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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fulee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and The Black Effect.

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Speaker 2: Ain't just like that, We're back on the air.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to yet another Can't Fully Reckless episode, which

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Speaker 1: girl justs hilarious and I will be fixing mess with

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Speaker 1: what I do, what I always doing, what I do best.

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Speaker 2: Listen.

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Speaker 1: So if you haven't seen or haven't heard, yes, I

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Speaker 1: am the official third co host for Breakfast Club. Clap

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Speaker 1: it Up, clap it up, great, great Gray. And then

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Speaker 1: also I was going through the comments and I've seen

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Speaker 1: and people still trying to put together what happened and

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Speaker 1: all that shit.

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Speaker 2: One is really just you know, just as simple as this.

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Speaker 1: I still down business and I got what I wanted,

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Speaker 1: which was, you know, what I was worth, and that

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Speaker 1: was just it.

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Speaker 2: I'm in the comments.

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Speaker 1: Saying, oh, she has stopped everything, she stopped doing her

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Speaker 1: I knew something was going on because she stopped. I

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Speaker 1: brought her podcast and I ain't never fucking stopped fixing people.

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Speaker 3: Mess.

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Speaker 2: One ain't even got nothing to do with the other.

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Speaker 2: Just ain't got nothing to do with Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I got That's why y'all hear about it until

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Speaker 1: now don't ever say I discontinue something, because that ain't

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Speaker 1: what I do.

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Speaker 2: Okay, just because y'all thought I ain't get one thing.

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Speaker 1: And even if I didn't get that, I'm still just

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Speaker 1: hilarious before and after breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: So stop playing with me.

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Speaker 1: Now, let's get into it. So we got a long story, y'all,

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Speaker 1: and then we also have a voice. No if we

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Speaker 1: get to that today, because this story is long, so

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Speaker 1: we may not even get to it. But whatever I

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Speaker 1: don't get to today, we'll get to you next Wednesday. Listen,

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Speaker 1: good evening, Jess. First of all, I want to say

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Speaker 1: congratulations ah to you on getting Breakfast Club. Beyond proud

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Speaker 1: of you, girl. Let's get into it. I have been

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Speaker 1: on and off with my ex boyfriend for about two years.

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Speaker 1: I go in every time with the same mindset that

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Speaker 1: we're on good terms.

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Speaker 2: But then it always goes downhill. I know what that

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Speaker 2: feels like.

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Speaker 1: I look at him as the love of my life

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Speaker 1: but also my best friend, oh me through me doo,

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Speaker 1: so it's hard to just completely cut him out of

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Speaker 2: I understand that.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: For the past we have been talking a little less

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Speaker 1: decided to just be okay with that because I still

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Speaker 2: Little understanding goes.

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Speaker 1: He hit me up two nights ago and says he

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Speaker 1: because for one, we're not together, and for two, every

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Speaker 1: I understand. And three, he just seemed very solid on

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Speaker 1: his decision with this. So I say to him, we

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Speaker 2: He is when I'm around. I took that as okay,

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Speaker 2: and he still loves me?

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Speaker 3: Bitch?

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Speaker 2: What no, Mom, I'm sorry, So what do my dumb

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Speaker 3: Not me?

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Speaker 2: I pulled up to his house and parked across the street.

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Speaker 1: I'm just honestly not ready to let him go. That

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Speaker 1: Thank God, it's been only two days. But just knowing

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Speaker 1: don't really have any questions for you, Jess, because this

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Speaker 1: well for one that makes me think of something I

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Speaker 1: was just watching over the weekend. I was watching acrimony,

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Speaker 1: and that was one of the best tyle of Perry

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Speaker 1: films that I've seen. Taraji pans And let's just give

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Speaker 1: a big shot off to her. She killed that goddamn

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Speaker 1: know if you've ever seen acrimony, but did you see

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Speaker 1: how that ended? You know, she ended up losing her

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Speaker 1: but you just never know to what extent things can go.

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Speaker 1: You pulled up over there, and I'm glad you had

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Speaker 1: sense enough to drive off. However, things could have went

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Speaker 1: left and very bad for you. You know, Say she

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Speaker 2: Say she whipped your ass.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Say just whatever, you know.

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Speaker 1: And the guy clearly told you. You said he had a

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Speaker 1: I don't think this has been going well for us,

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Speaker 1: you know, And I moved on with somebody, and I'm

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Speaker 1: that that's always rule of thumb, honesty, be open and honest.

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Speaker 1: That communication thing has to always be there, because we

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Speaker 1: I said, he didn't owe you that to tell you

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Speaker 1: that he was already talking to somebody, and he was

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Speaker 1: going for you to come back. That was your cue

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Speaker 1: to hang up. First of all, Okay, I got you

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Speaker 1: because you already established the pattern. You already saw it,

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Speaker 1: you already discovered it. You said, you know, we've been

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So you had to already

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Speaker 1: And let's just.

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Speaker 2: Call it what it is.

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Speaker 1: You were just somebody that he was talking to real quick,

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Speaker 1: I really don't have advice. You got it, you know,

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Speaker 1: move on, I got advice for the future next time.

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Speaker 1: Don't do this shit. You know, don't do this shit

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Speaker 1: if a man tells you blatantly, listen, you know, because

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Speaker 1: You didn't want that. We can't be friends. You know

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Speaker 1: when I'm around you, you know I don't fuck my friends.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, So cherish yourself, value yourself more, you.

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Speaker 4: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: We should never be willing like willing and voluntarily being

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Speaker 1: don't ever do that. But yeah, you gonna have to

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Speaker 1: two days or whatever. You know, you wrote me his

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Speaker 1: story January twenty fifth year. We're now in uh February,

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Speaker 1: early February. Check back in with me and let me

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Speaker 1: see that it's somebody out there that will do you

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Speaker 2: Girl.

