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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Uh boo boo. He was always helping.

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Speaker 1: in college more than the average student does. And this

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Speaker 1: So in late twenty seventeen, I received a job offer

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Speaker 1: how is that that makes no sense anyway, he.

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Speaker 1: That was very weird for me. But my wife was

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Speaker 2: He heard to the wife. I would honestly talk to

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Speaker 2: my friend about it from the angle of Hey, so

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Speaker 1: That is kind of genius.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet tested the mattress to see how bouncy

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Speaker 3: Exactly, come on an hour, what you can say with

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Speaker 1: but I asked her why, and she says, because she's

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Speaker 1: heard great things from him. About that gym, and she

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Speaker 2: Totally, Riley, give a helping hand.

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Speaker 3: Why don't he can help her with training? Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: Sorry totally, butchet that says she wants to upgrade to

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, I knew something is going on,

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Speaker 1: Is Is that all of them everything? I'm saying this

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose my mind, Lauren, I'm gonna lose my mind.

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Speaker 1: I never had a mind. I don't know why. Why

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Speaker 1: because Christin Foyle had deserves that she does.

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Speaker 2: They does. I don't know your pronouns.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's okay, only unfreemmable. If Big Daddy Chris

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Speaker 1: is blessing us, should we not flood the chat with hats?

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Speaker 2: Yes, put him in there.

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Speaker 1: Put him in there. Come on, hats all folks, Hats

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Speaker 1: thirty minutes. Yeah. So during that night, she was following

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Speaker 2: So it is titled my husband's friend is getting too

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Speaker 2: They hang out quite often, sometimes even for eight plus

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Speaker 2: It's a bit awkward because there is a language barrier

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Speaker 2: My husband responded that his friend says he isn't looking

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Speaker 1: Now I know, now, I know. Now, I know.

437
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Speaker 2: That he thinks about him all the time, and that

438
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Speaker 2: my husband wouldn't want to know what he is thinking.

439
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to know either. You're probably right. When

440
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Speaker 2: he doesn't get a chance to talk with him at work,

441
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 2: he gets upset. He gets jealous when my husband talks

442
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:09,400
Speaker 2: with his other coworker friends, other males at work and

443
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 2: doesn't make time for him, and he makes sure he

444
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Speaker 2: knows how he feels, which concerns me that he is

445
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: becoming possessive of him. He has also made references to

446
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: me that I am toxic because I text my husband

447
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 2: asking him when he will be home when they are together. Yeah,

448
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 2: when's my husband going to come back? We're kind of

449
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 2: married and have a child together. I'm so sorry I

450
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 2: forgot it was Bro's night.

451
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Speaker 1: My bad.

452
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 2: I forgot it was a wrestling night, My bad, and

453
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: that I should leave him alone. I'm sure you would

454
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 2: like that. In addition, he refers to my husband's husband's

455
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Speaker 2: mother as his mother in law. This guy is awful.

456
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Speaker 2: Of course, because I am reading all all these messages

457
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Speaker 2: without my husband's knowledge, I am stumped on how to

458
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 2: approach this. I know I am totally wrong for snooping,

459
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 2: but I just had a feeling something wasn't right. I

460
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 2: wish my husband would open up to me and tell

461
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: me all of this when I ask, but he does not.

462
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Speaker 2: Any advice on how I can move forward, and any

463
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Speaker 2: advice for my husband to start distancing himself from this

464
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Speaker 2: guy without upsetting him. That's going to be impossible. I

465
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 2: am even concerned that my husband is okay with this

466
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Speaker 2: behavior from him. We have plans with him this upcoming Friday,

467
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Speaker 2: and after knowing what I know now, I just don't

468
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Speaker 2: know if I can remain silence about it.

469
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Speaker 1: This is tough, but I can't remain silent about something either.

470
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Speaker 2: This is not tough to me.

471
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Speaker 1: Well, I can't be silent about the fact that people

472
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Speaker 1: can join us every weekday at three PMPSD on YouTube. Yes,

473
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Speaker 1: I will never be silenced, and the fact that we

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Speaker 1: have oh wheelspin coming up. Yes, what are your thoughts?

475
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Speaker 2: I would honestly, I feel like maybe the husband is

476
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 2: being sort of cagey about this with his wife because

477
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: he's embarrassed. So as the wife, I would probably reassure him,

478
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 2: you know, and maybe also put forward, Hey, this guy is.

479
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: Making me uncomfortable? Yes, yes, you know is he is

480
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 1: he making you uncomfortable? And then they have that common

481
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: ground and can communicate further like, hey, I'm here to

482
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Speaker 1: support you if this is like if you think this

483
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Speaker 1: is like too much, and like, yeah.

484
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Speaker 2: Exactly exactly restraining order, Thank you, kat oh, exactly restraining order.

485
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Speaker 2: This guy sounds insane.

486
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Speaker 1: Well, ladies and gentlemen, you have colaps. You have earned

487
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Speaker 2: Good job on us on the house because we love you.

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Speaker 2: I don't I tolerate y'all.

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Speaker 1: Just kidding. I love you.

497
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Speaker 2: I'm not being forced to say that at all.

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Speaker 1: Help me. But also also shout out to the donors.

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Speaker 1: you guys a box about ten days ago. I just

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Speaker 1: weighs around seventeen pounds. Ok.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I love the specificity.

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Speaker 1: I will find that. We will check the box. What

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Speaker 1: did you put in there? Yeah? What's that's Yeah, that's heavy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's Sophia to get in. That's an expensive ship.

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Speaker 2: Too, Like just you know, Sophia. If you find anything

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Speaker 2: ticking in there, just slowly put it back down. Ye,

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Speaker 2: make make some phone calls to some people.

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Speaker 1: Toss it in the back of the male place that

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Speaker 1: they hate us. Find find a bridge. We're going off there.

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Speaker 1: We're good now. Oh we got the we got the upgrade.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, well not that I've worked really hard on

517
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Speaker 3: my person, like being good uh friends with the guy. Dude,

518
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Speaker 3: I'm inviting to my party. Honestly, I probably should. He

519
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Speaker 3: has been a part of the La journey.

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Speaker 1: Who is this? This is our PO box? Yeah? Guy? Oh,

521
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Speaker 1: he's like, don't address it to okay, storytimer. Okay, but

522
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Speaker 1: it has to be to John O'Reilly. But yeah, and

523
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Speaker 1: he gets pretty upset.

524
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Speaker 2: But that's awesome. I love people that get upset for me.

525
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 3: It's so great, and be like, yo, what are you doing?

526
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Speaker 3: He can see what the magic happens. It will definitely

527
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Speaker 3: we're not an individual, like the whole the whole package

528
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Speaker 3: we have is like for an individual. So he's like,

529
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Speaker 3: it cannot be for like any sort of like commercial

530
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Speaker 3: business purposes whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: And we abuse that thing. We dude, we were five

532
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Speaker 1: dollars cheaper a month exactly.

533
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Speaker 2: That's awesome. Thank you PO guy.

534
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say his name because you all

535
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Speaker 1: have the address. Yeah, that's so true. Guys, please don't

536
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Speaker 1: please don't do anything. Is he is? He called the

537
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Speaker 1: PO guy because PO stands for puts out? Hey, yo,

538
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Speaker 1: he yo, how do you think it might be your chance? Oh?

539
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Speaker 1: He's like's like, I got a package for you now.

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Speaker 2: It's God the Box Special Delivery. But I didn't order

541
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Speaker 2: any pizza.

542
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Speaker 1: I hope you like sausage because I'm a plumber. Oh,

543
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Speaker 1: by ladies and gentlemen, we got more stories. This is

544
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Speaker 1: pretty lit. I don't know the energy has been up.

545
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: I phone like an idiot. John, don't you feel like

546
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Speaker 1: double the energy? I do feel double the energy. Like

547
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: we're just like, there's just more happening right now, this moment.

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Speaker 1: Something's happening.

549
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 2: It's because there's double the fry, double the fry, double the.

550
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Speaker 1: Trouble, tu double the production.

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Speaker 2: Double the fry, double the cry, myself to sleep every night.

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Speaker 1: Tears of happiness. No got him? All right? Oh? Where

553
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Speaker 1: are we at? The next one? S? Three? I believe three?

554
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Speaker 2: Where did my beloved gom?

555
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: I accuse my best friend of liking my boyfriend. Now

556
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: our friendship is over. I'm going to try to keep

557
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: this short and as uncomplicated as possible, but there's a

558
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Speaker 1: lot of context. This event involves myself, twenty six female, BFF,

559
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Speaker 1: my best friend forever twenty six female, and my now

560
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend twenty eight male and BFF sister.

561
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: Tag team this story.

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Speaker 1: This story. There is something I am about to do.

563
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: It I'm about to do Okay. The story takes place

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Speaker 1: three years ago and none of us have been friends since.

565
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Speaker 1: But guys, this is not just a story shared on

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Speaker 1: our slash Okay storytime. This is one of our very

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Speaker 1: own from d Francisco, a direct story from the community

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Speaker 1: on our slash Okay story time. So this is this

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Speaker 1: is for all the marbles. Lauren, are you ready? I

570
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Speaker 1: don't think you're ready.

571
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 2: I'm probably not. You're probably right.

572
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: Let's find out. To start with, I will talk about

573
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: my BFF her sister in ies relationship. We will call

574
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: BFF Sally and her sister Haley fake names, so all

575
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: of us are cousins. Wow, there's a lot of types

576
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: of relationships going on here. I'm exhausted. The threes that is. Uh.

577
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: We were all homeschooled and grew up very close. Oh great.

578
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 1: At one point their mother, my aunt, basically raised us

579
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Speaker 1: for an entire year while my mom went back to

580
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Speaker 1: her uh my mom went back to work from being

581
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Speaker 1: a stay at home mom. My, my BFF, Sally and

582
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Speaker 1: I had always been the best of friends. I literally

583
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Speaker 1: do not remember a point in my life when she

584
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Speaker 1: was not around attached to the hip. You could say

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Speaker 1: the only time we weren't was when I went to

586
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Speaker 1: a public high school, and she remained being homeschooled even then.

587
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Speaker 1: I went. Even then, I went to see them any

588
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Speaker 1: chance I got, which was still quite frequently. We were

589
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Speaker 1: honestly more like sisters, including Haley these uh, which I

590
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: mean there are cousins already, so make sense. Yeah. Uh.

591
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: Their family has six kids in total. Wow. And I

592
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: was very close with the four oldest girls, but mainly

593
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: my BF Sally and her sister Haley.

594
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Speaker 2: A bunch of kids being homeschooled. I wonder what they

595
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Speaker 2: do every Sunday.

596
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: Duggers. Now, my BFF Sally had always been the most

597
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: reserved between the three of us, never really talked to boys,

598
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: seldom even had a crush. She was never much for

599
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Speaker 1: a physical touch. Keep this in mind later. I had

600
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Speaker 1: always been the most confrontational out of the friends group,

601
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,959
Speaker 1: and my BFF Sally and her sister Haley always being

602
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Speaker 1: more shy in general, and I was often the one

603
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Speaker 1: getting upset for them. There was one situation I even

604
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Speaker 1: ended up even ended another close friendship in defense of

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Speaker 1: my BF Sally. Honestly, I kind of put her on

606
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Speaker 1: a pedestal. I had partied and been in and out

607
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Speaker 1: of relationships in high school. While she was always level

608
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Speaker 1: headed and didn't get involved with that sort of thing.

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Speaker 1: I really looked up to her Q ex boyfriend. We'll

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Speaker 1: call him Chad. Chad. You good, Chad, You good Chad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm at Chad when I was twenty and we were

612
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: instantly the best of friends. He was the kind of

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Speaker 1: guy that got along with everyone, never took anything too

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Speaker 1: seriously or ruffled any feathers. He was sort of a

615
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 1: class clown in the best way. I introduced him to

616
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Speaker 1: my best friends, even though oh and everyone thought that

617
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Speaker 1: he was just the greatest. The four of us quickly

618
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: became friends. Even his best friend, now twenty six male,

619
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Speaker 1: ended up being part of the group. So we spent

620
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: the first year of our relationship really getting close as

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Speaker 1: a group. We even thought of getting tattoos together Lowell

622
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 1: so glad we didn't, but it explains how close we

623
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Speaker 1: were at that time. So, just about a year into

624
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,280
Speaker 1: our relationship, my friend Sally started taking jiu jitsu classes.

625
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Speaker 2: Oh those are fun ooh.

626
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: I was so excited for her. It was a little

627
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: surprised in considering how reserved she was, but I thought

628
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: it was going to be really good for her. Sometimes

629
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 1: she would even try to show me moves she had learned.

630
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 1: But I'll admit it made me a little uncomfortable because

631
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 1: of how awkward some of the positions were.

632
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 2: Honestly, it's really not that awkward. I've I've done jiu

633
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 2: jitsu before. Yeah, but do it right now?

634
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Speaker 1: On you just kidding?

635
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 2: I can I do a mean bread box? You guys?

636
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: Well, one night we were all getting wasted, and Sally

637
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: looked at my boyfriend and asked him if he wanted

638
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: to spa He was a state wrestler in high school.

639
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 1: Born no sauce or not.

640
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 2: Uh, that's a little sus that's a little such. I mean, regardless,

641
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 2: I feel like that's something that transcends gender. You know,

642
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: just unprompted asking someone to wrestle with you.

643
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: I won't lie.

644
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: Jiu jitsu is a very intimate sport, right, That's why

645
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 2: you know, when it's like outside of a dojo or

646
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: like a studio, it's very weird. Dojo exactly, no dojo

647
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: in this doja casa house, oh god, dojo kasa house.

648
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 1: And they both looked at me to see what I'd say.

649
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: I know at this point that I should have said no,

650
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: but it was my best friend Sally, and I didn't

651
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: think that she had bad intentions. I also felt put

652
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: on the spot, and no one else was acting like

653
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: it was weird, though I said, yes again, I know

654
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 1: this was now my first mistake peer pressure. So they

655
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: sparred and it was very uncomfortable for me, But again

656
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: I didn't think either of them had bad intentions. This

657
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: happened on and off a few more times, and I

658
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: just chalked it up to two people that knew what

659
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: they were doing and that's as far as they would

660
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 1: take it. Plus, I was genuinely glad that Sally was

661
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: coming out of her box. Uh oh, well, there's certain Well,

662
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: there are some instances of outside of sparring that raised

663
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: some red flags for me. I will just mention my

664
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: top three, my top three. I have a list of

665
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,439
Speaker 1: tier list top ten red flags for my boyfriend. Yeah.

666
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 1: So Sally, Haley, and Chad and I took a beach

667
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: trip and decided to play football keep away. There were

668
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: a few times where Sally and Chad were trying to

669
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 1: get the ball from the other and ended up kind

670
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: of forgetting about the game and wrestling around in the sand,

671
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: giggling and losing focus.

672
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I cannot stand it when couples whenever

673
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 3: they're like playing a football game or a basketball game,

674
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 3: they're on the same team. It might be against each other,

675
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 3: so you can do this. I will never be on

676
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 3: the same team as my girlfriend, never in my life.

677
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 2: But afraid of losing you chicken, you chicken, Riley.

678
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 3: No, it's not that I know we'll win together, but

679
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna like one on one or third you know.

680
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, cup pong, she's on my side football. If

681
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: it's like tackle football, I'm sorry. What do you mean

682
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: by cup on? Are you saying like as long as

683
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: like beer pong? Oh? I thought you said, as long

684
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: as I have something protecting me, I'll be fine. No,

685
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: Riley doesn't use protection when yeah time whoa, let's get

686
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: back to the story. All jokes. A joke got him.

687
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 1: So there was a few times. Oh, there was a

688
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 1: few times Sally and Chad were trying to get the

689
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 1: ball from each other and ended up kind of forgetting

690
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: about the game and wrestling in the sand, giggling and

691
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: losing focus. This is weird to me, but I didn't

692
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 1: say anything. The same trip on the way home, Haley

693
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: and I were upfront. I get really bad anxiety from

694
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: previous people wrecking with me in the car. Wait what,

695
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: oh my god, and needed to be up front at

696
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,919
Speaker 1: that time while Chad and Sally sat in the back. Okay,

697
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 1: so she Chad had been in a car accident.

698
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 2: She went sat in the back. Okay, not upfront in

699
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 2: a conversation, but upfront in shotgun passenger side of her

700
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 2: best friend's ride. Ye, no scrubs, Yes.

701
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: Nice. They started flicking each other and giggling. At one

702
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 1: point he was holding her by the wrist and flicking

703
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: her hand while giggling. I don't know. It was weird

704
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: to me. You could say, oh, they're like siblings, but

705
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: this definitely was one time it felt like an all

706
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: out flirtation. I ended up turning to Chad and telling

707
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 1: him to stop, and they did. As this sibling, I

708
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 1: can assure you, that's not what happens. That's not siblingly behavior.

709
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: No, that's just that's more like single child behavior, only

710
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 2: child behavior, or you're just the one child with the

711
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: two parents.

712
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: Who knows. Anyways, now they start sparring for a while,

713
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: maybe a good couple of months, and I thought that

714
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: all was good until we went to our family's Fourth

715
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 1: of July events. Some important side context. Within these months,

716
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 1: Sally had found out that she had epilepsy and had

717
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,720
Speaker 1: to stay inside due to the fireworks, potentially triggering an episode.

718
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,879
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, when the show is over. At this point,

719
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 1: it was very late we went to say our goodbyes.

720
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: When we said our goodbyes to Sally, she was in

721
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: a room full of my cousins and one great aunt,

722
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: her grandma. I hugged her and was waiting for Chad

723
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: to finish his rounds when he got to salary. When

724
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: he got to Sally, when.

725
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 2: He got to salary, shut up salad fingers.

726
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was intoxicated and started trying to wrestle with him,

727
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: like clinging onto him and not letting him go. He

728
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: looked visibly uncomfortable and was nervously laughing. My great aunt

729
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: turned to me and said, you need to tell Chad

730
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 1: not to russell with his free Mertle cousins. Their cousins,

731
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: Chad and Sally. But they might be like, you know,

732
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 1: fourth or fifth gus.

733
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't care if they're related, they should not

734
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 2: be together.

735
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: Maybe my guess here is that the great aunt is

736
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: confused because it's a whole group of cousins, and then

737
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: Chad is there. Well, I mean, uh, it seems like

738
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: great aunt has been around a while. Yeah, so I

739
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 1: don't know if that is really weird, that is really

740
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: really weird. So we don't know. This theme, we don't know.

741
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:44,320
Speaker 1: I walked into the room not knowing what to do

742
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: and was so embarrassed for everyone involved. On the drive home,

743
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: I told Chad that I did not want him sparring

744
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: with her anymore, and that it was the first time

745
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: that I really questioned her intentions, even if they were

746
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: if they had realized feelings and it started off as

747
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 1: incidit innocent. Uh, this instance felt emotionally charged. I also

748
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: told him the other times that it may be uncomfortable,

749
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: but I never questioned it, questioned intentions until this point.

750
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: He agreed, but apologized for making me uncomfortable in the past.

751
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: I told him it wasn't his fault, considering I never

752
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: said anything. This is where I thought it would end.

753
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 1: I didn't see the point in talking to Sally to Sally,

754
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 1: considering I thought that I was going to marry Chad

755
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 1: and didn't want to strain their relationship. Considering Chad had

756
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:34,359
Speaker 1: agreed that it wouldn't happen again. Que the breakup. Yeah,

757
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: wow to the breakup. I was so fast to it.

758
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 2: You think you're getting married, Think again.

759
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: Nope, you're getting not married. Yeah, jokes on you. Chad

760
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: and I break up and I moved back with my parents.

761
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: Context hopefully we'll get it. After two weeks, we're speaking

762
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: again and talking back and talking back together again. Hailey

763
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: asked me to go for a drive to talk, and

764
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: I agree. Now, quite a few of my family members

765
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,760
Speaker 1: had made remarks throughout all of this suggesting that Sally

766
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: liked Chad. Can I say something? Always shut them down?

767
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: Go ahead.

768
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 2: So when Opie and Chad broke up, yes, uh, two

769
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 2: weeks later, they start talking about getting back together again

770
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 2: that as someone who has gone back to a relationship,

771
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 2: don't do that. Don't do that. You're wasting your time. Yeah,

772
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 2: you're wasting your time.

773
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is deeming extremely messy. I think we're on

774
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: all sides. I think, yeah, I think Sally's about to

775
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: re enter the chats.

776
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 2: So I think Sally's from Alabama?

777
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: Oh mah, do do do so? Then one of my

778
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: other close friends mentioned that she thought they were always

779
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: really flirty in front of her as well. This, on

780
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 1: top of my breakup, made me extra emotional, and I

781
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: started to realize how much it had really hurt me

782
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: watching them, watching them all of those times. I was

783
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: really disappointed in myself for giving them special treatment out

784
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: of my own nativity, nativity naivete out of my own nither.

785
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 2: I feel like they're both.

