WEBVTT - Ep 228: That's Just My Baby Daddy (Ft. Ian Dunlap)

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decision. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful people all around the world, Welcome to your what

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like that either, God give it now. It's better. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a little better. Okay. Welcome guys to another

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<v Speaker 1>episode of Horrible Decisions. I am your girl, Mandy b

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<v Speaker 1>a k A full corp pumps a k A pet

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<v Speaker 1>Stallion a ka Mandy Baskins a k A debt bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh yeah, I'm back baby. You see their crylic

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<v Speaker 1>nails were back in full effect. Y'all ain't gonna here

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<v Speaker 1>about me like a no nigga, no mo. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have all the hose. Okay, Hey, and I am joined

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<v Speaker 1>by are you saying that's how you bright? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>I I am busy. Someone told me I have white

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<v Speaker 1>girl diction but in a black girl tonality. Jesus, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't let me know. But yeah, it means you by

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<v Speaker 1>Rachel Okay, I mean which? Okay, my name is Wheezy

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<v Speaker 1>and I am mathematic and we are joined by um

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<v Speaker 1>some you may have heard his ads on her show before,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe on a Patreon episode. A fan of Horrible

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<v Speaker 1>Decisions who is now a friend of mine and hoping

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<v Speaker 1>Mandy can get into some stocks chat because I think

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<v Speaker 1>you'll like them. I mean, Sure is getting me in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye shout out, shout out to earn your leisure. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know we talked briefly, but then we were supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do drinks and you just act like you got

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<v Speaker 1>too busy to pull up so heat. He would be real,

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<v Speaker 1>he would be a real like have like tendencies. He

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<v Speaker 1>Zulu ship now though I don't do the quincys on here,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, oh didn't you introduce him? Yes? Ian Dunlap,

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<v Speaker 1>the master investor. UM tell us about the project you're

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<v Speaker 1>on how where people may have known you from. You

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<v Speaker 1>may see me on market Money's with earn your Leisure

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<v Speaker 1>and shout out trying and shot um working on Unfiltered

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Shout out wayo, Alex you and uh I

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<v Speaker 1>got a couple other projects coming out to people not

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<v Speaker 1>sure do know to be excited about pretty soon. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know a little bit of well talk. I heard

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, but help people get the back. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not here to talk about stocks today. On Patreon. He

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<v Speaker 1>did give us some stock tips, but Ian is a

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<v Speaker 1>daddy and me these things to be daddy's are like

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<v Speaker 1>Twilve good. That's true, but I thought it would be

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<v Speaker 1>cool to talk about just being a single dad conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with your children, like we talked about it women so often.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was just like, wh're not And I think

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<v Speaker 1>we've even talked about doing this episode before. But then

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<v Speaker 1>when Ian came to town, I was like, this is perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the icebreakers I have for you, which you

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<v Speaker 1>got to be ready, but you're about to start hot

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<v Speaker 1>right of course, last time you came, how was it

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<v Speaker 1>when it was not? Not the was it came here?

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<v Speaker 1>Last time you ejaculated out of your dick? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>If you watched kurbyan through Jackie, was it in someone's

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<v Speaker 1>mouth in your hand from a porn? Tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>that moment? Just what welcome to horrible decisions shout out today? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>They did? I think? I know you don't want me

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<v Speaker 1>to go too crazy, but yeah, it was amazing, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>say that. So it wasn't from a porn. So now

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not now the gen relationship like being in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, do you watch porn often or is it

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<v Speaker 1>like what you'll what's your what's your? What's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>you search um latino, big gass, step brother, step brother,

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<v Speaker 1>w incest, watch everything? Why step brothers? Is that considered incest?

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<v Speaker 1>Not really because through marriage and ship right now, because

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be trying to time when you talk about sucking

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<v Speaker 1>people with their fathers, but they wouldn't be sucking each

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<v Speaker 1>other that I would just be in the middle. Bro

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<v Speaker 1>that so much. Technically they're both just having sex with me. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is a three sona a three song. So

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait step brother? Are you a step brother? But

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<v Speaker 1>this is category that just comes up just like whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>it just comes up. Its like the acting seems Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the acting is fantastic. That's what I'm going for. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why what do they say? What's your no? No? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's just it's not like a rhyme of

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<v Speaker 1>reason to it. Like I don't be like, oh I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have like a favorite to catalog or like collection

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<v Speaker 1>and ship save. It's like I have been looking like

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<v Speaker 1>what babysitters. It's not weird and it's bad as stepbrother,

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<v Speaker 1>but weird your log or what you look at on

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<v Speaker 1>you poor? I have no shame book hockey have any

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<v Speaker 1>teen gang gang because they just only because they'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like smaller and like tinier and innocent are looking like

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<v Speaker 1>because I like girls that are subs, so I only

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<v Speaker 1>type in team because they normally have to play the

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<v Speaker 1>act up of like being a sub. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, because it's difficult to find porn where I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a girl is in a gang bang and

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<v Speaker 1>totally stepping out if it's not rough, because I can't

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<v Speaker 1>handle when they're like too. If someone's too rough with

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<v Speaker 1>black girls important, it ruins me. We're more Freddie Gibbs

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<v Speaker 1>that I got Black Lives Matter pussy. Yeah, it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true. I do get Really i'd be like in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of it and be like, oh, this is racist.

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<v Speaker 1>But the babysitter ship I do like, probably because that's

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<v Speaker 1>the life I want to live. I want like a

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<v Speaker 1>cute little babysitter that's in college and she's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for the extra money this week, or you want

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<v Speaker 1>to take advantage of your Is that what it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of take advantage if I want her to suck me too,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, yeah, she's a college college and you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>just started college and be nothing else. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the backstory of it, you know, watch for stories so

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<v Speaker 1>then when you just said you like to acting and

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<v Speaker 1>the stop, brother, that's the little bullshit I put on

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<v Speaker 1>top of it. Let me do my thing. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>ever do like the acting? Would? I love it? I

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<v Speaker 1>told you That's why I really liked when Lisa Ann

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<v Speaker 1>came on, because she's normally like a rellator and the

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<v Speaker 1>moving man coming gang banger and ship like. She's a

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<v Speaker 1>really good actor though, but that's but that's all. You

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<v Speaker 1>might have down payment? But do you have DP for me?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? Like, I really I do

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<v Speaker 1>like acting. However, now and I think I mentioned this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really and maybe because it's the only fans culture.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like amateur porn now, but like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's getting in the summer time and I do like

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<v Speaker 1>to do it by date. I do not want to

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<v Speaker 1>see your motherfucking floor ceiling the floor fan in the

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<v Speaker 1>porn because now I know the room is hot. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like the when when the environment just looks messy,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't watch niggas on mattresses on the floor

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, get a frame, but it still looks

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<v Speaker 1>claw but it's still just like no, like do some

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<v Speaker 1>decors somewhere like I've literally watched I have literally watched

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<v Speaker 1>porns where they have sheets as curtains over the windows

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<v Speaker 1>because then but it's the niggas that got them big

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<v Speaker 1>old dicks. But they just they just holped us right now.

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<v Speaker 1>They're homeless right now, so they showcasing it so they

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<v Speaker 1>can get a home. Clearly, hobo sexual girls are on

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<v Speaker 1>me that she was watching some hood point the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, like, what's the good port and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you could tell us like a gang bang initiation.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, but I try to zoom in just

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<v Speaker 1>to make the make sure the girl's consenting. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>look good for you. Yeah, And you know what's real

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<v Speaker 1>hood porn because they still go to the motels with

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<v Speaker 1>the like flowered sheets and wallpaper, and I'd be like

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<v Speaker 1>that y'all couldn't have just all collectively gotten a better

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<v Speaker 1>hotel room to do this scene, and yeah, it'd be bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I will tell you, bro. Eddie and I were like,

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<v Speaker 1>whenever I'm in l A, I'm normally staying at hotels

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<v Speaker 1>and Eddie m from for fact sake, will come and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll record together and he always has equipment and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, dude, every time I comes to your hotel room,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like people think we're about to shoot a

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what they do in l A. Right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So he left his camera equipment and so I was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time I stayed there. He said. He

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<v Speaker 1>came back and he said they were so rude. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>they thought we were making for him, bro. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes sense. The last time that we went to record, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I was on a guest on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and I remember like having a bag in my

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<v Speaker 1>room and they were like, what are you filming, dada?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh, like, it's just a YouTube thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just content. Are you sure it's YouTube? So at

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<v Speaker 1>first I thought that they were talking about like a

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<v Speaker 1>feature film, because you need you need to. Then I realized,

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<v Speaker 1>like the bishop was with yeah, and so did I.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say, but you don't act like

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<v Speaker 1>it was just the girl you were with. Look at you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hot girls something out there. You look like a

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<v Speaker 1>home you show me. I look like a lesbian sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>so you look like a lesbian hole I've met by

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<v Speaker 1>the clothes you It's not my life, But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>show you the girl. I mean I would porn star,

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<v Speaker 1>but I ain't. No, I don't know would you if

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<v Speaker 1>you ended up, let's say, ever dating a point star

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<v Speaker 1>in your life. I'm good on that. Why I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that, I think it's lame. A suddenly agree. Why

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<v Speaker 1>is the lame? I wouldn't do that, it's not what

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<v Speaker 1>not what I'm into? Well, if you did and she

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<v Speaker 1>was anonymous and she just needed your anonymous dick. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know Leo and Leia whatever, the white couple, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know white people. They're like, really, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know many. They go crazy on Twitter, like even black people.

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<v Speaker 1>You're tweeting them. That's not obviously them because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really have white points. So I was on my Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe even be nasty put them on my ship.

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<v Speaker 1>But they don't show their faces. They do really elaborate

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<v Speaker 1>porn and like the Amazon for us, like we've talked

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<v Speaker 1>about that we would we wouldn't even be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Like I can't even give a hand job

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<v Speaker 1>because of my tattoos, but I have too many. I

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<v Speaker 1>have too much ink to do anonymous point. I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking to myself, like if I had no tattoos, would

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<v Speaker 1>I ever do it, and I feel like I'd have

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<v Speaker 1>a dead give up. Or I did tell you I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna do it. Uh. Back when I was talking

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<v Speaker 1>to Lawyer Bay, Yeah, he wanted to do like comic

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<v Speaker 1>con type ship, and I said, I said, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>mind dressing up like Wonder Woman with a hole in

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<v Speaker 1>the cross area for you to funk me because I

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<v Speaker 1>knew it would cover up all my tattoos. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have a mask on. I was ready, so I would

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<v Speaker 1>probably do it that way. Actually I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>much right now. Yeah, but I don't know how much

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<v Speaker 1>My ask woul jiggle in latex. You were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>doing your feet point with the dick. Oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>would do like right now, I would get foot jobs

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<v Speaker 1>on um only fans, but I don't have my only

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<v Speaker 1>fans anymore because bits you have three pods. I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>all this other ship. Like people don't understand either. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was just I was just talking to a guy

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<v Speaker 1>points Porno Starry, but then he let me know right

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<v Speaker 1>now he doesn't have sex outside of work, not that

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to. We would just have a conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was like, um, we were talking about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like commending me on like all the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff we do. He was like, you'd be putting in

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<v Speaker 1>work and said, nigga, so do you. I watched it,

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<v Speaker 1>but also like shooting that content for even only Fanship

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<v Speaker 1>is just as complicated as you do, Master Investor. We

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<v Speaker 1>do horrible decisions on other podcasts that Only Fanship is

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of work. So when it comes to the

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<v Speaker 1>foot Ship, it's just too much work. Even though shout

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<v Speaker 1>out miss a photographer, he willing to still do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, nah, it's too much work for me

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<v Speaker 1>to upkeep it is holding to film you with Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>What a nice person. If I was like he he

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<v Speaker 1>features in some of it, so that's why I was curious.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, he's doing other dicks. I'm just oh, yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he wanted his dick, which is why I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I would want another dick. I would

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<v Speaker 1>want Sure he wanted his dick, Mandy, I'm sure you're sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to whose dick? I'm sure he wanted his dick.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course he did. And I was like, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>tie my feet up, just just put oil on them.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna do come, just do oil. Are you sure? Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know what makes this even funnier. Anybody who

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<v Speaker 1>wants a church to me, if you see this ship,

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to the congregation. We know y'all home man

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<v Speaker 1>being the chain since he was a little boy. You're

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<v Speaker 1>an adult now look stock everybody in the church. The church.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, it goes up and down. I know, freely

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<v Speaker 1>fired greenly you've been talking about church and tell us

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<v Speaker 1>if you have you ever had a threesome? Yea in

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<v Speaker 1>a threesome? Curious to know did you? Were you dating

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<v Speaker 1>one of them? So how did this start? Because a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people ask us questions about how threesomes start

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<v Speaker 1>for us, and I feel like Mandy and I, it's

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<v Speaker 1>easy for us to have up no offense, but just

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<v Speaker 1>because just because we're already like speaking. Oh no, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually was gonna say that. I was gonna say horrible

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<v Speaker 1>decisions ship. But then also what I sunk on my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd be out a lot like we'd be parted strangers.

