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Speaker 1: Pop a Team six. Welcome to another episode of four

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Speaker 1: the Dads. We have a big episode, a big episode

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Speaker 1: This is a show for the dads, the highs and

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Speaker 1: lows of fatherhood friendship.

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Speaker 2: I'm rocking with my co host Fat.

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Speaker 1: Stafford Sherman Young, who is a father of hol.

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Speaker 2: Month old four month old as of yesterday, four.

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Speaker 1: Month old as of yesterday, Scar Scars, Scarlett Scar. I'm

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Speaker 1: a father of two, a three year old Rue and

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Speaker 1: an eleven month old whose birthdays in a few days.

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Speaker 1: One year old Scottie, scott Zilla, Joe Lee. Happy early birthday,

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Speaker 1: Early birthday, Scotty. So we have a lot on the

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Speaker 1: show to cover. We just got done with Halloween, Shure

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Speaker 1: them had a solo had a solo trip on Saturday,

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Speaker 1: solo mission on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: Jill ended up coming. I'll give the details. You'll give

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Speaker 2: the details.

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Speaker 1: You also took Scarlett to daycare for the very first time,

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Speaker 1: so first time daycare stories coming on.

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Speaker 2: Jill came to that I did have a solo mission

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Speaker 2: on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll get all those details right. Charlo and Rue

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Speaker 1: had a trip to London. I might jump into a

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Speaker 1: little bit. We had our boo at the zoo, which

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Speaker 1: we cannot wait to talk about how awesome that was

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Speaker 1: for all the PT sixers showing up. What else do

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Speaker 1: we have? We have values homework at the end of

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Speaker 1: the episode for our quote topic lesson a couple of

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Speaker 1: weeks ago, we challenged the PT sixers are throwing some comments.

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Speaker 1: Write some comments for values they want their child to

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Speaker 1: know throughout life. Yes, some of their favorite values that

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Speaker 1: they would like to instill. So that'll be fun. We

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Speaker 1: We're always working through the kings here for the Dead's

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Speaker 1: very small channel right now, but one day, boys, it'll

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Speaker 1: be big, really big, all right, especially if it has

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Speaker 1: any If there's any correlation to the PT sixers that

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Speaker 1: showed up to Boo with the Zoo.

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Speaker 2: Dude, the Boo at the Zoo could not have gone

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Speaker 2: any better, any better. And I'm driving over and I

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Speaker 2: just a little bit of anxiety. Yeah, like anxiety. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: you know, Will, what are your expectations here? You're doing

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Speaker 2: a meetup. You're not doing like a meet and greet.

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Speaker 2: It's not like a.

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Speaker 1: Signing photographs something that was very pre planned and and

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Speaker 1: advertised all over the place. What are you expecting coming

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Speaker 1: to this Boo with the Zoo while you get the families?

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Speaker 1: I'm driving over it. I my expectations that I put

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Speaker 1: and it was Alan the barber. Yeah, it was my

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Speaker 1: guy Allan over at Culture Cuts. He already texted, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we're coming. I'm like, hell you, I'm fired up. And

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Speaker 1: But then show up, and there were quite a those

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Speaker 2: Of people quite a bit of people. Derek, thank you

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Speaker 2: so much. Yeah, I was really really pleasantly surprised. I

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Speaker 2: told myself that, like the number, and I'm talking in

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Speaker 2: total busting with the boys, everybody, if we need everybody.

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Speaker 2: If we had fifty people there there, I was going

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Speaker 1: How many fifty?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I count the group picture, which was like

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Speaker 2: minus the lul Wan family, there were.

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Speaker 1: A few there like I saw, I saw, I think

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Speaker 1: I saw comments or two of like we just missed

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Speaker 2: There were two different couples that got there just a

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Speaker 2: little too early or not too early, but they got

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Speaker 2: there a little early the group photos. So those two couples,

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Speaker 2: the Luwan family, and then there were like four or

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Speaker 2: fifty blown away. I was blown away.

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Speaker 1: I don't anytime we kind of talked about it or

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Speaker 1: low low boys, ain't nobody show and it's kind of

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Speaker 1: raining outside, it's cloud, it's a little kit it was.

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Speaker 2: It was an ugly night, ugly night that turned into

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Speaker 2: a beautiful night.

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Speaker 1: PT sixers showed up, Bro.

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Speaker 2: Huge special shout out to And I can't remember everyone's names.

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Speaker 2: I wish i'd have my notesap out and just had

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Speaker 2: typed in names of families. But met Steve and his wife,

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Speaker 2: away in that conversation were the MT sixers. Yeah, that

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Speaker 2: were sick of where's Jilly Bean? Yeah, we're starting.

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Speaker 1: We loved Jill.

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Speaker 2: We loved Jill. We want to meet Jill. Where's Jill?

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Speaker 1: Jill and I are just alike?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I love that. And they were sickos for

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Speaker 2: the show. Yeah, thank you so much for what you

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Speaker 2: are doing. Buddy came about I forget his name, but.

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Speaker 1: Dressed as Willie one shelf Joe Siah, Joe Siah.

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Speaker 2: Get themedia.

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Speaker 3: It's comedian Discovery on social media.

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Speaker 1: Yes, go follow comedian Discovery on social media.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we need to pull up his official tag because

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Speaker 2: it's like Nashville Comedian Discovery. He's in our comments all

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he's a pos, He's a Tier one. He had

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Speaker 1: the four the deads At, he had a Papa Team

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Speaker 1: six shared on he had a shelf around his waist

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Speaker 1: with a form energy on it, a liquid IV packet.

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Speaker 2: Like, and as I'm walking up to the zoo, he's

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Speaker 2: already in the will called I thought it was you.

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Speaker 2: He has Comedian Discovery and then Comedian Discovery Live.

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Speaker 1: That seemed both to be We got a photo too, chefs.

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Speaker 1: I'll send that to you so that way you can

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Speaker 1: put it up on the episode.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they do have a good pick together, but it

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Speaker 2: just blown away. Dude, and the little ones. There were

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Speaker 2: two little ones that were born on July fourth, the

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Speaker 2: day after Scarlet. I got to talk to those dats.

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Speaker 2: That was incredible of like, bro, we're every step of

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Speaker 2: the way together, Like every single thing that you're talking

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Speaker 2: about each week is exactly what I'm going through. And

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Speaker 2: it makes the show so much fun because it's like,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, yes, yeah, Sherman, tell them what you're

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Speaker 2: going through, because that's me trying to tell people what

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Speaker 1: It was it was all time and kind of a

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Speaker 1: to go into the zoo. Yeah, I feel the family

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Speaker 1: wanting to bring everybody in and give like a thank

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Speaker 1: whole public speaking thing. Yeah, so I'm all right, let

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Speaker 1: me just try to talk to as many people as

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Speaker 1: are we gonna go? Rus really wanting to go into.

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Speaker 2: The zoo and their kids like dad did, come on,

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Speaker 2: we gotta go in y o our et siko friends

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Speaker 2: like I see their kids are pulling their hands like

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Speaker 2: we gotta shake them. Essentially, yes, and so it was

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much who ever showed up, everybody

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Speaker 1: who showed up to Boot the Zoo. We will do

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Speaker 1: more meetups in the future. That was our very first

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Speaker 1: one trying to embrace Pootober. The turnout was incredible and

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Speaker 1: here at the shop go was was awesome. But great

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Speaker 1: time Boo with the Zoo, Great time booth the zoo.

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Speaker 1: We had to we almost made it to the trigger

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Speaker 1: the trigger treating and I was like, if we enter

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Speaker 1: into this, it's gonna it's gonna get bad very quickly,

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Speaker 1: because you're starting to push around bedtime, dinner time. Kids

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Speaker 1: hadn't really eaten Papa bet sixer right here, didn't pack

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Speaker 2: I wasn't like, been there, yeah, been there, yeah.

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Speaker 1: So you know, I didn't know, like because it's like,

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Speaker 1: all right, we were gonna start five fifteen, five thirty

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Speaker 1: We'll get home by seven. Not realizing that booth the

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Speaker 1: Zoo was like thirty five minutes away from my house.

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Speaker 1: So getting over there, I'm like, sweetheart, we have to leave,

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Speaker 1: like we're supposed to be taking the photo, Like I'm

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Speaker 1: already behind five thirty, Like this is this is the

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Speaker 1: Ruse pissed off because she wore this fairy costume. This

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Speaker 1: dress was like massive, and she's got this crown kind

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Speaker 1: So I'm trying to get her in the car seat.

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Speaker 1: And as I get around the door to lift her

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Speaker 1: hits the ceiling in the car bro so the crown

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Speaker 1: just like goes down on her head.

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Speaker 2: She's crying and Mom's not out there yet.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, sweetheart, we just got to get She's like,

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Speaker 1: it hurts, it hurts something.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to take it off? Do you want

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: I want to leave it. Okay, then we gotta figure

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Speaker 2: Charles like, what happened? What happened? I'll be stung her.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Hey cause she got the stuff, the fluff coming up

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Speaker 1: She's like her daddy, Yeah, yeah, yeah, everything's got to

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Speaker 1: And it was a whole shebang, it Sweeter. We have

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Speaker 2: I wish that we had a camera on that. And

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Speaker 2: having the best attitude once we got there, but I

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Speaker 2: You're just telling me right now, honey. I understand that

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Speaker 1: You need to get your She was probably get stuff

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Speaker 2: On all fours. I'm already bowing. I'm already bowing, just

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Speaker 1: Just wasting more time with your apologies.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but we we Hey, we got there, We

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Speaker 1: How how long did you guys make it? Dude?

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Speaker 2: We bet we made it quite a long time. Because

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Speaker 2: schedule going into daylight savings, so we're part we're moving

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Speaker 1: And heady play all the young dads out there, all

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a dad hack. That's you know, that comes

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Speaker 2: from Jill. That was her game plan. But I couldn't

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Speaker 2: give you an exact time. It was definitely past seven o'clock.

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Speaker 2: You made the greatest play of all time. We saw

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, hey, should we head out too, because

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Speaker 2: there's probably an exit through the trigger, treating like there's

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Speaker 2: probably a faster way to the exit. We'll just go

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Speaker 2: through there. Biggest mistake because you get it's like you

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Speaker 1: There were two crossroads. You go right or left coming

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Speaker 1: going right. There's a monster down there. I gotta go

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Speaker 4: Can I just tell the myspect of it, because I

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Speaker 1: Chef was sitting there from afar seeing kind of the

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So the way that the Boon Zoo works, it's a

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Speaker 4: And I'm talking to Will. I forget what we're talking about.

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Speaker 4: But we get to this cross and we're kind of

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Speaker 4: all of a sudden, I see I see Rue looking

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Speaker 4: I look up and I see Will going no. No.

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Speaker 3: When you go left and she goes. You could see

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Speaker 2: That was not It was like Ru's dying on the hill.

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Speaker 4: It's like when the world leaders in the sixties were

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Speaker 4: getting together and talking about nuclear disarmament, but neither one

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Speaker 2: You can see them.

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Speaker 4: For the first time since working here, I saw panic

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Speaker 3: Pure panic.

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Speaker 2: Was goings Cuba. The missiles are coming to our island.

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Speaker 4: You need to take years out of Turkey before we

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Speaker 3: That was what was happening.

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Speaker 4: And then so I feel like I made a heavy

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Speaker 4: all of it, like maybe like three ft. I decided

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Speaker 4: then we ended up going into what's it called with

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know the name of that exhibit, but

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Speaker 2: it's one of their newer exhibits.

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Speaker 3: Reptile, Yeah, the spiders and the fun stuff.

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Speaker 4: I went in there with like Jack, Matt and Ge

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Speaker 3: We meet up with everyone else and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 3: the contents. They might have gotten out a little.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we should have followed suit.

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Speaker 1: Well it's not. There's an entire group. We were obviously

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Speaker 1: this park. We're gonna see everything. You go left, you

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Speaker 1: go right, doesn't matter, We're gonna see all of it.

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Speaker 1: We'll go left and we'll get to see the monsters last.

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Speaker 1: But there's a bunch of other monsters over here that

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Speaker 2: Monsters, candy friends. Yeah, I'm team roue. Yeah, I'm here

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, we were like, oh, look

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Speaker 1: Some some some workers are just switching throughout the day

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So we finally get going left where we're catching up

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Speaker 1: gotta keep it moving. Is this on your way out?

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Speaker 1: We stopped and talked to the pumpkin way out. Even

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 1: My wife's like, hey, you gotta we got to if

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Speaker 1: I'm with you, But what am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: Like they're pt sixers, Like people are being friendly saying

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Speaker 1: had to go potty. She wants Dad added to take

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Speaker 2: It's like, no, you can't. The dress is gonna get

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Speaker 2: You just gotta stay, but some guy's pooping in the

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Speaker 2: next Oh boy, we survived. This survived. Came out of

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Speaker 1: She's like, I want to wash my hands too. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: don't know what. You're gonna have to grow along her arms. Rue,

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Speaker 3: There to help me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? A fellow dad walks outway, Hey, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: Just say it makes you appreciate that beginning part of

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Speaker 2: like time just stood still for a second. We all

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she had said patience.

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Speaker 2: Chaos ensued. Yeah, chaos ensued, But that's that's life, that's parenting. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Don't want we don't want to go through the trigger

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Speaker 1: But it was a great time.

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Speaker 2: It was great and Scarlet to the same point. It

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Speaker 2: know that was not fair. Mom and Dad made you

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Speaker 1: To talking to your little one, like as you're driving home,

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Speaker 2: She was helping.

