WEBVTT - Thrown Under the Bus

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<v Speaker 1>Talk Talk Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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<v Speaker 2>to talks.

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<v Speaker 1>Were Live, We Live, We Live, and hey all the

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<v Speaker 1>way from Sharlo, North Carolina. Too bad bitches, and we

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<v Speaker 1>talked back period. What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning

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<v Speaker 1>that for a new episode of We Talk Back, a

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<v Speaker 1>show dedicated to you negroes and you pros and everybody

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<v Speaker 1>else in between. It's your co hosts aj Holiday. What's

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<v Speaker 1>up town?

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<v Speaker 2>And this is me tiamvam, I love y'all. Thank y'all

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<v Speaker 2>for tuning in. How is your weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>For a year?

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<v Speaker 2>You look cute?

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<v Speaker 1>Mama? Hey a you even going stick up to Mayo?

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<v Speaker 1>Just past y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>This was my single day Mario dress. Honestly, I just

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<v Speaker 2>had to throw it back on for y'all. See I

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<v Speaker 2>can see it, and I really didn't like. I went out,

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<v Speaker 2>but I didn't stay out. I was out for like

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<v Speaker 2>thirty minutes because me and my friend who was supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to meet me kind of got into an argument. So

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<v Speaker 2>I just went back home.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all gote an argument before she got there, or she

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<v Speaker 1>just left your eye somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>She never made it, so I just went back home

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<v Speaker 2>and took my little dress off. I had took a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of drinks in there thirty minutes though, I look.

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<v Speaker 2>I took two shots of margarita and a glass of champagne.

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<v Speaker 2>So by the time I got home, I was like lit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I didn't do shit this weekend. No, no, because

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, you know, i'd be having a

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<v Speaker 1>mentally prepare for this type of shit, like to record.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really, yeah, So I just I was in the

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<v Speaker 1>house last weekend. I hung out a lot. This weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I really just stayed in the house and stowing it

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<v Speaker 1>up down here. Late as fuck. But anyway, I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>still be late. You can count on that shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. I woke up back ten o'clock, like we gotta record.

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<v Speaker 1>I did go to dinner Saturday. That's about it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did where you go? I'm gonna eat where? Just this

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<v Speaker 1>little little vegan restaurant in Charleston.

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<v Speaker 2>Vegan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, bitch, you know what, No fake meat.

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<v Speaker 2>I like my real meat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see how I could ever be vegan. Vegans

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<v Speaker 1>be fat, uh dub it carved up. That's why exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>They eat too much carbs. No, but I still eat seafood.

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<v Speaker 1>But bread sweets. Like right now, do you know food

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<v Speaker 1>Lion has some ice cream sandwiches that got butter pecan

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<v Speaker 1>ice cream in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch. Okay, baby, do you know all the new snacks?

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<v Speaker 1>I know all the good fat ship Okay, let's be

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<v Speaker 1>clear that shit has made that's good. Honestly, you know

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<v Speaker 1>they say yes, butter pecan ice cream. I swear to

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<v Speaker 1>God meeting that's just as I was three, I love

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<v Speaker 1>butter pecan ice cream. If you would be hating on

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<v Speaker 1>it though.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, when I was a kid, I would be the

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<v Speaker 2>only one who wanted mint chocolate chip on the ice cream.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you're a serial killer. Yeah whatever, because who the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck eats mint and chocolate together?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It was so good and it was

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<v Speaker 2>like it looked different than all the other ones, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>so I had to have it every time. Let's meet

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<v Speaker 2>in a stupid internet news like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, this is so much for me. Okay, so apparently

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<v Speaker 1>uh to see a Tennessee hotel manager Nashville in Nashville

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<v Speaker 1>Nastyville in Cashville, fifty two year old David Neil was

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<v Speaker 1>arrested after he snuck into a male guest room while

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<v Speaker 1>he was sleeping and got intimate.

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<v Speaker 2>With his feet, so he was in there. The nigga

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<v Speaker 2>woke up and the white man was sucking on his toes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. The guest tells police that he woke up to

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<v Speaker 1>David's mouth around his toes and immediately confronted him. The

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<v Speaker 1>guest says he recognized the manager as an employee who

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<v Speaker 1>had entered his room the day before to help him

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<v Speaker 1>solve an issue with the television. David was a night

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<v Speaker 1>manager at the Hilton Hotel in Nashville at the time

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<v Speaker 1>of the incident, and he made a key card before

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<v Speaker 1>entering the room at five am.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, how you just had to have them feet? Ah.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy must have had on some Jesus sandals and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I got to go get them feet. I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking, like Dad, he might have checked in and

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<v Speaker 1>had a little thong.

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<v Speaker 3>Sand up five o'clock in the morning, Right, what would

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<v Speaker 3>you do if you woke up and that man was

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<v Speaker 3>in there sucking on your foot.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kicking him in the face. I'm definitely kicking them

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<v Speaker 2>in the face. That's why you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You look at your toes up. I do, like my

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<v Speaker 1>feet suck when they're in the air. Okay, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do be looking at dudes in the face like nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just walking around barefoot in here, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's one thing if you are like having sex

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<v Speaker 2>and you got your legs up and he just turned

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<v Speaker 2>to the side and grabbed one of those feet and

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<v Speaker 2>put in his mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. But to have a.

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<v Speaker 2>Strange, old, elderly white man wake you up out of

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<v Speaker 2>your sleep with your big toe in his mouth is wow,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kicking you in the face.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just charge him. I accept visa massacred American

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<v Speaker 1>Express Like I was just Hell, you don't want me

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<v Speaker 1>to listen. You don't want me to tell you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>trying to go to jail. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>He might go from sucking your feet to like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>now it's time for you to die.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody who do that is crazy. Draft up, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, Maybe not not so much.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know though, So I want to get into

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<v Speaker 2>King Charles the Third and Queen Camilla have officially been

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<v Speaker 2>crowned after an elaborate ceremony. This is the first coronation

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<v Speaker 2>at Westminster Abbey since that that of Charles's mother, Queen Elizabeth,

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<v Speaker 2>back in nineteen fifty three, so he finally.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a job.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been living off his mama for all them years

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<v Speaker 2>and now he's seventy three and now he finally got

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<v Speaker 2>him a job. And Camilla, let me tell ya something.

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<v Speaker 2>Camilla is camea living proof. She living proof that if

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<v Speaker 2>you stay down, you're gonna get on because she was

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<v Speaker 2>definitely his side chick, that became his main chick.

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<v Speaker 1>She is not she's an illegitimate queen at this point.

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<v Speaker 2>She is.

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<v Speaker 1>She's an illegitimate queen, Like she's been his side bitch

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<v Speaker 1>since before Princess Diane passed away. Uh huh, she can't

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<v Speaker 1>be the queen?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that right here?

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<v Speaker 1>I've just finished watching Queen Charlotte on Netflix. That shit

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<v Speaker 1>came out two days ago. Yeah, I watched all six

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<v Speaker 1>watched it because I love, love love. You know, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't know that Queen Charlotte was a

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<v Speaker 1>black woman, and you know now they don't know because

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<v Speaker 1>of it, because of Netflix.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they might not even believe it to be true.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll be like, oh, they just used all kind of kill.

