Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decision. Hello,
Speaker 1: wonderful people all around the world, Welcome to your what
Speaker 1: you don't like that either, God give it now. It's better. Okay,
Speaker 1: it was a little better. Okay. Welcome guys to another
Speaker 1: episode of Horrible Decisions. I am your girl, Mandy b
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Speaker 1: And oh yeah, I'm back baby. You see their crylic
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Speaker 1: about me like a no nigga, no mo. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have all the hose. Okay, Hey, and I am joined
Speaker 1: by are you saying that's how you bright? Thank you?
Speaker 1: I I am busy. Someone told me I have white
Speaker 1: girl diction but in a black girl tonality. Jesus, I
Speaker 1: don't let me know. But yeah, it means you by
Speaker 1: Rachel Okay, I mean which? Okay, my name is Wheezy
Speaker 1: and I am mathematic and we are joined by um
Speaker 1: some you may have heard his ads on her show before,
Speaker 1: or maybe on a Patreon episode. A fan of Horrible
Speaker 1: Decisions who is now a friend of mine and hoping
Speaker 1: Mandy can get into some stocks chat because I think
Speaker 1: you'll like them. I mean, Sure is getting me in there.
Speaker 1: Ye shout out, shout out to earn your leisure. And
Speaker 1: I know we talked briefly, but then we were supposed
Speaker 1: to do drinks and you just act like you got
Speaker 1: too busy to pull up so heat. He would be real,
Speaker 1: he would be a real like have like tendencies. He
Speaker 1: Zulu ship now though I don't do the quincys on here,
Speaker 1: but yeah, oh didn't you introduce him? Yes? Ian Dunlap,
Speaker 1: the master investor. UM tell us about the project you're
Speaker 1: on how where people may have known you from. You
Speaker 1: may see me on market Money's with earn your Leisure
Speaker 1: and shout out trying and shot um working on Unfiltered
Speaker 1: with you. Shout out wayo, Alex you and uh I
Speaker 1: got a couple other projects coming out to people not
Speaker 1: sure do know to be excited about pretty soon. So
Speaker 1: you know a little bit of well talk. I heard
Speaker 1: a little bit, but help people get the back. We're
Speaker 1: not here to talk about stocks today. On Patreon. He
Speaker 1: did give us some stock tips, but Ian is a
Speaker 1: daddy and me these things to be daddy's are like
Speaker 1: Twilve good. That's true, but I thought it would be
Speaker 1: cool to talk about just being a single dad conversation
Speaker 1: with your children, like we talked about it women so often.
Speaker 1: So it was just like, wh're not And I think
Speaker 1: we've even talked about doing this episode before. But then
Speaker 1: when Ian came to town, I was like, this is perfect.
Speaker 1: So here's the icebreakers I have for you, which you
Speaker 1: got to be ready, but you're about to start hot
Speaker 1: right of course, last time you came, how was it
Speaker 1: when it was not? Not the was it came here?
Speaker 1: Last time you ejaculated out of your dick? Thank you?
Speaker 1: If you watched kurbyan through Jackie, was it in someone's
Speaker 1: mouth in your hand from a porn? Tell us about
Speaker 1: that moment? Just what welcome to horrible decisions shout out today? Um?
Speaker 1: They did? I think? I know you don't want me
Speaker 1: to go too crazy, but yeah, it was amazing, I'll
Speaker 1: say that. So it wasn't from a porn. So now
Speaker 1: that you're not now the gen relationship like being in
Speaker 1: a relationship, do you watch porn often or is it
Speaker 1: like what you'll what's your what's your? What's the thing
Speaker 1: you search um latino, big gass, step brother, step brother,
Speaker 1: w incest, watch everything? Why step brothers? Is that considered incest?
Speaker 1: Not really because through marriage and ship right now, because
Speaker 1: you'll be trying to time when you talk about sucking
Speaker 1: people with their fathers, but they wouldn't be sucking each
Speaker 1: other that I would just be in the middle. Bro
Speaker 1: that so much. Technically they're both just having sex with me. Oh,
Speaker 1: but it is a three sona a three song. So
Speaker 1: wait wait step brother? Are you a step brother? But
Speaker 1: this is category that just comes up just like whatever,
Speaker 1: it just comes up. Its like the acting seems Yeah,
Speaker 1: the acting is fantastic. That's what I'm going for. Yeah,
Speaker 1: why what do they say? What's your no? No? No?
Speaker 1: I mean it's just it's not like a rhyme of
Speaker 1: reason to it. Like I don't be like, oh I
Speaker 1: don't have like a favorite to catalog or like collection
Speaker 1: and ship save. It's like I have been looking like
Speaker 1: what babysitters. It's not weird and it's bad as stepbrother,
Speaker 1: but weird your log or what you look at on
Speaker 1: you poor? I have no shame book hockey have any
Speaker 1: teen gang gang because they just only because they'd be
Speaker 1: like smaller and like tinier and innocent are looking like
Speaker 1: because I like girls that are subs, so I only
Speaker 1: type in team because they normally have to play the
Speaker 1: act up of like being a sub. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because it's difficult to find porn where I
Speaker 1: feel like a girl is in a gang bang and
Speaker 1: totally stepping out if it's not rough, because I can't
Speaker 1: handle when they're like too. If someone's too rough with
Speaker 1: black girls important, it ruins me. We're more Freddie Gibbs
Speaker 1: that I got Black Lives Matter pussy. Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 1: It's true. I do get Really i'd be like in
Speaker 1: the middle of it and be like, oh, this is racist.
Speaker 1: But the babysitter ship I do like, probably because that's
Speaker 1: the life I want to live. I want like a
Speaker 1: cute little babysitter that's in college and she's just like,
Speaker 1: thanks for the extra money this week, or you want
Speaker 1: to take advantage of your Is that what it kind
Speaker 1: of take advantage if I want her to suck me too,
Speaker 1: But like, yeah, she's a college college and you gotta
Speaker 1: just started college and be nothing else. I feel like
Speaker 1: the backstory of it, you know, watch for stories so
Speaker 1: then when you just said you like to acting and
Speaker 1: the stop, brother, that's the little bullshit I put on
Speaker 1: top of it. Let me do my thing. Do you
Speaker 1: ever do like the acting? Would? I love it? I
Speaker 1: told you That's why I really liked when Lisa Ann
Speaker 1: came on, because she's normally like a rellator and the
Speaker 1: moving man coming gang banger and ship like. She's a
Speaker 1: really good actor though, but that's but that's all. You
Speaker 1: might have down payment? But do you have DP for me?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, I really I do
Speaker 1: like acting. However, now and I think I mentioned this,
Speaker 1: I'm really and maybe because it's the only fans culture.
Speaker 1: I really like amateur porn now, but like you know,
Speaker 1: it's getting in the summer time and I do like
Speaker 1: to do it by date. I do not want to
Speaker 1: see your motherfucking floor ceiling the floor fan in the
Speaker 1: porn because now I know the room is hot. I
Speaker 1: don't like the when when the environment just looks messy,
Speaker 1: like I don't watch niggas on mattresses on the floor
Speaker 1: and I'm like, get a frame, but it still looks
Speaker 1: claw but it's still just like no, like do some
Speaker 1: decors somewhere like I've literally watched I have literally watched
Speaker 1: porns where they have sheets as curtains over the windows
Speaker 1: because then but it's the niggas that got them big
Speaker 1: old dicks. But they just they just holped us right now.
Speaker 1: They're homeless right now, so they showcasing it so they
Speaker 1: can get a home. Clearly, hobo sexual girls are on
Speaker 1: me that she was watching some hood point the other day.
Speaker 1: I was like, like, what's the good port and she's like,
Speaker 1: you know, you could tell us like a gang bang initiation.
Speaker 1: She was like, but I try to zoom in just
Speaker 1: to make the make sure the girl's consenting. I was like,
Speaker 1: look good for you. Yeah, And you know what's real
Speaker 1: hood porn because they still go to the motels with
Speaker 1: the like flowered sheets and wallpaper, and I'd be like
Speaker 1: that y'all couldn't have just all collectively gotten a better
Speaker 1: hotel room to do this scene, and yeah, it'd be bad,
Speaker 1: I will tell you, bro. Eddie and I were like,
Speaker 1: whenever I'm in l A, I'm normally staying at hotels
Speaker 1: and Eddie m from for fact sake, will come and
Speaker 1: we'll record together and he always has equipment and he
Speaker 1: was like, dude, every time I comes to your hotel room,
Speaker 1: I feel like people think we're about to shoot a
Speaker 1: because that's what they do in l A. Right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So he left his camera equipment and so I was
Speaker 1: a lot of time I stayed there. He said. He
Speaker 1: came back and he said they were so rude. He's like,
Speaker 1: they thought we were making for him, bro. But I mean,
Speaker 1: it makes sense. The last time that we went to record, um,
Speaker 1: I was like, I was on a guest on the
Speaker 1: podcast and I remember like having a bag in my
Speaker 1: room and they were like, what are you filming, dada?
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, like, it's just a YouTube thing.
Speaker 1: It's just content. Are you sure it's YouTube? So at
Speaker 1: first I thought that they were talking about like a
Speaker 1: feature film, because you need you need to. Then I realized,
Speaker 1: like the bishop was with yeah, and so did I.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, but you don't act like
Speaker 1: it was just the girl you were with. Look at you.
