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Speaker 1: wonderful people all around the world, Welcome to your what

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Speaker 1: you don't like that either, God give it now. It's better. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it was a little better. Okay. Welcome guys to another

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Speaker 1: episode of Horrible Decisions. I am your girl, Mandy b

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Speaker 1: And oh yeah, I'm back baby. You see their crylic

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Speaker 1: by are you saying that's how you bright? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: I I am busy. Someone told me I have white

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Speaker 1: don't let me know. But yeah, it means you by

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Speaker 1: Rachel Okay, I mean which? Okay, my name is Wheezy

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Speaker 1: and I am mathematic and we are joined by um

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Speaker 1: some you may have heard his ads on her show before,

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Speaker 1: or maybe on a Patreon episode. A fan of Horrible

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Speaker 1: Decisions who is now a friend of mine and hoping

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Speaker 1: Mandy can get into some stocks chat because I think

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Speaker 1: you'll like them. I mean, Sure is getting me in there.

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Speaker 1: Ye shout out, shout out to earn your leisure. And

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Speaker 1: I know we talked briefly, but then we were supposed

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Speaker 1: to do drinks and you just act like you got

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Speaker 1: too busy to pull up so heat. He would be real,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, oh didn't you introduce him? Yes? Ian Dunlap,

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Speaker 1: the master investor. UM tell us about the project you're

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Speaker 1: on how where people may have known you from. You

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Speaker 1: may see me on market Money's with earn your Leisure

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Speaker 1: and shout out trying and shot um working on Unfiltered

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Speaker 1: with you. Shout out wayo, Alex you and uh I

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Speaker 1: got a couple other projects coming out to people not

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Speaker 1: sure do know to be excited about pretty soon. So

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Speaker 1: you know a little bit of well talk. I heard

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Speaker 1: a little bit, but help people get the back. We're

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Speaker 1: not here to talk about stocks today. On Patreon. He

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Speaker 1: did give us some stock tips, but Ian is a

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Speaker 1: daddy and me these things to be daddy's are like

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Speaker 1: Twilve good. That's true, but I thought it would be

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Speaker 1: cool to talk about just being a single dad conversation

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Speaker 1: with your children, like we talked about it women so often.

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Speaker 1: So it was just like, wh're not And I think

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Speaker 1: when Ian came to town, I was like, this is perfect.

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Speaker 1: So here's the icebreakers I have for you, which you

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Speaker 1: right of course, last time you came, how was it

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Speaker 1: Last time you ejaculated out of your dick? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: If you watched kurbyan through Jackie, was it in someone's

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Speaker 1: that moment? Just what welcome to horrible decisions shout out today? Um?

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Speaker 1: They did? I think? I know you don't want me

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Speaker 1: like what you'll what's your what's your? What's the thing

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Speaker 1: you search um latino, big gass, step brother, step brother,

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Speaker 1: w incest, watch everything? Why step brothers? Is that considered incest?

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Speaker 1: Not really because through marriage and ship right now, because

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Speaker 1: you'll be trying to time when you talk about sucking

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Speaker 1: people with their fathers, but they wouldn't be sucking each

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Speaker 1: wait wait step brother? Are you a step brother? But

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Speaker 1: this is category that just comes up just like whatever,

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Speaker 1: But the babysitter ship I do like, probably because that's

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Speaker 1: then when you just said you like to acting and

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, I really I do

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Speaker 1: Who do you think the hottest milk on the planet

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Speaker 1: So she bade she looks great for a daddy. Let

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Speaker 1: me see, Jason Momo. Can I be honest with you?

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Speaker 1: know nobody who married, like probably when I was like

422
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 1: younger and didn't even really know it. Like I've really

423
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 1: tried not to My first real boyfriend I ever had

424
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: after dating him for three months. You remember how traumatic

425
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 1: a us I found out he was married. We had

426
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 1: been on vacation together, wasn't at two cities, Puerto Rico,

427
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,119
Speaker 1: New Orleans. Like then I found out he was married.

428
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 1: He went to Hawaii on a work trip, but I

429
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: couldn't talk to me at certain hours, and oh, I

430
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,359
Speaker 1: gotta broke my heart. And then they got divorced. And

431
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 1: I really feel like when they got divorced, we ended

432
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 1: up together like that was my Like I feel like

433
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: it was my fault. Um, and I was only eighteen

434
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: years old. I was terrible. So now I feel like

435
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: if I do, if that happens, I'll be fucked. Maybe

436
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: that's why God made me a hole. The rest of

437
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: the years, he's like, oh yeah, we gonna fuck you.

438
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 1: But anyway, so um for a baby daddy, I didn't

439
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 1: know how attractive Lebron was, and so seeing this person

440
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: and oh my god, and his wife is super cute

441
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: in person too, like she's hot, and then they're really hot.

442
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 1: And I was just thinking about all them kids. And

443
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 1: then I started clicking on videos of him being a

444
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: good daddy, and I was like, all the NBA players

445
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: got kids, So I think the whole lead find Actually

446
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 1: I'll take all of them, but dad make it look good.

447
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 1: How many are there in the league. It's like on

448
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 1: the thirteen. I mean, I got a year and a

449
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: half of fun if I won a day what they find?

450
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: If we're talking about baby daddys, all the nigga's got kids,

451
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 1: whether they know it or not, it's about that MANI

452
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: I think in the league, white one. So I ain't

453
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. Chandler Parsons fine, um, Kevin Love fine,

454
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: Adam damn something Adams. Uh, oh, you don't know sports.

455
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 1: I don't think, Oh, oh my bad. Well there's another

456
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 1: guy that just looks like a Spartan and I can't

457
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 1: remember his name, but it's something Adams. Well, i'll tell

458
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: you Luca Duncheon's whatever. I don't know how he'd be

459
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 1: shooting like that with a body like that, why is

460
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 1: he not a shade bro? I went to that every

461
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 1: game because the Lover Boy when I was in l

462
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: A and I was like, Niga, this has got to

463
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: be one of the worst. Like normally he's like literally

464
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 1: one of the best players I'm but he's like undoubtedly

465
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 1: right now, probably one of the top five, which was

466
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: crazy because I thought he was gonna be like super

467
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 1: rips and I was like, damn, I mean, but James

468
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 1: Harden is the same. He goes in and out of

469
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: his body and he's one of the best players in

470
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 1: the league as well, which is insane, right, Like it's

471
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 1: really I mean it's but it's skill, Like you don't

472
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 1: have to be ripped to do this, I know, but

473
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 1: you would. I don't know if I agree with that.

474
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 1: I think you do have to be like super at

475
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: football players, hpe, But they be hitting niggas in football,

476
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: you sai, no baby, pushing them over, push them over. Yes,

477
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: that's exactly what they do. Basketball you gotta run up, down,

478
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 1: up down. I mean, but you could also cherry pick.

