Speaker 1: Welcome to Bill and Juliana the Podcast.
Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to Bill and Juliana the Podcast. So
Speaker 2: yesterday was a very very interesting episode that a lot
Speaker 2: of people were talking about. Basically, I talked about my
Speaker 2: ex Jerry O'Connell, who talked about me last week, and
Speaker 2: we decided there was so much to talk about that
Speaker 2: we had to do a part two. So welcome to
Speaker 2: Part two of unfuzzing my ex's memory. So joining me
Speaker 2: Bill of course, awesome husband, yay love. This was actually
Speaker 2: his idea to do this podcast, by the way. So
Speaker 2: that's how cool my husband is because he's so funny
Speaker 2: and having fun with us, and then all my good
Speaker 2: girlfriends are here and we're all going to break it down.
Speaker 2: I just wish it had been handled differently, that's all.
Speaker 3: At the end.
Speaker 4: I just wish that he hadn't made your relationship sound
Speaker 4: so casual last week.
Speaker 2: It was like dismiss it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it.
Speaker 1: Was all up.
Speaker 4: How long were you together for.
Speaker 2: A year and a half And we were together a
Speaker 2: year and a half And it was like, like I said,
Speaker 2: I mean we were together year and a half. There's
Speaker 2: a million red carpets, like a million everything you know,
Speaker 2: a million dinners, a million trips, and you know, so
Speaker 2: it was just so yes to hear it like casual
Speaker 2: is definitely you know that's not cool, right because it
Speaker 2: wasn't like that, But at this cycle at I love
Speaker 2: the best friend, but I don't care anymore. Like, honestly,
Speaker 2: I don't care. But if I'm going to tell you no, Bill, Bill,
Speaker 2: what I mean by what I mean by saying that's
Speaker 2: not cool, it's like he shouldn't speak about Zucashua. Actually,
Speaker 2: to be honest, I really don't care how he ever
Speaker 2: talks about it ever again because it was so long
Speaker 2: ago and we're so over it. But at the same time,
Speaker 2: if it was in the moment, that wasn't cool in
Speaker 2: the moment, Like if I'm going back to the moment,
Speaker 2: of course, that was terrible that he dealt with it
Speaker 2: the way and he actually admitted a terrible boyfriend.
Speaker 1: That takes a lot. I gotta be on.
Speaker 5: I mean, he owned up to it, he owned his mistake. Yeah,
Speaker 5: you got to move on, man.
Speaker 4: I mean, well, it was kind of like a second
Speaker 4: degree humiliation last week when he makes it sound like
Speaker 4: you're writing about this fake relationship in your memoir. But
Speaker 4: it was a real relationship, and he makes it sound
Speaker 4: like it was not, and you're like, weird to have
Speaker 4: written about.
Speaker 3: It, also sounding crazy that you showed up to his condo.
Speaker 2: He made you sound right, He made you sound crazy, right.
Speaker 3: When any girl would have literally done the exact Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you would go to your boyfriend's condo and even
Speaker 2: in a fit of rage.
Speaker 5: Yes, like note to Jerry next time, living a building
Speaker 5: with a doorman. Yes, and he's on the doorman's on
Speaker 5: the side payroll. He can handle anything you need handled it.
Speaker 5: Jerry's out of town today, hilarious.
Speaker 1: Spend the extra money. You were a major movie star,
Speaker 1: you had plenty of dough.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But I think you know because people have asked even
Speaker 2: since this all came out, right, like the clips of
Speaker 2: him came out, and then I did my Instagram rebuttal
Speaker 2: right where I talked about it, and then people in
Speaker 2: my comments there were people who were like, well, what
Speaker 2: do you expect you wrote about it in a book.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, it was my memoir. I wrote about
Speaker 2: a lot in my memoir. I also wrote about my
Speaker 2: journey with breast cancer and fertility, like a yeah, it's
Speaker 2: a memoir. I wrote about everything that's happened to me
Speaker 2: until you know, till that age that I wrote the memoir.
Speaker 2: So of course I wrote about this because it was
Speaker 2: a very significant event in my life, and so yes,
Speaker 2: I wrote about it with details in the memoir. When
Speaker 2: we're dating someone and this sort of thing happens, it's
Speaker 2: it's hard, especially when it's a serious relationship. If you're
Speaker 2: not happy, if you want to date someone else, let
Speaker 2: the person you're dating be the first to know. Please,
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying, Like, had he just told me,
Speaker 2: had he just called me and not made me go
Speaker 2: down this crazy rabbit hole first of all the first
Speaker 2: time with paparazzi pictures, and then the second time just
Speaker 2: like completely not taking one phone call, ignoring me, not
Speaker 2: writing me back, and then breaking up with me from
Speaker 2: a balcony.
Speaker 7: And he didn't even like give you a reason when
Speaker 7: he did break up with you, Like, I think that's
Speaker 7: like the hottest thing with like say that.
Speaker 1: I guess he didn't even give.
