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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: No, wait a minute. If you're going to a two

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Speaker 2: part wedding, so they're having a wedding a now and

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Speaker 2: a wedding b later in the year. Yeah, Elvis, this

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Speaker 2: is a growing trend.

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Speaker 3: I noticed this is now the third wedding I've been

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Speaker 3: invited to where there's part one is happening now.

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Speaker 2: It's just a wedding. It's a kind of wedding junior.

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Speaker 3: And then the big celebration is going to be next

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Speaker 3: year when when.

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Speaker 2: They can do it. Yeah, no fun, there's going to

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Speaker 2: be a lot. They're anxious, they're ready to go, they're

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Speaker 2: ready to get married. Well, I just don't like the idea.

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Speaker 3: That's like, wait a second, you're going through the whole

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Speaker 3: process twice, and where everyone's going to do the dress

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Speaker 3: up thing twice, and I.

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Speaker 2: Give them two gifts.

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Speaker 3: That's where I'm having different No, no, no, I hope not.

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Speaker 2: You don't give a You don't give a gift for

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Speaker 2: a party. You give a gift for a wedding. They're

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Speaker 2: getting married one time, that's what the gifts are.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if they're having an engagement party first, then

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Speaker 4: I understand another gift, but there's no engagement party and

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Speaker 4: it's just two. It's too wet's.

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Speaker 2: Wedding, wedding. It's like they're anxious, they want to get

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Speaker 2: it started. Yeah, yeah, go have fun. You give half half?

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Speaker 2: Would I give all of it up front? Or but

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Speaker 2: the thing is? And then I look like an idiot

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Speaker 2: if I wait till the second wedding, because I think

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Speaker 2: you're overthinking it. They're getting married once. It's just one wedding.

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Speaker 2: It's one union at a time for these people. So

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Speaker 2: when they get married, you can give them a gift

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Speaker 2: now or give them a gift later. Does I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think anyone's gonna worry about it.

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Speaker 3: I compare it to like tipping the bartender up front.

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Speaker 3: Give them all the money upfront, show them that you

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Speaker 3: made the effort, and then the number two you could

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Speaker 3: skate by.

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Speaker 2: I know, but okay, are you let me ask you

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Speaker 2: a weird question? Are you happy for them? I mean, god, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I got so excited. Focus on that part, like focus

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Speaker 2: on that.

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Speaker 3: Look, I'm going to be worried how I'm they're gonna

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Speaker 3: think about me if I only give If I do

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Speaker 3: half care and they're gonna be like, oh my god, carried.

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Speaker 2: Really in the whole scheme of things in their lives.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you, you and what you do are

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Speaker 2: going to keep them away at night. I think you're okay.

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Speaker 3: They get judging when they open the envelopes and they

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Speaker 3: write that stuff down in the ledger.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you, wait, now, here's what do you think

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Speaker 4: that they're going to go like, if you gave something

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Speaker 4: nice at the first wedding, then the second wedding comes,

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Speaker 4: they're going to go, oh, where's Scary's gift. I mean,

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Speaker 4: they should have it written in the ledger that you

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Speaker 4: gave it the last wedding.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, but didn't you keep like track like an

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Speaker 3: accountant of everything that came in and who gave.

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Speaker 4: What I mean for they do that, yes, yes they do. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: they do. Thanks for the thank you right for the

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Speaker 4: thank you cards exactly.

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Speaker 5: But a ledger makes it sound like there's a dollar

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Speaker 5: value attached to it.

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Speaker 4: Well, most people, I guess it depends on where you live.

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Speaker 4: Where we live, they give money. That's what you get

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Speaker 4: at weddings, you know.

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Speaker 2: But I wouldn't worry about it. The whole point is

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Speaker 2: you have friends who are getting married. You want to

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Speaker 2: help them celebrate. They've decided they're going to celebrate twice

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Speaker 2: because they cannot be fully open now, but they want

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Speaker 2: to get it started. Go go play with them, Go

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Speaker 2: have some fun. I'm going to. Okay, just don't judge

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Speaker 2: on the gift. But here's the thing. Now, let's say

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Speaker 2: God forbid, they have this the first wedding, right, and

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Speaker 2: you decided, well, I'm gonna give the gift on the

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Speaker 2: second wedding. Yeah, they don't. They don't make it to

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Speaker 2: the second wedding. Oh oh, that's a problem. That's a problem.

