1 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: When I did this stuff for the National Council for Adoption, 2 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: I was doing these interviews, and in those interviews, those 3 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: stories would get out there and people started showing up 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: at my shows with like ziplock baggies with hair. Wanted 5 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 1: me to run some kind of CSI analysis to prove 6 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: they're my cousin, uncle, brother's sister. No way, not crazy, 7 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: I mean crazy. 8 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: Welcome to episode five twenty seven with Rodney Atkins. You 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 2: can follow him at Rodney Atkins on Instagram. He has 10 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 2: a new song, Watching You two point zero and it's 11 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 2: with his son, Eli Atkins, and that whole song is 12 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: about his kid when he was way, way, way younger, 13 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 2: so kind of a full circle moment we talk about that. 14 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 2: You can also go see Rodney on tour. Just go 15 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: to Rodney atkins dot com. Little Rodney News for you. 16 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 2: He's had six number one songs, massive songs too. He 17 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: has I've Been watching You eight thing, and he has 18 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 2: if You're going through ooh hell, maybe I don't think 19 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 2: that one as well. He has Cleaning that Gun. Just 20 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 2: a crazy cool career. Also, his story of being adopted, 21 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 2: which we talk about a lot in this episode, and 22 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 2: I felt like he was pretty generous with going to 23 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: those stories. Didn't you you get emotional? Yeah? Yeah, it 24 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 2: was good. So first time I've really spent well this 25 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 2: much time with Rodney Atkins. Really liked it. I hope 26 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: you like it. And again, you can follow us on 27 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: Instagram the Bobby Cast and you can see all these clips. 28 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 2: You can watch the whole video as well. If you 29 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 2: just don't want to listen, you can watch the YouTube 30 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: same thing. Go over and find at Bobby Bone's channel 31 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 2: over on YouTube. All right, here he is, Episode five 32 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: twenty seven. Rodney Atkins, Bridney, how are you man? 33 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: I'm good man. 34 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 2: Good to see Yeah, good to see you too. I 35 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: feel like I've been in Nashville now twelve thirteen years? 36 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah, how long have you been here? Dude? 37 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: This is my year that I moved here in ninety five, 38 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: so this is my thirtieth year. From where from East Well, So, 39 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: I grew up in East Tennessee, a little town called 40 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: Cumberland Gap. That's where I grew up kind of started 41 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: making my way this direction. I went to a junior 42 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: college in East Tennessee. Then I went to Tennessee Tech. 43 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: So that's where I moved here from was Cookville. 44 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: I have friends from Cookville, so I know the area. Yeah, Gator, 45 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: Gator love Gator, Yeah, Gators from near Cookville. 46 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: He was one of my first encourager relievers. Yeah, early 47 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: early on when he was at the Country Giant Man. 48 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: He rocked that morning show forever while I was going 49 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: to school at Tennessee Tech. 50 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 2: It's weird people have radio names. I say that as 51 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 2: somebody with a radio name, like because his name's not Gator. 52 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: But I remember we were getting married and not you 53 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 2: and I Rodny, my wife and I sir, and we 54 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 2: were writing down all the names for the guest list, 55 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 2: and a lot of my friends are in radio, and 56 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 2: so there's like Gator, Harrison, rod Phillips, Charlemagne the God. 57 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: And she was like, you know, these aren't their real names, 58 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 2: Like we need their real names to invite them to 59 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 2: the wedding. And funny, I know Gator, I've known him 60 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 2: for so long. His name is just Gator, but that's 61 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: he was part of a morning show and that's how 62 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: he got his name. That's that's funny think about. So 63 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 2: when you were going to college, what were you doing? 64 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: So I was there, I was majoring in psychology Tech 65 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: they make you do these these practicums, these these huge 66 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: paper these thesis papers for an undergraduate degree in that, 67 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: and it took forever, and I really had no desire. 68 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: I was just taking classes. I wound up leaving supposedly 69 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: with one class left that thesis that I was supposed 70 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: to do, And then years later I qualified for this 71 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: interdisciplinary studies degree. So I finally got my degree after 72 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: all that. But I was pretty much trying to write songs. 73 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: I think the whole time I was there. 74 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 2: Why psychology, you know, I don't know. 75 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: It just seemed like, what are you interested in? And 76 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: I thought about working with kids. That was kind of 77 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: my drive at the time, and I wound up doing 78 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: some I had a job at Woodland Residential Center in Cookeville, 79 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: and it was just working with I think there were 80 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: thirteen to eighteen year old males that had gotten a 81 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: lot of trouble and the spilled to be the worst 82 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: of the worst in the state of Tennessee. I started 83 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: working there and that kind of opened the door of, Okay, 84 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: this could be something that I love to do. That's 85 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: the only thing I can go back to that I 86 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 1: was really interested in psychology. 87 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 2: I guess did you get in much trouble as a kid, No, No, 88 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 2: not really, nothing more than small town South trouble. 89 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: Exactly, just normal. Yeah, I might break a window or 90 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: get caught out too late, but no. 91 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 2: Did you play ball? 92 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah. 93 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: What was your sport? 94 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 1: Baseball? Man, I love baseball. 95 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 2: Did you play outside of high school at all? 96 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: I did. I played at that junior college is like 97 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: the It could be the best baseball school in the 98 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: whole country. It's called Walter State, and I went there 99 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: for a couple of years thinking that I had a 100 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: shot at playing baseball until I got around those guys 101 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: and they were all like either drafted out of high 102 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: scho cool and just beast players, had a blast. But man, 103 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: I realized how good I wasn't around those guys. They 104 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: were brutes. 105 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: When did you start doing music? 106 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 1: So? My dad played gospel music, He directed choirs, and 107 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: he was always around music. I was always too shy 108 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: to actually get up and sing in front of people. 109 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: Got in high school and I met a girl and 110 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: her parents played all kinds of instruments. It was that 111 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:33,799 Speaker 1: backwood hillbilly family that plays every instrument, and you would 112 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 1: literally hear people playing music on a front porch somewhere, 113 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: show up, they'd hand you a guitar. And so when 114 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: I went over to her house, they played music. Her 115 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: little brother was like Roy Clark or something, in the 116 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: sixth grade, and they taught me my first guitar chords. 117 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: They were a singing bunch. They could all sing and play, 118 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: and I just started playing music. Then I was kind 119 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 1: of into writing, Like I remember, like A really loved 120 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: doing book reports and stuff in school. And then somewhere 121 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: in there, this girl that gave him my first guitar 122 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: just broke my heart, just shattered me, and it made 123 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: me a want of riot songs and be get out 124 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: of that little town. It was all her, and that's 125 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: really where I started playing music and writing songs. That's 126 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: all I wanted to do was write songs. And when 127 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: I got to Walter State, the junior college, the guys 128 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: would like, bring your guitar on the bus, and so 129 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: I would take it. We'd sit around and sing. But 130 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 1: it was never me getting up in front of people 131 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: and singing. It was just around friends. And that's how 132 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: I kind of started playing. 