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<v Speaker 1>She definitely definitely throughout history that with black people, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was a Queen of England, right, and you

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<v Speaker 1>see on those movies like how many black. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the whole royal family is in there right now,

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<v Speaker 1>are illegitimate, all of them? And I feel like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>Meghan Marko is like the return of their original lineage

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<v Speaker 1>that's supposed to be in that house. That's interesting. I

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<v Speaker 1>believe she's more.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we all more? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>More means black, But you know, I don't claim to

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<v Speaker 1>be a more because the moors. This is my belief.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that these niggas showed up to the shore,

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<v Speaker 1>other niggas was already here right h some white folks

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<v Speaker 1>showed up first, some pale faces showed up first. We

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't fucking with them. So they went to Europe and

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<v Speaker 1>came back with some people that look like us, our cousins.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how we got overthrown over here. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>very possible. I'm not a motherfucking more. Okay, I'm from America.

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<v Speaker 1>But this was them a rocking empire at one point,

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<v Speaker 1>supposedly allegedly, and anyway I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think I might be more so. Yeah, I do not.

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<v Speaker 1>Respect the current queen. Okay, I mean it's I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like their their time there is going to be short lived.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Megan Marko and her husband is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the Royal House, in the royal seat very soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, with you know, during our lifetime for sure, because

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<v Speaker 2>they in their seventies. But absolutely apparently they got some

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<v Speaker 2>secret sauce there to keep you alive to at least

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<v Speaker 2>a hundred. Yeah, but that's only twenty more years and

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<v Speaker 2>we can.

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<v Speaker 1>Get into those conspiracies of what that sauce actually. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want some sister, No, you don't, bitch, why you

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<v Speaker 1>want some adrenalron? You know where it comes from? Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>What is the you know what a jennal cron is? Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all want to know some of our listeners know what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck I'd be talking about? Why do people stay young? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the actress that was on give me something my birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Adrenal cron is like blood from children? Oftentimes I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they be.

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<v Speaker 1>Blood letting kids. That's how these people stay young and

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<v Speaker 1>look like this. Remember the actress who was on Ellen

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<v Speaker 1>I think, and she was saying how she gets these

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<v Speaker 1>vampire masks and it's from the blood of the foreskin

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<v Speaker 1>of a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I had one of those. I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 2>it was though, like, my institution, don't look at me.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't blood.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it your blood because something It wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't no blood in it, as to my understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>Next it wasn't. It was no blood in it.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was like, oh, I want to give you

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<v Speaker 2>this new mask we got in it's all over Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be from skin.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, let's do it, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>And then while it was on my face, she was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's made from baby foreskin. And I was like, y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm calling the police on everybody in here. What you mean.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, no, from you know, circumcised babies. They use

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<v Speaker 2>it from the foreskin. And I was like, don't put

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<v Speaker 2>that on me no more.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds very wait until afterwards.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I said, I said, why wouldn't you tell

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<v Speaker 2>me that a friend. She's like, because I know you

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<v Speaker 2>would have said no, but your skin is gonna look amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>My skin look exactly the same.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I feel like you want them people

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I ain't wanted them people.

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<v Speaker 4>Typic get me some for my birthday. Well, I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know it was baby. Then I didn't know. Whatever, Nick,

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<v Speaker 4>what's going on? We're gonna talk about? I wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>talk about Usher and Chris Brown.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard they got into a fight over the weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>but I can't validate that, and I don't really have

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<v Speaker 2>no true to you on that, but I just wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Look like a fight to me. That's why I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>sure about it. Don't nobody want to see Usher and

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Brown fight.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to see them dance battle, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to see y'all fi what is.

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<v Speaker 1>The next concert? Right? What is the verses? That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see. Don't was fighting because Chris Brown

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<v Speaker 1>was like because remember like maybe a year or two

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<v Speaker 1>ago when Versus a super super pop and they were.

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<v Speaker 1>People were suggesting like Chris Brown and Usher versus, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Chris Brown was like, man, I learned from Usher,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know that's one of my people or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe I don't know. I think Chris Brown is

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<v Speaker 1>a phenomenal human, both.

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<v Speaker 2>Of them, both of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, I like Usher, I like you didn't see that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about as far as artistry, like Chris Brown

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<v Speaker 1>is like an actual artist, like he beat on painting

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<v Speaker 1>some ship up like this like some really nice. He's

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<v Speaker 1>an artist, he's a singer, he's the rider. He does

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more than Usher. That's all. That's all.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we're just talking about as far as the music

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<v Speaker 2>is concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>And who do you think dance better? Usher or Chris Brown?

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<v Speaker 2>So I would probably have to say Chris Brown dance

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<v Speaker 2>better because he's the younger one, but he probably like

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more flexible than Usher is now. But

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<v Speaker 2>Usher been skating all year. I feel like a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit Blmber.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I should dance better because I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just something that I want to see y'all dance off.

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<v Speaker 1>It's something about all niggas dancing that just look goofy

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Well, Chris Brown tall, Yes, Chris Brown is

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<v Speaker 1>really tall.

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<v Speaker 2>They all look short to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Usher is short. Chris Brown is like over six foot

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<v Speaker 1>really yes, same. I think I just think dancing is

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<v Speaker 1>for like smaller people that you know, tw niggs be

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<v Speaker 1>looking stupid than they clothes like they showed just be

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<v Speaker 1>real pointy and ship like. Little niggas look a little

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<v Speaker 1>compact like they just like baby clothes. It's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>That was weird to be anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So that's it for our stupid You got anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Else with That's it, man, I'm sick of humans, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna take a little break.

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<v Speaker 2>And we'll be right back for a commercial.

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<v Speaker 1>I tell y'all, listen, there's a lot of things going

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<v Speaker 1>on with black women right now, in particular right and

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of want to start this episode off talking

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<v Speaker 1>about one of our recent episodes from a couple months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>We had on Navgreen, right, one of the funniest dudes

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<v Speaker 1>out here of our generation as far as I'm concerned,

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<v Speaker 1>him and Colins Miller. But we posted a clip and

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<v Speaker 1>we've been being dragged drag action, viral drag.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Like I don't even want to rely on that post.

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<v Speaker 2>When I see it's a comment, I don't even read

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<v Speaker 2>it because it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, okay. So I was kind of bored this weekend because,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, I didn't do much. So I did,

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<v Speaker 1>like clap back a little bit, because I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>do talk back, but I'm not I feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times listeners and these social media people, people online,

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<v Speaker 1>they just want to respond, so I give it to them.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes other than that, you can kiss my ass.

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<v Speaker 2>But only for fun, Like I be going like boys

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<v Speaker 2>show y'all went to your page.

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<v Speaker 1>You ugly shut up. One dude that was like you're

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<v Speaker 1>out looks think that's all I commented to his ass

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<v Speaker 1>or like shut up, but really be pissing me off though,

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<v Speaker 1>gets my girls grinding. When I go to comment I meet,

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<v Speaker 1>I typed out something that won't.

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<v Speaker 2>Let you comment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that pieces me off. I'd be so mad you

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<v Speaker 1>and them if you're not following. We talked back. You

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<v Speaker 1>can talk as much ship as you want in our comments.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't give a fuck, but you gotta be following.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't just be coming over here to talk shit

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<v Speaker 1>and leave. You can't be coming fucking shit up and leave. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we ain't having it, so at least give us some

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<v Speaker 1>social digital currency if you're gonna talk ship, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you know we okay with it. So all right. Let

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<v Speaker 1>them know what the conversation was. Man, what woman find

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<v Speaker 1>I you frightful? She ain't even really feeling like that?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, I ain't compete with nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. I don't want to nobody, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want a man that is accessible to everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>but nobody else won't. Yes, like what if I want you?

