WEBVTT - Jeremy O. Harris

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<v Speaker 1>My darling. I gotta tell you, I'm always thrilled to

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<v Speaker 1>speak to you. So Jeremy's boyfriend and me and my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend are good friends. But when we walked down the street,

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<v Speaker 1>I do talk to Jeremy, Moore and Anderson and are

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<v Speaker 1>one a kind of like the grown ups, and me

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeremy are kind of like the kids who were like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get candy, and my other guys are like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>get carfy. Let's Kenny and Calf. Me exactly. Hello, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>mini driver and welcome to many questions. I've always loved

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<v Speaker 1>Pruce's questionnaire. It was originally an eighteenth century parlor game

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<v Speaker 1>meant to reveal an individual's true nature. But with so

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<v Speaker 1>many questions, there wasn't really an opportunity to expand on anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So I took the format of Pruce's questionnaire and adapted

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<v Speaker 1>What I think are seven of the most important questions

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<v Speaker 1>you could ever ask someone. They are when and where

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<v Speaker 1>were you happiest? What is the quality you like least

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself? What relationship, real or fictionalized, defines love for you?

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<v Speaker 1>What question would you most like answered, What person, place,

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<v Speaker 1>or experience has shaped you the most? What would be

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<v Speaker 1>your last meal? And can you tell me something in

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<v Speaker 1>your life that has grown out of a personal disaster.

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<v Speaker 1>The more people we ask, the more we begin to

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<v Speaker 1>see what makes us similar and what makes us individual.

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<v Speaker 1>I've gathered a group of really remarkable people who I

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<v Speaker 1>am honored and humbled to have had a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>engage with. My guest today is Jeremy oh Harris. It's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to know where to begin an introduction to Jeremy

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<v Speaker 1>because to me, he is a force that has such

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<v Speaker 1>diverse impact. It feels limiting to say specifically what he

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<v Speaker 1>does or who he is, And actually part of his

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<v Speaker 1>fundament seems to be challenging the way in which we

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<v Speaker 1>quantify a lot of things. So it's probably right that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say. He is definitively the

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<v Speaker 1>author the highly acclaimed Slave Play, which has become the

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<v Speaker 1>most nominated non musical play in the history of the Tonys,

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<v Speaker 1>with twelve nominations. I won't say explicitly what the play

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<v Speaker 1>is about, because you should see it or find it

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<v Speaker 1>and read it and think. But the super redux version

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<v Speaker 1>is that it addresses themes of sexuality and racial trauma

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<v Speaker 1>in America. Out magazine called him the queer black savior

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<v Speaker 1>theater needs. I would rejoin and editor to say he

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<v Speaker 1>is the queer black savior we all need, and if

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<v Speaker 1>systems are grumbling, as they surely seem to be, voices

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<v Speaker 1>like Jeremy's are the ones I'd like to hear loudest

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<v Speaker 1>during the rebuild. He writes under different names, he explores

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<v Speaker 1>different mediums of art, acting, playwriting, screenwriting, producing, and as

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<v Speaker 1>a person and a rare talent at the forefront of

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<v Speaker 1>a new generation of emerging artists, he is dismantling the

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<v Speaker 1>idea of personal success and fame being the endgame. By

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<v Speaker 1>using carved out fees from big deals in fashion and

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<v Speaker 1>in television to establish funds and micro grants for theaters

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<v Speaker 1>and libraries. He is quite literally lifting up and creating

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities for others in his community and beyond. Whenever I

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him, I feel like I'm talking to the future,

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<v Speaker 1>a super tall, hot, progressive future. Correct me, jere I

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<v Speaker 1>mean if I'm wrong, but I believe Slave Play became

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<v Speaker 1>the most nominated Tony in the history of the Tony's.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the most nominated Tony ever, It's the most nominated

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<v Speaker 1>to It's been it's a Tony that has been nominated

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<v Speaker 1>so many times its name is now Anthony Slave play

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<v Speaker 1>was nominated more times than any other than any other play.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Hamilton's has the most of any thing best

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<v Speaker 1>because musical is cheat and can have more. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>He's best score, best book, best orchestrations, like, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>get those. So now, what relationship, real or fictionalized, defines

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<v Speaker 1>love for you? Oh that's so good. Um, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm probably so dark. It's probably like you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>Young Girl and the Soldier and blasted the Sarah Kane play,

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<v Speaker 1>like really dark. Oh my god, I mean I really

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<v Speaker 1>really really love Magnolia. I really love Earl Partridge and

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<v Speaker 1>his Wife that Julianne Moore plays. She married this guy

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<v Speaker 1>for money and then as he's dying, she realizes how

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<v Speaker 1>much she loves him. That is kind of what being

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<v Speaker 1>in love is like for me. Obviously, adoreless person. You're

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<v Speaker 1>able to be in public the face of the adoring partner,

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<v Speaker 1>but in private moments you're like, oh, wow, you're smelly.