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Speaker 1: I have another question.

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Speaker 2: What's that say?

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Speaker 4: You're you give somebody a nice gift for their birthday

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Speaker 4: because they're turning like a big number or whatever, and

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Speaker 4: then you have a party later. Do you have to

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Speaker 4: give them another gift or you already gave them a gift,

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Speaker 4: so you're you know whatever, what do you think you

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Speaker 4: a gift? Okay, that's what I think too, But other

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Speaker 4: people are telling me no, I'm just saying I think

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Speaker 4: if that's what I say.

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Speaker 2: Wow, people, do people really get that wrapped up in

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Speaker 2: the gift?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately I told you I did.

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Speaker 2: Well, go ahead, gandhi.

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Speaker 6: Well, I have a friend who got married not too

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Speaker 6: long ago, and she had a bachelorette party. The bachelorette

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Speaker 6: party ended up getting canceled, so I heard from another

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Speaker 6: friend that she then expected everybody to roll the money

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Speaker 6: from the bachelorette party that they didn't spend into her

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Speaker 6: wedding gift.

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Speaker 1: So she wanted to collect both.

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Speaker 7: Oh.

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Speaker 6: I didn't do that, So I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 6: the terrible friend or I know. I was like, that's

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Speaker 6: a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: And I screwed everything up where I I We were writing,

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Speaker 2: we were trying to keep tabs on what people get.

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Speaker 2: We first of all, we said, please do not give

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Speaker 2: a gift, we do not need anything. We appreciated donate money,

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Speaker 2: to contribute money to this organization whatever. But people gave

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Speaker 2: gifts anyway because they're they're they're lovely people and they

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Speaker 2: wanted they wanted to give a gift. I get it.

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Speaker 2: We cannot find the list. We don't know where. We

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Speaker 2: don't know who gave us what. I've got this beautiful

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Speaker 2: ash tray up there. I don't know who gave it

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Speaker 2: to me.

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Speaker 1: I did it was me?

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Speaker 2: Is okay? Take claim friends out there going, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: you didn't even say thank you.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know who to think.

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Speaker 1: No, I think you.

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Speaker 6: You were very clear, very clear about not wanting gifts

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Speaker 6: and specifically telling us if you do want to give

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Speaker 6: me a gift, here's where you can donate the money

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Speaker 6: for that gift.

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Speaker 1: So if people chose to go.

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Speaker 6: Around that and give it to you, I don't think

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Speaker 6: you really owe back the thank you. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 6: you're so amazing.

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Speaker 2: This is just a nice thing to do.

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Speaker 4: It is, Yeah, of course it is.

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Speaker 2: The phones are going crazy. I got Karen on one five.

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Speaker 2: Karen her solution for the two part wedding. It was

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Speaker 2: a two part wedding, just like Scaries, right, Karen.

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Speaker 8: Yes, this past weekend. I just went on Sunday.

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Speaker 2: Was this part one or part two?

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Speaker 8: This is part one? This was the bride and groom.

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Speaker 8: My name is Kara from Santa Pus, New York, Long Island.

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Speaker 8: I love her well you guys, and I've listened to

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Speaker 8: for twelve years going to work.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, so you went to part.

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Speaker 8: Wedding, the beautiful wedding. She had the old Royce, she

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Speaker 8: had the whole nine yards the makeup orders that everybody

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Speaker 8: was done. This church was full the wedding cards, you know,

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Speaker 8: the the invitation said the wedding of these two kids.

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Speaker 8: So everybody, a ton of people came to the church.

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Speaker 8: And I gave my full envelope to the wedding, and

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Speaker 8: the little card was inside. The invitation said the reception

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Speaker 8: will follow next year. And so it's really Part two

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Speaker 8: was really reception. It's not a wedding wedding. It's a

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Speaker 8: wedding and a reception.

