WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sister Drama

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<v Speaker 1>Second data date. If a date doesn't go well and

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<v Speaker 1>you know that it's your own fault, that's tough, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's easier to live with because you can own it

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<v Speaker 1>and learn from your mistakes. Yeah. Absolutely, that's a very

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<v Speaker 1>progressive would think of it. Yeah, it's much worse though,

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<v Speaker 1>when a date goes south because of something or someone

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<v Speaker 1>that's totally out of your control. It's frustrating. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what one of our listeners, Laana said in her email.

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<v Speaker 1>She also said she's a big fan of the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cool, she doesn't miss a day. So Launa, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, thank you for suff listening, and tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy that you went out with what's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I just have to say, Hi, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited you finally get your moment on the show. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that it has to deal with a bad date,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're glad you're here. Yeah, so let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>your date. Tell us about the guy that you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with. What's his name? So this guy's name is Marcus.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you meet Marcus? We met on Bumble and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I've like met some pretty cool people on Bumble. Like

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<v Speaker 1>obviously nothing has worked out, but it's nice because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like not super serious and you have to do like

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<v Speaker 1>a million questions to get your profile up. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like just like a hook up thing like some

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<v Speaker 1>of the other ones. All of them. No, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>most serious one that's like serious dating dot com? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like match and stuff. It's like old people looking

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<v Speaker 1>for like Okay, Actually, yeah, that's when you're really serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, So you're medium serious about that. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for someone to have fun with right now, You're

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily looking for the love of your life. Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm open to it. I just feel like I did

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<v Speaker 1>he Harmony ones and it was like kind of weirdough, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what did you like about Marcus? Well, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>he's very handsome, okay, and he has a good job.

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<v Speaker 1>He's an engineer, which I thought was pretty impressive. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he just seemed like really relaxed and fun. Like he

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<v Speaker 1>had some photos of him like doing things other than

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<v Speaker 1>just drinking, which is nice. What other things are there?

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<v Speaker 1>He had actually a photo of him doing like drag racing,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, is that just a hobby or or

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<v Speaker 1>you is that like a pretend photo? He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I swear I'm in that car right there. You just

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<v Speaker 1>can't see me. So what did you and Marcus do

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<v Speaker 1>for your date? I thought this was such a cute idea.

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<v Speaker 1>He suggested that we go have a little picnic in

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<v Speaker 1>the park. Oh that's always fun. Yeah, so sweet low presh.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we got there and he had this like

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<v Speaker 1>giant picnic basket. Oh good man. Yeah, I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know if you're just showing up to a park

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<v Speaker 1>and he's got some subway ready for you, or if

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<v Speaker 1>he yeah right, but or if he actually went the

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<v Speaker 1>extra mile and put together like some goods. Well actually,

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<v Speaker 1>so we were chatting and having a good time. Then

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, Okay, are you ready to eat? So

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<v Speaker 1>he opens up the picnic basket and he pulls out

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<v Speaker 1>bags of KFC. Oh, I was really close. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's delicious. I say that's better. I think it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be weird if he had a homemade sandwiches. I don't know. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a guy that I was really hoping for

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<v Speaker 1>a circuity board or something for her. What did you think, Lana,

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<v Speaker 1>was the KFC a good move or a bad one? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I started laughing hysterically because on my profile I

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<v Speaker 1>say that I love KFC attention to details. Nicely done, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>you can read. I mean that's actually a lot of points.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, don't you say you can spell? But still

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<v Speaker 1>he's paying attention. Yeah, Like I remember when I met

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<v Speaker 1>my husband, he showed up with my coffee order and

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought it was so sweet, like so thoughtful,

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<v Speaker 1>just those little things. Okay, enough about Brooks boring dating. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get back to Lana. Keep us going with Marcus.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened next? Yeah, so you know, we had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. We were like eating our fried chicken and

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out, and then I started getting these like serious

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<v Speaker 1>texts and phone calls from my sister, which I tried

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<v Speaker 1>to ignore for a while, but then I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, maybe there's an emergency, like maybe she ought

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<v Speaker 1>to a car accident, someone in the family's hurt. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what was going on. She was mad at me

