Speaker 1: Second date of to day. They always say, if you
Speaker 1: go out looking for love, you'll never find it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's when you're not searching for it that's when love
Speaker 1: sneaks up on you and uppercuts you right in the face.
Speaker 1: That is the saying, right, I guess love punches you
Speaker 1: in the face. That's what happened to one of our listeners,
Speaker 1: Matt recently. He wasn't looking for anything serious and then
Speaker 1: that's when he got curb stomped by love. That was
Speaker 1: so violent? Is violent? How's your body doing? You know?
Speaker 1: I got bit by the love bug man. It was
Speaker 1: a hard bite. Is this how you bros talk to
Speaker 1: each other? I got a bad infection with the love bugs? Bro.
Speaker 1: I know. So, Matt, you know what we're talking about.
Speaker 1: But why don't you tell everybody who's the girl that
Speaker 1: we're going to be calling to? What's her name? So?
Speaker 1: Her name is Anna? Okay, where did you meet special Anna? So?
Speaker 1: I was doing a tough mutter, like a obstacle course
Speaker 1: thing with some friends. And that's like the five K
Speaker 1: right where they like run through mud. It's like an
Speaker 1: obstacle course thingstacle course, and sometimes you have to like
Speaker 1: army crawl. It's like freezing cold water. Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 1: It was at I like to challenge myself. That's cool, okay,
Speaker 1: and how did you meet her doing it? So afterwards
Speaker 1: they have like a party, like there's like a beer garden, right,
Speaker 1: we kind of started talking and she was cute. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, she's really cool. I mean I was thinking,
Speaker 1: like I just kind of want to hook up right
Speaker 1: after the race. Aren't you like covered head to toe
Speaker 1: in mud? And yeah, it's kind of sexy. It's a
Speaker 1: little sexy. Yeah, but like women are in sports bras
Speaker 1: and tight bottle yeah. Yeah. So I was like I
Speaker 1: got her number and then so you planned a date
Speaker 1: for later not for that night? Yes, yeah, no, no, okay,
Speaker 1: we didn't want to just jump into the mud pile
Speaker 1: right there and just start rolling around two little piggies.
Speaker 1: How did you make that so unattractive? We were going
Speaker 1: to meet out for some drinks and okay, not really dinner,
Speaker 1: but just kind of get to know each other, right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: at this point, I'm looking just to you know, keep
Speaker 1: it casual friends with benefits. Maybe, like I wasn't thinking
Speaker 1: anything serious. Yeah, you're not like this is my next girlfriend.
Speaker 1: But you're like, yeah, no chance. So she showed up
Speaker 1: and I mean my jaw hit the ground. I mean
Speaker 1: she was gorgeous, even more gorgeous than being covered head
Speaker 1: to toe and mud. That's amazing. So then we started
Speaker 1: talking about like our careers, and we talked about fitness
Speaker 1: and kind of you know, we we had so much
Speaker 1: in common. I was like, oh my god, this girl's
Speaker 1: like perfect, you know, And I was like kind of like, holy,
Speaker 1: are you getting more nervous as the date goes on? Then? No, no,
Speaker 1: because I you know, I kind of think I'm cool. Okay,
Speaker 1: we just we seem to hit it off really well,
Speaker 1: and then I blew it. I completely blow it. Blew it.
Speaker 1: You know you did something bad? Oh yeah, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: what happened? Man? So the waitress came over to bring
Speaker 1: us some drinks, and when she left, I kind of
Speaker 1: watched her leave. You watched the waitress leave? Yeah? Oh?
Speaker 1: Are you just always undressing women with your eyes? I
Speaker 1: mean the description of the mud party and then this,
Speaker 1: so as as I watched her walk away, Anna watched
Speaker 1: my eyes kind of follow her. Then she had to
Speaker 1: go meet her friends. Yeah, joke, like I just have
Speaker 1: to know what shoes she's wearing. And then she said
Speaker 1: to me like, she's gonna walk down there. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: let me walk you, and she was just like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm good, I said, I was. I was
Speaker 1: so pissed. I mean, girls get mad. If you're looking
Speaker 1: at your phone on a date, bro, imagine like literally
Speaker 1: at another woman. It's like, oh my god, it's just
Speaker 1: a sign of like one disrespect and two you can't
Speaker 1: like pay attention to me for one hour that went together.
Speaker 1: But my mom looks so good in that dress, Like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you have you owned up to it?
Speaker 1: Did you apologize? No? I haven't talked to her? Oh
Speaker 1: oh at all. You haven't reached out. Even no, I've
Speaker 1: reached out. No one's gotten back to me. I think
Speaker 1: that stood out, Brook. I think no matter what happens here,
Speaker 1: if she picks up, you have to apologize. She may
Speaker 1: never want to see again, but that's definitely something that
Speaker 1: needs to happen. Well, she's not responding, so I don't
Speaker 1: think she wants to see me. Well that's what I'm hoping. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: well let's keep hoping. I'm gonna play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back, We'll call you stop looking at sorry, and
Speaker 1: then we're gonna call Anna for you and we'll try
Speaker 1: and get you a second date out date. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, thank you? All right, hold on, okay, get over, Okay. Second,
Speaker 1: he didn't want it to happen, but he did. That
Speaker 1: feeling that started in his pants ended up in his heart.