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<v Speaker 4>If nobody else, nobody else, somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Got absolutely I want you. Everybody probably want you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how I feel about it. Nobody said that I want

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<v Speaker 1>or we want a man who's unfaithful.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, but that's what they took it. A's like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what's the problem with you bitches?

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<v Speaker 1>And somebody calls us refrigerator. Wait, well, did you want

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<v Speaker 1>to fight you? Because if y'all wouldn't even date anybody

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<v Speaker 1>who looked like your mama, right, okay, let's be clear.

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually had to filter out the word hole

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<v Speaker 1>and a couple of other choice words. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>saw people doing garden tool. I guess they realize they

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<v Speaker 1>can't come and hole, so they do garden tools. So

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<v Speaker 1>I blocked that ship, like the disrespect is unbelievable, And.

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<v Speaker 2>Why were they so mad?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. And it was just men.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't see women under there. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of people. Means under there, under there? Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>there's something wrong with all right, here's the thing. Nobody

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<v Speaker 2>said we want our man to cheat on us.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody.

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<v Speaker 2>We just want someone who get who can like, who

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<v Speaker 2>wants somebody that can't get nobody exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>The energy of a man who has never had access

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<v Speaker 1>to the women he thinks he deserves is just different, right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying oftentimes, basically what I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to comment to somebody yesterday. We don't want intels,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's essentially.

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<v Speaker 2>What it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody who's involuntarily celibate. Celibate can't get the pussy. It

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<v Speaker 1>probably hasn't gotten the pussy that they deserve since high school.

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<v Speaker 1>And you just all here acting like your mama, Just

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<v Speaker 1>like a disgruntled ass black woman. That's what I see

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<v Speaker 1>in these comments. Just mean, right, just mean and angry

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<v Speaker 1>and just ugly. Maybe mama's I'm just mad the hell

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<v Speaker 1>is wrong with y'all. So I don't know. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to read something of the coot. That's some of the

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<v Speaker 1>nastiest ones.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's read some of them. And I'm saying their name too,

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<v Speaker 2>because y'all clearly want some attention.

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<v Speaker 1>Who wants a man? How I tried to clean it

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<v Speaker 1>up in one of my comments on there, which people still, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you confuse, you don't know what you're talking about. I

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<v Speaker 1>explained how nobody wants a man who's not desirable to

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else. I'm not saying I want a man who

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<v Speaker 1>has fifty eleven bitches. I just want because the confidence.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you want him clarity? It's something wrong if

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<v Speaker 2>nobody wants his ass exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I know a couple of people in relationships

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<v Speaker 1>with dudes like pull up and be like all your

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<v Speaker 1>friends are like, girl, what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>Rowdy read rowdy dot reds said they only want faithful

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<v Speaker 2>men after they get dog walk by niggas who don't

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<v Speaker 2>give a fuck about them, and that's what they deserve.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody said we did not want a faithful man. That

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<v Speaker 1>was never said what is.

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<v Speaker 2>Wrong with these niggas?

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<v Speaker 1>And I just rowdy read.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't be giving these niggas. Oh you going to his

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<v Speaker 2>page and see what he looked like. First of all,

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<v Speaker 2>he looked like he got one eye, boy, shut up

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<v Speaker 2>this comments on it. He looked like he had a

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<v Speaker 2>decent meal in a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, it's a lot of nasty shit. I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>visit the damn page and check it out. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of crazy ass comments on there.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why women pick promiscuous men, because ain't no

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<v Speaker 2>man picking a woman every nigga won.

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<v Speaker 1>This is how this is. That's not true.

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<v Speaker 2>This is how we can pick good women and y'all

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<v Speaker 2>can't pick good men.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not true that men do not pick women

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<v Speaker 1>at somebody else want you see that in celebrity social

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<v Speaker 1>groups all the time, and it's almost where to me

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<v Speaker 1>and to me it's kind of like borderline because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you almost want to sleep with this man vicariously

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<v Speaker 1>through this woman. That's how I see it. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>y'all going after the same women that has that have

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<v Speaker 1>been with multiple men. It's like, it's not about the

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<v Speaker 1>woman at that point, it's about exactly, it's about getting

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<v Speaker 1>this thing that this other man that you deem, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>top of the food chain has had.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly exactly okay, because there's no reason for these same

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<v Speaker 2>women to be passed around like that unless it's about that.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I commented on trying to give clarification, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I said. I said, men wife safe women

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<v Speaker 1>all the time while simultaneously chasing the most desirable women.

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<v Speaker 1>These niggas be married and everybody DM. So you marry

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that you love, right, obviously you love them in

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<v Speaker 1>whatever capacity right and homely who is this what's the

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<v Speaker 1>twins from clips? Women of Clips the Rappers? Yeah? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you see what his wife posted recently? She was like

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<v Speaker 1>she's never felt insecure dealing with him. She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know when she walks into a room and there's

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<v Speaker 1>all these rapper looking girls, but they fake body and

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<v Speaker 1>all that. She's a real like she would be wearing

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<v Speaker 1>some shit like this, like extracute whatever. But you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to put down these other women, like because guess what,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're only talking about them because you

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<v Speaker 1>think they would fuck your dude, right, because he's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>fuck right and they not leave them, leave you for them.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's definitely gonna beat some shit down. But men

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<v Speaker 1>marry safe women and then y'all fraternize with the bitches

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<v Speaker 1>y'all actually want Let's be clear, women just the same

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<v Speaker 1>want men that are desirable, not accessible. So I want

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<v Speaker 1>to choose you, lover. I want somebody who can get bitches,

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<v Speaker 1>but choose me every day. That's all you were trying

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Okay, and as a woman, you are supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to find the suitable mate to procreate, I said. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>also confused by the disrestract because isn't not men promoting

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<v Speaker 1>polygamy usually right. So now when we get into are like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all want an unfaithful man, right, most men are unfaithful.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear, Ah, can.

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<v Speaker 2>We say most men are unfaithful?

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of humans are unfaithful. We can throw women

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<v Speaker 1>in there too, you know, to be far, I said.

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<v Speaker 1>The truth is men also created monogamy because if Polly

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<v Speaker 1>was a norm, a lot of you would have zero

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<v Speaker 1>access to women. The best man with the most resources

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<v Speaker 1>would have all the women. What else y'all need explain?

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<v Speaker 1>Because monogamy, to me, was created by men so that

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<v Speaker 1>the ones who probably shouldn't even be pro creating could

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<v Speaker 1>get some pussy. They can lock a woman in. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what it's about. It's not about love. Half of this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff is not about love. Even in the Bible, the

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<v Speaker 1>Bible does not say married for love. The Bible says

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<v Speaker 1>if you can't sustain from sex, final wife, Right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what it says. A lot of y'all would not have

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<v Speaker 1>a wife, a lot of y'all would not have kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all would fucking this happens happens in animal kingdom. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't get to have sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they have to fight for it's natural selection.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear. So now, if women were actually hypergamous,

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<v Speaker 1>if women were actually dating to make sure that they

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<v Speaker 1>secure the best mate to be able to take care

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<v Speaker 1>of them and their offspring, a lot of your niggas

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<v Speaker 1>would divergence. Let's be clear. So fuck you is what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to say.