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<v Speaker 1>You touched me all the time, you do, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the thing is, and then like you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>minute that you shut the bathroom door, You're like, where

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<v Speaker 1>are they? I need their warmth again, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>there's something about human beings where like you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>want to nip the person that's closest to you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like what we do with our parents, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>the minute that you've gotten someone into your trust circle,

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<v Speaker 1>you do in your mind convince yourself that they're not

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<v Speaker 1>everything you want in the minute that they're about to leave,

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<v Speaker 1>where they could go that's to you wanted the best.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that part of the work of being

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<v Speaker 1>a good partner and a good person love is to

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<v Speaker 1>minimize the moments of nipping that are natural and normal,

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<v Speaker 1>and lean into who you are to the world, and

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<v Speaker 1>lean into who you are when they're about to leave

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<v Speaker 1>in those moments when it's just you two lying in bed. So,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that the specter of loss is then

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<v Speaker 1>part of the defining factor of love for you? The

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<v Speaker 1>idea that that person will be lost to you, or

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<v Speaker 1>could be lost to you, but ultimately will be lost

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<v Speaker 1>to you is actually what gives love of shame. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually think that having a recognition that this person

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<v Speaker 1>could be gone at any second should be the founding

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<v Speaker 1>principle of any love magicure and or any healthy relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>because that that would mean that you would treat it

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit better. You wouldn't take it for granted.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that oft and we we take people

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<v Speaker 1>for granted because we think that we're going to be eternal,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But even when I think about the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that thirty years feels like it's passed so quickly, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I'm going to be out of here. Even

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<v Speaker 1>if I lived to seventy or eighty, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be out of here in a moment. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a heartbeat, it's a heart Maybe that's also this time.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about you, but since this pandemic, I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like time has stretched, it's time slowed down. Time

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<v Speaker 1>stop being this thing that I was always chasing after

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<v Speaker 1>and actually became so present because all of the distraction

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<v Speaker 1>and all of those branches that were really a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dead wood, kind of a cut away. But also,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you feel like those three months at the very

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<v Speaker 1>top of the year felt like forever, like at the

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<v Speaker 1>very top of quarantinshure. Well, now I think about it

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<v Speaker 1>from right now, I do, But at the time it

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<v Speaker 1>felt like days were stretchy. It felt like nine am

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<v Speaker 1>lasted until four. It felt like every moment was every

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<v Speaker 1>conversation Shan, everything that we cooked, everything that we ate,

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<v Speaker 1>every embrace. Yes, it felt distilled. You know, you couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>really have written it. And it's been believable or been

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<v Speaker 1>anything other than sort of Ryan Murphy kind of giant.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll never believe this. Here. Let me put on a

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<v Speaker 1>giant show for you. It's actually still Ryan Murphy. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's Ryan Murphy and Shonda. Ryan's actually doing a

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<v Speaker 1>cross over episode. It really is. It is exactly. It's

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<v Speaker 1>them just passing back a script over a weekend and

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<v Speaker 1>each of them perhaps drinking slightly more than the other

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<v Speaker 1>with each new draft, and it's getting more and more

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<v Speaker 1>insane and more and more ridiculous. All right, downing, So

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell me in your life about something that

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<v Speaker 1>has grown out of a personal disaster stuff? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's been so many things, but I think the thing

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<v Speaker 1>and I know this because I went this amazing healer

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<v Speaker 1>and the swaman was like, wow, what happened when you

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<v Speaker 1>were nineteen? Like it's still living in your body. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>it feels like a big trauma. And I was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so weird. That was the year that I got

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<v Speaker 1>cut from drama school. You know, I went to this

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<v Speaker 1>drama school. They accepted fifty two kids, only twenty sis

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<v Speaker 1>got to stay. I liked it because it sounded like

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<v Speaker 1>Survivor or a big Brother or something like. They turned

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<v Speaker 1>training to be an actor into the Bachelor, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I was really excited because I worked my ass off

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<v Speaker 1>and like I had done the math, I was like, great,

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<v Speaker 1>inside of my section, I'm in the top five percent.

