WEBVTT - April Tomlin

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<v Speaker 1>Carola. She's the queen of talking. He was sown your man.

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<v Speaker 1>She's only yes. Actually you got the snoop on on

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<v Speaker 1>the ones to side. No one can do within clid,

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<v Speaker 1>my Carola, Carolina, no one can do within clid. B

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<v Speaker 1>Carola is timple Carola. Hey, y'all, welcome to Hyper Caroline Hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>I am your host, Caroline Hobby. I know music, I

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<v Speaker 1>know people, and I know the questions you want to ask,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's get hyper heads up. These are adults having

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<v Speaker 1>adult conversations, so there could be adult content. You guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm super excited. I have April Tomlin joining me. This

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<v Speaker 1>woman is the hottest interior does miner in Nashville. She

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<v Speaker 1>designs every major star's house pretty much. I'm not even

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<v Speaker 1>kidding you. From Jason Alden and Brittany his wife, to

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas written Lauren, to Tyler Hubbard and his wife Hayley, Jesse,

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<v Speaker 1>James Decker. She has done so many houses and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just scratching the surface. She is so fantastic. Her view

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<v Speaker 1>on life is amazing. She's a new mom. She talks

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<v Speaker 1>all about bouncing motherhood and a major career. She's awesome here.

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<v Speaker 1>She is April Tomlin, Hey, April Tomlin. Hi, what's that girl? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, not much, just mom and it out before

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<v Speaker 1>I got here. It's about it mom and working, mom

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<v Speaker 1>and working. Okay, so we were talking earlier, and you

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<v Speaker 1>really are. You've been in every celebrity's bedroom. You're the

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<v Speaker 1>celebrity interior designer to the stars, which is amazing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's super kind. But I have been in quite a

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<v Speaker 1>few bedrooms, even in Tyler and Haley Hubbard's from Florida, Georgia, Line,

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas Rhett and Lauren. Uh, you did the Aldanes, Jason

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<v Speaker 1>and Brittany, I know, you just did Jesse James Secker

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<v Speaker 1>and her husband Eric, who's a New Titan. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you helped us do our house? Did I? Did I do?

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta get into how you got into the celeb world,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want to start off with a few questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Rapid fire, perfect, go. So, in ten words are less?

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<v Speaker 1>Describe your interior design style? Gosh that in ten words

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<v Speaker 1>are less? That's really hard because I have a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>eclectic but for me personally, so if you look at um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Jason Aldane has a totally different style than uh,

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<v Speaker 1>than Jesse James. Then they all have very different stuff

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<v Speaker 1>to work with their personalities. For sure, yours, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a super eclectic style. You like woods and

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<v Speaker 1>colors and things like that, which I'm not known for,

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<v Speaker 1>but when a client asked for something, that's what we

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we tend to do. But we do put

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<v Speaker 1>we do do a little pushback. But I would say

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<v Speaker 1>for me personally, I like pretty natural, organic, um, collected,

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<v Speaker 1>just collected me. I'm collected like I like finding like

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<v Speaker 1>old pieces and just mixing them into to a modern

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<v Speaker 1>piece and then rustic. So if you like, my dream

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<v Speaker 1>home would be a little rustic, a little collected, meaning

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<v Speaker 1>like I might like a weird old lady's face above

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<v Speaker 1>my bed, dude and my husband's and my husband would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, why in the world is that old lady

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<v Speaker 1>staring at me while I go to bed? But I

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<v Speaker 1>love that sort of thing. But I also like really

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<v Speaker 1>sleek and clean, like I don't like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>fuss and a lot of junks. So that's really weird

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<v Speaker 1>when you say collected, because it's like simple collected. It

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<v Speaker 1>can't just be stuff everywhere these collected as accents like

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<v Speaker 1>a pieces, Yeah, collected, I'm usually like more in art

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<v Speaker 1>form like a painting or a picture. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>to seem old and like more of a modern space

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<v Speaker 1>is what I like, or if it was me to

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<v Speaker 1>put in like an older piece or currently above my

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<v Speaker 1>bed is this um photograph of a bunch of unsmoking cigarettes.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's amazing. So it's just weird odd things like

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<v Speaker 1>that that I like. But then the rest of my

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom is pretty like normal, you know. So that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I would describe my personal aesthetic. But then when we

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<v Speaker 1>meet with a client, obviously we're going to do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they like, but we put our own flare on,

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<v Speaker 1>on our own taste, you know, on it. To that question,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually have a question to that, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>emerge your vision with this your client's vision? Because what

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<v Speaker 1>if the client's vision is tacky? So we vet out

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, So what does that mean? So we

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<v Speaker 1>talked to the clients before, and we have a range

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<v Speaker 1>you know of how like you go away from your

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<v Speaker 1>comfort this yeah, and no matter who they are, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, like, of course we do have a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty heavy, you know, celebrity clientelist, but no matter who

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<v Speaker 1>you are, even if you you are Beyonce. She might

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<v Speaker 1>be able to tell me to do something and I

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<v Speaker 1>might just say okay, but out of the Oprah maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>But other than that, we've met them out and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we match, you know, not to be rude. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to be a good match. It's a long process,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's a long process. I mean furniture, just

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<v Speaker 1>a one without the construction. I was on a construction

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<v Speaker 1>site today this morning, and you know I'll complete that

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<v Speaker 1>job next year. So I'll be working with this client

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<v Speaker 1>the way through next year. So you've got to get

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<v Speaker 1>along because you start at the beginning of the house

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<v Speaker 1>building sometimes most of the time. So when is it

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<v Speaker 1>usually clients that are building a home? No, not Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot like this client. Um, she's she's actually in

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<v Speaker 1>the music industry, but she is on the business side.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a pretty powerful lady in that world. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I've done her house before. She's actually how I got

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<v Speaker 1>into celebrities. Are you serious? And now I'm on her

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<v Speaker 1>third home for her. So yeah, we'll work together all year,

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<v Speaker 1>and we work on from instruction all the way through

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<v Speaker 1>to the very very end. Is how we like to work.