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Speaker 2: It's a party. And right exactly, Okay, where did the

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Speaker 2: gift go, Karen?

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Speaker 8: I just handed it to the broad mother, you know,

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Speaker 8: just to give everything envelope and everybody kind of do that.

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Speaker 4: You do if you gave the gift of radio, what

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Speaker 4: if you give half now and half later?

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Speaker 8: Like no, it's that's ridiculous. No I.

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Speaker 2: Like it.

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Speaker 7: That's kind of stupid.

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Speaker 8: I think that's done because it's a party. It's a party.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I don't know if she's gonna put that

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Speaker 8: gorgeous wedding gown on again this year. She might be pregnant.

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Speaker 8: I have another friend whose son got married. Let she

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Speaker 8: didn't want to wait. They left in Texas they're coming.

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Speaker 2: Up talking about it. It's just it's giving me. I

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Speaker 2: got blood pressure flying up my eyes. Oh okay, thank you, Karen,

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Speaker 2: best of luck to you. You sound like you did

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Speaker 2: the right thing though, to give them a gift an

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Speaker 2: ear over. It's done, The gift is done. I don't

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Speaker 2: know you anything else.

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Speaker 9: See, I wouldn't give a gift until part two because

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Speaker 9: if they don't make it to part two, I don't

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Speaker 9: want to have wasted my gift on part one. See

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Speaker 9: what I'm saying, Well, if you can't make it to

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Speaker 9: a reception, you don't deserve the gift.

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Speaker 2: Wow, you were so emphatic. There's a lot of people

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Speaker 2: that don't. Their marriage doesn't even last six and I

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Speaker 2: were saying that I know, but you have a gift

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Speaker 2: in hope that things will be fine. Jenny's online six

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Speaker 2: Hello Jenny, Hi guys. Well hello, you went to a

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Speaker 2: two part wedding and you gave a gift at each

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Speaker 2: part two gifts? Totally.

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Speaker 7: I did so. My friend's wedding was last year, but

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Speaker 7: it was canceled, so last weekend they had the church

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Speaker 7: ceremony and a small luncheon just for a few friends

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Speaker 7: and family. So I did bring a small gift and

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Speaker 7: then the actual reception and big party will be next year.

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Speaker 7: But they're also doing like a vow renewal, so I'm

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Speaker 7: going to give the actual gift, you know, the card

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Speaker 7: some money at that time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, look, pressure, there's no pressure. You do exactly what

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Speaker 2: you want to do. But if someone else decides just

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Speaker 2: to give one gift, you don't think they're a schmuck,

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Speaker 2: do you. I mean they're okay.

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Speaker 7: I mean it's like, yeah, I mean I was just

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Speaker 7: So that's why it was just small gifts. But I

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Speaker 7: need to have something, you know.

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Speaker 2: I got you, I got you.

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Speaker 9: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's however you want to do it. It's totally fine.

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Speaker 2: I don't think there should be a rule rules. Schmool

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Speaker 2: with you, all right, thank you so much, Jenny. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what's scary.

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Speaker 3: There is this thought though, that if you're if the

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Speaker 3: host is paying for two parties and shelling out cash,

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Speaker 3: then you have to give a gift for both parties

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Speaker 3: to help cover that cost.

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Speaker 2: So there is there there is that.

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Speaker 3: That is playing out in my head right now, which

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Speaker 3: is why I'm wrestling with the one gift versus two gift.

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Speaker 2: I see, I've never understood that logic. Yeah, to throw

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Speaker 2: a party, to throw a party, and I needn't. I

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Speaker 2: don't know. It's weird to me to throw a party

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Speaker 2: and expect you to compensate me for it. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know it's weird for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's what people do.

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Speaker 4: They go, Okay, it's two fifty a plate or three

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Speaker 4: fifty a plate, So how much I got to cover

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Speaker 4: my plate and my guest's plate. That's how people think

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Speaker 2: get out.

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Speaker 4: Here, please, don't exactly.

