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Speaker 1: I was doing a tough mutter, like a obstacle course

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Speaker 1: I don't know you're what you're talking about? Radio station? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm live on the I'm live on the air. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just want to hook up. It doesn't work that

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