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Speaker 1: Well, she'll like talk to her sometimes, but as far

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Speaker 1: she was doing a good job of just like staying

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00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,560
Speaker 1: patient with us. Wanted to talk to MoMA. You know,

438
00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,280
Speaker 1: we're all talking back and forth we're trying to like

439
00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,320
Speaker 1: coach threw up, Hey, Scotty wants you to do this,

440
00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,560
Speaker 1: or Scotty would love if you saying to her, and

441
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,400
Speaker 1: she'll like lean over and try to do a couple

442
00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:27,359
Speaker 1: of things, like it's not working. It's all right, sweet

443
00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,600
Speaker 1: we're almost home. Yeah, like fifteen minutes, Like yeah, fifteen

444
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 1: minutes actually on the dot. Oh now it's fourteen that's

445
00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 1: a long time. I know, sweetheart, you're doing an incredible

446
00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,639
Speaker 1: job back there. She'll she'll get to that age.

447
00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:41,879
Speaker 2: I feel like four and five is where she's going

448
00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,840
Speaker 2: to become like an attachment of you guys all met. Yeah,

449
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 2: I'm seeing JJ really special. Shout out to JJ Klomp.

450
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:51,960
Speaker 1: He shout out JJ Clump.

451
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 2: He is a son of one of our employees here,

452
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 2: Jeremy Klomp, and some of the PT six Sicks may

453
00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:02,440
Speaker 2: have met him at the meetup. I actually got invited

454
00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 2: by the Clumps to go trick or treating with them

455
00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:10,439
Speaker 2: on Halloween night. Had to blast, But I think the

456
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 2: main takeaway from that night was JJ Clump just being

457
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,920
Speaker 2: the ultimate big brother that I've ever seen truly as

458
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:24,840
Speaker 2: a was he five Yeah, just best attitude ever During

459
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,440
Speaker 2: the trick or treating. He's wanting to hold Jill's hand

460
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 2: the whole time, or my hand the way he treats

461
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 2: Jill and holds doors open, for the way he treats Scarlet.

462
00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,320
Speaker 2: He was asking for extra kid. He didn't know that

463
00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 2: Scarlet was too young to have candy, but he was saying,

464
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 2: Scarlet's back in the street while we're t treating. So

465
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 2: these parents have no idea who Scarlet is. And JJKBS

466
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 2: trick or treat for Scarlet too. They're like, oh for Scarlet, Yeah,

467
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,400
Speaker 2: I need one more candy for Scarlet. They're like, oh

468
00:20:55,880 --> 00:21:01,640
Speaker 2: for Scarlett, just like Jail, I got it. For Scarlet,

469
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 2: I got it. It's just like, dude, Halloween was so

470
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 2: it was so special to get to share that night

471
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 2: with the clumps because Scarlet's too young to trick or tree,

472
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:12,959
Speaker 2: although she came along.

473
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 1: How fun is it though, just as a parent now

474
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 1: watching the little kid's trick or tree.

475
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 2: Dude, the magic is in the air. Halloween might be.

476
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,400
Speaker 2: It was already at the top of my list. I

477
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 2: love Christmas, I love Fourth of July. But y'all know me,

478
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 2: I'll dress up. Oh sure, we need you to dress

479
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: up for this video? Oh, twist my arm. I love dress.

480
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 2: Halloween's your favorite holiday? I think it might be now

481
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 2: just seeing all the magic in the air. And maybe

482
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 2: once I have my first Fourth of July with a

483
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 2: bunch of kids, I'm gonna be like, all right, Fourth

484
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 2: of July is back on top for.

485
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 1: Those I have my first Fourth of July and I'm

486
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 1: giving a kid beer for the.

487
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 2: First I'm handing a bottle Rocket.

488
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 3: Don't tell your father.

489
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 4: We used to blow up Frau for reference for anyone

490
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 4: that's curious. Sherman on like the third day of October

491
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 4: came in and I guess, like a Yellowstone like Dutton

492
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 4: outfit and brought a twenty two gage with unloaded of

493
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:15,159
Speaker 4: course unloaded unload. Yeah, Sherm's all in. He's bought in.

494
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:19,000
Speaker 4: And if you guys watched yesterday's intro busting with the Boys,

495
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 4: if Taylor, I think if there ever was a guy

496
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 4: to do a spook off to take supreme reign of October,

497
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 4: and I don't think you would do it, but I wouldn't.

498
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 4: Gam would be the guy that would be He's the

499
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 4: He's the which Stark was it the.

500
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 3: King of the North?

501
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 4: John snow No Rob Yeah, he's sorry, he's not he

502
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 4: doesn't want the throne, but he.

503
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 3: Could have it.

504
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yoh, Taylor is the king of Spooktober. I want

505
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 2: to be his prince of darkness, if that makes sense.

506
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 2: Like I I kneel, I kneel to Taylor and I

507
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,959
Speaker 2: give him my sword. My sword is his.

508
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,159
Speaker 1: This is a I see it more as a collective.

509
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 1: That's why you could be a prime you could be

510
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:01,640
Speaker 1: a prime cat in spooped Over.

511
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 2: That's why I'm his prince of dark Like I'm I'm

512
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 2: a lord. Yeah, I'm a lord. Yeah, but I'm a

513
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 2: house young not taking over spoop Chover, not taking home.

514
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 2: I am joining. I'm a bannerman, thank you. I'm a

515
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 2: bannerman of the Luan house Chef.

516
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: I love how you just brought up the example and

517
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 1: immediately he's like, no, no, besinech you.

518
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 2: I could never but that. That was my Halloween, and

519
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: I would love to hear about yours. And I can

520
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 2: go into mind a bit more. But just seeing the

521
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 2: clumps operate, getting to hang out with the family, getting

522
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,160
Speaker 2: a trick or treat. There was one trick or treat

523
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 2: station that had fireball shots for the adults. That was

524
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 2: a blast.

525
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 3: That's that's like a.

526
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: New thing that I've learned over the past couple of years.

527
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,959
Speaker 1: As we went out the last two years we went

528
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: like the bell Meat area, there is the Bell Meat Lynx.

529
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 1: And then this year we went to Nicol Lane. Nicole

530
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: Lane or Nicol Lane where they block off the road

531
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 1: and so you're parking outside the shree. Yeah, you're parking outside.

532
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: It's like this is a full on like a like

533
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: an OG spot. Apparently in Nashville. There's this instagram that

534
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: posted like all these og spots that you can go

535
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 1: to in Nashville. So we chose Nicole Lane or Nicol Lane,

536
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: and uh, basically every house, bro every house embraces Halloween.

537
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 1: So to our kids are out there running around, ripping around.

538
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: We're in a family costume. We're inside out. I'm fear

539
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: Charles bing Bong. You know. Lola is sadness, Opah is anger.

540
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 1: Rue is discussed, and I'm so proud of her for

541
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: painting her face. She was all decked out in green,

542
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: wore the wig, didn't want to wear it first, ended

543
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: up wearing the wig. Talked her into how cool it looked,

544
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: and she's like kind of shy looking in the mirror

545
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: kind of like what do I think of this? And

546
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 1: we're all like, how cool she looks. She's get the

547
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: scott the smile on her face. Scotty was joy. Even

548
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: though she wouldn't wear anything on her head, like she

549
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 1: would let us put the little like little baby wig

550
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: on her. She's kept tearing it off. We bet all,

551
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: let's get this famy photo. I'd be like holding it on.

552
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 1: She'd just be scott Zilla would just be trying to

553
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: rip it down. But also along the street too, it's

554
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 1: like parents are outside, they're enjoying beverages that like everybody knows.

555
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: It's like a tribal effort. So the kids are ripping

556
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: around having fun. The older kids are running around. There's

557
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: even a couple of houses to where there's just a

558
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: note on the door, candies tipped over, and it's like

559
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: we're out trigger treating right now. Please take two, you know,

560
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: be kind all this stuff. You know, the the hoodlums

561
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: are just out there ripping. They take ten piece of candy, they.

562
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 3: Taking it all.

563
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 1: Rue's a lot more shy this year going up to

564
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 1: the doors and saying trick or treat. So it's like

565
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 1: that process of getting her to embrace her like strong

566
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: voice and like, hey, here's where you say trick or treat.

567
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: You say trick or treat you pick out a piece

568
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: of candy the back take two and we'll be standing

569
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: there looking down at the looking down at the box

570
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: of candy. I'm like, sweetheart, you got to pick a couple.

571
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: Like I know, you see those m and ms, Go

572
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: pick out some m and ms. She'll pick up the

573
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: m and ms and she'll be like, I be like, sweetheart,

574
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,639
Speaker 1: you got to pick another one. There's kids behind you.

575
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: You got a big one out, Like, why don't you

576
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: go ahead and grab that snickers down there for your dad?

577
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: She'll grab the snickers, throw it in. But uh yeah, Halloween,

578
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 1: it's like a It is a hot It is a

579
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 1: holiday that climbs the charts fast when you are a parent.

580
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 2: Fast, dude.

581
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 1: You'll get it too again when it comes Christmas time,

582
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: especially once she gets like she you know, she's a

583
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: few months now, but next year when she's like actually

584
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: trying to understand the concept of opening up presence and

585
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 1: this is yours and it's a It's magical.

586
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 2: Bro, It is truly magical. And I already loved the holidays.

587
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 2: But like Scarlett and her little costume, and we did

588
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: a DIY cotton candy and she has no idea what's

589
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 2: going on, but she thought it was hilarious that there

590
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 2: was all this fluff around her and it was tickling her.

591
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 2: She was in the best mood. Yeah, and she was

592
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 2: ripping because we just hot glued or Jill hot glued

593
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 2: the cotton on. There. She was ripping her costume apart

594
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 2: the whole night, but like having fun with it. And

595
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 2: she would just get these handfuls of cotton and be

596
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 2: like ad smiling and laughing, and she'd put the cotton

597
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 2: in her mouth and just lose it and just start going.

598
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,479
Speaker 2: It was like this mixture of loving her costume hating

599
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 2: her costume, but it was a blast. Dude.

600
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, Halloween, Halloween's a great holiday. How was how was

601
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: the explain the solo mission? You were on a solo

602
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 1: mission on Saturday. I know you had first day of daycare. Yes,

603
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: so we can talk through the anxieties a parent heads

604
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: going and taking your kid to daycare for the first time,

605
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 1: the experience of dropping them off at daycare for the

606
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 1: first time.

607
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was okay, So solo mission Jill is back

608
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: at work. She's a nurse. She's a pediatric nurse. She

609
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 2: works on a step down unit, so when the kids

610
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: are getting out surgery, they come down to her unit.

611
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 2: She works six to six and so basically from first

612
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 2: feed to like almost tuck in, Like Jill really walked

613
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 2: in the door once I drew the bath, and it

614
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 2: was the first time that I had Scarlet solo that

615
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 2: I truly felt, like, really said like, there was no

616
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 2: notes like last time, There was no somebody in the comments.

617
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: Well remember last time that was more of a general

618
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: These are general notes for anybody who walks in the door.

619
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 2: True, so true, and there were I love that somebody

620
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 2: was like yo, Jillie bean meal prepped outfits for sure,

621
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 2: zip bags and zip block bags. That comment made me

622
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: lose it. That was hilarious. But there was none of that.

623
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 2: It was just like, Dad, what do you got? I

624
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 2: have full trust in you And it was such a

625
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: great day. Dude. She's starting to get more active. She

626
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:49,479
Speaker 2: needs a lot of playing. She needs to be moving

627
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 2: from room to room. As she stays in one room,

628
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 2: she starts losing it. Waking your kid up, dude, I

629
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: think any parent can agree just the smile you get

630
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: when you come and get them out of their crib, dude,

631
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: and you're doing the good morning voice. Yeah oh hello,

632
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: yeah hello.

633
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 3: She's sweeker.

634
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: Grinning, She's kicking full like both legs are just kicking

635
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: in the air, and dude, it was an incredible day.

636
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 2: The absolute money move that I made because I was like,

637
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: I gotta support Will with this Nebraska stuff. I gotta

638
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 2: support Jill with her first day at work because she's

639
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: gonna want to come home and be with me. I'm

640
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 2: just kind of like, how do I go about like

641
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 2: bouncing these two things. And I was like, I can

642
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: easily take Scarlet to the shop like nobody, nobody would

643
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 2: have an issue with that, and she needs to be entertained,

644
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: like she needs to have things going on. I feel

645
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 2: like the guys would be cool with it. I bring

646
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 2: Scarlet up for the blaackout Stream blackout Stream. Matt Malone

647
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 2: and chef and Ryan Nolan, who are three employees here

648
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 2: at the shop, are all sitting in there and when

649
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,719
Speaker 2: I walk in with Scarlet there elated, they're all talking

650
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 2: to her playing PT. Sixers are in the chat and

651
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: Scarlett had a ball, dude and It was the perfect

652
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 2: way to keep Scarlet awake right before that bedtime tucking.

653
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: And Jill was honestly kind of proud of me that

654
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 2: I brought her up to the shop and like was

655
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 2: gouda got out of the house, was comfortable to do it.

656
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 2: I was sending her pigs of like uh, and you

657
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 2: can use that one for the episode.

658
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 4: I have a video too, I took without you were

659
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 4: somewhere else and me pushing her on the shoulder.

660
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: That's hilarious.

661
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 3: She was so well behaved she is.

662
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 4: And there was no sleeping in that stream because it

663
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 4: was five guys screaming at the TV. There's two games,

664
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 4: so Will when I went to commercial break and Will

665
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 4: sat down and started tweeting from his phote, make the

666
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 4: fucking fight to them.

667
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: They they kept on looking over at me, and I

668
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 2: was giving y'all like the thumbs up because I'm like,

669
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 2: the dogs go ballistic at our house all the time.

670
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: She she's just snoozing.

671
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 2: She's still loud, noisy, like y'all, y'all, do you.

672
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: So I sent your wife a text?

673
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he sent my wife a text.

674
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: Do you want to sure him? And just by the way,

675
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: for everybody, like you know, I'm trying to figure out

676
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: how do I balance supporting my friend in the blackout

677
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: and supporting my wife for her first day of work.