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<v Speaker 2>I just felt like it was a lot of hatred,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know what some people were saying, Kevin Samuels

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<v Speaker 2>needs to come back.

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<v Speaker 1>He lives on through y'all niggas. You have the Samuelites

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<v Speaker 1>out here. Okay, So Kevin Samuels, he's not dead.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he'll never be dead as long as he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is scary to me. And what I do

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate about Kevin Samuels is that he brought him for

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<v Speaker 1>He helped us identify these people, and he helped us.

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<v Speaker 1>He helped them raise their hands so we know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck they are and what we're looking at

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<v Speaker 1>when they do come out. I appreciate that Kevin Samuels.

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<v Speaker 2>But he also opened up the conversations that we weren't having,

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<v Speaker 2>So that's important. So that's what I want our conversations to,

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<v Speaker 2>Like Bridge the gap between US men and women.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the prob.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a problem between black men and black women

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>We do, and we don't. We don't see that as

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<v Speaker 1>our good uh. Sister Ebany K. Williams called it white supremacy.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, it is a form of white supremacy via

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<v Speaker 1>black people, you know what I'm saying. So we're we

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<v Speaker 1>already have all these different mechanisms in place to fuck

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<v Speaker 1>us up. Black people literally just be sitting at home chilling.

0:22:37.320 --> 0:22:39.399
<v Speaker 1>We'd be chilling. We chill. We like to laugh, like

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<v Speaker 1>to have fun. We do goofy shit all day long. Meanwhile,

0:22:42.160 --> 0:22:47.679
<v Speaker 1>there's a whole machine. But no for the we like

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<v Speaker 1>to chill hard. We love to love to be entertained.

0:22:49.800 --> 0:22:52.640
<v Speaker 1>That's why we fucked up now. We love to be entertained.

0:22:52.640 --> 0:22:57.240
<v Speaker 1>And it's a whole it's a whole machine making sure

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<v Speaker 1>we stay at the bottom.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I agree there, It's always been that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I just feel like a lot of people

0:23:03.880 --> 0:23:06.159
<v Speaker 1>are forfeiting a game. So let's get into and we

0:23:06.240 --> 0:23:08.439
<v Speaker 1>talked about this in stupid Internet news last week.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Ebany K. Williams.

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<v Speaker 1>What she had to say and a la I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about across the color spectrum, across the age spectrum. Trust me,

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<v Speaker 1>I've done them all. They are not positioned to protect

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<v Speaker 1>nor provide because of some of the statistics we just

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<v Speaker 1>talked about. They're not earning the incomes, they're not having

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<v Speaker 1>the resource.

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<v Speaker 5>Would you date a bus driver, You would date if.

0:23:31.040 --> 0:23:33.600
<v Speaker 1>He owns the bus, If he owns it. If he

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<v Speaker 1>owns the.

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<v Speaker 5>Bus, that's that's a problem. That's a problem because the

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<v Speaker 5>standards and requisites And I'm not talking about him laying

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<v Speaker 5>on his sofa playing video games all day. I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>talking about that. But the standards and the criteria that

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<v Speaker 5>we use to measure men is off for who we

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<v Speaker 5>are as women and who they are in this society.

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<v Speaker 1>Before ebdy K Williams came on the Breakfast Club, I

0:24:01.400 --> 0:24:04.560
<v Speaker 1>messaged my good friend, you know what I'm saying, and

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<v Speaker 1>I gave my perspective on what it was that she

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<v Speaker 1>was saying before she even gave a breakdown, right, because

0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:15.200
<v Speaker 1>that's what a lot of arguments start because of perspective.

0:24:15.680 --> 0:24:20.119
<v Speaker 1>How people perceive what you're saying. How I perceive what

0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:23.080
<v Speaker 1>she was saying is that we can do better and

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<v Speaker 1>we should not be settling for mediocrity. Yes, she even

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<v Speaker 1>went as far as reading the definitions. You know, I

0:24:30.040 --> 0:24:32.480
<v Speaker 1>love words, bitch. I love to look up the definition

0:24:32.560 --> 0:24:36.360
<v Speaker 1>and the etymology of a word. So what she essentially

0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:38.040
<v Speaker 1>was saying is like, why do we have to be

0:24:38.080 --> 0:24:40.360
<v Speaker 1>And that was my message to my dear friend. Why

0:24:40.359 --> 0:24:42.720
<v Speaker 1>do we have to be the essential workers? Why do

0:24:42.840 --> 0:24:45.560
<v Speaker 1>the majority of us have to be the essential workers?

0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:48.119
<v Speaker 1>Why do the majority of us have to be a

0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:51.119
<v Speaker 1>blue collar employees? You know what I'm saying, We are

0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:52.960
<v Speaker 1>put at a higher risk that you know, we're working

0:24:53.000 --> 0:24:54.680
<v Speaker 1>the second and third shift. You know how much time

0:24:54.720 --> 0:24:57.680
<v Speaker 1>that takes off your life. You can't raise your kids properly.

0:24:57.800 --> 0:25:00.160
<v Speaker 1>We just we got to get out of this position,

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<v Speaker 1>and if we plan to collectively, something has to change

0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:08.399
<v Speaker 1>so we can't cad ole people, men and women alike.

0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:11.840
<v Speaker 1>And the thing people miss is that Ianla should have

0:25:11.960 --> 0:25:15.960
<v Speaker 1>never asked Ebany K Williams would she date a bus driver?

0:25:16.119 --> 0:25:16.960
<v Speaker 1>And that's just the fact.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, all right, I don't mind the question. I just

0:25:18.880 --> 0:25:20.440
<v Speaker 2>felt like there should have been more common.

0:25:20.200 --> 0:25:21.320
<v Speaker 1>It was a misplaced though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why do you feel like it was misplaced?

0:25:23.600 --> 0:25:26.800
<v Speaker 1>It should not have come after what Ebanie k Williams said,

0:25:26.840 --> 0:25:29.880
<v Speaker 1>because she she basically was asking, you know, how can

0:25:30.320 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 1>women just women, you know, reposition themselves. She did not

0:25:34.640 --> 0:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>attach color, She did not attach race, none of that

0:25:38.119 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 1>to anything, and the internet did that. Iona also did

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:44.239
<v Speaker 1>not attach any ethnicity to what Ebane was saying. Right,

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:48.040
<v Speaker 1>But that's how black men perceived it because Ebney is

0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:50.359
<v Speaker 1>a black woman right right, identifies as a black woman.

0:25:50.440 --> 0:25:55.040
<v Speaker 1>And and and it's almost like there should have been

0:25:55.040 --> 0:25:57.160
<v Speaker 1>something else that came before would you date a bus driver?

0:25:58.040 --> 0:26:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Because it just didn't answer the question that Ebone came with. Yeah,

0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know answer a question with a question.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think what she was alluding to is that

0:26:08.160 --> 0:26:13.560
<v Speaker 2>Ebony shouldn't base her mate on financial I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>what she was trying to I don't.

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:17.160
<v Speaker 1>Think she jumped right into that though. Do you think

0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:20.359
<v Speaker 1>when Ebanie, well, the based off the clip we saw, right,

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 1>I've watched the full thing, and that's not the context

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:25.520
<v Speaker 1>of the full conversation. And then you know, near the

0:26:25.600 --> 0:26:28.760
<v Speaker 1>end of it, it did kind of you know, smoothed over.

