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Speaker 2: Hey, Bobby, it's kind of funny how you my best

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Speaker 2: Bobby is Op's friend. Like, like, Bobby, you know, we've

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Speaker 1: But something's real weird. My kid over there, it kind

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Speaker 1: of looks like you.

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Speaker 2: How strange is that? What?

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Speaker 1: And I've been like, you know, like Bobby, You and

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Speaker 1: my wife has been hanging.

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Speaker 2: Out a lot. Yeah, of course weird, Yeah, rubbing off

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Speaker 2: on her.

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Speaker 1: I thirty seven male, got a paternity test, and now

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Speaker 1: my wife might divorce me over it.

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Speaker 2: To help. Hell.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my wife, thirty five female, and I thirty seven male,

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Speaker 1: have been married for twelve years. We have three kids,

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Speaker 1: and I always had this nagging feeling that our middle

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Speaker 1: child wasn't mine. Our oldest and youngest look just like me,

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Speaker 1: but that middle child does not.

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Speaker 2: Yeip.

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Speaker 1: My wife has shown me a picture of her grandfather,

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Speaker 1: and he does look a lot like him, but he

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Speaker 1: just doesn't have any of my family features. He looks

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Speaker 1: so different than anyone else in the family. I decided

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Speaker 1: I wanted a paternity test to put my mind at ease.

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Speaker 2: Once you're at that point, that's when's that's when it's bad.

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Speaker 1: My wife got pretty upset when I brought it up,

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Speaker 1: because cheating has always been a deal breaker for her.

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Speaker 1: But I just saw that as all the more reason

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Speaker 2: True.

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Speaker 1: I told her that if she had nothing to hide,

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Speaker 1: she'd have no problem getting one done. Come on, mommy,

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Speaker 1: So I test my son and it turns out he's mine.

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Speaker 1: I thought everything was fine, I had my peace of mind.

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Speaker 2: I was chilling.

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Speaker 1: Oh, except she told me she was going to take

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: When I asked why, what could be going on? She

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Speaker 1: exploded and told me that she was seriously considering forcing

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Speaker 1: me for doubting her loyalty to me, knowing how she

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Speaker 2: But it gets crazier, Dude, what I know. I know

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Speaker 2: this man is screwing up his whole life. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: hope he should have just done some background research with

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Speaker 2: public data check to see if his worries were legit

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Speaker 2: or not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like you can instantly look people up and

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Speaker 1: see their real name, like their day of birth, where

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Speaker 1: they're from. And he could have gone through everything in

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Speaker 1: the book to say, Okay, like, you know, has she

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Speaker 1: been associating with any crazies totally or any or any

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Speaker 1: What's a mystery? What's the mistress version of is it?

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Speaker 1: Mister mistress?

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Speaker 2: Mistresses? Yeah, if you have some family that you want

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Speaker 2: to look up, or anyone for that matter, check out

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Speaker 2: VIRALINGK to child Public Data Check.

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Speaker 1: Or go to public data check dot com. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: Doddy do love me. It's like, no, you look like shit.

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Speaker 1: You disgusted me, so disgust me. I only want my

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Speaker 1: paternity test, boyo. Yeah, No, there's enough day. So it's

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Speaker 1: been a couple months now and I thought i'd update.

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Speaker 1: My wife finally agreed to sit down with me after

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Speaker 2: Still be fair. I mean, like, you know, that's pretty rough.

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Speaker 1: You know, like you know how like we've read stories

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Speaker 2: Yeah? This is like that taken to like the and there. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just imagining like the parents are white and

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Speaker 2: Babies are ugly. John hates babies. Newborns are ugly, she said.

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Speaker 1: She then said she'll never forgive me for treating my

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize I treated him so differently, but apparently

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Speaker 1: I try to defend myself, but she asked what I

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Speaker 2: Never cheated on her.

