WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Tough Mudder Love

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of to day. They always say, if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out looking for love, you'll never find it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's when you're not searching for it that's when love

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<v Speaker 1>sneaks up on you and uppercuts you right in the face.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the saying, right, I guess love punches you

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<v Speaker 1>in the face. That's what happened to one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Matt recently. He wasn't looking for anything serious and then

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<v Speaker 1>that's when he got curb stomped by love. That was

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<v Speaker 1>so violent? Is violent? How's your body doing? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I got bit by the love bug man. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a hard bite. Is this how you bros talk to

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<v Speaker 1>each other? I got a bad infection with the love bugs? Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. So, Matt, you know what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>But why don't you tell everybody who's the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to be calling to? What's her name? So?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Anna? Okay, where did you meet special Anna? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing a tough mutter, like a obstacle course

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<v Speaker 1>thing with some friends. And that's like the five K

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<v Speaker 1>right where they like run through mud. It's like an

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<v Speaker 1>obstacle course thingstacle course, and sometimes you have to like

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<v Speaker 1>army crawl. It's like freezing cold water. Yeah, it was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It was at I like to challenge myself. That's cool, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and how did you meet her doing it? So afterwards

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<v Speaker 1>they have like a party, like there's like a beer garden, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of started talking and she was cute. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, she's really cool. I mean I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just kind of want to hook up right

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<v Speaker 1>after the race. Aren't you like covered head to toe

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<v Speaker 1>in mud? And yeah, it's kind of sexy. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little sexy. Yeah, but like women are in sports bras

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<v Speaker 1>and tight bottle yeah. Yeah. So I was like I

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<v Speaker 1>got her number and then so you planned a date

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<v Speaker 1>for later not for that night? Yes, yeah, no, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't want to just jump into the mud pile

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<v Speaker 1>right there and just start rolling around two little piggies.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you make that so unattractive? We were going

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<v Speaker 1>to meet out for some drinks and okay, not really dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>but just kind of get to know each other, right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I'm looking just to you know, keep

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<v Speaker 1>it casual friends with benefits. Maybe, like I wasn't thinking

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<v Speaker 1>anything serious. Yeah, you're not like this is my next girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're like, yeah, no chance. So she showed up

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean my jaw hit the ground. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she was gorgeous, even more gorgeous than being covered head

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<v Speaker 1>to toe and mud. That's amazing. So then we started

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like our careers, and we talked about fitness

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of you know, we we had so much

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<v Speaker 1>in common. I was like, oh my god, this girl's

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<v Speaker 1>like perfect, you know, And I was like kind of like, holy,

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<v Speaker 1>are you getting more nervous as the date goes on? Then? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>because I you know, I kind of think I'm cool. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we just we seem to hit it off really well,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I blew it. I completely blow it. Blew it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you did something bad? Oh yeah, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Man? So the waitress came over to bring

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<v Speaker 1>us some drinks, and when she left, I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>watched her leave. You watched the waitress leave? Yeah? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you just always undressing women with your eyes? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the description of the mud party and then this,

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<v Speaker 1>so as as I watched her walk away, Anna watched

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<v Speaker 1>my eyes kind of follow her. Then she had to

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<v Speaker 1>go meet her friends. Yeah, joke, like I just have

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<v Speaker 1>to know what shoes she's wearing. And then she said

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<v Speaker 1>to me like, she's gonna walk down there. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me walk you, and she was just like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, I'm good, I said, I was. I was

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<v Speaker 1>so pissed. I mean, girls get mad. If you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>at your phone on a date, bro, imagine like literally

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<v Speaker 1>at another woman. It's like, oh my god, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a sign of like one disrespect and two you can't

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<v Speaker 1>like pay attention to me for one hour that went together.

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<v Speaker 1>But my mom looks so good in that dress, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, you have you owned up to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you apologize? No? I haven't talked to her? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>oh at all. You haven't reached out. Even no, I've

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<v Speaker 1>reached out. No one's gotten back to me. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that stood out, Brook. I think no matter what happens here,

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<v Speaker 1>if she picks up, you have to apologize. She may

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<v Speaker 1>never want to see again, but that's definitely something that

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<v Speaker 1>needs to happen. Well, she's not responding, so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think she wants to see me. Well that's what I'm hoping. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well let's keep hoping. I'm gonna play a song, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back, We'll call you stop looking at sorry, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we're gonna call Anna for you and we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you a second date out date. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, thank you? All right, hold on, okay, get over, Okay. Second,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't want it to happen, but he did. That

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that started in his pants ended up in his heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Times has that happened to guys out there? Hearts? You