479
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: You get breaks as water boys like you, like the

480
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: whole break happening. I could catch my breath. We all

481
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:49,959
Speaker 1: I gotta do is stand on the line, all right

482
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: about baby daddies v nella ship for this week. I

483
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: saw a video that I thought was sucking, insane. He

484
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,479
Speaker 1: came out a few weeks ago of a father tossing

485
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: eighty thousand pennies. Did you see this? I was so

486
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: happy that they were a white family. Oh when I

487
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: clicked on and I was like, this on a shade room.

488
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: Let me see. So what started as an act of

489
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: spite triggered a domino effect of kindness. Um. The man's

490
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 1: daughter says, he pulled in front of our house, turned

491
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 1: the trailers so it dumped out all the pennies. She

492
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: was eighteen year old. He made his final child support

493
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: payment in eight thousand pennies. How much is that? That's it? Oh? Nick? Well, anyway,

494
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 1: they ended up donating every penny to a domestic abuse center.

495
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: They said next, while I was on CNN, it was

496
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: on a ring camera or something, which is how we

497
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,959
Speaker 1: all saw it. But it's just terrible. And then they

498
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: got mad donations after that, forty seven thousand dollars, and

499
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: people from all over the world are trying to uplift

500
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: the daughters, saying this is like amazing, we want you

501
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: to keep donating, and so they just keep helping her out.

502
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: So donate to something better than that. Goddamn no I'm

503
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 1: talking about like, but it's going to the daughter. No, no, no,

504
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: she's allocating it over and over and over. But it's

505
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 1: going to the domestic abuse. That's not going to her,

506
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: right right. But people gave her the money and she's

507
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: not keeping anything. Okay, okay, know what I mean. So

508
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 1: fine with me. She's like, oh, like whatever, fun him,

509
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fine. And so she's just trying to

510
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 1: help out other families. But I did uh during the pandemic. Actually, um,

511
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 1: if I'm not mistaken, there was an employer who paid

512
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: someone their last check and pennies as well. This was

513
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: during the pandemic. It was something petty, I guess because

514
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 1: they that's so to me, so evil and mean and nasty,

515
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 1: like dollar bills. At least I do like making it

516
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: rain bro. I was in the bank the other day.

517
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: I know this is really random. Meal, I'm so sorry

518
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 1: this is a d D. But white people are fucking insane. Well,

519
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: they're calling this guy didn't want to wait online. I

520
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,679
Speaker 1: was at the Chase and aster place. I guess he's

521
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: a private client. So we started flipping out and the

522
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 1: lady was like, I'm so sorry, we're understaffed and it's

523
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: a Friday. We'll try to get with you in ten minutes.

524
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm a fucking private client, so I

525
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 1: can have someone take me whenever the funk I want

526
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: to take all my money the funk out of here,

527
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: and like starts flipping out, And I was there while

528
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 1: he was there the whole time, real quick, for real quick.

529
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: It was right. So it was a Georgia man uh

530
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: Android's flat and his former employer dumped ninety thousand pennies

531
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: on his driveway as a form of final payment for

532
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: his work at an auto shops. And they had but yeah,

533
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: this happened because they trash hundreds. So I don't know

534
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: how much money the dude had. I would flip out,

535
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: like if I was like mad about something, but like

536
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: I wouldn't start cursing somebody, especially when a staff you

537
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: could tell it's Friday Friday security guard. This is something

538
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: I didn't even know. I don't know how much money

539
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: he had his account, but he was so evil to everybody.

540
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: They're like, fine, we'll take the money out. The security

541
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: guard was like, no, there's not enough security in here

542
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: to help you remove your money. And I'm here to

543
00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: keep the people in this bank safe and keep you

544
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: af No, you can't take it out. The security nick

545
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: of it I was, girl, did you want to leave

546
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: the bank? I was sitting there and casting my little check, Like, wait, girl.

547
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: The security guard starts arguing with the dude. He's like,

548
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 1: I can't keep you safe unless you want to call

549
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: private security to take your money out. I have to

550
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: keep the patrons and the employees of this bank safe,

551
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: and if you walk in the street with money like that,

552
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 1: you put everybody else at risk. He's like, no, you

553
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: can't take it out. He's like, who the fuck are

554
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: you to tell me he said, I can't take it out.

555
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 1: He's like I heard, and I are I'm telling you

556
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: you can't take it out. And he starts going off

557
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: on the bank tellers telling them do not take his

558
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,880
Speaker 1: money out. And I don't know how many millions he had,

559
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: but girl to security guards say it now, And what

560
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: I learned was I didn't know that that was possible. Girl,

561
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: you should have want it to console him. I'm so sorry.

562
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: You retreated, let me, let me get you. But you

563
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: don't know how much money that Nigga had. He could

564
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: have been a sugar daddy if you would have consoled

565
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: him in that moment like being maga energy though, because

566
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: the girl was black. So I was kind of like

567
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: everybody already. But the one thing I will say that

568
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: I didn't understand there's a certain amount of security guards

569
00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: like us per what's the trucks with the money armor

570
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: blink bring trucks or whatever. They need a certain amount

571
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: of security per like whether it's millions or hundred thousands,

572
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: So that's security guard. I don't know how much. Again,

573
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: they were like nigging out. So the dudes that's flipping out.

574
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, I was no because I

575
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: was just like, bro, actually, recording is now, like you

576
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: need to just do it it. Plus I didn't want

577
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: him to start cursing me out. Plus he was outside,

578
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: and like sometimes I'd be feeling like when Nigga's recording ship,

579
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: it's put agram and I was just like that's where

580
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: we would cameras, bitch, but the banker putting out what happened,

581
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: we want to see it on social media. I felt

582
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: like Okay, if you hit the bitch, it's gonna be

583
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: on camera. Anyway, what do you Let's talk about child

584
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,959
Speaker 1: support really briefly, because we talked about the eight Are

585
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: you on child support? You are? I have heard from

586
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: some men that they don't want to be on child

587
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: support because it puts them in the system, Like are

588
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: you how to be on child support? Because she feel

589
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: like it gives you a regular way of paying, Like,

590
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: how do you feel about being on child support? I

591
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: think it's a misuse because I do so much of

592
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: my kid anyway, Um, I pay so much for it,

593
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: like talking to my baby Xander. Lexander is an expensive

594
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: as kid. So like I think family court divorce law

595
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: was a mechanism to destroy black and brown families. Because yeah,

596
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: but so if you like begin to put people in

597
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: the system, now it's different if people are paying. But

598
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: like anybody who knows me, knows how much I have

599
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: my kid, how much I do for him. I would

600
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: make the argument if I wouldn't have been put in

601
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: the system and his mom knew how I felt about

602
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: being in the system, I would have gave more. But

603
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: I felt like because the elevation began to happen, there

604
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: was some this day there and this is like the

605
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: only way that I can try and punish you. But

606
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: how do they decide how much? Can you talk about

607
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: how much you pay? That I won't do, but I

608
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: would be happy. I was like, I would bring that

609
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: ship in a gift wrap box with chocolate. Like I'm saying,

610
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: I'm curious because aren't yours like capital gains, Like, how

611
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: do they decide how much you It's still based on

612
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: annual income in Okay, so, but but there's a cap

613
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: in the state of Texas. Certain states don't have a cap,

614
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: so they can run, Like I know some people that pay.

