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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for proposing to my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: without my grandmother's family ring?

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Speaker 2: That should be fine?

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Speaker 1: Should be fine? Maybe take it off her cold dead hands.

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Speaker 1: This is from Throwaway six six seven five five sixty five.

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Speaker 1: This is something I need to get off my chest.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend's birthday is on Saturday, and I plan on

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Speaker 1: proposing to her. Our anniversary is six months from Saturday,

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Speaker 1: April twenty ninth, and I think that would be a

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Speaker 1: great day for a wedding.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 1: When my grandma died, she left all kinds of jewelry

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Speaker 1: to my mom. She always said if I wanted one

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Speaker 1: of her ring to give to a woman in the future,

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Speaker 1: she would let me pick. I know my mom knows

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Speaker 1: she said this. I asked my mom for one of

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Speaker 1: the rings, but my mom said not yet. She and

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Speaker 1: my dad said, my sister will be upset if I

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Speaker 1: get engaged while she is still single and not married.

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Speaker 1: It's not a secret that she's desperate to get married,

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Speaker 1: but that's not my problem. My sister's heared twenty nine March,

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Speaker 1: and I turned thirty one last month. My parents said

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Speaker 1: she'll be upset if I get married a month after

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Speaker 1: her thirtieth birthday. So I went out to day and

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Speaker 1: bought a ring. It was never about money because I

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Speaker 1: can afford to buy one. I thought it would just

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Speaker 1: be special to give my girlfriend a family ring. I'm

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Speaker 1: still proposing on Saturday, despite my parents forbidding me to.

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Speaker 1: I'm just pissed off that they asked me to hold

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Speaker 1: off until my sister is married when she isn't even

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Speaker 1: in a relationship. Pisses me off, But I don't want

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Speaker 1: anything to spoil my girlfriend's birthday. Well, there are some

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Speaker 1: comments and some juicy updates, but John, do you think

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Speaker 1: op is the a hole?

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, sister, get over it. You should be celebrating. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: how is him achieving something great in life? Like? Oh no,

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Speaker 2: you can't do that, because I've that's so stupid.

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Speaker 1: And it also could be that the parents aren't inventing

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Speaker 1: something like this, Like the sister didn't say anything. It's

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Speaker 1: the parents speaking on behalf of the sister. So it's

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Speaker 1: this something golden child thing that the parents are trying

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Speaker 1: to maybe stop the wedding. They're doing a little eye

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Speaker 1: object before the thing actually even started.

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Speaker 2: A couple Shrek parents busting in and change the life.

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Speaker 1: I love how I object is just immediately connected with Shrek.

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Speaker 3: That is exactly what I thought.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, same, Sam, harder than projected. When do I not

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Speaker 1: think of Shrek? Shrek has love, Shrek is life? I

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Speaker 3: I never watched that video? What because everyone told me

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Speaker 3: not to. They said, I said, well, what's going on?

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Speaker 3: They were like, shucks love Sugar's life, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: should I watch this?

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Speaker 2: She watch it? Well? Comments imagine Snapdragon says for her

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Speaker 2: thirtieth birthday, your parents can gift her therapy. Ooh, I

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Speaker 2: turned thirty back in August, never married. You know what happened? Nothing.

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Speaker 1: The world doesn't end when you're still a certain age, right.

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Speaker 1: Ad three h six says, that's so weird. It's not

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Speaker 1: like you're seventeen. A month after she turns thirty, does

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Speaker 1: she own every month? Just wait until you start having

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Speaker 1: kids or something before her. I get being sensitive to

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Speaker 1: her feelings, but this is way over the top. I mean,

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Speaker 1: they could let her pick a ring first and set

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Speaker 1: it aside for the future. It sucks that they're going

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Speaker 1: to be more worried about her feelings than excited for you.

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Speaker 1: Then the wonder why you always spend holidays. At the end,

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Speaker 1: laws by them get wrecked, boom, and there is a

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Speaker 2: So I proposed on Saturday like.

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Speaker 1: I originally planned to. Okay, I'll be used in the

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Speaker 1: chap oh. I proposed with the ring I bought after

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Speaker 1: my parents denied me one of my grandmother's rings. As

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Speaker 1: I said to my original post, it wasn't about money

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Speaker 1: I could afforded by a ring. It was about being

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Speaker 1: sentimental because my grandmother always told me I could have

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Speaker 1: one of her rings. I didn't do anything elaborate or public.

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Speaker 1: I proposed over breakfast, and she said, yes, is that

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Speaker 1: a good proposal?

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Speaker 2: Would you like to be proposed over breakfast? John? Breakfast

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Speaker 2: is a fire meal? Yeah, that's all what it means

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Speaker 2: to you. And it was like it was on the birthday,

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Speaker 2: you know, I feel.

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Speaker 1: Like it's a Honestly, I feel like I wouldn't propose

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Speaker 2: Okay, I guess it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 3: I was kind of thinking of that if that was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, proposed, Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like I wouldn't propose to

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Speaker 3: My birthday's in less than a month. Nobody, better pose.

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Speaker 2: Guys, nobody. We both know you love the worm queen,

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Speaker 2: but cool.

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Speaker 3: It, Okay, see a shingle proposal.

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Speaker 2: If you're getting on your knee, you better be tying

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Speaker 2: your shoe buster.

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Speaker 1: Tricia d says, my sister's fiance proposed on her birthday

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Speaker 1: last year, and it was great. Okay, so maybe it's fine.

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Speaker 3: Think it just depends on person.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I think a lot of people could view

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Speaker 2: it as like a super dope birthday get because people

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Speaker 2: wanted to get married. That's true.