786
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: Nativity is a different word, but that's okay, causing them

787
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: to stumble lots of feelings. Oh, you're right, baby Jesus

788
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: in the manger, that's a Nativity scene. My bed correct

789
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: you good? Sorry, Chat, It's okay. Chat. When I when

790
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: I met with Haley, she asked me a question that

791
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: made me spiral. I can't remember exact verbatim considering how

792
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: long it's been, but I said something like I'm upset

793
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: about some other stuff too, and Haley replied like Sally,

794
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: which looking back was odd because it implied that she

795
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: caught on she knew it was OHP wasn't saying that

796
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: this was Haley? Yeah? And I just started bawling. This

797
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: is this is the part where I might be a

798
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: big a hole. I blurted out, how dare you touch

799
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 1: my man. She flirted with him in in front of

800
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: me all the time and continued crying. Haley pulled over

801
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: and comforted me and mentioned Sally asked her if she

802
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 1: could spare, if she could spare with her boyfriend, Chad's

803
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: best friend. Hmm, and she said no spar. I think, yeah,

804
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: let me read that. Thank you. Wow, she's moving on

805
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: to another one. Oh god, Haley. Haley pulled over and

806
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 1: comforted me and mentioned Sally asked if she could spar

807
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 1: with her boyfriend who's also Chad's best friend, and she

808
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,399
Speaker 1: said no. She couldn't imagine how I fell all this time,

809
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: but I needed to talk to Sally. I agreed and

810
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 1: said I didn't think their intentions were bad. We left

811
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 1: it there and went our separate ways. That day of midnight,

812
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: I was in bed trying to sleep when I received

813
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:52,399
Speaker 1: a call from who over, dirty Sally, Dirty Sally uh oh.

814
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: I assumed, especially based off her personality, that she was

815
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,360
Speaker 1: calling to say sorry and was embarrassed, so I started

816
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: typing a text saying I knew why she was most

817
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: likely calling, and I wasn't mad at her and I

818
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: loved her. If we could talk tomorrow, et cetera. But

819
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: before I could hit send, I received a text from her.

820
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 1: She let me know she was ending our friendship and

821
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: we were never friends if I could accuse her of

822
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 1: such a thing. I still sent mine, hoping she would

823
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 1: change gears. Nope, he dug or heels in, so we

824
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: proceeded to send immature texts back and forth for a

825
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: few days. I contacted Hailey as I was worried about

826
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: Sally based off this response to what she was telling me.

827
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't christianly. I knew it for not telling Sally sooner,

828
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. I knew it. I knew it.

829
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: I knew it.

830
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 2: I knew just because they were homeschooled.

831
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: Clocked it from a mile away, right, which I agree.

832
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: But this was all something that could have been resolved,

833
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: and I was fine with being wrong about things, but

834
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: our friendship, in my mind, didn't need to end. I

835
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: told Sally that we should continue our conversation in per

836
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: but she absolutely refused. I even reached out to my

837
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: aunt to say our friendship at least deserved talking in person,

838
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: and she replied saying that Sally needed time, so I

839
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 1: respected it. We stopped talking chat and I got to back.

840
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: Chad and I got back together very briefly, but he

841
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 1: sided with Sally and eventually broke up again, this time.

842
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 2: Good thank god.

843
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: A year literally a year later, we are still not talking.

844
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:33,240
Speaker 1: Sally didn't attend any family functions, including my sister's wedding

845
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: or any other weddings for that matter. They were like

846
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: four that year. Dude. Really, At the end of the

847
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: first year, one of my cousins was getting married and

848
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: their family, excluding Sally, was there. You we do. I

849
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 1: ended up getting pretty intoxicated and I went up to Haley.

850
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 1: I sat down next to her and said we needed

851
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 1: to talk about the elephant in the room. So we did.

852
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: It ended the way it started. I was a bad

853
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: guy for what I said in the car and not

854
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:15,919
Speaker 1: saying something sooner Hailey. She did cry at one point,

855
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: saying she didn't want our relationship to end over this,

856
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: which confused me considering I agreed, but no one would

857
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,320
Speaker 1: meet to talk. I ended up super emotional after pouring

858
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: my heart out with no conclusion, got up and said

859
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: F you and f Sally, storming off. I said sorry

860
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: for this. Next day, I was in the wrong here. Uh.

861
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: Later that next week, Haley texted me, by the way

862
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: Sally had blocked me at this point, saying Sally was

863
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 1: finally ready to meet. I was so excited. I told

864
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 1: her how happy I was, and we picked a day

865
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 1: and time. It was Sally, Haley, and I and our

866
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: dads that met. I went over and over what I

867
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: wanted to say, what I wanted to say sorry to

868
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: while still holding my ground. So I did. I started,

869
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: and I said I was sorry for not saying something sooner.

870
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: What I said in the car to Haley, and some

871
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: other things I thought deserved an apology. Can't remember, but

872
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 1: they were minute in comparison. I also said that my

873
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 1: goal for this meeting was for healing all around. After

874
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: I was done, they wanted an explanation for why I

875
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 1: said it. Other side note, Sally did not look good.

876
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: She looked very underweight and depressed. I was actually very concerned,

877
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: so I explained I was very emotional when I said it,

878
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: and processing a lot of other things. Considering I was

879
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: in the middle of a breakup, this was not an

880
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,359
Speaker 1: acceptable answer. My uncle interrupted at one point and said,

881
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: if I get drunk and punch Shelley, is that okay?

882
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: If I get drunk and drive. Is that Okay? What

883
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 1: I I think they're saying that, Like He's like, if

884
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: I drink and do something reckless, does that forgive it? Like? No?

885
00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think what they're saying is like that Op

886
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: got drunk and did and set all that stuff.

887
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:07,879
Speaker 1: Yes, And it's like, meanwhile, we haven't even addressed yet

888
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: all the things that, Yeah, that Sally.

889
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 2: Did and I mean what Sally did? She also did drunk.

890
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 2: So you see double standard?

891
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: I think so. And yep, we got it. More time,

892
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, we have another thirty minutes. Goodness, gracious guys.

893
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: Christen foil Hat, I mean, oh, come on, Chris, just

894
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: forty forty gifted memberships.

895
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:46,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, come on, this man is a machine.

896
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 1: Come on, this person is a machine of tinfoil. I

897
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 1: am Christian foile Hat. You will get memberships if it

898
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,879
Speaker 1: is the last thing I do, dude, Christen faul Hat,

899
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: Chris members to overall. Wow, imagine still, Riley, you could

900
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: get ninety nine new best friends, ninety nine new family,

901
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 1: ninety nine new kids. Wow, in such job, that's what happened.

902
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 1: Little proteins ninety nine little proteins.

903
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 2: You'll put you'll put the duggers out of a job exactly.

904
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, so back to the story. I didn't find this

905
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: inappropriate at all, and I asked him if he was

906
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: comparing me to an abusing drinker. Hailey interjected and said

907
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: it came across wrong and tried changing the subject. All

908
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: in all, this meeting ended poorly, no resolution. Yes, I

909
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: felt like a horrid person and balled my eyes out

910
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: when we got home. My dad was in shock and

911
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: actually later called my uncle because of his inappropriate comments.

912
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,439
Speaker 1: I felt so lost. My best friend for my entire

913
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: life was gone. In fact, they hated my guts. I

914
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 1: unadded them from social media at this point. I've made

915
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 1: other attempts like writing Sally a letter, other small things

916
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 1: as last ditch efforts, but it is over between me

917
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 1: and their entire family. It's been over for three years

918
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: what I said in the car, and two since our meeting.

919
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: My aunts would still come up at family events and

920
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: hug me and say she loved me, but I didn't

921
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: feel it. Dang do that? Yeah that sucks. So I

922
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: recently messaged her saying I was closing the door to

923
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: any potential future relationship. I even recently got married and

924
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 1: they don't know him at all. So the big question,

925
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: am I the a hole? Did the punishment fit the crime? Well,

926
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: you cannot be an Ahil by joining us every day

927
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: at three PMPSD. Yes, with the.

928
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 2: Profile, it is always morally correct to do that.

929
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: Yes, indeed, Lauren, we have a big question here. Big

930
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 1: question was op the a hole for cutting off not

931
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 1: only her family, not only her past best friend, but

932
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 1: all of that combined? What say you? What are your no?

933
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: I think you know, just cut your losses. They've made

934
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 2: up their minds, So yeah, I think it's the point

935
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 2: to me.

936
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 1: It's like how many times Opie tried, like op got

937
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: everyone together for the big conversations, like writing letters, reaching

938
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: out for all of these different things, and at a

939
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: certain point you just you gotta stop doing that to yourself. Yeah,

940
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: genuinely question do you like send like a you know,

941
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: a final message basically explaining like, hey, I am like

942
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: not gonna be reaching anymore. I've tried, I wanted to.

943
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 2: Do these things, but or for the aunt in particular,

944
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 2: I would, but otherwise no.

945
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,760
Speaker 1: Right right now? Yeah, for people who have been engaging

946
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: and kind of helping, And.

947
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 2: It's honestly like if the roles were reversed. You know,

948
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 2: would this person provide you with an explanation as to

949
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 2: why they're going no contact? And if the answer is no, uh,

950
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,120
Speaker 2: you know, put out what you who?

951
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: Uh what is it? Get back what you were? Uh,

952
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: receive what you what? Goes around around whatever? You know

953
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: what one of those things? We almost got it? Prize?

954
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: Does it take to remember an idiom? Apparently more than two?

955
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:18,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, yep.

956
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 1: But we got some don't know the room, don't know?

957
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 1: Here do we have? Don't know? I see what you

958
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: did there? Kristin Foyle had fifteen hour stream No, seriously,

959
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: thirty more minutes? Guys, guys, Christian fail did it again? Hello? Yeah?

960
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:39,839
Speaker 1: Six twenty six from Josephine Madala burkequest more time, more time?

961
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 1: Well you got that, Shannon Tappyeah thanks in the five

962
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: bucks on the donor link. This kind of relates to

963
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,840
Speaker 1: my granddad slash uncle. Do we have a grand uncle grandpa?

964
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: Is that what we're saying, Shannon, Yes, I'm talking about

965
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: the same individual.

966
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 2: Oh, my good grandpa is my favorite cartoon?

967
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: Is that a story we should see? Okay? Secret sort

968
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:03,319
Speaker 1: Ooh sixty seven from Shannon top Yah Uh sorry, you've

969
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: read in the last five minutes. We've heard the last

970
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: five minutes reminds me of the short story I have

971
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,400
Speaker 1: of my granddad slash uncle. Yes, he is the same person,

972
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: Shannon our slash Okay, story.

973
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 2: Time, Uncle Grandpa.

974
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: We want to read it. I'm good down, Uncle Grandpa,

975
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: Good uncle grandpa. Good morning. But that's the character on

976
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,919
Speaker 1: the dough nose from the show.

977
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 2: There was a show called Uncle Grandpa.

978
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, your face is uncle. He looked kind of

979
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 1: like you me, John. Oh, old, I see it.

980
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 2: I see it very much, see it very much.

981
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, shots fired, shots fire. Hey, Riley has a

982
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: much better view of me. Yeah. Violence. Anyways, ladies and gentlemen,

983
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: we still got more time. We still got more time,

984
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: got more story. Oh yeah, I got him. Let's read

985
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:05,280
Speaker 1: the next one with Lourie. Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness.

986
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 1: Should we maybe read? Uh an s one of another?

987
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 1: One was so long? And yeah, maybe I could pop

988
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: into another one if that's okay. We were yeah, we

989
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: were on three. But maybe i'll oh, oh, get grab

990
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: a four today fifteen oh to eight sixteen, Yes, sir,

991
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: I can do that. And boo boo, this is perfect,

992
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: all right, I'm in it, s one, baby, let's break

993
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: and do it. You're here, you go, alrighty?

994
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 2: My boyfriend refused to call me during boys night. Do

995
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: you think they were wrestling too? So I broke up

996
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 2: with him. Me twenty nine female and my thirty male boyfriend.

997
00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,839
Speaker 2: We'll call him Cody. He's not really living the sweet

998
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:08,760
Speaker 2: life anymore. Have been together? Sweet life is acting Cody?

999
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 1: Or he's not doing YouTube anymore? Oh, ko, dude, got

1000
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 1: him nice? I'm hilarious.

1001
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 2: Okay, my boyfriend, Cody uh and I have been together

1002
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 2: for a year and nine months, but we have known

1003
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: each other for fifteen years, give or take. Cody lives

1004
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 2: in Alberta, Canada, while I live in New Jersey. Oh no,

1005
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 2: far we see well, just New Jersey kinda sucks. We

1006
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 2: see each other when we can buy, when we can

1007
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 2: buy the travel, Oh, when we can buy, but the

1008
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 2: travel can be expensive.

1009
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:05,439
Speaker 1: I just oh lord, all right, good, I'm so sorry.

1010
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: I lost my place. I just got back.

1011
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 2: Yes, I just got back from my from my last

1012
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 2: trip to see him about a week ago. This past

1013
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 2: Saturday night, I had a fancy Romanian baptism for my

1014
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 2: best friend's niece to go to it was pretty much

1015
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 2: a wedding though though out the day, through the day,

1016
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 2: throughout the day, I can't read. Throughout the day, I

1017
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 2: had called him a few times, just to show off

1018
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 2: my dress and to introduce him to some people, and

1019
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 2: just to say hi a few times. That would be nice.

1020
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 2: My boyfriend did that. He said Hi more than once.

1021
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 2: My darling, my betrothed. Where are you bullpa chat, I'll

1022
00:58:57,120 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 2: find you. By the end of the night, my best

1023
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 2: friend and I went back to her house, and I

1024
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 2: had sobered up from the party. By the time I

1025
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 2: was home. It was about two am my time, uh

1026
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 2: midnight his time. The last the last time I called him,

1027
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:21,360
Speaker 2: it was a two minute phone call where I told

1028
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 2: him how much fun I had and that my friend

1029
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 2: and I might go back out, and he told me

1030
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 2: that he might go out too, which is great. I

1031
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 2: was happy he was having fun with his friends. Around

1032
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,919
Speaker 2: three thirty am my time, one point thirty his time,

1033
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 2: I tried to call him because I wanted to introduce

1034
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 2: him to a friend of mine, but he didn't answer,

1035
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 2: so I texted his friend, We'll call him Jace. Jason

1036
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 2: and I are friends and talk frequently. When I called Jace,

1037
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 2: he didn't answer and texted me in a joking way,

1038
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 2: it's boys night, leave us alone, and stated he only

1039
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 2: gets to do it once a year. Gets to do

1040
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 2: what once a year? Is it like Santa really comes

1041
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 2: once a year.

1042
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 1: With the boy with the boys?

1043
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 2: Are the ELFs?

1044
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: Oh? God, don't understand his workshop? Please? No? Please? Yes?

1045
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:31,200
Speaker 2: So I was like, Okay, I don't I didn't know

1046
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 2: it was boy's night. I won't bother you, and I

1047
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 2: texted Cody the same. Throughout the night, I got a

1048
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 2: few snapchats from Jace, one at the bar and it

1049
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 2: looks like he picked up a girl. I tried not

1050
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 2: to think anything of it, so I went on with

1051
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 2: my night. Maybe an hour later I got another snap

1052
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 2: from Jace. What is the point to this, Jace? He's

1053
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 2: in a dark hotel room in bed with the girl

1054
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:05,000
Speaker 2: from the first pick? Sure, why would you send that, Jace?

1055
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 1: He's like, hey, babe, I just want to be honest

1056
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 1: and transparent. No, Jace's Opie's friend. Oh right, right right?

1057
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 2: So he's like still like, Jace, are you stupid? Like

1058
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 2: that's disgusting?

1059
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? Why is he taking the picture of them together?

1060
01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 2: It's it's a video?

1061
01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:24,920
Speaker 1: Oh it is it is a picture. It sounds like

1062
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: a picture of this or two of them, like in

1063
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: it's hotel room in bed. It's not like corn but

1064
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: it's like evidence that it's like I think I think

1065
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: it is. Why else would they be in a dark

1066
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 1: hotel room. Oh no, they're in there, But is it

1067
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 1: like are they just like like laying in the Okay,

1068
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:43,880
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter.

1069
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 2: They're they're playing I spy. Oh where you're in a

1070
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 2: hotel room and you can't see anything, so it's like

1071
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 2: extra hard, extra hard. I'm sorry.

1072
01:01:59,640 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: Okay.

1073
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 2: From Jace, he's in a dark hotel room in bed

1074
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:08,920
Speaker 2: with the girl from the first picture. So I messaged

1075
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 2: him saying, if it's boys' night and you're in a

1076
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 2: hotel room with another girl, where's my boyfriend? And who's

1077
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 2: flying the plane?

1078
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 1: Doyojoya oing?

1079
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 2: Two minutes later, Wow, that was fast. Two minutes. That's disappointing.

1080
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 2: Jay sent me another snap of him and Cody in

1081
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 2: the dark hotel.

1082
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: Room in bed, girl not pictured. What is happening? Girl

1083
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 1: not found? I think he's trying to be like, hey, look,

1084
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: we're so innocent. It's okay, you're so innocent, you already

1085
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: expose yourself.

1086
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 2: Girl not pictured. That just makes me think that Jason

1087
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 2: boyfriend were getting busy, and Jace was like self reporting,

1088
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1089
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: Guess what.

1090
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 2: At this point, I'm upset, but I kept my cool.

1091
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 2: I sent Jason message saying, apparently, since Cody can't answer

1092
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 2: his text right now, I'm letting you both know I

1093
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 2: am calm and collected right now, but I feel extremely

1094
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 2: disrespected and I am not okay with this.

1095
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: At all.

1096
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 2: And I sent Cody the same message to his phone.

1097
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 2: I did not hear back from Cody until three pm

1098
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 2: the next day. Oh, he was up all night. He

1099
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 2: called me and I answered, I calmly asked him to

1100
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 2: explain himself. He immediately got defensive. I told him there

1101
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 2: was a picture of him in the same room. Oh wait,

1102
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 2: hold on, I told him there were pictures of him

1103
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 2: in the same room. In the same room, a girl

1104
01:03:58,280 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 2: I didn't know was pictured.

1105
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sorry.

1106
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 2: He told me that Jace got adjoining rooms and that

1107
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 2: the girl and her friend had the other room. So

1108
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 2: now there were two girls I didn't know, yay, and

1109
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 2: they're not out of town, so like, why are they

1110
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 2: getting a hotel room?

1111
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 1: Babe? She got lonely, So I wanted to be a

1112
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:27,120
Speaker 1: good guy and make sure that the d's girl was lonely.

1113
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 2: Say so, obviously I had to buy another girl to

1114
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 2: keep the other girl company. Oh no, oh no, he

1115
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 2: told me I was being insecure and childish for accusing

1116
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 2: him of cheating, even though there was photographic proofs, which

1117
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 2: I hadn't even done yet. Did I say your name?

1118
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 2: I asked him what he would think if I went

1119
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 2: home with a guy from the party I was at

1120
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 2: and he found out. His response was, well, did you

1121
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 2: f him? I said, well, did you proving my point? Yeah,

1122
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 2: my friend will call her. Kelly took the phone at

1123
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 2: that point and said to Cody, if you were my boyfriend,

1124
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 2: I'd be on a flight there right now. Oh I

1125
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 2: don't think that friend would have made a past tsa

1126
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 2: where he told her he would just call the cops

1127
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 2: on her right. I ended up hanging up on him

1128
01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 2: and texting him with my heightened emotions it's over. I

1129
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 2: tried texting him what it looks like from my side

1130
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 2: of things, and he pretty much said that I'm not

1131
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 2: considering how it makes him feel being accused of something

1132
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 2: he didn't do. Okay, wow, Yeah, then don't look like

1133
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,919
Speaker 2: something that you would be accused of doing.

1134
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, babe, the picture you know she it was AI Babe.

1135
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 1: Come on, AI Babe, AI is running. It's actually it's

1136
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: a disease. Babe.

1137
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 2: Invest in crypto, Babe, invest in the AI crypto. We

1138
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 2: actually that was that was a publicity stunt. We're actually

1139
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 2: creating a new AI court, a new NFT called dumped Coin.

1140
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 2: I'm doing this for you, babe, called dump Coin. I'm

1141
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 2: doing this because I in a future with you. End

1142
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 2: scene scene yay, yes, of course. And he won't apologize

1143
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 2: for it because he did nothing wrong. He also said

1144
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 2: we are over because of my own insecurities and inability

1145
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 2: to put a small amount of trust in me. I

1146
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 2: don't want to talk to you. Since that conversation, I've

1147
01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 2: sent him a few more messages pleading my side of

1148
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 2: things and also telling him, if it's really over, that

1149
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 2: we need to arrange for him to mail my things

1150
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:10,520
Speaker 2: to me, and he just replied with I'm not talking

1151
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 2: to you right now, okay, childish, all right, I want

1152
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 2: to include that cony Cony Cony Island and I Cody Island,

1153
01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 2: and I Cody I'm gonna pass away that Cody and

1154
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 2: I Cody Island.

1155
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 1: Let's Islands.

1156
01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 2: Hot Dogs, Tony Island hot Dogs.

1157
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:48,440
Speaker 1: Hilarious.

1158
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 2: Cody, you've been voted off the island. Okay, I'm sorry.

1159
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 2: I promise I'm done. Cody and I have not had

1160
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:02,000
Speaker 2: a major fight in months and things have been amazing.

