WEBVTT - DONKEY: Woman Gets Marriage License With Ex-BFApproved Without His Knowledge

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<v Speaker 1>I made it.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't be out here at you like a donkey, he bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>it's time for Donkey of the day. I'm a big boy.

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<v Speaker 2>I could take it if he feel out deserve It

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<v Speaker 2>ain't no big deal. I know, charlomagea god going out

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<v Speaker 2>sause gonna say something you may not agree with. It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean I'm mean. Who's getting that donky? That donkey

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<v Speaker 2>that don't don't don't don't dunk donkey.

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<v Speaker 1>Other day right here.

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<v Speaker 2>To the breakfast club. Bitches, you can call me the

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<v Speaker 2>donkey of the day, but like I need no harm. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>donkey today for Tuesday, June twenty fourth. By the way,

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<v Speaker 2>it is officially cancer season, dropping the clues bonds fall

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<v Speaker 2>of cancer, dammit. Okay, the greatest most sensitive time of

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<v Speaker 2>the year. All right, I feel everything going on out

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<v Speaker 2>here right now. Okay, all my fellow crafts very late,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, feels everything. Okay, that's crash right, okay. Me

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<v Speaker 2>and Red understand, all right, Me and Red got the

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<v Speaker 2>same born day. But back to the matter at hand.

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<v Speaker 2>Donkey today for Tuesday, June twenty fourth goes to Christine

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<v Speaker 2>Marie Spearman. Now we have a lot of conversations about

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<v Speaker 2>consent okay, and what consent between men and women in relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay is all right? And usually whenever we hear these

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<v Speaker 2>conversations about consent, it's usually about did a man get

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<v Speaker 2>consent from a woman to do whatever it is they did?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>There are examples of women not getting consent, and today

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<v Speaker 2>is one of those days. See Kristen is in jail

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<v Speaker 2>right now. Write where she needs to be arrested and

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<v Speaker 2>booked because she took advantage of a man without his consent.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go to Fox forty four news for the report. Police.

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<v Speaker 1>Traditionally, when a couple gets married, both parties say I do.

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<v Speaker 1>But this forty two year old man in Beverly Hills

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<v Speaker 1>claims to law enforcement that he didn't know. According to

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<v Speaker 1>a press release from the Beverly Hills Police Department, the

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<v Speaker 1>resident reported on June thirteenth that he come home to

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<v Speaker 1>a package on his property left by his ex girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>The package was a gift back from Bath and Bodyworks

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<v Speaker 1>containing products and a surprise, a picture of his ex girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>Kristin Spearman, holding what appears to be a marriage license

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<v Speaker 1>showing them married and officiated by a local reverence, and

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<v Speaker 1>a copy of the marriage certificate file with the County

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<v Speaker 1>Clerk's office. According to the press release, the victim reported

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<v Speaker 1>that he'd been in a relationship with Spearman and they

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<v Speaker 1>had decided to obtain obtain marriage licenses on or about

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<v Speaker 1>June second, twenty twenty five. However, after that application and

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<v Speaker 1>license was issued, the couple got into an argument and

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<v Speaker 1>the victim told her he no longer wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship. Police learned that Kristen Spaarman convinced the

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<v Speaker 1>local reverend to perform a marriage ceremony without the victim

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<v Speaker 1>even knowing or being present.

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<v Speaker 2>Surprise, surprise, surprise, surprise. Not heard of surprise weddings. But

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<v Speaker 2>usually the surprise surprise weddings I've heard about are the

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<v Speaker 2>guests are invited to an event of it that turns

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<v Speaker 2>out to be a wedding. But I ain't never ever

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<v Speaker 2>ever heard about a surprised bride or groom. Okay, now,

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<v Speaker 2>you might be surprised about an engagement, but finding out

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<v Speaker 2>you a whole husband through the mail in a bathing

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<v Speaker 2>body works bag. What if this man was committed to

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<v Speaker 2>some new cheeks. Okay, he's sitting up in his house

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<v Speaker 2>with his new boo and old bay, you know, sending