Speaker 1: It's hot girls something out there. You look like a
Speaker 1: home you show me. I look like a lesbian sometimes,
Speaker 1: so you look like a lesbian hole I've met by
Speaker 1: the clothes you It's not my life, But I don't
Speaker 1: show you the girl. I mean I would porn star,
Speaker 1: but I ain't. No, I don't know would you if
Speaker 1: you ended up, let's say, ever dating a point star
Speaker 1: in your life. I'm good on that. Why I couldn't
Speaker 1: do that, I think it's lame. A suddenly agree. Why
Speaker 1: is the lame? I wouldn't do that, it's not what
Speaker 1: not what I'm into? Well, if you did and she
Speaker 1: was anonymous and she just needed your anonymous dick. Do
Speaker 1: you know Leo and Leia whatever, the white couple, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know white people. They're like, really, I don't
Speaker 1: know many. They go crazy on Twitter, like even black people.
Speaker 1: You're tweeting them. That's not obviously them because I don't
Speaker 1: really have white points. So I was on my Twitter
Speaker 1: but maybe even be nasty put them on my ship.
Speaker 1: But they don't show their faces. They do really elaborate
Speaker 1: porn and like the Amazon for us, like we've talked
Speaker 1: about that we would we wouldn't even be able to
Speaker 1: do that. Like I can't even give a hand job
Speaker 1: because of my tattoos, but I have too many. I
Speaker 1: have too much ink to do anonymous point. I was
Speaker 1: thinking to myself, like if I had no tattoos, would
Speaker 1: I ever do it, and I feel like I'd have
Speaker 1: a dead give up. Or I did tell you I
Speaker 1: was gonna do it. Uh. Back when I was talking
Speaker 1: to Lawyer Bay, Yeah, he wanted to do like comic
Speaker 1: con type ship, and I said, I said, I don't
Speaker 1: mind dressing up like Wonder Woman with a hole in
Speaker 1: the cross area for you to funk me because I
Speaker 1: knew it would cover up all my tattoos. I would
Speaker 1: have a mask on. I was ready, so I would
Speaker 1: probably do it that way. Actually I don't know how
Speaker 1: much right now. Yeah, but I don't know how much
Speaker 1: My ask woul jiggle in latex. You were talking about
Speaker 1: doing your feet point with the dick. Oh yeah, I
Speaker 1: would do like right now, I would get foot jobs
Speaker 1: on um only fans, but I don't have my only
Speaker 1: fans anymore because bits you have three pods. I'm doing
Speaker 1: all this other ship. Like people don't understand either. Like
Speaker 1: I was just I was just talking to a guy
Speaker 1: points Porno Starry, but then he let me know right
Speaker 1: now he doesn't have sex outside of work, not that
Speaker 1: I was trying to. We would just have a conversation,
Speaker 1: but he was like, um, we were talking about it,
Speaker 1: and he was like commending me on like all the
Speaker 1: stuff we do. He was like, you'd be putting in
Speaker 1: work and said, nigga, so do you. I watched it,
Speaker 1: but also like shooting that content for even only Fanship
Speaker 1: is just as complicated as you do, Master Investor. We
Speaker 1: do horrible decisions on other podcasts that Only Fanship is
Speaker 1: a lot of work. So when it comes to the
Speaker 1: foot Ship, it's just too much work. Even though shout
Speaker 1: out miss a photographer, he willing to still do it,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, nah, it's too much work for me
Speaker 1: to upkeep it is holding to film you with Nick.
Speaker 1: What a nice person. If I was like he he
Speaker 1: features in some of it, so that's why I was curious.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, he's doing other dicks. I'm just oh, yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I think he wanted his dick, which is why I
Speaker 1: was like, no, I would want another dick. I would
Speaker 1: want Sure he wanted his dick, Mandy, I'm sure you're sure.
Speaker 1: I want to whose dick? I'm sure he wanted his dick.
Speaker 1: Of course he did. And I was like, let's just
Speaker 1: tie my feet up, just just put oil on them.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna do come, just do oil. Are you sure? Alright,
Speaker 1: So you know what makes this even funnier. Anybody who
Speaker 1: wants a church to me, if you see this ship,
Speaker 1: shout out to the congregation. We know y'all home man
Speaker 1: being the chain since he was a little boy. You're
Speaker 1: an adult now look stock everybody in the church. The church.
Speaker 1: Of course, it goes up and down. I know, freely
Speaker 1: fired greenly you've been talking about church and tell us
Speaker 1: if you have you ever had a threesome? Yea in
Speaker 1: a threesome? Curious to know did you? Were you dating
Speaker 1: one of them? So how did this start? Because a
Speaker 1: lot of people ask us questions about how threesomes start
Speaker 1: for us, and I feel like Mandy and I, it's
Speaker 1: easy for us to have up no offense, but just
Speaker 1: because just because we're already like speaking. Oh no, I
Speaker 1: actually was gonna say that. I was gonna say horrible
Speaker 1: decisions ship. But then also what I sunk on my friends,
Speaker 1: we'd be out a lot like we'd be parted strangers.
Speaker 1: I sucked my friends. That's the difference. Don't whoa bro?
Speaker 1: You go down a bar? Oh my god, you're cute.
Speaker 1: My nigga is cute too. You want to join us?
Speaker 1: And they're not strange people. They're strangers people. Yes, I'm
Speaker 1: not judging. I'm asking. I'm not judging. It's a question
Speaker 1: do they me you breathe? I didn't say strange it
Speaker 1: on YouTube right now, y'all, y'all were strangers at one point.
Speaker 1: See everybody was changing at one point though. Okay, so anyway,
Speaker 1: not my friends when you had yours, where they were
Speaker 1: they quote unquote strangers? Did you know him? Was it
Speaker 1: a college thing? How did it happen? It was like college.
Speaker 1: It was just like drunk being out. I think it
Speaker 1: was like sports, like the popular bar at the time.
Speaker 1: Did you feel pressure to perform m because I didn't
Speaker 1: didn't know him being cared about them, so it was
Speaker 1: about me. It's different if you like gave a funk
Speaker 1: about one of them, you're telling me you would have
Speaker 1: put a little more efvidence. Man felt more pressure. But
Speaker 1: it's like when you're college, you drunk, you're having you're
Speaker 1: just having phone Like I'm not like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: if I don't give my best dick ever, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: feel so funked up like I would. I'm definitely my
Speaker 1: best dude, Like I'm giving my best Actually, I at you.
Speaker 1: I didn't have to do this a lot work. They
Speaker 1: didn't both get a hundred. They both didn't get percent
Speaker 1: out of me. I thought you were high. I mean,
Speaker 1: I wasn't handed the most effort to there, so that
Speaker 1: that was the problem. My man that brought me into
Speaker 1: it at the time, so well, he wasn't my man.
Speaker 1: He was like friend. He was boom lover that ship.
Speaker 1: He brought me in and I sucked him and his
Speaker 1: best friend. But I was so high at one point
Speaker 1: I didn't know who was really fucking me. But then
Speaker 1: I noticed the friends dick was great. So literally the
Speaker 1: problem was the friend was the friend's dick was good.
Speaker 1: So I was just making all these extra noises with
Speaker 1: the friend and I was like, I was high. I
Speaker 1: didn't you know. Well, my friend at first thought that
Speaker 1: the best friend was doing something wrong, like he was
Speaker 1: hurting me or something. He was he was he was
Speaker 1: and um, he thought you were hurt. He thought. He
Speaker 1: was like, man, what you're doing? And I was like,
Speaker 1: he's good. Yeah, like and it was like two like
Speaker 1: the next morning, my friend, Uh, y'all know, I ended
Speaker 1: up in the ice bath that night. The edibles really hit.
Speaker 1: Oh no, well, so the edibles really hit me. Mind you,
Speaker 1: this was my first time best friend, so at the time,
Speaker 1: he was in the NFL, so he brought me to
Speaker 1: fuck him and his best friend. And that was why
Speaker 1: you came. What like, that's why you flew out. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I knew I wanted to do that. So I thought
Speaker 1: this happened because you were lit. No, we had already
Speaker 1: talked about It was kind of bland. And then when
Speaker 1: I saw he was nice. He was like wanting to
Speaker 1: take me to the food trucks. I like, this is
Speaker 1: my first time in the city, you know, so anyway,
Speaker 1: even just being real nice. So anyways, we were all
Speaker 1: supposed to go bowling that night, but they pulled out
Speaker 1: these edibles. Mind were on the West coast, so they
Speaker 1: pull out these edibles from the freezer. Hey, if there's
Speaker 1: edibles in a freezer, y'all better just leave him ships along.
Speaker 1: So because I had got highway him already before. It
Speaker 1: was literally a gummy bearer one one fucking gummy money.
Speaker 1: The last time I was with him, he thought I
Speaker 1: was gonna die because I was like smoke weed. So
Speaker 1: I took half a brownie, half a turtle in a
Speaker 1: gummy This time, I was like, I'm just doing it
Speaker 1: gummy bear. So we were I took the gummy bear.