Speaker 7: You a raisin hard Sorry, Yeah, Like you didn't get
Speaker 7: any clothes, You're out of that. I'm sure you went
Speaker 7: in your head for the longest time being Like if
Speaker 7: I did like, was it because I did this all
Speaker 7: that and it had nothing to do with you but
Speaker 7: everything to do with probably him. Yes, and that's really hard,
Speaker 7: like as a young woman to go through.
Speaker 2: And yeah, it is hard, you know, Listen. A big
Speaker 2: part of why I wanted to do this is, first
Speaker 2: of all, if I still had feelings for him, I
Speaker 2: would never do this podcast. It would be so weird, right,
Speaker 2: but it's been.
Speaker 5: You.
Speaker 1: No, why is it weird We're talking about your old boyfriend.
Speaker 2: It's funny you're was your idea to do this pot?
Speaker 2: Bill Ransick was literally the one who was. It's like, oh,
Speaker 2: instead of you commenting, I just do the pot. We
Speaker 2: should just talk about on the podcast. But he knows.
Speaker 2: Like I love Bill so much. I'm madly in love
Speaker 2: with Bill, and Bill.
Speaker 5: Think Ramammanuel once said you never waste a good crisis.
Speaker 2: But Bill, Bill also, you would never have handled it
Speaker 2: like that, like when you had girlfriends and you were
Speaker 2: over them.
Speaker 5: I think everyone makes mistakes, though, and I think men
Speaker 5: mature slower than women, as we know, so I think, Listen,
Speaker 5: was I the best boyfriend every girl?
Speaker 2: I did?
Speaker 5: Of course not, you know, and I didn't like confrontation.
Speaker 5: I didn't like. Breaking up was tough because I don't
Speaker 5: like to disappoint people, you know, so you know, there
Speaker 5: were times I would do the operation fade out, you know,
Speaker 5: you just become less available.
Speaker 1: And now I was never in a long.
Speaker 5: Term relationship like that, and these were like dating a
Speaker 5: girl for a month or two and you just kind
Speaker 5: of so I never had that many long term girlfriends.
Speaker 2: Yeah you were one of like three, Yeah, I got it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: But I just think that one of the reasons I
Speaker 2: really wanted to do this was just to actually get
Speaker 2: the story out because I'm so open, Like I'm such
Speaker 2: an open book and I love storytelling, and I think
Speaker 2: it's just like fun to talk about because it's been
Speaker 2: so long and I so don't he doesn't feelings to me.
Speaker 2: I don't have feelings for him, so it's like kind
Speaker 2: of fun to talk about.
Speaker 1: Shoot the breathe who talk about.
Speaker 2: The Equinox story, because he said on Kelly He said on.
Speaker 1: The podcast, I think he was mistaken.
Speaker 2: He was saying, so Jerry on the podcast was saying that,
Speaker 2: like he's seen us. I saw me at Equinox and
Speaker 2: he came up to me and was like, oh, and
Speaker 2: did this funny thing, like oh my god, I missed
Speaker 2: you so much, but like like being sarcastic. And I
Speaker 2: saw him at Equinox. I was actually with Bill and
Speaker 2: we were like on treadmills and we saw him, and
Speaker 2: he didn't come up to me. I thought he was
Speaker 2: going to and then he went up to Bill and
Speaker 2: they were having fun talking again, So he never came
Speaker 2: up to me. I think he was just telling that story,
Speaker 2: like as a funny story. But we did not ever talk,
Speaker 2: and I think people have wondered have we seen each
Speaker 2: other through the years. I saw people had asked that
Speaker 2: on Instagram, and funny enough, only one time it was
Speaker 2: a major red carpet I was hosting. It was like
Speaker 2: one of the big ones. It was like I think
Speaker 2: the Globes or the Emmys, and I'm in the middle
Speaker 2: of doing a called like a hot switch when you
Speaker 2: go from one cliber to the next, and then all
Speaker 2: of a sudden, I had like a one minute break
Speaker 2: and out of nowhere, I feel someone tapped my back
Speaker 2: and I turn around and it's Cherry. And at this point,
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe we're just married Bill, I don't know,
Speaker 2: and he was like, hey, He's like I just wanted
Speaker 2: to say you're doing great and you look great and
Speaker 2: have a great show tonight. And I was like, huh,
Speaker 2: but I still was harboring, like a brain surgeon.
Speaker 4: Your ex wouldn't come up and tap you in the
Speaker 4: back the middle surgery, Like you're like, you're being professional,
Speaker 4: that's rattling.
Speaker 2: I was very focused. But I think he figured like.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was probably trying to be the bigger pass
Speaker 7: and bad wrong timing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was a little bit like, no, don't even,
Speaker 2: don't even because I still remembered what he did and
Speaker 2: even till today, twenty two years later, how he handled
Speaker 2: it was not right. And I can still say that
Speaker 2: twenty two years later.
Speaker 1: And he but he admitted it.
Speaker 4: So he didn't get you into so last week like
Speaker 4: this is more about like validating young Juliana.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Validate, thank you.