1161
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 2: This is so out of left field, and I have

1162
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 2: always had trust in him that he wouldn't cheat on me.

1163
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 2: He has no game and is rarely interested in other people.

1164
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 2: Even before we got in the relationship. I wasn't even

1165
01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 2: upset because I thought he cheated on me. I was

1166
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 2: upset because he didn't communicate with me and it felt

1167
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 2: very inappropriate and disrespectful. I also had a phone call

1168
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 2: with Jace about the situation, and coming from him, I

1169
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:38,880
Speaker 2: understand the pieces of him sending me pictures of his night,

1170
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 2: including the girls. Jace paid Cody to take him to

1171
01:08:43,880 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 2: their city for guys night because he doesn't like driving

1172
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 2: in the city. Okay, Jace told Cody he wanted to

1173
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 2: pick up a girl for himself. Excuse me, Oh, he

1174
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 2: wanted to pick up a girl for himself. And Jace

1175
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:07,479
Speaker 2: also told Cody to call and tell me because Jace

1176
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:09,720
Speaker 2: didn't want to wake up to a phone call from

1177
01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 2: me freaking out. Sounds like Jace is trying to, you know,

1178
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 2: protect protect Cody. Cody told Jace he called and told me.

1179
01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:25,439
Speaker 2: I'm sure that was a lie. And Jace also thought

1180
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,840
Speaker 2: that every time Cody went out for a smoke he

1181
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:31,599
Speaker 2: was on the phone with me, but that never happened.

1182
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 2: Liars lying incredible, So please read it. Am I the

1183
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:41,160
Speaker 2: a hole for not putting my blind trust in Cody

1184
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 2: being at boys night and ending it in a room

1185
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 2: with two girls with with zero communication. I love Cody

1186
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 2: with all my heart and soul and I was planning

1187
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:54,680
Speaker 2: to move in with him next year. He is my

1188
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 2: best friend and I and has been in my life.

1189
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:04,640
Speaker 2: It has been in my life. I can't read. I

1190
01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:07,639
Speaker 2: am illiterate. You got it, bro, he is my best

1191
01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 2: friend and has been in my life half of my life.

1192
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 1: Please read it. Give me your input. Well guess what?

1193
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: Guess what? Where? Where are we give me your input? Bro? Oh?

1194
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah? What do you think that op should do? Now?

1195
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 1: At this point? Cut her losses? Move on? Just who cares? Man? Yeah?

1196
01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,799
Speaker 1: It's like what kind of like what's the point? Like genuinely,

1197
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 1: you could go back and forth. You could do all

1198
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: this stuff. Now do you do? You say? Like like again?

1199
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: Kind of like the question we asked earlier. A final

1200
01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 1: message written out of like hey, I'm not going to

1201
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:53,000
Speaker 1: engage anymore. No, here's why, No, no, no, flat out.

1202
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 2: Just just hey, I need my stuff or I'm gonna

1203
01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 2: call the cops for my stolen possessions.

1204
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Possibly, yea.

1205
01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,840
Speaker 2: He lives in Canada, so what would it be? The mountaineers,

1206
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 2: the mountains. He'll he'll pay, He'll pay a moose to

1207
01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 2: to come rough you up.

1208
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1209
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, Mooses do not mess around, bro.

1210
01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 1: Mooses are crazy.

1211
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 2: They will attack you.

1212
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:20,240
Speaker 1: Mooses and hippos are like low key monsters. They are

1213
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 1: notaroos kingaroos. Oh my gosh.

1214
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 2: Have you heard about like the trend online where all

1215
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:28,400
Speaker 2: these like American men are being like, yeah, I could

1216
01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 2: take a kangaroo in a fight.

1217
01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 3: No, no, dude, the claws on those things. Also, if

1218
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 3: you ever see kangaroo in water, don't go join them.

1219
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:39,800
Speaker 3: Water never joined them. Kangaroos can swim, well, they like

1220
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 3: to do this thing where they get their feet above

1221
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:44,439
Speaker 3: your head and they just keep you underwater and see

1222
01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 3: how long you can last.

1223
01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, are scared. Oh my god, that's crazy. They don't

1224
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:58,800
Speaker 1: even eat meat, do they No, they're just jacked. Yeah,

1225
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:01,679
Speaker 1: they're just like Jack for no reason. That is so fright.

1226
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,680
Speaker 1: Got there's strong, strong little arms. Well yeah, but I

1227
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 1: mean like they're.

1228
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 2: All right? Okay, good job. How that make you feel

1229
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 2: Did that make you feel good? That make you feel

1230
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:19,599
Speaker 2: big and strong? Make you feel like a big, strong boy.

1231
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 1: Strong kangaroo? Oh my god, look at that? Bro?

1232
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:30,080
Speaker 2: Bro, have you ever seen a shaved gorilla? Since we're

1233
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 2: doing Show and Tell? No, seriously, Like there's like this

1234
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:36,480
Speaker 2: one pict god.

1235
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: Standing on business, not a god. I was not ready

1236
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:49,799
Speaker 1: for any of those. I'm ready for like an analog

1237
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 1: horror arg that's just about kangaroos. It would be so funny.

1238
01:12:55,400 --> 01:12:57,920
Speaker 1: I don't understand half of the sentence you just said

1239
01:12:57,960 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 1: to me.

1240
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 2: Okay, analog horror like old TV's old technology.

1241
01:13:04,360 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 1: That's what that is.

1242
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 2: So arg alternate reality game. What if someone made an

1243
01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:17,080
Speaker 2: arg where no one knows what a kangaroo is, but

1244
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 2: there are kangaroos in that world and they're frightening and

1245
01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 2: trying to take away and people are going missing.

1246
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:28,960
Speaker 1: I would I would kangaroo. The day I played that game,

1247
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 1: Inger booned, don't know. All right, ladies and gentlemen, we're

1248
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:40,599
Speaker 1: gonna We're gonna do one more story. We're gonna stop.

1249
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 1: Let's jump to it. Kangaroo joke.

1250
01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 2: This next tale, We're gonna.

1251
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 1: Give it to you, Jake, all right, let's do it.

1252
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 1: My partner banned my kids baby daddy from our house.

1253
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,679
Speaker 1: I invited him over anyway. Sounds like a great idea. Ooh,

1254
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,439
Speaker 1: relevant information. Me and my significant other, who all call Sam,

1255
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: are both thirty five female, been together since twenty eighteen,

1256
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,120
Speaker 1: a move from one side of the country to the

1257
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 1: other in twenty twenty, and my with my two biological children,

1258
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:20,680
Speaker 1: Ryan ten ten male and James thirteen. By the way,

1259
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 1: this comes from Wishbone ninety four ninety three extra Wishbone,

1260
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: who is a member of the community. Ladies and gentlemen,

1261
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:30,679
Speaker 1: this is one of our very own from r slash

1262
01:14:30,760 --> 01:14:34,760
Speaker 1: Okay story time. So their father forty one male who

1263
01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 1: will call Landon and I have a very platonic and

1264
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: respectful relationship. There are zero romantic feelings there. I love

1265
01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: him as the father of my children and will always

1266
01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 1: want the best for him and allow him to access

1267
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 1: it to and will allow him access to his children

1268
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 1: as long as it has says for my kids to

1269
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: do so. With that said, I will admit that I

1270
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 1: do not feel one hundred percent comfortable leaving the kids

1271
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 1: with him four extended periods of time, and he is

1272
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 1: basically a stranger to them. He's spent five years in

1273
01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 1: prison substance related charges, but he has been cleaned for

1274
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,639
Speaker 1: nine years. At this point, we only see him once

1275
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:11,640
Speaker 1: a year when he flies out or vice versa for

1276
01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 1: a few day visit in a hotel with the kids.

1277
01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:17,719
Speaker 1: Thence he's not allowed in our house. According to Sam

1278
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:21,880
Speaker 1: Opie's partner, Landon, and I traveled in a van, moved

1279
01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:24,600
Speaker 1: to Hawaii and opened a tattoo shop there. Dude, this

1280
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:28,719
Speaker 1: is what a life? Oh, and lost it all because

1281
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: of a terrible subsidition substance addiction. That is not a

1282
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 1: great life, that's not good. That all came crashing down.

1283
01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:37,680
Speaker 1: Out of it came my two baby boys. And I

1284
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:40,400
Speaker 1: also did some time in the slammer and came out

1285
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: on the other side with having completely turned my life around.

1286
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 1: I met my partner Sam and together we decided to

1287
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:49,559
Speaker 1: move across the country to live closer to her mom.

1288
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:52,320
Speaker 1: And Dad, and because cost of living was much cheaper

1289
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 1: in the South compared to the major city on the

1290
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: West coast that we had been staying.

1291
01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:59,680
Speaker 2: Let's go, you haul, Let's go lesbian Riley, you know them?

1292
01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:05,400
Speaker 1: No comment? Do you know every lesbian, every lesbian, all

1293
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 1: of the lesbians? I do have a few, that's true.

1294
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 1: Pretty cool? Yeah, nice, let's go lesbians. Oh my gosh,

1295
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:24,479
Speaker 1: speaking of lesbians. So got him? Guys? Are we going

1296
01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:28,240
Speaker 1: another thirty minutes? Oh my gosh, this is two minutes left. Guys,

1297
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 1: we have two minutes left. We'll keep going. We'll see

1298
01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: what happened?

1299
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 2: What Chris tinfoil hat? I'm in lesbians with you?

1300
01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:39,160
Speaker 1: Oh wait? Wait? Wait, what what happened? Oh no, Chris?

1301
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,720
Speaker 1: Was that me? Did I do that? You wait till

1302
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:48,080
Speaker 1: like three minutes left? What is this? Chris? I thought

1303
01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 1: I had plans with lesbians? You made plans on a Tuesday?

1304
01:16:55,120 --> 01:17:00,559
Speaker 1: Is that I thought I could? What have you ever

1305
01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:05,680
Speaker 1: been allowed? I thought today? We thought today finally that

1306
01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:10,599
Speaker 1: chat had relinquished. But no, I think we're good. Though

1307
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 1: we didn't pass the market, we're still good. What's the marker?

1308
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,880
Speaker 1: We still need like five bucks? Oh? Oh, you're right?

1309
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:24,080
Speaker 2: Don't give them the answer, the wrong answer, but give

1310
01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:24,840
Speaker 2: them ideas.

1311
01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see. I'll keep Come on, guys, we

1312
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:33,160
Speaker 1: only need ninety nine more cents exactly, I'll keep going.

1313
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:36,439
Speaker 1: So this is all like a no brainer. A new

1314
01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:38,920
Speaker 1: place with my kids, a new environment with new people

1315
01:17:38,960 --> 01:17:42,479
Speaker 1: and opportunities, and a stable home after spending ten plus

1316
01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 1: years on the go. What what happened? Best? Oh my god,

1317
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:56,439
Speaker 1: keep reading reading right? All right? All right? I want

1318
01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:58,320
Speaker 1: the best of my kids, and moving to a place

1319
01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:00,479
Speaker 1: where I could afford to purchase my own home was

1320
01:18:00,560 --> 01:18:05,799
Speaker 1: something I never thought wassible. My only hesitation was my partner,

1321
01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:09,559
Speaker 1: Sam had already thrown up several very concerning red flags

1322
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 1: early in our relationship, and I just knew deep down

1323
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:14,800
Speaker 1: that I could be making a horrible mistake by jumping

1324
01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 1: into a huge financial obligation with someone like this. I

1325
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:21,200
Speaker 1: would love to go into detail about all the insane things,

1326
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:24,800
Speaker 1: lying about having cancer, cheating on me with her ex,

1327
01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 1: and donating to her. Oh yay, they got you, They

1328
01:18:33,160 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 1: got you. Under a minute left, under a minute left.

1329
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:40,679
Speaker 1: Riley almost had plans today, Ladies and gentlemen, almost happened,

1330
01:18:41,520 --> 01:18:46,920
Speaker 1: But it didn't. His butt remains in the chair, cheeks

1331
01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:47,879
Speaker 1: in the seats.

1332
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 2: Bold of you to assume you could leave Riley, both

1333
01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:56,639
Speaker 2: of you to assume you could leave alive.

1334
01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 1: Look, dude, I also went to the gun rang yestery.

1335
01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:15,240
Speaker 1: So we got I'm good. Now there we go.

1336
01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 2: I'm okay. Now I don't I feel better? The voices

1337
01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:19,880
Speaker 2: have gone away?

1338
01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 1: Well, the waves go Okay, let's stay back to this.

1339
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 1: Thanks for Christen for I don't know so. I would

1340
01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 1: love to go into detail about some of the insane things,

1341
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:35,360
Speaker 1: lying about having cancer, cheating on me with her ex

1342
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:40,160
Speaker 1: for the first year, compulsive, lying endlessly getting physical with me,

1343
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:44,479
Speaker 1: all of that, just to give you an idea, my god,

1344
01:19:45,080 --> 01:19:48,479
Speaker 1: But this post is to address what just recently happened. Uh.

1345
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 1: That's gotten her extremely upset. And I may be the

1346
01:19:51,360 --> 01:19:53,560
Speaker 1: a hole for how I'm handling it, because I know,

1347
01:19:53,760 --> 01:19:56,200
Speaker 1: dang well, if I was giving my all to someone,

1348
01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:58,400
Speaker 1: there's no way that I would be responding like this

1349
01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 1: to my partner. I have hurt or upset, slash betrayed.

1350
01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:04,280
Speaker 2: Well, you're giving your alto the wrong person.

1351
01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:06,320
Speaker 1: Op, that's what it looks like.

1352
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:09,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, let alone even doing some of these

1353
01:20:09,360 --> 01:20:13,040
Speaker 5: things in the first place, you know, you know, yeah,

1354
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:20,240
Speaker 5: that's you red flags. She lied about having cancer. It's

1355
01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 5: lig I just thought she was, you know.

1356
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:23,599
Speaker 2: Being quirky.

1357
01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 1: She's cute, he's Lolex the random. So I think it's

1358
01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:33,880
Speaker 1: relevant information to include that our relationship for the past

1359
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:35,839
Speaker 1: one and a half to two years has been fragile,

1360
01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 1: and of the last six months, I hadn't had one

1361
01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:42,920
Speaker 1: I have had one foot out the door skipped. Last week,

1362
01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:46,400
Speaker 1: my kid's father, Landed, is driving through on his way

1363
01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:48,599
Speaker 1: back to the West Coast and wants to visit the boys,

1364
01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 1: and the visit will only be one day. He knows

1365
01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,599
Speaker 1: our address obviously, but has never been to our house

1366
01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:56,639
Speaker 1: because Sam has said that he wasn't allowed.

1367
01:20:57,160 --> 01:21:01,720
Speaker 2: I don't think Sam gets a say ooh personally. I mean,

1368
01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:04,679
Speaker 2: it's like she's not even being faithful to Opie.

1369
01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:10,720
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, if if, if he was dangerous, that's

1370
01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:13,640
Speaker 1: one thing. Yeah, it seems from anything Opie saying he's not.

1371
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:17,839
Speaker 2: Sam I think just wants to have control over Opie

1372
01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 2: and also isolate Opie.

1373
01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:24,040
Speaker 1: That could be what is happening yep, Well, not because

1374
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:26,559
Speaker 1: he had done anything to her. He hasn't. He's always

1375
01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:29,240
Speaker 1: been kind of respectful and vice versa, not because he's

1376
01:21:29,320 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 1: untrusted me, or not because he's untrustworthy, or any other

1377
01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:34,679
Speaker 1: reason I can think of to justify not wanting someone

1378
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:37,680
Speaker 1: in your home. I never really pushed the issue and

1379
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:41,160
Speaker 1: agreed if she didn't want that, then he will not

1380
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:44,519
Speaker 1: come over on his visits. Over time, it did start

1381
01:21:44,560 --> 01:21:46,600
Speaker 1: to bother me. I wanted to see him in the

1382
01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 1: kids rooms, the home I have created for them, and

1383
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:52,519
Speaker 1: to get a glimpse of our life. It felt weird

1384
01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 1: having to explain why he wasn't allowed when the kids

1385
01:21:55,479 --> 01:21:57,880
Speaker 1: would ask, and he would occasionally check in on the

1386
01:21:57,960 --> 01:22:00,000
Speaker 1: matter to see if there was something that she wants,

1387
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:03,320
Speaker 1: because I think we all kind of assumed over time

1388
01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:05,639
Speaker 1: that she would reconsider.

1389
01:22:05,280 --> 01:22:08,680
Speaker 2: Does Sam even have custody of OPI's kids, because I

1390
01:22:08,840 --> 01:22:12,439
Speaker 2: mean she don't know. Well, if she doesn't, then she

1391
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 2: doesn't get a say.

1392
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:20,800
Speaker 1: Legally, yes, but it sounds like Op's just like acquiescing her.

1393
01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:27,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's a bad idea personally allegedly in my opinion.

1394
01:22:27,960 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 2: In minecraft well.

1395
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:33,680
Speaker 1: All of this, especially that we all have a good,

1396
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:37,160
Speaker 1: friendly relationship with no ill will, but she remained firm

1397
01:22:37,400 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 1: in not letting him come to the house. I just

1398
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,559
Speaker 1: chose to respect the boundary and not depress it. Landon

1399
01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:44,840
Speaker 1: is a touchy subject with Sam because she doesn't like

1400
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:48,840
Speaker 1: him that he doesn't come around often enough or call

1401
01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:54,639
Speaker 1: to check in on the kids. Whose fault is that, Sam? Oh? True? Yeah,

1402
01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:56,759
Speaker 1: it's like, how do you visit them if you can't.

1403
01:22:56,600 --> 01:23:00,280
Speaker 2: Move, you don't see your kids enough. You literally will

1404
01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:02,799
Speaker 2: not let me physically inside of the house.

1405
01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 1: No, No, it's true. He hasn't been much of a

1406
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,479
Speaker 1: father figure, but in my eyes, when he does make

1407
01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:13,320
Speaker 1: the effort, I'm here to support it. Landon spends his

1408
01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:17,400
Speaker 1: time running around doing graffiti and works as a tattoo artist.

1409
01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:20,799
Speaker 1: So he just lives a very different lifestyle than my partner,

1410
01:23:20,920 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 1: and that's all right. He has a very longtime friend

1411
01:23:23,400 --> 01:23:25,800
Speaker 1: who I've met, and a door and most friend, Oh,

1412
01:23:26,240 --> 01:23:28,200
Speaker 1: he has a longtime girlfriend who I've met, and a

1413
01:23:28,240 --> 01:23:31,720
Speaker 1: door and most importantly, I identify as fully lesbian at

1414
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:34,400
Speaker 1: this point in my life period and have been most

1415
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:38,120
Speaker 1: interested in females, with the occasional exception early in life.

1416
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:41,840
Speaker 1: So there's zero reason for me to feel insecure about oh,

1417
01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:44,920
Speaker 1: so is zero reason for her. Ope, he's partner to

1418
01:23:45,040 --> 01:23:48,599
Speaker 1: feel insecure about Landon. I just don't think she can

1419
01:23:48,720 --> 01:23:51,599
Speaker 1: help it, though she will never give him a chance.

1420
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:53,240
Speaker 1: And I think that is a great insight as to

1421
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:55,800
Speaker 1: why she's like, oh, well, what if you get back

1422
01:23:55,840 --> 01:23:58,040
Speaker 1: together and you guys can show the kids together? And

1423
01:23:58,640 --> 01:23:59,320
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

1424
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 2: He's like, think, so if Sam actually really truly trusted Op,

1425
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 2: then you know Sam worrying about OPE getting back together?

1426
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, with Landon would not be an issue. I mean, hey, look,

1427
01:24:15,160 --> 01:24:18,679
Speaker 1: we all know Sam is a lesbian. Yes, like Sam

1428
01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:20,640
Speaker 1: is a lesbian. This is a known fact. We all

1429
01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:23,680
Speaker 1: know that Sam's a lesbian. So because the fact that

1430
01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:28,080
Speaker 1: Sam is a lesbian, yes, shouldn't Sam understand they're a

1431
01:24:28,120 --> 01:24:41,920
Speaker 1: lesbian girlfriend? Shouldn't Sam under Sam onto the story? So

1432
01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:44,640
Speaker 1: I just don't think that she can help it, though

1433
01:24:44,800 --> 01:24:47,040
Speaker 1: she will never give him a chance. He shows up

1434
01:24:47,040 --> 01:24:49,599
Speaker 1: at my door Monday night, and I immediately got anxious

1435
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 1: and felt like I could vomit because here he was,

1436
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:54,680
Speaker 1: and I just knew she would flip out, and a

1437
01:24:54,800 --> 01:24:57,840
Speaker 1: million other different scenarios played out in my head. I

1438
01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:00,160
Speaker 1: decided to let him in, showed him the kids and

1439
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:02,680
Speaker 1: the house, and we walked to property and chatted and

1440
01:25:02,840 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 1: walked and walked in the neighborhood with him, and that

1441
01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:09,800
Speaker 1: was it. He left and went to his hotel, and

1442
01:25:10,200 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 1: we made plans to pick the kids up from school

1443
01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:14,599
Speaker 1: and go to a park and to eat, and then

1444
01:25:14,760 --> 01:25:16,679
Speaker 1: he would get back on the road to the West Coast.

