1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight, we got it for you. Here. 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: It is the strong Barry LETTA subject he wants me, 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: but not the children. Here Stephen Shirley, I am a 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: forty nine year old female married to a forty nine 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: year old man. We have five children and five grandchildren. 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: Here is the problem my current husband, he says, I have. 7 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: I have five children and five grandchildren. Okay, oh, okay. 8 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: Here is the problem. My current husband is not the 9 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: father of my children. I married this man when my 10 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: children were young, so he's been in their lives for 11 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: a very long time. My youngest son just graduated from 12 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: high school and we'll be going away for college. So 13 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: now my husband thinks that we are done raising children 14 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: and from now on it will be just the two 15 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: of us. He has said that he that we don't 16 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: have to worry about the kids anymore because they are 17 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: all grown and have their own lives. So am I 18 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: not supposed to So am I not supposed to be 19 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: involved with my children since they are no longer living 20 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: at home. My children range from ages thirty two to 21 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: eighteen years old, and all five of them live in 22 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: different states. I want to see them and my grandkids 23 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: as often as I can. In fact, I'd like to 24 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: move closer to them. My husband does not want anything 25 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: to do with them period. He doesn't want to visit them, 26 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: and he doesn't want them to visit us. He said 27 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: that they don't need to come for the holiday. What 28 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: the hell he really thinks that because they are adults, 29 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: I am supposed to forget that they exist. I understand 30 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: that these our golden years and we should be enjoying 31 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: quality time together and traveling the world. But our travels 32 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: should also include trips to see my children. If he's 33 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: really serious, I may have to spend my golden years alone. 34 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, can you please help me? Well, your letters 35 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: started off nicely, so I'll put it like this. Your husband, 36 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: I'm sure, feels like he's done his job and it's over. 37 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: These were now his kids. He raised them anyway, He's 38 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: been in their lives since they were really young. So 39 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: he's done and not being their biological debt. Like I said, 40 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: the ties are cut. He has no connection really to them. 41 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: It seems he cut them off and his concentration is 42 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: now on you and you guys this future together. He 43 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: wants to live. He wants to live his life, you know, 44 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: and do all of those things. But now I think 45 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: that he's being very unrealistic when he says the children 46 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: he doesn't want the kids to come and see you, 47 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: or he doesn't want you to go see the kids. 48 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: How is that? I mean, really, that's a bit unrealistic, 49 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: especially if it makes you happy to see your kids. 50 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: You're his wife. He should want to see you happy 51 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: and do those things that make you happy. I mean, 52 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: it's very unrealistic to say that. He really thinks that 53 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: because they're adults, you're supposed to forget that they exist. No, 54 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: that's not the issue, and he knows that's not the issue. 55 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: They are grown and they are living their own lives. 56 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: That part is definitely true. But you guys got to 57 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: come to some kind of compromise in terms of when 58 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: you see the kids and when you go see the kids, 59 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: even if you just go by yourself, you have to 60 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: see your kids. These are your kids, Steve, you're a parent. 61 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: Now he wants me, but not the children, Okay, that 62 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: I can relate to. I don't want mine either, though, 63 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: And on any day between the seven of them, you 64 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: can come get folk just like that. So that much 65 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: I understand but we are parents. You're forty nine, your 66 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: band's forty nine. You got five children and five grandkids. 67 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: He's not the fault of the kids. Your youngest son 68 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: just graduated high school going away to college. So now 69 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: your husband thinks that we've done raising children and from 70 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: now on it to just be the two of us. 71 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: He had says that we don't have to worry about 72 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: the kids no more because they all grown and have 73 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: their own lives. Okay, are you kidding me? You really 74 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: think that's how it goes? Do you know that you 75 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: are a parent for life, for life. You may not 76 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: be a husband or a wife for life, but once 77 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: you become a parent, you're a parent for life. Now, 78 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: there are some good ones out there, and they are 79 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: some bad ones out there. I got it, you, sir, 80 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: are about to turn into a bad one because you 81 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: don't get it. You are in your goal and years. 