1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,039 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 3 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 3: Scrub dab dab from our airbnb in Palm Spring. 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 2: That's right, Tanya and I are fresh, freshly woken from 5 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: a slumber in our shared room. 6 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 3: Yes, aren't you happy we did that? It was a 7 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 3: good time. We were up late one thirty six am. 8 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 3: I had to tell you. I was like, we've got 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 3: to go out of bed. You're just chit chatting. 10 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: You were chit chatting. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 3: I know, I know. 12 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: But we do have a guest today, and we're very excited. 13 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: We love love this family, Love this family. I love 14 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 2: this sister. She's one of my faves. She's one of 15 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 2: our faves. She's a social media influencer, she's a mommy blogger. 16 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 3: She has her own podcast. 17 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: Yes, it's called Barely Filtered And can everybody please give 18 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: a warm welcome to our guest, oh. 19 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: Ora Kopa WHOA. I'm excited. I think my volume is 20 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 3: high on this Oh was it my helm? 21 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: Yeah? 22 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 3: So sorry, welcome back, Aurora. 23 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 4: I know I feel like I've been I've been on 24 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 4: this podcast at least once before. Maybe I just felt 25 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 4: like it was more than once. 26 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: No, it was more than once because you come around, 27 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: You've come on with your sisters, so we had like 28 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: the three of you, and then we've had you solo. 29 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: So you're really like, this is your third time a veteran. 30 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you guys are still going, like I'm on, 31 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 4: I'm on year two of my podcast and like, I 32 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 4: don't know, it's tough to keep going with these things. Evidently, 33 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 4: I don't know, You're like, what is. 34 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 3: There to talk about? Although I feel like you have 35 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 3: no shortage of things to talk about in your life. 36 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 4: Oh, I never, I definitely don't. But also like Grey's 37 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 4: Anatomy is like almost vintage now, right. 38 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in, Yeah, we've really taken a departure. So like 39 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: seven years ago when we started this here journey, that's 40 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: what we scrubbing in was about. We talked about Grays 41 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: a lot, and I feel like over the years it's 42 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: kind of, uh dwindled. 43 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 3: A little bit. I would say, we don't talk about 44 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 3: it ever. 45 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: We really don't talk about it ever. So now scrubbing 46 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:26,119 Speaker 1: in really. 47 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 4: Just means I don't think though. 48 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in just means you're like part of the sisterhood. 49 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I got it. You're like tuning in or trip 50 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 4: or okay, like an initiation. Yeah, I mean I dig it. 51 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, No, I mean you know have names 52 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 3: like barely filtered. 53 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:49,119 Speaker 4: Yeah know, of course, and it's so you know, it's 54 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 4: there's nothing nothing filtered out there. There's like twenty five 55 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 4: million podcasts named something filtered or unfiltered. 56 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 3: Wait. 57 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 2: I have a question about because basically you're pod cast. 58 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: You you just you share, and do you ever share things? 59 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 2: And then you go, I don't know if I want 60 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 2: that in there? 61 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: Can we take that out? Or is your mindset like 62 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 3: it's out there? Release it. 63 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 4: I think that's one of my strengths with podcasting is 64 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 4: that I actually don't re listen to the episodes that 65 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 4: I record, and I don't ever have edits, so that's 66 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 4: just like it just what I say goes. And there's 67 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 4: certain guests Sophia Culpo, who like every time we have 68 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 4: her on, we're like, oh do we want to have 69 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 4: her on again? Because she has so many edits, And 70 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm like, who cares, like just say it? 71 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 4: But yeah, for sure, I have like I think yes, 72 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't even think that that's exclusive to 73 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 4: my podcast. I think even in my dating life, in 74 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 4: my personal life, I say and do things like in 75 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 4: with my immediate re it's my immediate I act. Then 76 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 4: I think that could be in trouble all the time. 77 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 4: But that's like a very Fry's quality, and it's great 78 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 4: in some ways, because some things you do just need 79 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: to jump into and just say the thing that you're feeling. 80 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 4: But I often feel like, oh I probably could have 81 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,039 Speaker 4: like thought about that for a sec or you know, 82 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 4: or like some days you don't feel you know, when 83 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 4: you put up a story and then it's like I'll 84 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 4: have to live with this for twenty four hours if 85 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 4: you're not in the mood anymore. 86 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I just deleted though. 87 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 3: Oh really, I've actually never had that thought. 88 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 4: I did. 89 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm an editor. 90 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 4: People are still responding to it, and you're like, that 91 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 4: was so like, yeah, me yesterday, I'm a different person, 92 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 4: you know. 93 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 3: My actually, my opinion on this. 94 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 2: Has shifted a bit, and I don't know if I 95 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 2: stand with who I was yesterday exactly. 