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<v Speaker 1>I sucked my friends. That's the difference. Don't whoa bro?

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<v Speaker 1>You go down a bar? Oh my god, you're cute.

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<v Speaker 1>My nigga is cute too. You want to join us?

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<v Speaker 1>And they're not strange people. They're strangers people. Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not judging. I'm asking. I'm not judging. It's a question

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<v Speaker 1>do they me you breathe? I didn't say strange it

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube right now, y'all, y'all were strangers at one point.

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<v Speaker 1>See everybody was changing at one point though. Okay, so anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>not my friends when you had yours, where they were

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<v Speaker 1>they quote unquote strangers? Did you know him? Was it

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<v Speaker 1>a college thing? How did it happen? It was like college.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like drunk being out. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was like sports, like the popular bar at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel pressure to perform m because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know him being cared about them, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>about me. It's different if you like gave a funk

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<v Speaker 1>about one of them, you're telling me you would have

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<v Speaker 1>put a little more efvidence. Man felt more pressure. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's like when you're college, you drunk, you're having you're

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<v Speaker 1>just having phone Like I'm not like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't give my best dick ever, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>feel so funked up like I would. I'm definitely my

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<v Speaker 1>best dude, Like I'm giving my best Actually, I at you.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have to do this a lot work. They

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<v Speaker 1>didn't both get a hundred. They both didn't get percent

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<v Speaker 1>out of me. I thought you were high. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't handed the most effort to there, so that

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<v Speaker 1>that was the problem. My man that brought me into

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<v Speaker 1>it at the time, so well, he wasn't my man.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like friend. He was boom lover that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>He brought me in and I sucked him and his

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<v Speaker 1>best friend. But I was so high at one point

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know who was really fucking me. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I noticed the friends dick was great. So literally the

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<v Speaker 1>problem was the friend was the friend's dick was good.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was just making all these extra noises with

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<v Speaker 1>the friend and I was like, I was high. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you know. Well, my friend at first thought that

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<v Speaker 1>the best friend was doing something wrong, like he was

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<v Speaker 1>hurting me or something. He was he was he was

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<v Speaker 1>and um, he thought you were hurt. He thought. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, man, what you're doing? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he's good. Yeah, like and it was like two like

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<v Speaker 1>the next morning, my friend, Uh, y'all know, I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up in the ice bath that night. The edibles really hit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, well, so the edibles really hit me. Mind you,

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<v Speaker 1>this was my first time best friend, so at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>he was in the NFL, so he brought me to

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<v Speaker 1>fuck him and his best friend. And that was why

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<v Speaker 1>you came. What like, that's why you flew out. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I wanted to do that. So I thought

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<v Speaker 1>this happened because you were lit. No, we had already

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<v Speaker 1>talked about It was kind of bland. And then when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw he was nice. He was like wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>take me to the food trucks. I like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>my first time in the city, you know, so anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>even just being real nice. So anyways, we were all

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to go bowling that night, but they pulled out

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<v Speaker 1>these edibles. Mind were on the West coast, so they

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<v Speaker 1>pull out these edibles from the freezer. Hey, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>edibles in a freezer, y'all better just leave him ships along.

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<v Speaker 1>So because I had got highway him already before. It

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<v Speaker 1>was literally a gummy bearer one one fucking gummy money.

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<v Speaker 1>The last time I was with him, he thought I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna die because I was like smoke weed. So

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<v Speaker 1>I took half a brownie, half a turtle in a

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<v Speaker 1>gummy This time, I was like, I'm just doing it

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<v Speaker 1>gummy bear. So we were I took the gummy bear.

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<v Speaker 1>We're supposed to go bowling. Next thing you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in the bathroom like I'm crying, laughing. He's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we're gonna make it bowling, so let's just

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<v Speaker 1>go in the room. So we go into the room

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<v Speaker 1>and I started, you know, doing what I do, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the friend we just start sucking. And the next

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<v Speaker 1>thing you know, in the middle of the fucking he

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<v Speaker 1>actually made me squirt. So maybe I needed my fluids,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why the friend was making me squirt. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like a luckily, luckily like my dudes that

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<v Speaker 1>I was lit at a time, I think, not that

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<v Speaker 1>he's a cut, but I think he really enjoyed seeing

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<v Speaker 1>me be pleasured. But in the beginning, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a bro abra chill out, like don't hurt, hurt,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I'm not being hurt. But at

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<v Speaker 1>one point I didn't even know who was can me

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<v Speaker 1>until then I in my highways figured. But then so

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<v Speaker 1>when I got done, a bitch was exhausted because the

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<v Speaker 1>bitch just took you know, football, dick. These are big

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<v Speaker 1>body niggers, so I'm exhausted. Well one didn't make it

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<v Speaker 1>to the NFL, but he did play at one point

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<v Speaker 1>in his life. At one point that's where they met,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Um and so I'm tired. So bitch I

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<v Speaker 1>can't move. So they're like mandee and they're gonna like this,

0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:30.359
<v Speaker 1>bitch I can't move. I'm like, I'm hot. So they

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<v Speaker 1>go and get ice packed out the freezer and put

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<v Speaker 1>it on me. Bitch I didn't even feel them bitches

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<v Speaker 1>they mind you. He was still in the league. He said, oh, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't die here. I'm still playing. They're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get ice, the ice bags because we was drinking, so

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<v Speaker 1>we had like ice, the cubes. They had like the

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<v Speaker 1>jacuzzi tub in the master bed. They just start running

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<v Speaker 1>cold water and they picked me up and it's like, nah, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta be alive. So they put me in the

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<v Speaker 1>goddam ice bed and my niggas and there just talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me, making sure like you good. Many like he

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<v Speaker 1>started bathing me and s I'm like, okay, I'm good now.

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<v Speaker 1>It took a while, but yeah, so that was my

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<v Speaker 1>three some edible never again. You probably had that hyper

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<v Speaker 1>me sit it. No, that's not he would not have to. Yeah. God,

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<v Speaker 1>it was bad. And he was just like, hey, bro, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna do edibles the rest of the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you said? Please just bring my look at did you?

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<v Speaker 1>Him and his friend again? So I was an awful lover.

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up actually sleeping in the friend's room that

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<v Speaker 1>night because I had my own room. We all had

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<v Speaker 1>our own rooms in the house, and I snuck. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I started sucking a friend and then that's the

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<v Speaker 1>friend that also fell in love with me and wrote

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<v Speaker 1>me a love letter, and they wanted to wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>like be with me after this threesome, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't because I'm still working with this nigga, and

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga look out for me son, so I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>keep sucking him. He still look out for me of

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<v Speaker 1>his day. He's great. He's one of the only niggas

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<v Speaker 1>that remained a friend even though I didn't talk to

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<v Speaker 1>him during my relationship. I was like, I gotta I

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<v Speaker 1>got a man now, so I can't really talk and

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<v Speaker 1>now we're back talking. Hold on, wait, I need it. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>but you went and the friend while the other one

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<v Speaker 1>was sleep Why didn't you sleep with the other one

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<v Speaker 1>if he was your boo at the time, like sleep

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<v Speaker 1>in the bed with him because he's married. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>cuddling ship like that. We all had our rooms in

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<v Speaker 1>the house. He was married, nigger, We wasn't cuddling. We're friends, lover.

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<v Speaker 1>Did know you, homeboy? He knew? Uh yeah, No, he wasn't,

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<v Speaker 1>man because I told him. But also I had to

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<v Speaker 1>start telling him like, Yo, your man's just like writing

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<v Speaker 1>me poems like so I'm sending him the poems like

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<v Speaker 1>your man's want me to come back out there without

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<v Speaker 1>you like I had to. But this was the second

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<v Speaker 1>friend that did Mandy b in the beast for beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do that? I know? Literally, Oh it was. I

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<v Speaker 1>might be able to find the poem. Find the poem.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put it on, gonna put on Patreon. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure I can find the poem. It was. It was intense.

0:20:04.280 --> 0:20:06.359
<v Speaker 1>He still he still mind you. This was maybe this

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<v Speaker 1>happened maybe five years ago now that Negga to this

0:20:11.400 --> 0:20:15.520
<v Speaker 1>day texted me every birthday, still happy birthday, hope everything

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<v Speaker 1>going good with you. I see you doing your things

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<v Speaker 1>still to this day. That's why when I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>this puts it good, baby, like how you really want me?

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<v Speaker 1>And I sucked you and your friend and then told

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<v Speaker 1>your friend and almost died. He said he had never

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<v Speaker 1>felt that connection friend talking about how I was a demon,

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<v Speaker 1>but almost threw up. I think we'd be putting on

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<v Speaker 1>our best performance. We do. You gotta put your best

0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:47.520
<v Speaker 1>performance on moving forward? Okay, alright, alright, best performance? So

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<v Speaker 1>the only last one I had was for all of

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<v Speaker 1>us to do. Since this is the baby Daddy episode, Oh,

0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:54.159
<v Speaker 1>you picked the hottest milk. We picked the hottest baby daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>Who do you think the hottest milk on the planet

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<v Speaker 1>is hottest? Really? I didn't even know you love Beyonce

0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:08.040
<v Speaker 1>like that. I mean I don't. But she fine, she is,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had a lot of them, and every time

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<v Speaker 1>she pops another one out? She who else had one? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Who else thought that it was hot? I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna say, j low, little Latin. I love Joel nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So she bade she looks great for a daddy. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me see, Jason Momo. Can I be honest with you?

0:21:36.160 --> 0:21:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel so funked up to say this because he's married.

0:21:39.040 --> 0:21:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't give yes, I do, Okay, I like, really,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe in karma and I'm terrified. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>have a family, and I'm really scared if I, like

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<v Speaker 1>ever fu married dude or do something like you never

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<v Speaker 1>know nobody who married, like probably when I was like

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<v Speaker 1>younger and didn't even really know it. Like I've really

0:21:53.840 --> 0:21:56.960
<v Speaker 1>tried not to My first real boyfriend I ever had

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<v Speaker 1>after dating him for three months. You remember how traumatic

0:21:59.800 --> 0:22:02.119
<v Speaker 1>a us I found out he was married. We had

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<v Speaker 1>been on vacation together, wasn't at two cities, Puerto Rico,

0:22:05.520 --> 0:22:08.119
<v Speaker 1>New Orleans. Like then I found out he was married.

0:22:09.840 --> 0:22:12.040
<v Speaker 1>He went to Hawaii on a work trip, but I

0:22:12.080 --> 0:22:14.480
<v Speaker 1>couldn't talk to me at certain hours, and oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta broke my heart. And then they got divorced. And

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel like when they got divorced, we ended

0:22:18.440 --> 0:22:20.280
<v Speaker 1>up together like that was my Like I feel like

0:22:20.560 --> 0:22:22.760
<v Speaker 1>it was my fault. Um, and I was only eighteen

0:22:22.840 --> 0:22:24.840
<v Speaker 1>years old. I was terrible. So now I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>if I do, if that happens, I'll be fucked. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's why God made me a hole. The rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the years, he's like, oh yeah, we gonna fuck you.

0:22:31.560 --> 0:22:36.480
<v Speaker 1>But anyway, so um for a baby daddy, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how attractive Lebron was, and so seeing this person

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<v Speaker 1>and oh my god, and his wife is super cute

0:22:45.000 --> 0:22:47.760
<v Speaker 1>in person too, like she's hot, and then they're really hot.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just thinking about all them kids. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I started clicking on videos of him being a

0:22:51.280 --> 0:22:53.520
<v Speaker 1>good daddy, and I was like, all the NBA players

0:22:53.640 --> 0:22:56.320
<v Speaker 1>got kids, So I think the whole lead find Actually

0:22:56.359 --> 0:22:58.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll take all of them, but dad make it look good.

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<v Speaker 1>How many are there in the league. It's like on

0:23:00.320 --> 0:23:01.760
<v Speaker 1>the thirteen. I mean, I got a year and a

0:23:01.800 --> 0:23:06.639
<v Speaker 1>half of fun if I won a day what they find?

0:23:06.800 --> 0:23:09.040
<v Speaker 1>If we're talking about baby daddys, all the nigga's got kids,

0:23:09.040 --> 0:23:12.520
<v Speaker 1>whether they know it or not, it's about that MANI

0:23:12.560 --> 0:23:15.560
<v Speaker 1>I think in the league, white one. So I ain't

0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:20.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna hold you. Chandler Parsons fine, um, Kevin Love fine,

0:23:21.400 --> 0:23:26.359
<v Speaker 1>Adam damn something Adams. Uh, oh, you don't know sports.

