1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: What's up everybody, and welcome back batch our nation. Happy 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: new year. It is twenty twenty, a new year, a 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: new time, and we've got new information for Bachelor Happy 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: Hour that I can't wait to share with you. A 5 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: big announcement. Drom roll please for our new calls Becca 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: Well now the podcast with me every single week. Becca. 7 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. The people asked for you and they 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: got it. Give the people what they want. They got 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: exactly what they wanted. They wanted you, we heard really 10 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: it was up to me and I wanted you, and 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to have you as my co host. 12 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. We're gonna have too much fun. We're 13 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: gonna have way too much fun. So apologies in advance, 14 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: but I'm so excited to be co hosteen with you. 15 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: This is a very new endeavor for me. But I 16 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: cannot wait. We're gonna have some amazing guests, some fun 17 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: games of course, some champagne along the way because it's 18 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: a happy Hour. So I cannot wait to start the 19 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: new year. And you know what I'm excited about too. 20 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: We're like the Ying and the Yang. I think we're 21 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: gonna balance each other out so well because I mean, 22 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: some people may say that I'm just a little bit 23 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: rough around the edges, and I feel like you're that 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: that calming spirit that's gonna smooth things. Oh, Rachel, don't 25 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: put too much pressure on me. We'll see I'm poking 26 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: the bear. I'm gonna make you say some things. People 27 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: are gonna be like, man, man, what happened to try 28 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: in California for too long? She's listening to Minnesota Nice 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: good Cop, Bad Cop. Well, I am so happy that 30 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: you are here as my co host to kick off 31 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: the New Year, New Year, New Duo? Is that going 32 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: to be our tagline? I think so. I like it. 33 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: I like it. I think it's cute. And we have 34 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: two amazing guests to start that out. So we're a duo, 35 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: but we also have a duo in studio, maybe an 36 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: even better duo. Yeah. So I don't know if people 37 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: can recognize or tell from their voices, but we should 38 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: give them some hints. Okay, So how should we do this? 39 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: I would say we have some of America's coolest parents. 40 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: Just from talking to you both for five minutes. Yeah, 41 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: I would say that maybe they've known the bachelor his 42 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: entire life. Maybe could condition some secrets, some of the 43 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: dirty secrets on The Bachelor. Some people say they fell 44 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: in love with these parents before they fell in love 45 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: with Peter. I know who said that this one over here? 46 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: I felt I understood you once I met your parents 47 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: on the screen. Anyways, now it sings out you know 48 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: exactly who it is. Welcome to the show, Barb and 49 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: Peter Senior. Yeah, whare which I just found out. By 50 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: the way, Peter, I had know what. Peter's in the room. 51 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: By the way, you guys, I had no idea you 52 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: were a junior middle name cut all the Really Peter 53 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: number two Budd? Okay, yeah different different right, So Bachelor Bud, 54 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: it's in the room. But that's cute. I welcome to 55 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: the show, you guys. You're happy to have you here 56 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,519 Speaker 1: than I am thrilled to have you here. When I 57 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: saw you during the hometown week on hand this season, 58 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: I had to do a recap for another station and 59 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: I was just like getting in all the close ups 60 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: of you two. I loved you too. So when I 61 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: found out you guys are going to be in the 62 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 1: studio with us, I was thrilled. Oh, thank you, thank you. Yeah. 63 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people share Becca's sentiment. You know, 64 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: when when Peter introduced us to you guys and we 65 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: met you at his hometown, there was just the energy 66 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: came through the television screen. Okay, and I'm not a 67 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 1: cheesy person, so I'm not just saying this because I'm 68 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: sitting in front of you. There was something about your 69 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: family that America fell in love with. It was just 70 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: special and fun and you could just feel the love 71 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: and like you said, the good energy, Like you guys 72 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: are a family that I would just want to hang 73 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: out with. Oh, I mean, Wes. So I feel like 74 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: it's so special to have you guys here because so 75 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: many people want to hear your story. You know, we've 76 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: seen you as Peter's parents obviously have set such a 77 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: good example for him where he went on this crazy 78 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: journey to try to get exactly what the two of 79 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: you have. So I want to get into your background 80 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: and your love story. And so we're just going to 81 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: start from the beginning. Okay, sounds good. Are you ready? 82 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: But first I have one important question before we start. 83 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: What's it? Are you two the most popular people in 84 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: Westlake Village at this point? I don't know about that, 85 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: but I would say it's we have had encounters absent 86 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: Peter where it's just to me, it's very surreal coming 87 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: somebody complete stranger coming up and knowing who we are. 88 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: It's like, oh my goodness. And you you had an 89 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: incident at the Oh yeah. I'm at Stonehouse the other 90 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: day and I'm with a friend of mine and she says, 91 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: are you well known around here yet or do they 92 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: recognize you? And I don't know. So we're eating and 93 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, eight ladies come around me 94 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: and they go, are you pilot Pete's mom? And I'm 95 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: like yeah, And then my girlfriend looks at me and says, 96 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: I thought you said you didn't get recognized. I well, 97 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 1: it's only gonna get worse from here, and in a 98 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,559 Speaker 1: good way. In a good way. Yeah. People were really happy, 99 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: even more. We welcome it good. How long have you 100 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: guys been in Westlake Village? We moved here in two 101 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: thousand and four. Four, okay, two thousand and four. We 102 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: came from Florida. We're in Florida, Boa like now that 103 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 1: I'm a Floridian, I just moved to my DEMI So 104 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: you moved to where my family's from. Yes, yes, you 105 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: know Cuban. Yes, yes, yes, yes, I have to talk 106 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: about it. We can get all into that. I still 107 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: haven't had good Cuban food yet. Got a gloss from 108 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: for you to go seriously to the household we are No, yeah, 109 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: we could definitely go on about that because I'm like 110 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: immersing myself in the Latin culture, my husband's Colombian, and 111 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: the Floridian culture. I'm not a big fan of Florida yet, 112 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: so you can help me get there. So you've already 113 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: moved to Miami. Yeah, I moved in April. Oh my, 114 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: just coming back and forth. That's right. Oh my god? 115 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: Now mom and dad? Who's asking the questions? Sorry? I 116 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: just wan, but I think so many people want to know. 117 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: So we know you moved to Westlake in two thousand 118 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,239 Speaker 1: and four. How did the two of you guys meet? Boy? 119 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: You know? Actually it was thirty three years ago, yesterday, 120 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: December third, And I was a flight of ten entry United. 121 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: Husband's still a flight pilot for I know. I tell 122 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: me you're a flighted and on the captain right anyway, 123 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 1: he's still flying for United today. But we were on 124 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: a flight and I was supposed to be deadheading. That 125 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: means I wasn't working. I was sitting as a passenger 126 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: going from Chicago to Miami to work the flight back. 127 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: So I'm sitting here and on the airplane and I 128 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: see this fellow go right by me. And this is 129 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: before we take off, of course, you know. And I 130 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 1: looked over and do you know that all I saw 131 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: was his butt. Yeah, I saw him from the bad 132 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: He was really nice and tan because he had been 133 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: doing Hawaii trips, so he was really tan, and I 134 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: could see his pants and everything. It was just so nice, 135 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: you know. And do you know I do too. Do 136 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: you know that I knew I was going to marry him. 137 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: I didn't even know his upon the first rook, just 138 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: the butt look. I believe I did not even see 139 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: his face. And I went over like this, and I go, oh, 140 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: that's the guy I'm going to marry. And you know what. 141 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: Then we landed in Miami, and of course now I'm 142 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: working the flight back and he comes in the back 143 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: and he says, you know, there's a possibility that we 144 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: might have a mechanical so we might have to stay 145 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: in Miami. And I said to him, I said, oh, 146 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: that's great, because I'll get to see my family. Yeah, 147 00:07:51,200 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: you asked me. I did ask me that, two good ones, right, 148 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: So I figured, oh darn it, I didn't have a 149 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: bathing suit with me. But you know, I mean I 150 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: was already in love with him. I was just there 151 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: was something about him that it had just attracted me 152 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: so much. And so he went skinny dipping like I 153 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: don't want to hear this. No, actually, we um no. 154 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: We actually went back to Chicago because the flight, you know, 155 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: it was okay. We got back to Chicago, and then 156 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: on the way back, I remember telling my flying partners, 157 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: I really really want him to ask me for my number, 158 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 1: but I don't know how to do it, you know, 159 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 1: I mean, how does he ask me? And so forth? 