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<v Speaker 1>need to write some wedding vowels if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>hire men. But one of our listeners, Matt met, a

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<v Speaker 1>woman named Anna, had a tough mutter relay. He ended

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<v Speaker 1>up asking around for a drink, just looking for friends

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<v Speaker 1>with benefits. But once she wiped that mud off her

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<v Speaker 1>face and started talking, he realized, oh my god, she's smart,

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<v Speaker 1>she's beautiful. She might be a potential soulmate. Now he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say that, but you know, you get the point, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there was more there than he originally thought. There would

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<v Speaker 1>be such a good surprise, And it wasn't until a

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<v Speaker 1>cute waitress walked by that things kind of started to

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<v Speaker 1>go downhill. Is the waitresses fault? Oh yeah? Control himself.

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<v Speaker 1>Watching her walk away, Matt, I'm thinking here that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to bring up the waitress situation when we

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<v Speaker 1>call it, yeah, yeah, don't. Yeah, I don't usually meet

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<v Speaker 1>girls like this, so I must be something wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>me yet. But you usually do look at waitresses like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're saying? Oh yeah, absolutely, yeah saying

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<v Speaker 1>that to you. You guys are protecting it. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to with the creep. You're cool, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a creep. No, No, it's innocent, augling. We

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<v Speaker 1>all do it, okay, yeah, okay, And look, if that's

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<v Speaker 1>not the reason, it would definitely look really bad for

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<v Speaker 1>us to be like so Anna, was it because he

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<v Speaker 1>was making sheep eyes at that hot waitress? Like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at the waitresses. I didn't even look at her. Okay, better,

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<v Speaker 1>it was really bad. Like it's my fault. Okay, you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting worse. Okay, we'll let you apologize for it. After

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<v Speaker 1>she says that's the reason that she's not calling, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a weird feeling that Brooke is on your side

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<v Speaker 1>for this matter. She's definitely pulling for you. But let's

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<v Speaker 1>dial Anna's number. We'll see what I need. You all

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<v Speaker 1>on my side. I'm working on it. I'm working on it.

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<v Speaker 1>A day, do a turn for me and let me

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<v Speaker 1>see if I can work. Let's just call Anna here

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll see what she has to say, whether she

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<v Speaker 1>noticed it or not. You're ready, Matt, I'm not saying anything. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>good man, Here we go. Hello, I'm looking for Anna.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Anna Anna. My name is jeff from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing today? Wait? Sorry, yes, I am that Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>from the think she met. She has no idea. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's how I read it. Am I right? Anna? Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you're what you're talking about? Radio station? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you must be in the minority of the population. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're We're a morning radio show and we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a segment with you right now called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm live on the I'm live on the air. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And Hey, the way that this works is one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners has reached out to us because he's been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get a hold of you and he hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been successful. I'm talking about Matt. Matt. Oh, Matt, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you met at the Tough Mutter Uh huh, yep, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I am really curious your thoughts on Matt. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what if he what has he told you? He gave

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<v Speaker 1>us an overview of how you guys met at the

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<v Speaker 1>Tough Mutter, and he said, you went to a bar

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<v Speaker 1>together and had a pretty nice time, but then you

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<v Speaker 1>had to leave suddenly and go meet up with some

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<v Speaker 1>friends down the road. Yeah, okay, I mean he just

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<v Speaker 1>felt like he really connected with you, which was not

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<v Speaker 1>something that he totally expected. So he was pretty excited

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<v Speaker 1>about it by the end of the night. Well that

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<v Speaker 1>is until you like suddenly left right. Well that makes sense. Um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why why? I just I think he and I had

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<v Speaker 1>different expectations of what our hangout was going to be. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what was What was your expectation? Well, my idea was

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<v Speaker 1>really more of like having a hook up. Oh he

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<v Speaker 1>was if he wasn't taking it there, No, he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>goou eyeing me like love eyes, and I'm like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, we can't say in the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of the night. That's actually he went in thank

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<v Speaker 1>you that you guys were just going to have like

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<v Speaker 1>a fleeing Yeah, I'm starting to run. But this is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of funny because he said you guys like you

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<v Speaker 1>surprisingly matched so well and every yeah, you guys like

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<v Speaker 1>both kind of didn't know you wanted to hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>He was all like, what's your five year plan? Where

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<v Speaker 1>do you see yourself in ten years? Yeah? I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>where are we going to be in thirty minutes from now?