0:23:27.040 --> 0:23:31.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't think, Oh, oh my bad. Well there's another

0:23:31.440 --> 0:23:34.000
<v Speaker 1>guy that just looks like a Spartan and I can't

0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:36.200
<v Speaker 1>remember his name, but it's something Adams. Well, i'll tell

0:23:36.200 --> 0:23:39.840
<v Speaker 1>you Luca Duncheon's whatever. I don't know how he'd be

0:23:39.880 --> 0:23:41.639
<v Speaker 1>shooting like that with a body like that, why is

0:23:41.680 --> 0:23:44.880
<v Speaker 1>he not a shade bro? I went to that every

0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:47.440
<v Speaker 1>game because the Lover Boy when I was in l

0:23:47.520 --> 0:23:50.000
<v Speaker 1>A and I was like, Niga, this has got to

0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:53.520
<v Speaker 1>be one of the worst. Like normally he's like literally

0:23:53.600 --> 0:23:58.639
<v Speaker 1>one of the best players I'm but he's like undoubtedly

0:23:58.760 --> 0:24:01.440
<v Speaker 1>right now, probably one of the top five, which was

0:24:01.480 --> 0:24:03.040
<v Speaker 1>crazy because I thought he was gonna be like super

0:24:03.160 --> 0:24:06.400
<v Speaker 1>rips and I was like, damn, I mean, but James

0:24:06.480 --> 0:24:08.320
<v Speaker 1>Harden is the same. He goes in and out of

0:24:08.600 --> 0:24:10.520
<v Speaker 1>his body and he's one of the best players in

0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:12.679
<v Speaker 1>the league as well, which is insane, right, Like it's

0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:14.880
<v Speaker 1>really I mean it's but it's skill, Like you don't

0:24:14.920 --> 0:24:17.440
<v Speaker 1>have to be ripped to do this, I know, but

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:19.119
<v Speaker 1>you would. I don't know if I agree with that.

0:24:19.160 --> 0:24:21.679
<v Speaker 1>I think you do have to be like super at

0:24:21.680 --> 0:24:26.160
<v Speaker 1>football players, hpe, But they be hitting niggas in football,

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:34.640
<v Speaker 1>you sai, no baby, pushing them over, push them over. Yes,

0:24:34.720 --> 0:24:37.040
<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what they do. Basketball you gotta run up, down,

0:24:37.160 --> 0:24:39.120
<v Speaker 1>up down. I mean, but you could also cherry pick.

0:24:39.160 --> 0:24:45.040
<v Speaker 1>You get breaks as water boys like you, like the

0:24:45.080 --> 0:24:47.560
<v Speaker 1>whole break happening. I could catch my breath. We all

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:49.959
<v Speaker 1>I gotta do is stand on the line, all right

0:24:50.119 --> 0:24:52.480
<v Speaker 1>about baby daddies v nella ship for this week. I

0:24:52.560 --> 0:24:54.240
<v Speaker 1>saw a video that I thought was sucking, insane. He

0:24:54.280 --> 0:24:57.479
<v Speaker 1>came out a few weeks ago of a father tossing

0:24:57.600 --> 0:25:00.399
<v Speaker 1>eighty thousand pennies. Did you see this? I was so

0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:03.480
<v Speaker 1>happy that they were a white family. Oh when I

0:25:03.520 --> 0:25:05.600
<v Speaker 1>clicked on and I was like, this on a shade room.

0:25:05.680 --> 0:25:07.720
<v Speaker 1>Let me see. So what started as an act of

0:25:07.800 --> 0:25:11.800
<v Speaker 1>spite triggered a domino effect of kindness. Um. The man's

0:25:11.840 --> 0:25:14.119
<v Speaker 1>daughter says, he pulled in front of our house, turned

0:25:14.200 --> 0:25:16.920
<v Speaker 1>the trailers so it dumped out all the pennies. She

0:25:17.040 --> 0:25:19.280
<v Speaker 1>was eighteen year old. He made his final child support

0:25:19.359 --> 0:25:29.200
<v Speaker 1>payment in eight thousand pennies. How much is that? That's it? Oh? Nick? Well, anyway,

0:25:29.680 --> 0:25:33.920
<v Speaker 1>they ended up donating every penny to a domestic abuse center.

0:25:34.880 --> 0:25:37.040
<v Speaker 1>They said next, while I was on CNN, it was

0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:39.119
<v Speaker 1>on a ring camera or something, which is how we

0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:41.959
<v Speaker 1>all saw it. But it's just terrible. And then they

0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:45.159
<v Speaker 1>got mad donations after that, forty seven thousand dollars, and

0:25:45.280 --> 0:25:47.240
<v Speaker 1>people from all over the world are trying to uplift

0:25:47.240 --> 0:25:49.720
<v Speaker 1>the daughters, saying this is like amazing, we want you

0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:52.800
<v Speaker 1>to keep donating, and so they just keep helping her out.

0:25:53.119 --> 0:25:58.000
<v Speaker 1>So donate to something better than that. Goddamn no I'm

0:25:58.000 --> 0:26:01.000
<v Speaker 1>talking about like, but it's going to the daughter. No, no, no,

0:26:01.280 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 1>she's allocating it over and over and over. But it's

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:07.639
<v Speaker 1>going to the domestic abuse. That's not going to her,

0:26:07.800 --> 0:26:10.320
<v Speaker 1>right right. But people gave her the money and she's

0:26:10.320 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 1>not keeping anything. Okay, okay, know what I mean. So

0:26:13.119 --> 0:26:15.440
<v Speaker 1>fine with me. She's like, oh, like whatever, fun him,

0:26:15.480 --> 0:26:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be fine. And so she's just trying to

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:23.360
<v Speaker 1>help out other families. But I did uh during the pandemic. Actually, um,

0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:27.600
<v Speaker 1>if I'm not mistaken, there was an employer who paid

0:26:27.720 --> 0:26:31.760
<v Speaker 1>someone their last check and pennies as well. This was

0:26:31.960 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 1>during the pandemic. It was something petty, I guess because

0:26:34.320 --> 0:26:37.919
<v Speaker 1>they that's so to me, so evil and mean and nasty,

0:26:38.560 --> 0:26:42.639
<v Speaker 1>like dollar bills. At least I do like making it

0:26:42.760 --> 0:26:44.320
<v Speaker 1>rain bro. I was in the bank the other day.

0:26:44.320 --> 0:26:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I know this is really random. Meal, I'm so sorry

0:26:46.119 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 1>this is a d D. But white people are fucking insane. Well,

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:52.920
<v Speaker 1>they're calling this guy didn't want to wait online. I

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:55.679
<v Speaker 1>was at the Chase and aster place. I guess he's

0:26:55.720 --> 0:26:57.960
<v Speaker 1>a private client. So we started flipping out and the

0:26:58.040 --> 0:27:00.160
<v Speaker 1>lady was like, I'm so sorry, we're understaffed and it's

0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:02.440
<v Speaker 1>a Friday. We'll try to get with you in ten minutes.

0:27:02.440 --> 0:27:04.399
<v Speaker 1>He was like, I'm a fucking private client, so I

0:27:04.440 --> 0:27:06.440
<v Speaker 1>can have someone take me whenever the funk I want

0:27:06.600 --> 0:27:08.600
<v Speaker 1>to take all my money the funk out of here,

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:11.200
<v Speaker 1>and like starts flipping out, And I was there while

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:16.120
<v Speaker 1>he was there the whole time, real quick, for real quick.

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:19.520
<v Speaker 1>It was right. So it was a Georgia man uh

0:27:20.000 --> 0:27:24.280
<v Speaker 1>Android's flat and his former employer dumped ninety thousand pennies

0:27:24.359 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>on his driveway as a form of final payment for

0:27:27.080 --> 0:27:31.560
<v Speaker 1>his work at an auto shops. And they had but yeah,

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:36.480
<v Speaker 1>this happened because they trash hundreds. So I don't know

0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:38.640
<v Speaker 1>how much money the dude had. I would flip out,

0:27:38.760 --> 0:27:40.280
<v Speaker 1>like if I was like mad about something, but like

0:27:40.320 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't start cursing somebody, especially when a staff you

0:27:42.720 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 1>could tell it's Friday Friday security guard. This is something

0:27:45.600 --> 0:27:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know. I don't know how much money

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:49.800
<v Speaker 1>he had his account, but he was so evil to everybody.

0:27:49.840 --> 0:27:52.040
<v Speaker 1>They're like, fine, we'll take the money out. The security

0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:56.080
<v Speaker 1>guard was like, no, there's not enough security in here

0:27:56.280 --> 0:27:58.080
<v Speaker 1>to help you remove your money. And I'm here to

0:27:58.160 --> 0:27:59.760
<v Speaker 1>keep the people in this bank safe and keep you

0:28:00.000 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 1>af No, you can't take it out. The security nick

0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 1>of it I was, girl, did you want to leave

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:09.760
<v Speaker 1>the bank? I was sitting there and casting my little check, Like, wait, girl.

0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:12.800
<v Speaker 1>The security guard starts arguing with the dude. He's like,

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't keep you safe unless you want to call

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:16.440
<v Speaker 1>private security to take your money out. I have to

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 1>keep the patrons and the employees of this bank safe,

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:20.119
<v Speaker 1>and if you walk in the street with money like that,

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:22.359
<v Speaker 1>you put everybody else at risk. He's like, no, you

0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 1>can't take it out. He's like, who the fuck are

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 1>you to tell me he said, I can't take it out.

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:27.399
<v Speaker 1>He's like I heard, and I are I'm telling you

0:28:27.520 --> 0:28:29.600
<v Speaker 1>you can't take it out. And he starts going off

0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 1>on the bank tellers telling them do not take his

0:28:31.680 --> 0:28:33.880
<v Speaker 1>money out. And I don't know how many millions he had,

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:37.399
<v Speaker 1>but girl to security guards say it now, And what

0:28:37.560 --> 0:28:40.960
<v Speaker 1>I learned was I didn't know that that was possible. Girl,

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:44.040
<v Speaker 1>you should have want it to console him. I'm so sorry.

0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:46.680
<v Speaker 1>You retreated, let me, let me get you. But you

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:48.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know how much money that Nigga had. He could

0:28:48.600 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 1>have been a sugar daddy if you would have consoled

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:52.520
<v Speaker 1>him in that moment like being maga energy though, because

0:28:52.560 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>the girl was black. So I was kind of like

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:56.960
<v Speaker 1>everybody already. But the one thing I will say that

0:28:57.000 --> 0:28:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand there's a certain amount of security guards

0:28:59.920 --> 0:29:02.720
<v Speaker 1>like us per what's the trucks with the money armor

0:29:04.720 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 1>blink bring trucks or whatever. They need a certain amount

0:29:09.360 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 1>of security per like whether it's millions or hundred thousands,

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 1>So that's security guard. I don't know how much. Again,

0:29:13.440 --> 0:29:16.360
<v Speaker 1>they were like nigging out. So the dudes that's flipping out.

0:29:16.400 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, I was no because I

0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:25.360
<v Speaker 1>was just like, bro, actually, recording is now, like you

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:26.920
<v Speaker 1>need to just do it it. Plus I didn't want

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 1>him to start cursing me out. Plus he was outside,

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:32.040
<v Speaker 1>and like sometimes I'd be feeling like when Nigga's recording ship,

0:29:32.120 --> 0:29:33.920
<v Speaker 1>it's put agram and I was just like that's where

0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>we would cameras, bitch, but the banker putting out what happened,

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 1>we want to see it on social media. I felt

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:42.800
<v Speaker 1>like Okay, if you hit the bitch, it's gonna be

0:29:42.880 --> 0:29:47.120
<v Speaker 1>on camera. Anyway, what do you Let's talk about child

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:49.959
<v Speaker 1>support really briefly, because we talked about the eight Are

0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 1>you on child support? You are? I have heard from

0:29:54.000 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 1>some men that they don't want to be on child

0:29:56.280 --> 0:29:59.520
<v Speaker 1>support because it puts them in the system, Like are

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:01.440
<v Speaker 1>you how to be on child support? Because she feel

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:03.000
<v Speaker 1>like it gives you a regular way of paying, Like,

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about being on child support? I

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:07.560
<v Speaker 1>think it's a misuse because I do so much of

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:11.320
<v Speaker 1>my kid anyway, Um, I pay so much for it,

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:14.360
<v Speaker 1>like talking to my baby Xander. Lexander is an expensive

0:30:14.400 --> 0:30:19.320
<v Speaker 1>as kid. So like I think family court divorce law

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:26.880
<v Speaker 1>was a mechanism to destroy black and brown families. Because yeah,

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 1>but so if you like begin to put people in

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:32.400
<v Speaker 1>the system, now it's different if people are paying. But

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:34.440
<v Speaker 1>like anybody who knows me, knows how much I have

0:30:34.560 --> 0:30:37.240
<v Speaker 1>my kid, how much I do for him. I would

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:39.040
<v Speaker 1>make the argument if I wouldn't have been put in

0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:42.080
<v Speaker 1>the system and his mom knew how I felt about

0:30:42.080 --> 0:30:44.680
<v Speaker 1>being in the system, I would have gave more. But

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 1>I felt like because the elevation began to happen, there

0:30:48.000 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 1>was some this day there and this is like the

0:30:50.920 --> 0:30:53.120
<v Speaker 1>only way that I can try and punish you. But

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 1>how do they decide how much? Can you talk about

0:30:55.160 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>how much you pay? That I won't do, but I

0:30:57.360 --> 0:31:01.480
<v Speaker 1>would be happy. I was like, I would bring that

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:04.080
<v Speaker 1>ship in a gift wrap box with chocolate. Like I'm saying,

0:31:04.760 --> 0:31:07.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious because aren't yours like capital gains, Like, how

0:31:07.400 --> 0:31:10.440
<v Speaker 1>do they decide how much you It's still based on

0:31:11.000 --> 0:31:15.200
<v Speaker 1>annual income in Okay, so, but but there's a cap

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 1>in the state of Texas. Certain states don't have a cap,

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 1>so they can run, Like I know some people that pay.

