1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: I'm reading your Morality Monday that you sent morality Morality, 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: Morality Monday that you sendbodies. I know it's Wednesday, but 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: what we have here? Where's the original thing? Because there's 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: a lot of comments here. People are mad. Dear Abby. 5 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: I was shocked to eatr response to host it out. 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: This is a Dear Abbey Morality Monday who was frustrated 7 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: at having to host, feed, and entertain her husband's hunting 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: buddy and his wife several times a year. I grieve 9 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: you with your suggestion that she stay elsewhere while these 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: friends stay at her home so her husband will see 11 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: the light when he's the one doing the cooking and 12 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: the hosting. But then you made the comment that you 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 1: can't believe the friend's wife doesn't help with the cooking 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: and entertaining, and how lazy and insensitive she must be. 15 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: The apparently thatmic's Abby. So what's the story here, Paulina. 16 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: You sent this to me, so basically it said, let 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: me click on the original post. So it's a woman 18 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: who's tired to hosted her buddies. 19 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 2: Correct or her husband's buddy buddies. 20 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: With cat Lady storing on it. Want that one? Okay? 21 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: Dear Abby, Dear Abby, dear friend. Well, I'm just a 22 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: straight stradup jackas uh? Is that still? 23 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 2: By the way, Oh my god, it's like a famous commis, 24 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: isn't it. 25 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: You've never heard of, dear Abby. No, Oh, it's kind 26 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 1: of like it. I don't know. It's from newspaper days, 27 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: I think. But people would write her and ask for advice. 28 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: This is before you had us, right, you know, this 29 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: is before you get in morning radio to help solve 30 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: all your problems. 31 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 2: She was born in nineteen eighteen. No, that's her who 32 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 2: Pauline Esther Phillips. Hey are you girl? Also known as Abigail? Okay, 33 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: all right, anyway, thanks. 34 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate that. So my husband is an outdoor 35 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: enthusiast and has a group of guys that he goes 36 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: hunting with every year. One of them has started coming 37 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: out west to vacation at our home twice a year 38 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: and now has followed us to our warm weather winter home. 39 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh we have multiple homes, all right, an not feeling 40 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: bad for you. When he stays at our place, we 41 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: fix all the meals and he uses our washer, dryer 42 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: and urgent for several loads of laundry each time. He's 43 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: a longtime friend and brings his spouse, with whom I 44 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: get along well. But as time goes on, their visits 45 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: are becoming more frequent and longer in length. Always being 46 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: the host and entertaining makes me anxious. My husband can't 47 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: seem to understand what my issue is when I try 48 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: and talk with him about it. But I feel that 49 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: seeing these folks a couple times a year is more 50 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: than enough to keep the friendship going. How can I 51 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: get my husband to understand my side without ruining the friendship? 52 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: Abby died in twenty thirteen. By the way, it's a show, Abbey. 53 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: The hell's who's writing this? 54 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 3: It must have been It must be like how you 55 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 3: talk about when the show goes on, you know, after 56 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 3: someone passes old ones, or like I or somebody else's Abbey. 57 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. 58 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like her daughter take it or something. 59 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: I don't know who the hell is you ask me that. 60 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 2: Now, I'll go find that rock. 61 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: Now you can still you can still write, and you 62 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: can still go to Dear Abbe dot com. 63 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: Go to Abby Okay. 64 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: Well, hold on. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, 65 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: also known as Genie Phillips and was founded by her mum. Okayeah, 66 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: Pauline Phillips. 67 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go, that's what I was reading about. 68 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: Okay. Anyway, so what do you do? I don't know 69 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: about morality, all right, well let's make it immoral. I say, 70 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: you just kill him, Just kill him, killim may cake 71 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: him over anymore. I mean, I've never trying to make 72 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: this mean. What's the morality aspect to this? 73 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 4: I think the morality aspect would be the husband getting 74 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 4: it together and if he wants his little buddies over, 75 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 4: then you do you handle it? I love that advice 76 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 4: that she gave of you going away. She goes to 77 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 4: her little like spa weekend whatever it might be, and 78 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 4: then he realizes how much work it is. 79 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: Hosting is a lot of work, Yes it is, and 80 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: I'm discovering that. 81 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 4: And my mother in law, bless her heart, she hosts 82 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: every Sunday for her in laws, and I'm just like this, 83 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 4: a lot of people, a lot of food, a lot 84 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 4: of time. 85 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what Abbie said, or Abbie's daughter said, was 86 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: go get a hotel room. Basically, yes, I love your 87 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: husband has to assume all the responsibility for these freeloading friends. 