: them in their claws, you know what I mean. They're

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Speaker 3: just like they're just like clenched in there and it's

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Speaker 3: hard to escape. You're in the reality distortion field. We've

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Speaker 3: seen it one hundred times in your clause.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like when you are like, like, I

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Speaker 1: think some people are so porous, they just like take

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Speaker 1: of like the responsibility's and you can't be you can't

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Speaker 1: be absorbing people's responsibility. It's just can only absorb so much,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you can't be an idiot and didn't do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it can't be a sponge yeah all the time.

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Speaker 1: So if he starts for weeks because of this, he

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Speaker 1: went to dour word, why are you still dating this idiot? Op?

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Speaker 1: He clarifies what the costume is.

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Speaker 2: Let's go, don't come on, come on, come.

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Speaker 1: On, it's a Spider Man costume with like ridged webbing.

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Speaker 1: It's screen accurate to the amazing Spider Man costume from the.

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Speaker 5: No, you should be spending money on anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know he is. He's he's a broken man.

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Speaker 1: Who got this update?

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Speaker 1: Be ready for it?

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Speaker 1: We ready? So I'm sure most of you thought this

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Speaker 2: That's stop?

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Speaker 1: Do you know have your own ability to make decisions

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Speaker 2: I know what help you?

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Speaker 2: You'd love that. That isn't it?

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Speaker 1: And that's where the story.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, imagine they had kids and he's like, you

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Speaker 5: know what, I actually want to work on this goblin

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Speaker 1: Well what if the kids got to wear them, you know.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but they couldn't eat for like two weeks.

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Speaker 1: Well no, that's it's worth it. It's worth it to have

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Speaker 2: I didn't get my my sexy heels.

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Speaker 5: Oh they're downstairs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we can get one. Could you get some scissors

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Speaker 2: to cut the stings? Jokingly?

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Speaker 5: Allright, we got we.

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Speaker 2: Got some donuts.

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Speaker 5: Yo, flip flip switch No no, no no no no,

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Speaker 3: It's all good. That's think those off. Two of it

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Speaker 2: Run back on downs, Welcome to the nights.

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Speaker 3: Let's go, Lindsey, thanks for the five New Zealand Buckerooney's

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Speaker 3: in the words of Josephine like the stream or your

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Speaker 3: thanks for the five bucks.

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Speaker 2: Made it.

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Speaker 3: Love you guys listening while taking some trick or treating

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Speaker 3: people are literally taking us while they're wait, wait, Lindsey,

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Speaker 3: can you show us to people?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Can you go? Donor do be?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 2: Hey you heard of the okay storytime? Show?

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Speaker 1: Uh the good news?

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Speaker 5: Eve this is my treat to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Carlo Wentz, thanks for gifting five memberships.

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Speaker 2: Let's go missus. Rainbow, thanks for the two bucks.

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Speaker 3: I paid three seventy five for two hours for a

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Speaker 3: Spider Man impersonator. I'm about to start in personating Spider Man. Lindsey,

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Speaker 3: thanks for the gifted membership. Carla Wood, thanks for the

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Speaker 2: This is this? Is this a Christy krab No, this

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Speaker 5: I would love it if you cost play Spider Man,

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Speaker 5: you know, put your webs over me, put me upside down?

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Speaker 2: WHOA?

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Speaker 1: Hold up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are we are we cutting? Are we cutting? John? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Are you are you wearing that tonight? This?

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Speaker 2: No, I have another costume tonight.

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Speaker 1: Can you please wear that's?

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Speaker 2: It would be great. They're the only problem is they're

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Speaker 1: You have Payne is ugly and is leaving the body

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Speaker 1: as you said earlier to that.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's good. It's good for now.

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Speaker 1: We're not going to be our actual Halloween party.

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: We have other costumes?

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Speaker 1: Are you mean are you gonna wear this?

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna wear this and and he's gonna be padme.

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Speaker 2: It makes perfect sense. What's the right one? Uh?

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Speaker 5: You're on a nine to twenty seven s two?

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Speaker 2: Is it in the apples going notion?

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Speaker 1: Also, if this is if this is your first stream,

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Speaker 1: you must be very.

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Speaker 5: Confused, right, they're like every stream?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ten sixty.

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Speaker 5: Seven, Uh no, nine twenty seven, nine twenty seven. Sorry,

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Speaker 5: I have number dyslexia.

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Speaker 1: But the count like money noses, Laura, Laura, these noses

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, this is yeah. I love the noses.

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Speaker 5: Your day must be way worse than well, because like

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Speaker 1: I feel we do look scary. I'm sorry if I

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Speaker 1: I think they like it. Laura Atton McLean says, Okay,

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Speaker 1: tell me what all of you guys are because I

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Speaker 1: just jumped in. I am SpongeBob square pants.

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Speaker 2: Patrick, I'm mister grabs.

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Speaker 3: That's that right, you crushed it, scare The SquarePants are

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Speaker 3: so good, hell so square.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad.

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Speaker 3: Also, when are we bringing the others? Specifically, key on,

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Speaker 3: Is so funny, so funny. Jes thinks SAMs is funny. Dude,

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Speaker 3: wait till you see it?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, all right, are you ready for this next story?

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Speaker 5: I forgot to do something.

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Speaker 3: Oh, here we go, We're geting there, we got you.

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Speaker 3: I'm missing Riley's nose. You know it's it's it's.

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Speaker 1: Hard to keep on, says Riley has crabs today. Well

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Speaker 1: you can think ay for that.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: Considering crystal Crystal. Baccio says, considering I thought sale was cheese. Almfao.

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Speaker 3: I will see your nose in my dreams.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Christ head game crazy for theob nose?

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Speaker 2: What do you know about that nose? Game?

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Speaker 1: Though, to be harder, Pinocchio taking riding face to a

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Speaker 8: Oh my god, dude.

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Speaker 3: Clap them sponge cakes, dude, this is so great. All right,

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Speaker 3: were ready, let's do it. My job is forcing me

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Speaker 1: No, that's that's what you say.

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Speaker 3: No, work all the time doing what you love, slipping patties.

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Speaker 3: I've been at my job for six months and everything

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Speaker 3: is going really well. I like the company, the work,

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Speaker 3: the boss. Everything is good. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 3: that I am a Halloween nut.

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Speaker 1: What is that what?

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Speaker 2: I'm a Halloween nut.

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Speaker 1: Halloween nut.

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Speaker 2: I'm a nut for Halloween.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: I love Halloween? Okay, you're like, I'm a fitness nut

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Speaker 2: you know. I just love fitness, you know.

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Speaker 5: Or I'm a nut nut.

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Speaker 2: I love nuts. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: This is the equivalent of asking Buddy the Elf to

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Speaker 1: Oh all right. I thought he was like dressing up

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Speaker 2: No, And I was like, what is that? Oh he

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Speaker 3: I love Halloween so much that I asked during interviews

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Speaker 3: if October is a busy month, I often take off

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Speaker 2: My wedding anniversary is that week. We had a Halloween wedding.

450
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Speaker 3: I carved pumpkins, drink pumpkin beer, watch horror movies, my favorite,

451
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Speaker 3: and set up my house for the ultimate scare for

452
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Speaker 3: the neighborhood children. I have a gigantic Halloween tattoo on

453
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Speaker 3: one arm. I volunteered at several haunted houses at hay rides.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to paint a picture here.

455
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Speaker 3: It may be unusual that a woman in her forties

456
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Speaker 3: is this crazy over what some call a kid's holiday,

457
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 3: to which I completely disagree, Opie says. But my point

458
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Speaker 3: is that it is important to me and has been

459
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Speaker 3: for a long time. I had previously put in two

460
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Speaker 3: paid time off days before the dates for the project

461
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Speaker 3: were decided. My team made the assumption that I am

462
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Speaker 3: leaving town since I didn't rescind. Someone else has a

463
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Speaker 3: PTO and rescinded their days, stating they were going to

464
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Speaker 3: be home. I'm not going anyways, but I also didn't

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Speaker 3: correct anyone's thinking out.

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Speaker 2: Of concern that they would ask me to do the same.

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Speaker 3: So it seems like, you know, Opie's trying to slide

468
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Speaker 3: under the radar, and but there's an ICU coming.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not gonna get hollowe en off. Oh, I

470
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Speaker 1: see Kevin.

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Speaker 3: The team agreed they can manage without me, and I

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Speaker 3: volunteer to do the heavy lifting that leads up to

473
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Speaker 3: the end of the month. I feel that I'm pulling

474
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Speaker 3: my weight and have put in lots of hours and

475
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Speaker 3: effort into the project. I've offered to be available the

476
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Speaker 3: Thursday and Friday that I'm off. Via phone, I said

477
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Speaker 3: I was not available on Saturday the thirtieth, or God forbid, Sunday.

478
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Speaker 2: The thirty first. Couldn't do it, can't do it.

479
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Speaker 3: They're already talking about next year and assuming I'll be

480
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Speaker 3: here for the project. The problem is that I am

481
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Speaker 3: not now, nor will I ever be available on Halloween.

482
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Speaker 3: I understand I can't voice it that way to my manager,

483
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Speaker 3: but I need to find a way and a time.

484
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Speaker 2: To break this news for her.

485
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Speaker 3: All work, Christmas, Thanksgiving, my birthday, my husband's birthday, whatever.

486
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 3: I will abandon everything in anyone I've ever loved to

487
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Speaker 3: take off Halloween.

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Speaker 1: I think Opie mite like Halloween.

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Speaker 2: No, I think I'm getting the I'm just gonna.

490
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Speaker 3: The My boss and I have a great relationship. We

491
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 3: work very well together and my review is coming up.

492
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 3: She knows I like Halloween, but I don't know if

493
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Speaker 3: she understands how much. I don't know if anyone any

494
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Speaker 3: of us understands.

495
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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm only starting to understand your obsession. Right.

496
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Speaker 3: Some may think this is a silly hill to die on,

497
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Speaker 3: and that's okay. If this becomes non negotiable, it is

498
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Speaker 3: something I would consider leaving a job over.

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Speaker 1: Opie's whole life is revolving around Halloween. This is like

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Speaker 1: a religion, Like I mean, it's the most hollowed of

501
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Speaker 1: evenings of weens, all of the weans alls the most hollowed. Well,

502
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Speaker 1: ween is weak in German.

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Speaker 3: Really, no, dude, correct. We all have things that are

504
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Speaker 3: important to us. And this is one of my few

505
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Speaker 3: deal breakers. When I asked during the interview about October, sorry, you.

506
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Speaker 5: Walked right into that one.

507
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Speaker 1: Dude.

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Speaker 2: It sounded real.

509
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Speaker 3: Dude, that sound that was come on such an American.

510
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 3: Don't tell me that that wasn't like convincing. It wasn't, dude,

511
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 3: it was ween is is weak in October, in October

512
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Speaker 3: in German.

513
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Speaker 2: Anyways, I want to get back to the story, save myself.

514
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Speaker 3: When I asked during the interview about October, I was

515
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 3: told that it is not busy, and that was true

516
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Speaker 3: at the time. If I knew this project was going

517
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Speaker 3: to be a yearly, time consuming October effort, I wouldn't

518
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Speaker 3: have taken the job. When would be a good time

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00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 3: to bring this up? Obviously before October of next year. Okay,

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00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 3: So Opie's like, it seems like Opie is planning out

521
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Speaker 3: like a year in advance, because it seems like this

522
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 3: Halloween is good to go, but then.

523
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Speaker 1: The the next Halloween might be not like free.

524
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because she said, because Opie said obviously before October

525
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Speaker 3: of next year to bring this up.

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Speaker 1: Opie's play any that far in advance. Of course, of course,

527
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Speaker 1: you can take one day off if you plan it

528
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:13,719
Speaker 1: a year out for sure. Okay, Well let's see. Let's see.

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Speaker 3: I was leaning towards waiting until after I've been here

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Speaker 3: at least a year, or at least my review. I've

531
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Speaker 3: held back on saying something because I understand that it

532
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 3: sounds a little silly. Maybe there is someone out there

533
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 3: who loves Arbor Day and wants that off every year.

534
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I'm still struggling to articulate. I'm

535
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 3: still struggling to articulate this and appreciate any input. There

536
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 3: is an update which is a year later on until

537
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 3: we're gonna sixth.

538
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Speaker 1: So we're gonna know if Opie gets it off.

539
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: We're gonna know if Opie gets it off or not. Okay,

540
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 2: what do we do here?

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Speaker 3: Do you sit down with your boss and just be like, hey, uh,

542
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 3: next year, there can be I need I need this time,

543
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 3: I need these weeks.

544
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Speaker 1: I think you just get a job at a haunted house,

545
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: like all year round, you get a job just scaring kids.

546
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 3: Well actually, so see it's the opposite, because if you

547
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 3: get a job at a hunted house, you're only working Halloween.

548
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: Halloween.

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Speaker 3: What is something that is the antithesis of that where

550
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Speaker 3: you are guaranteed to.

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Speaker 2: Not work on or maybe what those.

552
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 5: M maybe like a camp counselor because you can't people

553
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 5: let you be a camp counselor during the summer. Why

554
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 5: can't you do it during Halloween?

555
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Speaker 1: Maybe? Like I mean, kids are usually with their parents

556
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,439
Speaker 1: and a Halloween. So maybe like a babysitter, No, because

557
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 1: because people have young children. Maybe like a kindergarten teacher.

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Speaker 5: Or you're a part of a church and you guys

559
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 5: do try to treat and you guys are crazy about.

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Speaker 2: Or no, you be a part of a church that

561
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 2: hates Halloween.

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00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: Well then they're protesting Halloween. They're doing exorcisms, or or.

563
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 2: Here we go church thing. It's a It's also Martin

564
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Speaker 2: Luther Day.

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00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 5: So you take your Lutheran and you take off today

566
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Speaker 5: so you can celebrate Martin Luther Day.

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00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 2: Oh is that like October thirtieth or Martin Luther King Day.

568
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, Martin Luther was a guy that stepped away from

569
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Speaker 5: the Catholic Church and made the Luther Church the thirty

570
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Speaker 5: one thesis.

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Speaker 2: Dude, I think you got it. That's his job.

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00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 8: Here we go.