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<v Speaker 1>If they're cutting half of us, I can't be cut

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<v Speaker 1>from my section. But there are five black men here,

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<v Speaker 1>and amongst them, I'm definitely the weirdest one. So either

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna want me because I'm the weirdest one, or

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna be like, even though he's one of the best,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna get cut because he's really weird. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just did everything I could be weird myself over the year.

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<v Speaker 1>So I came to school with really long hair. I

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<v Speaker 1>cut off all with my hair, like halfway through the year.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like radical transformation, And you know, I worked

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<v Speaker 1>really hard, and I was still one of the people

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<v Speaker 1>that got cut, and some of the cruelest things that

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever been said to me were said to me

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<v Speaker 1>when I was eighteen years old about why I was cut,

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<v Speaker 1>saying was true of other actors. And you know how

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<v Speaker 1>this is like these people are working with people at

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of their development into young adults, and like

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<v Speaker 1>decided to say this the kinest things to them because

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<v Speaker 1>they can because Heinu's things are said to them. They

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<v Speaker 1>said a whittling down every year, and we were a

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<v Speaker 1>part of the lucky community because they stopped whittling people

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<v Speaker 1>down the second and third years, so it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like one cut instead of multiple. I think that is

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<v Speaker 1>so hideous because it means you could never actually relax.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the hunger. Yes, it's like you totally know

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<v Speaker 1>that there's a Gaillo scene hanging above your head every

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<v Speaker 1>day that you go to school. I mean, what a

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<v Speaker 1>dreadful way to try and learn. Yeah. One of my

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<v Speaker 1>closest friends there, Erica, who also got cut. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she had come from a school where she had never

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<v Speaker 1>done a play before in her life. She got into

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<v Speaker 1>a drama school, I having never done a play before

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<v Speaker 1>her life, and she didn't more than one for me,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like let's that girl get in, Like she

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<v Speaker 1>just gets to stay for all four years, because like

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck? But she came from a really rough

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<v Speaker 1>community and she wasn't used to going to a room

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<v Speaker 1>with a bunch of white kids and crying. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't cry in front of people. You don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>She's in these classes with all these kids, many of

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<v Speaker 1>whom come from privilege, who are able to weep form

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<v Speaker 1>command all the time about anything, and her teachers are like,

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<v Speaker 1>you feel too hard, but you don't want to share yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, no one's giving me a reason to cry, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>give me a scene, I'll do that. Then I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sit and cry and gossip with you. Anyway. That

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<v Speaker 1>was really difficult for me, and I'll never forget that.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my professors told me, she's like, well, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just not castable. Yeah, She's like, you have the

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<v Speaker 1>face of the child, a body of demand. You won't

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<v Speaker 1>be cast into your at least thirty five forties. So

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<v Speaker 1>you should think about going to grad school for acting.

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<v Speaker 1>And right now, you know you seem to like writing,

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<v Speaker 1>so do that. And I was like what what? But

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<v Speaker 1>it's incredible because of what did come out of that, Well, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I immediately decided I was going to prove her

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<v Speaker 1>I could be castable. So I got asked every major

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<v Speaker 1>show that was happening in Chicago at the time. And

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<v Speaker 1>then two years later I went to l A and

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<v Speaker 1>that was when I started telling me I was a writer,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what they had told me at school, and

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<v Speaker 1>my entire identity changed after that. It's so extraordinary. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I overuse the matrixes of reference points of touchstone

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<v Speaker 1>in my life, but I do often think, like you

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<v Speaker 1>know the scene where he goes to see the oracle

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<v Speaker 1>and she tells him he's not the one. I just

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<v Speaker 1>think that those moments in our lives where life is

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<v Speaker 1>telling you, no, it's absolutely not you, it's not you

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<v Speaker 1>at all, they are the moments out of which the

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<v Speaker 1>most grows because you have to disagree with it in

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<v Speaker 1>order to carry on in a way, or you have

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<v Speaker 1>to become something else. Yes, I was the only kid

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<v Speaker 1>in my class to graduate from drama school without an agent.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's just me and my mom and all

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<v Speaker 1>these other kids standing with their agents and their parents

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<v Speaker 1>after the last performance with like warm white wine, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like everyone has an agent here except me,

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom was like, well, I don't have an