678
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 1: So Wednesday, last Wednesday happens, and the boys are like,

679
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: Chef was there too, So Chef can chime in, like, hey,

680
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: are you gonna stream the games? Are you gonna go

681
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: to the game? Are you gonna stream the game? We've

682
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: been We've had weddings the last two weekends, so we

683
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: were gonna stay home, and I'm like, yeah, yeah, let's

684
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: stream the game. We can go and stream the game,

685
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: Like who's gonna be your Chef's kind of rattling down, Hey,

686
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: so Jared's gonna be out, Derek's gonna be out like

687
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 1: people that could be out. He's like, but I can

688
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: run the stream. He was gonna go to the game,

689
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: the Dark Mode game for Tennessee. He's like, but I will.

690
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: We can go black out here at the shop and

691
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: I'll get in the fox on we'll watch it. He's like,

692
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: it's truly no big deal, a true dog. And I'm

693
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: kind of sitting that. I'm like, I mean, if I

694
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: was like, I'm down to just me and you watch

695
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: the game together. If you really want to go to Tennessee.

696
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: Then bro go to Tennessee, Like, I'll figure out. I mean,

697
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: I'll be able to watch.

698
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 2: The Huskers play.

699
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she s Sherm's standing there too, and he's like, hey,

700
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: we need everybody, we need everything. I was like, oh,

701
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: were you in town? Would you be? Would you would

702
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: you come? And he's like, I'll be there. I was like,

703
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna come to the stream. I was like, dude,

704
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: let's rip it. We'll rip the stream. So Wednesday, the

705
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: expectation of SHRM coming to the stream was there, and

706
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: then what was it? Friday when we were kind of

707
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: having our for the dad's meeting and talking about weekend

708
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: plans and everything else I want to say. STRM started

709
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: to say he.

710
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 2: Might was it?

711
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: You might not make the stream. Sherman realized, Oh, you

712
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: weren't gonna beat like I might come in the second half.

713
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 2: Sherman realized that his wife was working that day. The schedule.

714
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: I might come in the second half. What you you

715
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: talk about we need everybody and you're gonna be there

716
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: on Saturday, and now you're telling me you're not gonna

717
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: be there. Maybe you'll show up for the second half.

718
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: When Jill gets home, Oh, have you not talked about

719
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: this at all with your wife?

720
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 2: The planning of it all to that at that point zero,

721
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,719
Speaker 2: and I'm sitting there knees buckling because I'm like, damn it,

722
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 2: I said I was gonna go to this thing. Yeah,

723
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: but also have not consulted with my wife, not realizing

724
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 2: that she was gonna be working. Yeah, I've put myself

725
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 2: in a blender.

726
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: Shirm's greatness and achilles heel is that Sherman's the people pleaser.

727
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: And so even when Scarlet's there and I walk in

728
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: and I see Sherm, I thought, I saw, like, I

729
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: saw your Chevy sitting out there, and I'm like, I

730
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: wonder if Shirm's in the shop. Walk in, He's got

731
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: Scarlet in the shop. I'm fired up. I'm like, bro,

732
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: let's go. And so I'm thinking, all right, he's probably

733
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,239
Speaker 1: My thought in my head was he's gonna have Scarlet here.

734
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 1: Jill might come by and pick up Scarlet. He's gonna

735
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: take Scarlett home and then come back to the shop.

736
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: So we get close to halftime or something, Sherm's talking

737
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: about going to pick up food. But I know in

738
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: Sherm's mind and you can can correct me if I'm wrong.

739
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: But here's what the game I'm playing in my head is.

740
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: There hasn't been a conversation of if he's going to

741
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: be here for the second half. I am still assuming

742
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: he's going to be here for the second half. In

743
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: his mind, he might think like Will still might be

744
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: assuming that I'm coming back. Sharam says this thing out

745
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: loud outside the stream where it's like I'm gonna go

746
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 1: pick up dinner, get Scarlett home, and kind of leaves

747
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: it vague. And so before he leaves, and I just

748
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: yell out of the stream room, knowing that he's probably

749
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,359
Speaker 1: just in a blender, I'm like, surem, you're coming back

750
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: for the second half. Yeah, And he's like.

751
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 2: I said, most likely not. Yeah. It goes and Jill

752
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: totally put the ball in my court. Like there was

753
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: no part of Jill being like you can't go. She

754
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 2: sends mess.

755
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: Text says something a little different.

756
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: Well, hold on, hold on, hold on, because that text.

757
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: Because they're so you're not coming back.

758
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: I said.

759
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: He's like, Jill's going to be excited to spend time

760
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: with me, and so her first day work and again

761
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm pressing my man I'm busting his balls. I'm like,

762
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: give me Joe's number, I'll shoot her a message.

763
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: Wait wait before, okay, before you read this, because oh

764
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 2: my gosh, my wife had no idea what she did

765
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 2: when she sent that text. Because I read the text later.

766
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 2: Oh really, and I was like, oh no, because of

767
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 2: the result of the game, and she didn't mean anything

768
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,399
Speaker 2: by it. It was contemplating if she should follow up

769
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 2: with the follow up text, now go ahead.

770
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: So I text Jill it's about eight thirty and I said, honestly,

771
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: it's crazy. You won't let me have one of my

772
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:39,280
Speaker 1: best guys when Nebraska is in an absolute dog fight

773
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: all caps. She responded to me about ten minutes later, Haha,

774
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: Willie see my most sincere apologies. I'm pulling the wifey card.

775
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 1: Nebraska's in her thoughts and prayers. I mean, how do

776
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: you lose a blackout game at home? Don't ask Baylor? Oops,

777
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 1: go big Red.

778
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: So she is taking a shot at Baylor. But in

779
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 2: that text, Nebraska ends up losing, not like oh no,

780
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 2: Red was internally in my eyeballs. But she sent it

781
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 2: before they lost, correct, she said it.

782
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: But maybe I don't know.

783
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,919
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure she sent it before.

784
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 1: I remember seeing it, and when I saw I had

785
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: to pull the wifey card, I'm like, yeah you did,

786
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 1: because she had to clip my man's balls right here

787
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: in front of all them.

788
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 2: She she took a shot at Baylor, and unbeknownst, took

789
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 2: a shot at Nebraska. She wanted to follow up with

790
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 2: an apology text, she's still she still might because she

791
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: knows how much he left.

792
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: I should shoot her a text. Now looking back at

793
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: this text, Uh.

794
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, FaceTime would work?

795
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:51,919
Speaker 2: All right?

796
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: Is she work and you think she'll answer?

797
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, she'll answer. I hope she answers, and if not,

798
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 2: I can I can face.

799
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: If not, tough look for all of us. She doesn't answer,

800
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:32,720
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna text, all right, bet.

801
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: Oh, Jilly ban please.

802
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: No answer?

803
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 2: Will?

804
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: Can I all right?

805
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 3: Bet On?

806
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 2: Will's playing mind drinks on Jill and me a sorry,

807
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 2: what were you gonna say, chef?

808
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll make you quick. Not a football podcast, but

809
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 4: on the stream. I do want to make a confession

810
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 4: because I felt like Matt took a bullet and in

811
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 4: the moment while Tennessee was losing, I was not in

812
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 4: the headspace to go, hey, I probably need to clarify

813
00:37:58,880 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 4: something you.

814
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 1: Don't need to say. You don't need to say it.

815
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: I already know, but you don't need to say it.

816
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 3: I pulled the trigger.

817
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: I know he threw under the bus right after.

818
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 3: The he did.

819
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, he said, By the way, I didn't. I wasn't

820
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: the one recording. Your chef kind of said, hey, you

821
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 1: should record Will during this fourty one style.

822
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 4: You're kidding, no, get a very Will. Yeah, He's like, hey,

823
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 4: get your phone on you. I was like, yeah, I

824
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 4: just wanted to.

825
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: Bust his balls like that. Obviously is a moment you

826
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: want to go.

827
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,439
Speaker 3: I was feeling bad about it too, motherfucker.

828
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: Yeah no, I yeah, I knew. I knew that part.

829
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: But tough loss, tough love. I went home and I

830
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: kind of said the whole spiel on bus and like

831
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: I stood outside, rain hit my face. I walked inside.

832
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: Face was still painted, battered and bruised from that game emotionally,

833
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: because I felt like the way we looked in that

834
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: first half. I know this is in the football podcast

835
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: and I'm not sitting here trying to talk about Nebraska,

836
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 1: but God's kind of calling me to right now. Yeah, yeah,

837
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: listen to it. Listen to the that first half. We

838
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: looked like a playoff team, y'all. Did I mean the

839
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 1: way we were taking it to USC that offense, I'm thinking,

840
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: all right, you got u c l A. We'll whoop

841
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: them Penn State, we got them now, and then you

842
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: got to finish up with a hard fall game at Iowa.

843
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: But at that point we'll be playing to get in

844
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:16,959
Speaker 1: the College for wall playoff because we'll be contending too. Yeah.

845
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,839
Speaker 1: But I walk inside after the loss and quietly shut

846
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: the door. My wife's laying laying in bed reading the book,

847
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: and I quietly shut the door, door locks, and she

848
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: looks up at me, and she's like, I'm sorry, baby,

849
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,439
Speaker 1: like me too. I go and wash my face off,

850
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: go lay down in bed next to her. She's like,

851
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: how you feeling? Like, I'm just sad and uh, and

852
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: I go, you know, there is one thing that makes

853
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 1: me feel better.

854
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 2: Though.

855
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: She started giggling. She said, you know it was it

856
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: was that time. Yeah, you know, all right, I got you,

857
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 1: I got you. Hey, Maybe in the next couple of days,

858
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: for sure, maybe I'll get on that shock wave some

859
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 1: the next couple of days, I will say, six am

860
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: this morning.

861
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 2: Rizzo's listening just gone down and Willie, yeah, probably sitting here.

862
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 1: Listen, they're in there listening right now, Like, gosh, damn it.

863
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: Who knows who listens to this podcast? And you were

864
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: talking about the shock wave at six am. Only the

865
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: inside pt sikos know what we're talking about, but everybody

866
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: kind of knows what we're talking about. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, tough, tough.

867
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 1: You know that was the weekend. Oh we had a

868
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: matter of fact, do you have anything else, chef?

869
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: No.

870
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 4: But by the way, Rizzo commoning was really cool. I've

871
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 4: been trying to play really cool and not talk about

872
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 4: it because it's just at this point it's it's run

873
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 4: its course. But I do feel like that was pretty

874
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 4: cool because he reached out and we talked about it

875
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 4: like this is a niche or podcast, not for long,

876
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 4: but to have someone like that, especially childhood hero of mine,

877
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:57,439
Speaker 4: that was super cool.

878
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 3: So shout out, riz.

879
00:40:58,320 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: We'll get him on this show one day.

880
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 3: Be sick.

881
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 2: It legitimized what Logan had texted us.

882
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: Yes, thank god, because you kind of don't know.

883
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 2: There is a part of you that's like, oh, maybe

884
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 2: he just set a one off comment to Logan. Logan

885
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 2: got excited. He texted us, Yeah, maybe fluffed it up

886
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 2: a little bit more. Could still be the case. He

887
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: could still be the case. But then you see the comment. Yeah,

888
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 2: and we didn't even tag him in the video.

889
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 1: Both followed each other.

890
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 2: That's huge.

891
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: I think we might have tagged him. I posted it

892
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 1: on X.

893
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 5: We didn't tag him on Instagram, where he commented. We

894
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 5: tagged him on the X of it, but the Instagram

895
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 5: he was untaggable. He just saw it.

896
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:43,479
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, that is cool. There was one other thing

897
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 2: about Saturday, Black guy. Oh, very fun being with the

898
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 2: boys with the baby, and I want to do more

899
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 2: of that, Like, yeah, just opportunities.

900
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: We just we got to get the crews together, got

901
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 1: get the cruise together. We gotta do it number one.

902
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,399
Speaker 1: We also got to do like a game night. Oh

903
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: just the parents. We got around here.

904
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: And we got to Jill is working this Saturday and

905
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 2: the Dowas Stars. The Coop and I are big fans

906
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 2: of the dows Stars. They're playing the Preds this Saturday.

907
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,320
Speaker 2: Coop invites me to go with him and his girlfriend,

908
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 2: and uh, he's like, you should bring Jill and Scarlet.

909
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 2: Jill can't go because she's working. But since it's a

910
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 2: two thirty tip off. She was like, hey, you should,

911
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 2: uh just take Scarlet. And so I'm taking Scarlet to

912
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 2: that Stars game. It's gonna be fun.

913
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be a good time. It'll be a

914
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: good time. And all parents out there know, like, if

915
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna do a game night, we have to intentionally

916
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: plan we have because we sound like every friend group

917
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 1: right now that says we gotta get together, we gotta

918
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: do something, and it just doesn't happen. You know why,

919
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: because life happened. Life happens. Then you're there the next

920
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: year or then you're we're sitting here at New Year's

921
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: and it's gonna be a New Year's resolution. It's been

922
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: one of mine before, like a quarterly game night. But

923
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: it has to get like intentionally planned out for and

924
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: everybody's got to be just lockstep, arms locked. Hey this childcare,

925
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: we're all on deck. Bro.

926
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 2: Night for the parents, Night for them. Oh we're doing

927
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 2: night for the parents.

928
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: I think so, yes, because your parents need their time,

929
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 1: they need their social time. We need our community outside

930
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: of kids. We need to do stuff with kids. Yeah,

931
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 1: like bringing the families together, but also like community for

932
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,760
Speaker 1: the parents and socializing, just getting out of the house

933
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: feeling young.

934
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 2: This is a good step forward too with Jill and

935
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 2: I because we've yet to do a babysitter night. We

936
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: have not done one. We need to, we need to

937
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:36,439
Speaker 2: make an ash.

938
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: So I was I would say too, like just get

939
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: a rep as soon as you can, like start getting

940
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: reps before the actual separation anxiety sinks in for the

941
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: little one, like when rue forget when it is, but

942
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 1: probably like in the one year old time, or maybe

943
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 1: around two, but the moment they realized you were leaving

944
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: and they're very sad, yeah, and like scared or they

945
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: don't want to be with the babysitter. You just you

946
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: feel so bad as a parent leaving and going to dinner.

