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Speaker 1: I refuse to split my mother's inheritance with my siblings

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Speaker 1: because they have their own.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it looks like you already have all of the

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Speaker 1: I twenty eight female, have six siblings. Our mom recently

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Speaker 3: Yes, super, super sad.

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Speaker 1: I had a really great relationship with my mom. We

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Speaker 1: old twins, a three year old, and a one year

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Speaker 1: old all loved her. I am the youngest of all

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Speaker 1: my siblings. My older siblings didn't prioritize much time with

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Speaker 1: my mom until the last few months when she couldn't

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Speaker 1: do much for herself anymore. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from top Protection sixty three sixty seven. And if you

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Speaker 1: want to submit your own stories, go to our slash

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Speaker 1: okay storytime Separated it You heard her, folks. So I

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Speaker 1: currently live with my boyfriend thirty eight male, and our

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Speaker 1: four children in a three bedroom apartment. It's a nice apartment,

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Speaker 1: but of course it's not ideal for our large family.

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Speaker 1: Over the summer, while my mom was still very coherent,

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Speaker 1: she signed a transfer on She signed a transfer on

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Speaker 1: death of her house five bedroom, three bath to me

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Speaker 1: for myself, my boyfriend, and our children to move into.

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Speaker 1: She did the transfer so I wouldn't have to buy

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Speaker 1: less than a year left until it was completely paid off,

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Speaker 1: so we would be able to afford her payments that way.

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Speaker 1: All of my other siblings own their own homes and

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Speaker 1: have plenty of room in their homes for their individual families.

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Speaker 1: I didn't ask my other siblings if they were okay

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Speaker 1: with this, but I didn't see it as their decision

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Speaker 1: or whether they had a say, considering it's our mom's

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Speaker 1: house and she had a final say.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, exactly, that's right, straight up exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like when she was literally alive and clear it

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Speaker 1: like she made her decision. Dude, yeah, hay to break

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Speaker 1: it you guys. I didn't ask oh wait wait yeah,

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Speaker 1: And like I said, all of my siblings own their

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Speaker 1: own homes anyway. Once my mom passed, she had some

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Speaker 1: medical bills that needed taken care of, so it seemed

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Speaker 1: as though we would need to sell the house to

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Speaker 1: take care of them. After looking into it more, my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend said that he would buy the house add just

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Speaker 1: enough to cover the medical bills rather than what it's worth,

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Speaker 1: considering we cannot afford what's worth. Plus, my mom had

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Speaker 1: planned on us just moving in and not doing any

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Speaker 1: sort of loan anyway. She had a cash inheritance which

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Speaker 1: she left my oldest sister, Melanie forty three female, to

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Speaker 1: split equally among all of my siblings. Since my mom

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Speaker 1: had passed, we have asked Melanie how much is left

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Speaker 1: in the inheritance, as it would be split seven ways,

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Speaker 1: and she would always kind of dodge the question.

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Speaker 2: I see you, I see.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just realized why these are here now, and

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Speaker 1: that makes so much more sense.

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Speaker 3: And money.

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Speaker 1: She would say she hasn't counted it yet, or she's

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Speaker 1: unsure smell lies.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I haven't counted The number that

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you is the real number. But right

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Speaker 2: I haven't come up with my fake number yet. I

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Speaker 2: gotta do some more math.

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Speaker 1: My mom also had some coins that were worth some money.

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Speaker 1: She had four coins worth about three two hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: and a fifth coin worth about twelve hundred dollars. I

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Speaker 1: only found out about these coins from my other sister

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Speaker 1: Rachelle thirty five female, because she told me Melanie thought

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Speaker 1: giving the a coin worth thirty two hundred dollars to herself, Rochelle,

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Speaker 1: my brother Nick thirty seven mail, and myself the coin

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Speaker 1: worthless to another hand picked sipling.

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Speaker 2: Well, real quick, you can't give one coin to three people.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm really doing. I'm assuming she would pay

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Speaker 1: and then split that up.

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Speaker 2: I don't know the way to look at it, to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, totally gets so much value that way, you should

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Speaker 3: Of them flip the coin, which of them gets to

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Speaker 1: There you go? There you go the coin? Oh wait,

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Speaker 1: the coins at all. Why that's so sneaky? That really

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Speaker 1: upset me? Makes sense. I understand the coins gained value

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Speaker 1: the fair situation would be to pawn them for cash

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Speaker 1: so everyone could be involved. I suggested that I suggested that,

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Speaker 1: and then never heard anything else about the coins after that.

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Speaker 2: I wonder where they could be going into someone's pocket.

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Speaker 1: And then one day last week, when I had Rochelle

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Speaker 1: Oh no, she's ratting herself out an amateur thief. Oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness. I never I never said anything, but I

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Speaker 1: couldn't believe that they didn't that they decided to kick

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Speaker 1: the three siblings that were going to be slighted. Well

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Speaker 1: flashed to. A couple days ago, my boyfriend got approved

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Speaker 1: for the loan. I told Melanie about this to keep

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Speaker 1: her in the loop, and her response shocked me. She

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, probably because she was still already on the phone.

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Speaker 3: With the other stinkers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Once I was able to talk to Rachelle, it

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Speaker 1: was very clear that Melanie had gotten to her first

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Speaker 1: and manipulated the situation. So I texted the group trot

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Speaker 1: with my siblings. Essentially, they all want to sell the

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Speaker 1: had very obviously made them believe that my mom only

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Speaker 2: That's crazy to manipulate that while your mom is like

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Speaker 2: like you're the scummiest.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I'm selfish. For context, Melanie is the oldest, and

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Speaker 1: all of our siblings can pretty can be pretty easily

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Speaker 1: And tried to say my side, but they are all

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Speaker 1: on Melanie's side. They all want cash from the house.

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Speaker 1: But I want to live in it like my mom intended. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's what she wanted. Okay, what the mom wanted, respect

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Speaker 1: her wishes. Yeah, come on now, Like I said, my

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Speaker 1: children can live there. My siblings feel like I have

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Speaker 1: scammed them out of an inheritance, but I feel like

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Speaker 1: I found a way to get the medical bills paid

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Speaker 1: so that my family can live there, which is what

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Speaker 1: my mom intended when she was here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, Hello, there's a house. Hello house?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? So am I the a hole? What would you

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Speaker 1: say a Dakota, Well.

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Speaker 2: If I was one of your siblings, I'd be like yeah,

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Speaker 2: But I'm.

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Speaker 3: Not so no, because they're stupid.

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Speaker 2: They're just all want is the money. Yeah, they just

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Speaker 1: I'm wonder I wonder how much they would even get

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Speaker 1: because it's like you're still gonna have to pay for

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Speaker 1: those you know, and like the boyfriend is basically like

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Speaker 1: offering to pay for all the medical bills with this

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Speaker 1: whole house, Like I will.

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Speaker 2: Buy the house for the cost of the medical bills, right,

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Speaker 2: And so it's like then the house stays in the family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like totally not his responsibility to do that.

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Speaker 1: It would I would think it would be split amongst

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Speaker 1: So it's like, how much money would you even be

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Speaker 3: True, it's like you know what I mean, I wonder

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Speaker 3: let's I'm gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: It'd be like a little bit more quick google still.

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Speaker 2: On the median house sale price and then split it

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Speaker 2: between how many siblings was that like six?

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Speaker 1: House? Like seven?

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Speaker 3: I think seven siblings? A lot of siblings in the

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Speaker 3: house sale A lot of siblings. Usa.

