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Speaker 2: Tuned in to another episode of Poor mind where. So

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Speaker 2: today we have a very special episode that is brought

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Speaker 2: the brand new BT plus show, dr from Detroit. Thank

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Speaker 2: you for joining us today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 4: I am so excited.

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Speaker 5: Okay, no, no, I'm just like this is the first

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Speaker 5: interview I've ever done where I'm gonna be drunk.

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Speaker 1: So I'm already like up, I like to stay in control.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm trying to let me tell you something about

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Speaker 2: poor minds. This is a place where you have a

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Speaker 2: good time, relaxed. We got you. We are not a

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Speaker 2: podcast or we're looking for a viral moment or to

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Speaker 2: this motherfucker embarrassed myself every week. Okay, see she you know,

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Speaker 2: just dive into it. So let me say this. First

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Speaker 1: What's your favorite movie?

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Speaker 2: My favorite movie of all time is probably a Law

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Speaker 2: And Butler, come on, Law Abouting Citizen is amazing, amazing movie.

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Speaker 4: Movie and classic life.

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Speaker 1: I can't do life.

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Speaker 5: Get in the whole jail, it's hard for me. And

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Speaker 2: Because you know what I'll say this, I feel like

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Speaker 4: But it's like a murder mystery.

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Speaker 2: So it's like a little different whiz. It's fun.

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Speaker 4: It's a fun role.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, and you fit the role perfectly because I

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Speaker 5: Hell, where you could be in developing a show for

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Speaker 1: I love it and you guys want to start it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like this, get these jokes?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well we should talk afterwards up if I want

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Speaker 1: Want to play me.

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Speaker 1: Like we're gonna get to play exactly who's going to

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 2: I feel like when you get somebody else to play you,

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Speaker 3: I really want to ask you to, like, you have

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Speaker 5: Morris is hard to work with because really unattractive. So

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Speaker 1: Like and I asked, can y'all pay me more for this?

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Speaker 1: The day I had to kiss him, I was like you.

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Speaker 5: Time you mentioned you mentioned like how Hollywood normally has

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Speaker 5: is very hard. No, no, no, no, Morris.

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Speaker 5: same for Miss Delicious shop, same thing. I was like, Queen, right, welcome,

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Speaker 5: And then they would go to your co star and say,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have an accent.

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 5: I went through theater school, which was my one criticism

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Speaker 2: Well if you ever mean a big mama country friend,

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Speaker 2: I got to because I can't get rid of this mum.

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Speaker 1: That's what I don't say.

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Speaker 3: That's always one of my main concerns with like wanting

448
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Speaker 3: to get into accent. I feel like my accent is

449
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Speaker 3: just the whole country, Like I have their taket, this

450
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Speaker 3: swang that I just cannot get rid of.

451
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Speaker 1: I think it's beautiful.

452
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Speaker 5: Like I really believe that that's the wrong way to

453
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Speaker 5: go about, like the way they would come so hard

454
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Speaker 5: from our regional accent when I went to school.

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Speaker 1: I think it's wrong. I think that's what makes you special.

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Speaker 5: And I think, yes, there are some a small number

457
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Speaker 5: of roads where you have to have no accent as

458
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Speaker 5: a black woman, but not that many, right, I think

459
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Speaker 5: for the for the most part, it's better to keep

460
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Speaker 5: your special sauce. Yeah, and we actually have because to

461
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Speaker 5: my ear, I feel like the Traders sound like they're

462
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Speaker 5: from the South, So we actually cast a lot of people.

463
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Speaker 1: From the South.

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Speaker 5: I thought that was a closer accent than a lot

465
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Speaker 5: of times we would get in New York or New

466
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Speaker 5: Jersey people. And I like John who plays Danger the

467
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Speaker 5: guy who robs the houses from Atlanta, Okay, and Dom.

468
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Speaker 1: Is from m Yes, he's like to Detroit.

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Speaker 5: Got and but Sheer two, who plays Money's husband, is

470
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Speaker 5: also in BMF, so we have crossover.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I feel like Detroit right now, though it's like

472
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Speaker 2: a lot they're doing their thing as far as like

473
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Speaker 2: filmmaking and stuff like there's a lot of stuff being

474
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Speaker 2: made there. So you live in Atlanta, now right, I

475
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Speaker 2: know you feel you say, what man?

476
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Speaker 3: You know I have movies are on anyway.

477
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Speaker 1: We did see Plug Love Love.

478
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Speaker 3: That's that is on Oscar War when the film Love

479
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Speaker 3: is My Sheet Movies.

480
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Speaker 5: We actually had a scene the show that was inspired

481
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Speaker 5: by Plug, but we didn't have time to shoot it.

482
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Speaker 5: But you know where he's like fucking that girl and

483
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Speaker 5: he's shooting at the same time romance.

484
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Speaker 1: I thought.

485
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Speaker 5: I thought that was such a complicated choice.

486
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Speaker 1: That I was like, we have to use that, we

487
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Speaker 1: have to steal.

488
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Speaker 5: Sorry, So we were going to have a chase theme

489
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Speaker 5: where they ran through the house and somebody was fucking it,

490
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Speaker 5: pulled a gun, but we didn't. Oh my god, they

491
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Speaker 5: didn't afford it. Okay, so we didn't. We didn't do it.

492
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Speaker 2: When I tell you, I feel like I love the

493
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Speaker 2: fact that I feel like black people were kind of

494
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Speaker 2: like locked out of Hollywood for so long, and the

495
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 2: fact that we are taking control and doing so much

496
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Speaker 2: on our own, Like you see people now that who

497
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Speaker 2: are content creators, Like DC just came out with his

498
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Speaker 2: own movie, like you see people now just producing and

499
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Speaker 2: doing their own things. So how important was that to

500
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Speaker 2: you to be like, you know what, this is my

501
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Speaker 2: first project introducing to the world and it has my

502
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Speaker 2: name on it and I'm doing everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it was everything for me.

504
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Speaker 5: I feel like I'm one of those people that just

505
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Speaker 5: have a lot of trouble waiting for shit to happen.

506
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a lot of trouble.

507
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Speaker 3: It's just like I'm like, oh, I think I should start, well,

508
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Speaker 3: nobody's nobody's saying you should.

509
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Speaker 5: Well, I guess I gotta go write something. I mean,

510
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Speaker 5: that's just my thing. I'm not going to wait to

511
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 5: be chosen and I'm not gonna wait for the coast

512
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Speaker 5: sign of Hollywood.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like, hey, I have some ideas here

514
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Speaker 1: they are So that's that's my thing. And I think

515
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Speaker 1: a lot of people are like that.

516
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Speaker 5: If you set around waiting for especially white approval Hollywood

517
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Speaker 5: to recognize.

518
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Speaker 1: Your talent, every time you'll be waiting, you know, you'll

519
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Speaker 1: be in that casket. And so for me, and that

520
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Speaker 1: was that was a thing too. You know, my mother

521
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Speaker 1: passed in twenty nineteen.

522
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Speaker 5: There's nothing like that feeling of like, oh right, we're mortal,

523
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Speaker 5: like we're not gonna be here forever.

524
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Speaker 1: If you have something that you want to do, you

525
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Speaker 1: need to do it.

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Speaker 2: Yes now yeah.

527
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Speaker 5: So it just created a real sense of urgency in

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Speaker 5: me to tell the stories that I felt like I

529
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Speaker 5: wanted to know.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, So who is somebody like that gave you

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Speaker 2: that co sign and you like, yeah, I'm kind of cold.

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Speaker 5: With it, Like yeah, it's it's so important that people

533
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 5: do that because it could it could change your whole life,

534
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Speaker 5: it could change your whole day.

535
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Speaker 1: I think one was Viola Davis.

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Speaker 4: I am upset.

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Speaker 2: I am a Viola that like, literally I have watched everything.

538
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Speaker 2: I don't know how to get away with murder. I

539
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 2: know a word for word, bar for bars.

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Speaker 1: And she's amazing.

541
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Speaker 2: She's amazing and her story and her story, her spirit

542
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Speaker 2: and her intelligence.

543
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Speaker 5: Yes, she's just she's got she's got it all. And

544
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Speaker 5: I had done a play with her husband many years ago.

545
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Speaker 5: And then when I did my digital series that I

546
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 5: made myself, I send it to everybody that I knew,

547
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Speaker 5: including her and her husband, and they called me back

548
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 5: right away and they were like, we want to produce this,

549
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Speaker 5: and so they took me. You know, we went back

550
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Speaker 5: to a digital at the time to get to do

551
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Speaker 5: the second season, to redo the first season second and

552
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Speaker 5: so just like her sign was everything, she made a

553
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Speaker 5: little video kind of explaining what it was and how

554
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Speaker 5: she felt about me, and you know, I wish I

555
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Speaker 5: had it. I don't even know they took it down

556
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Speaker 5: off ABC Digital. Somebody has it sent it to because

557
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Speaker 5: it really was one of those moments where.

558
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Speaker 4: I was like, nobody else tell me I'm good for real.

559
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Speaker 1: And that and then another simple thing.

560
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Speaker 5: I was writing on Last o G the first season

561
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Speaker 5: and Jordan Peele you know, created that show, and he

562
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Speaker 5: was in the room, and one day after the room

563
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Speaker 5: he sent me an email that was just basically like

564
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Speaker 5: you're the ship.

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Speaker 1: You're doing a great job. And I was just like, oh, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Funny, and that's what I'm saying when I tell you

567
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Speaker 2: I went, I went in with you, and I just

568
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Speaker 2: I just didn't know, you know, Like I watched her,

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Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, this seems cool. Let me just

570
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Speaker 2: because like I Drean Nose, I sit at home and

571
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Speaker 2: I watched shows and t movies all day, Like I

572
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Speaker 2: just end up. I love it. I love the culture

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Speaker 2: of cinema and TV shows.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not, like, I don't really watch a lot

575
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Speaker 3: of TV, Like I don't really watch a lot of theories.

576
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Speaker 1: And so what do you do for entertainment?

577
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Speaker 3: Girl?

578
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 2: I read?

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Speaker 3: Oh I love that? What what are you reading? What

580
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 3: am I reading right now? I just finished reading this

581
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 3: book called The Arts of Not Being Like or the

582
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 3: Courage to Not Be Disliked?

583
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Speaker 1: Your courage to be disliked. That's a good book.

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Speaker 4: She got a lot of courts.

585
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Speaker 3: I couldn't get the courage would be disliked. I just

586
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Speaker 3: ish reading that book, like maybe like a week ago.

587
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Speaker 5: That's a big one, especially for women, because I feel

588
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 5: like they teach us pretty much from the time you're born,

589
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 5: like you have to be liked. That like dudes don't

590
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 5: have to be like, they have to be powerful respective.

591
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Speaker 5: Nobody says that the women they're like And so even

592
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Speaker 5: the way our voices pitch up sometimes like going back

593
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Speaker 5: to what I was.

594
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Speaker 2: Saying, I really like because I can see where it's going.

595
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Speaker 2: Because at the end of the episode, like I said,

596
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 2: they show her paying attention to detail, So they show

597
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 2: her putting this together about the little kids and why

598
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 2: they were fighting. So I'm like, she about to put

599
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 2: this shit together about why this man is missing, and

600
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,439
Speaker 2: that unless you know, like she pays attention to detail

601
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Speaker 2: even with her job, how she pays attention to the students.