160 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 1: And my flying partner said, write it on a piece 161 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,599 Speaker 1: of paper and just give it to him when he 162 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 1: leaves the plane. And I went and I got, okay, 163 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: my name Barbara and my phone number, and oh the 164 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: soundwriting is not good. I want to think, I'm really 165 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: you know, everything's perfect. I did it again. I did 166 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: it three times. Okay. I put it inside my apron 167 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: pocket because I figured, you know, I'm not gonna do this. 168 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 1: It's just I'm not that aggressive. So we get to 169 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: Chicago and he comes out of the cockpit and he 170 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: says to me, He goes, you know you told me 171 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: that you were Cuban. Can you speak, you know, say 172 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: something in Spanish to me? Because he grew up in Venezuela. 173 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 1: And I looked at him and I said, oh nah, 174 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 1: And he goes, oh my god. Well she had me 175 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: at hello. But I was expecting a little bit more 176 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: than that, and I just thought, okay, fine. So he says, 177 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: do you have it? I'd like to get your number 178 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: because I like to take you out. And he says, 179 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: do you have a piece of paper a pen? I go, 180 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: I don't have anything on me. You have to get 181 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: a piece of paper and a pen. Keep in mind 182 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: I have three of them in my pocket. All right. 183 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: So he goes and looks for a pen and a 184 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: piece of paper and I write my name and the 185 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: rest is, you know. Two kids later, two kids later, 186 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: Peter and Jack. Oh, I love that story too. It 187 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: was It was really sweet. I just love the swimsuit 188 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: that can you speak in Spanish? I mean, listen, that's 189 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: that's how my husband got me too. So I get it. Yeah, yeah, 190 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: all because of the butt. Yeah, but the button so 191 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: when you were okay, so you get back, does he 192 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: call right away? How do you go on the date? 193 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: After all? I keep in mind, Okay, I'm Chicago, Okay, city, Okay, 194 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: I'm not athletic me either, but you feel so you 195 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: feel me. I'm not athletic at all. I'm just city 196 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: person all the way. So he sends me a little 197 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: note in my mailbox at work, and he says, i'd 198 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 1: like before that, didn't I left? I thought I left 199 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: you some messages. Oh you didn't you? No? No, but 200 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: you were on it. I was. I was on vacation. 201 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: So when I got back, I got this message for 202 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: the date, and he says, we just to have little 203 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: mailboxes in our operations area where you could you know, information? 204 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: So I would I left her out, yeah, and then 205 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 1: put an info. The date was, would you like to 206 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: go skiing with me? He lived in Denver for the 207 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: first day, first date. I lived in Chicago. Okay, I've 208 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: never I don't even know what a bunny hill is, 209 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: I've never heard anything. So he says, would I like 210 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: to take you skiing? You know in Denver? And I 211 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: do you like to ski? And I wrote that I 212 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: love to skim you know, I'm I'm good I ski 213 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 1: well basically, oh get off all the way. I've never 214 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: seen a ski in my life at this point. So anyway, 215 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: so I get this and I go to the nearest 216 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: like ski store in Chicago, and I'm like, okay, what 217 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: looks good? What looks good? And you know, I really 218 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: didn't have a lot of money at the time because 219 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: it was just, you know, I just started flying and 220 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: all that, and to get the gear it's expensive. So 221 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 1: I thought, okay, I might as well just get a 222 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 1: really nice coat. So I got this really cute little coat, 223 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: you know, and I couldn't get the pants or anything else. 224 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: And I said, okay, I'll be there. Well, I show 225 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: up to go skiing with him in jeans, okay, blue jeans, 226 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:13,839 Speaker 1: cute little top, and my high heel boots that I 227 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: would warn in the city, high heel boots that are 228 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: I knew right away shouldn't slope before when she showed up. 229 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: And then we do. He tells me, okay, let's get 230 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: the boots on, and I'm like, oh, these are not 231 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: very ladylike to walk with. So I get out and 232 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: he says, we're going to go here on the chairlift. 233 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 1: We'll keep in mind I don't do heights. I'm paranoid 234 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: of heights. Okay, I can do airplanes because i'm inclosed, 235 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: but if i'm out, I don't do that. I'm well. 236 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: And he says, okay, let's get him the chairlift right, 237 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 1: and he doesn't. I have not told him I don't 238 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 1: ski yet, so I knew through myself and this chairlift, 239 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: which I've never done that before, and going up, I 240 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: put the bar down right away because I was scared. 241 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 1: And we're going up, and he says to me, he says, oh, 242 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: isn't that beautiful? Look at had beautiful sight. He's to 243 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 1: my right. I'm to the left, and I have my 244 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: eyes closed the whole I'm looking this day and I'm saying, yes, 245 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: it's absolutely beautiful. But with my eyes closed, he can't 246 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: see my eyes closed. And when we're getting right to 247 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: the point that we have to get off, he says, okay, 248 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: we're here, and I know I have to open my 249 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: eyes now. I opened my eyes and I see. I'm like, 250 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: there's just no way I have to tell him the truth. 251 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: I looked over it himself. I've never skied a day 252 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: in my life, never skied a day in my life, 253 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 1: and he says, just let me grab onto you. He 254 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: had to grab onto me and then come down that 255 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: little slope because if we didn't get off there, we 256 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: were going to the top, you know. And so she 257 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: has some motivation, motivation to get off. But it was scary, 258 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: but she looked cute. I feel like, yes, it mattered, right, Hey, 259 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: I get it. I'm from the Midwest, so we have 260 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: slim pickens on those hills there, So yes, I would 261 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 1: be the same way if I got to Denver and 262 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: got on the mountain, then'd be like, uh, isn't too 263 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: late to say no? At the end of the day, 264 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 1: she was actually skiing, Yeah, I mean, yeah, not too 265 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: bad because I was in love. Oh I love that. 266 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: And he came from a reason to hold on to you. Yeah. Yeah, 267 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: that was really what she was trying to. Yeah, you 268 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: got it. So you guys have been married for thirty 269 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 1: one years, Yes, and it seems like there's no love loss. 270 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: I mean you really see. I mean I'm looking at 271 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: the way that barb that you're looking at it just Peter. 272 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: She is that between Peter Bud Pete Senior. I don't 273 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: know what she's saying, I'm just gonna sticking dad. I 274 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: see the way that she's looking at your dad, and 275 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: to have, you know, such a fire for each other 276 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: such as zess that I know, like we everyone in 277 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: this room, those who are newly weds engaged. Maybe I 278 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: don't know. I really don't know. I don't want to 279 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: know the way that we aspire to, So I guess 280 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: I just want to aspire towards what do you do 281 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: to keep the love alive thirty one years? Well, you 282 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: know something that helped right off the bat was we 283 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: were both in the same business, you know, flight attendant pilot. 