1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: Talk Talk Talk. 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: to talks. 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: Were Live, We Live, We Live, and hey all the 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: way from Sharlo, North Carolina. Too bad bitches, and we 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: talked back period. What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: that for a new episode of We Talk Back, a 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: show dedicated to you negroes and you pros and everybody 9 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: else in between. It's your co hosts aj Holiday. What's 10 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: up town? 11 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 2: And this is me tiamvam, I love y'all. Thank y'all 12 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 2: for tuning in. How is your weekend? 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:36,319 Speaker 1: For a year? 14 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: You look cute? 15 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: Mama? Hey a you even going stick up to Mayo? 16 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 1: Just past y'all. 17 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 2: This was my single day Mario dress. Honestly, I just 18 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 2: had to throw it back on for y'all. See I 19 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 2: can see it, and I really didn't like. I went out, 20 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 2: but I didn't stay out. I was out for like 21 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: thirty minutes because me and my friend who was supposed 22 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:54,639 Speaker 2: to meet me kind of got into an argument. So 23 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 2: I just went back home. 24 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: Y'all gote an argument before she got there, or she 25 00:00:58,280 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: just left your eye somewhere. 26 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: She never made it, so I just went back home 27 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: and took my little dress off. I had took a 28 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: lot of drinks in there thirty minutes though, I look. 29 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 2: I took two shots of margarita and a glass of champagne. 30 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: So by the time I got home, I was like lit. 31 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't do shit this weekend. No, no, because 32 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: I was just like, you know, i'd be having a 33 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: mentally prepare for this type of shit, like to record. 34 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, So I just I was in the 35 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: house last weekend. I hung out a lot. This weekend. 36 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: I really just stayed in the house and stowing it 37 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: up down here. Late as fuck. But anyway, I'm always 38 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: still be late. You can count on that shit. 39 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 2: Listen. I woke up back ten o'clock, like we gotta record. 40 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: I did go to dinner Saturday. That's about it. Okay, 41 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: did where you go? I'm gonna eat where? Just this 42 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: little little vegan restaurant in Charleston. 43 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: Vegan. 44 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, bitch, you know what, No fake meat. 45 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 2: I like my real meat. 46 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: I don't see how I could ever be vegan. Vegans 47 00:01:55,560 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: be fat, uh dub it carved up. That's why exactly. 48 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: They eat too much carbs. No, but I still eat seafood. 49 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: But bread sweets. Like right now, do you know food 50 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 1: Lion has some ice cream sandwiches that got butter pecan 51 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: ice cream in the middle. 52 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 2: Bitch. Okay, baby, do you know all the new snacks? 53 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: I know all the good fat ship Okay, let's be 54 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: clear that shit has made that's good. Honestly, you know 55 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: they say yes, butter pecan ice cream. I swear to 56 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: God meeting that's just as I was three, I love 57 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: butter pecan ice cream. If you would be hating on 58 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: it though. 59 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 2: Listen, when I was a kid, I would be the 60 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: only one who wanted mint chocolate chip on the ice cream. 61 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah you're a serial killer. Yeah whatever, because who the 62 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: fuck eats mint and chocolate together? 63 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. It was so good and it was 64 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 2: like it looked different than all the other ones, you know, 65 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:50,839 Speaker 2: so I had to have it every time. Let's meet 66 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: in a stupid internet news like that. 67 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: Look, this is so much for me. Okay, so apparently 68 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: uh to see a Tennessee hotel manager Nashville in Nashville 69 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: Nastyville in Cashville, fifty two year old David Neil was 70 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: arrested after he snuck into a male guest room while 71 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: he was sleeping and got intimate. 72 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 2: With his feet, so he was in there. The nigga 73 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: woke up and the white man was sucking on his toes. 74 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 1: Yes. The guest tells police that he woke up to 75 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: David's mouth around his toes and immediately confronted him. The 76 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: guest says he recognized the manager as an employee who 77 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: had entered his room the day before to help him 78 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: solve an issue with the television. David was a night 79 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: manager at the Hilton Hotel in Nashville at the time 80 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: of the incident, and he made a key card before 81 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: entering the room at five am. 82 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: Like, how you just had to have them feet? Ah. 83 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: Boy must have had on some Jesus sandals and he 84 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: was like, I got to go get them feet. I 85 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: was thinking, like Dad, he might have checked in and 86 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: had a little thong. 87 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 3: Sand up five o'clock in the morning, Right, what would 88 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 3: you do if you woke up and that man was 89 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 3: in there sucking on your foot. 90 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 2: I'm kicking him in the face. I'm definitely kicking them 91 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 2: in the face. That's why you don't know. 92 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: You look at your toes up. I do, like my 93 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: feet suck when they're in the air. Okay, but I 94 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: do be looking at dudes in the face like nigga. 95 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: I was just walking around barefoot in here, like. 96 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 2: Like it's one thing if you are like having sex 97 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 2: and you got your legs up and he just turned 98 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: to the side and grabbed one of those feet and 99 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 2: put in his mouth. 100 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 1: Okay. But to have a. 101 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 2: Strange, old, elderly white man wake you up out of 102 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 2: your sleep with your big toe in his mouth is wow, 103 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 2: I'm kicking you in the face. 104 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: I would just charge him. I accept visa massacred American 105 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: Express Like I was just Hell, you don't want me 106 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: to listen. You don't want me to tell you ain't 107 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: trying to go to jail. Listen. 108 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 2: He might go from sucking your feet to like, okay, 109 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: now it's time for you to die. 110 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: Anybody who do that is crazy. Draft up, it's crazy. 111 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: You're right, Maybe not not so much. 112 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 2: I don't know though, So I want to get into 113 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 2: King Charles the Third and Queen Camilla have officially been 114 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: crowned after an elaborate ceremony. This is the first coronation 115 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: at Westminster Abbey since that that of Charles's mother, Queen Elizabeth, 116 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 2: back in nineteen fifty three, so he finally. 117 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 1: Got a job. 118 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 2: He's been living off his mama for all them years 119 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 2: and now he's seventy three and now he finally got 120 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: him a job. And Camilla, let me tell ya something. 