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Speaker 1: Chilotte Rider says, I would prefer a casual proposal to

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Speaker 1: a public one, but wouldn't want it on my birthday. Okay,

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Speaker 1: fair enough. I think Op knows what kind of lady

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Speaker 1: this is, and maybe she likes birthday.

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Speaker 2: Proposal different strokes for different folks.

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Speaker 1: So she called it the best birthday gift she's ever gotten. See,

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Speaker 1: well that's perfect boom, yeah, Op, he nailed it. Like

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Speaker 1: some people like getting proposed to a Disney Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: She had the same idea as me and had suggested

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Speaker 1: we get married on April twenty ninth, our third anniversary,

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Speaker 1: before I even brought it up, so that's what we're doing.

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Speaker 1: We both agree we don't want anything huge or expensive,

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Speaker 1: pm now, about twenty eight hours since I proposed. When

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Speaker 1: I knew she would be, and my parents were mad.

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Speaker 1: I didn't listen to them. I'm thirty one and don't

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Speaker 1: It would suck if I didn't have any family there.

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Speaker 1: But I also don't want them to spoil this. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be blindsided by any of it. She assured me

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Speaker 1: she loves the ring and thinks my family is wrong.

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Speaker 1: Her family had the exact opposite reaction as mine, and

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Speaker 1: as well. My fiance is currently at work, and it

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Speaker 2: Edit.

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Speaker 1: I also appreciate all the supportive comments in my last post,

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Speaker 1: so thank you for those, and there are some relevant

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Speaker 1: comments edit updates. Do you want to go straight into it, John,

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Speaker 2: Say? Yeah, I was just gonna say, it sucks to

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Speaker 2: sucks worse to have your parents and family ruin your.

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Speaker 1: Wedding tact, dude, and this sister sounds like an absolute

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Speaker 1: brat the fact that she's throwing a tantrum at like

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Speaker 2: Absolutely crazy.

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Speaker 1: Also, if any of you guys want us to do

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Speaker 1: outside podcast at your wedding, let us.

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Speaker 2: Know we have discussed this.

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Speaker 1: We have discussed this the first person that asks I'll

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Speaker 1: do it, first person, you can okay, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: it's just your wedding.

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Speaker 2: I will do it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because if it doesn't like work with the you know,

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Speaker 2: And justess Cassanda's comment, we would love to officiate it.

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Speaker 2: As well, so not just be there, but literally marry you.

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Speaker 2: We're like chat we now chat chat queen. Do you

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Speaker 1: Well comments Opia, what happens to the ring? If he

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Speaker 1: is it written that if your sister's not happy, then

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Speaker 1: nobody else can be either. Your parents spoiled the crap

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Speaker 1: Good on you for your response. Congratulation on the engagement

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Speaker 1: and upcoming marriage. Your family can go suck it. You're

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Speaker 1: But the gist of it is my grandmother loved jewelry

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Speaker 1: In October of twenty twenty two, I asked my mom

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Speaker 1: be upset that I was getting married first, lame big oof.

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Speaker 1: My parents forbid me from proposing. I was thirty one

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Speaker 1: years old when this happened. You're grounded round exactly what?

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Speaker 1: No corn flakes or frosted flakes for you, mister, your

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Speaker 1: cartoon time is spent reduced to five.

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Speaker 2: Minutes a day. But scoop, But scoop.

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Speaker 1: I was thirty one years old when this happened, and

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Speaker 1: and proposed to my wife on her birthday. My parents

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Speaker 1: My wife and I got married six months after I proposed,

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for telling my sister that

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe have a better wedding.

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Speaker 2: Step your game up. Be the sun and cast the shadows.

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Speaker 2: I think this could be a totally fair comment if like,

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Speaker 1: That would be whack. Well, how close is it? We

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Speaker 1: don't know yet, We don't know what's too close? Don't

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Speaker 2: What's too close probably like at bare minimum a week?

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Speaker 2: And you know what, it might not even be about

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Speaker 1: This is a crazy ass It's like asking Usain Bolt

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Speaker 2: Right, Why would you try to tone down? Bro? You're

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Speaker 2: saying make an Indian wedding less lit? Why would you not?

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Speaker 2: What more greatness? Hey? Yeah, hey, hey, Sam, you know

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Speaker 3: Well maybe your partner will be Indian.

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Speaker 1: Let's freaking go white horse. Oh, Indian weddings are so

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I'm not the person I'm going

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Speaker 2: It is pushing it. Did we get one hundred percent chat?

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Speaker 2: Did we get one hundred percent confirmation? Whenever we say chat,

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Speaker 2: I just think brain rot. Yeah, give me guys. We

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Speaker 2: So Fia should marry first.

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Speaker 3: If I'm married for Sam's gonna have to wait a while.

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Speaker 2: Oh true? Why what do you mean?

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Speaker 3: I don't plan to get married until, like, I'm like

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Speaker 1: People get married at fifty, like my ex to her husband,

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Speaker 2: Shout out. We'll get back to this wedding. We have

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Speaker 3: I feel like the sister doesn't want this to happen,

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Speaker 3: because do you want She's worried overshadow, and the mom

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're just it's like picking their different We agree.

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Speaker 1: I'm sensing stinkiness. Yeah, I'm sensing some stinkiness.