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Speaker 2: Uh so it's around four hundred and twenty thousand dollars. Wow,

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Speaker 2: So that's like what like fifty thousand dollars for each

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or a house.

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Speaker 1: Then they have to split it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And then not only do you split that needs

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Speaker 2: you got the taxes that come out of it. You

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Speaker 2: got you got whatever. You know, I'm not a tax guy.

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Speaker 2: I don't know all that stuff, but I, oh, it's

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Speaker 2: not as simple as everyone gets fifty grand, right, so

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Speaker 2: it's probably gonna be closer to thirty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then again medical bills. Yeah, so it's like

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Speaker 1: not not that much that they're like fighting those.

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Speaker 2: I would rather have the family house stay within the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it's not gonna last forever.

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Speaker 1: It's just not up to them. It's just up to

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Speaker 3: Right. That's also the biggest place.

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Speaker 1: It's like huge, like they got their other inheritance and

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Speaker 1: like the stuff with the coins and stuff. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. There are some relevant comments. Comment number one says,

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Speaker 1: why are you selling the house to your boyfriend? If

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Speaker 1: you want to be able to keep the house, he

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Speaker 1: could just pay your mother's bills and debts instead of

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Speaker 1: buying the house. Then the house would stay in your name. Eta,

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Speaker 1: not a whole. Your siblings got their inheritance, don't split

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Speaker 1: anything with them. OPI responds, this is also what I

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Speaker 1: don't understand. Her mom made sure that wait, oh this

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Speaker 1: is just a yeah yeah, someone else replies the siblings Yeah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is also what I don't understand. Her mom made

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Speaker 1: sure that she has a home. Now she's selling it

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Speaker 1: for less than it's worth to her boyfriend. If the

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Speaker 1: relationships ends, she has nothing. Comment number two, I mean,

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Speaker 1: those are actually good points.

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Speaker 3: Actually is a good point, because I did wonder, like

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Speaker 3: what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's some sort of complicated tax government thing where.

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Speaker 2: It's like it would perhaps maybe if it goes outside

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Speaker 2: But I'm sure that they wouldn't do that if it

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Speaker 1: So that's what we're going to do if we ever

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Speaker 1: Yes, and there is a little bit more. But what

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Speaker 3: First of all, high five to me, right, I'll just

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Speaker 3: I don't know why the freaking siblings can't just get

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Speaker 2: Then we'll split it. But for sakes exactly, the house

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Speaker 2: The description of it just like jingling out of her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but there is a little bit more. So let's

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Speaker 1: That the house will stay in my name. Melanie has

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Speaker 1: But this is what my mom had intended in the

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Speaker 2: Yes, it all goes back to literally the undisputable fact.

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Speaker 1: Yes, where was I Oh for myself and my children

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Speaker 1: but I don't see the problem anymore. I'll keep this

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Speaker 1: Shall we read them? Riley, do we have your stamp

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Speaker 1: Okay? Cool? Comment number one, I am so relieved that

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Speaker 2: I think there's like conflict of interest stuff that goes

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say, you say, it's not okay. My

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he told me that. Everyone that doesn't know Riley

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Speaker 3: It comes out every time she visits.

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Speaker 1: It's so easy to pick up like you. It's so

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Speaker 3: My Texas family would kill.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. Anyway, So he brought me to the saw mill.

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Speaker 3: A so chose to not be sawyer instead being sawyer.

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Speaker 1: And it makes sense more in the saw Maill thing,

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Speaker 3: They're making fun of my brother's name over here. That's

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Speaker 3: pretty crazy. Any who, Let's read some of these donuts

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Speaker 3: and everything's new Squeaky Girl aka Colleen don't need ten dollars.

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Speaker 2: Love for Sella, Hey, love for Sella indeed, love for

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Speaker 2: Sellas Montana abs girl.

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Speaker 3: Wait, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry Riley. What are you doing

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Speaker 3: with your new fangled technology. It's heart my brain? Uh, Teddy,

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Speaker 3: thanks for the four dollars and eighty eight cents.

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Speaker 2: Another donat because I'm irresponsible, just kidding, I'm actually not.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for a response donating.

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Speaker 3: Nikki, thanks for the two bucks. And he said my

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Speaker 3: name right, but I go by.

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Speaker 1: Nikki, all right, I go by Angie. Also, just by

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Speaker 1: the way, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I don't even catch that. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of which name is Angie? Tiny Cactus, thanks

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Speaker 2: for being a member for eight months. I feel like

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Speaker 2: I've been gone all month, missed. Y'all, Hi everyone, welcome back,

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Tiny Cactus.

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Speaker 3: Welcome and lelib Na, thank you for your donation of.

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Speaker 1: Five Okay, no donation, Heidi.

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Speaker 3: Vincent, Yes, awkward cosplate chick, thanks for the two bucks.

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Speaker 3: As a Tennessee native, I can verify true.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping that's about the twang and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my twain just comes out whenever I want it.

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Speaker 1: It's so easy.

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Speaker 3: It just it just pops up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, quick question to everyone in the room. How do

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Speaker 1: we feel about the temperature in the room. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: I know I complained. I complained earlier about it being warm,

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Speaker 1: but it's just it just hit me when I walked in,

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Speaker 1: and now I think the acy event is like, we

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Speaker 1: can never please you enough.

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Speaker 4: Everything is It's a tomato tomato, potato, potato.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what you want.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry for wanting a room temperature room Okay.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry for wanting HomeOS exactly.

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Speaker 1: I can also have a blanket. You are also in

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Speaker 1: like jackets you want to, I can have a little

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Speaker 1: blanket or we Yeah, you sure, I can be bundled up. Thanks,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you such nice blankets. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna read some comments while you guys

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Speaker 1: figure that out. First time joining Love you guys, Spring joke,

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Speaker 1: welcome first live. It's fun here, the lives are fun.

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Speaker 1: How long has this been on for Sasha Cone?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You'd have to look. Jellybod's asking what part of Missouri

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Speaker 1: you're from, Dakota because you might have a native twang

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Speaker 1: yourself that's classified information classified.

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Speaker 3: I'm coold, that's my girl.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, really quick, I do all right, welcome

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Speaker 4: to the stream. I'm Angie and I have a head.

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Speaker 4: That's it.

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Speaker 3: So about where I'm from?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: And my accent they're like way back in the day

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Speaker 2: on Facebook they had like the where's your accent from?

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Speaker 3: Test?

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Speaker 2: Or you'd answer like how you pronounce things? And basically

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Speaker 2: my accent is in St.

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Speaker 3: Louis, which is.

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Speaker 2: Where I'm from, and then like a tiny bubble like

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Speaker 2: somewhere else in Missouri and then nowhere else and that's all.

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Speaker 1: All right, thanks for sharing. Now they're gonna hunt you down,

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Speaker 1: find you. Uh. Teddy responded, Oh yeah, sorry, I should

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Speaker 1: have been getting that ready for you. I did not

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Speaker 1: get into the next Storta and his cakes are back.

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Speaker 4: Hime.

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Speaker 1: Let's see, we're almost out of time, so sad oh

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Speaker 1: we are. We have nine minutes left unless something crazy

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Speaker 1: and we.

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Speaker 3: Have a slow reader and a long story crazy.

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Speaker 1: If you need me to read again, I can. We

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Speaker 1: got a donation thirty six dollars. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: My goodness, some some oh Angie doesn't know that you

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Speaker 4: just got you? Do you know what a mog?

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Speaker 1: I have hands right now.