1445
01:25:17,160 --> 01:25:19,759
Speaker 1: I was panicking with him at the house. I deleted

1446
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 1: the ring footage. I sat and stared at the wall

1447
01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:25,640
Speaker 1: while I contemplated how to handle this. Damn and I

1448
01:25:25,760 --> 01:25:28,400
Speaker 1: were already on fragile ground. But just a few days

1449
01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:31,360
Speaker 1: ago we had a really great, spicy sleep and felt

1450
01:25:31,479 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 1: connected again for the first time in forever, and I

1451
01:25:34,680 --> 01:25:35,280
Speaker 1: was enjoying it.

1452
01:25:36,120 --> 01:25:43,240
Speaker 2: Anyone can do that with Sam mind, anyone can do this.

1453
01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 2: You're not special, Sam.

1454
01:25:47,920 --> 01:25:49,560
Speaker 1: I didn't want it to be ruined, and there's no

1455
01:25:49,720 --> 01:25:55,120
Speaker 1: way to avoid that now, So I lied like a liar, Liar, na,

1456
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:58,360
Speaker 1: lie or nah. I want to know, you have to say,

1457
01:25:58,439 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 1: Chap the fire says, is anyone in the chat? That's

1458
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:03,640
Speaker 1: what I want to know. I want to see some

1459
01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:10,600
Speaker 1: votes going on, That's what I want to see, Sola.

1460
01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:14,600
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be ruined and there was no

1461
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,479
Speaker 1: way to avoid that now, so I lied, And where

1462
01:26:18,560 --> 01:26:21,759
Speaker 1: I really beat myself up. Was I asked my kids

1463
01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:24,040
Speaker 1: to keep it a secret that their dad was at

1464
01:26:24,120 --> 01:26:27,280
Speaker 1: the house too? Oh goodness, stupid, I know. I just

1465
01:26:27,320 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 1: thought I would tell her that he was in town

1466
01:26:29,200 --> 01:26:31,600
Speaker 1: in the morning. She works overnight, so she wasn't at

1467
01:26:31,640 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 1: home when he came, and she would be crap And

1468
01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:38,720
Speaker 1: she would be crappy for sure, But she would have

1469
01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:41,000
Speaker 1: to let it go, like she always does, because she

1470
01:26:41,120 --> 01:26:43,400
Speaker 1: can't get upset when dad wants to visit his kids,

1471
01:26:43,720 --> 01:26:48,439
Speaker 1: because that's just unacceptable and childish. So usually when he visits,

1472
01:26:48,640 --> 01:26:51,200
Speaker 1: I deal with a few days of passive aggression and

1473
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:53,680
Speaker 1: then she snaps out of it. I can handle that,

1474
01:26:54,200 --> 01:26:57,240
Speaker 1: not a full on meltdown because he came over. I

1475
01:26:57,400 --> 01:27:00,360
Speaker 1: was already one foot out the door last week. Couldn't

1476
01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:03,400
Speaker 1: take another blow up. I would leave her. So I lied.

1477
01:27:04,160 --> 01:27:06,800
Speaker 1: Does this sound like I'm justifying it's the truth? Just

1478
01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 1: tell just tell me it's the truth. But she tells

1479
01:27:10,160 --> 01:27:15,120
Speaker 1: me I'm justifying. What is the poll? The poll is

1480
01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:17,760
Speaker 1: so far saying nah, not to lie.

1481
01:27:18,880 --> 01:27:24,599
Speaker 2: Oh, for safety's sake, I'd say, because op, you did

1482
01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 2: say Sam has put her hands on Ope, right, I.

1483
01:27:30,240 --> 01:27:34,640
Speaker 1: Don't recall you could be right chat. Uh, let me

1484
01:27:34,720 --> 01:27:39,120
Speaker 1: know if you remember that as well. But possibly if yeah,

1485
01:27:39,200 --> 01:27:42,920
Speaker 1: if if safety is an issue, absolutely and lie without

1486
01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:45,720
Speaker 1: a doubt. Why literally your life depends on it. But

1487
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:48,519
Speaker 1: why your butt off? What I think the undercurrent of

1488
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:51,360
Speaker 1: everything happening here is like this is just not Opie's

1489
01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:52,800
Speaker 1: like I've had one foot out the door, like I

1490
01:27:52,880 --> 01:27:55,600
Speaker 1: wanna this is not going good. I should leave. It's like, no,

1491
01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:59,240
Speaker 1: just leave, like if you literally that is easier said

1492
01:27:59,280 --> 01:28:02,880
Speaker 1: than done. You know what, absolutely that is that is

1493
01:28:03,120 --> 01:28:06,719
Speaker 1: so true. But maybe the first thing is at least

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01:28:06,800 --> 01:28:09,080
Speaker 1: op saying like this is gonna be hard. I don't

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01:28:09,120 --> 01:28:10,200
Speaker 1: know how to do this. I don't know when it's

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01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 1: gonna happen. I don't know how, what, when, when or why?

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01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:17,080
Speaker 1: But I want leave so I don't have to deal

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01:28:17,160 --> 01:28:20,439
Speaker 1: with this. Yeah, that would be a start.

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01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 2: But on average, for you know, like DV people who

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01:28:26,400 --> 01:28:28,680
Speaker 2: have to survive that it takes them, I think on

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01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:34,960
Speaker 2: average eight eight times to leave their abusive partners. Is

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01:28:35,000 --> 01:28:35,840
Speaker 2: something to keep in mind.

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01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:38,840
Speaker 1: One hundred perclely Pad said, it seems like could you

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01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:42,559
Speaker 1: scroll up a little bit from a relay to lele Pad,

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01:28:43,320 --> 01:28:46,080
Speaker 1: lily Pad, go, there we go. It seems like this

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01:28:46,200 --> 01:28:49,600
Speaker 1: relationship is hella abusive, so for safety reasons, lie and

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01:28:49,680 --> 01:28:52,519
Speaker 1: then leave period. Totally fair. That is that is that

1508
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:56,280
Speaker 1: is a very very good comment. Yeah, Jessica Mustaine says

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01:28:56,320 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 1: Op said, yes, it got physicals. Absolutely as soon as

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01:29:00,040 --> 01:29:03,600
Speaker 1: there's even a whiff of safety as an issue, just

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01:29:03,840 --> 01:29:07,040
Speaker 1: purely focus on protecting your own safety one thousand percent.

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01:29:07,280 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 2: Saying yourself, protect your kids a.

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01:29:09,439 --> 01:29:14,920
Speaker 1: Million percent, a million perent. So shooe we do we

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01:29:15,040 --> 01:29:20,200
Speaker 1: doo boom. So usually when he visits ideal with a

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01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:23,759
Speaker 1: few days of passive aggression. But I already read that. Anyways,

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01:29:23,880 --> 01:29:26,479
Speaker 1: the kids immediately slipped up and fessed up that he

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01:29:26,640 --> 01:29:29,040
Speaker 1: came and saw the house. Can't be mad at them,

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01:29:29,320 --> 01:29:32,439
Speaker 1: but I sure look like a piece of crap. She's

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01:29:32,520 --> 01:29:35,400
Speaker 1: upset I didn't tell her immediately when he showed up, ballad.

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01:29:35,760 --> 01:29:38,879
Speaker 1: She isn't accepting anything I say. I try to explain

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01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:41,160
Speaker 1: that I know it was wrong. I immediately acknowledged that

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01:29:41,240 --> 01:29:43,240
Speaker 1: I fed up by lying and getting the kids involved.

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01:29:43,320 --> 01:29:46,519
Speaker 1: By the way, but in an effed up way. This

1524
01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:48,800
Speaker 1: was an attempt to try to avoid all of this

1525
01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:51,080
Speaker 1: because I was hoping to get back to a good

1526
01:29:51,120 --> 01:29:53,599
Speaker 1: place with her, and I just knew it wouldn't happen

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01:29:53,640 --> 01:29:57,040
Speaker 1: if she had any more crazy outbursts. Our relationship is

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01:29:57,080 --> 01:29:59,000
Speaker 1: hanging on by a thread, and I know it will

1529
01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:01,639
Speaker 1: not survive another big blow. And because of her thought

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01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:04,920
Speaker 1: process on the kid's father and her boundary about the house,

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01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:07,640
Speaker 1: this would have for sure created an issue for her,

1532
01:30:08,080 --> 01:30:10,880
Speaker 1: and I just no longer have the bandwidth to earn

1533
01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:14,120
Speaker 1: back her trust and prove myself like the amount of

1534
01:30:14,240 --> 01:30:16,680
Speaker 1: lies and abuse, I feel like I have addured up

1535
01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:19,120
Speaker 1: to this point and I'm hanging on by a thread,

1536
01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:21,320
Speaker 1: and you want to dig in and fight for this

1537
01:30:21,479 --> 01:30:25,000
Speaker 1: relationship now? Yeah, I mean I feel like any of

1538
01:30:25,080 --> 01:30:27,080
Speaker 1: the points like lying that you have.

1539
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:33,560
Speaker 2: Cancer, lying that you have cancer, wha did you should have?

1540
01:30:33,680 --> 01:30:37,800
Speaker 2: You should have like ran away the moment Sam said Hi, Yeah, like.

1541
01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:40,960
Speaker 1: This is we We are so beyond the point of

1542
01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:44,759
Speaker 1: no return. But to Lawren's point from earlier, leaving relate

1543
01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:48,680
Speaker 1: not only just leaving relationships, Leaving abusive and toxic relationships

1544
01:30:48,760 --> 01:30:51,439
Speaker 1: like these can be so so, so, so so so hard.

1545
01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:56,320
Speaker 2: So it can be, but sometimes you know, things that

1546
01:30:56,400 --> 01:30:58,519
Speaker 2: are worth doing aren't exactly easy.

1547
01:30:58,400 --> 01:31:01,160
Speaker 1: Aren't exactly one hundred percent, and there's the kids involved here,

1548
01:31:01,280 --> 01:31:06,680
Speaker 1: the kids for sure, for sure, So I didn't have

1549
01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:08,360
Speaker 1: the bandwidth for this.

1550
01:31:09,640 --> 01:31:12,320
Speaker 2: And I knew that we've been a relationship. Now second,

1551
01:31:13,360 --> 01:31:16,439
Speaker 2: you were at the point for this relationship now or.

1552
01:31:21,840 --> 01:31:24,400
Speaker 1: I lost for I'm out? That's okay. The amount of

1553
01:31:24,439 --> 01:31:25,960
Speaker 1: lives and abuse. I feel like if I'd enjoy this

1554
01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:27,360
Speaker 1: point and I'm hang on by a thread and you

1555
01:31:27,400 --> 01:31:29,280
Speaker 1: wanted to dig it in a fight for this relationship? Now?

1556
01:31:29,760 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 1: Am I crazy? Am I wrong? I know what I

1557
01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:37,120
Speaker 1: did was wrong a hundred I know I would never

1558
01:31:37,320 --> 01:31:39,840
Speaker 1: ever put this person I love into harm's way or

1559
01:31:39,960 --> 01:31:43,160
Speaker 1: purposely upset them. But after nearly seven years together, you

1560
01:31:43,320 --> 01:31:46,160
Speaker 1: haven't allowed the father of my kids anywhere near our life.

1561
01:31:46,439 --> 01:31:49,240
Speaker 1: And he shows up and instead of saying halt, you

1562
01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:52,880
Speaker 1: cannot enter leave the property. The other person who lives

1563
01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:55,880
Speaker 1: here doesn't want you at this house. I know your

1564
01:31:56,000 --> 01:31:59,000
Speaker 1: children live here and I live here, but she said no,

1565
01:31:59,400 --> 01:32:01,000
Speaker 1: So I need to call her right now and let

1566
01:32:01,040 --> 01:32:03,320
Speaker 1: her know you shut up on announce. Sorry.

1567
01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:06,320
Speaker 2: My girlfriend said you can't come over and play.

1568
01:32:07,200 --> 01:32:10,880
Speaker 1: I can't go mo wah, nowie that was a mouthful.

1569
01:32:11,960 --> 01:32:14,799
Speaker 1: I feel bad because I think I'm handling this poorly,

1570
01:32:15,760 --> 01:32:18,680
Speaker 1: OPI you're not, but you can always handle coming and

1571
01:32:18,720 --> 01:32:20,760
Speaker 1: sing us live every weekday at three pm. We want

1572
01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 1: to hear from me. We want you to be here.

1573
01:32:22,920 --> 01:32:25,320
Speaker 1: Like normally, I would fully allow her to be upset

1574
01:32:25,400 --> 01:32:27,680
Speaker 1: and get out frustrations. If I had done something like

1575
01:32:27,840 --> 01:32:30,080
Speaker 1: live or ask the kids to keep a secret from her,

1576
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:32,880
Speaker 1: I would feel like I absolutely needed to earn back

1577
01:32:32,920 --> 01:32:36,080
Speaker 1: the trust and prove myself and happily accept my time

1578
01:32:36,120 --> 01:32:40,240
Speaker 1: in the doghouse. But now I'm just tired. I think

1579
01:32:40,320 --> 01:32:42,800
Speaker 1: I am gasolt so much that I don't know what's

1580
01:32:42,920 --> 01:32:46,639
Speaker 1: real because sometimes I'm like, what the eff is going

1581
01:32:46,680 --> 01:32:49,360
Speaker 1: on here? And other times I'm like she loves me

1582
01:32:49,479 --> 01:32:51,439
Speaker 1: and I will regret leaving and having to start all

1583
01:32:51,439 --> 01:32:54,800
Speaker 1: over again. Anyways, I am truly confused. I know what

1584
01:32:54,920 --> 01:32:57,280
Speaker 1: I did was wrong, but this boundary was kind of

1585
01:32:57,439 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 1: fed up from the start, right or no? Please help?

1586
01:33:00,040 --> 01:33:04,040
Speaker 1: Any feedback would be appreciated, Op, we got your girl.

1587
01:33:04,960 --> 01:33:07,200
Speaker 1: Let's talk lorn well.

1588
01:33:07,880 --> 01:33:14,559
Speaker 2: Her confusion that's intentional on part is exactly how Sam

1589
01:33:14,680 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 2: wants OP to be. Yes, because that constant like you know,

1590
01:33:19,280 --> 01:33:21,240
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, you know, like I hate this person,

1591
01:33:21,960 --> 01:33:26,280
Speaker 2: but then keeping them wanting that tiny shred of affection

1592
01:33:27,160 --> 01:33:27,920
Speaker 2: keeps them hooked.

1593
01:33:28,200 --> 01:33:30,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they's seven years in. She's like, I'm gonna

1594
01:33:30,680 --> 01:33:32,680
Speaker 1: have to start over. I have kids. I'll be a

1595
01:33:32,720 --> 01:33:33,679
Speaker 1: single parent again.

1596
01:33:35,080 --> 01:33:38,560
Speaker 2: That part I don't understand, Like you invested, you know,

1597
01:33:38,720 --> 01:33:41,439
Speaker 2: like all these years into this person. I guess I'll

1598
01:33:41,560 --> 01:33:44,000
Speaker 2: just live the rest of my life completely miserable.

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01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:48,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, totally, totally. Like I I know that it's

1600
01:33:48,439 --> 01:33:51,200
Speaker 1: a hard thing, but it is ultimately like you will

1601
01:33:51,240 --> 01:33:53,840
Speaker 1: be able to find your own happiness and your best

1602
01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:59,519
Speaker 1: like I think someone who is like h And also

1603
01:33:59,560 --> 01:34:02,240
Speaker 1: I was gonna We didn't get a whole world of

1604
01:34:02,320 --> 01:34:05,680
Speaker 1: context on landing, but from when everything we saw, it

1605
01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:07,880
Speaker 1: seemed like he is like on the up and up.

1606
01:34:07,920 --> 01:34:11,600
Speaker 1: He's trying to himself. OP wants uh, the father in

1607
01:34:11,640 --> 01:34:13,639
Speaker 1: his kid's life. The kids want the father in their lives.

1608
01:34:14,120 --> 01:34:16,160
Speaker 1: And so I think they're kind of like encouraging good behavior,

1609
01:34:16,400 --> 01:34:18,960
Speaker 1: which is good, Yes, which I would say is good.

1610
01:34:20,479 --> 01:34:24,960
Speaker 1: I just read the episode that is eight sixteen, sir,

1611
01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:30,680
Speaker 1: that's two that's true. So cool, so cool or cure all.

1612
01:34:31,640 --> 01:34:36,800
Speaker 1: But yeah, Sophia Callan says, run ope, deadly Gamer six x'

1613
01:34:36,840 --> 01:34:41,439
Speaker 1: six says, all keep trying. Yeah, it's it's it's just

1614
01:34:41,520 --> 01:34:45,400
Speaker 1: too much. I think I think Op is so far

1615
01:34:45,520 --> 01:34:47,200
Speaker 1: in the pit that it's like really really hard for

1616
01:34:47,200 --> 01:34:47,639
Speaker 1: her to see.

1617
01:34:47,800 --> 01:34:49,479
Speaker 2: She is completely lost in the sauce.

1618
01:34:49,640 --> 01:34:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but but you know what, to her credit she

1619
01:34:51,720 --> 01:34:55,719
Speaker 1: is she's like reaching out for reassurance. That is huge,

1620
01:34:55,920 --> 01:34:58,120
Speaker 1: which is is like, hey, now she can kind of

1621
01:34:58,160 --> 01:35:00,360
Speaker 1: get a flood of reassurance that you are not the wrong.

1622
01:35:01,000 --> 01:35:03,200
Speaker 1: You should be able to leave not have to deal

1623
01:35:03,240 --> 01:35:06,439
Speaker 1: with this, Like, ultimately, you are the mother of your children.

1624
01:35:06,479 --> 01:35:11,120
Speaker 1: You should be able to decide. Now, if if Landon

1625
01:35:11,320 --> 01:35:15,559
Speaker 1: was like still very very dangerous, that's a totally different story.

1626
01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:18,080
Speaker 2: Totally different and we don't have all the context in

1627
01:35:18,120 --> 01:35:18,439
Speaker 2: the world.

1628
01:35:18,800 --> 01:35:23,000
Speaker 1: But I feel like if Op is willing to uh

1629
01:35:23,840 --> 01:35:27,360
Speaker 1: have him back around in his in her children's life,

1630
01:35:27,720 --> 01:35:30,559
Speaker 1: she is that which she is, which is what I'm saying,

1631
01:35:30,640 --> 01:35:32,600
Speaker 1: Like the fact that she is willing to do that

1632
01:35:32,960 --> 01:35:37,720
Speaker 1: probably means that he is at a good place to

1633
01:35:37,800 --> 01:35:42,400
Speaker 1: be involved in their life to the degree that which

1634
01:35:42,439 --> 01:35:43,000
Speaker 1: is what she's doing.

1635
01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:47,000
Speaker 2: Landon, He's in a committed relationship, So that's that's further

1636
01:35:47,120 --> 01:35:50,439
Speaker 2: evidence of him like maintaining some stability in his life.

1637
01:35:50,520 --> 01:35:53,599
Speaker 1: Totally. Yeah. It seems like Landon's doing everything he can

1638
01:35:53,760 --> 01:35:55,880
Speaker 1: to be a better person, be involved, which we want

1639
01:35:55,880 --> 01:35:58,240
Speaker 1: to we want to encourage that. That is literally what

1640
01:35:58,320 --> 01:36:00,360
Speaker 1: do we wanted to do? All Let's let's have him

1641
01:36:00,439 --> 01:36:03,760
Speaker 1: keep throwing his life away. No heck no, but that's

1642
01:36:03,800 --> 01:36:07,120
Speaker 1: the end of that story. Case closed. Nice work, thanks

1643
01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:14,040
Speaker 1: Bro's sister, Dester, you do one more. We could do

1644
01:36:14,120 --> 01:36:17,080
Speaker 1: one more after reading these quick donos. What do we got,

1645
01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:23,839
Speaker 1: big bro dude? Oh my door, wow, Shannon Tapia three marriages,

1646
01:36:24,040 --> 01:36:29,360
Speaker 1: seventeen kids. My dad is the fourteenth kid. Granddad married

1647
01:36:29,400 --> 01:36:33,680
Speaker 1: his stepdaughter and had three more kids with her. So

1648
01:36:33,840 --> 01:36:37,479
Speaker 1: by relation, my mom and dad is also my cousin.

1649
01:36:38,120 --> 01:36:43,920
Speaker 1: Shannon Groy you got to send this in what my God? Uh,

1650
01:36:44,240 --> 01:36:46,680
Speaker 1: Lisa Rage and me thanks for the twenty buck tip.

1651
01:36:46,840 --> 01:36:49,080
Speaker 1: My kids are looking at me like I'm crazy because

1652
01:36:49,160 --> 01:36:51,320
Speaker 1: I think I'm over here laughing and talking to myself.

1653
01:36:52,240 --> 01:36:55,920
Speaker 1: You're talking to us. Yes, that's right, we with Lisa. Guys.

1654
01:36:56,720 --> 01:36:59,880
Speaker 1: We hear Lisa, We hear you. Hear you are responding back.