602
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 2: They're like, you don't got to do all that, but

603
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,959
Speaker 2: it's showing. I love character development. Yeah, like I can

604
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 2: just I be like, okay, Like we're gonna grow to

605
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 2: be like we understand her because at first you like, girl,

606
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Speaker 2: why is you tripping? Go get you another nigga? That

607
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 2: then you really learn, but you start to get to

608
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 2: know her as the episode goes on, and you're like,

609
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: she's a person. She wants good, she's trying, she sees

610
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Speaker 2: the good in people. So of course you fell in

611
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Speaker 2: love with this man who, like you said, you cast

612
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Speaker 2: him to be the Pride Babe. I was, I'm all in.

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Speaker 1: Who plays Chris?

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Speaker 4: So we about to get into that with these tips.

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Speaker 4: We are because.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, ooh girl, because we we thirty minutes in

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Speaker 2: my mad Time, won't we drinking today, drink to talk

618
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Speaker 2: about child getting excited?

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Speaker 1: So this one is called the Dirty Deep.

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Speaker 3: So this one, this is why she all buzzed already.

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Speaker 3: So this one has some blanco tequila. We have some

622
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Speaker 3: campari and then we have some grapefruit juice in there.

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Speaker 3: That campari and grapefruit go perfectly with that bitterness. We

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Speaker 3: have a little bit of lime juice, a little bit

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Speaker 3: of simple syrup, and a splash of pineapple mango juice.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 3: And then for Lexandrea, very similar minus the booze. They

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Speaker 3: have the campari, the grapefruit juice, a little bit of lime,

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Speaker 3: and then we have it topped off with some sparkling rose.

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Speaker 3: And the tarnish is a grapefruit peal with a little

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Speaker 3: bit of expressed it inside. Just a little bit of

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Speaker 3: that on the rim, and we have a great fruit

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Speaker 3: kel rightide.

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Speaker 2: No, no, we drinking. We just got the champagne. Okay, okay, shot, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're definitely about to take a shot.

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Speaker 3: This episode is sponsored by Bitter Hill.

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Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Is your girl?

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Speaker 1: Lex p Andy She girls call.

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Speaker 2: And one thing I can say that I have elevated

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Speaker 1: I agree. My thing is who doesn't want to be happy?

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Speaker 3: Like if you're dealing with anything, whether it's grief, whether

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665
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Speaker 2: poor minds. Yeah. So That brings us to our first topic.

666
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about Chris Aka and being I have

667
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 2: a lot to say about you.

668
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, I want to hear it.

669
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 2: I do. So I wanted to talk about signs that

670
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 2: you're being too thirsty versus matching energy, because I will

671
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: say I was kind of mixed at first because I

672
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,239
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, you need like do you are need

673
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 2: to go on a fucking date?

674
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, stop talking about your ex husband.

675
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: He don't want you, no, mom. Because who was the

676
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: guy that robbed you? I can't remember his name? Danger?

677
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: Danger said something that made a point. I think it

678
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 2: was Danger that said it. He was like, Hey, if

679
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 2: the nigga who you give it head to and don't

680
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 2: miss you. So he said, if he ain't missing you

681
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 2: after one day, somebody else giving him head and that's

682
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 2: the truth. And when he said that, I was made.

683
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 2: Points were made. So at this point it's like, Okay,

684
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: he's making it clear that he's moved on. He and

685
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 2: we know how men are women. We agree relationships very quickly.

686
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 2: Men it takes him about three four months to realize

687
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: that they miss you, so you have to just move on.

688
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 2: So I think whenever she dived in with Chris aka ambit.

689
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 2: She was just going too hard because it wasn't about

690
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 2: really dating and getting to know somebody. It was about

691
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: getting over her ex.

692
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 3: Right, So wait wait, I'm so sorry what Craig is

693
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 3: over there?

694
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: He didn't make any space like he's over there remedy c.

695
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 2: I really cannot go one day with I go one

696
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 2: day without their best eater. So obviously he married Diara

697
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 2: because she she was a good to be one of

698
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: the points, not the only reason.

699
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: But we know, we know I'm not confirming, but I'm

700
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: just like right now.

701
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 2: So I say all that to say signs that you're

702
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 2: being too thirsty versus the energy matching. Because when we

703
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: were watching the date, they had a grand old time

704
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 2: because I liked how she was like, y'all were jokes.

705
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I need to see your tax returns.

706
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: But he was giving that energy back. It was a

707
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 2: lot of playful banter. I said, oh, them draws is

708
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 2: coming off to me. I don't even know where it

709
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 2: was going. So it's like the vibes were there. So

710
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: when you were trying to explain it to your friends,

711
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: because that's me on the first day, I'm in love, bitch.

712
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 2: I'll be trying to tell her I'm in love. They'd

713
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 2: be like, you're doing too much. I love him, bitch.

714
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 2: We know each other.

715
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

716
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: It was it was see that's all we got to different.

717
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 2: We gotta make a difference.

718
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 8: This is not you a realize, you know, but that

719
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 8: is a quality of mine that I feel like I

720
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 8: put on the character that I do have a big heart.

721
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 5: I do fall in love really easily. Now, I've been

722
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 5: married to my husband for a long time.

723
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 2: I been married.

724
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,240
Speaker 1: It'll be nine years next month.

725
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 9: I know that's nineteen Altogetherman, he's also hung in there.

726
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 5: I've been through many a growing season. I've spent many

727
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 5: coins on therapy. So but yes, so I feel like

728
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 5: I do fall in love easily, or even like, have

729
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 5: you ever just been like on the subway or something

730
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 5: and you're like, I'm in love with that person across

731
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:48,720
Speaker 5: from me on the subway?

732
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:49,919
Speaker 2: Like I fall in love.

733
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can fall in love and have a whole

734
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 5: love affair in my head.

735
00:34:54,920 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: Get off the train. I'm a virgo. Really, when's your birthday? Nineteen? Okay, yeah,

736
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: you're yours August twenty eighth.

737
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm August seventeen, so I'll be on the a Leo.

738
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: But what what's my what's in my what's virgo for me?

739
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 2: Isn't it my?

740
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 1: I think I think you're rising is Virgo.

741
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about the astrology stuff.

742
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 4: That's my hard thing.

743
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 2: But I'll see you.

744
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 3: I'm a tourist, son, I'm a Libra rising in a

745
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 3: Leo moon.

746
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: Oh that's very complex.

747
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 5: No, but I sort of feel all of that. My

748
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 5: moon is in Taurists. Okay, so that's kind of like

749
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 5: slow white. Yeah, luxury, I'm getting all that, that kind

750
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 5: of sophistication and ease.

751
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm getting all that.

752
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 4: She shes, Is that.

753
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: A regular?

754
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 3: But no, you're Oh I just thought about it. Your

755
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 3: moon is Pisces. That's why I feel like you be

756
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 3: falling in love.

757
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I do a lot of times,

758
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: what I've realized about myself, And I'm so happy. I

759
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,959
Speaker 2: actually just realized this about myself. Like you were saying,

760
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 2: you can sit across somebody and fall in love with them.

761
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 2: I realize a lot of men in my life are

762
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: not amazing. I made them amazing from a fantasy in

763
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 2: my head. I will write out if I like a nigga,

764
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 2: and we get off a day, I will have a

765
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: whole fantasy of what I imagine I'm doing for me and

766
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 2: what's happened. It's the whole story. I've had a whole

767
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 2: movie in my hand.

768
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 1: You can project anything on them, anything, and.

769
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,240
Speaker 2: I'll be thinking that they're this person and in reality

770
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 2: they're not. I made them special. So once I lose

771
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,720
Speaker 2: that spark, I'm like, oh, you're really not that special.

772
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 2: I made you special, own specialness onto everybody else and

773
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 2: overvaluing potential, right, shame on me, Shame on me. But

774
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: that's why I said that, be me being too thirsty.

775
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: Well, thirsty is such a harsh word.

776
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 4: It's the truth.

777
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 5: I'd say hungry, hungry for love, Okay, thirsty has such

778
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 5: a negative connotation.

779
00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 3: True, Yeah, Thirsty seemed like you just don't go for anything.

780
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 5: Right, But hunger is like, you have a need for love,

781
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 5: and I think having the courage to pursue that need

782
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 5: is a beautiful thing. As long as you have your

783
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 5: girlfriend that keeps you in check, that says, okay, you're

784
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 5: doing too much.

785
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and that's why I feel a lot. She on.

786
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: Listen to me though, and you know, listen to her.

787
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna fall in love and I'm not gonna stop.

788
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, you have to listen. She's gonna fall

789
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,240
Speaker 1: in love again and again.

790
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 4: But I feel like that because love is beautiful. You're

791
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 4: never gonna stop me from loving.

792
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: So you have the j low thing.

793
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 4: Yes, if he's the question, you can't wait?

794
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 5: Man, do you feel like you're falling in love with

795
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 5: the same kind of guy over and over?

796
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: But it's a variety of yes if you don't have

797
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: a yes, yes, yes, yes you have a type.

798
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 3: You fall in love with the same type of niggas

799
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 3: all the time.

800
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 2: No, I don't think I do, because you can honestly say,

801
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 2: outside of my man now, my last the god dated

802
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 2: last year.

803
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 1: It's just like your man before him.

804
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 2: Right, my man before him, and the one.

805
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: Last year was just like the one before.

806
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 4: You was like Rapper Bay. You think they were alllike.

807
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 3: And we're talking about characteristic whole as niggas.

808
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right. You wait there, one little thing.

809
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 5: Okay, you can't just keep that in the same person

810
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 5: in different people.

811
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: I think the last guy dated. Let me not say

812
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 2: that whole ass niggas. I was joking.

813
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 3: She wouldn't not say I was not think he has

814
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 3: characteristics of Rapper Bay.

815
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 4: I really don't think.

816
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 2: I really feel like he was a good guy. He

817
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 2: just wasn't the guy for me. Yeah, And I can

818
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 2: truly I don't think he's a bad guy when I

819
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 2: talk about the other one narcissists, but I used to

820
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 2: I used to love a good narcissist.

821
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 7: You.

822
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, the world.

823
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, And that's what and that's

824
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 2: what I have.

825
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: Water somewhere in your too, though, because I feel like.

826
00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's what I'm saying.

827
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: Like I I try to heal people. I'm always trying

828
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 2: to like, oh, I can work through this. I can

829
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 2: work through that. I didn't have to do that with

830
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 2: my last situation. I think he came here and I

831
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 2: think we just we just didn't mesh, Like his communication

832
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 2: style didn't mash mine. He wasn't a bad guy. He's

833
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 2: actually a great guy, just not the guy for me.

834
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 2: So but I think that that comes with age and learning,

835
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 2: Like I'm thirty four, like.

836
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:24,760
Speaker 1: Oh, babies, babies, Yeah.

837
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 2: I am, like I'm not dating just to be like

838
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 2: oh figuring shit out, like what are we doing? You know?

839
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,720
Speaker 2: So I had I had to change. I did change

840
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 2: my type. I definitely did, and I've gotten a lot

841
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: of good results from that. Like my last situation, it

842
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: didn't end like I wanted it to, but it was

843
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 2: an amazing experience and I learned a lot about myself,

844
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 2: you know, And I learned, like you know, I can't

845
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 2: go all in head first. I really took my time

846
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,280
Speaker 2: with this relationship. I felt like it was him diving

847
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 2: in sometime to be too we.

848
00:39:58,920 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: Maybe swimming at me.

849
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't help.

850
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 4: You can't disagree.

851
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 5: I don't disagree. I feel like my with my husband,

852
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 5: we had sex, he never left.

853
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: That's how I've never look at Tom.

854
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 2: She never I'm not being funny. Sometimes it hit him

855
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 2: a little different. Greg, No, that's why he's over the No.