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Speaker 4: Do you know what a mog No.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've worked with kids and one day, like an

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Speaker 1: eight year old pull that out and it was the

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Speaker 1: funniest thing ever. She was like she crawled under a

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Speaker 1: table and they went and it was.

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Speaker 3: And then disappeared and it was so funny, hilarious.

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Speaker 1: It is so good. Anyway, shall we start?

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Speaker 3: Yes, go ready, Yes, let's do it. My sister excludes

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Speaker 3: me and disrespects me. I can't take it anymore. You

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Speaker 3: don't have to her, especially if you're one of our

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Speaker 3: own because this is from our own family members. Okay, Sime,

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Speaker 3: who again? Who is it? I'm about to tell you?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I just need event about an extremely

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Speaker 3: dysfunctional sister and maybe good advice. I thirty three, thirty

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Speaker 3: four female. As a sister thirty seven. Despite being extremely

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Speaker 3: close in age, we have not been close for the

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Speaker 3: majority of our lives. She was always catty and nasty

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Speaker 3: tours even when we were children. For instance, when a

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Speaker 3: friend of hers came over, they were maliciously caddy towards

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Speaker 3: me and wouldn't let me hang out or even be

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Speaker 3: in the same room as them.

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Speaker 1: M dang that.

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Speaker 3: That sounds like like brother, get out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess if it's like their whole lives,

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Speaker 1: you gotta grow Okay, okay, okay, Well I shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: saying this to her own family members.

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Speaker 3: My bad, and my parents would do absolutely nothing but

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Speaker 3: shot from the other room. Stop being mean.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: And of course she was always hung out with me.

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Speaker 3: And of course she always hung out with me and

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Speaker 3: my friends. By the way, this comes from Catch the

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Speaker 3: Wave three two one, And if you want to submit

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Speaker 3: your own stories, go to our slash okay story Tom.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Sun off if you're in the chat too.

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Speaker 3: By the way, we want to see you want.

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Speaker 4: To see them. If they're not here, yell at them.

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Speaker 3: As we grew into teenagers, it always as if she

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Speaker 3: was sort of jealous of me. Mmm. She would take

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Speaker 3: my clothes but not let me borrow hers. Ew unfair

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Speaker 3: cut her hair the way I cut mine. Oh if

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Speaker 3: I put highlights in my hair. A month later she

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Speaker 3: puts highlights in her hair too, date my ex et cetera.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she's going in. She's stealing your identity

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Speaker 1: at this point.

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Speaker 4: No, she's just inspired.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 4: She's looking at her older sister or sister or whatever,

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Speaker 4: and She's like, I want to be here, just literally

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Speaker 4: I want to be here, literally, I want to be her.

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Speaker 4: Does your brothers have your brothers done that with you? Riley?

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Speaker 4: Like you haven't inspired them?

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Speaker 3: Like, uh well one of them wants curly hair now, Saire,

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Speaker 3: the one we're speaking out Sawyer, he wants curly hair.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: I feel like this is kind of like a sibling thing.

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Speaker 4: Other until he got to the ex part, until I

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Speaker 4: got to it's going a little too fas too far,

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Speaker 4: but like, I feel like siblings. I saw that, And

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Speaker 4: with my friends who had siblings, they're like, oh, I

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Speaker 4: want to copy you know what you have?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that. I think as long as like

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Speaker 1: she's being nice. If she's like excluding her but then

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Speaker 1: also copying her, then it's like what, yeah, what's happening?

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Speaker 3: You know what? I mean? What my brothers got with

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Speaker 3: my ex, I'd just be like, bro, what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Come on?

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Speaker 1: You're like we already figured out that that doesn't work out.

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Speaker 3: Come on.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, Angie's.

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Speaker 1: Mom have fun kids. Oh hi mom, that's so fun

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Speaker 1: MYI mom? Thank you so much? As so sweet and

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Speaker 1: so your money decided or donated twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Dollars well, let's go. I think I may know who

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Speaker 3: that somebody is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah who.

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Speaker 3: My dad? Yeah so much? Could have said that.

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Speaker 1: Well, if it is, then that would be really sweet,

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. And if it's just some random

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Speaker 1: person saying that you're Angie's mom, that's cool too. That

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Speaker 1: would be really funny. Either way, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can say I can't say your last name. Okay, cool,

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Speaker 3: thanks Angie's mom. Yeah all right. Fast forward to.

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Speaker 4: Say missus Angie or like missus Angie's mom.

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Speaker 3: Yes, thank you. Fast forward to when we both went

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Speaker 3: to the same college and I went out on a

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Speaker 3: couple of dates with this guy before we ended up

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Speaker 3: high fiving and going separate ways because we just weren't compatible.

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Speaker 3: I found out a couple of months later from a

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Speaker 3: third party that my sister was now full on dating

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Speaker 3: this guy and has been since he and I parted ways.

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Speaker 3: She was in the bushes, Hey you want to you

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Speaker 3: want to go back to my place? Follow me?

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Speaker 1: I think that's exactly how it went down.

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Speaker 3: Same She and I lived in the dorm room next

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Speaker 3: to each other and saw each other every day, and

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Speaker 3: she never mentioned it. I don't think she had to,

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Speaker 3: because you were gonna find out anyways.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some way or another.

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Speaker 3: I confronted her and she said she didn't want to

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Speaker 3: upset me, to which my reply was, I didn't even

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Speaker 3: like the guy. The only thing that's upsetting is that

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Speaker 3: that the only thing that is upsetting is that my

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Speaker 3: sister would hide it from me. They got married two

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Speaker 3: years later, but not before I let her know that

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Speaker 3: her fiance was a complete womanizer. To that, she called

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Speaker 3: me a liar and said I was just jealous?

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Speaker 2: What what?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 1: Not only did she like date her ex, but she

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Speaker 1: married them too, Oh my.

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Speaker 3: Gosh, just to just to give them a little stab.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy. My thought is, op, whenever you give someone

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Speaker 3: else and that doesn't work out, what is she gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's can divorce and try again, following your footsteps.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe we'll get an update.

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Speaker 3: Someday we're like maybe a fifth through.

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Speaker 1: Let's let's keep going. Then probably it could happen. It

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Speaker 1: was her Yay, thanks mom, that's so sweet.

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Speaker 3: Fast forward to seven years of their marriage and she

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Speaker 3: found out that he had cheated on her hundreds of times,

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Speaker 3: pretty much their own marriage.

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Speaker 1: If only someone had warned her.

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Speaker 3: She completely changes the way. Oh, she completely changes the

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Speaker 3: way she was after that, no longer a self righteous

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Speaker 3: budget you know it all, and we became best friends.

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Speaker 3: She stays with the husband though during this time I

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Speaker 3: broke up with them.

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Speaker 4: Wait wait wait wait, why did you say like she

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Speaker 4: stays with the husband though? Like when what she stays

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Speaker 4: with the husband?

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Speaker 3: Probably probably after.

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Speaker 4: She Oh, because you don't worry. You lost a husband,

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Speaker 4: but you still have them, But now you gained your

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Speaker 4: sister back, I love.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well this is one of her own. We'll see,

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Speaker 3: we'll see. We know they got their hair.

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Speaker 1: You know, things are complicated. If someone's not being treated

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Speaker 1: well and they stay, it's usually a little bit more

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Speaker 1: going on though too. Yeah, so so her hearts are

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Speaker 1: going out to you. Yeah, true to your sister, I guess.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, during this time, I broke up with a boyfriend

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Speaker 3: of a year and a half whose family and him

660
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Speaker 3: com commenced commenced to dragging my name through the mud

661
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 3: on social media, calling me all sorts of horrible things,

662
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: such as about or I broke up with him because

663
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 3: he barely worked, play video games ten hours a day

664
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 3: and forgot birthdays and was a virgin when he and

665
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 3: I started dating.