1655
01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:03,439
Speaker 1: Christin foil hat again, Christian foil Ha Riley, did CHRISTI

1656
01:37:04,000 --> 01:37:06,960
Speaker 1: hat snap today? Uh? Snapped off. I popped off, really

1657
01:37:07,200 --> 01:37:07,599
Speaker 1: popped off.

1658
01:37:07,840 --> 01:37:11,280
Speaker 2: I think Chris tinfoil hat stole their mom's credit card.

1659
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:16,639
Speaker 1: Whoa Christin foul hat. He's a big gil. Thanks again

1660
01:37:16,680 --> 01:37:18,840
Speaker 1: for the five bucks. Tip two. Everyone wants to hear

1661
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:25,360
Speaker 1: the update to the first story. Okay, let's find it.

1662
01:37:25,840 --> 01:37:28,280
Speaker 1: Let's find it. Find it, Riley, while I'm reading that job,

1663
01:37:28,560 --> 01:37:30,880
Speaker 1: we were able to get to the story. You know

1664
01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:33,320
Speaker 1: how much more of that story we have to read?

1665
01:37:34,160 --> 01:37:36,799
Speaker 1: I'll read it here. You know what. Here's the deal, everyone,

1666
01:37:37,280 --> 01:37:39,400
Speaker 1: I will read this story until the clock runs out.

1667
01:37:39,920 --> 01:37:41,880
Speaker 1: I'll rip these donuts. Riley will get it ready. There

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Speaker 1: Brittany I cly In. Thanks for the two bucks. Can

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Speaker 1: fail Hat again with the two bucks. No plans on Tuesday,

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01:37:55,080 --> 01:37:59,880
Speaker 1: Riley laughing emoji. I he knows better Tuesday, Bro. It's Tuesday, Bro.

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Speaker 1: Marlee Marlon Anthony, thanks for being a member for four months.

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01:38:04,439 --> 01:38:07,240
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1675
01:38:07,439 --> 01:38:11,560
Speaker 1: love you back, so take that. Anna Moon. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: First timers, Rona, could you hit me with to scroll

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Speaker 1: and die? God? Thanks for the three sixty nine. I

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01:38:26,200 --> 01:38:29,360
Speaker 1: just submitted all the paperwork and my thesis for the

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01:38:29,400 --> 01:38:31,120
Speaker 1: completion of my PhD.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Nice job, Si God, thank you for keeping me company

1685
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Speaker 1: throughout my degree art. Hey, you are well. You know

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Speaker 1: we are funding degrees thesis papers.

1687
01:38:45,080 --> 01:38:47,519
Speaker 2: We are doing the thesis papers for them.

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01:38:47,720 --> 01:38:51,320
Speaker 1: We are doing the lord's work. We will do your homework. Yes,

1689
01:38:51,920 --> 01:38:55,240
Speaker 1: I won't. Is I even STUPIDO? Neither of us are.

1690
01:38:55,360 --> 01:39:01,000
Speaker 1: We're just gonna make Riley do it. Yeah, Karen, thanks

1691
01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:03,760
Speaker 1: for the five gifted memberships. We appreciate you. And hello,

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01:39:03,840 --> 01:39:07,679
Speaker 1: I'm Vita. Welcome to the members family. Let's go, ladies

1693
01:39:07,720 --> 01:39:12,240
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. You banged down my door, you commented, you donated, you,

1694
01:39:13,040 --> 01:39:17,400
Speaker 1: you did everything possible. We are going to literally read

1695
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:20,559
Speaker 1: these updates until the clock on the screen over there

1696
01:39:20,720 --> 01:39:24,720
Speaker 1: literally runs out. That's exactly what the updates. That's what

1697
01:39:24,800 --> 01:39:29,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. Are we ready? It's in there? Here

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01:39:29,120 --> 01:39:36,160
Speaker 1: we go, It's go to the go to the recording session. Peking,

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01:39:39,400 --> 01:39:43,479
Speaker 1: it's one s one and then go down to there.

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Speaker 1: It's in recording. It's yeah, it's one. Hey told this one.

1702
01:39:54,600 --> 01:39:59,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, big dog. Okay, is your beautiful little head

1703
01:39:59,240 --> 01:40:01,880
Speaker 1: there for me to help me find my spot on

1704
01:40:01,960 --> 01:40:06,439
Speaker 1: the page? That's a put your little beautiful head on its.

1705
01:40:07,920 --> 01:40:11,200
Speaker 1: Update two is coming to your face holes right now?

1706
01:40:12,160 --> 01:40:15,960
Speaker 1: All right? Should I should? I reread the title and

1707
01:40:16,040 --> 01:40:19,040
Speaker 1: then I got it here on the till your read

1708
01:40:19,040 --> 01:40:21,519
Speaker 1: that title. Nice, read the title on the screen. Thank you.

1709
01:40:22,640 --> 01:40:25,160
Speaker 1: I think that my husband had I think my husband

1710
01:40:25,240 --> 01:40:28,240
Speaker 1: had an affair baby with his girl best friend. Now

1711
01:40:28,320 --> 01:40:34,559
Speaker 1: her son wants to date our daughter. Update Dude again,

1712
01:40:35,400 --> 01:40:38,200
Speaker 1: I think my husband had an affair. I think my

1713
01:40:38,320 --> 01:40:40,800
Speaker 1: husband had an affair baby with his girl best friend.

1714
01:40:41,160 --> 01:40:46,760
Speaker 1: Now her son wants to date our daughter. Update part two. So, now,

1715
01:40:47,080 --> 01:40:50,880
Speaker 1: with the support of Sophie and Tom, who are uh

1716
01:40:51,240 --> 01:40:56,799
Speaker 1: Opie's child, and the alleged affair baby who are half siblings,

1717
01:40:56,880 --> 01:41:01,920
Speaker 1: we almost certainly know uh who revealed their awareness and

1718
01:41:02,000 --> 01:41:05,800
Speaker 1: suspicions of the affair. The kids now know that they

1719
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:10,400
Speaker 1: are half siblings and cannot be together or they're at

1720
01:41:10,479 --> 01:41:12,600
Speaker 1: least suspicious of it. It goes all the way to

1721
01:41:12,680 --> 01:41:15,639
Speaker 1: the top. Oh God, my goodness, I feel a small

1722
01:41:15,760 --> 01:41:19,960
Speaker 1: relief amidst the chaos. They've even suggested practical practical steps

1723
01:41:20,000 --> 01:41:22,479
Speaker 1: like DNA testing. They are like basically consenting to it.

1724
01:41:22,520 --> 01:41:25,680
Speaker 1: It seems to further validate their potential kinship. While the

1725
01:41:25,760 --> 01:41:29,160
Speaker 1: path ahead is fraud with challenges, having my children's unequivocal

1726
01:41:29,200 --> 01:41:32,599
Speaker 1: support provides a semblance of strength to navigate the upcoming

1727
01:41:32,680 --> 01:41:36,200
Speaker 1: legal and emotional battles. The betrayal has dismantled the life

1728
01:41:36,240 --> 01:41:39,240
Speaker 1: I knew, but it also has freed me to rebuild

1729
01:41:39,320 --> 01:41:42,880
Speaker 1: a future anchored in truth and devoid of deceit. Period

1730
01:41:42,960 --> 01:41:47,400
Speaker 1: written so poetically, Yes, I ultimately decided that whatever else happened,

1731
01:41:47,600 --> 01:41:50,439
Speaker 1: I needed to warn Sophie about the situation and do

1732
01:41:50,680 --> 01:41:57,080
Speaker 1: so immediately. So the hell with Luke and whatever that

1733
01:41:57,280 --> 01:42:00,880
Speaker 1: meant for him. To hell, if that meant all of

1734
01:42:00,960 --> 01:42:03,560
Speaker 1: the kids learned of the situation, she needed to be

1735
01:42:03,640 --> 01:42:06,439
Speaker 1: aware of what she might be getting herself into. Yep,

1736
01:42:06,600 --> 01:42:09,000
Speaker 1: So I discreetly kept her out of school. We went back,

1737
01:42:09,400 --> 01:42:12,120
Speaker 1: We went back home to our house last night, and

1738
01:42:12,200 --> 01:42:15,320
Speaker 1: this morning I dropped everyone off and saved Sophie for last,

1739
01:42:15,439 --> 01:42:18,519
Speaker 1: before driving her right past her school and telling her

1740
01:42:19,000 --> 01:42:22,000
Speaker 1: that we needed to talk. Always a frightening thing for

1741
01:42:22,080 --> 01:42:24,160
Speaker 1: a teenager to hear from a parent, but I was

1742
01:42:24,240 --> 01:42:26,840
Speaker 1: quick to establish that she was not in trouble, but

1743
01:42:26,960 --> 01:42:29,200
Speaker 1: she needed to know the truth why Amy and I

1744
01:42:29,360 --> 01:42:32,560
Speaker 1: were fighting and why her dating Tom was out of

1745
01:42:32,600 --> 01:42:36,280
Speaker 1: the question. I very gently explained that because of Luke's

1746
01:42:36,280 --> 01:42:39,880
Speaker 1: closeness to Amy and Tom's resemblance to him, I had

1747
01:42:39,960 --> 01:42:43,320
Speaker 1: come to suspect that perhaps Luke and Amy were intimate

1748
01:42:43,400 --> 01:42:46,040
Speaker 1: at some point over the years. If that was true,

1749
01:42:46,479 --> 01:42:49,679
Speaker 1: and there was any chance that Tom's father was actually Luke,

1750
01:42:50,720 --> 01:42:53,639
Speaker 1: that would be a significant problem. And why is that, Lauren,

1751
01:42:55,439 --> 01:42:58,800
Speaker 1: because they're half siblings. If it's true, which it looks

1752
01:42:58,880 --> 01:43:02,240
Speaker 1: like it is, and Tom, do not do it sitting

1753
01:43:02,320 --> 01:43:05,400
Speaker 1: in a tree. You are related, don't do it. Please.

1754
01:43:07,000 --> 01:43:09,880
Speaker 1: Sophie was quiet during all of this, and even after

1755
01:43:10,000 --> 01:43:12,680
Speaker 1: I stopped talking to let her respond, he paused for

1756
01:43:12,760 --> 01:43:15,760
Speaker 1: quite a while before she finally said that we need

1757
01:43:15,840 --> 01:43:17,920
Speaker 1: to get Tom and discuss this with him as well.

1758
01:43:19,200 --> 01:43:24,080
Speaker 1: Do we think anything's already happened already? Hmmm, I'm afraid

1759
01:43:24,120 --> 01:43:28,240
Speaker 1: If that's why she's like silent anyways, sure, hope not.

1760
01:43:29,400 --> 01:43:32,320
Speaker 1: I had no objections, so she texted to meet him

1761
01:43:32,360 --> 01:43:35,400
Speaker 1: with us. They're both skipping school today, but Sophie gets

1762
01:43:35,400 --> 01:43:37,800
Speaker 1: straight a's and this is extremely important, so I looked

1763
01:43:37,880 --> 01:43:40,920
Speaker 1: the other way. Tom came to meet us, and Sophie had, yeah,

1764
01:43:40,960 --> 01:43:43,120
Speaker 1: this is more important than anything. Yeah, you can skip

1765
01:43:43,160 --> 01:43:45,960
Speaker 1: a day for sure. Tom came to meet us, and

1766
01:43:46,120 --> 01:43:48,400
Speaker 1: Sophie had me relate what I told her to him

1767
01:43:48,439 --> 01:43:51,640
Speaker 1: as well. I apologize to him for any indication I

1768
01:43:51,760 --> 01:43:53,880
Speaker 1: might have given that I didn't think he was good

1769
01:43:53,960 --> 01:43:56,439
Speaker 1: enough for my daughter, and to both of them for

1770
01:43:56,600 --> 01:43:59,639
Speaker 1: not telling the truth sooner, Tom and Sophie just gave

1771
01:43:59,720 --> 01:44:03,280
Speaker 1: each other this oddly knowing stare, oops and read it.

1772
01:44:04,080 --> 01:44:09,720
Speaker 1: That's when they blew my mind. HM. Sophie spoke first,

1773
01:44:10,360 --> 01:44:13,880
Speaker 1: with Tom backing her up. They revealed to me that

1774
01:44:14,040 --> 01:44:18,280
Speaker 1: in fact, it had already known about Luke and Amy,

1775
01:44:19,080 --> 01:44:24,640
Speaker 1: or at least they had strongly suspected. Apparently, Tom had

1776
01:44:24,760 --> 01:44:30,439
Speaker 1: overheard conversations that are questionable, as well as overhearing sounds

1777
01:44:30,520 --> 01:44:34,320
Speaker 1: of spicy sleep from Amy's rooms, sounds that he would

1778
01:44:34,479 --> 01:44:37,839
Speaker 1: just as soon forgets. But all signs point to Amy's

1779
01:44:37,880 --> 01:44:43,080
Speaker 1: lover having been Luke now man Tom had been h

1780
01:44:43,640 --> 01:44:46,679
Speaker 1: Tom had wondered for a very long time, and back

1781
01:44:46,720 --> 01:44:49,880
Speaker 1: in joint and back in January, he finally voiced his

1782
01:44:49,960 --> 01:44:53,679
Speaker 1: fears to Sophie. She agreed with him. She could also see,

1783
01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:56,880
Speaker 1: as she could also see a strange sort of closeness

1784
01:44:56,920 --> 01:45:01,080
Speaker 1: between her father and his mother. They agreed that Luke

1785
01:45:01,240 --> 01:45:04,240
Speaker 1: was likely having an affair. They agreed that because of

1786
01:45:04,360 --> 01:45:08,680
Speaker 1: Kaylee's allergy, Luke might marry. Luke might very well be

1787
01:45:08,880 --> 01:45:13,040
Speaker 1: her father, And if Kaylee was Luke's daughter, the rest

1788
01:45:13,080 --> 01:45:15,880
Speaker 1: of Tom's siblings could be Luke's as well. So all

1789
01:45:16,080 --> 01:45:21,160
Speaker 1: to say that the kids are finally now realizing that

1790
01:45:21,840 --> 01:45:24,920
Speaker 1: all of Amy's kids could actually they could actually be

1791
01:45:25,040 --> 01:45:25,880
Speaker 1: the affair babies.

1792
01:45:26,040 --> 01:45:29,200
Speaker 2: The kids are not okay, In fact, they're all related.

1793
01:45:29,120 --> 01:45:34,519
Speaker 1: Oh dear Tom. Tom could be Luke's kid. Tom could

1794
01:45:34,520 --> 01:45:36,880
Speaker 1: be Luke's kid himself. The math led them to the

1795
01:45:36,960 --> 01:45:40,760
Speaker 1: same places as me, So Sophie and Tom came up

1796
01:45:40,840 --> 01:45:46,280
Speaker 1: with a little plan. As it turns out, they are

1797
01:45:46,360 --> 01:45:50,439
Speaker 1: not in love. They never were. They're still just best friends.

1798
01:45:50,680 --> 01:45:53,519
Speaker 1: But they had the same instinct as me that they

1799
01:45:53,600 --> 01:45:56,439
Speaker 1: didn't want to blow up our entire family and social

1800
01:45:56,600 --> 01:46:00,479
Speaker 1: unit without more direct evidence, no way, which which Tom

1801
01:46:00,760 --> 01:46:04,400
Speaker 1: had been hard at work of acquiring himself. So they

1802
01:46:04,479 --> 01:46:09,720
Speaker 1: had secretly planned this entire time and were faked each other.

1803
01:46:09,840 --> 01:46:12,120
Speaker 1: They faked being into each other to force their hand.

1804
01:46:12,439 --> 01:46:17,400
Speaker 1: That's genius, and it worked, that's gesus. And though Sophie

1805
01:46:17,600 --> 01:46:19,800
Speaker 1: very badly wanted to tell me the truth, she was

1806
01:46:19,880 --> 01:46:22,640
Speaker 1: hesitant because she knew it would shatter me. She had

1807
01:46:22,680 --> 01:46:26,520
Speaker 1: no idea. I was already suffering in silence. Sophie apologized

1808
01:46:26,560 --> 01:46:30,000
Speaker 1: for not voicing her suspicions sooner. Honestly, we both cried,

1809
01:46:30,240 --> 01:46:32,639
Speaker 1: and I made sure she understood that this, that none

1810
01:46:32,680 --> 01:46:34,439
Speaker 1: of this was her fault, and that I loved her.

1811
01:46:34,560 --> 01:46:36,799
Speaker 2: Very much, period, period, period.

1812
01:46:37,439 --> 01:46:40,599
Speaker 1: So the bottom line is Sophie and Tom already knew

1813
01:46:40,720 --> 01:46:43,080
Speaker 1: that they could be half siblings and aren't actually be

1814
01:46:43,240 --> 01:46:47,040
Speaker 1: interested in being a couple. Thank god, jeez, that was

1815
01:46:47,160 --> 01:46:49,679
Speaker 1: their idea on how to rock the boat. Oh my gosh,

1816
01:46:49,840 --> 01:46:53,880
Speaker 1: that's genius. But I'm terrified, yes, to force Seluke and

1817
01:46:53,920 --> 01:46:56,800
Speaker 1: Amy to do something about the situation rather than keep

1818
01:46:56,880 --> 01:46:59,720
Speaker 1: making a fool out of me. I also think it

1819
01:46:59,880 --> 01:47:02,559
Speaker 1: was I also think it was Tom and Sophie's way

1820
01:47:02,680 --> 01:47:06,760
Speaker 1: of punishing them for their affair. Teenagers can be vindictive,

1821
01:47:07,240 --> 01:47:09,320
Speaker 1: good Lord, sometimes justly, so.

1822
01:47:09,560 --> 01:47:12,439
Speaker 2: Don't make Tom and Sophie mad, right, So.

1823
01:47:12,560 --> 01:47:15,679
Speaker 1: They concocted this idea that they wanted to date every

1824
01:47:15,760 --> 01:47:20,320
Speaker 1: flirtation I've witnessed, every inappropriate touched, all staged apparently, and

1825
01:47:20,560 --> 01:47:25,360
Speaker 1: for the benefit of Luke Amy or both. This was supposed.

1826
01:47:25,600 --> 01:47:28,240
Speaker 1: This was supposed to make them sweat and Sophie slash.

1827
01:47:28,320 --> 01:47:30,880
Speaker 1: Tom expected they would jump out of their seats to

1828
01:47:30,960 --> 01:47:35,040
Speaker 1: forbid it from happening. When I was told, uh, when

1829
01:47:35,160 --> 01:47:37,560
Speaker 1: I was the one who did instead, They kind of

1830
01:47:37,880 --> 01:47:40,080
Speaker 1: that kind of threw the kids for a loop. They

1831
01:47:40,120 --> 01:47:43,839
Speaker 1: couldn't understand why I cared more than the actual cheaters.

1832
01:47:45,200 --> 01:47:48,320
Speaker 1: Well doesn't make sense to us either. Well that kind

1833
01:47:48,360 --> 01:47:51,240
Speaker 1: of tracks with cheaters most of the time. They don't

1834
01:47:51,240 --> 01:47:52,000
Speaker 1: want to be exposed.

1835
01:47:52,120 --> 01:47:54,479
Speaker 2: Well that and also they only care about themselves.

1836
01:47:54,640 --> 01:48:00,360
Speaker 1: Yes, they began to They began to suspect that maybe

1837
01:48:00,439 --> 01:48:04,240
Speaker 1: I knew. Tom confronting me that one time about why

1838
01:48:04,320 --> 01:48:06,840
Speaker 1: can't I date Sophie was him trying to gauge if

1839
01:48:06,880 --> 01:48:07,599
Speaker 1: he knew.

1840
01:48:07,680 --> 01:48:10,360
Speaker 2: Or not, if I knew or not, if OP knew her.

1841
01:48:10,400 --> 01:48:12,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, if I knew or not. Thanks, You're welcome.

1842
01:48:13,040 --> 01:48:15,840
Speaker 1: Maybe I shouldn't be surprised. Sophie and Tom have always

1843
01:48:15,880 --> 01:48:18,560
Speaker 1: been close friends and confided in each other. Maybe I

1844
01:48:18,640 --> 01:48:21,320
Speaker 1: should be a little more concerned about how sneaky they've been.

1845
01:48:21,680 --> 01:48:24,160
Speaker 1: But honestly, I'm just so relieved that they're not dating.

1846
01:48:24,240 --> 01:48:28,120
Speaker 1: If I was, ope, I would just be like, oh, honestly,

1847
01:48:29,400 --> 01:48:32,400
Speaker 1: like sigh of relief. Yep. Sure they could be lying

1848
01:48:32,439 --> 01:48:34,760
Speaker 1: to throw off the scent, I guess, but they apparently

1849
01:48:34,880 --> 01:48:37,640
Speaker 1: already knew they're likely related, and they didn't blink at

1850
01:48:37,640 --> 01:48:39,599
Speaker 1: all when I told them. I think I believe them.

1851
01:48:39,680 --> 01:48:40,920
Speaker 2: I think I think so too.

1852
01:48:41,160 --> 01:48:43,439
Speaker 1: Yes, we even had a bit of a laugh together

1853
01:48:43,560 --> 01:48:46,439
Speaker 1: when Tom mentioned how he had been a little offended

1854
01:48:46,840 --> 01:48:49,400
Speaker 1: that I was so against him dating my daughter before.