856
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: Which one is Crag with the green eyes?

857
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 3: Green eyes exactly, said Crab.

858
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 2: One of the ones you gotta watch because he got

859
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 2: them green eyes. He gonna look at you, get your

860
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 2: Did you want to train?

861
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 4: I don't like no pretty odd nigga?

862
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah they trigger, But no, what do you mean?

863
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 1: Maybe because I guess I just.

864
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: God, can I be honest right now?

865
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:46,720
Speaker 1: Sure?

866
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 4: I really thought she was like oh.

867
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm like thirty four or thirty three, thirty four. We

868
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: were just talking about this.

869
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: Don gave twenty eight, I'll take it.

870
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: You give it, I'll take it. I would take twenty

871
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: eight too, Yeah, I grey eight. That's my August twenty eighth.

872
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, I would have said twenty seventeen eve

873
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:08,240
Speaker 2: when I was watching the showers. Okay, young, Yeah.

874
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 1: You know I am young at heart, that's all.

875
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 2: But that's all.

876
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 4: That's all.

877
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 2: So what are signs to y'all that somebody's being too thirsty?

878
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 2: Like when a friend is talking to y'all about a

879
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 2: day since we're gonna get back, were getting off topic?

880
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 3: What is the sign and somebody being too thirsty? If

881
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 3: you keep like wanting to reach out to that niggas first.

882
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, if you're yeah, that's what it is. If

883
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 5: you're if you're going, I text him, I called him nothing.

884
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 5: If it's not if what you're throwing out is not

885
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 5: coming back too, it's too thirsty.

886
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 2: So we can't be mad at her friends for being like,

887
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 2: you're doing too much, because they were like, girl, he

888
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 2: ghosted you. They did. They kept telling her you go

889
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 2: because I'm not gonna lie. My friend was telling me,

890
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 2: oh my god, it was amazing day. Y'all don't know

891
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: I felt what I felt. And then you telling me

892
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 2: that y'all had sex on the first night too. I'm

893
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 2: be like, girl, you had sex with him too soon.

894
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 1: And that's the thing. I think. That's the thing. I

895
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: would debate this, do not have sex? I agree too soon.

896
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: I think it is a double standard.

897
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 5: I mean, maybe some women haven't figured out, but I

898
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 5: think bringing someone and maybe also maybe queer man might

899
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 5: feel this way too. I don't know, but bringing somebody

900
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 5: into your body is just a different vibe.

901
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 4: That's a lot, and it can.

902
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: Be harder to get over and it can make your

903
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: head more cloudy.

904
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 4: I one percent agree. I always said that.

905
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 2: I mean, like, I'm not gonna lie. Like my first serious,

906
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 2: serious place when I fell in love, we had sex

907
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 2: on the first night, but we were also like I mean,

908
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 2: I was eighteen nineteen when we were young. Honestly, like

909
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 2: I said, now, I'm not doing that because I don't

910
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 2: know you like that. I need to really get to

911
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:49,280
Speaker 2: know you. Because I truly believe in transferring energy.

912
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: I do believe in that sacred energy.

913
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 2: Extra my gosh, I really do believe in that. So

914
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: I was like, on the first night, you might be

915
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 2: going dr might be going crazy because you don't know

916
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: who you were.

917
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,240
Speaker 3: He done slept with though him because at burst before

918
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 3: they revealed at the end that he really got kidnapped.

919
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,919
Speaker 3: I was like, he probably ghosted her for real, for real,

920
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 3: because I was like, what's going on, Like he probably

921
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 3: really did, just be like, man, I got business to handle.

922
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna hit her up when I get back. So

923
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, until and then we saw the

924
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: text of her being like, oh.

925
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 4: I miss you. He was like, oh I miss you too.

926
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, he loves.

927
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,399
Speaker 2: You. Know. So it's like you couldn't really be mad

928
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 2: at her friends because they were trying to protect her.

929
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think in real life the friends

930
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: are right on the money.

931
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 4: Yeah.

932
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 5: I think the show is a little bit of wish

933
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 5: fulfillment because so many women, I feel like, get ghosted

934
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:38,760
Speaker 5: and are like, I do want to hunt this nigga

935
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,720
Speaker 5: down and find out what happened to him.

936
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: And be like what if he got kid what if

937
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 1: he right?

938
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 5: He didn't ghost me, he just got murdered, Like maybe

939
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 5: he's just underground. So like, I really didn't make that

940
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 5: show because I would hear these stories from my girlfriends,

941
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 5: like and then he just ghosted, He just off face

942
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:01,919
Speaker 5: to the earth or whatever. So I wanted to give

943
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 5: people something to like imagine. But in life, if somebody's

944
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 5: ghosting you, my public service announcement is to please let

945
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 5: that shit go.

946
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 3: Let it go, Let it go, because they mean what

947
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 3: they said or what they're not saying, right, Yeah.

948
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 2: Because I feel like when somebody wants to be around you,

949
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 2: they're gonna let that energy be, not like they're not

950
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 2: gonna have to, especially a man, you know what I'm saying.

951
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 2: Like they are, whether we like to believe it or not.

952
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 2: They're very expressive whenever they want you around. So I

953
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 2: feel like her friends were not wrong. They were just

954
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: going by the information that they were giving.

955
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

956
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 5: I do have one instance. This is like an urban legend.

957
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,760
Speaker 5: I do know one instance. I do have a friend

958
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 5: who her dude ghosted her and now they and she

959
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 5: she thugged it out, she forgave him, and now they're

960
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 5: in a really beautiful relationship.

961
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 2: M E foind out. Yeah.

962
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 5: I think he was in between things that sometimes and

963
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 5: wasn't being you know, transparent about that. And then had

964
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 5: to sort of make a decision choice.

965
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 4: And that's fair because I'll.

966
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:10,919
Speaker 2: Say this, everybody got somebody, and sometimes you might meet

967
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 2: somebody while you got your somebody and you the grass.

968
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: I always believe. I don't like the saying, oh the

969
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 2: grass is green on the other side. But sometimes you

970
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 2: might meet somebody that just sweeps you off your feet.

971
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 2: And sometimes maybe that person is not your person, but

972
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 2: God is giving you a sign you need to get

973
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 2: away from this person because this is not your person.

974
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 2: I truly believe, like going back to what we were

975
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 2: talking about earlier, the God was dating last year was

976
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 2: not my person, but he was to get me away.

977
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 2: You couldn't pry that nigga out of my hands. But

978
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 2: I had to meet somebody who was gonna get me

979
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: off of him because God was like, I kept praying,

980
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 2: like God, give me a sign. He would give me

981
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 2: a sign. I'd be like, oh, not that one. He

982
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 2: still love me, though, and he was like, let me

983
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 2: just send her somebody like really amazing, but it's not

984
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 2: gonna work out. I just got to get you away

985
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 2: off of that person exactly. So sometimes you know, and

986
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 2: I ghosted him essentially.

987
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 3: Oh you're a Ghoster ghost. Really, that's so fucked up

988
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 3: it is.

989
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 5: Wait, but because I missed the whole I missed the apps,

990
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 5: I missed the whole thing because I've been so brewed

991
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 5: up for so long. So what how come you can't

992
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 5: just say this isn't gonna work for me?

993
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 3: If we went on like one of two days, I

994
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 3: have to tell you that, Like I always, I owe

995
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 3: you to be like, oh, this is not gonna work.

996
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: I feel like it's fucked up.

997
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 3: When you go somebody that you've been dating for a

998
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 3: long time seriously like have been with, I think that's

999
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 3: fucked up. But like if we went on one of

1000
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 3: two days, like I gotta text you and be like

1001
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 3: this is not gonna work.

1002
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: I could just not text.

1003
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 5: You next you Okay, that's different to me. But when

1004
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 5: the other person is going like we had an amazing time, right,

1005
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 5: because can we go back? Can we go out again?

1006
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 5: You would just say nothing, yeah.

1007
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 4: But the thing is that.

1008
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: Has happening.

1009
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna sit hearing for sure, because I just

1010
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 3: was like, I mean you yeah, because.

1011
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 2: I'm link, I understand you had an amazing time.

1012
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 3: Look at me, However, like for me, wasn't the same

1013
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 3: body what's the what's the like, what's the craziest reason

1014
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 3: why you go to somebody?

1015
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 2: I've told the story before. I have two stories. I

1016
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 2: go to somebody. I go to somebody because he was

1017
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 2: laughing too hard at me at my jokes. But I

1018
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 2: was no, no, I wasn't even saying but.

1019
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 5: I have a friend like that who just goes to

1020
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,959
Speaker 5: somebody for the exact same reason that he was laughing,

1021
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 5: because he.

1022
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 2: Was like, oh, he was like oh at the time,

1023
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 2: I worked at like European waxer. He was like, where

1024
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,240
Speaker 2: you working? I was like Europea wax.

1025
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: Your po.

1026
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 2: Nigga, what's funny about that? But you know what, come on,

1027
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 2: I swear I had it. I know the story all

1028
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: the time because I still be in shocked.

1029
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 5: That's not a thing, And I was like I can't

1030
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 5: do this every time I said anything like I'm joking

1031
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 5: with the way cruise she got a podcast cruise like

1032
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:18,240
Speaker 5: it was the whole I understand that I ghosted somebody

1033
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 5: because he was a name dropper.

1034
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 4: Oh shit, hell.

1035
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know I wud DC your fly last week

1036
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 2: that my boy, you know, like we're weird ship like that.

1037
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: So I will definitely ghost people like if you, cause

1038
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 2: you're already showing me that you're a weirdo and you're

1039
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:32,919
Speaker 2: doing too much.

1040
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I will ghost the Probably the pettiest reason that

1041
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 3: I've ghosted somebody was for like grammar reasons.

1042
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one.

1043
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 3: I used to talk to this nigga and he would

1044
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 3: text me and be like, I am, but he will

1045
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 3: always put the I N M together like he was

1046
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 3: trying to make it like a thing, Like.

1047
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: I know you know those are no. It would be like,

1048
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: I am no space.

1049
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 4: Uh huh is that yo, Gotti?

1050
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 2: I am No, it was not, but like.

1051
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: It's like, are you trying? Are you trying to make

1052
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:04,959
Speaker 1: this a thing?

1053
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 3: Because you know that it's two separate words, and I

1054
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 3: know auto correct on the phone makes it two separate words,

1055
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:11,760
Speaker 3: so you purposely backspacing.

1056
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

1057
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: It's one word. Why are you doing this?

1058
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 4: I see somebody and he's saying, I.

1059
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 1: Want you w W O N.

1060
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 2: I seen somebody yesterday spelled daughter d O D D

1061
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 2: E R and.

1062
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,760
Speaker 1: I see that's what I'm saying. That's nigga, goodbye.

1063
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 5: I'm not mad at that. I'm mad at them. Not, No,

1064
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 5: I'm not mad at that. That just to me is

1065
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 5: a little creative. I'm mad at it shows their It

1066
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 5: shows creativity. What I hate is the pronouncing, the pronouncing

1067
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 5: of the L and salmon.

1068
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 4: Okay, I can't. That's a little petty.

1069
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 1: Now, I can't. Would you go somebody for that? Though?

1070
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 5: I need more, I need more context. But I would have,

1071
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 5: but at some point I would have to say, you

1072
00:49:55,360 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 5: can't say salmon. I can't do that one. I don't

1073
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 5: know what other grammar things. That's probably the only grammar.

1074
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 5: That's the only thing that I have is something about

1075
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 5: that all popping out I can't do, so.