88 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: He'll see the light, see how quick he stops. 89 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: And then she does also mention that it's lazy and 90 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: insensitive of the wife of the friend to let you 91 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: do all the work and be hosted not help. Yeah, 92 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: wait for the due Yeah, which I guess if you're 93 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: using somebody else, especially if you're not really if you're 94 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: inviting yourself, then I think the least you can do is, 95 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: you know, carry your own weight, right, I mean, like 96 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: offer to help out and that just sit around. I 97 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: mean I don't even care if you were invited by 98 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: someone else. If you're staying in someone's house, you should 99 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: help them, right Oh yeah, Oh, I mean like keep 100 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: your to keep your area clean and offer to help 101 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: with you know, whatever is going on, right, I mean 102 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 1: I don't if I stay at my friends at homes 103 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: or my sister's house, I don't expect to be waited on. 104 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: That's not part of the deal. So you got to 105 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: help out. So if you're if you're just showing up 106 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: and like, here's my laundry and where's the food, and 107 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: now let's go, I don't know, hunts for whatever we're 108 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: hunting for, Yeah, I don't. Yeah, no, I'm saying, let's 109 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: make key, let's make this immoral, Like I say, let's 110 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: this is this is this is far too uh plug 111 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: in for me. This is this is like yeah, get messy. Yeah, 112 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: I say, this is what you do. Okay, you put 113 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: a big pineapple flag out in front of your house, 114 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: so when your friends come growing up, it's like, oh, 115 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: and then when they ask it if they don't know 116 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: already what the pineapple means, and then when they ask, hey, 117 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: what's up with the pineapple? Or we're swingers and we're 118 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 1: having some folks over, but you know, part of the 119 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: deal is everybody has to sing here. I know. And 120 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: so maybe either they're gonna get excited and come to 121 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,359 Speaker 1: stay more, or they're gonna be like, oh, not for us, 122 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: and they're gonna go stay at a hotel. Great idea, yeah, Kiki, 123 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: how would you handle this? 124 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 5: The problem is I like the idea that she wants 125 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 5: to teach her husband or lesson by getting a hotel room. 126 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 5: The problem is I would be in my hotel room 127 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 5: pacing the floor having total anxiety because I don't like 128 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 5: when other people clean my house. I don't like when 129 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 5: other people do chores at my house. For some reason, 130 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 5: like I don't know. I don't like the feeling. I 131 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 5: feel like you're not going to do it right. I 132 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 5: feel like that's for me to do. So, Like even 133 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 5: though she wants to show him, to teach him a lesson, 134 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 5: I don't think she would get rest. 135 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 2: You would still be worried about them people being in 136 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:57,119 Speaker 2: your house. Good point. 137 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think that my if I'm married, I 138 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: don't know that my friend's coming over a couple of 139 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: times a year to stay and hang out is that 140 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: big of a deal. But I gotta I gotta be 141 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: doing stuff like I gotta. I gotta be as involved 142 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: in this, or more involved in this than than than 143 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: my wife is. In entertaining my friends and you know whatever, 144 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: do whatever for cooking and cleaning and preparing. They're my friends, right, 145 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: So I can't. I can't just be like, hey, these 146 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: guys are coming, they're not gonna help. I'm not gonna help. 147 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: So you know, here you go figure it out. Yeah, host, 148 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: I have an adequate question. So if I I can't 149 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: ask five seconds. 150 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:37,679 Speaker 2: Behind you, I'm sorry. 151 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. The later, well, here, let me count to get 152 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: you caught up. Okay, when you stay at someone's house. Okay, 153 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: do you make it like when you leave. When you 154 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,359 Speaker 1: leave the house, it's like your time to go to 155 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: the airport or whatever. You stayed at their house, you 156 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,239 Speaker 1: slept in this bed for a couple of days or whatever. 157 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: I've heard two schools of thought. The first is every 158 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: like a piece of linen that you've touched, Strip it, 159 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: pile it up, put it on the bed so it's 160 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: like ready to be washed. Okay. My problem with that is, like, 161 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: as a person who I don't know, is I have 162 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: a little bit of OCD and anxiousness. Right if someone's 163 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: staying in my guest room that I don't have, and 164 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: then they just tear the place up in an effort 165 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: to help it so it's easier for me to clean, 166 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: I guess then it looks like crap until I immediately 167 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: fix it. Like now I have to go right in there. 