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<v Speaker 1>because I borrowed one of her outfits. I borrowed the

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<v Speaker 1>like pant suit thing. It's like a jumper kind of thing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know. I guess she wreaked out and

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<v Speaker 1>was calling me hysterically that I took her her outfits. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but that didn't really affect your date at all,

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<v Speaker 1>did it. I don't know. I've lived at ten sisters

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<v Speaker 1>and they get nasty, a yelling match over the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right in front of him. No, I mean, I like

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<v Speaker 1>walked away, and I mean, I don't know exactly if

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<v Speaker 1>you heard, but like, I'm not shy, like I'm pretty expressive,

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<v Speaker 1>and I called me moving my hands around like when

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to her. Marx is like, why did

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<v Speaker 1>you just spit on your phone? I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that that's pretty civil, though. Didn't you just go back

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<v Speaker 1>and tell him, like, oh my god, my dumb little

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<v Speaker 1>sister called me because she's mad I borrowed her clothes,

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<v Speaker 1>Like don't you think that that would be He's probably

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get a glimpse of what you don't think, so

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it's like kind of funny. That would

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<v Speaker 1>be a red flag to me. I'd be like, oh, chefs,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't get along even with her own family. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not good. What was what was his attitude like when

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<v Speaker 1>you got back after talking with your sister. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he seems like a little bit awkward. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, why don't we just go over there to

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<v Speaker 1>the little playground area and we'll go swinging swings and

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<v Speaker 1>kind of lighting things up a little bit. How much

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<v Speaker 1>you were moving your hands, Carson. I think it depends

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<v Speaker 1>on if this guy has a sibling or not, because

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<v Speaker 1>if you have a sibling, you can understand that relationship

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<v Speaker 1>like that, that tension is okay, that you still love

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<v Speaker 1>the person, that that's just sometimes how you communicate, or

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<v Speaker 1>just an outfit you love. Yeah, well, maybe maybe we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be able to get a gauge about how he was

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<v Speaker 1>feeling based on how the date ended. How did that go? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was fine, Like we didn't kiss or anything, which

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<v Speaker 1>would have been kind of weird in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>the park, but he did hug me, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he had go to his buddy's birthday party and I

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<v Speaker 1>had a dinner to go too, so we couldn't like

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<v Speaker 1>linger very long. But I thought we had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>and in like the grand scheme of things, I actually

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<v Speaker 1>would be open to a relationship with this guy, like

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<v Speaker 1>he seems like definitely marriage materials. Oh my goodness, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>your sister isn't so much trouble. She screwed this up

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<v Speaker 1>for you. All right, Well, let's see if the sister

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<v Speaker 1>drama continues. We'll play a song, we'll come back. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call Marcus for you and try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, yeah, you guys are awesome, Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much. All right, hold one. Sibling arguments don't end

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<v Speaker 1>with childhood. They continue well into adulthood. And today one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Lana, is tattling on her younger sister, saying, Mom,

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa's ruining my date again because she recently had a

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<v Speaker 1>picnic in the park with a guy named Marcus. While

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<v Speaker 1>it was happening, her sister kept spamming her phone accusing

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<v Speaker 1>her of borrowing an outfit without permission. Yeah, basically a

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<v Speaker 1>classy felony. So eventually Lana had to just take a

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<v Speaker 1>moment to answer a call, yell at her cis and

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<v Speaker 1>put her in her place. But now she's worried that

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<v Speaker 1>even though the rest of the date went well, that

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<v Speaker 1>may have been a turn off from Marcus. Now, Lana,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't ask you, have you been talking very much

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<v Speaker 1>with Marcus after the date or not at all? Like

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<v Speaker 1>is he ghosting you completely? No, he hasn't ghosted me completely.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I text him, he'll text me back, but

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't asked me. I'm another date and that was

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<v Speaker 1>like a week and a half ago that we went out.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's a good sign that he's still at least

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<v Speaker 1>keeping in touch. Maybe just reply to nice maybe, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's just waiting for you to ask him on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Like women and can do that too. He's

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<v Speaker 1>the one that made the first move with the KFC

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<v Speaker 1>in the park. Maybe it's your turn. That's what we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing right now. But she could have asked before us.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm saying. Oh, okay, you know, well without

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<v Speaker 1>a team around her, But it's all right. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I could have. But I don't know. I like

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<v Speaker 1>it when the guy like makes the effort, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to just be like shaping after some guy,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like the opposite of what bumble is designed for.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's true. I bet your sister would have asked

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<v Speaker 1>the guy out without having to call the radio station.

