WEBVTT - Episode 364 "Female DJs" 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:11.760 They get a little they called me broadcasting live from Atlanta, 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:13.640 Georgia up to the ball Alert show. I go by 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:14.960 the name of for our simus, I go by the 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:17.680 name you know, BT, DJ Penny Lane, DJ MO name, 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:18.960 DJ Sugar Shame Building. 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:22.280 Welcome to the show, ladies. 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:24.640 Yeah, thanks for having us. 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:27.120 Yeah, I want to I want to dive right into 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:37.400 a good conversation with some DJs, entrepreneurs, family people, mothers, travelers, DIBs, 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:42.880 a sex. Yeah, I've seen each of you, three ladies 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:46.320 or b T two in club settings, body and clubs, 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:50.159 on the radio, body and radio mixes. I would like 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:52.760 to start a Sugar Shae you know, say your name, 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:54.800 tell them how to follow you, and you know everything 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:55.440 you got going on? 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:57.480 Okay, I go by the name of DJ Sugar Shae. 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.920 Mis give me some sugar on my IG is d 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.560 J s U G A s h A E. I 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:07.399 DJ for Total Radio. Well, I was doing radio for 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:10.560 seven years, not anymore. I'm a mother of three. When 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:14.399 it comes to dogs, I'm a dog mother for baby your. 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:18.240 For a very mom or whatever. I travel a lot internationally. 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:22.480 I DJ. It's a lot of things I do, honestly. 0:01:22.319 --> 0:01:24.520 Just one that competition that j I just one to. 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:25.960 Netflix DJ competition. 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:29.920 Yes, yes, shouts out to Flight Out DC for putting 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:33.080 that together. But yeah, it's probably more stuff than that. 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:34.880 But I can't even think I do it all honestly. 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:36.760 But I'm just, you know, happy to be here with 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:38.000 some dope female DJs. 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:39.399 So I'm DJ. 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:44.840 You can follow me on Instagram at DJ Mone, DJ Underscore, 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:49.240 m O n A. I do radio a lot of 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.840 clubs in the city. I have my own podcast roll 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:55.720 Wanna Cut DJ Podcasts. Yeah, I DJ for O, R 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:57.280 and B artists. Her name is the artist. 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:02.160 Yeah, yeah, all right, how y'all doing. I'm DJ Penny Lane. 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:05.280 I DJ on Radio ninety six point one. 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:08.280 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah home team. 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:13.079 DJ for R and B Royalty, Jagged Edge, and I 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:17.480 own recording studios, industry ATLS like eighty five hundred square 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:21.200 foot compounds, studios, photography studios. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.120 Anything you could think of if you name it. 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:26.920 And yeah, just moving. 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:28.720 You a mom? Oh I'm a mom. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.000 Yes, I'm a new mom. I got a one year 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:34.840 old baby girl. That's like my world. Like I thought 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:36.960 I thought other stuff matd. I thought other shit mattered, 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:39.320 But now since I had my baby. That's literally like 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.799 the only thing that matters everything else. It's just like 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:46.000 whatever it is, what it is. So yeah, I'm a DJ. 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:46.320 And the mom. 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:51.680 I'm getting straight into it. BT. In the industry male dominated, 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.000 I feel like, and I want you guys to correct 0:02:55.000 --> 0:02:56.680 me if I'm wrong. I feel like you guys had 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:59.280 to work twice as hard, be twice as nice, blend 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:03.160 twice as bad, twice as good as your male coworkers. 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:05.200 Do you think that is true? 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:06.160 Yes? 0:03:07.320 --> 0:03:10.200 And why I feel like it's it's harder for us 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.800 because we already have the stigma of like, well, what 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:14.960 you're gonna do or whatever, and it's like, we gotta 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:17.760 come looking better. If you want to get a sugar shade, 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:19.200 you want me to come at sugar shade. So I 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:22.720 gotta look a certain way that's first and foremost, foremost, 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:24.120 And then yes, I do have to play good. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.160 I gotta talk on a mic. I have to create 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:26.600 a vibe. 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:28.160 I have to Yeah, I have to be better, because 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:30.360 if not, then what's the point of getting the female DJ. 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:31.799 I could just got a guy, you know what I'm saying. 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.760 So it's all around with the presentation and the skill 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:36.960 set too, is very important, So we have to work 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:39.000 twice as hard to promote ourselves and make sure that 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:41.320 we're definitely doing better than the guys. 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:44.800 Now this is a question, Oh oh, all the answers 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:45.119 they can. 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:48.520 Oh, so yeah, I'm a piggyback on that. I do 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:50.400 think that we have to show up. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:52.760 Oh my bad, we gotta show up. 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:54.680 We gotta work extra hard. 