133 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 2: Really, I feel like Roy Clark's one of the greatest 134 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 2: players of all time, and he doesn't get lumped in 135 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 2: with the greatest of all time, probably because he was 136 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 2: in country music, I. 137 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: Guess, so, yeah, he was just other next level chaed 138 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: Atkins kind of uppear. 139 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: I feel like he's one of the greatest of all time, 140 00:06:56,400 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 2: and because country music hadn't spread as much as it 141 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: has now into popular culture, he's often overlooked. 142 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: And he was Buck Owen's sidekick. Yeah, so Buck took 143 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: that buck Owen's world. But yeah, man, I remember just 144 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: being in awe of that and a lot of pickers. 145 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: I think guitar players see that. 146 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 2: Are you a good guitar player? 147 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: Oh? No, I can just accompany myself. I just just 148 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: enough to really play along with this Dwight Yoakham song 149 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: or what you know, to learn those songs as you 150 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: hear them on the radio and stuff. 151 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: Did you play piano? No, did you ever learn to 152 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 2: play piano? 153 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: I did not, wish I would have. I was that 154 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: kid that my sister took piano. She did all that, 155 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,239 Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm not doing that. I'm playing sports. 156 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to play music that didn't happen until later. 157 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: I'd give anything if I would have. 158 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 2: Now I feel the same way I wish I would 159 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 2: have been a band. Yeah, because I played sports exactly, 160 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 2: but I wish I would have just sucked it up 161 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 2: and got I wanted to play an instrument. I think 162 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: a lot of the reason, too, is financial, but still 163 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 2: there were ways to make it happen, because there are 164 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 2: ways to make other things happen. I wish I would 165 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: have earned music in high school. 166 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: My our neighbor, the lady that lived near us, taught 167 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: my sister piano. I could have just walked over there, 168 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 1: but I just I'm not doing that. The band leader, 169 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:13,239 Speaker 1: you should join the band. I'm not playing in a band. 170 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: Play sports, That's what I do. 171 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: You've talked about being adopted. When you say your dad 172 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 2: your adopted father, Yeah yeah, yeah, So when did you 173 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: first know you were adopted? Were you always? 174 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: When I was a kid, my sister came up and said, 175 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: you're not really their kid, You're adopted. And so I 176 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: went to my parents and asked them. I mean, I 177 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: was like five, and it's funny now, but they told 178 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 1: me the whole story that I was put up for adoption, 179 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: and then this children's home took me in, and Holston 180 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: Home for Children still do a lot of stuff with them, 181 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: and evidently my parents had lost a child that had 182 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: a respiratory staff infection, I think is what it was 183 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. Well after they went through that, 184 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: they applied to adopt, and I was adopted by another couple, 185 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: and then I was taken back because I had the 186 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: same thing to just lesser degree of what their child had. 187 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: So I was adopted like two or three times and 188 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: returned to the orphanage. 189 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 2: Baby. Yeah, so you have no memory of this. 190 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: Lord, no, no, And so that is kind of how 191 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: I wound up with them. And so they told me 192 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: the whole story. 193 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 2: And I've had trouble trying to figure out who's like 194 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 2: my grandparents are my great grandfathers. So my dad left 195 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 2: when I was five or six. I know my mom, 196 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 2: but she was an addict. She died in her forties. 197 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 2: But my grandmother adopted me for a lot, uh you know, 198 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 2: a big part of my life and which I found 199 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 2: like I saw security car with a different name on it, 200 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: Like that's how I found out. And it wasn't the 201 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 2: same story because my parents were still alive, they were 202 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 2: just not with me. My grandmother had to take over 203 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 2: guardianship and I found out because I literally saw I 204 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 2: sold security card with a different last name, and I 205 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 2: was like, what is this? 206 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: Wow? 207 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 2: And it was like, well, you've been adopt that whole story, right. 208 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 2: But because my grandmother's husband that my grandpa died before 209 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 2: I was born, and my grandmother on my dad's side, 210 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 2: I didn't know my dad, so I didn't know her. 211 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 2: I didn't know anything. I don't know any family history 212 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,439 Speaker 2: of like medical. They're like, hey, what's your family mister? 213 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. Like that's a struggle. 214 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. I went down that road for quite a while. 215 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: And you start thinking about that that kind of stuff, 216 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 1: because you just don't know where you come from. My 217 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: wife actually just so back when I finally met my 218 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: birth mom, because you don't you met her? Yeah, yeah, 219 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: close to hers. She's amazing. 220 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 2: You have a relationship now with her, Yeah yeah yeah wow. 221 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. She lives in Knoxville. Sweetheart. Found out I have 222 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: a little brother. He's down in Texas and it's great. Now. 223 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: My birth father, I found out who he was, But dude, 224 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:56,959 Speaker 1: he had he had a crazy past on him. So 225 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 1: I never made that happen. It just didn't seem like 226 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: the right thing to do. 227 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 2: He's still alive. No, did you ever have the opportunity 228 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 2: to be done? 229 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: Probably so I found it. So what the reason I've 230 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: even found who my birth mom was when I did 231 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: this stuff for the National Council for Adoption. I was 232 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: doing these interviews and uh, it was like Godpost and 233 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: just a lot of stuff talking about adoption. And in 234 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: those interviews, those stories would get out there and people 235 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: started showing up at my shows with like ziplock baggies 236 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 1: with hair in it. Wanted me to run some kind 237 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: of CSI analysis to prove they're my cousin, uncle, brothers, sister. 238 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: No way, not crazy, I mean crazy And uh. 239 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 2: Were they being honest with themselves or was they kind 240 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 2: of a grift? 241 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: I have no id. I'm sure both, but a lot 242 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 1: of them were convinced man that I'm your cousin uncle. 243 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: Well, that's just being in the South. To me, like 244 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 2: everybody in Arkansas related to it feels like uncle daddy. 245 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 1: That's crazy and so in that I got to figure 246 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: this out. I need to nail down where I'm from. 247 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: So we hired I guess it was an attorney that 248 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: kind of tracked down people and could get into the 249 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: records and see so they contacted my birth asked me 250 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: if I wanted to meet my birth mom. They showed 251 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: me a picture of her, said yes, we'd love to, 252 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: and then said, this is your dad and this is 253 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: his story. And uh. In that I found out that 254 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: I have a one brother on death row that I 255 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: never met from my father. 