WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Recreate The Scene

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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update date. Man, we've been hearing from our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>especially in the last couple of years, that the dating

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<v Speaker 1>landscape is more bleak than ever.

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<v Speaker 2>But like this is the theme song for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, we know what I do. Appreciate the guys out

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<v Speaker 1>there who aren't backing down and aren't giving up. For sure,

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<v Speaker 1>it's tough for them to land a date, but when

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<v Speaker 1>they do, they get creative with it.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a dumpster diving dinner date.

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<v Speaker 2>We did have that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that was misguided effort but unique.

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<v Speaker 1>Or a blindfolded romantic trust walk across a freeway. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing brings you together like that type of experience.

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<v Speaker 2>You're very far apart. Depending on who gets.

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<v Speaker 1>Hit, well, it'll bring you together in the same hospital room.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of our listeners, Ben said he went creative

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<v Speaker 1>with his date idea and before we even hear it,

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<v Speaker 1>Brook's gonna give her sign of approval just for trying. Oh, Ted.

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<v Speaker 4>Whenever you ask for my approval before I hear something,

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<v Speaker 4>it's usually because something is not a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what the date is, so you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, then I think it's good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Ben.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I thought I was getting tricked by Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>That happens a lot on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't trust any man.

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<v Speaker 2>Ben, No, I just don't trust him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's true. We want to hear what was this

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<v Speaker 1>creative date idea that you came up with?

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<v Speaker 3>So in order to understand this date, you kind of

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<v Speaker 3>have to understand, like how we bonded. Okay, so Amanda

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<v Speaker 3>and I we met on an app and we bonded

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<v Speaker 3>over movies, like we both really love movies.

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<v Speaker 4>If you were about to say you took her to

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<v Speaker 4>the movie theater and that's a strange part, hang up

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<v Speaker 4>on him.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, so I had this idea that our first

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<v Speaker 3>date would be like a movie.

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<v Speaker 4>Theme a movie theme date, not going to the movies,

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<v Speaker 4>but movie theme.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, out about it. I wanted to have something to

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<v Speaker 3>be memorable, and so I thought, well, like maybe we

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<v Speaker 3>could I could pick a movie whe where we had

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<v Speaker 3>that experience in date for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, so you did Air Force one together and

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<v Speaker 1>hijack the plane.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fine. Yeah, well you know I was thinking like

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<v Speaker 3>date movies, but I like your ideas too, But what

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<v Speaker 3>did you go with I decided to do like different

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<v Speaker 3>movie scenes because I couldn't think of a whole movie

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<v Speaker 3>from start to finish make a good date.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so what'd you pick?

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<v Speaker 1>The recreating famous date movie scenes.

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<v Speaker 3>Like iconic scenes from movies like for example, the first

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<v Speaker 3>thing we did was we had a Shrek themed picnic in.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think that's a cute thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, Brook thinks a swamp date is cute as

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<v Speaker 1>long as.

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<v Speaker 2>She figures out the movie associated with it.

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<v Speaker 5>She got it.

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<v Speaker 2>She got it right away.

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<v Speaker 3>Well it helped. I was talking like Shrek too, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>doing my Shrek voice.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was next? What happened for the Shrek picnic?

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<v Speaker 3>They I wanted to do like an activity and it

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<v Speaker 3>was this pottery studio right around the corner from the pond.

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<v Speaker 4>Like Patrick Swayze, ghost is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Sexy pottery, That's exactly it. So we had the potter wheeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, hold on, did you die and come back as

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<v Speaker 1>a ghost? First? In order to do this problem?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I kept my shirt on.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't awkwardly go behind her? Did you die?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I did, but you know it's a weird or

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<v Speaker 3>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, what was her response.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think she said, are you really doing this?

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<v Speaker 3>I said, yeah, I mean, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you really doing this? As in like, wow, this

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<v Speaker 1>is impressive? Are you seriously going through this much effort?

