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Speaker 1: It's time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 2: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM

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Speaker 2: one right here, right now. You never know, it could

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Speaker 2: be yours.

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Speaker 1: It could be yours, so buckle up and hold on time.

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Speaker 3: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Ladder.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Nothew subject, anybody can get it here. Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 2: I've been married for almost two years to a man

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Speaker 2: that will not stand up to his family when it

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Speaker 2: comes to me. I'm black and Hispanic, and I have

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Speaker 2: curly hair, big breast, and a big old booty. Everything

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Speaker 2: is nice and full on me, and it's natural. The

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Speaker 2: fact that I have a tiny waist makes his big

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Speaker 2: bone sisters hate on me. I make them. I met him.

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Speaker 2: I met them shortly after I'd started dating my husband.

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Speaker 2: His sister had the nerve to ask me if I

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Speaker 2: got my butt done. I ignored her at the time,

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Speaker 2: and she took that as me not wanting to admit it.

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Speaker 2: When I got back to my man, when it got

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Speaker 2: back to my man. He started second guessing me, and

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Speaker 2: he actually asked me if I was keeping something from him.

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Speaker 2: His sister had him think I had butt implants. I

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Speaker 2: should have known then to pump the brakes on our relationship.

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Speaker 2: His mother is no better, so I see why his

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Speaker 2: sisters are so rude. His mom retired shortly after we

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Speaker 2: got married, and she had a potluck dinner for her

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Speaker 2: friends and family. I made a pot of gumbo and

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Speaker 2: homemade garlic French bread. His mom asked me, what do

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Speaker 2: I know about making gumbos since I'm Mexican. My husband

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Speaker 2: has let them, has let them make remarks like this

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Speaker 2: about me and my presence since I met them.

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Speaker 1: My sister in law disrespected.

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Speaker 2: Me last week in my own house, and the other

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Speaker 2: sister and his mom laughed. She poked my behind and

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Speaker 2: said it jiggles like it's real. At this point, any

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Speaker 2: one of them can get it, since my husband won't them.

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Speaker 2: I'm from the hood and I was raised by the

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Speaker 2: black side of my family. Though this is not what

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Speaker 2: they want. I made it very clear that they should

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Speaker 2: never touch me. My husband said, is not that serious,

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Speaker 2: and I am too sensitive. I may have to knock

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Speaker 2: one of them out so they will stop playing with me.

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Speaker 2: I bet that will get my husband's attention. What should

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Speaker 2: I do? Well, you can tell them it's your real body,

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Speaker 2: no implants or shots for starters if you like. But ideally,

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Speaker 2: I want you to have a talk with your husband.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he definitely should stand up to them for

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Speaker 2: you and not let them talk about your butt or

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Speaker 2: touch your butt period because it bothers you. He should

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Speaker 2: care how they treat you. He should care how you feel.

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Speaker 2: It's his family and he should know how to deal

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Speaker 2: with them and shut them down. They are being disrespectful,

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Speaker 2: yes they are, and the sisters and the mom are

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Speaker 2: hating on you big time because of your body.

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Speaker 3: And all of that.

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Speaker 2: You said you were raised by the black side of

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Speaker 2: your family, so tell them that's why you know how

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Speaker 2: to make gumbos. The only comment from his mom should

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Speaker 2: have been it was good if it was so.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I know you want to knock them out, but please

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Speaker 2: don't start a fight with them. All right again, let

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Speaker 2: your husband know how you feel and let him check

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Speaker 2: his family and get them off of you. But listen,

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Speaker 2: don't expect much since this has been going on since

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Speaker 2: before you guys got married and you knew that, Steve.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's an opportunity for you know, let the gift

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Speaker 4: that I have shine. I don't think there's any redemptive

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Speaker 4: quality in this letter at Also, why would I try

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Speaker 4: to write one? Therefore, I'm just going to comment on

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Speaker 4: the letter when and however I want to. I'm really

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Speaker 4: not here to help anybody today because I don't think

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Speaker 4: it needs help.

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Speaker 3: I have some suggestions for the letter writer that might

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Speaker 3: be able to help.

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Speaker 4: Her out, but I'm sure Shirley and Carl are going

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Speaker 4: to disagree with everything I'm going to give out as advice.

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Speaker 4: So prepared to laugh your ass off and just enjoy

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Speaker 4: the things that I'm thinking coming from my mind. I've

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Speaker 4: been married for almost two years to a man that

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Speaker 4: will not stand up to his family when it comes

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Speaker 4: to me. I'm black and Hispanic, and I have currently hair,

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Speaker 4: big breast, and a big old booty. Everything is nice

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Speaker 4: and full on me, and it's natural. Now the fact

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Speaker 4: that I have a tiny waist makes his big bone

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Speaker 4: sisters hate on me. Well, let's address this part right here.