0:26:29.320 --> 0:26:31.760
<v Speaker 1>But I just feel like I don't want no more

0:26:31.800 --> 0:26:35.000
<v Speaker 1>advice from elders. I just don't. It's certain things, yes,

0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:38.240
<v Speaker 1>but I feel like our elders are the reason the

0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:41.400
<v Speaker 1>men are how they are today. Y'all coddled the men.

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 1>Y'all coddled y'all boys, and y'all had us go to

0:26:44.600 --> 0:26:46.639
<v Speaker 1>college and do all this things. Is nobody gonna take

0:26:46.680 --> 0:26:48.000
<v Speaker 1>care of you, but you so be able to take

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 1>care of yourself. And while our conterparts are white kind

0:26:51.280 --> 0:26:54.160
<v Speaker 1>of parts, white women were finding their husbands in college.

0:26:54.560 --> 0:26:56.640
<v Speaker 1>We just get an education. Now we go. We got

0:26:56.680 --> 0:26:59.760
<v Speaker 1>student loans and all this shit. I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was the dumbest thing we were sold exactly

0:27:03.720 --> 0:27:07.399
<v Speaker 2>strong black woman. I used to like believe I'm a

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:10.719
<v Speaker 2>strong black woman. Like that is the dumbest shit I

0:27:10.760 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 2>was ever. So I don't want to I don't want

0:27:13.520 --> 0:27:15.399
<v Speaker 2>to have to be a strong black woman. That's not

0:27:15.520 --> 0:27:18.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm tired of being strong. I want someone to come

0:27:18.200 --> 0:27:19.199
<v Speaker 2>in and be strong for me.

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:24.720
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, And if we are collectively, if we're going to

0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:27.400
<v Speaker 1>get out of this position, somebody something that has to change.

0:27:27.600 --> 0:27:30.359
<v Speaker 1>You can't bring home the season. D's right. You know

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:33.440
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, you have to strive for higher education.

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:36.400
<v Speaker 1>And what Ebony was saying is that if this is yours,

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:38.080
<v Speaker 1>if you've maxed out on your potential.

0:27:38.800 --> 0:27:41.760
<v Speaker 2>But it's being But there are people who made seas

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:43.640
<v Speaker 2>and d's that are successful out here.

0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:46.320
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely most of the people I know that a millionaires

0:27:46.359 --> 0:27:46.800
<v Speaker 1>dropped out of.

0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:50.399
<v Speaker 2>Right because one former. Our formal education is sometimes kind

0:27:50.440 --> 0:27:53.880
<v Speaker 2>of biased when it comes to black people, especially standardiz. Yeah,

0:27:53.960 --> 0:27:57.040
<v Speaker 2>so even though the testing is just not you know,

0:27:57.280 --> 0:28:00.280
<v Speaker 2>for us, right, so we might make Season d's. And

0:28:00.320 --> 0:28:03.040
<v Speaker 2>I remember being in these white spaces going to school,

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:05.480
<v Speaker 2>like I would be in advanced classes and I would

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 2>be the only Black in the class. So now we're

0:28:07.760 --> 0:28:10.199
<v Speaker 2>doing group work and I have to be in the

0:28:10.320 --> 0:28:14.400
<v Speaker 2>group with the fat kid, the emo in the exchange

0:28:14.400 --> 0:28:17.120
<v Speaker 2>student in me, you know, like we're just all we're

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:20.359
<v Speaker 2>the minority. So now I'm in these groups with people

0:28:20.359 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like a badass, boss bitch. And now here

0:28:23.119 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm in this group and I'm like, I flunked out

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:29.560
<v Speaker 2>on purpose just so I could be in a room

0:28:29.600 --> 0:28:31.920
<v Speaker 2>with my peers. Now, had I been in a school

0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:34.879
<v Speaker 2>where it was black students in the advanced programs, I

0:28:34.880 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 2>would have excelled, you know what I mean. So you

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 2>know already you know you can't base it on the

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:42.600
<v Speaker 2>Seas and d's. You just have to base it on ambition.

0:28:42.720 --> 0:28:45.560
<v Speaker 1>And so since she's a lawyer, I understand why she's

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:48.320
<v Speaker 1>see when she says c's and d's, I don't just

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:51.840
<v Speaker 1>see that as like a school thing. I see that

0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:54.200
<v Speaker 1>as a life thing. You know what I'm saying. If

0:28:54.240 --> 0:28:58.520
<v Speaker 1>you're settling for C and D type life, That's how

0:28:58.560 --> 0:29:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I took that. I didn't actually take it as C

0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:05.160
<v Speaker 1>and D like grading like the great instantant, like actual academia.

0:29:06.000 --> 0:29:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I took that as like just in life in general,

0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:12.280
<v Speaker 1>like if you're settling for mediocracy, but it's okay, and

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 1>mediocracy just means regular normal, the norm, right. But people

0:29:17.000 --> 0:29:18.840
<v Speaker 1>took offense to the to the word she was using

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:21.560
<v Speaker 1>as it pertains to the working class. The thing is,

0:29:21.640 --> 0:29:26.120
<v Speaker 1>why do black people have to make up a disproportionate

0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:28.760
<v Speaker 1>amount of the working class while everybody else get the

0:29:28.800 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 1>chill on their fucking boats. I live in Charles's, South Carolina.

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 1>We got beautiful waterfronts and shit like that. All you

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 1>see is these white folks. Are they yachts out there?

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:35.960
<v Speaker 2>Like?

0:29:36.000 --> 0:29:36.480
<v Speaker 1>I want that?

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.840
<v Speaker 2>You want that? But there are people who are okay

0:29:41.240 --> 0:29:43.880
<v Speaker 2>with their regular nine to five job and are more

0:29:43.920 --> 0:29:46.560
<v Speaker 2>happy than some of those people on those boats. And

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:49.520
<v Speaker 2>I think that might be what Ayala was alluding to.

0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:51.760
<v Speaker 2>It should be more about what would make you happy

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:55.360
<v Speaker 2>than your finances. Yeah, but the thing, all right, let

0:29:55.400 --> 0:29:57.960
<v Speaker 2>me just say this. I had a friend who was

0:29:58.080 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 2>married and her man treated her her amazing. He was

0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 2>good with the kids, he was a loving, doting husband,

0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 2>but he just didn't make a lot of money and

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:09.920
<v Speaker 2>she made most of the money. So she ended up

0:30:09.960 --> 0:30:13.000
<v Speaker 2>leaving them right, and then she was outside and it

0:30:13.120 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 2>was just bad. And she started dating rich men and

0:30:16.160 --> 0:30:17.959
<v Speaker 2>men who were making more than her, and it was

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 2>just never good. So she went back to her husband

0:30:22.560 --> 0:30:26.080
<v Speaker 2>and they are happy as fuck. When she decided that

0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:29.760
<v Speaker 2>that level of lifestyle was better than having all the

0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:33.120
<v Speaker 2>things and being unhappy, she was happy with that man,

0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:36.320
<v Speaker 2>and she had to decide she had to go outside

0:30:36.360 --> 0:30:39.520
<v Speaker 2>and be a hole and decide that it wasn't good

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:41.880
<v Speaker 2>out there. It wasn't good for her, Like she was

0:30:41.920 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 2>better with this man who worked a regular job, but

0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 2>he treated her like a goddess. And I think that's

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:53.000
<v Speaker 2>what Yalla was saying. The conversation went a different way

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:56.520
<v Speaker 2>when it got into like, you know, being yeah, and

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.840
<v Speaker 2>it went somewhere else that it shouldn't have gone. You know,

0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't think that is what because both of them

0:31:01.480 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 2>have valid points.