96 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 4: I don't even know who she was. 97 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 3: That was a different me. We've moved on. 98 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, they should maybe cut those down to twelve hours 99 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 2: just for people who might want to redo it. 100 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: I wish they last longer, if I'm being honest, but 101 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: put on my own. 102 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 4: Choice. 103 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:11,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, you brought up something that we wanted to get into, 104 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: which is your dating life. 105 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: I mean I have so First of all, I have 106 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 1: so many questions for you. I don't know where to start. 107 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: I will start with your sister's wedding because you were 108 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,239 Speaker 1: you were made like you were, You and your sisters 109 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 1: were just the maids of honor. 110 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 4: Right, Yes, that's what I did for my wedding too. 111 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 4: We just like it's easier then you don't have a 112 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 4: bridal party and you just have your sisters, sos Me 113 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 4: and Sophie. 114 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: Okay, so Becca is gonna is the same role. 115 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 3: In my wedding. 116 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: And I saw I saw you post something about your 117 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: speech at Olivia's wedding, and I wanted to I wanted 118 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: you to share the story. Is maybe a warning or 119 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: maybe give Becca? 120 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 3: Yeah some tips? Some tips? 121 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? No, but I know that Becca will not do 122 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 4: what I did, which was like I really overshot my 123 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 4: ability to wing it. And I I mean, honestly, there 124 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 4: was a lot going on during that month where I 125 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 4: could come up with so many excuses, but started dating 126 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 4: somebody and I was in Rhode Island. I was with 127 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 4: my kids, and you know, you're just like, I'm gonna 128 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 4: write speech tomorro'm and then you're just like, you know what, 129 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 4: I don't want to. I think I got really confident 130 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 4: and I was like, it's gonna be better if it's 131 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:31,239 Speaker 4: off the cuff. What ended up happening was Christian's brother 132 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 4: was the what do they call it? Best man, and 133 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 4: of course his speech was like it was like a 134 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 4: professionally written speech, and then ours came right after it, 135 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 4: and so Sophie went and hers was like very generic, 136 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 4: like oh, I have such big shoes to fill. 137 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 2: You're such a good big sister, you know, like not 138 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 2: remarkable or anything. And the speech ended up being just 139 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 2: it was my ADHD was on fire and I was 140 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 2: in all different directions and I thought it was going 141 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 2: to come together, and then it didn't come together, and 142 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 2: I made a joke about her. 143 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 4: Having ugly duckling syndrome. Was was supposed to be really nice. 144 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 2: This is interesting because I also I didn't wing it. 145 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: At Ali's wedding, my other friend who I was her 146 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 2: maid of honor, I didn't I wouldn't say I wing 147 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 2: I winged. 148 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 3: It, wong it. I know that was waned waned it, 149 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 3: but I had it written down. 150 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 2: But when I read, like, if I have to read 151 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 2: something and keep track of the line that. 152 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: I'm reading the sentiment, well no, I get nervous about that. 153 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 2: So I'm better if I'm just like more, I have 154 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 2: freedom to wing it. 155 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 3: But I too felt. 156 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: Like I went before the best man and it was 157 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 2: like sweet, like people, you know, I got some tears 158 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 2: and stuff, but the best man gave the most epic 159 00:07:58,680 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: speech I. 160 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 3: Have ever heard my life. 161 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 2: I was like, that felt like it was written by 162 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: chat chat GBT, like it. 163 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 3: Was, oh, that's so perfect? Is that? Though? When I 164 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: came around, he came around full circle. 165 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: It was stunning, and I was like, thank god I 166 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: went before him. 167 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 4: Seriously, yeah, I mean it. I think that also made 168 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 4: me nervous that I had to follow his and yeah 169 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 4: it was just his was like so and he was 170 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 4: practicing for people the whole weekend leading up, and I 171 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 4: was just like, whatever, I don't need to practice. 172 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: You know What's interesting, though, I do feel like asking 173 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: people to give a speech at your wedding is like 174 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: is a lot because I feel like you can't really 175 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 1: enjoy yourself until you give it, like you're always thinking 176 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: about it. And I'm like, I want to minimize the 177 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: amount of speeches as as much as possible because I 178 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: don't want to put that on people. 179 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 3: I want them just to like have fun. Yeah it 180 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: is pretty stressful, Yeah it is. 181 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 4: That's true. And actually I went to a wedding last year, 182 00:08:55,720 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 4: and some people are terrified of public speaking. Like this guy. 183 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 4: It was uncomfortable for everyone in the room to watch 184 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 4: him speak because he was like circling like a shark 185 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 4: and he could like he was panic, and we were like, 186 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 4: this poor guy, who, like, can we just give him 187 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 4: like a pass? It was it was the groom's brother, 188 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 4: but still I think he should not have been asked. 