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00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 2: I got good cooking, all right.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into this update one year later October twenty sixth,

575
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 3: by the way, so we're cutting it close here. I'm

576
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 3: happy to report that I still love this job, and

577
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 3: I have a Halloween this year.

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00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 2: Let's go.

579
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 5: We got it, we got it.

580
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, the same project is happening again and it was

581
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 3: agreed that I would do a lot of front end work.

582
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Speaker 3: My boss waited until today to give me the green light,

583
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 3: but she said it was fine cutting it close. Yeah, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 3: you gotta tell me like a year in advance, not

585
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Speaker 3: four days in advance.

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00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: I gave her the option to call me if things

587
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 2: go haywire.

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00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 3: My job is mainly remote, but after I rode in,

589
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 3: the team started going into the office.

590
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 2: One day a week.

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00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 3: They saw my Halloween tattoo, my pumpkin purse, my skull

592
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 3: laptok bag, my orange, purple and green accessories. It became

593
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: a running joke, one that I don't mind about my

594
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 3: passion for this time of year.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so she's wearing it like all all year round? Wow,

596
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: all year round dedication? Yeah, dude, dedication.

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00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 3: Of literally Buddy the Elf for Halloween. Yeah, it's the

598
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 3: perfect it's the perfect analogy. Of course, I would rather

599
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: have the week off, but I will take to day.

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00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 3: Your words that stuck with me were we all get

601
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Speaker 3: to have things that are important to us that don't

602
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:33,239
Speaker 3: line up with mainstream observations.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for that.

604
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 3: I enjoyed reading all the comments last year regarding what

605
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 3: days people.

606
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 2: Took off for their own interests.

607
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Speaker 3: My plans are to sit on my couch for a

608
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 3: horror movie marathon, elbow deep in a pumpkin and a

609
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 3: bag of dark chocolate. There will be a cup of

610
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 3: pumpkin spice coffee nearby, a black cat on my lap,

611
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 3: and a fall scented candle lit.

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00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 2: Such a vibe, such a curated vibe. I love that

613
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: big vibes.

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Speaker 3: Once the sun goes down, I will rise in my

615
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 3: vam bier costume to scare the neighbor children.

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Speaker 2: Happy hunting.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad you got it off of being glad

618
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: it worked out, that was beautiful. Me too, Me too.

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Speaker 1: Not everyone could have off Halloween. Halloween off next year,

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Speaker 1: So get out of here, Get out of here.

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Speaker 2: You can to dress up in a costume every year.

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00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 5: True, that is true.

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Speaker 2: Actually you are celebrating Halloween right now. That work? Actually

624
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: you have time off? Right now?

625
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 5: Is your time off?

626
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:44,239
Speaker 4: What I do? Right?

627
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 5: I got it? Cute, You're just like cute.

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00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: Oh, here we go, give me vix mix. Thanks for

629
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: the twenty five bucks and I'll read that again in

630
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: a little bit, Lindsey, thanks for the New Zealand dollar Roonies.

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Speaker 1: You can get off by joining us every day at

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00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: three pm PST. That's right, Lindsay, true, join us live

633
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Speaker 1: every weekday three pm PST.

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Speaker 2: Never missed because you could see this. You could see this.

635
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Speaker 3: Imagine imagine you're watching us after the fact and you're like,

636
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Speaker 3: I missed that Tample.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, honestly insane.

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Speaker 1: That would I cry?

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00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: Insane?

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Speaker 1: Eleen Gone Gone, Colves Calvis, welcome to the nights. Glad

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Speaker 1: that you're joining. Lanka le Chat. The fifty dollars donation

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Speaker 1: or fifty quid actually my favorite family next to my

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Speaker 1: own one Happy Halloween. We we're your favorite family over

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Speaker 1: your own family. Her last name is La chat Chat.

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Speaker 1: It's the chat, It's the chat. Nikki Farrell, thanks to

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Speaker 1: the five win. Can you wish my daughter Kilara a

647
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Speaker 1: happy ninth birthday?

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Speaker 5: Please?

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Speaker 1: Kilara happy ninth birthday. I hope I'm saying that right.

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Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Coloro.

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Speaker 1: Lindsay, thanks for the two New Zealand dollars. Sam, what

652
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Speaker 1: that nose? Do you know what it does? By player

653
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Speaker 1: member for five months? I need John to respond to this.

654
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Speaker 1: I think we already had that one. Yep, this is

655
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Speaker 1: Portrick and we got some donus on the donation link. Well,

656
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Speaker 1: YouTube does not take thirty percent, so shout out that

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Speaker 1: vix makesans for the twenty five bucks. I bought my

658
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Speaker 1: Michael Myers Master school today and the kids loved it.

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Speaker 1: My daughter got me loved it. My daughter got me

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Speaker 1: on Discord today so I can post the picture there.

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Speaker 1: If you want Halloween love you guys, please post the picture,

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Speaker 1: post the cord.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone post a Halloween pictures general chatting Discord.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we would love to see it. Imagine people

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Speaker 1: are already doing I checked it.

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Speaker 2: I haven't had a chance yet.

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Speaker 1: Mackenzie, thanks for the five bucks. Absolutely love listen to

668
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Speaker 1: you guys. I've been watching all of your videos lately.

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Speaker 1: First time donating. Happy Halloween, Mackenzie. Thanks for being a

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Speaker 1: member of.

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Speaker 2: The lit chats chat.

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Speaker 1: Did we read the one from thirteen minutes ago?

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Speaker 2: Riley?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Sarah you want to read that one?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Sarah heiman Is thanks for the five bucks, loving the

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Speaker 3: costumes and John's Patrick voice. Thank you payday today a yo, gwapo,

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Speaker 3: Let's go Sarah.

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Speaker 2: And anyone else see Bohn.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh we see. Thanks for the five bucks.

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Speaker 3: Listening to you guys while I'm playing the new Dragon

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Speaker 3: Age game. Best Halloween ever. Let's freaking go and a

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00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 3: say sheha, thanks for a ten bucks. I'm a LARPer

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Speaker 3: and have been for over twenty years. We rewar our

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00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 3: costumes all the time. I don't know anyone who has

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Speaker 3: ever spent that on a costume. Those I have heard

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Speaker 3: spending seven hundred dollars Usually we're buying custom leather apparel.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, that's a really good that's a really good point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like people that lar Yeah, people that are

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00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 3: like basically professional like costume wearers have not paid more

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Speaker 3: than seven hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: How much did you.

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Speaker 5: Spend on yours to go to the renis once fair? Well,

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Speaker 5: I mean okay, well did you spend the materials? Okay,

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Speaker 5: maybe forty dollars right here?

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Speaker 2: Boom, forty buck a Renos guys, we got a big

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Speaker 2: one right here, speak heada.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the fifty bucks, putting us to another thirty minutes.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the Halloween vibe. Since we don't get many

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00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: trigger treaters here, I wonder if we'll get trigger treaters.

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Speaker 3: That's what I was wondering. Are children gonna come to

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Speaker 3: our door ready for it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I see children around here around these parts. Yeah,

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00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,479
Speaker 1: once in a while, there's like a school there is

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00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 1: there is a school. Yeah, there is a school. But yeah,

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00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: wonder if they don't I don't see them walk by

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00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: our house. The usually told to avoid.

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Speaker 2: House full of YouTubers on the block. We'll get you

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Speaker 2: for contents were but you know what, well, I got

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Speaker 2: another story for you.

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Speaker 1: But also should we have Sophia or Kean come in

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Speaker 1: need get in here on maybe read this next story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I think him reading is a great actually,

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: And then I'll then I can eat more food because

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Speaker 1: I got hung off.

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Speaker 2: He's a hungry boy.

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Speaker 3: Uh no, oh, but shout out to Cass.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, donating fifty.

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Speaker 3: Bucks, you guys are my favorite part of the day.

723
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Speaker 3: Longtime lurker, first time donating. Love you guys, and thank

724
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Speaker 3: you for what you do. Wow, Cass, that was thank you.

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Speaker 3: I love when our lurkers like become vocal. Dude, It's

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Speaker 3: it's the most beautiful feeling. It's it's like it's like

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Speaker 3: watching it's like watching someone who is like a shy,

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Speaker 3: shy person in their shell, like break out.

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Speaker 1: Of the cocoon to become a beautiful. Yeah, Cass, shout

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Speaker 1: out to you. We appreciate you and thanks for supporting

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Speaker 1: the show. As you can see, we get into it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, we go hard in the paint the face paint,

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Speaker 2: that is face paint. Yeah, this is fine.

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Speaker 1: I think this is the hardest I've gone for Halloween,

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Speaker 1: and like a while, because I've been ratitudey for the

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Speaker 1: last like five years. This is the first year that

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Speaker 1: I've gotten a new costume. And my ratitude costume is

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Speaker 1: a rat Onesie with a spatula. Oh.

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Speaker 3: I saw a couple that was ratitudey. The girl was

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Speaker 3: the was was Remy, and then the guy was the

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Speaker 3: show that's and I was like it was the there

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Speaker 3: was the Halloween party that run here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there we go, Okay, cool, No, that's fine. Uh one,

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Speaker 1: we think we're then he can take cool fifteen her

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Speaker 1: all right, if you're gonna go, we got another Halloween

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Speaker 1: store for you, and then Keon will reveal his costume.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: I want wait, can we do a poll which spunt

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Speaker 1: or actually, no, don't do a pole because I don't

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Speaker 1: want to give it away. Guess which SpongeBob character Keon

751
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Speaker 1: is in the chat? Yes, because he's coming on and

752
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Speaker 1: then you'll you'll see Sophia Princes way too. All right,

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Speaker 1: you can't find her Discord it's uh, it's discord dot

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Speaker 1: com slash. Or no, it's Discord dot gg slash. Okay, storytime,

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00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: Yes I believe, Yes, yeah, Discord dot gg slash. Okay, storytime.

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Speaker 1: Go check me the one, go check it out. All right.

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Speaker 1: So I kicked my boyfriend's best friend out of my

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Speaker 1: Halloween party because I hated her costume.

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Speaker 2: Deserved what because it's scary lame costume?

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Speaker 1: Does this terrify you?

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Speaker 2: Are you scared?

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Speaker 1: This is a normal costume. I have a friendly SpongeBob.

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Speaker 1: I'm a family friendly, friendly SpongeBob.

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Speaker 5: Oh bad dude, yours is crazy?

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Speaker 1: Your's crazy? Hey, my nose sixty nine? So I kicked

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Speaker 1: I kicked my boyfriend. Anyway, Hi everyone, I'll cut to

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Speaker 1: the chase. I, nineteen female, had a Halloween party over

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Speaker 1: the weekend. I invited my boyfriend, twenty one male, and

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Speaker 1: a bunch of our friends over, including his girl best

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Speaker 1: friend I will call her Agatha. My boyfriend and I

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Speaker 1: decided to dress up as Peter Peter Pumpkin Eater. I

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Speaker 1: was the pumpkin. She was Peter. Yeh, I actually think

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Speaker 1: that's true. You haven't seen the costume. The guy wears

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Speaker 1: a shirt that says Peter Peter, and the girl dresses

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Speaker 1: up as a pumpkin because well, you know, dirty, dirty dirty.

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Speaker 5: I got a great idea for next year.

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Speaker 1: Never mind, I was pretty excited just because I thought

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Speaker 1: it was funny and a cute costume. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this comes from crying Swift crying to Swift on the

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Speaker 1: Best of Writer updates. Come oh, cry to tea Swift

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Speaker 1: on the Best of Writer Updates subreddits, So swift. Agaa

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Speaker 1: texted me the night before the party and asked what

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Speaker 1: my costume was going to be. I explained the couple's

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Speaker 1: costume my boyfriend and I would be wearing, and she

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Speaker 1: replied that would that she would probably just come as

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Speaker 1: a sexy cat. Fast forward to the night of the party.

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Speaker 1: Everyone's having a fun and it's a nice time. Well

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Speaker 1: it was until Agatha walked in dress says up pompkin.

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Speaker 2: Ogonful.

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Speaker 1: When she went over and hugged my boyfriend, I swear

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Speaker 1: the room went silent. Oh, I was pissed. I asked

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Speaker 1: if I could speak with her privately and went into

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Speaker 1: my bedroom. I asked why she chose that costume, since

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Speaker 1: she knew the details of the joint costume between my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend and I. She said she didn't see the big

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Speaker 1: deal and thought it would be a better group costume.

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Speaker 5: Group shut up, because they do group activities together.

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Speaker 1: He can eat us both. The more the merrier. Maybe

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Speaker 1: he's still hungry after his first pumpkin, dude, and wants

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Speaker 1: to eat another one.

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Speaker 5: You're thinking about that? Who had two sandwiches today?

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Speaker 2: Huh huh? He's talking? Why are you not? You should know?

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Speaker 1: That's what he said. I told her I didn't think

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Speaker 1: it was funny and I would prefer that she changed.

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Speaker 1: I offered her a witch costume that she could borrow

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Speaker 1: for the night. She turned red and started to yell

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Speaker 1: that I don't get to control what she wears. I

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Speaker 1: told her that she was disrespecting my relationship by insinuating

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Speaker 1: that my boyfriend and her have spicy sleep.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: We got.

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Speaker 2: We gotta say it now. You made us do it.

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Speaker 1: You made us do it.

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Speaker 2: Come on.

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Speaker 1: She kept screaming about how it was funny and I

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00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: needed to lighten up. I ended up asking her.

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Speaker 2: To leave.

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Speaker 1: Something smells funny right here. She stormed out of the

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Speaker 1: house and I.

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Speaker 2: Returned to the party.

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Speaker 1: The moon had shifted and the night felt ruined. My

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Speaker 1: boyfriend agrees that she crossed the line, but is planning

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Speaker 1: on cutting her off completely. Question, do we think that

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Speaker 1: the boyfriend and Agatha are kind of.

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Speaker 2: Eating each other's bakins? Is a great that's a great

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Speaker 2: experience smashing bumpkins? Do you think?

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Speaker 1: Do you think there's smashing bump tube? Dude, this is

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Speaker 1: a shot to you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he's here.

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Speaker 1: Don't don't reveal it, Okay, it's the story.