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<v Speaker 1>agent either. That's amazing. That's literally something my mom would

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<v Speaker 1>say to me. Yeah. I mean it was really hard

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<v Speaker 1>and it was really harsh. I think it's really interesting though,

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<v Speaker 1>that the people who were so unsupportive of you as

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<v Speaker 1>an actor told you that you were a writer and

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<v Speaker 1>that you should go and do that, and the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you actually did go and do that, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you can be an actor, you can be a writer,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do whatever you want. It's interesting. I like

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<v Speaker 1>it when the people who were apparently limiting us, we're

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<v Speaker 1>actually giving us exactly what we needed to grow. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's everything. Were you a student when he wrote Slave Play? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Jeremy. Basically, Slave Play haunted all three years

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<v Speaker 1>of my graduate degree because in my first year I

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<v Speaker 1>started working on it and writing it, and then my

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<v Speaker 1>second year we put it up in the fall and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a big fallout with the administration and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of my professors who really hated the play and

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<v Speaker 1>tortured me. And then the next half of the year

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to get some of the people who

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<v Speaker 1>were really messed up about that fire um and then

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<v Speaker 1>in my third year I wrote a thesis play about

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<v Speaker 1>how that experience had been the worst thing ever while

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<v Speaker 1>the play was going up in the city. What was

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<v Speaker 1>the central beef that they had with your play? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was mainly a power thing, which is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons why it was most frustrating and really drawing,

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<v Speaker 1>because it had very little to do with the actual

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<v Speaker 1>like nuts and bolts of my play, as I could

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<v Speaker 1>see visa vie their relationship to the other work that

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<v Speaker 1>was happening around me. It was more so the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that they told me to cut twenty minutes out of

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<v Speaker 1>the play and I said, I don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That note doesn't make sense to me, and they said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're telling you to do this, and it was about

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<v Speaker 1>like this power thing, and I think the more I've

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<v Speaker 1>dug in my heels and was like, no, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's a bad note, the more angry they got. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like the Battle of wills that ended

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<v Speaker 1>with a professor yelling at me and sending me really

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<v Speaker 1>hate his emails and just having like a full mental spiral.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think it made you connect? Forced each connect

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<v Speaker 1>with the thesis of the play even more because you

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<v Speaker 1>were defending it so profoundly. Do you think that you

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of bonded with your play more because of

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<v Speaker 1>that extreme conflict? Well, yeah, I mean I think it

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<v Speaker 1>may be bond with the performers, especially the performer playing Knisha.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot at Yale is played by this woman named

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<v Speaker 1>Intra Neet Crow Legacy, who's an amazing actress. And obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>as you've you've been to drama school, you know that

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<v Speaker 1>when someone's actually just doing a power play, they'll change

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<v Speaker 1>their tactics really well. And so the tactic became, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not about the twenty minutes in that part so much.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just that those twenty minutes are so bad that

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<v Speaker 1>the endings the worst thing I've ever seen. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe this actress is doing this. If you're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>change these twenty minutes, you have to change the ending.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I tried to change the ending, and I

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<v Speaker 1>came back and his actors was like, why are you

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<v Speaker 1>changing this? Your play is saying this to me. She

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<v Speaker 1>said something to the room about her character and why

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<v Speaker 1>she understood what was happening in the play. That was like,

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<v Speaker 1>my secret, it's for why I had written the play.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like someone's naming all the reasons why I had

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<v Speaker 1>written the play from the point of view of acting

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<v Speaker 1>in this thing, and so I felt so immediately um indicated. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And it also made me know that at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, great performers, they are great ensemble are

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<v Speaker 1>more important than teachers. No wonder how many you know,

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<v Speaker 1>McArthur Pullitzer, O bis they've won. You know what I mean? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd think that. But by the way, speaking as someone

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<v Speaker 1>who has worked with extraordinarily collaborative people and then slightly

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<v Speaker 1>more autocratic directors and producers, I must say that it's

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<v Speaker 1>very refreshing to hear you say that, Jeremy, because it

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<v Speaker 1>is a collaboration. You're all working towards the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think sometimes actors certainly get the reputation that

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<v Speaker 1>it's really just about self aggrandizement. And I really is

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<v Speaker 1>biggest soliloquy as opposed to no best idea wins. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I love because you're a writer and an actor

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<v Speaker 1>and a director and a kind of conceiver of art

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<v Speaker 1>that you recognize that. I feel vindication as an actor