189 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 190 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I really have to, like I 191 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: think I have to really trim the list down. 192 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, or you're like, are you comfortable giving a speech? Right, 193 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 2: and then let that person make a decision yeah. 194 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: Because I also do not make them feel bad if 195 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: they want to say no, yeah. 196 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 197 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 4: The thing I think it was really disappointing was that, 198 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 4: like I write speeches for other people all the time, 199 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 4: and that's the kind of my shtick where like I'm 200 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 4: a good writer and people ask me to write stuff 201 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 4: for them, and like I think she just I think 202 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 4: the they thought it was going to be really good. 203 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 4: It just wasn't. But I did end with this poem 204 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 4: that was so beautiful, but I think it like still 205 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 4: And then when I sat down, my mom was like 206 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 4: it was too long. I'm like, okay, and that's like 207 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 4: the worst insult because like you're not supposed to make 208 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 4: make it feel I don't think there's anything worse than 209 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 4: like a two long speech. 210 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's about yourself deep with that. 211 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 212 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: So not only was, but it was long, long and. 213 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 3: Bad, bad and chaotic. 214 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 2: How did you there was so much press around Olivia 215 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 2: and Christian's wedding? How did there were so many opinions, 216 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: which I found shocking. I was like, this is so 217 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 2: crazy because in my mind, the Colpo sisters can do 218 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 2: no wrong. So I was like, oh, this is crazy. 219 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 2: I just never expected it. How did was it just 220 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 2: kind of like ignore and move on? Or how was 221 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 2: that for you as as a sister? 222 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 3: Obviously? 223 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 4: Well, I was like in my you know, wallowing in 224 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 4: my like in my wedding speech drama because I was 225 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 4: like so mad at myself during that that, but Olivia 226 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 4: was really upset by the reaction. Olivia Olivia doesn't care 227 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 4: about like external opinions, but she really did care about 228 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 4: her web and she wanted it to be beautiful. It 229 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 4: hurt her feeling. Yeah, people were, like they were because 230 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 4: it was not at all what she meant, and like 231 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 4: they kind of took her words and twisted it and 232 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 4: they basically what she said was that her wedding, she 233 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 4: wanted her wedding dress to be very traditional and like 234 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 4: not have any sex appeal really, which I think there's 235 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 4: this whole like anti selut shaming culture that kind of 236 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 4: jumped in and they were like, well, what's wrong with sexy? 237 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 4: And she's liked nothing, Like that's not what I meant. 238 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 4: But yeah, people were. I think that same weekend too, 239 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 4: there was another woman who got married and her dress 240 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 4: was very risque. It was who was it? It was 241 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 4: like somebody famous' daughter. I don't know, I forget and 242 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 4: like so there was a side by side of the 243 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 4: two of them. 244 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 3: Oh wow, that in my algorithm, I missed that wedding. 245 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 4: I know now I'm trying to think it was the redhead, 246 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 4: Like she's like, who's the who's the actress that was 247 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 4: in Stepmom? 248 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 3: Oh, Susan Sarandon. 249 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, Susan Trandon's daughter got married that weekend and she's 250 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 4: got these big boobs and she wore a dress that 251 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 4: was like like her Like. There was a lot of 252 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 4: comments about that, but they were nicer to her a 253 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 4: than any whork to Olivia, who had like you know, 254 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 4: the crew now showing nothing. So it's just you can't 255 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 4: make you can't win. 256 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, you never can't, you really really can. 257 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 2: I also think it's like a wedding is so personal 258 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 2: and I we were talking about this yesterday because Tanya 259 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 2: tried on dresses and we were we were talking about 260 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 2: all the wedding like opinions that people have, and we 261 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 2: were saying, like, it's such a personal thing, like the 262 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 2: dress you choose and what you choose, And it's obviously 263 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 2: like when you have something public people, you're opening yourself 264 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 2: up to criticism, regardless of where it's coming from or 265 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 2: who it's coming from, like when you're a public figure. 266 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 3: But it was an interesting. 267 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: Circus of Yeah, it was very unexpected to me, Like 268 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 1: I was just really like shocked by all of it, honestly, 269 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: because I'm like it was all perfection. 270 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, honestly it is. I think there is 271 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 4: something too also, just to you kind of have like 272 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 4: the post wedding blues because you're you're so long, and 273 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 4: the thing is, it's like you want to look the 274 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 4: most beautiful you've ever looked on your wedding day. It 275 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 4: just like I don't know somebody who's ever like, oh, 276 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,839 Speaker 4: I looked the best I ever looked at my wedding day. 277 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 4: Like I look at my wedding photos and I'm like, 278 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 4: oh no, Like the botox was off, the hair was fine. 279 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 4: I was in Mexico, but I had like a wavy look, 280 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 4: so it just looked like a shaggy dog hair. And 281 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 4: it's just I don't know, like it's so so much 282 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 4: pressure for one day. I know, I think the bride 283 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 4: is off and the one who has the least amount 284 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 4: of fun because it's just too much pressure. So don't 285 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:46,559 Speaker 4: do any of that. 286 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 2: Tanya getting married potentially in Mexico, listening. 