82 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: You said that later in the letter. Your kids are 83 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: from thirty two to eighteen. All of them live in 84 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 1: different states, and you want to see your kids and 85 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 1: your grandkids. Matter of fact, you want to move closer 86 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: to them. Your husband don't want nothing to do with them, period. 87 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want 88 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: them to visit us. He says, they don't need to 89 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: come for the holiday. That's what the lady type, don't 90 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: need to come for the holidays. What the hell? What 91 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: the hell is right? Come on, man, are you for real? Bro? 92 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: You're gonna just act like you never met these people? 93 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: Like you? You? They meant nothing? He going to college. 94 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: I said, he gotta come home right. He's not ready 95 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: to live on his own. And I got that. The 96 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: kids range from thirty two to eighteen. Man, do you 97 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: know how much advice they need? So how much help 98 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: they need, financial support they need? Come on, man, that 99 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: ain't how this work. Man, are you crazy? And he 100 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: don't want them to vidit? He don't want them to 101 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: come for the holidays. What the hell? He thinks that 102 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: because they are adults, I'm supposed to forget that they exist. 103 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: That's the craziest part of them. You gotta be nuts. 104 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: It doesn't work that way. It's crazy for you to 105 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: think that. Come on, man, I unders say that these 106 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: are our golden years. You ain't before the nine hell 107 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 1: golden years. But if that's how you want to look 108 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: at it, okay, cool, And that we should be enjoying 109 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: quality time together and traveling the world. Plans should also 110 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: include trips to see my children. If he's really serious, 111 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 1: I may help to spend my golden years alone. What 112 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 1: you say, Steve, I said, will back right. Well, the 113 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: youngest one and graduated. The boy is five kids, none 114 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: of them he is now he going while they graduated. 115 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: They're gone. We threw with them, they out. He's saying, no, 116 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: they have their own lives. They're adults. They should be 117 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: able to make it on their own. I want to 118 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 1: see my grandkids as offer I can. It's what the 119 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 1: woman says. In fact, I want to move closer to him. 120 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: My husband doesn't want anything to do with them period. 121 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 1: He don't want to visit them. He don't want them 122 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: to visit us. He said, they don't need to comfort 123 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: the hog. What to him? They and ladies said, what 124 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: to him? Yes, no, we don't come for the holidays. 125 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: What is Christmas about? Exactly? He really thinks that because 126 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: they're adults, I'm supposed to forget they exist. I understand 127 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: that these are golden years and we should have been 128 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: enjoying quality of time together and traveling the world. But 129 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: I traveled playing to the car trips to see my children. 130 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: He's really serious. I may have spent my golden years 131 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: along Stephen Sherley. Can you please help me? He wants 132 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: to check out. In essence, he wants to check out. 133 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: He wants to say that I've done my duty. I 134 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: raised these kids to the best of my ability. I've contributed, 135 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: and now they're gone. That's it. I'm chilling. I wish 136 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: that was the case. But honey, why don't you want 137 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: to see the kids? I mean, did something happens. We've 138 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: already seen the kids. Well, yeah, you've seen them since 139 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: they were young, I mean, and they live their own lives. Now. 140 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: I saw all I needed to see when they was here. 141 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: I'm todd. I've been working, paying Bill punkin to college 142 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: and were covering up dream I bought that boy a 143 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: carbon machine, all that dum and honey, we appreciate it 144 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: so much. But these are my kids. I have to 145 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: see them on the holidays. That's what the holidays of 146 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: four family holidays. Yes, family like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, like 147 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving like Christmas. We ain't going down now. I've already 148 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: made arrangements for them to come here here, here to 149 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: the house, I'm you know, getting the big Christmas tree 150 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 1: and everything. They're just got ready to We just got 151 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: rid of the damn boy. And what the hell are 152 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: you're inviting them back for? They don't think we won't them. Well, 153 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: he has to have somewhere to go when he's out 154 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: of school for Christmas break school? An't he down at 155 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: one of the men a national school? But he I 156 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: want him to come home. I missed them. I carried 157 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: them for nine months. This is my blood. See, you 158 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 1: raised and the kids to be none but chumps. That 159 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: wrong right here. He's a great kid. He's in college now, 160 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: great kids were let him feed for herself. God make it. 161 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: You know he ain't gonna get a job. Wow, I 162 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 1: don't understand. I mean, you were so good with them 163 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: when they were young and helping me raise them. Now 164 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, it's like, who are I don't know? 165 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: You was just counting the day. What do you mean 166 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: you were counting the day till they got out this house? 