0:31:02.440 --> 0:31:07.280
<v Speaker 1>You know, did you like Ayana's follow up video and

0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 1>it was clickbait? That's what I felt like. It was

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 1>just like, I want some people to listen to me,

0:31:11.960 --> 0:31:17.440
<v Speaker 1>because girl, I ever heard Ayanla say that she was

0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:21.240
<v Speaker 1>a wonderful husband but a terrible mom, meaning she provided,

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:24.200
<v Speaker 1>but she wasn't there for her kids. Ianla hasn't married

0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:28.640
<v Speaker 1>multiple times, where you'll mad at I really don't want

0:31:28.680 --> 0:31:30.800
<v Speaker 1>to be married now, I don't think so well.

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.000
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes the people who are already fucked up a lot

0:31:33.120 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 2>give the best advice because.

0:31:34.240 --> 0:31:36.920
<v Speaker 1>They know what take. And then now this is viral

0:31:37.040 --> 0:31:39.400
<v Speaker 1>and Ebony looks like a terrible woman. You know what

0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. You got black men online just acting like

0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:45.880
<v Speaker 1>black women are so undesirable, like nobody wants us. Like

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 1>even if we be like, you know what, fuck it,

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:49.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be single forever, they're mad at that too,

0:31:50.040 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 1>right if we just go ahead and rest in, okay, shit,

0:31:53.080 --> 0:31:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm good and get my money, shit, travel with my

0:31:56.160 --> 0:32:00.720
<v Speaker 1>homegirls like they mad about that too, right, So it's

0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:02.720
<v Speaker 1>like you almost damned if you do, damned.

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:05.960
<v Speaker 2>It, fuck them, fuck him. That's how I feel like.

0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:08.240
<v Speaker 2>You know, you just gotta find out what makes you happy.

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 2>And I hope emiy Kate does find that person for her.

0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 1>You know, they was putting her like her previous person

0:32:15.160 --> 0:32:17.400
<v Speaker 1>she was engaged as a white Jewish guy she was

0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:20.600
<v Speaker 1>engaged to. But I'm pretty sure she's dated black men

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 1>most of her life.

0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:24.560
<v Speaker 2>Would you date like a white Jewish man?

0:32:25.080 --> 0:32:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I would prefer an Italian. Okay, They're a little bit

0:32:27.840 --> 0:32:30.040
<v Speaker 1>more olive skin looking, and they had the dark hair.

0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Like if I get a white boy, like he gotta

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:36.200
<v Speaker 1>be a ginger or brunette. I just I just.

0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:42.240
<v Speaker 2>Something about a black man that just like I can

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:44.880
<v Speaker 2>like I can see Italian man.

0:32:44.920 --> 0:32:45.480
<v Speaker 1>I can see a.

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 2>Fine Italian and he'd be fine in it. And then

0:32:48.120 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 2>I see a black man walk by, and I'd be like, oh,

0:32:50.800 --> 0:32:53.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, white man, but did you see this keen

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:55.640
<v Speaker 2>that just walk by? So I don't know if I

0:32:55.720 --> 0:32:57.880
<v Speaker 2>could be faithful to a white man, I would probably

0:32:57.920 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 2>cheat on him with a black man.

0:33:00.080 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 1>What what type of shit is that?

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 2>It's the truth, That's what kind of shit it is.

0:33:06.160 --> 0:33:08.280
<v Speaker 2>So I just probably wouldn't date them because I just

0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 2>love the skin on the black man.

0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 1>Last weekend, I met a couple of white guys and

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to one on the phone for a

0:33:17.400 --> 0:33:24.280
<v Speaker 1>really long time, and I was telling him that I

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:27.280
<v Speaker 1>see white dudes eating boogers a lot. Where you be

0:33:27.360 --> 0:33:29.959
<v Speaker 1>at that. You see you're driving down the highway, you

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 1>stopped at a stop, like you look look over you

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>liable to see a white man. Just you don't know

0:33:36.440 --> 0:33:38.680
<v Speaker 1>why I seen it.

0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:40.800
<v Speaker 2>You don't know he might be eating chicken nuggets from

0:33:40.840 --> 0:33:41.280
<v Speaker 2>Chick fil A.

0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:44.760
<v Speaker 1>No, I seen you do this and stick it in

0:33:44.800 --> 0:33:48.240
<v Speaker 1>your mouth multiple times in my life, so I have

0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>drawn a conclusion that they don't. They be eating boogers

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and oft the times.

0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:56.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well that's listen eating boogers. Niggas out here eating booty.

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:59.560
<v Speaker 2>Which one is worse? Okay, you judging the nigga for

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 2>eating a little booger, but look, you get your booty

0:34:02.120 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 2>lit and be kissing the.

0:34:03.120 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 1>Nigga when you come up. Related, Okay, don't watch the

0:34:06.720 --> 0:34:09.799
<v Speaker 1>Mountain fris non I might kiss you. But listen, I

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:12.560
<v Speaker 1>was watching not alone and afraid. I think it's just

0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:15.520
<v Speaker 1>called a loon. They like out in the mountains or whatever,

0:34:15.600 --> 0:34:17.960
<v Speaker 1>like group of like different people dropped off in different

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:20.839
<v Speaker 1>and afraid, not naked and afraid. I think it's a loan.

0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, so one is naked afraid. That one I

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:24.960
<v Speaker 1>was watching was on Netflix. It's called a loon. I

0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:27.840
<v Speaker 1>believe they were in Canada. But one of the women,

0:34:28.160 --> 0:34:30.520
<v Speaker 1>she resorted to eating the boogers because it does have

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:35.160
<v Speaker 1>like a calorie. Yeah, like the like it has some nutrition,

0:34:35.360 --> 0:34:38.759
<v Speaker 1>no value, Like, if you don't have anything else, you

0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:39.400
<v Speaker 1>eat the booger.

0:34:39.840 --> 0:34:41.719
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I know that for the next time I'm out

0:34:41.760 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 2>in the woods by myself.

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:53.480
<v Speaker 1>So they got food that's gross. It's not nasty, it's

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:55.120
<v Speaker 1>not You didn't eat Bookers as a kid.

0:34:55.280 --> 0:35:00.319
<v Speaker 2>No, you never licked this, not like maybe by listen,

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:02.319
<v Speaker 2>maybe like by accident, but I've never been like.

0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:04.839
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I've never et a booger. My cousin used

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:08.000
<v Speaker 1>to eat Bookers all the time. And she's eating damn

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:10.319
<v Speaker 1>eat dirt with a spoon. Chat. Oh no, I've seen

0:35:10.360 --> 0:35:12.520
<v Speaker 1>people eat clay. I eat the orange clay with a spoon.

0:35:12.560 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 1>But she's eat like the black dirt, tearing them Bookers up. Girl,

0:35:17.719 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 1>But like, you know, you a kid run around, you know,

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:22.360
<v Speaker 1>and keep it moving. No, I've done that before.