287 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 4: To really do a wavy look unless you use like 288 00:13:54,320 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 4: a really good product, it's so human, Okay, make sure 289 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 4: you get really good hairspray. 290 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 3: Just bitten vacin, not knowing the dagger she shooting, like, 291 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 3: I'm not going to sleep tonight, thank you so much, 292 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 3: passing on her speech trauma. 293 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 4: Yours is going to be beautiful. I feel like you've 294 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 4: really been planning every detail since you were like out 295 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 4: of the womb, So I'm sure it's going to be perfect. 296 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: So it's funny you say that because she has I haven't, 297 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: and so I think that's the problem. Is like, yeah, no, 298 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: I was always so fixated on like the person that 299 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: I was going to marry, not like the wedding and 300 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: what it would look like, and so it's like I 301 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: finally got him, and now I'm like, what do I 302 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: do now? 303 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? Well, I mean I just I feel like it's 304 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 4: just too much pressure to think that everything is going 305 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 4: to be perfect. You just, I think more than anything, 306 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 4: you need to set it up so that you feel 307 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 4: the most comfortable. So however, you usually like feel comfortable 308 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 4: wearing your hair, like try anything new, right, right? 309 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, But I think you're so right. I think that 310 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 1: there is this like crazy pressure. Everybody says like the 311 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 1: biggest day of your life and like all this stuff, 312 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like I'm trying to have the opposite conversation 313 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: with myself where I'm just like the biggest decision of 314 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: my life was to decide that he is my life partner. 315 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: But like the wedding is just a celebration of that, 316 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: and it's just like I'm trying to treat it like 317 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: another party, you know what I mean, like a party 318 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: celebration of our love, so that I'm not like so 319 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 1: hyper fixated on everything, because I think that's going to 320 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: like make me a little yeah, yeah, me. 321 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 3: Too much, too much for your Yeah. 322 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, there was something kind of cool about the no 323 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 4: phone rule at Olivia's wedding too, because you kind of 324 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 4: have like version control of the content too. 325 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 3: Would you ever get married again? 326 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 4: Yes, I definitely want to. I'm really not worried about 327 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 4: like am I gonna find somebody? Am I gonna be 328 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 4: able to? I think what I'm experiencing a lot of 329 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 4: that I wasn't expecting was like people being like, oh, 330 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 4: kind of pitying. I feel like I've been meeting some 331 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 4: really cool people some really not cool people too, Like 332 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 4: you know, there's like there's there's just so many offs. 333 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 4: There really are a lot of efficiency. 334 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think. 335 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 4: Most importantly, like me fine tuning what it is that 336 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 4: I want more than anything in the dating life. I've 337 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 4: just been learning that there's that maybe I didn't really 338 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 4: know what I wanted, you know, That's that's what that's 339 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 4: the biggest work, like what what do I want? And 340 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 4: being and like not being afraid to say no, Like 341 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 4: that's not it for me. 342 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you dated someone that was in 343 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: the public eye that we saw a lot. 344 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 3: I feel like that. Yeah, I didn't know. 345 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: Oh you didn't know that he was in the public eye. 346 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 4: No, I had no, I did not know that. Well, 347 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 4: so he's not famous, but his friend right is quite famous, Yeah, 348 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 4: so or his ex fiance. So I didn't realize that 349 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 4: by association he was of interest to the press, which 350 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:23,679 Speaker 4: was something I never would have like ever dreamed of, 351 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 4: because he like and it all happened right around Olivia's 352 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 4: wedding when there was tons of proparazzi around, so they 353 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 4: were seeing him and me and they were getting photos 354 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 4: of him and us together, and he was like kind 355 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 4: of suspicious that somebody was setting it up. It was 356 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 4: the whole thing was. 357 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: Twilight because of that situation. Do you feel like you 358 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: would rather date somebody that's like not in the public 359 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: eye whatsoever, or just like whoever it is it is. 360 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 4: No, I don't care for me. I didn't mind. I 361 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 4: didn't mind the press. If anything, I helped my podcast 362 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 4: a little bit. I don't care about it. Doesn't like 363 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 4: I think, I don't have like a very inflated sense 364 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 4: of self. Like I understand I'm like a F minus 365 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 4: list celebrity, Like a little extra press is gonna help 366 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 4: help my podcast. If I date somebody who's who's famous, 367 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 4: that's great, but like m it's not gonna affect the 368 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 4: way I feel about them. And I also am not 369 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 4: going to feel any big way about being in the press. 