947
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: And so I would just I would just tell you

948
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: or advise or encourage you just to get in some

949
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: kind of rhythm or at least have an experience or

950
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: two of it before it gets to a point where

951
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: separation anxiety kicks in. Yeah, because it's gonna hit you

952
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: hard no matter what. But if your first one comes

953
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: when they're already very aware and it's a babysitter coming

954
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: over for like the first time, or somebody that could

955
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: be unfamiliar with or not as familiar with. It just

956
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 1: hits you hard.

957
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 2: Bro.

958
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: You kind of don't even enjoy the date night because you're,

959
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: like you you feel like you got to get home

960
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: because your little one feels like they're in prison right now.

961
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 2: You should have seen me yesterday dropping off Scarlet at

962
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 2: daycare that that separation anxiety hit hard, hard for you.

963
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it was I fully expect. So Jill ended

964
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 2: up moving a shift around to be able to come

965
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 2: to the very first drop buff as well, which I'm

966
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: very thankful for because there were a ton of moving parts.

967
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 2: I'm ready now, like I can do the drop offs

968
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 2: super easy, getting her bottles ready in the morning, having

969
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:16,879
Speaker 2: the bagpack the extra diapers, extra outfits, like you give

970
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 2: it to the daycare so now they have all the

971
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 2: extra stuff. But dude, I was not expecting the emotions

972
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 2: that hit me when I dropped off Scarlet.

973
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 4: It was like.

974
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:34,479
Speaker 2: She's never been with without me or Jill before. She's

975
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 2: been with our parents before, which that's a little different.

976
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 2: But I'm just sitting there in that classroom and the

977
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 2: teachers are so sweet, the daycare workers are so sweet.

978
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,720
Speaker 1: There's a completely new environment. Was zero history with anybody

979
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: in the building.

980
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 2: Anyone in the building. And there's these like five little

981
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 2: precious baby girls in this So the class is five

982
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 2: girls and two boys, and all the they have all

983
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 2: the girls like in this little with each other, and

984
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 2: they're all four to like seven months old. And I'm

985
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 2: looking at the little group, I'm like, those are gonna

986
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 2: be her friends. Like look how excited they are sitting

987
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 2: in their little thing, Like that's the rug rats, right,

988
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 2: those are the rug Rats. Like She's gonna be one

989
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: of the girls. And then I look up and there's

990
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 2: a little apple with scarlet y and that has like

991
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 2: a little hanger under it, and I'm like, I'm like,

992
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 2: she's going to school. She's going to school.

993
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: Four months old.

994
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, she's she's gonna be great, she's gonna do

995
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 2: a good job. And now the teachers holding teachers holding there,

996
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 2: and I'm just I'm restraining so much. I'm over here

997
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 2: because i want to like go up and give her

998
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 2: one more kiss. But then I'm like, I'm gonna kiss

999
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 2: my baby while somebody else is like holding her. Is

1000
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 2: that weird? I don't want to, But now I like,

1001
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 2: really I won her back, like give her back to

1002
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 2: me so I can kiss her. Dude.

1003
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: That's so funny, dude, because I'll think about it, even

1004
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: with her nanny, and still it comes to my mind

1005
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: when I'm even like hugs and kisses and three squeezes.

1006
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: She might be holding Scotty and I'm giving her hug

1007
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: kissing three squeezes, and while Audrey's holding in her give

1008
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: her a hug, kissing three squeezes. And part of Me's like,

1009
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,280
Speaker 1: do I tell Audrey I love her.

1010
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 4: Too?

1011
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 2: Hey, do you want to hug too?

1012
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: I just.

1013
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, this lady doesn't know me. She's gonna think

1014
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 2: I'm a freak. And then they put scarlet down on

1015
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 2: the little pillow, like the little U shaped pillow, and

1016
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 2: we're like walking out of the classroom and it's very obvious.

1017
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 2: Now it's like, okay, now, y'all go check out because

1018
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 2: we got to do some paperwork and get the app downloaded,

1019
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 2: get our fingerprints scanned, all that fun stuff. And they

1020
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 2: have one of those like real long horizontal windows to

1021
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 2: like look into the classroom. And as we're walking out, dude,

1022
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 2: I stopped and I stood there for five minutes. While

1023
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 2: Jill was talking to the people. I was just watching

1024
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 2: there every with scarlet as they're like laying her down

1025
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 2: on the pillow. She's smiling, she's loving it. She's like

1026
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 2: taking in the new environment and kind of looking around,

1027
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 2: has a smile the entire time. Yeah, it starts hitting

1028
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 2: the eyes. So I'm like, I gotta go back to

1029
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 2: the to the front desk. I got and I'm standing

1030
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 2: there at the front desk, and the entire time, I'm like,

1031
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 2: I gotta go back. I gotta go back and look

1032
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 2: at her in the classroom. I looked at her again,

1033
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 2: and then do when I walked out that building, I

1034
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 2: lost it. I was not I thought Jill was gonna

1035
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 2: be losing it. It was gonna be crying. She didn't cry once.

1036
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 2: It was me. The whole time she drove back from

1037
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 2: the daycare, I just sat in the passenger seat, not

1038
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 2: like sobbing, but just like so quiet. And she was like,

1039
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 2: what's hitting you right now? Like why are you? And

1040
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 2: I was like, life is just gonna be a bunch

1041
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: of those It's just gonna be a bunch of moments

1042
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 2: of like her getting older and older and older and

1043
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 2: doing all these steps, and I'm just gonna be like

1044
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 2: imagining her under this little billy lights in the hospital

1045
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 2: room and like holding her hand and she's always going

1046
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 2: to be that small to me, and it just, dude,

1047
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 2: it chattered me. I was like, oh my gosh, I

1048
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 2: know she's only four months old, but like it felt

1049
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 2: like she was going off to college in a way,

1050
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 2: like and I know that's so different those these things.

1051
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: I truly, I really enjoy hearing about you embracing the

1052
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: moment because it's funny to think about knowing she's four

1053
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: months picking her up and like, hey, did you learn

1054
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: anything to day and.

1055
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 3: She knows it.

1056
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 2: She knows nothing of her environment other than these people

1057
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 2: are nice and give me a baba too. They let

1058
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 2: me not to these guys are sick. You know, she

1059
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 2: knows dad is struggling right now. Oh struggling. Oh dude.

1060
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 2: But I mean, daycare is what it is, and people

1061
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 2: you know, aren't like against it or like maybe they

1062
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:01,240
Speaker 2: just don't do daycare, maybe they do a different style

1063
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 2: of daycare with people coming to their house, but just

1064
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:08,320
Speaker 2: like that true daycare of like dropping off your kid.

1065
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:13,320
Speaker 2: It is like, I'm excited to see how that helps

1066
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 2: develop Scarlet. Because when we were dropping by for the

1067
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 2: very first time, for like the pre drop off, This

1068
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 2: little one year old. As soon as the classroom door,

1069
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 2: the daycare door, you know, opened up, this one year

1070
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 2: old just crawls up to us and is just talking

1071
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 2: and she's not making any sense, but she's just so

1072
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 2: excited to see a new face is and we're like, yeah,

1073
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 2: I was like, that's gonna be scarlet, Like she's gonna

1074
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 2: be okay with like hanging out with new people and

1075
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 2: excited to talk to people, and I don't know, it

1076
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 2: just got me excited for her development. It got me

1077
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 2: excited for her growing up. But it also made me

1078
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: really sad. It made me really really sad in a

1079
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 2: good way. Pt. Sichos Chef just got shocked. He's been

1080
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: getting shocked. And we're not talking static electricity. We're talking

1081
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:15,399
Speaker 2: full on voltage coming from a power strip. What else

1082
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:22,760
Speaker 2: is shocking? What else is shocking? Stock market? Maybe true classic?

1083
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 2: The way it makes men look true classic, the way

1084
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 2: it makes men feel comfy. It looks sharp, it's great

1085
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,839
Speaker 2: for any outing guys, and hey, look at me, I'm

1086
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,919
Speaker 2: dressed with these guys that will be hitting BWTV dot

1087
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 2: com very soon. I'm also dressed in a true classic hoodie.

1088
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 2: True Classic not only has great shirts, guys, it also

1089
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 2: has hoodies. True Classic has pants. They will get you

1090
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:51,439
Speaker 2: ready for the fall, winter, spring, summer having you look

1091
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:55,479
Speaker 2: good no matter what, guys. And here's the cool part

1092
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:59,479
Speaker 2: about True Classic. They just launched a boys line boy

1093
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 2: Dad's you can match, and honestly, it looks way better

1094
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: than those awkward family photo outfits or cheesy pajamas. Imagine

1095
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:11,879
Speaker 2: a Christmas card in True Classic outfits that might hit home,

1096
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 2: That might make that one aunt that's always putting out

1097
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 2: the best Christmas cards look bad this year. Because you

1098
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 2: outdit her. You get to show up together, you get

1099
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: to feel comfortable and actually look good doing it. The

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00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 2: crazy thing is True Classic has already sold over twenty

1101
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 2: five million shirts to more than five million customers with

1102
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 2: over two hundred thousand five star reviews, So I'm definitely

1103
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 2: not the only dad who has figured this out.

1104
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 1: Guys.

1105
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 2: You can find True Classic at Amazon, Target, Select Costco,

1106
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 2: and Sam's Club locations, or just head to True Classic

1107
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 2: dot com forward slash for the dad's special special guest

1108
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 2: Willie see on the True Classic ad that was True

1109
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 2: Classic dot com forward slash for the dads Trust me

1110
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 2: grab one and you'll thank me later. Will this is

1111
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 2: actually your hoodie. I stole your true classes.

1112
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 3: Good.

1113
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 2: It's a good hoodie. Shut, I'm a mop one it

1114
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:08,839
Speaker 2: back to the episode.

1115
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: I ever told you my daycare story.

1116
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 2: I've heard I've heard you. Yeah, I've heard Tail you

1117
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 2: sent via text message what had happened, but I've never

1118
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 2: heard you verbally tell it.

1119
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: We might have to save it for next week because

1120
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,879
Speaker 1: it's a wild one. Because it's a very wild it's

1121
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 1: a very wild story. It's the reason we have you know,

1122
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: we had to big thing happened. Yeah, we had to

1123
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 1: transition very quickly in the middle of like you know,

1124
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 1: work schedules and everything else to where we ended up

1125
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: going the nandy route. But I'll talk to my wife

1126
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: see if I can tell the story. Yeah, because it

1127
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 1: is a crazy story. It is one of those types

1128
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 1: of stories. And for listeners at home, I know you've

1129
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:55,240
Speaker 1: touched on this, but Charloe like is full time working

1130
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,320
Speaker 1: as well. You both of you guys are very very busy,

1131
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: so childcare is a necessity. Absolutely, Yeah, But it is

1132
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: a We joke around on this pod a lot. We

1133
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,919
Speaker 1: get serious on this pod, but I do not say

1134
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,760
Speaker 1: this lightly. This story is insane.

1135
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 2: It's insane, and I think that that's also what was

1136
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: hitting me in the moment, was like having to release

1137
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 2: like the fear that I had of like somebody else

1138
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 2: caring for my child. And it really was almost like

1139
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:30,839
Speaker 2: I was having to purge myself of worrying fear in

1140
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 2: that the.

1141
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: Fear is justified. I mean, again, you're giving your entire

1142
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: world to people that they're not your parents, they're not

1143
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: your family, you have zero relationship with them. You're just

1144
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: trusting you know, the building, the reviews, stuff you've heard.

1145
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: I'm on a first name basis with this Miss Christie, yeah, yeah,

1146
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 2: Miss Angela. Yeah, and they seemed like sweethearts. I trust them,

1147
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,919
Speaker 2: but I'm also like, oh my god, oh my god.

1148
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I'll see if I can. I can

1149
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 1: tell the story next week or something. Ye, yeah, because

1150
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 1: it's a wild story and I don't want to say

1151
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 1: anything that I'm not supposed to say, or maybe I

1152
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: don't be some things being shared.

1153
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1154
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:13,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's cool to hear you say that, Schrum, because

1155
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 5: we had this old coach back in the day that

1156
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 5: would talk about the transfer of moments like every day

1157
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 5: in high school soccer, like each Friday, you get to

1158
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 5: play a game in front of people. And as you

1159
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 5: get older, the moments are far and few between and

1160
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 5: they're no longer about you and your day, but they

1161
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 5: become about your kids and become about that. So for

1162
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 5: hearing you say, like, my life is just going to

1163
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 5: be a bunch of little scar scar moments of her

1164
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 5: growing up and stuff, is the first time I've heard

1165
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 5: somebody talk about that transition of moments, like it's no

1166
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 5: longer about what sherm gets to do Friday, it's like

1167
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,359
Speaker 5: the daughter she's at daycare for the first time.

1168
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 2: Like, that's a cool thing to hear you say, dude,

1169
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 2: thank you. It was. It was a cool moment. It

1170
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:51,760
Speaker 2: needed to happen. It was a good thing. It's also

1171
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 2: helping in jill and ize development. It is a great

1172
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 2: precursor to the babysitter stuff and the like yeah, you know,

1173
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 2: just being able to like let go get trust others.

1174
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also just feeling, like Derek was saying, just

1175
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: feeling the depth of the moment, Like as funny as

1176
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: it is, like she's four months all that stuff, but

1177
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: just being able to truly be where your feet are

1178
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: is a you know, is like a skill, and you

1179
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: doing that and feeling the way of the moment and

1180
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: kind of foreseeing everything else in the future and knowing

1181
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 1: that this is, this moment is as special as any

1182
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 1: other moment that will come, even when she's talking or

1183
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: does understand stuff. Yeah, so it is. It's it's It

1184
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: was cool to see it on your face. Almost came

1185
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: out of your eyes. I was waiting, I was waiting

1186
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: for I'm always waiting for some tears going.

1187
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,720
Speaker 2: I'm getting a bit better at holding back the tears.