1855
01:48:49,960 --> 01:48:52,519
Speaker 1: I kind of jokingly asked him, so you don't think

1856
01:48:52,560 --> 01:48:55,479
Speaker 1: she's gorgeous, and Tom, bless his heart, shrugged it off.

1857
01:48:55,840 --> 01:48:57,960
Speaker 1: She is, but so is my English teacher, and I'm

1858
01:48:58,000 --> 01:49:03,240
Speaker 1: not asking her out either. Oh my gosh, what stop?

1859
01:49:05,280 --> 01:49:08,320
Speaker 1: They have ten seconds left. I'm gonna keep reading. So

1860
01:49:09,120 --> 01:49:11,880
Speaker 1: either way, the question now is where do we go

1861
01:49:12,040 --> 01:49:14,320
Speaker 1: from here? We have figured that out. I will say

1862
01:49:14,360 --> 01:49:16,720
Speaker 1: that it is such a relief to have told Sophie that.

1863
01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:19,240
Speaker 1: I feel like an an elephant has been taken off

1864
01:49:19,479 --> 01:49:26,080
Speaker 1: my chest. There we are. Well, that's anything crazy. If

1865
01:49:26,120 --> 01:49:29,040
Speaker 1: something crazy happens in the ninth and the ninth inning, whatever,

1866
01:49:31,680 --> 01:49:33,000
Speaker 1: then that will happen and we'll come back.

1867
01:49:33,040 --> 01:49:35,760
Speaker 2: But as of right now we are abandoning you.

1868
01:49:36,200 --> 01:49:39,160
Speaker 1: Has it has happened? Yes, the clock is run and

1869
01:49:39,280 --> 01:49:43,280
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1870
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1908
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Speaker 1: as we were out of time, read the donos signing off.

1909
01:52:24,439 --> 01:52:29,200
Speaker 1: Everyone came in and this is what happens. By the way,

1910
01:52:29,280 --> 01:52:31,479
Speaker 1: by the way, to scare you, because of course we

1911
01:52:31,479 --> 01:52:34,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't you lock you down. But this is how ten

1912
01:52:34,240 --> 01:52:34,840
Speaker 1: hour streams are.

1913
01:52:35,800 --> 01:52:38,560
Speaker 2: Goodness, gracious, this is the energy.

1914
01:52:40,000 --> 01:52:44,439
Speaker 1: That they bring. Wow. Yes, yes, indeed it's been It's

1915
01:52:44,479 --> 01:52:47,000
Speaker 1: been so long since I've had a long ago. Joe says,

1916
01:52:47,040 --> 01:52:52,240
Speaker 1: this is the forever stream. Nicole had says, never ending

1917
01:52:52,280 --> 01:52:56,640
Speaker 1: Reddit story, never ending Reddit story. Oh my gosh, oh,

1918
01:52:56,760 --> 01:53:02,719
Speaker 1: Jellyby says, okay, story time, Okay, story time him, Lauren

1919
01:53:02,880 --> 01:53:05,200
Speaker 1: and uh Niman didn't end up coming to the movie yesterday,

1920
01:53:05,400 --> 01:53:11,759
Speaker 1: but I did. If you guys have remember the pr

1921
01:53:11,840 --> 01:53:14,679
Speaker 1: stuff that we've been doing, it hasn't gone great so far.

1922
01:53:14,760 --> 01:53:15,880
Speaker 2: It's been poo poo duty.

1923
01:53:16,240 --> 01:53:19,040
Speaker 1: This one has been the best, was by far the best.

1924
01:53:19,320 --> 01:53:23,160
Speaker 1: Last night's event was the best of anyone we've ever had. Riley, Yeah,

1925
01:53:23,960 --> 01:53:26,280
Speaker 1: it was cool. Terracuses there, that's great. What's his name

1926
01:53:26,960 --> 01:53:29,320
Speaker 1: A Bautista, Dave Bautista, ba Batista.

1927
01:53:30,120 --> 01:53:33,360
Speaker 2: I saw Jordan from uh.

1928
01:53:35,400 --> 01:53:36,639
Speaker 1: Warren loves this guy.

1929
01:53:37,080 --> 01:53:40,599
Speaker 2: He's so big and I think that's cool.

1930
01:53:40,880 --> 01:53:50,840
Speaker 1: He's like, what is he like? Tell us no, But

1931
01:53:50,920 --> 01:53:53,920
Speaker 1: it was the best event it had. Oh I got

1932
01:53:54,040 --> 01:53:57,320
Speaker 1: I got a red carpet photo. There you go, and

1933
01:53:57,400 --> 01:54:00,559
Speaker 1: they were literally like Joe Joan over here, Chindam. They

1934
01:54:00,640 --> 01:54:03,280
Speaker 1: knew who you were. It's because they put your name

1935
01:54:03,320 --> 01:54:09,080
Speaker 1: on like a talent card. Oh cute. Yeah. And then

1936
01:54:09,320 --> 01:54:11,880
Speaker 1: like we walked through the same like there's like you

1937
01:54:12,000 --> 01:54:14,160
Speaker 1: walk through this little like not red carpet and then

1938
01:54:14,160 --> 01:54:17,280
Speaker 1: you get into the actual red carpet. And that's also

1939
01:54:17,360 --> 01:54:19,920
Speaker 1: where like the cast and everything walks the pre carpet,

1940
01:54:20,120 --> 01:54:23,920
Speaker 1: so everyone thought of the pre carpet. Jordan the Stallion, Yes,

1941
01:54:24,000 --> 01:54:28,120
Speaker 1: thank you, Tracy. Jordan's yeah, dude's cool. Dude, I I

1942
01:54:28,439 --> 01:54:31,200
Speaker 1: fumbled it back. Jordan, if you're watching this, you're amazing.

1943
01:54:31,280 --> 01:54:32,760
Speaker 1: And I should have gone up to you last night

1944
01:54:33,680 --> 01:54:36,480
Speaker 1: because he just had he just did collapse with Childish

1945
01:54:36,520 --> 01:54:39,560
Speaker 1: Gambino and Big Sean for their album promos, and he's

1946
01:54:39,560 --> 01:54:43,440
Speaker 1: absolutely killing it and he's like freaking fire, what's happening?

1947
01:54:43,720 --> 01:54:48,160
Speaker 1: And so he's the guy that he does the like hey,

1948
01:54:48,240 --> 01:54:51,400
Speaker 1: come here, come a little closer. This is the secret

1949
01:54:51,440 --> 01:54:58,000
Speaker 1: menu of this thing that oh yeah, oh you did. Yeah, dude,

1950
01:54:58,040 --> 01:55:00,200
Speaker 1: he's he's a legend. So I saw him in the

1951
01:55:00,280 --> 01:55:03,280
Speaker 1: parking lot. It would have been a perfect opportunity to

1952
01:55:03,320 --> 01:55:05,400
Speaker 1: say what's up to I wanted to say, like, hey, dude,

1953
01:55:05,480 --> 01:55:08,400
Speaker 1: like congrats on the Big Sean and Gambino collab, like

1954
01:55:08,440 --> 01:55:11,160
Speaker 1: that's huge, which I feel like is a good a

1955
01:55:11,240 --> 01:55:12,800
Speaker 1: good thing. But I was I was a little nervous.

1956
01:55:12,840 --> 01:55:19,400
Speaker 1: I was by myself. Oh good, but yeah, there we go. Yeah,

1957
01:55:19,440 --> 01:55:20,480
Speaker 1: that was the experience. It was great.

1958
01:55:20,680 --> 01:55:22,360
Speaker 2: My brother is a stock photo.

1959
01:55:22,480 --> 01:55:26,480
Speaker 1: Now hey I am stock Oh yeah, thought, there you go.

1960
01:55:26,640 --> 01:55:26,920
Speaker 1: I did.

1961
01:55:27,000 --> 01:55:29,440
Speaker 2: Yes, stunks, thunks, that was me.

1962
01:55:30,080 --> 01:55:31,760
Speaker 1: All right, ladies and gentlemen, we'll give you what your

1963
01:55:31,800 --> 01:55:34,120
Speaker 1: prow to the donuts. Oh yeah, it's reading more quick,

1964
01:55:34,320 --> 01:55:36,080
Speaker 1: Kristin vaul hat for the thanks for the twenty bucks.

1965
01:55:36,120 --> 01:55:38,160
Speaker 1: We definitely need the extra time. Brittany, I see you

1966
01:55:38,280 --> 01:55:40,840
Speaker 1: and says stay please, we are thanks for the twenty bucks.

1967
01:55:41,080 --> 01:55:46,040
Speaker 1: Yeah uh tem thanks for the five gifted memberships and

1968
01:55:46,200 --> 01:55:49,240
Speaker 1: Minie Ryder, thanks for the five bucks. Came back just

1969
01:55:49,560 --> 01:55:52,840
Speaker 1: in Thorme to see Le's get more dome. Let's go

1970
01:55:53,320 --> 01:55:56,640
Speaker 1: okay fam. With that being said, we will continue this

1971
01:55:56,760 --> 01:56:02,280
Speaker 1: insane story. So guys, either way, the question is now

1972
01:56:02,960 --> 01:56:05,400
Speaker 1: where to go from here? We have to figure that out.

1973
01:56:05,720 --> 01:56:07,480
Speaker 1: I will say that it is such a relief to

1974
01:56:07,560 --> 01:56:10,600
Speaker 1: have told Sophie and I feel like an elephant has

1975
01:56:10,680 --> 01:56:13,360
Speaker 1: been taken and I feel like an elephant has taken

1976
01:56:13,400 --> 01:56:16,560
Speaker 1: its feet off of my chest. Having her in my

1977
01:56:16,640 --> 01:56:18,560
Speaker 1: corner and Tom in my corner as well means a

1978
01:56:18,600 --> 01:56:21,280
Speaker 1: lot to me. And even though I basically just got

1979
01:56:21,400 --> 01:56:25,120
Speaker 1: absolutely confirmed that Luke is sleeping with Amy, I kind

1980
01:56:25,160 --> 01:56:28,200
Speaker 1: of knew that anyways. So it's now a question of

1981
01:56:28,240 --> 01:56:31,760
Speaker 1: how to proceed. How to proceed? Tom has already volunteered

1982
01:56:31,800 --> 01:56:34,200
Speaker 1: to submit his DNA so I can compare it to Luke's,

1983
01:56:34,480 --> 01:56:36,840
Speaker 1: and both he and Sophie advise me not to tell

1984
01:56:36,920 --> 01:56:40,160
Speaker 1: Luke and Amy when I do this, which I agree with, yep,

1985
01:56:40,200 --> 01:56:41,800
Speaker 1: which is kind of your original point of like, do

1986
01:56:41,880 --> 01:56:44,440
Speaker 1: the DNA to test first, and then go to them

1987
01:56:44,480 --> 01:56:47,000
Speaker 1: with the evidence definitely, which now in hindsight I think

1988
01:56:47,160 --> 01:56:50,800
Speaker 1: is for sure. Yeah, the move. They're both completely on

1989
01:56:50,880 --> 01:56:53,920
Speaker 1: my side, which means more to me than I can

1990
01:56:54,000 --> 01:56:56,600
Speaker 1: ever express to them. Tom has also been trying to

1991
01:56:56,640 --> 01:56:58,720
Speaker 1: set up a camera in Amy's room to catch her

1992
01:56:58,800 --> 01:57:04,440
Speaker 1: and Luke in Oh my goodness, at wow, oh my god,

1993
01:57:04,920 --> 01:57:07,480
Speaker 1: when your child has to do that, my goodness. That

1994
01:57:08,640 --> 01:57:11,600
Speaker 1: Sophie told me flat out that I needed to divorce

1995
01:57:11,640 --> 01:57:14,440
Speaker 1: her dad, and hearing that from my own daughter made

1996
01:57:14,480 --> 01:57:19,800
Speaker 1: it clearer than it's ever been. He's right, Sophie is W.

1997
01:57:20,120 --> 01:57:21,840
Speaker 1: Sophie W. Sophie W.

1998
01:57:22,160 --> 01:57:22,400
Speaker 2: Tom.

1999
01:57:23,000 --> 01:57:27,320
Speaker 1: They are doing God's work. I guess who make this?

2000
01:57:27,960 --> 01:57:31,800
Speaker 1: Make this happen? And guess what I think? OPI is

2001
01:57:32,200 --> 01:57:37,160
Speaker 1: finally come all the way around. She knows she needs

2002
01:57:37,160 --> 01:57:39,680
Speaker 1: a divorce, she's going to get the DNA tests. She

2003
01:57:39,840 --> 01:57:42,920
Speaker 1: realizes how I think it was. It just took all

2004
01:57:43,000 --> 01:57:47,520
Speaker 1: of that. You know, she's she's had the rose tinted glasses.

2005
01:57:47,640 --> 01:57:51,160
Speaker 1: The she's fully awake. Now she's fully awake. Now she

2006
01:57:51,280 --> 01:57:52,000
Speaker 1: can see clearly.

2007
01:57:52,120 --> 01:57:54,840
Speaker 2: Now the rain is gone, there are no obstacles in

2008
01:57:55,160 --> 01:57:55,480
Speaker 2: her way.

2009
01:57:56,280 --> 01:58:03,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, beautiful, guys, let's get going. Yeah yeah, you thought

2010
01:58:03,760 --> 01:58:09,120
Speaker 1: it was over. Ah, Yeah, yeah, no, it's not so dude.

2011
01:58:09,120 --> 01:58:12,640
Speaker 1: There's like so much more to this suit. It's great, crazy,

2012
01:58:13,640 --> 01:58:20,240
Speaker 1: I'll turn the dog. Let's do it. Update. First things first,

2013
01:58:20,480 --> 01:58:22,640
Speaker 1: I discussed this in the comments, but our little team

2014
01:58:22,840 --> 01:58:27,920
Speaker 1: has supposedly recruited my mother in law. Wow, everyone's turning

2015
01:58:27,920 --> 01:58:31,120
Speaker 1: against her. That's so funny. I say supposedly, quote unquote,

2016
01:58:31,120 --> 01:58:33,640
Speaker 1: because Sophie and Tom were going to talk to her

2017
01:58:33,680 --> 01:58:36,560
Speaker 1: about getting help with submitting the DNA test. At the

2018
01:58:36,600 --> 01:58:38,920
Speaker 1: advice of my lawyer, I am staying out of the

2019
01:58:38,960 --> 01:58:42,600
Speaker 1: process officially. I told Sophie not to do it, and

2020
01:58:42,720 --> 01:58:47,200
Speaker 1: she said she wouldn't. Mother in law hasn't hasn't contacted

2021
01:58:47,280 --> 01:58:49,760
Speaker 1: me about it either, though we have been in touch.

2022
01:58:49,960 --> 01:58:52,480
Speaker 1: I'll get more into that in a moment. The bottom

2023
01:58:52,560 --> 01:58:55,240
Speaker 1: line is that I can honestly say I had no

2024
01:58:55,680 --> 01:59:01,000
Speaker 1: knowledge of any DNA test loophole city here. So basically

2025
01:59:01,480 --> 01:59:08,680
Speaker 1: it's all Ah can make it work legal. Hopefully this

2026
01:59:08,840 --> 01:59:11,120
Speaker 1: Reddit story cannot be used in court or this or

2027
01:59:11,200 --> 01:59:13,400
Speaker 1: this episode, imagine we end up.

2028
01:59:13,720 --> 01:59:17,880
Speaker 2: I don't think a Reddit story would be admissible in court? Emails?

2029
01:59:17,920 --> 01:59:19,880
Speaker 2: Are emails are admissible in court?

2030
01:59:20,600 --> 01:59:24,760
Speaker 1: What about the best show on the internet that to

2031
01:59:24,840 --> 01:59:27,800
Speaker 1: me seems sufficiently liven? That is that is, that's that,

2032
01:59:28,640 --> 01:59:31,760
Speaker 1: that's as verifiable and and strong a source and foundation

2033
01:59:31,840 --> 01:59:33,080
Speaker 1: as it gets wrong.

2034
01:59:33,320 --> 01:59:37,960
Speaker 2: I genuinely think that would be the most hearsay hearsay ever.

2035
01:59:38,800 --> 01:59:44,560
Speaker 1: You know what I hearsay? What that You're dead wrong? Okay,

2036
01:59:45,160 --> 01:59:49,960
Speaker 1: I guess I'm wrong. But guys, you thought that that

2037
01:59:50,200 --> 01:59:55,040
Speaker 1: update was the last update. It's not. There's but wait,

2038
01:59:55,200 --> 02:00:00,440
Speaker 1: there's more another one titles so much more real, update real,

2039
02:00:01,200 --> 02:00:02,919
Speaker 1: an ungodly amount of more.

2040
02:00:02,720 --> 02:00:08,360
Speaker 2: To this final destination and then there being multiple final destinations?

2041
02:00:08,920 --> 02:00:12,520
Speaker 1: Which one is the final one? Final Destination is the

2042
02:00:12,640 --> 02:00:19,160
Speaker 1: next final destination? That's it point close anyways, So here

2043
02:00:19,240 --> 02:00:22,000
Speaker 1: we go. The last time I looked into Luke's phone

2044
02:00:22,080 --> 02:00:24,600
Speaker 1: was three months ago. Around that point, Sophie and Tom

2045
02:00:24,680 --> 02:00:26,920
Speaker 1: began to go around claiming that they wanted a date.

2046
02:00:27,480 --> 02:00:30,120
Speaker 1: I found nothing. While I know how to search for

2047
02:00:30,280 --> 02:00:33,840
Speaker 1: recently deleted photos and didn't see any, my comments taught

2048
02:00:33,920 --> 02:00:37,800
Speaker 1: me how to find recently deleted messages. Oh goodness, here

2049
02:00:37,840 --> 02:00:40,760
Speaker 1: we go. So when Luke was asleep, I did just that,

2050
02:00:41,400 --> 02:00:45,120
Speaker 1: piped his phone and brought it downstairs and checked recently deleted.

2051
02:00:45,640 --> 02:00:49,040
Speaker 1: How how many relationships have been destroyed by the recently

2052
02:00:49,120 --> 02:00:53,879
Speaker 1: deleted feature? As they should be If recently deleted gets removed?

2053
02:00:55,160 --> 02:00:58,200
Speaker 1: All heck will break loose yep, with cheaters everything.

2054
02:00:58,240 --> 02:00:59,160
Speaker 2: It will be the apocalypse.

2055
02:00:59,200 --> 02:01:01,520
Speaker 1: It will be the apocalypse. I am glad I did,

2056
02:01:01,680 --> 02:01:04,440
Speaker 1: but I also wish I had not, because I'm still

2057
02:01:04,560 --> 02:01:09,600
Speaker 1: reeling from the pain. Sure enough, a conversation with Amy

2058
02:01:09,720 --> 02:01:13,440
Speaker 1: had been deleted recent text talking about the conflict between

2059
02:01:13,520 --> 02:01:16,560
Speaker 1: her and me, Amy describing me as a problem and

2060
02:01:16,680 --> 02:01:20,200
Speaker 1: Luke trying to pacifier without defending me at all. To

2061
02:01:20,280 --> 02:01:23,600
Speaker 1: be clear, they both alluded to how they had expected

2062
02:01:23,680 --> 02:01:26,320
Speaker 1: this for a while and just hoped it would never happen,

2063
02:01:26,680 --> 02:01:31,240
Speaker 1: presumably me accusing them of having an affair. How like, evil,

2064
02:01:31,440 --> 02:01:33,560
Speaker 1: twisted and stupid, can you be?

2065
02:01:34,000 --> 02:01:38,120
Speaker 2: That's just so bizarre, like, especially considering that like they're

2066
02:01:38,240 --> 02:01:44,760
Speaker 2: saying that after having like found out that their kids

2067
02:01:44,920 --> 02:01:45,280
Speaker 2: want to.

2068
02:01:45,400 --> 02:01:50,560
Speaker 1: Date, they literally didn't even care. They they still blotted

2069
02:01:50,760 --> 02:01:52,760
Speaker 1: to save themselves. That's literally all they did.

2070
02:01:52,800 --> 02:01:54,160
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, so disgusting.

2071
02:01:54,360 --> 02:01:57,400
Speaker 1: Well, the whole conversation and the fact that it was

2072
02:01:57,640 --> 02:02:01,600
Speaker 1: deleted with sketchy Nothing was actually admitted in these messages,

2073
02:02:01,920 --> 02:02:03,720
Speaker 1: So I scrolled a bit higher to a few days

2074
02:02:03,760 --> 02:02:06,839
Speaker 1: before the fight. Amy's messages got a bit more flirty.

2075
02:02:07,440 --> 02:02:11,560
Speaker 1: Then I saw it. Five days before I confronted them,

2076
02:02:11,960 --> 02:02:15,000
Speaker 1: Amy had sent Luke a topless pick a selfie with

2077
02:02:15,160 --> 02:02:19,560
Speaker 1: no shirt or bra. Goodness, guys, I teared up. I

2078
02:02:19,640 --> 02:02:22,440
Speaker 1: knew it was true, I knew in my bones, but

2079
02:02:22,640 --> 02:02:26,280
Speaker 1: seeing the proof still cut me like a hot knife. Wow.