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:57.320 Like when I was getting into the DJ thing, I 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:59.600 felt like the DJ cunt is like a click. But 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:03.200 I feel like they treat females like infistrators, like. 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:06.080 Like we not like or then also too, it be 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:09.640 like I forgot what I was going to say. 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:14.120 I'm sorry, but but all that too, we do have 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.320 to come Like when I'm working with Jag, I do 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:17.960 have to come look in a certain way. I do 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.120 have to be sexy, I do have to be fire. 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:24.400 So it is it's definitely extra hard, but I feel 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:27.200 like I got a good welcome when I came to Atlanta, 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:31.000 Like I was working with Ace and Tefline, so I 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:34.200 feel like they working with them, A lot of the 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:37.160 other DJs respected me and stuff just because they was like, oh, 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:39.599 she fucking with them, like she gotta be she gotta 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:41.480 be fire. She gotta be you know what I'm saying. 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:44.680 So I do feel like it's just definitely tougher for us. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:48.400 Yeah, I agree too, But my journey was a little different. 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:50.960 So when I started, I didn't really dress up because 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:53.119 I wanted people to respect me for my actual talent. 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:55.800 But when I started doing the bigger clubs, then I 0:04:55.800 --> 0:04:59.240 saw like, all right, I might gotta put that shit 0:04:59.320 --> 0:04:59.960 on sometimes. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:03.680 So did anybody say that to anybody? Was just like, 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:04.240 I mean you. 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:07.080 Kind of you kind of noticed, like if I'm DJing 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.880 after or before somebody, and I'm like, well, why am 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:12.320 I not closing? It could be because she came in 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:12.919 with address on? 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:15.240 So yeah, that what that was going to be. 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:18.680 The next question, how do y'all feel about you know, uh, 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:22.480 I don't really see a lot of female DJs closing, you. 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:26.240 Know, I've been in the game ten plus years. The 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.719 whole closing thing is it's a conversation that depends on 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:30.640 if you headlining and different things like that. But do 0:05:30.680 --> 0:05:32.240 I want to close in the city where y'all going 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.239 to probably try to pay me the same as the opener, 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:36.600 I'm going home at twelve o'clock, rubbing my feet together, 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:37.440 watching lifetime. 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:40.040 I'm not here to do that. 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:41.960 I feel like, or do you want to close in 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:44.080 a city where you don't know who's watching you in 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:45.880 the club and you got to go home by yourself? 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:47.880 Like that's happening either way? 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:51.760 Wow, we don't like, don't want to be okay, that's 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:53.640 in general minds is completely different. 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:56.040 Like I'm trying to get home like I got I 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.440 feel I take it to heart, like being in a 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:00.599 bill with my baby, Like it'd be like how be 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:05.160 out in the club, So I prefer. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:08.400 Now to do something earlier time shift? 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:12.800 Wow, dang, But what female DJs we do get respected 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:15.000 more when it comes to like what price we want? 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.640 So open it up for us is like why would 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:18.279 I want to close? 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:22.120 Wow? So you will get a little bit more to open. 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:26.920 You should get more closed, you should get more money 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:27.400 to close. 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:29.640 But a lot of times these promoters that try to 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:31.400 give the opener and the closes of the same price. 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:33.400 So what am I here busting my ass for? 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:35.640 You know what I'm saying, trying to prove myself and 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:37.400 really it's nothing to prove at the end of the day, 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:39.040 after you donet made a name for yourself. So it's 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.719 like knock yourself out. For me, it's like, let the 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:42.680 younger kids have it. I done did it. I don't 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:44.800 been at Cafe Circle on a Saturday from three pm 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.040 to three am for years, you know what I'm saying. 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:49.640 And to be piggyback off of what she said, Like 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:52.040 my first nine years of the game, it was all 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:55.400 about the skill set, the I didn't care about how 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:57.520 I looked or none of that. I didn't give a 0:06:57.520 --> 0:06:59.440 fuck about that. It was mainly about I want to 0:06:59.440 --> 0:07:01.880 be respected. I want to I want to out hustle 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:03.880 everybody as far as I'll work all day. I don't 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:05.560 give a fuck like you want to add another gig. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:07.720 It's times I would DJ from twelve pm to four 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:09.479 in the morning, just go from one gig to the 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:09.800 next one. 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:11.080 I did that shit for years. So now I was like, 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:12.120 I pay my dues. 