Speaker 1: Times has that happened to guys out there? Hearts? You
Speaker 1: need to write some wedding vowels if you want to
Speaker 1: hire men. But one of our listeners, Matt met, a
Speaker 1: woman named Anna, had a tough mutter relay. He ended
Speaker 1: up asking around for a drink, just looking for friends
Speaker 1: with benefits. But once she wiped that mud off her
Speaker 1: face and started talking, he realized, oh my god, she's smart,
Speaker 1: she's beautiful. She might be a potential soulmate. Now he
Speaker 1: didn't say that, but you know, you get the point, Like,
Speaker 1: there was more there than he originally thought. There would
Speaker 1: be such a good surprise, And it wasn't until a
Speaker 1: cute waitress walked by that things kind of started to
Speaker 1: go downhill. Is the waitresses fault? Oh yeah? Control himself.
Speaker 1: Watching her walk away, Matt, I'm thinking here that I'm
Speaker 1: not going to bring up the waitress situation when we
Speaker 1: call it, yeah, yeah, don't. Yeah, I don't usually meet
Speaker 1: girls like this, so I must be something wrong with
Speaker 1: me yet. But you usually do look at waitresses like that.
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying? Oh yeah, absolutely, yeah saying
Speaker 1: that to you. You guys are protecting it. I know,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to with the creep. You're cool, right,
Speaker 1: I'm not a creep. No, No, it's innocent, augling. We
Speaker 1: all do it, okay, yeah, okay, And look, if that's
Speaker 1: not the reason, it would definitely look really bad for
Speaker 1: us to be like so Anna, was it because he
Speaker 1: was making sheep eyes at that hot waitress? Like, honestly,
Speaker 1: I looked at the waitresses. I didn't even look at her. Okay, better,
Speaker 1: it was really bad. Like it's my fault. Okay, you're
Speaker 1: getting worse. Okay, we'll let you apologize for it. After
Speaker 1: she says that's the reason that she's not calling, I
Speaker 1: have a weird feeling that Brooke is on your side
Speaker 1: for this matter. She's definitely pulling for you. But let's
Speaker 1: dial Anna's number. We'll see what I need. You all
Speaker 1: on my side. I'm working on it. I'm working on it.
Speaker 1: A day, do a turn for me and let me
Speaker 1: see if I can work. Let's just call Anna here
Speaker 1: and we'll see what she has to say, whether she
Speaker 1: noticed it or not. You're ready, Matt, I'm not saying anything. Okay,
Speaker 1: good man, Here we go. Hello, I'm looking for Anna.
Speaker 1: This is Anna Anna. My name is jeff from the
Speaker 1: radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are
Speaker 1: you doing today? Wait? Sorry, yes, I am that Jeffrey
Speaker 1: from the think she met. She has no idea. I
Speaker 1: mean that's how I read it. Am I right? Anna? Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know you're what you're talking about? Radio station? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you must be in the minority of the population. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we're We're a morning radio show and we're doing
Speaker 1: a segment with you right now called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: I'm live on the I'm live on the air. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And Hey, the way that this works is one of
Speaker 1: our listeners has reached out to us because he's been
Speaker 1: trying to get a hold of you and he hasn't
Speaker 1: been successful. I'm talking about Matt. Matt. Oh, Matt, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you met at the Tough Mutter Uh huh, yep, Okay,
Speaker 1: I am really curious your thoughts on Matt. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: what if he what has he told you? He gave
Speaker 1: us an overview of how you guys met at the
Speaker 1: Tough Mutter, and he said, you went to a bar
Speaker 1: together and had a pretty nice time, but then you
Speaker 1: had to leave suddenly and go meet up with some
Speaker 1: friends down the road. Yeah, okay, I mean he just
Speaker 1: felt like he really connected with you, which was not
Speaker 1: something that he totally expected. So he was pretty excited
Speaker 1: about it by the end of the night. Well that
Speaker 1: is until you like suddenly left right. Well that makes sense. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: why why? I just I think he and I had
Speaker 1: different expectations of what our hangout was going to be. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: what was What was your expectation? Well, my idea was
Speaker 1: really more of like having a hook up. Oh he
Speaker 1: was if he wasn't taking it there, No, he was like,
Speaker 1: goou eyeing me like love eyes, and I'm like, dude,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, we can't say in the
Speaker 1: beginning of the night. That's actually he went in thank
Speaker 1: you that you guys were just going to have like
Speaker 1: a fleeing Yeah, I'm starting to run. But this is
Speaker 1: kind of funny because he said you guys like you
Speaker 1: surprisingly matched so well and every yeah, you guys like
Speaker 1: both kind of didn't know you wanted to hook up.
Speaker 1: He was all like, what's your five year plan? Where
Speaker 1: do you see yourself in ten years? Yeah? I'm like,
Speaker 1: where are we going to be in thirty minutes from now?