168 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: If I'm gonna see this room and clean it and 169 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: fix it and make it better. What I usually do, 170 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: knowing that it's already gonna get cleaned anyway, is just 171 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: try and leave the room exactly as I found it, 172 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: Like make the bed, put it, make it perfect, so 173 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: at least that my host is not obligated to instantly 174 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: go straight in the room up. 175 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 4: Now. 176 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: I understand they still have to strip the bed and whatever, 177 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: but they're gonna have to do it anyway. They're gonna 178 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: have to go in there and undo everything anyway. So 179 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: I try and make it like perfect, like exactly the 180 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: way that I found it, because that way, you know, 181 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:55,679 Speaker 1: that way, they don't feel like as soon as they leave, Okay, 182 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: now I got to go clean this room is all 183 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: messed up. What do you guys think? This is important? 184 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: These are important etiquet questions that we're tackling so early. 185 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 2: I always ask the host want me to do. 186 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, because some people like that may bother you that 187 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 3: the room store up, but some people don't mind, and 188 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 3: they'd rather you have put it all in the laundry room, 189 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. 190 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 2: They don't want to strip the bed themselves. 191 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 3: So I always ask the host, what would you like 192 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 3: me to do with the sheeps. 193 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: Because like, maybe I don't maybe maybe I don't feel 194 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: like doing it today, like I just had you over 195 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: all week. I don't feel like cleaning that room. 196 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 2: But if you just left the room like that, though, 197 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: I messed up, Yeah, just messed up. 198 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that's wrong. Like if I'm staying at someone 199 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: oh forever. 200 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: Would it be okay to just leave it for a 201 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 2: night and then get to it tomorrow. 202 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah no, I but only if it's like, if it 203 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: looks presentable, if it's all torn up, then no, I 204 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: got to go in there and fix it. Yeah. No, 205 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't just leave a disarray. No, it's a thing. 206 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 2: No, I can't rest. 207 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't. No, I wouldn't go right in there. I 208 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: don't know. It's it's it's it's the amy and me, 209 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: it's the mom and me. Like we come home from vacation, 210 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: doesn't matter if it's two in the morning with kids, 211 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 1: give me your laundry, really immediately, bags unpacked, Give me 212 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: your laundry. And my mom would be in there at 213 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: too in the morning, and she'd get a load going 214 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: because like she didn't want to wake up the next 215 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: day with a bag full of clothes and laundry and 216 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: all this stuff. It didn't matter. So now it doesn't 217 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: matter when I get home. If I get home at 218 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: two in the morning, bag gets unpacked, laundry goes in 219 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: or at least goes in the hamper. Because I don't 220 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: want to, like, you know, let's say, get home on 221 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: a Sunday night late, I don't really want to come 222 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: back Monday after work and be like, oh well I 223 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: got to handle on. I got a bag full of 224 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: crap now, you know. But I'm also the same guy 225 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: who basically dresses from the dryer. My drawers are the dryer, 226 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: and if it's wrinkled, then I spray it with that 227 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 1: stuff that makes it not wrinkled anymore, and off I go. 228 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 2: So, yeah, there you go. You're a wild time. 229 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: Do you make the bed when you're staying in someone's home, 230 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 1: like if you're gonna get back, Like let's say it's 231 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 1: the Friday and you're staying till Sunday and you wake 232 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: up on Saturday morning, do you make the bed at 233 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: whether you would at home or not? Do you make 234 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: the bed in the place, you know, in the place 235 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 1: where you're staying, Yes, of course should I do too. 236 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 5: Always treat someone else's house better than I treat my own. 237 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it people's house that I. 238 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: Would never do. 239 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 5: I'm washing your base boards, I'm wiping down count like 240 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 5: I don't do any of that own. 241 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 2: I don't make a bed every. 242 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 1: Day, No, see I don't either. But on on the like, 243 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: if I'm staying in someone's house, I don't want them 244 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: walking by, you know, even though it's my room for 245 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: the weekend, I don't want them walking by and be 246 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: like what kind of what the slob is? Right, because 247 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to make them uncomfortable because I'm just 248 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: organized in messy. Do you take stuff out and put 249 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: in the drawers when you stay in someone's home, do 250 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: you unpack because some people do that in the hotel? 