256 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 2: So technically a half brother, yes, mom got it. 257 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: And another one that was just in and out of jail. 258 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 1: And I think my dad had been in and out 259 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: of jail a lot. And it kind of hits you. You just, man, 260 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 1: I could have been that. I could have been the 261 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 1: road I was on. So I'm very grateful. But so 262 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: I met my birth mom and we got together and 263 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: talked and we're very close. 264 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 2: Now that's really cool. 265 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: It is cool. 266 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 2: I have the same feeling of, man, what could have 267 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 2: been if it wasn't for somebody stepping in? Because my 268 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 2: biological dad, I don't really my dad, but he's alive, 269 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,319 Speaker 2: and a lot of that family has spent time in prison, 270 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 2: some of them are two of them still are. My 271 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: mom and her sister married two brothers, so all my 272 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 2: cousins are double cousins. I mean, it's as Arkansas as 273 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 2: you could be. You know, yeah, yeah, And I say 274 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: that not in a way of sure. Find everybody's just 275 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 2: close small town like two sisters married, two brothers. But 276 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 2: there's a whole part of the family that's been in 277 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 2: a lot of trouble, and a lot of that just 278 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,479 Speaker 2: comes from circumstances right when there aren't a lot of options. 279 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 2: It's not bad people per se that's getting in trouble. 280 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 2: It's people without a lot of options. And so when 281 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 2: there aren't a lot of options presented to you, you 282 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 2: pick the one that you think is the best for 283 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 2: that time, and a lot of times it ends up 284 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 2: in trouble. And for my family sounds like much like 285 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: yours that I'm not close to. They're in prison like 286 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 2: many many first cousins parents. You know, a lot of 287 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 2: that for sure happened, and I'm very grateful to my 288 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 2: grandmother who did not have to step in and did 289 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 2: and raised me and my sister for you know, years 290 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 2: and years like a kid like her own kid. And 291 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 2: so I'm sure you have that feeling toward your parents now, 292 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 2: like had they not taken care of you, that could 293 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 2: have been you. 294 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: For sure. Yeah, the path I could have been on 295 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: it and we didn't grow up with much, but it 296 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: was for the most part, very stable and very normal. 297 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, I can't imagine what my life would have 298 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: been like. 299 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: Consistency is such currency. Yep, that's what I feel now. 300 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 2: I didn't have a bunch of it until I made 301 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 2: it myself, like made and had the ability to have consistency. 302 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: Now I live and thrive off of it, probably too much, 303 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 2: because nothing feels secure unless it's consistent and constant and safe. 304 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: I get that. Yeah, And I grew up a lot 305 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: about with the adoption in the back of my head, 306 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: still thinking that I was given up and I found 307 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: out this is a crazy thing to even process. But 308 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: I was the product of a first date gone wrong. 309 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: How old were they? Do you know when you were born? 310 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: Early twenties. I'm pretty sure my mom had a She 311 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: had a kind of crazy story. She was married before, 312 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: it was an abusive situation, she got out of it 313 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: and had a daughter, and then I came along on 314 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: the bad date, and she wanted to hide me from 315 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: her parents because she was divorced and. 316 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 2: Just yeah, the whole it's all that shame attached to it. 317 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: Exactly, And so she hid me from her parents, and 318 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: then I was born, she gave me up, and then 319 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: she went on and got married had a son. So 320 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: you struggle with that just self worth and you don't 321 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: belong anywhere and you don't think much of yourself and 322 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: you must not be worth much. 323 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 2: Yeah I felt that. Yeah, yeah, my mom was fifteen 324 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 2: when she got pregnant. Wow, my biological father was seventeen, 325 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 2: and so it was he left. So again there's that 326 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 2: he just chose to leave when I was like five, 327 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 2: So there's that part of it. And I did have that, 328 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 2: like like you're talking about, you're kind of challenging your 329 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 2: value within yourself, and then it turns into I just 330 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 2: had like crazy sympathy for like my mom she was fifteen, 331 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 2: and then I just felt terrible for her, and you 332 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 2: kind of just process until like a new emotion comes in, 333 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 2: like you just I've just sat on one and I 334 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 2: think my wife and I wn't have kids yet. Well, 335 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 2: I have kids sometime soon, but I would hope. And 336 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 2: what makes me so nervous about being a dad eventually 337 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 2: is that I hopefully will not be like what I 338 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 2: what I had happened to me. Did that happen with 339 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 2: you at all? Before you were dad? Did you worry 340 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 2: about that, hopefully, I said that clears it makes me 341 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 2: nervous because I don't want to be what was to 342 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 2: me exactly. 343 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: And yeah, especially if I found out that these guys 344 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: they're on death row and stuff. Are you capable of that, 345 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 1: you know, of not showing up? But I don't think. 346 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:12,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. Man, It's driven me to not be that, 347 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:16,959 Speaker 1: to not even come close to to that. Just to 348 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:21,679 Speaker 1: be stable and consistent and to know you come to 349 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: terms with unconditional love. I think that's what do you mean? 350 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 2: Come to terms of that. 351 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 1: That you you The best you can do is under 352 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 1: is believe it. Believe you are unconditionally loved. And and 353 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: I don't think I got that until I met my 354 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: wife Rose, and those voices in my head, I just 355 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: quit listening to them and said, I'm just gonna believe 356 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: her what she thinks of me. I'm gonna believe that. 357 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 1: And I became closer to God and and really started 358 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: thinking about if I want my kids to know the Father, 359 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: I need to represent that in some form until they 360 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: can figure it out for themselves. Just to be there, 361 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: consistent and stable and you know, and really care. And 362 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: by that I mean don't let them just do whatever. 363 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,479 Speaker 1: You know. When you're trying to raise I say, I'm 364 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:22,199 Speaker 1: trying to raise men and not babies, and kind of 365 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: all those things come into play of what you're representing 366 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 1: for your kids, and that's all I think about. That's 367 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: the main drive for me, period, every single day is that. 368 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: And I don't know if that's me running away from 369 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 1: what I don't want to be. It's just who I 370 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 1: want to be really years ago. Man, this is kind 371 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 1: of crazy. I don't know why this you made me 372 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:51,679 Speaker 1: think of this. I was in Chicago and I forgot 373 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: about this. This is crazy. I was in Chicago visiting 374 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: USN station and they said, hey, there's a Chicago Bulls 375 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: player that is a fan. You would you like to 376 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: meet him. I said, heck yeah. And it was Jimmy Butler, 377 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 1: and he came to a show to the show that evening. 378 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,919 Speaker 1: He said, can I talk to you? I said absolutely. 