121 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 2: Camilla is camea living proof. She living proof that if 122 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 2: you stay down, you're gonna get on because she was 123 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 2: definitely his side chick, that became his main chick. 124 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: She is not she's an illegitimate queen at this point. 125 00:05:59,560 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 2: She is. 126 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: She's an illegitimate queen, Like she's been his side bitch 127 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 1: since before Princess Diane passed away. Uh huh, she can't 128 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 1: be the queen? 129 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 2: Is that right here? 130 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: I've just finished watching Queen Charlotte on Netflix. That shit 131 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: came out two days ago. Yeah, I watched all six 132 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: watched it because I love, love love. You know, a 133 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: lot of people don't know that Queen Charlotte was a 134 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,239 Speaker 1: black woman, and you know now they don't know because 135 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: of it, because of Netflix. 136 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: Well, they might not even believe it to be true. 137 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 2: They'll be like, oh, they just used all kind of kill. 138 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: She definitely definitely throughout history that with black people, right, 139 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: and she was a Queen of England, right, and you 140 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: see on those movies like how many black. I feel 141 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: like the whole royal family is in there right now, 142 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: are illegitimate, all of them? And I feel like, uh, 143 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: Meghan Marko is like the return of their original lineage 144 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: that's supposed to be in that house. That's interesting. I 145 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:55,239 Speaker 1: believe she's more. 146 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 2: Are we all more? Well? 147 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: More means black, But you know, I don't claim to 148 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: be a more because the moors. This is my belief. 149 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: I believe that these niggas showed up to the shore, 150 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: other niggas was already here right h some white folks 151 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: showed up first, some pale faces showed up first. We 152 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: wasn't fucking with them. So they went to Europe and 153 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: came back with some people that look like us, our cousins. 154 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: And that's how we got overthrown over here. Okay, that's 155 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: very possible. I'm not a motherfucking more. Okay, I'm from America. 156 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: But this was them a rocking empire at one point, 157 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: supposedly allegedly, and anyway I. 158 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 2: Think I might be more so. Yeah, I do not. 159 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: Respect the current queen. Okay, I mean it's I feel 160 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,559 Speaker 1: like their their time there is going to be short lived. 161 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: I think Megan Marko and her husband is going to 162 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: be in the Royal House, in the royal seat very soon. 163 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, with you know, during our lifetime for sure, because 164 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 2: they in their seventies. But absolutely apparently they got some 165 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 2: secret sauce there to keep you alive to at least 166 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 2: a hundred. Yeah, but that's only twenty more years and 167 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: we can. 168 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: Get into those conspiracies of what that sauce actually. Uh, 169 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: I want some sister, No, you don't, bitch, why you 170 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: want some adrenalron? You know where it comes from? Girl? 171 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: What is the you know what a jennal cron is? Jordan, 172 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: y'all want to know some of our listeners know what 173 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: the fuck I'd be talking about? Why do people stay young? Okay, 174 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: what's the actress that was on give me something my birthday? 175 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: Adrenal cron is like blood from children? Oftentimes I don't 176 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: want that. 177 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, they be. 178 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: Blood letting kids. That's how these people stay young and 179 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: look like this. Remember the actress who was on Ellen 180 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: I think, and she was saying how she gets these 181 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: vampire masks and it's from the blood of the foreskin 182 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: of a baby. 183 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 2: Oh I had one of those. I didn't know what 184 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 2: it was though, like, my institution, don't look at me. 185 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 2: It wasn't blood. 186 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: Was it your blood because something It wasn't. 187 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 2: It wasn't no blood in it, as to my understanding. 188 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: Next it wasn't. It was no blood in it. 189 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 2: But she was like, oh, I want to give you 190 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 2: this new mask we got in it's all over Hollywood. 191 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 2: It's gonna be from skin. 192 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: So I was like, let's do it, bitch. 193 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 2: And then while it was on my face, she was like, oh, 194 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 2: it's made from baby foreskin. And I was like, y'all, 195 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 2: I'm calling the police on everybody in here. What you mean. 196 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 2: She's like, no, from you know, circumcised babies. They use 197 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 2: it from the foreskin. And I was like, don't put 198 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 2: that on me no more. 199 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: That sounds very wait until afterwards. 200 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 2: That's why I said, I said, why wouldn't you tell 201 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 2: me that a friend. She's like, because I know you 202 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 2: would have said no, but your skin is gonna look amazing. 203 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 2: My skin look exactly the same. 204 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like you want them people 205 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: sometimes I ain't wanted them people. 206 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 4: Typic get me some for my birthday. Well, I didn't 207 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 4: know it was baby. Then I didn't know. Whatever, Nick, 208 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 4: what's going on? We're gonna talk about? I wanted to 209 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 4: talk about Usher and Chris Brown. 210 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 2: I heard they got into a fight over the weekend, 211 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 2: but I can't validate that, and I don't really have 212 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: no true to you on that, but I just wanted 213 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 2: to him. 214 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: Look like a fight to me. That's why I wasn't 215 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: sure about it. Don't nobody want to see Usher and 216 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: Chris Brown fight. 217 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 2: We want to see them dance battle, Like I don't 218 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 2: want to see y'all fi what is. 219 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: The next concert? Right? What is the verses? That's what 220 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: I want to see. Don't was fighting because Chris Brown 221 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: was like because remember like maybe a year or two 222 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 1: ago when Versus a super super pop and they were. 223 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: People were suggesting like Chris Brown and Usher versus, but 224 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: you know, Chris Brown was like, man, I learned from Usher, 225 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: Like you know that's one of my people or whatever. 226 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: But maybe I don't know. I think Chris Brown is 227 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: a phenomenal human, both. 228 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 2: Of them, both of them. 229 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: Girl, I like Usher, I like you didn't see that. 230 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: I'm talking about as far as artistry, like Chris Brown 231 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: is like an actual artist, like he beat on painting 232 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: some ship up like this like some really nice. He's 233 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: an artist, he's a singer, he's the rider. He does 234 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: a little bit more than Usher. That's all. That's all. 235 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: Well, we're just talking about as far as the music 236 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 2: is concerned. 