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<v Speaker 1>But of course some people already have homes that are done,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll do small renovations to make to make it

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<v Speaker 1>fit what they want and then um down to the

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<v Speaker 1>simple like online design. We have a program where if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just getting started, it was the best. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>for a person that wants to uh start with a

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<v Speaker 1>good foundation but not blow their bank, right, but not

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<v Speaker 1>blow the bank, and um, it's it's that's a really

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<v Speaker 1>fun process for a lot of people just because they

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<v Speaker 1>get a board with the drawings and the products and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they get to order at their own pace.

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<v Speaker 1>And when this board is cool because it's so laid out.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically you send a email over and there is a

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<v Speaker 1>board of links with pictures and then the whole map

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<v Speaker 1>of how the room should look. Yes, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>click on all of it and just order it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just right there, already made. Yeah, it's like the best.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty great. It's it's pretty great if I was

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<v Speaker 1>if it was my first home, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want and I was willing to put in the work,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, totally. At a large reason why we're on

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<v Speaker 1>projects from beginning to end um for celebrities is they're

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<v Speaker 1>gone all the time, you know, and even my non

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<v Speaker 1>celebrity clients. They're busy all the time because usually if

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<v Speaker 1>you're hiring a designer full time, you you've made it

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<v Speaker 1>somewhat in the world, and you're busy, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you do not have time. So I mean

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<v Speaker 1>we even worried down to like, oh my gosh, they're

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<v Speaker 1>they're getting home as the toilet paper on all the roles.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like literally they walk in and it they

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<v Speaker 1>get to go live. My house looks horrible. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that my house has toilet paper right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>could not. You can't do it. They all the clients

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<v Speaker 1>are taking care. They're taking care of paper is on

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<v Speaker 1>the rule. My husband the other day said, can you

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<v Speaker 1>just like not work for six months and get our

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<v Speaker 1>house together? And I was just like that sounds awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>but though that's not gonna happen. So who would be

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<v Speaker 1>your dream celebrity client? Oh gosh, that is a great question,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what? I don't know? I mean, someone

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<v Speaker 1>crazy like Madonna like that would be because um, in

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<v Speaker 1>country music it's really heavily male dominated. We just got

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<v Speaker 1>Kelsey Ballerini and she's a great, a great you know,

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<v Speaker 1>new addition to to our process. That's amazing. Yeah, she's great.

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<v Speaker 1>She's so fun and and she's young, and we've got

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<v Speaker 1>a long road you know, hopefully ahead with her and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get to see that that process grow. Um and anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>but Madonna, I don't have a lot of male clients

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<v Speaker 1>because that they there's a lot of male country singers.

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<v Speaker 1>We all know that there's not very many. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the women are starting to rise up, I'll say that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have a lot of men, So I would

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<v Speaker 1>love a female. I would love to do. I'm known

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<v Speaker 1>for a little more masculine. I would love to do

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<v Speaker 1>super like kind of girly. Um, but I'm my style's

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<v Speaker 1>edgy all the time. So I feel Madonna. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like Madonna would really like me. I think she would

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not, maybe she would hate me, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that would be a really fun push yourself outside

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<v Speaker 1>of the box. Yes, yes, actually today the content we

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<v Speaker 1>had today, she's pretty edgy and and she said no

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<v Speaker 1>black and white, no gray, none of it. And well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your specialty. It's kind of like what we do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of. She's a very clean Yeah. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the car with my team. I have

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<v Speaker 1>three girls, that no black and white, no gray, No

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<v Speaker 1>black and white, no gray. So I told the team

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<v Speaker 1>they're concepting while I'm gone. I've already started the kick

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<v Speaker 1>off of the concepting. But I showed them everything, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, this is the time you've got to push yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't show don't show me anything that's black or white

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<v Speaker 1>or gray. And you know that that's hard because everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, production of furniture is usually in those colors,

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<v Speaker 1>so it'll be really fun. So do you enjoy having

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<v Speaker 1>boundaries like that that are that are like, okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not doing black, white and gray? Do you like have

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<v Speaker 1>to think outside? Because this client, I know what she's

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<v Speaker 1>going for and I can see it, and you like

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<v Speaker 1>her style, and so it's a match. Yes, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>traditional or anything. She's not like saying, hey, do it

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<v Speaker 1>traditional for me. She's saying, I want funky, I want

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<v Speaker 1>over the top, you know what I mean. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want a black or gray. And of course there's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be something like that. Yeah, yeah, but she she

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<v Speaker 1>knows me well and she's saying, give me something different.

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<v Speaker 1>And and you know, when you do it every single day,

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<v Speaker 1>just like anybody's business, anybody anybody that works anywhere, because

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<v Speaker 1>I used to have an office job as well. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you go in that environment or any environment, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to shake it up, you want to change. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel the same way, you know. So that's exciting, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It gets really exciting when I hear projects like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So and then when people ask for exactly what I do,

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<v Speaker 1>of course they're going to get a good product because

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<v Speaker 1>I know exactly. You know, it's easy to navigate for

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<v Speaker 1>me at this point, you know, So what is your

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<v Speaker 1>nightmare color palette? And like design palette if you had to,

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<v Speaker 1>you walk into a room and you're like, I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>hell what does that look like? Um? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like anything, I don't know except seeing good

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<v Speaker 1>with that too, anything that's like, uh, that royal blue color,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've seen a lot of This whole room is

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<v Speaker 1>royal blue, right, yeah, basically were and this is time

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<v Speaker 1>in hell y. Yeah, there's a lot of green and

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<v Speaker 1>purple and blue. Yeah, this is a set, Thank the Lord.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do you gather your inspiration for designing? Where did

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<v Speaker 1>you learn how to design? So that's a really interesting story. So, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I was raised with a single mom and we just

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<v Speaker 1>we barely had a pot to pean. We really did

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<v Speaker 1>not have much. Was it just you and your mom

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<v Speaker 1>and my brother? Okay, yes, and so we my dad

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<v Speaker 1>left very early on. And my mom's just the sweetest.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she just there, could not be a better woman.