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Speaker 4: The fact that you stacked and cut and built like

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Speaker 4: a brick house now has his As you say big

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Speaker 4: bone sisters hating on me. They're not big boney. This

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Speaker 4: is his sisters, you know, that's who it is. It's

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Speaker 4: some sitting over here. Ain't kept thyself together, not mad

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Speaker 4: because you don't come up in the here, and it

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Speaker 4: took a little bit better care of yourself.

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Speaker 3: That's all it is.

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Speaker 4: This ain't his big boned it sisters, Jesus, his big

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Speaker 4: ass sisters. Your bones ain't that damn big? Who When

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Speaker 4: have you ever seen a skeleton that said, what that's

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Speaker 4: a big bone?

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Speaker 3: That asked skeleton? It's just a skeleton.

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Speaker 4: You have never been know when you ain't been in

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Speaker 4: the doctor's office that said.

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Speaker 3: Who look at the bones on this damn skeleton in

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Speaker 3: the hill? Ever?

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Speaker 4: They ain't never unwrapped the mommy in a tuning with girl.

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Speaker 4: This is a big bone that money right here. Let's

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Speaker 4: stop using the word big bone. Let's stop using the

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Speaker 4: word red bone. You life skinned, that's it. I ain't

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Speaker 4: got a damn thing to do with your bone. And

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Speaker 4: you're not big bony because when you take all that

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Speaker 4: stuff off, the big ass bones and asses skeleton, we're

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Speaker 4: talking about it. You met him after they started, David,

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Speaker 4: since they had the nerve to ask me if I

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Speaker 4: got my butt done. Ignored her, and then she took

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Speaker 4: that I was not to admit it. We got back

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Speaker 4: to my man. He started second guest me and actually

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Speaker 4: asked you if you're keeping something. His sister had him

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Speaker 4: think that I had butt him planning. I should have

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Speaker 4: known then to pump the brakes on our relationship. His

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Speaker 4: mom ain't no better, so I see where his sistance

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Speaker 4: got rooted. But they all of a sudden, But Mama

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Speaker 4: probably big bone too.

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Speaker 3: So now they all all these big bone people looking

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Speaker 3: at you, crely half small always.

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Speaker 4: When I come back, I will share with you some

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Speaker 4: things I think you can do the counter accident.

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Speaker 3: No one else show is going to agree with me.

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Speaker 3: That's why I'm just not to the second half of

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Speaker 3: this letter.

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Speaker 2: All right, Part two of Steve's response is coming up

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Speaker 2: at twenty three minutes after the hour today Strawberry letter

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Speaker 2: subject anyone can get It?

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Speaker 1: Right after this you're.

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Speaker 2: Listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 2: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. This subject anyone can get it?

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Speaker 4: Well, uh, chick can married his husband. She's black and hispanic,

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Speaker 4: got curly hair. Big breast, big old booty, everything nice

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Speaker 4: and full on it and it's all natural. And the

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Speaker 4: fact that you got a tiny waist makes his big

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Speaker 4: bones that sisters hate on me. We've discovered in the

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Speaker 4: previous section of the letter that there's no such thing

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Speaker 4: as big bones. A skeleton is a skeleton. You've never

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Speaker 4: been to the doctor's office and said, wow, this one,

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Speaker 4: this was a big bone skeleton in it. So it's

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Speaker 4: just a skeleton. It's relatively the same size bones on

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Speaker 4: most people. Some I'm a little bit smaller, But you've

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Speaker 4: never looked at a skeleton and went wood them some

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Speaker 4: big bones on that. No, there's red the size bones,

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Speaker 4: just got a lot of meat on the outside of it.

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Speaker 3: Most of that meet us back, so his sisters don't

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Speaker 3: like it.

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Speaker 4: I met him shortly after they started dating, and one

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Speaker 4: of them thought that you had got your butt done.

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Speaker 3: Stop talking.

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Speaker 4: Sure whether they're not big bone, and we need to

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Speaker 4: stop using these terms, like a light skinned girl is

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Speaker 4: not a red bone. All bones is the same colors.

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Speaker 4: It's no such thing as red bones. You just you

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Speaker 4: just yell at we just had lighte steed. Let's stop saying,

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Speaker 4: and you're not big bone. Yes, it's fat. It's okay,

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Speaker 4: it's nothing wrong with fact. That's some people I absolutely love.

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Speaker 4: Started with my mama. I love my mama, dealer, I'm

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Speaker 4: attracted to fat people. I'll stopping from being fat.

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Speaker 3: About being hole.

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Speaker 4: I like all different shades of black people. All my

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Speaker 4: women been black, all different shames. I ain't got a problem.

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Speaker 4: Now I have some thick ones too. Now anyway, anyway,

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Speaker 4: your sister, as one of the sisters, asked, did you

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Speaker 4: get your butt done?

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Speaker 3: You know order?