1076
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 2: It won't be another reason, like just outside of grammar.

1077
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: Oh for me, I like so I like intelligence.

1078
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: I do.

1079
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 5: I was I we were talking about this before when

1080
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 5: I was in college. I was dating a guy and

1081
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 5: I said, oh, I said, like, my brother is a politician.

1082
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 5: And he said what is that? Or what do you mean?

1083
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 5: And I said what do you mean? And he was like,

1084
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 5: what is what is? What is a politician? And I

1085
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,760
Speaker 5: was like, I can't.

1086
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 4: Now that that that's a little that's a little too far.

1087
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 5: And he was beautiful, like one of the most beautiful

1088
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 5: men I've ever seen. So that I like intelligence. I

1089
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 5: like a sense of humor, and I like kindness. If

1090
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 5: somebody is mean or rude.

1091
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 3: I can't that's the deal breakerd for me too, Like

1092
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 3: I pay attention to like if I go to dinner

1093
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 3: with somebody, how they treat like the way, yes, rude

1094
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 3: to a brak sleeve, I don't like that.

1095
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think a sense of humor is Yeah.

1096
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 2: I think a sense of humor. It's definitely extremely important.

1097
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 2: But like I said, it's it's lines. I don't like.

1098
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 2: I laugh at certain things. I have a dark, very

1099
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 2: needs very dark. I can be a lot of times ill,

1100
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 2: like because my mom passed like two years ago, so

1101
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 2: it be a lot of times I'll crack a joke

1102
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 2: or too like and people be in the comments like legs,

1103
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 2: don't do that.

1104
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:24,720
Speaker 4: You're not healing yourself.

1105
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 5: Yes I am, yeah, and ps to me, that's how

1106
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 5: you heal is to keep your sense of humor.

1107
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: I was talking about that.

1108
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 5: Somebody was saying, oh, I'm grieving, you know, I'm not

1109
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 5: having sex, and I was like, are you crazy? Well,

1110
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 5: my mother was dying, my husband was fucking exhausted, and definite, yeah,

1111
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 5: I think you want to feel alive and you want

1112
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 5: to celebrate the fact that you're still here and you

1113
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 5: want to get those dorphins going. I don't know why

1114
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 5: you would stop having sex because or cracking jokes or

1115
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 5: cracking just something sad it's happening.

1116
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 4: My mom was hilarious. Hilarious for.

1117
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 2: That sounds like.

1118
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: This is wild somebody. If you have a beat, call

1119
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: me period. I'd like to jump on that, even getting.

1120
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 4: The stul.

1121
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 2: Okay, so now it's start to get into the bad bowl.

1122
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we're all done. So is that the beat

1123
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 4: me bow?

1124
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 2: Bow bow? So we the bead is our sex time.

1125
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about because in the in

1126
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 2: the show, Diara could not sleep.

1127
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 4: She could not sleep.

1128
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 2: She was talking about she would literally sleep for like

1129
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 2: ten minutes at a time. She was not resting though.

1130
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 2: So she finally meets Chris. She goes on a day.

1131
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 2: They end up, you know, getting a little intimate and

1132
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 2: she finally slept. The girls that's so good. She started

1133
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 2: calling him Ambing. That's his nickname, am being. You know

1134
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 2: how good some big gotta be to like you give

1135
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 2: him a nickname, like you back to sleep and you

1136
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 2: know what I'm.

1137
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: Saying, He put her to bag.

1138
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 4: So I want to talk about it's good sex really like.

1139
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 2: Am being like, like you go to sleep? Yeah.

1140
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 5: I have a girlfriend that was like I get really

1141
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 5: energized after sex and I want to clean the house.

1142
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,399
Speaker 5: And I was like no, no, no, I like, dude,

1143
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 5: I'm like, feed me and then I want to go

1144
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 5: to sleep.

1145
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 2: I like to eat. I'm glad you said I like.

1146
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 2: I love to have a little snack like before. I

1147
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 2: know me and my man like he got good snacks

1148
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 2: at his house. I gonna grab me a little bag,

1149
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 2: put it on the druss.

1150
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 1: That's all, you know, put down before.

1151
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, always because he.

1152
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 2: Gonna go to sleep. For shure, let me need to

1153
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:51,839
Speaker 2: grab my little snack and me one two when I'm out.

1154
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: But you don't go immediately to sleep.

1155
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 4: No, I like to eat first.

1156
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: I'm sleepy every time.

1157
00:53:58,400 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 4: I like to.

1158
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,839
Speaker 2: If I have a really good orgasm, I'm gonna eat

1159
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna go to sleep.

1160
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: Wow.

1161
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,479
Speaker 2: And that's why I said in the in the show,

1162
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,280
Speaker 2: it made sense because whenever I have a really good orgasm,

1163
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:09,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go to sleep.

1164
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 1: Not going to sleep real quick. It'd be like affect.

1165
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 2: That can happen too, So I do have to ask though, like, Okay,

1166
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:31,240
Speaker 2: so her character she's losing sleep and she ties into

1167
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 2: her being so.

1168
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 4: Set on finding ambient because.

1169
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 2: She's like, oh he got the bench stroke in Detroit

1170
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 2: and this and that. So it's like, is it like

1171
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 2: she's trying to find Chris because she really likes him

1172
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 2: or is it because of the sex or is it

1173
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,280
Speaker 2: something to distract her from her divorce?

1174
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: Oh those are such good questions.

1175
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I think that ultimately she's she's trying

1176
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 5: to distract herself from her divorce. The thing that we

1177
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 5: kept saying in the writer's room is like, it's easier

1178
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 5: to solve a cold case then deal with your feelings, right,

1179
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 5: So yeah, it is kind of a big metaphor for that.

1180
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: But you know, two things can be true.

1181
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm like, there's no way, Like, don't get

1182
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: me wrong, we didn't all have some good sex before

1183
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 2: put us to sleep, but there is no way in

1184
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 2: hell I'm going on a true crime murder mystery.

1185
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 4: I'm like, damn, what kind of did with what?

1186
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1187
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 4: You know, because she she is full.

1188
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 2: She went into the house, found a man in the closet,

1189
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 2: couldn't he didn't even speak English, And she's like girl,

1190
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 2: we're still gonna her friend like, bitch, is you crazy?

1191
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 3: You like, because I wouldn't even cut that nigga out

1192
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:41,760
Speaker 3: to tape.

1193
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 2: She laying, I'm crying because she really did cut that

1194
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 2: up to get to the bottom of this.

1195
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 3: She is trying to get to the man in the closet.

1196
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't even see the man in the closet.

1197
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 2: Once i heard something beating on the closet, I'm out.

1198
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 5: But haven't you ever, like you said, really tried to

1199
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 5: get to the bottom of something like interest you if

1200
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 5: you don't know what's going on?

1201
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 2: When you went through that man d ms on Instagram,

1202
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:10,879
Speaker 2: you got to the bottom of it, all right.

1203
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 1: And when I ran through his house like ready with

1204
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 1: the game?

1205
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 2: You did? What?

1206
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1207
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 2: You know that's a story.

1208
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: That's why I said, did you say gun you got

1209
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:23,800
Speaker 1: a permit?

1210
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 2: No?

1211
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:26,280
Speaker 1: Oh, he got a permit.

1212
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,839
Speaker 2: That's why I said, were trying to develop our show

1213
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 2: about our lives, developing stories. Yeah, stories had But anyways,

1214
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 2: so y'all feel like sex after sleep that gives you

1215
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 2: the sign that you didn't have some good sex, right, yeah,

1216
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 2: because in the show that and being he went to

1217
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 2: sleep as well, Right, Yeah, he was knocked out to

1218
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,240
Speaker 2: see y'all like that. See he was in the vibes,

1219
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 2: and I like that they showed that it wasn't just

1220
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 2: one sided, because when you see the scenes with her friends,

1221
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 2: you think it's one but it's really not.

1222
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:04,959
Speaker 1: It's really not and it happen just catch feelings fast too.

1223
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 2: Trying to hide it. You know. They may not tell

1224
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 2: their friends that they're like me, deep in, but they be.

1225
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 4: They be in it.

1226
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:15,720
Speaker 3: That's why I thought it was interesting what you said earlier,

1227
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 3: because I feel like sometimes as I get older, though

1228
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 3: I definitely think it's a bad idea to have sex

1229
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 3: with somebody on the first day, but I feel like

1230
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 3: niggas definitely be falling in love with girls will be

1231
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 3: doing it too.

1232
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 2: They do, they do.

1233
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 5: It's just it's just it's just about do you want

1234
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 5: to be in love as well for that right as well?

1235
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 5: And I think sometimes the chemicals and the hormones have

1236
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 5: feeling things that you might not feel.

1237
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 1: That's sure, and it's.

1238
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 5: Easy for you to detach if you need to, if

1239
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 5: you aren't sort of in a physical relationship.

1240
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 3: That is very true, because the sex.

1241
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 2: Does make it. If I go, I don't there are

1242
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 2: people out there that can have sex maybe like okay,

1243
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 2: I'm on my way, not me. And I learned that

1244
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 2: about myself, Like I was like I cannot just give

1245
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 2: my body and just be like whatever, Oh this is cool,

1246
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 2: this is casual. I stopped having casual sex. I really

1247
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 2: want to say, probably about seven years ago. It's been

1248
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 2: about seven sex. I can't remember, honestly can't remember the

1249
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 2: last time I had sex with somebody and didn't mean

1250
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 2: something to me, you know, because I realized, like, this

1251
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 2: is not this is not what you like. You're really

1252
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 2: not enjoying this. It's not like.

1253
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: You a lover.

1254
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 2: I'm a lover and it's a mental thing for me,

1255
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 2: Like I have to be in it. Oh lord, this

1256
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: is just and I'm finna get it. This is my man. Okay,

1257
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 2: all right, so now we're gonna move on. Now it's

1258
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 2: time to.

1259
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 3: Get into ow bow.

1260
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 1: Let me say I'm having a ball. I'm having a ball.

1261
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 2: You know.

1262
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 4: I love girl talk me too.

1263
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 2: We're having a girl talk session. Like I said, like

1264
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 2: everything about you has taken me for a surprise, and

1265
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 2: I love when people do that to me, Like I'm

1266
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 2: going to be your number one fan. I'm about to

1267
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 2: be under all your pictures like, yes, hey, bir you

1268
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 2: know what it is though, because I love creators that

1269
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:11,919
Speaker 2: are all the way in like you're you're more than

1270
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 2: what you know what people probably see the like oh

1271
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 2: she's pretty in that sick because I know how people

1272
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 2: get judged by how they look, you know, and it's

1273
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 2: like to see you doing this stuff. This has been

1274
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,479
Speaker 2: inspiring for me today, Like this conversation has been really

1275
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:25,919
Speaker 2: inspired for the both of us, and I.

1276
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 4: Know it has for her too because it's.

1277
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: Like, you really out here doing this, Like that's really inspiring.

1278
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 2: So it's like when we have conversations with especially black

1279
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 2: women in this industry that are really doing it, they're

1280
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 2: really connecting the dots for themselves, because that was a

1281
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 2: problem for us. We could not connect the dots.

1282
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, it's hard.

1283
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 4: It's hard to connect those dots.

1284
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 2: So you like, like you talking about how you met

1285
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 2: Kenya Bears and you kept that the right people and

1286
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 2: you know you were he connected these connected these dots

1287
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 2: for you and doing that because when we first moved here,

1288
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 2: we didn't have no connections. We and then the people,

1289
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 2: the guys we were dating and the people we were

1290
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 2: meeting they were more so on some ship like y'all

1291
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 2: are meant to be seen and not heard.