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Speaker 2: Like but basically yeah, yeah, I think uh.

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Speaker 3: And Agatha is basically like, hey, you need to tell her,

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Speaker 3: you need to tell you need to tell her. She's like, fine,

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Speaker 3: I'll do it. Yeah, And that's why. Yeah, honestly, I

835
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Speaker 3: could totally see it. I could totally see it.

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Speaker 1: The moon had shifted, the night felt ruined. My boyfriend

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Speaker 1: agrees that she crossed the line and is planning on

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Speaker 1: cutting off completely. But a few of our friends are

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Speaker 1: saying that I was being dramatic and I should have

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Speaker 1: let her stay. I guess I'm wondering, am I the

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Speaker 1: a hole? I do not think You're the a hole

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Speaker 1: that is like a total, a total breach of like trust.

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Speaker 3: I don't know of respect of respect, you know, absolutely,

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Speaker 3: it's just like ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: But but I see us in the chat, if you

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Speaker 1: see what's coming, because I feel like I see.

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Speaker 5: Uh, he's Peter keeping his hands to himself.

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Speaker 1: I know. I think Peter's in every publican he can.

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Speaker 2: His his lips are orange.

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Speaker 1: His lips are orange, and unfortunately his girlfriend does not

851
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 1: have a mark on her. He's uneaten, so comments User says,

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00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: not the ale. She knew you'd be bothered, and she

853
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 1: may have more than friend's feelings for your boyfriend. I'm

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00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,760
Speaker 1: wondering if there was ever a spicy sleep relationship between

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Speaker 1: them at one point. Jealousy is an ugly monster, op.

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00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: He responds, he said that nothing spicy sleepy has ever

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Speaker 1: happened between them. I do trust him because he was

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Speaker 1: honestly shocked she would pull something like that since she

859
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 1: has always treated me with kindness and more from op,

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Speaker 1: I think he was just too stunned to speak when

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Speaker 1: she walked in after I asked her to leave. He

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00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 1: comfored me the rest of the night and took my

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00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 1: side completely it's crazy because she has been texting him

864
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Speaker 1: and he said she hasn't even tried to apologize. Wow,

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00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: he hasn't been responding, which I think is driving her crazy.

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Speaker 1: And we have another update three months later.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: I meant to post one a few months ago, but

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Speaker 1: I really needed time to process the events that occurred

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Speaker 1: after the whole ordeal. I'm glad I waited, though, because

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00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: you all need to hear this one. Many people pointed

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Speaker 1: out that my boyfriend must be sleeping with Agatha, since

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Speaker 1: she went absolutely bonkers for seemingly no reason. I thought,

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Speaker 1: since he immediately took my side and blocked her on everything,

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Speaker 1: that you were wrong. Well, it turns out it was

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Speaker 1: who was wrong.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 1: Turns out that Agatha and my boyfriend have been sleeping

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Speaker 1: together four months, and they were just really good at

880
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 1: hiding it. No, they weren't well until she decided she

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00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 1: wasn't anymore, until she decided that she didn't want to

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00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: be his mistress anymore. I found this out when I

883
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 1: was at his house and hanging down in his room.

884
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 1: He was showering after a workout, and I heard this

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00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: vibrating noise. He had taken his phone and mine was

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00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: right next to me, so I couldn't figure out what

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Speaker 1: it was. I opened his bedside table and found a

888
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: second phone. It's bad, it's always the second device, dude.

889
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: My gut told me something wasn't right. Why would he

890
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: have a second phone. It didn't take me long to

891
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: guess his password one two, three four. Really, I feel

892
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: like that's the most annoying part. He has a whole

893
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: second phone, but doesn't like have any security on it.

894
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: And my fears were confirmed. There was a miscall from Agatha.

895
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: I looked through the messages and found out the truth.

896
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: Not only had they been sleeping together, she recently found

897
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: out she was pregnants. Oh my god, this was the

898
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: reason she pulled the stunted Halloween. She was trying to

899
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: force his hand. I also saw that he was messaging

900
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: other girls as well. I was completely devastated. After his shower,

901
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: he found me grabbing all my belongings and putting them

902
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 1: in my bag. Yes, why I was leaving? And I

903
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: told him because we were finished. Mmm, Peter, you've ate

904
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: your last pumpkin?

905
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 5: That's right.

906
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 1: I threw his phone on the bed and he looked

907
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: like he was going to vomit. He started pleading with

908
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 1: me to hear him out, but I didn't want to

909
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: hear it. He could have all of those other girls.

910
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,479
Speaker 1: I didn't want him anymore. Eat your heart out, Peter,

911
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: like your pumpkins. He followed me out of the house,

912
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: shaking and crying, even followed me all the way back

913
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 1: to my car, trying to block my path. I went

914
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: over to the grass around him, and he didn't look back.

915
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 1: He sent me a long message about how he never

916
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: wanted to hurt me, that he wanted me back, and

917
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: how he's using his work phone to next all of

918
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: these women so I wouldn't find out. So respectful, so thoughtful.

919
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: He was trying to help you, not find out you're welcome.

920
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: He could have just done it out in the open.

921
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 1: But he's a better eye than that. He got a

922
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: second phone. He cares about your feelings, dude, stop it.

923
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,399
Speaker 1: Stat was that was really helpful. I sent his boss

924
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,320
Speaker 1: a nice little message about how company property was being misused,

925
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: and I saw on LinkedIn he no longer works for

926
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:46,720
Speaker 1: that company, and he get wrecked.

927
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 2: Got him.

928
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 1: He is blocked on everything now. I hope him and

929
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: Akatha have a magical life with their baby. Oh and

930
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: I heard through the grapevine that he got one of

931
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: the other women pregnant too. I'm glad I dodged that.

932
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: Bullett ached for me. I'm currently in therapy, working on

933
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: my trust issues and learning how to love myself again.

934
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: After this situation, I've been putting myself out there again

935
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 1: and have cut contact with anyone who knew what was

936
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 1: happening behind my back. Thank you all for your love

937
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: and support. Except for Peter the pumpkin eater.

938
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 5: That was pretty good, dude, Wow.

939
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:21,280
Speaker 2: Wow, Wow.

940
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: I can't trust to Peter.

941
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: You really can't.

942
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: Ye. Also pretty bold of her to announce that she

943
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 1: was sleeping with him by wearing the pumpkin costume.

944
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:34,280
Speaker 3: Dude, I mean she was probably like, I have your baby,

945
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 3: all this stuff and you're still not telling her.

946
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: In the oven. Yeah, and honestly, I am, I am.

947
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: I kind of like I kind of have respect for her, honestly,

948
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 1: Like that's a bowl. Yeah, it's a ballsy mood.

949
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 2: It's bold, I mean, honestly, at that point he needs to.

950
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: Tell her he does, like yeah, yeah, she like it

951
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: needs to be putting out in the It's.

952
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,280
Speaker 3: Basically like tell her or I will, But like, awesome,

953
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 3: even more awesome.

954
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 1: I kind of like your style. Like I thought the

955
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:07,879
Speaker 1: cheating style like that was not good, but the other

956
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: stuff I thought was cool. Who else I think it's cool? Uh,

957
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 1: don't don't show so I will.

958
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 5: I will.

959
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: Keon is about to come and replace me for for

960
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: a moment. Oh yeah, for a moment, for a couple

961
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: of moments, and then we're gonna bring Sophie on. I

962
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: want you to guess what Keon is dressed in. OK,

963
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: you want to come over here, one person.

964
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:31,959
Speaker 5: I'll put it on a John.

965
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, put it on, put it on John, put.

966
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 2: It on me.

967
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 3: So there's no there's nothing no, no, no, no, they

968
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 3: won't see it here.

969
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 2: We're totally safe. Yeah you can.

970
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 3: You can come around, Yes I can. Taylor, Thanks for

971
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 3: the five bucks. This is the first time catching y'all live. Wow,

972
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 3: so many first timers. But really, I'm listening while I'm

973
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 3: getting ready. I'm listening to y'all when i'm taking a bath,

974
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 3: Listen to y'all when i'm driving, best hands down podcast,

975
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:02,280
Speaker 3: Let's Freaking Go, Taylor.

976
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 2: Peyton, thanks he to five bucks.

977
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 3: SpongeBob is my favorite show boys dude, Honestly, Mioy.

978
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 5: Peyton that's who that is.

979
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 2: Oh, oh Payne, No, what's up?

980
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 5: What's up?

981
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 8: What's up?

982
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 4: Uh?

983
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 2: And then Cass shout out to you again with the

984
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 2: fifty dollars donation. Absolute Naddy, do we read? Did we read?

985
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 3: Hannah's uy, shout out to you again to Hannah. Let's

986
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 3: go to the super chats. See who else we got? Oh,

987
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 3: MJ Grow gifting the twenty gifted memberships and I'll see

988
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 3: it later. But MJ Grow asked if I could say, so,

989
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 3: there you go, Jenna l. Rose, thanks for the ten

990
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:44,760
Speaker 3: buck Rooneys, Honey Hill Appary, thanks for the ten gifted memberships.

991
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 3: Let's go go generally, Rosenbe, thanks for being a member

992
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 3: for three months, loving this, appreciate you. MJ grow another

993
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 3: five gifted memberships. MJ grow is going crazy. She's MJ

994
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:02,439
Speaker 3: growing our family with the members and then cowbar thinks

995
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 3: fort of twenty bucks. There's a costume I saw with

996
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 3: the husband as the pinata and the wife would hit

997
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 3: him with a pool noodle. He would throw candy each

998
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 3: time he's hit and the kids loved it. Also, Hi

999
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 3: lurker here, Happy Halloween, Happy Halloween, you too, love and

1000
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 3: then shout him to go for the two bucks again,

1001
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 3: and then Zola Darling, thanks for gifting one membership by

1002
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 3: the Let's go honey be eighty five, Thanks for five pounds. Hi, guys,

1003
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 3: my fiance died laughing at your outfits. You look great,

1004
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,320
Speaker 3: shout your fiance. And then Lucy Ford ninety one celebrating

1005
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,919
Speaker 3: being a member for four months. LFT's in the chat.

1006
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 3: Oh and Spiffy Tiffy, what's up a member for eight months?

1007
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, Siffy Spiffy was in the first crew.

1008
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,879
Speaker 3: That's guys, we're close to hitting the year mark.

1009
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: What is it?

1010
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,920
Speaker 3: Dragon? I think it's a dragon. We hit it a

1011
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 3: dragon stone? Was there something else?

1012
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 5: No, we hit the goal bar.

1013
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 2: Hey, we hit it.

1014
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 8: We hit it.

1015
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 3: And then I go will clean. Oh, so I go

1016
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 3: will Thanks for the ten p l N appreciate that.

1017
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 3: And then Winter Girl Doney says the five gifted memberships.

1018
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 3: Gifted memberships going, but nanners in the chat, ladies and gentlemen,

1019
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 3: and I think we're caught up on donos.

1020
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 2: We're gonna dealt with check real quick. It looks like

1021
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: we are, guys.

1022
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 5: This is legit, Angie's masterpiece.

1023
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: Angie's masterpiece. Guys.

1024
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 4: I hope you like, we want to show you do it? Not?

1025
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, but we're waiting.

1026
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 4: This is this is what this is? I don't know.

1027
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 4: This could be amazing for you, This could be terrifying

1028
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:35,280
Speaker 4: for you. This could be your sleep paralysis demon. Whatever

1029
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 4: you wanted to be. Angie did an amazing job. Cut

1030
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 4: out to oh, yes, do we want to show it?

1031
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 4: I don't know what do you want to do?

1032
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do Ready? Can we say in unison, here

1033
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:51,280
Speaker 2: is key On in the job? Ready?

1034
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 5: Ready?

1035
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1036
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: You count me down one? Wait? Wait, wait, two.

1037
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 4: I just wanted to say I had no choice in this.

1038
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 4: This was not my choice. I had no choice.

1039
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 2: We came up with it. It was it was beautiful,

1040
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 2: We came up with it so perfect.

1041
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, here we go, all right, ready in five and

1042
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 5: then say here is k What do you want to

1043
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 5: hear your countdown to?

1044
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 2: Here's ke On and then we show.

1045
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 5: Five four, three, two one, here's Keio.

1046
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 4: Bro bro bro.

1047
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:34,879
Speaker 2: Yes, it's so it's this I read, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1048
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 2: he's a Yeah. I didn't know.

1049
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 5: I was like, didn't know what to look at him

1050
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 5: for a little bit, right, I kept looking at his

1051
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 5: nose to make eye contact with him.

1052
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 2: So it's so perfect. Great job, Angie, she killed it. Hi, guys,

1053
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:01,879
Speaker 2: how you feeling, dude? Great?

1054
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 4: I'm feeling tightened this yeah, feeling nice and tight.

1055
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1056
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 4: Happy Halloween everyone. Hope everyone's having a great Halloween. And uh,

1057
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 4: I had I had no saying this. I'm with my

1058
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 4: hands right.

1059
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, that means.

1060
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 5: This is Plankton for I think we should do this

1061
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 5: for Plainton because he's smaller.

1062
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 4: That's fine, that's fine.

1063
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 5: Just make sure.

1064
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 2: Just just give him the crotch something. You guys didn't

1065
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 2: give him no crotch. Angle it up. So it's like like,

1066
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,280
Speaker 2: just like, where's my Karen?

1067
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 8: Oh?

1068
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 2: Someone said, chat is Karen?

1069
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: Oh?

1070
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 4: Chats Karen? Oh chat?

1071
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 2: It makes sense, right, up chat? What's up?

1072
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 8: Chat?

1073
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 4: Married chat? Up chat?

1074
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 2: There we go.

1075
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 4: That's good, that's good. All right, now I can move

1076
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 4: my hands.

1077
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 2: There we go. We almost got some goodies, some gooddies.

1078
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:04,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, you got some you guys as Andy? Oh, Hi,

1079
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 4: how are we doing? Are you ready to read a story?

1080
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 4: You're doing better than me? Am I reading? Are you reading?

1081
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 5: Oh?

1082
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 2: It's you, it's you, that's you, buddy. I don't know

1083
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 2: if I can.

1084
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:15,760
Speaker 4: Is it just happened?