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that you say what you bring him when you're

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<v Speaker 1>inside a character, you can sometimes give a perspective that

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<v Speaker 1>is unique because you're living inside your particular piece of

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<v Speaker 1>this greater piece of work. One of the things that's

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<v Speaker 1>most invigorating about getting all of these Tony nominations is

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<v Speaker 1>that twelve Tony nominations have very little to do with

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy o' harris writing this play right, and everything to

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<v Speaker 1>do with the community of people around this play that

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote. Those things really matter to me because the

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<v Speaker 1>family that we made with this play was really tight,

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<v Speaker 1>and we listened really well to each other. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think what's really exciting what the Tony is that everyone

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<v Speaker 1>seeing James Society, Morier, Jachina Cala Congo, Annie McNamara, Shalia Latour,

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<v Speaker 1>Auntie Blanks and Wood, Lindsay Jones, G G D D

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<v Speaker 1>Clint and Robert and not to mention like Paul Sullivan

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<v Speaker 1>and it ain't a who were the three actors of

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<v Speaker 1>our eight that didn't get nominated, but who obviously play

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<v Speaker 1>the gift twelve nominations, they're still being celebrated as well,

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<v Speaker 1>the community saying like, no, you guys really came together

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<v Speaker 1>and you fought for each other. And that makes me

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<v Speaker 1>soory because Arena and Shalia were in the first reading

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<v Speaker 1>of its play, So I just wanted to say that

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<v Speaker 1>Slave Player also did something really extraordinary. Jeremy insisted on

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<v Speaker 1>there being a subsidized ticket program so that when you

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<v Speaker 1>would go to buy a ticket, you would be also

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<v Speaker 1>able to buy a ticket for someone who maybe couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>afford to go to the theater. And what that did

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<v Speaker 1>for the community and the anomaly that that was I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really genuinely hope becomes a normal practice on Broadway in

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<v Speaker 1>the West End, in every theater loving city in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>It was extraordinary the amount of first time ticket buyers

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<v Speaker 1>or theater girls who went to see Slave Blay because

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<v Speaker 1>they were able to what that speaks to you about

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<v Speaker 1>community and what that speaks to you about what the

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<v Speaker 1>theater is always purporting to be about, which is about

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<v Speaker 1>coming together and than the stories of our community. For

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<v Speaker 1>the community, that was one of the most amazing. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>beyond the extraordinary impact of the play and what it

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<v Speaker 1>forced us all to meditate on and think about and

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<v Speaker 1>talk about forever, is that notion of community for me

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<v Speaker 1>and availability to everybody, not just to the famous people,

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<v Speaker 1>the rich people, the white people, but to everybody. It's

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<v Speaker 1>an incredibly special play for so many reasons. When I

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<v Speaker 1>hope that it stops being an anomaly and actually just becomes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the norm same. I mean, it's really nice

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<v Speaker 1>to be an anomaly because it means you're special, you're

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<v Speaker 1>one of a kind. But when being one of a

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<v Speaker 1>kind means that you're like opening the doors for more

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<v Speaker 1>people than it's not fun. You want to know that

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<v Speaker 1>more people are doing that so that this thing you

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<v Speaker 1>love a can survive and be can be experienced by

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<v Speaker 1>as many people as possible. What person, place, or experience

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<v Speaker 1>has most altered your life, well, I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>because she's constantly offering the direction of my life. It

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<v Speaker 1>would have to be my mom, because she had me

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<v Speaker 1>when she was nineteen and came to a community that

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<v Speaker 1>does not have very many opportunities for people of color,

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<v Speaker 1>especially women of color, and worked really hard to psyphon

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<v Speaker 1>off as many opportunities as she could for me, even

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<v Speaker 1>if that meant denying herself certain opportunities. And so that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I think she's most afted in my life. She

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<v Speaker 1>put me in the private school so that she couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>afford to send me to and she's always sounded like

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<v Speaker 1>an extraordinary person. She's the absolute Disneys and I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be the person I am now without her. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. I love that. I'm glad it's your mom.