0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:25.200
<v Speaker 2>I can say I've done that, but not like ooh

0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:32.600
<v Speaker 2>since not delicious snack, no never, never. All right, So

0:35:32.680 --> 0:35:35.440
<v Speaker 2>we say all of that to say, what, what's the

0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:36.000
<v Speaker 2>final word?

0:35:36.239 --> 0:35:39.879
<v Speaker 1>Leave us the fuck alone? Okay, just leave black women alone,

0:35:40.280 --> 0:35:42.080
<v Speaker 1>and don't leave us alone.

0:35:42.080 --> 0:35:43.840
<v Speaker 2>Stop attacking us, love us.

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:46.120
<v Speaker 1>But the thing is, you have other black women now

0:35:46.239 --> 0:35:49.920
<v Speaker 1>attacking another black woman. You know what I'm saying. The

0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:54.160
<v Speaker 1>from the comments I've seen online, they're pretty divided. Even

0:35:54.200 --> 0:35:56.840
<v Speaker 1>at the breakfast club. You have horrible decisions there. You

0:35:56.920 --> 0:36:00.480
<v Speaker 1>have Mandy and Weezy. Weezy was signing more with Alaman

0:36:00.760 --> 0:36:06.440
<v Speaker 1>and dj Envy, while Mandy was more so kind of

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 1>in the middle, but more so on That's.

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 2>Why I'm in the middle, because I can't understand both perspectives,

0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:14.680
<v Speaker 2>just you know, knowing my friend's story and how she

0:36:14.800 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 2>went out looking for this, you know, the yacht life

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:24.640
<v Speaker 2>and shed and she found her happiness with mediocrity, you know,

0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 2>which is offensive to say.

0:36:27.200 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, like maybe she wasn't the bitch she thought

0:36:29.600 --> 0:36:32.400
<v Speaker 1>she was. No, she a babit.

0:36:32.880 --> 0:36:36.120
<v Speaker 2>She is a babbit, you know, but she like she's

0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:38.359
<v Speaker 2>more happy than most people I know.

0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 1>So her husband isn't like trolling her in a relationship.

0:36:41.239 --> 0:36:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Now like he's okay, they are happy as fuck, that's nice.

0:36:45.280 --> 0:36:46.040
<v Speaker 1>They are man.

0:36:46.280 --> 0:36:49.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's a great man. So and I'm and before

0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:51.160
<v Speaker 2>I was like, girl, yeah me that nigga, you know.

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:56.719
<v Speaker 2>But you know, when when she decided she was ready

0:36:56.760 --> 0:37:00.359
<v Speaker 2>to go, I supported it, but for that reason. But

0:37:00.400 --> 0:37:04.480
<v Speaker 2>when she went back, I was like, girl.

0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:06.480
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, I'm not friend like shit with you.

0:37:06.560 --> 0:37:08.920
<v Speaker 1>If you like him, I love him, mm hm. When

0:37:08.920 --> 0:37:10.920
<v Speaker 1>you're ready to go back, shit, I'm gonna be so.

0:37:11.000 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 2>But when she went back and I just see how

0:37:12.560 --> 0:37:15.760
<v Speaker 2>beautiful and how happy their family is, I'm like, Okay,

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:17.759
<v Speaker 2>So maybe it don't always take all of that.

0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:18.520
<v Speaker 1>And I know some.

0:37:18.440 --> 0:37:21.680
<v Speaker 2>People who are rich and miserable, got all the money

0:37:21.719 --> 0:37:24.759
<v Speaker 2>and just ain't never happy, So it shouldn't be. I

0:37:24.800 --> 0:37:28.440
<v Speaker 2>can understand why Ayanla would be like if he loved

0:37:28.480 --> 0:37:30.560
<v Speaker 2>me and he treat me good and he loved driving

0:37:30.560 --> 0:37:33.880
<v Speaker 2>the bus, I get that, But I also get ebany

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:37.560
<v Speaker 2>k who wants somebody who is you know, has the

0:37:37.680 --> 0:37:39.479
<v Speaker 2>aspirations that she has in life.

0:37:39.600 --> 0:37:41.720
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's what most black women are asking.

0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:44.640
<v Speaker 1>Nobody is asking you to have everything today because oftentimes

0:37:44.719 --> 0:37:46.480
<v Speaker 1>we don't. I know, I fucking don't you know what

0:37:46.480 --> 0:37:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. I'm rebuilding my life for the last few

0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:54.759
<v Speaker 1>years now, so I understand. But what I feel like,

0:37:54.840 --> 0:37:56.200
<v Speaker 1>and I always I think I feel like I always

0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 1>say this, if you're with a woman who is not amused,

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:03.440
<v Speaker 1>is not who doesn't aspire you to do better until

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:06.360
<v Speaker 1>one day take care of her and your family entirely

0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:09.400
<v Speaker 1>leave her. She ain't the one for you, because one

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:10.880
<v Speaker 1>thing women gonna do is inspire.

0:38:11.360 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 2>But it depends on what taking care of the family means.

0:38:14.320 --> 0:38:16.359
<v Speaker 1>Taking care of your family like, so your wife can

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:20.000
<v Speaker 1>chill and actually raise your children and create like we can't.

0:38:20.040 --> 0:38:21.680
<v Speaker 1>We can't do half the things we want to do,

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:25.200
<v Speaker 1>Like we're single with no children. So I do everything.

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:27.000
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, like not having to think

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:29.160
<v Speaker 1>about anybody, But I fly to Africa in the morning

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:32.879
<v Speaker 1>if I want to, so think about the women who

0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:35.319
<v Speaker 1>are and most black women and black men are in

0:38:35.360 --> 0:38:37.960
<v Speaker 1>the trenches together. I just don't know where all this

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:40.600
<v Speaker 1>goal is that these niggas say we digging for. When

0:38:40.640 --> 0:38:43.239
<v Speaker 1>y'all go to the other side and you're raped rich

0:38:43.320 --> 0:38:45.400
<v Speaker 1>niggas go to the other side, these other sides, the

0:38:45.440 --> 0:38:48.879
<v Speaker 1>white side, the Hispanic side, the Armenian side, and they

0:38:48.920 --> 0:38:50.680
<v Speaker 1>get raped at the end of the day. But we're

0:38:50.719 --> 0:38:54.440
<v Speaker 1>seen as the gold diggers somehow, and it's almost like

0:38:54.480 --> 0:38:58.319
<v Speaker 1>Black women can't require more, we can't possibly think we

0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:01.000
<v Speaker 1>deserve more than we got, Like you have to stay here,

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. And I don't suggest a

0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:06.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of times, not at our age. You know what

0:39:06.360 --> 0:39:08.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Your twenties is different. Both are trenches, y'all,

0:39:08.880 --> 0:39:10.960
<v Speaker 1>both trying to figure it out together. That's when and

0:39:10.960 --> 0:39:13.279
<v Speaker 1>that's when you should have found your mate. Right. Oftentimes

0:39:13.280 --> 0:39:17.919
<v Speaker 1>they're divorced by thirty forty years old. Right. I don't

0:39:17.960 --> 0:39:20.879
<v Speaker 1>believe in having an extended period of time where you're

0:39:20.880 --> 0:39:23.840
<v Speaker 1>struggling with a man, because I believe that they resent

0:39:23.920 --> 0:39:26.560
<v Speaker 1>you once they get on that person who saw them

0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:28.799
<v Speaker 1>struggling in that way, who saw them in that light,

0:39:28.840 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 1>they oftentimes resent them and that's why they go on

0:39:31.160 --> 0:39:33.440
<v Speaker 1>to somebody who that know their struggle.

