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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the COLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Shell in Kansas City. Shell says,

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Speaker 1: I'm forty four years old. My husband just bought a

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Speaker 1: new car and he doesn't want me to drive it.

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Speaker 1: I don't value material things like he does, so I

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Speaker 1: don't mind if he drives my bins. He said, I

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Speaker 1: drive badly, Well, so does he. Why is he tripping

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Speaker 1: like this over his car?

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Speaker 2: First of all, let's deal with what you said.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you said you don't value material.

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Speaker 2: Things like he does, but like he does, but you

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Speaker 2: let him drive your bins.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I didn't think that was necessary in this conversation,

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Speaker 3: because really what we're talking about is he don't want

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Speaker 3: you to drive his car. But you all materialistic because

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Speaker 3: if you wasn't, you wouldn't have bought the beans, you'd

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Speaker 3: the bought.

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Speaker 2: A pre Can Go, except.

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Speaker 3: You buy business so you could flex well, because he

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Speaker 3: know you are not the X part the second part,

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Speaker 3: he don't want you to drive his car cause you drive.

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Speaker 3: See when he said because you drive bad, you didn't

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Speaker 3: say no, I don't. You said he does too, which

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Speaker 3: means the rims on that bens is scarred up you

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Speaker 3: got little dings and dits all over your beins.

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Speaker 2: Because you drive badly.

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Speaker 3: What you need to get one of them cars with

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Speaker 3: that automatic park thing on it.

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Speaker 2: That's what you need to do.

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Speaker 3: And he not gonna let you ding up his new

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Speaker 3: rims and put all the little beings on his car.

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Speaker 3: You drive bads, No, we're not gonna. We gotta get

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Speaker 3: him out if they ain't on that. Why when you

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Speaker 3: drive your car? Why always something gotta happen.

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Speaker 1: So I'm a little close to the car.

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Speaker 2: Next, you ain't not close? You too close? You hit it?

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Speaker 2: You drive bad to Yeah, but I don't hit nothing

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Speaker 2: driver because you have a driver.

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Speaker 4: You next question Anita and Madison says, a good friend

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Speaker 4: of mine and has gained weight, and she goes to

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Speaker 4: eat with our group, and we all feel like we're

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Speaker 4: doing her a disservice by not saying anything to her.

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Speaker 1: Should I pull her to the side and risk hurting

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Speaker 1: her feelings or should I mind my business to the side.

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Speaker 3: Cause there's a thing out now called fat shaming, So

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Speaker 3: to avoid that, I must answer this question different.

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Speaker 2: Let me just use me and my friends as an example.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I'm not even talking to this letter We

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Speaker 3: have friends in our group that have gained weight, and

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Speaker 3: right now it's a health issue, so we have to

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Speaker 3: talk to them different to.

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Speaker 2: Your They don't take hints, they eat. They eat.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So like when the bill come, we just hand

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Speaker 3: the bill to them. Because you ordered the most, and

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Speaker 3: if we split this even it don't work out because

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Speaker 3: you had the most. You are the four appetizers because

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Speaker 3: you couldn't make up your mind which one you wanted.

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Speaker 2: So you wanted to taste everything.

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Speaker 3: You just split two on trees because you couldn't figure

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Speaker 3: out which one you want, So you are that both

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Speaker 3: of them and dessert. Now them sides you got. The

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Speaker 3: lady told us these are share plates. How you eat

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Speaker 3: all the coin mass all of them? How you ate

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Speaker 3: all other skillet potatoes?

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Speaker 2: All of them?

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Speaker 3: And we love you and we want you here. You

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Speaker 3: have got to scoot your big behind. I'm under this table.

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Speaker 3: It's just how I know you finna eat a lot?

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Speaker 3: Will you take your shoes off to eat something? This

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Speaker 3: is way past unsnapping your pants. You have took your

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Speaker 3: shoes off so you could dig your toes into the

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Speaker 3: hard wood so when you chewing you can get extra grip.