1188
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: Are you You just said you were You just said

1189
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: Jill didn't cry, hold on tear, and you hold holding

1190
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 1: back the tears on the show. This is twenty four

1191
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,839
Speaker 1: hours ago when you just dropped Scarlet off.

1192
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 2: I have no tears to get because guys, I was

1193
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,360
Speaker 2: parked once once wet to the house. I needed to

1194
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 2: get back here because we had interviews and stuff up. Yeah,

1195
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 2: I'm about to walk in looking like a psychopath. I

1196
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 2: need to get it together. And I'm driving to the

1197
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 2: shop and I have a Spotify playlist and the Lahla

1198
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 2: by that I seeing the Scarlett is adel VISs. I'm

1199
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 2: seeing it to her all the time when I'm putting

1200
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 2: her down and Spotify is just going off random songs.

1201
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 2: And right before I pull out the shop, adel Vice

1202
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 2: starts playing like what are we doing? I walk in

1203
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 2: very first seeing Chef says it you good? Yeah, I'm great.

1204
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 2: I'm really good. Are you sure?

1205
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? I'm good?

1206
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 2: And then like ten minutes later, I fessed up and

1207
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 2: said that I was crying from daycare and Chef was like, yeah,

1208
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,919
Speaker 2: I could tell, Like damn it.

1209
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: You gotta love chef. Chef is, do we have outside

1210
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 1: of the core value stuff that will be going over

1211
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: that people uh sent to us? Do we have other

1212
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:02,920
Speaker 1: comments that we'll be reading? We do?

1213
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 2: What piles?

1214
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:04,800
Speaker 1: Do you do you have any piles?

1215
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 2: I do have a pile. And right before we go

1216
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 2: into that, uh, let's hit him with a nice little

1217
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 2: crack of cold one from our friends at Liquid IV.

1218
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: Let's hit him with a crack of cold one. I

1219
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: have water, I got some mixing. I got some mixing

1220
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 1: right here. Oh yeah, absolutely, buddy, you already got me one.

1221
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1222
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 2: That was actually our boy Derek uh dee Deek, who

1223
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 2: was absolutely killing it.

1224
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 6: Uh.

1225
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 2: Not to revisit stuff that we've already talked about, but

1226
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 2: it's got to be the trigger treating for me. Uh

1227
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: this past week, my cracker cold one was just getting

1228
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 2: to watch the little kids absolutely slay it. It was

1229
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 2: just a blast to get to see all the like laughs,

1230
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 2: all the magic at Halloween Night, all the costumes. By

1231
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 2: the way, dude, a costume that we very much missed

1232
00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 2: out on was seventh themed costumes. I saw Helena and

1233
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 2: Mark costume and was like, oh my god, did I

1234
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 2: strike out this year?

1235
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 3: You just gave me the opportunity to say it.

1236
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 4: The costume that I saw online that I thought was

1237
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 4: the coolest thing ever was a couple's costume. The guy

1238
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 4: was dressed as Randy Johnson in a diamondback uniform and

1239
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 4: the girl was dressed as a bird.

1240
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: No, that's all.

1241
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, a little fucked up, but I mean, I mean.

1242
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: That moment is one of the craziest moments in sports issues.

1243
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 3: Doesn't make sense.

1244
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: Randy Johnson is just throwing a heater and the bird

1245
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: perfectly flying in at the right moment, just getting disintegrated.

1246
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: He's and piece of that bird in their family.

1247
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 2: Control deleted the bird.

1248
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 1: Control deleted the bird.

1249
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 2: There was no carcass, there was just feathers.

1250
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, my crack of cole One's going to go to

1251
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: And this was honestly a very subtle surprise, and I

1252
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: think I'll be able to try and use a couple

1253
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: broken things as we do the core values thing. Because

1254
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: Charle and I went to this positive discipline kind of

1255
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: class workshop, seminar or whatever it is for a couple

1256
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 1: hours on Saturday morning and it was cool out. Your

1257
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: boy was locked in, engaged the entire two hours and trying.

1258
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 1: I went to do at the school that Rugoes Too

1259
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 1: offered it, and so there were several parents and you're

1260
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 1: kind of sitting in a circle, kind of sitting in

1261
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 1: a circle. They have a couple speakers, a couple like

1262
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: people who are leading the entire thing talking about positive

1263
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: discipline and going over goals and challenges and what positive

1264
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: discipline looks like, like being kind and firm. Kind is

1265
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: a nice, firm, isn't mean? Like all these different scenarios

1266
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 1: to where I'm up there. They're given roles. So I'm

1267
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: up there as the kid like hearing parents say, like

1268
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 1: you know, they had scripts to read on what parents

1269
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: would say, and then I would react to where how

1270
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: it would make me feel for what they're saying. So

1271
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: we did all these different like skits and learned a

1272
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: lot of cool things. So my correct could one goes

1273
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 1: to my wife getting me out and going to this

1274
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: positive discipline workshop because it was Saturday, huskers were about

1275
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,439
Speaker 1: to play that night. Wasn't like fully aware what we're

1276
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 1: going to be doing, and it turned out to be

1277
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 1: really cool. Yeah, there's apparently a positive discipline app. I'll

1278
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: say that for my survival kit. I haven't put it

1279
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 1: on my phone yet, but apparently there's this positive Discipline

1280
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 1: app that you can download and it's got like, you know,

1281
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 1: some teachings or learns that they give you kind of daily.

1282
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 1: But I would encourage, Yeah, I would encourage parents if

1283
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 1: there's like a positive discipline workshop or just like parent

1284
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: workshops for you and your wife to go to. Highly encourage,

1285
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: highly recommend. It was kind of one of those things

1286
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,919
Speaker 1: like looking back on it, I thought is really cool

1287
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: because it's like we're all very intentional for how we

1288
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: want to be better in our career with ourself, whether

1289
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 1: it's diet and working out structure for our own self,

1290
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 1: our own individual sanity for our career. We have ambitions

1291
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 1: in our career to where hey, this is what our

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Speaker 1: vision is what does our process look like? What are

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Speaker 1: things and places that I'm going to to learn and

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Speaker 1: get better at my craft? For work? You have the

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Speaker 1: same thing with parenting your relationships. You want to tap

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Speaker 1: in and figure out, you know, if you feel like

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Speaker 1: you're in a rupt relationship wise or in a marriage

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Speaker 1: relationship wise, and people who are very intentional about whether

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Speaker 1: it's getting it back on track doing some like continued

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Speaker 1: education or learning on having a better marriage, or just

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Speaker 1: like checking in. Yeah, couples go and do that. And

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Speaker 1: I as I'm leaving and thinking about it, I'm thinking,

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Speaker 1: this is no different. It's like we should be doing

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Speaker 1: something like this a few different times a year at

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Speaker 1: least on us challenging ourselves to learn something new, and

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Speaker 1: then as we're driving home kind of challenging ourselves like,

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Speaker 1: here's what I'm thinking that my blind spots where here's

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Speaker 1: one area where I want to get better in based

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Speaker 1: on what I learned from the positive discipline workshop that

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Speaker 1: we just did. Is there anything that you were hearing

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Speaker 1: that I wasn't. I haven't said out loud yet because

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Speaker 1: I would love to hear if you have any feedback

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Speaker 1: from myself and we're doing that kind of vice versa.

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Speaker 1: So I just thought it was very cool in general,

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Speaker 1: and now we've already identified a couple of things. I

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Speaker 1: know me for myself. It's like the way I talk

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Speaker 1: to Rue when she has a dress on it. She

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Speaker 1: looks super pretty, and all I do, kind of as

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Speaker 1: a dadd is give her praise because I don't know

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Speaker 1: necessarily know what else to kind of give her other bag,

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you look so beautiful, And I'm just

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Speaker 1: telling her all these praise things versus like I could

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Speaker 1: be asking her questions on why did you pick out

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Speaker 1: that dress? Or I love those colors? What made you

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Speaker 1: like you know the color blue? In this one, I

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Speaker 1: let them kind of tap around and think about it

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Speaker 1: as to where you're not fully giving them their identity.

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Speaker 1: And they're just coming to dad because ru Love's walking downstairs.

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Speaker 1: She loves seeing the look on Dad's face. And I'm

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Speaker 1: calling her pretty and beautiful all the time, And how

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Speaker 1: can I because I want to say, I even brought

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Speaker 1: papers over from the notes. I took your boy over

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Speaker 1: here taking notes. Look at that, but changing my like

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Speaker 1: praise to encouragement, Yeah, to get them opening their minds

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Speaker 1: and thinking to where they're not seeing they're tying their

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Speaker 1: identity off of what Dad has telling me. Anytime I

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Speaker 1: think I look pretty, I want to go get Dad

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Speaker 1: as words of affirmation. Yeah, so really cool. That's where

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Speaker 1: my Craik of cole One goes to, We'll be able

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Speaker 1: to dive into it more because there's like stuff that

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Speaker 1: I'm leaving. I'm like, oh, we're doing a core values

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Speaker 1: You're doing it more like a core values thing for

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Speaker 1: quote lessoner topic. And I would just love to share

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Speaker 1: some of the things I was learning in this class

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Speaker 1: that helped give me a lot of like correlation and

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Speaker 1: breaking things down to just kind of keep things simple

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Speaker 1: because you think about values and the core values and

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Speaker 1: all that, and it's like, how can we cover all

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Speaker 1: this other than reading what people's values are being like yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love that, I love that value. Here's what mine

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Speaker 1: would be, and then kind of just stopping there. But

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Speaker 1: And just for clarity, you have comments or values.

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Speaker 2: I have comments.

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Speaker 1: It's only value. Only have comments on value. So let

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Speaker 1: do what we want to do.

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Speaker 4: The hotline we got thirty five minutes, so I think

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Speaker 4: we have time for one hotline and then we'll go

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Speaker 4: into the values and now winter our show.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sounds good, let's park And the only reason we're

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Speaker 1: on a time crunch is we have an awesome guest

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Speaker 1: coming into the shop that we're going to be doing

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Speaker 1: an interview on busting with the boys. So that's the

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Speaker 1: reason we're kind of in a structured like a time zone.

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Speaker 6: Really see really one shelf shift cooking it up.

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Speaker 2: Sure we got met fast stafford.

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Speaker 6: I got a little dad hacked for you guys that

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Speaker 6: I actually picked up from my mom when I was

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Speaker 6: a kid.

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Speaker 2: I'm hacked.

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Speaker 6: So where you get a you have a bunch of kids,

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Speaker 6: or even just one kid. You're trying to save a

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Speaker 6: little money, your son, your daughter, two, three, four years old,

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Speaker 6: you're going out to eat. You don't want to spend

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Speaker 6: that extra money. Ten dollars for a buffet, fifteen dollars

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Speaker 6: for this buffet, No, sir, let him know how old

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Speaker 6: your kid is. Yep, he's three and under. How old

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Speaker 6: is he actually four or five?

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Speaker 3: But he looks three.

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Speaker 1: They can't tell. They don't check IDs.

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Speaker 6: They don't have IDs yet.

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Speaker 1: Let him know.

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Speaker 6: We used to go to see these pizza Chinese buffets

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Speaker 6: all the time.

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Speaker 2: As a kid.

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Speaker 6: I was about three years old till till I was six.

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Speaker 3: So they save a few hundred a year that way,

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Speaker 3: maybe even thousand.

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Speaker 2: You have just a little dad hack out there.

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Speaker 6: Might not be the most ethical one, but it'll keep

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Speaker 6: your pockets a little fatter.

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Speaker 3: It's six out fellas.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great dad act. That's all time. That

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Speaker 1: might be number one right now.

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Speaker 2: They don't check. Yeah, they don't have IDs.

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Speaker 3: Bro.

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Speaker 2: That made me laugh to where I had tears in

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Speaker 2: the side of my eyes. That was really funny.

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Speaker 1: Dude, he's three, he's got a mustache.

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Speaker 4: Imagine CCS gets a child bouncer sitting at the front.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love this, doesn't got it. I have a

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Speaker 2: great video that I'll send you. You have to remind

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Speaker 2: me of a guy doing the outside of a Toys

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Speaker 2: r us. It's one of the funniest videos I've ever

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Speaker 2: seen of a kid bouncer.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, dude, and shout out CCS. Shout out CC's Pizza.

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Speaker 2: Man, Oh my god, I wish I could go back

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Speaker 2: to lill League days and see a young Willie c

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Speaker 2: just tearing apart of meats Budy, I bet you were

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Speaker 2: a demon demon the Creative Pizzas.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a mac and cheese pizza. Let me get that.

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Speaker 2: And I know you're just fist full of pizza with

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Speaker 2: one end and you're in the arcades.

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Speaker 1: At our CC's had the little hockey game, you know how,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of like, what what's the what's the game?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like foosball.

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Speaker 1: We're moving or you're kind of moving the hockey players around.

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Speaker 2: That that is a good game. Shout out that caller

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 1: I think what is it the cinnamon rolls at CC's Pizza.

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Speaker 1: Come on, man, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we might Hey, that might be our next Pizza

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Speaker 2: six meet up, just saying.

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Speaker 4: Say, pizza is still alive. Oh, it's got Yeah, it's

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Speaker 4: gott revamped. Oh really we're talking about CC's pizza. We're

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Speaker 4: talking about all you can staple. What's the price of

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Speaker 4: it now?

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Speaker 2: Probably sad?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know back in my day, I want to

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Speaker 1: say maybe six bucks, seven bucks. That's crazy. All you

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Speaker 1: can eat pizza moment.

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Speaker 2: Can order.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's not that. Ain't the experience?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't look like they do all you can

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Speaker 3: eat anymore.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll we'll figure Yeah, we'll get into we'll do

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Speaker 1: some detective.

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Speaker 7: Work with with our fast ones. Will wow, how much

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01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:14,879
Speaker 7: for adults? Ain't bad in this economy?

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Speaker 2: PT six meet up? Yeah, future PT six meet up,

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Speaker 2: ccsp that we will shut it down. We will shut it.

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Speaker 1: We will shut it down. We welcome all.