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:13.960 And then we're not trying to be around the promoters 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:16.520 after they done drunk three bottles. 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:18.800 I'm about to head there. 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:22.680 But they do that on a check in. If you that, 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:25.680 they just gonna try you regardless, like the ready. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.480 So I'm about to head there. I love all three 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:29.640 of you guys like my sisters. 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:29.960 For real. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.720 I've known each of you guys over five years. I 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.760 want to say close some of you guys maybe close 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:37.360 to ten, especially YouTube. You know, what I'm saying is 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:44.000 a little newer. So as a very attractive DJ, female DJ, 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:48.240 how do you guys navigate? First of all, people coming 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:52.200 to the boots to request music that's already annoying but 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:57.560 security okay, but what about now you got the guys saying, hey, 0:07:57.600 --> 0:07:58.840 what's up? Oh shit? 0:07:58.960 --> 0:07:59.680 What's up? Like? 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:02.680 Are there annoying moments that you guys be like a man? 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:05.400 You're doing too much while you're trying to mix. Why 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.800 you're trying to DJ? Someone's trying to holler at you 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:11.080 about this? Someone's actually trying to hoghller at you while 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:15.240 navigating through a club, body in the club, DJing, mixing, 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:17.600 all these things going through your mind, and you got 0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:19.360 to deal with all the extra stuff about being a 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:23.480 woman and the DJ PAINNY I want you to go first. 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:26.520 I feel like I feel like I don't know what 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:28.520 it is because I literally just was having this conversation 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:30.680 with another female DJ, like a few days ago, and 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:32.640 she was just saying about how the DJ's be trying 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:33.960 her and this and the third and I feel like 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.720 I don't deal with that. I feel like I get 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.280 a certain level of respect for but like niggas know 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:41.480 not to play with me. Like niggas know I get money, 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:43.120 they know all of that shit. So if you got 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.400 come a certain way, you got come correct whatever. Then, 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.160 like I said, the people who I came up with 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.360 down here, they respected them, so they showed me another 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:51.920 level of respect. Then on top of that, like's I 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:54.360 didn't covered every angle. I didn't went to scratch academy 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:56.240 with niggas can really scratch about it than me. I 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.920 didn't fucking did like I didn't did put myself in 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:01.200 a position where I feel like they can't really fuck 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:02.840 with me. And I think when people be intimidated to 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:04.440 buy people that don't really fuck with them and don't 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:06.800 I don't have that. Niggas don't be trying me. Niggas 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:09.000 don't try me about my paper. Niggas don't like, they 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:11.040 don't do none of that. I don't really what about 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.320 the people in the crowd though, Like the crowd don't 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:14.960 even I don't like I'm trying to think, like the 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:17.280 crowd don't be bothering me like I always got And 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:18.800 then to be other niggas that really fucked me. 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:20.920 Or I fuck with me, they be right there gatekeeping. 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:22.760 I guess, like nobody don't really fuck with me. Like 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:24.840 I don't deal with that. Like I feel like maybe 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:26.040 a few times when I. 0:09:26.000 --> 0:09:29.480 Was coming up, but now no, yeah, like I said, 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:31.440 like you said, like I'm a little newer to the city, 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:34.280 I have had that happen. But something you just gotta 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:35.800 let niggas know, like I'm not. 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:36.319 Going for that. 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:38.640 Okay, yeah, okay. 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:42.560 Majority of the time I've been in relationships in my career, 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:44.400 and I think a lot of times I've been in 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:46.600 relationships to protect myself, you know what I'm saying in 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:49.160 a lot of ways. So I took this serious as 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:50.959 far as becoming a DJ, because I was a bartender 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:53.120 turned DJ. So I've been in the club since I 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:55.440 was eighteen years old, coming from New York, moving here 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:56.920 or whatever to Atlanta. 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:59.240 So I don't know, like I just. 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:01.480 My camera barton never so coming next. 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:04.120 Yeah, So I mean it come with it. 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:05.720 At the end of the day, if you attract the female, 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:07.360 I don't care if you DJ or if you whatever 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:09.439 it is, and people in that space they drinking or 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.480 whatever the case may be. There's a level of you 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:14.680 could be nice or be cool, but you know, no, 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:16.480 not to cross the line. But I don't mind being 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:18.600 cool or whatever. I don't have to. It's not like, oh, 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.160 I'm you know, all outside and all of that type 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:22.960 of stuff. It just is what it is, Like, I'm cool. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.360 I know niggas like females. So you can not only 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.760 just the dudes. You gotta think the females. We in Atlanta, 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.000 like you might get hit on by the. 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:37.800 Girls words and might try to fill you up, like 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:39.640 maybe girls like a little. 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:40.319 Bit more intimidated. 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:42.880 Yeah, yeah, because I know I'd be looking me half 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:44.600 of the time, but that they. 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:48.640 Like that, it's scary. 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:52.480 It's I always want to ask you, guys, this's the women. 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:55.880 They be extra and they'd be bold to really. 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:57.720 Yeah, so I always wanted to ask you this, do 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:00.800 you guys play for the women or the women? 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:07.720 That's that's that was the cheat code. I feel like before. 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:10.840 Before female DJs became really like popular because when we 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:12.400 came in the game, it probably we could count how 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:15.000 many was out here. Right now it's very popular even 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:17.840 with social media. But that was the cold you feel 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:20.000 me the dudes was just you know, doing what they do. 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:22.240 We came in the game and we got the girls 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:25.960 moving absolutely, So the guys don't care they playing their 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:27.840 homeboy song. They trying to break this record. They play 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:30.320 trying to play the hottest record that's like the you know, 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:32.360 the most trappiest song they could think of. We come 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.040 in and just set the vibe and then now it's 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:35.839 like now the dudes are opening up to that, and 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.080 it's like all right now, y'all, you know, dropping different records. 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:41.040 From you know, I'm bad idea to let a female 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:43.959 close the club because we listened to music different than 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:44.280 men do. 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:47.760 So you guys have a okay, would you say you 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:52.079 have a completely different ear than your male co workers? Yeah? 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:54.400 Not the R and B lovers, some of them they 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:54.840 be knowing. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:57.559 Do you think that you guys would be better R 0:11:57.600 --> 0:12:01.640 and B DJs than of course, I'm not trying to 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:05.880 put nothing against nothing. I'm just saying because usually I 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:08.480 feel like I was just always taught as a DJ 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:11.200 and as a host, you play towards the women in 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:14.120 the club because then the guys will follow the women. 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:17.520 That's just how it go. So I feel like, who 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:19.480 better than a female DJ to do an R and 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:20.199 B party. 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:22.679 Right, You don't see a lot of females doing R 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:23.680 and B parties. I do. 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:25.240 That's mainly my lane. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:27.880 Really, that's all I get booked for most majority of 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:28.800 the time, and it's other stuff. 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:30.240 I want to get into other genres. 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.280 But R and B is you could play some shit 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.360 that mother'd be like, oh, I forgot about that. I'm 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.520 gonna play just the ship that I'm not R and B. 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:39.280 I want to hear bang bang kill, shoot them up. 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:43.640 You find it interesting when certain male DJs like do 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:45.000 the R and B because it gives. 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:47.040 Me like, oh, this is what the niggas like, like, oh. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.480 Song like that? I don't know, and I don't get 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:54.920 sucked up. It's some fire R and B like male DJs. 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:58.040 I agree, I agree. I just I've never seen with 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:01.440 my two eyes a female uh do an R and 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:04.560 B party. I'm just gonna I'm gonna be a little ignorant. 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:06.120 I don't really like R and B like that. 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:07.080 Yeah, he hates. 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:09.280 My wife loves R and B, so I played to 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:11.760 her right, so I know what she likes. So if 0:13:11.800 --> 0:13:13.640 I'm doing some R and B vibes, I'm gonna play 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.080 what I know My wife likes, which will then intend 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:17.880 mother be like, what the hell do you even knowing 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:22.880 about that? Cheeko? That's my cheakote. However, I just never 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:23.920 saw a female. 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.680 I mean, every Thursday don with Mixed Master, David Whiskey, 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:27.600 Mistress R and. 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:29.360 B Party, I need to come to that. 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:32.440 Yeah, and miss Fire we playing everything, I mean from 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.920 the sixties, seventies, eighties, nineties to now, like it's everything. 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:41.040 Mixed Master got a deep a deep bag absolutely told 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.080 me we had like thirty thousand songs on his laptop. 