284 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: We got to fly together a lot um. We flew 285 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: to Europe a lot. Barbara was the language qual so 286 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: it was easier for her to bid the trips that 287 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: I was flying. And you know, having something in common 288 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: like that was was really nice, you know, just just 289 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: off the bat, because you know, being in the aviation industry, 290 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: it's it's tough for somebody who doesn't understand, you know, 291 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: like you know, you're on a trip, you're gone for 292 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: several days, you come home, you're dead tired, you might 293 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: not want to do go out whatever. But we didn't 294 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 1: have that that issue and just um, she's just fun. 295 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: Oh she's just always up to do whatever whenever, and uh, 296 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: just a lot of fun. You know, It's it's hard 297 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: not to gravitate toward that. I love you too. Oh 298 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: I love this. I love looking at you guys. So 299 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: I want to know, on all those flights that you 300 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: guys had together, did we ever find moments to us 301 00:15:55,560 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: sneak away basically like oh high club, yes or no? 302 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: You know what. I think We're getting out a lot 303 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 1: of information, but it's time for you to return the favor. Okay, 304 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: you got to hear about that damn windmill, so a 305 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: more time we need to hear your stories. But the 306 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 1: important thing is Peter, they're married, Okay, Okay, yes, okay, 307 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: I can't, I can't, okay, Okay, So we know a 308 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: little bit how you guys keep the fire alive. Um? 309 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: Any advice for newlyweds like miss Rachel over here or 310 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: people who are engaged. I just moved in with my 311 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 1: fiance a few months ago, so we're navigating this whole 312 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: new chapter of our lives. But any advice for us 313 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: newbies in these relationships? Oh boy, Um, I would say 314 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: do spontaneously. I love it. That's one thing that we 315 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 1: before I even when the boys were born. Before that, 316 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: we were very spontaneous. We just say, you know, let's 317 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 1: go on a trip. We'd go like we lived at 318 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 1: the time, we lived in Virginia, and we'd say, hey, 319 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: let's go, you know, to New Orleans because we want 320 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 1: some Cajun food for the day. You know, let's go 321 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: here and just be you know, have that spark that 322 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 1: just doesn't die. Have that little bit of mystique, you 323 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 1: know that you can offer each other by doing crazy things, 324 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: fun things, you know, just things that um come natural 325 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 1: to you but from the heart. And I yeah, absolutely. 326 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: I mean it's great to do things together. But do 327 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 1: you each have to have your own thing too? So, 328 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,199 Speaker 1: I mean I think that's very important. I think that 329 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,160 Speaker 1: is important. That's what my grandfather always said. You still 330 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 1: need your own hobbies, you do. Yeah, I have a question. 331 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: Once you two got together, did you did you have 332 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: to report it to the airlines like the HR Department 333 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 1: because you were do you have to do that? I 334 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: don't know why. I know, the legal and changed so 335 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 1: much now. I mean it didn't matter, No, it didn't 336 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,640 Speaker 1: matter at all. See, I would at sometimes I wish 337 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: things could still kind of be like that. So did 338 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: you get to travel together. Were you still in the 339 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: same flight pattern? Yes, oh yeah together. What fun is that? 340 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 1: We used to go a lot. Was well, we did Europe, 341 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: we did Europe a Madrid. Yeah, they're hiring pilot license, okay, 342 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 1: and no, we we we flew a lot. And of 343 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: course when we got there, we always you know, did something, 344 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:40,199 Speaker 1: you know, we'd go out to eat, we'd go sight seeing. 345 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you a funny story, please, So it 346 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: didn't always work out that our schedules meshed right. And 347 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 1: of course we had Peter and he oh he was 348 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: about six months was it six months? Okay? So you know, 349 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: there were a lot of quite a few times where 350 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 1: I'd get home from a trip and I'd rush home 351 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 1: so she could go on her trip and I'd take 352 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 1: care of Peter and vice versa. Well, I was in 353 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 1: I was coming home from Paris and we got delayed, 354 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like freaking out because I know that she's 355 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: going to be flying to Madrid. She's got Peter, you know, 356 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 1: her mom is in Chicago, and so we're you know, 357 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: we're in the air and I'm tracking when we're going 358 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 1: to get there, and so we get on the ground. 359 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 1: I'm coming through immigration in Dallas Airport in Virginia, and 360 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: I'm calling her. I'm saying, I'm coming through immigration. So 361 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 1: she's waiting outside the doors and she hands me Peter 362 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: and I take him home and she goes and flies 363 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: her trip. I mean, that's how close it was. But 364 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 1: the thing is, this is how close it really was. 365 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: I was already boarding passengers and welcoming on them one 366 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: and a first class seat in front here because if 367 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 1: we let you know, when the raps come in. He 368 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: had him in the first seat there, in the first 369 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 1: class seat in his little carrier, just looking at him 370 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: and going, Hi, welcome aboard, Welcome aboward. You know your 371 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: glass of champagne, my son over here. That made a 372 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 1: good little entrance. I'd like that. And then I see 373 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: him coming down, running down the jetway, and I'm going 374 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 1: and you'd never get away with that today. I mean, 375 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: you know, just I say, and you know, forget it, 376 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: bring my kid on board? No, where's his ticket? You know, 377 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 1: I mean it's just, you know, everything's changed. Peter was 378 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: destined to be a Poe, my goodness. I mean, I 379 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 1: didn't know that you were a flat attendant. I knew 380 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 1: that you were a pilot or are a pilot? Still fine? 381 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: Are you still a flight attendant? No, okay, I'm a 382 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 1: real train now. Oh okay, okay, Yeah, I feel like 383 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,160 Speaker 1: this was all meant to be. So since we since 384 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: we threw Peter's name out here, let's talk about Peter, 385 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 1: because we know Peter one way, but you know him 386 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 1: a whole another way. Yeah. So what was he like 387 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 1: as a child? I want to know the bad stories, 388 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: not the good ones, the naughty ones, the naught Yes, 389 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 1: was he a naughty child? No? You know it's it 390 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 1: sounds boring, it is, Yeah, but he really was not 391 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: think he was. He really was. I mean I have 392 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: to say he's he's from the day that he was born. 393 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,199 Speaker 1: He slept great, you know, he slept in which I loved. 394 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 1: I mean, he's he's always been a really good kid. 395 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I mean, he one thing 396 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 1: about him when he started kindergarten in first grade, when 397 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,120 Speaker 1: he was able to write, do you know that at 398 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:31,399 Speaker 1: the end of every work that he did, you know, 399 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 1: you had to put your name right. And I don't 400 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: know where he started, but he started it. I am 401 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: happy he would finish off the Peter. I gem happy 402 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,479 Speaker 1: he did everything. Was I have that paper I was 403 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: telling Peter the other day, says, you know, we have 404 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 1: all this paperwork from Peter still and everything at the 405 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: ends is Peter Webber. I am happy. Oh he's always 406 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 1: been a really happy He never had no Seriously, when 407 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: I look back, I believe you he's really you know, 408 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 1: we've been blessed with two great kids. Um, but Peter 409 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: has never you know, he's always been the Craziest thing 410 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: you did that you got in trouble for was in Oaks. 411 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: I remembered that he climbed up onto the roof, you know, 412 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,199 Speaker 1: exterior roof to watch a football game with some friends. 413 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: How dare you, Peter? Oh my gosh, you don't even 414 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: do it perfectly did that to get into detention. And 415 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 1: then when he told us he was in detention, we're like, 416 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: both of us were like we're looking at arts, like 417 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: are you what and why? And You're like, oh, Peter, 418 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,719 Speaker 1: that's Peter. He wasn't given another boy, a swirly or anything. 419 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 1: It was just climbing the roof. I am so touched 420 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: by the I am happy. But let me tell you 421 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: why And I'm totally aging myself when I say this 422 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 1: in the room show of hands. Who's seen Legends of 423 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: the Fall? Okay, one of my favorites. Do you remember 424 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 1: when Anthony Hopkins took that chalkboard and wrote AM happy 425 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 1: after he had the stroke? So now I'm expecting anytime 426 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:18,879 Speaker 1: Peter signs autographs on his pictures at the end, I 427 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 1: don't love. That's like one of my favorite scenes in 428 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: the movie. So I don't know, that's just so nervous. 429 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 1: I just that's beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, And I think it 430 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: says a lot about who you are and a lot 431 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: about you as parents, right, because I don't know what 432 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 1: it says about my parents, but it says something about 433 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: you guys. No, so I want to know. So we 434 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: obviously we're talking about how you guys met and you know, 435 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 1: have the whole airline industry in your background. When did 436 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: you realize that Peter was going to follow in dad's footsteps? Oh? Boy? 437 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: Is there that one moment long long ago? Yeah, I 438 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,639 Speaker 1: mean one of my favorite pictures. How old is he 439 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: in that picture in the cocktail with me? Three? Two 440 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:02,360 Speaker 1: or three? Yeah? Um? You know, always loved air planes. 