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Speaker 2: There might be something big brewing here. Chat. Is this

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Speaker 2: an ICU chat? Chat? Put an ice you If that is,

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Speaker 2: Your wedding should be the way you want it. I

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Speaker 2: my wedding unless I change it to a Christian ceremony. Wow,

438
00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,560
Speaker 2: that's stinky. Wow. The mother is going whack yeah, wack

439
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:56,720
Speaker 2: go that wacko. She's been calling extended family members to

440
00:19:56,840 --> 00:20:01,160
Speaker 2: persuade them to side with Sarah and boycott my wedding

441
00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 2: if I don't comply the heck. Also, three weeks is

442
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 2: like enough time? Or works would be better? What uh?

443
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 2: Sophia just texted in our group chat, Hey, I'm hungry, Riley,

444
00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,639
Speaker 2: could you help me get some food? Riley's reply? Nice,

445
00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 2: eat air?

446
00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:18,199
Speaker 3: Actually I said I need food prelease, perlease.

447
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,520
Speaker 1: I also would like food just in the air. To

448
00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:26,440
Speaker 1: you tell Riley to get Bay Cities? He says, A

449
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 1: good ear, you get Bay Cities?

450
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,680
Speaker 2: Riley? Can they have no veggie air? I don't want

451
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 2: the veggie eat air. They can do it a precy.

452
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 2: Can we get Ba City? Do you want Bay Cities?

453
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 2: I'll do. If you could just heat up my rest

454
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 2: of chicken, eat up that breast, that would be great.

455
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 1: John likes to caress a warm breast.

456
00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,680
Speaker 2: In my mouth of chicken. Good catch all right, guys,

457
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 2: our lunch planes aside, Let's get back to the story here.

458
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 2: So he has been trying to mediate, but the situation

459
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 2: is getting more tense by the day. Sarah and I

460
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 2: have always had a complicated relationship, and while we both

461
00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 2: support each other. There's often been under lying tension due

462
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 2: to our different personalities and choices. Now I'm feeling torn.

463
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to hurt my sister or cause any

464
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 2: family rift, but I also don't want to sacrifice my

465
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 2: dream wedding. Also, I'm not in her bridal party or

466
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 2: any other things but her wedding as I have mine.

467
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 2: So she's not a bridesmaid or the maid of honor

468
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 2: or anything, but she including the sister and hers Based

469
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,680
Speaker 2: on that, I still don't think so yeah, a little

470
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 2: little confusing there. Also, I inherited a lot from my

471
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 2: great grandfather as he was Hindu. He gave it to

472
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 2: me as I was also Hindu. And he also gave

473
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 2: my sister forty percent of what he gave me. Though

474
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 2: no one is helping with the wedding cost.

475
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Speaker 1: Oh so OPI doesn't even need to pander to anyone,

476
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 1: which is.

477
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 2: Great oh yah, because yeah, yeah, there, OPI's paying for herself.

478
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,440
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for telling my sister I

479
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 2: won't change my wedding? There is an edits, but let's

480
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 2: stop real quick. This is OPI the a hole. Opie

481
00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: is not the a hole. If anything, we don't have

482
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,920
Speaker 2: a one hundred percent confirmation on this. If the sister

483
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 2: has not paid for anything yet, wouldn't you be like, hey,

484
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 2: could you move your date and so they won't be

485
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 2: overshadowing each other. Yeah. I don't see what the issue

486
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 2: is even have yours like first or earlier or something.

487
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 2: If if you want to have yours first, hey, great,

488
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 2: maybe that's a way of being like yeah, you could

489
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,639
Speaker 2: be like the opener. Yeah, you know, I don't know.

490
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 2: I'm like it does on the surface, it sounds like

491
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 2: it sucks to be like, hey, move your wedding date,

492
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: but in reality it's like, hey, I booked my stuff

493
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 2: before you. So I don't know. What do you think, Producer.

494
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 4: Riley, I think it's a little BS honestly taught that

495
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 4: talk and op just needs to figure it out, dude,

496
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 4: Opie's sister, Opie's sister needs to figure that out, right, Yeah,

497
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 4: but it sounds like it's almost it's figured out.

498
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: So we did it. Yeah. Basically, the TLDR is OPI

499
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 2: and her sister are both having a wedding three weeks

500
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:42,920
Speaker 2: within each other. Ops is Indian, so you know it's

501
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 2: gonna be lit. Her sisters is gonna be Christian, so

502
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 2: you know it's going to be not as lit.

503
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 4: What what do you mean, dude, wedding Look, oh, I

504
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 4: haven't been to an Indian wedding day.

505
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 2: They are fire. But all that aside, Basically Opie's already

506
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 2: booked all the venues, is paying for everything herself, and

507
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 2: the sister's like, hey, you to move the date and

508
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 2: do all this stuff. It's like, but Opie's already like,

509
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 2: did the planning and execution to pay and book for things.

510
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 2: So it's like, I think the true solution is to

511
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 2: ask the sister to move her date so that way

512
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 2: there's more space, and you could say, hey, like, you know,

513
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 2: do yours first, you know, like have yours, you know,

514
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 2: be the first one that people attend. Which maybe that's

515
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: like a little bit of a give you know what

516
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: I mean. I don't know that's true.

517
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 4: I have a quick, okay storytime about weddings, so I

518
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 4: have on my dad's side, so I didn't Okay, this

519
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 4: is kind of a little longer. I had a grandfather

520
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 4: that died, but he had like three wives, and whenever

521
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 4: he died, it joined another family that my dad didn't

522
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 4: know about, so he basically got a sister. And with

523
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 4: that sister there was Dick's kids, and I grew up

524
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 4: with the kids. But one like from January to June,

525
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 4: three of the siblings got married. They're all girls, and

526
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 4: they moved their house. But like they had back to

527
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 4: back to back weddings and they were all fine with it.