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 1>So when I saw that, I was like, I don't

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:27.480
<v Speaker 1>know that his relationship with his daughter and family. But

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:30.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm like five thousand dollars a month for a millionaire,

0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 1>who cares? I mean, but it's but I mean, I'm

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:36.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm someone who received child support my whole life.

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I've had this conversation with my mom. My sister right

0:31:39.240 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 1>now is filing for child support as well. So in

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:46.160
<v Speaker 1>terms of child support, I think one of the major

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:48.960
<v Speaker 1>misconceptions and people who haven't either been put into the

0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:51.840
<v Speaker 1>system or gone through the process, um how they do it?

0:31:51.960 --> 0:31:53.680
<v Speaker 1>Now and I'm not sure if this is Florida or

0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>New York, but how they do it now is they

0:31:56.440 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 1>still do put into effects how much money the the

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 1>parent that would be receiving makes, So my sister the

0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 1>same way, you have to provide the same way that

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:07.440
<v Speaker 1>the father has to provide all of his documents for

0:32:07.520 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>income that would be receiving how much they make, because

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:14.600
<v Speaker 1>there still is a percentage to where it's the overall

0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:18.520
<v Speaker 1>aspect of it, so it's not solely just on say

0:32:18.560 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 1>he makes a hundred thousand and she makes a hundred thousand,

0:32:21.240 --> 0:32:23.200
<v Speaker 1>that means the percentage of what he may have to

0:32:23.240 --> 0:32:26.000
<v Speaker 1>pay would be less than if she made fifteen thousand.

0:32:27.320 --> 0:32:30.440
<v Speaker 1>It's still a collective thing, so you may have to

0:32:30.480 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 1>pay more if she can't provide uh more, Like it's

0:32:33.640 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 1>still a percentage base, So they still want both parents incomes.

0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:41.600
<v Speaker 1>So I understand how it could be perceived as, oh, well,

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:44.680
<v Speaker 1>you just want it for personal gain. If in fact

0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:49.800
<v Speaker 1>the mother receives significantly or makes significantly less than the father,

0:32:50.160 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 1>then yeah, I'm taking you to child because now I

0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:54.640
<v Speaker 1>need this money. And the money, yes, you know, maybe

0:32:54.760 --> 0:32:57.480
<v Speaker 1>going towards more things than just this child so here's

0:32:57.480 --> 0:33:01.600
<v Speaker 1>an interesting question because you're a general person and dad, right,

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>why say you would have gave more? Like why I

0:33:06.760 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 1>know you want to give your son everything you type,

0:33:08.800 --> 0:33:11.120
<v Speaker 1>because like, so what do you what did you feel?

0:33:11.360 --> 0:33:12.960
<v Speaker 1>What do you feel like your money is going? Like

0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 1>why would it bother you to give more or less

0:33:15.360 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>or whatever? Because she knew how I felt about the

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:20.560
<v Speaker 1>courses in in general, because I know like one and

0:33:20.640 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 1>two black men as someone gonna end up in the

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 1>course system. So like because I'm not an in criminal court,

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 1>so I'm like, okay, I escaped that, and I don't

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 1>wait all this time to be in my thirties have

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:34.240
<v Speaker 1>a kids that then end up because I'm like like,

0:33:34.360 --> 0:33:38.120
<v Speaker 1>if you know how I feel, don't go that route.

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:40.600
<v Speaker 1>But then you have to influence of friends, family. You

0:33:40.640 --> 0:33:43.040
<v Speaker 1>see a person elevating, it's like, well, I think you

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:46.400
<v Speaker 1>can probably get this out of him because now he's

0:33:46.440 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>doing X y Z. So I know it wasn't because

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:53.520
<v Speaker 1>if it was after me, like if there was no drama,

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I would do everything what I'm doing for Xander and

0:33:58.120 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 1>would have provided more and still like a boy the

0:34:02.200 --> 0:34:04.840
<v Speaker 1>time xanab So can I ask you a question then,

0:34:05.120 --> 0:34:07.600
<v Speaker 1>because this, I gonna hold you. This triggered me, like

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:09.239
<v Speaker 1>what you got to do with her? Yeah? But no,

0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:12.800
<v Speaker 1>because here's the thing outside of and I hear what

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:16.320
<v Speaker 1>you're saying. I know men and specifically also men in

0:34:16.440 --> 0:34:19.640
<v Speaker 1>my family who then throw that in women's faces all

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 1>the time, like oh well, you could have even been

0:34:22.000 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 1>getting more. My thing is maybe had you shown up

0:34:25.600 --> 0:34:28.400
<v Speaker 1>and started giving, there wouldn't have been like, oh well,

0:34:28.520 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 1>let me go to the court to get it, like

0:34:32.600 --> 0:34:34.759
<v Speaker 1>we'll see. But but that's the thing too, when when

0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:39.279
<v Speaker 1>it's not court ordered, like my sister baby daddy was

0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:43.120
<v Speaker 1>given ship early on then just stopped and then I

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, well, I'm gonna send this, then stopped

0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:48.839
<v Speaker 1>Like as a as a parent, now I'm literally at

0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 1>the will or having to ask you, hey, when you're

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:52.439
<v Speaker 1>gonna send that, when you're gonna do that when ordered,

0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:54.960
<v Speaker 1>it comes, when it comes. Don't doubt that you're you're

0:34:55.080 --> 0:34:58.920
<v Speaker 1>always giving to Xander. My thing is, like I wondered

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:03.160
<v Speaker 1>sometimes because because had money his whole like this whole time,

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 1>planned on having a kid, always has his kids giving

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:08.320
<v Speaker 1>his kid money. If a dad like that who's financially

0:35:08.360 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 1>stable enough to pay for his kid I wonder if

0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:13.120
<v Speaker 1>then somebody really wants child support because they want no

0:35:13.239 --> 0:35:14.920
<v Speaker 1>ties with you, they don't want to have to ask you.

0:35:15.239 --> 0:35:17.359
<v Speaker 1>That's what That's what I could That's what I could see.

0:35:17.680 --> 0:35:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know you're bringing up the court system

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and how um it you know now makes the baby

0:35:24.760 --> 0:35:27.640
<v Speaker 1>mom a villain, But I do, I'm messing this villain.

0:35:27.640 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 1>But if I tell you, like like I've even had

0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:33.800
<v Speaker 1>people that I didn't like that have hurt friends, and

0:35:33.880 --> 0:35:36.000
<v Speaker 1>my friends have hurt them. They didn't go to court,

0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:37.759
<v Speaker 1>and it was like life, it's like certain rules I

0:35:37.880 --> 0:35:41.440
<v Speaker 1>just have, like like even if somebody crosses me, like

0:35:43.080 --> 0:35:47.399
<v Speaker 1>unless you put my kid in danger, I'm not gonna

0:35:47.440 --> 0:35:50.000
<v Speaker 1>take somebody to court. That's just me though. But I

0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:52.600
<v Speaker 1>tell everybody like, this is how I operate, this is

0:35:52.640 --> 0:35:55.400
<v Speaker 1>how things will go. But if I'm already doing and

0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:58.880
<v Speaker 1>everyone I know everybody has two sides. But I know

0:35:59.040 --> 0:36:02.080
<v Speaker 1>what I have paid, have been paying and been given

0:36:02.200 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 1>and also what I put away, like not to like

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:07.239
<v Speaker 1>if Xander doesn't want to work when he turns, so

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:11.040
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have to. That's because it is true that

0:36:11.440 --> 0:36:15.240
<v Speaker 1>when we talk about the child support, it always makes

0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:19.799
<v Speaker 1>women feel like ship but also in the same time,

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:25.240
<v Speaker 1>it's like we obviously are all, you know, pro social

0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 1>justice and black men and women winning, but at the

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:30.920
<v Speaker 1>same time, it's like from for every home girl I've

0:36:30.960 --> 0:36:33.000
<v Speaker 1>had that's been with a nigga who ain't ship, which

0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:36.120
<v Speaker 1>is difficult because maybe those men didn't have money to

0:36:36.160 --> 0:36:38.640
<v Speaker 1>pay for their kids and intern with you. It's not

0:36:38.840 --> 0:36:41.400
<v Speaker 1>like it's got money. No, no, no, I'm saying like

0:36:42.400 --> 0:36:44.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, my home girls have fun with some broke

0:36:44.320 --> 0:36:45.520
<v Speaker 1>niggas that be like I ain't got it, I ain't

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:48.160
<v Speaker 1>got it, within it's not the case. So it's interesting

0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:50.440
<v Speaker 1>because those are always the one that goes on child support,

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:52.320
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like this is a different who's the

0:36:52.360 --> 0:36:54.400
<v Speaker 1>ones who always going to support? They're always having to

0:36:54.520 --> 0:36:56.000
<v Speaker 1>beg these niggs for money, so it's like fine, and

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:57.560
<v Speaker 1>we have to take it out your check. Now. These

0:36:57.600 --> 0:37:00.200
<v Speaker 1>are the instances and cases I've had with friends they

0:37:00.239 --> 0:37:03.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't have affluent baby daddy's their baby daddy always like

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:05.680
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got this, blahlah blah. But also if there's

0:37:05.719 --> 0:37:09.719
<v Speaker 1>not a relationship there and now maybe y'all have other partners,

0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I understand why now I don't want to have to

0:37:12.560 --> 0:37:16.200
<v Speaker 1>call you every motherfucking time I need money. Now, I

0:37:16.280 --> 0:37:18.640
<v Speaker 1>know I get this amount of money a week or

0:37:18.760 --> 0:37:21.520
<v Speaker 1>this amount of money bi weekly or monthly. Now that's

0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:23.440
<v Speaker 1>that's the less that I have to talk to you.

0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I know, when you see your child, come and pick

0:37:25.600 --> 0:37:28.279
<v Speaker 1>them up. But now financially, I don't have to call

0:37:28.360 --> 0:37:30.719
<v Speaker 1>them to ask you because realistically too when you're not

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:32.279
<v Speaker 1>in the home with a child. And this is the

0:37:32.320 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 1>thing that I always say about child support because my

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:37.839
<v Speaker 1>daddy legit, well my my daddy legit did not talk

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:40.920
<v Speaker 1>to me and my sisters over my mom wanting to

0:37:41.080 --> 0:37:44.360
<v Speaker 1>raise My mom was getting four hundred dollars bi weekly

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:47.480
<v Speaker 1>for two children, and we knew my dad made more.

0:37:47.840 --> 0:37:49.600
<v Speaker 1>So when my mom went to court to get more,

0:37:49.960 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 1>because she's like, cool, you're buying them named brand shoes.

0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I have two. No, it was no, that was what

0:37:57.280 --> 0:38:00.160
<v Speaker 1>she got told on eight hundred a month. So find

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:03.120
<v Speaker 1>you and at the time, yes we're on Section eight,

0:38:03.200 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 1>we have food simps. But also as we get older,

0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I want to be in sports. I was playing violin,

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:10.759
<v Speaker 1>I was doing things, and yeah, he showed up and

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:12.759
<v Speaker 1>got us the name brand shoes. But that's the thing

0:38:12.880 --> 0:38:15.160
<v Speaker 1>that that I think a lot of fathers that are

0:38:15.200 --> 0:38:17.759
<v Speaker 1>not in the whole home don't understand. My mom could

0:38:17.840 --> 0:38:21.040
<v Speaker 1>only take certain jobs and take certain shifts because we

0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:24.239
<v Speaker 1>were home. She had to make sure we had someone

0:38:24.280 --> 0:38:26.160
<v Speaker 1>to pick us up and take us from school. So

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:28.680
<v Speaker 1>her entire life, the amount of rooms in the house

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:30.960
<v Speaker 1>had to be worn just because we were there. So

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:33.160
<v Speaker 1>even when it comes to oh, well a kid, don't

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:37.240
<v Speaker 1>take that much. Literally, my entire life takes more because

0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:39.840
<v Speaker 1>of these children that nine times I'll attend. The fathers

0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:42.440
<v Speaker 1>don't even they just think, oh, the child support is

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:45.759
<v Speaker 1>for you know, my entire life has changed because now

0:38:45.880 --> 0:38:48.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm the sole provider of these children. And that was

0:38:48.360 --> 0:38:51.920
<v Speaker 1>my that was my experience, like child support, Like I

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:54.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't really I mean, my parents are still together, but

0:38:55.040 --> 0:38:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I didn't really understand it until I've grown older and

0:38:57.560 --> 0:39:00.840
<v Speaker 1>had friends and even at this age now feeling guilty

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:02.880
<v Speaker 1>now with men that won't even speak to them just

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:07.239
<v Speaker 1>trying to get child support and not guilty like having

0:39:07.320 --> 0:39:08.800
<v Speaker 1>to be like, damn, I gotta put this nick in.