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Speaker 2: Please don't you should have a part two, Elvis, just

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Speaker 2: By the way, I don't need you pillow shaming me, Nate.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you sleep in that bed, man,

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Speaker 2: Why where did you see my bed? I was watching

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Speaker 9: And he goes into this bed and he barely even

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Speaker 9: gets onto the bed because there's so many decorative pillows

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Speaker 2: So it's a video of my dog grabbing a little chip.

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Speaker 2: We call it mister chippy. Yeah. And he runs into

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Speaker 9: And then he goes over one layer of pillows, then

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Speaker 9: Right, how do you have that many decorative pillow How

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Speaker 2: What do you care?

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Speaker 9: Am I the only person here? Like, there's no way

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Speaker 1: So dramatic.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm seriously I hate pillow You act like with

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Speaker 2: I can't stand you're a drama queen.

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Speaker 10: No.

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Speaker 5: I think Danielle will agree that we had this in

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Speaker 5: my house, yeh, is there not seventeen decorative pillows on

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Speaker 5: the guest pend There are?

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Speaker 4: There are, and I have to take them all off?

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Speaker 2: Who cares?

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Speaker 1: Who cares? Put it back on?

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Speaker 5: Because when you go to bed, you're tired. It's a

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Speaker 4: In my house, my husband hates them. He does not

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Speaker 5: The same as decorative hand towels that you can't dry

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Speaker 1: Why have them because they're pretty?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, but these pillows, where do you put them, You

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Speaker 9: put them on the floor, it's all dusty and dirty. No, No,

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Speaker 9: you stack them on the on the top of the dresser.

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Speaker 9: I mean I still I have like fourteen pillows stacked

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Speaker 9: because I refused to let Heather put them on the bed.

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Speaker 2: Here's my point. I don't know if you want to

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Speaker 2: on top of it. It's none of your business. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but why do you get you get all but hurt

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Speaker 2: about my pillows. I'm just I'm judging because I saw

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Speaker 9: So I said, boy, you've got a lot of decorative

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Speaker 9: can I ask a serious question? How long does it

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Speaker 2: Ten seconds at the most?

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Speaker 9: What do you do, like jump on there and just

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you, why do you care? Because I'm curious.

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Speaker 9: I want to know why people have so many decorative

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Speaker 1: It's for decoration, They're beautiful, you too, shut.

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Speaker 2: Up bare What about the throws?

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Speaker 3: You don't need throws to add the decorative pillows you

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Speaker 2: I don't have a body pillow.

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Speaker 5: Those pillows are for bitingate that's why.

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Speaker 1: They but on the same token. So my boyfriend hates

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Speaker 1: He has like two pillows, and I'm like, what do

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Speaker 2: Can we give some more? That's all you need?

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Speaker 6: I need more than one pillow. I like to have

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think I think you're missing my point. My

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Speaker 2: point is what does it matter? Why? Why do you

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Speaker 9: I'm not giving you crap as a by product, but

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Speaker 2: But yeah, here's the video.

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Speaker 1: People are going to be expecting something.

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Speaker 2: Just count the layers of pillows. It's probably three or four.

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Speaker 2: Who cares? What brody, what's your philosophy? What's your pillows philosophy?

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Speaker 2: And the question, I'm sure if you decorated a bed

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Speaker 2: That's all I need.

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Speaker 3: Oh boy, I want to know if row one is

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Speaker 2: That is road two there to decorate row three? Is

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Speaker 2: that the thought process? Get away from me.

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Speaker 1: You have four rows here, four rows, pillow. I like

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Speaker 1: your four rows. I think it's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: You're a pillow. By the way, I have a whole

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Speaker 2: new a whole new bed coming soon and all unveil

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Speaker 2: no no, all new pillows, all new everything. We love

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Speaker 2: front Gate. You're a pillow hoarder, you know what. And

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Speaker 2: you're a pillow bier.

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Speaker 1: I think he looks nice.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just again, what business is it

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Speaker 2: of yours? It's not my business. I was just curious.

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Speaker 2: I'm like observing the wild here.

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Speaker 9: I'm like watching some sort of animal digits, dig its,

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Speaker 9: burrow or something. I just want to know how you

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Speaker 9: get those off of the bed. Don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: Held on, Michael, Michael, are you calling to scrutinize my pillows?