1085
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 2: I have to pee? I can I can. I can

1086
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,919
Speaker 2: help you out. Okay, yeah, yep, good, here we go, right, Riley,

1087
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 2: go peek? Does it have auto switch?

1088
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: Oh?

1089
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 2: Is that's all right?

1090
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 4: What?

1091
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 3: Oh?

1092
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can't. What story are we on?

1093
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 4: Riley? Uh?

1094
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 2: Uh s four? Not nine twenty seven four? Thank you?

1095
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 2: You're good?

1096
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:42,319
Speaker 4: Oh right? How are the stories today? Are they spooky? Yeah?

1097
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 2: They're pretty spooky. Hey, could you put on the fog

1098
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,240
Speaker 2: machine for like one squirt?

1099
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: What was that?

1100
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 2: You heard me? I think? Are we sure? No? It's

1101
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 2: doing after this one? You want me to do it?

1102
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 4: You have to cut the John.

1103
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 5: I will yea. As John's reading, you can do it.

1104
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 3: Oh he should, he should read this one. But I'll

1105
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 3: talk to the people for a second. Autie is a

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00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 3: legend ming ming that is literally you're going to talk

1107
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 3: about the influences you got from this.

1108
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, talk about your process talking how did we get here?

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00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 9: No, Well, Clankington is the one I'm definitely most proud of.

1110
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 9: Looking at Plankton, I was so excited to make his

1111
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 9: whole face, the eye that was like just the best part, brilliant.

1112
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 8: I don't know.

1113
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:32,880
Speaker 9: We just got a bunch of stuff on Amazon, and

1114
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 9: then I might have made a bunch of paper, and

1115
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 9: I had a lot of fun. I also love John's

1116
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 9: being the what's it called the Yeah, I love that one,

1117
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 9: the puffy one. I also love Riley's eyes. How do

1118
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 9: I come back to us?

1119
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:54,879
Speaker 1: So great?

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00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 8: It's like toilet paper rolls together.

1121
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 9: Yeah, it was just but you guys haven't even seen

1122
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:06,359
Speaker 9: Sofia too. We haven't even seen Sofia. Hers is great too,

1123
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 9: I got but yeah, it was a lot of fun.

1124
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:09,720
Speaker 9: Watched a lot of SpongeBob while.

1125
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:09,800
Speaker 5: I did it.

1126
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:14,280
Speaker 2: She's the best switching back. Can you see it barely?

1127
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 4: You can barely see it? You see a little bit?

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00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 1: Ye?

1129
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it looks crazy in the sunlight that no one

1130
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,479
Speaker 2: can see. Whoa right, it looks dope.

1131
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 4: It looks like a ghost.

1132
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 2: Let's just pray the fun.

1133
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 5: You can definitely see it, dude.

1134
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 1: Oh you can?

1135
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right, I got your big dog.

1136
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 4: All right, hold on, guys, you got it.

1137
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 2: He's getting so much going on the antenna.

1138
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 4: I only have one eye. Okay, did we figure out

1139
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 4: if it works just by tapping?

1140
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: Oh?

1141
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, so so the the volume up and down? You

1142
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 2: see there?

1143
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1144
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, just just just run it that.

1145
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 4: Way, guys. I haven't read here in so long.

1146
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 2: Ready, we've got let's do it.

1147
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 3: Amy, thanks for a twenty bucks in Oscar. Thanks for

1148
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 3: being a member for five months, enjoying the stream. About

1149
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 3: to head out to my daughter's first Halloween trick or treating.

1150
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 2: Be safe and have fun. Everyone will do uh.

1151
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 3: Bobart, thanks for being a metter for five bucks. I

1152
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 3: swear y'all are better than antidepressants. Freaking love you all.

1153
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 3: Angie did a spectacular job. Absolute absolute win for skills.

1154
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,760
Speaker 3: Y'all are beautiful. Thank you, Amber Laga Takes for the

1155
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 3: two bucks. Cakes in a green suit. You're not gonna

1156
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 3: see these cakes today, ladies and gentlemen.

1157
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 4: And sorry you can't get that.

1158
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 2: Amy, thanks for the two bucks. Was distracted. Do you

1159
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 2: see my twenty dollars sticker?

1160
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:32,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, we got it, We just did.

1161
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: We just did. Boom.

1162
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:35,479
Speaker 4: Are you ready?

1163
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 2: Let's do it this one more?

1164
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 5: More more? John oh oh?

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00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 3: And then Meghan Morales thanks for the five bucks. These

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00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 3: costumes are amazing, great job. Thank you for always making

1167
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 3: me laugh. Y'all you're welcome.

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00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 4: I did shave the stash. I had to shave the

1170
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 4: sash because my lips are so dry. Lips are so dry.

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00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 1: Dude.

1172
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I shaved the stash for how lloween. They'll come back.

1173
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 4: Don't worry, guys. But let's get into the story.

1174
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

1175
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 4: Are you ready? I'm not ready. My husband wants to

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00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 4: do a couple's costume with his female co worker. Uh

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00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 4: do they look like Patrick? This is true, my husband?

1178
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 4: What's that? What do you say?

1179
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 1: Said?

1180
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 5: Nothing?

1181
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 4: You're already interrupt already interrupting me, mister Crabs, damn it, Crabs.

1182
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 1: All right.

1183
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 4: My husband has an employee with whom he works really closely.

1184
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 4: He is her boss, and then she is the boss

1185
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 4: for many other of his employees in the office. They

1186
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 4: travel and spend a lot of time together. We've all

1187
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 4: spent time together, and I am confident he's not interested

1188
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 4: in her and nothing is going on romantically between them.

1189
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 4: By the way, this comes from user relationship odd eighty

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Speaker 4: five twenty four on the r slash Best of Redditor

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00:59:55,760 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 4: Updates suborn it. So, however, their office is having a

1192
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 4: Halloween party and she's asking him to be Ken and

1193
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 4: she will be the matching Barbie. Dude.

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01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 2: That is so couple's costume territory.

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01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, Hi Ken, diabolical or technically Hi Barbie. She sent

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01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 4: him a link to the costume. She included me in

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01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 4: the group chat about coordinating their matching costumes.

1198
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 2: Weird, So she's not like she's doing it, She's making

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Speaker 2: her do all the work for it.

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01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, can you make him look like the best Ken ever?

1201
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 2: Crazy?

1202
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 4: And I'll be Barbie.

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01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 2: Yep.

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01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 4: I'm not invited to the party. It's just at work

1205
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 4: during the work day. I think there is a costume

1206
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 4: competition she wants to win. Okay, if it's a costume competition,

1207
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 4: isn't like a solo thing, Like it shouldn't be your

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01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 4: own costume.

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01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 2: You could be like a team. Yeah. Yeah, but then

1210
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 2: it's like who's the winner?

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01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 4: Cheating? I told him privately, I don't like the optics

1212
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 4: of them being matched Ken and Barbie when they already

1213
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 4: publicly travel and spend so much time together. His idea

1214
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 4: of fixing it was sending an email to their smaller

1215
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 4: team of six people, sharing the costume link and the statement,

1216
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 4: Mary and I are wearing this, y'all should consider getting

1217
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 4: it getting it too, and we can all match at

1218
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 4: the big party.

1219
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 2: So he's trying to like get everyone to dress as

1220
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 2: Barbie characters.

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01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:23,480
Speaker 4: Who's left there's all gonna be Ken or like they're

1222
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 4: all Barbies and all Ken. That'd be crazy, But.

1223
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 2: Then no one can win because they're all a dressed as.

1224
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's not you're not gonna wine.

1225
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 2: See the road we go down.

1226
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, I brought up a great point here, and

1227
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 4: none of you can take me seriously. So that's okay.

1228
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 4: I can take you seriously, John or Patrick, I said,

1229
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 4: instead of fixing the problem of the bad optics, he

1230
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 4: just announced to everyone in writing that they got matching

1231
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 4: Ken and Barbie costumes on purpose and made it worse.

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01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 2: Mhm, no optics fixed.

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01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 4: I do acknowledge that the whole office matching at the

1234
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 4: big corporate party would be cute. If the smaller team

1235
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 4: decides to invest the fifty dollars each to match, it's

1236
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 4: better than of those two had just showed up at

1237
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 4: the big corporate party as matching Ken and Barbie. Yeah,

1238
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 4: we have some comments here, b Jane seventy five nine,

1239
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 4: not the a hole, but between them traveling together, spending

1240
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 4: a lot of time together, and now her wanting them

1241
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:27,919
Speaker 4: to dress as a couple. Are you absolutely sure there's

1242
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 4: nothing else going on? Op, I'm sure. I travel with

1243
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 4: him too, because it's fun and I could do my

1244
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:38,040
Speaker 4: job from anywhere. He spends all his free time with

1245
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 4: me and our kids. I don't know if his entire

1246
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 4: office knows that I'm there on the trips trips though,

1247
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 4: So I think the whole picture to outsiders, especially his employees,

1248
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 4: could look if he we have an update, what do

1249
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:52,439
Speaker 4: you think?

1250
01:02:52,600 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does seem very suspicious. I guess it could.

1251
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 2: Like I see what she's trying to say. The person

1252
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 2: is going as Barbie, but.

1253
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 4: Like, like just how you gotta read the room Barbie

1254
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:12,840
Speaker 4: and Okay, so I see it. If it was like

1255
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 4: a The Wonder Twins or like or like doctor Doctor

1256
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 4: Jekyll and mister Hyde or something, or Patrick and SpongeBob,

1257
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 4: a non couple, non couple costume, is I see that

1258
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 4: being fine? But the fact that it was jumped to

1259
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 4: Ken and Barbie, Yes, that's that's couple costume. Yes, Or

1260
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 4: if it was like we can both be Ken's or

1261
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 4: we both can be Barbie's. That's fun, that's funny.

1262
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 3: That's that's like, it's it's funny and kind of clever,

1263
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 3: you know, so you kind of went like, oh, you're

1264
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 3: not what you were expecting.

1265
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you're doing a couple's costume at work,

1266
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 4: that's a no no.

1267
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a no no, it's a no no.

1268
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 4: Let's get into this update. Let's do it Update one.

1269
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 4: This post got so much input, and I'm grateful. He's

1270
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 4: a grown man who has come really far in his

1271
01:03:57,160 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 4: career making his own decisions. I feel like I share

1272
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 4: my opinion with him and that it's up to him.

1273
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 4: He knows his office and team, and I hope he's

1274
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 4: right that it doesn't reflect poorly on him or her.

1275
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 4: I still think it does, but it's not my career

1276
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 4: or my office, and I'm letting it go deferring to

1277
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 4: his judgment. We have a second update, Oh, second update.

1278
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 4: I tried to just defer to his judgment and let

1279
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 4: it go. We talked about it today among other topics,

1280
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 4: and he said they're the only two matching exactly, the

1281
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 4: only two in big boxes. And I realize I still

1282
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 4: think it's a bad idea, and we just can't talk

1283
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 4: about it because I don't respect his decision like I

1284
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 4: want to. Hmmm. I told him I don't trust her

1285
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 4: judgment or suggestions for things they do together anymore either.

1286
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 4: After this and a couple others she has had over

1287
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:53,479
Speaker 4: the years. To me, it's like avoiding the tipping point.

1288
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 4: Why make choices that could possibly move you closer to

1289
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 4: that point when there's so much you can't control that

1290
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 4: does like travel together?

1291
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 3: Oh, it's more than just a tipping point, that's it's

1292
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 3: a tip nice I would know, look at this thing,

1293
01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 3: Come on, stay away, you can't do it.

1294
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 4: I feel like you gotta just tell him, like this

1295
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 4: makes me uncomfortable.

1296
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, stop, And like I think, like if someone even

1297
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 3: if he is like, oh, I personally don't think it's

1298
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 3: that big of a deal, I think because it's a personally,

1299
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:38,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, that's again. Like we said before, it's

1300
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 3: the costume is a couple, so like that should should

1301
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 3: not be it. But even if he disagrees, it's like

1302
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 3: you should at least respect your partner enough to be like, hey,

1303
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 3: you know what, this is making you uncomfortable. This isn't necessary.

1304
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:55,240
Speaker 3: It's just for a stupid little costume, stupid contest. Let

1305
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 3: me not do it to to make my partner comfortable

1306
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 3: than us out. And then also like oh, let me

1307
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 3: overthink everything else. What else is gonna do?

1308
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1309
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 2: What else? Is gonna happen in the future, what about

1310
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 2: all the things in the past, Like, Yeah.

1311
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 4: I would be like, if you guys could just change

1312
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 4: up the costume. You can do a couple, not couple,

1313
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 4: but a matching costume, or like a team costume. Great,

1314
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 4: that's cute. Just don't do a couple's costume. It's not

1315
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 4: that hard. I feel like that. You'd be like, Okay,

1316
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 4: but he's doubling down, like we got boxes. Yeah, we

1317
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 4: got boxes, babe, We're gonna be boxed Barbie Dolls. I'm

1318
01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 4: gonna be Ken Dolls. She could be a Barbie Doll

1319
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 4: and we're gonna be boxed up.

1320
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 2: Oh well, he'll be in her box. Hey yo, I'm just.

1321
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:40,240
Speaker 4: Saying I just want the secret formula.

1322
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:42,440
Speaker 2: Now get out of here.

1323
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 5: Playing then chocolate.

1324
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 4: We got a relevant comment, PESSI Lee not the a hole.

1325
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 4: But I'm a little confused. Why do you have a

1326
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 4: problem with them wearing matching costumes if you're confident there's

1327
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 4: nothing between them, especially now that the movie has come out.

1328
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 4: Where is it stated that Ken and Barbie are not

1329
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 4: a couple, not in love, and don't even end up

1330
01:07:04,960 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 4: in the same universe.

1331
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 2: Are you really explaining like, are you the Barbie universe?

1332
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 2: Lord to us, like, dude, come on, I want to

1333
01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 2: go to the one movie. You don't how many other

1334
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:15,520
Speaker 2: movies there are.

1335
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you do, recall Halloween, so many couples

1336
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 4: dressed up as Ken and Barbie. I dressed up as

1337
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 4: Ken and Barbie with my girlfriend at the time.

1338
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:28,120
Speaker 1: It was a thing.

1339
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 4: It was a thing that was such like a statement.

