1 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: I've ever been laughed waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: Fred Show. MICHAELA, good morning, welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 2: How are you. 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, good morning. I'm good. Thank you guys 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 3: so much. You guys are like my favorite morning show. 6 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: Well, thank you, thank you for We love that especially 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: we love the compliments. To please with the compliments. What's 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: going on with this dude, Derek? Can you tell us 9 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: like how you met and about any days that you've 10 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: been on and then where things are now? 11 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, so we Derek and I met on the apps 12 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 3: and we had an amazing first date. 13 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 4: Like we hit it off, and I was honestly just 14 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:42,279 Speaker 4: over the moon finally meeting like a decent guy off 15 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 4: of those and he even reached out directly after our 16 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 4: date to play on the second one. And now out 17 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 4: of nowhere, it's radio silence. I haven't heard from him. 18 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: Wow. 19 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: Okay, So you look back on this date and I 20 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: always asked this question just to double check, but like 21 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: you really felt like everything went well. 22 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 2: There was good chemistry, good conversation. 23 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: I mean you said you were over the moon about this, Like, 24 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: I mean, you know you really thought this was going 25 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: someplace and I know it can be hard to find 26 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: that these days on the apps and trying to meet 27 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: people in the wild and whatever else. 28 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean honestly, like he wouldn't have reached out 29 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 3: to me after the date if it hadn't gone well 30 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 3: on his end. It's like, I don't know what I 31 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 3: did wrong between planning our next date and now. 32 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 2: That is a good point. Nothing changed, That is a 33 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:28,839 Speaker 2: good point. Yeah. 34 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: So, MICHAELA, We're gonna play one song, come back in 35 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: like two minutes. We're gonna play or excuse me, call 36 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: this guy Derek. We're gonna ask these questions for you. 37 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time, and 38 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: the hope is that we can straighten this out and 39 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date and pay for it. 40 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, thank you, Let's see what's going on. 41 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: Part two of waiting on the phone right after the 42 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: Eyelish Back in two minutes on the Freend Show, Don't 43 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: Move the Elish the fread Show song. 44 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: Good morning. 45 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: Thanks for having us on the radio and live on 46 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: the iHeart app or anytime search put a fred Show 47 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: on demand. Hey, Mikayla, Yeah, all right, let's call this 48 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: guy Derek. You all met on a dating app and 49 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: you really had a great experience with him. The date 50 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: was successful, you know, you described it as you were 51 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: over the moon to finally connect with someone from those things, 52 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 1: and you thought the chemistry was there. He reached out 53 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: after the dates, You're like, that's a good sign. We're 54 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: going to plan another one. And then the dude disappears, right, 55 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: and like. 56 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 4: I just want to know what happened? 57 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 2: Right? 58 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 3: Where'd he go? 59 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: Right? Right? Okay, Well, let's call him now and find out. 60 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 2: Good luck? Hello, Hi is this Derek? Yes, hey, Derek, 61 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: good morning. 62 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show, the 63 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: Morning Radio Show, and I have to tell you that 64 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now. I would need 65 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. 66 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 2: Is that okay? If we which aver just a second? 67 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's cool. 68 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you so much for calling on. Behalf 69 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: of a woman who met you on one of the 70 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: dating apps. I guess you recently went out. Her name 71 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: is Mikayla. Do you remember Michayla. 72 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I do remember Michaell okay, all right, Well, 73 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 5: she had a lot of things to say about you, 74 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 5: said that she enjoyed meeting you, and uh, and I 75 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 5: was hoping to see you again that you reached out 76 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 5: after the date to set up another date, and then 77 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 5: you disappeared. 78 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: So why did you disappear? 79 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 5: Listen, mckitnoth seeming really nice. I just I kind of 80 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 5: saw some red flags on her Instagram and uh yeah, 81 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 5: that's pretty much it. 82 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So you guys went out and that went well, 83 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: and then you looked her up on Instagram or followed 84 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: her or whatever, and then you saw some stuff. 85 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 2: What did you see? 86 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 4: Uh yeah, I don't know, just. 87 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 5: Just some things that, you know, just personal stuff that 88 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 5: kind of concern me. It's not she's a nice person. 89 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 5: I have nothing against her. I just you know, want 90 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 5: to but. 91 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: Noel, I mean, can you give us a little more 92 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: Because she was hoping to kind of put this to 93 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: rest or hopefully straighten it out and go out with 94 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: you again. 