379 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: He said, I just want to tell you something and 380 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:16,199 Speaker 1: I want you to sit there and listen to me 381 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 1: until I'm done, all right, And he said, your song 382 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 1: watching You. I grew up without a dad and when 383 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: I heard that song, it really pissed me off. That 384 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 1: that's what it's supposed to be like, and I didn't 385 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: have it, he said. But that song got inside of 386 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 1: me and made me realize what I would never be 387 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: because I want to be like that song. And that 388 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: song changed my life. It made me want to do 389 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 1: better in school, It made me get my grades, It 390 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: made me work harder at basketball. It shaped me by 391 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: trying to not be who I was afraid I would be, 392 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: which is my dad that he didn't know. 393 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 2: And when Jimmy Butler's I sit and listen, I imagine 394 00:19:59,080 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 2: you just said and listen. 395 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: To absolutely, Oh he killed me. I was crying. 396 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 3: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 397 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 3: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 398 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 2: I imagine that song resonates with a lot of people, 399 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 2: and you probably feel it, like if you're doing any 400 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 2: sort of meet and greet, because that's when the fan 401 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,119 Speaker 2: has the opportunity to talk. Does that come up a 402 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 2: lot like that? That song is affected me, Like, what 403 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 2: are the common themes of how it's affected people? 404 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: Mostly it's that's me and my dad, or recently it's 405 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: been several stories of my dad has passed and we 406 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: played that song at his funeral. And it was just 407 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 1: in it an important part of our life. It's me 408 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: and my mom. I get it's it's me and my dad, 409 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 1: just over and over. It's that's the coolest thing where 410 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,880 Speaker 1: space is one of your tunes is their song when 411 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: they take ownership of it. That's mostly what I get 412 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 1: is just say that's our song. It's our song. If 413 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: we hear it, we stop, we sing it. 414 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 2: Whenever you did two point zero, yeah, a lot of 415 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 2: people message me, going, you got to talk to him 416 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 2: about this song? Why did you choose now to do 417 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 2: two point zero version of that song? 418 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: For years, I didn't think Elijah my son was interested 419 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 1: in singing it all again. He was shy like me. 420 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: And then he had started. Through the years, he would say, Dad, 421 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: you should sing this song or check this song out, 422 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 1: and he would send me songs or play something for me. 423 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: And then, oh, a year and a half ago or something, 424 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 1: he sent me a tune and I'm like, this is cool, man. 425 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,880 Speaker 1: I can't sing like that. I stay in my lane, 426 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 1: but this is great. I've never I don't recognize the voice. 427 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 1: She said, that's me, Dad, And I was just blown away. 428 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 1: He had started writing songs, and I think he had 429 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:12,959 Speaker 1: a girl that broke his heart, the whole thing. And 430 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 1: then for Father's Day last year, my wife said, we 431 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 1: need to do a duet for watching you. And I 432 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 1: didn't even know what that was at the time on 433 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: TikTok Sorry TikTok yet, and so she said, and I've 434 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 1: got an idea. I don't know if we can pull 435 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 1: it off, but just sing and then we're going to 436 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: have people jump in and sing with you. And she 437 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 1: turned around there. Within about three days, Eli had come 438 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: in and she said, Eli, you have to do this. 439 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: The number one comment that we're getting on TikTok from 440 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: this is you need to do it with your son. 441 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 1: So she sweet talked him. She made him chicken cass 442 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: or role just she just cap on only got him 443 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: to just sing a chorus of it. And it was 444 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 1: the craziest thing. I mean, it was like twelve million views. 445 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 1: And so from that moment on, it was her again saying, 446 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: you guys got to do the whole version. You gotta 447 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 1: make it happen, the whole thing. And so just convincing 448 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: Eli to take a chance and do it. 449 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:17,959 Speaker 2: How's he felt about it? 450 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 1: Since, Yeah, I think he just said fun with it. 451 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: It's been amazing. He's only performed twice in his life, 452 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: and one was his debut was at the Rhymen here 453 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: when I played the show, we came out, and then 454 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 1: at CMA Fest at the Stadium, he came out and 455 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: sang it with me. So he's just kind of rolling 456 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: with it. He's having fun. 457 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 2: And those are not traditional debuts. 458 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 1: No, no, and they're almost so big you can't take 459 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 1: in what's happening around you. The Rhyman just the thought 460 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: of that place makes me nervous more than probably anywhere else. 461 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 2: Do you remember the first time he played the Rhymen. 462 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was the Opry and uh, they asked me 463 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 1: to sing a cover song. And I'll never forget asking 464 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: my mom pick a cover song, name something you want 465 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: me to sing. 466 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 2: Oh, they just said sing a cover. 467 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 468 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:16,479 Speaker 2: I was just like randomly sing. 469 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if I had a single out. It 470 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 1: was like the first time I got to play there, 471 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 1: just something to play with the band. And she told me, uh, 472 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: behind closed doors Charlie Rich And I'm like, really, so 473 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: my mom is like a sweet pure and she's want 474 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,639 Speaker 1: me to sing that. It was pretty funny. So my 475 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: first time I sang behind closed doors at the Raymen, 476 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: and they got to come and see that show. 477 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 2: In your first opry performance was at the Ryman as well. Yeah, yeah, 478 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 2: both of you got you and your son. 479 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 1: True, that's true. 480 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 2: That's pretty cool. 481 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's awesome. 482 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:54,400 Speaker 2: You still play the operat all? 483 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'll jump in and play with them from 484 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: time to time. And h aways makes you nervous always. 485 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 1: It's an honor. It's not lost on me. 486 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:06,479 Speaker 2: How many times have you played it? You know? 487 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 1: Oh? 488 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 2: Man, I got my tin cup? You know, I don't 489 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 2: know if they do they give you a Do they 490 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 2: give you a cup after you played ten? Was that 491 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 2: a thing even five years ago? 492 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: Not that I'm aware of. 493 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 2: I walked off stage after my tenth opera performance and 494 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 2: they gave me a cup with a number ten on it, 495 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 2: and I thought it was a joker. I didn't know 496 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 2: that they gave people a ten a number ten cup 497 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 2: on it, and so yeah, I mean I have it. 498 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 2: I guess I didn't. I don't know the symbolism of 499 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 2: a cup, or maybe I think it's just. 500 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: That it's the Opry, it's the ram and it's it's 501 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: being a part of that historical. 502 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 2: And That's why I don't use the cup. I just 503 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 2: let it sit. You just let us sit and make history. 504 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 2: I don't even drink coffee. 