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<v Speaker 1>You did not just say that I went there. I

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<v Speaker 1>went there a girlfriend girlfriend I do. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>younger sister. We haven't spoken in years. She also borrowed

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<v Speaker 1>one of your outfit She did unforgivable. Now that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>all riled up, let's give Marcus a call and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>try and get you a second date update. You ready, Lana? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>for Marcus. What is this? Hey, my name's Jeffrey from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested. No, no, no, no. This isn't like

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<v Speaker 1>an advertisement or anything. We're doing a segment on a

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<v Speaker 1>show called a second Date Update? Am I in the

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<v Speaker 1>radio right now? Yeah? Maybe? Is that? Okay? It's all

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<v Speaker 1>just for fun. It's a positive things we have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you. Okay. The reason why we're calling you is

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<v Speaker 1>because you recently went out with a woman who had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time with you, but she's confused after your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you're not reaching out to ask her out again?

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<v Speaker 1>Just this? Her name, Lana? It is you know who

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about. You. You're giggling as we're mentioning her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that sounds like a good thing. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I she's great. I like her a lot. All right, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know if it's the best match. What

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<v Speaker 1>makes you say that? Did she tell you we went

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<v Speaker 1>out we went out. Yeah, she told us all about

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<v Speaker 1>your picnic in the park date and how thoughtful you

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<v Speaker 1>were that you got KFC because on her bio it

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<v Speaker 1>said how much she loved KFC. I would say, good

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<v Speaker 1>move on your part, sir, thank you. She thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were very thoughtful and very funny and she had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time with you. So she's really hoping to see

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<v Speaker 1>you again and doesn't understand why you haven't been in communication. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So did she mention she has a sister? Yeah, she did.

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<v Speaker 1>Were hoping he didn't hear that. Yeah, she's embarrassed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she knows that. It kind of got out of hand,

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<v Speaker 1>and she went off to yell at her sister a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit because of some sibling drama. But no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's not. I totally get family drama. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know my siblings. Did I fight too? It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't that. Okay. Did she mention her sister. She calls

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<v Speaker 1>her like her little sister. But they're twins. They're twins,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's like two minutes littler than she is or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, Like twins like to do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess twins do that. Okay, Why is that a problem?

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<v Speaker 1>The last person I dated was also a twin. WHOA,

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<v Speaker 1>what are the odds? O, Well, are you worried that

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<v Speaker 1>it's Launa's sister? No? No, no, no, it's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>so this last person I dated, I dated her for

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<v Speaker 1>a while and oh, this is embarrassing. Sor right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna say it. Okay, when I met this woman

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<v Speaker 1>that I was seeing, when I met her twin, I

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<v Speaker 1>found myself more attracted to her than the person that

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually dating. Were they were they identical twins? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so some may have a personality trait that you are

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<v Speaker 1>more attracted to you than the look alike. So you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want that one's like one instance, what does that

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<v Speaker 1>have to do with Launa? That has nothing to do

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<v Speaker 1>with Launa exactly. I just have this fear that, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I have some weird thing inside me where like

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<v Speaker 1>when there's a twin, I end up wanting to be

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<v Speaker 1>with the one that I'm not with and I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I might or I might want to and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why it ended. And I just don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>through that again. Okay, you're following You're worried that if

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<v Speaker 1>you end up dating Laana you'll eventually meet her sister

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<v Speaker 1>and be more attracted to her sister. Yeah, because of

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<v Speaker 1>one experience you had with identical twins. I mean that's

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<v Speaker 1>a big stretch, man, It's a big leap. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you even know that Laana's twin is identical? I

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<v Speaker 1>think so because they were arguing about something about like