1292
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 4: Nobody wants to just you know, be like this and

1293
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 4: x y Z.

1294
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 2: So we was like, I'm like no, it's like we're funny,

1295
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 2: like we gotta do this, like we have to. You know.

1296
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 2: So seeing women you know that are in this space

1297
01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 2: and are flourishing is really inspiring to us because I

1298
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 2: know people look at us like y'all doing it, but

1299
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 2: I'm looking at you like, damn, like you really doing it?

1300
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 2: You know. So it's like I love having girl talking,

1301
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 2: like seeing people on different levels and you know, you know,

1302
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 2: just seeing where everybody at, what people doing, and knowing

1303
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 2: that it's possible, because I think a lot of times

1304
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 2: people see or they want to do something, they feel

1305
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 2: like it's impossible.

1306
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I tweeted that the other day.

1307
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 2: I said, whatever I want, I know I'm going to

1308
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 2: get it cause I you know, like I'm going.

1309
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: To are you on your like Esther Hicks? Do you

1310
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: know her?

1311
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 2: No? Who's that?

1312
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 1: I call her my white grandma.

1313
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 5: But she's like one of those spiritual people that's on YouTube.

1314
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 5: You know, she always has like videos on YouTube, but

1315
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 5: that's her whole thing. It's just like move from the

1316
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 5: place of already having what you want, believe that it's

1317
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 5: already gonna happen, or that it's already happening even though

1318
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 5: you haven't seen it, and then the manifestation can't help

1319
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 5: but show up.

1320
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 4: What's up, y'all?

1321
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 1: Is your girl xp andy she girls rading the call and.

1322
01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 2: Y'all we have been tuned into dr from Detroit On

1323
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 2: be et Plus, it is so far that's my shout. Yes,

1324
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 2: tell us about a girl?

1325
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: Hey, what up?

1326
01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 2: Though?

1327
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 1: My name is Dara.

1328
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 5: I play a divorcing school teacher who will stop at

1329
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 5: nothing to track down her rebound tender date.

1330
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 1: Check us out on b et Plus.

1331
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 5: The first three episodes drop on March twenty first, and

1332
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 5: then one every week after that.

1333
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: Yes, periods.

1334
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 5: And then talk about it with your friends because you're

1335
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 5: gonna want to period.

1336
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 1: So last Friday you matched with Chris on tender.

1337
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 10: Yes, it went on a date.

1338
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: This one says we're gonna have a good time to night. Yes,

1339
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 1: you add intercourse.

1340
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 5: I normally wouldn't have done, except we both agreed. It

1341
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 5: was like a third date.

1342
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 10: Can you write that down?

1343
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: So after he ghosted you.

1344
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 10: I did not get ghosted.

1345
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:12,919
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

1346
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 12: I think he was taken and I'm not going nowhere

1347
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 12: until I get some motherfucking justice.

1348
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 2: Right.

1349
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 10: You sound like a crazy white woman. I'm a concerned citizen.

1350
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 1: That's some shit.

1351
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 10: A crazy white woman will say.

1352
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: Ready or not, you're right home?

1353
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 10: My first clue.

1354
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 4: Can't you run DNA on it?

1355
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 2: I teach earth science. I'm not seeing so going fine.

1356
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: Nobody touched any of the evidence without gloves.

1357
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 10: Ched a losting. You were supposed to start dating as

1358
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 10: a way to face ship the voice.

1359
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 4: You can run.

1360
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 10: I hadn't seen swat in the months. Was I really

1361
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 10: the only thing holding you together?

1362
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: Date? Damn excuse me?

1363
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 10: Damn fine. I am in search of a man with

1364
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 10: whom I had a beautiful connection.

1365
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 2: Make you one.

1366
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:05,919
Speaker 10: This is a bad plan. If anything feels off, we'll

1367
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 10: go off.

1368
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: Murder, right.

1369
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 10: I got my switchblade, my tazer, my brass knuckles. Okay,

1370
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 10: John Wick, you stay here. Something pops off, O'll holler.

1371
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: I walk round like that bait, just embarrassing me? Have

1372
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 1: you lost your mind?

1373
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 10: Can we just keep it down on it?

1374
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:24,920
Speaker 2: Oh? Wow? You know what? I feel like?

1375
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: An interpretive dance coming on.

1376
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 5: It's a lot of alvin A, I can't control.

1377
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: How getting out. We just wanted to talk.

1378
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 2: We can talk them away.

1379
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 10: I've been Oh no, we just get ourselves kidnapped.

1380
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 1: Who are you working for? Get this bitch of whoop net?

1381
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 1: Who the fuck are you.

1382
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 2: Do? Y'all?

1383
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 1: Hiara Kee's my name, I'll joke, fucking says a fucking fish.

1384
01:03:58,040 --> 01:03:59,479
Speaker 2: Walk a round like that bait.

1385
01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 6: She don't want to do a lot?

1386
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 10: Thenist?

1387
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 12: Why would I go to a therapist who hasn't convinced

1388
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 12: you to stop ropping house?

1389
01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 2: She want to get paid, don't you. I'm telling you,

1390
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 2: manifestation is so real. Let me tell you what I

1391
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 2: used to do when I was younger, y'all, this is

1392
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 2: so crazy. But when I was younger, my friends, like

1393
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:22,640
Speaker 2: we used to pretend. They used to pretend like they

1394
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 2: were interviewing me. Like I would be like acting like

1395
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 2: I was on the red carpet and do it. So

1396
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 2: it's so like when my friends from high school see

1397
01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: that I'm doing this now, they're like, nobody is surprised.

1398
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 2: But little stuff like that be manifestations. I used to

1399
01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 2: be in my room talking to myself.

1400
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 1: No, I had a sister to be talking to.

1401
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 2: But used to come in my room, like, well, my

1402
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 2: sister is very like. She was always like when I

1403
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 2: say the spart when I mean, she was more like.

1404
01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 4: Books in the books.

1405
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 2: She wanted to go to school. I was like, I

1406
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 2: am a star, but that was me. So it's like

1407
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 2: the stuff that I wanted to do, she wasn't interested,

1408
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,440
Speaker 2: and she's like, I want to read, I want to

1409
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 2: do this. I'm like, girl, let's go play. I'm the singer.

1410
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 2: You my audience. Let me perform for you. She was like, girl,

1411
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 2: don't nobody want to.

1412
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 4: Watch this shit?

1413
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 2: Like she always thought I was funny and was pushing me.

1414
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 2: But she was like do this, but I don't want

1415
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 2: to have to, you know, be here and.

1416
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 4: Doing all that.

1417
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: So I say all that to say I feel like

1418
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 2: all that stuff made me realize that was manifestation at

1419
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 2: a young age and I didn't even realize it. So

1420
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 2: now as an adult that I realized that, oh, i'd

1421
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:26,919
Speaker 2: be like I'm going to get there.

1422
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 4: I don't know how it's going to happen or what,

1423
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 4: but I know it's coming. I just have to keep working, Yeah,

1424
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 4: keep working.

1425
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: Release the timeline.

1426
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 5: That's the hard that's the hard thing because it needs

1427
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 5: to happen overnight, and that's wasn't my journey. Yeah, you know,

1428
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 5: sometimes it will be, but that wasn't mine. And then

1429
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:43,919
Speaker 5: also I always say, just like keep working, keep making

1430
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 5: your own stuff, and let the industry find you. A

1431
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 5: lot of people spend so much focused on like how

1432
01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 5: do I get in? How do you get And it's like,

1433
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 5: let's say you're already in. Go make something, do your

1434
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,880
Speaker 5: own podcast, do your own thing, and let them let

1435
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 5: people find.

1436
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 2: Come to you. Yeah, cause I think that's one thing

1437
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 2: that we were talking about that this morning, like we

1438
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 2: just thank god that we stopped trying to fit into

1439
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 2: a box. And we were like, you know what, I

1440
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 2: don't know how to show up as anybody else but myself, Like.

1441
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: It just create something where I could be me.

1442
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, So you know whatever, come win it, come win it.

1443
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 2: But I know it's coming, you know what I'm saying.

1444
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 2: That's why I said, I'm having so much fun today

1445
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 2: because I like, you know, have a girl talk with

1446
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 2: the girls. Who yes, good conversation with some girls. Okay,

1447
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 2: so now we're gonna get into the bop. So my

1448
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,960
Speaker 2: bop of the week. This was actually inspired by y'all's

1449
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 2: date scene Dyall and and being's date scene because, uh,

1450
01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 2: this is a song called Conversation Pit by Junetober. It's

1451
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 2: such a good song because they're just like, it's a

1452
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 2: song about you vibing with somebody, like, you know, lay

1453
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 2: your head on me, let's just talk and just have

1454
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 2: a vibe and have a good time. So whenever y'all

1455
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 2: were having that scene, it just reminded me of this song,

1456
01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,840
Speaker 2: and I was like, you know what, this is a vibe.

1457
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 2: When y'all were on that day, I feel like I

1458
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 2: was on the day because that's how my first dates be.

1459
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 2: Because he was like, you know what, you want to

1460
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 2: have a good song, You don't want to have a

1461
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 2: good son. What are we gonna do? Daddy? I love

1462
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 2: a good daddy moment. You call him daddy real quick.

1463
01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 4: This slide that daddy in there.

1464
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: I'm not a big daddy.

1465
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 2: You know.

1466
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 4: You don't call me and daddy.

1467
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: I call my daddy daddy.

1468
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 2: Oh okay, see you still got your daddy.

1469
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 4: I never knew my daddy, so I can call everybody daddy.

1470
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 2: I don't mean nothing to me.

1471
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 5: My dadd is still up and around and I call

1472
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 5: him daddy. My husband's like, why do you call him daddy.

1473
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 3: We are daddy. I used to call my dad daddy.

1474
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you said dad daddy. She she'd be like, hey,

1475
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 2: big daddy.

1476
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 1: Adding the big and friend that you're not so southern.

1477
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 5: So once, I guess, once I have my son, I

1478
01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 5: will call my husband daddy just because.

1479
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:51,680
Speaker 4: He called him daddy.

1480
01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:57,640
Speaker 1: But it's not like son's daddy is a little little daddy.

1481
01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 2: Oh hell no, No, I don't have kids with my sister.

1482
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 2: I cannot imagine my sister calling peeny little daddy.

1483
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:13,880
Speaker 5: That nigga exactly what little daddy is?

1484
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: Crazy?

1485
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 2: So you're not a fan of daddy. I thought that

1486
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 2: was just like ty do you be caught saying daddy? No,

1487
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 2: you got your daddy in your life, though, Shall you have.

1488
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 4: A complicated relationship?

1489
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 1: I'm calling you daddy.

1490
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 2: It's that I am weak. Okay, So now we're gonna

1491
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 2: oh wait, y'all ain't gave me y'all balls. I'm having

1492
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 2: a ball.

1493
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:48,479
Speaker 3: My vib So I don't be like happy be trying

1494
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 3: to play with Steweedie because you got a new song

1495
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 3: that I like her new songs.

1496
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 2: I do getting rich ship.

1497
01:08:57,120 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 4: It's a good bill's paid doing.

1498
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 3: It's a gre Anthem Like, I love songs, and I've

1499
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:04,679
Speaker 3: talked about this on the show before. I love songs

1500
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 3: where you can like just be a girl and be

1501
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:10,880
Speaker 3: in your house getting ready, doing your makeups, when your hair,

1502
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,960
Speaker 3: getting ready to go out. You putting that shit on

1503
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:14,960
Speaker 3: you feel like a bad beach. Yeah, Like I feel

1504
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:17,000
Speaker 3: like it's a bad beach song. Like it make you

1505
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:17,919
Speaker 3: feel good.