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Speaker 2: We have our fast ones. I was thinking for the

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Speaker 2: fast ones, we can read names and then just kind

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Speaker 2: of find in the comment like what that value is like.

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Speaker 1: N M.

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Speaker 2: Cola fifty six hundred says dreaming big, working hard, and

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Speaker 2: staying humble g L three as nine and just.

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Speaker 1: For just for context, two people that are tapped in

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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, we talked about what is

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Speaker 1: a core value you would love to instill on your

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Speaker 1: kid for the rest of time? Yes, and not to

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Speaker 1: get overwhelmed. I know there's a bunch out there that

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Speaker 1: everybody wants to do, but just to give us some

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Speaker 1: some thought topics, some stuff to give the audience.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely from you guys. Absolutely. Do you want me to

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Speaker 2: go into mine and then we can go boom boom

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Speaker 2: boom on the fast ones.

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 2: Yeah so, I said. Nm Cola fifty six hundred on

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Speaker 2: YouTube said dreaming big, working hard, and staying humble are

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Speaker 2: the values they would want.

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Speaker 1: I got one here from Uncle Tony two on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Be the hardest worker in the room. With whatever it

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Speaker 1: is you're doing. It's very difficult to outperform hard work.

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Speaker 1: Am into that, amen?

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Speaker 2: Amen. Gl three as nine to one on YouTube said

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Speaker 2: determination with a flex emoji.

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Speaker 1: Got one here from a Drew oh ninety on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Above all else, be kind.

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Speaker 2: Peyton Headwald three two zero six on YouTube said gratitude.

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Speaker 1: Gratitude, and then I'm going to write the down as well.

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Speaker 2: Oh I like that.

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Speaker 1: Gratitude, hard work, kind, humble.

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01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 2: The Turning Company on Instagram said resilience.

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Speaker 1: Resilience. That's yes, that's my favorite resilience. Oh, I got

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Speaker 1: one here from from Weber Leaf of value strength emotionally, physically,

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Speaker 1: in brain power and brain power or whatever. I guess,

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Speaker 1: just value themselves.

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Speaker 2: That's a pt sixer right there. That's not an empty

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Speaker 2: six The Big Veldt on Instagram said curiosity tempered with

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Speaker 2: kindness curiosity.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we.

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Speaker 2: Just value yours to themselves.

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Speaker 1: I guess, just value themselves respect or respect for themselves

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Speaker 1: others in the journey for life.

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Speaker 2: Ooh respect and who did that?

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Speaker 1: That one came from Roddy thirty one on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Aj Jacobson eighteen on Instagram said courage and authenticity. I

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Speaker 2: freaking I love those. Yes, courage and authenticity, especially the authenticity.

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Speaker 2: Great job, ajam My.

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Speaker 1: Here for one from erect d erect d erect d

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Speaker 1: on Instagram sick work ethic, talent and likability only get

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Speaker 1: you so far. Those who put their head down and

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Speaker 1: grind will always rise to the top. Both my parents

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Speaker 1: had excellent work ethic and were amazing examples to me.

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Speaker 1: My wife's work ethic is impeccable. I hope I am

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Speaker 1: upholding my part. Oh shut out Eric, especially giving credit

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Speaker 1: everywhere else.

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Speaker 2: Steven Barrera forty nine on Instagram said accountability own everything

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Speaker 2: you do or don't do.

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Speaker 1: Accountability. Every day I asked my girls, what are you?

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Speaker 1: This is the this is values homework from hollow hollow

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Speaker 1: point hollow point forty five on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Here's the values homework.

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01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 1: He even timestamped it the two hour ten mark from

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Speaker 1: a couple episodes ago.

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Speaker 2: Every day I asked my girls, what are you? Smart? Strong, beautiful?

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01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 1: Flex muscles, point to the head, hand on cheeks to

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Speaker 1: teach them when they're toddlers. What do you do? They respond?

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Speaker 1: They respond, pay attention, work hard, do the right thing.

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Speaker 1: We've recently added, how do we eat good, eat effort, attitude, toughness.

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Speaker 1: That is fire one hollow point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, keep that one.

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Speaker 1: That's a that's a dad hack for everybody too. What

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Speaker 1: are you strong? Smart, beautiful? What do you do? Pay attention,

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Speaker 1: work hard, do the right thing? How do we eat? Effort, attitude, toughness? Dude?

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Speaker 2: Those girls are so lucky they got they got some

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Speaker 2: parents like that.

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Speaker 5: I love that He comments on almost everything we post, too,

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01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:49,920
Speaker 5: especially so big siko hollow point.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for being a siko dude, it sounds like

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Speaker 2: you're incredible dad as well. H grees on Instagram set persistence.

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01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:58,960
Speaker 2: If I had to pick one, I want her to

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Speaker 2: be a dog fight for whatever she wants, needs and

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01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 2: finds a way to make it happen.

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Speaker 1: So we have Mets Camfield here. Value the process more

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01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 1: than the results. If you work hard and treat people well,

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01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 1: that's a great process and should be all you need

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01:14:13,160 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 1: to focus on. You can only control your controllables and

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01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:19,240
Speaker 1: you can't control the results. But having a sound process

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01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 1: such as treating people well and working hard will put

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01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: you in a great position to be successful. So I'm

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01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 1: going to write down process over results what I'm going

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01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 1: to try and do here if I can regurgitate or

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01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 1: broken Lee put together some of the things I was

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01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: learning in this positive discipline class. So one thing we

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01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:40,600
Speaker 1: went over at the very start was like everybody like

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01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 1: the class had to answer like what are challenges that

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01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 1: you're currently going through as a parent? And so you

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01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: have people like sure, if I were to ask you,

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01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:49,519
Speaker 1: what is a challenge right now as a parent that

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01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 1: your kiddo is giving you a challenge with? You have

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01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:55,640
Speaker 1: a four month old, so that's kind of hard. But

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Speaker 1: if there was one like, let's brainstorm challenges that are

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01:14:58,360 --> 01:15:00,200
Speaker 1: out there for me. I stood up there like if

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Speaker 1: you could, if you can break it down and not

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01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 1: give us a few sentences, but if it was a

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01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 1: headline in a newspaper, what would it be?

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Speaker 2: And I was, like.

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Speaker 1: I said, whining the epidemic that's taking us all down

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01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 1: as parents and using it. So whining and using your

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01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:21,960
Speaker 1: strong voice was one for Reu. Okay, so like we

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01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 1: had whining, you had, we had like breakdowns at the

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Speaker 1: grocery store. Breakdown like breakdowns, tantrums.

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Speaker 2: Give me some more sure mine is during feeds, just

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01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 2: not wanting to feed, like fighting the feed back.

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Speaker 1: I guess. So we can say generally if we're if

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Speaker 1: we're grouping it together with like toddlers or older kids, like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dinner time, oh, dinner time. Yeah yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: like that bedtime. I would say, is has it hasn't

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Speaker 2: been a full challenge, but there are It's difficult.

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Speaker 1: And that one is one that will very much spike

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01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 1: up when they you know, when they're like getting more

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01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 1: aware and they're becoming toddlers and everything else. Yeah, not

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01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 1: getting what they want. Yes, dude, moms are speaking up

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01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 1: and it was like, uh a, mom was just saying

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01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:16,679
Speaker 1: the challenge that she was having, which I think all

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01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 1: parents go through. But it's like mom is the comfort zone.

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01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 1: So they cling to mom a lot. Oh dude, during

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01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 1: times where they're breaking down and everything else. It's like

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Speaker 1: Mom is the one that gets drained because Mom is

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01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,240
Speaker 1: like seen as a safe space. Dude.

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Speaker 2: I'm going through that big right now, we're Scarlet. When

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Speaker 2: Scarlet's in a temper tantrum type thing, she does not

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01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:41,040
Speaker 2: want Dad. She wants chili band. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, it's uh we yeah, we battle. We battle

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01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:48,160
Speaker 1: that too. It's like Rue, I'll be in the bedroom, like, say,

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01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 1: we just got done eating dinner. I came across this,

1590
01:16:50,280 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 1: like this water flosser hire just shoots through your uho,

1591
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 1: shoots through your teeth. Yeah, I love it. So when

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01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:58,920
Speaker 1: I get done eating dinner, we had some beef last night,

1593
01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 1: so I had some some be stuck in the molars

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01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:02,759
Speaker 1: back there, so I'm going in and using the flosster.

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01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:03,160
Speaker 2: Yeap.

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01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 1: She was around seven o'clock. We're about to start prepping

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01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:08,600
Speaker 1: for bedtime. Rue walks her little ass in to the

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01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:12,160
Speaker 1: bathroom and she's like, uh, Dad, there are you doing

1599
01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 1: bedtime tonight. And I was like, you know, as I'm going,

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Speaker 1: I know she asks us every night because she wants mom,

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01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 1: and do you want that to do bedtime tonight?

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01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:20,240
Speaker 4: No?

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01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:23,000
Speaker 1: Why don't you want that to do bedtime? I want

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01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:26,680
Speaker 1: mom to do bedtime? All right, go tell mom. But

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01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:30,960
Speaker 1: as a small example, it was mom's turn to do bedtime. Yeah,

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01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 1: but just as a small example of like this clinging

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01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 1: to mom as just always Mom is what they want

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01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 1: at all, Like I'll go up to wake her up

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01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 1: in the morning. They're like, where's Mama? I want to

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01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 1: see mom, And I'll beg moms at work right now.

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01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 1: It's you know, dad has getting out of bed and

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Speaker 1: getting you go in this morning? Did you sleep well?

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01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 2: I want mama.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get out of bed. And it's

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Speaker 1: just it's just a fight all the time, not like

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01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:51,320
Speaker 1: a fight all the time, but just a lot of whining,

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01:17:51,320 --> 01:17:53,559
Speaker 1: a lot of things that's like I want mom in

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Speaker 1: this situation. I see on mom too. It's draining because

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01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:58,960
Speaker 1: Mom's always got to be got. The one that's like

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01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:01,080
Speaker 1: that's like their self soon is going to mom.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, So.

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Speaker 1: What I gathered from this is first we talked about

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Speaker 1: what challenges we went across, and then it was all

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Speaker 1: about all right, now that we have our challenges lists

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01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:16,679
Speaker 1: that they're writing on the board, doing some white board

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01:18:16,720 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 1: work and some notework. Then it was they were going

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01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:21,000
Speaker 1: around the classroom and saying, what are goals that you

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01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: have for your kid? Like, imagine talking to your kid

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01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:27,839
Speaker 1: in thirty years they're thirty five years old, what goals

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01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 1: or what would you want them to represent? What characteristics?

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01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:34,880
Speaker 1: So essentially the values and the goals that we've been

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Speaker 1: sitting here talking about. So people are going around the

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Speaker 1: room and my one was resilience because I love resilience

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Speaker 1: above most. I love a lot of core values, but

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01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:45,719
Speaker 1: resilience always stands out to me because life is always

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01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:48,200
Speaker 1: going to be unfair to you, and it's always about you,

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01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:50,320
Speaker 1: know how you respond to when life hits you in

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Speaker 1: the mouth. So if I could teach anything to my daughters,

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Speaker 1: it would be mine was resilience that I gave.

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Speaker 2: And so we just use our.

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01:18:57,240 --> 01:19:00,400
Speaker 1: List from breaking it down into one word by everybody

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01:19:00,439 --> 01:19:04,440
Speaker 1: that chimed in, we have on our list kind, gratitude,

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01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 1: hard work, humble, dream big, resilience, curiosity, respect, courage, authenticity, accountability, eat, effort, attitude, toughness,

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01:19:14,800 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: process over results.

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01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 2: So we have our listening.

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Speaker 1: Here where we have our challenges list things you're kind

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01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:21,759
Speaker 1: of going through as a parent, and I would encourage

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01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:23,000
Speaker 1: you and your wife to kind of talk about what

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01:19:23,080 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 1: challenges you might be going through to where it's like

1650
01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 1: things that you can tap into, because this is going

1651
01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 1: to be a full circle reminder on how you can

1652
01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:34,800
Speaker 1: go about handling like those next situations together as a

1653
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:38,519
Speaker 1: team lock an arm. But we have the challenges whining,

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01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:41,759
Speaker 1: breakdowns and tantrums, dinner time, not getting what they want, bedtime,

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01:19:41,800 --> 01:19:44,600
Speaker 1: and clinging to mom. So as there's a quote that

1656
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:47,680
Speaker 1: I said a while back that a gentleman gave me

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Speaker 1: somebody that was associated with the school, and I was

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01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:51,840
Speaker 1: kind of meeting him for the first time at the

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01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:53,759
Speaker 1: park when us going around and playing with the kids,

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01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:56,800
Speaker 1: and he gave me those quotes where it's like, it's

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01:19:56,840 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 1: those moments where whether you're trying to get their shoes on,

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01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:02,360
Speaker 1: they're pissed about what clothes they want to wear, shoes, YadA, YadA, YadA,

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01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:05,639
Speaker 1: talking to them in the next thirty seconds the way

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01:20:05,680 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 1: you want to see them thirty years down the road

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01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 1: instead of the short term animal brain. We all get resistant,

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01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:15,200
Speaker 1: we all get upset about things. It's like when I'm

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01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 1: sitting there trying to put rou in the car seat

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01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:20,519
Speaker 1: and everything else, a moment is happening, and it's it's

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01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:23,200
Speaker 1: how you grab to the goals and the values that

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01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 1: we have, connecting with the goals versus correcting the challenges.

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01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 1: So connection over correction. So in those thirty in that

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01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:35,679
Speaker 1: thirty second spanner, it could be a few minutes long

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01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:37,599
Speaker 1: as you're sitting there with your child, breaking it down

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01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 1: and trying to mold them into these human beings they want,

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01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:43,919
Speaker 1: we want them to be based on all these values.

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01:20:44,280 --> 01:20:46,439
Speaker 1: It's how can you connect with them away in those

1677
01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 1: thirty seconds or in those tough moments that isn't going

1678
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:52,240
Speaker 1: to correct the next thirty seconds, but mold them into

1679
01:20:52,280 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 1: what you want them to be in the next thirty years.