Speaker 1: We're supposed to go bowling. Next thing you know, I'm
Speaker 1: in the bathroom like I'm crying, laughing. He's like, I
Speaker 1: don't think we're gonna make it bowling, so let's just
Speaker 1: go in the room. So we go into the room
Speaker 1: and I started, you know, doing what I do, and
Speaker 1: then the friend we just start sucking. And the next
Speaker 1: thing you know, in the middle of the fucking he
Speaker 1: actually made me squirt. So maybe I needed my fluids,
Speaker 1: which is why the friend was making me squirt. And
Speaker 1: I was like a luckily, luckily like my dudes that
Speaker 1: I was lit at a time, I think, not that
Speaker 1: he's a cut, but I think he really enjoyed seeing
Speaker 1: me be pleasured. But in the beginning, it was just
Speaker 1: like a bro abra chill out, like don't hurt, hurt,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not being hurt. But at
Speaker 1: one point I didn't even know who was can me
Speaker 1: until then I in my highways figured. But then so
Speaker 1: when I got done, a bitch was exhausted because the
Speaker 1: bitch just took you know, football, dick. These are big
Speaker 1: body niggers, so I'm exhausted. Well one didn't make it
Speaker 1: to the NFL, but he did play at one point
Speaker 1: in his life. At one point that's where they met,
Speaker 1: you know. Um and so I'm tired. So bitch I
Speaker 1: can't move. So they're like mandee and they're gonna like this,
Speaker 1: bitch I can't move. I'm like, I'm hot. So they
Speaker 1: go and get ice packed out the freezer and put
Speaker 1: it on me. Bitch I didn't even feel them bitches
Speaker 1: they mind you. He was still in the league. He said, oh, bitch,
Speaker 1: you can't die here. I'm still playing. They're going to
Speaker 1: get ice, the ice bags because we was drinking, so
Speaker 1: we had like ice, the cubes. They had like the
Speaker 1: jacuzzi tub in the master bed. They just start running
Speaker 1: cold water and they picked me up and it's like, nah, bro,
Speaker 1: you gotta be alive. So they put me in the
Speaker 1: goddam ice bed and my niggas and there just talking
Speaker 1: to me, making sure like you good. Many like he
Speaker 1: started bathing me and s I'm like, okay, I'm good now.
Speaker 1: It took a while, but yeah, so that was my
Speaker 1: three some edible never again. You probably had that hyper
Speaker 1: me sit it. No, that's not he would not have to. Yeah. God,
Speaker 1: it was bad. And he was just like, hey, bro, alright,
Speaker 1: we're not gonna do edibles the rest of the weekend.
Speaker 1: Did you said? Please just bring my look at did you?
Speaker 1: Him and his friend again? So I was an awful lover.
Speaker 1: I ended up actually sleeping in the friend's room that
Speaker 1: night because I had my own room. We all had
Speaker 1: our own rooms in the house, and I snuck. And
Speaker 1: when I started sucking a friend and then that's the
Speaker 1: friend that also fell in love with me and wrote
Speaker 1: me a love letter, and they wanted to wanted to
Speaker 1: like be with me after this threesome, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I can't because I'm still working with this nigga, and
Speaker 1: this nigga look out for me son, so I gotta
Speaker 1: keep sucking him. He still look out for me of
Speaker 1: his day. He's great. He's one of the only niggas
Speaker 1: that remained a friend even though I didn't talk to
Speaker 1: him during my relationship. I was like, I gotta I
Speaker 1: got a man now, so I can't really talk and
Speaker 1: now we're back talking. Hold on, wait, I need it. Wait,
Speaker 1: but you went and the friend while the other one
Speaker 1: was sleep Why didn't you sleep with the other one
Speaker 1: if he was your boo at the time, like sleep
Speaker 1: in the bed with him because he's married. We didn't
Speaker 1: cuddling ship like that. We all had our rooms in
Speaker 1: the house. He was married, nigger, We wasn't cuddling. We're friends, lover.
Speaker 1: Did know you, homeboy? He knew? Uh yeah, No, he wasn't,
Speaker 1: man because I told him. But also I had to
Speaker 1: start telling him like, Yo, your man's just like writing
Speaker 1: me poems like so I'm sending him the poems like
Speaker 1: your man's want me to come back out there without
Speaker 1: you like I had to. But this was the second
Speaker 1: friend that did Mandy b in the beast for beautiful.
Speaker 1: Don't do that? I know? Literally, Oh it was. I
Speaker 1: might be able to find the poem. Find the poem.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put it on, gonna put on Patreon. I'm
Speaker 1: sure I can find the poem. It was. It was intense.
Speaker 1: He still he still mind you. This was maybe this
Speaker 1: happened maybe five years ago now that Negga to this
Speaker 1: day texted me every birthday, still happy birthday, hope everything
Speaker 1: going good with you. I see you doing your things
Speaker 1: still to this day. That's why when I tell you
Speaker 1: this puts it good, baby, like how you really want me?
Speaker 1: And I sucked you and your friend and then told
Speaker 1: your friend and almost died. He said he had never
Speaker 1: felt that connection friend talking about how I was a demon,
Speaker 1: but almost threw up. I think we'd be putting on
Speaker 1: our best performance. We do. You gotta put your best
Speaker 1: performance on moving forward? Okay, alright, alright, best performance? So
Speaker 1: the only last one I had was for all of
Speaker 1: us to do. Since this is the baby Daddy episode, Oh,
Speaker 1: you picked the hottest milk. We picked the hottest baby daddy.
Speaker 1: Who do you think the hottest milk on the planet
Speaker 1: is hottest? Really? I didn't even know you love Beyonce
Speaker 1: like that. I mean I don't. But she fine, she is,
Speaker 1: and she had a lot of them, and every time
Speaker 1: she pops another one out? She who else had one? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Who else thought that it was hot? I thought you
Speaker 1: was gonna say, j low, little Latin. I love Joel nice.
Speaker 1: So she bade she looks great for a daddy. Let
Speaker 1: me see, Jason Momo. Can I be honest with you?
Speaker 1: I feel so funked up to say this because he's married.
Speaker 1: I don't give yes, I do, Okay, I like, really,
Speaker 1: I believe in karma and I'm terrified. I want to
Speaker 1: have a family, and I'm really scared if I, like
Speaker 1: ever fu married dude or do something like you never
Speaker 1: know nobody who married, like probably when I was like
Speaker 1: younger and didn't even really know it. Like I've really
Speaker 1: tried not to My first real boyfriend I ever had
Speaker 1: after dating him for three months. You remember how traumatic
Speaker 1: a us I found out he was married. We had
Speaker 1: been on vacation together, wasn't at two cities, Puerto Rico,
Speaker 1: New Orleans. Like then I found out he was married.
Speaker 1: He went to Hawaii on a work trip, but I
Speaker 1: couldn't talk to me at certain hours, and oh, I
Speaker 1: gotta broke my heart. And then they got divorced. And
Speaker 1: I really feel like when they got divorced, we ended
Speaker 1: up together like that was my Like I feel like
Speaker 1: it was my fault. Um, and I was only eighteen
Speaker 1: years old. I was terrible. So now I feel like
Speaker 1: if I do, if that happens, I'll be fucked. Maybe
Speaker 1: that's why God made me a hole. The rest of
Speaker 1: the years, he's like, oh yeah, we gonna fuck you.
Speaker 1: But anyway, so um for a baby daddy, I didn't
Speaker 1: know how attractive Lebron was, and so seeing this person
Speaker 1: and oh my god, and his wife is super cute
Speaker 1: in person too, like she's hot, and then they're really hot.
Speaker 1: And I was just thinking about all them kids. And
Speaker 1: then I started clicking on videos of him being a
Speaker 1: good daddy, and I was like, all the NBA players
Speaker 1: got kids, So I think the whole lead find Actually
Speaker 1: I'll take all of them, but dad make it look good.
Speaker 1: How many are there in the league. It's like on
Speaker 1: the thirteen. I mean, I got a year and a
Speaker 1: half of fun if I won a day what they find?
Speaker 1: If we're talking about baby daddys, all the nigga's got kids,
Speaker 1: whether they know it or not, it's about that MANI
Speaker 1: I think in the league, white one. So I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. Chandler Parsons fine, um, Kevin Love fine,
Speaker 1: Adam damn something Adams. Uh, oh, you don't know sports.
Speaker 1: I don't think, Oh, oh my bad. Well there's another
Speaker 1: guy that just looks like a Spartan and I can't
Speaker 1: remember his name, but it's something Adams. Well, i'll tell
Speaker 1: you Luca Duncheon's whatever. I don't know how he'd be
Speaker 1: shooting like that with a body like that, why is
Speaker 1: he not a shade bro? I went to that every
Speaker 1: game because the Lover Boy when I was in l
Speaker 1: A and I was like, Niga, this has got to
Speaker 1: be one of the worst. Like normally he's like literally
Speaker 1: one of the best players I'm but he's like undoubtedly
Speaker 1: right now, probably one of the top five, which was
Speaker 1: crazy because I thought he was gonna be like super
Speaker 1: rips and I was like, damn, I mean, but James
Speaker 1: Harden is the same. He goes in and out of
Speaker 1: his body and he's one of the best players in
Speaker 1: the league as well, which is insane, right, Like it's
Speaker 1: really I mean it's but it's skill, Like you don't
Speaker 1: have to be ripped to do this, I know, but
Speaker 1: you would. I don't know if I agree with that.
Speaker 1: I think you do have to be like super at
Speaker 1: football players, hpe, But they be hitting niggas in football,
Speaker 1: you sai, no baby, pushing them over, push them over. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's exactly what they do. Basketball you gotta run up, down,
Speaker 1: up down. I mean, but you could also cherry pick.
Speaker 1: You get breaks as water boys like you, like the
Speaker 1: whole break happening. I could catch my breath. We all
Speaker 1: I gotta do is stand on the line, all right
Speaker 1: about baby daddies v nella ship for this week. I
Speaker 1: saw a video that I thought was sucking, insane. He
Speaker 1: came out a few weeks ago of a father tossing
Speaker 1: eighty thousand pennies. Did you see this? I was so
Speaker 1: happy that they were a white family. Oh when I
Speaker 1: clicked on and I was like, this on a shade room.