2080
02:02:26,800 --> 02:02:29,520
Speaker 1: Doesn't help that Amy has always had bigger breast than me.

2081
02:02:29,800 --> 02:02:32,080
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, Oh the twist of the knife.

2082
02:02:32,280 --> 02:02:37,120
Speaker 2: No, but like, like that can be like actually, so

2083
02:02:38,800 --> 02:02:45,080
Speaker 2: like if if op is like insecure about their chest size,

2084
02:02:46,160 --> 02:02:48,360
Speaker 2: that would be awful.

2085
02:02:48,560 --> 02:02:51,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it's experience. It's another like and finally, like see,

2086
02:02:52,240 --> 02:02:55,200
Speaker 1: it's like I'm sure it would be world chattering dude.

2087
02:02:55,040 --> 02:02:58,200
Speaker 2: I mean, and it's like proof of like it's the

2088
02:02:58,320 --> 02:03:01,320
Speaker 2: answer to the rhetorical question. And what does she have

2089
02:03:01,560 --> 02:03:02,200
Speaker 2: that I don't?

2090
02:03:02,480 --> 02:03:08,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? Literally, yeah, oh, poor Opie. I exited the messages

2091
02:03:08,360 --> 02:03:11,840
Speaker 1: app and checked Luke's recently deleted photos. Sure enough, the

2092
02:03:11,960 --> 02:03:17,280
Speaker 1: same selfie was in there, among others Amy topless, Amy naked,

2093
02:03:17,520 --> 02:03:21,160
Speaker 1: and various poses show off. There were pictures of the

2094
02:03:21,200 --> 02:03:24,640
Speaker 1: two of them together cuddled and pressed close like a couple.

2095
02:03:25,160 --> 02:03:28,800
Speaker 1: In some of these she was naked. In some both

2096
02:03:28,880 --> 02:03:33,480
Speaker 1: of them were. There were videos Amy sent Luke a

2097
02:03:33,720 --> 02:03:37,360
Speaker 1: video message of herself topless, and I had to actually

2098
02:03:37,520 --> 02:03:40,320
Speaker 1: hear her voice. You hear her voice talking to him

2099
02:03:40,400 --> 02:03:43,800
Speaker 1: in a tone that made me sick about how she

2100
02:03:44,000 --> 02:03:46,600
Speaker 1: was sending him a quick video to help him get

2101
02:03:46,680 --> 02:03:49,080
Speaker 1: through the day. Oh my god. In more than one

2102
02:03:49,200 --> 02:03:52,560
Speaker 1: video she called him her boo. And hearing her call

2103
02:03:52,680 --> 02:03:55,560
Speaker 1: him that, I almost vomited. I would have too.

2104
02:03:56,360 --> 02:03:59,839
Speaker 2: I mean, at this point, I feel like she shouldn't

2105
02:04:00,120 --> 02:04:03,600
Speaker 2: have dug as deep as she did, because you know,

2106
02:04:03,760 --> 02:04:05,600
Speaker 2: like at that point, it's like all you need is

2107
02:04:05,720 --> 02:04:09,680
Speaker 2: one picture. But it's that sort of thing where she's

2108
02:04:09,760 --> 02:04:11,440
Speaker 2: doing it without thinking she's.

2109
02:04:11,280 --> 02:04:13,640
Speaker 1: Doing she she it could be a variety. If she's

2110
02:04:13,680 --> 02:04:15,840
Speaker 1: doing it without thinking, she's like, oh, this is just

2111
02:04:15,920 --> 02:04:18,840
Speaker 1: more evidence to like, like, if she has all of

2112
02:04:18,880 --> 02:04:21,680
Speaker 1: this as evidence, it is so like case clothes.

2113
02:04:21,440 --> 02:04:25,560
Speaker 2: Like this is a a mount everest of evidence, definitely,

2114
02:04:26,960 --> 02:04:30,640
Speaker 2: but still it's just a girl, don't torture. Yeah, for sure,

2115
02:04:30,880 --> 02:04:32,880
Speaker 2: hand the phone over to someone else they can look

2116
02:04:32,920 --> 02:04:33,120
Speaker 2: at it.

2117
02:04:33,360 --> 02:04:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I stopped looking at that point. I'd seen enough

2118
02:04:36,840 --> 02:04:40,120
Speaker 1: YEP for about five minutes anyways. Then a strange compulsion

2119
02:04:40,200 --> 02:04:43,000
Speaker 1: to keep searching led me to Luke's laptop. Oh no,

2120
02:04:43,840 --> 02:04:46,320
Speaker 1: I knew enough of his past codes to act access

2121
02:04:46,360 --> 02:04:49,920
Speaker 1: his iCloud storage, and yeah, basically more of the same.

2122
02:04:50,680 --> 02:04:53,720
Speaker 1: There were letters, long letters between them. I didn't have

2123
02:04:53,840 --> 02:04:55,920
Speaker 1: the heart to read that past the fuse for line

2124
02:04:56,680 --> 02:05:02,560
Speaker 1: to read past the fuse for line to read past

2125
02:05:02,760 --> 02:05:06,040
Speaker 1: the first few lines of one of them. But I

2126
02:05:06,160 --> 02:05:13,760
Speaker 1: did read Luke mention our children, oh dot them. There

2127
02:05:13,800 --> 02:05:17,920
Speaker 1: were countless naked and topless selfies of Amy, selfies of

2128
02:05:18,000 --> 02:05:21,879
Speaker 1: them together, videos where Amy a pair appeared to be flicking'

2129
02:05:21,880 --> 02:05:26,280
Speaker 1: the bean. There were spicy sleep tapes of the two

2130
02:05:26,400 --> 02:05:30,360
Speaker 1: of them. Tom had previously offered to try and hide

2131
02:05:30,400 --> 02:05:34,160
Speaker 1: a camera in Amy's room, but f he never needed to.

2132
02:05:34,880 --> 02:05:37,800
Speaker 1: Luke was hiding a whole treasure trove under my nose

2133
02:05:38,080 --> 02:05:41,800
Speaker 1: all along. I scrolled and scrolled, and scrolled and scrolled.

2134
02:05:42,200 --> 02:05:45,360
Speaker 1: There were so many going back years. Not all of

2135
02:05:45,440 --> 02:05:49,600
Speaker 1: it was sexual. Some of the photos of Amy's were

2136
02:05:49,640 --> 02:05:52,640
Speaker 1: of Amy's kids too. One photo was of Kaylee and

2137
02:05:52,720 --> 02:05:55,720
Speaker 1: the twins playing together when they were younger, and Luke

2138
02:05:55,800 --> 02:05:59,880
Speaker 1: and Amy's voices from behind the camera. They were even

2139
02:06:00,080 --> 02:06:02,720
Speaker 1: old pictures of Luke and Amy from when they were younger.

2140
02:06:03,080 --> 02:06:09,400
Speaker 1: I'd even say teenager, Oh my gosh, why did why

2141
02:06:09,520 --> 02:06:13,800
Speaker 1: did Luke even marry Op? I was literally thinking the

2142
02:06:13,920 --> 02:06:18,480
Speaker 1: exact same thing, if you had just married Amy, none

2143
02:06:18,560 --> 02:06:23,400
Speaker 1: of this, go ahead, go ahead, waste waste her time.

2144
02:06:23,520 --> 02:06:27,240
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty four. I guess there's wasting time, and then

2145
02:06:27,280 --> 02:06:30,960
Speaker 1: there's like the most torturous waste of there's wasting someone's soul.

2146
02:06:31,480 --> 02:06:33,040
Speaker 2: This is just diabolical.

2147
02:06:33,240 --> 02:06:37,120
Speaker 1: This is this is wasting someone's soul right here. My goodness.

2148
02:06:38,160 --> 02:06:40,840
Speaker 1: All these years I had been telling myself I had

2149
02:06:40,880 --> 02:06:43,640
Speaker 1: to be wrong, that it couldn't be true. Well it

2150
02:06:43,840 --> 02:06:46,800
Speaker 1: was true. I know that no one forced me to

2151
02:06:46,920 --> 02:06:49,520
Speaker 1: look at as much evidence, as at as much evidence

2152
02:06:49,560 --> 02:06:52,520
Speaker 1: as I did. But I'm still hurting very badly from

2153
02:06:52,560 --> 02:06:55,280
Speaker 1: seeing it. In that moment, Yep, I wanted to act,

2154
02:06:55,720 --> 02:06:57,760
Speaker 1: so I did. I called my lawyer, who was a

2155
02:06:57,840 --> 02:07:01,200
Speaker 1: remarkable woman in the middle of so I had to

2156
02:07:01,280 --> 02:07:02,600
Speaker 1: call it was in the middle of the night, so

2157
02:07:02,640 --> 02:07:04,480
Speaker 1: I had to call her twice and she picked up

2158
02:07:04,920 --> 02:07:06,880
Speaker 1: though I had woken her. When I asked her to

2159
02:07:06,960 --> 02:07:09,560
Speaker 1: come by and said it was an emergency, she agreed.

2160
02:07:10,080 --> 02:07:12,200
Speaker 1: I also asked her to drop the paperwork and have

2161
02:07:12,320 --> 02:07:14,920
Speaker 1: it ready. She told me that she's already had it

2162
02:07:15,080 --> 02:07:18,200
Speaker 1: ready since the first time that I reached out to her.

2163
02:07:18,360 --> 02:07:22,720
Speaker 2: That's honestly, W lawyer, that's like W lawyer. It's like,

2164
02:07:22,880 --> 02:07:25,720
Speaker 2: not only is she like your lawyer, but like that's

2165
02:07:25,760 --> 02:07:27,000
Speaker 2: a solid friend right there.

2166
02:07:27,280 --> 02:07:28,480
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

2167
02:07:28,760 --> 02:07:31,600
Speaker 2: And just to already have everything drafted up is genius.

2168
02:07:31,920 --> 02:07:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. As I waited for her, I went through the

2169
02:07:34,480 --> 02:07:37,600
Speaker 1: necessary channels on Luke's laptop to make sure that he

2170
02:07:37,600 --> 02:07:40,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to remotely disconnect our access to his

2171
02:07:41,040 --> 02:07:43,800
Speaker 1: little stash, changing his passwords and all that. My lawyer,

2172
02:07:43,880 --> 02:07:46,320
Speaker 1: let's call her page arrived and I went outside to

2173
02:07:46,360 --> 02:07:48,960
Speaker 1: greet her in her car. Been to good half hour

2174
02:07:49,040 --> 02:07:51,840
Speaker 1: in the passenger seat, just crying, and she was great

2175
02:07:51,880 --> 02:07:54,480
Speaker 1: about that. Before I passed her Luke's phone and laptop

2176
02:07:54,600 --> 02:07:57,160
Speaker 1: with all of the information she needed to use on them,

2177
02:07:57,840 --> 02:08:00,600
Speaker 1: she warned me that this could be considered theft, so

2178
02:08:00,720 --> 02:08:02,880
Speaker 1: I asked her to forward and print out copies of

2179
02:08:03,000 --> 02:08:06,000
Speaker 1: everything she could and then bring the items back because

2180
02:08:06,040 --> 02:08:09,440
Speaker 1: I just couldn't bear to do it myself, and she agreed. Yep.

2181
02:08:09,760 --> 02:08:11,920
Speaker 1: I went back inside and then I packed up Luke's

2182
02:08:11,920 --> 02:08:15,880
Speaker 1: things while I while while the house slept. At one point,

2183
02:08:16,040 --> 02:08:17,840
Speaker 1: Owen got up to use the bathroom and asked me

2184
02:08:17,920 --> 02:08:19,560
Speaker 1: what I was doing, but I told him I was

2185
02:08:19,680 --> 02:08:22,280
Speaker 1: just cleaning. Luke stirred once or twice while I was

2186
02:08:22,320 --> 02:08:25,200
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, but did not wake. I got all

2187
02:08:25,320 --> 02:08:27,880
Speaker 1: of his things packed into trash bags and loaded up

2188
02:08:27,920 --> 02:08:32,000
Speaker 1: the car, and that is when I woke him up

2189
02:08:32,720 --> 02:08:34,839
Speaker 1: and told him to come outside.

2190
02:08:35,080 --> 02:08:40,560
Speaker 2: Yep, dude, the trash bags, that's like such a beautiful symbolism.

2191
02:08:42,920 --> 02:08:44,600
Speaker 2: Take yourself out because you're trash.

2192
02:08:45,360 --> 02:08:47,240
Speaker 1: I am currently this is a movie.

2193
02:08:47,680 --> 02:08:51,840
Speaker 2: It's honestly like, I am experiencing so many different emotions.

2194
02:08:52,040 --> 02:08:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to think anymore. Yeah, he

2195
02:08:56,400 --> 02:08:59,080
Speaker 1: was confused and half asleep, but he did notice that

2196
02:08:59,120 --> 02:09:02,480
Speaker 1: things were missing. Ignoring his questions, I just told him

2197
02:09:02,480 --> 02:09:05,480
Speaker 1: to come with me, so he followed me outside. Once

2198
02:09:05,520 --> 02:09:07,560
Speaker 1: we were by the car, I pulled out the divorce

2199
02:09:07,600 --> 02:09:11,200
Speaker 1: papers and handed them to him. That was about when

2200
02:09:11,240 --> 02:09:13,400
Speaker 1: he figured out what I was doing, and he tried

2201
02:09:13,440 --> 02:09:15,280
Speaker 1: to talk me out of it, tried to be sweet

2202
02:09:15,320 --> 02:09:17,760
Speaker 1: with me, to be tender. He kept insisting that he

2203
02:09:17,920 --> 02:09:20,400
Speaker 1: loved me and that he had never and that there

2204
02:09:20,440 --> 02:09:23,320
Speaker 1: had never been anything with Amy. Sure, he kept trying

2205
02:09:23,360 --> 02:09:26,640
Speaker 1: to persuade me not to tear our family apart. Even

2206
02:09:26,680 --> 02:09:29,720
Speaker 1: two weeks ago, I have wilted under him because of

2207
02:09:29,800 --> 02:09:34,080
Speaker 1: the manipulating and gaslighting that was truly masterclass. But I

2208
02:09:34,160 --> 02:09:36,880
Speaker 1: can see it now. Yeah now, I mean we already

2209
02:09:36,920 --> 02:09:38,880
Speaker 1: kind of we already knew it. Yeah, like now one

2210
02:09:38,960 --> 02:09:42,080
Speaker 1: hundred percent knowing that that was all like this act

2211
02:09:42,520 --> 02:09:47,040
Speaker 1: genuinely was crazy, so insane, and just how far back

2212
02:09:47,160 --> 02:09:49,760
Speaker 1: it went, dude, and how like think how close to

2213
02:09:49,840 --> 02:09:52,720
Speaker 1: the because he they did the whole thing where he

2214
02:09:52,840 --> 02:09:54,560
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I all agreed to get the test

2215
02:09:54,640 --> 02:09:57,680
Speaker 1: and then Amy played like the crazy freak out person. Yeah,

2216
02:09:58,080 --> 02:10:00,320
Speaker 1: like the fact that they had that all coordination and

2217
02:10:00,520 --> 02:10:03,160
Speaker 1: it worked for that for the time being at least.

2218
02:10:04,080 --> 02:10:09,320
Speaker 1: My god, I didn't tell people, right, I didn't tell him,

2219
02:10:09,360 --> 02:10:11,360
Speaker 1: but I knew he was full of crap. I didn't

2220
02:10:11,360 --> 02:10:13,240
Speaker 1: tell him what I had seen. I just told him

2221
02:10:13,480 --> 02:10:17,320
Speaker 1: that we were finished. He tried a different approach. He

2222
02:10:17,440 --> 02:10:21,240
Speaker 1: refused to go, stated firmly that our children were his

2223
02:10:21,400 --> 02:10:24,720
Speaker 1: two and even if even if we were separating, I

2224
02:10:24,800 --> 02:10:27,320
Speaker 1: had no right to just decide that the kids would

2225
02:10:27,320 --> 02:10:29,880
Speaker 1: stay with me over him. Well, you know you've got

2226
02:10:29,960 --> 02:10:34,120
Speaker 1: other kids, Luke, though, what about them? True? Yeah, go

2227
02:10:34,280 --> 02:10:38,200
Speaker 1: to your Hey, you want four kids right next door,

2228
02:10:38,360 --> 02:10:41,440
Speaker 1: right next door, right next door. This is where I

2229
02:10:41,760 --> 02:10:44,960
Speaker 1: very coldly presented him the paperwork, reminding him that the

2230
02:10:45,120 --> 02:10:52,480
Speaker 1: house is in my name. Oh that's awesome, God, bless

2231
02:10:52,800 --> 02:10:57,880
Speaker 1: let's freaking go, period, and told him under no circumstances

2232
02:10:58,200 --> 02:11:03,280
Speaker 1: would my kids be staying with Amy. Genuinely, dude, my god.

2233
02:11:04,240 --> 02:11:07,000
Speaker 1: He argued a while longer, but it ended up he

2234
02:11:07,160 --> 02:11:10,640
Speaker 1: decided to be the bigger person. Piece. Oh, yes, the

2235
02:11:10,680 --> 02:11:14,160
Speaker 1: bigger person. At that moment, I didn't care where he went.

2236
02:11:14,400 --> 02:11:17,080
Speaker 1: Before he left, he did ask about his phone and laptop,

2237
02:11:17,200 --> 02:11:19,040
Speaker 1: and I waved him off by saying that they were

2238
02:11:19,080 --> 02:11:21,640
Speaker 1: in one of his bags that bought a little time.

2239
02:11:22,320 --> 02:11:26,640
Speaker 1: O p has just, at the snap of your fingers,

2240
02:11:26,720 --> 02:11:28,680
Speaker 1: transformed into one of the bags.

2241
02:11:29,400 --> 02:11:31,720
Speaker 2: No, that's genius, though, to just come up with that

2242
02:11:33,080 --> 02:11:35,840
Speaker 2: it's in one of the bags. Not only has she

2243
02:11:36,880 --> 02:11:39,959
Speaker 2: bought the lawyer, because they're still with the lawyer exactly.

2244
02:11:40,200 --> 02:11:43,280
Speaker 2: Not only has she bought like she's bought a ton

2245
02:11:43,320 --> 02:11:46,120
Speaker 2: of time because you know, it's not like she labeled

2246
02:11:46,120 --> 02:11:47,120
Speaker 2: any of the trash bags.

2247
02:11:47,160 --> 02:11:49,160
Speaker 1: All the trash bags look the same. Yeah, so he's

2248
02:11:49,160 --> 02:11:52,839
Speaker 1: gonna be looking through all these trash bags. Yeah, honestly,

2249
02:11:53,080 --> 02:11:57,280
Speaker 1: she's savage. You could even argue classy.

2250
02:11:58,200 --> 02:12:02,040
Speaker 2: I would say she's a classy save some could say bougie.

2251
02:12:02,160 --> 02:12:05,640
Speaker 1: Yes, I wouldn't say ratchet, but some people could say that.

2252
02:12:06,400 --> 02:12:10,200
Speaker 1: I don't think so. You could ask baby girl was hattening? Yeah,

2253
02:12:10,480 --> 02:12:14,920
Speaker 1: you could say that, that's all I'm saying. So at

2254
02:12:14,960 --> 02:12:16,800
Speaker 1: that moment, I did not care where he went, but

2255
02:12:16,920 --> 02:12:18,760
Speaker 1: before he left, he did ask where he was. Phone

2256
02:12:18,760 --> 02:12:20,560
Speaker 1: a laptop were as I was waving him off, saying

2257
02:12:20,560 --> 02:12:21,920
Speaker 1: that they were one of the bags. Top bottle of

2258
02:12:21,960 --> 02:12:24,320
Speaker 1: the time. I couldn't sleep for the rest of the night.

2259
02:12:24,400 --> 02:12:27,640
Speaker 1: I totally get that. I wouldn't have even been able

2260
02:12:27,680 --> 02:12:31,400
Speaker 1: to lay down right up, I cried more. Eventually I

2261
02:12:31,520 --> 02:12:33,920
Speaker 1: realized I'd have to wake up my children early and

2262
02:12:34,080 --> 02:12:37,360
Speaker 1: explain to the extent that I could. Naturally, I woke

2263
02:12:37,440 --> 02:12:39,080
Speaker 1: Sophie first, yea, hopefully she can maybe be.

2264
02:12:39,080 --> 02:12:41,120
Speaker 2: With it honestly, Yeah, definitely.

2265
02:12:41,440 --> 02:12:43,400
Speaker 1: I told her that I had kicked her father out

2266
02:12:43,520 --> 02:12:46,000
Speaker 1: and that I had discovered evidence of an affair on

2267
02:12:46,160 --> 02:12:49,080
Speaker 1: his devices. I did not specify what kind of evidence,

2268
02:12:49,160 --> 02:12:51,520
Speaker 1: and she didn't ask. I woke up the others and

2269
02:12:51,640 --> 02:12:53,560
Speaker 1: gently told him that their dad had gone to stay

2270
02:12:53,640 --> 02:12:56,120
Speaker 1: somewhere else for a while, that I wasn't sure where,

2271
02:12:56,560 --> 02:12:59,160
Speaker 1: but from now on things were going to be different.