441 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: And always This is pretty funny story too, I'll tell 442 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: you this. He was It was in the um Brock 443 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 1: Road Elementary and they had an assignment. You know, what 444 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: do your parents do? Oh yeah? And he was in 445 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: first grade, okay, first grade. And as a pilot, you're 446 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 1: home a lot. I mean, yeah, you're gone too on 447 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 1: your trips, but you're your home more than your way. 448 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: And he said that I mowed the lawn most lawns. 449 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: You know, what does your dad do? He mows lawns. 450 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: You know, I used to. I used to. I used 451 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: to have him in my lap on this riding mord. 452 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:43,919 Speaker 1: I just take him around, you know. And I had 453 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: this green jumpsuit. It was a flying suit military thing. 454 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,879 Speaker 1: And yes, yeah, my dad mos lawns. And then the 455 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: teacher once, so your your husband mose lawns. Yeah yeah, 456 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 1: but you know I didn't go into together. He does 457 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 1: mow the lawn all the time, because Peter had told 458 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: him that. Yeah, but he told him that that's what 459 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: his profession was because he always saw him, So did Peter. 460 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 1: One of molans to take after you love that tractor. 461 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: I know that, but but airplanes are always you know, 462 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 1: foremost he always wanted to first, right was two weeks old? Really, yeah, 463 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: I took him to Chicago to visit my mother when 464 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 1: he was two weeks old. How did he do? It's fine, 465 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: I just flew with my two month old nephew and 466 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 1: he was surprisingly so easy. He made it look easy. 467 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 1: But then you know, you always get the crying kids 468 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 1: behind you too, and you know, like, well he would 469 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 1: before he even took off the run away. Yeah, the 470 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 1: first time he took he fell asleep before. But it's 471 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: coming to the kids and let's say the air infection 472 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: or something you know he possessed. Like I can't apply 473 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 1: a negative adjective to you, Like I'm not at all 474 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: like everything just it's so great and I believe it 475 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: and not scenes I believe it. I really do. I Okay, 476 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 1: So watching Peter on Hannah's season, you know I always 477 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 1: just you're always smiling Peter, like he always just has 478 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: this big grain. He's always he's I am happy, he's happy. 479 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 1: But now everything that you guys are telling us too 480 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: just backs it up. I want to hear, like one 481 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: besides climbing a roof, there had to be one time 482 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: where you had to ground him or something or you 483 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: found him sneaking out with a girl like miss Curfews. Yeah, 484 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 1: because we saw him, you know, a little kissy kissing. 485 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: I'm sure we'll see a little. He was very shy. No, 486 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 1: he never really girls. He never talked to girls. Um, 487 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: when did the sway come then? You know? Even in 488 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 1: do you remember when you were in when he was 489 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: even in grammar school? You know, Um, there was this 490 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,199 Speaker 1: really cute girl that we knew he had a crush on. 491 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 1: But of course, you know, he never told us what 492 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: we can tell because he didn't want to be by 493 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 1: her and just stay away from her and wide and uh, 494 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 1: every time I drop him off in the morning. Remember 495 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 1: when I would drop you off in the school in 496 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: the morning and the girl was opening the doors for 497 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: the kids when they came out, and go further, go further, 498 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 1: and I would say, Peter, calmed down, calmed down, And 499 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 1: I wanted to see the interaction with killer. The girl 500 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,399 Speaker 1: was so cute and the rolling in fourth grade. But 501 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 1: he was so shy, so shy. So when did he 502 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: come out of his shell with Hannah the first time? 503 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: What a shell to come out of, right, I mean, 504 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 1: my goodness, he didn't think what got him out of 505 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: Michelle was when he when you did um thoroughly modern? Really? 506 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 1: He to tread out for a play at this high 507 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: school and it was really it was really good. Yeah, 508 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: he was, he was on Was it a musical? Yeah, 509 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: musical thoroughly modern? Really? Would you care to step up 510 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 1: to the microphone and give us a little too, Damn, 511 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to give video clips. We'll be sure 512 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: to get that dance on video later at our high 513 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: school for a play because his daughter is starting one 514 00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: of the musicals, and he was talking to you, my 515 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 1: old teacher, and she was telling him about musical that 516 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:07,120 Speaker 1: I was in. Okay, So, speaking of Chris Harrison, did 517 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,200 Speaker 1: you so he his daughter went to your school growing 518 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,679 Speaker 1: up right now? Okay, so you did you guys know 519 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: him before Peter went on the show. No, no, not 520 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: like my senior year of high school. Yes, yes, actually okay, 521 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 1: we built it. Yeah, we actually ran in and Chris 522 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 1: there and how you doing? Yeah, I see you in 523 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 1: a few years. Yeah, you imagine in a couple of years. Okay, 524 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 1: So Peter sounds like he was a little bit shy 525 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 1: and tell this, Uh, what was the play? Millie Thoroughly Modern? 526 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: Millie what was Jack like and how is Jack handling 527 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 1: this change with his brother, the change from high school 528 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 1: or just or just not Peter, you know, now being 529 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: in the limelight and going on the show being so supportive. 530 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: I mean, they're they're best friends, you know, they're they 531 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: have each other's backs all the time. Um. I just 532 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 1: love the relationship that they have. And Jack is super 533 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 1: super supportive of him, as he is of always of Jack, 534 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 1: because Jack is our genius. So he's always very Yeah 535 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: he's brains and the smart one. Yeah, very smart. So 536 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 1: that we all support each other. Okay, I love that. 537 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: So we asked mom and Dad before recording the podcast 538 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: if Jack would potentially be the future bachelor. Apparently he's 539 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 1: in a in the serious relationship. It's a very serious 540 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 1: as I was about to say, you sound like you 541 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 1: like her, Yes, very much. We love her. Okay, so 542 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: we won't touch that, Okay, so we'll support that relationship. 543 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 1: But okay, okay, So I want to talk to you 544 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,479 Speaker 1: from the aspect as families having to sit and watch 545 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 1: Peter go through this whole crazy bachelor journey, because you 546 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: guys seem to handle it so well, and Becca and 547 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 1: I have both been through this, and I think I 548 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: know how my parents handled. They were terrified for me 549 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,360 Speaker 1: to go and do the Bachelor. They were bit more 550 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: supportive because I was going to be one of many, 551 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: but then to be the lead is a whole nother level, 552 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: and with that comes so much scrutiny. And I'm just 553 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: wondering for you, how do you deal with having to 554 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: watch from afar, you know, watch your son go off 555 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: and do all of this. Hear the negative comments. I'm 556 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: sure family and friends are like, did you see this? 557 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 1: Did you hear this? How do you deal with that? 558 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: Either mom or dad? Either one of you can take it? 559 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 1: You know I did, so, Okay, yeah, go ahead. You 560 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 1: know when he when he first did The Bachelorette, I 561 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: really knew nothing about the whole aspect of the show 562 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 1: and how it worked, and but he was so confident 563 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 1: in what he was going to do on that show. 564 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 1: I mean he literally say what as he's walking to 565 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: get into the limit, he says, I'm going to bring 566 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: Hannah home? And I'm oh, and I'm thinking to myself 567 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: and he did, you know, I mean, that's that's pretty 568 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: good confidence, right, I'm going, what are the odds of that? 569 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: What are the odds of him even being on this show, right, 570 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, there's always as a parent, you you know, 571 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 1: you read negative stuff and you see negative stuff, and 572 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,719 Speaker 1: at this point you just just let it, you know, 573 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 1: roll off your shoulders because there's nothing you can do 574 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:23,440 Speaker 1: about it. And he's he's he's handled it all so well, 575 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 1: right everything. Um, you know his whole reasons for being 576 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: on the show, and he's true to that. He's stayed 577 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: true to that. So anything that I see out there, 578 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 1: I really don't pay it much attention. And that's the thing. 