Speaker 1: Let me see. So what started as an act of
Speaker 1: spite triggered a domino effect of kindness. Um. The man's
Speaker 1: daughter says, he pulled in front of our house, turned
Speaker 1: the trailers so it dumped out all the pennies. She
Speaker 1: was eighteen year old. He made his final child support
Speaker 1: payment in eight thousand pennies. How much is that? That's it? Oh? Nick? Well, anyway,
Speaker 1: they ended up donating every penny to a domestic abuse center.
Speaker 1: They said next, while I was on CNN, it was
Speaker 1: on a ring camera or something, which is how we
Speaker 1: all saw it. But it's just terrible. And then they
Speaker 1: got mad donations after that, forty seven thousand dollars, and
Speaker 1: people from all over the world are trying to uplift
Speaker 1: the daughters, saying this is like amazing, we want you
Speaker 1: to keep donating, and so they just keep helping her out.
Speaker 1: So donate to something better than that. Goddamn no I'm
Speaker 1: talking about like, but it's going to the daughter. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: she's allocating it over and over and over. But it's
Speaker 1: going to the domestic abuse. That's not going to her,
Speaker 1: right right. But people gave her the money and she's
Speaker 1: not keeping anything. Okay, okay, know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: fine with me. She's like, oh, like whatever, fun him,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fine. And so she's just trying to
Speaker 1: help out other families. But I did uh during the pandemic. Actually, um,
Speaker 1: if I'm not mistaken, there was an employer who paid
Speaker 1: someone their last check and pennies as well. This was
Speaker 1: during the pandemic. It was something petty, I guess because
Speaker 1: they that's so to me, so evil and mean and nasty,
Speaker 1: like dollar bills. At least I do like making it
Speaker 1: rain bro. I was in the bank the other day.
Speaker 1: I know this is really random. Meal, I'm so sorry
Speaker 1: this is a d D. But white people are fucking insane. Well,
Speaker 1: they're calling this guy didn't want to wait online. I
Speaker 1: was at the Chase and aster place. I guess he's
Speaker 1: a private client. So we started flipping out and the
Speaker 1: lady was like, I'm so sorry, we're understaffed and it's
Speaker 1: a Friday. We'll try to get with you in ten minutes.
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm a fucking private client, so I
Speaker 1: can have someone take me whenever the funk I want
Speaker 1: to take all my money the funk out of here,
Speaker 1: and like starts flipping out, And I was there while
Speaker 1: he was there the whole time, real quick, for real quick.
Speaker 1: It was right. So it was a Georgia man uh
Speaker 1: Android's flat and his former employer dumped ninety thousand pennies
Speaker 1: on his driveway as a form of final payment for
Speaker 1: his work at an auto shops. And they had but yeah,
Speaker 1: this happened because they trash hundreds. So I don't know
Speaker 1: how much money the dude had. I would flip out,
Speaker 1: like if I was like mad about something, but like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't start cursing somebody, especially when a staff you
Speaker 1: could tell it's Friday Friday security guard. This is something
Speaker 1: I didn't even know. I don't know how much money
Speaker 1: he had his account, but he was so evil to everybody.
Speaker 1: They're like, fine, we'll take the money out. The security
Speaker 1: guard was like, no, there's not enough security in here
Speaker 1: to help you remove your money. And I'm here to
Speaker 1: keep the people in this bank safe and keep you
Speaker 1: af No, you can't take it out. The security nick
Speaker 1: of it I was, girl, did you want to leave
Speaker 1: the bank? I was sitting there and casting my little check, Like, wait, girl.
Speaker 1: The security guard starts arguing with the dude. He's like,
Speaker 1: I can't keep you safe unless you want to call
Speaker 1: private security to take your money out. I have to
Speaker 1: keep the patrons and the employees of this bank safe,
Speaker 1: and if you walk in the street with money like that,
Speaker 1: you put everybody else at risk. He's like, no, you
Speaker 1: can't take it out. He's like, who the fuck are
Speaker 1: you to tell me he said, I can't take it out.
Speaker 1: He's like I heard, and I are I'm telling you
Speaker 1: you can't take it out. And he starts going off
Speaker 1: on the bank tellers telling them do not take his
Speaker 1: money out. And I don't know how many millions he had,
Speaker 1: but girl to security guards say it now, And what
Speaker 1: I learned was I didn't know that that was possible. Girl,
Speaker 1: you should have want it to console him. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: You retreated, let me, let me get you. But you
Speaker 1: don't know how much money that Nigga had. He could
Speaker 1: have been a sugar daddy if you would have consoled
Speaker 1: him in that moment like being maga energy though, because
Speaker 1: the girl was black. So I was kind of like
Speaker 1: everybody already. But the one thing I will say that
Speaker 1: I didn't understand there's a certain amount of security guards
Speaker 1: like us per what's the trucks with the money armor
Speaker 1: blink bring trucks or whatever. They need a certain amount
Speaker 1: of security per like whether it's millions or hundred thousands,
Speaker 1: So that's security guard. I don't know how much. Again,
Speaker 1: they were like nigging out. So the dudes that's flipping out.
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, I was no because I
Speaker 1: was just like, bro, actually, recording is now, like you
Speaker 1: need to just do it it. Plus I didn't want
Speaker 1: him to start cursing me out. Plus he was outside,
Speaker 1: and like sometimes I'd be feeling like when Nigga's recording ship,
Speaker 1: it's put agram and I was just like that's where
Speaker 1: we would cameras, bitch, but the banker putting out what happened,
Speaker 1: we want to see it on social media. I felt
Speaker 1: like Okay, if you hit the bitch, it's gonna be
Speaker 1: on camera. Anyway, what do you Let's talk about child
Speaker 1: support really briefly, because we talked about the eight Are
Speaker 1: you on child support? You are? I have heard from
Speaker 1: some men that they don't want to be on child
Speaker 1: support because it puts them in the system, Like are
Speaker 1: you how to be on child support? Because she feel
Speaker 1: like it gives you a regular way of paying, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you feel about being on child support? I
Speaker 1: think it's a misuse because I do so much of
Speaker 1: my kid anyway, Um, I pay so much for it,
Speaker 1: like talking to my baby Xander. Lexander is an expensive
Speaker 1: as kid. So like I think family court divorce law
Speaker 1: was a mechanism to destroy black and brown families. Because yeah,
Speaker 1: but so if you like begin to put people in
Speaker 1: the system, now it's different if people are paying. But
Speaker 1: like anybody who knows me, knows how much I have
Speaker 1: my kid, how much I do for him. I would
Speaker 1: make the argument if I wouldn't have been put in
Speaker 1: the system and his mom knew how I felt about
Speaker 1: being in the system, I would have gave more. But
Speaker 1: I felt like because the elevation began to happen, there
Speaker 1: was some this day there and this is like the
Speaker 1: only way that I can try and punish you. But
Speaker 1: how do they decide how much? Can you talk about
Speaker 1: how much you pay? That I won't do, but I
Speaker 1: would be happy. I was like, I would bring that
Speaker 1: ship in a gift wrap box with chocolate. Like I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I'm curious because aren't yours like capital gains, Like, how
Speaker 1: do they decide how much you It's still based on
Speaker 1: annual income in Okay, so, but but there's a cap
Speaker 1: in the state of Texas. Certain states don't have a cap,
Speaker 1: so they can run, Like I know some people that pay.
Speaker 1: So when I saw that, I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: know that his relationship with his daughter and family. But
Speaker 1: I'm like five thousand dollars a month for a millionaire,
Speaker 1: who cares? I mean, but it's but I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm I'm someone who received child support my whole life.
Speaker 1: I've had this conversation with my mom. My sister right
Speaker 1: now is filing for child support as well. So in
Speaker 1: terms of child support, I think one of the major
Speaker 1: misconceptions and people who haven't either been put into the
Speaker 1: system or gone through the process, um how they do it?
Speaker 1: Now and I'm not sure if this is Florida or
Speaker 1: New York, but how they do it now is they
Speaker 1: still do put into effects how much money the the
Speaker 1: parent that would be receiving makes, So my sister the
Speaker 1: same way, you have to provide the same way that
Speaker 1: the father has to provide all of his documents for
Speaker 1: income that would be receiving how much they make, because
Speaker 1: there still is a percentage to where it's the overall
Speaker 1: aspect of it, so it's not solely just on say
Speaker 1: he makes a hundred thousand and she makes a hundred thousand,
Speaker 1: that means the percentage of what he may have to
Speaker 1: pay would be less than if she made fifteen thousand.
Speaker 1: It's still a collective thing, so you may have to
Speaker 1: pay more if she can't provide uh more, Like it's
Speaker 1: still a percentage base, So they still want both parents incomes.
Speaker 1: So I understand how it could be perceived as, oh, well,
Speaker 1: you just want it for personal gain. If in fact
Speaker 1: the mother receives significantly or makes significantly less than the father,
Speaker 1: then yeah, I'm taking you to child because now I
Speaker 1: need this money. And the money, yes, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: going towards more things than just this child so here's
Speaker 1: an interesting question because you're a general person and dad, right,
Speaker 1: why say you would have gave more? Like why I
Speaker 1: know you want to give your son everything you type,
Speaker 1: because like, so what do you what did you feel?