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<v Speaker 1>So she did real estate. She ran my father's plumbing company,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had her contractor's license and was building homes

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<v Speaker 1>when I was a kid. So when she didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't have money for babysitters, so we would just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of have to go with her everywhere. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would have to go on her listings and I would

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<v Speaker 1>just be sitting there and I think I was. She says,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like eight or nine, and I would start

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<v Speaker 1>moving furniture around, like you knew where you wanted to go? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I knew, you know I did. And then one day

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<v Speaker 1>she actually came in. We were at home, unsupervised, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's when you do what your boor and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any money for babysitters. Probably a lot of good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine leaveen everly, but I was left and

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<v Speaker 1>we she got home and me and my brother had

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<v Speaker 1>painted like half of her room as high as we

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<v Speaker 1>could reach. And we were like eight or nine years old,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was always doing things like that. So, um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've always I think it was just that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be embarrassed when people would come over because

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<v Speaker 1>we just didn't have a lot like of stuff on

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<v Speaker 1>the walls. It just didn't feel homey to me. It

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't. And and it's you know, she did the

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<v Speaker 1>best that she could. But so I really have a

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<v Speaker 1>passion when people kind in that they feel like they're

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<v Speaker 1>at home. You know, people don't. It's not a materialistic job.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not as materialistic as you would think because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>feeling letting your having a space, Like when I think

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<v Speaker 1>of my space for my daughter, you know, the thing,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to feel safe, right I wanted to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's hers. I wanted to always feel like she

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<v Speaker 1>can come back, you know what I mean. And I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to have pieces that aren't that aren't going to

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<v Speaker 1>be thrown away, Like I wanted to have pieces that

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<v Speaker 1>she remembers, you know. And so it's very hard hard

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<v Speaker 1>to design in a way that's going to kind of last.

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<v Speaker 1>M gould be cool right now. So I really try

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<v Speaker 1>to do both of those things. Um, but yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's it wasn't like a materialistic wanting to get into design.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like probably more of like a insecurity or

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<v Speaker 1>a need or and then just start growing different mom. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure doing that. Yeah, and you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>design comes naturally people. Um, obviously I'm trained, but we

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<v Speaker 1>did you go to school to learn? Yeah? And so

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<v Speaker 1>but with I have my one of my main designers

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<v Speaker 1>is not and we interviewed a lot of people and

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<v Speaker 1>she was the best. She has it and um, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think I get a lot of direct messages about

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<v Speaker 1>how people can get in. And I would always encourage

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<v Speaker 1>everybody to go to school and that Yeah, even if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get a degree, you need to at least

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<v Speaker 1>go to some classes because a lot like this morning alone,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on the phone with electricians and plumbers and

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<v Speaker 1>you really need to know the house and like you

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<v Speaker 1>can't really. I'm heavily insured because when we do renovations, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>you you need to be able to do those renovations

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<v Speaker 1>with confidence and know what you're doing. You don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to get into someone's house and and interrupt their their

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<v Speaker 1>way of life, and I've seen that happen. Um, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel like aesthetics are natural thing. Um, it

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<v Speaker 1>really is hard to teach. Either have it or you don't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think so. Again, like I've never hired

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<v Speaker 1>and like carried someone that was a bad designer through

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<v Speaker 1>my process. But um, you know, like I said, my

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<v Speaker 1>main girl, she doesn't have a degree and she's she's

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<v Speaker 1>a and she never went to one class. But she

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<v Speaker 1>did build her own home before from from the ground

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<v Speaker 1>she learned, she kind of had. She learned, she really did.

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<v Speaker 1>And now as far as like Nashville obviously has the

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<v Speaker 1>most cranes in the sky, it's hard to get permits here,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to do work here. Um, she knows codes

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. So she Yeah, she ended her own little school.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah she did. She did, So you at least have

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, start there. Um. But I tell everybody

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<v Speaker 1>how I got actually started is did you just start

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<v Speaker 1>off with your own business because you're only thirty five

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<v Speaker 1>and you're running a writhing business? Yea, So um, Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>the I don't think she would care that I said this,

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<v Speaker 1>But her name is Mary Hilliard. She is the house

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm doing that I've been talking about. She's the

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<v Speaker 1>one that's clients. But She's also was a mentor tour

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<v Speaker 1>very early on because she owns her own very successful business.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember I was leaving my full time job

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<v Speaker 1>and I called her and I was already doing Jason's

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<v Speaker 1>house and she was the ones like, you got you

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<v Speaker 1>cannot do a four hour work week and this on

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<v Speaker 1>the side. And I called her. I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be working like some furniture story and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to, and she's like, no, you won't. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think I think it's every everybody that starts own thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a huge risk. It is. Did you start your

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<v Speaker 1>own thing right at the beginning, or did you already

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<v Speaker 1>have some houses under your belt? Oh? I had houses

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<v Speaker 1>under my belt. Were you with another company originally? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was doing like a bunch of set design

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<v Speaker 1>stuff and design for them, but I had a salary,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and that's secure and yeah, and then they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>let me dive it into the world. I would work

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<v Speaker 1>to like oh my gosh, like two am, like thank god.

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<v Speaker 1>Those clients would let me stay in their house because

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<v Speaker 1>they were gone or whatever, and I would work throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the night, and then one day it became I had

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<v Speaker 1>already brought on that first designer that I have mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>previously within the company you're working with, Yes, and we

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<v Speaker 1>would meet, sorry for the company I was working for before,

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<v Speaker 1>but we would meet on my lunch break. Oh so

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<v Speaker 1>you were already kind of secretly starting your other one.