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<v Speaker 2>me marriage certificates in the mail in a bath and

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<v Speaker 2>body works bag. First of all, I didn't know this

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<v Speaker 2>was possible. Okay. Whoever this pastor is who certified this

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<v Speaker 2>marriage without the groom being present, he needs to have

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<v Speaker 2>his collar removed. Okay, I'll get him this fellowship. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, I girl Jehovah witness. But whatever happens to

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<v Speaker 2>pastors when they are proven not to be fit the pastor,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what needs to happen to this guy. Okay. You

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<v Speaker 2>know how men say the fear commitment. This man got

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<v Speaker 2>married without even committing to the idea of commitment. First, Okay, Kristin, Kristen, Kristen,

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<v Speaker 2>you skipped the proposal, you skipped the ceremony, you skipped

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<v Speaker 2>the honeymoon and went right to the paperwork. You could

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<v Speaker 2>have at least let this man pick a damn cake.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, Christian, you could have at least let

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<v Speaker 2>this man pick you. You didn't get chose. You chose yourself

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<v Speaker 2>because you selfish. Okay, you weren't thinking about anybody but

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<v Speaker 2>you in this situation. Worst kind of human to be

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship with the person who believes, who feels

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<v Speaker 2>who thinks they know what's best for you? Okay, Now,

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<v Speaker 2>this poor man got to spend money on lawyers, and

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<v Speaker 2>I really want to know how this will work. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it should be anian immediate annoment, all right at the least,

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<v Speaker 2>And I pray that whatever divorce laws Texas have don't

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<v Speaker 2>apply to this sham of a marriage. Because this man

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<v Speaker 2>was married without his consent. This man was raped at

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<v Speaker 2>the altar. Okay, call it what it is, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>No vows, no kiss, no consent. Just surprise, baby, you're

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<v Speaker 2>legally mine. Now. Okay, this wasn't a legal wedding. This

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<v Speaker 2>was fraud with flowers. Okay. Getting married without someone's consent

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<v Speaker 2>is like someone stealing your car then ensuring it in

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<v Speaker 2>their name, but then turning around and asking you for

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<v Speaker 2>gas money. Okay, I'm just trying to figure out how

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<v Speaker 2>she was able to get a marriage license. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 2>gotta make marriage licenses. It's hard to get as gun

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<v Speaker 2>licenses in New York and New Jersey are. And the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that they used to date this was his ex.

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<v Speaker 2>If he ever had any doubt that he didn't make

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<v Speaker 2>the right decision by breaking up with her, that doubt

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<v Speaker 2>is gone. Okay, his X all right, his X, his X,

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<v Speaker 2>his X. He thought the relationship was over, She thought

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<v Speaker 2>it was just getting started. Can you imagine how the

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<v Speaker 2>Lululemon this woman must be to think that this man

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<v Speaker 2>would get this marriage certificate in the mail in a

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<v Speaker 2>baffing body works bag and be happy about it, like

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<v Speaker 2>he was going to receive this certificate and think to himself,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I do want to spend the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of my life with this retarded woman. Please give Kristen

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<v Speaker 2>Marie Spearman the sweet sounds of the Hamiltons. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>you are the doggee of the day. Dog gee. Ah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's crazy. And did she put anything else in the

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<v Speaker 2>bathroom body works back? Was it any lotion and candles?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it just a marriage license? Did she at least,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, put together a little package? All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you for that donkey. Other day. You don't think

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<v Speaker 2>he was leading her on the window, like, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>think that he was, Like that's the reason, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't go through all of that just because you

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<v Speaker 2>got let on, Because if you was getting let on,

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<v Speaker 2>then you'd at least be having a conversation with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Like she took it upon herself. I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that it was possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't either. I didn't either. Why you said it

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<v Speaker 2>like that, like you did that? That is something I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's that's top notch. That's crazy, Chris. If you

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<v Speaker 2>need help, oh please, what happened? We both said, I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't play with me whatever. That's crazy though I can't

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<v Speaker 2>like her.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus.

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