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<v Speaker 1>That's really funny And so wait, are you not looking

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<v Speaker 1>for a relationship or you not looking for a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with him? No, the last thing I want is to

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<v Speaker 1>hook up, and then I can't get rid of this dude,

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<v Speaker 1>like any dude, I'm not into it right now, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want somebody being like, hey, can I put

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<v Speaker 1>a baby in you? Like I'm I don't know. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>instead of running away from him, you could have just

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<v Speaker 1>told him that and he would have changed his tune. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't have time to like stroke his ego.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to have like go drink and have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. I didn't want to get serious. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>no time like the present because I was actually Matt's

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<v Speaker 1>been on the other line listening and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you right now. This is soon. You're not serious,

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Actually? I am? You met you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Yeah, that was that was awkward. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it makes it more awkward that you called us to

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<v Speaker 1>have her call you. Yeah, it's pretty bad. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>to say to Anna, Oh, well, I see where she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go. I guess I misread the whole situation.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm a little embarrassed. Yeah, dude, wait me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so uncomfortable. Anna. Are you there? Yeah, I just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of shocked. He was all, like, where are you

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<v Speaker 1>looking for in a husband? I'm like, dude, whoa, I've

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<v Speaker 1>known you for an hour, Like, relax, that a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot. That's a lot. Really, So you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't work for you to get you into the

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom and husband material, not unless for role playing. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's totally what Matt was doing. Yeah, exactly. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was into just kind of hooking up too, but

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<v Speaker 1>then when we started talking, we were kind of vibeing,

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<v Speaker 1>we were into a lot of the same things, so

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of went off the track a little bit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you would have been fine just having a one

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<v Speaker 1>night thing with her. I mean, I think we would

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<v Speaker 1>have been more than one night, as much as you know, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I want more than one night. Trying to say is

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He just

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<v Speaker 1>wants your bob exactly. I'm pretty good, so I think

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be more than one night lay. He didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you guys that he wanted more from me or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>did no, no, none of that. He just pure rod

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<v Speaker 1>love me exactly how I said it. Yeah, whatever this is,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so bizarre. I'm so I can't even talks.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Matt, look at this. I didn't even have

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<v Speaker 1>to bring up the waitress and it's still wait waitress.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you talking about what waitress? Uh? Yeah, go ahead, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>the woman that served our drinks. When she walked away,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of looked at her, and I saw you

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<v Speaker 1>look at me, look at her, And that's where I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I screwed up. Cute. I was like, oh maybe

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<v Speaker 1>this could be a thing with all of you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why not? Hold? Oh god, wow, did I blow this? Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>You can recover two minutes ago he knew he blew it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he knows he really nothing got blown. Actually, Anna,

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<v Speaker 1>is there any way that Matt could salvage this right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see you one more time? Because we would

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<v Speaker 1>pay for that meet up? Probably a really quick meet up.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like, yeah, I just can't risk having like

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<v Speaker 1>a puppy dog following me around. No, that wouldn't happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I know what you want. Now it's fine, it's

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<v Speaker 1>no problem. Yeah, did that break his heart after that date?

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<v Speaker 1>Its trainable. He brought me onto a radio show. If

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<v Speaker 1>he just wanted to one night stand, he could find

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<v Speaker 1>that anywhere. So sorry, we couldn't get you another date there, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>I blew it all by myself. You guys shlped me

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<v Speaker 1>realize how bad I blew it be careful was saying

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<v Speaker 1>I blow it all by That's a weird Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Oh we need more Annas in this world

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<v Speaker 1>life whatever. There's Anna's all over the place, and you're like, oh, Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep with too many people, I mean in my

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<v Speaker 1>old life anymore. Come on, you don't really need her.

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<v Speaker 1>I need her. You just are scared of her. The

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<v Speaker 1>problem with our society is that we just can't come

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<v Speaker 1>out and say directly what we want. Yeah, because if

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<v Speaker 1>that's the very first thing that Matt had said at

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<v Speaker 1>dinner that night, that I want to hook up, it

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<v Speaker 1>would have worked out better than how on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say, hook up one night, not hook up

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<v Speaker 1>relationship whatever. You do not need to be talking about

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<v Speaker 1>what you're looking for in a husband on a first date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>No matter what your goal is, the question is where's

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<v Speaker 1>the line? You know that that's what we're trying to find. Balance.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but Anna was absolutely turned off because

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<v Speaker 1>Matt did seem a little bit too into her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when all that she was after was a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of mattress crow. Ok. Yeah, that sounds fun, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>only one time and all right. If you miss any

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<v Speaker 1>of the call, though, make sure to listen on our

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<v Speaker 1>podcast wherever you get it. We're also on Spotify everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to hook up. It doesn't work that

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<v Speaker 1>way from you, so see it. If you ever want

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<v Speaker 1>to get a second day at update, email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call the person wasn't calling your bead