666
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 4: Why is that like a big thing.

667
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 3: That's the worst thing about him.

668
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 4: He just didn't know what he's doing.

669
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: You had no idea. That's okay, I don't know. That

670
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 3: was a bad joke. Anyways.

671
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 5: I found out a year later that my sister, who

672
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 5: is a relator, my mom's here. I was like, no,

673
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 5: your audience, my and maybe of course every time I try.

674
00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 3: To say something wild and here here, Well, I guess

675
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 3: we can be here for longer.

676
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 1: But holy cow, oh my goodness, thank you so much

677
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: with you just gave everyone more time.

678
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 3: That was such a gift. Yeah, but anyway, what happens next? Anyways,

679
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 3: the comment okay, people back me up bad in bed?

680
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 3: This is ugg, says O gikorra woor. Yeah, this's crazy.

681
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 3: I found out a year later that my sister, who

682
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 3: is now a relator, has not only kept in touch

683
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 3: with him and stayed his friend X, but has even

684
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 3: shown and sold a house to him and his new girlfriend. Yes,

685
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 3: she knew the verbal abuse about him and his family

686
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 3: put me through. When I broke up with him, I

687
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 3: just felt like it was a stab in the back,

688
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 3: seeing as I would have zero relations or conversations with

689
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 3: anybody that treated my sister that way, making a cell

690
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 3: is not more important than family, though in my opinion,

691
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 3: I mean, get the bag, Get the bag, you know.

692
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 3: Fast fool A few more years and I'm married and

693
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 3: pregnant with my first born.

694
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: Congratulations. That's so exciting.

695
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 3: Well, you're still close, as her new personality has stuck

696
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 3: thus far. She is my duela.

697
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: Uh, your doula is it's something that like assists with

698
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: the birth.

699
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 3: Oh, she's my doula for the birth of my firstborn

700
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 3: and a great auntie for the next couple of years.

701
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 3: She slowly becomes herself, a righteous, stuck up self again.

702
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 3: Now here's where it all goes to sheet for rills.

703
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: No boy.

704
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 3: Fast forward two more years and I'm pregnant.

705
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: With my second Congratulations.

706
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 3: As soon as I get pregnant, she and I make

707
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 3: a plan that she's going to be my doula again

708
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 3: for this birth as well, which she acts over the

709
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 3: moon about great so far. At eight months pregnant, our

710
00:34:56,040 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 3: brother forty informs me that she's planning on going out

711
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 3: of town November first. I am due October twenty eighth,

712
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 3: What but like a baby's out.

713
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 1: Though, you know, yeah, She's like, well, that's your duday,

714
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: that's when the baby's gotta be born, or else you

715
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: get a bad grade.

716
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 4: In school or something, right like you get a C plus.

717
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: You can't. You can't have the baby late. That's that's

718
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: not how it works.

719
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 3: Where were you expected to be born?

720
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 6: Oh?

721
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes in October? I think I was early.

722
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 3: You're early, mom, Let me know.

723
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: I want to know in the chest in the chat

724
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: I was supposed to be at. No, Actually I was

725
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 1: a sea section. Oh it was like planned orso in.

726
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 4: But I thought I was like, oh, you're srian. Let's go.

727
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were what sea stood for?

728
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 3: We all were you were playing that's nice. No, I wasn't.

729
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 4: I wasn't.

730
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 3: The delivery was playing oh gotcha, gotcha. But I was

731
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: supposed to be born on the seventeenth, but it took

732
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 3: till the twenty third before I came around. So this

733
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 3: is like, if you go by that, dude, she's gonna

734
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 3: be she may only be there.

735
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 4: God, you guys want to hear something crazy? What I

736
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 4: was also a C section? But I was born a

737
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 4: month early.

738
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 1: A month early.

739
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're you okay, Look where I'm at now?

740
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 3: Look at me now?

741
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: Not so sure? Anymore extra month?

742
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 3: Man?

743
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, but that that would have been on July fourth,

744
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 4: and that would have been not fun.

745
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: Oh, I have a friend that's born on July fourth.

746
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 1: We make it work.

747
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 4: America celebrates your friend.

748
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: I guess exactly fireworks are for her.

749
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 3: She gets angry at him and says she didn't want

750
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 3: me to find out because her entire trip was able

751
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 3: to be rescheduled without paying fees, and if I had

752
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 3: her treat was able or wasn't able, not sure was

753
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 3: able to be rescheduled without paying fees, and if I

754
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,720
Speaker 3: had a given birth by the time her trip rolled around,

755
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 3: she'd simply pushed the trip out. She also said that

756
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 3: she doesn't really want to go in on it anyway

757
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 3: because it's hurt with her cheating husband that she barely likes,

758
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 3: so I don't worry about it. Oh boy, I'm confused

759
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 3: by this.

760
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:08,359
Speaker 4: Now.

761
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 3: It's my du date and I get a message from

762
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 3: my sister asking if I'm in labor yet. I tell

763
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 3: her no. But then my doctor has scheduled me to

764
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 3: be induced on November three, literally a couple of hours

765
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 3: before she messaged me.

766
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: Oh wow.

767
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 3: She then commences commences. She didn't commences me to get

768
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 3: super ups. She then commences to get super upset and

769
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 3: telling me that I am South Salfish for scheduling my induction. Yeah, induction,

770
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 3: got induction in the middle of her vacation. What can

771
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 3: it not wait? Can maybe not wait? Like hold it in?

772
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: Just like.

773
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 3: Like, come on, Tampa.

774
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: She doesn't know how birth works work.

775
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: Really, I thought the tampon's keep the babies in.

776
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 4: No, you put in your nose.

777
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 3: You puck your nose in your nose. They're like, you

778
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 3: put it on, you put it in and it keeps

779
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 3: a baby and so it does come out.

780
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, no one gets that reference. Are you guys too

781
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 4: young for that?

782
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: Oh you put the tampon in your nose?

783
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 3: Yeah?

784
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: Oh I know what she's the man. Yeah nosebleeds.

785
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, it's for nosebleeds. Do you like do you

786
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 3: like cheese?

787
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: I don't know that one. I actually didn't watch the

788
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: whole movie anyways.

789
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 3: Anyway, come on, come on, come on, come on, hold.

790
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: Babies in need.

791
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 4: Sorry, someone has the one that gets off the rails

792
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 4: here to code.

793
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:41,240
Speaker 3: Let excuse me for not taking your vacation you planned

794
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 3: a month ago. Into consideration, I've only been pagnant for

795
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 3: almost ten months. I told her. I didn't understand what

796
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 3: the problem was, since she said she could reschedule her

797
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 3: trip and that it wasn't fair for her to act

798
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 3: like I was the bad guy for not having a

799
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 3: baby on time. She asked me to change, to which

800
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 3: I say no, because I will literally have to wait

801
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 3: an extra week, which would make it also yeah.

802
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: And so uncomfortable too, like I've done so many, so many.

803
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: I've known one pregnant person that that had like right

804
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 1: around when you're like gonna have the kid. It's like,

805
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: are you like just get out already, because like that

806
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: is so painful to be like ready to pop and

807
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,800
Speaker 1: just have to wait a week when you don't just

808
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: because your sister sister, Yeah, just because your sister's on vacation.