1340
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 3: It's like, even if they're not one of my quote

1341
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 3: unquote in a relationship, in this universe or whatever, it's.

1342
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 2: Like, it's people wearing a couple's costume. That's that's it.

1343
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 4: That's the deal, op says, because I think it looks

1344
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,000
Speaker 4: bad for the both of them, potentially opens them up

1345
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 4: for gossip. When they are already spending so much time

1346
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 4: together and are assigned trips together, et cetera. Nothing is

1347
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 4: going on between them, and I have seen in office politics,

1348
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,480
Speaker 4: nothing has to be going on for the people to talk, speculate,

1349
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 4: or just to conclusions. I think he's setting himself up

1350
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,959
Speaker 4: for gossip. And I'm not sure what she was thinking

1351
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:11,000
Speaker 4: planning this. Opie stopped deferring to his opinion, and that

1352
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:13,280
Speaker 4: does another comment. Let me see that was the the

1353
01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 4: user was deleted, but yeah, let's just say delete it.

1354
01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 4: Opie stopped deferring to his opinion and demand that he

1355
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 4: not do this. Why shouldn't he do it? Because it

1356
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:31,560
Speaker 4: makes you uncomfortable? That is the reason. Tell him you

1357
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:35,120
Speaker 4: don't like some other woman doing publicly couple things with him.

1358
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 4: She's setting the president president that they are a company couple.

1359
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:43,759
Speaker 4: He can defer to you for once and ask yourself,

1360
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 4: why is he so hell bent on doing this when

1361
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 4: you've told him you don't want him to. Why is

1362
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 4: it more important than your feelings? Opie says, thank you

1363
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,240
Speaker 4: for your comment. I see your reasoning, which also just

1364
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 4: makes a lot of sense.

1365
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:02,080
Speaker 3: It again, it's like, if this makes your partner uncomfortable,

1366
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 3: she's voiced that to you.

1367
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 2: Why why would you want to double down on that

1368
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:07,800
Speaker 2: for for what reason?

1369
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:08,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1370
01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:12,960
Speaker 4: Serious, So my opinion, coworker is clearly testing.

1371
01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 2: Boundaries, honestly. So in the last story, uh, there was like, uh,

1372
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 2: the Peter the pumpkin.

1373
01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:22,439
Speaker 3: Eater, and then the uh the other person was a

1374
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,960
Speaker 3: pumpkin as a couple's costume, and then so this other

1375
01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 3: girl dressed up as a pumpkin and she was pregnant

1376
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 3: with that guy's baby. Whoa, she was the affair partner

1377
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:34,640
Speaker 3: and got pregnant, right, Peter pumpkin eater exactly?

1378
01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 4: Why so? Uh?

1379
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 3: I think this is kind of a similar situation where

1380
01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:45,759
Speaker 3: he's like cheating with her and and she's like trying

1381
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 3: to like signal or like do it without her like

1382
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 3: actually saying it, or like force force that guy's hand

1383
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 3: to actually say, oh, you know, to admit that he's

1384
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 3: cheating with her.

1385
01:09:55,680 --> 01:10:01,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh gosh, that's what sounds very He says, Oh,

1386
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:08,559
Speaker 4: it's sticky, literally and figuratively. I agree with whoever comments

1387
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 4: in that said it earlier. If you're uncomfortable, just state

1388
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 4: how it makes you uncomfortable. Don't like, oh it's I'm uncomfortable.

1389
01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 4: But honey, do what you want to do. And he

1390
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 4: he blatantly didn't, like, all right, I'm gonna I'm gonna

1391
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 4: be I'm gonna be Canton.

1392
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 2: This is not hard, not hard.

1393
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 4: Come on, it's a couples I mean, it's a couple's costume.

1394
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 4: Just don't do it. I have no desire to be

1395
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:37,599
Speaker 4: or act like his mother, And in this particular instance,

1396
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:41,840
Speaker 4: what he's doing doesn't directly affect me. It kind of

1397
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 4: does and her.

1398
01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 2: I mean she said it bothers her.

1399
01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 4: If it bothers you, it's affecting you. He is his

1400
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:55,600
Speaker 4: own person, it's his office and career. To make this

1401
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 4: what I think is a bad decision. To make this

1402
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,559
Speaker 4: what I think is a bad DESI decision, And he's

1403
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 4: not hurting me or my feelings with it. Make choose

1404
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 4: a choose a lame are you? Are you upset with it?

1405
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:11,720
Speaker 4: Or are you not? I don't think he wants to

1406
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 4: be with her or making her think he does. I

1407
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 4: just think it's a bad idea. I've definitely put my

1408
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:20,719
Speaker 4: foot down about some things as we navigated sharing life

1409
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 4: and raising children over the years. He has he has

1410
01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:27,760
Speaker 4: it well with me. This just doesn't feel like I

1411
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 4: am clear, I am a clear stakeholder in the consequences.

1412
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:34,040
Speaker 4: When he's so sure it doesn't look bad or hurt him.

1413
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 4: So if you're worried about your partner's image, I feel

1414
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:41,320
Speaker 4: you would tell out to him.

1415
01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 3: I yeah, I it kind of sounds like op. You know,

1416
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 3: she was's like, fine, go ahead, that's what this feels like.

1417
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 4: You're gonna have gossip talk about like there's gonna be gossip,

1418
01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:54,679
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's your decision, that's your fault. No, because

1419
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 4: it's gonna come back to you. And you're like, I

1420
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:57,160
Speaker 4: think you just want.

1421
01:11:57,000 --> 01:12:00,439
Speaker 2: To do the I told you so. Oh yeah, hmmm,

1422
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 2: well is it.

1423
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:05,679
Speaker 4: Shouldn't be at that point. Yeah, continuing to the story.

1424
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 4: In the big picture, this one part of one day

1425
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 4: of his life is probably not a big deal. We

1426
01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:15,400
Speaker 4: will see if it's a pattern. And that's the end

1427
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 4: of the story.

1428
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 2: WHOA, we don't have a huge cliffhanger.

1429
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:20,639
Speaker 4: There's no there's no update.

1430
01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 2: Do you think do you think he.

1431
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 4: Because op did not tell him to stop. Opie just said,

1432
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 4: do what you want to do. If it becomes a

1433
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:35,519
Speaker 4: bad situation, it's your situation, which is I don't think

1434
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:36,839
Speaker 4: you should even.

1435
01:12:37,360 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it seems like it seems like Opie was very

1436
01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:42,680
Speaker 3: upset and totally understandably so in the beginning, and then

1437
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 3: it was like, oh, it's his problem, it's not affecting me.

1438
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1439
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 3: To me, it's just giving like, fine, do whatever you want.

1440
01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:52,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm piecing out from it.

1441
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 4: What what I don't get is like it seems like

1442
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:57,040
Speaker 4: it just wasn't a conversation. It was like, I don't

1443
01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 4: think it's a good idea. Honey, that's it. Yeah, it

1444
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,479
Speaker 4: was just I don't think it's a good idea, but

1445
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:06,040
Speaker 4: do what you want to do. Yeah, And in the

1446
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 4: entire time, you're like, I'm uncomfortable. I don't like this.

1447
01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. It's not a vibe. Not a vibe. Right,

1448
01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 2: how are you doing over there? Pretty good? I really

1449
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:18,920
Speaker 2: have to use the bathroom? And why did you do that?

1450
01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 5: Because I can't it. This is like a ten minute ordeal.

1451
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:25,560
Speaker 4: Oh wow, yeah, you have to use the bathroom for

1452
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 4: ten minutes.

1453
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 5: No, but like taking all the things off and doing it.

1454
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,840
Speaker 5: We can get all they're coming up, they're coming up.

1455
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 5: We're gonna have our our lastest remember joined our stream. Also,

1456
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 5: we can you know, we can also just okay, I

1457
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 5: cut a hole. But oh now I'm being serious.

1458
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: Of course.

1459
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 4: I literally asked this because I couldn't text and everyone

1460
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 4: told me, don't do it. We're gonna we can't do that.

1461
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 2: I think now we're saying we can do that.

1462
01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:02,439
Speaker 4: I think I was literally sitting there like this for

1463
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 4: about an hour and a half, says I couldn't do

1464
01:14:05,200 --> 01:14:08,439
Speaker 4: anything on my phone like this.

1465
01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:13,360
Speaker 5: A new member coming in right now here, we go, Oh,

1466
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 5: she's gonna take your spot. John.

1467
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, out here I go.

1468
01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:21,360
Speaker 5: Bye John, He'll come back.

1469
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:29,280
Speaker 4: Hi, guys. So our next guest, do you guys, do

1470
01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 4: you guys have a guess? Oh? One of your guesses

1471
01:14:35,920 --> 01:14:40,839
Speaker 4: for Sophie is a costume. Guys, She's trying to stabilize herself.

1472
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 5: This is so funny.

1473
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:48,400
Speaker 4: This is hilarious. She looks amazing and she again literally

1474
01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 4: did the best job.

1475
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:53,599
Speaker 2: This is Yeah.

1476
01:14:53,640 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 4: Do we have some guesses? Okay, okay, okay, yeah, look

1477
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 4: at look into my eye, look into my one eye,

1478
01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:14,400
Speaker 4: and tell me we're getting pearl. We're getting sandy, pearl, Sandy.

1479
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:19,840
Speaker 5: All right, here is in five four three two?

1480
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:25,799
Speaker 2: Say something?

1481
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 3: Hello?

1482
01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 2: Can we even hear that?

1483
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 5: Hello?

1484
01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1485
01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 5: Oh she got it. Yeah, you're you're in the air,

1486
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:39,799
Speaker 5: You're not in the ocean.

1487
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:47,519
Speaker 8: There we go. Hello. Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna lift

1488
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:54,680
Speaker 8: it up so that you can hear me. I can't

1489
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:55,760
Speaker 8: hear anything in the bowl.

1490
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 5: You can't. That is beautiful. It was so funny watching

1491
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:03,320
Speaker 5: Angie find and put over her head. Send me pictures perfectly. Yeah,

1492
01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:05,800
Speaker 5: it's kind of a little dangerous. I'm surprised, like like

1493
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 5: give out fish poles that can fit over people's heads.

1494
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 8: I know they shouldn't do that.

1495
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:12,840
Speaker 5: Oh you ready to get back in? Keon? You want

1496
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 5: to take me for a producer chair? Sure, thank you, buddy.

1497
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:18,439
Speaker 5: All right, come on in.

1498
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:19,360
Speaker 4: Where's your nose?

1499
01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 1: Oh?

1500
01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:25,760
Speaker 4: There it is? Where were you hiding that? Guys, I'm

1501
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 4: just switching spots. Don't worry. They don't even see him.

1502
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:34,679
Speaker 8: Oh it's freezing in here, man. Oh man, I'm trying

1503
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 8: to not I can't reach Okay, okay, get the next

1504
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:55,479
Speaker 8: I can't even see you. What what what episode will

1505
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 8: be on?

1506
01:16:58,080 --> 01:16:58,640
Speaker 4: Did you think it?

1507
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:02,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1508
01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 4: Alright, Sam, you're good?

1509
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: Oh am, I good? Ask me if I'm ready?

1510
01:17:11,640 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 2: Ask me if I'm ready?

1511
01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:16,160
Speaker 4: Hey Sam?

1512
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1513
01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 4: Wait, the chat was to see me with my eyes closed.

1514
01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 4: Hold on, let me fix my antennis.

1515
01:17:20,720 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 5: For you guys.

1516
01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, sorry, I've got to do the accent. I

1517
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:28,719
Speaker 8: wasn't ready.

1518
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:35,880
Speaker 4: I'm sandy, uh Sam? Or sorry, SpongeBob? Are you ready?

1519
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:40,680
Speaker 2: I'm ready? I'm ready already, I'm sorry. I don't know

1520
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 2: what's the accent?

1521
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 4: Key On, I can't do the accent?

1522
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 2: And is it like you want? Like damn it crabs? Sure,

1523
01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 2: damn it crabs, crab.

1524
01:17:56,040 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 4: I don't think he sounds like an old man.

1525
01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 2: I don't know what.

1526
01:17:58,240 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: I don't I can't remember what.

1527
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 8: You didn't watch a lot of SpongeBob when we were children.

1528
01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:04,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't have TV.

1529
01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:08,080
Speaker 8: Girling, we didn't have TV grown up in the ocean.

1530
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:10,679
Speaker 4: Okay, you're not Forrest Gump.

1531
01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:13,120
Speaker 8: Forrest Gump, run.

1532
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:15,559
Speaker 2: Next Door.

1533
01:18:16,240 --> 01:18:19,560
Speaker 8: I only slightly remember what Sandy sounds like.

1534
01:18:20,720 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 1: Oh wait, the YouTube comments aren't coming up.

1535
01:18:23,320 --> 01:18:26,479
Speaker 8: What episode do we all? I mean, what what story?

1536
01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:27,519
Speaker 8: Are we all on?

1537
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:29,760
Speaker 1: The story? Six?

1538
01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:30,479
Speaker 4: Two? Not?

1539
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:32,320
Speaker 3: What? S?

1540
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:32,560
Speaker 9: What?

1541
01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: Though? On the stream?

1542
01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 8: I don't know which one we're on?

1543
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 1: Look on the screen, on the.

1544
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 4: Screen, let's figure it out. The episode I just had

1545
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:46,640
Speaker 4: in this chair ninety two? No?

1546
01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:47,720
Speaker 8: S what though?

1547
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:48,400
Speaker 9: Oh?

1548
01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 4: S three?

1549
01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:53,080
Speaker 8: Hora, let's do it.

1550
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:54,920
Speaker 4: And it's not coming up?

1551
01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 1: So see do you see on the.

1552
01:18:58,240 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 4: No?

1553
01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 1: No, on the actual stream, I don't where you see

1554
01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:01,479
Speaker 1: the dog?

1555
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:02,080
Speaker 4: I see it?

1556
01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 2: Yeah? What the heck?

1557
01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:04,160
Speaker 1: You might need to reload it.

1558
01:19:04,360 --> 01:19:08,080
Speaker 8: I'm just doing my best impression of Sandy cheeks. Guys,

1559
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 8: I don't know. I don't know where she is from.