505 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: That's funny. Do you drink coffee occasionally? Not a lot? 506 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 1: Did you caffeine? I used to do energy drinks like crazy, 507 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is gonna kill me. So I 508 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,719 Speaker 1: just kind of shut all that down and just occasionally 509 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: of a cup of coffee if what uh, if I 510 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: get up and I'm still sleepy. Sometimes if I have 511 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: a late show, I might have a cup of coffee 512 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 1: at four or five, just to kind of ramp up. 513 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:23,120 Speaker 2: What made you move to Nashville music? 514 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 1: I just I wanted to be a songwriter. Man. 515 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 2: Did you have confidence to quote move to Nashville? Or 516 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 2: was it I got nothing else? Right now, let's just 517 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:31,880 Speaker 2: give it a run. 518 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 1: I never looked at it like that there was a 519 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 1: backup plan. It's just I wanted to write songs, just 520 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: write songs. And so I was at Tennessee Tech in Cookville, 521 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: and I met some other dudes that wrote songs, and 522 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 1: they said, you got to come play a writer's not 523 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: with us, And I really didn't want to go up 524 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 1: and get up and sing in front of people, but 525 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: they said, you can do it, let's go. 526 00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 2: So you had no intention really to be an artist. 527 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 2: You wanted to write songs, that was it. 528 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 1: Wow, I had yet my deal when I prayed my prayer. 529 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,360 Speaker 1: I just want to make music that can touch people's 530 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: lives and that's I just want to write songs. That's it. 531 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 1: Not get up and sing at all. 532 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 2: See you play the writers around? 533 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: Played the writers around. That next day was kind of 534 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 1: a crazy story too. Uh played the Courtyard Cafe down 535 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 1: south of town. And so my first night that I played, 536 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,159 Speaker 1: they put me up there with one other guy. It 537 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: was just us playing songs back and forth, and he 538 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 1: was just killing me. I'm like, oh my god, if 539 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: this is what Nashville songwriters are, I'm I'm screwed because 540 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 1: this guy's he's out of control. And uh, we exchanged 541 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: numbers and it was you know, Casey Bethard. So Casey 542 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 1: became Songwriter of the decade, you know, and we became friends. 543 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,679 Speaker 1: So that night, and I think it was because he 544 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 1: was so great that I was just wrapped up in that. 545 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: I got an opportunity to come take a meeting on 546 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 1: music row with a publisher. 547 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 2: You think that they invited you, or that they thought you. 548 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be putting words in your mouth here just 549 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 2: by what you just said. Do you think they thought 550 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: you were better than you were because you were next 551 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 2: to somebody who was really great? 552 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 1: I don't think. Maybe. I mean he made because he 553 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:31,199 Speaker 1: was so great, he made me seem better than I 554 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 1: probably was, I'm sure. And we just got along. We 555 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: had fun up there talking and just kind of being silly. 556 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely think that had a lot to 557 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 1: do with people coming up giving me cards to have 558 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: a meeting. 559 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 2: They were so moved by the night. 560 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 1: I think. 561 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 3: So. 562 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what Nash. 563 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 2: Himself a little bit because you've done that a few 564 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: times already during the interview. 565 00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. 566 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 2: Okay, So tell me about the next day then, and 567 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 2: so you go, you have a you go to Music 568 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 2: Row publish a meeting. 569 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I went to uh do you remember the Artist 570 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 1: the UA Artist Tower that used to be there, kind 571 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 1: of the round building there's loud studios. Was there? 572 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 2: I don't. 573 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: It's next door to actually one of Curb Records buildings. 574 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 1: And so the first time you're in Music Row, if 575 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 1: you can go back to that, it is an insane 576 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 1: place to go because of the one way streets and 577 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: then the two way alleys. And so I was trying 578 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: to figure out how to get to this UA Artist 579 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: Tower and had a guitar and a backpack, and I'm 580 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: walking across one of those alleys in a car came 581 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: flying up and just just bowed up, stopped about three 582 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: inches from me. And I looked up and it was 583 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: Garth Brooks. I'm like, that guy almost killed me. And 584 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 1: then I went it's Garth Brooks. What planet him I on? 585 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: And he was like, hey, buddy, sorry about that. Man. 586 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 1: All good? And so I walked across the street, across 587 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: that alley and went to the UA Tower. And because 588 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: I was just a clobberhead carrying a guitar case backpack, 589 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: I went up to get the door, set my guitar 590 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: case down, my backpack falls over, and a hand comes 591 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: across me. So let me get that door for you. 592 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 2: So let me guess that. Let me guess by the impression. 593 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 2: Trace ackins, No, okay, cause that does guess? I like, Trace, No, 594 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 2: are you doing an impression of him? 595 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: I don't think I can do impression? 596 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 2: Okay, they never mind? Go ahead? 597 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 1: Who is it, but it was Merle Haggard. 598 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 2: Oh, that's probably pretty good Haggard impressions. 599 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: And so he said, let me get that door for you. 600 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: And I'm like, so Merle Haggard opened my first door. 601 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 2: Almost died, Garth almost kills you, and Merle Haggard opens 602 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 2: the door for you. 603 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was just what planet am I on? 604 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like a movie of what country music 605 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 2: is like in the perfect fictional universe. 606 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: Exactly, and which that deal turned into kind of nothing, 607 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: but it opened up this possibility of what it feels 608 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 1: like to go take meetings and you know the again 609 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: like that and yeah, and plus that's the other thing 610 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,959 Speaker 1: Nashville is so incredibly great about because I met Casey 611 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: Bethard and we became buddies after all that time, and 612 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: that's I kind of fell in love with that about Nashville, 613 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: or playing the Roters' Knots, and it's the songwriter, just 614 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 1: camaraderie that that happens. It's an amazing thing. 615 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 3: The Bobby Cast will be right back. This is the 616 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 3: Bobby Cast. 617 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 2: When did you start to have confidence in singing publicly 618 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 2: or doing anything publicly considering you're a pretty shy person. 619 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 1: You know what, I think it clicked. It's still the 620 00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:00,240 Speaker 1: same way now. I was asked to if I would 621 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 1: be willing to play some songs for tips at a 622 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: bar in Cookville, and they like, you can play original 623 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: songs and doesn't have to be great, it'll be quiet, 624 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 1: just something over here in the corner. I'm like, Okay, 625 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 1: I'll give it a shot. Why not. I want to 626 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 1: write songs, That's what I want to do. I can 627 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: try songs out. And as I was doing that, a 628 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: couple of songs that I've written and I can't remember 629 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: them now were kind of that sing along thing, and 630 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 1: the people would sing along with me after they heard 631 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 1: it the first time there, and I'm like, wait a minute, 632 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna be the guy that y'all sit 633 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,480 Speaker 1: there and I'm gonna sing at you and you're just 634 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 1: gonna love this. It's let's do this together. If I 635 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: can have songs that people sing along with me, then 636 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 1: it's not on me anymore and we're all in this together. 