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<v Speaker 1>Oy Okay, yes, hey, you gotta get gotta do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and so sorry about that. But we would meet on

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<v Speaker 1>our on our on my lunch break and talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the you know what clients we had going on or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And then finally one day I was just like, I

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<v Speaker 1>just have to quit. I have done enough work. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, since you've heard my story and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>where I come from, it's hard to walk away from

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<v Speaker 1>a salary thing. I mean, my mom was like, are

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<v Speaker 1>you crazy? It feels that feels crazy, yes, because I

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<v Speaker 1>had no fallbacks, Like there's nobody to help me out

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<v Speaker 1>if I didn't make it, Like literally, you're sinking or swimming,

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<v Speaker 1>sinking or swimming, and that's like a legit. They would

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<v Speaker 1>be me getting my car, driving back to Memphis and

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<v Speaker 1>living with my mom. That would be my backup play. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so luckily it went Opite killed it. But how do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel in that moment where you quit your job.

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<v Speaker 1>You have this nice pay salary job. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably very respectful, you could stay there forever. How does

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<v Speaker 1>it feel in that moment where you're like, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to jump and take this leap of faith? To me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like really going for your calling, like pursuing it

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<v Speaker 1>with your full heart. And you're like, okay, I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>flying out over It felt like this ledge and I

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<v Speaker 1>pray to God I got a parachute, Like what does

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<v Speaker 1>that feel like? Can you remember that? Yeah? Oh no, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I do. I cried the whole way home.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, there's just you know there. How

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<v Speaker 1>did you know it was time? Because I was so overworked.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so overworked and I wasn't doing anything justice,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I wasn't. It wasn't fair to my employer obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>and and it also it wasn't fair to the clients.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I knew that I could be faster, more efficient. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>the design is still the same, right, But there there

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<v Speaker 1>is a method to an interior design business. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we we have a process and that process works, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just about flying into your house and saying

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<v Speaker 1>what is the process. So if it's a regular client.

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<v Speaker 1>We you know, we have our first initial meeting where

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<v Speaker 1>we walk their home or whatever. We do not shop

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<v Speaker 1>with clients. It's not something that we do. Some people

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<v Speaker 1>do it that probably take there's probably a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>wasted time. It's quite better for you to talk to them,

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<v Speaker 1>get their vision. We fully then you send ideas. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we fully concept. They come into our office and we

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<v Speaker 1>do full presentations with all of our samplings and they

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<v Speaker 1>say yes and everything. We always give them time. We

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<v Speaker 1>always give them time to We never asked for any responses.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually we ask for no responses um. And then they're

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<v Speaker 1>able to go home, talk to whoever they need to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to, think about it. Um. And then we always

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<v Speaker 1>just ask them to kind of circle what they like

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<v Speaker 1>and and you know, we can tell kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>we've hit the mark on and what we've missed the

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<v Speaker 1>mark on. And uh, once we've agreed established on what

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do. If there's renovations involved, we start there.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's just furniture planning, UM, we have a whole

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<v Speaker 1>ordering process. We have the way a way that we

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<v Speaker 1>order a place that it's sent installed period of time

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<v Speaker 1>like and it's all scheduled and um, and so they

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<v Speaker 1>kind of know what's going to happen exactly down to

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<v Speaker 1>the day basically, and it usually stays on schedule. We

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<v Speaker 1>we are pretty well known first day and on schedule

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm can be a little bit of a bit

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to that. She's just being just running

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<v Speaker 1>a business. Yeah, well, you want it done when it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be done. Yeah. And and you know, design

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<v Speaker 1>and construction can be really loose. It can be really loose.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, we built a garage. Is supposedly done

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<v Speaker 1>in three months. It was done eight months. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's just kind of and I hate that

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, really we do set realistic expectation though,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say that that's key. That's how we stay

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<v Speaker 1>on top. We never like if a clock comes to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like I want this done in two months, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>find somebody else it's not happening. That's awesome. You're honest

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<v Speaker 1>and upfront about what you can deliver. I could deliver

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<v Speaker 1>something it's not going to be good, and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call me back and like, you know, a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>months and you know, have problems here and there, and

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, experience teaches you that too. So but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we have a pretty pretty thorough process. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I still look at Keaton, who is She's not good

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<v Speaker 1>designor girl I was telling you about. But she's like

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<v Speaker 1>my right hand she if you want to know something's

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<v Speaker 1>going on in your job, every client knows to not

0:21:09.800 --> 0:21:14.280
<v Speaker 1>call me to call and Keaton, Um, I'll every once

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<v Speaker 1>in a while be like, you know, what does our

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<v Speaker 1>waiting lists look like? And um, it's that poor kid

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<v Speaker 1>coming out of me like I'm about to be rama

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<v Speaker 1>noodles or something. But um, she's like, would you chill

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<v Speaker 1>out because you want to make sure there's a nice

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<v Speaker 1>waiting Yeah. Do people still want to do this? Like

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<v Speaker 1>so um? So yeah. So she's just like April, you're fine,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's fine, We've got clients for days. Just breathe

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<v Speaker 1>and relax and um. So what's great is now that

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<v Speaker 1>I have a daughter. Um, she quickly has become way

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<v Speaker 1>more important than work for me. How is that being

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<v Speaker 1>a career woman and a mother? What tell me about

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<v Speaker 1>that balance? I love it? I love how do you

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<v Speaker 1>make it balanced? So? Um, at the beginning, my mom

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<v Speaker 1>was what to watch her, and she ended up developing

0:22:02.440 --> 0:22:04.840
<v Speaker 1>ramatori authritis, and so now she just kind of comes

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<v Speaker 1>as is. But we are actually surrounded with people that

0:22:07.760 --> 0:22:10.560
<v Speaker 1>watch our kids that are family. Um, it's not my

0:22:10.600 --> 0:22:12.440
<v Speaker 1>sister in law. It's like my sister in law, sister

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<v Speaker 1>in law, she watches her. That's awesome. I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lie to the lady that cleans my house, who's like

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<v Speaker 1>my family. She watches her sometimes awesome, But she's like

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<v Speaker 1>in the hands of people that genuinely love her, love her.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm able too. But you know, I have friends

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<v Speaker 1>and they go and their kids go to daycare, and

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean it's just single moms. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>am working moms. I just I have it very easy.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a very great support. I have great support. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I work. We have a whole big office in my home,

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<v Speaker 1>so you work from home, watch her child there, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're there. I try not to go down because she

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<v Speaker 1>obviously wants her mom before anybody else. And it really

0:22:52.040 --> 0:22:55.400
<v Speaker 1>creates this like like the person that's watching her is like, really, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>get out of here, because now I'm left with the

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<v Speaker 1>baggage when you when you scream, yeah, And so I

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<v Speaker 1>try to really, you know, just work. But you know

0:23:04.080 --> 0:23:07.439
<v Speaker 1>what Rachel's oh is like a huge I love her?