528
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, cause if you did, like if that's six months, right,

529
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: if you just like kind of place them, it's like

530
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 2: every two months there was a wedding. That's cool. I

531
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 2: feel like people have a time they can sounds great,

532
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 2: sounds fun. Yeah.

533
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 4: And two of them were twins and they married twins.

534
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: That's crazy, which means if they were twins marrying twins,

535
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: then their children were a genetically identical but considered cousins.

536
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they do have kids. Now, that's insane. It

537
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 2: is insane. That sounds like a terrible red A story,

538
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 2: but is perfectly sweet and innocent, just like an incredible coincidence,

539
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 2: no incest involved.

540
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: But speaking of no incest, should we talk to our

541
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: fans and do a call in or maybe I should.

542
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 2: Quickly close out the story and then we'll call in

543
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 2: on people. All right, let's do this so edit. A

544
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 2: lot of people have asked who scheduled their wedding first.

545
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 2: That's what we need to know. Thank you.

546
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: That's actually the smoking gun.

547
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 2: This is true, and I have to say it was me.

548
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: That's right. There we go. We pretty much surmise that

549
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 2: when I was proposed to, I asked all my family

550
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 2: when they would be available and chose my wedding date.

551
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 2: That took around three to four weeks. During that time,

552
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 2: my sister and her boyfriend were having fight and weren't talking.

553
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 2: I don't know why, but once he proposed, my sister

554
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 2: asked that we have our wedding on the same day

555
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 2: and same venue. What and I have a Christian wedding

556
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 2: like her? I declined, and she decided to go cry

557
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 2: to our mom, but my dad wouldn't take any of

558
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 2: my mom's bs. She ended up choosing a date three

559
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 2: weeks later. Okay, that is like even more like if

560
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 2: you're like you can't say in the same instance, hey,

561
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:31,360
Speaker 2: you're overshadowing my wedding and literally try your first attempt

562
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 2: is to choose the same date and venue. That makes

563
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: no sense. Maybe she wants to do like like a

564
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 2: double wedding, like a joint wedding, but like you have

565
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 2: to both be really on. Yeah, Like I for a

566
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 2: few years did a joint birthday with a friend that

567
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 2: was born literally one day before me, and it was

568
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 2: great at first, and then it had its time and

569
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 2: it was like, Okay, I'm ready to have my own

570
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 2: birthday again. So like you really have to be like

571
00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 2: about it to do the dual wedding. And also, I

572
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 2: mean that's your day, Like the wedding is your day.

573
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 2: You go from discussing all of the details between two

574
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 2: people to now between four people.

575
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, shy little Ryder says, quote, can I piggyback on

576
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: your wedding?

577
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: But you do it my way? That's basically what the

578
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 2: ask is. Yes, you're infiltrating your trojan horsing to just

579
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 2: completely consume it.

580
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 4: One of the twins, we're trying to get piggyback on

581
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 4: the other ones because they wanted to save money so

582
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 4: that we're gonna have a twin wedding.

583
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, if there is any wedding on planet Earth,

584
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 2: two identical twins getting married, I mean that's like that'll

585
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 2: go viral, and everyone knows the reason people get married

586
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: is to go viral. Bear bear, bear bear, I mean

587
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 2: it would low kevo.

588
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: But you know what, I want to go viral this

589
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: person's call it.

590
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: Let's go. Do we got a callin? Yeah, let's go.

591
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 2: Let's go with dog Mom? Are you there? Can you

592
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: hear us?

593
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 5: Yes, I'm here.

594
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 2: Hello, Welcome to the show. Could you please give us

595
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 2: the quick breakdown of your wedding and family possible disaster

596
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 2: story question mark.

597
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 5: So, my brother's eleven years older than me. He got

598
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 5: married about six or seven years ago, and we didn't

599
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 5: know he was dating anybody, but then we just got

600
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 5: an email one day that he was getting married a

601
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 5: month later in another country about you know, half a

602
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 5: world away. And so my mom and I weren't able

603
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,159
Speaker 5: to make it because it was very short notice and

604
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 5: I was working a really bad job where I wouldn't

605
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 5: have had the income to you know, support myself from

606
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 5: that expensive or you know, like be gone out away

607
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 5: from work for such short notice, my goodness. And so

608
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 5: I wasn't able to make it, and my mom wasn't

609
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 5: able to make it, and I think that caused a

610
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 5: lot of tension in our relationship with my brother and

611
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 5: his wife. But I got married about two years ago,

612
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 5: and I was just rehashing that he didn't want to

613
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 5: move his wedding for us, but he was trying to

614
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 5: get me to move my wedding for him.

615
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: Hypocritical. Calm on, buddy.

616
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: Wait, So with the first when he got married and

617
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: in another country and literally really gave you a month's

618
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: notice to get your affairs in order to attend that wedding,

619
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 1: do you think like he actually wanted you to come.

620
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 5: I don't know if I feel like you wrote it

621
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 5: knowing we weren't going to be able to pull together

622
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 5: like that kind of money and she'll gets upset too.

623
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, was he upset you couldn't make it.

624
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 5: I don't remember the email fully, but I feel like

625
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 5: he sent it basically saying, I know you probably won't

626
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 5: be able to make it, but just so you know,

627
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 5: I'm getting married in a month.

628
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,959
Speaker 2: Ah was a wedding. Make it. I'd love it if

629
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 2: you could make it.

630
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't have very many pictures from it,

631
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 5: and so I only have, like, I only know what

632
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 5: happened from the photos that they have of it. They

633
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 5: didn't like take video or anything. So I think it

634
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 5: was small because you know, it was a month's notice.