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<v Speaker 4>Tone is going to be really important on that sentence,

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<v Speaker 4>and unfortunately we cannot ree.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to assume that she loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I thought she was. I thought she was into it.

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<v Speaker 3>She even said that Ghost was one of her favorite movie.

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<v Speaker 1>She did so, she told so, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Said to.

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<v Speaker 1>Take to the third and final love scene. What was

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<v Speaker 1>the movie you went with there?

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<v Speaker 3>So at the end, I had a couple of options choose,

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<v Speaker 3>so I told her, like, we could do the dirty

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<v Speaker 3>dancing lift.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, are you even physically capable of that?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I could take her?

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<v Speaker 4>I think, did you really leaning into these?

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<v Speaker 2>Patrick Swayzee?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah? What was the other option?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what?

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<v Speaker 3>What I thought would be really really cool special moment

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<v Speaker 3>is the upside down kiss from Spider Man. Wow, that

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<v Speaker 3>would be a perfect way to end off the team.

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<v Speaker 2>How would you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Pulled her upside down?

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<v Speaker 3>There was a tree out there with a branch there.

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<v Speaker 2>It is did you really hang upside down from a tree?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Which one did? She choose act.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't choose either one.

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<v Speaker 1>Of those, probably for the best.

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<v Speaker 3>What she recommended that we do the handshake scene from

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<v Speaker 3>Wolf of Wall Street.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I don't know, I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>In other words, she just gave me a handshake. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a very firm handshake.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. So is that how you guys left it?

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<v Speaker 1>With a firm handshake?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was it. And she thanked me for the dates.

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<v Speaker 3>That was really cool and thoughtful and uh, and I

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<v Speaker 3>told her I'd like to see her again, and she said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>let's see if we can make that happen.

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<v Speaker 1>We just went over a list of things that people

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<v Speaker 1>say that they don't really mean, and that was one

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<v Speaker 1>of the top ones.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody, Yeah, we'll totally get together. Have you contacted her?

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<v Speaker 3>I texted her and I messaged her in the app,

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<v Speaker 3>and I haven't heard from well, I haven't heard back

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<v Speaker 3>from her. And so that's why I was hoping that

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<v Speaker 3>you guys can help me hook up that Spider Man kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean you put in a lot of effort.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether or not we agree that they were great ideas

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<v Speaker 1>or not, us the effort alone is worth another shot.

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<v Speaker 1>You're even this He's on a radio show to get

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<v Speaker 1>her back should be a oh is that sleepless Sleepless

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<v Speaker 1>in Seattle? She calls into a radio show. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go full sleepless on this girl when your second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>I do kind of remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're going to hook you up on top of

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<v Speaker 1>the Empire State Building when we come.

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<v Speaker 2>At least the end is definitely Empire State Building. Make

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<v Speaker 2>a new movie. I mean, if you haven't seen it,

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<v Speaker 2>no Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave the room. We're gonna do a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after that second date update. Three romantic movie scenes

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<v Speaker 1>recreated in one very steamy.

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<v Speaker 2>Date because the pond next to them love.

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<v Speaker 1>Them moisture coming up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Our listener Ben bonded with a woman named Amanda over

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<v Speaker 1>their shared love of cinema, so he thought it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>fun to recreate the swamp picnic from the Shrek movie.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>The pottery scene from Ghost and after she rejected the

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<v Speaker 1>upside down spider Man kiss, they settled on a regular handshake.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, very business like Wolf of Wall Street.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right hot. Now, did something happen in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of all that stuff? Because those movie scenes sounded really great?

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<v Speaker 1>But Ben, I need to ask you when you were

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<v Speaker 1>reaching around her at the pottery place, you were feeling normal? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, Jeff what?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Brook?

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<v Speaker 1>You know how these go?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we had not asked that question, but.

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<v Speaker 1>You understand the physical reaction that pottery has on a man.

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<v Speaker 1>When you stick your hands into that clay. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>control what your body does. It does for me.