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Speaker 2: Because if so, I got you know, I'm bad man.

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Speaker 10: Anyway, go, I have pillows to my bed. So my

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Speaker 10: but my friend has decorative candles. So like she doesn't

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't know how to feel about decorative candles.

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Speaker 2: I mean there are some there is what they call

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Speaker 2: candle art. Yeah, where it is a candle, it's wax,

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Speaker 2: and they say you.

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Speaker 10: Have to like light it to smell it and like

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Speaker 10: make your helm smell good.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they just smell good on their own.

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Speaker 5: Though.

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Speaker 2: Did you guys see the candle that Lady Gaga gave me?

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Speaker 6: That thing needed to be like opened with some type

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Speaker 2: It's weird. It's like a droopy face, Michael. And then

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Speaker 2: when you light the candle on the top, you light

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Speaker 2: eyes and form and then drips down her cheeks. And

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Speaker 2: so the wax, the wax drips down and forms like

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Speaker 2: like tears.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I did not see that.

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Speaker 2: You can see you can see what it's going to

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Speaker 2: do if you light it, but you dare not light it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, so let's move back to your decorative

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Speaker 2: hand towels. Michael. Now, now I'm getting all that.

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Speaker 5: Why can't I wipe my hands on those when I'm

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Speaker 2: Because they're decorative right, right, yeah, okay, we'll leave all right, Well, listen,

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Speaker 2: thank you?

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Speaker 5: Your initials on them? What do they have your initials

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Speaker 5: on them? Because usually it has like your first initial

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Speaker 10: They're palm trees, my whole bathrooms palm trees.

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Speaker 2: Of course it is thank you, Michael. Have a great day,

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Speaker 2: you in your hand towels? What decorators? Decorative pillows are

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Speaker 2: a sham. That's stupid. It's it's so stupid, it's kind

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Speaker 2: of cute. Take a victory SIPs theory. Yeah, please do. Hello, Lindy, Hi,

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Speaker 2: are you as passionate about hating decorative pillows as straight Nate?

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Speaker 7: I can't stand them.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, they're the worst.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what do you have one little pillow in

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 8: I have two.

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Speaker 7: I can't sleep with just one pillow?

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Speaker 2: Right, So okay, but I like decorative pillows. Can't we

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Speaker 2: just agree to get along here? Why do you? Why

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Speaker 2: do you? Are you gonna get a hard on for

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Speaker 2: a decorative pillows too? I mean, seriously, but Lindy, I

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Speaker 2: will like them, so you don't judge me? Are you

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 8: You just won't catch me sleeping on a bed with them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, guess what show you I didn't invite you.

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Speaker 2: Guess what? I can't come to yours. You don't have

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Speaker 2: enough pillows anyway, Thank you, Lindy. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: People give me crap up on my pillows.

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Speaker 1: Where do beds look though? If you walk in and

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Speaker 1: it's just two.

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Speaker 2: Pillows, it does look like a prison.

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Speaker 1: That's your pad type of thing. You need the decoration

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Speaker 1: to be an adult?

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Speaker 2: Whatever? Adult? What's scary, Elvis? How do you feel about

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Speaker 2: bed skirts? I think some beds need them, some beds don't.

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Speaker 2: It depends on the frame of the bed. If you

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Speaker 2: You don't want to cover it up. Why do you

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Speaker 4: They get a dust They look so nice because if not,

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Speaker 5: Know, in front of the bed, and you can cramp

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Speaker 2: This is just in. You can clean them. Yes, this

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Speaker 2: is just in and they're called dust ruffles. Get out

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Speaker 2: of here, Jack asked.

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Speaker 1: Hey, take work.

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Speaker 4: They need to stem them when they come out of

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Speaker 2: Scary. You hire someone to come over every week. Don't

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Speaker 2: get started with me. I will you boogie butthole.

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Speaker 1: One of the problem.

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Speaker 2: Because they get dusty. I couldn't ask my cleaning woman

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Speaker 11: Serial Killers with a C

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