1560
01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:15,680
Speaker 4: M do you know how to reload the stream? Chat?

1561
01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 4: Hold on?

1562
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:19,360
Speaker 1: I did have makeup on my lips, but it has

1563
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 1: gone away.

1564
01:19:20,439 --> 01:19:21,080
Speaker 4: You looked them off.

1565
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 8: Yeah, they're like completely gone.

1566
01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 2: Eh, don't do that.

1567
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:25,360
Speaker 1: I do that.

1568
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:31,400
Speaker 8: I was so sure that Sybia would not painted. But

1569
01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:33,760
Speaker 8: I do not want to put that face paint on

1570
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:34,680
Speaker 8: my face.

1571
01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:39,800
Speaker 4: Especially since Sam is literally, I mean Sam Riley's litterally

1572
01:19:39,840 --> 01:19:41,799
Speaker 4: using the restroom. I don't want to end anything.

1573
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you just I think you just reloaded it.

1574
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:51,040
Speaker 1: I didn't see the fishbowl. She has a fishbowl right there.

1575
01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:53,200
Speaker 8: I just can't wear it forever.

1576
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:58,960
Speaker 4: Here you go, fishbowl.

1577
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't think Raley's in the bathroom. In the bathroom,

1578
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:07,760
Speaker 1: you're text him, text him, text him, rally assuming to

1579
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:09,680
Speaker 1: programmed things to fail when he has gone, to make

1580
01:20:09,760 --> 01:20:13,840
Speaker 1: sure they know how irreplaceable he is. It's also to

1581
01:20:13,960 --> 01:20:14,679
Speaker 1: train keon.

1582
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:19,120
Speaker 2: Make it a little bit harder, make it a little harder.

1583
01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:21,599
Speaker 4: I've just stuck my thumb detection now.

1584
01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 1: Jennett Ramo said, these costumes killed it. They're amazing.

1585
01:20:26,320 --> 01:20:29,559
Speaker 8: They are shout out Angie, Right, how do.

1586
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:30,760
Speaker 1: You want to just do you want to just hit

1587
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 1: it while.

1588
01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:33,640
Speaker 2: And fix it?

1589
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:35,960
Speaker 4: It's only hitting Facebook.

1590
01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: It's yeah, YouTube's notworking still all right?

1591
01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:43,560
Speaker 8: This my grandmother is trying to force me and my

1592
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 8: kid to convert to her religion. I can't take it anymore.

1593
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:51,519
Speaker 1: Uh, well, maybe you should take it.

1594
01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:54,160
Speaker 4: I can't take you seriously like that?

1595
01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 1: Have I Are you to take me seriously? Normally? Am

1596
01:20:59,200 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 1: I someone to be?

1597
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:01,760
Speaker 4: Can you see us right now? I don't think we

1598
01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 4: take any of us seriously right.

1599
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 8: Now, but I'm taking this story seriously, do it?

1600
01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:06,560
Speaker 9: So?

1601
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:09,679
Speaker 8: To start off, my grandmother is a stereotypical Christian.

1602
01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:10,360
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1603
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 8: She tried to convert me my whole life, but I

1604
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:17,320
Speaker 8: have no interest in religion whatsoever. I am now thirty

1605
01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:19,760
Speaker 8: four and have a child of my own who is eight.

1606
01:21:20,400 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 8: My grandparents basically raised me.

1607
01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:25,640
Speaker 4: I'm reading it. Oh thank you.

1608
01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:29,720
Speaker 8: My parents separated before I can remember. While my dad

1609
01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:32,320
Speaker 8: had legal custody, he was not that great of a parent,

1610
01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 8: and my mom was a horrible parent. But that's a

1611
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 8: story for another time. So since I spent a lot

1612
01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:41,120
Speaker 8: of my time at my grandparents, they more or less

1613
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:43,559
Speaker 8: raised me. They did a lot for me growing up,

1614
01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 8: and I only ever had two major issues, predominantly with

1615
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:52,080
Speaker 8: my grandmother. Of course. By the way, this comes from

1616
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:56,559
Speaker 8: Lady Lynne's sixty six six sixty six on the story

1617
01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 8: to I've suffered it so She would constantly try to

1618
01:21:59,880 --> 01:22:01,960
Speaker 8: get me to go to a church with her and

1619
01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:05,280
Speaker 8: to pray and talk to God. When I was younger,

1620
01:22:05,400 --> 01:22:08,519
Speaker 8: I did go to church and found it immensely boring.

1621
01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:11,880
Speaker 8: I would just sit and draw. That's what I did. Yeah,

1622
01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:15,040
Speaker 8: I'd use the little donation envelopes.

1623
01:22:14,720 --> 01:22:16,639
Speaker 1: And we would like rip them up in like different

1624
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:19,160
Speaker 1: ways that were fun, and we would draw on them

1625
01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 1: and then we made trampoline things out of them. Yeah,

1626
01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 1: it's crazy.

1627
01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:23,960
Speaker 2: We were bored in church. We were bored.

1628
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: I mean, although church wasn't that interesting, so he used

1629
01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:30,040
Speaker 1: to be bored. Where we are also needs to be

1630
01:22:30,280 --> 01:22:31,120
Speaker 1: up dirdered.

1631
01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 8: When I got older, I refused to go and she

1632
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:40,160
Speaker 8: eventually let it go, but would continue to talk about

1633
01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:43,920
Speaker 8: God every chance she got. Ah, I have to hold

1634
01:22:43,960 --> 01:22:46,840
Speaker 8: this down and try to force me to pray at dinner.

1635
01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:49,960
Speaker 8: For the record, my grandfather never went to church, and

1636
01:22:50,040 --> 01:22:53,400
Speaker 8: as far as I know, never cared about religion either too.

1637
01:22:54,040 --> 01:22:57,200
Speaker 8: She completely crushed my self confidence when I was learning

1638
01:22:57,240 --> 01:22:59,760
Speaker 8: to drive. But isn't that what all parents do?

1639
01:23:00,520 --> 01:23:03,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom still crushes my self confidence when I drive.

1640
01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:07,160
Speaker 1: Every time I drive, she white knuckles the car. I'm

1641
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:07,920
Speaker 1: going to cry.

1642
01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:10,360
Speaker 8: Under the thing and she goes red light and we're stopped.

1643
01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:12,920
Speaker 2: I stopped, ridiculate, it's ridiculous.

1644
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:14,759
Speaker 1: We have the car, and I'm like, I'm not relat

1645
01:23:15,160 --> 01:23:17,360
Speaker 1: I were one hundred miles away from any car. We're

1646
01:23:17,360 --> 01:23:20,559
Speaker 1: in the middle of the desert. Mother, mother, Mother.

1647
01:23:21,120 --> 01:23:24,679
Speaker 8: So, like most teenagers, when I turned sixteen, I applied

1648
01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 8: for my driving permit. I am very near sighted, but

1649
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:29,840
Speaker 8: I'm not blind or anything. I can see well enough

1650
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:33,360
Speaker 8: to drive just fine. One day, while I was driving

1651
01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 8: my grandfather's old pickup around town to practice, with my

1652
01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:39,439
Speaker 8: grandfather in the passenger seat and my grandmother between us,

1653
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:42,600
Speaker 8: my grandmother made me pull over and told me to

1654
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:45,759
Speaker 8: switch seats with my grandfather and that if I didn't,

1655
01:23:46,000 --> 01:23:48,519
Speaker 8: then she would get out of the car and walk home.

1656
01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:51,840
Speaker 8: I was stunned and hurt because I thought I had

1657
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:54,960
Speaker 8: been doing well. I never crossed over the line on

1658
01:23:55,160 --> 01:23:58,080
Speaker 8: either side of the road. I never hid anything, I

1659
01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:02,639
Speaker 8: never exceeded the speed limit nothing. What she said crushed

1660
01:24:02,760 --> 01:24:05,759
Speaker 8: my self confident, any self confidence I had in getting

1661
01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 8: a driver's license, and because of that, I didn't get

1662
01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:11,160
Speaker 8: my license until I was twenty four, and that was

1663
01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 8: only because my now husband, who I met when I

1664
01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:16,559
Speaker 8: was twenty one, taught me to drive. Damn, that moment

1665
01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:21,720
Speaker 8: really hit you so hard. Yeah, I feel like if

1666
01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 8: I don't know, I feel like if I had stopped

1667
01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:24,520
Speaker 8: at those moments.

1668
01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:25,679
Speaker 2: You would never drive.

1669
01:24:25,720 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 8: I've never drive.

1670
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:28,479
Speaker 2: I would, we would, we both would never happen.

1671
01:24:28,479 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 8: There were so many times when I had to switch

1672
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 8: seats because I was just sobbing. Is that not normal?

1673
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:36,639
Speaker 2: Is that not how you learned to drive?

1674
01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:38,040
Speaker 8: How you learned how to drive?

1675
01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:40,880
Speaker 1: I thought tears were the only ways.

1676
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 2: To the road.

1677
01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 8: Yeah. After my daughter was born, I would try to

1678
01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 8: visit my grandmother at least twice a week or more.

1679
01:24:48,120 --> 01:24:50,240
Speaker 8: I wanted my daughter to get to know her great

1680
01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 8: grandmother and to be able to have a good oh yeah,

1681
01:24:54,400 --> 01:24:56,040
Speaker 8: and to be able to have a good relationship with

1682
01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 8: her and to be able to remember her as she

1683
01:24:58,320 --> 01:25:02,400
Speaker 8: got older. My grand father unfortunately passed away while I

1684
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 8: was pregnant with my daughter, so he never got to

1685
01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:07,680
Speaker 8: meet her. That's so sad. My husband and I told

1686
01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:10,679
Speaker 8: my grandmother countless times that we didn't want our daughter

1687
01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 8: to be influenced by my grandmother's religion and that she

1688
01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 8: could make up her own mind about things. When she

1689
01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:19,200
Speaker 8: was old enough to fully understand what it all meant.

1690
01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:21,560
Speaker 8: We didn't want her to be forced to follow a

1691
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:25,599
Speaker 8: certain religion, religion just because those around her did. However,

1692
01:25:26,280 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 8: despite our our our auto correction has once again changed

1693
01:25:33,080 --> 01:25:46,720
Speaker 8: sub to sloppy toppy. Sloppy toppy actions not subjections, object objections,

1694
01:25:47,400 --> 01:25:53,120
Speaker 8: Oh bj, So it changes any bjay into slappy toppy.

1695
01:25:53,320 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 8: So instead of objections, we have uh slapp refections.

1696
01:26:00,000 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 1: It feels like it might be a little a little

1697
01:26:03,280 --> 01:26:08,120
Speaker 1: buck in the system mid the bugs of the system.

1698
01:26:08,240 --> 01:26:10,679
Speaker 1: Where's where to figure?

1699
01:26:14,160 --> 01:26:17,720
Speaker 8: My grandmother would constantly and excessively talk about God when

1700
01:26:17,760 --> 01:26:19,559
Speaker 8: my daughter would stay at her house for the day

1701
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:23,040
Speaker 8: or overnight, always when we were not around. We did

1702
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:25,639
Speaker 8: not know about this for the longest time. When suddenly,

1703
01:26:26,200 --> 01:26:29,320
Speaker 8: when she was about four, my daughter would randomly start

1704
01:26:29,439 --> 01:26:32,360
Speaker 8: talk talking about God. I asked her where she heard

1705
01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:35,559
Speaker 8: that from. I obviously knew, and she said great grandmother

1706
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:37,519
Speaker 8: would talk about it and tell her not to tell

1707
01:26:37,600 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 8: me or my husband. And we all know that forces

1708
01:26:40,160 --> 01:26:41,479
Speaker 8: never tell anyone anything.

1709
01:26:41,640 --> 01:26:45,799
Speaker 1: This is too close to home being told about religion

1710
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:51,599
Speaker 1: by a family member. Oh yeah, bro, were we were?

1711
01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:55,160
Speaker 1: We were definitely tried. Uh We someone who's tried to

1712
01:26:55,200 --> 01:26:58,400
Speaker 1: save us time. We have yet to be saved.

1713
01:26:58,479 --> 01:26:59,519
Speaker 8: Yeah, we're still going to hell.

1714
01:26:59,600 --> 01:27:02,480
Speaker 2: Guys were dirty Catholics.

1715
01:27:03,680 --> 01:27:07,400
Speaker 4: I was furious, Sorry, just sam saying that.

1716
01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:13,519
Speaker 8: With that, I told my grandmother to stop trying to

1717
01:27:13,600 --> 01:27:15,840
Speaker 8: influence her daughter, and she said that she could do

1718
01:27:15,960 --> 01:27:18,679
Speaker 8: whatever she wanted in her own house. Well, I guess

1719
01:27:19,120 --> 01:27:22,320
Speaker 8: Opei's daughter's not coming over to your house anymore. From

1720
01:27:22,400 --> 01:27:24,720
Speaker 8: then on, we would only see her about every other

1721
01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 8: week or so. Up until this year, I was tolerating

1722
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:31,960
Speaker 8: her christian bs because she had toned it down a bit. However,

1723
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:37,479
Speaker 8: this year everything changed. I start. It started not with religion,

1724
01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:40,559
Speaker 8: but with the car. My husband and I were looking

1725
01:27:40,600 --> 01:27:43,840
Speaker 8: into getting a new car. My grandmother offered to give

1726
01:27:43,920 --> 01:27:45,920
Speaker 8: me the inheritance that I would get from her early

1727
01:27:46,640 --> 01:27:53,759
Speaker 8: oh ten thousand dollars to be thousand dollars, ten thousand dollars, ten.

1728
01:27:53,720 --> 01:27:57,080
Speaker 2: Thousand dollars, thousand dollars a lot of money.