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<v Speaker 4>What happened in your art class in high school, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'll ask my art teacher to send you the

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<v Speaker 1>video if you're really that interests. Yes, Ben, it was

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<v Speaker 1>all kosher in the pottery place.

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<v Speaker 3>It just pottery.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's the best answer.

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<v Speaker 2>Pottery is really hard.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's difficult.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I've taken a pottery class before.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of us are feeling hot right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you not say anything?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get more people in on this action. Dialing Amanda

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<v Speaker 1>right now, here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to

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<v Speaker 1>speak with Amanda. Hey Amanda, my name is Jeff You're

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio right now with a show called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Amanda, Amanda, good morning, don't hang up.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Hi, you're pretty chill, She's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing a segment called a second date Update, which

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<v Speaker 1>is where we try and help out our listeners after

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<v Speaker 1>they've gone out with somebody and they'd like to see

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<v Speaker 1>them again, try and figure out if there's a reason

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<v Speaker 1>why the second meetup hasn't happened yet.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the guy that reached out to us about you,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Ben. Okay, yeah, does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 3>That does make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically we have heard from Ben about your guys

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<v Speaker 1>is recreate a movie date.

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<v Speaker 4>He put a lot of thought and energy into it

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<v Speaker 4>because he was really excited about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>So I don't know how many details he gave you.

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<v Speaker 5>A lot.

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<v Speaker 1>We heard Shrek Ghost and then you guys settled on

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<v Speaker 1>a Wolf of Wall Street thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, handshake at the end, which was your right

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<v Speaker 2>let me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, we keep the ghost pottery, which is.

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<v Speaker 3>Very like creative and cute, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I did like that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but he had told me that the last thing

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<v Speaker 6>was going to be a surprise, so she wasn't going

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<v Speaker 6>to like tell me until the end. And he kept

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<v Speaker 6>bringing up during the other dates, like you know, we

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<v Speaker 6>could stop this right now and just do pretty woman woman?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, he pays you for your services.

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<v Speaker 6>Where he's a businessman and she's a hooker.

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<v Speaker 4>He wanted to be the person who took you shopping.

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<v Speaker 4>That's probably what he meant.

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<v Speaker 1>A hook Yeah, she's very respectable in that movie.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean he wanted to kiss. They don't kiss a

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<v Speaker 4>pretty woman, even if.

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<v Speaker 6>Even if he did mean I want to take you shopping.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a strange thing for a first date. And like

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<v Speaker 6>it was already pretty elaborate, you guys, it was the

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<v Speaker 6>first date, Like I just met this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>So wait, you're upset that he brought up pretty woman

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<v Speaker 4>because that made you feel used?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what it is?

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<v Speaker 3>It just was a little ugi.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, his intentions didn't feel great, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Ogre Swamp Picnic felt right to you.

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<v Speaker 6>It multiple references to that, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I see what what you're feeling. Young people call

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<v Speaker 1>it the from Okay, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Very similar.

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<v Speaker 1>Before that when I don't want to like bring up

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<v Speaker 1>any more icky ugi feelings, but I do need to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that Ben is on the other line right now,

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this conversation, and he does want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Benny there, I am here, and let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel exactly like the guys from Dude, Where's My Car?

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<v Speaker 3>Right now?

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>You're hungover on your back, you're high?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I'm just totally confused, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, confused or something that you know, liked confused.

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<v Speaker 2>In the title.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you so confused?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I just had no idea, Like, so when I

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<v Speaker 5>suggested pretty Woman, I mean I was thinking about like

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<v Speaker 5>the romance element, you know, like the fact that these

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<v Speaker 5>two people like really hit it off and fell in love.

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<v Speaker 3>I forgot she was a prostitute. That's not why I

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<v Speaker 3>was bringing that up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's like the whole plot of the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>You could have chosen something better.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it definitely was not my intention. I was not

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<v Speaker 3>trying to imply that you were a prostitute in any way.

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<v Speaker 4>That it's always a good things.