237 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: And who do you think dance better? Usher or Chris Brown? 238 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 2: So I would probably have to say Chris Brown dance 239 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: better because he's the younger one, but he probably like 240 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: a little bit more flexible than Usher is now. But 241 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 2: Usher been skating all year. I feel like a little 242 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 2: bit Blmber. 243 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: I feel like I should dance better because I don't know. 244 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 2: It's just something that I want to see y'all dance off. 245 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 1: It's something about all niggas dancing that just look goofy 246 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 1: to me. Well, Chris Brown tall, Yes, Chris Brown is 247 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 1: really tall. 248 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: They all look short to me. 249 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: Usher is short. Chris Brown is like over six foot 250 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: really yes, same. I think I just think dancing is 251 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:48,719 Speaker 1: for like smaller people that you know, tw niggs be 252 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: looking stupid than they clothes like they showed just be 253 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: real pointy and ship like. Little niggas look a little 254 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: compact like they just like baby clothes. It's so cute. 255 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: That was weird to be anyway. 256 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 2: All right, So that's it for our stupid You got anything. 257 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: Else with That's it, man, I'm sick of humans, all right. 258 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: So we're gonna take a little break. 259 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 2: And we'll be right back for a commercial. 260 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: I tell y'all, listen, there's a lot of things going 261 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: on with black women right now, in particular right and 262 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: I kind of want to start this episode off talking 263 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: about one of our recent episodes from a couple months ago. 264 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: We had on Navgreen, right, one of the funniest dudes 265 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: out here of our generation as far as I'm concerned, 266 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 1: him and Colins Miller. But we posted a clip and 267 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: we've been being dragged drag action, viral drag. 268 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 2: Okay, Like I don't even want to rely on that post. 269 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: When I see it's a comment, I don't even read 270 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 2: it because it's just. 271 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: Like, okay. So I was kind of bored this weekend because, 272 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 1: like I said, I didn't do much. So I did, 273 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 1: like clap back a little bit, because I mean, we 274 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: do talk back, but I'm not I feel like a 275 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: lot of times listeners and these social media people, people online, 276 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: they just want to respond, so I give it to them. 277 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: Sometimes other than that, you can kiss my ass. 278 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 2: But only for fun, Like I be going like boys 279 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 2: show y'all went to your page. 280 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 1: You ugly shut up. One dude that was like you're 281 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:20,079 Speaker 1: out looks think that's all I commented to his ass 282 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: or like shut up, but really be pissing me off though, 283 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: gets my girls grinding. When I go to comment I meet, 284 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: I typed out something that won't. 285 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 2: Let you comment. 286 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 1: Yes, that pieces me off. I'd be so mad you 287 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: and them if you're not following. We talked back. You 288 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 1: can talk as much ship as you want in our comments. 289 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck, but you gotta be following. 290 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: You can't just be coming over here to talk shit 291 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: and leave. You can't be coming fucking shit up and leave. No, 292 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: we ain't having it, so at least give us some 293 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: social digital currency if you're gonna talk ship, and then 294 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: you know we okay with it. So all right. Let 295 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 1: them know what the conversation was. Man, what woman find 296 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: I you frightful? She ain't even really feeling like that? 297 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 5: Like, I ain't compete with nobody. 298 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to nobody, listen. 299 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: I don't want a man that is accessible to everybody, 300 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 1: but nobody else won't. Yes, like what if I want you? 301 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 4: If nobody else, nobody else, somebody. 302 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: Got absolutely I want you. Everybody probably want you. That's 303 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: how I feel about it. Nobody said that I want 304 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: or we want a man who's unfaithful. 305 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 2: Right, but that's what they took it. A's like, that's 306 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 2: what's the problem with you bitches? 307 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: And somebody calls us refrigerator. Wait, well, did you want 308 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: to fight you? Because if y'all wouldn't even date anybody 309 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: who looked like your mama, right, okay, let's be clear. 310 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 1: So I actually had to filter out the word hole 311 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: and a couple of other choice words. And then I 312 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: saw people doing garden tool. I guess they realize they 313 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: can't come and hole, so they do garden tools. So 314 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: I blocked that ship, like the disrespect is unbelievable, And. 315 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 2: Why were they so mad? 316 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: That's the thing. And it was just men. 317 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 2: You didn't see women under there. I mean it was 318 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: a couple of people. Means under there, under there? Oh, 319 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 2: there's something wrong with all right, here's the thing. Nobody 320 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 2: said we want our man to cheat on us. 321 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: Nobody. 322 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 2: We just want someone who get who can like, who 323 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 2: wants somebody that can't get nobody exactly. 324 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: The energy of a man who has never had access 325 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: to the women he thinks he deserves is just different, right. 326 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying oftentimes, basically what I was 327 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: trying to comment to somebody yesterday. We don't want intels, 328 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: because that's essentially. 329 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 2: What it is. 330 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: Somebody who's involuntarily celibate. Celibate can't get the pussy. It 331 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: probably hasn't gotten the pussy that they deserve since high school. 332 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: And you just all here acting like your mama, Just 333 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 1: like a disgruntled ass black woman. That's what I see 334 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: in these comments. Just mean, right, just mean and angry 335 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: and just ugly. Maybe mama's I'm just mad the hell 336 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: is wrong with y'all. So I don't know. I want 337 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: to read something of the coot. That's some of the 338 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 1: nastiest ones. 339 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 2: Let's read some of them. And I'm saying their name too, 340 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 2: because y'all clearly want some attention. 341 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: Who wants a man? How I tried to clean it 342 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 1: up in one of my comments on there, which people still, oh, 343 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: you confuse, you don't know what you're talking about. I 344 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: explained how nobody wants a man who's not desirable to 345 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: anyone else. I'm not saying I want a man who 346 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: has fifty eleven bitches. I just want because the confidence. 347 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: Why do you want him clarity? It's something wrong if 348 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 2: nobody wants his ass exactly. 