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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Jake is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Olivia. So we're

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Speaker 2: gonna see if we can figure out why he's getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted and maybe get him another date. If he still

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Speaker 2: wants one. We'll call her in a second. But first, Jake,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Olivia?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's about three weeks.

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Speaker 4: Now, So okay, let's go back to your date. How

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Speaker 4: did that go?

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Speaker 5: It's interesting, it wasn't so much as a data as well.

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Speaker 5: I met Olivia at a bar. We're both happened to

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Speaker 5: be there at the same time. My department recently got

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Speaker 5: a raise at work, so we all went out to celebrate,

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Speaker 5: and I saw Olivia there with her you know, her girls,

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Speaker 5: just having a girl's night.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So then how did you and Olivia start talking?

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Speaker 5: I overheard her talking about a concert she went to

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Speaker 5: a long time ago. I think it was a Post

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Speaker 5: Malone at a venue that's been since demolished.

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Speaker 3: Then I was at that concert too, so.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it felt like I don't know, I felt like

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Speaker 5: she's I mean, she's obviously cool if she likes malone.

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Speaker 5: So I went over and I started talking to her,

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Speaker 5: and it just kicked off from there.

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Speaker 4: Did what do you guys do for your date? Or

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Speaker 4: was this the date?

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Speaker 3: This was the date? So you know, my friends left,

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Speaker 3: her friends left.

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Speaker 5: We just ended up talking to each other all night,

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Speaker 5: you know, getting to know you type stuff. I was

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Speaker 5: telling her about my experiences at the office, which she

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Speaker 5: wasn't that interested in. But we got on talking about

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Speaker 5: like Jim's stuff, you know, shows, we liked music we like.

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Speaker 5: Obviously that didn't hurt that she was you know, she's

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Speaker 5: a knockout, like definitely ten out of ten.

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Speaker 4: So then, did you guys stay at the bar the

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Speaker 4: whole time? Did you close it out? Or did you

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Speaker 4: guys go somewhere else?

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Speaker 5: Were we closed it down? We were the last ones

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Speaker 5: there were still talking. There was no pressure. It wasn't like,

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Speaker 5: let's go back to my place, even though I'm only

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Speaker 5: like a few blocks away. But she called it huber.

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Speaker 5: But we decided to stand outside you know, the bar,

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Speaker 5: keep talking and we started making out.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, I love a good outside bar makeout.

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Speaker 3: You know. We stopped for a second and she was like,

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Speaker 3: you know, is this a date?

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Speaker 5: And I I kind of laughed it off at first,

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Speaker 5: but then I was like, I mean I like it

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Speaker 5: to be okay. Yeah, we kept we kept, we kept

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Speaker 5: making out, you know, to celebrate the date.

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Speaker 4: To celebrate the date. Let's celebrate making I love that.

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Speaker 4: That's a great way to celebrate a date.

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Speaker 5: So we're hanging out to her Uber shows. We're still

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Speaker 5: talking and it was getting fun, and you know, she

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Speaker 5: has to go home, but we exchanged numbers and she left.

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Speaker 5: She said she texted me later, and I've texted her

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Speaker 5: a few times since.

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Speaker 4: But nothing is anything that you think might be the

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Speaker 4: reason that she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she's a lot smarter and funnier than I am.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if she I don't know if it

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Speaker 3: was like she was just really drunk that night.

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Speaker 4: If she's embarrassed, don't cut yourself down like that. Maybe,

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Speaker 4: like you could just say she's smart and funny, Right,

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Speaker 4: that's still the same, the same thing.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, that's true.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't take that away from yourself. You might be

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Speaker 4: smart and funny too, right. Maybe maybe the kiss was

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Speaker 4: just too slobbery. I don't know. That's happened.

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Speaker 5: I was, I was wasted, I was I can't I.

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Speaker 3: Was a little gone.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play song come Back and then call her and

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Speaker 2: ask her why she's ghosting you, and then maybe get

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Speaker 2: you another.

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Speaker 4: Date if you still want one.

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Speaker 3: Okay, awesome, thank you all right?

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Speaker 4: Place song Comeback. Get your first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Jake is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Olivia.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if we

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Speaker 2: can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another date if he still wants one. But first, Jake,

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Speaker 2: before we do that, why don't you refresh everybody's memory

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Speaker 2: about your experience with Olivia.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I met Olivia at a bar.

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Speaker 5: We were both there for different reasons, but we really

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Speaker 5: hit it off and it ended up in a really

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Speaker 5: hot makeout session. We exchanged numbers, but every time I

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Speaker 5: text her, I don't get nothing back.

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Speaker 4: They made out in everything, and the.

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Speaker 5: Only reason I could think of her not responding is

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Speaker 5: maybe she got maybe she got sober eyes and realize.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, well we're about to call her. You ready,

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Speaker 2: all right? Okay, here we go. I may speak to

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Speaker 2: Olivia please, Yeah, Olivia.