809
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,399
Speaker 3: Come on, come on, come on, come on. We both

810
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 3: called my mother to Vince, who simply tells me to

811
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 3: get over it because she's my sister. The same thing

812
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 3: she has always low contact, no contact.

813
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 1: What are we doing here, I'm gonna say low contact.

814
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go ahead and do elsie and then uh,

815
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 4: and see you want to do no es.

816
00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 3: ELSIE stands for low contact and NC stands for no contact.

817
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 3: Or you can put like one low to no anyways,

818
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 3: whatever you want to do, keon and cheers.

819
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: Got it?

820
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 4: There you go.

821
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 3: Me, Well, right now, I know that she is becoming

822
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 3: more self righteous because OPI already said it, because she's

823
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 3: at the end of the story. If I saw my

824
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 3: sister being a horrible person and then she's nice for

825
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 3: a couple of years, but she's kind of acting a

826
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 3: little bit weird. Yeah, probably go low contact right now.

827
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: Low contact.

828
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 4: Yeah.

829
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: I don't think it's enough to like cut it off

830
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,720
Speaker 1: completely yet. Yeah, but definitely distance yourself.

831
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 3: You need to be around because you're, like, you're seeing

832
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 3: some stuff she did at childhood and you're probably like,

833
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 3: h but I still want to give her a chance.

834
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be like, yo, what's up. Hey, but

835
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 3: if she texts me, I'll respond.

836
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: Right like, you don't need to be putting in the effort,

837
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: but you can like react when she does.

838
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, But if we're if we had the

839
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 3: full context like we do now, I would go no contact.

840
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, because like she said that, she's going back

841
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 3: to herself, right, So yeah.

842
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, dang, well, we'll ask again at the end of

843
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: the story about that.

844
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 3: A year later and it's close to Thanksgiving time, and

845
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 3: I find out two weeks before Thanksgiving that she and

846
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 3: my mom have planned it for the entire family, not

847
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 3: including me, who's also a woman of the family and

848
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 3: a mother in the plan making. They said they were

849
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 3: simply going to pick up cracker barrel.

850
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: It's censored.

851
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 3: Yeah I know, yeah, yeah, And I would know that

852
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 3: plan when I showed up for Thanksgiving dinner with my

853
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 3: homemade dishes, to which I said, since I wasn't involved

854
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 3: in this plan making, me and my husband and children

855
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,399
Speaker 3: would not be participating in the family Thanksgiving this year.

856
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 3: I will say, coming from where I come from, you

857
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 3: don't plan this out. It is a big thing because

858
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 3: the dish in a way resembles the family.

859
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: Interesting the whole dish are everyone's individual dishes.

860
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 3: I think everyone's individual dishes. It's sort of like our

861
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 3: family brought the pumpkin pie and the pumpkin pie is like, yo,

862
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 3: you've had my mom's pumpkin pie.

863
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: Well, not pumpkin pie, but the pumpkin cake.

864
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, the pumpkin Oh yeah, oh no, the pumpey cake,

865
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 3: but the pumpy cop Like.

866
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've had it. It's so good.

867
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, so good. And then when you think the Wilson's,

868
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 3: you think that and you're like, oh my gosh, they

869
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 3: know how to cook.

870
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get you. It's like it's like representing your

871
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: your tribe, your family.

872
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 3: That's kind of how we go about it.

873
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 1: Sounds great. No one will tell you that, but but

874
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 1: it's like the silent rule.

875
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. We made other plans and went through

876
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:38,240
Speaker 3: social media. On Tea Giving, I find out they actually

877
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 3: were now having a full fledged everything homemade Thanksgiving on

878
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,839
Speaker 3: my sister's farm. They didn't go by, they didn't swing

879
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 3: by Cracker Barrel, They just did it all themselves.

880
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: What without telling Op?

881
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 3: Without telling? They lied to her.

882
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: They set her on a wild goose chase and they

883
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 1: stood her up. They stood her up for Thanksgiving dinner.

884
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 3: Shouldn't go to crack Bro Nobody want to?

885
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: Oh well, well no, I'm just imagining, like if OPI

886
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: went to cocker Bail to meet them and then no

887
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: one's there. Can you imagine that would be rough? I

888
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,320
Speaker 1: don't know if that's exactly what happened, but yeah, at.

889
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 3: This point my feelings are more hurt than ever. Yeah,

890
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 3: is not only I am not seen as a matron

891
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 3: of the family, I'm not treated as one either. We

892
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 3: have barely spoken or seen each other since now my

893
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 3: birthday was a month ago, and since my oldest was born,

894
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 3: I have said how I want to take him to

895
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 3: NASA to do their field trip for my children. My

896
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 3: entire family knows this as I talk about it constantly.

897
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 3: A week after my birthday, which my sister didn't even

898
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 3: say happy birthday to me on I find out through

899
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 3: think through Facebook that she took her children and my

900
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 3: parents for the day to a mass trip that I

901
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 3: have been saying for a couple of years now that

902
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 3: I want to do for disrespect. Ye yeah, yeah, they do.

903
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 3: They do the trip. They do the trip that she's like,

904
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take my kids on without her. She goes

905
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 3: to NASA. Wow, that was a NASA and I heard

906
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 3: about this, I'd be like, hey, we got new rocket

907
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 3: we're testing out.

908
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 1: On listen not about idea, not about idea.

909
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh man, I don't even know how to put

910
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 3: my feelings into words. Not only did she exclude me

911
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,720
Speaker 3: purposely from it when she knows I've been really wanting

912
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:30,879
Speaker 3: to do it, but she invited and drove my parents there,

913
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 3: who didn't have the decency to tell her to tell

914
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 3: me or to reach out to me themselves and let

915
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 3: me know.

916
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: So everyone is just like neglecting and forgetting her.

917
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 3: Oh this is crazy. I've been treated as a secondary

918
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 3: family member by my mother, my sister, and even my

919
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 3: maternal grandmother, my entire lives. At this point I went

920
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 3: to pretty much cut them off completely. She made a

921
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 3: huge announcement to the family and extended in fail family

922
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 3: last week through group text messages that she was having

923
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 3: Thanksgiving at her farm again this year. I made a

924
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 3: point to say that she had already discussed the plans

925
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,959
Speaker 3: with a few of the women in the family. Guess

926
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:17,839
Speaker 3: who wasn't talked to. Oh, p, I'm so sorry when

927
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 3: I don't respond to it. She texts me and asked

928
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 3: if I'm coming because I planned it for you.

929
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: Basically it's a really good impression. Oh my god, that's

930
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: so sad. Like, like, of course, in general things, it's

931
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: nice for someone to plan things for you, but like

932
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: when it's something that everyone else is being included in

933
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: the planning, it's like, well, why are you planning it

934
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: for me?

935
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 3: Nicole age? Why does she hate you? I am wondering.

936
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: That's what's going through my head too?

937
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 1: Literally, the Kimberly finds us the one problem jay Z

938
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: didn't have.

939
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, great, aceh makes it. Ace makes it, says no

940
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 3: contact for the parents too. They enable and even encourage it.

941
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 3: This is so crazy that it is.

942
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 1: So upsetting that this has been the way it is

943
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 1: is like her entire life.