637 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: And I was just always drawn to more we songs 638 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,720 Speaker 1: instead of us against them kind of songs. 639 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 2: What about when you got to town because you came 640 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 2: as a writer, you did a writer's night. When did 641 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 2: you think I think I'll be an artist now as well? 642 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: Man? 643 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 2: Because there's an intention. 644 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 1: It is so the way that I got signed to 645 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 1: my deal. A buddy of mine that we've written some 646 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: songs together, named Ted Eweitt. Ted was offered a publishing 647 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: deal with Curb and he wanted me to go and 648 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: play for the guy that he was working with named 649 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: Chuck Howard, and Ted said, I want you to check 650 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: my buddy out. Man, he's got some great songs. You 651 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: just got to hear it. And he's like, Curb does 652 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 1: not need any more acts. They don't need need Maile 653 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: acts at all. They had Tim McGraw and Jeff Carson 654 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: and I can't remember who else. Maybe a band, if 655 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 1: you can put a band together. And Ted said, just 656 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 1: let him play a song for you. So I did, 657 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 1: and he stopped me halfway through and said, I don't 658 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: want to sign you. 659 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 2: What'd you play? 660 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 1: Just some tune we'd written. I think it was something 661 00:33:55,200 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: called God Only Knows or something, and I'm like, okay, cool, 662 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: I got a publishing deal. He said, no, I want to. 663 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 1: We want to sign you to the label. And I 664 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: don't even know how that twisted around like that. Wow, 665 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 1: And the next day. Now, my publishing deal took about 666 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,880 Speaker 1: sixteen months. My record deal was done. The next day 667 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: he recorded me in his little studio there. He took 668 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 1: it to Mock Curb. Mock Curb called the next day 669 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 1: of my deal was done. 670 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 2: Why do you think that pace was different? Because they 671 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 2: you were assigned artists. They wanted you scigence, They could 672 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 2: get you working immediately. Like why did one takes a 673 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 2: long on one? 674 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 1: You know? Oh, the publishing deal, I don't That's not 675 00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 1: a question for me. Publishing deals just take forever. I 676 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 1: don't know why the record deal was I think just 677 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 1: pretty cut and dry. But that was ninety six. So 678 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 1: I moved here in ninety five and then that deal 679 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: was done. Then then God blessed Curb Records. But it 680 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,799 Speaker 1: was ten years later before ever had a hit. 681 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 2: Did you feel like they show you out of a 682 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 2: cannon in ninety five As far as like traveling around 683 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 2: doing the hey I'm a new artist, Like the radio 684 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 2: tour that used to happen type thing. 685 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I did a lot of radio tours. It was 686 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 1: really uh so what happened? I recorded some stuff with 687 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,239 Speaker 1: other producers there and I was talking to that's the 688 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: crazy thing. I'm talking to mock Kurb weekly through all this, 689 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:29,760 Speaker 1: and he said, how you feel about this music you record? 690 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 1: And I recorded a whole album, and I said, I 691 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 1: don't feel close to it. I feel like I'm just 692 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,479 Speaker 1: kind of grasping at something. I don't you would say that, yeah, yeah, 693 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 1: I said, it just doesn't seem there yet. And he said, well, 694 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 1: they had me with some other producers, some rock guys, 695 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: some different people, and then finally I got named Phil 696 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: Gernhard stepped in way back then and he said, I'm 697 00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 1: going to do with you what to do with Tim McGraw. 698 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. And he seemed like 699 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 1: a like a not real person. I just heard his 700 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 1: name around there. And so he said, when Tim came here, 701 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: he signed his first record deal. And explained to me 702 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 1: how he saw Tim at a showcase maybe New Faces, 703 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 1: CRS or something, and Tim just shined. He just came out. 704 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:25,800 Speaker 1: He sang Indian Outlaw and he had done his first 705 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 1: album that sold. I don't think it did much at all, 706 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 1: And he said, but I took Tim in right then 707 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 1: told him to forget everything. I'm gonna teach you, how 708 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,839 Speaker 1: to record yourself, how to find your own sound, how 709 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,319 Speaker 1: to do every single thing. If you'll do it, it's 710 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 1: gonna be boot camp. And I don't know how long 711 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:46,319 Speaker 1: it's gonna take. I'm like, well, if you're willing to 712 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: to dig into it. And talking with Mike Curb too, 713 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: and it was Mike's right hand guy, So all that 714 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:57,800 Speaker 1: time you're asking me was really boot camp. Of he 715 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 1: would tell me stuff sucked. He like, why did you 716 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 1: send me this? This obviously is a scratch vocal, this brutal. 717 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,280 Speaker 1: But man, when it when he finally started tapping into 718 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 1: something with the the Going Through Hell album, He's like, 719 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 1: this is it, This is this is different. This is 720 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,879 Speaker 1: not what I thought you would do because these are 721 00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 1: live songs, these aren't love songs. But if you can 722 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 1: have a hit with this sound like if you're going 723 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: through Hell, that'll be around forever. And so the whole 724 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: time was do a lot of encouraging and sit and 725 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 1: wait and believe. But I started recording at home back 726 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: then too, and people didn't do that. But it was 727 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 1: a lot of pick you up, knock you down for 728 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,880 Speaker 1: all those years and for working on songwriting and figuring out. 729 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,280 Speaker 2: Literally boot camp. It was like, knock you down, rebuild 730 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:49,799 Speaker 2: you back up. 731 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,279 Speaker 1: I guess it's artist development, that's what you would call that. 732 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:53,880 Speaker 1: And I don't know if that happens a lot. 733 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 2: Like that now, No, that's go to HR you get 734 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 2: in trouble with you true do that knock you down? Yeah? 735 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 1: It was. I wouldn't trade it for anything. Man. He 736 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: was a true mentor. Myt curve was. He was right 737 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 1: in the middle of that. Man. What a great man 738 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 1: he is. 739 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 2: How many songs did you put out as singles before 740 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 2: going through Hell? 741 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 1: I think we put a couple of singles out and 742 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,840 Speaker 1: in between. I did this album beforehand that we talked about, 743 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 1: and it had I think we released a couple of 744 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: singles maybe on it. I'm not even sure because they're 745 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: just constantly trying stuff. It was probably two or three 746 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 1: singles at least. 747 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 2: Did you start to lose hope that your artist career 748 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:38,000 Speaker 2: would thrive? 