95 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:52,839 Speaker 2: It's like, what do you mean? 96 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 5: All right? Listen, this this may sound harsh, and I'm 97 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 5: not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but I am entitled 98 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 5: to my opinion. Do not want to date someone, So 99 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 5: if you guys really want to know, I saw that 100 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 5: Mikayla used to be quite a bit bigger, like a 101 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 5: lot bigger, And I'm not you know, while I'm happy 102 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 5: for her weight loss journey and whatever, I guess, I 103 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 5: just know that there's always a possibility that she could 104 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 5: go back to that. 105 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 2: Are you serious? 106 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 5: Well, you know, here's the thing. I'm looking for a 107 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 5: future and she could pass those genes on to my 108 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 5: future kids. And that's just something I don't I'm not 109 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 5: looking for. 110 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: I'm not. It's just the name. 111 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, we don't know. You don't 112 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: know enough about this person to know anything. Maybe she 113 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: gained some weight, lost the weight, and this is the 114 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: lifestyle she wants to live now, and that's the way 115 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: it's going to be. Like, who are you to say, 116 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: I have never heard of this before. You don't want 117 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: to date a skinny girl that used to be big. 118 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 5: But it's a matter of health issue and your family 119 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 5: planning and it's just one of those things like it's 120 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 5: concerned and yeah, I don't I'm I'm interested, but. 121 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: You're dealing with the person that you're dating now, like 122 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: the person in front of you. 123 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I have to have to think about the future. 124 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 5: You got to think about my kid's future. You got 125 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 5: to think about all that stuff. So yeah, I mean 126 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 5: it's it's kind of like if you look at the 127 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 5: person's mom and if their mom's ugly, that that's what 128 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 5: they're going to look like when they get older. 129 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 3: You. 130 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: Oh, you're not wrong there. Wait, he's actually not wrong 131 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 2: with that one. 132 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: Like wait, man, if a person's mom is unattractive, then 133 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: they're not going to be attractive. 134 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,239 Speaker 6: A lot of times we kind of look like our parents, 135 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 6: So he's not wrong in that aspect. But this is 136 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 6: the most shallow, disrespectful reason to not date someone that 137 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 6: I've ever heard of. Now, I'm just saying, if the 138 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 6: whole family ugly, you do. 139 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: But if the person that you're attracted to me seems ugly, 140 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,479 Speaker 1: then why are we not doing Why are we not 141 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 1: dealing with what's in front of us right now? Like 142 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: we all have stuff from our past that could disqualify. 143 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 3: As I mean, I got some crazy looking cousins, so 144 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 3: I don't know, man, But even like, even if it's 145 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 3: not your appearance, I mean, maybe you lived a certain 146 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 3: kind of life and you change. 147 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, right, I would like to see what you 148 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: look like, Derek, because. 149 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: You know, you better be hot as hell. Keeping it right, 150 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: it tight. 151 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: I forgot to mention dark that Kayla is here. You 152 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: used to be Mikayla. You were a bigger girl, and 153 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: now you're not. Yeah. 154 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 3: I worked really hard to get to where I am, 155 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: and I can't believe I'm being judged for who I 156 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 3: was in my past and not who I am now. 157 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 3: Like who I'm now is confident, and I'm proud of 158 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: this work I've done in the journey right that I've 159 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 3: taken to. 160 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 6: Be here is somebody so much better? 161 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: Girl. 162 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: You did not need to waste that time with this Moser. 163 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm honestly, I'm shocked, and I'm thankful I called 164 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 3: in because I did not expect this out of Derek. 165 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 2: So I think I know why you're sitt You're lost. 166 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 2: I mean, you're going to find something wrong with everybody, 167 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 2: aren't you. 168 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 5: Look, I just have my own preferences, That's all it is. 169 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 2: You know, why would the way his mother looked like though? 170 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 4: Because my preference to be not to. 171 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 2: Date a jerk. 172 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 4: So yeah, that's fine. 173 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 2: But well, I have tried to be nice. 174 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 5: I tried to not I listen, I just I stopped. 175 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 5: I said I wasn't interested. I didn't try to put this. 176 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 5: Put this out there for everybody that's. 177 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 4: You know, you didn't say that you weren't interested. The 178 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 4: reason we're here bond to me. 179 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 5: Well, take to hit next time. 180 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 6: You know, this guy is I got a lot of words. 181 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 2: Man. 182 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: Wow, all right, you know what, Mikayla, this is. This 183 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: is going to work out better for you now you 184 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: you've seen this guy's true colors. And and I'll be honest, 185 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: just the best kind of closure because now it's not 186 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: like you missed out. This guy kind of sounds like 187 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: a jack not kind of all right. Well, Derek, thanks 188 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: for answering. Good luck out of there man. Mikayla, good 189 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: luck to you as well, and congratulations on the transformation. 190 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 2: Keep at it, Thank you, thank you. 191 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: The entertainment reporting is next to Tiebreaker five and a 192 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: bunch of Shelly in the showdown Can you beater in 193 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: five questions? We'll play next the French shows on