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<v Speaker 1>borrowing clothes or something. So I just assumed that, like, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I borrow clothes with women that look nothing like me,

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<v Speaker 1>and you get clothes fit on many different types of bodies,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe they're not. That's a good question too. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to have a problem at all, it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of like jump to conclusion. Yeah, I mean this

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<v Speaker 1>is something that we definitely need to talk to Launa about.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I good, But I don't even know how

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<v Speaker 1>i'd like even bring it up with her, so weird, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be it is. The good news is you

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<v Speaker 1>already kind of did because Lana's been on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening and she wants to talk to you. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, no. Yeah, yeah, la Marcus, that is the

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<v Speaker 1>most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. You got commitment issues, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's the only reason that you would suddenly be

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to another woman. There are a lot of attractive

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<v Speaker 1>women out there. Oh well, first of all, hi, um,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for setting this up. That's cool. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>clearly you don't have the boss to talk to me

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<v Speaker 1>about this. You could have just said something like as

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<v Speaker 1>a joke and it would have been upper like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not worried. I'm trying to just not do anything bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I didn't. Oh I've got just such a

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<v Speaker 1>little whiny. Oh my god. But here's the thing, Marcus,

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<v Speaker 1>what if Lana is the hotter of the two sisters

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<v Speaker 1>and you already went out with her. Okay, so you

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<v Speaker 1>just missed out, bro, the two identical twins. Are you mad?

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<v Speaker 1>Then at his reasoning? Is what I'm getting at Lana

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<v Speaker 1>that it's the most immature, stupidest think I've ever heard of,

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<v Speaker 1>a reason that you don't want to go on another

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<v Speaker 1>day because you think you're going to fall in love

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<v Speaker 1>with my sister who you've never met. Right, they asked

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<v Speaker 1>me the question. I was just being honest. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he did know, he did know it was weird, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and he didn't know how to bring it up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, Marcus you can kind of see how

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous that thought is. Yeah, but you couldn't understand how

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird that I dated twins and now I'm with

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<v Speaker 1>someone else who's twins. You can understand, like that's weird too.

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<v Speaker 1>In a way, he's looking out for you, Lanna, like

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want to accidentally break your heart. Yeah, oh please,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, Honestly he is looking out for me

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<v Speaker 1>by not texting me back who is Clearly he's a

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<v Speaker 1>mess and I don't need to get involved with that. Wow. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't write him off yet. Yeah. There has to be

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<v Speaker 1>a way that we can find out once and for

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<v Speaker 1>all whether or not he will be attracted to your sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we can do some sort of blind test where

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<v Speaker 1>you're going with you and your sister both meet him

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time. He takes the blindfold off and

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<v Speaker 1>he has to choose which one is, Laana. That sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like the worst idea for la history of ideas? Is

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<v Speaker 1>it the most romantic history? That is terrible? What if

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<v Speaker 1>he chooses right? Yeah, Laana, No, I bet your sister

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<v Speaker 1>would be up for you. I told you gas, don't

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<v Speaker 1>go there, Okay, so I won't go there. But how

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<v Speaker 1>about I go here where I ask Marcus, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on another date with Laana? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Now that we've talked about it, I

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<v Speaker 1>do think you're right. I'm probably silly, and I really

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to go on a second date with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I I'm sorry I was being weird. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I was just caught up guard and I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a jerk. So cute Jeffrey's doing the heart

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<v Speaker 1>symbol with his hands right now. It's really weird. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so nice. I mean, I'm feeling the love coming through

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<v Speaker 1>from Marcus. How about you, Lana, what do you say?

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<v Speaker 1>Give him one more shot? You did really like him, Lana?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and he's a person who can admit when

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<v Speaker 1>he's an idiot. I mean, yeah, okay, so he's sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>but like not as we go out again, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>going to be worrying the whole time that when he

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<v Speaker 1>meets my sister he's gonna want to date her. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's you also jumping to a conclusion. Just

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that they never meet. Yeah, problem solved. So

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say? We'll pay for it? KFC, he

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<v Speaker 1>might have to do something nicer than KFC this time.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise, I promise I will all right right, congratulations

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