370 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 4: I mean, like the headlines were ridiculous, that none of 371 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 4: the stuff you read is true about like maybe fifty 372 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,640 Speaker 4: percent of this stuff is true, but it's so salacious 373 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 4: that if anything, it's just more like kind of funny, like, 374 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 4: oh wow, what did they come up with now? Because 375 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 4: this was like not accurate? 376 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: That is so funny because I was reading, I literally 377 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 1: was reading all this stuff and I was like wow, 378 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 1: Like I was like taken aback by all of it. 379 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I mean it's true. Olivia was like, you 380 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 4: can't bring your new boyfriend to the wedding. I've never 381 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 4: met him before, and they ran with that and he 382 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 4: got so offended, not offended, didn't invite him, offended that 383 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 4: he was painted as this not invited person. And I 384 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,959 Speaker 4: was like, can you ghet over yourself? Like a hot second, 385 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 4: you really learn about somebody by like the way that 386 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 4: they like people's egos are so fragile. 387 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had respected that decision. 388 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 3: Honestly. 389 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:29,399 Speaker 1: I was like, it's a very normal like you're not 390 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: coming to my wedding. 391 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 3: That's a very normal decision, right, right, right. 392 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 4: That's what I didn't get about. I think maybe with him, 393 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 4: he was just a little scared from like being dragged 394 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 4: through the press in his previous relationship, and so he 395 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 4: was like, how am I here again? And I was like, 396 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 4: I don't know. 397 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: But it's so funny because as I was reading all 398 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: this stuff about your situation, I put it into perspective 399 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,679 Speaker 1: of like mine, and I was like, if one of 400 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 1: my bridesmaids I have, like you know, one that's like whatever, Like, 401 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: let's say we're came to me and she sorted dating 402 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 1: somebody knew that I hadn't met. 403 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 3: She wanted to bring him to my wedding. 404 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: I was like, that's like somebody that's so close to you, 405 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: one of my very best friends. 406 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:12,199 Speaker 3: Like, I feel like I would say yes, Yeah, I mean, 407 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like you can be self. 408 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:17,919 Speaker 2: I also think when it's your sister, there's a different dynamics. 409 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 4: She knew, like if I had really pressed her about 410 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 4: it and I was like, I'm in love with this person, 411 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 4: I really want him to be here, she would have 412 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 4: seen it. I didn't. It was kind of like a 413 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,440 Speaker 4: joke because he really was new. I didn't really want 414 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 4: him to come because he didn't really want to come 415 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 4: because it was like a very public wedding and I 416 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 4: was really going to be really busy there. He's kind 417 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:48,959 Speaker 4: of a shy person. It just wasn't Yeah, nobody wanted. 418 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 4: Nobody wanted him to be there, including him. So that 419 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:53,400 Speaker 4: was kind of the funny thing. 420 00:20:53,280 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 3: About the whole thing. So are you single right now? Oh? 421 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 4: I am, but I'm dating. I like, I'm I'm dating 422 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 4: and it is the wild West out there. But I 423 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 4: met somebody who's actually so nice, so sweet, and I 424 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 4: don't know, we'll see. He has a kid. Oh, how 425 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 4: did you meet them and I met him, well, I 426 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 4: met him on Riah. Actually he like direct requested me. Yeah, 427 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 4: I guess it's a feature, but yeah, I don't know. 428 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 4: In interesting guys, same like once I should not be 429 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 4: on there because they're like fully married in a relationship 430 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 4: with yeah people, I don't know. That happened one time, 431 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,919 Speaker 4: and I'm I think I am scarred. That's what I'm realizing. 432 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 4: Like the micro traumas and traumas like such a buzzword, 433 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 4: but it's hard not to It's hard to like remain 434 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 4: open date after date after date because you're just kind 435 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 4: of burned out. Yeah, that's how I felt like recently, 436 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 4: where I'm just like I was on a third date 437 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 4: with a guy and he kind of wanted to physically 438 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 4: take you to the next level. And I'm just like, 439 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,360 Speaker 4: if I have sex with every third date, like I'm 440 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 4: gonna be I'm gonna have herpes. But in like a 441 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 4: few months, you know, it's just I don't know, it's 442 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 4: hard to like put the brakes on with people without 443 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 4: that without making them feel rejected. 444 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 2: Right, It's like setting a healthy, very normal boundary, but 445 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 2: there's also this expectation and I also feel like at 446 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 2: our age, like and like you're it's like these men 447 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 2: expect like, oh, you're on our third date. 448 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 3: I've bought you dinner three times. 