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01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 1: So I thought that was like a good full circle thing.

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01:20:57,080 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 1: And the way I broke it down on my mind

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01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:05,639
Speaker 1: before the dads is that space right here is good. Yeah, whining,

1683
01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:10,360
Speaker 1: good breakdowns, tantrums, good dinner time. They don't want to

1684
01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:13,000
Speaker 1: eat their food, they're negotiating with you. They want a cookie,

1685
01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:14,360
Speaker 1: They're not gonna eat, You're gonna have to sit there

1686
01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 1: at dinner table with them for a while, and they're

1687
01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:19,280
Speaker 1: giving you a hard time good not getting what they want.

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01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 1: You're going to the grocery store, they want a toy.

1689
01:21:21,439 --> 01:21:23,759
Speaker 1: You're trying to teach them the value of a dollar.

1690
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 1: Just teach them anytime you walk in somewhere you're not

1691
01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 1: going to pick out something, and they're giving you a

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01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 1: lot of trouble about that in front of everybody. You

1693
01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 1: feel embarrassed. Good, are you going to snap and try

1694
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 1: and correct the behavior for just thirty seconds and just

1695
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:39,559
Speaker 1: be very like disconnected, or are you going to connect

1696
01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: with them about, Hey, I know you really want this,

1697
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 1: and right now we're not buying anything, so you know

1698
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:49,639
Speaker 1: then like me, I would think, I know you really

1699
01:21:49,640 --> 01:21:51,599
Speaker 1: want this right now and we're not here to buy anything.

1700
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:53,800
Speaker 1: So help that really needs your help picking out X,

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01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:55,280
Speaker 1: Y and Z. Can you help me go find that,

1702
01:21:55,320 --> 01:21:57,080
Speaker 1: try and redirect their brain a little bit, and then

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01:21:57,120 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 1: I'll follow up in the car. Hey, the reason why

1704
01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:02,719
Speaker 1: we don't things at the grocery store is YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA.

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01:22:02,720 --> 01:22:05,519
Speaker 1: Whatever value you're wanting to instill and connect with them

1706
01:22:05,560 --> 01:22:09,800
Speaker 1: when their brain is ready to go because they're also

1707
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:12,280
Speaker 1: teaching you. Like the brain like with the hand, when

1708
01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:15,400
Speaker 1: everything gets when everything gets heightened, your brain is like this,

1709
01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:18,439
Speaker 1: like the emotional part of the brain is firing. Nobody's learning,

1710
01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:20,800
Speaker 1: nobody's connecting, nobody wants to hear what you have to

1711
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:23,600
Speaker 1: say or talk. It's just about how do you not

1712
01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:26,840
Speaker 1: match that energy as a parent, keep poised and keep

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01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 1: controlled here and get them to where it Now they're

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01:22:29,360 --> 01:22:31,040
Speaker 1: in a calm state and you can talk to them

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01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 1: about what happened and what a moment and an opportunity.

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Speaker 1: We now have to teach them a good value or

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01:22:36,280 --> 01:22:39,600
Speaker 1: start instilling those values and start molding them into the

1718
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 1: adults we hope that they become one day. So I

1719
01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:44,000
Speaker 1: thought it was very good and just to go out

1720
01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:46,679
Speaker 1: this giving you a hard time of bedtime, good clinging

1721
01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:49,800
Speaker 1: to mom, you see your daughter, your son cleaning to mom.

1722
01:22:49,840 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: And moments where it's like it kind of pisses me

1723
01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 1: off right now as a dad that it's almost like

1724
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 1: you're taking it as a sign of disrespect to where

1725
01:22:58,280 --> 01:23:00,599
Speaker 1: at times I've been more of like state and officers

1726
01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 1: like fine, go to mom, or I just act mad

1727
01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:04,360
Speaker 1: in front of herr to let her know she hurt

1728
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 1: my feelings, which is what am I trying to accomplish

1729
01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:10,000
Speaker 1: right there as a grown ass adult when my kid

1730
01:23:10,040 --> 01:23:11,960
Speaker 1: is losing her mind or she's wanting mom and just

1731
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:14,040
Speaker 1: not me in that moment. Yeah, yeah, I'm not doing

1732
01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:16,880
Speaker 1: anything conducive to either of us. I'm just I'm being

1733
01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:19,879
Speaker 1: as petty as she is, so I'm like removing myself.

1734
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:22,880
Speaker 1: I'm removing myself from it versus just staying in the pocket,

1735
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:27,320
Speaker 1: staying present, letting her know. Heysweetart. I know you really

1736
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 1: want mom right now. Whenever the time calls for you

1737
01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:31,320
Speaker 1: to want to hug from dad, I would really love

1738
01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:32,680
Speaker 1: to read your story. If you want dad at a

1739
01:23:32,720 --> 01:23:34,920
Speaker 1: Regia story, I will come back upstairs and Regio story.

1740
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:36,360
Speaker 1: I know you don't want me to right now, and

1741
01:23:36,400 --> 01:23:38,679
Speaker 1: that's okay, but just I'm going to be right outside,

1742
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 1: so you just let that Dad know that usually comes

1743
01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:43,400
Speaker 1: full circle to you at some point they might use

1744
01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:45,040
Speaker 1: mom up and then they I'm going to get the

1745
01:23:45,040 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: second parent dad in right now, But you just start

1746
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:51,160
Speaker 1: bridging that gap of those moments of frustration instead of

1747
01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 1: leaning into the correction of every challenge that parents go through.

1748
01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:56,080
Speaker 2: All of this stuff right here.

1749
01:23:56,760 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 1: It's good in your brain and you we have to think,

1750
01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:03,120
Speaker 1: how can we connect with our kids to find these

1751
01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:05,960
Speaker 1: moments of opportunity to teach them what we want them

1752
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:06,679
Speaker 1: to be in the future.

1753
01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:12,240
Speaker 2: Yes, and having the values. I love this strategy from

1754
01:24:12,240 --> 01:24:14,720
Speaker 2: the standpoint of having those values that right call them

1755
01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:19,080
Speaker 2: if you want to show them again, will of let's say,

1756
01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:23,040
Speaker 2: with dinner time and she's not eating. Not only the

1757
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 2: not eating part, I'm sure is frustrating, but if you're

1758
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:29,760
Speaker 2: wanting them to have curiosity and trying new foods, like

1759
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:33,920
Speaker 2: what is the end goal? And being able to identify

1760
01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:37,040
Speaker 2: a value that you want them to exhibit, it's not

1761
01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:38,760
Speaker 2: only how can I get them to eat? But how

1762
01:24:38,760 --> 01:24:41,880
Speaker 2: can I have them be more you know, have a

1763
01:24:41,920 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 2: more curious palette. And I know that that's like a

1764
01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:45,920
Speaker 2: weird example.

1765
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 1: But also like it's like, you know, the whole thing

1766
01:24:48,120 --> 01:24:50,200
Speaker 1: of positive discipline, and it's like, you know, it's like

1767
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 1: one of those things like when you were in the

1768
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 1: army back in the day, there were hard skills and

1769
01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:56,479
Speaker 1: soft skills. Back in the day, the hard skills is

1770
01:24:56,520 --> 01:24:59,799
Speaker 1: what men wanted to do. It was you know, the gun,

1771
01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:03,000
Speaker 1: it was the flying the helicopters. It was the shit

1772
01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:06,479
Speaker 1: that sounded manly. Now that we know, over time, with

1773
01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:09,160
Speaker 1: a lot of data and everything else, we've realized that

1774
01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:12,280
Speaker 1: the soft skills are where the success comes from for people.

1775
01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 1: When those hard skills are done and gone and you

1776
01:25:14,000 --> 01:25:16,920
Speaker 1: can't do them anymore, do you have those soft skills developed,

1777
01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:19,599
Speaker 1: Whether it's with people, whether it's with communicating, whether it's

1778
01:25:19,680 --> 01:25:23,519
Speaker 1: understanding what empathy looks like, the whole just being kind thing,

1779
01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 1: being kind and firm. But so I say that to say, like,

1780
01:25:28,040 --> 01:25:30,799
Speaker 1: I don't know how positive discipline comes off the lips

1781
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 1: to some parents, because there's a lot of old school

1782
01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:35,559
Speaker 1: parents that might hear positive discipline. What a weird way

1783
01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:38,960
Speaker 1: to just be like, you know, to not try and

1784
01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:40,720
Speaker 1: discipline your kids. You want to be in a really

1785
01:25:40,800 --> 01:25:43,000
Speaker 1: kind Hey, here's a ribbon way. It's not that at all.

1786
01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:45,479
Speaker 1: It's like when you're learning to be kind and firm

1787
01:25:45,520 --> 01:25:48,720
Speaker 1: in a dinner example, it's like, hey, I can sit

1788
01:25:48,760 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 1: here and talk kindly to my child and be very

1789
01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 1: firm about what the boundary is, sweetheart. There is no

1790
01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:56,599
Speaker 1: piece of a cookie if you don't eat your dinner.

1791
01:25:57,720 --> 01:26:01,880
Speaker 1: And how the can be nutritious to your body like

1792
01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:04,280
Speaker 1: you're trying to teach them, like why it's important to

1793
01:26:04,280 --> 01:26:06,639
Speaker 1: eat your food, Why we sit down as a family

1794
01:26:07,240 --> 01:26:10,240
Speaker 1: and we eat dinner together. Why there's no options of

1795
01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 1: a buffet that you get to choose from, or you

1796
01:26:12,120 --> 01:26:15,559
Speaker 1: get to eat pasta or chicken nuggets every night. You're

1797
01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:18,160
Speaker 1: going to eat what is being served. There's going to

1798
01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 1: be values that you learn in that. And if you

1799
01:26:20,000 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 1: want to give us a very hard time about it,

1800
01:26:22,040 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 1: instead of lashing back at them or being very corrective

1801
01:26:26,280 --> 01:26:29,040
Speaker 1: in the state just because you're frustrated, you're trying to

1802
01:26:29,080 --> 01:26:32,559
Speaker 1: teach them what those lessons are and teach them that, hey,

1803
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 1: your opportunity to eat is now, and if you do

1804
01:26:35,439 --> 01:26:37,400
Speaker 1: want this dangly carrot at the end of the tunnel,

1805
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:39,800
Speaker 1: like that doesn't happen unless you're part of the clean

1806
01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:41,960
Speaker 1: play club, or unless you do eat. If they give

1807
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:43,599
Speaker 1: you a very hard time and they don't want to eat,

1808
01:26:43,720 --> 01:26:46,559
Speaker 1: they're not going to starve. Going in the nighttime. That

1809
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:48,000
Speaker 1: was one that my wife and I were going back

1810
01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:49,320
Speaker 1: and forth, and I was like, I was kind of

1811
01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:51,519
Speaker 1: glad to hear the lady talk about your kid's not

1812
01:26:51,520 --> 01:26:54,160
Speaker 1: gonna starve, because char would think like she needs to

1813
01:26:54,160 --> 01:26:56,160
Speaker 1: get something in her stomach at some point, because what

1814
01:26:56,200 --> 01:26:58,880
Speaker 1: we'll do is she'll manipulate. She'll choose, all right, I'll

1815
01:26:58,920 --> 01:27:00,640
Speaker 1: go to bed and not eat dinner. Should go up

1816
01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:01,760
Speaker 1: to bed, and then all of a sudden, after a

1817
01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:04,640
Speaker 1: Harri's brushed on her teeth brush, it's I'm hungry. I

1818
01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 1: want to snack. So then you feel like you've got

1819
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:08,360
Speaker 1: to give them something because they didn't eat dinner. Where

1820
01:27:08,400 --> 01:27:11,519
Speaker 1: it's now we understand that there's even an extra layer

1821
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:14,599
Speaker 1: of the boundary there to like, hey, sweetheart, you missed

1822
01:27:14,600 --> 01:27:17,800
Speaker 1: out on your opportunity. There are natural consequences in life.