615
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: So when I saw that, I was like, I don't

616
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: know that his relationship with his daughter and family. But

617
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: I'm like five thousand dollars a month for a millionaire,

618
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: who cares? I mean, but it's but I mean, I'm

619
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: I'm I'm someone who received child support my whole life.

620
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: I've had this conversation with my mom. My sister right

621
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: now is filing for child support as well. So in

622
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: terms of child support, I think one of the major

623
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: misconceptions and people who haven't either been put into the

624
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 1: system or gone through the process, um how they do it?

625
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: Now and I'm not sure if this is Florida or

626
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: New York, but how they do it now is they

627
00:31:56,440 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: still do put into effects how much money the the

628
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: parent that would be receiving makes, So my sister the

629
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: same way, you have to provide the same way that

630
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: the father has to provide all of his documents for

631
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: income that would be receiving how much they make, because

632
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: there still is a percentage to where it's the overall

633
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: aspect of it, so it's not solely just on say

634
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: he makes a hundred thousand and she makes a hundred thousand,

635
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: that means the percentage of what he may have to

636
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: pay would be less than if she made fifteen thousand.

637
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: It's still a collective thing, so you may have to

638
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: pay more if she can't provide uh more, Like it's

639
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: still a percentage base, So they still want both parents incomes.

640
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: So I understand how it could be perceived as, oh, well,

641
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: you just want it for personal gain. If in fact

642
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: the mother receives significantly or makes significantly less than the father,

643
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: then yeah, I'm taking you to child because now I

644
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: need this money. And the money, yes, you know, maybe

645
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: going towards more things than just this child so here's

646
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: an interesting question because you're a general person and dad, right,

647
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: why say you would have gave more? Like why I

648
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: know you want to give your son everything you type,

649
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 1: because like, so what do you what did you feel?

650
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: What do you feel like your money is going? Like

651
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: why would it bother you to give more or less

652
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: or whatever? Because she knew how I felt about the

653
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: courses in in general, because I know like one and

654
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: two black men as someone gonna end up in the

655
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: course system. So like because I'm not an in criminal court,

656
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: so I'm like, okay, I escaped that, and I don't

657
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: wait all this time to be in my thirties have

658
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: a kids that then end up because I'm like like,

659
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: if you know how I feel, don't go that route.

660
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: But then you have to influence of friends, family. You

661
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: see a person elevating, it's like, well, I think you

662
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: can probably get this out of him because now he's

663
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: doing X y Z. So I know it wasn't because

664
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: if it was after me, like if there was no drama,

665
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: I would do everything what I'm doing for Xander and

666
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 1: would have provided more and still like a boy the

667
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: time xanab So can I ask you a question then,

668
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: because this, I gonna hold you. This triggered me, like

669
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: what you got to do with her? Yeah? But no,

670
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: because here's the thing outside of and I hear what

671
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: you're saying. I know men and specifically also men in

672
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 1: my family who then throw that in women's faces all

673
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: the time, like oh well, you could have even been

674
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: getting more. My thing is maybe had you shown up

675
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: and started giving, there wouldn't have been like, oh well,

676
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: let me go to the court to get it, like

677
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: we'll see. But but that's the thing too, when when

678
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: it's not court ordered, like my sister baby daddy was

679
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: given ship early on then just stopped and then I

680
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 1: was like, oh, well, I'm gonna send this, then stopped

681
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 1: Like as a as a parent, now I'm literally at

682
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: the will or having to ask you, hey, when you're

683
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,439
Speaker 1: gonna send that, when you're gonna do that when ordered,

684
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: it comes, when it comes. Don't doubt that you're you're

685
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: always giving to Xander. My thing is, like I wondered

686
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: sometimes because because had money his whole like this whole time,

687
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: planned on having a kid, always has his kids giving

688
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,320
Speaker 1: his kid money. If a dad like that who's financially

689
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: stable enough to pay for his kid I wonder if

690
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: then somebody really wants child support because they want no

691
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: ties with you, they don't want to have to ask you.

692
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 1: That's what That's what I could That's what I could see.

693
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: I know, I know you're bringing up the court system

694
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 1: and how um it you know now makes the baby

695
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: mom a villain, But I do, I'm messing this villain.

696
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: But if I tell you, like like I've even had

697
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 1: people that I didn't like that have hurt friends, and

698
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: my friends have hurt them. They didn't go to court,

699
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: and it was like life, it's like certain rules I

700
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: just have, like like even if somebody crosses me, like

701
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 1: unless you put my kid in danger, I'm not gonna

702
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: take somebody to court. That's just me though. But I

703
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: tell everybody like, this is how I operate, this is

704
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 1: how things will go. But if I'm already doing and

705
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: everyone I know everybody has two sides. But I know

706
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: what I have paid, have been paying and been given

707
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: and also what I put away, like not to like

708
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: if Xander doesn't want to work when he turns, so

709
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to. That's because it is true that

710
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:15,240
Speaker 1: when we talk about the child support, it always makes

711
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 1: women feel like ship but also in the same time,

712
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:25,240
Speaker 1: it's like we obviously are all, you know, pro social

713
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: justice and black men and women winning, but at the

714
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: same time, it's like from for every home girl I've

715
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: had that's been with a nigga who ain't ship, which

716
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: is difficult because maybe those men didn't have money to

717
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: pay for their kids and intern with you. It's not

718
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: like it's got money. No, no, no, I'm saying like

719
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying, my home girls have fun with some broke

720
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 1: niggas that be like I ain't got it, I ain't

721
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: got it, within it's not the case. So it's interesting

722
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: because those are always the one that goes on child support,

723
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 1: and I feel like this is a different who's the

724
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: ones who always going to support? They're always having to

725
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: beg these niggs for money, so it's like fine, and

726
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 1: we have to take it out your check. Now. These

727
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: are the instances and cases I've had with friends they

728
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: didn't have affluent baby daddy's their baby daddy always like

729
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: I ain't got this, blahlah blah. But also if there's

730
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: not a relationship there and now maybe y'all have other partners,

731
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: I understand why now I don't want to have to

732
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: call you every motherfucking time I need money. Now, I

733
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: know I get this amount of money a week or

734
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: this amount of money bi weekly or monthly. Now that's

735
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: that's the less that I have to talk to you.