251 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 1: You do you take so you unpack, Like if you're 252 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: staying in my house of the weekend, you're gonna unpack 253 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: and use the empty drawers, yes, or the closet uh 254 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: huh okay, So like just out of your bag is 255 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 1: not gonna work. 256 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 6: No, no, no, I can't imagine like leaving everything in 257 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 6: my suitcase and like rummaging through it. 258 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 2: It's all over the place, Like absolutely not, because. 259 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: Like my quote unquote guest room that I have is 260 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 1: not a bed in there. That closet is not a 261 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:03,839 Speaker 1: I guess that's storage. Like if you opened it, it 262 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: would be like, oh well, never mind. 263 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 6: Then I would be forced to But things have to 264 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 6: stay folded or hung or like whatever, what. 265 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: About a hotel? Do you unpack into a hotel? Oh? Yeah, 266 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: into the drawers and everything into the closet, I hang stuff? 267 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: Why why? 268 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 2: Because then I. 269 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 6: Could see everything I brought and everything's still folded, and 270 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 6: like nice. 271 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: But you could see everything you brought in your own 272 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 1: suitcase and that way is like right there. Well, because 273 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 1: you just live through it and then just leave it, 274 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: it just unfolded everywhere. I'd be afraid I'd leave a 275 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,839 Speaker 1: whole drawer closed or something. Plus like who else is 276 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: in there? Like what's going on? 277 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 6: I checked the room no less than twenty five times 278 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 6: before I leave a hotel room. It's insane. 279 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: Well, to strip the bed thing was very popular. Let 280 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: me see here. We built a new house. I love 281 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: hosting it because you have a new house. That might 282 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: be because you got a fancy new house. 283 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: There you go. 284 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: So it's like, everybody, come look at my fancy new house. 285 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 1: And she should Yeah, no, there you go, you should. 286 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: I bet she'd come home to a complete mess. Yes, 287 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: that's too. The Kiki's point is it like if she 288 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: just lets it, if she lets them just go about 289 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: their on their own devices, then who the hell knows? 290 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 1: Because apparently he's a bunch. It's a bunch of inconsiderate 291 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: people who are not helping out right, So like she 292 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: can walk into a probably bigger mess, and she would 293 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: have if she just stayed. Yeah, that's probably true. I 294 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 1: stripped the bed, but then I make the bed using 295 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: the comforter and the decorative pillows. Oh now that's nice. 296 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I like it. 297 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: But then I have to I would have to undo 298 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: that to make the bed. So it's like make the bed, 299 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: don't make the bed. 300 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 6: No, I replace the sheets. So like I strip it 301 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 6: and then if there's like sheets in the closet or whatever, 302 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 6: I put the new sheets on. You do uh huh Oh, 303 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 6: I've never get with the whole new get up and 304 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 6: then give them all the old linens. So literally I'm 305 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 6: ready to like get back in and if I come back. 306 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: Wow, I've never gone to that extent, like to look 307 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: around and see if there are other linens. 308 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 6: Yeah wow, Okay, Well that's what it's for, right, so 309 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:57,439 Speaker 6: use it. 310 00:12:57,640 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: See Jason, Like, I'll come home the whole house is clean. 311 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 1: He cleaned the whole house. He's the guest you want, Yeah, exactly, 312 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: he cleaned the whole house. He filled up all the 313 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: drawers with his things him. Yeah, no, I can't. Now 314 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: that's the most surprising part of this morality Monday. First 315 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: of all, it was really nothing immoral about it. I 316 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 1: think I wanted to make it immoral desperately, but I 317 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: was not able to do that. 318 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 4: I think it's immoral that they're even staying at his 319 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 4: house that many times a year. 320 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 2: That's emails. 321 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 1: Well, that's immoralmoral, What is it? He said? More immoral? 322 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 2: Is it immoral? 323 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 4: No? 324 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 2: No, I'm not confused. 325 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 1: I am immoral, Okay, immoral, immoral, it's immoral. Tell me, 326 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: tell me to get an uber that Polinone. 327 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: Invented, Yes, alvacado toast for lunch. 328 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, and get the hell out swice and morals. Go 329 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: be immoral at a hotel. It's right down the street. 330 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:49,839 Speaker 1: There's a nice days in free breakfast too, so you 331 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: don't eat my food. Trending stories are next.