1729
01:27:58,040 --> 01:28:01,080
Speaker 8: To be clear, I did not ask for this she

1730
01:28:01,320 --> 01:28:04,840
Speaker 8: offered this morning. Never even crossed my mind until she

1731
01:28:04,960 --> 01:28:06,880
Speaker 8: mentioned it, because I assumed I would not get the

1732
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:11,840
Speaker 8: money until she died. Obviously. Also, as a side note,

1733
01:28:11,920 --> 01:28:14,760
Speaker 8: my grandmother had helped me and my husband financially quite

1734
01:28:14,760 --> 01:28:17,439
Speaker 8: a bit when we were starting out. I'm not sure

1735
01:28:17,520 --> 01:28:20,759
Speaker 8: exactly how much we owed her, but it was probably

1736
01:28:20,960 --> 01:28:24,519
Speaker 8: around eight thousand or nine thousand dollars. So she could

1737
01:28:24,560 --> 01:28:26,720
Speaker 8: have just kept the inheritance for the debt and just

1738
01:28:26,760 --> 01:28:29,759
Speaker 8: given me nothing. Yeah, just give op like one thousand dollars,

1739
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:34,560
Speaker 8: which would have been fine. I was just reading just

1740
01:28:34,640 --> 01:28:40,120
Speaker 8: Tina Rudge's why do Americans ain't got so much? Because

1741
01:28:40,160 --> 01:28:44,639
Speaker 8: we're all traumatized. So anyway, she offered the ten thousand

1742
01:28:44,680 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 8: dollars to pay for new used car for us. We

1743
01:28:47,400 --> 01:28:49,600
Speaker 8: looked for a few weeks and found several that we

1744
01:28:49,720 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 8: were interested in. Since we had a child, we wanted

1745
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:56,320
Speaker 8: an suv or a van. We finally settled on twenty

1746
01:28:56,400 --> 01:29:01,360
Speaker 8: sixteen Honda Odyssey we found at a dealership. Grandmother went

1747
01:29:01,439 --> 01:29:03,400
Speaker 8: with me to look at the car my husband was working.

1748
01:29:03,960 --> 01:29:06,439
Speaker 8: It was listed for a bit over ten thousand dollars,

1749
01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:08,639
Speaker 8: but we made a deal with them that we could

1750
01:29:08,680 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 8: pay cash and take the car for ten thousand dollars

1751
01:29:11,200 --> 01:29:13,880
Speaker 8: out the door. We took it to a mechanic friend

1752
01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:16,000
Speaker 8: to look it over. It had a minor issue that

1753
01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 8: could be fixed for about three hundred dollars. Other than that,

1754
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:23,880
Speaker 8: it was perfectly fine. Grandmother immediately vetoed the car because

1755
01:29:23,880 --> 01:29:27,479
Speaker 8: it started with a key fob instead of actually an

1756
01:29:27,520 --> 01:29:29,200
Speaker 8: act of actually a.

1757
01:29:29,240 --> 01:29:33,120
Speaker 1: Key yeah, actually, because you don't want your car to

1758
01:29:33,240 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 1: be started by darn technology when it could be hacked.

1759
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 8: It give me head to be old fashioned and get

1760
01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:39,639
Speaker 8: into your car.

1761
01:29:40,240 --> 01:29:43,840
Speaker 2: I hate technology in cars. I would never have a

1762
01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:44,680
Speaker 2: high tech car.

1763
01:29:44,840 --> 01:29:48,200
Speaker 1: You would never have a car driving around only gasoline

1764
01:29:48,240 --> 01:29:48,840
Speaker 1: cars for me.

1765
01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:53,080
Speaker 8: Her reasoning, if something happened to the internal computer, then

1766
01:29:53,080 --> 01:29:55,320
Speaker 8: the keyfob wouldn't work and we wouldn't be able to.

1767
01:29:55,280 --> 01:29:55,880
Speaker 2: Start the car.

1768
01:29:56,160 --> 01:29:58,719
Speaker 1: She's not wrong, she's not wrong. If there was an EMP.

1769
01:29:59,320 --> 01:30:04,160
Speaker 8: Yeah, if there was some sort of solar flare apocalyptic events,

1770
01:30:04,880 --> 01:30:06,280
Speaker 8: you're not not your gas cars.

1771
01:30:06,520 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's ten steps ahead.

1772
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,439
Speaker 1: She's yeah, she's thinking about the apocalypse exactly.

1773
01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:14,000
Speaker 8: First off, every car has a computer in it, whether

1774
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:17,040
Speaker 8: it starts with a fob or physical key, including hers.

1775
01:30:17,479 --> 01:30:20,200
Speaker 8: But she refused to hear any arguments or to admit

1776
01:30:20,280 --> 01:30:23,000
Speaker 8: that she was wrong about this. Her second reason for

1777
01:30:23,120 --> 01:30:25,559
Speaker 8: vetoing the car was because she wasn't going to waste

1778
01:30:25,640 --> 01:30:27,880
Speaker 8: ten thousand dollars on a car that we could just

1779
01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:30,479
Speaker 8: have put that we would just have to put more

1780
01:30:30,520 --> 01:30:35,639
Speaker 8: money into. Again, also a completely ridiculous argument. The only issue,

1781
01:30:35,680 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 8: which was minor, could be fixed relatively cheaply, and we

1782
01:30:39,240 --> 01:30:40,160
Speaker 8: would be paying for it.

1783
01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:40,800
Speaker 4: Not her.

1784
01:30:41,880 --> 01:30:44,320
Speaker 8: Also, there was no way in heck that we were

1785
01:30:44,360 --> 01:30:46,360
Speaker 8: going to find a good car with no issues and

1786
01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:48,759
Speaker 8: decent miles for ten thousand dollars.

1787
01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:49,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1788
01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:52,840
Speaker 8: She tried to send me links of some other cars

1789
01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:55,639
Speaker 8: that she thought would be better, but they were all cars,

1790
01:30:56,000 --> 01:31:00,240
Speaker 8: not SUVs, not fans, which was what we wanted. She

1791
01:31:00,400 --> 01:31:02,439
Speaker 8: refused to let us have the car we wanted, and

1792
01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:04,519
Speaker 8: only wanted us to get a car she approved of.

1793
01:31:05,320 --> 01:31:08,759
Speaker 8: We stopped looking. I told her to forget it. Hasn't

1794
01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:11,439
Speaker 8: she already given she already kind of handed over the money. No,

1795
01:31:12,640 --> 01:31:13,599
Speaker 8: well now it's just me here.

1796
01:31:16,880 --> 01:31:18,519
Speaker 2: Oh no, I would okay, we.

1797
01:31:18,520 --> 01:31:21,600
Speaker 8: Would just find a car on our own when we

1798
01:31:21,640 --> 01:31:24,559
Speaker 8: could afford it ourselves. So we didn't talk for a while,

1799
01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:28,000
Speaker 8: and when we finally did, I had had enough of her.

1800
01:31:28,479 --> 01:31:30,960
Speaker 8: I was still courteous and polite, but I stopped talking

1801
01:31:31,000 --> 01:31:32,960
Speaker 8: to her about things that were happening in my life

1802
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:36,280
Speaker 8: and opening up to her. Like I used to the

1803
01:31:36,439 --> 01:31:39,000
Speaker 8: only reason we still came around at all was for

1804
01:31:39,160 --> 01:31:41,960
Speaker 8: my daughter. They adored each other, and now that my

1805
01:31:42,080 --> 01:31:44,080
Speaker 8: daughter was eight, she was old enough to retain some

1806
01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:48,120
Speaker 8: memory of her Ooh mooh, what have I done? Some

1807
01:31:48,360 --> 01:31:51,120
Speaker 8: memory of her great grandmother? And I wanted my daughter

1808
01:31:51,240 --> 01:31:55,880
Speaker 8: to remember her in a good way. That didn't last long. Well,

1809
01:31:56,640 --> 01:31:58,120
Speaker 8: I don't know. It just doesn't seem like this is

1810
01:31:58,160 --> 01:32:00,479
Speaker 8: a great person for anyone to be around. No, not

1811
01:32:00,560 --> 01:32:05,000
Speaker 8: at all, especially an impressionable eight year old. About a

1812
01:32:05,040 --> 01:32:07,080
Speaker 8: week or so from the end of second grade, my

1813
01:32:07,240 --> 01:32:10,320
Speaker 8: daughter wanted to dye her hair black. My husband and

1814
01:32:10,360 --> 01:32:12,160
Speaker 8: I didn't have a problem with it if it was

1815
01:32:12,240 --> 01:32:14,400
Speaker 8: what she wanted, so we went to a salon and

1816
01:32:14,520 --> 01:32:15,120
Speaker 8: got it done.

1817
01:32:15,240 --> 01:32:15,519
Speaker 2: Damn.

1818
01:32:16,120 --> 01:32:20,920
Speaker 8: His parents were like so supportive of that. About a

1819
01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:23,519
Speaker 8: week later, I hadn't told my grandmother about my daughter

1820
01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:26,360
Speaker 8: dyeing her hair. We went to see my grandmother because

1821
01:32:26,360 --> 01:32:28,000
Speaker 8: my daughter was going to spend the night with her,

1822
01:32:28,120 --> 01:32:30,320
Speaker 8: and the first thing out of her mouth was what

1823
01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:33,120
Speaker 8: did you do to her? And she said it in

1824
01:32:33,200 --> 01:32:34,720
Speaker 8: a way that made it sound like I was a

1825
01:32:34,840 --> 01:32:37,840
Speaker 8: horrible parent for letting my eight year old daughter dye

1826
01:32:37,960 --> 01:32:41,040
Speaker 8: her hair. It was black. It's not like it was

1827
01:32:41,080 --> 01:32:43,960
Speaker 8: hot pink or green or something. Although if she had

1828
01:32:44,000 --> 01:32:46,880
Speaker 8: wanted to do something some crazy color like that, my

1829
01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:49,960
Speaker 8: husband and I wouldn't have minded. Side note, I have

1830
01:32:50,080 --> 01:32:52,840
Speaker 8: purple hair. She then said something else, and I heard

1831
01:32:53,000 --> 01:32:57,400
Speaker 8: the word satan. Uh, Angela, that's a little bit intense.

1832
01:32:57,600 --> 01:32:59,640
Speaker 8: Angela Connolly says, Oh, no, that's a bit young for me.

1833
01:33:00,200 --> 01:33:04,920
Speaker 8: I personally don't know if I would permanently dye a

1834
01:33:05,000 --> 01:33:07,360
Speaker 8: first grader's hair. I might do like a a like

1835
01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:10,760
Speaker 8: a black dye that you you know, like a not permanent.

1836
01:33:11,320 --> 01:33:17,360
Speaker 8: Do they have those? No, it's just me here. I

1837
01:33:17,439 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 8: think I would do one of those dyes where you

1838
01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:21,439
Speaker 8: know you can wash it out if it was just

1839
01:33:21,479 --> 01:33:23,600
Speaker 8: a first grader. Yeah, se me permanent, because you know,

1840
01:33:23,680 --> 01:33:25,760
Speaker 8: maybe she changes her mind like a week later and

1841
01:33:25,840 --> 01:33:29,880
Speaker 8: she doesn't want the black hair anymore. She then said

1842
01:33:29,920 --> 01:33:32,240
Speaker 8: something else and I heard the word satan. I should

1843
01:33:32,280 --> 01:33:36,240
Speaker 8: have taken my daughter and immediately left, but I brushed

1844
01:33:36,280 --> 01:33:39,200
Speaker 8: it off because I had long stopped listening to her

1845
01:33:40,000 --> 01:33:43,200
Speaker 8: and would unconsciously tune her out when she started nagging.

1846
01:33:43,880 --> 01:33:46,160
Speaker 8: But I didn't, and I will regret it for the

1847
01:33:46,280 --> 01:33:49,599
Speaker 8: last for the rest of my life. Luckily, my daughter

1848
01:33:49,680 --> 01:33:52,519
Speaker 8: did not hear her grandmother call her satan, which she

1849
01:33:52,640 --> 01:33:54,640
Speaker 8: called the the first I thought she was calling oh

1850
01:33:54,720 --> 01:33:57,680
Speaker 8: p satan. She called the first grader satan because her

1851
01:33:57,720 --> 01:34:02,920
Speaker 8: hair was blackde I left and told my husband everything

1852
01:34:03,000 --> 01:34:07,200
Speaker 8: that had happened and and what I heard. The next day,

1853
01:34:07,280 --> 01:34:08,840
Speaker 8: I went to pick up my daughter and when we

1854
01:34:08,960 --> 01:34:12,719
Speaker 8: got back home, I wrote grandmother a letter and mailed

1855
01:34:12,720 --> 01:34:16,919
Speaker 8: it to her. She's not big on email. I basically

1856
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:19,000
Speaker 8: said that I hope she enjoyed her last day with

1857
01:34:19,120 --> 01:34:23,519
Speaker 8: my daughter because she would never see her again. Grandmother

1858
01:34:23,640 --> 01:34:26,280
Speaker 8: had insulted my daughter just because she decided to dye

1859
01:34:26,400 --> 01:34:29,280
Speaker 8: her hair black. She sent me a letter back. I

1860
01:34:29,320 --> 01:34:31,760
Speaker 8: won't write everything because the post is getting long, but

1861
01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:34,960
Speaker 8: here is a quote from her letter to me. Black

1862
01:34:35,000 --> 01:34:37,639
Speaker 8: has always been the absence of light, and without light

1863
01:34:38,240 --> 01:34:42,120
Speaker 8: there is darkness. Darkness is never a good place to me,

1864
01:34:42,280 --> 01:34:44,880
Speaker 8: it is a symbol of satan, and that is what

1865
01:34:45,000 --> 01:34:47,439
Speaker 8: I was trying to say to you. Guess I messed

1866
01:34:47,520 --> 01:34:50,479
Speaker 8: up what I was trying to say. If you cannot

1867
01:34:50,520 --> 01:34:53,599
Speaker 8: accept my side of the situation, then it is considered closed.

1868
01:34:54,120 --> 01:34:56,680
Speaker 8: I feel this has been a bit of a misunderstanding,

1869
01:34:57,760 --> 01:35:01,280
Speaker 8: I replied with a letter stating, among others, yes, darkness

1870
01:35:01,360 --> 01:35:04,360
Speaker 8: represents the absence of light, but there's nothing wrong with that.

1871
01:35:05,280 --> 01:35:08,479
Speaker 8: Without darkness, we cannot have light, and without light, we

1872
01:35:08,600 --> 01:35:12,000
Speaker 8: cannot have darkness. They're getting all philosophical in their letters.