0:39:09.600 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 1>A lot of women don't want to put you all.

0:39:11.239 --> 0:39:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, one of my best friends, she tells

0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:14.879
<v Speaker 1>me all the time, like bro like that story doesn't

0:39:14.880 --> 0:39:22.799
<v Speaker 1>get told enough too. I wanted to ask you as

0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>far as like quote unquote baby mama drama, Um, how

0:39:28.520 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 1>do you have dialogue with your six year old about

0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:33.480
<v Speaker 1>when things are tense with you and the women you're

0:39:33.520 --> 0:39:35.360
<v Speaker 1>to kill with. I was just telling the truth, like,

0:39:36.120 --> 0:39:40.359
<v Speaker 1>m if I don't see you, it's not because that's

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>how I wanted to be. I still want you to

0:39:42.600 --> 0:39:45.840
<v Speaker 1>be respectful with your mom. But if it was up

0:39:45.880 --> 0:39:48.040
<v Speaker 1>to me, I will see you every day. How often

0:39:48.080 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>do you guys split time? Uh so it's like every

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:54.279
<v Speaker 1>other weekend and then a couple of days throughout the week.

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:57.320
<v Speaker 1>But you know it should has challenges, man, like she

0:39:57.560 --> 0:40:00.480
<v Speaker 1>changes sometimes if she gets in a mood. You know,

0:40:00.840 --> 0:40:02.879
<v Speaker 1>some games get played a boy restricting access and ship

0:40:02.960 --> 0:40:05.200
<v Speaker 1>like that, so you have to adjust. But like some

0:40:05.280 --> 0:40:07.920
<v Speaker 1>of the greatest advice my dad told me, like when

0:40:08.000 --> 0:40:10.319
<v Speaker 1>I was going through it, he was like, you had

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:13.279
<v Speaker 1>the money to pay, so pay it and not as

0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:16.480
<v Speaker 1>if you have not been paying the same or more so,

0:40:16.680 --> 0:40:19.040
<v Speaker 1>just provide and then everything eventually work itself out. It's

0:40:19.080 --> 0:40:22.239
<v Speaker 1>tough like so for me, it was just the audacity

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:25.120
<v Speaker 1>of being taken to court over when I know what

0:40:25.280 --> 0:40:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I was already pouring in and me being solid like

0:40:29.360 --> 0:40:31.680
<v Speaker 1>you know me, Like I don't give over just because

0:40:31.680 --> 0:40:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I funk with you. Like so if I give like

0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:35.759
<v Speaker 1>that to you and people that we know, imagine for

0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:37.960
<v Speaker 1>what I'm doing for him. What about when it comes

0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:41.439
<v Speaker 1>to um men that are feeling like they can't spend

0:40:41.520 --> 0:40:43.040
<v Speaker 1>enough time with their kids. What kind of have you

0:40:43.160 --> 0:40:45.480
<v Speaker 1>ever looked into court ordered things or third parties? Like

0:40:45.520 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 1>what can you do to ensure that you got a

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:50.880
<v Speaker 1>lawyer up and whatever you agree to in that paperwork?

0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:53.839
<v Speaker 1>That is the paperwork. So your paperwork when you when

0:40:53.880 --> 0:40:57.080
<v Speaker 1>you do child support, you mean so what like yours

0:40:57.080 --> 0:40:59.800
<v Speaker 1>says every other weekend, you have to fight for what

0:41:00.000 --> 0:41:02.360
<v Speaker 1>you want and that paperwork or you have to be

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:04.640
<v Speaker 1>willing to go back. And that's that's the part about

0:41:04.680 --> 0:41:07.040
<v Speaker 1>court that I don't like. Because the funny part, like

0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:09.600
<v Speaker 1>when we went to court, my lawyer and her lawyer

0:41:09.640 --> 0:41:12.720
<v Speaker 1>were friends, so he would tell me ship behind the scenes,

0:41:12.760 --> 0:41:16.799
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, after I'm done with your case, we're going

0:41:16.840 --> 0:41:20.680
<v Speaker 1>on vacation together. So I'm looking at it like and

0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I respect honesty, but as a business person, I'm looking

0:41:25.040 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 1>at if he has a case sload of four or

0:41:26.719 --> 0:41:30.160
<v Speaker 1>five people and I'm paying ten grand, somebody else's paying

0:41:30.200 --> 0:41:34.560
<v Speaker 1>ten grand. They're running this ship up like crazy off

0:41:34.640 --> 0:41:37.239
<v Speaker 1>of black and brown families. So that's a business. You're

0:41:37.239 --> 0:41:40.759
<v Speaker 1>feeling like it's nothing, But if family law and child

0:41:40.840 --> 0:41:44.680
<v Speaker 1>support worried one entity, it would be a fortune company.

0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:50.279
<v Speaker 1>It's like billions of dollars put through this system. So

0:41:50.480 --> 0:41:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I get for the people who won't pay, or like

0:41:52.760 --> 0:41:54.279
<v Speaker 1>you said, if they won't pay for months and they're

0:41:54.320 --> 0:41:57.320
<v Speaker 1>like skipping out on ship. But I see the business

0:41:57.360 --> 0:41:59.560
<v Speaker 1>behind it, like even going back into the nineteen sixties,

0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:01.279
<v Speaker 1>like when they took the black dad out of the

0:42:01.360 --> 0:42:04.719
<v Speaker 1>home and then like that was designed to get black

0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:07.120
<v Speaker 1>and brown families to break up. There's a lot of

0:42:07.160 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 1>talk like I recently saw in some posts and different

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 1>ship about um DNA tests at birth. Did you see

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 1>that they were talking about, oh, should this be mandatory?

0:42:18.000 --> 0:42:20.600
<v Speaker 1>Was like a Twitter thing that was going around and basics, well,

0:42:20.640 --> 0:42:22.920
<v Speaker 1>there's now like you can do a DNA test while

0:42:22.960 --> 0:42:27.400
<v Speaker 1>the baby's still in in the belly. Yeah, it's you

0:42:27.440 --> 0:42:30.040
<v Speaker 1>can literally, like because well that's the thing too. A

0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:32.319
<v Speaker 1>lot of a lot of women feel entitled to still

0:42:32.400 --> 0:42:35.520
<v Speaker 1>get some sort of um, you know, to be taken

0:42:35.560 --> 0:42:38.760
<v Speaker 1>care of because maybe she can't finish out work. Uh, definitely.

0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:41.480
<v Speaker 1>A lot of dancers, like once you reach a certain

0:42:41.800 --> 0:42:44.520
<v Speaker 1>level of pregnancy, you can't dance. So if you're in

0:42:44.600 --> 0:42:46.800
<v Speaker 1>different industries like that where you can't show up to

0:42:46.840 --> 0:42:49.879
<v Speaker 1>work because of your your pregnancy. I know that there

0:42:49.920 --> 0:42:52.920
<v Speaker 1>are now ways for the man to request the DNA

0:42:53.040 --> 0:42:55.360
<v Speaker 1>test while the baby is still in there, because you

0:42:55.440 --> 0:42:58.360
<v Speaker 1>are asking for some sort of support while you're pregnant.

0:42:58.880 --> 0:43:01.879
<v Speaker 1>So there is a way actually to do a DNA test. Yeah,

0:43:03.440 --> 0:43:05.680
<v Speaker 1>cause I got your baby in right. I funk with

0:43:05.760 --> 0:43:08.640
<v Speaker 1>that actually. So when it comes to like DNA tests

0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:11.480
<v Speaker 1>them and then requiring them, what do you guys think?

0:43:11.520 --> 0:43:13.920
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that should be something done? Ain't gold you?

0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>That's what happened with with us. Like when my mom

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:19.680
<v Speaker 1>went to get more he said, okay, before you get

0:43:19.680 --> 0:43:22.000
<v Speaker 1>any more DNA tests, everyone, let me make sure these

0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:25.640
<v Speaker 1>are all even my children. And clearly we knew, like

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:29.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, but it got it got Oh, it got messy.

0:43:29.800 --> 0:43:31.520
<v Speaker 1>We ended up having to do a whole DNA tests

0:43:31.520 --> 0:43:36.600
<v Speaker 1>and everything on all of us. Yeah, so I looked

0:43:36.680 --> 0:43:40.520
<v Speaker 1>up if mom mother's paying child support curious to know

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:44.239
<v Speaker 1>what you guys think the percentages mothers that pay child

0:43:44.239 --> 0:43:50.080
<v Speaker 1>support to me, probably lesson like, well, most men don't

0:43:50.160 --> 0:43:53.400
<v Speaker 1>have full custody, so it depends what that stat is,

0:43:53.840 --> 0:43:56.400
<v Speaker 1>because a woman is not gonna pay child support if

0:43:56.480 --> 0:44:00.279
<v Speaker 1>she has custody. And not many single parent dads have

0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:03.600
<v Speaker 1>full custody of the children. There's not there's not as

0:44:03.680 --> 0:44:08.520
<v Speaker 1>many singles. What do you think? What do you think?

0:44:08.920 --> 0:44:11.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean a lot of women keep the kids and

0:44:11.160 --> 0:44:14.000
<v Speaker 1>it's easier in corse, I don't know what. I'm actually

0:44:14.000 --> 0:44:17.160
<v Speaker 1>shocked at it. I don't know six percent of women

0:44:17.200 --> 0:44:20.440
<v Speaker 1>paid child sports. I did not think almost eight percent

0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:24.919
<v Speaker 1>because probably probably because eighty five percent of women keep

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:27.040
<v Speaker 1>the baby, I know, but I thought it was gonna

0:44:27.080 --> 0:44:30.680
<v Speaker 1>be like way lower than that. Oh, it's just we

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:34.640
<v Speaker 1>very seldom run into single single dads now. Um, I'm

0:44:34.719 --> 0:44:37.080
<v Speaker 1>also curious you call yourself a single father because you

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:39.839
<v Speaker 1>don't like the turn baby daddy. Why is that calfather,

0:44:40.080 --> 0:44:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Because I think when you say baby daddy, it means that, um,

0:44:45.080 --> 0:44:47.719
<v Speaker 1>the choice to how the child was unintentional, that wasn't

0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:50.200
<v Speaker 1>the kid like Xander was playing. I just think if

0:44:50.239 --> 0:44:52.160
<v Speaker 1>we say baby daddy, we broke up. That's what I think.

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:56.280
<v Speaker 1>What do you think? I'm very particular how I'm labeled

0:44:56.280 --> 0:44:58.319
<v Speaker 1>though as a black man, as a business person too.

0:44:59.719 --> 0:45:03.200
<v Speaker 1>Baby daddy is a word that to me, it describes unintentional,

0:45:04.719 --> 0:45:07.000
<v Speaker 1>unprotected sex with somebody that you didn't know was just

0:45:07.080 --> 0:45:08.880
<v Speaker 1>fucking with and it was accidentally. I mean, I think

0:45:08.920 --> 0:45:12.640
<v Speaker 1>that that's the same with women and the baby mama title, um,

0:45:13.080 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's always like they annoy it, like you feel

0:45:14.560 --> 0:45:17.400
<v Speaker 1>like but but what's crazy too is even the connotation

0:45:17.480 --> 0:45:19.719
<v Speaker 1>though all of those when it's attached to women are

0:45:19.760 --> 0:45:22.160
<v Speaker 1>always worse, like well, why didn't the man stay? Why

0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:25.120
<v Speaker 1>he left you? Or they or there's a label of

0:45:25.200 --> 0:45:28.840
<v Speaker 1>promiscuity on the woman, especially when there's multiple baby fathers.

0:45:28.880 --> 0:45:31.320
<v Speaker 1>No one ever says when a man has three different

0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:34.359
<v Speaker 1>kids by three different baby mamas, it's looks right over

0:45:34.640 --> 0:45:36.960
<v Speaker 1>like as a woman, there's a difference. And also when

0:45:37.000 --> 0:45:40.520
<v Speaker 1>a woman's labeled a baby mama, I think just again,

0:45:40.680 --> 0:45:43.799
<v Speaker 1>the value is deductive, the same as if she's even

0:45:43.920 --> 0:45:47.120
<v Speaker 1>called a single mother. If you're called a single father,

0:45:47.239 --> 0:45:50.239
<v Speaker 1>there's almost praise to that, like, oh damn, that's what's up.