579 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: I mean, you, as his parents, know him better than anyone, 580 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 1: and so as long as you keep that in mind. 581 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 1: I mean, my mom, you know, she was very hesitant 582 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: for me to go on the show. She did not 583 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 1: want me to. She did not want me to go 584 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 1: in the Bachelor because she's like, the girls are going 585 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 1: to be so catty and you're gonna be like vying 586 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 1: for one guy's attention. She was just not for it. 587 00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: So I just had to tell her, trust me, you 588 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 1: know me. And that's thing, like I said, you know him. 589 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 1: And so you're going to hear all sorts of things 590 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: from everyone and their mothers about their opinions. And how 591 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 1: he handled a situation with a woman or whatever choice 592 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: he made that week, Like you're going to get it all, 593 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 1: and so to just brush it off and stay supportive 594 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 1: and just focus on your family unit. That's the most 595 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: important part. I just keep that in mind, Like you 596 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 1: just have to brush off all the comments you cannot read. 597 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: I keep I had to tell my mom, like, you 598 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: can't read into everything. Parents love to mother. Get out 599 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: of the comments he's doing. That is what I told 600 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 1: my mom too. She my mom was the one who 601 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 1: would watch back The Bachelor and she'd be like she'd 602 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 1: get so mad that she would throw marshmallows at the TV. 603 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: That was her way to get her aggression out. And 604 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you can have your marshmallows, but don't 605 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,040 Speaker 1: go down the rabbit hole to read everything. Ye like, 606 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 1: brush it off. Just you know me, You know my decision. 607 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 1: You know who I am at the end of the day, 608 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 1: and that's all that matters. And you know this kind 609 00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: son who is happy who you know he's an adult. 610 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 1: You give him his wings and now he has to fly. 611 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: I'm making a shirt that says I am happy. I 612 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:12,479 Speaker 1: can't you know I agree with him. Wholeheartedly. I do 613 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: have like you said, I have friends you know that 614 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,239 Speaker 1: would call me and say, oh my god, did you 615 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,239 Speaker 1: read this? And did you read that? And I was like, 616 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 1: you know what, half of its not? I don't read it. 617 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: You know why? Because I know who he is. I 618 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 1: know the kind of person I raised. I know my 619 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: son who you know, what he stands for, and I 620 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: know that. I'm so proud of him, and he's who 621 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: he is to the very end, and he's the real thing. 622 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 1: So I you know, it goes in like I don't 623 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: waste my time, you know, and that because why waste 624 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 1: your time? Right, You're just wasting time. There's a couple 625 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 1: of things I do when I address though, Like, for example, 626 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people gave Peter flack about him living 627 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: at home, which I personally was a fan of. I 628 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: thought it was extremely financially responsible, but I really did it. 629 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: But I mean, I know, and we talked a little 630 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 1: bit about this off the air, But how did you 631 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 1: feel about that? Because I think it goes a little 632 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 1: bit deeper. It goes a lot deeper than that. I 633 00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,839 Speaker 1: have to tell you. First of all, we are a 634 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 1: very very close family, very close you know, Peter Jack 635 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 1: my husband and I, you know, we're basically one, you know, 636 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: and we support each other in every which way, and 637 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,839 Speaker 1: we were each other's best friends, not just parents, but 638 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,359 Speaker 1: we're everything to each other. Right, So what I want 639 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 1: to go back to now is, yes, there's flag on that, 640 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,240 Speaker 1: but I would laugh. I would laugh because people forget 641 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 1: I'm Cuban, Okay, Guana all the way, you know, to 642 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 1: the point that you know, in old time Cuba, and 643 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm not, you know, a spring chick by all means. 644 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 1: But in all times old Cuba, the kids would be 645 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,959 Speaker 1: at home and they would get you know, in their twine, 646 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,839 Speaker 1: they would get married, and then they would still live 647 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: at home. They would have children and the grandparents. It 648 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,760 Speaker 1: was one big, happy family, everybody living at home. So 649 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: contrary to what a lot of people, you know, you know, oh, 650 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 1: I can't wait to get rid of the kids or 651 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: whatever at such an early age, you know, eighteen, they're 652 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: you know, out of the house or whatever. Our culture 653 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: is a little bit different, and not that one is 654 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,400 Speaker 1: right and one is wrong. We are just they want 655 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: we want to keep you know, that family, tie, that 656 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 1: unity together. And that's one of the reasons that Peter 657 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:36,439 Speaker 1: and my other son Jack are still living at home 658 00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,800 Speaker 1: because there's no reason really to move out. They work 659 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: four days a week. Let's say for Peter, he works 660 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 1: four days a week, then he has four days off 661 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: and he goes with his friends away, you know, like 662 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 1: they take a little mini vacation wherever, and then he 663 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,919 Speaker 1: comes back and he goes right back to work. So 664 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: is that really smart to be paying you know a 665 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: lot of money monthly until you can buy a house. 666 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 1: So I always tell him it's best to save your money, 667 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 1: which he can buy a house tomorrow if we wanted it. 668 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 1: But hey, that's more than other concessus on the show Consette, 669 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,320 Speaker 1: you know. But he can do it, you know, and responsibly. 670 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 1: He can do it. But you know, um, you know, 671 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: I'm just looking for the right place for him, you know, 672 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,319 Speaker 1: when we do decide that, he's going to take that 673 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,919 Speaker 1: step to help him find that. But you know, we're 674 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 1: very happy living at home, you know, to everybody, you know, together, Like, 675 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,360 Speaker 1: I think it's important that you address that because I 676 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 1: think it's a like you said, it's a cultural thing 677 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 1: and it's not as you know, everyone's like, oh my gosh. 678 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: You know, Peter lives at home. But when you break 679 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 1: it down that way and you explain it and I 680 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 1: and I do understand it on a certain level. Having 681 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 1: married into a Latin family, I do get that. And 682 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 1: I think that there's a way to look at it 683 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 1: as in, Peter's very close to his family and there 684 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 1: and that's very rich and that's very healthy. And I 685 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 1: know for me, I look to see if someone is 686 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,880 Speaker 1: close to their family because I think that's a very 687 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 1: it's a reflection of them. And so I'm happy that 688 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: you had the chance to explain. Thank you, and especially 689 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 1: at this point in his life, like his world is, Peter, 690 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 1: your world is gonna change, It's gonna be flipped upside down. 691 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: And I think this is the time when you're when 692 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,240 Speaker 1: the show is airing and after after all the craziness happens, 693 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: like this is the time to be with your family 694 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,640 Speaker 1: and to like be with the people who know you 695 00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 1: and who comfort you. Um, that was one thing like 696 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,799 Speaker 1: I got off of my season and at the time, 697 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,280 Speaker 1: I was living in Minnesota and my mom lived twenty 698 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: minutes for me, and Gary and I were with her 699 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 1: all the time because there was a point where there 700 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 1: was so much craziness and our world's had completely changed it. 701 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,520 Speaker 1: I just wanted to be with my mom and with 702 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 1: my sister and just spend that family time because I 703 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 1: knew all of the otherness, the craziness was happening. So 704 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: it's I think that's special that he has you guys 705 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 1: to lean on and is very grounding too. You know, 706 00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 1: I'm totally you know, going on a show like this, 707 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 1: I can only imagine, you know, how does it not 708 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 1: affect you in some way? You know, and you know, 709 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 1: just the examples I've given of people coming up and 710 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 1: recognizing us, I mean, he's it's just constant for him, 711 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 1: and you know, it's hard not to probably get a 712 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 1: big head with that. But that's one thing that we 713 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 1: love about him is how grounded he is. Yeah, And 714 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 1: I think that's something that the viewers will I think 715 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,360 Speaker 1: they found saught enough of it in him this season, 716 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:27,840 Speaker 1: but I think that they'll see it even more in 717 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:31,879 Speaker 1: his own that they'll appreciate and love. Yeah, He's he's 718 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:33,919 Speaker 1: got a hearty goold. I will say that the real 719 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 1: success of the show, I would say is, yes, obviously 720 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 1: you want to find somebody at the end of it, 721 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,279 Speaker 1: but it's knowing who you are before you get into 722 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 1: the show and then remaining that same person at the 723 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 1: end of it and not letting it change you. Yeah, 724 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,439 Speaker 1: which sounds like, Peter, you're already there, so at least 725 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 1: we know you're successful in that part. Can't wait to 726 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,840 Speaker 1: find out about the other part. One thing I do 727 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 1: want to ask is because you've all seemed very close before. 