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<v Speaker 1>So here we go. I would like you to please

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<v Speaker 1>tell me where and when you were happiest. This is

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<v Speaker 1>really it is actually really funny because I just answered

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<v Speaker 1>this question for g Q and and for some reason

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<v Speaker 1>felt like a fake answer at the time. But the

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<v Speaker 1>more I think about, the more real it sounds in

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<v Speaker 1>my head. I think I felt the happiest when I

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<v Speaker 1>was at McDowell in New Hampshire, which is where I

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<v Speaker 1>went when I was twenty six year old. It's where

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<v Speaker 1>I decided I was going to go to grad school,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was where I really, for the first time

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<v Speaker 1>in my life, I felt like an artist because I've

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<v Speaker 1>been welcomed into this historic colony of artists. For people

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<v Speaker 1>who don't know McDowell, it's the oldest artistic commune in

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<v Speaker 1>the country. James Baldwin wrote Giovanni's room there. Tanahusey Coats

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<v Speaker 1>wrote there the color purple is written there. I'm naming

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<v Speaker 1>only the black people like Lennard Bernstein went there and

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<v Speaker 1>it's artists of all disciplines. It's painters, writers, composers, playwrights.

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<v Speaker 1>And you endowed with this. You invited, you singled out

0:21:06.359 --> 0:21:09.399
<v Speaker 1>and invited. No, you're not invite, you apply. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>an application process is highly competitive. So many writers I

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<v Speaker 1>know haven't gotten in. And it's a place that's really

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<v Speaker 1>rare because you can be there with someone who's won

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<v Speaker 1>four pool and surprises, you know, Michael Chaban, can be

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<v Speaker 1>there with someone who's only written a short play, which

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<v Speaker 1>is what I had done. Like I had only written

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<v Speaker 1>a thirty minute play. I had no real credits. I

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<v Speaker 1>just had good recommendations. And you tell them what you

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<v Speaker 1>want to write while you're there, and I told him

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<v Speaker 1>I want to write this play called Daddy. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I got there, you know, and I'm sitting at a

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<v Speaker 1>table with the likes of Michael, Alma Raida and Adrian

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole LeBlanc, and I was like, great, what it was?

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<v Speaker 1>It was really lovely. But I think that there was

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<v Speaker 1>a moment there when I had such insane imposter syndrome,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, I started out as an actor, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't start out as a playwright. And I lived in

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<v Speaker 1>l A for six years sort of telling people I

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<v Speaker 1>was the play right because I didn't want to tell

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<v Speaker 1>people I was an actor. And then one day someone

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, well, are you actually a writer? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I think I am. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>started writing, but I still felt like I was tricking

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<v Speaker 1>people right, like that I was illegitimate. And meanwhile, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling my mom, who's working three jobs to support herself,

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<v Speaker 1>my sister and me, well past the age that people

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<v Speaker 1>get supported. Where I'm coming from, there's no idea of

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<v Speaker 1>the young artist who gets helped from their mom at

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four to help pay their rent. Right. My mom

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<v Speaker 1>is doing something that's like a huge anomaly for our community.

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<v Speaker 1>And I keep promising her, like I promise you, mom,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just help me out one more time, it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work out. Just give me a few more years,

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<v Speaker 1>another month, like if I don't figure it out by

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<v Speaker 1>the time I'm thirty, I'll go back to school and

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<v Speaker 1>become a lawyer or something. And so I was there.

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<v Speaker 1>I had all this imposter syndrome, and then one day

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<v Speaker 1>someone was talking about something and someone turned me like, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think? And I was like, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think this. I don't know if you've ever read this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't remember exactly what it was, but everyone

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<v Speaker 1>the table was like, wow, oh my god, that's so impressive,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's so great, and the like changed the course

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<v Speaker 1>of the thing. Everyone started asking more questions about what

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, and in that moment I realized whoa, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really here, and I went outside to have a

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<v Speaker 1>cigarette and Adrian Nicole LeBlanc, who is the MacArthur Genius

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<v Speaker 1>Grant winning writer of Random Family, came up to me

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, that was so beautiful what you just

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<v Speaker 1>said back there, and I was like, it's so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone here feels so beyond me, Like I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that I can even catch up with where they are

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<v Speaker 1>in the world, and the fact they care about what

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say is so weird. And She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>why is it weird we're all sitting at the same table.

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<v Speaker 1>In that moment, I think I felt so happy because

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<v Speaker 1>it felt like this thing I've been promising my mom

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<v Speaker 1>that like my difference meant that I was, that I

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<v Speaker 1>was a part of a community of artists, was finally affirmed. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>All of our hard work was affirmed in that moment,

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<v Speaker 1>so do you feel a sense of belonging and the

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<v Speaker 1>vindication of everything that your mom had believed in you

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<v Speaker 1>and put into it qualifies that happiness? Yes, it shapes

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<v Speaker 1>that happiness. I love that Jeremy. I'm looking at the

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<v Speaker 1>Barack Obama book right now. He's so handsome. He's so handsome.