Speaker 1: What do you feel like your money is going? Like
Speaker 1: why would it bother you to give more or less
Speaker 1: or whatever? Because she knew how I felt about the
Speaker 1: courses in in general, because I know like one and
Speaker 1: two black men as someone gonna end up in the
Speaker 1: course system. So like because I'm not an in criminal court,
Speaker 1: so I'm like, okay, I escaped that, and I don't
Speaker 1: wait all this time to be in my thirties have
Speaker 1: a kids that then end up because I'm like like,
Speaker 1: if you know how I feel, don't go that route.
Speaker 1: But then you have to influence of friends, family. You
Speaker 1: see a person elevating, it's like, well, I think you
Speaker 1: can probably get this out of him because now he's
Speaker 1: doing X y Z. So I know it wasn't because
Speaker 1: if it was after me, like if there was no drama,
Speaker 1: I would do everything what I'm doing for Xander and
Speaker 1: would have provided more and still like a boy the
Speaker 1: time xanab So can I ask you a question then,
Speaker 1: because this, I gonna hold you. This triggered me, like
Speaker 1: what you got to do with her? Yeah? But no,
Speaker 1: because here's the thing outside of and I hear what
Speaker 1: you're saying. I know men and specifically also men in
Speaker 1: my family who then throw that in women's faces all
Speaker 1: the time, like oh well, you could have even been
Speaker 1: getting more. My thing is maybe had you shown up
Speaker 1: and started giving, there wouldn't have been like, oh well,
Speaker 1: let me go to the court to get it, like
Speaker 1: we'll see. But but that's the thing too, when when
Speaker 1: it's not court ordered, like my sister baby daddy was
Speaker 1: given ship early on then just stopped and then I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, well, I'm gonna send this, then stopped
Speaker 1: Like as a as a parent, now I'm literally at
Speaker 1: the will or having to ask you, hey, when you're
Speaker 1: gonna send that, when you're gonna do that when ordered,
Speaker 1: it comes, when it comes. Don't doubt that you're you're
Speaker 1: always giving to Xander. My thing is, like I wondered
Speaker 1: sometimes because because had money his whole like this whole time,
Speaker 1: planned on having a kid, always has his kids giving
Speaker 1: his kid money. If a dad like that who's financially
Speaker 1: stable enough to pay for his kid I wonder if
Speaker 1: then somebody really wants child support because they want no
Speaker 1: ties with you, they don't want to have to ask you.
Speaker 1: That's what That's what I could That's what I could see.
Speaker 1: I know, I know you're bringing up the court system
Speaker 1: and how um it you know now makes the baby
Speaker 1: mom a villain, But I do, I'm messing this villain.
Speaker 1: But if I tell you, like like I've even had
Speaker 1: people that I didn't like that have hurt friends, and
Speaker 1: my friends have hurt them. They didn't go to court,
Speaker 1: and it was like life, it's like certain rules I
Speaker 1: just have, like like even if somebody crosses me, like
Speaker 1: unless you put my kid in danger, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: take somebody to court. That's just me though. But I
Speaker 1: tell everybody like, this is how I operate, this is
Speaker 1: how things will go. But if I'm already doing and
Speaker 1: everyone I know everybody has two sides. But I know
Speaker 1: what I have paid, have been paying and been given
Speaker 1: and also what I put away, like not to like
Speaker 1: if Xander doesn't want to work when he turns, so
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to. That's because it is true that
Speaker 1: when we talk about the child support, it always makes
Speaker 1: women feel like ship but also in the same time,
Speaker 1: it's like we obviously are all, you know, pro social
Speaker 1: justice and black men and women winning, but at the
Speaker 1: same time, it's like from for every home girl I've
Speaker 1: had that's been with a nigga who ain't ship, which
Speaker 1: is difficult because maybe those men didn't have money to
Speaker 1: pay for their kids and intern with you. It's not
Speaker 1: like it's got money. No, no, no, I'm saying like
Speaker 1: I'm saying, my home girls have fun with some broke
Speaker 1: niggas that be like I ain't got it, I ain't
Speaker 1: got it, within it's not the case. So it's interesting
Speaker 1: because those are always the one that goes on child support,
Speaker 1: and I feel like this is a different who's the
Speaker 1: ones who always going to support? They're always having to
Speaker 1: beg these niggs for money, so it's like fine, and
Speaker 1: we have to take it out your check. Now. These
Speaker 1: are the instances and cases I've had with friends they
Speaker 1: didn't have affluent baby daddy's their baby daddy always like
Speaker 1: I ain't got this, blahlah blah. But also if there's
Speaker 1: not a relationship there and now maybe y'all have other partners,
Speaker 1: I understand why now I don't want to have to
Speaker 1: call you every motherfucking time I need money. Now, I
Speaker 1: know I get this amount of money a week or
Speaker 1: this amount of money bi weekly or monthly. Now that's
Speaker 1: that's the less that I have to talk to you.
Speaker 1: I know, when you see your child, come and pick
Speaker 1: them up. But now financially, I don't have to call
Speaker 1: them to ask you because realistically too when you're not
Speaker 1: in the home with a child. And this is the
Speaker 1: thing that I always say about child support because my
Speaker 1: daddy legit, well my my daddy legit did not talk
Speaker 1: to me and my sisters over my mom wanting to
Speaker 1: raise My mom was getting four hundred dollars bi weekly
Speaker 1: for two children, and we knew my dad made more.
Speaker 1: So when my mom went to court to get more,
Speaker 1: because she's like, cool, you're buying them named brand shoes.
Speaker 1: I have two. No, it was no, that was what
Speaker 1: she got told on eight hundred a month. So find
Speaker 1: you and at the time, yes we're on Section eight,
Speaker 1: we have food simps. But also as we get older,
Speaker 1: I want to be in sports. I was playing violin,
Speaker 1: I was doing things, and yeah, he showed up and
Speaker 1: got us the name brand shoes. But that's the thing
Speaker 1: that that I think a lot of fathers that are
Speaker 1: not in the whole home don't understand. My mom could
Speaker 1: only take certain jobs and take certain shifts because we
Speaker 1: were home. She had to make sure we had someone
Speaker 1: to pick us up and take us from school. So
Speaker 1: her entire life, the amount of rooms in the house
Speaker 1: had to be worn just because we were there. So
Speaker 1: even when it comes to oh, well a kid, don't
Speaker 1: take that much. Literally, my entire life takes more because
Speaker 1: of these children that nine times I'll attend. The fathers
Speaker 1: don't even they just think, oh, the child support is
Speaker 1: for you know, my entire life has changed because now
Speaker 1: I'm the sole provider of these children. And that was
Speaker 1: my that was my experience, like child support, Like I
Speaker 1: didn't really I mean, my parents are still together, but
Speaker 1: I didn't really understand it until I've grown older and
Speaker 1: had friends and even at this age now feeling guilty
Speaker 1: now with men that won't even speak to them just
Speaker 1: trying to get child support and not guilty like having
Speaker 1: to be like, damn, I gotta put this nick in.
Speaker 1: A lot of women don't want to put you all.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, one of my best friends, she tells
Speaker 1: me all the time, like bro like that story doesn't
Speaker 1: get told enough too. I wanted to ask you as
Speaker 1: far as like quote unquote baby mama drama, Um, how
Speaker 1: do you have dialogue with your six year old about
Speaker 1: when things are tense with you and the women you're
Speaker 1: to kill with. I was just telling the truth, like,
Speaker 1: m if I don't see you, it's not because that's
Speaker 1: how I wanted to be. I still want you to
Speaker 1: be respectful with your mom. But if it was up
Speaker 1: to me, I will see you every day. How often
Speaker 1: do you guys split time? Uh so it's like every
Speaker 1: other weekend and then a couple of days throughout the week.
Speaker 1: But you know it should has challenges, man, like she
Speaker 1: changes sometimes if she gets in a mood. You know,
Speaker 1: some games get played a boy restricting access and ship
Speaker 1: like that, so you have to adjust. But like some
Speaker 1: of the greatest advice my dad told me, like when
Speaker 1: I was going through it, he was like, you had
Speaker 1: the money to pay, so pay it and not as
Speaker 1: if you have not been paying the same or more so,
Speaker 1: just provide and then everything eventually work itself out. It's
Speaker 1: tough like so for me, it was just the audacity
Speaker 1: of being taken to court over when I know what
Speaker 1: I was already pouring in and me being solid like
Speaker 1: you know me, Like I don't give over just because
Speaker 1: I funk with you. Like so if I give like
Speaker 1: that to you and people that we know, imagine for
Speaker 1: what I'm doing for him. What about when it comes
Speaker 1: to um men that are feeling like they can't spend
Speaker 1: enough time with their kids. What kind of have you
Speaker 1: ever looked into court ordered things or third parties? Like
Speaker 1: what can you do to ensure that you got a
Speaker 1: lawyer up and whatever you agree to in that paperwork?
Speaker 1: That is the paperwork. So your paperwork when you when
Speaker 1: you do child support, you mean so what like yours
Speaker 1: says every other weekend, you have to fight for what
Speaker 1: you want and that paperwork or you have to be
Speaker 1: willing to go back. And that's that's the part about
Speaker 1: court that I don't like. Because the funny part, like
Speaker 1: when we went to court, my lawyer and her lawyer
Speaker 1: were friends, so he would tell me ship behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: like yeah, after I'm done with your case, we're going
Speaker 1: on vacation together. So I'm looking at it like and
Speaker 1: I respect honesty, but as a business person, I'm looking
Speaker 1: at if he has a case sload of four or
Speaker 1: five people and I'm paying ten grand, somebody else's paying
Speaker 1: ten grand. They're running this ship up like crazy off
Speaker 1: of black and brown families. So that's a business. You're
Speaker 1: feeling like it's nothing, But if family law and child
Speaker 1: support worried one entity, it would be a fortune company.