167 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: But you were so good. They call you daddy, You're 168 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: not even there. She never won't call me Daddy called. 169 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 1: They can't find that. Well, you know, I just wanted 170 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: to let you know that. I really appreciate that you 171 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: were there for me, there for my kids. I know 172 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: you do, Baby, I appreciate now I want you to 173 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: be here for me. Well, I am here for you, 174 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: but I'm also are you all the time? All that 175 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: the mom days over with? No, the mom days are 176 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: never over with. They is over what they're gonna No, 177 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: they're not they ain't No, they're not call you keeping 178 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: fighting them back leaving where they a girl? These are 179 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: my kids and this is my house too. They're coming 180 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: home for the holidays. Okay, I put my foot down 181 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: them getting heat, and then were you fight them back 182 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: over for the holidays. It's just the people being here. 183 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: We ain't gonna where. We ain't gonna be able to 184 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: put a tree up. We're gonna put a tree up 185 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 1: right over there. But when are you you put a 186 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: tree up over there? And then all these people coming 187 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: to the house. We're gonna be decorated. It's just five 188 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: kids and five grandkids and there's ten people. Look at 189 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: the little room. Well, then maybe we need a bigger 190 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 1: house because I'm not getting rid of my kids. Oh 191 00:10:53,400 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: bigger house. Yes, it's a bigger house. Girl. We can 192 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:02,959 Speaker 1: finally got all the people out of here. In here, 193 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: we need a bigger house. It's just for a few 194 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: days during the holiday's, honey, we don't want to sing 195 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: Christmas carols? Yeah, no matter fact I won't. Just how 196 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: stage saying side so they can? They already outgrowed it. 197 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: And who's gonna we need a bigger house? Who's gonna 198 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 1: help me cook? That's what we love doing that, me 199 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: and the girls cooking together, well, preparing Christmas dinner and 200 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner. Huh, you ain't he been here? Cool? We're 201 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: gonna stop your damn Joe the woman and that you 202 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,839 Speaker 1: don't try to slide in and you can cook. We're 203 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: gonna end the damn staring woman and the letter can cook. 204 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 1: We matter try to slide in. And who's gonna help 205 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: you cook? That we've been trying to find out s. 206 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: Two thousand. I don't know what the little Mexican man 207 00:11:53,440 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 1: what his name is? Nest to black dude? Are you Steve? 208 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 1: Are you still the man in the letter? Make up 209 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 1: your mind. I'm not man in the letter, but what 210 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: you try to slide in with a cooking compliment by yourself? 211 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: And I ain't gonna let you do it now? Surely 212 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: you can't cook. Gonna help me cook? Anybody? I'm speaking 213 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: as the woman in the letter Greek husband who hates kids? Now, 214 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: like no, and why is that? What did they do 215 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: to you that I don't know about? Because it seems 216 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 1: like to me you were getting along fine with them 217 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 1: because you was never there. Oh, you never knew what 218 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: was going on behind them doughs. What did they gang 219 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,439 Speaker 1: up on you or something? Say you're not having that 220 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: one night? And that boy to eighteen year old boy, 221 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: he caught me on my side and he climbed up 222 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:50,679 Speaker 1: on and he was choking me. Oh wow, Yes, she 223 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: didn't go about honey, this is gonna be so much fun. 224 00:12:53,400 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: Come on now for a few days. No, ru okay, okay, 225 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: I can't do it. Okay, I can't messle my holiday mission. 226 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: What am I supposed to say when they ask me 227 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: where's their dad? Where's dad? And that you know they 228 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: call you dad, where's daddy? Huh? What am I supposed 229 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: to say? You ain't gonna say nothing called they ain't 230 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: gonna be in here? All right, we gotta go, We 231 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 1: gotta get out of here. Email us or Instagram. That's 232 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter at Steve Harvey f Ammer. 233 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: You can go to my girl Shirley. You're listening to 234 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: this Day morning show.