0:45:50.480 --> 0:45:52.560
<v Speaker 1>A single mother doesn't even get praise in the same

0:45:52.600 --> 0:45:54.840
<v Speaker 1>fashion that a man does when he takes custody, Like

0:45:55.360 --> 0:45:57.399
<v Speaker 1>and again, this was all growing up in a single

0:45:57.440 --> 0:45:59.680
<v Speaker 1>parent household and witnessing this, like I have a lot

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:04.319
<v Speaker 1>of only trauma and experience with how all of it manifested.

0:46:04.680 --> 0:46:07.520
<v Speaker 1>But now that I'm an adult and my sister is

0:46:07.560 --> 0:46:10.160
<v Speaker 1>now going through the system like I do. And it's

0:46:10.200 --> 0:46:12.279
<v Speaker 1>because the nigga not trying to show up because he

0:46:12.320 --> 0:46:14.360
<v Speaker 1>feels like, oh, well, I got for the kids to

0:46:14.400 --> 0:46:16.799
<v Speaker 1>take care of, so maybe you shouldn't have laid down

0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:19.560
<v Speaker 1>with this one. Bitch, pay the motherfucking dollars and and

0:46:19.800 --> 0:46:22.279
<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to deal with you. Women will

0:46:22.680 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 1>always be blamed, like where you had a baby with him,

0:46:25.480 --> 0:46:28.320
<v Speaker 1>And it's like, yo, I've dated men with kids, you

0:46:28.360 --> 0:46:30.360
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like if I decided to have

0:46:30.480 --> 0:46:32.440
<v Speaker 1>a kid with that one in that relationship that was

0:46:32.520 --> 0:46:35.719
<v Speaker 1>in like funck, now is my goddamn fault? Like it's

0:46:35.800 --> 0:46:38.600
<v Speaker 1>just strange. I agree with you how women are always blamed,

0:46:38.680 --> 0:46:43.640
<v Speaker 1>but I think that sometimes there is an interesting side

0:46:43.760 --> 0:46:46.400
<v Speaker 1>to men that want to be better death And I

0:46:46.520 --> 0:46:48.680
<v Speaker 1>honestly think it's a small person. I feel like we

0:46:48.840 --> 0:46:50.839
<v Speaker 1>mostly know women that are going through the hardest time.

0:46:50.840 --> 0:46:53.160
<v Speaker 1>When baby did that part time and money, you know

0:46:53.200 --> 0:46:54.640
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. But I also didn't know that it

0:46:54.719 --> 0:46:57.680
<v Speaker 1>had to do a percentage how much they make. Okay,

0:46:57.760 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>let's get to the home mail. You already, Stewart? Wait

0:47:01.280 --> 0:47:06.799
<v Speaker 1>were there already? For real? Damn shiit? What's the what's

0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:09.759
<v Speaker 1>the time on that we're Can you cut that out?

0:47:10.120 --> 0:47:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't want people thinking that we're just a little mark,

0:47:12.960 --> 0:47:16.560
<v Speaker 1>but it is plus the five, So ho mail. Hey guys,

0:47:16.719 --> 0:47:21.520
<v Speaker 1>A little backstory to my now uncomfortable situation. Seven years ago,

0:47:21.640 --> 0:47:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I had a new neighbor move in the house next

0:47:23.680 --> 0:47:25.920
<v Speaker 1>door off the bat. I fell in love, pictured us

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:28.440
<v Speaker 1>getting married and everything, just because of the way our

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:31.600
<v Speaker 1>relationship hit off. That's me, girl. I hit it off

0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:34.120
<v Speaker 1>with his cousins and he would always make comments about

0:47:34.160 --> 0:47:37.239
<v Speaker 1>my friendships with them. Fast forward a few years ago

0:47:37.680 --> 0:47:40.120
<v Speaker 1>and he chooses someone else over me, gets married and

0:47:40.200 --> 0:47:42.399
<v Speaker 1>moves on, and naturally I stopped hanging around the family

0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:44.560
<v Speaker 1>because it was awkward. And now his wife doesn't like me,

0:47:44.640 --> 0:47:46.759
<v Speaker 1>so we haven't spoken in two years, and then it

0:47:46.880 --> 0:47:49.600
<v Speaker 1>just got worse. I started talking to one of his cousins.

0:47:50.000 --> 0:47:52.279
<v Speaker 1>They aren't the closest, and he used to always tell

0:47:52.320 --> 0:47:53.879
<v Speaker 1>me had feelings for me and hatity when I talked

0:47:53.880 --> 0:47:56.680
<v Speaker 1>to you is because the other night I had a

0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:59.120
<v Speaker 1>night of drinking and hanging. We fucked and after finishing

0:47:59.360 --> 0:48:02.520
<v Speaker 1>in the middle cleaning, he says, don't you regret choosing

0:48:02.560 --> 0:48:05.320
<v Speaker 1>my coversin over me all these years ago? I was

0:48:05.400 --> 0:48:07.799
<v Speaker 1>speechless and I didn't know how to answer. It's been

0:48:07.840 --> 0:48:09.960
<v Speaker 1>a week now and he turned into a cocky asshole,

0:48:10.080 --> 0:48:12.200
<v Speaker 1>ringing it up whenever he can. Do you think that

0:48:12.280 --> 0:48:15.160
<v Speaker 1>he used me to one up his cousin? And how

0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:17.960
<v Speaker 1>do you think I should take it? Side note? As

0:48:18.040 --> 0:48:19.840
<v Speaker 1>I was writing this, I literally got a d M

0:48:19.960 --> 0:48:23.680
<v Speaker 1>from my best friend saying my neighbor d M her

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:26.920
<v Speaker 1>asking if she knew why I was hanging out with

0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:29.799
<v Speaker 1>the cousin. What are they playing at? Do you think

0:48:29.920 --> 0:48:32.319
<v Speaker 1>that the cousin revenge fucked her or he really have less?

0:48:33.120 --> 0:48:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't think he had feelings, but he just you know,

0:48:35.400 --> 0:48:36.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't think there was feelings at all. They said

0:48:37.080 --> 0:48:38.719
<v Speaker 1>they went out and they was drunk. He said, I've

0:48:38.719 --> 0:48:40.680
<v Speaker 1>had feelings for you for for years, That's what I said.

0:48:40.800 --> 0:48:42.640
<v Speaker 1>I think he gaslighted her to get in some pussy.

0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:44.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it was a revenge thing, but if

0:48:44.880 --> 0:48:47.239
<v Speaker 1>he's being a cocky household now and rubbing it in

0:48:49.600 --> 0:48:52.800
<v Speaker 1>but also that, but also they went out and we're drunk,

0:48:53.280 --> 0:48:56.239
<v Speaker 1>so I think he just also said what he needs

0:48:56.280 --> 0:48:58.880
<v Speaker 1>to say in that type of environment to get some pussy.

0:48:59.000 --> 0:49:01.359
<v Speaker 1>I agree. And one other thing I wanted to bring

0:49:01.480 --> 0:49:06.320
<v Speaker 1>up about this, so when it comes to fucking home boys,

0:49:07.000 --> 0:49:10.280
<v Speaker 1>do y'all think, because I really do believe this, maybe

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:12.759
<v Speaker 1>want to be better than a friend, especially when they know,

0:49:13.120 --> 0:49:15.480
<v Speaker 1>let alone cousin, let a home let alone a homeboy.

0:49:15.600 --> 0:49:18.239
<v Speaker 1>Like I really do believe there's a little thing where

0:49:18.280 --> 0:49:20.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just like I got it too. I don't think

0:49:20.040 --> 0:49:22.880
<v Speaker 1>they care. You don't think so do you think? And

0:49:22.880 --> 0:49:24.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't crew loved a couple of times, Like I

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:26.960
<v Speaker 1>don't think any of them have been like, oh was

0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:29.720
<v Speaker 1>mygic better than his? Like you don't think men compute

0:49:29.719 --> 0:49:31.560
<v Speaker 1>with each other? Look at all the like rappers that

0:49:31.640 --> 0:49:34.440
<v Speaker 1>date this, ye, I mean I think that's to stroke

0:49:34.520 --> 0:49:36.960
<v Speaker 1>their own ego though, Like I just want to know

0:49:37.040 --> 0:49:39.920
<v Speaker 1>that I could suck the same bitch is a Kanye

0:49:40.040 --> 0:49:42.120
<v Speaker 1>or something like that, because now it makes my ego better.

0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:45.400
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think, oh, I think it's weird as

0:49:45.800 --> 0:49:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I think it's grouping as fun it's but I also

0:49:48.080 --> 0:49:52.440
<v Speaker 1>don't think niggas are like, oh, let me outperform my

0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:55.359
<v Speaker 1>homeboy with this bitch. I think it's just like if

0:49:55.400 --> 0:49:56.919
<v Speaker 1>we fought the same bitch, we fought the same bitch,

0:49:57.400 --> 0:49:59.800
<v Speaker 1>made the best one. Hunger games may the best sequen.

0:50:00.000 --> 0:50:03.320
<v Speaker 1>So I'm to get in that I sucked like friends.

0:50:03.800 --> 0:50:06.600
<v Speaker 1>I totally forget about it because they were such a

0:50:06.680 --> 0:50:11.120
<v Speaker 1>large fan and they aren't friends anymore. Yeah, like it

0:50:11.200 --> 0:50:13.360
<v Speaker 1>was maybe like four years in between it, and then

0:50:13.400 --> 0:50:15.439
<v Speaker 1>they didn't sunk with each other anywhere. Something they nigga said,

0:50:15.520 --> 0:50:17.720
<v Speaker 1>like they be fan want to shoot each other. But anyway,

0:50:18.120 --> 0:50:21.560
<v Speaker 1>Florida niggas, one of them asked me recently when I

0:50:21.640 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 1>was in Florida that no, he didn't ask me. He

0:50:25.360 --> 0:50:26.800
<v Speaker 1>was drunk. He was like, you know, I know you

0:50:26.960 --> 0:50:28.880
<v Speaker 1>sucked so and so I hate when they do that.

0:50:28.960 --> 0:50:33.200
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, who told you that? I didn't

0:50:33.200 --> 0:50:36.440
<v Speaker 1>even say no, let us teld you, And he was like,

0:50:36.520 --> 0:50:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I already know a few visites all of them tell

0:50:38.640 --> 0:50:40.480
<v Speaker 1>me about Dick is bigger and even though it was

0:50:40.560 --> 0:50:43.920
<v Speaker 1>bigger that he bothered. That was Lane. That's as much

0:50:44.000 --> 0:50:46.359
<v Speaker 1>bro he hat on his homeboys. What are you doing?

0:50:46.400 --> 0:50:49.680
<v Speaker 1>And that's Lane? That lame is fault. You should have

0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:52.000
<v Speaker 1>been like you all puss That as Lane mass nigger

0:50:52.080 --> 0:50:57.239
<v Speaker 1>right to his face. Since in Florida that's some labor's lane,

0:50:58.200 --> 0:51:02.680
<v Speaker 1>so fucking small. I was like this nigga, really no

0:51:02.880 --> 0:51:04.840
<v Speaker 1>because he I sucked him first. But the point is,

0:51:04.880 --> 0:51:09.800
<v Speaker 1>like nigga like huh like lame? First of all, it

0:51:09.960 --> 0:51:12.279
<v Speaker 1>was his his dick was bigger. But the homeboy had

0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:14.200
<v Speaker 1>better dick, if you know what I'm saying. He was

0:51:14.480 --> 0:51:18.480
<v Speaker 1>pussy better that that was your That's that was your

0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:21.480
<v Speaker 1>time to be a real afga. No, that's where you

0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:23.600
<v Speaker 1>gotta be like, well, actually, I ain't gonna hold you

0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:26.319
<v Speaker 1>because the way that nigga ate my pussy you might

0:51:26.360 --> 0:51:28.440
<v Speaker 1>be able to learn as you think you know that's me.

0:51:28.680 --> 0:51:31.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm old Karen, boys. I was like, we had sex

0:51:31.440 --> 0:51:34.840
<v Speaker 1>eight years ago. You want to be diplomatic about it.