0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:10.639
<v Speaker 1>Is that one of your inspirations? Yeah, lover her? And

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:12.919
<v Speaker 1>I I've I read her book Gosh when I was

0:23:12.960 --> 0:23:16.080
<v Speaker 1>in my younger twenties, and you learn from that book, Well,

0:23:16.119 --> 0:23:17.800
<v Speaker 1>I learned a lot about fashion because it was all

0:23:17.960 --> 0:23:20.640
<v Speaker 1>about fashion. But then, you know, I watched the whole

0:23:20.640 --> 0:23:24.159
<v Speaker 1>show when she was trying to considering getting pregnant, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, all these different kinds of things, and I

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<v Speaker 1>read some statements that she said, you know, years later,

0:23:29.920 --> 0:23:32.040
<v Speaker 1>and she just said, I am so much more efficient,

0:23:32.600 --> 0:23:36.160
<v Speaker 1>And that's what happened since because you can't just lollygag

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<v Speaker 1>and like what would take ten minutes and an hour

0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:40.879
<v Speaker 1>to do it? You have to do it in the ten.

0:23:41.440 --> 0:23:44.560
<v Speaker 1>So you know, our office vibs have changed to Smith

0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:46.720
<v Speaker 1>because you know, he used chitty chat a little bit more.

0:23:46.840 --> 0:23:49.760
<v Speaker 1>And and now it is like, you know, nine to five,

0:23:49.760 --> 0:23:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm walking out that door at five, So we got

0:23:51.280 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 1>to get everything done by then, and we do, we

0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:57.399
<v Speaker 1>get it done. Of course, I've hired more people and

0:23:57.480 --> 0:23:59.680
<v Speaker 1>things like that, which is made I'm so glad I'll

0:23:59.680 --> 0:24:02.119
<v Speaker 1>waited a little bit later to get pregnant. But um,

0:24:02.400 --> 0:24:06.640
<v Speaker 1>and have a baby. But yeah, it's it's efficiency you

0:24:06.800 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 1>as a mom. Like I'm actually think to myself, sometimes

0:24:10.040 --> 0:24:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I do all that. I'm pretty sure I did. I'm

0:24:14.040 --> 0:24:16.520
<v Speaker 1>pretty sure I did that. I was as kind of yeah,

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:19.320
<v Speaker 1>that's about it. But you know what, I think that

0:24:19.400 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 1>every woman that works or doesn't work, I take Thursdays off.

0:24:24.000 --> 0:24:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Hard to stay in my life, hard to stay with,

0:24:27.440 --> 0:24:30.359
<v Speaker 1>hard to stay in my life. It's it's way hard.

0:24:30.600 --> 0:24:34.600
<v Speaker 1>It is like having a child all day. It's so exhausting, right, Yeah,

0:24:34.640 --> 0:24:38.720
<v Speaker 1>And so I challenged myself off. Yeah, I really wanted

0:24:38.760 --> 0:24:41.000
<v Speaker 1>some uninterrupted time. I don't take phone calls. You can

0:24:41.040 --> 0:24:45.360
<v Speaker 1>ask my clients. But I have great balance that you've

0:24:45.359 --> 0:24:48.040
<v Speaker 1>worked into your life. And so I have Thursdays with Everly,

0:24:48.080 --> 0:24:51.479
<v Speaker 1>and of course the weekends my personal life, I have none. Um,

0:24:51.520 --> 0:24:53.600
<v Speaker 1>it's just Everly in work and my husband right now.

0:24:53.640 --> 0:24:59.720
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, with Everly on Thursdays, it's obviously amazing. But

0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:01.720
<v Speaker 1>you are a mother, you know what I'm it is

0:25:01.760 --> 0:25:05.840
<v Speaker 1>the hardest thing because they I mean they sleep and

0:25:05.840 --> 0:25:08.440
<v Speaker 1>then they play and they're on the top. Yeah, we're

0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:11.360
<v Speaker 1>on the floor playing like and I'm thinking, I've got

0:25:11.400 --> 0:25:14.960
<v Speaker 1>to be more creative in that day than I ever

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:17.760
<v Speaker 1>do doing anyone time, because it's like, oh my gosh,

0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:20.400
<v Speaker 1>what are we gonna do next? Because they need they

0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:23.199
<v Speaker 1>need constant simulation. Oh yeah, all of my clients right

0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:25.119
<v Speaker 1>now are pregnant and they're all like, how about how

0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:27.840
<v Speaker 1>all this crap. I'm like, you don't. You can try.

0:25:27.960 --> 0:25:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll give you two months and then we'll read, we'll rediscuss.

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I've got three jumpers in my living room and that's

0:25:34.880 --> 0:25:37.640
<v Speaker 1>so something that you should not say as a mom,

0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 1>because you don't jumping kids and jumpers all the time.

0:25:40.600 --> 0:25:44.200
<v Speaker 1>But I don't let me clarify, I do not stick

0:25:44.240 --> 0:25:45.879
<v Speaker 1>my child in a jumper all day long. But she

0:25:45.960 --> 0:25:48.640
<v Speaker 1>likes different ones and now she likes to hold onto

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:52.000
<v Speaker 1>the edges and like explore in between the three. So

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:56.360
<v Speaker 1>they're just literally like in my living room with with

0:25:56.400 --> 0:25:59.320
<v Speaker 1>the toys, and I'm like, welcome to my home, come on,

0:25:59.400 --> 0:26:02.120
<v Speaker 1>And I love it. It's babies are us in here?