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Speaker 3: That's a big person? Are those are big people tactics?

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Speaker 1: When are you quite done?

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Speaker 3: You insist that they bring you a chair with arms

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Speaker 3: on it so you can lean to the side. Why

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Speaker 3: are you chewing?

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Speaker 2: See?

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Speaker 3: That's that's that's big people do stuff like that. You

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Speaker 3: as a desk chair because you excuse me? Excuse me?

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Speaker 3: Can I get two extra naps? Who does that?

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Speaker 2: You did your own business? Big people?

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Speaker 3: You gotta put one up round your shirt collar. You

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Speaker 3: gotta lay one in your lap and one for your

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Speaker 3: mouth because it's too much food.

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Speaker 2: All right, we're moving right here, We're moving on.

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Speaker 1: This is from Calen.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, excuse me, We are done. I just said,

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Speaker 2: excuse me. I'm gonna need full.

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Speaker 1: Fox check please check me, please check please, because you're crazy.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna need faux fox from moving on.

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Speaker 1: Caleb in Albany writes, my wife called me and I

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Speaker 1: was in the bathroom at work, and she kept asking

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Speaker 1: me questions after I told her I would call it

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Speaker 1: right back. I'm sick of her not respecting me when

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Speaker 1: I tell her I can't talk. But if I start

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Speaker 1: hanging up on her, will she understand that?

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Speaker 3: Well, you was in the bathroom because of what you

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Speaker 3: ordered yesterday. Technic, this is the same person. Because when

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Speaker 3: you're in that bathroom you have to focus. You can't

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Speaker 3: take phone calls. Because when you then eight the all

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Speaker 3: the coin mash by yourself and had that extra broccolini

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Speaker 3: with that cheese on it, and you ordered them faux fox.

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Speaker 2: This is what's happening now.

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Speaker 3: Now you're in the bathroom and you need total privacy.

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Speaker 2: They don't go together.

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Speaker 4: He had weren't.

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Speaker 2: Using the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Now he got the time and waiting on people to

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Speaker 3: leave out so he could flushed.

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Speaker 4: Stop the other the letter was from Tanita. This is

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Speaker 4: some calem and is a different party.

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Speaker 3: Caleb is flushing flushing four five times.

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Speaker 2: You ain't here too much. I'm just telling you, okay.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on because you obviously have no

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Speaker 1: help for this person.

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Speaker 3: Okay, don't worry about that. It's just from what you

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Speaker 3: ate yesterday. Caleb, say that name Caleb. You ever seen

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Speaker 3: a skinny Caleb?

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Speaker 2: Caleb? We're moving on. This is the last one.

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Speaker 1: Demetria in Charleston, I know, right at church on Easter Sunday,

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Speaker 1: the pastor guess the pastors as the visitors to stand

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Speaker 1: and he couldn't, I.

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Speaker 3: Guess because that's what huh stand? I know, cause you

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Speaker 3: couldn't because of what you ate the other day. Now

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Speaker 3: you're in church and they didn't asked you to stand

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Speaker 3: and your big behind can't get up because you're pulling

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Speaker 3: the pew last time and total and total tote the

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Speaker 3: book rack off of it.

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Speaker 2: But they had the little hymn books.

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Speaker 3: You tried to pull that and you toe that him

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Speaker 3: book racked off the back of a pew.

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Speaker 2: So not asking you.

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Speaker 3: To stand, and you can't stand because of what you

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Speaker 3: ate the whole order or corn mash, that's what. Now

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Speaker 3: you've been in the bathroom mash. Now you're at church

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Speaker 3: on Easton. You can't stand what it cause? Your Easter

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Speaker 3: suit in there you bought two weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Don't snap in the front all right?

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Speaker 1: Feel oh I can't you have? Really you have got.

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Speaker 3: To help these people with these weight problems in quick

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Speaker 3: Where about hurting a feelings?

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show