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:46.560 Yeah yeah, okay, yeah, that's that's the way right now. Honestly, 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:48.720 I feel like one, you know how Atlanta is once 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:51.160 one thing hit and it's like ten thousand R and 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:51.880 B parties. 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:56.560 Now yeah yeah, okay, So all right, I hate to 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:59.120 say it, but I know you ladies have personal lives 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:04.160 as well. What is that like as a entrepreneur, because 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:10.000 you guys are serial entrepreneurs. You you get paid to entertain, 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.920 and then you have to have multiple things of income 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:14.760 as well, because you know, you can't just do one thing, 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:19.400 and especially in Atlanta, you know, starting with you, Sugar Shade, 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:21.880 what how does your what does your personal life look like? 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:24.080 As who you are. 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:27.000 My personal life right now is like super busy. I 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:28.840 don't have time for nothing. 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:30.320 Like so youn't have time for personal life. 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:31.800 My personal life. 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:34.800 Majority of the time. When I need that time, I'm 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:36.680 out of town or I'm out of the country. Honestly, 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:40.000 when i'm literally I live in Atlanta to work. You know, 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.000 if I'm not working, I'm not here. So if I 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:43.480 need to get away to where I don't have to 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:45.200 worry about things happening, I have to go out of 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.520 town so I can like really like unwind. So if 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:50.560 I am with a you know, an individual or the 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:53.200 person that I deal with, I'm out of town majority 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:55.480 at the time because that's where I feel more at peace. 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:57.840 But when I'm home, it's constant. I have a tight 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.480 schedule to run. I got dogs at you know me, 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.320 and I have like, you know, all this business stuff 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:05.160 I have to do, you know what I'm saying, just 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:09.720 like we have to turn in mixes, invoices and making 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:11.680 sure this is sent over. Like I have to dedicate 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:13.680 just maybe my mondays to just making sure all my 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:15.120 pa you know, all of that stuff is handled. 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.160 So it's like you have to really be serious about. 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:18.840 This because it's not a joke, you know what I'm saying, 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:20.840 And you feel guilty when you're not doing that because 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:22.680 it's somebody else that's out here really. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:24.600 Like you know, doing what they need to do, you 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:25.080 know what I'm saying. 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:27.600 So you can miss one second or something or opportunity, 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:29.520 so you always got to be on it. So really, 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:31.440 the only time I have a personal life is when 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:31.960 I'm not here. 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:36.520 So my personal life I just choose like to stay 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:39.080 off of social media, so I don't post my personal 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.160 life like so people feel like they know me, but 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:43.920 you only know what I post. So that's how I 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:48.520 keep my sanity. But like she said, I'm always busy, 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:50.800 Like from the time I wake up to the time 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:52.400 I go to sleep, I'm always doing something. 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:57.200 Okay, oh same, always busy, but I do obviously I got. 0:15:57.120 --> 0:15:59.840 A baby, so but you have a new baby. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.479 And I personally like the guys I date. I personally 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.800 date like guys who I know are not jealous type 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:09.360 of guys I'll date like mister moms, like I need 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:10.400 a nigga that could cook. 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:13.520 Because I'm not. 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:15.720 I'm so busy and I'm traveling all the time, and 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:17.360 I don't so I'm not in the kitchen cooking. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.600 My nigga could cook or you can. 0:16:20.000 --> 0:16:21.280 That's that's that's that's that's dope. 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.680 Not jealous, he's not. He's a team player. Like he's 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.120 whatever I need, whatever, he's right with. 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:28.040 It, you know what I'm saying. 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:32.120 So and I personally like like I just just what 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:34.840 I prefer to date, Like I prefer like when I 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:36.560 even when I meet a nigga be like, do you 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:38.040 know how to cook? Do you know how to X 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:40.000 y Z? Do you know how to can you fulfill? 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:42.600 Like like that's just a quite like you know how 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:44.880 guys were looking for a girl who could cook clean 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:46.320 And that's me. 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:47.440 That's what I do when I. 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:51.120 Have to be like that because we're like our personalities 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:53.240 were dominant even for us to be in the position 0:16:53.320 --> 0:16:55.160 that we in. We dominate, so we can't even deal 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:56.200 with certain type of guys. 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:57.160 So you gotta fall in. 0:16:57.480 --> 0:16:59.200