Speaker 1: It's like billions of dollars put through this system. So
Speaker 1: I get for the people who won't pay, or like
Speaker 1: you said, if they won't pay for months and they're
Speaker 1: like skipping out on ship. But I see the business
Speaker 1: behind it, like even going back into the nineteen sixties,
Speaker 1: like when they took the black dad out of the
Speaker 1: home and then like that was designed to get black
Speaker 1: and brown families to break up. There's a lot of
Speaker 1: talk like I recently saw in some posts and different
Speaker 1: ship about um DNA tests at birth. Did you see
Speaker 1: that they were talking about, oh, should this be mandatory?
Speaker 1: Was like a Twitter thing that was going around and basics, well,
Speaker 1: there's now like you can do a DNA test while
Speaker 1: the baby's still in in the belly. Yeah, it's you
Speaker 1: can literally, like because well that's the thing too. A
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of women feel entitled to still
Speaker 1: get some sort of um, you know, to be taken
Speaker 1: care of because maybe she can't finish out work. Uh, definitely.
Speaker 1: A lot of dancers, like once you reach a certain
Speaker 1: level of pregnancy, you can't dance. So if you're in
Speaker 1: different industries like that where you can't show up to
Speaker 1: work because of your your pregnancy. I know that there
Speaker 1: are now ways for the man to request the DNA
Speaker 1: test while the baby is still in there, because you
Speaker 1: are asking for some sort of support while you're pregnant.
Speaker 1: So there is a way actually to do a DNA test. Yeah,
Speaker 1: cause I got your baby in right. I funk with
Speaker 1: that actually. So when it comes to like DNA tests
Speaker 1: them and then requiring them, what do you guys think?
Speaker 1: Do you think that should be something done? Ain't gold you?
Speaker 1: That's what happened with with us. Like when my mom
Speaker 1: went to get more he said, okay, before you get
Speaker 1: any more DNA tests, everyone, let me make sure these
Speaker 1: are all even my children. And clearly we knew, like
Speaker 1: you know, but it got it got Oh, it got messy.
Speaker 1: We ended up having to do a whole DNA tests
Speaker 1: and everything on all of us. Yeah, so I looked
Speaker 1: up if mom mother's paying child support curious to know
Speaker 1: what you guys think the percentages mothers that pay child
Speaker 1: support to me, probably lesson like, well, most men don't
Speaker 1: have full custody, so it depends what that stat is,
Speaker 1: because a woman is not gonna pay child support if
Speaker 1: she has custody. And not many single parent dads have
Speaker 1: full custody of the children. There's not there's not as
Speaker 1: many singles. What do you think? What do you think?
Speaker 1: I mean a lot of women keep the kids and
Speaker 1: it's easier in corse, I don't know what. I'm actually
Speaker 1: shocked at it. I don't know six percent of women
Speaker 1: paid child sports. I did not think almost eight percent
Speaker 1: because probably probably because eighty five percent of women keep
Speaker 1: the baby, I know, but I thought it was gonna
Speaker 1: be like way lower than that. Oh, it's just we
Speaker 1: very seldom run into single single dads now. Um, I'm
Speaker 1: also curious you call yourself a single father because you
Speaker 1: don't like the turn baby daddy. Why is that calfather,
Speaker 1: Because I think when you say baby daddy, it means that, um,
Speaker 1: the choice to how the child was unintentional, that wasn't
Speaker 1: the kid like Xander was playing. I just think if
Speaker 1: we say baby daddy, we broke up. That's what I think.
Speaker 1: What do you think? I'm very particular how I'm labeled
Speaker 1: though as a black man, as a business person too.
Speaker 1: Baby daddy is a word that to me, it describes unintentional,
Speaker 1: unprotected sex with somebody that you didn't know was just
Speaker 1: fucking with and it was accidentally. I mean, I think
Speaker 1: that that's the same with women and the baby mama title, um,
Speaker 1: and it's always like they annoy it, like you feel
Speaker 1: like but but what's crazy too is even the connotation
Speaker 1: though all of those when it's attached to women are
Speaker 1: always worse, like well, why didn't the man stay? Why
Speaker 1: he left you? Or they or there's a label of
Speaker 1: promiscuity on the woman, especially when there's multiple baby fathers.
Speaker 1: No one ever says when a man has three different
Speaker 1: kids by three different baby mamas, it's looks right over
Speaker 1: like as a woman, there's a difference. And also when
Speaker 1: a woman's labeled a baby mama, I think just again,
Speaker 1: the value is deductive, the same as if she's even
Speaker 1: called a single mother. If you're called a single father,
Speaker 1: there's almost praise to that, like, oh damn, that's what's up.
Speaker 1: A single mother doesn't even get praise in the same
Speaker 1: fashion that a man does when he takes custody, Like
Speaker 1: and again, this was all growing up in a single
Speaker 1: parent household and witnessing this, like I have a lot
Speaker 1: of only trauma and experience with how all of it manifested.
Speaker 1: But now that I'm an adult and my sister is
Speaker 1: now going through the system like I do. And it's
Speaker 1: because the nigga not trying to show up because he
Speaker 1: feels like, oh, well, I got for the kids to
Speaker 1: take care of, so maybe you shouldn't have laid down
Speaker 1: with this one. Bitch, pay the motherfucking dollars and and
Speaker 1: and I don't want to deal with you. Women will
Speaker 1: always be blamed, like where you had a baby with him,
Speaker 1: And it's like, yo, I've dated men with kids, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like if I decided to have
Speaker 1: a kid with that one in that relationship that was
Speaker 1: in like funck, now is my goddamn fault? Like it's
Speaker 1: just strange. I agree with you how women are always blamed,
Speaker 1: but I think that sometimes there is an interesting side
Speaker 1: to men that want to be better death And I
Speaker 1: honestly think it's a small person. I feel like we
Speaker 1: mostly know women that are going through the hardest time.
Speaker 1: When baby did that part time and money, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. But I also didn't know that it
Speaker 1: had to do a percentage how much they make. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's get to the home mail. You already, Stewart? Wait
Speaker 1: were there already? For real? Damn shiit? What's the what's
Speaker 1: the time on that we're Can you cut that out?
Speaker 1: I don't want people thinking that we're just a little mark,
Speaker 1: but it is plus the five, So ho mail. Hey guys,
Speaker 1: A little backstory to my now uncomfortable situation. Seven years ago,
Speaker 1: I had a new neighbor move in the house next
Speaker 1: door off the bat. I fell in love, pictured us
Speaker 1: getting married and everything, just because of the way our
Speaker 1: relationship hit off. That's me, girl. I hit it off
Speaker 1: with his cousins and he would always make comments about
Speaker 1: my friendships with them. Fast forward a few years ago
Speaker 1: and he chooses someone else over me, gets married and
Speaker 1: moves on, and naturally I stopped hanging around the family
Speaker 1: because it was awkward. And now his wife doesn't like me,
Speaker 1: so we haven't spoken in two years, and then it
Speaker 1: just got worse. I started talking to one of his cousins.
Speaker 1: They aren't the closest, and he used to always tell
Speaker 1: me had feelings for me and hatity when I talked
Speaker 1: to you is because the other night I had a
Speaker 1: night of drinking and hanging. We fucked and after finishing
Speaker 1: in the middle cleaning, he says, don't you regret choosing
Speaker 1: my coversin over me all these years ago? I was
Speaker 1: speechless and I didn't know how to answer. It's been
Speaker 1: a week now and he turned into a cocky asshole,
Speaker 1: ringing it up whenever he can. Do you think that
Speaker 1: he used me to one up his cousin? And how
Speaker 1: do you think I should take it? Side note? As
Speaker 1: I was writing this, I literally got a d M
Speaker 1: from my best friend saying my neighbor d M her
Speaker 1: asking if she knew why I was hanging out with
Speaker 1: the cousin. What are they playing at? Do you think
Speaker 1: that the cousin revenge fucked her or he really have less?
Speaker 1: I don't think he had feelings, but he just you know,
Speaker 1: I don't think there was feelings at all. They said
Speaker 1: they went out and they was drunk. He said, I've
Speaker 1: had feelings for you for for years, That's what I said.
Speaker 1: I think he gaslighted her to get in some pussy.
Speaker 1: I don't think it was a revenge thing, but if
Speaker 1: he's being a cocky household now and rubbing it in
Speaker 1: but also that, but also they went out and we're drunk,
Speaker 1: so I think he just also said what he needs
Speaker 1: to say in that type of environment to get some pussy.
Speaker 1: I agree. And one other thing I wanted to bring
Speaker 1: up about this, so when it comes to fucking home boys,
Speaker 1: do y'all think, because I really do believe this, maybe
Speaker 1: want to be better than a friend, especially when they know,
Speaker 1: let alone cousin, let a home let alone a homeboy.
Speaker 1: Like I really do believe there's a little thing where
Speaker 1: it's just like I got it too. I don't think
Speaker 1: they care. You don't think so do you think? And
Speaker 1: I don't crew loved a couple of times, Like I
Speaker 1: don't think any of them have been like, oh was
Speaker 1: mygic better than his? Like you don't think men compute
Speaker 1: with each other? Look at all the like rappers that
Speaker 1: date this, ye, I mean I think that's to stroke
Speaker 1: their own ego though, Like I just want to know
Speaker 1: that I could suck the same bitch is a Kanye
Speaker 1: or something like that, because now it makes my ego better.