0:51:35.960 --> 0:51:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to remember that your dick was bigger, and

0:51:38.160 --> 0:51:40.359
<v Speaker 1>for some reason you want to tell me that other

0:51:40.440 --> 0:51:42.759
<v Speaker 1>bitches have said it. So basically, every woman that you

0:51:42.840 --> 0:51:44.960
<v Speaker 1>slept with has went and sucked your cuter homeboy. I mean,

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna hold you. That happened to me. Uh

0:51:47.640 --> 0:51:49.680
<v Speaker 1>And it wasn't I guess the revenge. But one of

0:51:49.719 --> 0:51:51.239
<v Speaker 1>the things that I was really in love way, and

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I talked about him on the show, so I'm gonna

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:55.680
<v Speaker 1>say his name. But I ended up sucking his college roommate,

0:51:56.440 --> 0:51:59.480
<v Speaker 1>and the college roommate actually let the college roommate got

0:51:59.520 --> 0:52:02.000
<v Speaker 1>a smoothie the morning. So when he tried to come

0:52:02.040 --> 0:52:05.400
<v Speaker 1>at me and shame me for fucking his college roommates,

0:52:05.600 --> 0:52:07.840
<v Speaker 1>where they roommates when you were no, no, no, no,

0:52:08.360 --> 0:52:10.800
<v Speaker 1>my nigga was in the league. Now this nigga wasn't,

0:52:11.000 --> 0:52:13.440
<v Speaker 1>but he was playing ball overseas. But we ended up

0:52:13.480 --> 0:52:15.800
<v Speaker 1>sucking when he was. This was when I lived in Miami,

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:17.480
<v Speaker 1>So this is how long ago it was. So we

0:52:17.600 --> 0:52:19.640
<v Speaker 1>fun when I was living in Miami and the dick

0:52:19.800 --> 0:52:22.200
<v Speaker 1>was good. So of course years later, the nigga that

0:52:22.239 --> 0:52:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I was still working with try to throw it in

0:52:24.280 --> 0:52:27.080
<v Speaker 1>my face like yeah, and you did this, and I

0:52:27.239 --> 0:52:31.279
<v Speaker 1>had to be like, listen. As awful as that was,

0:52:31.680 --> 0:52:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna see him said. I regretted it because

0:52:33.560 --> 0:52:35.320
<v Speaker 1>the dick was actually good, and I told him to

0:52:35.440 --> 0:52:37.560
<v Speaker 1>his face, like I know you're trying to sit here

0:52:37.920 --> 0:52:40.440
<v Speaker 1>and slut shame me because I sucked your friend, but

0:52:41.200 --> 0:52:43.879
<v Speaker 1>we weren't talking. I didn't think we would still continue talking,

0:52:44.080 --> 0:52:45.719
<v Speaker 1>and the dick was good, So what are you trying

0:52:45.719 --> 0:52:47.799
<v Speaker 1>to slut shame me or throw shade at your friend?

0:52:48.120 --> 0:52:49.920
<v Speaker 1>We both enjoyed it because he's still trying to get it,

0:52:50.040 --> 0:52:51.960
<v Speaker 1>so I don't know where this is going, but I

0:52:52.080 --> 0:52:53.920
<v Speaker 1>let him know straight up, like you're not gonna shame me.

0:52:54.600 --> 0:52:56.359
<v Speaker 1>And I think that it's real wacked that he sat

0:52:56.400 --> 0:52:58.440
<v Speaker 1>there and kind of tried to throw shade at his homeboy.

0:52:58.719 --> 0:53:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I know, Like that's why who was be hating a

0:53:01.160 --> 0:53:05.520
<v Speaker 1>lot though hater and all the time, Like women are

0:53:05.640 --> 0:53:07.719
<v Speaker 1>so much at in the middle of that ship and

0:53:07.800 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 1>it's just annoying, Like can I get some decks damn

0:53:11.520 --> 0:53:14.320
<v Speaker 1>anyway and tell the people where to find you. You

0:53:14.320 --> 0:53:16.400
<v Speaker 1>can find me on g at the mass investor what

0:53:16.520 --> 0:53:20.520
<v Speaker 1>is your only fans account? I don't have alright, masturbator

0:53:23.200 --> 0:53:27.080
<v Speaker 1>coming for me. A man know a little bit a

0:53:27.120 --> 0:53:29.520
<v Speaker 1>little bit um join red Panda dot com. You can

0:53:29.560 --> 0:53:31.440
<v Speaker 1>find me on market Monday. So with my guys. Um

0:53:32.239 --> 0:53:35.040
<v Speaker 1>a tramp shot shot at Mike. Damn everybody over there,

0:53:35.160 --> 0:53:38.520
<v Speaker 1>give us a little horrible decisions for your text, for

0:53:38.600 --> 0:53:40.839
<v Speaker 1>your stop people. We need to do that for real.

0:53:40.960 --> 0:53:42.880
<v Speaker 1>What we're gonna make it. Let's make a w d ye.

0:53:43.040 --> 0:53:44.839
<v Speaker 1>Make it you can make you create that right, make

0:53:44.880 --> 0:53:49.200
<v Speaker 1>it horrible, make it right now? Well and let them know, uh,

0:53:51.160 --> 0:53:53.200
<v Speaker 1>let let them know what. Red Panda is like the

0:53:53.239 --> 0:53:55.640
<v Speaker 1>easiest platform ever to know how to invest. So if

0:53:55.680 --> 0:53:58.120
<v Speaker 1>you've never invested before, I'll tell you where to get in,

0:53:58.200 --> 0:53:59.960
<v Speaker 1>where to get out, what's buy, what stops to try,

0:54:00.640 --> 0:54:02.560
<v Speaker 1>what to leave alone. I made you a little bit

0:54:02.560 --> 0:54:05.200
<v Speaker 1>of money, so you can tell you how to make

0:54:05.280 --> 0:54:07.040
<v Speaker 1>more money than your baby daddy that ain't trying to

0:54:07.040 --> 0:54:12.960
<v Speaker 1>pay your right you tell them no, let me talk

0:54:12.960 --> 0:54:17.120
<v Speaker 1>about okay, yes, Like so I'm in a Red Pantic

0:54:17.160 --> 0:54:19.520
<v Speaker 1>club and I've learned and really it was, um I

0:54:19.680 --> 0:54:23.000
<v Speaker 1>joined over quarantine and I started teaching myself how to invest.

0:54:24.280 --> 0:54:25.880
<v Speaker 1>And I will just say this, this is sucked up

0:54:25.880 --> 0:54:28.439
<v Speaker 1>to say because Ian was like, oh, you guys should

0:54:28.480 --> 0:54:30.480
<v Speaker 1>learn how to do your own stuff, and like you

0:54:30.480 --> 0:54:33.000
<v Speaker 1>should know what you're doing, Like if not, if I'm

0:54:33.040 --> 0:54:35.200
<v Speaker 1>ever not around and basically saying, like, know where your

0:54:35.239 --> 0:54:37.080
<v Speaker 1>money is going, and I will tell y'all it is.

0:54:37.560 --> 0:54:39.200
<v Speaker 1>That ship is very hard to do. And there's a

0:54:39.200 --> 0:54:40.560
<v Speaker 1>reason I had to pay to get in this club

0:54:40.600 --> 0:54:42.440
<v Speaker 1>because a bitch tried to just take a little bit

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:44.279
<v Speaker 1>of a guess at what was gonna make me some money,

0:54:44.320 --> 0:54:47.239
<v Speaker 1>and it didn't. So my ship was up until I

0:54:47.320 --> 0:54:49.120
<v Speaker 1>started making my own choices. And so now I just

0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:51.600
<v Speaker 1>basically click on this little telegram chat he got and

0:54:51.680 --> 0:54:53.560
<v Speaker 1>when he tell you what numbers to get in, what

0:54:53.640 --> 0:54:57.279
<v Speaker 1>did you invest in that didn't work? Big tip for

0:54:57.520 --> 0:55:00.239
<v Speaker 1>for the entire hor hib you know, with y'all hold

0:55:00.320 --> 0:55:04.719
<v Speaker 1>everything for at least five years. BlackBerry during the game

0:55:04.800 --> 0:55:09.560
<v Speaker 1>really now but it's searched am C but and I

0:55:09.719 --> 0:55:14.480
<v Speaker 1>just sold it. But BlackBerry was at one point supposed

0:55:14.480 --> 0:55:17.200
<v Speaker 1>to come back. It was just going crazy. The game stopped,

0:55:17.239 --> 0:55:20.080
<v Speaker 1>time stopped shorting type ship. But when I had you

0:55:20.120 --> 0:55:22.480
<v Speaker 1>get in Tesla and shopify and matching all that ship

0:55:22.600 --> 0:55:24.840
<v Speaker 1>last year though I didn't get in match but Tesla

0:55:25.160 --> 0:55:27.160
<v Speaker 1>was really my money maker. I probably made like Tangeran

0:55:27.200 --> 0:55:31.120
<v Speaker 1>on Tesla just last year's numbers alone from like a

0:55:31.239 --> 0:55:33.080
<v Speaker 1>few and then I jumped in back in when it

0:55:33.120 --> 0:55:35.239
<v Speaker 1>hit four hundred bucks and like, I really get in

0:55:35.280 --> 0:55:37.319
<v Speaker 1>at good times. UM. One that I did on my own,

0:55:37.360 --> 0:55:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I did okay with Uber, you did good on that,

0:55:40.880 --> 0:55:43.920
<v Speaker 1>um maderna Ian told me to get in at my Apple.

0:55:43.960 --> 0:55:45.759
<v Speaker 1>Ain't really doing nothing, but I will tell you two

0:55:46.080 --> 0:55:50.000
<v Speaker 1>happily you just keep you just have forty shares at Apple.

0:55:50.680 --> 0:55:54.400
<v Speaker 1>But Microsoft, I'm up on that. Um. And then I

0:55:54.440 --> 0:55:56.239
<v Speaker 1>bought a bunch of little medical stocks that Nick was

0:55:56.320 --> 0:55:58.200
<v Speaker 1>talking about online. I found that's so funny. Those are

0:55:58.200 --> 0:56:03.040
<v Speaker 1>the ones, uh suggested. He said, you get to something,

0:56:03.120 --> 0:56:07.360
<v Speaker 1>to something and here we go, there we go. Yeah,

0:56:07.440 --> 0:56:09.680
<v Speaker 1>shout out to my guy. UM. But no, like um,

0:56:09.760 --> 0:56:12.279
<v Speaker 1>it was really fun to like learn. And right now

0:56:12.320 --> 0:56:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I just don't have time, so I'll just be clicking

0:56:13.719 --> 0:56:16.120
<v Speaker 1>on what the NiCoT. You don't have to learn because

0:56:16.160 --> 0:56:19.920
<v Speaker 1>like especially for women like business people, you have to

0:56:19.960 --> 0:56:21.600
<v Speaker 1>have the money working for you. So while you're doing

0:56:21.719 --> 0:56:26.040
<v Speaker 1>working on other ventures, even if somebody does bad business, like,

0:56:26.280 --> 0:56:28.200
<v Speaker 1>there's money there. I always telp people like put the

0:56:28.280 --> 0:56:31.600
<v Speaker 1>money into the companies and CEOs that are better than

0:56:31.640 --> 0:56:33.879
<v Speaker 1>you and have them. And I know everybody online think

0:56:33.880 --> 0:56:35.799
<v Speaker 1>that they have a perspective is not from a place

0:56:35.840 --> 0:56:38.279
<v Speaker 1>of ego, but most people who talk about investment, they

0:56:38.320 --> 0:56:40.520
<v Speaker 1>haven't been doing this long and then they have no money.

0:56:41.080 --> 0:56:44.200
<v Speaker 1>Like so when I asked people like okay, they'll tell you, hey,

0:56:44.239 --> 0:56:45.919
<v Speaker 1>you should invest in this. I'm like, are you free?

0:56:46.239 --> 0:56:49.200
<v Speaker 1>That's the only question you should ask, are you financially free?

0:56:49.239 --> 0:56:52.000
<v Speaker 1>If not, they don't know. It just be a lot

0:56:52.080 --> 0:56:54.360
<v Speaker 1>of because like invest in now is a new hustle.

0:56:55.320 --> 0:56:57.319
<v Speaker 1>The rap ship didn't work, so everybody want to come up,

0:56:57.400 --> 0:56:58.960
<v Speaker 1>well if you get this, and I'm like, bro, no,

0:56:59.280 --> 0:57:02.160
<v Speaker 1>like you don't have enough money. Like and that's why

0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:05.200
<v Speaker 1>even like investing for Xander, if you have kids, please

0:57:05.239 --> 0:57:07.719
<v Speaker 1>put every dollar you can in for your kids. Like

0:57:08.200 --> 0:57:12.840
<v Speaker 1>Xander six, probably by the time he's twelve, he should

0:57:12.880 --> 0:57:14.960
<v Speaker 1>probably be up a million and a half. Well, even

0:57:15.000 --> 0:57:18.720
<v Speaker 1>if we're not financially free, investing is still locate even

0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:21.920
<v Speaker 1>more important because like you can buy all the stuff

0:57:21.960 --> 0:57:24.840
<v Speaker 1>that you want to in the world, but like we

0:57:25.040 --> 0:57:27.000
<v Speaker 1>often buy a lot of luxury ship because we're not

0:57:27.120 --> 0:57:29.120
<v Speaker 1>where we want to be financially Can I ask you

0:57:29.280 --> 0:57:33.440
<v Speaker 1>real quick to Then as someone listening to this episode down,

0:57:33.480 --> 0:57:35.320
<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh, well, I actually do want to invest

0:57:35.680 --> 0:57:39.280
<v Speaker 1>but I know I'm still in debt. What do you

0:57:39.360 --> 0:57:41.240
<v Speaker 1>what would you say to someone? What would you say

0:57:41.240 --> 0:57:45.280
<v Speaker 1>to someone who maybe has a heap of credit card

0:57:45.360 --> 0:57:49.440
<v Speaker 1>debt or student loans, should they not work towards paying

0:57:49.560 --> 0:57:51.920
<v Speaker 1>those off before investing? What would your advice be to them?