349 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: You know, I know a couple of people in relationships 350 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: with dudes like pull up and be like all your 351 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 1: friends are like, girl, what the fuck? 352 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 2: Rowdy read rowdy dot reds said they only want faithful 353 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 2: men after they get dog walk by niggas who don't 354 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 2: give a fuck about them, and that's what they deserve. 355 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: Nobody said we did not want a faithful man. That 356 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: was never said what is. 357 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: Wrong with these niggas? 358 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: And I just rowdy read. 359 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 2: Don't be giving these niggas. Oh you going to his 360 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 2: page and see what he looked like. First of all, 361 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:22,239 Speaker 2: he looked like he got one eye, boy, shut up 362 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 2: this comments on it. He looked like he had a 363 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: decent meal in a long time. 364 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 1: Anyway, it's a lot of nasty shit. I'm gonna go 365 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:34,919 Speaker 1: visit the damn page and check it out. It's a 366 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: lot of crazy ass comments on there. 367 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 2: This is why women pick promiscuous men, because ain't no 368 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 2: man picking a woman every nigga won. 369 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: This is how this is. That's not true. 370 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 2: This is how we can pick good women and y'all 371 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 2: can't pick good men. 372 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 1: That is not true that men do not pick women 373 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 1: at somebody else want you see that in celebrity social 374 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: groups all the time, and it's almost where to me 375 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: and to me it's kind of like borderline because it's 376 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,919 Speaker 1: like you almost want to sleep with this man vicariously 377 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: through this woman. That's how I see it. Why are 378 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 1: y'all going after the same women that has that have 379 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 1: been with multiple men. It's like, it's not about the 380 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:19,479 Speaker 1: woman at that point, it's about exactly, it's about getting 381 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: this thing that this other man that you deem, you know, 382 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: top of the food chain has had. 383 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 2: Exactly exactly okay, because there's no reason for these same 384 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 2: women to be passed around like that unless it's about that. 385 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,880 Speaker 1: So what I commented on trying to give clarification, this 386 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 1: is what I said. I said, men wife safe women 387 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: all the time while simultaneously chasing the most desirable women. 388 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,879 Speaker 1: These niggas be married and everybody DM. So you marry 389 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: somebody that you love, right, obviously you love them in 390 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: whatever capacity right and homely who is this what's the 391 00:18:55,760 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: twins from clips? Women of Clips the Rappers? Yeah? Did 392 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: you see what his wife posted recently? She was like 393 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 1: she's never felt insecure dealing with him. She was like, 394 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: you know when she walks into a room and there's 395 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: all these rapper looking girls, but they fake body and 396 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 1: all that. She's a real like she would be wearing 397 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: some shit like this, like extracute whatever. But you don't 398 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: have to put down these other women, like because guess what, 399 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: I feel like you're only talking about them because you 400 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,439 Speaker 1: think they would fuck your dude, right, because he's gonna 401 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 1: fuck right and they not leave them, leave you for them. 402 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: But he's definitely gonna beat some shit down. But men 403 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: marry safe women and then y'all fraternize with the bitches 404 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: y'all actually want Let's be clear, women just the same 405 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: want men that are desirable, not accessible. So I want 406 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: to choose you, lover. I want somebody who can get bitches, 407 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 1: but choose me every day. That's all you were trying 408 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 1: to say. Okay, and as a woman, you are supposed 409 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: to find the suitable mate to procreate, I said. I'm 410 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 1: also confused by the disrestract because isn't not men promoting 411 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: polygamy usually right. So now when we get into are like, oh, 412 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: y'all want an unfaithful man, right, most men are unfaithful. 413 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: Let's be clear, Ah, can. 414 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 2: We say most men are unfaithful? 415 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 1: A lot of humans are unfaithful. We can throw women 416 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: in there too, you know, to be far, I said. 417 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: The truth is men also created monogamy because if Polly 418 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 1: was a norm, a lot of you would have zero 419 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: access to women. The best man with the most resources 420 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: would have all the women. What else y'all need explain? 421 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: Because monogamy, to me, was created by men so that 422 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 1: the ones who probably shouldn't even be pro creating could 423 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 1: get some pussy. They can lock a woman in. That's 424 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,919 Speaker 1: what it's about. It's not about love. Half of this 425 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 1: stuff is not about love. Even in the Bible, the 426 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: Bible does not say married for love. The Bible says 427 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: if you can't sustain from sex, final wife, Right, that's 428 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: what it says. A lot of y'all would not have 429 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: a wife, a lot of y'all would not have kids. 430 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 1: Y'all would fucking this happens happens in animal kingdom. Everybody 431 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 1: doesn't get to have sex. 432 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, they have to fight for it's natural selection. 433 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 1: Let's be clear. So now, if women were actually hypergamous, 434 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: if women were actually dating to make sure that they 435 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: secure the best mate to be able to take care 436 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: of them and their offspring, a lot of your niggas 437 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,639 Speaker 1: would divergence. Let's be clear. So fuck you is what 438 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:26,199 Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. 439 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,360 Speaker 2: I just felt like it was a lot of hatred, 440 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 2: and you know what some people were saying, Kevin Samuels 441 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 2: needs to come back. 442 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: He lives on through y'all niggas. You have the Samuelites 443 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: out here. Okay, So Kevin Samuels, he's not dead. 444 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, he'll never be dead as long as he is. 445 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is scary to me. And what I do 446 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: appreciate about Kevin Samuels is that he brought him for 447 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: He helped us identify these people, and he helped us. 448 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 1: He helped them raise their hands so we know exactly 449 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 1: what the fuck they are and what we're looking at 450 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: when they do come out. I appreciate that Kevin Samuels. 451 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 2: But he also opened up the conversations that we weren't having, 452 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 2: So that's important. So that's what I want our conversations to, 453 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 2: Like Bridge the gap between US men and women. 454 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: That's the prob. 455 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 2: We have a problem between black men and black women 456 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 2: right now. 457 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: We do, and we don't. We don't see that as 458 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: our good uh. Sister Ebany K. Williams called it white supremacy. 