635
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 5: But he has a lot of friends that have money,

636
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 5: so many of them were able to make it.

637
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then he can't flip it around on you

638
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: and be like, hey, I know that this is like

639
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: a lot, and but I'm you know, I'm keeping my

640
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 2: wedding the way it is, and then go to you

641
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 2: and be like, hey, what was the request that he

642
00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 2: wanted you to change your wedding.

643
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 5: Him a year and a half's notice. I was like,

644
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,959
Speaker 5: this is the date, here's the general mimetream.

645
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, and and.

646
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 5: He just kept asking like every now and then it's like,

647
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 5: are you sure you can't do it in December January

648
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 5: a year later.

649
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 2: A year ter, That's that's crazy. Okay. So to close

650
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: us out on this episode, should your wedding accommodate your

651
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 2: family members? What do you say, dog Mom?

652
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 5: If it's like an accessibility thing, definitely, If it's a

653
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Speaker 5: comfortability thing, definitely, But if it's a schedule thing where

654
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Speaker 5: you have plenty of notice to like make your adjustments, no.

655
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Speaker 2: If it's comfortability, I think that is a great way

656
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 2: to classify it. Well, thank you so much for hopping

657
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 2: on the show and sharing your story and your insights.

658
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: Thanks dog Mom, but later adios, Well there you go, dude,

659
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: whack whack brother.

660
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Speaker 2: Give me another year, Come on, another year, come on. Especially,

661
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: it was like you only gave her a month. How

662
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: does that even make And just imagine Sophia is like, oh, hey,

663
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 2: here's the wedding you going and being like, oh hey,

664
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Speaker 2: could you even just changing it by like the next

665
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,719
Speaker 2: week or something like that. You're like, no, I am

666
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: going to make this happen. I'm sorry, Like what is

667
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 2: that important? Exactly? What is that important unless like you

668
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 2: have surgery or something planned, like it's life threatening. Yeah, yeah,

669
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 2: there's there's probably something, but it is a very very

670
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: slim list of things. So maybe to officially close us out, Sam,

671
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Speaker 2: do you agree, is there is there any scenario in

672
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: which you should accommodate?

673
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Speaker 1: So, like, I think, in planning a wedding, you want

674
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Speaker 1: the people that you love to be there, and so

675
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Speaker 1: like I think you want to try to accommodate those

676
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Speaker 1: people to be there as much as possible. At the

677
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: end of the day, though, it's your wedding, and so

678
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: it's just about what sacrifices you want to make so

679
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: people can attend. And so sometimes the sacrifice is worth

680
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Speaker 1: it because you want someone to attend that can't make

681
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: it in a certain day and sometimes it's not.

682
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Speaker 2: And to be honest, I really love Dogmalm's qualifier of

683
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Speaker 2: Is it about around comfortability, like oh I would prefer

684
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 2: you do this day, or like oh I would have

685
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: to move something. No, if it's about about like something

686
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 2: like mandatory that they would have like accessibility, Oh, in

687
00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 2: order for me to come, can there be x y

688
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 2: Z that it's a completely different conversation. But ladies and gentlemen,

689
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 2: I think that's the last story. Yeah, so I want

690
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 2: to know what you guys think of the comments. Let

691
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 2: us know.

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Speaker 1: Would you change your wedding for anyone? Please put in

693
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: the comments below. But if you love us, make sure

694
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: to subscribe. We love you and see you tomorrow. This

695
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: is an episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time for

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Speaker 1: okop rework.

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Speaker 2: Thanks. I hate milk. Oh god, what is this going

698
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 2: to be? Mommy wants some milk? Oh, tomboy tomboy milk.

699
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Speaker 1: Looking I understand tomboy milk Like that image like those

700
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Speaker 1: are some milkers?

701
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Speaker 2: Oh those are mommy milkers? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, not so much.

702
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: On the other side, where's the milk? Yeah? Where? Where?

703
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: Like I see the cow bra but where is the

704
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: milk coming out of? What do you think you got

705
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: your period? But it's just this what is that representing

706
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 1: the guys right now? We have no idea what that

707
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: is the juices? Maybe that's just the coushy juice. Well,

708
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: we actually have an answer in the comments. This type

709
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: of discharge generally occurs when you're opulating. Oh never done

710
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: that so interesting? Really you should try it. I should

711
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: try it. Yeah, thanks, I hate the magic hat. All

712
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: we have to do now is put the magic on.

713
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: Hello children? Oh my god, that booty coach crazy? What's

714
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: going on in the front?

715
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Speaker 2: Is that schlog going all the way down the lake? Brother,

716
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 2: Look they're traumatized. That's straight PTSD going on over there.

717
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 2: Capital D. And that my wife is a teacher and

718
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 2: just received this gift from a young student who is

719
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 2: still learning English. I'm still learning. Still classic. That is

720
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 2: a way to slot that. When the candle is lit,

721
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Speaker 2: give me the.

722
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Speaker 1: Ay, good teacher, You don't give your students a's okay?

723
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Speaker 1: College college college, Yeah we're talking about college. It's still problematic.

724
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Speaker 1: But yeah, thanks, I hate dildo dipping. When do you

725
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: think your job is shiit? Just remember you could be

726
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: Deborah the dildo dipper.

727
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Speaker 2: Bro, that is massive. My goodness, that is as large

728
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 2: as my forearm for sure. And penis. Yes, oh yes, dude,

729
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 2: what a job. Oh it's for the it's for the head.

730
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: The tip. Yeah, I didn't even have that realism in there.