736
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: I know, when you see your child, come and pick

737
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 1: them up. But now financially, I don't have to call

738
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: them to ask you because realistically too when you're not

739
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: in the home with a child. And this is the

740
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: thing that I always say about child support because my

741
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 1: daddy legit, well my my daddy legit did not talk

742
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: to me and my sisters over my mom wanting to

743
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: raise My mom was getting four hundred dollars bi weekly

744
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: for two children, and we knew my dad made more.

745
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 1: So when my mom went to court to get more,

746
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: because she's like, cool, you're buying them named brand shoes.

747
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: I have two. No, it was no, that was what

748
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: she got told on eight hundred a month. So find

749
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: you and at the time, yes we're on Section eight,

750
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: we have food simps. But also as we get older,

751
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,760
Speaker 1: I want to be in sports. I was playing violin,

752
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 1: I was doing things, and yeah, he showed up and

753
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: got us the name brand shoes. But that's the thing

754
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: that that I think a lot of fathers that are

755
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: not in the whole home don't understand. My mom could

756
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: only take certain jobs and take certain shifts because we

757
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 1: were home. She had to make sure we had someone

758
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: to pick us up and take us from school. So

759
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: her entire life, the amount of rooms in the house

760
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 1: had to be worn just because we were there. So

761
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: even when it comes to oh, well a kid, don't

762
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 1: take that much. Literally, my entire life takes more because

763
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: of these children that nine times I'll attend. The fathers

764
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: don't even they just think, oh, the child support is

765
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: for you know, my entire life has changed because now

766
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: I'm the sole provider of these children. And that was

767
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: my that was my experience, like child support, Like I

768
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 1: didn't really I mean, my parents are still together, but

769
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 1: I didn't really understand it until I've grown older and

770
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 1: had friends and even at this age now feeling guilty

771
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: now with men that won't even speak to them just

772
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: trying to get child support and not guilty like having

773
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: to be like, damn, I gotta put this nick in.

774
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: A lot of women don't want to put you all.

775
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, one of my best friends, she tells

776
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 1: me all the time, like bro like that story doesn't

777
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: get told enough too. I wanted to ask you as

778
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: far as like quote unquote baby mama drama, Um, how

779
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: do you have dialogue with your six year old about

780
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: when things are tense with you and the women you're

781
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 1: to kill with. I was just telling the truth, like,

782
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 1: m if I don't see you, it's not because that's

783
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: how I wanted to be. I still want you to

784
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: be respectful with your mom. But if it was up

785
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: to me, I will see you every day. How often

786
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: do you guys split time? Uh so it's like every

787
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 1: other weekend and then a couple of days throughout the week.

788
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: But you know it should has challenges, man, like she

789
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: changes sometimes if she gets in a mood. You know,

790
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: some games get played a boy restricting access and ship

791
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: like that, so you have to adjust. But like some

792
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 1: of the greatest advice my dad told me, like when

793
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: I was going through it, he was like, you had

794
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: the money to pay, so pay it and not as

795
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: if you have not been paying the same or more so,

796
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: just provide and then everything eventually work itself out. It's

797
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: tough like so for me, it was just the audacity

798
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: of being taken to court over when I know what

799
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: I was already pouring in and me being solid like

800
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: you know me, Like I don't give over just because

801
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 1: I funk with you. Like so if I give like

802
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: that to you and people that we know, imagine for

803
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 1: what I'm doing for him. What about when it comes

804
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,439
Speaker 1: to um men that are feeling like they can't spend

805
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: enough time with their kids. What kind of have you

806
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: ever looked into court ordered things or third parties? Like

807
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: what can you do to ensure that you got a

808
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 1: lawyer up and whatever you agree to in that paperwork?

809
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 1: That is the paperwork. So your paperwork when you when

810
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: you do child support, you mean so what like yours

811
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 1: says every other weekend, you have to fight for what

812
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: you want and that paperwork or you have to be

813
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: willing to go back. And that's that's the part about

814
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: court that I don't like. Because the funny part, like

815
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: when we went to court, my lawyer and her lawyer

816
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 1: were friends, so he would tell me ship behind the scenes,

817
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 1: like yeah, after I'm done with your case, we're going

818
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 1: on vacation together. So I'm looking at it like and

819
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: I respect honesty, but as a business person, I'm looking

820
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: at if he has a case sload of four or

821
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: five people and I'm paying ten grand, somebody else's paying

822
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: ten grand. They're running this ship up like crazy off

823
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: of black and brown families. So that's a business. You're

824
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: feeling like it's nothing, But if family law and child

825
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: support worried one entity, it would be a fortune company.

826
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: It's like billions of dollars put through this system. So

827
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: I get for the people who won't pay, or like

828
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 1: you said, if they won't pay for months and they're

829
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: like skipping out on ship. But I see the business

830
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: behind it, like even going back into the nineteen sixties,

831
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 1: like when they took the black dad out of the

832
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 1: home and then like that was designed to get black

833
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: and brown families to break up. There's a lot of

834
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: talk like I recently saw in some posts and different

835
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: ship about um DNA tests at birth. Did you see

836
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 1: that they were talking about, oh, should this be mandatory?

837
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: Was like a Twitter thing that was going around and basics, well,

838
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 1: there's now like you can do a DNA test while

839
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 1: the baby's still in in the belly. Yeah, it's you

840
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: can literally, like because well that's the thing too. A

841
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of women feel entitled to still

842
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: get some sort of um, you know, to be taken

843
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,760
Speaker 1: care of because maybe she can't finish out work. Uh, definitely.

844
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: A lot of dancers, like once you reach a certain

845
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: level of pregnancy, you can't dance. So if you're in

846
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 1: different industries like that where you can't show up to

847
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 1: work because of your your pregnancy. I know that there

848
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 1: are now ways for the man to request the DNA

849
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: test while the baby is still in there, because you

850
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: are asking for some sort of support while you're pregnant.

851
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 1: So there is a way actually to do a DNA test. Yeah,

852
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: cause I got your baby in right. I funk with

853
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: that actually. So when it comes to like DNA tests

854
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: them and then requiring them, what do you guys think?

855
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: Do you think that should be something done? Ain't gold you?

856
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: That's what happened with with us. Like when my mom

857
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: went to get more he said, okay, before you get

858
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: any more DNA tests, everyone, let me make sure these

859
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: are all even my children. And clearly we knew, like

860
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: you know, but it got it got Oh, it got messy.