Speaker 3: There needs to be accountability sometimes, you know. For him,
Speaker 3: I agree with Kate, Like that's what really upset me
Speaker 3: him last week, saying trying to diminish what your relationship was,
Speaker 3: you know, and that's not the case and it's not
Speaker 3: the truth.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's cool.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that was cool either.
Speaker 1: He didn't.
Speaker 6: I mean, girls care Chicago, real girls in La. No,
Speaker 6: that's part.
Speaker 3: Men are from Mars. I mean, but it does matter
Speaker 3: to women, you know, it does you know? And so
Speaker 3: him diminishing it, I think just it pissed me off.
Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you.
Speaker 2: As my best friend, as Collet's like, she's my best
Speaker 2: she was my best friend. She lived through that time
Speaker 2: with me. It was really hard. In fact, when he,
Speaker 2: you know, cheated on me in London and all the
Speaker 2: pictures came out with Ginger Space, I was here in
Speaker 2: LA and Collette was over my house every night. It
Speaker 2: was devastating because we went from so hot to so cold,
Speaker 2: this shock of a lifetime. And my parents flew from
Speaker 2: DC to LA to come be with me because I
Speaker 2: was so upset.
Speaker 1: And that's the chips.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my dad was pissed.
Speaker 3: I mean, your sister called me and she was like,
Speaker 3: you don't you know, don't leave her alone.
Speaker 2: I was like, no, there's no way.
Speaker 3: Everybody was so worried about you. I mean he did
Speaker 3: you dirty?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it was bad. It was bad.
Speaker 1: Was he the first guy to break up with you?
Speaker 2: Great question? And the answer, yes, yeah, he was my
Speaker 2: first heartbreak. That was for sure and my only heartbreak
Speaker 2: really right, because thank God Phil has not broken my heart.
Speaker 2: But here's the deal. But go ahead.
Speaker 1: Did you go from with Bill? You're next?
Speaker 2: For a year, I was very, very sad and devastated
Speaker 2: and heartbroken, and I just couldn't even imagine like finding
Speaker 2: someone else, for being with anyone else or trusting anyone
Speaker 2: else ever again. And then I met Bill and it was.
Speaker 1: Like a second time.
Speaker 5: You first met me with Jerry and then we met yeah,
Speaker 5: and the Boys and Girls Club in Santa.
Speaker 2: Monica, like I interviewed him and that's where then I
Speaker 2: interviewed him, and then that was it, like, and I
Speaker 2: have to be honest with you, within I kid you
Speaker 2: not Like I met Bill. He walked me to my car.
Speaker 2: I got in the car and I knew like it no,
Speaker 2: I got home. I will never forget. I got home
Speaker 2: and I literally was like, oh my God, like I
Speaker 2: met the man of my dreams. Oh my God, I
Speaker 2: met the man I'm going to be with. And thank God.
Speaker 2: So the happy ending here is like everything is meant
Speaker 2: to happen, whether the universe has a plan, God has
Speaker 2: a plan, whatever it is for me. God had a plan.
Speaker 2: It was meant to happen, and I met Bill, and
Speaker 2: I would never have met Bill had Jerry not broken
Speaker 2: my heart. So I'm actually thankful to Jerry that it
Speaker 2: didn't work out. I really am.
Speaker 4: So you don't get to be a fuck boy and
Speaker 4: laugh at it twenty two years later.
Speaker 2: See that's where I wanted to do this. And I
Speaker 2: just have to say to everyone out there, maybe even
Speaker 2: if you think your boyfriend is up to something, maybe
Speaker 2: being a little shady, maybe just say, oh my god,
Speaker 2: we should listen to like, you know, this podcast that
Speaker 2: I go and let him listen this because the lesson
Speaker 2: of the day here, truly is what the heck like
Speaker 2: if you are over someone for whatever reason, do not
Speaker 2: let them be the last to know, or the fifth
Speaker 2: to know, or the fourth to know. Just man up,
Speaker 2: baby and let him know. You know what I mean,
Speaker 2: Like boys cheat men, tell the truth.
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Speaker 1: Whether your boyfriend is cheating and.
Speaker 2: And you know, day boys marry men. And that's what
Speaker 2: I did. And you know, I'm just like love that.
Speaker 1: We love Bill Bill.
Speaker 2: And by the way, I hang.
Speaker 3: Gone for Bill. Bill's my brother. I mean I'm so
Speaker 3: grateful for Bill ran six. So thank god you guys
Speaker 3: found each other.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 3: I did tell you you were going to marry him.
Speaker 3: I did tell you that.
Speaker 2: I know she did tell me that day, So I
Speaker 2: guess I'm the bad one.
Speaker 1: No, but this was Jerry.
Speaker 5: Thank you for playing. This is all meant in good
Speaker 5: spirit and you know, not in a bad place. So
Speaker 5: you know, I like Jerry.
Speaker 2: I'm a good guy do I mean, Jerry is very
Speaker 2: funny and I will just say like he's welcome to
Speaker 2: come on the podcast if there's a different.
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Speaker 2: There's three sides to every story, the guy side, the
Speaker 2: girls side of their best friend's side, and the truth
Speaker 2: their best friend's side. Color.
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