749 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,160 Speaker 1: That's the crazy thing, man. I don't think I did. 750 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 1: I think I just this is what I'm doing. And 751 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 1: I was working odd jobs, man, I was I'd work 752 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,240 Speaker 1: three and four jobs. 753 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 2: What kind of jobs? One of them? 754 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 1: Back then? So I was living in Cookville and Baxter, 755 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 1: a little town outside there. And in between I would 756 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 1: cut firewood for example, or mow yards or do farmwork 757 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,880 Speaker 1: or whatever I could do. And so I was cutting 758 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 1: firewood and I was asked to deliver it to some 759 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,360 Speaker 1: people in Nashville. So I would load my trailer, drive 760 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 1: to Nashville, to music Row or to the Nashville area, 761 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,920 Speaker 1: deliver the firewood, go put my trailer somewhere, go rite songs, 762 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: go back and do it again. And one of my 763 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:33,400 Speaker 1: customers back then, I was asked to deliver firewood to 764 00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: Alan Jackson, and that was like in two thousand and five, 765 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 1: but Going through Hell came out in two thousand and six, 766 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,960 Speaker 1: and I'll never forget delivering that firewood to his big 767 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 1: place out there. And then three months after going through Hell, 768 00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: three months after I delivered firewood to him, he asked 769 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:57,319 Speaker 1: me to open some shows for him. It still kills me. 770 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:08,440 Speaker 1: He invited me on his bus to say hello, how 771 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 1: much he loved what I was doing. And I got 772 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: to thank him because we needed the money so bad. 773 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,799 Speaker 1: And it was just like, this is not real, this 774 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:37,760 Speaker 1: is like a movie. Because it was. It was so hard. 775 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: But occasionally people would pop up like that and things 776 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,719 Speaker 1: would happen, or luck with Phil Gernhardt in A and 777 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 1: R just encouraging me. Little things would come up. So 778 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:51,439 Speaker 1: I never really quit believing that just do the right thing. 779 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 2: So others belief in you at times kept your belief 780 00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:00,000 Speaker 2: in you strong. Yeah, that's crazy about the Alan Jackson story. 781 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 1: And I think all that goes back to being a 782 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:08,359 Speaker 1: little adopted kid, you know, and learning to trust what 783 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 1: other people think of you a lot that people that 784 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 1: believe in you. I think beyond that, it kind of 785 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 1: doesn't matter what people think of you. But fortunately people 786 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:21,960 Speaker 1: that came in my path just encourage me. And when 787 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 1: myk Curb's telling you that, it's like, Okay, we can 788 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: do this. If you think we can do it, we 789 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 1: can do it. 790 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,879 Speaker 2: When Going through Hell comes out, you put it out 791 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 2: a lot of traction quickly or was it a slow burner? 792 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 1: No, I think it was a pretty slow burn It 793 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 1: took a long time. I think it even on the 794 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,879 Speaker 1: charts would go up and die wow, no way, lose 795 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:51,279 Speaker 1: go backwards, move forward again. I think the label did 796 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:55,759 Speaker 1: a whole lot of shifting stuff around or I don't 797 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 1: know what they did, but yeah, it was a long, long, long, 798 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,359 Speaker 1: I want to. I'm pretty sure it was like a 799 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 1: fifty week kind of thing. It was. 800 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,520 Speaker 2: That's crazy looking back because now that everybody knows that song, 801 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,359 Speaker 2: and to think of the struggle that even that song had, 802 00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 2: that now is I think a song that people identify 803 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,399 Speaker 2: with it was so big as a part of their life, 804 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 2: like a time. There are certain songs I think of 805 00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 2: and reminds me of a time in my life, like 806 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 2: that's one of those songs for a lot of people. 807 00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 2: When that song hits top ten or so, when did 808 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 2: it kind of shift for you to where now you're 809 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 2: that guy? 810 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: Man? I don't know if ever thought it was that guy. 811 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 1: I just I was I was getting to do that. 812 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,520 Speaker 1: It shifted pretty early when the demands and shop at 813 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 1: radio tours and I did so many of them, and 814 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 1: I've heard people complain about that. I don't really get that. 815 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 1: It was always I don't have to do this, I 816 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 1: get to do this. And I started hearing stories about 817 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 1: going through hell. You're asking me about stories earlier about 818 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: watching you. I'll never forget when the song was in 819 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:07,960 Speaker 1: the top ten and would that be my space or 820 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 1: an email or something that I got back then? And 821 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 1: the person said they were they wanted to thank me 822 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:21,839 Speaker 1: for the song that they were just they I don't 823 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,840 Speaker 1: know if their wife left, they lost their job. They 824 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,520 Speaker 1: were at the bottom. They were in their pickup truck 825 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,040 Speaker 1: and the song came on the radio and they had 826 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,879 Speaker 1: a pistol in their hand and they said, your song 827 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 1: came on the radio and I heard it and it 828 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 1: stopped me. And that pistol is at the bottom of 829 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:42,839 Speaker 1: the river now. And I started getting these messages about 830 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 1: how that song was really touching people's lives. And with 831 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 1: Phil Gernhard, he's telling me this is working, this is connecting, 832 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 1: it's doing what you wanted it to do. That after 833 00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,560 Speaker 1: the crazy thing after that, as Phil even came to me. 834 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: He didn't have kids, and he said, all right, so 835 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 1: I think the second sing we're gonna come with watching you, 836 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,439 Speaker 1: he said. And I gotta tell you, I don't really 837 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 1: get it. It's just it's not I don't have kids. 838 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:15,359 Speaker 1: I can't relate. But my curb is afraid somebody's gonna 839 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,600 Speaker 1: hear that song, rewrite it some way and beat us 840 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,759 Speaker 1: being able to get it out, because he said, I 841 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,880 Speaker 1: can't believe no one else has written that. And uh 842 00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 1: so that was just because of Mick didn't want to 843 00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: get get beat, so it came out next. 844 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 2: I thought Cleaning this Gun was are you talking about 845 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:39,800 Speaker 2: a life song? I mean, that's a live song that parents, kids, daughter's, 846 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 2: girlfriend's boyfriends, like everybody kind of has a version of 847 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,720 Speaker 2: living that story. 848 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,719 Speaker 1: And that song. Man, I went out the cleaning is 849 00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 1: God just loved the song. It's Casey Bethard's song and 850 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:58,040 Speaker 1: Marla Cannon. But so that song the demo. His workday 851 00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:05,080 Speaker 1: was pretty dark, it was slower, and I left town 852 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,240 Speaker 1: and just tried the song out in some little places. 853 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 1: I mean I played. I played grocery stores, at elks, lodges, 854 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,759 Speaker 1: little bars, flea markets, anywhere I could just try and 855 00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 1: those songs out with the going through Hell. And one 856 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: time I was down in Texas and a guy had 857 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,640 Speaker 1: just had a baby daughter and now some I won't 858 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,360 Speaker 1: to play a song for you, and I played it 859 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,839 Speaker 1: too fast, but he loved the song and it kind 860 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:36,319 Speaker 1: of clicked that that's how it should be. And it's 861 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 1: been amazing people that have come up through the years 862 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 1: with Clean this Gun and talk about hell. That's an 863 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 1: intell that's a very smart song. That's that's an intelligent, 864 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:48,400 Speaker 1: redneck kind of song. But I was told too at 865 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 1: the beginning that that wouldn't work because it's kids and 866 00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,760 Speaker 1: guns and people won't get that. It'll never work. 867 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,360 Speaker 2: What's the story about These are My People? 868 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:02,399 Speaker 1: These are my People? Man? So I did not write 869 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:08,160 Speaker 1: These are My People. Dave Berg, Rivers, Rutherford and I 870 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 1: heard the song, loved it, and they said Steve Azar 871 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 1: was cutting the song. And I'm like, oh, man, well 872 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 1: let me know if I can get it. And so 873 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,919 Speaker 1: I'd got with Dave Berg to write, to get together 874 00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:25,239 Speaker 1: to write songs. And I said, you what you got, man? 875 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:29,600 Speaker 1: You got anything for me that any new songs? He said, 876 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 1: I got one. Check this out and he started playing 877 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 1: These Are My People. Well wait a minute, no, that's 878 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 1: getting cut. I love that song, but it can't happen. 