731
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Speaker 2: I mean someone has to do it. Yeah. Delta passenger

732
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 2: puts down mattress and goes to sleep at the gate.

733
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Speaker 5: Bro.

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Speaker 2: Oh stop it. This is increable as heck. This is

735
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Speaker 2: this is how a pro does it. We're out here

736
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Speaker 2: with our bitch ass nech pillows, which I hate, by

737
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 2: the way, they don't do anything for me. This is

738
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 2: a triple decker attress. That's a thick mattress. To imagine

739
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 2: they just whipped this out and just start inflating out

740
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 2: on the flight. I paid for this. I'm putting this

741
00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 2: in the aisle. The thunder mascot terrified the Blazer's court

742
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: side reporter.

743
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Speaker 1: I'm surprised she didn't go full like stabbing with the Americana.

744
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: That microphone looks like a weapon. She gave him like

745
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: a little little love tap. No, no, we need we

746
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:17,760
Speaker 1: need fully sockets stabbing going on. This is my Christmas

747
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: present from my boss. I'm a forty one year old man,

748
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Speaker 1: and neither my first nor last names start with tea.

749
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Speaker 1: But maybe a cup for tea. That's what he's clearly missing.

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Speaker 2: You have your coffee cup, and then you have your

751
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 2: tea cup. Have you heard of England? Stupid? The whole

752
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 2: nation of England literally drink tea all day, not even

753
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: a day after our dog had a mass removal. I

754
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 2: ended up having a emergency appendasectomy. Wife is taking care

755
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: of both of us. Damn bro that is Rough has

756
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,240
Speaker 2: the cone of shame. Why does he have a cone

757
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 2: because solidarity with the pupp I mean, that's that is solidarity.

758
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 2: So I guess to lick his balls too much. Thanks.

759
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Speaker 2: I hate Chinese clothing, nuke a Rough. Just it's the

760
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 2: exact inverse of like all of the white people that

761
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 2: have like Chinese tattoos that they got like drunk on Saturday.

762
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:10,439
Speaker 2: It's like punchy chicken or something. Yeah. Thanks. I hate

763
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 2: bird watching. I love bird watching, oh man, watch these

764
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 2: birds all day. Come over to my mess. You can

765
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Speaker 2: you can lay an egg on meat, baby. I want

766
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,399
Speaker 2: to see you lay that egg, spread those cheeks, lay

767
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 2: that egg. Using your cat to put down an underground cable. Bro,

768
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Speaker 2: that is genius. Also, they're pretty that cat to work.

769
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Speaker 2: I have a cat. Most cats don't ship. They do

770
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Speaker 2: not earn their keep, bro. No, this one's earning its

771
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Speaker 2: key a legitimate, useful asset. Kid perfectly imitating the sound

772
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Speaker 2: of a lawnmower. That is so good. Wow, But look up,

773
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Speaker 2: he's a pro.

774
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: He is a a complete child prodigy of making law Moses.

775
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 2: The sky's the limit for this. If he started making

776
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:16,439
Speaker 2: a TikTok, he get absolute kid, got corn kid Kid.

777
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 2: This is the patch on my mom's gun bag. She's

778
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,720
Speaker 2: quiet sixty two and shoots every weekend and fucking lethal.

779
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 2: Brama is pulling out that. You know, you know what

780
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 2: the sound of music to mama is. Bro. So if

781
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 2: I'm just like walking by, my eyes are brushing past

782
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: that and I'm not thinking, I'm thinking it's a fanny pack.

783
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 2: That's so cool. Thanks.

784
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: I hate ethically sourced alligator tongue and human child spine bags.

785
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: Shell made of one hundred percent alligator tongue and handle

786
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: made of an entire child's spine who had osteoporosis. All

787
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: materials are ethically sourced, ethnically sourced.

788
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 2: This is why I don't like the crazy fashion. They

789
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 2: just keep trying to up the ante. And and you

790
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,720
Speaker 2: give me the child spine and the next child spine.

791
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: How do you ethically source a child spine?

792
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: You wait for them to die, and then they donated

793
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: to science, and little do they know science is the

794
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: science of fashion, not either.

795
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 2: And looking fucking fretch, You're no one's looking fresh with this. Thanks.

796
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 1: I hate how many crabs are just below your toes

797
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: in the sand waiting.

798
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, cabs. That's terrifying, although maybe that's like

799
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 2: low key away to get dinner. True crab is a

800
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 2: lobster is like forty dollars a pound due expensive. This

801
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 2: is free eat from the ocean. Fam.

802
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: Thanks. I hate cow boogers. Oh no, I god, don't

803
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: pick it.

804
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 5: No?

805
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: Oh stop? Oh that is so good. It looks like

806
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 2: a clam. He's got a syringe. That's way better though,

807
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 2: literally a rope. Oh god, look at that. Oh god,

808
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 2: you know they're doing the other the other nostrils. Stop it.

809
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that literally looks like cheese. Oh you

810
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 2: want to eat it? Bro, don't even know if you

811
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 2: want me to vomit on your shoes right now, but yo,

812
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 2: Imagine how good the cow feels after. Imagine having a

813
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 2: freaking pizza cheese up your nostril. That's literally what that

814
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 2: is ten inches a piece of cheese. Bro. My mother

815
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,919
Speaker 2: washes her dishes by hand because the dishwasher is used

816
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 2: for other things. Hey, you gotta have that storage space.

817
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,399
Speaker 2: This is Sam's house, guys. Like literally, Also, okay, I'm

818
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 2: sorry I have to comment, Like, what are these groceries?