Speaker 1: That's really funny And so wait, are you not looking
Speaker 1: for a relationship or you not looking for a relationship
Speaker 1: with him? No, the last thing I want is to
Speaker 1: hook up, and then I can't get rid of this dude,
Speaker 1: like any dude, I'm not into it right now, Like
Speaker 1: I don't want somebody being like, hey, can I put
Speaker 1: a baby in you? Like I'm I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 1: instead of running away from him, you could have just
Speaker 1: told him that and he would have changed his tune. Hey,
Speaker 1: I just don't have time to like stroke his ego.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to have like go drink and have
Speaker 1: a good time. I didn't want to get serious. Well,
Speaker 1: no time like the present because I was actually Matt's
Speaker 1: been on the other line listening and he wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you right now. This is soon. You're not serious,
Speaker 1: are you? Actually? I am? You met you there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here. Yeah, that was that was awkward. I think
Speaker 1: it makes it more awkward that you called us to
Speaker 1: have her call you. Yeah, it's pretty bad. I mean
Speaker 1: to say to Anna, Oh, well, I see where she
Speaker 1: wanted to go. I guess I misread the whole situation.
Speaker 1: So I'm a little embarrassed. Yeah, dude, wait me, I'm
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. Anna. Are you there? Yeah, I just I'm
Speaker 1: kind of shocked. He was all, like, where are you
Speaker 1: looking for in a husband? I'm like, dude, whoa, I've
Speaker 1: known you for an hour, Like, relax, that a lot,
Speaker 1: it's a lot. That's a lot. Really, So you're saying
Speaker 1: that doesn't work for you to get you into the
Speaker 1: bedroom and husband material, not unless for role playing. I
Speaker 1: think that's totally what Matt was doing. Yeah, exactly. Like
Speaker 1: I was into just kind of hooking up too, but
Speaker 1: then when we started talking, we were kind of vibeing,
Speaker 1: we were into a lot of the same things, so
Speaker 1: I kind of went off the track a little bit. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you would have been fine just having a one
Speaker 1: night thing with her. I mean, I think we would
Speaker 1: have been more than one night, as much as you know, dude,
Speaker 1: I want more than one night. Trying to say is
Speaker 1: he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He just
Speaker 1: wants your bob exactly. I'm pretty good, so I think
Speaker 1: it'd be more than one night lay. He didn't tell
Speaker 1: you guys that he wanted more from me or anything,
Speaker 1: did no, no, none of that. He just pure rod
Speaker 1: love me exactly how I said it. Yeah, whatever this is,
Speaker 1: this is so bizarre. I'm so I can't even talks.
Speaker 1: I mean, Matt, look at this. I didn't even have
Speaker 1: to bring up the waitress and it's still wait waitress.
Speaker 1: Were you talking about what waitress? Uh? Yeah, go ahead, Matt,
Speaker 1: the woman that served our drinks. When she walked away,
Speaker 1: I kind of looked at her, and I saw you
Speaker 1: look at me, look at her, And that's where I
Speaker 1: thought I screwed up. Cute. I was like, oh maybe
Speaker 1: this could be a thing with all of you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: why not? Hold? Oh god, wow, did I blow this? Huh?
Speaker 1: You can recover two minutes ago he knew he blew it.
Speaker 1: Now he knows he really nothing got blown. Actually, Anna,
Speaker 1: is there any way that Matt could salvage this right
Speaker 1: now and see you one more time? Because we would
Speaker 1: pay for that meet up? Probably a really quick meet up.
Speaker 1: It sounds like, yeah, I just can't risk having like
Speaker 1: a puppy dog following me around. No, that wouldn't happen.
Speaker 1: Now I know what you want. Now it's fine, it's
Speaker 1: no problem. Yeah, did that break his heart after that date?
Speaker 1: Its trainable. He brought me onto a radio show. If
Speaker 1: he just wanted to one night stand, he could find
Speaker 1: that anywhere. So sorry, we couldn't get you another date there, buddy,
Speaker 1: I blew it all by myself. You guys shlped me
Speaker 1: realize how bad I blew it be careful was saying
Speaker 1: I blow it all by That's a weird Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning. Oh we need more Annas in this world
Speaker 1: life whatever. There's Anna's all over the place, and you're like, oh, Brook,
Speaker 1: you sleep with too many people, I mean in my
Speaker 1: old life anymore. Come on, you don't really need her.
Speaker 1: I need her. You just are scared of her. The
Speaker 1: problem with our society is that we just can't come
Speaker 1: out and say directly what we want. Yeah, because if
Speaker 1: that's the very first thing that Matt had said at
Speaker 1: dinner that night, that I want to hook up, it
Speaker 1: would have worked out better than how on the radio.
Speaker 1: Can I say, hook up one night, not hook up
Speaker 1: relationship whatever. You do not need to be talking about
Speaker 1: what you're looking for in a husband on a first date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: No matter what your goal is, the question is where's
Speaker 1: the line? You know that that's what we're trying to find. Balance.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but Anna was absolutely turned off because
Speaker 1: Matt did seem a little bit too into her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when all that she was after was a little bit
Speaker 1: of mattress crow. Ok. Yeah, that sounds fun, but it's
Speaker 1: only one time and all right. If you miss any
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