1506
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,639
Speaker 2: Because and I love this song.

1507
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 1: Shout out to.

1508
01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 2: Sweet And let me say this, I actually she did

1509
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 2: shout out to Sweety come on the show. So this

1510
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:30,160
Speaker 2: is what I hate, speaking of dreams and aspirations and

1511
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:32,160
Speaker 2: manifesting things.

1512
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:33,639
Speaker 4: I tweeted this the other day.

1513
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 2: I said, I cannot stand seeing people telling somebody to

1514
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 2: stop doing something just because you don't.

1515
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 4: Like it, because imagine that.

1516
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 2: I'm so tired of seeing people telling Sweetie to stop rapping.

1517
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 2: And who the fuck are you to tell somebody to

1518
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 2: stop chasing their dreams just because you don't feel good

1519
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 2: enough to chase your dreams or maybe your dreams fell through.

1520
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 2: Stop telling people stop chasing their dreams.

1521
01:09:57,640 --> 01:09:59,680
Speaker 5: And I also feel like sometimes it's a trap of

1522
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 5: black excellence too. Yeah, Like every time somebody black does something,

1523
01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:06,719
Speaker 5: it has to be the greatest thing that's ever been done.

1524
01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 5: When white people get to be mediocre all of this.

1525
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:11,200
Speaker 4: How many times have I said this?

1526
01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 2: I Am not trying to be the podcast that you

1527
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 2: come here and you learn about all the stars and

1528
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 2: the moon and science and how to cured cancer. Maybe

1529
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:22,719
Speaker 2: we just want to laughs.

1530
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 1: Ps. I love that you just said that because people

1531
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 1: always say.

1532
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:29,679
Speaker 5: Oh, this is not curing cancer. Guess what, nobody's cured cancer.

1533
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 4: Nobody has cus So what does help when.

1534
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 1: Somebody has cancer? Are laughing? Getting your mind off of things?

1535
01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 1: But community?

1536
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:38,519
Speaker 2: But let me also tell you something too. We went

1537
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 2: to Detroit.

1538
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 4: You did.

1539
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 2: What This guy sat up front row and said, I

1540
01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,960
Speaker 2: just went through chemo and poor minds got me through King.

1541
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:52,519
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, though, because you talk about you know,

1542
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,599
Speaker 2: we're not contributing, but I do.

1543
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 4: We make people feel good, and that's what it's about.

1544
01:10:57,600 --> 01:10:58,439
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

1545
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 2: So it's like, maybe you don't see the value in me,

1546
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:03,080
Speaker 2: but that don't mean I'm valuable just because you're you're

1547
01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 2: one person.

1548
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 4: You're one person.

1549
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, there's so many podcasts about health, about mental health,

1550
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:14,720
Speaker 2: about serious political this ain't that if you want to

1551
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 2: watch that go. There's plenty of black women who have

1552
01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:18,400
Speaker 2: podcasts about these things.

1553
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 4: You have to go find them and do your research.

1554
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:22,679
Speaker 3: But stop trying to mold us and make us into

1555
01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 3: what you like. If you don't like this, go watch

1556
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 3: what you like, Go watch what you always say. You'll

1557
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 3: get a lot of criticism.

1558
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we do. I think we get more love

1559
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 1: than you.

1560
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 3: But people definitely be like, oh, y'all need to talk

1561
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 3: about more serious topics sometimes, and sometimes we do. The

1562
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:43,960
Speaker 3: crazy thing is sometimes we do actually talk about serious

1563
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 3: topics with every episode. If that's what you're expecting, this

1564
01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 3: isn't And that's okay.

1565
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: It's just not for you. Go find what you're looking for.

1566
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:55,480
Speaker 2: And that's why I say, even about you know, Dara

1567
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 2: from Detroit, that's what I love is because like we

1568
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 2: feel like black women we have to be in these

1569
01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 2: serious roles and doing all this, and it's like this

1570
01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 2: is fun, you know, even with what's her name with

1571
01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:12,679
Speaker 2: Avid Elementary Quinca, Like even with her I remember Quinton

1572
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 2: when she worked at BuzzFeed. Yeah, me too, because I

1573
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 2: was a fan of her. So it's just like it's

1574
01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:19,760
Speaker 2: amazing to see somebody like we have fun too, Like

1575
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,679
Speaker 2: we want to laugh too. We're humans just like you.

1576
01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:24,320
Speaker 5: People keep asking me like, what do you want people

1577
01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 5: to take away from this show?

1578
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:26,439
Speaker 1: And I'm always like.

1579
01:12:26,439 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 5: I want them to be entertained, and I want them

1580
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 5: to have something to talk about with their girlfriends at brunch.

1581
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:31,680
Speaker 5: I want them to get on the phone and be like,

1582
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:33,479
Speaker 5: did you see that? What do you think this is?

1583
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 5: Like that time you was looking for that, like I

1584
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:37,639
Speaker 5: have a good time.

1585
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 2: Well you did that because when she finished the episode,

1586
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 2: she called me back, she was like girl.

1587
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:41,600
Speaker 13: And.

1588
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 2: So you definitely accomplished that because we was gossiping and

1589
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:49,719
Speaker 2: talking about it for sure. So yeah, so I agree

1590
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 2: with you. I feel like a lot of people just

1591
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 2: get to be mediocre and be extremely fucking successful in

1592
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 2: their field because it's a crawl for that.

1593
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:58,559
Speaker 4: Why can't we just exist?

1594
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 5: And can I add something to that too? I also

1595
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,720
Speaker 5: hope you guys enjoyed the production values, oh, because we

1596
01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:05,600
Speaker 5: you know, we spent a little more money than we

1597
01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:08,720
Speaker 5: normally spend that bet on on television shows. And I

1598
01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 5: think sometimes there's this unspoken thing that black women just

1599
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 5: want to watch black women and don't mind when the

1600
01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:15,599
Speaker 5: production values are.

1601
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:19,640
Speaker 2: It was it was not giving budget at all at all.

1602
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 2: That's why I said it was getting when I called,

1603
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:25,720
Speaker 2: That's why I said, I'm like who, I'm like this,

1604
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:28,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, who is this girl? There's right in her

1605
01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 2: own ship, got her name in the show, and like,

1606
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:34,439
Speaker 2: I didn't say that, tell her, but I'm thinking of

1607
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 2: my head. The production value was amazing. It looked like

1608
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 2: Steve Spielberg was on Buck.

1609
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:43,879
Speaker 5: And we we wanted we wanted it to look beautiful.

1610
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:46,360
Speaker 5: We wanted the black people to look beautiful. We just

1611
01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 5: wanted it to be yeahful, And there were a lot

1612
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:50,759
Speaker 5: of meetings that went into a lot of that stuff.

1613
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 5: So we just hope people enjoyed that aspect of it too.

1614
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:55,280
Speaker 5: And it kind of feels like like it's an old

1615
01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 5: detective show.

1616
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:57,040
Speaker 4: It definitely was.

1617
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 5: As it goes on, you'll see different different things that

1618
01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 5: we do visually in a show too.

1619
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 2: It wasn't given a low budget, I'll tell you that.

1620
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:06,760
Speaker 3: No, it was really good. And it's so crazy because

1621
01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 3: the world is so small. I have a friend who

1622
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:12,120
Speaker 3: actually works for Beasy and she's been working on the

1623
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 3: premiere party.

1624
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: Her name is Elise. Oh yeah, no, at last, yeah,

1625
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 1: at least yeah, that's.

1626
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:23,080
Speaker 3: Yes, that's one of my really close friends, and she

1627
01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 3: had been telling me about the show for like weeks,

1628
01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 3: and then when we got the opportunity to like watch

1629
01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 3: it first and then do the episode, but you always like,

1630
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 3: that's crazy, the world is so small. Because she had

1631
01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:33,599
Speaker 3: been telling me about the show and how good it was,

1632
01:14:33,760 --> 01:14:36,440
Speaker 3: and so I got to watch it.

1633
01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 2: Okay, So what's your mother, what you've been jamming this week?

1634
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 1: Why you know what?

1635
01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 5: I've been singing texas holdown with my son, Texas hold

1636
01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 5: them with my sonka and texas holdown period. And every

1637
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:55,559
Speaker 5: time it gets to the cussin, I screamed different lyrics.

1638
01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:59,400
Speaker 5: So yes, So I'd be like, come on, what take

1639
01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:02,720
Speaker 5: it set up? So he thinks that's the real that's

1640
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 5: the real lyrics.

1641
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:04,400
Speaker 4: That's all he needs.

1642
01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but every time I call him, he sings its change,

1643
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:08,559
Speaker 1: change Chang chang.

1644
01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 2: I love that. I love this Beyonce era, the country era.

1645
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:15,719
Speaker 2: It's like, we get because.

1646
01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 1: That's ours, it's ours, that's the thing.

1647
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 5: It's really like a non thing. I'm like, I'm sorry,

1648
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 5: have you heard of Aaron Neville? Like, I don't understand

1649
01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 5: what's really new about this. It feels totally organic.

1650
01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:28,720
Speaker 2: To her, right and it's like, it's crazy because we

1651
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:30,639
Speaker 2: actually talked about this a few weeks ago. But when

1652
01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:33,679
Speaker 2: she performed at the what was it the CMT Music Awards,

1653
01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 2: I mean they were in a frenzy and yeah, she

1654
01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 2: did Daddy's Girl is Yeah, is it Daddy? What's the song?

1655
01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:43,799
Speaker 2: Is Daddy's Girl Look a little tissy? It's the Daddy's

1656
01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:47,599
Speaker 2: Girl song? Whatever? And then she was but she was

1657
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 2: performing with Dixie Chicks. You know, they'm bying the Dixie

1658
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 2: Chicks from that world because they was against Donald Trump

1659
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:54,559
Speaker 2: and you know, they loved them some Donald Trump chip.

1660
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:57,839
Speaker 2: But I just feel like, if y'all do y'all's history,

1661
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 2: we did country music for yeah, so it should not

1662
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:05,600
Speaker 2: be a problem that, you know, we're getting.

1663
01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:06,040
Speaker 4: Our roots back.

1664
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:07,920
Speaker 2: So I love the fact that the girls, there's a

1665
01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 2: lot of girls going boul right now on TikTok making

1666
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:13,080
Speaker 2: country music and we're getting back to that. So shout

1667
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:13,959
Speaker 2: out to our girl.

1668
01:16:13,800 --> 01:16:18,120
Speaker 3: B this girl because it's always been in Houston too,

1669
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:19,759
Speaker 3: like baby, we're gonna wear our cowboy.

1670
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1671
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:23,719
Speaker 1: The rodeo is actually.

1672
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:24,240
Speaker 4: Going on right now.

1673
01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:27,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's every it's every year. And they were like,

1674
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 2: why is everybody going all in rodeo. Baby, We've been

1675
01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 2: doing this.

1676
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:32,759
Speaker 1: We our whole lives.

1677
01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:35,880
Speaker 3: Literally, like Western day in school.

1678
01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 2: We used to the church would get a like church

1679
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:42,720
Speaker 2: fans together and we would come to Houston. You know,

1680
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:43,639
Speaker 2: I'm from the little town.

1681
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 1: Now you have to get them come to Houston.

1682
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 2: We used to have to get getting them church fans

1683
01:16:47,160 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 2: with our cowboy hats. We're going to Houston for the rodeo.