459 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: To me, it is a form of white supremacy via 460 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: black people, you know what I'm saying. So we're we 461 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 1: already have all these different mechanisms in place to fuck 462 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 1: us up. Black people literally just be sitting at home chilling. 463 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: We'd be chilling. We chill. We like to laugh, like 464 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 1: to have fun. We do goofy shit all day long. Meanwhile, 465 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 1: there's a whole machine. But no for the we like 466 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: to chill hard. We love to love to be entertained. 467 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 1: That's why we fucked up now. We love to be entertained. 468 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: And it's a whole it's a whole machine making sure 469 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: we stay at the bottom. 470 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 2: Oh no, I agree there, It's always been that way. 471 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I just feel like a lot of people 472 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: are forfeiting a game. So let's get into and we 473 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 1: talked about this in stupid Internet news last week. 474 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 2: Right, Ebany K. Williams. 475 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 1: What she had to say and a la I'm talking 476 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 1: about across the color spectrum, across the age spectrum. Trust me, 477 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 1: I've done them all. They are not positioned to protect 478 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 1: nor provide because of some of the statistics we just 479 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: talked about. They're not earning the incomes, they're not having 480 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 1: the resource. 481 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:31,160 Speaker 5: Would you date a bus driver, You would date if. 482 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: He owns the bus, If he owns it. If he 483 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 1: owns the. 484 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 5: Bus, that's that's a problem. That's a problem because the 485 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 5: standards and requisites And I'm not talking about him laying 486 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 5: on his sofa playing video games all day. I'm not 487 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 5: talking about that. But the standards and the criteria that 488 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 5: we use to measure men is off for who we 489 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 5: are as women and who they are in this society. 490 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 1: Before ebdy K Williams came on the Breakfast Club, I 491 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 1: messaged my good friend, you know what I'm saying, and 492 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: I gave my perspective on what it was that she 493 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 1: was saying before she even gave a breakdown, right, because 494 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: that's what a lot of arguments start because of perspective. 495 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 1: How people perceive what you're saying. How I perceive what 496 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: she was saying is that we can do better and 497 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: we should not be settling for mediocrity. Yes, she even 498 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: went as far as reading the definitions. You know, I 499 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: love words, bitch. I love to look up the definition 500 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,360 Speaker 1: and the etymology of a word. So what she essentially 501 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: was saying is like, why do we have to be 502 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 1: And that was my message to my dear friend. Why 503 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: do we have to be the essential workers? Why do 504 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: the majority of us have to be the essential workers? 505 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,119 Speaker 1: Why do the majority of us have to be a 506 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,119 Speaker 1: blue collar employees? You know what I'm saying, We are 507 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: put at a higher risk that you know, we're working 508 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 1: the second and third shift. You know how much time 509 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: that takes off your life. You can't raise your kids properly. 510 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,160 Speaker 1: We just we got to get out of this position, 511 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: and if we plan to collectively, something has to change 512 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 1: so we can't cad ole people, men and women alike. 513 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: And the thing people miss is that Ianla should have 514 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: never asked Ebany K Williams would she date a bus driver? 515 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 1: And that's just the fact. 516 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 2: Well, all right, I don't mind the question. I just 517 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 2: felt like there should have been more common. 518 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 1: It was a misplaced though. 519 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, why do you feel like it was misplaced? 520 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: It should not have come after what Ebanie k Williams said, 521 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 1: because she she basically was asking, you know, how can 522 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 1: women just women, you know, reposition themselves. She did not 523 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: attach color, She did not attach race, none of that 524 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: to anything, and the internet did that. Iona also did 525 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:44,239 Speaker 1: not attach any ethnicity to what Ebane was saying. Right, 526 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: But that's how black men perceived it because Ebney is 527 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: a black woman right right, identifies as a black woman. 528 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: And and and it's almost like there should have been 529 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 1: something else that came before would you date a bus driver? 530 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 1: Because it just didn't answer the question that Ebone came with. Yeah, 531 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: I don't know answer a question with a question. 532 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 2: But I think what she was alluding to is that 533 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 2: Ebony shouldn't base her mate on financial I think that's 534 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 2: what she was trying to I don't. 535 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 1: Think she jumped right into that though. Do you think 536 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 1: when Ebanie, well, the based off the clip we saw, right, 537 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 1: I've watched the full thing, and that's not the context 538 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: of the full conversation. And then you know, near the 539 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: end of it, it did kind of you know, smoothed over. 540 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: But I just feel like I don't want no more 541 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: advice from elders. I just don't. It's certain things, yes, 542 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: but I feel like our elders are the reason the 543 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,400 Speaker 1: men are how they are today. Y'all coddled the men. 544 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: Y'all coddled y'all boys, and y'all had us go to 545 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,639 Speaker 1: college and do all this things. Is nobody gonna take 546 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: care of you, but you so be able to take 547 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 1: care of yourself. And while our conterparts are white kind 548 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 1: of parts, white women were finding their husbands in college. 549 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,640 Speaker 1: We just get an education. Now we go. We got 550 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: student loans and all this shit. I don't like that. 551 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 2: Yes, that was the dumbest thing we were sold exactly 552 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 2: strong black woman. I used to like believe I'm a 553 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,719 Speaker 2: strong black woman. Like that is the dumbest shit I 554 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 2: was ever. So I don't want to I don't want 555 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 2: to have to be a strong black woman. That's not 556 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 2: I'm tired of being strong. I want someone to come 557 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 2: in and be strong for me. 558 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: Absolutely, And if we are collectively, if we're going to 559 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,400 Speaker 1: get out of this position, somebody something that has to change. 560 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 1: You can't bring home the season. D's right. You know 561 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, you have to strive for higher education. 562 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,400 Speaker 1: And what Ebony was saying is that if this is yours, 563 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 1: if you've maxed out on your potential. 