879 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,759 Speaker 1: He said, it just came off old. If you wanted 880 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:44,359 Speaker 1: it's yours. I'm like, all right, let's go. I just 881 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 1: I believed in that song, just that it was a 882 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,160 Speaker 1: special WE song. 883 00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, that one feels like a WE song that you 884 00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:55,279 Speaker 2: were talking about earlier. Of all those songs, which one 885 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 2: almost didn't make it, and which one happened the fastest 886 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:04,799 Speaker 2: happened the fastest where it just wasn't a struggle, not 887 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 2: that it was easy, but great song. 888 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:12,399 Speaker 1: I feel like watching you, probably because I didn't write it. 889 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,760 Speaker 1: I just wrote it because my kid got in trouble 890 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,560 Speaker 1: for singing if You're going through Hell in pre k. 891 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 1: One day he got in trouble. He heard me working 892 00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,600 Speaker 1: on the songs at home trying to record, and he 893 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,080 Speaker 1: would just stay in the room with me, being quiet. 894 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: I think he's paying attention. The next day I went 895 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,200 Speaker 1: to pick him up from pre k and his teacher said, 896 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,640 Speaker 1: I got to talk to you about your boy, and said, 897 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 1: what happened? She said, We got this routine. I turned 898 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,879 Speaker 1: the lights on and off every day and that's their 899 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:41,880 Speaker 1: signal to get in line and get quiet. Then we 900 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,960 Speaker 1: go to lunch and today started to walk and then 901 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,520 Speaker 1: I heard it, your boy singing some song I've never 902 00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 1: heard before. So he's in the lunch line. If you're 903 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: going through Hell, keep on going, And uh, she just 904 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,600 Speaker 1: laughed about it. I just thought my four year old's 905 00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:00,680 Speaker 1: had a four letter word and that was it. I didn't. 906 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,799 Speaker 1: I got with a couple of guys. Uh, Steve Deana 907 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:08,960 Speaker 1: brown White told him about it. Had a chorus made up, 908 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:15,240 Speaker 1: and uh, I didn't think it was gonna go anywhere. 909 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,719 Speaker 1: It was just a cute song for my kid, and 910 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:22,040 Speaker 1: so at one point it wasn't we It kind of 911 00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:26,120 Speaker 1: got no bounce back to even get to record it. 912 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,399 Speaker 1: The whole recording process, I think I recorded it two 913 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: or three times because it just seemed too slow and 914 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 1: I'd almost given up on it. Then with radio it 915 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 1: very was very slow, but uh, once it once it 916 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 1: kicked in. Man, that was a that was an awesome ride. 917 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:44,200 Speaker 2: It was a real life experience. 918 00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:44,600 Speaker 1: So that. 919 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 2: Triggered that thought to write that song. 920 00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,799 Speaker 1: Oh for sure. My four year old said a four 921 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,880 Speaker 1: letter word, I wonder if there's a song in that. 922 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:57,560 Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking, And it was a It 923 00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 1: was amazing when that when people first time I was 924 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,840 Speaker 1: out playing and people knew some of the words that 925 00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 1: if you're going through hell, but that song and it's 926 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,279 Speaker 1: still the same exact way today, I don't have to 927 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,759 Speaker 1: sing it. That's the dream is for me to go 928 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,360 Speaker 1: on stage and just I'm gonna be the house band 929 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 1: for all you guys to sing. And still today hearing 930 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:21,720 Speaker 1: people sing I've been watching you that that's the coolest 931 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,480 Speaker 1: thing in the world. 932 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,600 Speaker 2: Did people, and they probably still do a bit. Get 933 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,960 Speaker 2: you Rodney and Rhett because your last names are very 934 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,360 Speaker 2: similar to confused all the time for sure. 935 00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, with Ret, even with Trace, people get that confused. Yeah. 936 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 1: And that's the crazy thing. When I've my crab was 937 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:51,440 Speaker 1: I had I talked to other publishers and somewhere there 938 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 1: was other labels, and and what I kept hearing was 939 00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,040 Speaker 1: I had to change my name even to be a songwriter. 940 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 1: You got to change your name because it's Rhett over 941 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: here and Trace over here. And my Curve asked me, 942 00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 1: what do you think about changing your name? It happens 943 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,000 Speaker 1: all the time in music business. And I said, man, 944 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:12,400 Speaker 1: I just don't think I can. I'm lucky to have 945 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 1: this last name. I shouldn't have this last name. I 946 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,520 Speaker 1: didn't have it when I was born. But I can't. 947 00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,279 Speaker 1: I don't think I can do that. And he said, well, 948 00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:23,439 Speaker 1: that's a good enough reason for me. And he said, 949 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 1: and Curve Records is on ched Atkins whatever Avenue or 950 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,359 Speaker 1: whatever ITSBC said, I think it's meant to be. We're 951 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 1: not changing your name. And years later people thought I 952 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:34,719 Speaker 1: did change my name, that I. 953 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,960 Speaker 2: Made it up because it was similar. They thought you 954 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:38,640 Speaker 2: chase them. 955 00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:39,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. 956 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 2: That's a really great reason to not change your name. 957 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:43,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't. 958 00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,239 Speaker 2: You could have been Gaiter. I could have been Gator, 959 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:48,960 Speaker 2: could have been Gater Bones. I an't my real name. 960 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,879 Speaker 2: Stuck with bones. You know, it's like a pirate. It's 961 00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:54,320 Speaker 2: awesome if she sounds like a human. 962 00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:59,879 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, it is crazy that the turn 963 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:04,840 Speaker 1: you take and what brought you here, stuff that you 964 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,520 Speaker 1: don't think matters, but it all kind of matters. I 965 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: guess we. 966 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,319 Speaker 2: I hope everybody checks out watching you two point zero 967 00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,440 Speaker 2: and visually check it out to I would encourage that. 968 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 2: I think hearing it's cool, but seeing that's really cool cool. 969 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,239 Speaker 2: I think the visuals, all the content you guys did 970 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 2: that it's like next level sets it apart. So yeah, congratulations, 971 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 2: it's been fun. Your wife excellent, excellent writer like she 972 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,920 Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, she's great, She's. 973 00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:33,920 Speaker 1: On another level. Some people get in a room and 974 00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,799 Speaker 1: you write songs with Casey Bethword was one of those 975 00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 1: guys they see around corners and like anything that I do, 976 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 1: she's putting it together and we're writing those songs, and 977 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 1: she writes with all these new guys, she prefers being 978 00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:51,520 Speaker 1: around dudes, and I think she doesn't write with many girls. 979 00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,120 Speaker 1: And the stuff that she writes is like, I don't 980 00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,719 Speaker 1: know how you get your hit around that. She is 981 00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 1: a creative force. I think she's putting out some music 982 00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 1: on her own. 983 00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 2: Tell her. I said, hello, I'm a fan and thanks 984 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 2: for coming by. This has been awesome. This has been 985 00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 2: super cool. Again you guys, check out Rodney and Rodney 986 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,920 Speaker 2: Atkins on Instagram. It's just his name and watching you 987 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 2: two point zero. If you go listen to the song, 988 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,160 Speaker 2: I encourage you to check out the visuals on it. 989 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,240 Speaker 2: Check out the video, especially Rodney. Thanks man, and hopefully 990 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:20,000 Speaker 2: we'll see you again soon. 991 00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:20,799 Speaker 1: This is an honor man. 992 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:24,800 Speaker 3: Thanks, thanks, thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production