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<v Speaker 1>He's so handsome and so kind, and I love his

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<v Speaker 1>wife so much. It's almost like they're superheroes. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I put them in the same category. I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to interview him because he's been saying some really interesting

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<v Speaker 1>things recently. He did this interview about his book. He

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<v Speaker 1>was just like talking too, how crazy the Republican Party

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<v Speaker 1>it's got. Now. He's like, you know, there's just so

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<v Speaker 1>much crazy stuff. You know, one minute they're saying Hillary

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<v Speaker 1>Clinton is running a pedophile ring, and the next minute

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<v Speaker 1>they're saying that Joe Biden is a socialist, Like who

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<v Speaker 1>are these people? And it's just like, I get what

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to say, but also like saying Joe Biden

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<v Speaker 1>is a socialist, it's not as egregious an idea as

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<v Speaker 1>someone running a pedophile ring, But the fact that those

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<v Speaker 1>two things are in the same level in that anecdote

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<v Speaker 1>said something Freudian, and I'm just like, someone needs to

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<v Speaker 1>mind this because you also came out of the gate.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, you know, this wild progressive, and yet like

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<v Speaker 1>he's aligning himself so often with this in drists, in

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<v Speaker 1>our parties and ways that I find he definitely doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to unless that's just really how he feels, in

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<v Speaker 1>which case it makes me a little sad. But I

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<v Speaker 1>want to challenge him on some of that. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I so now I want to hear that Jeremy Harris, Brock,

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<v Speaker 1>Obama and Tod. I think that would be really good

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<v Speaker 1>because I was st talking about sex because he's a leo,

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<v Speaker 1>so he walks around with pelvis first. You know, he

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<v Speaker 1>has like a real like b D about him, which

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<v Speaker 1>I think was the most attractive thing. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of we're talking about like I was like, but

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<v Speaker 1>you were a nerd. But when did you start getting late?

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<v Speaker 1>Like was it in college or was it in grad school?

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<v Speaker 1>Like when did you start to know him your sexual power?

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<v Speaker 1>When did your not get its freak on? Yeah? Exactly exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>But I want to know that now too. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know I wanted to know that until you just

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<v Speaker 1>said that. Now I'm going to think about it a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's kind of hot and also feels naughty. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And in his book apparently he talked about how he

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<v Speaker 1>used to say the word fag in the seventies. And

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be like, but did you ever make

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<v Speaker 1>up with a guy? Because you feel like you did.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny here we are kind of federating a

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<v Speaker 1>bomb or like putting him on his pedestinal. Meanwhile, you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>did you kiss a guy? Because I feel like you did.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we all really want to know. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to see you again. I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to see you again. And I thank you with all

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<v Speaker 1>my heart for doing this. I'm thrilled about the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of everything that you are going to do. It makes me,

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me happy. Thank you. In closing, I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to tell you that Jeremy co wrote this movie Zola,

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<v Speaker 1>which a Nick's a Bravo based on tweet spy Asaiah King.

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<v Speaker 1>Jicks also directed the movie, and it's out June. This woman,

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<v Speaker 1>as Iah King tweeted, in real time and experience she

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<v Speaker 1>decided to be a part of. And I won't give

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<v Speaker 1>anything away but it is. It's an extraordinary premise and

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<v Speaker 1>I really cannot wait to see the finished film. It

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<v Speaker 1>premiered at Sundance last year. Jeremy also is adapting with

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<v Speaker 1>the Ziza Barnes Britt Bennett's novel The Vanishing Half, which

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<v Speaker 1>I also can't wait to see, and that will also

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<v Speaker 1>be out later this year. Mini Questions is hosted and

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<v Speaker 1>written by Me Mini Driver, supervising producer Aaron Kaufman, Producer

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan Lavoy, Research assistant Marissa Brown. Original music Sorry Baby

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<v Speaker 1>by Mini Driver, additional music by Aaron Kaufman. Executive produced

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<v Speaker 1>by Me and man Gesh Hetty Cador. Special thanks to

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<v Speaker 1>Jim Nikolay, Will Pearson, Addison No Day, Lisa Castella and

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<v Speaker 1>Driver and Jason Weinberg, and for constantly solicited tech support

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