0:39:33.600 --> 0:39:35.719
<v Speaker 2>That's a crap show because sometimes they be like, this

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:37.680
<v Speaker 2>is the woman that was there when I ain't have shit,

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna take her with me. It depends.

0:39:40.600 --> 0:39:43.480
<v Speaker 1>It really does depend. But I have well, I don't know.

0:39:44.320 --> 0:39:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I've never been with somebody who was left. I'm always

0:39:47.160 --> 0:39:49.200
<v Speaker 1>the one left depleted at the end of a relationship.

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:53.560
<v Speaker 1>And maybe people like me and most women right are necessary,

0:39:53.960 --> 0:39:56.279
<v Speaker 1>right to get people to the next level. But I

0:39:56.320 --> 0:39:57.640
<v Speaker 1>look at some of the people who have been in

0:39:57.680 --> 0:40:04.719
<v Speaker 1>relationships in the past, is like, fuck, niggas, is damn prevailing,

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:08.319
<v Speaker 1>not prevailing? But they you know they they're doing well now.

0:40:08.360 --> 0:40:10.839
<v Speaker 1>But I knew them when they have ship and I helped.

0:40:11.360 --> 0:40:13.319
<v Speaker 2>You, helped them grow and now another.

0:40:14.560 --> 0:40:16.439
<v Speaker 1>But I don't mind giving a bit of refurbished nigga.

0:40:16.480 --> 0:40:19.400
<v Speaker 1>I always say that girl, girl that pissed me off.

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:22.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to see that doing better without me.

0:40:25.880 --> 0:40:26.840
<v Speaker 1>It's like I'm joking.

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:29.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to like because typically if we were

0:40:29.040 --> 0:40:30.680
<v Speaker 2>like that, I loved you and I don't want nothing

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:33.279
<v Speaker 2>bad to happen to you. But I don't like the

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 2>fact that some of them are married and I'm not.

0:40:37.280 --> 0:40:40.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but those saying married men, they still be checking

0:40:40.920 --> 0:40:44.400
<v Speaker 1>for you. You're right, they don't like that. That's not flattering.

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:48.680
<v Speaker 2>I see you coming to town, let's get together.

0:40:48.719 --> 0:40:53.000
<v Speaker 1>Like number don't be hitting me out three to four years.

0:40:53.000 --> 0:40:55.279
<v Speaker 1>I see you're doing your thing. I'm so proud of

0:40:55.320 --> 0:40:59.760
<v Speaker 1>you because you married safe. Like I said, you married safe.

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:03.120
<v Speaker 2>I am doing my thing and I won't be available,

0:41:04.440 --> 0:41:06.799
<v Speaker 2>but thanks for thanks for affirming me.

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:12.319
<v Speaker 1>Hey, we don't got a dumbit stories.

0:41:12.000 --> 0:41:14.560
<v Speaker 2>For the day, don't have any dumb bitch stories at

0:41:14.600 --> 0:41:15.640
<v Speaker 2>all for today.

0:41:15.680 --> 0:41:16.360
<v Speaker 1>But that's okay.

0:41:16.440 --> 0:41:18.560
<v Speaker 2>Everybody's being safe apparently.

0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:23.399
<v Speaker 1>Yes, well you know, I guess moral of this story is, girl,

0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:28.000
<v Speaker 1>just do you These niggas gonna talk shit regardless. It's

0:41:28.040 --> 0:41:29.760
<v Speaker 1>just gonna be mean. It's gruntle.

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:31.839
<v Speaker 2>Not all of them. Some of them are gonna love us.

0:41:31.840 --> 0:41:34.200
<v Speaker 2>There were some allies in the comments. We didn't read

0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:36.640
<v Speaker 2>none of the allies. It was something and like some

0:41:36.680 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 2>men were like, man, these niggas must don't get bitches,

0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:42.960
<v Speaker 2>clearly because they mad. So we did have some allies

0:41:42.960 --> 0:41:46.879
<v Speaker 2>in the comments. We just want, what's my final word,

0:41:47.320 --> 0:41:49.760
<v Speaker 2>find who love you and love them back and grow together.

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:52.560
<v Speaker 2>That's my thing. You don't have to get the man

0:41:52.560 --> 0:41:55.960
<v Speaker 2>who's already rich. You can help him get rich, or

0:41:56.040 --> 0:41:58.319
<v Speaker 2>you can help him stay where he at like and

0:41:58.400 --> 0:42:00.600
<v Speaker 2>y'all can be happy in that too. Just find what

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:02.920
<v Speaker 2>make you happy, and find someone who make you happy,

0:42:03.080 --> 0:42:04.000
<v Speaker 2>and then rock with them.

0:42:04.440 --> 0:42:07.560
<v Speaker 1>That's all I can say. I don't have any fun

0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:11.560
<v Speaker 1>on words. Money don't money because I listen. I don't

0:42:11.560 --> 0:42:14.600
<v Speaker 1>want another viral moment people talking too razy with my

0:42:14.640 --> 0:42:17.480
<v Speaker 1>face out. No, because you know, I was thinking the

0:42:17.520 --> 0:42:19.120
<v Speaker 1>other day, I said, you know what, I should start

0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:22.800
<v Speaker 1>being like Kevin Samuels but talking shit about men. I

0:42:22.960 --> 0:42:24.799
<v Speaker 1>kind of already be on that type of time dog

0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:29.600
<v Speaker 1>my mind.

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 2>Well, having men calling right and cut them out, well,

0:42:34.200 --> 0:42:36.359
<v Speaker 2>what you know what, not even give them some truth

0:42:36.440 --> 0:42:40.160
<v Speaker 2>that they may need. Right, Because Kevin Samuels wasn't always wrong.

0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 2>I just didn't like his delivery. Oftentimes it was hurtful.

0:42:44.239 --> 0:42:46.000
<v Speaker 2>That's what I didn't like about him. It was the

0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:48.800
<v Speaker 2>delivery that was hurtful. He'd be like, bitch, you fat

0:42:48.800 --> 0:42:50.480
<v Speaker 2>and ugly, you are three like.

0:42:50.680 --> 0:42:52.760
<v Speaker 1>That, that's me. You don't have to talk to people

0:42:52.760 --> 0:42:54.680
<v Speaker 1>that way, you know. But I feel like even I

0:42:54.680 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like Evany K. Williams said anything in a

0:42:57.600 --> 0:43:01.480
<v Speaker 1>very negative way, right, but people perceived it that way. Yeah,

0:43:01.600 --> 0:43:04.879
<v Speaker 1>The truth oftentimes feel like an attack for somebody who

0:43:04.920 --> 0:43:08.080
<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to take accountability. This is true. Right, So

0:43:08.080 --> 0:43:11.680
<v Speaker 1>that's my final words. It's not an attack. Okay, take

0:43:11.719 --> 0:43:16.520
<v Speaker 1>accountability for some things black men and black women alike. Okay, period.

0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 1>All right, that's it. Let's give that so we can

0:43:21.040 --> 0:43:25.759
<v Speaker 1>get about a here got morton, stupid bitch. Listen all right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so y'all get that. It's me Taan Bama. I

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<v Speaker 2>love y'all as always, Thank you for tuning in. Remember

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