0:26:02.480 --> 0:26:04.480
<v Speaker 1>It is I'm telling you, everyone I know is having babies.

0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 1>It's baby season. And I love you because you have

0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:13.280
<v Speaker 1>found a balance where you still have your career, your marriage,

0:26:13.400 --> 0:26:17.919
<v Speaker 1>everything and a child. And I think that is absolutely incredible.

0:26:17.960 --> 0:26:20.040
<v Speaker 1>To see a woman doing that. Thank you, because it's

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 1>hard hard. It's hard. It might be harder to being

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:25.680
<v Speaker 1>a say, at home mom, but it's also it's also

0:26:25.800 --> 0:26:30.040
<v Speaker 1>hard to work and be away from your kids. And

0:26:30.160 --> 0:26:32.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, I just don't you have a lot of guilt,

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 1>you have all these different It's a real thing. It's

0:26:35.720 --> 0:26:37.920
<v Speaker 1>a real thing, and it's not everything right. I always

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:41.080
<v Speaker 1>tell myself, I'm like, good lord, my mom worked three jobs.

0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:45.520
<v Speaker 1>We had nothing, and I love her more than I mean.

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 1>She is just right on up there with everyly and

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:50.040
<v Speaker 1>my husband. They're all in the same line for me.

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:52.320
<v Speaker 1>And she did not stay home with me. She did

0:26:52.359 --> 0:26:54.640
<v Speaker 1>not call on me, she did not baby me. She couldn't,

0:26:54.720 --> 0:26:57.879
<v Speaker 1>you know. And so I think about my daughter and

0:26:57.880 --> 0:27:00.720
<v Speaker 1>the and the privileged life that I live of honestly,

0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:03.359
<v Speaker 1>and I think, you know, it doesn't matter. It doesn't

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:05.320
<v Speaker 1>matter if you're working, it doesn't matter if you're saying

0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:07.400
<v Speaker 1>at ho, I'm like your kid. If you love them,

0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:09.960
<v Speaker 1>they're gonna love you right back, and they're not gonna remember.

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>And so anytime I'm gone for you know, eight hours

0:27:13.160 --> 0:27:15.200
<v Speaker 1>or in the day or whatever, I just say to myself,

0:27:15.200 --> 0:27:17.920
<v Speaker 1>she's not even she is gonna one day I appreciate this,

0:27:18.280 --> 0:27:20.119
<v Speaker 1>and she's gonna appreciate that you worked hard and you

0:27:20.200 --> 0:27:22.320
<v Speaker 1>had a passion and you follow through and maybe she

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:23.720
<v Speaker 1>wants to be a designer and how that would be

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:27.720
<v Speaker 1>pretty business together. My other designer just had a little girl,

0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:29.480
<v Speaker 1>and we always talked about We're like, what if my

0:27:29.600 --> 0:27:32.440
<v Speaker 1>daughter's name is Everly and her daughter's name is Serena,

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.679
<v Speaker 1>And we're like, what if Everley and Serena, like one

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:36.600
<v Speaker 1>day took this over, I'd be out and I'd be

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 1>in the Caribbean, and oh would that not be heaven?

0:27:39.640 --> 0:27:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I always tell my husband, He's like, what are you

0:27:41.600 --> 0:27:44.639
<v Speaker 1>ever thinking about quitting? And I'm like, yeah, when Everley

0:27:44.680 --> 0:27:47.720
<v Speaker 1>tooks over all, that's perfect? So you love it? Like

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:52.280
<v Speaker 1>do you love this to be yourself? I? UM? Yeah,

0:27:52.359 --> 0:27:58.440
<v Speaker 1>I think so. I need um again. I think because

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:04.840
<v Speaker 1>of where I come from, like I need two. I

0:28:04.880 --> 0:28:07.679
<v Speaker 1>don't know how to say this without sounding like I

0:28:07.760 --> 0:28:10.480
<v Speaker 1>need therapy, but I don't need therapy. I love therapy,

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I lived in therapy. I like to know

0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 1>that I'm contributing. Do you know what I mean? Totally? Like,

0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:23.240
<v Speaker 1>did you know you're able to? Yeah? I like to say, hey, honey,

0:28:23.359 --> 0:28:26.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting this light for our dining room, and then

0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:29.040
<v Speaker 1>that's the end of the story because I'm getting this

0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:31.680
<v Speaker 1>light for our our dining room. You know, I don't.

0:28:31.720 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't want to want to ask and

0:28:34.640 --> 0:28:37.960
<v Speaker 1>um and he would give freely, absolutely, But I like

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:40.080
<v Speaker 1>to be in a position where I just don't. I

0:28:40.120 --> 0:28:43.360
<v Speaker 1>can provide, I can find for myself. And again that's

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:46.160
<v Speaker 1>where I come from. That's what I saw, So you know,

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:48.360
<v Speaker 1>I think that's great. Therapist, hit me up. I probably

0:28:48.360 --> 0:28:51.360
<v Speaker 1>need to talk to that. But I found some and

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>I do and I wouldn't probably do any job and

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:56.040
<v Speaker 1>sacrifice my time with my child if I didn't have to,

0:28:56.040 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 1>to be honest, but this is something that I just don't. Actually,

0:29:00.880 --> 0:29:05.080
<v Speaker 1>one of the conversations that my husband and I had was, yes,

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:07.720
<v Speaker 1>I could totally quit think about how much money I

0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:11.360
<v Speaker 1>would spend in our health if I was here all

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:13.800
<v Speaker 1>day looking at everything, like best I'm looking at our

0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 1>house is totally best that I'm looking at other people's

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 1>talent getting paid for it because I can see something

0:29:19.320 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 1>that I love and I'm like, that should go there

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 1>versus this should come come with me. And he's like

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>great point. April. I was like, yeah, that's so I'm

0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 1>saving a lot of money. I said, the money I'm

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 1>bringing in, I'm saving as a whole whole lot of money.

