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Speaker 1: First of all, I just have to say, Hi, I'm

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Speaker 1: How did you meet Marcus? We met on Bumble and uh,

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Speaker 1: Just this? Her name, Lana? It is you know who

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Speaker 1: so maybe they're not. That's a good question too. You

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Speaker 1: my god, no. Yeah, yeah, la Marcus, that is the

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Speaker 1: most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. You got commitment issues, buddy,

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Speaker 1: Like that's the only reason that you would suddenly be

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Speaker 1: thank you for setting this up. That's cool. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: Then at his reasoning? Is what I'm getting at Lana

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Speaker 1: In a way, he's looking out for you, Lanna, like

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Speaker 1: you know what, Honestly he is looking out for me

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Speaker 1: by not texting me back who is Clearly he's a

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Speaker 1: mess and I don't need to get involved with that. Wow. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: he has to choose which one is, Laana. That sounds

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Speaker 1: go there, Okay, so I won't go there. But how

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Speaker 1: And I I'm sorry I was being weird. I think

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Speaker 1: I mean that's you also jumping to a conclusion. Just

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