Speaker 1: But I don't think, oh, I think it's weird as
Speaker 1: I think it's grouping as fun it's but I also
Speaker 1: don't think niggas are like, oh, let me outperform my
Speaker 1: homeboy with this bitch. I think it's just like if
Speaker 1: we fought the same bitch, we fought the same bitch,
Speaker 1: made the best one. Hunger games may the best sequen.
Speaker 1: So I'm to get in that I sucked like friends.
Speaker 1: I totally forget about it because they were such a
Speaker 1: large fan and they aren't friends anymore. Yeah, like it
Speaker 1: was maybe like four years in between it, and then
Speaker 1: they didn't sunk with each other anywhere. Something they nigga said,
Speaker 1: like they be fan want to shoot each other. But anyway,
Speaker 1: Florida niggas, one of them asked me recently when I
Speaker 1: was in Florida that no, he didn't ask me. He
Speaker 1: was drunk. He was like, you know, I know you
Speaker 1: sucked so and so I hate when they do that.
Speaker 1: And I was like, who told you that? I didn't
Speaker 1: even say no, let us teld you, And he was like,
Speaker 1: I already know a few visites all of them tell
Speaker 1: me about Dick is bigger and even though it was
Speaker 1: bigger that he bothered. That was Lane. That's as much
Speaker 1: bro he hat on his homeboys. What are you doing?
Speaker 1: And that's Lane? That lame is fault. You should have
Speaker 1: been like you all puss That as Lane mass nigger
Speaker 1: right to his face. Since in Florida that's some labor's lane,
Speaker 1: so fucking small. I was like this nigga, really no
Speaker 1: because he I sucked him first. But the point is,
Speaker 1: like nigga like huh like lame? First of all, it
Speaker 1: was his his dick was bigger. But the homeboy had
Speaker 1: better dick, if you know what I'm saying. He was
Speaker 1: pussy better that that was your That's that was your
Speaker 1: time to be a real afga. No, that's where you
Speaker 1: gotta be like, well, actually, I ain't gonna hold you
Speaker 1: because the way that nigga ate my pussy you might
Speaker 1: be able to learn as you think you know that's me.
Speaker 1: I'm old Karen, boys. I was like, we had sex
Speaker 1: eight years ago. You want to be diplomatic about it.
Speaker 1: I'm going to remember that your dick was bigger, and
Speaker 1: for some reason you want to tell me that other
Speaker 1: bitches have said it. So basically, every woman that you
Speaker 1: slept with has went and sucked your cuter homeboy. I mean,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. That happened to me. Uh
Speaker 1: And it wasn't I guess the revenge. But one of
Speaker 1: the things that I was really in love way, and
Speaker 1: I talked about him on the show, so I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say his name. But I ended up sucking his college roommate,
Speaker 1: and the college roommate actually let the college roommate got
Speaker 1: a smoothie the morning. So when he tried to come
Speaker 1: at me and shame me for fucking his college roommates,
Speaker 1: where they roommates when you were no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: my nigga was in the league. Now this nigga wasn't,
Speaker 1: but he was playing ball overseas. But we ended up
Speaker 1: sucking when he was. This was when I lived in Miami,
Speaker 1: So this is how long ago it was. So we
Speaker 1: fun when I was living in Miami and the dick
Speaker 1: was good. So of course years later, the nigga that
Speaker 1: I was still working with try to throw it in
Speaker 1: my face like yeah, and you did this, and I
Speaker 1: had to be like, listen. As awful as that was,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna see him said. I regretted it because
Speaker 1: the dick was actually good, and I told him to
Speaker 1: his face, like I know you're trying to sit here
Speaker 1: and slut shame me because I sucked your friend, but
Speaker 1: we weren't talking. I didn't think we would still continue talking,
Speaker 1: and the dick was good, So what are you trying
Speaker 1: to slut shame me or throw shade at your friend?
Speaker 1: We both enjoyed it because he's still trying to get it,
Speaker 1: so I don't know where this is going, but I
Speaker 1: let him know straight up, like you're not gonna shame me.
Speaker 1: And I think that it's real wacked that he sat
Speaker 1: there and kind of tried to throw shade at his homeboy.
Speaker 1: I know, Like that's why who was be hating a
Speaker 1: lot though hater and all the time, Like women are
Speaker 1: so much at in the middle of that ship and
Speaker 1: it's just annoying, Like can I get some decks damn
Speaker 1: anyway and tell the people where to find you. You
Speaker 1: can find me on g at the mass investor what
Speaker 1: is your only fans account? I don't have alright, masturbator
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Speaker 1: find me on market Monday. So with my guys. Um
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Speaker 1: your stop people. We need to do that for real.
Speaker 1: What we're gonna make it. Let's make a w d ye.
Speaker 1: Make it you can make you create that right, make
Speaker 1: it horrible, make it right now? Well and let them know, uh,
Speaker 1: let let them know what. Red Panda is like the
Speaker 1: easiest platform ever to know how to invest. So if
Speaker 1: you've never invested before, I'll tell you where to get in,
Speaker 1: where to get out, what's buy, what stops to try,
Speaker 1: what to leave alone. I made you a little bit
Speaker 1: of money, so you can tell you how to make
Speaker 1: more money than your baby daddy that ain't trying to
Speaker 1: pay your right you tell them no, let me talk
Speaker 1: about okay, yes, Like so I'm in a Red Pantic
Speaker 1: club and I've learned and really it was, um I
Speaker 1: joined over quarantine and I started teaching myself how to invest.
Speaker 1: And I will just say this, this is sucked up
Speaker 1: to say because Ian was like, oh, you guys should
Speaker 1: learn how to do your own stuff, and like you
Speaker 1: should know what you're doing, Like if not, if I'm
Speaker 1: ever not around and basically saying, like, know where your
Speaker 1: money is going, and I will tell y'all it is.
Speaker 1: That ship is very hard to do. And there's a
Speaker 1: reason I had to pay to get in this club
Speaker 1: because a bitch tried to just take a little bit
Speaker 1: of a guess at what was gonna make me some money,
Speaker 1: and it didn't. So my ship was up until I
Speaker 1: started making my own choices. And so now I just
Speaker 1: basically click on this little telegram chat he got and
Speaker 1: when he tell you what numbers to get in, what
Speaker 1: did you invest in that didn't work? Big tip for
Speaker 1: for the entire hor hib you know, with y'all hold
Speaker 1: everything for at least five years. BlackBerry during the game
Speaker 1: really now but it's searched am C but and I
Speaker 1: just sold it. But BlackBerry was at one point supposed
Speaker 1: to come back. It was just going crazy. The game stopped,
Speaker 1: time stopped shorting type ship. But when I had you
Speaker 1: get in Tesla and shopify and matching all that ship
Speaker 1: last year though I didn't get in match but Tesla
Speaker 1: was really my money maker. I probably made like Tangeran
Speaker 1: on Tesla just last year's numbers alone from like a
Speaker 1: few and then I jumped in back in when it
Speaker 1: hit four hundred bucks and like, I really get in
Speaker 1: at good times. UM. One that I did on my own,
Speaker 1: I did okay with Uber, you did good on that,
Speaker 1: um maderna Ian told me to get in at my Apple.
Speaker 1: Ain't really doing nothing, but I will tell you two
Speaker 1: happily you just keep you just have forty shares at Apple.
Speaker 1: But Microsoft, I'm up on that. Um. And then I
Speaker 1: bought a bunch of little medical stocks that Nick was
Speaker 1: talking about online. I found that's so funny. Those are
Speaker 1: the ones, uh suggested. He said, you get to something,
Speaker 1: to something and here we go, there we go. Yeah,
Speaker 1: shout out to my guy. UM. But no, like um,
Speaker 1: it was really fun to like learn. And right now
Speaker 1: I just don't have time, so I'll just be clicking
Speaker 1: on what the NiCoT. You don't have to learn because
Speaker 1: like especially for women like business people, you have to
Speaker 1: have the money working for you. So while you're doing
Speaker 1: working on other ventures, even if somebody does bad business, like,
Speaker 1: there's money there. I always telp people like put the
Speaker 1: money into the companies and CEOs that are better than
Speaker 1: you and have them. And I know everybody online think
Speaker 1: that they have a perspective is not from a place
Speaker 1: of ego, but most people who talk about investment, they
Speaker 1: haven't been doing this long and then they have no money.
Speaker 1: Like so when I asked people like okay, they'll tell you, hey,
Speaker 1: you should invest in this. I'm like, are you free?
Speaker 1: That's the only question you should ask, are you financially free?
Speaker 1: If not, they don't know. It just be a lot
Speaker 1: of because like invest in now is a new hustle.
Speaker 1: The rap ship didn't work, so everybody want to come up,
Speaker 1: well if you get this, and I'm like, bro, no,
Speaker 1: like you don't have enough money. Like and that's why
Speaker 1: even like investing for Xander, if you have kids, please
Speaker 1: put every dollar you can in for your kids. Like
Speaker 1: Xander six, probably by the time he's twelve, he should
Speaker 1: probably be up a million and a half. Well, even
Speaker 1: if we're not financially free, investing is still locate even
Speaker 1: more important because like you can buy all the stuff
Speaker 1: that you want to in the world, but like we
Speaker 1: often buy a lot of luxury ship because we're not
Speaker 1: where we want to be financially Can I ask you
Speaker 1: real quick to Then as someone listening to this episode down,
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, well, I actually do want to invest
Speaker 1: but I know I'm still in debt. What do you
Speaker 1: what would you say to someone? What would you say
Speaker 1: to someone who maybe has a heap of credit card
Speaker 1: debt or student loans, should they not work towards paying
Speaker 1: those off before investing? What would your advice be to them?