564 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 2: But it's being But there are people who made seas 565 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 2: and d's that are successful out here. 566 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: Absolutely most of the people I know that a millionaires 567 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: dropped out of. 568 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 2: Right because one former. Our formal education is sometimes kind 569 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 2: of biased when it comes to black people, especially standardiz. Yeah, 570 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 2: so even though the testing is just not you know, 571 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 2: for us, right, so we might make Season d's. And 572 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 2: I remember being in these white spaces going to school, 573 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 2: like I would be in advanced classes and I would 574 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 2: be the only Black in the class. So now we're 575 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,199 Speaker 2: doing group work and I have to be in the 576 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,400 Speaker 2: group with the fat kid, the emo in the exchange 577 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,120 Speaker 2: student in me, you know, like we're just all we're 578 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 2: the minority. So now I'm in these groups with people 579 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: and I'm like a badass, boss bitch. And now here 580 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 2: I'm in this group and I'm like, I flunked out 581 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 2: on purpose just so I could be in a room 582 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 2: with my peers. Now, had I been in a school 583 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 2: where it was black students in the advanced programs, I 584 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 2: would have excelled, you know what I mean. So you 585 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 2: know already you know you can't base it on the 586 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 2: Seas and d's. You just have to base it on ambition. 587 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 1: And so since she's a lawyer, I understand why she's 588 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 1: see when she says c's and d's, I don't just 589 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: see that as like a school thing. I see that 590 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 1: as a life thing. You know what I'm saying. If 591 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 1: you're settling for C and D type life, That's how 592 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 1: I took that. I didn't actually take it as C 593 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: and D like grading like the great instantant, like actual academia. 594 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: I took that as like just in life in general, 595 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: like if you're settling for mediocracy, but it's okay, and 596 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 1: mediocracy just means regular normal, the norm, right. But people 597 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: took offense to the to the word she was using 598 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: as it pertains to the working class. The thing is, 599 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 1: why do black people have to make up a disproportionate 600 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 1: amount of the working class while everybody else get the 601 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: chill on their fucking boats. I live in Charles's, South Carolina. 602 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: We got beautiful waterfronts and shit like that. All you 603 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 1: see is these white folks. Are they yachts out there? 604 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 2: Like? 605 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 1: I want that? 606 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 2: You want that? But there are people who are okay 607 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 2: with their regular nine to five job and are more 608 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 2: happy than some of those people on those boats. And 609 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 2: I think that might be what Ayala was alluding to. 610 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 2: It should be more about what would make you happy 611 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 2: than your finances. Yeah, but the thing, all right, let 612 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 2: me just say this. I had a friend who was 613 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: married and her man treated her her amazing. He was 614 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 2: good with the kids, he was a loving, doting husband, 615 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 2: but he just didn't make a lot of money and 616 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 2: she made most of the money. So she ended up 617 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 2: leaving them right, and then she was outside and it 618 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 2: was just bad. And she started dating rich men and 619 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,959 Speaker 2: men who were making more than her, and it was 620 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 2: just never good. So she went back to her husband 621 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 2: and they are happy as fuck. When she decided that 622 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 2: that level of lifestyle was better than having all the 623 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 2: things and being unhappy, she was happy with that man, 624 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: and she had to decide she had to go outside 625 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 2: and be a hole and decide that it wasn't good 626 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 2: out there. It wasn't good for her, Like she was 627 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 2: better with this man who worked a regular job, but 628 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 2: he treated her like a goddess. And I think that's 629 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 2: what Yalla was saying. The conversation went a different way 630 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 2: when it got into like, you know, being yeah, and 631 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 2: it went somewhere else that it shouldn't have gone. You know, 632 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 2: I don't think that is what because both of them 633 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 2: have valid points. 634 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: You know, did you like Ayana's follow up video and 635 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: it was clickbait? That's what I felt like. It was 636 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 1: just like, I want some people to listen to me, 637 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: because girl, I ever heard Ayanla say that she was 638 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: a wonderful husband but a terrible mom, meaning she provided, 639 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: but she wasn't there for her kids. Ianla hasn't married 640 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 1: multiple times, where you'll mad at I really don't want 641 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 1: to be married now, I don't think so well. 642 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 2: Sometimes the people who are already fucked up a lot 643 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 2: give the best advice because. 644 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: They know what take. And then now this is viral 645 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: and Ebony looks like a terrible woman. You know what 646 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying. You got black men online just acting like 647 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: black women are so undesirable, like nobody wants us. Like 648 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: even if we be like, you know what, fuck it, 649 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be single forever, they're mad at that too, 650 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: right if we just go ahead and rest in, okay, shit, 651 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 1: I'm good and get my money, shit, travel with my 652 00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: homegirls like they mad about that too, right, So it's 653 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 1: like you almost damned if you do, damned. 654 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 2: It, fuck them, fuck him. That's how I feel like. 655 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 2: You know, you just gotta find out what makes you happy. 656 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 2: And I hope emiy Kate does find that person for her. 657 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: You know, they was putting her like her previous person 658 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: she was engaged as a white Jewish guy she was 659 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: engaged to. But I'm pretty sure she's dated black men 660 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 1: most of her life. 661 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 2: Would you date like a white Jewish man? 662 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 1: I would prefer an Italian. Okay, They're a little bit 663 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 1: more olive skin looking, and they had the dark hair. 664 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 1: Like if I get a white boy, like he gotta 665 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: be a ginger or brunette. I just I just. 666 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 2: Something about a black man that just like I can 667 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 2: like I can see Italian man. 668 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 1: I can see a. 669 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 2: Fine Italian and he'd be fine in it. And then 670 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 2: I see a black man walk by, and I'd be like, oh, 671 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, white man, but did you see this keen 672 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 2: that just walk by? So I don't know if I 673 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 2: could be faithful to a white man, I would probably 674 00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 2: cheat on him with a black man. 675 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 1: What what type of shit is that? 676 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 2: It's the truth, That's what kind of shit it is. 677 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,280 Speaker 2: So I just probably wouldn't date them because I just 678 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 2: love the skin on the black man. 679 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 1: Last weekend, I met a couple of white guys and 680 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: I was talking to one on the phone for a 681 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: really long time, and I was telling him that I 682 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 1: see white dudes eating boogers a lot. Where you be 683 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,959 Speaker 1: at that. You see you're driving down the highway, you 684 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: stopped at a stop, like you look look over you 685 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: liable to see a white man. Just you don't know 686 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 1: why I seen it. 687 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 2: You don't know he might be eating chicken nuggets from 688 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 2: Chick fil A. 689 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 1: No, I seen you do this and stick it in 690 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:48,240 Speaker 1: your mouth multiple times in my life, so I have 691 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: drawn a conclusion that they don't. They be eating boogers 692 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 1: and oft the times. 