819
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 2: So we have like a bunch of corn chips? Yeah, biscoffs.

820
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 2: I'm guessing this is the UK hazel nut bars. Yeah,

821
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 2: this is not us food for sure. I don't know.

822
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 2: I'm thrown off by these groceries here.

823
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: And you know what else, you should never be thrown

824
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: off by what It's a new format when your boys

825
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: are testing shit out. So yes, if you like this,

826
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,879
Speaker 1: this is completely new for us. We don't know if

827
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: it'll do well, but like, just let us know what

828
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: you liked and what you didn't like. We're always trying

829
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: to improve. We're gonna do a cool content overhaul. And three,

830
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: the Okop gang is is running strong and growing growing

831
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: every day.

832
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 2: So love of her heart, Okayop, my girlfriend lied to

833
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 2: me big time while I was buying her engagement ring. No,

834
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 2: they were about to be in love. They're about the

835
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: prop a pizza bye is a on the day of

836
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 2: my daughter's wedding. Grandfather coming to me at the day

837
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,959
Speaker 2: of my daughter's wet I can't really do the voice,

838
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 2: but it's like it's like, you come to me at

839
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 2: the day of my daughter Opie says I. Twenty eight male,

840
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 2: am planning to propose to my girlfriend of three years,

841
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 2: twenty six female. Now I suck at picking out jewelry.

842
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 2: I'm the type of guy who doesn't see a problem

843
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 2: with heart shaped jewelry. Seriously, why is it so ugly?

844
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 2: It just is It's just tacky heart shaped jewelry.

845
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 5: You know.

846
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: I actually learned this from the Office where there's this

847
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: like scene where like so I think Pam is commenting

848
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 1: on heart shaped jewelry, and it is like it is like, yeah,

849
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 1: only men buy heart shaped jewelry for women or something,

850
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 1: right and that, and like it's not you know this,

851
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: this is not even a great story. But basically, don't

852
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: buy heart shaped jewelry. It's a tacky damn believe believe

853
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 1: in your stories. Before man, I lost Steve halfway there.

854
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 1: That's okay, because I couldn't quite remember it, and it's

855
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: just you know, it fell apart.

856
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 2: Can't hit one hundred percent? You know we got ninety eight.

857
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 2: Damn well, try ninety eight. That's still pretty good. So

858
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 2: every time that I went to go buy some jewelry

859
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 2: for my girl, I would usually consult one of our

860
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 2: mutual friends. And my girl's best friends are all friends

861
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 2: with me and we all get along well, so asking

862
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 2: them for help picking out jewelry is something that I'm

863
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 2: used to. But when it came time to pick a ring,

864
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 2: I consulted my girlfriend's best friend, Justine Faken. Justine and

865
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 2: I are quite close and she knows my girlfriend better

866
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 2: than anyone, including me. So when my girlfriend went out

867
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Speaker 2: to visit her sister and her baby nephew, I invited

868
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Speaker 2: you Justine over to the house to help pick out

869
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Speaker 2: a ring.

870
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Speaker 1: That's pretty cool like that Justine's helping out. And also

871
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: that the husband knows himself well enough. Yeah, the husband

872
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: to be knows himself well enough that he could ask

873
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: for help, especially in this department.

874
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally, so far, all positive.

875
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, this seems like only to It seems like it's

876
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:22,919
Speaker 1: only going to end in a happy ending.

877
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 2: Well, we'll see Justinea and I looked through a few

878
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 2: ring categories, but we decided it was a dead end

879
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,839
Speaker 2: and it would just be better to go to professionals

880
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 2: at a jewelry store. However, I didn't know when my

881
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,720
Speaker 2: girlfriend would be coming home. She's out seeing her nephew,

882
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 2: so Justin and I thought it would be clever to

883
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 2: text engage how much time we had. I asked her

884
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 2: when she'd be coming home because I was ordering takeout

885
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 2: and wanted to know when to tell them to have

886
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 2: the food ready by She responded by saying it would

887
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 2: be a few hours and that she had met up

888
00:41:55,360 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 2: with Justine to go shopping, the same Justine that our

889
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 2: protagonist is with right now. Wait what so what is

890
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 2: going on? Dude? That is a big lie happening and

891
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: I want to know why now. Obviously this took me

892
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 2: by surprise, since Justine was right next to me. I

893
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 2: showed Justine the text, and she looked as confused as

894
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: I was. Why what was happening here?

895
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 5: It is?

896
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:28,359
Speaker 2: How bag? This is so confusing? Why is she lying? Now?

897
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: It wasn't out of the ordinary for my girlfriend to

898
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 2: meet up with people out of the blue, like that

899
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: for shopping or lunch or whatever. She's a very spontaneous

900
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 2: person and loves making plans on the fly, so ordinarily

901
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 2: I would have just believed this text and a heartbeat. However,

902
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 2: obviously this was a lie. When she came home, she

903
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 2: acted completely normal and I played along. But it's been

904
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 2: really really hard to act like everything's fine. We got

905
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 2: takeout eight together, cuddled on the couch. So far, she's

906
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 2: caught on a little bit that something is upsetting me,

907
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 2: but I just can't tell her what. Looking at her

908
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 2: kills I don't know what to do. My girlfriend and

909
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: I have zero trust issues. We tell each other everything,

910
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 2: so this lie is killing me. I want to ask

911
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 2: her about it so bad, but if I tell her

912
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: she was lying, I'd have to explain why that I

913
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 2: was going to get the ring and I don't really

914
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: want to do that. What do I do? I know

915
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 2: she lied to me, but I don't know how to

916
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 2: confront her. Should I forget it? So I wanted to

917
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:35,320
Speaker 2: leave it, but I didn't. So here is what I

918
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 2: did next. Oh wait, there's more, yes, now, So the

919
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 2: next part is an update. This is a second right

920
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 2: WHOA so like? I guess? Intermission what would you do?