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:36.280
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I love that. Okay, so we're gonna wrap

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:39.920
<v Speaker 1>up before I do that. What's your best experience, Like

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:43.120
<v Speaker 1>you're like, the best experience you had designing a house

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 1>and the worst experience? Do you have any of that

0:29:45.080 --> 0:29:49.160
<v Speaker 1>come to mind? Um gosh, like one that just set

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:53.120
<v Speaker 1>you on fire? Like happiness? Yeah, so I've had. Actually

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>they're kind of all in the tie and they all

0:29:54.720 --> 0:29:58.880
<v Speaker 1>have the same exact denominator, which is a client that

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:03.520
<v Speaker 1>trusts the vision and that we're your best. Just let

0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:06.680
<v Speaker 1>up the reins. The clients that are the happiness, the happiest,

0:30:06.760 --> 0:30:09.560
<v Speaker 1>and the experiences that I've had were I'm the have

0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 1>everybody is the happiest is when they don't quite get it,

0:30:13.800 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it's your home, I get it, Like

0:30:15.800 --> 0:30:17.400
<v Speaker 1>I would want to know everything that was going I

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:19.920
<v Speaker 1>would want to know down to the candle, what what

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:22.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm paying for, what was coming into my house. The

0:30:22.240 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 1>best experience, though, are when people and it's usually on

0:30:24.800 --> 0:30:27.080
<v Speaker 1>their second home, third home, when they're like you go,

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:29.760
<v Speaker 1>I trust you and then and they mean it and

0:30:29.800 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>they don't ask any questions and then they come home

0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>or they go through the experience and it's kind of

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 1>it is a lot more flawless. And so that would

0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:40.840
<v Speaker 1>you not gonna say fluid with your vision. It doesn't

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 1>get like little child blocks like chap chopped up. Yeah,

0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:46.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it really chops up. It's a flow experience.

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:49.960
<v Speaker 1>For that's what I tell everybody. Your house should honestly

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:53.240
<v Speaker 1>from the time you walk through the front to the back. Um,

0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:57.960
<v Speaker 1>it should feel it. Yeah, it should. You should feel

0:30:57.960 --> 0:30:59.000
<v Speaker 1>like you're going through it. That's some of the most

0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 1>impressive homes to me is when you walk from the

0:31:00.560 --> 0:31:02.240
<v Speaker 1>front to back and every room is different, but every

0:31:02.320 --> 0:31:03.920
<v Speaker 1>room is the same, you know what I mean. You

0:31:03.960 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 1>feel like you're in the same home, but every rooms

0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>so different, and that there's a creative element something that

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:10.640
<v Speaker 1>you know you haven't seen before that's not like the

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:14.000
<v Speaker 1>number one pin on Pinterest. And so those are my

0:31:14.080 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 1>those are my favorites. And there's a couple that that

0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:21.840
<v Speaker 1>have that that that's happened for um. My worst um

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 1>is when the team like so you know you've got

0:31:24.640 --> 0:31:29.480
<v Speaker 1>contractors architects, designers and then all your subs and you know,

0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:31.959
<v Speaker 1>you have to work as a team. And I just

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 1>got off this one job man, and it was it

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:38.320
<v Speaker 1>was a disaster because the contractor was not from Nashville,

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 1>so that's they were hired out from somewhere else and

0:31:42.880 --> 0:31:44.959
<v Speaker 1>they came on and it was just it was just

0:31:45.720 --> 0:31:47.240
<v Speaker 1>it was bad, and there was a lot There was

0:31:47.240 --> 0:31:50.240
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money to work together. It wasn't that.

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot that goes into it. Um, a lot

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:54.720
<v Speaker 1>of things that were happening that shouldn't have been happening.

0:31:54.800 --> 0:31:56.640
<v Speaker 1>And you know, there's a lot of rules when you

0:31:56.720 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 1>when you're designing and you're building, and those rules are

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 1>re unbroken. And of course I've been with a client

0:32:03.920 --> 0:32:05.840
<v Speaker 1>for a long time and so I was the one

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 1>that has to bring all that to light. And those

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:10.640
<v Speaker 1>are really hard conversations that that contractor is no longer

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:13.960
<v Speaker 1>on the job and we're continuing but um with another contractor.

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:16.120
<v Speaker 1>But it was pretty It made me sick to my

0:32:16.160 --> 0:32:18.640
<v Speaker 1>stomach some of the conversations. You know, when things go

0:32:18.720 --> 0:32:22.320
<v Speaker 1>wrong in a house, it cast, it can cost tens

0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 1>of thousands of dollars, and those conversations when you see

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:27.480
<v Speaker 1>it happening or you're even a part of it, or

0:32:27.480 --> 0:32:30.440
<v Speaker 1>whatever is going on their gut wrenching, like you can

0:32:30.480 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 1>lose sleep at night because it's you know, you rip

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:35.560
<v Speaker 1>out things and there's mold everywhere, you know, and and

0:32:35.600 --> 0:32:38.600
<v Speaker 1>you and you can tell people that up front, but

0:32:38.800 --> 0:32:41.680
<v Speaker 1>then it's like you never have excited about it or

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 1>probably in a good mood about it, right right, and

0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:46.680
<v Speaker 1>and you know, and I just had this door that

0:32:46.760 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 1>got made and it was supposed to beautiful and it's not.

0:32:51.400 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 1>And it's so expensive. But you know, the great thing

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 1>is when you establish your company, you do have money

0:32:56.480 --> 0:32:58.800
<v Speaker 1>to move and so obviously I eat that cost because

0:32:58.800 --> 0:33:00.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm in charge. But it's to get that phone call.