Speaker 1: Invest first and then the second half pay off the debt.
Speaker 1: So if you only have five bucks, I will split it,
Speaker 1: because like these, it is going to be rich regardless.
Speaker 1: American Express is going to be great. Citalong's gonna give
Speaker 1: a funk about you. They don't. They ain't never get
Speaker 1: any money. Like they just wrote me, like, um, I
Speaker 1: think we need your updated number and address. No bit,
Speaker 1: y'all ain't gonna find me. Send someone Oklahoma, you know,
Speaker 1: sen send that ship somewhere. Because like, even if you
Speaker 1: pay off all your debt and I'm debt free, but
Speaker 1: being at zero, what happens when you go debt free?
Speaker 1: Well I was gonna say that's the thing too. They
Speaker 1: if you pay off all your credit cards, now that
Speaker 1: even works. It gets your credit in an odd way.
Speaker 1: You gotta keep at least and keep paying and then
Speaker 1: keep paying. If you have an emergency, then you go
Speaker 1: back into debt. People and miss out on ten years
Speaker 1: of growth trying to pay off debt. And then it's
Speaker 1: like you could have been up Sells episode about how
Speaker 1: like it's the fucking interesting and crewing at least, like
Speaker 1: what what's the point you know, if it's set it's
Speaker 1: fixed rate. Well, but but that's who I come again from,
Speaker 1: not only a single parent household, one with uh not
Speaker 1: much financial literacy. I was one of the first people
Speaker 1: in my family to go to college. So also me
Speaker 1: quitting my job, my focus was having a savings account.
Speaker 1: Good god, me having a savings account is a big
Speaker 1: deal accomplishment. That's a huge accomplishment for how I grew up.
Speaker 1: So that was of course my focus. And again through quarantine,
Speaker 1: that was just talking to people. They're like, it's just
Speaker 1: sitting there and it's not doing anything. You can at
Speaker 1: least take a third of it invested and let that
Speaker 1: make money for you because right now is just sitting there.
Speaker 1: So yeah, and if you do half and half, like
Speaker 1: you get to a place where you're comfortable. I took
Speaker 1: a third half with a lot can we do? But
Speaker 1: once you find things that grow like same thing, like
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, shut up with that.
Speaker 1: But if you get some good stocks that will make
Speaker 1: you like mad like for those in the stock got there,
Speaker 1: they're up like. So it's about what you invested. Now,
Speaker 1: if you're only gonna get seven, I'll see why you
Speaker 1: wouldn't one of us have. But for all creatives especially,
Speaker 1: I won't created to be in a space where they
Speaker 1: can create and not get robbed. So then if you
Speaker 1: invest money into the market, no one can really tell
Speaker 1: get us another durna bro, I got that ship is
Speaker 1: seveny all this ship at two oh to today? Okay,
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Speaker 1: the merch and the video the hor hobby fucking too
Speaker 1: so a fellows who're trying to they do wait no,
Speaker 1: I'm not in a hor hibe, but some of my guys,
Speaker 1: like after I did the first one, bro Tom got it,
Speaker 1: I was like, damn for real. So fellas, if you
Speaker 1: need I told you, no, we have our Patreon, but
Speaker 1: just maybe ready to like they'd be looking for dick
Speaker 1: am plussy. All of protos went in there drunk the
Speaker 1: other night and one's talking to I was like, let
Speaker 1: me out what I'm done with fans. I ain't even
Speaker 1: gonna tell you. So we do have hopefully I'm gonna
Speaker 1: lock him in. We have an upcoming episode with finally
Speaker 1: a black man who enjoys being pegged. And after the
Speaker 1: last town hall I mentioned it, bitch five of our
Speaker 1: patients was like, oh yeah, we ran a gang bang
Speaker 1: on him, Like oh yeah yeah, so like they already
Speaker 1: knew who he was and everything. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: and you got some hole ass for instance, all right,
Speaker 1: it's bonus, bitchy. Let me tell you about how he
Speaker 1: doesn't have a name. But my l a naked basically
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, you got me sucked up last name.
Speaker 1: Oh oh that's oh, you're coming in spicy with it.
Speaker 1: I ain't that spicy, but it's just like why he
Speaker 1: as he funked up in what way? I have him
Speaker 1: packed up? Now? Oh everyone, I love Brent France and
Speaker 1: Brent Friya's has been doing a party called Wasting Time Wednesdays.
Speaker 1: So I hit up my elen Nic and I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: we out, like we're out, we go out right. So
Speaker 1: he's like, um, He's like no, like you know, my
Speaker 1: weeks be crazy. Um. I was like damn, like we
Speaker 1: gotta fund to Brent. We gotta get some Brent going.
Speaker 1: So I did forget that he does know Brent. And
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't really forget like I knew it,
Speaker 1: but like, let me just explain. I'm not like a
Speaker 1: fan like I want to sunk the ship out of
Speaker 1: Brent Fridace. I just love his music, I would say,
Speaker 1: like a J Cole thing for you, right, Like you
Speaker 1: never really be like that nigga is so fun. You
Speaker 1: just love his ship, right. So then I started playing
Speaker 1: in him on FaceTime and dance around whatever. He was like,
Speaker 1: why do you keep like playing this nigga ship talking
Speaker 1: about how you want to suck me? Like you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm cool with that nigga? And I was like does
Speaker 1: it matter? Like because I want to suck you to
Speaker 1: this nigga ship, Like are you serious? And he's like
Speaker 1: every time, like you send me music or like you
Speaker 1: try to get sexty and me you keep playing Brent yo,
Speaker 1: And he's like it's sucking awkward And he was like,
Speaker 1: and you'd be on this thing of the dick all
Speaker 1: over Twitter and like, no, I funk with the nigga.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I know, and he was like
Speaker 1: no easy. So like a week ago he was chilling
Speaker 1: at Rents house, they were just smoking or whatever, and
Speaker 1: he's like, yo, like what about if I talk about
Speaker 1: you and then they can click on your ship and
Speaker 1: it's like, god damn, I wanna be with Brent right
Speaker 1: now and all caps on Twitter and I was like,
Speaker 1: it didn't say that. Do you think they're Where is
Speaker 1: their line where you sound like a groupie and then
Speaker 1: where you could actually be a fan and also, excuse
Speaker 1: the funk out of me. If I like playing music
Speaker 1: to a nigga unit, sorry I masturbate to it being
Speaker 1: a masturbation playlist for the last two or three years now,
Speaker 1: and I'm not ashamed of the ship, but like, now
Speaker 1: I gotta be wrong. And then he's like yo, like
Speaker 1: when you get here, if we go out and I'm
Speaker 1: around his nigga like how to funk you about to
Speaker 1: be active? And I was like, Yo, what do you
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna do trying to suck his dick in
Speaker 1: the car Like no, I just like his ship. Um.
Speaker 1: But I also, I don't know. It's a tough one.
Speaker 1: I mean to me, I mean I immediately went to
Speaker 1: thinking insecure, like that nigga's insecure, he's projecting his insecurities. Um.
Speaker 1: But then I did go to thinking like nah, like
Speaker 1: seven is not played in um. And I mean I
Speaker 1: even remember going all the way back to one of
Speaker 1: my ball players. We would watch these YouTube videos of
Speaker 1: people singing covers and one of his he ended up
Speaker 1: working with a bit that was on one of the
Speaker 1: YouTube videos we was watching one night, so like I
Speaker 1: would never want to see that again. Um, okay, And
Speaker 1: I do mean I mean, well yeah, and that's the thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a there's a different with with all
Speaker 1: of that. I mean, it's weird because most people don't
Speaker 1: have these close proximities to people. But I mean, if
Speaker 1: that's if that's someone as well, because you do go
Speaker 1: out in l a and he knows that at any moment,
Speaker 1: you could run into this nigga and if he's not there,
Speaker 1: he doesn't know how you would act. I wouldn't one
Speaker 1: know when gasing or sweating about my friend. Okay, here's
Speaker 1: the way to think about it. Remember when you went
Speaker 1: on the date and someone has asked you how Ki
Speaker 1: Ki and Medina were or whoever was in personal where
Speaker 1: I saw him at May But but I'm trying to,
Speaker 1: like I'm paralleling it. You don't want to hear about
Speaker 1: someone that you're with fanning over someone you really know
Speaker 1: out of respect for them. It's not even you could
Speaker 1: be a fan. But if that if he's already but
Speaker 1: if he if he's already said hey, that's my nigga,
Speaker 1: and this you fanning for him makes me uncomfortable out
Speaker 1: of just pure respect from him for him, I just
Speaker 1: don't do it. But I didn't. I didn't know Mandy.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that he had a problem with it
Speaker 1: until last night. I mean, but if he's like kind
Speaker 1: of hinted, like, yo, why that's my nigga? Chill last
Speaker 1: night he made it like adamant because maybe he felt
Speaker 1: like he told you enough times you know, chill out
Speaker 1: on that nigga he said to me before, because he
Speaker 1: was like, you feel like we never had this conversation before.
Speaker 1: I was like, I really thought he was playing with
Speaker 1: me when I would be playing Brent and he We've
Speaker 1: been around each other, and he'd be like, God, damn,
Speaker 1: you love this nigga. And I'd be like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't