728 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 1: I like, when I left for the show and came back, 729 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,239 Speaker 1: it brought my family even closer together. And at first 730 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was going to do that. 731 00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was going to be something 732 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,720 Speaker 1: that pulled us apart. And that just changed so much. 733 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 1: But it ended up bringing my family and even my 734 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 1: extended family so close. Like we would have watched parties 735 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,320 Speaker 1: every week and we would have groups with like thirty people, 736 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 1: and we still have that, Like we're always talking with 737 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 1: my cousins and my aunt and uncles, and so I 738 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,279 Speaker 1: hasn't changed yet for you. I mean, it's definitely gonna 739 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 1: change pretty soon. But well we did that with The Bachelor, 740 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,040 Speaker 1: ede with you know, like you're describing the viewing parties 741 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: and everything. I think it's definitely brought us closer, you know, 742 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,319 Speaker 1: and just the whole dynamic of the friends coming over 743 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: and supporting and the Bachelor cruise. You know, I mean 744 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,279 Speaker 1: I have to tell you we have us a little family, right, 745 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:50,880 Speaker 1: but our family has grown tremendously who with the Bachelor. 746 00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,799 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean I can honestly say that we're 747 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 1: all You guys are all our family now because we 748 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: feel so close. I mean, this has been a an 749 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 1: awesome journey. I will say that it's been an awesome journey. 750 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 1: And I'm going to start crying right now. People usually 751 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,920 Speaker 1: cry when they get here, So it's okay, I'm not kidding. 752 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,840 Speaker 1: You're not alone, and I'll probably be right behind you. No, 753 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: because it's it's um. The producers have been the producers. Everyone, 754 00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 1: everyone in every department, in every aspect of it has 755 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:26,800 Speaker 1: been so I mean, so there for us in every 756 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 1: step of the way. For him, I mean, he's you know, 757 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: he's when he left, I knew he was going to 758 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 1: be just fine because there was so much love that 759 00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,279 Speaker 1: everyone was pouring out for him, and they poured out 760 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: for us as well. We have just been I mean, 761 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 1: I know, the whole family. I can speak for all 762 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 1: of us to say that we've been overwhelmed with the 763 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 1: love and the support that we've gotten from The Bachelor. 764 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 1: I think you touched on a good point. I think 765 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 1: you know, when you're watching the show, you see the Bachelor, Bachelor, 766 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 1: the contestants. There's so much more that goes into creating 767 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 1: this show that's been around for years, and and I 768 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:10,239 Speaker 1: think at times, from what I've read and heard, the 769 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,400 Speaker 1: production team gets a bad rap. And that's I think 770 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,920 Speaker 1: is so unfair because, like you said, I mean, we 771 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 1: stay in touch with some of them to this day. 772 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,840 Speaker 1: I mean, Garrett's parents are constantly texting a handful of 773 00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,320 Speaker 1: them like they're like you said, they become friends and 774 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 1: part of your family, and they just bonds you in 775 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: such a way that I don't think most people, realizing 776 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,560 Speaker 1: can even fathom. And so, you know, you make you 777 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,480 Speaker 1: see the relationships being made on the show, but there's 778 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 1: so much more in the back end that people don't see. 779 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,880 Speaker 1: That that's what makes the show special and that's what 780 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 1: made a lot of it worth it for me and 781 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 1: Garrett and our families as well. Listen, there's a reason 782 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,239 Speaker 1: the show has been on for so many years. It's 783 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:52,160 Speaker 1: not just because you know, they create this show. You know, 784 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: other networks could do it. It's the people that run it. 785 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 1: It's what they put into it. It's the sacrifices that 786 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 1: are made. They have families at home that they leave 787 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,920 Speaker 1: to do this show. I also just want to say 788 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,759 Speaker 1: we did not pay the webbers to say this. There 789 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:11,600 Speaker 1: are real tears. They're not props. This is real. But 790 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: I was a person who came onto the show. I'm 791 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 1: extremely skeptical case and I overanalyze everything. And I remember 792 00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,359 Speaker 1: when I came on to do The Bachelor, I thought, 793 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 1: I will not make friends. I definitely won't like the 794 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: man who's the lead. He won't like me. And the 795 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,200 Speaker 1: producers and everyone. I can't trust any of them. I 796 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 1: did a complete one eighty by the time it was over, 797 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 1: which made me comfortable in saying yes to being the 798 00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: Bachelorette because I knew that I was going to be 799 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 1: taken care of. And I love hearing other people tell 800 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,440 Speaker 1: their stories and how it's it's similar, and I know 801 00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 1: it's going to continue. And that's why you know my 802 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: children will probably be on the show. It'll still be on. Yeah, 803 00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 1: oh no, it's it's true. It's true. I mean, you know, 804 00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 1: I when I write to all of them, you know 805 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,759 Speaker 1: and saying thank you and so forth. You know, at 806 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,520 Speaker 1: the end of the show, now I did say, I said, 807 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,840 Speaker 1: you know, we will be family forever, forever family. I 808 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,719 Speaker 1: always sign it, you know, forever. It was it was 809 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 1: tough to say goodbye, you know, when we were at 810 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:16,200 Speaker 1: the last location, and because I mean so many of 811 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 1: the crew members came up to us and you know, 812 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: said how much they enjoyed working with him, and it 813 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 1: was just a pleasure, and you know, getting to meet 814 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 1: us and vice versa, and it's it is, it's it's 815 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,239 Speaker 1: like a family. It's amazing what they do. So you 816 00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:35,480 Speaker 1: feel that way now, right because you've you've gone through, 817 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 1: because we know the journey's over at this point. But 818 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 1: when you first found out that Peter was going to 819 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 1: be the bachelor, of course you were excited, right. I mean, 820 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: it's an honor, like, let's just wear it like a 821 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 1: badge of honor. We're all three leads in this room. 822 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,720 Speaker 1: It is an honor to be chosen out of many 823 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:54,399 Speaker 1: to represent this franchise as their lead. Period. It still 824 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:56,319 Speaker 1: feels weird to say that and think that too, though, 825 00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 1: And I still don't think I actually went through it. 826 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a dream, but it does feel 827 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,880 Speaker 1: like a dream. I do too, but it really is 828 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: a humbling, experienced one. But it is such an honor. 829 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 1: That's what made me want to say, yes, I thought 830 00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:13,399 Speaker 1: you you want me out of everybody who's come through here. 831 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,480 Speaker 1: You see something in me that I don't quite see 832 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:19,359 Speaker 1: in myself at this point. But when when you heard 833 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:20,840 Speaker 1: that he was gonna be the basch okay, once that 834 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,080 Speaker 1: the excitement died down, how did you feel? Were you like, 835 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:27,799 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, my baby, what's gonna happen here? Who 836 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,440 Speaker 1: are these women? These these strangers that are gonna go 837 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 1: after my baby? You know when he when he was 838 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,919 Speaker 1: on the Bachelorette the very first when he left that day, 839 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,359 Speaker 1: going back a little bit, when he left to go 840 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,879 Speaker 1: on the show that night, he walked out the door 841 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 1: and the car was waiting for him and his lives 842 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,000 Speaker 1: were last words to me were I'm going to find love. 843 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 1: You know. He soaked those words to me and I 844 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 1: never forgot those words, you know, and you know he did. 845 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,560 Speaker 1: He went to look for love. Unfortunately love wasn't waiting 846 00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:02,920 Speaker 1: for him and that show. But when he went on 847 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: to the Bachelor, you know, my biggest thing was he's 848 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,120 Speaker 1: going to go find love, you know, because he that's 849 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,879 Speaker 1: that's his thing. He he's on the show for love, 850 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 1: and that's strictly what it was for. And you know, 851 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 1: I remember him saying it, and I go, now you 852 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,959 Speaker 1: have the chance, you know, it's up to you now. 853 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 1: And I just felt so happy, you know, for him. 854 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,960 Speaker 1: I mean I just felt so thrilled and excited for 855 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,359 Speaker 1: him to go on that journey to find, you know, 856 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 1: to see if he could find that person to be. 857 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,080 Speaker 1: It's a whole other level, you know. I mean when 858 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: you know, when they chose him, like you said, out 859 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,799 Speaker 1: of all of these people that have you know, been 860 00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 1: on this show, it's quite an honor and um, but 861 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,359 Speaker 1: I knew that he would represent well. So I had 862 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,560 Speaker 1: no you know, fears there and I knew that because 863 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: he was his heart was so pure and what he 864 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,480 Speaker 1: was trying to do that you know, everything would happen 865 00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: the way it's supposed to happen. So so you trusted 866 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 1: in Peter. How did you feel about knowing that you, 867 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: your son, your your little baby was going to have 868 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 1: thirty girls vying for his heart. That's the part I 869 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:15,360 Speaker 1: think is if I was a mom, would make me nervous, actually, 870 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,200 Speaker 1: you know what. I yes, I could say I was 871 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: a little nervous. I thinking thirty women together and he's 872 00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,439 Speaker 1: Peter is I mean, you don't know Peter that well yet, 873 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,879 Speaker 1: because you know, you don't really like we do here. 874 00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,920 Speaker 1: But Peter is one that likes to make everybody happy. 