1684
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:55,800
Speaker 2: It was a holiday whole ass. It was. Okay, So

1685
01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 2: now we're gonna get into our favorite segment of the week.

1686
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:01,240
Speaker 2: It is or your heart out. If you want your

1687
01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:03,559
Speaker 2: question answered on the show, make sure you email us

1688
01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:06,640
Speaker 2: at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. If you

1689
01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:09,000
Speaker 2: are a member of Patreon, make sure you put that

1690
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 2: in the description box and you can skip the line.

1691
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Do you give a good advice?

1692
01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:18,760
Speaker 5: I think so. People ask me for advice a lot.

1693
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 3: Okay, we about to find out ya get into it. Okay,

1694
01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:26,439
Speaker 3: question number one. I'll get to the point. I grew

1695
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:29,920
Speaker 3: up really insecure and not grown into my lugs, and

1696
01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 3: now that I am twenty two, I give bad bitch

1697
01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 3: and get a lot of attention from men on Instagram

1698
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 3: and I don't know how to really deal with this

1699
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:39,639
Speaker 3: new attention. I've always been the type to talk only

1700
01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:42,400
Speaker 3: to one man at a time, and I've always regretted

1701
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:44,519
Speaker 3: these But now that I'm single, I want to get

1702
01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 3: into talking and dating with multiple people so I can

1703
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:50,200
Speaker 3: finally weigh my options and I settle in time myself down.

1704
01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:52,479
Speaker 3: I just want to be there for a good time

1705
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 3: and not a long time, and enjoy the pretty privilege.

1706
01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 3: How can I get into this without feeling like or

1707
01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,360
Speaker 3: being looked at as a whole because me and try

1708
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:02,240
Speaker 3: to court me and even fly me out, but I

1709
01:18:02,280 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 3: always freeze at the thought. But I want to grow

1710
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 3: into a pro, like y'all A pro?

1711
01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 2: A pro? What a pro?

1712
01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:13,679
Speaker 1: I'm not a man exactly.

1713
01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 2: I don't know what y'all. Okay, let me tell y'all

1714
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:24,479
Speaker 2: something now. In my twenties, was that young while and free? Yes, okay,

1715
01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:27,720
Speaker 2: but I'll say this outside of that, that don't matter, Like, yes,

1716
01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 2: we are in relationships now, but I will say, don't

1717
01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 2: do something, Okay, do it because you want to. First

1718
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 2: of all, can't nobody make you do anything that you

1719
01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:41,879
Speaker 2: don't want to do. So I think have fun because

1720
01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:42,880
Speaker 2: I think my.

1721
01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:43,920
Speaker 4: Goal was though.

1722
01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:45,560
Speaker 2: Even when I was young and dating a lot of

1723
01:18:45,600 --> 01:18:47,840
Speaker 2: people and going around and having fun, I was always

1724
01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 2: looking for the long goal. I didn't know when I

1725
01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:52,920
Speaker 2: was gonna meet my husband. That's the beautiful thing about life.

1726
01:18:53,120 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1727
01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:55,719
Speaker 4: I don't know if I've even met my husband yet.

1728
01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I feel like if you date with pure intents,

1729
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:03,040
Speaker 2: that's when you have the most fun. When I started

1730
01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:05,640
Speaker 2: dating kind of being like trying to get something out

1731
01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:08,040
Speaker 2: of a nigga and start moving like that, that's when

1732
01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:10,599
Speaker 2: it kind of didn't become fun to me anymore. When

1733
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:12,840
Speaker 2: I was dating and I was like having fun and

1734
01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 2: just enjoying people's company and just having a ball, that's

1735
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:18,720
Speaker 2: when I had the most fun. So I feel like

1736
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 2: if your intentions are pure with dating, you're gonna have

1737
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:22,640
Speaker 2: a good time regardless.

1738
01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:26,439
Speaker 3: And I just feel like it's easy to have fun

1739
01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 3: and not be considered a whole like I feel like

1740
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:31,080
Speaker 3: when I was in my twenties, I definitely used to date,

1741
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:33,559
Speaker 3: Like I would date multiple people at one time, Like

1742
01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 3: you want to go on a date this week, this

1743
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:37,280
Speaker 3: nigga want to go on a date next week, I'm

1744
01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:38,800
Speaker 3: going don't do all.

1745
01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:40,720
Speaker 4: That doesn't mean you're having sex with all.

1746
01:19:40,720 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 3: It doesn't mean that you're having sex with a nigga

1747
01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 3: just because you went on a date with him. I'm

1748
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 3: gonna explore my options, but I'm not giving all your

1749
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:50,960
Speaker 3: niggas no kuci like excuse me? Really, Like that's how

1750
01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 3: you have fun and not get considered a whole big

1751
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 3: big don't give.

1752
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 1: Every niggas some plicy it's really there simple.

1753
01:19:57,200 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 2: Because you I already when you got married.

1754
01:19:59,720 --> 01:20:00,400
Speaker 4: Were you young?

1755
01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:01,280
Speaker 1: No?

1756
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:05,080
Speaker 4: I was thirty, okay, but y'all were together for a while.

1757
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:07,439
Speaker 2: But did you have like that phase of like dating

1758
01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:08,960
Speaker 2: around and not really?

1759
01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:11,759
Speaker 5: I mean my phase of dating around was very brief, okay,

1760
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 5: but that's what I'll say. I didn't sleep with all

1761
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 5: of them, Like, yeah, you have to fuck them. I

1762
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:18,439
Speaker 5: think that's when. What did she say about us?

1763
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 1: Shudder? Did she say something about I? Shudder?

1764
01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:23,280
Speaker 3: She said, I always freeze at the thought, but I

1765
01:20:23,320 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 3: want to grow into a prose Like.

1766
01:20:24,960 --> 01:20:27,599
Speaker 5: That feels like if you're freezing at the thought, then

1767
01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 5: your body is doing something very intelligent when you just

1768
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 5: stop to slow down. And I don't know why you

1769
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 5: would want to try to override that that that's not true. Yeah,

1770
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 5: that's not who you are. You can't handle it. You

1771
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:44,000
Speaker 5: don't know what you're doing. Just date if you like

1772
01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:46,080
Speaker 5: somebody and you feel like there'll be a good time.

1773
01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 5: Have sex when you feel when you really feel like

1774
01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 5: that's something that you want to do and you feel

1775
01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 5: prepared to do that. Agree, But there's no like I

1776
01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 5: just want to have sex with a bunch of people.

1777
01:20:56,640 --> 01:20:57,840
Speaker 5: I just want to go out with a bunch of people.

1778
01:20:57,880 --> 01:21:00,839
Speaker 5: That's that's a recipe for disaster exactly.

1779
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:01,280
Speaker 2: I agree.

1780
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 3: I think you forcing yourself to do that because of

1781
01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 3: what you see on social media.

1782
01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 4: That's what I was about to say.

1783
01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:07,439
Speaker 2: I think when I was in my twenties, Instagram wasn't

1784
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:10,000
Speaker 2: like it is now. I wasn't seeing everybody what everybody

1785
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:11,559
Speaker 2: else was doing, So I was just doing.

1786
01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:12,559
Speaker 4: What made me happy.

1787
01:21:12,680 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 2: So she's young, she said she was what twenty three,

1788
01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:18,599
Speaker 2: twenty two, so obviously she's seeing things. She's seeing these

1789
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:21,280
Speaker 2: girls outside they get it Chanelle back. I don't even

1790
01:21:21,280 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 2: know what a Chanelle bad was. I ain't even get

1791
01:21:23,120 --> 01:21:25,680
Speaker 2: my first Chanelle until I was what thirty two. You know,

1792
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 2: it's crazy because girls are literally twenty one, be like,

1793
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 2: i't give me my Chanelle give me my chanelle. So

1794
01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:32,920
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that that's what she's talking about, because

1795
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 2: that's not what she said. But I think a lot

1796
01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 2: of times social media makes people think, oh, if you

1797
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:39,040
Speaker 2: outside and you being with these men and doing that,

1798
01:21:39,080 --> 01:21:41,439
Speaker 2: you're gonna that's how you get the shoes, the bags,

1799
01:21:41,439 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 2: that x y Z. Girl. What makes you happy? That's

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01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:47,559
Speaker 2: what you need to ask yourself. What makes you happy?

1801
01:21:47,560 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 2: Because when I was young and dating around, I was enjoying,

1802
01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 2: you know, feeling love or what I thought was love

1803
01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:56,480
Speaker 2: at the time. It was fulfilling me, it was exciting.

1804
01:21:56,560 --> 01:21:59,800
Speaker 2: I loved that fresh feeling of a new relationship. You know,

1805
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:02,920
Speaker 2: I was enjoying myself. So do what makes you happy.

1806
01:22:02,960 --> 01:22:05,040
Speaker 2: Don't be trying to do it because, like you said,

1807
01:22:05,080 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 2: if your body is freezing up, your body is telling

1808
01:22:07,400 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 2: you something. I don't you like this shit? Yeah, I

1809
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:11,200
Speaker 2: don't want to be here.

1810
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:13,280
Speaker 1: And the body is so intelligent.

1811
01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:16,839
Speaker 5: It if your body feels a certain way around somebody

1812
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 5: and you can't explain it, it's you.

1813
01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 1: That's all you need to know that your body is

1814
01:22:21,120 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 1: saying no.

1815
01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 2: It's gonna tell you every time. Okay, question number two,

1816
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 2: heylex Andre, My name is Sierra. I love you, guys,

1817
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 2: but a supporter since day one. Okay, let's get to it.

1818
01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try to keep it short. I'm twenty six

1819
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,320
Speaker 2: years old dealing with a man that's thirty nine. He's

1820
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 2: thirteen years older than me. We've been dealing with each

1821
01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:40,920
Speaker 2: other for almost five years. When we met, we clicked

1822
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:43,600
Speaker 2: and been tight like glue ever since. Our sex is

1823
01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 2: fire and our chemistry is beyond this world. The thing

1824
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:49,920
Speaker 2: is he is in a relationship. I'm a side piece.

1825
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:50,759
Speaker 1: Okay.

1826
01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 2: We try to break things off multiple times, but somehow

1827
01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:55,720
Speaker 2: we keep coming back around to it.

1828
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:59,320
Speaker 5: You get all of that talking to say it right,

1829
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:03,679
Speaker 5: so it should have started with it on a side but.

1830
01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:06,479
Speaker 2: Somehow we keep coming back around to each other. We've

1831
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:08,360
Speaker 2: been through a lot, and to be honest, we both

1832
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 2: expressed our feelings and love for each other. I do

1833
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:12,920
Speaker 2: want to end things, but it's hard to do when

1834
01:23:12,920 --> 01:23:15,719
Speaker 2: we've invested so much time, you know. But I guess

1835
01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:18,200
Speaker 2: I'm asking what tips do y'all have to let someone

1836
01:23:18,240 --> 01:23:21,160
Speaker 2: go you feel you're attached to ps. I'm doing my

1837
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:23,400
Speaker 2: own things, so I'm not dealing with only him, but

1838
01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:27,280
Speaker 2: mainly because he really does make me happy girl.

1839
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:30,880
Speaker 3: Ain't no tips, like, just let that nigga go because

1840
01:23:30,920 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 3: he married and if y'all been messing with each other

1841
01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:35,639
Speaker 3: for five years and he still hasn't left the wife,

1842
01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:38,640
Speaker 3: he not gonna he not gonna leave her. So I

1843
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:42,000
Speaker 3: just feel like you need to just walk away from

1844
01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:44,680
Speaker 3: that situation. It's not gonna be easy because obviously you

1845
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:48,560
Speaker 3: have feelings, but I would just go cold turkey.