861
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: We ended up having to do a whole DNA tests

862
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: and everything on all of us. Yeah, so I looked

863
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 1: up if mom mother's paying child support curious to know

864
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: what you guys think the percentages mothers that pay child

865
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: support to me, probably lesson like, well, most men don't

866
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 1: have full custody, so it depends what that stat is,

867
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: because a woman is not gonna pay child support if

868
00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 1: she has custody. And not many single parent dads have

869
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: full custody of the children. There's not there's not as

870
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: many singles. What do you think? What do you think?

871
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: I mean a lot of women keep the kids and

872
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: it's easier in corse, I don't know what. I'm actually

873
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: shocked at it. I don't know six percent of women

874
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: paid child sports. I did not think almost eight percent

875
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:24,919
Speaker 1: because probably probably because eighty five percent of women keep

876
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: the baby, I know, but I thought it was gonna

877
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: be like way lower than that. Oh, it's just we

878
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: very seldom run into single single dads now. Um, I'm

879
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: also curious you call yourself a single father because you

880
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 1: don't like the turn baby daddy. Why is that calfather,

881
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: Because I think when you say baby daddy, it means that, um,

882
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: the choice to how the child was unintentional, that wasn't

883
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: the kid like Xander was playing. I just think if

884
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: we say baby daddy, we broke up. That's what I think.

885
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:56,280
Speaker 1: What do you think? I'm very particular how I'm labeled

886
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 1: though as a black man, as a business person too.

887
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: Baby daddy is a word that to me, it describes unintentional,

888
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: unprotected sex with somebody that you didn't know was just

889
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 1: fucking with and it was accidentally. I mean, I think

890
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: that that's the same with women and the baby mama title, um,

891
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: and it's always like they annoy it, like you feel

892
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: like but but what's crazy too is even the connotation

893
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: though all of those when it's attached to women are

894
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: always worse, like well, why didn't the man stay? Why

895
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: he left you? Or they or there's a label of

896
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 1: promiscuity on the woman, especially when there's multiple baby fathers.

897
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 1: No one ever says when a man has three different

898
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 1: kids by three different baby mamas, it's looks right over

899
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: like as a woman, there's a difference. And also when

900
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: a woman's labeled a baby mama, I think just again,

901
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: the value is deductive, the same as if she's even

902
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: called a single mother. If you're called a single father,

903
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 1: there's almost praise to that, like, oh damn, that's what's up.

904
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: A single mother doesn't even get praise in the same

905
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: fashion that a man does when he takes custody, Like

906
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 1: and again, this was all growing up in a single

907
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: parent household and witnessing this, like I have a lot

908
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 1: of only trauma and experience with how all of it manifested.

909
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: But now that I'm an adult and my sister is

910
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: now going through the system like I do. And it's

911
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: because the nigga not trying to show up because he

912
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: feels like, oh, well, I got for the kids to

913
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: take care of, so maybe you shouldn't have laid down

914
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: with this one. Bitch, pay the motherfucking dollars and and

915
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: and I don't want to deal with you. Women will

916
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: always be blamed, like where you had a baby with him,

917
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 1: And it's like, yo, I've dated men with kids, you

918
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like if I decided to have

919
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: a kid with that one in that relationship that was

920
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: in like funck, now is my goddamn fault? Like it's

921
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: just strange. I agree with you how women are always blamed,

922
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: but I think that sometimes there is an interesting side

923
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 1: to men that want to be better death And I

924
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: honestly think it's a small person. I feel like we

925
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 1: mostly know women that are going through the hardest time.

926
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: When baby did that part time and money, you know

927
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: what I mean. But I also didn't know that it

928
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: had to do a percentage how much they make. Okay,

929
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: let's get to the home mail. You already, Stewart? Wait

930
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 1: were there already? For real? Damn shiit? What's the what's

931
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: the time on that we're Can you cut that out?

932
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: I don't want people thinking that we're just a little mark,

933
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: but it is plus the five, So ho mail. Hey guys,

934
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: A little backstory to my now uncomfortable situation. Seven years ago,

935
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: I had a new neighbor move in the house next

936
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: door off the bat. I fell in love, pictured us

937
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: getting married and everything, just because of the way our

938
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: relationship hit off. That's me, girl. I hit it off

939
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 1: with his cousins and he would always make comments about

940
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 1: my friendships with them. Fast forward a few years ago

941
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: and he chooses someone else over me, gets married and

942
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 1: moves on, and naturally I stopped hanging around the family

943
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: because it was awkward. And now his wife doesn't like me,

944
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 1: so we haven't spoken in two years, and then it

945
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 1: just got worse. I started talking to one of his cousins.

946
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: They aren't the closest, and he used to always tell

947
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:53,879
Speaker 1: me had feelings for me and hatity when I talked

948
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: to you is because the other night I had a

949
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: night of drinking and hanging. We fucked and after finishing

950
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: in the middle cleaning, he says, don't you regret choosing

951
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,320
Speaker 1: my coversin over me all these years ago? I was

952
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 1: speechless and I didn't know how to answer. It's been

953
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 1: a week now and he turned into a cocky asshole,

954
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 1: ringing it up whenever he can. Do you think that

955
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: he used me to one up his cousin? And how

956
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: do you think I should take it? Side note? As

957
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 1: I was writing this, I literally got a d M

958
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: from my best friend saying my neighbor d M her

959
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: asking if she knew why I was hanging out with

960
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: the cousin. What are they playing at? Do you think

961
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 1: that the cousin revenge fucked her or he really have less?

962
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: I don't think he had feelings, but he just you know,

963
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 1: I don't think there was feelings at all. They said

964
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 1: they went out and they was drunk. He said, I've

965
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: had feelings for you for for years, That's what I said.

966
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: I think he gaslighted her to get in some pussy.

967
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 1: I don't think it was a revenge thing, but if

968
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: he's being a cocky household now and rubbing it in

969
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: but also that, but also they went out and we're drunk,

970
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 1: so I think he just also said what he needs

971
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 1: to say in that type of environment to get some pussy.

972
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: I agree. And one other thing I wanted to bring

973
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 1: up about this, so when it comes to fucking home boys,

974
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 1: do y'all think, because I really do believe this, maybe

975
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 1: want to be better than a friend, especially when they know,

976
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: let alone cousin, let a home let alone a homeboy.

977
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 1: Like I really do believe there's a little thing where

978
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: it's just like I got it too. I don't think

979
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: they care. You don't think so do you think? And

980
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't crew loved a couple of times, Like I

981
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: don't think any of them have been like, oh was

982
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,720
Speaker 1: mygic better than his? Like you don't think men compute

983
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: with each other? Look at all the like rappers that

984
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: date this, ye, I mean I think that's to stroke

985
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: their own ego though, Like I just want to know

986
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: that I could suck the same bitch is a Kanye

987
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: or something like that, because now it makes my ego better.