449 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: Like there is like yeah, it's so weird and like 450 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,959 Speaker 1: I've had like it's actually kind of like sad to say, 451 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 1: but I feel like I've done some things physically that 452 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: I didn't necessarily want to do, but I feel like 453 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: I needed to do them, which is like actually such 454 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 1: a like that step. 455 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 4: In the other day, Yeah, totally, I I got in 456 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 4: it over you. I've totally like I totally have had 457 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 4: sex just to like appease somebody to like so then 458 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,439 Speaker 4: so that I didn't have to deal with what I 459 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,439 Speaker 4: deal with the other night, which was the whole, like, 460 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 4: which is the whole my daughter she doesn't know what 461 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 4: that means yet, which was the whole, Like you know, 462 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 4: is there not a connection? Are you putting me in 463 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 4: the friend zone? And that's what he said, and I 464 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 4: was like, I'm not putting you in the friend zone 465 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,640 Speaker 4: just because like I'm not. I don't know. 466 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I know what it was. 467 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 4: But do you guys think that that actually makes them 468 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 4: want you more? 469 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 2: Yes? 470 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 4: When you when you make wait, yes, I don't know, Okay, 471 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 4: that's good. I'm happy about that. 472 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: I have like a very When I was dating, I 473 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 1: hit a point where I was like, I'm no longer 474 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,439 Speaker 1: uh giving myself fully physically to anybody until they are 475 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: my boyfriend. And I remember I would tell all of 476 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 1: the guys I was dating this, and like their response 477 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: to it was very telling, like the ones that stayed 478 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 1: versus the ones that never called me again. 479 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 4: I get that a lot when I'm not drinking, because like, 480 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 4: I do drink sometimes, but most of the time I don't. 481 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:15,360 Speaker 4: And I think for first dates, men feel uncomfortable if 482 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 4: I'm not having a drink. And there was one guy 483 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,479 Speaker 4: who was like, like, would not let it go. And 484 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 4: he was like, well, are you an alcoholic? I'm like no, 485 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 4: I just like don't want to drink because it like 486 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 4: doesn't make me feel good, and and and and then 487 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 4: he was like and then he like ordered me a 488 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 4: drink with alcohol in it. Anyway, I don't know that 489 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 4: guy was done. But I have a rule too, So 490 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 4: it's like five dates commitment or three months, and like 491 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 4: this is the rule that I like loosely am supposed 492 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 4: to supposed to follow because I have a friend of 493 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,199 Speaker 4: mine who's a dating coach? And when I tell this 494 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 4: to guys, they're like, who is this if. The most 495 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 4: recent response was this guy being like, does your dating 496 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 4: coach belong to the Church of the Latter Day of 497 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:56,360 Speaker 4: the Saints or something? 498 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 3: I don't know, Like it was. 499 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 4: Just so weird. I was like, no, it's just a 500 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 4: normal I. 501 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 2: Don't know, you know, I had I really felt like 502 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 2: I had the attention of men because I was just 503 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 2: never interested. But I literally think it's it's because I 504 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 2: wanted to date a woman. 505 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:13,120 Speaker 4: Right like. 506 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: Becca, men would flock to Becca. 507 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 2: I just was like, so you were so a loose 508 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 2: aloof and just like uninterested that I wasn't trying to be. 509 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 2: It was just I was like, why do you Why 510 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 2: are you so desperate? Like the more desperate you are, 511 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 2: the less I'm interested. 512 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 4: It is true that, like the morning after I rejected 513 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 4: that advance too, he like sends me this like mirror 514 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 4: selfie and I'm like, this feels like a cry for 515 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 4: attention kind of you. 516 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:52,880 Speaker 2: Know, Ah, no she rejected me, yet, let me show 517 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 2: her what she missed out on. 518 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 3: Sick. 519 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: Have any of the guys that you have dated, like 520 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:01,959 Speaker 1: listen to your podcast? 521 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 4: Yes, and that's one of the questions that I get 522 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 4: a lot too, is like, oh, when am I going 523 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 4: to make it on the podcast, or like are you 524 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 4: going to talk about this on your podcast? And that's 525 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 4: a little I think I did learn a lesson with 526 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 4: the last guy, the one who's dating the famous person. 527 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 4: He ended up not being happy that I had talked 528 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 4: about him because while he was anonymous, later he came 529 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 4: out right not so then people like could backtrack it 530 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 4: hear all the things that I said, which were all 531 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,119 Speaker 4: nice things, they were just like, oh he came although 532 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 4: I did say he has two kids and they're like 533 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 4: in high school, and he got really weirded out by that. 534 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 4: I guess it's not my job to decide like how 535 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 4: comfortable people should be with being out a public force. 536 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 4: Just because I am doesn't mean everybody is, so I think, 537 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 4: rather than find that out the hard way, I just like, 538 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 4: don't talk about the guys as much on my podcast. 539 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 4: I still mention things, usually in retrospect. If I'm not 540 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 4: dating them anymore, but I'm currently you probably aren't going 541 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 4: to hear a lot about them, especially if their situations 542 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 4: are kind of delicate. You know, I'm dating guys who 543 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 4: are like widowed some of them some of that like divorce, 544 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 4: there's there's with kids. It's not like just that one 545 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 4: person that I have to be sensitive to, right. 