1873
01:35:12,120 --> 01:35:19,240
Speaker 4: Bars, Bars, look at my eye, bar Bars, man a man,

1874
01:35:19,680 --> 01:35:19,920
Speaker 4: we do.

1875
01:35:20,360 --> 01:35:22,519
Speaker 8: We need both to keep the world and el There's more,

1876
01:35:22,760 --> 01:35:26,720
Speaker 8: we need both to keep the world in balance. The

1877
01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:29,400
Speaker 8: earth would not survive long if we had constant sun

1878
01:35:29,479 --> 01:35:32,920
Speaker 8: and no darkness. By the way, you guys can't survive

1879
01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:35,840
Speaker 8: long without us, So join us live every weekday at

1880
01:35:35,880 --> 01:35:37,720
Speaker 8: three PMPST on you too, just to.

1881
01:35:37,720 --> 01:35:38,479
Speaker 1: Have a profile.

1882
01:35:39,880 --> 01:35:42,240
Speaker 8: But there's a little bit left to this update. But

1883
01:35:43,240 --> 01:35:46,160
Speaker 8: but let's chat about this. Hold on.

1884
01:35:47,080 --> 01:35:47,759
Speaker 4: Get comfortable.

1885
01:35:48,600 --> 01:35:51,400
Speaker 8: Let me get comfortable here, come out of my shell

1886
01:35:51,479 --> 01:35:54,680
Speaker 8: a little bit. I think that it seems like this

1887
01:35:54,800 --> 01:35:58,400
Speaker 8: grandmother has just over and over again been pretty awful,

1888
01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:00,960
Speaker 8: and you just don't seem to have the same views.

1889
01:36:01,479 --> 01:36:05,280
Speaker 8: Maybe you can, you know, see her in a controlled space,

1890
01:36:05,360 --> 01:36:06,960
Speaker 8: but we don't have to bring her over to her

1891
01:36:07,040 --> 01:36:07,679
Speaker 8: house anymore.

1892
01:36:07,720 --> 01:36:11,160
Speaker 2: I think no, no, I or cut her off either.

1893
01:36:11,640 --> 01:36:13,679
Speaker 4: I believe cut her off because the fact that she's

1894
01:36:13,880 --> 01:36:16,800
Speaker 4: just so tunnel vision. Yeah.

1895
01:36:16,920 --> 01:36:20,920
Speaker 8: The fact that she like thinks black hair is satanic. Yeah,

1896
01:36:21,080 --> 01:36:23,160
Speaker 8: it is strange because there's a lot of people with

1897
01:36:23,280 --> 01:36:23,760
Speaker 8: black hair.

1898
01:36:24,200 --> 01:36:24,320
Speaker 2: Hi.

1899
01:36:25,680 --> 01:36:28,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, black hair, I'm a part of Satan.

1900
01:36:28,320 --> 01:36:31,120
Speaker 8: Feels a little bit racist, a lot of bit racist. Honestly,

1901
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:32,559
Speaker 8: I don't like the grandma.

1902
01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:35,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1903
01:36:35,160 --> 01:36:36,679
Speaker 8: So I feel like you don't want your your little

1904
01:36:36,800 --> 01:36:39,200
Speaker 8: your little daughter around that energy.

1905
01:36:40,280 --> 01:36:43,640
Speaker 4: No. No, I would just tell her, hey, listen, you

1906
01:36:43,760 --> 01:36:45,840
Speaker 4: have your beliefs, I'm done with it.

1907
01:36:46,200 --> 01:36:46,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1908
01:36:46,439 --> 01:36:48,960
Speaker 8: So yeah, if you are going to keep those beliefs

1909
01:36:49,200 --> 01:36:51,559
Speaker 8: and try and impose them on my daughter after I've

1910
01:36:51,560 --> 01:36:54,000
Speaker 8: told you time and time again, then you just don't

1911
01:36:54,000 --> 01:36:56,040
Speaker 8: get a be around her. But there is a little

1912
01:36:56,040 --> 01:36:59,439
Speaker 8: bit left to the story. She did not apologize for

1913
01:36:59,520 --> 01:37:02,080
Speaker 8: the insul or even admit that she had done anything wrong,

1914
01:37:02,320 --> 01:37:04,719
Speaker 8: and has not done so in the several months since

1915
01:37:04,960 --> 01:37:08,080
Speaker 8: this has happened. She did, however, show up at our

1916
01:37:08,160 --> 01:37:11,439
Speaker 8: door unannounced one day to see our daughter. I stood

1917
01:37:11,479 --> 01:37:13,960
Speaker 8: at the door and refused to let her in, and

1918
01:37:14,120 --> 01:37:18,040
Speaker 8: we continued the argument we had had through letters. She

1919
01:37:18,320 --> 01:37:21,840
Speaker 8: again refused to acknowledge that she did anything wrong. I

1920
01:37:21,960 --> 01:37:24,800
Speaker 8: was getting so upset that I started to cry and

1921
01:37:25,000 --> 01:37:26,760
Speaker 8: my husband had to shut the door in her face

1922
01:37:26,840 --> 01:37:29,639
Speaker 8: to make her leave. Though my daughter did not hear

1923
01:37:29,680 --> 01:37:32,519
Speaker 8: it at the time. Thankfully, she does understand what's happened

1924
01:37:32,560 --> 01:37:36,000
Speaker 8: and does not want to see her great grandmother anymore.

1925
01:37:36,640 --> 01:37:38,960
Speaker 8: So am I the jerk for cutting contact with my

1926
01:37:39,200 --> 01:37:42,479
Speaker 8: grandmother after she practically raised me all because she insulted

1927
01:37:42,560 --> 01:37:45,439
Speaker 8: my daughter? And edit some people are saying I'm the

1928
01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:48,000
Speaker 8: jerk for letting my daughter dye her hair. It's hair,

1929
01:37:48,160 --> 01:37:50,719
Speaker 8: It'll grow out. It's not like dying it one time.

1930
01:37:51,120 --> 01:37:54,720
Speaker 8: We'll change her hair permanently. Also, she's only eight, she's

1931
01:37:54,800 --> 01:37:57,799
Speaker 8: highly swayed by the world around her. Being constantly influenced

1932
01:37:57,840 --> 01:38:00,120
Speaker 8: by grandmother's religion now will stick in her mind and

1933
01:38:00,200 --> 01:38:07,040
Speaker 8: color future decisions. And that is the end of that story.

1934
01:38:08,640 --> 01:38:11,200
Speaker 8: Hope you're not the a hole. Get get your great

1935
01:38:11,240 --> 01:38:12,760
Speaker 8: grandmother away from this little girl.

1936
01:38:13,160 --> 01:38:19,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, a very bad. I would hate that like anyone,

1937
01:38:19,960 --> 01:38:22,800
Speaker 4: especially if it's my own mother, Like if you're trying

1938
01:38:22,880 --> 01:38:26,280
Speaker 4: to just be little, Yeah, my child because of what

1939
01:38:26,439 --> 01:38:29,720
Speaker 4: she wants, and it's like this isn't like nothing to

1940
01:38:29,840 --> 01:38:32,439
Speaker 4: do with like her beliefs or anything. She's an eight

1941
01:38:32,560 --> 01:38:35,840
Speaker 4: year old she's he she can make a later. She

1942
01:38:35,920 --> 01:38:38,080
Speaker 4: can do whatever she wants. I mean, not whatever she wants,

1943
01:38:38,080 --> 01:38:38,320
Speaker 4: but you know.

1944
01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:38,680
Speaker 1: What I mean.

1945
01:38:38,840 --> 01:38:40,759
Speaker 8: She can do literally whatever she wants.

1946
01:38:40,840 --> 01:38:44,840
Speaker 4: She wants to rule the world like I do, she.

1947
01:38:44,920 --> 01:38:45,320
Speaker 8: Can do it.

1948
01:38:45,640 --> 01:38:45,880
Speaker 4: She can.

1949
01:38:45,960 --> 01:38:49,320
Speaker 8: If she wants to live in the ocean, even though

1950
01:38:49,360 --> 01:38:51,840
Speaker 8: she can't breathe under the water, she can do it.

1951
01:38:51,960 --> 01:38:52,400
Speaker 2: You can do it.

1952
01:38:52,439 --> 01:38:55,880
Speaker 4: If she wants to steal the moon, can my girl

1953
01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:58,559
Speaker 4: can steal the moon. I'm not the right character going

1954
01:38:58,680 --> 01:39:04,479
Speaker 4: to steal the Wait, hold on, I'm gruel going.

1955
01:39:03,439 --> 01:39:06,559
Speaker 8: To steal them. No, I can't. Actually usual kind of.

1956
01:39:06,600 --> 01:39:10,719
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to steal the moon.

1957
01:39:11,200 --> 01:39:13,480
Speaker 4: There it is, yeah, because you're an astronauts.

1958
01:39:16,160 --> 01:39:18,719
Speaker 8: But other the are there any shows?

1959
01:39:19,160 --> 01:39:19,360
Speaker 2: Yes?

1960
01:39:19,560 --> 01:39:21,519
Speaker 4: So what we're gonna be doing? I hate how both

1961
01:39:21,520 --> 01:39:26,000
Speaker 4: antennas are going like we're gonna be I'm gonna be

1962
01:39:26,040 --> 01:39:28,800
Speaker 4: coming up and reading, and Sam's gonna be coming back,

1963
01:39:28,920 --> 01:39:32,000
Speaker 4: and you're going to be producing slay So but I'm

1964
01:39:32,000 --> 01:39:33,920
Speaker 4: gonna set it up all all for you. Let me

1965
01:39:33,960 --> 01:39:34,800
Speaker 4: get the donus.

1966
01:39:34,520 --> 01:39:41,120
Speaker 8: Ready, hair, Harriet Spaghetti, thank you for the five bucks.

1967
01:39:41,200 --> 01:39:43,479
Speaker 8: Are you guys related to the Donner party? Donners?

1968
01:39:44,040 --> 01:39:44,080
Speaker 4: No?

1969
01:39:44,520 --> 01:39:46,320
Speaker 8: But when I was in fourth grade. We had to

1970
01:39:46,439 --> 01:39:49,439
Speaker 8: we were learning all about the Donner Party. And I

1971
01:39:49,520 --> 01:39:51,040
Speaker 8: went to my dad and I was like, hey, Dad,

1972
01:39:51,160 --> 01:39:52,599
Speaker 8: are we related to the Donner Party?

1973
01:39:52,640 --> 01:39:53,599
Speaker 4: And he was like yes.

1974
01:39:54,080 --> 01:39:56,240
Speaker 8: So I went back to my fourth grade class and

1975
01:39:56,280 --> 01:39:59,400
Speaker 8: I was like, yeah, I'm related to the Donner Party.

1976
01:39:59,720 --> 01:40:03,240
Speaker 8: You better watch out. And then I was talking to

1977
01:40:03,280 --> 01:40:07,080
Speaker 8: my grandma like a month later, and I was like, yeah,

1978
01:40:07,560 --> 01:40:09,400
Speaker 8: and we just learned about the Donner Party and we're

1979
01:40:09,439 --> 01:40:11,519
Speaker 8: related to them, and my grandma was like, no, we're not.

1980
01:40:12,439 --> 01:40:16,519
Speaker 8: We're from Poland, so no, we're not related to the

1981
01:40:16,600 --> 01:40:19,800
Speaker 8: Donner Party. Donners, Uh and Brie, thank you for the

1982
01:40:19,880 --> 01:40:22,360
Speaker 8: five bucks. I'm staying sober and being d D for

1983
01:40:22,479 --> 01:40:26,200
Speaker 8: my friends tonight. Y'all are keeping me sane. Helliott, that's

1984
01:40:26,200 --> 01:40:28,840
Speaker 8: super cool of you. I'm always the d D so

1985
01:40:28,960 --> 01:40:30,320
Speaker 8: I feel it.

1986
01:40:30,840 --> 01:40:34,120
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know.

1987
01:40:34,439 --> 01:40:34,799
Speaker 5: MM.

1988
01:40:35,120 --> 01:40:37,719
Speaker 8: I will read it Againbody, thank you for the five bucks.

1989
01:40:37,920 --> 01:40:40,000
Speaker 8: Longtime lurker, but I had to come under the shadows

1990
01:40:40,040 --> 01:40:42,160
Speaker 8: to say. My cat is now fixated on the stream

1991
01:40:42,240 --> 01:40:45,280
Speaker 8: after seeing Keon's costume. Sobody cats in the stream.

1992
01:40:45,320 --> 01:40:46,000
Speaker 4: You're welcome, Cat.

1993
01:40:46,200 --> 01:40:46,640
Speaker 1: I love that.

1994
01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:50,920
Speaker 8: Papercran says, what is the Donner Party, So for anyone

1995
01:40:50,960 --> 01:40:54,280
Speaker 8: who didn't have that whole section, and maybe dude didn't

1996
01:40:54,280 --> 01:40:58,240
Speaker 8: live in California. Basically, the Donner Party was a group

1997
01:40:58,360 --> 01:41:03,760
Speaker 8: of pioneers, travelers, settlers from Illinois. I want to say

1998
01:41:03,800 --> 01:41:08,120
Speaker 8: they were from Springfield, Illinois, and they made the little

1999
01:41:08,200 --> 01:41:13,080
Speaker 8: trek in the eighteen hundreds, seventeen hundred, I don't know,

2000
01:41:13,320 --> 01:41:16,640
Speaker 8: eighteen hundreds. I'm assuming they made the trek over the

2001
01:41:16,800 --> 01:41:20,760
Speaker 8: mountains to go to California. But they got stuck on

2002
01:41:21,000 --> 01:41:25,080
Speaker 8: what is now called Donner Pass in the snow and

2003
01:41:25,200 --> 01:41:28,760
Speaker 8: they started starving, and then to survive they ate each other.

2004
01:41:29,439 --> 01:41:32,400
Speaker 8: But fun, not so fun. Fact, they totally could have

2005
01:41:32,479 --> 01:41:35,519
Speaker 8: survived because the Native Americans offered them help and they

2006
01:41:35,560 --> 01:41:39,559
Speaker 8: were like, no, we're racist, so we don't claim those Donners.

2007
01:41:40,760 --> 01:41:41,719
Speaker 8: But yeah, that's the story.