988
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: But I don't think, oh, I think it's weird as

989
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: I think it's grouping as fun it's but I also

990
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 1: don't think niggas are like, oh, let me outperform my

991
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 1: homeboy with this bitch. I think it's just like if

992
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:56,919
Speaker 1: we fought the same bitch, we fought the same bitch,

993
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 1: made the best one. Hunger games may the best sequen.

994
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 1: So I'm to get in that I sucked like friends.

995
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: I totally forget about it because they were such a

996
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: large fan and they aren't friends anymore. Yeah, like it

997
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 1: was maybe like four years in between it, and then

998
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 1: they didn't sunk with each other anywhere. Something they nigga said,

999
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 1: like they be fan want to shoot each other. But anyway,

1000
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: Florida niggas, one of them asked me recently when I

1001
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: was in Florida that no, he didn't ask me. He

1002
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: was drunk. He was like, you know, I know you

1003
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: sucked so and so I hate when they do that.

1004
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, who told you that? I didn't

1005
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: even say no, let us teld you, And he was like,

1006
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: I already know a few visites all of them tell

1007
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: me about Dick is bigger and even though it was

1008
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 1: bigger that he bothered. That was Lane. That's as much

1009
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 1: bro he hat on his homeboys. What are you doing?

1010
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: And that's Lane? That lame is fault. You should have

1011
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: been like you all puss That as Lane mass nigger

1012
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: right to his face. Since in Florida that's some labor's lane,

1013
00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 1: so fucking small. I was like this nigga, really no

1014
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 1: because he I sucked him first. But the point is,

1015
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:09,800
Speaker 1: like nigga like huh like lame? First of all, it

1016
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: was his his dick was bigger. But the homeboy had

1017
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: better dick, if you know what I'm saying. He was

1018
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: pussy better that that was your That's that was your

1019
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: time to be a real afga. No, that's where you

1020
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: gotta be like, well, actually, I ain't gonna hold you

1021
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: because the way that nigga ate my pussy you might

1022
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 1: be able to learn as you think you know that's me.

1023
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 1: I'm old Karen, boys. I was like, we had sex

1024
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: eight years ago. You want to be diplomatic about it.

1025
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to remember that your dick was bigger, and

1026
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 1: for some reason you want to tell me that other

1027
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 1: bitches have said it. So basically, every woman that you

1028
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 1: slept with has went and sucked your cuter homeboy. I mean,

1029
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. That happened to me. Uh

1030
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: And it wasn't I guess the revenge. But one of

1031
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 1: the things that I was really in love way, and

1032
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 1: I talked about him on the show, so I'm gonna

1033
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: say his name. But I ended up sucking his college roommate,

1034
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: and the college roommate actually let the college roommate got

1035
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: a smoothie the morning. So when he tried to come

1036
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: at me and shame me for fucking his college roommates,

1037
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,840
Speaker 1: where they roommates when you were no, no, no, no,

1038
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:10,800
Speaker 1: my nigga was in the league. Now this nigga wasn't,

1039
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 1: but he was playing ball overseas. But we ended up

1040
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:15,800
Speaker 1: sucking when he was. This was when I lived in Miami,

1041
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 1: So this is how long ago it was. So we

1042
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: fun when I was living in Miami and the dick

1043
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: was good. So of course years later, the nigga that

1044
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: I was still working with try to throw it in

1045
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: my face like yeah, and you did this, and I

1046
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: had to be like, listen. As awful as that was,

1047
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna see him said. I regretted it because

1048
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 1: the dick was actually good, and I told him to

1049
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 1: his face, like I know you're trying to sit here

1050
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: and slut shame me because I sucked your friend, but

1051
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,879
Speaker 1: we weren't talking. I didn't think we would still continue talking,

1052
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 1: and the dick was good, So what are you trying

1053
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 1: to slut shame me or throw shade at your friend?

1054
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 1: We both enjoyed it because he's still trying to get it,

1055
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: so I don't know where this is going, but I

1056
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: let him know straight up, like you're not gonna shame me.

1057
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,359
Speaker 1: And I think that it's real wacked that he sat

1058
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 1: there and kind of tried to throw shade at his homeboy.

1059
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: I know, Like that's why who was be hating a

1060
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: lot though hater and all the time, Like women are

1061
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 1: so much at in the middle of that ship and

1062
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: it's just annoying, Like can I get some decks damn

1063
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,320
Speaker 1: anyway and tell the people where to find you. You

1064
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: can find me on g at the mass investor what

1065
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: is your only fans account? I don't have alright, masturbator

1066
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: coming for me. A man know a little bit a

1067
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: little bit um join red Panda dot com. You can

1068
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 1: find me on market Monday. So with my guys. Um

1069
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: a tramp shot shot at Mike. Damn everybody over there,

1070
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: give us a little horrible decisions for your text, for

1071
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 1: your stop people. We need to do that for real.

1072
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: What we're gonna make it. Let's make a w d ye.

1073
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 1: Make it you can make you create that right, make

1074
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: it horrible, make it right now? Well and let them know, uh,

1075
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: let let them know what. Red Panda is like the

1076
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: easiest platform ever to know how to invest. So if

1077
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: you've never invested before, I'll tell you where to get in,

1078
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: where to get out, what's buy, what stops to try,

1079
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: what to leave alone. I made you a little bit

1080
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 1: of money, so you can tell you how to make

1081
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: more money than your baby daddy that ain't trying to

1082
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: pay your right you tell them no, let me talk

1083
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: about okay, yes, Like so I'm in a Red Pantic

1084
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: club and I've learned and really it was, um I

1085
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: joined over quarantine and I started teaching myself how to invest.

1086
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: And I will just say this, this is sucked up

1087
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,439
Speaker 1: to say because Ian was like, oh, you guys should

1088
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: learn how to do your own stuff, and like you

1089
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: should know what you're doing, Like if not, if I'm

1090
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: ever not around and basically saying, like, know where your

1091
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: money is going, and I will tell y'all it is.