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Speaker 1: Yes yet, yeah, I said that, but she said she'd

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Speaker 2: Bro this wife, he came back, guns Blaze. Help, but

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Speaker 2: there's another update. No, no, this is the title of

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Speaker 2: this one. Wife won't come with kids for Christmas. Help.

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Speaker 1: My wife is divorcing me. If you need all the details,

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Speaker 1: you can check my profile. I guess, But the short

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Speaker 1: of it is, it's over getting me. It's over me

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Speaker 1: getting a paternity test.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: I want to spend Christmas together, but my wife won't

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Speaker 1: spend it with me. She said she'd split the day

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Speaker 1: so I can see two of my kids, not the

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Speaker 1: third one that doesn't look I can, Oh, man, I

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Speaker 2: She refuses to do this.

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Speaker 1: I asked my son if he wanted to come see me,

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 1: I said that she shouldn't continuously be punishing me for

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Speaker 1: in a way that makes him feel like I hate him.

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Speaker 2: Yoins.

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Speaker 1: I tried to argue being a full family unit again

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Speaker 1: would be good for everyone. Babe, Let's just get back together.

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Speaker 1: Forget about the paternity test, forget about me hating on

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Uh no, How dare you guess like me?

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Speaker 1: I said, we could try to reconcile, since I still

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Speaker 1: And offer to split the day again. And that was it.

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Speaker 2: How can I convince her to come spend the day

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Speaker 2: with me? My man is the king of asking all

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Speaker 2: the wrong questions?

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Speaker 1: Yo, he sounds like such a simp. I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: I just get major simp vibes. You get that, he

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking like ere like my wife. Yeah, he's like sad.

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Speaker 2: But he like no matter how hard he tries, like

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Speaker 1: But there's a comment where it's like he's like, how

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Speaker 1: think explains what most people think. How you can't you

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Speaker 1: don't You don't seem to understand that what you did

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Speaker 1: monumental one of that, and a pretty significant rejection of

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Speaker 1: in fact he was yours. The thought was in your

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Speaker 1: head as if you didn't want to claim him without

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Speaker 1: absolute proof, proof you didn't require for your other two

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Speaker 1: sons for some reason. I don't blame her for never

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Speaker 1: forgiving you for it. You had zero evidence of cheating.

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Speaker 1: You were just so ignorant of genetics. You felt that

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Speaker 1: for this, and that's what you're going to do. You

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Speaker 1: and without the wife and the son you did. No,

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Speaker 1: my goodness, Oh yo, but the socket continues.

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Speaker 2: Dude, No, no, I need advice on how to get

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Speaker 2: my wife to talk to me. No, please, My wife

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Speaker 2: and I are.

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Speaker 1: My wife and I are divorcing against my will, which

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Speaker 1: sounds like in cel like involuntary whatever over me getting

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Speaker 1: a paternity test. She wouldn't spend Christmas with me or

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Speaker 1: make our middle child see me, though she did offer

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Speaker 1: to send the other two.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a peace offering.

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Speaker 1: And she refused to have dinner with me on my

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Speaker 2: But several times, we hang you out with me on

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Speaker 2: my birthday. Pree, Yeah, it was kind of like soortion worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he looks so bad. Bro, Does he realize he's

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Speaker 1: making himself look terrible? Clearly he does not.

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Speaker 2: Oh, my god, everything he every time he opens his mouth,

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Speaker 1: I just I'm just like, damn, I can't believe he

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Speaker 1: That doesn't matter at all. Yeah, well maybe it's a

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it just keeps I love. I love how

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that he's going to get back together with this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he just does. He's just so ignorant.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just like, how do you not realize that getting

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Speaker 1: would you guys do if your partner got a paternity test?

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Speaker 1: then you were the one who was probably unfaithful, right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: but they're both paternity tests. Yeah, but it's like but

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Speaker 2: Will be the same thing, right, Getting attornity test would

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Speaker 2: be getting the paternity test of someone you think he

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Speaker 2: cheated with and getting their paternity test and then anywhere

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter. This guy's life is ft, Yes it is.