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<v Speaker 2>Not try to imply that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I totally get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you hearing him, Amanda? Do you see where he's

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<v Speaker 1>coming from?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know how you forget that part.

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<v Speaker 1>Escort thing.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's kind of the key pot.

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, are you not believing him, Amanda? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>the issue?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess not Okay, well you got to look on

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<v Speaker 1>the bright side, Amand at least he didn't bring up

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<v Speaker 1>Silence of the Lambs. Yeah, thank you and turn you

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<v Speaker 1>into there was no les.

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<v Speaker 6>Nor skin like. There were no buckets involved in the date.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate. Okay, now we're thinking, we're thinking positive here.

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<v Speaker 3>I also kind of meant it as a compliment because

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<v Speaker 3>I think you are a pretty woman.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what a.

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<v Speaker 1>Lexus just said. She can hear what she's saying too,

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a little bit awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, A little yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But the way that we can make this all better

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<v Speaker 1>is if Amanda, you're willing to give Ben one more

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<v Speaker 1>chance at another date. You could pick any other movie

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<v Speaker 1>scene that you want to do, or just a non movie.

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<v Speaker 2>You could do a do over and do fifty first dates.

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<v Speaker 2>You know where he forgets every time, So.

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<v Speaker 1>We're fifty shades first.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, you guys are going to send us to

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<v Speaker 6>Hawaiian then I'm in, but I have the money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well we'll pay for the taxi to the airport.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you handle the rest. But Ben, do you have

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<v Speaker 1>another day idea? If she says yes, well does it

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<v Speaker 1>have to be movies?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Well I mean, that's how they bonded.

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<v Speaker 3>Movies are kind of our thing. I don't know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I'd really like to do like a basic instinct.

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<v Speaker 4>What but that's like a scary stalker, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>He meant it as like she's pretty, She's beautiful, beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure that.

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<v Speaker 1>This, Ben, I'm going to ask you again, maybe try

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<v Speaker 1>something different, maybe a little bit more romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>This time you started with Shreds.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, I'm cute. What movie do you have in mind

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<v Speaker 1>that second date, Bud, I'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Be honest, I keep thinking about this and how but

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how we could turn it into a date.

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<v Speaker 3>But my favorite movie is Pulp Fiction. It's a dance scene,

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<v Speaker 3>the swing dance scene, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Ben, I think Harry Potter Day, like, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Ben?

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<v Speaker 1>I think your heart is in the right place for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>but your mind is.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I just like a lot of movies.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like your mind is scaring.

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<v Speaker 2>Her though, Ben, so is she even on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Amanda, are you still there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure why.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Amanda, I'm sorry for all of this, but best

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<v Speaker 1>of luck in the dating pool. Ben you got a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of work to do. Yeah, man, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Go away from maybe coms dude, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I can try that. I guess. I am really

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<v Speaker 3>super disappointed, though. I did put a lot of work

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<v Speaker 3>into that, and that's that's I don't know if you remembers,

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<v Speaker 3>but my outfit at the picnic was very reminiscent of Shrek,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just, you know, I feel like I should

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<v Speaker 3>get credit. Then.

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<v Speaker 1>The good news is a lot of single women are

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<v Speaker 1>hearing this right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And running.

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<v Speaker 1>At least they heard it. Yeah, looking Jeffrey in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, that could have been a really sweet

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<v Speaker 1>second date, so close to rom com perfection, but he

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<v Speaker 1>ended up being weird. Yeah yeah, I mean it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>subtle like I see a slipping in movies there, But I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean, and she tried, she tried to like it, she

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<v Speaker 2>tried to get.

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<v Speaker 4>On with it, and then she's like, no, my gut

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<v Speaker 4>is telling me that something's something's off.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. I do believe there is a woman

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<v Speaker 1>out there somewhere right now thinking, when is a guy

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<v Speaker 1>finally going to treat me like a high priced I

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<v Speaker 1>deserve that. That's my dream.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm trying to relate a little more.

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