0:57:52.040 --> 0:57:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Invest first and then the second half pay off the debt.

0:57:56.040 --> 0:57:58.080
<v Speaker 1>So if you only have five bucks, I will split it,

0:57:58.680 --> 0:58:01.320
<v Speaker 1>because like these, it is going to be rich regardless.

0:58:01.400 --> 0:58:04.120
<v Speaker 1>American Express is going to be great. Citalong's gonna give

0:58:04.120 --> 0:58:05.760
<v Speaker 1>a funk about you. They don't. They ain't never get

0:58:05.880 --> 0:58:08.520
<v Speaker 1>any money. Like they just wrote me, like, um, I

0:58:08.600 --> 0:58:10.560
<v Speaker 1>think we need your updated number and address. No bit,

0:58:10.640 --> 0:58:14.600
<v Speaker 1>y'all ain't gonna find me. Send someone Oklahoma, you know,

0:58:14.880 --> 0:58:17.080
<v Speaker 1>sen send that ship somewhere. Because like, even if you

0:58:17.120 --> 0:58:19.200
<v Speaker 1>pay off all your debt and I'm debt free, but

0:58:19.520 --> 0:58:21.840
<v Speaker 1>being at zero, what happens when you go debt free?

0:58:22.040 --> 0:58:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Well I was gonna say that's the thing too. They

0:58:24.680 --> 0:58:26.680
<v Speaker 1>if you pay off all your credit cards, now that

0:58:26.920 --> 0:58:29.280
<v Speaker 1>even works. It gets your credit in an odd way.

0:58:29.280 --> 0:58:33.760
<v Speaker 1>You gotta keep at least and keep paying and then

0:58:33.840 --> 0:58:35.680
<v Speaker 1>keep paying. If you have an emergency, then you go

0:58:35.760 --> 0:58:37.880
<v Speaker 1>back into debt. People and miss out on ten years

0:58:37.920 --> 0:58:40.560
<v Speaker 1>of growth trying to pay off debt. And then it's

0:58:40.600 --> 0:58:44.120
<v Speaker 1>like you could have been up Sells episode about how

0:58:44.240 --> 0:58:46.200
<v Speaker 1>like it's the fucking interesting and crewing at least, like

0:58:46.200 --> 0:58:48.840
<v Speaker 1>what what's the point you know, if it's set it's

0:58:48.880 --> 0:58:52.160
<v Speaker 1>fixed rate. Well, but but that's who I come again from,

0:58:52.360 --> 0:58:55.160
<v Speaker 1>not only a single parent household, one with uh not

0:58:55.360 --> 0:58:57.439
<v Speaker 1>much financial literacy. I was one of the first people

0:58:57.440 --> 0:59:00.520
<v Speaker 1>in my family to go to college. So also me

0:59:00.720 --> 0:59:03.760
<v Speaker 1>quitting my job, my focus was having a savings account.

0:59:03.840 --> 0:59:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Good god, me having a savings account is a big

0:59:06.080 --> 0:59:09.200
<v Speaker 1>deal accomplishment. That's a huge accomplishment for how I grew up.

0:59:09.320 --> 0:59:13.080
<v Speaker 1>So that was of course my focus. And again through quarantine,

0:59:13.560 --> 0:59:16.120
<v Speaker 1>that was just talking to people. They're like, it's just

0:59:16.200 --> 0:59:18.240
<v Speaker 1>sitting there and it's not doing anything. You can at

0:59:18.320 --> 0:59:21.120
<v Speaker 1>least take a third of it invested and let that

0:59:21.360 --> 0:59:23.280
<v Speaker 1>make money for you because right now is just sitting there.

0:59:23.600 --> 0:59:25.400
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and if you do half and half, like

0:59:25.440 --> 0:59:27.760
<v Speaker 1>you get to a place where you're comfortable. I took

0:59:27.760 --> 0:59:32.400
<v Speaker 1>a third half with a lot can we do? But

0:59:32.480 --> 0:59:35.120
<v Speaker 1>once you find things that grow like same thing, like

0:59:36.120 --> 0:59:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I was like, shut up with that.

0:59:41.240 --> 0:59:43.480
<v Speaker 1>But if you get some good stocks that will make

0:59:43.560 --> 0:59:46.960
<v Speaker 1>you like mad like for those in the stock got there,

0:59:47.280 --> 0:59:51.280
<v Speaker 1>they're up like. So it's about what you invested. Now,

0:59:51.280 --> 0:59:53.480
<v Speaker 1>if you're only gonna get seven, I'll see why you

0:59:53.480 --> 0:59:56.560
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't one of us have. But for all creatives especially,

0:59:57.120 --> 0:59:58.800
<v Speaker 1>I won't created to be in a space where they

0:59:58.840 --> 1:00:02.040
<v Speaker 1>can create and not get robbed. So then if you

1:00:02.160 --> 1:00:04.840
<v Speaker 1>invest money into the market, no one can really tell

1:00:04.960 --> 1:00:06.840
<v Speaker 1>get us another durna bro, I got that ship is

1:00:06.880 --> 1:00:08.760
<v Speaker 1>seveny all this ship at two oh to today? Okay,

1:00:09.000 --> 1:00:11.680
<v Speaker 1>tell us and if you would have spent shut up

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<v Speaker 1>being anyway. Use the code next for DNA is Horrible Decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you a little bit about it and what

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<v Speaker 1>the code horrible We'll get you and then check us

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1:00:30.080 --> 1:00:32.560
<v Speaker 1>five dollars a month ago, all of the bonus episodes,

1:00:32.560 --> 1:00:35.000
<v Speaker 1>including a town hall for fifteen a month. You get

1:00:35.040 --> 1:00:37.600
<v Speaker 1>the merch and the video the hor hobby fucking too

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<v Speaker 1>so a fellows who're trying to they do wait no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not in a hor hibe, but some of my guys,

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<v Speaker 1>like after I did the first one, bro Tom got it,

1:00:46.640 --> 1:00:49.800
<v Speaker 1>I was like, damn for real. So fellas, if you

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<v Speaker 1>need I told you, no, we have our Patreon, but

1:00:53.480 --> 1:00:56.320
<v Speaker 1>just maybe ready to like they'd be looking for dick

1:00:56.400 --> 1:00:58.440
<v Speaker 1>am plussy. All of protos went in there drunk the

1:00:58.480 --> 1:00:59.840
<v Speaker 1>other night and one's talking to I was like, let

1:00:59.880 --> 1:01:01.520
<v Speaker 1>me out what I'm done with fans. I ain't even

1:01:01.520 --> 1:01:04.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you. So we do have hopefully I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lock him in. We have an upcoming episode with finally

1:01:07.840 --> 1:01:10.600
<v Speaker 1>a black man who enjoys being pegged. And after the

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<v Speaker 1>last town hall I mentioned it, bitch five of our

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<v Speaker 1>patients was like, oh yeah, we ran a gang bang

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<v Speaker 1>on him, Like oh yeah yeah, so like they already

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<v Speaker 1>knew who he was and everything. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>and you got some hole ass for instance, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's bonus, bitchy. Let me tell you about how he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a name. But my l a naked basically

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<v Speaker 1>was like, bitch, you got me sucked up last name.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh that's oh, you're coming in spicy with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't that spicy, but it's just like why he

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<v Speaker 1>as he funked up in what way? I have him

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<v Speaker 1>packed up? Now? Oh everyone, I love Brent France and

1:02:03.200 --> 1:02:06.600
<v Speaker 1>Brent Friya's has been doing a party called Wasting Time Wednesdays.

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<v Speaker 1>So I hit up my elen Nic and I was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>we out, like we're out, we go out right. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, um, He's like no, like you know, my

1:02:17.560 --> 1:02:22.560
<v Speaker 1>weeks be crazy. Um. I was like damn, like we

1:02:22.640 --> 1:02:24.840
<v Speaker 1>gotta fund to Brent. We gotta get some Brent going.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did forget that he does know Brent. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't really forget like I knew it,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, let me just explain. I'm not like a

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<v Speaker 1>fan like I want to sunk the ship out of

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<v Speaker 1>Brent Fridace. I just love his music, I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>like a J Cole thing for you, right, Like you

1:02:42.160 --> 1:02:43.720
<v Speaker 1>never really be like that nigga is so fun. You

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<v Speaker 1>just love his ship, right. So then I started playing

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<v Speaker 1>in him on FaceTime and dance around whatever. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you keep like playing this nigga ship talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how you want to suck me? Like you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cool with that nigga? And I was like does

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<v Speaker 1>it matter? Like because I want to suck you to

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga ship, Like are you serious? And he's like

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<v Speaker 1>every time, like you send me music or like you

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<v Speaker 1>try to get sexty and me you keep playing Brent yo,

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like it's sucking awkward And he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>and you'd be on this thing of the dick all

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<v Speaker 1>over Twitter and like, no, I funk with the nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, I know, and he was like

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<v Speaker 1>no easy. So like a week ago he was chilling

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<v Speaker 1>at Rents house, they were just smoking or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, yo, like what about if I talk about

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<v Speaker 1>you and then they can click on your ship and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, god damn, I wanna be with Brent right

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<v Speaker 1>now and all caps on Twitter and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't say that. Do you think they're Where is

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<v Speaker 1>their line where you sound like a groupie and then

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<v Speaker 1>where you could actually be a fan and also, excuse

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<v Speaker 1>the funk out of me. If I like playing music

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<v Speaker 1>to a nigga unit, sorry I masturbate to it being

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<v Speaker 1>a masturbation playlist for the last two or three years now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not ashamed of the ship, but like, now

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be wrong. And then he's like yo, like

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<v Speaker 1>when you get here, if we go out and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>around his nigga like how to funk you about to

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<v Speaker 1>be active? And I was like, Yo, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm gonna do trying to suck his dick in

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<v Speaker 1>the car Like no, I just like his ship. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also, I don't know. It's a tough one.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean to me, I mean I immediately went to

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<v Speaker 1>thinking insecure, like that nigga's insecure, he's projecting his insecurities. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I did go to thinking like nah, like

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<v Speaker 1>seven is not played in um. And I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>even remember going all the way back to one of

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<v Speaker 1>my ball players. We would watch these YouTube videos of

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<v Speaker 1>people singing covers and one of his he ended up

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<v Speaker 1>working with a bit that was on one of the

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<v Speaker 1>YouTube videos we was watching one night, so like I

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<v Speaker 1>would never want to see that again. Um, okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>I do mean I mean, well yeah, and that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's a there's a different with with all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I mean, it's weird because most people don't

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<v Speaker 1>have these close proximities to people. But I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>that's if that's someone as well, because you do go

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<v Speaker 1>out in l a and he knows that at any moment,

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<v Speaker 1>you could run into this nigga and if he's not there,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't know how you would act. I wouldn't one

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<v Speaker 1>know when gasing or sweating about my friend. Okay, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the way to think about it. Remember when you went

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<v Speaker 1>on the date and someone has asked you how Ki

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<v Speaker 1>Ki and Medina were or whoever was in personal where

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<v Speaker 1>I saw him at May But but I'm trying to,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm paralleling it. You don't want to hear about

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<v Speaker 1>someone that you're with fanning over someone you really know

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<v Speaker 1>out of respect for them. It's not even you could

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<v Speaker 1>be a fan. But if that if he's already but

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<v Speaker 1>if he if he's already said hey, that's my nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>and this you fanning for him makes me uncomfortable out

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<v Speaker 1>of just pure respect from him for him, I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't do it. But I didn't. I didn't know Mandy.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that he had a problem with it

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<v Speaker 1>until last night. I mean, but if he's like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hinted, like, yo, why that's my nigga? Chill last

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<v Speaker 1>night he made it like adamant because maybe he felt

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<v Speaker 1>like he told you enough times you know, chill out

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<v Speaker 1>on that nigga he said to me before, because he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you feel like we never had this conversation before.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I really thought he was playing with

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<v Speaker 1>me when I would be playing Brent and he We've

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<v Speaker 1>been around each other, and he'd be like, God, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>you love this nigga. And I'd be like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't