944
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like you might need to make a

945
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 3: new family. Yeah, hopefully the husband's side of the family's

946
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 3: all right. Yeah hopefully, because you know, if a basically planet,

947
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 3: because you know, the last time she commemorated Thanksgiving plans

948
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 3: and then include me in the planning, it worked out

949
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: so well. I simply told her I wasn't if. I

950
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 3: simply told her I wasn't sure if we'd be able

951
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 3: to make it. I don't want to go, but I

952
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,760
Speaker 3: kind of feel like I need to for my oldest

953
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 3: who loves her and his cousins dearly and never gets

954
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 3: to see them. Our family is so tiny, we don't

955
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 3: have many She makes no attempt to see us or

956
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 3: even call or text us and see how we're doing.

957
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 3: She takes their daughters to dance class every week, about

958
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 3: two miles from my home and never tries to see

959
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 3: me or my kids before or after that, never tries

960
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 3: to plan play dates, never includes me in the bonfires

961
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 3: that she does at her house and advise my parents

962
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 3: and my brother and his wife. But then she will

963
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 3: send me these ridiculous reels on Instagram about my sister

964
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 3: is my best friend, my rock, the person I can

965
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 3: tell anything to. Blah blah blah blah blah. What a

966
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 3: load of crap.

967
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,720
Speaker 1: What that's so weird?

968
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 4: Do we call her out?

969
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 1: Like you can't?

970
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 3: You can't because the family is encouraging this.

971
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 4: I would call her out. I don't care if the

972
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 4: family's this is like if you're you're kind of patriotizing

973
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 4: me at this point where like all this crap on Instagram, like,

974
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 4: oh my best friend is my sister? Oh my god,

975
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 4: you dove and you were I'm not even hanging out.

976
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 3: It is two face but her whole life. Anytime to

977
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 3: get in an argument, Oh, be just shut up.

978
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: You're fine, yeah, be quiet.

979
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 4: I mean you have you kind of have the facts.

980
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 4: You're like, oh, you had a on fire literally last night.

981
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 4: Talking to me about it.

982
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 1: Having a conversation would be great, being like hey, like

983
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,919
Speaker 1: I would love to contribute to Thanksgiving and like, why

984
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: were you Why did you tell me it was gonna

985
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: be here when it was actually over there?

986
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, what are you doing?

987
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 3: Op? What you can do, because you're one of our

988
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 3: family members, is we can get on the phone with

989
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 3: her and tell her ourselves. We actually could do that.

990
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 3: We could.

991
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: That would be really crazy, but we can bring it

992
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: up in a nice way. I think that's a very

993
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: nice way to bring it up at first.

994
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 4: No, No, it's it'd be good.

995
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: The phone with this girl, because no, we we could

996
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: be nice at first, and then if she starts.

997
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 4: Being mean, then we could be like, he'suna a good cup.

998
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 3: Like, hey, we just.

999
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: If you guys are going to fight her off the bat.

1000
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 4: We're both the bad cuts.

1001
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Yeah, I'll try.

1002
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 3: Anyways.

1003
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 4: I just meant uh audience.

1004
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:05,240
Speaker 3: By the way, No, not like that. I'man like you know, whenever,

1005
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 3: don't stop it just stop it just that not that

1006
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 3: kind of white kean.

1007
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 4: I didn't say anything. I just had wrong audience.

1008
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 3: Anyways. By the way, you can listen to full episodes

1009
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 3: of stories just like this. Just go to Spotify, Apple

1010
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 3: Podcasts or your podcast app whispers. Okay, so time search

1011
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 3: and we have a little bit more diving in head first.

1012
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 3: So I don't know, I just need to completely cut

1013
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 3: her out of my life.

1014
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:35,760
Speaker 1: Dang man. I think definitely have a conversation first. Definitely

1015
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: talk to her about it. Be like, hey, like this

1016
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 1: is really upsetting me, Like if you don't want me around,

1017
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: I can go like that's something I'm considering. Yeah, but

1018
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 1: but yeah, I just be like, this is already my

1019
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 1: feelings not to go.

1020
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 3: To Thanksgiving even though my cousins and their children will

1021
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 3: all be there. Or do I need to unload all

1022
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 3: of this on her?

1023
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 4: Wait, so where's the first of the family in this.

1024
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 4: So I'm sorry you're.

1025
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 3: My family does not communicate. My family does not do

1026
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 3: communication well. If you tell my sister or my parents

1027
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,760
Speaker 3: that they have wronged you in any way, they pretty

1028
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 3: much just tell you to get over it. Wait, just

1029
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 3: click on it. No, No you can't, you can, No,

1030
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 3: that's not it.

1031
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 1: Just just wave over like you did for me.

1032
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 3: No, oh my god, oh my gosh, that's not no, Ezekiel. Anyways,

1033
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 3: my head does not go to those places. By the way,

1034
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 3: y'all all right, my family does not do communication well.

1035
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 3: If you tell my sister or my parents that they

1036
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 3: have wronged you anyway, they pretty much tell you to

1037
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 3: get over it. They never apologize or try to right

1038
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 3: the wrongs obviously, so I feel like I'm letting her

1039
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 3: know what a crap sister she is. Would be a

1040
00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 3: waste of time and emotion when it fixed our relationship,

1041
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 3: when it fix her personality, and it wouldn't fix our family. Sorry,

1042
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 3: this is long, but it's been my entire life and

1043
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 3: I'm over it. Thanks for reading. I guess it's just

1044
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 3: kind of what I just kind of want a third

1045
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 3: party on boy his opinion, but whether I should drop

1046
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 3: her completely or let her have it verbally, here's what

1047
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,839
Speaker 3: we do. What happened last time that made her become

1048
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 3: a better person. Ex husband was a horrible person, So

1049
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 3: what are we gonna do this time?

1050
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 4: We're not bringing the next husband to make.

1051
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 3: Her current husband also a horrible person, so then she

1052
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 3: can blossom into a beautiful butterfly of a person for

1053
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 3: maybe three more years.

1054
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 4: I don't think that's fixing the problem. Okay, what's the problem.

1055
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 4: The main problem here is her, not the I mean,

1056
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 4: the problems are bad, the husbands are bad, but she's

1057
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 4: also the main problem here.

1058
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: Just like put her through some trauma to realize that, Like,

1059
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: it's you gotta be good in this.

1060
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,280
Speaker 4: To get good, you know, give.

1061
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: Her some person that dude, I don't know. I think

1062
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: just talk to her. It feels like, I mean, I

1063
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: don't know if we've if she mentioned talking to her, right,

1064
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: she didn't say anything about.

1065
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 3: You, she said it would be a waste of time

1066
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 3: if she did.

1067
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: I say, give it a shot. I understand, because I

1068
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 1: mean if you're deciding that you're like okay with no

1069
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: contact already, then it's like, might as well.

1070
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 4: Did you put it out there? Yeah, as long as

1071
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 4: you put it out there, then it's like all right,

1072
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 4: it's it's it's the ball is in your court. Do

1073
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 4: whatever you want. I'm done.

1074
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 3: OPI is like a non confrontational person here. Sure every time, yes,

1075
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,319
Speaker 3: she has tried to say something, it probably has never worked.

1076
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1077
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 4: What I what I was saying earlier when I was

1078
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 4: being so rude to Riley trying to cut them off,

1079
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 4: is where the hell is the rest of this family? Like,

1080
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 4: where's no one standing up for her? Whatsoever? Cousins? I

1081
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 4: get the parents are enabling the sister, but like.

1082
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 3: Still, where is he showing up?

1083
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 4: Yeah? No one? It seems like no one has reached

1084
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,879
Speaker 4: out to OP about any of this. Yeah, that's what's

1085
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 4: like noticing it.

1086
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 3: No, they are, but they just say be quiet, stop

1087
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 3: bickering every time. That's what she's saying.

1088
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you're not children anymore. You're adults.