1092
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: That ship is very hard to do. And there's a

1093
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: reason I had to pay to get in this club

1094
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 1: because a bitch tried to just take a little bit

1095
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: of a guess at what was gonna make me some money,

1096
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: and it didn't. So my ship was up until I

1097
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: started making my own choices. And so now I just

1098
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: basically click on this little telegram chat he got and

1099
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: when he tell you what numbers to get in, what

1100
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 1: did you invest in that didn't work? Big tip for

1101
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: for the entire hor hib you know, with y'all hold

1102
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: everything for at least five years. BlackBerry during the game

1103
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: really now but it's searched am C but and I

1104
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: just sold it. But BlackBerry was at one point supposed

1105
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: to come back. It was just going crazy. The game stopped,

1106
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: time stopped shorting type ship. But when I had you

1107
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 1: get in Tesla and shopify and matching all that ship

1108
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,840
Speaker 1: last year though I didn't get in match but Tesla

1109
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 1: was really my money maker. I probably made like Tangeran

1110
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: on Tesla just last year's numbers alone from like a

1111
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: few and then I jumped in back in when it

1112
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 1: hit four hundred bucks and like, I really get in

1113
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,319
Speaker 1: at good times. UM. One that I did on my own,

1114
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: I did okay with Uber, you did good on that,

1115
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: um maderna Ian told me to get in at my Apple.

1116
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:45,759
Speaker 1: Ain't really doing nothing, but I will tell you two

1117
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 1: happily you just keep you just have forty shares at Apple.

1118
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: But Microsoft, I'm up on that. Um. And then I

1119
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: bought a bunch of little medical stocks that Nick was

1120
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 1: talking about online. I found that's so funny. Those are

1121
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 1: the ones, uh suggested. He said, you get to something,

1122
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 1: to something and here we go, there we go. Yeah,

1123
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 1: shout out to my guy. UM. But no, like um,

1124
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 1: it was really fun to like learn. And right now

1125
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:13,720
Speaker 1: I just don't have time, so I'll just be clicking

1126
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 1: on what the NiCoT. You don't have to learn because

1127
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 1: like especially for women like business people, you have to

1128
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 1: have the money working for you. So while you're doing

1129
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 1: working on other ventures, even if somebody does bad business, like,

1130
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: there's money there. I always telp people like put the

1131
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: money into the companies and CEOs that are better than

1132
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 1: you and have them. And I know everybody online think

1133
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:35,799
Speaker 1: that they have a perspective is not from a place

1134
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 1: of ego, but most people who talk about investment, they

1135
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 1: haven't been doing this long and then they have no money.

1136
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: Like so when I asked people like okay, they'll tell you, hey,

1137
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:45,919
Speaker 1: you should invest in this. I'm like, are you free?

1138
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 1: That's the only question you should ask, are you financially free?

1139
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 1: If not, they don't know. It just be a lot

1140
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: of because like invest in now is a new hustle.

1141
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 1: The rap ship didn't work, so everybody want to come up,

1142
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 1: well if you get this, and I'm like, bro, no,

1143
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: like you don't have enough money. Like and that's why

1144
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: even like investing for Xander, if you have kids, please

1145
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 1: put every dollar you can in for your kids. Like

1146
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:12,840
Speaker 1: Xander six, probably by the time he's twelve, he should

1147
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 1: probably be up a million and a half. Well, even

1148
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 1: if we're not financially free, investing is still locate even

1149
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 1: more important because like you can buy all the stuff

1150
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: that you want to in the world, but like we

1151
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 1: often buy a lot of luxury ship because we're not

1152
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 1: where we want to be financially Can I ask you

1153
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 1: real quick to Then as someone listening to this episode down,

1154
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, well, I actually do want to invest

1155
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 1: but I know I'm still in debt. What do you

1156
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: what would you say to someone? What would you say

1157
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: to someone who maybe has a heap of credit card

1158
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 1: debt or student loans, should they not work towards paying

1159
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 1: those off before investing? What would your advice be to them?

1160
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 1: Invest first and then the second half pay off the debt.

1161
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: So if you only have five bucks, I will split it,

1162
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: because like these, it is going to be rich regardless.

1163
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,120
Speaker 1: American Express is going to be great. Citalong's gonna give

1164
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: a funk about you. They don't. They ain't never get

1165
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: any money. Like they just wrote me, like, um, I

1166
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: think we need your updated number and address. No bit,

1167
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: y'all ain't gonna find me. Send someone Oklahoma, you know,

1168
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: sen send that ship somewhere. Because like, even if you

1169
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: pay off all your debt and I'm debt free, but

1170
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: being at zero, what happens when you go debt free?

1171
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 1: Well I was gonna say that's the thing too. They

1172
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: if you pay off all your credit cards, now that

1173
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: even works. It gets your credit in an odd way.

1174
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: You gotta keep at least and keep paying and then

1175
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 1: keep paying. If you have an emergency, then you go

1176
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: back into debt. People and miss out on ten years

1177
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: of growth trying to pay off debt. And then it's

1178
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: like you could have been up Sells episode about how

1179
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 1: like it's the fucking interesting and crewing at least, like

1180
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: what what's the point you know, if it's set it's

1181
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 1: fixed rate. Well, but but that's who I come again from,

1182
00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 1: not only a single parent household, one with uh not

1183
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,439
Speaker 1: much financial literacy. I was one of the first people

1184
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: in my family to go to college. So also me

1185
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: quitting my job, my focus was having a savings account.

1186
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: Good god, me having a savings account is a big

1187
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: deal accomplishment. That's a huge accomplishment for how I grew up.

1188
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 1: So that was of course my focus. And again through quarantine,

1189
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: that was just talking to people. They're like, it's just

1190
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: sitting there and it's not doing anything. You can at

1191
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 1: least take a third of it invested and let that

1192
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: make money for you because right now is just sitting there.

1193
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, and if you do half and half, like

1194
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: you get to a place where you're comfortable. I took

1195
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: a third half with a lot can we do? But

1196
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: once you find things that grow like same thing, like

1197
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, shut up with that.

1198
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 1: But if you get some good stocks that will make

1199
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 1: you like mad like for those in the stock got there,

1200
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: they're up like. So it's about what you invested. Now,

1201
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 1: if you're only gonna get seven, I'll see why you

1202
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't one of us have. But for all creatives especially,

1203
00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: I won't created to be in a space where they

1204
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 1: can create and not get robbed. So then if you

1205
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 1: invest money into the market, no one can really tell

1206
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: get us another durna bro, I got that ship is

1207
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 1: seveny all this ship at two oh to today? Okay,

1208
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: tell us and if you would have spent shut up

1209
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 1: being anyway. Use the code next for DNA is Horrible Decisions.