1846
01:23:48,400 --> 01:23:52,639
Speaker 1: Like not take him anymore, not talk to him anymore, and.

1847
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:54,720
Speaker 3: Follow him on social media because I don't even want

1848
01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:56,960
Speaker 3: to see what you got going on. But I definitely

1849
01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:59,840
Speaker 3: think for your own mental health and stuff, you should

1850
01:23:59,880 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 3: let that situation go because nothing good gonna come from me.

1851
01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a tip.

1852
01:24:05,360 --> 01:24:07,439
Speaker 5: You should go on his ig find a picture of

1853
01:24:07,479 --> 01:24:09,320
Speaker 5: his wife, print that shit out and put it in

1854
01:24:09,360 --> 01:24:09,799
Speaker 5: your house.

1855
01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:14,600
Speaker 2: That's a good tip that's gonna remind you because that

1856
01:24:14,640 --> 01:24:15,200
Speaker 2: goes with my.

1857
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:16,559
Speaker 4: Tip, he didn't pick you.

1858
01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:18,439
Speaker 3: Put that shit on your wall when you wake up.

1859
01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:21,960
Speaker 2: It's been five years, he did not pick you. Every

1860
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 2: morning he's waking up next to his wife and choosing her.

1861
01:24:25,200 --> 01:24:27,400
Speaker 2: He may be fucking you and talking to you and

1862
01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:30,519
Speaker 2: expressing his feelings. Those words don't mean nothing because his

1863
01:24:30,600 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 2: actions are saying it all because he's at home with

1864
01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:35,920
Speaker 2: his wife. He didn't pick you. He's not picking you

1865
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:39,759
Speaker 2: every day. He's choosing not to pick you. That should

1866
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:42,240
Speaker 2: be enough motivation for you. I think a lot of

1867
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,519
Speaker 2: times you have to know your worth. We have to

1868
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:47,160
Speaker 2: know our worth. Like you know what I'm saying that,

1869
01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:49,080
Speaker 2: and that is coming from somebody. I was in a

1870
01:24:49,120 --> 01:24:52,280
Speaker 2: situation with the guy and I didn't know that he would.

1871
01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:55,000
Speaker 2: He was, you know, in a situation, and I chose

1872
01:24:55,040 --> 01:24:58,559
Speaker 2: to keep dealing with that. Why why I look back

1873
01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:00,600
Speaker 2: on it and I'm like, damn, And I say this

1874
01:25:00,680 --> 01:25:02,360
Speaker 2: all the time. I went through that, so you ain't

1875
01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:04,760
Speaker 2: got to go through that because looking back, I'm like,

1876
01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:07,800
Speaker 2: I was so young and dumb and stupid, and it's like,

1877
01:25:07,840 --> 01:25:10,040
Speaker 2: knowing what I know now, it's like, why you're gonna

1878
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:13,559
Speaker 2: look back on yourself and be happy that you let

1879
01:25:13,560 --> 01:25:15,719
Speaker 2: it go because it's not going nowhere.

1880
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:17,040
Speaker 4: It's not going nowhere.

1881
01:25:17,040 --> 01:25:20,400
Speaker 2: He's gonna lie to you because imagine if he's doing

1882
01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:23,200
Speaker 2: this to his wife, what you think he gonna do

1883
01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:24,960
Speaker 2: to you? If you do get him, he's gonna do

1884
01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:27,960
Speaker 2: the same shit to you. We gotta stop thinking that

1885
01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:30,720
Speaker 2: We're an anomaly in a situation with these men. If

1886
01:25:30,760 --> 01:25:32,840
Speaker 2: you see how he's treating another woman, nine times out

1887
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:36,599
Speaker 2: of ten, he's gonna treat you. Your time is coming, babe,

1888
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:39,120
Speaker 2: Your time is coming. The best thing I did was escape.

1889
01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:40,920
Speaker 2: Who would have made it out?

1890
01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:43,560
Speaker 1: Thank you Jesus.

1891
01:25:44,360 --> 01:25:48,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's my tipmm snap for me for that.

1892
01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:58,280
Speaker 2: I'd have been through it. Lay. Yeah, we wanna have

1893
01:25:58,520 --> 01:26:02,280
Speaker 2: lets from Houston episode bitch it's getting too hot.

1894
01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:03,840
Speaker 1: We can franchise, you know.

1895
01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:09,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So DrrA talk about the show where they can

1896
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:11,360
Speaker 2: find it day, how they can follow you, all that

1897
01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:13,080
Speaker 2: good stuff and other things you're working on all that

1898
01:26:13,120 --> 01:26:13,679
Speaker 2: good stuff.

1899
01:26:14,080 --> 01:26:16,080
Speaker 5: Oh so you can find the show on b et

1900
01:26:16,160 --> 01:26:19,760
Speaker 5: plus right now, yes, right, and you can find me

1901
01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:22,640
Speaker 5: on Instagram dr on e at, dr on e O

1902
01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:26,120
Speaker 5: n I and what else. Oh and right now I'm

1903
01:26:26,160 --> 01:26:29,639
Speaker 5: producing a I'm working on producing a movie. Okay yea,

1904
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:33,360
Speaker 5: So hopefully that'll be that'll be coming to y'all sooner

1905
01:26:33,439 --> 01:26:34,040
Speaker 5: rather than later.

1906
01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:37,360
Speaker 2: Well, I'm telling you if people, well not if the

1907
01:26:37,400 --> 01:26:39,640
Speaker 2: people are going to tune into this show. So if

1908
01:26:39,680 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 2: the movie is just as good as the show, we

1909
01:26:43,240 --> 01:26:46,519
Speaker 2: were coming out and what works Bennie, you always got

1910
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,840
Speaker 2: a supporter here at the Poor Minds and the Poor

1911
01:26:48,920 --> 01:26:53,679
Speaker 2: Kugazov had a time today. Yes, thank you for pulling

1912
01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:56,000
Speaker 2: up y'all. Make sure y'all follow my girl, and y'all

1913
01:26:56,080 --> 01:27:00,320
Speaker 2: check out dr from Detroit on b et plus and

1914
01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:01,400
Speaker 2: we'll see y'all next week.

1915
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:02,360
Speaker 4: Bye.

1916
01:27:03,400 --> 01:27:04,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm doing mighty fine.

1917
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:05,880
Speaker 4: That's time I seen you.

1918
01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:08,240
Speaker 2: It's been a long time. Stop smiling at me.

1919
01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:10,920
Speaker 7: Get that look off, yokay, please gonna even first start

1920
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:11,800
Speaker 7: being so fake.

1921
01:27:12,040 --> 01:27:13,000
Speaker 2: I know you know I like me.

1922
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:14,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you made it very clear.

1923
01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:16,920
Speaker 2: I was talking by me. From what I hear, I

1924
01:27:16,920 --> 01:27:19,000
Speaker 2: always put me down when he thought that you could.

1925
01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:20,719
Speaker 2: I want you to know that I'm.

1926
01:27:20,600 --> 01:27:21,479
Speaker 10: Doing so good.

1927
01:27:21,640 --> 01:27:23,960
Speaker 7: It wasn't it in you last, sir, that I was

1928
01:27:24,080 --> 01:27:26,799
Speaker 7: like that in you said I didn't have a clue.

1929
01:27:27,080 --> 01:27:29,719
Speaker 2: It wasn't it in you. That's sad that I wouldn't

1930
01:27:29,760 --> 01:27:30,400
Speaker 2: make it through.

1931
01:27:31,439 --> 01:27:34,000
Speaker 7: It wasn't it in you last, sad that I didn't

1932
01:27:34,040 --> 01:27:38,559
Speaker 7: look too good, that I wouldn't do too good.

1933
01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:41,080
Speaker 2: I want you to know that I'm doing so good,

1934
01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:43,640
Speaker 2: so good, so good.

1935
01:27:43,640 --> 01:27:44,240
Speaker 4: So good.

1936
01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:49,639
Speaker 11: I know you hate it, but good, so good. I'm

1937
01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:54,439
Speaker 11: doing so so so so so good, so good.

1938
01:27:54,560 --> 01:28:00,240
Speaker 6: It's hard to fig it, but good, so good.

1939
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:01,439
Speaker 2: We sound real good.

1940
01:28:01,680 --> 01:28:03,880
Speaker 7: This is what the matter said, said we wouldn't make it.

1941
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:05,160
Speaker 7: Now we're gonna in platinum.

1942
01:28:05,160 --> 01:28:08,800
Speaker 2: Man, Now you can't take any that good tip.

1943
01:28:09,000 --> 01:28:09,680
Speaker 1: Look at us.

1944
01:28:09,680 --> 01:28:11,120
Speaker 2: Now you see how we live.

1945
01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:12,280
Speaker 4: I say I want people.

1946
01:28:12,560 --> 01:28:15,160
Speaker 2: It wasn't keep it real, be getting caught up? How

1947
01:28:15,160 --> 01:28:17,280
Speaker 2: to make you feel all the things I'm doing that

1948
01:28:17,360 --> 01:28:19,479
Speaker 2: and thought I never could. I want you to know

1949
01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:23,280
Speaker 2: that I'm doing so good? Wasn't it in you that said?

1950
01:28:23,439 --> 01:28:26,200
Speaker 2: Was all that in you? That I didn't have a clue?

1951
01:28:26,560 --> 01:28:29,519
Speaker 2: It wasn't it in you that said that I wouldn't make.

1952
01:28:29,439 --> 01:28:30,719
Speaker 1: It through y'are saying?

1953
01:28:31,080 --> 01:28:34,240
Speaker 2: Wasn't it all say that I didn't look so good?

1954
01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:35,120
Speaker 4: Look at me?

1955
01:28:35,240 --> 01:28:38,840
Speaker 7: I ain't good, nah man, I thought, I want you

1956
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:42,799
Speaker 7: to know that I'm doing so god so good, so good,

1957
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:43,679
Speaker 7: so good.

1958
01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:46,959
Speaker 2: I know you hate man, my heart out good.

1959
01:28:47,120 --> 01:28:51,080
Speaker 11: So good, so good, went so so so so so.

1960
01:28:50,840 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 1: So good, so good.

1961
01:28:52,920 --> 01:28:56,920
Speaker 6: It's so good it's hard to face it, but good,

1962
01:28:57,280 --> 01:28:57,960
Speaker 6: so good.

1963
01:28:58,200 --> 01:28:59,720
Speaker 2: So Okay, this is when she broke it down.

1964
01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:03,800
Speaker 13: Y'all ready doing so so so so so, I'm doing

1965
01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:07,200
Speaker 13: so so so so so I'm doing so so so

1966
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:09,280
Speaker 13: so so good good good.

1967
01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:12,680
Speaker 2: I'm doing so so so.

1968
01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:16,439
Speaker 13: So so, I'm doing so so so so so. I'm doing

1969
01:29:16,479 --> 01:29:19,360
Speaker 13: so so so so so good good good.

1970
01:29:20,120 --> 01:29:23,200
Speaker 2: Wait time I'll Beyonce said, now you're going platinum and

1971
01:29:23,280 --> 01:29:27,160
Speaker 2: now you can't take it. Talk yo shit, be let im.

1972
01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:28,519
Speaker 2: Maybe you are in the building.

1973
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:29,760
Speaker 4: We'll see ya next week.

1974
01:29:29,920 --> 01:30:04,400
Speaker 2: Bo. This time of end