2272
02:12:59,320 --> 02:13:02,800
Speaker 1: Your dad went to the farm where our dog went. Yeah,

2273
02:13:03,960 --> 02:13:05,960
Speaker 1: ever heard of the dog house? You know where? You

2274
02:13:06,000 --> 02:13:08,840
Speaker 1: know where Poochie s you? We been on a farm? Yeah,

2275
02:13:09,520 --> 02:13:12,320
Speaker 1: you know, the big farm in the sky. That's how

2276
02:13:12,560 --> 02:13:17,840
Speaker 1: parents will explain Pet's passing. Ah, right, true, that's where

2277
02:13:17,960 --> 02:13:22,160
Speaker 1: dad is. Oh love that. Louise was the one to

2278
02:13:22,240 --> 02:13:24,880
Speaker 1: ask if we were getting divorced, and I couldn't lie

2279
02:13:24,960 --> 02:13:27,960
Speaker 1: to her. I told her yes. Owen asked when they

2280
02:13:27,960 --> 02:13:30,440
Speaker 1: could see their father again, and I wanted to cry.

2281
02:13:31,040 --> 02:13:33,600
Speaker 1: Sophie was a very big help, urging her siblings to

2282
02:13:33,680 --> 02:13:36,360
Speaker 1: be sympathetic to me right now, to me right now,

2283
02:13:36,680 --> 02:13:39,480
Speaker 1: and to worry about Dad later. I knew better than

2284
02:13:39,520 --> 02:13:41,160
Speaker 1: to poison them against their father.

2285
02:13:41,640 --> 02:13:42,839
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, definitely.

2286
02:13:43,120 --> 02:13:45,800
Speaker 1: Paige warned me against doing that as well. One thing

2287
02:13:45,880 --> 02:13:48,080
Speaker 1: I will say is we have heard like, don't poison

2288
02:13:48,160 --> 02:13:51,440
Speaker 1: them right now, but as soon as you can tell

2289
02:13:51,480 --> 02:13:55,600
Speaker 1: them the age appropriate full truth. So that way him

2290
02:13:55,640 --> 02:13:59,280
Speaker 1: and his manipulta of gaslighting evil ways can't definitely.

2291
02:14:00,040 --> 02:14:03,400
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, let his actions speak for themselves.

2292
02:14:03,960 --> 02:14:06,800
Speaker 1: Bingo. Yep. Page warre me against doing this as well,

2293
02:14:07,080 --> 02:14:09,640
Speaker 1: so I only told Sophie that the affair was confirmed,

2294
02:14:09,680 --> 02:14:12,600
Speaker 1: since she had already been in the know. However, as

2295
02:14:12,640 --> 02:14:14,920
Speaker 1: the kids were getting ready for school, Owen approached me

2296
02:14:15,080 --> 02:14:17,920
Speaker 1: and asked me point blank if it was about Amy,

2297
02:14:18,520 --> 02:14:20,880
Speaker 1: if Luke was going to be with her instead of me,

2298
02:14:21,400 --> 02:14:25,480
Speaker 1: and I couldn't answer. But but I suppose that's an

2299
02:14:25,480 --> 02:14:29,840
Speaker 1: answer on its own. Oh my god. I got the

2300
02:14:29,920 --> 02:14:33,640
Speaker 1: kids to school and my next step, Lord Yeah, was

2301
02:14:33,720 --> 02:14:37,920
Speaker 1: calling to have locks changed smart get him out of here. Yep.

2302
02:14:38,280 --> 02:14:42,440
Speaker 2: I knew Luke locked and loaded, locked, locked and loaded.

2303
02:14:44,360 --> 02:14:46,920
Speaker 1: I knew Luke would be back for his devices before long,

2304
02:14:47,080 --> 02:14:49,960
Speaker 1: but thankfully Page returned with him before he showed up again.

2305
02:14:50,360 --> 02:14:52,760
Speaker 1: It was a very quick visit. She told me that

2306
02:14:53,160 --> 02:14:56,520
Speaker 1: all was accomplished and she had records of everything we

2307
02:14:56,640 --> 02:14:59,880
Speaker 1: would need in court. Awesome. Sure enough, Luke turned up

2308
02:14:59,880 --> 02:15:02,040
Speaker 1: in hour later, demanding to know where his laptop and

2309
02:15:02,120 --> 02:15:04,880
Speaker 1: phone were. I set them back in our bedroom like

2310
02:15:04,960 --> 02:15:07,440
Speaker 1: they had never been moved, and I had just told

2311
02:15:07,520 --> 02:15:09,840
Speaker 1: him he had forgotten them. He insisted that I had

2312
02:15:09,920 --> 02:15:11,920
Speaker 1: said they were in one of the bags, which is true.

2313
02:15:12,320 --> 02:15:13,240
Speaker 1: So I didn't.

2314
02:15:13,400 --> 02:15:16,800
Speaker 2: You're crazy, you're imagining things, Luke.

2315
02:15:17,080 --> 02:15:19,520
Speaker 1: So I shrugged him off and told him I must

2316
02:15:19,600 --> 02:15:26,800
Speaker 1: have been mistaken. Oobs. Oh man, that's so awesome. After

2317
02:15:26,920 --> 02:15:29,040
Speaker 1: he grabbed them, he tried to reason with me, but

2318
02:15:29,160 --> 02:15:32,680
Speaker 1: I showed him the door. I knew the kids would

2319
02:15:32,720 --> 02:15:34,920
Speaker 1: start to come home from school not before long, and

2320
02:15:35,000 --> 02:15:37,200
Speaker 1: I think he was trying to delay to the and

2321
02:15:37,280 --> 02:15:42,080
Speaker 1: I think he was trying to I think trying to

2322
02:15:42,200 --> 02:15:44,640
Speaker 1: delay leaving so he could see them. I was not

2323
02:15:44,760 --> 02:15:47,640
Speaker 1: having it. I started shouting again and sent him on

2324
02:15:47,720 --> 02:15:51,560
Speaker 1: his way. I still just an absolute pain and despair

2325
02:15:51,760 --> 02:15:55,000
Speaker 1: for what I saw. I don't know if he'll realize

2326
02:15:55,000 --> 02:15:58,000
Speaker 1: that anyone went through the devices and made copies of evidence,

2327
02:15:58,520 --> 02:16:01,160
Speaker 1: or if he suspects I saw anything, but obviously he

2328
02:16:01,200 --> 02:16:07,720
Speaker 1: didn't say so. Oh, I'm tired of this man. After

2329
02:16:07,840 --> 02:16:11,840
Speaker 1: he left. I cried once again. I talked to my

2330
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Speaker 1: mother in law that night. Apparently Luke did show up

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Speaker 1: to his parents' house, which was a surprise, though I'm

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02:16:18,520 --> 02:16:20,920
Speaker 1: certain because I was so certain that he would stay

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Speaker 1: with Amy. Maybe he even knows how suspicious that would

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Speaker 1: look to the children and doesn't want to rock the

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Speaker 1: boat as much. Maybe he knows I'm more likely to

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Speaker 1: let my children see their grandmother than Amy at that point,

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02:16:33,560 --> 02:16:35,920
Speaker 1: and he wants to give them his version of the

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02:16:35,959 --> 02:16:41,840
Speaker 1: events that not happening. Kat already shared his version with

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02:16:41,959 --> 02:16:44,880
Speaker 1: me that he relayed to her and gim that I'm

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02:16:45,000 --> 02:16:47,680
Speaker 1: just having some kind of mental breakdown that he wishes

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02:16:47,760 --> 02:16:50,120
Speaker 1: he could help me, but my paranoia is causing me

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02:16:50,280 --> 02:16:53,360
Speaker 1: to lash out and turn violent. Sure, I was never violent.

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02:16:53,520 --> 02:16:55,360
Speaker 1: I shoved him away when he tried to hold me.

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02:16:55,800 --> 02:16:59,400
Speaker 1: That is all totally fair. Yeah, And what's so hilarious

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02:16:59,520 --> 02:17:01,840
Speaker 1: is that he did didn't mention Amy at all to

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Speaker 1: his parents. He didn't frame it as me falsely quote

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02:17:05,360 --> 02:17:07,600
Speaker 1: unquote believing he was having an affair or anything like that,

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02:17:08,120 --> 02:17:11,600
Speaker 1: even though that's his story when he's talking me. He

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02:17:11,760 --> 02:17:14,000
Speaker 1: left Amy out of it when talking to his parents.

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02:17:14,400 --> 02:17:19,240
Speaker 1: Convenient convenient. Well, guess what his own mama mother in

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02:17:19,320 --> 02:17:24,959
Speaker 1: law Cat noticed that she believes me, and Jim doesn't

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02:17:25,000 --> 02:17:28,560
Speaker 1: know what to believe anymore. So, Uh, the husband's mom

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02:17:28,640 --> 02:17:31,520
Speaker 1: is on op side, but the dad is still kind

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02:17:31,560 --> 02:17:35,279
Speaker 1: of like which I mean, he's I feel.

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02:17:35,120 --> 02:17:37,040
Speaker 2: Like that now, but I feel like that's best case

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02:17:37,080 --> 02:17:40,640
Speaker 2: scenario though for Jim. Yeah, to just be neutral at

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02:17:40,720 --> 02:17:42,520
Speaker 2: this point, you.

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02:17:42,560 --> 02:17:45,520
Speaker 1: Know, oh really yeah, well not not.

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02:17:45,720 --> 02:17:50,560
Speaker 2: Necessarily like neutral as in, uh, you know, say love.

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02:17:51,160 --> 02:17:55,560
Speaker 1: But you know, to not like jump the gun on

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02:17:56,000 --> 02:17:58,960
Speaker 1: jump the gun because, in fairness to Jim, he hasn't

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02:17:59,040 --> 02:18:02,560
Speaker 1: seen any of this evidence or background or Sophie, Tom anything.

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02:18:02,879 --> 02:18:05,240
Speaker 2: He hasn't seen what Cat and Op obscene.

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02:18:05,400 --> 02:18:08,920
Speaker 1: Yes, totally so, according to Kat, he seemed very very

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02:18:09,000 --> 02:18:13,120
Speaker 1: troubled from what he heard from all sides. As for Amy,

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02:18:14,080 --> 02:18:17,680
Speaker 1: he's radio silent. Tom has told Sophie that she's acting

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02:18:17,800 --> 02:18:21,320
Speaker 1: like nothing is wrong, but is clearly stressed out that

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02:18:21,440 --> 02:18:23,680
Speaker 1: when her children ask, she makes the same sort of

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02:18:23,760 --> 02:18:26,840
Speaker 1: claims that I'm having some sort of emotional nervous breakdown

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02:18:27,160 --> 02:18:30,160
Speaker 1: and pushing her away as well as Luke doesn't mention

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02:18:30,360 --> 02:18:33,280
Speaker 1: anything about my accusing them of an affair, but it

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02:18:33,400 --> 02:18:37,520
Speaker 1: still puts it all on me. Sur prize surprise, yep.

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02:18:37,760 --> 02:18:40,720
Speaker 1: Amy has not reached out to talk to me directly,

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02:18:40,800 --> 02:18:43,039
Speaker 1: and I haven't tried talking with her since her big

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02:18:43,120 --> 02:18:46,680
Speaker 1: argument I really told my kids. I haven't really told

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02:18:46,720 --> 02:18:49,520
Speaker 1: my kids anything, just that I'm having disagreements with Luke

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02:18:49,520 --> 02:18:51,760
Speaker 1: and Amy, though I was very clear that it's not

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02:18:51,920 --> 02:18:55,440
Speaker 1: a question of my mental health. Honestly, I think all

2379
02:18:55,640 --> 02:18:58,360
Speaker 1: of I think they all kind of know what's going on.

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02:18:58,959 --> 02:19:01,760
Speaker 1: Sophie continues to be my rock as I tried to

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02:19:01,840 --> 02:19:04,520
Speaker 1: be there for her and the others, and Tom continues

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02:19:04,600 --> 02:19:07,800
Speaker 1: to be our spy in the ranks. God blessed Tom,

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02:19:08,600 --> 02:19:12,320
Speaker 1: Tom w spy Tom double agent. Yes, right now. My

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02:19:12,440 --> 02:19:15,240
Speaker 1: biggest regret is the stress that all of this is

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02:19:15,400 --> 02:19:18,880
Speaker 1: causing on the children, which I knew it would, but

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02:19:19,000 --> 02:19:22,360
Speaker 1: it still needed to be done. My life has fallen apart,

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02:19:23,400 --> 02:19:27,360
Speaker 1: but it was never by life.

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02:19:28,000 --> 02:19:32,160
Speaker 2: That's so true and poetic, beautiful.

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02:19:33,560 --> 02:19:38,640
Speaker 1: Guess how many words that was? Guess six thousand? Nope,

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02:19:39,360 --> 02:19:41,360
Speaker 1: more ten it was?

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02:19:41,520 --> 02:19:44,480
Speaker 3: It was ninety three hundred, dude. Someone said it was

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02:19:44,520 --> 02:19:48,800
Speaker 3: three thousand words. Someone said that, yeah, who was awesome.

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02:19:48,959 --> 02:19:50,280
Speaker 3: I will find them, we will I.

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02:19:50,320 --> 02:19:54,040
Speaker 1: Know who are you, we find you. I will find

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02:19:54,120 --> 02:19:56,840
Speaker 1: them on the morning meeting tomorrow. But it was a

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02:19:56,920 --> 02:20:00,640
Speaker 1: great story. Great, I mean absolutely great story honestly, just saga,

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Speaker 1: freaking incredible.

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02:20:02,040 --> 02:20:03,240
Speaker 2: Really was a saga.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? All right, gang, we only have a

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02:20:05,640 --> 02:20:07,959
Speaker 1: few minutes left. Any any closing thoughts for us?

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02:20:08,000 --> 02:20:09,560
Speaker 2: Lauren, I'm tired.

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02:20:09,800 --> 02:20:16,000
Speaker 1: You had your first long stream? What'd you think? It was? Fun? Right?

2403
02:20:16,160 --> 02:20:19,920
Speaker 2: Honestly, I didn't really notice the time go by that much.

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02:20:20,080 --> 02:20:24,040
Speaker 1: It's been four and a half hours. Isn't that insane?

2405
02:20:24,160 --> 02:20:27,080
Speaker 1: Like literally, you get in this chair and you talk

2406
02:20:27,200 --> 02:20:30,800
Speaker 1: with chat, you read the stories, you do not freaking notice. Yeah,

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02:20:31,120 --> 02:20:32,120
Speaker 1: it's insanity.

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02:20:32,640 --> 02:20:38,040
Speaker 2: It's crazy because like I I notice time, especially like

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02:20:38,200 --> 02:20:41,160
Speaker 2: if I'm not enjoying what I'm doing. Yes, I feel

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02:20:41,360 --> 02:20:46,520
Speaker 2: every second cash so hey, you know that means I

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02:20:46,760 --> 02:20:46,960
Speaker 2: like it.

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02:20:47,600 --> 02:20:49,080
Speaker 1: Seconds? Did you feel past this time?

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02:20:49,440 --> 02:20:49,480
Speaker 2: What?

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02:20:49,920 --> 02:20:51,720
Speaker 1: How many seconds did you feel past this time?

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02:20:54,120 --> 02:20:54,280
Speaker 2: Ten?

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02:20:55,000 --> 02:20:58,800
Speaker 1: Whoa? Yeah? I was gonna ask Siri much it said,

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02:20:58,840 --> 02:21:04,760
Speaker 1: turn on Siri you how many seconds are in four

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02:21:04,800 --> 02:21:06,720
Speaker 1: and a half hours? We've been a love for four

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02:21:06,760 --> 02:21:11,120
Speaker 1: hours and six minutes to bad, sixteen undred seconds. I'm

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02:21:11,120 --> 02:21:11,480
Speaker 1: going with that.

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02:21:11,959 --> 02:21:13,039
Speaker 2: That's a lot of seconds.

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02:21:13,080 --> 02:21:19,160
Speaker 1: I'm going with that. Yep. Seconds, Yeah, I think we

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02:21:19,240 --> 02:21:21,800
Speaker 1: have some donus to read. Y hu, let me reading

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02:21:21,879 --> 02:21:24,959
Speaker 1: to you. Minie Rider, thanks for the five bucks. Also

2425
02:21:25,040 --> 02:21:28,080
Speaker 1: cool name came back just in time to get some

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02:21:28,160 --> 02:21:29,640
Speaker 1: more time and let's go. Okay, fam, I might have

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02:21:29,680 --> 02:21:31,440
Speaker 1: read that before, but so nice. I've read it twice.

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02:21:31,640 --> 02:21:36,080
Speaker 1: Yayniclon TV, thanks for the five books. Hey, watch you

2429
02:21:36,160 --> 02:21:39,480
Speaker 1: guys daily as part of my relaxation after work routine.

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02:21:39,959 --> 02:21:42,160
Speaker 1: Excited to finally catch a live Thanks for all the

2431
02:21:42,200 --> 02:21:45,240
Speaker 1: great stories. Hey, nicolel In, did you ever consider that

2432
02:21:45,360 --> 02:21:48,960
Speaker 1: you're a great person and you rock? Why don't you

2433
02:21:49,000 --> 02:21:49,520
Speaker 1: think about that?

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02:21:49,959 --> 02:21:52,840
Speaker 2: Think about it? Consider it? That's right, take some time

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02:21:53,240 --> 02:21:54,160
Speaker 2: during your routine.

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02:21:55,280 --> 02:21:56,800
Speaker 1: I think, bruly, dude.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday was pretty fun for me. I went to a

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02:22:00,760 --> 02:22:05,800
Speaker 3: birthday party thing yesterday about it so it was one

2439
02:22:05,840 --> 02:22:10,240
Speaker 3: of our buddies. He did some animation in la Uh.

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02:22:10,440 --> 02:22:15,360
Speaker 3: He's from Minnesota, and I took him out for Sunday

2441
02:22:15,480 --> 02:22:18,720
Speaker 3: like a little brunch thing, and then his birthday was yesterday,

2442
02:22:18,760 --> 02:22:22,200
Speaker 3: so me and Christian went out and shot guns and

2443
02:22:22,320 --> 02:22:25,960
Speaker 3: then we grilled steaks and potatoes and then talked about

2444
02:22:26,080 --> 02:22:28,119
Speaker 3: Juice World and it was pretty good.

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02:22:28,240 --> 02:22:30,040
Speaker 1: Christian's a good shot. Uh.

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02:22:30,520 --> 02:22:33,680
Speaker 3: And our buddy was like, oh dude, nice grouping because

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02:22:33,720 --> 02:22:37,000
Speaker 3: like I always grew up with guns and everything, and

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02:22:37,200 --> 02:22:39,440
Speaker 3: it was it was fun. Like I was like, I

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02:22:39,520 --> 02:22:42,360
Speaker 3: have to show him when I shot, and I think I.

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02:22:42,360 --> 02:22:43,120
Speaker 1: Did, and you did it.

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02:22:43,760 --> 02:22:44,640
Speaker 2: You shot your shot.

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02:22:44,760 --> 02:22:47,240
Speaker 1: I did shoot my shot. Yeah, you shooted your shot

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02:22:47,320 --> 02:22:51,160
Speaker 1: at and it landed. Yeah, yeah, it was. It was

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02:22:51,160 --> 02:22:54,400
Speaker 1: a good time. I was surprised, like, I like, there

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02:22:54,440 --> 02:22:58,080
Speaker 1: were those things in La yes.

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02:22:58,160 --> 02:23:01,360
Speaker 2: And also the fact that like an animator would want

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02:23:01,400 --> 02:23:02,560
Speaker 2: to do that is interesting.

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02:23:02,879 --> 02:23:04,840
Speaker 1: Hey's from Minnesota. Minnesota.

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02:23:05,000 --> 02:23:08,800
Speaker 2: Well that makes sense. That makes sense, I guess. Usually

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02:23:08,920 --> 02:23:11,960
Speaker 2: animators are like really, I mean, I wouldn't really know

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02:23:12,000 --> 02:23:14,879
Speaker 2: because I'm not an animator, but they seem more like.

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02:23:15,040 --> 02:23:17,400
Speaker 1: Recluse, what are you trying to stay?

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02:23:17,800 --> 02:23:20,000
Speaker 2: I'm trying to say that animators have no lives.

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02:23:20,959 --> 02:23:25,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he stays up to like four and to animate. Yeah,

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02:23:26,920 --> 02:23:29,480
Speaker 1: good on, TikTok. It's part for the course. Are for

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02:23:29,720 --> 02:23:32,440
Speaker 1: the course. But you know what else par for the course?

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02:23:32,640 --> 02:23:35,400
Speaker 1: What the fact that stream men's right now? Of course,

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02:23:35,800 --> 02:23:38,720
Speaker 1: I literally perfectly timed that and it worked so well.

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02:23:39,000 --> 02:23:42,440
Speaker 1: So beautiful guys. Uh, this is the fourth and maybe

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02:23:42,520 --> 02:23:46,560
Speaker 1: the final sign a sign off. Are are you ready, Lauren?

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02:23:46,680 --> 02:23:50,519
Speaker 1: I'm so ready. If you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 1: Oh and we love you and see you tomorrow.