693 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 2: Okay, well that's listen eating boogers. Niggas out here eating booty. 694 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 2: Which one is worse? Okay, you judging the nigga for 695 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 2: eating a little booger, but look, you get your booty 696 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 2: lit and be kissing the. 697 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: Nigga when you come up. Related, Okay, don't watch the 698 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 1: Mountain fris non I might kiss you. But listen, I 699 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 1: was watching not alone and afraid. I think it's just 700 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 1: called a loon. They like out in the mountains or whatever, 701 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 1: like group of like different people dropped off in different 702 00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 1: and afraid, not naked and afraid. I think it's a loan. 703 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so one is naked afraid. That one I 704 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: was watching was on Netflix. It's called a loon. I 705 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,840 Speaker 1: believe they were in Canada. But one of the women, 706 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 1: she resorted to eating the boogers because it does have 707 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 1: like a calorie. Yeah, like the like it has some nutrition, 708 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,759 Speaker 1: no value, Like, if you don't have anything else, you 709 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 1: eat the booger. 710 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 2: Okay, I know that for the next time I'm out 711 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 2: in the woods by myself. 712 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 1: So they got food that's gross. It's not nasty, it's 713 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: not You didn't eat Bookers as a kid. 714 00:34:55,280 --> 00:35:00,319 Speaker 2: No, you never licked this, not like maybe by listen, 715 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 2: maybe like by accident, but I've never been like. 716 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've never et a booger. My cousin used 717 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 1: to eat Bookers all the time. And she's eating damn 718 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 1: eat dirt with a spoon. Chat. Oh no, I've seen 719 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: people eat clay. I eat the orange clay with a spoon. 720 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: But she's eat like the black dirt, tearing them Bookers up. Girl, 721 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 1: But like, you know, you a kid run around, you know, 722 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 1: and keep it moving. No, I've done that before. 723 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 2: I can say I've done that, but not like ooh 724 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 2: since not delicious snack, no never, never. All right, So 725 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 2: we say all of that to say, what, what's the 726 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 2: final word? 727 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,879 Speaker 1: Leave us the fuck alone? Okay, just leave black women alone, 728 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 1: and don't leave us alone. 729 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 2: Stop attacking us, love us. 730 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 1: But the thing is, you have other black women now 731 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,920 Speaker 1: attacking another black woman. You know what I'm saying. The 732 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: from the comments I've seen online, they're pretty divided. Even 733 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: at the breakfast club. You have horrible decisions there. You 734 00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:00,480 Speaker 1: have Mandy and Weezy. Weezy was signing more with Alaman 735 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 1: and dj Envy, while Mandy was more so kind of 736 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 1: in the middle, but more so on That's. 737 00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,359 Speaker 2: Why I'm in the middle, because I can't understand both perspectives, 738 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 2: just you know, knowing my friend's story and how she 739 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 2: went out looking for this, you know, the yacht life 740 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 2: and shed and she found her happiness with mediocrity, you know, 741 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 2: which is offensive to say. 742 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: You know, like maybe she wasn't the bitch she thought 743 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 1: she was. No, she a babit. 744 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 2: She is a babbit, you know, but she like she's 745 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,359 Speaker 2: more happy than most people I know. 746 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 1: So her husband isn't like trolling her in a relationship. 747 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: Now like he's okay, they are happy as fuck, that's nice. 748 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 1: They are man. 749 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a great man. So and I'm and before 750 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 2: I was like, girl, yeah me that nigga, you know. 751 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 2: But you know, when when she decided she was ready 752 00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:00,359 Speaker 2: to go, I supported it, but for that reason. But 753 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 2: when she went back, I was like, girl. 754 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I'm not friend like shit with you. 755 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 1: If you like him, I love him, mm hm. When 756 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:10,920 Speaker 1: you're ready to go back, shit, I'm gonna be so. 757 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 2: But when she went back and I just see how 758 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:15,760 Speaker 2: beautiful and how happy their family is, I'm like, Okay, 759 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 2: So maybe it don't always take all of that. 760 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 1: And I know some. 761 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 2: People who are rich and miserable, got all the money 762 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 2: and just ain't never happy, So it shouldn't be. I 763 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,440 Speaker 2: can understand why Ayanla would be like if he loved 764 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 2: me and he treat me good and he loved driving 765 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 2: the bus, I get that, But I also get ebany 766 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 2: k who wants somebody who is you know, has the 767 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:39,479 Speaker 2: aspirations that she has in life. 768 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,720 Speaker 1: And I think that's what most black women are asking. 769 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: Nobody is asking you to have everything today because oftentimes 770 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 1: we don't. I know, I fucking don't you know what 771 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,759 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm rebuilding my life for the last few 772 00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 1: years now, so I understand. But what I feel like, 773 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 1: and I always I think I feel like I always 774 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 1: say this, if you're with a woman who is not amused, 775 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:03,440 Speaker 1: is not who doesn't aspire you to do better until 776 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 1: one day take care of her and your family entirely 777 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 1: leave her. She ain't the one for you, because one 778 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,880 Speaker 1: thing women gonna do is inspire. 779 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,719 Speaker 2: But it depends on what taking care of the family means. 780 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 1: Taking care of your family like, so your wife can 781 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 1: chill and actually raise your children and create like we can't. 782 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 1: We can't do half the things we want to do, 783 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 1: Like we're single with no children. So I do everything. 