1089
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 3: But if they do that as their children, just shut up,

1090
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 3: be quiet, and that's all they know as parents to do,

1091
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 3: they're gonna keep doing it when they grow up.

1092
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I don't know. I still think it's

1093
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: worth the shot.

1094
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 3: Op.

1095
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: I think that's a very crappy situation, and I'm very

1096
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 1: sorry that is so uncomfortable like that that they're all

1097
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: putting you in this situation. Maybe go to her house

1098
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: if you need to be, Like, we're gonna have this

1099
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: conversation one way or another. We're gonna talk about this.

1100
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: You don't have to go in fighting, actually, like you

1101
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: really don't. I think you can just be like, Hey,

1102
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: I miss you and I miss hanging out with everyone. Yeah,

1103
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 1: what's the big idea, what's the big idea going on here? Yeah,

1104
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: they'll teach you a valuable lesson about standing up for yourself,

1105
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: stand up to bullying.

1106
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, and that's the end of that story. Yeah,

1107
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 3: do we have any donations? We have one, let's read them.

1108
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 4: I have a Dakota. All right, return.

1109
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 3: Again. Thank you for the one hundred. Bruno's so much.

1110
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:16,800
Speaker 3: Every from the Swamp I don't think so.

1111
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: I think all the green ones are the ones we've read.

1112
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't read it every from Swamps. Thanks for

1113
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 3: the five bucks. This is why Keon is my bestie?

1114
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,240
Speaker 3: Do you like cheese? My favorites?

1115
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,439
Speaker 4: She's the man? Such a good movie.

1116
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 3: Ah, somebody's donated five bucks, Riley. Does Angel know about

1117
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 3: the recent purchases? Okay, as teammate?

1118
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 1: Is that your website?

1119
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 3: Maybe?

1120
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 1: I I think if that's it, then I am aware.

1121
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's aware. I'm aware, and I was really you

1122
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 3: know what the best thing about it is she knows

1123
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 3: about it but didn't ask me questions?

1124
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: Well, I well the question I did ask? Is it

1125
00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 1: a corn side?

1126
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, I was like, just what are you guys

1127
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 4: talking about?

1128
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 3: Does you do not watch the stream? Keon? You're not

1129
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 3: watching them on the stream over here?

1130
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: The children?

1131
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 3: All right, everyone watch the stream the stream. If you

1132
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 3: go to the these two sides, drain your dad dot com?

1133
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 3: What sank sank that? Or go to spank your daddy

1134
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 3: dot com.

1135
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: My questions.

1136
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 3: We you cannot buy it as a domain because the okay,

1137
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 3: Storytime family has bought it, and what we are going

1138
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:39,879
Speaker 3: to do is sell paddles. So basically, what do you Okay,

1139
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 3: I'm not stating you. You guys know, Okay, everyone check

1140
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 3: dot com. I don't like that. Okay, okay, just wait,

1141
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 3: just wait, just wait. I don't know yet. I'm not

1142
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 3: done yet. No, you don't need to be. I guess

1143
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 3: what we're gonna do with the paddle.

1144
00:55:59,040 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 4: You know?

1145
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 3: No, yep, We're gonna paint his butt any color you want, No,

1146
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 3: pay some with it and send it right to you.

1147
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 4: What is this?

1148
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 3: We were read, Hey, we're making business.

1149
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: Because okay, Riley texted me. He's like he's like, just

1150
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: bought this site. And I was like, you didn't like

1151
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: and then he was like, it's our website.

1152
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 3: Does that mean I'm daddy, I'm daddy or dag a website? Yeah?

1153
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: So he texted me and I was like, he was like,

1154
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: it's our website. Because I was like, what is this?

1155
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: He was like, it's our website. And I was like,

1156
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,320
Speaker 1: I hope you don't mean you and me because what

1157
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: and then and then my next question was is it corn?

1158
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: And I was like, that would be so so unexpected.

1159
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 3: No, there's no but booty cheeks coming out. Sorry what

1160
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 3: were you saying?

1161
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 1: I mean, that's pretty much it. How much she so

1162
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: unexpected that you personally would buy that? And then my

1163
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 1: next I was like, okay, storytime did it?

1164
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:58,399
Speaker 3: Don't know why, but yeah, here as.

1165
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 7: Long as the commission on anything getting spaked with fifty Hey,

1166
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 7: you got to bring that up to the boys. Let's

1167
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:10,919
Speaker 7: just say we you get it's my cheeks. Well, let's

1168
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 7: just say you get a pay raise and you asked

1169
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 7: no questions.

1170
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, has some sort of HR issue?

1171
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, how much are that right?

1172
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 3: Take that up for the boys. We're actually gonna have this.

1173
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 3: Is I really want an answer? You can go through

1174
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 3: that door to the next door and get to Sam's.

1175
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 1: Sam in here.

1176
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 4: Wait wait, no, no, this is not even on any

1177
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 4: of you. Maybe on Riley and you're in the clear, Dakota.

1178
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 1: Is any clear?

1179
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 4: This is on you chat to chat you about this

1180
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 4: and it doesn't say anything to me.

1181
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 3: This is true. Our members did not say anything.

1182
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: Wow, wow, you're a conspirators.

1183
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 3: All of this this was on yesterday's stream on the

1184
00:57:51,680 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 3: members only stream yesterday. Yeah, so asked for cake. Well, okay, no, anyways,

1185
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 3: back to the donations. Wait what so what what are

1186
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 3: the links? I already said it, you know, is it

1187
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 3: already made? He's made on it.

1188
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: I clicked on it and said, like, the content isn't

1189
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: there yet?

1190
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 3: What are the links? First link or thing will probably

1191
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 3: be key on the butt right there with a paddle

1192
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 3: here there, we got a prototype. Can you hear that?

1193
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 3: Can you hear me that?

1194
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 4: No?

1195
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: I don't want Okay, this is a cutting board. It's

1196
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: a Connery board has cuts on it from this time yours.

1197
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 3: For nineteen ninety nine. I can you know how many

1198
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 3: Storytime members that's not our product we're gonna get. This

1199
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 3: is a prototype, I said, prototype.

1200
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: It's us streaks of.

1201
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 3: Nice times are getting paddles for me? Okay, okay, use, okay, okay,

1202
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 3: I'm getting haze. Do you know how many butts have

1203
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 3: been smacked with this thing?

1204
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 6: I know.

1205
00:58:55,440 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 3: It smacked three cutting but mine yours. I definitely have

1206
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 3: Sam's and I think John's once. It has not touched

1207
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 3: the graceful cheeks of Dakota yet and will never touch

1208
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 3: any of.

1209
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 4: The does chat want Dakota Chata Chata?

1210
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 3: Who's getting spanked? No, no, no, no, no, no, no no,

1211
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 3: no Dakota or Kean. No, I've been spanked. You can't

1212
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 3: spank me.

1213
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, we cannot.

1214
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 3: It's up to chat.

1215
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 4: It's up to chat. You know what we're gonna do

1216
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 4: to code Riley?

1217
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:38,720
Speaker 3: All right, do we want? Okay, Kimberly Halley going back

1218
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 3: to the dons. Thanks for the five bucks because I'm

1219
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 3: so proud of Riley's reading improvement. Thank you, Kimberly. Thank

1220
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 3: you miss buff.

1221
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: Using the chat for Riley. Put steaks in the chat.

1222
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 3: All right, pull us up. We've got another dono pulls up.

1223
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: No, everyone everyone says to.