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Speaker 1: The best thing you could have did was pull a

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Speaker 1: fuck off. And I'm happy you don't call him back.

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Speaker 2: None of that.

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Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good.

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Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.

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Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen.

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Speaker 2: And moving on. Okay, this one is a voice not

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Speaker 2: much easier, Thank you shall.

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Speaker 4: He chespeaks mommies please Okay, girl, I love you, but

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Speaker 4: anyways speaks mommy is because girl your girl and got

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Speaker 4: a little healthy too some of me. So back in

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Speaker 4: You know, we hit it off, went together for like

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Speaker 4: two or three years. I broke up with him to

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Speaker 3: Well, I asked you who she was.

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Speaker 3: So am I a role for trying to break that

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Speaker 4: Because I feel like it's just a it's a gimmick.

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Speaker 3: Girl. I knew I threw it all in there and

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Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and

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Speaker 2: I would really see him. I think she's from Memphis.

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Speaker 1: I swear you do, girl, But that ain't that ain't

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Speaker 2: We got a accent to and y'all, y'all ain't know that.

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Speaker 1: You also wrote me something you said, hey girl, Hey,

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Speaker 1: The first time we linked up, of course, we really

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Speaker 1: Of course I said something to him, and he told

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Speaker 1: Let's stop pretending like shit is cool, because that's how

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Speaker 2: We're tolerating and stop pretending shit is cool.

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Speaker 1: Nipping in the bud right there, continuing, I had in

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Speaker 2: And then I say, old girl, come out of his house.

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Speaker 2: I didn't flip out, but boy, I wanted to.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad, y'all are actually like not flipping out ending

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad.

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Speaker 1: Then found out he took her on a date the

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Speaker 2: Then let's pause again. Why are we doing all that?

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Speaker 1: Do it really fucking matter if she running around with

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Speaker 2: Why are we doing research on her?

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Speaker 1: What you should have been doing was trying to see

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Speaker 2: Why are we arned about how? Oh the fuck she

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Speaker 1: Continuing comes to find out she was engaged to her

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Speaker 1: But to make a long story short, me and my

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Speaker 2: Because you cheated and shit.

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Speaker 1: But I will post more recent conversation and you just

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Speaker 1: give me advice on all this mess girl, Please, I

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Speaker 2: Once again. Thank you so much. Okay, So she sent

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Speaker 2: All right, child, this is the thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that you did let me know that he

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Speaker 1: I was about to chew your head off. You do

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, that is not what you do.

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Speaker 1: But he's been the only dad that's your baby girl knows,

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Speaker 1: and like you said, you've only been in her life

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Speaker 1: Because yeah, you're right, you know you haven't been there.

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Speaker 1: But I do understand what it's like to be attached

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Speaker 1: then I'm confused on your voice notes versus what you

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Speaker 2: So did you just type what you said to me?

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Speaker 2: It did seem like a lot of it was repetitive.

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Speaker 2: As women, Girl, we can be private investigators.

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Speaker 1: We can turn into detectives for these men, yes, because

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Speaker 1: You too goddamn worried about her. Okay, either he gonna

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Speaker 1: fuck with her or he ain't. And it seems like

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Speaker 1: you let this nigga spin you around so many fucking

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Speaker 1: times you dizzy, and I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: You don't need it. You got a baby girl, Okay.

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Speaker 2: You should have taken the hint when you text.

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Speaker 1: Him and said me and baby girl gonna come and

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Speaker 1: spend his break with you around Christmas, and he turned

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Speaker 1: this to a whole new person, saying, all right, so them, motherfucker,

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Speaker 1: you turn this to a whole new person too, because

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Speaker 1: who it is who is now? I'm not doing especially

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Speaker 1: not with my baby. You gotta keep it pushing, and

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Speaker 1: you have to be an example for your daughter. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I know we want love, but don't want it so

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Speaker 1: bad that we get spun around so many times that

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Speaker 1: we're dizzy.

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Speaker 2: Let's normalize not being dizzy for niggas. All right, we

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Speaker 2: ain't doing it. He playing you.

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Speaker 1: He's playing with you, and he gonna keep playing with

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Speaker 1: you because all he gotta do is have a conversation

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Speaker 1: with you.

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Speaker 2: That's what I get out of these stories.

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Speaker 1: All he gotta do is sit down and tell you

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Speaker 1: they ain't gonna do it no more, and blah blah

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah and blah blah blah blah blah, and

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Speaker 1: you still you up at night. I'm talking about investigating

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Speaker 1: these bitches. Let's cut that out because that's not what

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Speaker 1: you're supposed to be doing.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I know we all want to be loved,

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Speaker 1: and I'm being hard on y'all because this is not this.

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Speaker 1: Ain't it y'all ain't hard enough on y'allselves. That's why

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Speaker 1: these men fucking get in y'all head and play with

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Speaker 1: y'all like that.

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Speaker 2: Ain't no way. You don't pull up.

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Speaker 1: You got a baby, you don't pull up on no

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Speaker 1: nigga that may be with a bitch, you don't ever

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Speaker 1: do that because you got to.

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Speaker 2: Get home to your baby.

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Speaker 1: The fuck. If he don't care about it that much,

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Speaker 1: you gotta care about her. You're a mother, So move

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Speaker 1: on from that shit and keep me updated.

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Speaker 3: Girl.

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Speaker 1: Listen, we've come to the end of yet another carefully

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Speaker 1: Reckless episode, which your girl just hilarious. I will be

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Speaker 1: fixing mess then now and whenever y'all need me to

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Speaker 1: do it, feel free to send in voice notes. And

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