546 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 2: It's also like you can go on a date with 547 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 2: someone and if I'm imagining you go on a lot 548 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 2: of dates where you immediately are like, this is. 549 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 3: Not the guy. 550 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 2: And that's the podcast content because you're like, but what do. 551 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 4: You guys think about that? I like how I'm like 552 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 4: totally just interviewing you guys, But do you think that 553 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 4: do you think the attraction can grow? Because I do 554 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 4: feel like one time I went on to with somebody 555 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,920 Speaker 4: that I'm currently on like number three or four day with, 556 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 4: Like the first time we went on a date, I 557 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 4: was like, oh I just couldn't get over the outfit. 558 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 4: I hated it so much. 559 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 3: Like no, see, I disagree. I disagree. 560 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 2: There's because like if if someone like you, if you 561 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 2: help him, and because he might just have never had 562 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 2: someone who has style and knows how to dress well, 563 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 2: so like it takes one person to make him feel 564 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 2: good about himself and then his whole confidence change and 565 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 2: he's in a que outfit and you're like, oh, maybe 566 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 2: there's something. 567 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, but if it's only the. 568 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 1: Outfit, I know, I feel like the face you made 569 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 1: made it seem like it you got like a little 570 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: bit of an ick. 571 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 4: She's definitely the I did get the from the outfit 572 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 4: because it was and I don't think it was like 573 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 4: a lack of style. I think it was like that 574 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 4: was his personal style. 575 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 3: Can you describe the alpho? We get a description of 576 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 3: the outfit. 577 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 4: Now I feel like he might know what I'm talking, 578 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 4: like he hopefully he won't be listening to this. It 579 00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 4: was very like like HIGI high wasted jeans with a 580 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 4: belt for man? 581 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 3: How high? 582 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 1: Like belly button too high? 583 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 3: It was just too high for comfort for you. 584 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. 585 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 3: That sounds not good to me. I don't know. 586 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 4: And like his heels clicked. His shoes clicked. 587 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 3: Heel heels You said heels. 588 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 4: I said, he had like a hard sol shoe on 589 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 4: and they kept clicking, and I was like, like clocks. 590 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 4: We were it over like loafers. They were loafers, but 591 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 4: they were like too clicky. I don't know. 592 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 2: It's like me romping around Tanya, I just found not 593 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 2: won't walk around barefoot in a house. So she forgot 594 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 2: slippers and socks, so she's been wearing her heels around 595 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 2: this Airbnb. 596 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 4: I feel you about the barefoot. I don't love that either, 597 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 4: but I wouldn't go so far. 598 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 2: So I've been hearing her click around, the clacking all 599 00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 2: more than long. 600 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 3: I understand high pants and loafer quick. I don't know. 601 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: I just feel like, if you're gonna be with this 602 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: person for the rest of your life, like that immediate 603 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 1: attraction and that immediate chemistry I think is like I 604 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: don't know, I. 605 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 2: Agree, I agree, but I do think there are stories 606 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 2: where people have had a. 607 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 3: First growers not showers exactly. 608 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 2: Yeahh like where they've met and they were there wasn't 609 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 2: an instant connection, but they knew that they were like 610 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 2: a good person, and so they went on a second 611 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 2: date and continued and realized like when they didn't hear 612 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 2: from them, they realized they missed them, you know, but 613 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 2: they couldn't pinpoint it. I don't know, I never It's 614 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 2: my experience is so I don't have a lot of 615 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 2: dating experience because I, like I said, I went on 616 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 2: The Bachelor, I dated man, but I'd go on a 617 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 2: few dates and then I was like, oh, it'd be 618 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 2: it'd be like his nails were too long, and I'd like, yeah, 619 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: like I had, I had an ick for everything. 620 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 3: And then I met Helen and it was like she 621 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 3: can do no wrong. 622 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 2: She could do no like there's no eggs. Yeah, so 623 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 2: oh yeah, I don't know. 624 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'm going to try to be open 625 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 4: because you know, and in the past, I feel like 626 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 4: I've chosen the guy who, like you, want to jump 627 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 4: their bones right away, and that's not the long term 628 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 4: person for you. A lot of times, Yeah, I don't know. 629 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: It was for me it was yeah, Like I remember 630 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: the first time I saw Robbie, I literally was like whoa, 631 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 1: Like Vagina was like on fire. 632 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was crazy. 633 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 4: It's really hot though, So you lucked out. That's like 634 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 4: an objective fact. 635 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 3: Wow, thank you so much. I appreciate that. I appreciate that. 636 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 2: Okay, last night we were talking about this. We were talking 637 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 2: about how all of y'all play instruments? Do you play 638 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 2: an instrument? 