784 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like not having to think 785 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 1: about anybody, But I fly to Africa in the morning 786 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:32,879 Speaker 1: if I want to, so think about the women who 787 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,319 Speaker 1: are and most black women and black men are in 788 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: the trenches together. I just don't know where all this 789 00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 1: goal is that these niggas say we digging for. When 790 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: y'all go to the other side and you're raped rich 791 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 1: niggas go to the other side, these other sides, the 792 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,879 Speaker 1: white side, the Hispanic side, the Armenian side, and they 793 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 1: get raped at the end of the day. But we're 794 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:54,440 Speaker 1: seen as the gold diggers somehow, and it's almost like 795 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,319 Speaker 1: Black women can't require more, we can't possibly think we 796 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 1: deserve more than we got, Like you have to stay here, 797 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I don't suggest a 798 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,320 Speaker 1: lot of times, not at our age. You know what 799 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,839 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Your twenties is different. Both are trenches, y'all, 800 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 1: both trying to figure it out together. That's when and 801 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 1: that's when you should have found your mate. Right. Oftentimes 802 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:17,919 Speaker 1: they're divorced by thirty forty years old. Right. I don't 803 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,879 Speaker 1: believe in having an extended period of time where you're 804 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,840 Speaker 1: struggling with a man, because I believe that they resent 805 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 1: you once they get on that person who saw them 806 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,799 Speaker 1: struggling in that way, who saw them in that light, 807 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: they oftentimes resent them and that's why they go on 808 00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,440 Speaker 1: to somebody who that know their struggle. 809 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,719 Speaker 2: That's a crap show because sometimes they be like, this 810 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 2: is the woman that was there when I ain't have shit, 811 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna take her with me. It depends. 812 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 1: It really does depend. But I have well, I don't know. 813 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 1: I've never been with somebody who was left. I'm always 814 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 1: the one left depleted at the end of a relationship. 815 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:53,560 Speaker 1: And maybe people like me and most women right are necessary, 816 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 1: right to get people to the next level. But I 817 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: look at some of the people who have been in 818 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 1: relationships in the past, is like, fuck, niggas, is damn prevailing, 819 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,319 Speaker 1: not prevailing? But they you know they they're doing well now. 820 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,839 Speaker 1: But I knew them when they have ship and I helped. 821 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 2: You, helped them grow and now another. 822 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,439 Speaker 1: But I don't mind giving a bit of refurbished nigga. 823 00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 1: I always say that girl, girl that pissed me off. 824 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 2: I don't want to see that doing better without me. 825 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:26,840 Speaker 1: It's like I'm joking. 826 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to like because typically if we were 827 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 2: like that, I loved you and I don't want nothing 828 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 2: bad to happen to you. But I don't like the 829 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 2: fact that some of them are married and I'm not. 830 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but those saying married men, they still be checking 831 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 1: for you. You're right, they don't like that. That's not flattering. 832 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 2: I see you coming to town, let's get together. 833 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 1: Like number don't be hitting me out three to four years. 834 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 1: I see you're doing your thing. I'm so proud of 835 00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:59,760 Speaker 1: you because you married safe. Like I said, you married safe. 836 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 2: I am doing my thing and I won't be available, 837 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,799 Speaker 2: but thanks for thanks for affirming me. 838 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:12,319 Speaker 1: Hey, we don't got a dumbit stories. 839 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 2: For the day, don't have any dumb bitch stories at 840 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 2: all for today. 841 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:16,360 Speaker 1: But that's okay. 842 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 2: Everybody's being safe apparently. 843 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:23,399 Speaker 1: Yes, well you know, I guess moral of this story is, girl, 844 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 1: just do you These niggas gonna talk shit regardless. It's 845 00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:29,760 Speaker 1: just gonna be mean. It's gruntle. 846 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:31,839 Speaker 2: Not all of them. Some of them are gonna love us. 847 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 2: There were some allies in the comments. We didn't read 848 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 2: none of the allies. It was something and like some 849 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 2: men were like, man, these niggas must don't get bitches, 850 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,960 Speaker 2: clearly because they mad. So we did have some allies 851 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,879 Speaker 2: in the comments. We just want, what's my final word, 852 00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,760 Speaker 2: find who love you and love them back and grow together. 853 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 2: That's my thing. You don't have to get the man 854 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,960 Speaker 2: who's already rich. You can help him get rich, or 855 00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,319 Speaker 2: you can help him stay where he at like and 856 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,600 Speaker 2: y'all can be happy in that too. Just find what 857 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,920 Speaker 2: make you happy, and find someone who make you happy, 858 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:04,000 Speaker 2: and then rock with them. 859 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,560 Speaker 1: That's all I can say. I don't have any fun 860 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 1: on words. Money don't money because I listen. I don't 861 00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 1: want another viral moment people talking too razy with my 862 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 1: face out. No, because you know, I was thinking the 863 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: other day, I said, you know what, I should start 864 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 1: being like Kevin Samuels but talking shit about men. I 865 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:24,799 Speaker 1: kind of already be on that type of time dog 866 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 1: my mind. 867 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 2: Well, having men calling right and cut them out, well, 868 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 2: what you know what, not even give them some truth 869 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 2: that they may need. Right, Because Kevin Samuels wasn't always wrong. 870 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,000 Speaker 2: I just didn't like his delivery. Oftentimes it was hurtful. 871 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 2: That's what I didn't like about him. It was the 872 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,800 Speaker 2: delivery that was hurtful. He'd be like, bitch, you fat 873 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,480 Speaker 2: and ugly, you are three like. 874 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,760 Speaker 1: That, that's me. You don't have to talk to people 875 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 1: that way, you know. But I feel like even I 876 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: don't feel like Evany K. Williams said anything in a 877 00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 1: very negative way, right, but people perceived it that way. Yeah, 878 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,879 Speaker 1: The truth oftentimes feel like an attack for somebody who 879 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 1: doesn't want to take accountability. This is true. Right, So 880 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,680 Speaker 1: that's my final words. It's not an attack. Okay, take 881 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 1: accountability for some things black men and black women alike. Okay, period. 882 00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 1: All right, that's it. Let's give that so we can 883 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:25,759 Speaker 1: get about a here got morton, stupid bitch. Listen all right, y'all. 884 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,399 Speaker 1: So if you enjoyed this episode, please tune in every 885 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 1: Thursday on your iHeartRadio app and wherever the fuck you 886 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 1: get your podcast at. This is your co host, AJ Holiday. Y'all. 887 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,880 Speaker 1: Follow me on Instagram. It's AJ Holiday two point oh. 888 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 1: Also follow we talk Back podcast on instagrams. 889 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 2: H We got some merchandise the oh yeah, we got 890 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,839 Speaker 2: some shirts and we got like five they look really good. 891 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: And we got some key chains. Oh yeah, we do. 892 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:51,080 Speaker 1: They'll be on the site soon. 893 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so y'all get that. It's me Taan Bama. 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