1210
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: We're about to go public on cheer Um. I want you,

1211
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 1: guys to read the description in the bio to tell

1212
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: to tell you a little bit about it and what

1213
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 1: the code horrible We'll get you and then check us

1214
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: out on patreon dot com back slash Horrible Decisions for

1215
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: five dollars a month ago, all of the bonus episodes,

1216
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: including a town hall for fifteen a month. You get

1217
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 1: the merch and the video the hor hobby fucking too

1218
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 1: so a fellows who're trying to they do wait no,

1219
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: I'm not in a hor hibe, but some of my guys,

1220
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: like after I did the first one, bro Tom got it,

1221
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 1: I was like, damn for real. So fellas, if you

1222
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 1: need I told you, no, we have our Patreon, but

1223
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: just maybe ready to like they'd be looking for dick

1224
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 1: am plussy. All of protos went in there drunk the

1225
01:00:58,480 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: other night and one's talking to I was like, let

1226
01:00:59,880 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: me out what I'm done with fans. I ain't even

1227
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 1: gonna tell you. So we do have hopefully I'm gonna

1228
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 1: lock him in. We have an upcoming episode with finally

1229
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: a black man who enjoys being pegged. And after the

1230
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 1: last town hall I mentioned it, bitch five of our

1231
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: patients was like, oh yeah, we ran a gang bang

1232
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 1: on him, Like oh yeah yeah, so like they already

1233
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: knew who he was and everything. I was like, well,

1234
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: and you got some hole ass for instance, all right,

1235
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 1: it's bonus, bitchy. Let me tell you about how he

1236
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: doesn't have a name. But my l a naked basically

1237
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, you got me sucked up last name.

1238
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: Oh oh that's oh, you're coming in spicy with it.

1239
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 1: I ain't that spicy, but it's just like why he

1240
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 1: as he funked up in what way? I have him

1241
01:01:56,840 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 1: packed up? Now? Oh everyone, I love Brent France and

1242
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 1: Brent Friya's has been doing a party called Wasting Time Wednesdays.

1243
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 1: So I hit up my elen Nic and I was like, yo,

1244
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 1: we out, like we're out, we go out right. So

1245
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: he's like, um, He's like no, like you know, my

1246
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 1: weeks be crazy. Um. I was like damn, like we

1247
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 1: gotta fund to Brent. We gotta get some Brent going.

1248
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 1: So I did forget that he does know Brent. And

1249
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't really forget like I knew it,

1250
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:35,920
Speaker 1: but like, let me just explain. I'm not like a

1251
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 1: fan like I want to sunk the ship out of

1252
01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 1: Brent Fridace. I just love his music, I would say,

1253
01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: like a J Cole thing for you, right, Like you

1254
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 1: never really be like that nigga is so fun. You

1255
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 1: just love his ship, right. So then I started playing

1256
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: in him on FaceTime and dance around whatever. He was like,

1257
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 1: why do you keep like playing this nigga ship talking

1258
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: about how you want to suck me? Like you know what,

1259
01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 1: I'm cool with that nigga? And I was like does

1260
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: it matter? Like because I want to suck you to

1261
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: this nigga ship, Like are you serious? And he's like

1262
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 1: every time, like you send me music or like you

1263
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: try to get sexty and me you keep playing Brent yo,

1264
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 1: And he's like it's sucking awkward And he was like,

1265
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: and you'd be on this thing of the dick all

1266
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 1: over Twitter and like, no, I funk with the nigga.

1267
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I know, and he was like

1268
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: no easy. So like a week ago he was chilling

1269
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 1: at Rents house, they were just smoking or whatever, and

1270
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: he's like, yo, like what about if I talk about

1271
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 1: you and then they can click on your ship and

1272
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: it's like, god damn, I wanna be with Brent right

1273
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 1: now and all caps on Twitter and I was like,

1274
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 1: it didn't say that. Do you think they're Where is

1275
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: their line where you sound like a groupie and then

1276
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 1: where you could actually be a fan and also, excuse

1277
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:45,439
Speaker 1: the funk out of me. If I like playing music

1278
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: to a nigga unit, sorry I masturbate to it being

1279
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 1: a masturbation playlist for the last two or three years now,

1280
01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: and I'm not ashamed of the ship, but like, now

1281
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 1: I gotta be wrong. And then he's like yo, like

1282
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 1: when you get here, if we go out and I'm

1283
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,040
Speaker 1: around his nigga like how to funk you about to

1284
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 1: be active? And I was like, Yo, what do you

1285
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna do trying to suck his dick in

1286
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: the car Like no, I just like his ship. Um.

1287
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,480
Speaker 1: But I also, I don't know. It's a tough one.

1288
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 1: I mean to me, I mean I immediately went to

1289
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 1: thinking insecure, like that nigga's insecure, he's projecting his insecurities. Um.

1290
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 1: But then I did go to thinking like nah, like

1291
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: seven is not played in um. And I mean I

1292
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 1: even remember going all the way back to one of

1293
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 1: my ball players. We would watch these YouTube videos of

1294
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 1: people singing covers and one of his he ended up

1295
01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 1: working with a bit that was on one of the

1296
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 1: YouTube videos we was watching one night, so like I

1297
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: would never want to see that again. Um, okay, And

1298
01:04:56,080 --> 01:04:58,560
Speaker 1: I do mean I mean, well yeah, and that's the thing.

1299
01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a there's a different with with all

1300
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: of that. I mean, it's weird because most people don't

1301
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: have these close proximities to people. But I mean, if

1302
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 1: that's if that's someone as well, because you do go

1303
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:13,959
Speaker 1: out in l a and he knows that at any moment,

1304
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: you could run into this nigga and if he's not there,

1305
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 1: he doesn't know how you would act. I wouldn't one

1306
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 1: know when gasing or sweating about my friend. Okay, here's

1307
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 1: the way to think about it. Remember when you went

1308
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: on the date and someone has asked you how Ki

1309
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:33,840
Speaker 1: Ki and Medina were or whoever was in personal where

1310
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: I saw him at May But but I'm trying to,

1311
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: like I'm paralleling it. You don't want to hear about

1312
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: someone that you're with fanning over someone you really know

1313
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 1: out of respect for them. It's not even you could

1314
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: be a fan. But if that if he's already but

1315
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: if he if he's already said hey, that's my nigga,

1316
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: and this you fanning for him makes me uncomfortable out

1317
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 1: of just pure respect from him for him, I just

1318
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 1: don't do it. But I didn't. I didn't know Mandy.

1319
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 1: I didn't know that he had a problem with it

1320
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: until last night. I mean, but if he's like kind

1321
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 1: of hinted, like, yo, why that's my nigga? Chill last

1322
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:13,600
Speaker 1: night he made it like adamant because maybe he felt

1323
01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 1: like he told you enough times you know, chill out

1324
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: on that nigga he said to me before, because he

1325
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 1: was like, you feel like we never had this conversation before.

1326
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I really thought he was playing with

1327
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 1: me when I would be playing Brent and he We've

1328
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 1: been around each other, and he'd be like, God, damn,

1329
01:06:27,600 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 1: you love this nigga. And I'd be like, yeah, I

1330
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Speaker 1: don't