639 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 4: I played a piano a little bit, saying. 640 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 2: Oh, oh that's right, her voice is her instruments. 641 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 3: Was like, I've seen them all. 642 00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 2: We were talking about how her dad was saying he 643 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 2: that he had pushed his kids to play an instrument, and. 644 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 1: I was like, I like the colbos. Yeah we all 645 00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 1: play something. 646 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, yeah we all we all have played everything. 647 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 4: Sophie used to play the basoon, so Olivia would carry 648 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 4: her like cello to school, so if we would have 649 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 4: her big instrument, I played the piano, but yeah, I 650 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 4: didn't really stick with it. 651 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 652 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,240 Speaker 2: I played the saxophone for a minute. So if y'all 653 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 2: ever need a sax player to come in, let me know. 654 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 3: It was short lived. 655 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 2: It was a fifth grade, fifth grade moment. But we 656 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 2: appreciate you coming on the podcast so much. Thanks for 657 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 2: taking time. 658 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 3: I'm not done with her yet. I'm sorry. Okay, I 659 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 3: just had one more. 660 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,480 Speaker 1: Question, because you do have your podcast. Where do you 661 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: see your podcast in the next Do you have seasons? 662 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 4: So kind of like just it's like a fifty two episode, 663 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 4: so every every week we I have an episode, and 664 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 4: so I guess every year is a season. So I 665 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 4: met season two. 666 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: Okay, what do you see for the next couple of 667 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: seasons for Barely Filtered? 668 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 4: Oh man, this is such a good question because I'm 669 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 4: kind of grappling with this. People love to hear the 670 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 4: dating stuff. I like to talk about that, but I 671 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 4: really love to interview people who are like optimizing their 672 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 4: health and in the kind of like biohacking space. And 673 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 4: I love that about longevity and I love that. It's 674 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,960 Speaker 4: just like, does my audience love it as much as 675 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 4: I do? This is what I'm trying to kind of 676 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 4: figure out. So a little bit of everything, but I 677 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 4: think more in the health space and and of course 678 00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 4: like social wellness, dating and how to I don't know, 679 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 4: be your best be your best partner. I think as 680 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 4: I evolved in my relationships, hopefully I'll be in a 681 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 4: relationship then and they'll be open to me talking about 682 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 4: it a little bit. 683 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 2: I think people when it comes to like podcast podcasting, 684 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 2: I think people love you. So I think whatever you're 685 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 2: interested in translates to your audience. So even if your 686 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: audience who loves like your dating stories, you know, which 687 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 2: you're always your going to talk about that and you know, 688 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 2: at your discretion, but I think, uh, you'll find a 689 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,399 Speaker 2: new audience who loves listening to you and the things 690 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 2: that you love, because that's what translates for people, you know, 691 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 2: like what. 692 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 3: You're passionate about. Sweet Yeah, No, I think it's. 693 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,359 Speaker 4: Just believing that. It's like hard for me to wrap 694 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 4: my head around. But I appreciate that. 695 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 696 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:19,160 Speaker 3: I know. 697 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 1: It's a fine line though, because like if you like, 698 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,359 Speaker 1: let's say, you have to start a podcast, everbody falls 699 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 1: in love with like you and and what you're talking about, 700 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: and you make it a hard pivot and you're like, 701 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to turn it into a true crime prop podcast. 702 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 3: But I think there's a world. 703 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:38,280 Speaker 2: I think hers can blame longevity of all this and dating. 704 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 1: I love biohacking. I could talk about that stuff for days. 705 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 2: I know you and I. 706 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 3: That's yeah, she's never referenced a b Yeah. 707 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 1: Sorry, I referenced cycle sinking or whatever. 708 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Anya, and my d ms are like, what 709 00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 4: day of your cycle? 710 00:34:58,640 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 3: What are you eating? 711 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 4: How are you eating it? 712 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 3: What are you working out? 713 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? I'm glad that she has you for that because 714 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,399 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't care. 715 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:11,319 Speaker 3: So yeah, Ing and Yang here? Yeah and Yang. I 716 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 3: think it's Yin and Yang? What is it? Yin Yin? 717 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 3: Oh wow, I've been saying it wrong for thirty seven years. 718 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:20,759 Speaker 3: Yin and Yang. Yeah, I think you are. 719 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 1: I know you have a busy day. We really appreciate 720 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,839 Speaker 1: you taking the time. 721 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 4: I love fun and pomp. Spring must be hot there right? 722 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 3: It is hot. Yeah, it's pretty hot. But I love 723 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 3: having you on. 724 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 1: I find you wildly entertaining, So thank you for coming on. 725 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 1: And everybody check out Aurora's podcast. It's called Barely Filtered. 726 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,720 Speaker 1: You can get it wherever you get your podcasts. 727 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks so much, guys. I love talking to both 728 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:48,240 Speaker 4: of you. You're the best. 729 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 3: Thanks Aurora, have a good weekend. 730 00:35:50,400 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 4: Bye.