875 00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 1: Besides him being happy, he likes to make everybody happy. 876 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,960 Speaker 1: He's a people pleaser, you know. And Dad was worried 877 00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 1: about that, you know, And I didn't want him to 878 00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:46,760 Speaker 1: get hurt, you know, And because he is an emotional person, 879 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:50,399 Speaker 1: very emotional, and I just you know, I was like 880 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,880 Speaker 1: thirty women and he's got to deal with, you know, 881 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 1: thirty women and the way he is, you know, trying 882 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,680 Speaker 1: to be there for everyone. And you say that, you 883 00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 1: say that, so I wonder if that worry, how big 884 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 1: that worry was for you? Because you say Peter love. 885 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,360 Speaker 1: It sounds like Peter Love's love and he and the 886 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 1: one thing missing in his life is love. And to 887 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 1: know that all these women were going after him and 888 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,239 Speaker 1: he wants to make everyone happy, were you afraid that 889 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,320 Speaker 1: maybe he would fall in love with everybody? I actually 890 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 1: did say that, I was like, Peter's gonna fall in 891 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 1: with like seven women. And it was a compliment. But 892 00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:24,279 Speaker 1: and I say that because he just seems to wear 893 00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:27,280 Speaker 1: his heart on his sleeve and he wants it so badly. 894 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,600 Speaker 1: Were you afraid that it might be too much for 895 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 1: him or he'd get lost in the thing with him 896 00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 1: is you know, he doesn't see anything negative. He doesn't 897 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 1: have a negative negative glasses at all. He sees positive. 898 00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,279 Speaker 1: And everyone, you know, ever ever since he was a 899 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 1: little kid, you know, you you know, you'd have kids 900 00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 1: come home and say, oh, so and so did this 901 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,239 Speaker 1: to me, Mommy, you know, someone you know took my 902 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:53,800 Speaker 1: pen or some complaint or something about someone. To this day, 903 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: twenty eight years later, I can tell you that that 904 00:47:57,239 --> 00:48:03,160 Speaker 1: guy has never complained about you know, a you know, 905 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,359 Speaker 1: a pen being stolen from you know, from school or 906 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,960 Speaker 1: And I was kind of nervous with the girls because 907 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,520 Speaker 1: it was relating to the girls. Now at the same time, 908 00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,919 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, she's gonna like, he's gonna 909 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 1: see everybody being very nice, and you know, sometimes you 910 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,960 Speaker 1: might not see the true colors. Where mom comes in, 911 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:25,759 Speaker 1: that's where comes right, Mama comes in. What's your birthday? Leo? 912 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:30,000 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you are not a Leo. No, no, 913 00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,280 Speaker 1: I had an X that was a Leo and man, 914 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 1: Q hard X. You are might be the nicest Leo. 915 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 1: I was expecting you to say Aquarius or Pisces by 916 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,840 Speaker 1: the way that you were describing him. But okay, anyway, sorry, 917 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 1: I always ask I'm a Taurus. Can you not tell? 918 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: Can you not tell? So? You guys know Peter better 919 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:55,920 Speaker 1: than anybody. All right, that's your baby, And I'm just 920 00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 1: curious as to what you think Peter needs out of 921 00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,359 Speaker 1: a partner. What kind of woman do you want Peter 922 00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 1: to bring home? He Okay, He's got to have somebody 923 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:11,120 Speaker 1: that has a love for life like he does and 924 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:15,880 Speaker 1: is willing to do anything at the drop of a hat, 925 00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 1: you know, be impulsive to just live life, because he 926 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:25,800 Speaker 1: is all about living life, loves to travel. Yeah, a 927 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:30,000 Speaker 1: sweet He's always said that he really wants but looking sweet. Yeah, 928 00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 1: He's got to have somebody with a with with a 929 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:37,359 Speaker 1: heart as good as his, because he's he's he's got 930 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,800 Speaker 1: a great heart, he really does. And whoever he chooses 931 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 1: is going to be a very lucky woman. I will say. 932 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 1: Sitting down with you two and seeing your love for 933 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 1: each other and for your sons. Whoever if I don't 934 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,720 Speaker 1: know what happened yet, if he chose someone or whoever 935 00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 1: he ends up with, will be one very lucky girl. 936 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: And if she doesn't want to travel, I will be 937 00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:01,080 Speaker 1: the plus one. She's got some big shoes to feel. 938 00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, if you again, we 939 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 1: have no idea, but whoever you bring home, if you 940 00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 1: bring someone home, I just feel like she's kind of got. 941 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 1: She needs to step up her game because you guys 942 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:17,280 Speaker 1: are the real deal. You're very genuine and I hope 943 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,960 Speaker 1: that you know, Peter, if you did find love, that 944 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 1: the woman fits in perfectly, because I almost feel like 945 00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,480 Speaker 1: she better fit in because I don't. I'm gonna be 946 00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:30,800 Speaker 1: mad that you did not put Peter Pete Senior and 947 00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:34,399 Speaker 1: bar through this, Like she better step up. If she's there, 948 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:38,960 Speaker 1: I feel like I r and then she's not up 949 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:43,720 Speaker 1: to par I'm going to be very upset, Peter. I'm mad. 950 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:45,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna really need to meet her if 951 00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,000 Speaker 1: there is a if someone at the end, hey, you 952 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 1: know what you'll have if if there is someone at 953 00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 1: the end, You'll have to come over for her an 954 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 1: ex cub and dinner and from there, we'll take it there. 955 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,880 Speaker 1: I just like want to be like the mean cousin, 956 00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,439 Speaker 1: like a grilling cousin, Like I just want to Bill. Yeah, 957 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,800 Speaker 1: I'll be the one that gets her a little tipsy 958 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 1: to get all the good details real well, yeah see that. 959 00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 1: I think that would work for Peter's Like I didn't 960 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:16,320 Speaker 1: end up with anyone, anyone, She want what she's feeling 961 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:21,440 Speaker 1: in that moment. Okay, So a little bird on the 962 00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 1: street said that you guys may be making an appearance. 963 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,279 Speaker 1: We know that typically we see the parents towards the end, right, 964 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,239 Speaker 1: so we expect that. But I'm hearing you guys come 965 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:35,520 Speaker 1: on a few times. America loves you so much that 966 00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,480 Speaker 1: we need to get a little taste tests as the 967 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 1: season starts, we must um no, no, yeah, you're We're 968 00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 1: very fortunate, um to be able to be part of 969 00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:55,000 Speaker 1: one of Peter's dates. On his date, Uh, he will come. 970 00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 1: We're going to have a renew while we knew ceremony 971 00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 1: for oh my gosh, after our invites must have been 972 00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,800 Speaker 1: lost in the maut Okay, I did send him out, 973 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 1: Hey coming over for the Cuban meal exactly. So we 974 00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:15,479 Speaker 1: did have Cuban food that day. By the way, Um, nope, 975 00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:19,360 Speaker 1: so we we did have a beautiful I have to 976 00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 1: say it was very thank you, thank you to everyone 977 00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:27,880 Speaker 1: that made it possible. Um it was. It was a beautiful, 978 00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 1: beautiful day. You know. Um when we first got married, 979 00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,759 Speaker 1: we got you know, we got married in Hawaii on 980 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,279 Speaker 1: a sailboat and it was a very little boat. It 981 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 1: was a very little wetting interest thirty one years ago. 982 00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 1: It was very tiny. It was just my mother, my 983 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:49,480 Speaker 1: best friend, and the captain of the boat, the photographer 984 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:54,160 Speaker 1: in us and that's all it was. So now this 985 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:58,239 Speaker 1: was really I would say to the producers all the time, 986 00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,719 Speaker 1: this was really our wedding and calling it a women 987 00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:05,239 Speaker 1: everybody because at the time, you know, we we just 988 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,560 Speaker 1: wanted to get married. We didn't have a lot of money, 989 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:10,480 Speaker 1: we were just starting out and our big thing was 990 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 1: to get married because we were so much in love. 991 00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,799 Speaker 1: And um, we we did. We got married, but we 992 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,080 Speaker 1: didn't have a big ceremony by all means or anything 993 00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:24,759 Speaker 1: like that. And now it was beautiful. So thank you 994 00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 1: to Bachelor for making our dreams come true. Let me 995 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 1: tell you something beautiful. If there's a hierarchy when it 996 00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 1: comes to the Bachelor franchise. They are contestants. There's I'm 997 00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:39,800 Speaker 1: gonna put the bachelors below us, Becca, there's a bachelor. 