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Speaker 4: Hi, how are you? My name is Jewbel and I

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Speaker 4: host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Olivia,

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Speaker 4: the show's here. My name's Nina. Hi, mine's Victoria.

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Speaker 2: Hi. Hi.

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Speaker 6: I'm I'm good. Yeah. I mean I've definitely heard of

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Speaker 6: you guys before.

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Speaker 4: But oh sweet, why are you calling me?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Well, you're late on a payment.

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Speaker 2: What we're calling you because we do a segment on

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Speaker 2: the show it's called the first eight follow Up. That's

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Speaker 2: where if you go somebody, that person can email us

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Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting them. So we got an email about you from

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Speaker 2: a dude named Jake.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I've gone on a few dates, but I mean,

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Speaker 6: I don't think I'm ghosting anyone.

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Speaker 4: He said that you met like three weeks ago. It

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Speaker 4: was at a bar.

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Speaker 2: You guys hung out, and then outside of the bar

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Speaker 2: you made out, and then you both.

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Speaker 4: Were like, is this a date? I guess it's a

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Speaker 4: date and then you made out some more. You remember that.

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Speaker 6: Guy, oh oh shee, Okay, I don't. I did not

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Speaker 6: remember his name. I don't remember Jake. I mean, okay, see,

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Speaker 6: I I got really drunk about three weeks ago and

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Speaker 6: I completely blacked out, and I just remember flashes of

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Speaker 6: talking to a guy. And I mean I definitely don't

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Speaker 6: remember everything. I remember how he looked, and I mean,

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Speaker 6: he looks good. I remember how he smelled. He smelled

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Speaker 6: really nice, becauzash. I remember him being really sexy and

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Speaker 6: super smart, and but I mean, I just I didn't

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Speaker 6: remember his name. I didn't remember his name. So yeah,

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Speaker 6: now I'm surprised he reached out to you guys, because

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Speaker 6: I mean both of us were pretty wasted and he

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Speaker 6: was just throwing him back and I know I was too,

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Speaker 6: so I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Get a hold of you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I remember I got text message text messages

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Speaker 7: from somebody, but because I didn't recognize who it was,

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Speaker 7: I'm really like bad if I don't know who a

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Speaker 7: number is, like, I just automatically send it to spam

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Speaker 7: and I don't want to deal with it because there's

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Speaker 7: so many like random numbers that pop up now, I

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Speaker 7: just don't even want to deal with that.

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Speaker 4: So I didn't even look.

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Speaker 6: Come all the time we.

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Speaker 4: Met out outside of a bar. Yeah whatever, I'm not

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Speaker 4: buying your sweater. I don't care. I thought you were

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Speaker 4: really great. I'd like to see you again. Yeah whatever,

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Speaker 4: you're out.

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Speaker 6: Like, I just remember hanging out with this guy after

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Speaker 6: this concert at this bar and it was cool.

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Speaker 3: But I just, you know, it's like one of those things, like, man,

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Speaker 3: I guess.

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Speaker 6: I missed out on this guy, but I shouldn't drink

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Speaker 6: so much.

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Speaker 3: Lesson learned.

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Speaker 6: Hopefully I meet him again at some point.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, great, you can meet him right now because

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Speaker 2: he's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Wait what Yeah, Hey, hey, it's shake.

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Speaker 3: You think I'm.

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Speaker 4: That's all I am. You're sexy too, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I've been.

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Speaker 5: I've been trying to get in contact with you. You're right,

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Speaker 5: I mean, we we did pound a lot of shots.

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of a professional drinker, so I.

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Speaker 6: See, and I'm very much a lightweight.

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Speaker 3: So can we go back to that sexy thing?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 3: Can we're going to talk about that? I think I

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Speaker 3: think it's sexy too.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean no, I definitely enjoyed my time with you,

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Speaker 6: and I mean it's super sweet that you've reached out

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Speaker 6: so and you.

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Speaker 4: Sought me out.

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, yeah, I'm just really embarrassed that I

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Speaker 6: don't I don't remember anything.

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Speaker 4: Would you like to go on another date with Jake

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Speaker 4: now that you know his name?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I just.

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Speaker 7: I mean I feel bad that I don't remember anything,

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Speaker 7: but now we get to have the date over again and.

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Speaker 3: Just have you more fun.

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Speaker 4: It makes you new memories.

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Speaker 5: Just don't black out, Yes, right, exactly, No, No, we'll

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Speaker 5: take it easy on the booze this time.

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Speaker 6: Good good, I mean yeah, yeah, and more kissing please,

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Speaker 6: because I do remember that and it was amazing.

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Speaker 3: Ow oh, definitely I plan on kissing you a.

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Speaker 4: Lot, all right, sweet.

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Speaker 5: Fun.

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