0:33:00.840 --> 0:33:02.280
<v Speaker 1>And thank god, it's just a door. I mean, I've

0:33:02.280 --> 0:33:04.320
<v Speaker 1>seen it be whole rooms, not for me but for

0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:07.960
<v Speaker 1>other people, and you know it was just adorabill eat

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 1>it will change it or whatever, but those are It's

0:33:09.880 --> 0:33:11.520
<v Speaker 1>just as a business owner, you have to have a

0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of conversations a lot of different people. You're yelling

0:33:14.480 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 1>at one person over here from the door, and then

0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:18.640
<v Speaker 1>you're having to eat crow over here and and totally

0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 1>take the blame because you know, I didn't make the door.

0:33:21.800 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I as soon as I saw it, I brought it.

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:26.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, I've fixed it, but I still am responsible.

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:29.760
<v Speaker 1>And so those are some super hard conversations. Some of

0:33:29.800 --> 0:33:31.760
<v Speaker 1>the clients, like Thomas Rhet and Lauren Rett and they're

0:33:32.080 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>they're Aikins there. There's such solid people and because they

0:33:35.720 --> 0:33:39.040
<v Speaker 1>go and they you know, see other third world countries

0:33:39.240 --> 0:33:41.760
<v Speaker 1>for the easiest people, because they're just so loving in

0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 1>their heart. They know how they just know what's important

0:33:45.080 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 1>and what's not and um, and I did will his

0:33:48.640 --> 0:33:51.600
<v Speaker 1>room and um because they stopt the propos little was

0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:54.880
<v Speaker 1>it from Haiti? Yeah? Yeah, And so you know she

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<v Speaker 1>could she gave you just did it as a gift.

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<v Speaker 1>But I did her room, and you know, she just

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<v Speaker 1>me and she was just like, you know, these are

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<v Speaker 1>the things that I want to you know, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a part of it. But you do you

0:34:04.680 --> 0:34:07.360
<v Speaker 1>and and and we did and they loved it. And

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<v Speaker 1>so she gets it that it's just you know, no stress.

0:34:11.560 --> 0:34:13.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, she came home a couple of things weren't done.

0:34:13.400 --> 0:34:16.480
<v Speaker 1>She's like, you know, I look, I can sleep in

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<v Speaker 1>my bed for a while if she has to, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just it's the perspective is great because of

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<v Speaker 1>what they see and where they go and travel and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Just having a good perspective about what. Really we all

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<v Speaker 1>lose it. We all lose perspective. You want a great house.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day. We're not dying of

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<v Speaker 1>cancer here right Luckily, you know, with where I come

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<v Speaker 1>from and everything, I still have that family. I didn't

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:40.799
<v Speaker 1>lose them, and so they're the sweetest people ever. But

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<v Speaker 1>I gained perspective very quickly because you know, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have everything and they never will, and and so I'm always,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, very reminded that not all of us get

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<v Speaker 1>to live with designers and you know, people that they

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<v Speaker 1>hired to do their house, to do their houses, and

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<v Speaker 1>so it's good to to have that. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have it, go find it. I agree, you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So the last question, after everything you've lived through, all

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:11.440
<v Speaker 1>that you've done, accomplished, everyone that you've seen and worked with,

0:35:11.960 --> 0:35:15.040
<v Speaker 1>leave your light. So leave some inspiration of how you

0:35:15.120 --> 0:35:17.360
<v Speaker 1>have been inspired or how you would like to inspire people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's gonna sound really weird, but I live

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<v Speaker 1>pretty simply as far as um. Some people find it

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<v Speaker 1>so fascinating when they walk into my closet because I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't have a lot of clothes because if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not wearing them and I see anybody, I just give

0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 1>them all away. And you could ask any friend of

0:35:39.600 --> 0:35:41.680
<v Speaker 1>mine they're like, do you can I borrow something? I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you could, There's not a lot here. Um And so

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<v Speaker 1>I would say that that that is um is is

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<v Speaker 1>something that I always try to remember because in the

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<v Speaker 1>world of interior design it can be super materialistic, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you can get caught up in things that

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<v Speaker 1>are just really don't really just don't matter. So I

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<v Speaker 1>always um what I try to do in reality, like

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<v Speaker 1>not some big slogan, because I don't remember slogans, but

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<v Speaker 1>in reality, like I always just kind of look around

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<v Speaker 1>and whether it's my housekeeper or whether it is someone

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<v Speaker 1>else's or I have friends that are teachers who have

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<v Speaker 1>four underprivileged schools, and uh, and I'll just go through

0:36:24.480 --> 0:36:26.600
<v Speaker 1>my closet and go through my life and just take

0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 1>all of the crap and just send it away, you

0:36:29.600 --> 0:36:30.799
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. I don't need a tax trite

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<v Speaker 1>off for it. I don't have to give it to

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<v Speaker 1>something where I'm gonna receive something, it's just I just

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<v Speaker 1>give it away. And and I'm saying it now because

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<v Speaker 1>you asked, but I would say the other most important

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<v Speaker 1>thing is to do it quietly. You know what I

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:46.640
<v Speaker 1>mean is to do things a little more quietly, because um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's I just feel like that's how you receive your

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<v Speaker 1>rewards in heaven is to do things quietly, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to be a known philanthropist to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to, you know, give give things away. And another

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<v Speaker 1>pet paint that I have as far as giving things

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<v Speaker 1>away is when I hear people say I will not

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<v Speaker 1>give that homeless person money because he's probably gonna drink.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally want to die every time I hear that,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not really any of our business. And if

0:37:11.480 --> 0:37:13.279
<v Speaker 1>they do, you know what, I would probably drink every

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<v Speaker 1>day too if that was my position in life, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, it's my responsibility to give, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>my responsibility to assign how they use it. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So April Tomlin, Sat, April Tomlin, it's not true. You ship.

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<v Speaker 1>You're amazing. Thank you so much. Thanks for having me,

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for having me. I appreciate it, I appreciate thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for your time, and I have sonsy. I know you

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