998 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:44,960 Speaker 1: They're the bachelorettes. And then they're the freaking Webbers. Because 999 00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:48,480 Speaker 1: I tell you, let me tell you something. You know, 1000 00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:52,320 Speaker 1: who didn't get a ceremony this one? Don't don't delete 1001 00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:55,440 Speaker 1: this out either, And I didn't want and I and 1002 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm glad we did it. But I just think it's 1003 00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:58,959 Speaker 1: so funny and that that's why I'm like, you guys 1004 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,920 Speaker 1: are at the top, because there are couples that are 1005 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,799 Speaker 1: trying to get weddings and ceremonies and who got it? 1006 00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:07,880 Speaker 1: The Webbers? They deserve it. How about you do it? 1007 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,080 Speaker 1: But they deal do I don't didn't want it. I'm 1008 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,160 Speaker 1: totally fine. I'm just like making making a joke. But 1009 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:13,799 Speaker 1: I'm just saying how much it is. You know, you 1010 00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:15,880 Speaker 1: talk about what the production means to you, but it 1011 00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:17,799 Speaker 1: also shows what you mean to them. And I think 1012 00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 1: it's beautiful and I can't wait to see it. I 1013 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,319 Speaker 1: can't wait to watch it. I want to know one thing, 1014 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:26,759 Speaker 1: did you wear white? Wait till you see it? Okay, Oh, 1015 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:32,480 Speaker 1: did Chris Harrison officiate it? I'm sorry, did he did 1016 00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,160 Speaker 1: he do the officiating? That's a surprise. That's going to 1017 00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:39,160 Speaker 1: be a big surprise for you guys. Were you in it, Peter, Peter, 1018 00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:46,520 Speaker 1: were you the ring bearer? Well, I think that's that's 1019 00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:49,480 Speaker 1: so special that you were able to renew your vows 1020 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,800 Speaker 1: with your son's there and part of this crazy, amazing 1021 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 1: show they did. And my family, my family, all my fleet, 1022 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 1: my family, the oh gosh, I'm gonna start crying again. No, 1023 00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,560 Speaker 1: do you know that two days prior, I had just 1024 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:10,440 Speaker 1: spoken to my aunt in Cuba. And it's hard to 1025 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 1: come out of Cuba. It's not easy, you know that. 1026 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,759 Speaker 1: And U Two days prior, I had just spoken to 1027 00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,600 Speaker 1: her and she said to me, she goes, oh, um, 1028 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,200 Speaker 1: you know, how's Peter doing? And so forth that I'm 1029 00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:23,719 Speaker 1: going fine, everything's good because she always wants to know 1030 00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:27,480 Speaker 1: about what he was doing at the time. And the 1031 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:32,360 Speaker 1: day of the ceremony, I'm coming out and I go up, 1032 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 1: I'm Jack is watching her out. Yes, my youngest son 1033 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:37,319 Speaker 1: is walking me out. Jack And I'm walking out, and 1034 00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:38,720 Speaker 1: of course I don't want to look at the audience 1035 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,920 Speaker 1: because I'm a little bit nervous. And I get up 1036 00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:42,560 Speaker 1: to the stage. And when I get to the stage 1037 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:45,640 Speaker 1: and I look back my aunt from two days ago 1038 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,759 Speaker 1: that I've been talking to Cuba. They flew her in 1039 00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:51,520 Speaker 1: from Cuba. I got, I get the chills off. You 1040 00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:54,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't have been able to control my ninety five year 1041 00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 1: old uncle. They brought him in from Miami. Countless cousins, 1042 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,879 Speaker 1: you know, and and I mean my aunts, and they 1043 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:08,360 Speaker 1: brought them in from Miami, and then also my really 1044 00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:14,160 Speaker 1: dear friends from New York, Florida. I mean, I can't 1045 00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,399 Speaker 1: even think because I was just overwhelmed they were all there. 1046 00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:20,279 Speaker 1: And I just remember looking down while we were doing 1047 00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:24,279 Speaker 1: the ceremony and looking at the audience and going, you know, 1048 00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,960 Speaker 1: because I couldn't believe that was my aunt. I can't 1049 00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 1: wait to see this. I'm even Dad. Did you get 1050 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,920 Speaker 1: to meet with Nil Lane before? With who? Nil Lane? 1051 00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 1: That's that's a no. Then if you said you would, 1052 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 1: you would know the jeweler. Oh remember the bracelet? Oh yeah, yea, 1053 00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 1: I know, no Mail Lane coming through. He's a great guy. 1054 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,680 Speaker 1: So I'm yeah, yeah. Man, if I was the girl 1055 00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 1: who was chosen to be that day, I would have 1056 00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,200 Speaker 1: gone back to that house and told everybody, you can 1057 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 1: go home. Let me tell you, I just witnessed today. 1058 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:10,200 Speaker 1: I met the aunt. Oh. I mean, I'm telling you, 1059 00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,719 Speaker 1: she's all even in the fam. It's been it's been fun. 1060 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 1: Hand me your roses and good night. Well, I'm excited 1061 00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,720 Speaker 1: to watch this. I'm excited to watch the entire season. 1062 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 1: I can't wait. Just again, seeing the love you two 1063 00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,760 Speaker 1: have and knowing the support that Peter has. I think 1064 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:29,840 Speaker 1: it's going to make for a great season. Thank you 1065 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 1: so much. It's such a pleasure to be here and 1066 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,640 Speaker 1: to meet you both. It's been great. It's been a 1067 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 1: lot of Well you'll see more of us because we're 1068 00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:40,560 Speaker 1: coming over for dinner. So well, this is no I no, no, 1069 00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,840 Speaker 1: I'm genuinely telling you you guys are coming over for 1070 00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:46,200 Speaker 1: Cuban food. Yeah. I mean, now we know where you live, 1071 00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,200 Speaker 1: so I mean we could probably just go knocking on 1072 00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:50,479 Speaker 1: doors and figure it out. At this point, we'll find 1073 00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:55,000 Speaker 1: you where the pork comes from the spells of pork Rose. 1074 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,680 Speaker 1: That's our house. We're gonna smell you down. I have 1075 00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:01,560 Speaker 1: one question, can my fiance come? He likes to eat 1076 00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,520 Speaker 1: a lot though, that's like he might eat all of 1077 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:06,720 Speaker 1: the food. Just stories we might need. We'll bring somebody. 1078 00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: I have some boys that do the same thing. Okay, 1079 00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,880 Speaker 1: it's a good thing. And you bring your husband. Oh no, 1080 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 1: he's coming over. Peter, who who? If anybody right? Andrea 1081 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:33,800 Speaker 1: Janis wait to meet her on the season. All we 1082 00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,640 Speaker 1: could keep going with you guys, guys are so much fun. 1083 00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:40,080 Speaker 1: Thank you for being so open and honest and sharing 1084 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:43,160 Speaker 1: your story telling stories about Peter. I know we tried 1085 00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,880 Speaker 1: to get the dirt on you, guys and Peter, but 1086 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,160 Speaker 1: there really isn't any dirt to tell. I mean, what 1087 00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:52,240 Speaker 1: you see is what you get, which is very refreshing. 1088 00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:57,000 Speaker 1: It's very beautiful. And I'll just say it when we're 1089 00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,800 Speaker 1: living in a time and by living I mean in 1090 00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:03,800 Speaker 1: the Bachelor world, in this franchise where the motives of 1091 00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:08,280 Speaker 1: people coming onto the show are so questioned, and for me, 1092 00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,160 Speaker 1: and I know I can speak for you too, Becca, 1093 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,560 Speaker 1: it is so nice to be sitting in this room 1094 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,720 Speaker 1: and to know exactly what we see on screen is 1095 00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,200 Speaker 1: exactly who you are now. I can't say the same 1096 00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:19,880 Speaker 1: for the women that are on your season because I 1097 00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:22,600 Speaker 1: haven't met them or seen them yet, but it is 1098 00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:26,840 Speaker 1: truly truly nice to see you guys and to see 1099 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:29,160 Speaker 1: how you are and to know that you're the real 1100 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:32,040 Speaker 1: du So, thank you. I think it's safe to say 1101 00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:37,520 Speaker 1: Peter was there for the right reasons. Yeah, and you 1102 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:39,800 Speaker 1: guys were too. Thank you so much for being here 1103 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,720 Speaker 1: on our podcast. It's a brand new episode, so we're 1104 00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:49,640 Speaker 1: not brand new episode, but it's a new year. Guys. Now, 1105 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:52,160 Speaker 1: we do have one more question before we let you go. Okay, 1106 00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,160 Speaker 1: what are you guys going to do for the premiere? 1107 00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:59,840 Speaker 1: A party? We're going to have a part? Are we inviting? 1108 01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Thank you here. I'm having a party and I'm oh, 1109 01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:07,040 Speaker 1: that's perfect because I'm having Cuban food. Oh I'm already done. 1110 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 1: We already knew that. I'm warning the food from for side, 1111 01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,680 Speaker 1: so we can have you guys come over for dinner. See, 1112 01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:16,080 Speaker 1: you guys are stuck with great. We're part of the 1113 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 1: we Are family. Okay, thank you, thank you guys for 1114 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,760 Speaker 1: being here. Thank you bachel Nation for listening. And next 1115 01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:35,600 Speaker 1: week we will have you know, if we're going to 1116 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,800 Speaker 1: talk to his parents, We got to bring Peter in here, 1117 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:41,200 Speaker 1: so we will have Peter on Bachelor Happy Hour next week, 1118 01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 1: So make sure you tune in to hear what he 1119 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:46,200 Speaker 1: has to say. All right, Great, okay, listeners, you can 1120 01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:47,960 Speaker 1: head over to bachel Nation dot com to get the 1121 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,560 Speaker 1: latest and the greatest details about the show. We are 1122 01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:53,800 Speaker 1: the first place to announce what's coming up, so you 1123 01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:55,240 Speaker 1: don't want to miss it because we're going to have 1124 01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:58,120 Speaker 1: all the juicy details. 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