1823
01:27:17,800 --> 01:27:20,000
Speaker 1: There are a logical consequences in life, and you kind

1824
01:27:20,040 --> 01:27:23,800
Speaker 1: of gave them a logical consequence. We explained what had

1825
01:27:23,840 --> 01:27:26,559
Speaker 1: to be done or what you needed to do. You

1826
01:27:26,680 --> 01:27:28,360
Speaker 1: failed to do. So, you say, in any way you

1827
01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:31,080
Speaker 1: want to you failed to do so tomorrow we'll have

1828
01:27:31,120 --> 01:27:33,600
Speaker 1: another opportunity to eat in the morning for breakfast. You

1829
01:27:33,680 --> 01:27:35,439
Speaker 1: have the other opportunity. That's why we pack your lunch

1830
01:27:35,439 --> 01:27:37,479
Speaker 1: to go to school. We know you eat your lunch

1831
01:27:37,520 --> 01:27:39,439
Speaker 1: when it's time that you get that thirty twenty thirty

1832
01:27:39,439 --> 01:27:42,000
Speaker 1: minute window at school. And then it's the same thing

1833
01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:44,000
Speaker 1: for dinner, but it's a way to be the whole

1834
01:27:44,080 --> 01:27:47,679
Speaker 1: positive discipline, learning how to be kind and firm. Those

1835
01:27:47,760 --> 01:27:50,160
Speaker 1: words that come off your lips as a man doesn't

1836
01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:54,000
Speaker 1: feel tough, it doesn't feel masculine. This make you feel

1837
01:27:54,000 --> 01:27:55,519
Speaker 1: like a man. It's like, oh, this is a way

1838
01:27:55,560 --> 01:27:58,240
Speaker 1: to coddle this next generation. So where I'm sitting there,

1839
01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:00,559
Speaker 1: open minded, learning as much as our pos possibly can,

1840
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:03,400
Speaker 1: taking notes and everything, and I'm walking away like, man,

1841
01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:06,600
Speaker 1: that is some really good shit to understand, because even psychologically,

1842
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:13,320
Speaker 1: they're teaching you to use the as soon as not

1843
01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:15,840
Speaker 1: if then if you eat your food, then you'll get

1844
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 1: your cookie. Hey, as soon as you eat your food,

1845
01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:22,040
Speaker 1: you will get your cookie. And getting away from adding

1846
01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:25,080
Speaker 1: and and not butt like saying all the things and

1847
01:28:25,120 --> 01:28:27,680
Speaker 1: then saying, but you didn't do X, Y and Z

1848
01:28:27,880 --> 01:28:31,360
Speaker 1: therefore blah blah blah blah blah. Because even psychologically, as humans,

1849
01:28:31,400 --> 01:28:34,040
Speaker 1: if you read any negotiation book, they teach a skill,

1850
01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:36,639
Speaker 1: a soft skill of using and and not butt. Because

1851
01:28:37,320 --> 01:28:40,040
Speaker 1: most adults, when you hear, whether it's an apology or

1852
01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:43,320
Speaker 1: a conversation, you hear everything up to the butt, but

1853
01:28:43,360 --> 01:28:46,439
Speaker 1: then when the butt comes everything before the butt you

1854
01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:49,200
Speaker 1: forget about whatever the compliment was because now you're focused

1855
01:28:49,240 --> 01:28:52,320
Speaker 1: on the negative outcome. Yep versus Hey, this happened, and

1856
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:55,840
Speaker 1: here's what we do. They kind of like weirdly like

1857
01:28:55,880 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 1: we rewires your brain. So I'm walking away from this

1858
01:28:58,400 --> 01:29:01,000
Speaker 1: workshop being like, Yo, this shit is all I'm all

1859
01:29:01,040 --> 01:29:03,240
Speaker 1: about it, So I hope you guys got something out

1860
01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:05,479
Speaker 1: of that. I love sitting there for two hours kind

1861
01:29:05,520 --> 01:29:07,120
Speaker 1: of breaking all this stuff down, figuring like, Hey, how

1862
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:10,679
Speaker 1: can I come into for the dads and give whatever

1863
01:29:10,720 --> 01:29:13,439
Speaker 1: I can what I learned again. I would highly encourage

1864
01:29:13,439 --> 01:29:16,200
Speaker 1: any couple, any parent out there, to go to a

1865
01:29:16,240 --> 01:29:19,160
Speaker 1: positive discipline course or any type of workshop in the

1866
01:29:19,160 --> 01:29:21,840
Speaker 1: world of parenting because I was fired up trying. I

1867
01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:23,840
Speaker 1: kind of walked away, kind of fired up together a

1868
01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:25,640
Speaker 1: couple of fist pounds on things that we feel like

1869
01:29:25,680 --> 01:29:27,320
Speaker 1: we do well, Hey, here are things that we can

1870
01:29:27,360 --> 01:29:30,760
Speaker 1: get better at. I'm immediately my brain immediately went to

1871
01:29:31,160 --> 01:29:33,880
Speaker 1: my dad was like, you know, people like I hate

1872
01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:35,920
Speaker 1: to say I'm proud of you because they have, you know,

1873
01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:39,599
Speaker 1: their own background or own upbringing. Something like I'm proud

1874
01:29:39,600 --> 01:29:42,559
Speaker 1: of you like kind of triggers them and like I know,

1875
01:29:42,640 --> 01:29:43,880
Speaker 1: I say it to my kid, and I kind of

1876
01:29:43,920 --> 01:29:46,320
Speaker 1: hate that I say to my kid, you do no.

1877
01:29:46,439 --> 01:29:51,240
Speaker 1: This was another, this is another bringing it up, and

1878
01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:54,920
Speaker 1: so that got into the conversation of praise versus encouragement.

1879
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:56,840
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting there, I'm like, you know, they're sitting

1880
01:29:56,840 --> 01:29:58,880
Speaker 1: there wearing dresses. Dad's not a big dress guy. There's

1881
01:29:58,960 --> 01:30:00,479
Speaker 1: kind of this battle back and forth at home that

1882
01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:02,200
Speaker 1: Dad doesn't want her to wear dresses. She loves to

1883
01:30:02,240 --> 01:30:04,040
Speaker 1: wear dresses, so he kind of doesn't know what to

1884
01:30:04,040 --> 01:30:05,840
Speaker 1: say or how to handle it. So it kind of

1885
01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:09,880
Speaker 1: opened up that conversation on praise and encouragement to where

1886
01:30:09,920 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there. I'm like, I do this all the

1887
01:30:12,000 --> 01:30:15,519
Speaker 1: time because I almost don't know. I know Ruth feels pretty.

1888
01:30:15,560 --> 01:30:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm glad she feels pretty. She loves she's a lady.

1889
01:30:18,439 --> 01:30:20,880
Speaker 1: When she sees the look on dad has face of

1890
01:30:20,960 --> 01:30:23,200
Speaker 1: being beautiful and oh my gosh, you're so beautiful. But

1891
01:30:23,240 --> 01:30:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there and I'm like, I know that in

1892
01:30:25,720 --> 01:30:27,559
Speaker 1: the long run, that's not I'm not wanting her Just

1893
01:30:27,600 --> 01:30:29,680
Speaker 1: to know that you show up and somebody tells you

1894
01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:32,439
Speaker 1: that you're beautiful, that's what makes you feel beautiful is

1895
01:30:32,479 --> 01:30:35,559
Speaker 1: an external being or another person or something else telling

1896
01:30:35,640 --> 01:30:38,400
Speaker 1: you that you're beautiful. So I'm like getting equipped with

1897
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:41,960
Speaker 1: some of these tools of like, you know, oh my gosh,

1898
01:30:41,960 --> 01:30:43,760
Speaker 1: look at that dress? Does that how does the dress

1899
01:30:43,800 --> 01:30:46,080
Speaker 1: make you feel? Or like why did you pick out

1900
01:30:46,120 --> 01:30:49,800
Speaker 1: those colors? Of just asking her questions to encourage her

1901
01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:51,840
Speaker 1: to speak on what makes her feel so good in

1902
01:30:51,880 --> 01:30:55,920
Speaker 1: the outfit that she's wearing. Long rant, long spill.

1903
01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:59,000
Speaker 2: No, that's a great it's a great rant. And if anything,

1904
01:30:59,040 --> 01:31:04,679
Speaker 2: it's just an example of communication. The communication with your child,

1905
01:31:04,880 --> 01:31:09,519
Speaker 2: the communication with your partner. Got to have an open

1906
01:31:09,560 --> 01:31:13,560
Speaker 2: line of communication in order to succeed as a team.

1907
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:17,639
Speaker 2: And I love this strategy from the standpoint of all

1908
01:31:17,680 --> 01:31:20,800
Speaker 2: it is doing is opening that line of communications that

1909
01:31:21,840 --> 01:31:24,160
Speaker 2: what do we want, what values do we want our

1910
01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:27,519
Speaker 2: child to have? How are we going to go about

1911
01:31:28,320 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 2: having them exhibit those values? How are we going to

1912
01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:35,200
Speaker 2: go about fixing these things? What are some things that

1913
01:31:35,280 --> 01:31:37,599
Speaker 2: I don't do very well? What are some things that

1914
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:42,360
Speaker 2: I have been doing well? You have to be communicating

1915
01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:45,280
Speaker 2: at all times because when you are in the trenches,

1916
01:31:45,400 --> 01:31:49,559
Speaker 2: you get stuck in the same routine, same routine. If

1917
01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:52,599
Speaker 2: I check these things off if they eat shit, piss

1918
01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:56,439
Speaker 2: and go to bed. I did it, you know, and

1919
01:31:56,640 --> 01:31:58,040
Speaker 2: hey it may have been hell and I had a

1920
01:31:58,120 --> 01:31:59,599
Speaker 2: terrible day, but we're going to wake up and we're

1921
01:31:59,600 --> 01:32:01,320
Speaker 2: just going to do it again. Whatever, And you get

1922
01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:04,960
Speaker 2: stuck in those cycles. I love that it's getting broken

1923
01:32:05,040 --> 01:32:09,320
Speaker 2: up by annow you know, analysis of how did I

1924
01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:11,880
Speaker 2: do today? What could I get better? Yeah?

1925
01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:17,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, to go off the communication and having that open

1926
01:32:17,600 --> 01:32:21,920
Speaker 1: mind in like welcoming blind spots that you could have there.

1927
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Speaker 1: You know, they're definitely parents. I can I can be

1928
01:32:25,360 --> 01:32:26,960
Speaker 1: one of those at times to where there might be

1929
01:32:27,040 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 1: a judgment that I'm feeling, to where it's like all parent,

1930
01:32:30,040 --> 01:32:32,919
Speaker 1: how I want a parent versus actually sitting with myself.

1931
01:32:33,120 --> 01:32:35,280
Speaker 1: Is anything they're saying of substance to where I can

1932
01:32:35,960 --> 01:32:39,879
Speaker 1: check myself or look into a different formula or a concept.

1933
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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's the thing. The biggest takeaway is in

1934
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Speaker 1: those moments of challenge, how do you keep yourself from

1935
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Speaker 1: correcting the next thirty seconds and connecting to a value

1936
01:32:51,920 --> 01:32:54,200
Speaker 1: you want to instill over the next thirty years. That

1937
01:32:54,320 --> 01:32:58,840
Speaker 1: was the biggest takeaway from this workshop for myself, and yeah,

1938
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Speaker 1: of everybody, hope everybody enjoyed.

1939
01:33:00,920 --> 01:33:03,880
Speaker 2: The episode Good sewed great, so, good sowed good? So

1940
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Speaker 2: and so yours was resilience correct?

1941
01:33:06,240 --> 01:33:07,679
Speaker 1: Mine was resilience? Okay? Cool?

1942
01:33:07,760 --> 01:33:12,480
Speaker 2: What was yours? Confidence? But like with coupled with humility

1943
01:33:12,960 --> 01:33:15,160
Speaker 2: and strength coupled with kindness.

1944
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Speaker 1: I love that and I'm totally sorry for not having

1945
01:33:18,400 --> 01:33:20,400
Speaker 1: that and like writing it down on the list or

1946
01:33:20,479 --> 01:33:22,080
Speaker 1: just checking in on my boy of like hey, what

1947
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Speaker 1: was your value?

1948
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Speaker 2: No, You're fine.

1949
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Speaker 1: I kind of just it kind of got away from

1950
01:33:25,680 --> 01:33:27,439
Speaker 1: me and it kind of just got going. I'm sitting here,

1951
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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is all very broken. I'm also very

1952
01:33:29,960 --> 01:33:32,040
Speaker 1: excited to talk about it. I didn't prep for how

1953
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Speaker 1: to talk about it.

1954
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Speaker 2: Okay, I thought you I thought you one nailed it.

1955
01:33:35,720 --> 01:33:40,000
Speaker 2: I thought too, this developed into something totally like the

1956
01:33:40,240 --> 01:33:42,439
Speaker 2: higher tiered than what we were even going to do.

1957
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Speaker 2: And I learned something today, Like I truly was sitting

1958
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Speaker 2: here just listening to you talking was like this is

1959
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Speaker 2: we would.

1960
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Speaker 1: Have been in there doing the skits together. Man, it

1961
01:33:53,080 --> 01:33:55,080
Speaker 1: was cool. It was cool. We will have to find

1962
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Speaker 1: We'll have to find something where it's like hey, another

1963
01:33:57,479 --> 01:33:59,960
Speaker 1: PT six meetups, we're going here to learn it.

1964
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Speaker 2: This workshop you guys, and maybe you can test me

1965
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:07,439
Speaker 2: on or not test me, but you can run me

1966
01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:09,439
Speaker 2: through some of those here on the pod too.

1967
01:34:10,040 --> 01:34:12,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all will have to get out try and

1968
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Speaker 1: figure out some some of the scripts.

1969
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Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds like we should host one that was that

1970
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Speaker 2: was really well done.

1971
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Speaker 1: Well, yeah that could Yeah, that could be fun. That

1972
01:34:19,800 --> 01:34:23,200
Speaker 1: could be fun, Professor Compton. That's the thing too, it's

1973
01:34:23,200 --> 01:34:25,559
Speaker 1: like I'm going through that and we say it all

1974
01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:27,639
Speaker 1: the time. We never want to come off as like experts.

1975
01:34:27,640 --> 01:34:30,680
Speaker 1: It's more like I'm taking in all this information. I'm

1976
01:34:30,760 --> 01:34:33,600
Speaker 1: very excited to share with everybody. I you know, you

1977
01:34:33,720 --> 01:34:35,720
Speaker 1: hope you do a great job at the same time

1978
01:34:35,800 --> 01:34:39,040
Speaker 1: not coming off as like this is the authority. Yeah,

1979
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Speaker 1: but yeah, that'd be a lot of fun. Make sure

1980
01:34:41,280 --> 01:34:45,120
Speaker 1: you take out your trash, big hugs, tiny kisses, and

1981
01:34:45,320 --> 01:34:46,080
Speaker 1: uh yeah.

1982
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Speaker 2: Quick episode. We brought it up at the top, but

1983
01:34:50,520 --> 01:34:53,200
Speaker 2: we aren't getting away from reading comments, we aren't getting

1984
01:34:53,200 --> 01:34:56,200
Speaker 2: away from reading emails. This was just it was going

1985
01:34:56,280 --> 01:34:58,920
Speaker 2: to be a quick sode because of the schedule, and

1986
01:34:59,600 --> 01:35:02,320
Speaker 2: we can't wait to read y'all's comments and emails and

1987
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Speaker 2: call ins, et cetera.

1988
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Speaker 1: And we read a bunch and we right, We yeah,

1989
01:35:06,479 --> 01:35:08,280
Speaker 1: we still ride and we still run. But yeah, make

1990
01:35:08,280 --> 01:35:09,680
Speaker 1: sure you take out your trash. We love you, we

1991
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Speaker 1: appreciate you. Papa team sticks out. See you next week.