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Speaker 4: She thought that meant you was admitting and didn't want

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Speaker 4: to confront him. Then your husband came, your boyfriend came

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Speaker 4: and asked you, is this something you need to tell

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Speaker 4: because they done talked about it. Anyway, you started to

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Speaker 4: pump the brakes on the let and his mom is

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Speaker 4: no better because I see why his sisters are so rude.

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Speaker 3: That's because it's mama big bone too, and that's how

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Speaker 4: As mom retired shortly after we got married, and she

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Speaker 4: had a potluck dinner for her friends and family. That's

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Speaker 4: another poe ass eventer. I've been a member of those

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Speaker 4: poe ass events on several times in my life. We

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Speaker 4: call them potluck dinner. The only problem with potluck dinner,

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Speaker 4: somebody gonna bring one of the pots. It ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: be some all in luck ain't gonna be in it.

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Speaker 4: Some of these dishes as unlucky as hail. Potluck dinner.

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Speaker 4: Somebody show up with some line of bean castle roll

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Speaker 4: with some potatoes cut in half lined up around the

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Speaker 4: cast roll, the dish look like a fence, and then

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Speaker 4: put a ham hock in the middle of it.

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Speaker 3: Well, damn it. Don't nobody want that.

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Speaker 4: Nobody want your damn lime of beans with your half

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Speaker 4: potatoes cut make it look like a fence and a

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Speaker 4: ham hock in the middle. That's not pot lup. That's

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Speaker 4: very unlucky. Some poor people do that a lot. So anyway,

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Speaker 4: I made a pot of go and homemade garlic French bread.

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Speaker 4: His mom asked me what I know about making gumbo

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Speaker 4: since I'm Mexican. Well that's a fair question. What do

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Speaker 4: you know about making gumbo? But I don't see why

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Speaker 4: you're so offended. Let me tell you something about me.

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Speaker 4: I don't eat Mexican food that's made by black people.

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't eat Chinese food that's made by black people.

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Speaker 4: I went in a sushi restaurant, so I thought in

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Speaker 4: downtown Atlanta years ago, and two black dudes was behind

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Speaker 4: the counter. I laughed so hard and walked out. You

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Speaker 4: can't be no black dude and hand me no raw

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Speaker 4: ass fish.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. What's the problem, y'all ain't got the like

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Speaker 3: of it. I'll just tell you how I am. If

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Speaker 3: you're going to.

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Speaker 4: Chinese restaurant, there's all black people back there.

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Speaker 3: We're in here.

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Speaker 4: So I go to Chinese restaurant, see Chinese food, I

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Speaker 4: expect to see some Chinese people. Now, hell, I'm wrong

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Speaker 4: for that. Why would I go to a soul food

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Speaker 4: restaurant and white people standing back there.

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Speaker 3: I'm going home. Your ass ain't got.

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Speaker 4: No beer to trying to fool me. Like you make

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Speaker 4: our damn food. Let's keep it real raised. So that

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Speaker 4: don't mean you can make gumbo. I got news for you.

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Speaker 4: It's black people that don't know how to cook soul food.

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Speaker 4: So the chances in your ass knowing how to make

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Speaker 4: Mexican food and gumbo kind of threw me. And French

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Speaker 4: garlic bread, I didn't even know it was called French

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Speaker 4: garlic brid I just thought it was golic bread. Well

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Speaker 4: here you is now now you're Hispanic and black making

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Speaker 4: French food for how are we doing this? Cash? Where

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Speaker 4: is the French person that probably boot from sick. See,

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna be in here anyway. Your husband to

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Speaker 4: let them make remarks like that about me and all

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Speaker 4: this hit.

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Speaker 3: My sister law.

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Speaker 4: Disrespected me last week in my own house and the

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Speaker 4: other sister law mom laughed. She poked my behind and

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Speaker 4: said it jigger like is real? Well at disappoint this

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Speaker 4: can't get away. My husband won't check them. I'm from

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Speaker 4: the hood. I was raised on the black side of

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Speaker 4: my family, so this is not what they want. I

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Speaker 4: made it clear they should never touch me again. My

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Speaker 4: husband said I was taking them too serious and too sensity.

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Speaker 4: I may have to knock one of them out so

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Speaker 4: we can stop playing with me. Well, let you black

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Speaker 4: side come on out then if you really it's got

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Speaker 4: that much black and you gonna knock that ass out.

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Speaker 4: Black people understand why they getting knocked out. Every time

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Speaker 4: I been knocked out, I understood it. I have a

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Speaker 4: suggestion for you. If everybody think your booty fake this Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 4: hack your dress up and shake it real hard at

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Speaker 4: the table.

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Speaker 3: And let everybody's see.

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Speaker 4: Okay we and then Brat take a part of gumbo

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Speaker 4: and throw it on the table and walk your ass out.

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Speaker 4: Your black hast cousin over there and have to have

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Speaker 4: some fried Rice wittmess See if anybody eat.

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