921
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 2: What would I do? Yeah, you have to ask her.

922
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 2: You have to say, here's what I was doing. I

923
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:50,839
Speaker 2: was buying the You have to say the whole thing.

924
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 2: Do you have to say that you were buying the ring?

925
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 2: I couldn't you say, like, hey, oh yeah, I guess

926
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: you could.

927
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,240
Speaker 1: I guess you just say I was actually with Justine

928
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 1: planning to buy it, you know, present for you.

929
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 2: So Op says, this just wouldn't stop gnawing at me.

930
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 2: So I finally decided to confront my girlfriend. I thought

931
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 2: about using some of the lies that people on Reddit suggested,

932
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 2: but they just didn't make sense to say I ran

933
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 2: into Justine somewhere. Well, I told my girl I had

934
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 2: to stay home and I had stuff to do around

935
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 2: the house. So that's why I couldn't go out with

936
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: her to see my sister in law. To say Justine

937
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 2: helped me pick out jewelry, all this stuff. It just

938
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 2: didn't make sense for her to come all the way

939
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 2: to the house pick out a piece of jewelry unless

940
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: it was a serious piece of jewelry, like an engagement ring.

941
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: So basically, yeah, made no sense. Yeah right, None of

942
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 2: the excuses made sense. So I decided to be honest.

943
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 2: I basically just said that I know that we'd been

944
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 2: thinking about marriage, and said she probably knew a proposal

945
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 2: was coming based on our prior conversations. So I invited

946
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 2: Justine over to help me find the perfect ring. And

947
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 2: that also happened to be the day that she was

948
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 2: going to see her. So what was the deal? What

949
00:44:59,680 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 2: was going on?

950
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 1: Okay, so basically he confronts her about the lie.

951
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 2: He does. He decides to confront her about the lie exactly.

952
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 2: She immediately started grinning like an idiot and prodding me

953
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 2: about the proposal ring. But then we got back into

954
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 2: the topic where she confessed what she was really doing.

955
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: What is she doing? No, she wasn't cheating, and no

956
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 2: she wasn't picking out a ring for me. The amount

957
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 2: of times people suggested that on Reddit was crazy, So

958
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 2: I honestly that's what I was thinking. It's like, oh,

959
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 2: it's a little freaking Friday situation. Then picking out rings

960
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 2: for each other?

961
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 3: How cute.

962
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 2: So here's the deal. Some people are dog people, some

963
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 2: people are cat people. Well, me, I'm a snake person.

964
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 2: I grew up with snakes my whole life, but I

965
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 2: never felt I was able to get one because my

966
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 2: girlfriend has always been uneasy about living with a snake,

967
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 2: which I honestly completely respected. Also, the prospect of buying

968
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 2: and raising a snake is very different than that of

969
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 2: buying and raising a cat or dog. It's actually quite complicated.

970
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 2: So you could imagine the surprise when my girlfriend showed

971
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 2: me a picture holding the cutest Kenyan sand boa I

972
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 2: have ever seen. Needless to say, I know, dude, this

973
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 2: is the funniest twist ever. I was, Oh my god,

974
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 2: it's a snake. Beg like, tell me that was the

975
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 2: furthest thing from your mind.

976
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Speaker 4: Dude.

977
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Speaker 1: I literally had no idea that I was going to

978
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 1: turn snakes. Yeah, I had no idea, but you never

979
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: You never do. You never realize that there's snakes on

980
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: the plane until you see you start seeing snakes in

981
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 1: the plane totally. You know. You never know there's snakes

982
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 1: in your relationship before you actually see a snake.

983
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 2: There's a snake. Needless to say, my girlfriend was going

984
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 2: to surprise me with a snake. We're picking up the

985
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 2: snake next week. Let me know if you want some

986
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 2: pet pics. She is so cute. I definitely did not

987
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 2: expect this at all. And I feel bad for winning

988
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 2: the surprise, but oh well, life is good and sorry

989
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 2: if this wasn't an ending that you expected, just a snake.

990
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 2: This is amazing, Like this is so wholesome, right, like

991
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 2: the first story that's ended just just like ah, the

992
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 2: most wholesome, wholesome life. So we ended up with like

993
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 2: a beauty Like Okay, they're both like madly in love.

994
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 2: They want to get married, and she has decided to

995
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,439
Speaker 2: like overcome her fear and give him this one. Yeah,

996
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 2: they're even more madly in love. Yeah when they were

997
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: than when they started. Oh my god, that's so cute.

998
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 2: They're meant to be together. That's right, so cute. So

999
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 2: there you go, there you go. There you have it. Guys. Also,

1000
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 2: if you haven't already, you gotta do it. I mean, guys,

1001
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 2: if you make it this far in an episode, why

1002
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 2: would why would you not come on to the to

1003
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 2: the last people that are here. Our day ones are

1004
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 2: are our beautiful Boa Constrictors. You gotta you gotta, you

1005
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,399
Speaker 2: gotta keep on us and keep subscribing anyone, anyone who

1006
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 2: is before a thousand subs you facts on YouTube. Dude,

1007
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 2: you are a day a day one one thousand and one.

1008
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 2: You're not day that you want to anymore, not day one,

1009
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 2: So hop on the train, make sure day one. Let's

1010
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 2: get it, let's get it.