1224
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 3: No God, put one. If you say two, no not me,

1225
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 3: please just press one. Okay. Anyways, scroll up.

1226
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 4: Checking here.

1227
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 3: Caitlin van Camping. Thanks for the two dollars. To be fair,

1228
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 3: I'll take a Dakota one.

1229
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: This is see Listen to you, guys. Maybe this is

1230
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: how we get all of our Yeah yeah, maybe democracy.

1231
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 3: I love this. I love you guys.

1232
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: Another one.

1233
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 4: I think we are.

1234
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 3: I worked too hard to get my cheeks spank. This

1235
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 3: is kind of crazy, and they.

1236
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: Don't work hard. They getting your cheek spanked wouldn't be

1237
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:40,919
Speaker 1: working hard.

1238
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 3: It is, but like I work all lot.

1239
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 4: This is crazy, dude.

1240
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 3: There was no internet. There was no internet like three

1241
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 3: hours ago. Now there is.

1242
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: Because of that notion.

1243
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 4: I'm giving it till three minutes.

1244
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 3: I'm giving Actually a two is in the chat I approve, guys,

1245
01:00:57,600 --> 01:00:58,040
Speaker 3: I'll give it to.

1246
01:00:58,720 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 4: I'll give it to two and a half minutes.

1247
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 3: Okay, there's only one? What God, no one chat? Your

1248
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 3: mom's here?

1249
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what?

1250
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 6: You what?

1251
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure her mom voted for you? Wait?

1252
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 4: What?

1253
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 3: Really? No way?

1254
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: No great question, great idea though? Who even bought the website? Between?

1255
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 3: Oh? Well, but Sam and I did it together and

1256
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 3: John was just like, why not?

1257
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: You guys are so silly.

1258
01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 3: I pulled the trigger. They were they were, and I

1259
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 3: was the.

1260
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,960
Speaker 1: Who's in the chat for that? Because whoever, whoever bought it,

1261
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: whoever chose to do it, came up with that idea

1262
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: should be the ones getting spanked.

1263
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 3: Someone just donated to spank Dakotas that should count for

1264
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 3: like five votes.

1265
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 1: Dang, why are people voting?

1266
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 4: This is crazy? I hope you realized. For the other pole,

1267
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 4: we got like sixty people were at a hundred people

1268
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 4: for this.

1269
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 3: If it's me, I would like to vote someone else

1270
01:01:58,240 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 3: in this room besides Kean.

1271
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: No, it's Zakona. No, my god, oh my god, it's

1272
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: it's fifty fifty. Yeah, yelly, I would I have.

1273
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 6: Nona's so much fun, isn't it.

1274
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 3: Guys? Please please okay one if you guys, okay, let

1275
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 3: me let me tell you why you should speak my cheeks.

1276
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 3: You spake my cheeks. This is what you're gonna hear.

1277
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 3: You spake Dakota's cheeks.

1278
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: It's an explosion.

1279
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 3: You're gonna hear the nuclear bomb.

1280
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 1: Alright, I voted? Oh my god, Riley's yeah, I'm going

1281
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 1: on my second account. Now what.

1282
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 6: Chat?

1283
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:49,959
Speaker 1: Yay?

1284
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 3: This is so the things I've done I helped make

1285
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 3: this pullpar.

1286
01:02:56,160 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 4: That's fine, but chat, this is democracy manifest.

1287
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 3: Why is this so many? I want to see how long?

1288
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 4: How many people?

1289
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 3: That's why everyone votes to wow? Wow, thanks babe, thanks babe.

1290
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 3: Let me see all of the twos you voted your

1291
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 3: you know you voted me.

1292
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 4: I didn't vote. I mean he's in bystandard that set

1293
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 4: this up because apparently how.

1294
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 3: Many okay again, not even one hundred and fifty people

1295
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 3: voted yet to the three hundred people that haven't voted, Please,

1296
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 3: for the love of God, press one and sit it

1297
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 3: in one. I know your children are sleeping. Will keep

1298
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 3: yelling until you press one. Please one.

1299
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: You would have saved your ear jesiest one.

1300
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 6: Thank you, Come on God, life yeo, I can yell too.

1301
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 6: Oh my God, say this is insane to me.

1302
01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 3: We have one hundred votes for I never vote in

1303
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 3: the time you decide to vote. There's a vote this.

1304
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,919
Speaker 3: I've never seen the vote bar ever. Get that high.

1305
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: Everyone vote to don't listen to Riley's voice.

1306
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:20,920
Speaker 3: Listen to my.

1307
01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 1: Vote to keep it up, Keep it up. We wanted

1308
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 1: to win by a landslide, no questions. Tell them to

1309
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 1: storm the studio.

1310
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 3: Storm the studio everyone. I know that it was ten

1311
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 3: days ago, the actual day, but today's the day we

1312
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 3: stormed the studio. We go after Dakota.

1313
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: No, but this is I mean, evidence is right here

1314
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 1: for you. We got all the votes. Everyone can count them.

1315
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Speaker 3: Then it's almost two hundred votes because of this.

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01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 4: This is insane.

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01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 3: Dude.

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01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,000
Speaker 1: Oh it's the end of the stream. I didn't even notice.

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Speaker 3: No way, we just broke a record by spanking. Yeah,

1320
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Speaker 3: all right, you still go subscribe. Wait wait wait, no

1321
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 3: you don't know, Angie.

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01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 4: Where is it? Where's the paddle? You get? You get,

1323
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 4: you get you get you get to do it right now? Yeah,

1324
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 4: I feel like someone else needs to do that.

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01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 3: I only feel comfortable.

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01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 4: You did you do that?

1327
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 3: Yeah it is. I don't want this. I don't want this. Dude.

1328
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 4: We're look at the boats.

1329
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 3: It's still going for you.

1330
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 4: Riley, she's stove.

1331
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 3: How do I do this? How do I do this?

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01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 1: We were doing? Oh footage of me spanking your butt

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01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 1: on here to bad no no no no, no to

1334
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 1: CoA loss he gets to he gets it.

1335
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 3: I was gonna spank his booty if he lost, it

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01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 3: was gonna be key on.

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01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: Okay, well like he no, someone else do it? Get

1338
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 1: salmon here, all right, spank his but t twenty five dollars,

1339
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 1: thank you so much? Witty? Oh oh oh one Sam

1340
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 1: wanted it. Two y'all need to create a campaign to

1341
01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 1: either be picked or not.

1342
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 7: And three spank cheeks banga bank them and then we

1343
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 7: call it all right, get over with all right?

1344
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 4: Get up? Yeah no no no, no, get on the ohet,

1345
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 4: get get on your camera, the camera. There we go, yeah,

1346
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 4: there we go. There we go, let me zoom it out.

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01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 3: Are getting ready?

1348
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: Is everyone ready? Is everyone ready for some Some one

1349
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Speaker 1: hundred and twenty eight votes backed up spanks cheese.

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01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:51,400
Speaker 3: O, Walmar No, yes, what more? All right, let's super suit. Whoa,

1351
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 3: that's aggressive?

1352
01:06:53,960 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 2: Do you?

1353
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 3: Let's do the car.

1354
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 4: We're doing the finish, all right, guys? Oh my god?

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01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:02,640
Speaker 1: Alright, what away?

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01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 3: I love I'm seeing it.

1357
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 4: I'm seeing it like slowly, like lagging in the actual video.

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01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 3: That is hilarious.

1359
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 4: So good wow, alright, good ah. Justice is served, Justice served.

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Speaker 3: If you love us, make sure to subscribe we love

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Speaker 3: you and see the lor