1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Let's switch gears and start the show with as the clo. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: Here we go. This one, Steve, is from. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: The movie Oh we Will thank you for telling me that. 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 3: Well, well, well we'll get a fourth one. 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: Why do you have to say all that on the air? 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 2: I have one? 7 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 3: I have one? 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Okay, you want to start? You got a fourth one there, Steve? 9 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 3: No, No, I don't want to start with you. 10 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: Go ahead, all right, come on, Clo you ready? Here 11 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: we go. This one's from Maury and Fort Lauderdale. 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight and I moved in with my mom 13 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: three years ago to help her through a financial crisis. 14 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: She got back on track. A year ago, she got 15 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: back on track, and a year ago she reunited with 16 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: an old flame and quickly fell in. 17 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 2: Love with him. 18 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: Their relationship is progressed, and she told me they're ready 19 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: to move in together and her house is more suitable, 20 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: so I'll have to move out within three months. I've 21 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: been helping her pay the mortgage and other bills, so 22 00:00:58,400 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: I haven't been saving any money. 23 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: I am so hurt by this. 24 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: Should I tell her how I feel or just move out? 25 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 4: Well? 26 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 3: You should tell her how you feel, But then you 27 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 3: got to get. 28 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 2: Out Oh, that's all. 29 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 3: You can tell her how you feel. What is your 30 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 3: mama's house? You got to go and here come this man. 31 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 3: And you know that's a little trifling, but you know, 32 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 3: you know what your mama doing and all. But I 33 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: don't think she really realizes the sacrifice you made for her, 34 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 3: So you may have to bring it to her attention. 35 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 2: Okay, I like that advice, Cela, Thank you. 36 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: Moving on, chick and Montgomery says, my husband is a 37 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: long hauler, and when he's gone, I had another life 38 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: that he knew nothing about. I like to go out, 39 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: smoke cigarettes and drink hard alcohol and entertain men. 40 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: What I'm a. 41 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: Waitress and I meet and I meet most of my 42 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: gentlemen there. I recently found out that my husband is 43 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: cheating on me. So now whenever he's home, I said, 44 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: is showing him my other side and I have left 45 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:04,919 Speaker 1: to go on dates while he's home. 46 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 2: He doesn't say a word. Does this mean he doesn't 47 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,119 Speaker 2: love me anymore? Is there any way to fix this? 48 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 3: No? No, I ain't gonna fix for this. He cool 49 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 3: with you going now. You found out he was cheating, 50 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 3: You stayed, He found out you cheating, He stayed. You know, 51 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 3: your marriage been over? And how old are you? Anyway? 52 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 3: What is hard liquor? 53 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: Hard alcohol? 54 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 3: Christian Yss You know anybody that say I've been smoking 55 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 3: cigarettes and drinking hard? 56 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: What? 57 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: What were you? What were you homish and entertaining hard? 58 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 2: It could be some brown looker. It could be I've. 59 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: Been smoking drinking hard liquor and he entertaining me. And jamamn, 60 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 3: you went from the Sunday school teachers. You just out there. 61 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 2: She had a whole nother She said he didn't know 62 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 2: anything about she hang out and hold the walls. 63 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: Huh but average yeah, yeah, traverns, Yeah all right. Bria 64 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: in Paradise Island, Bahama says she's going to turn twenty 65 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: soon and she's in a relationship with a twenty six 66 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: year old man. My parents are old fashioned and told 67 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: him he's too old to be dating me. They have 68 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: forbid me to see him, so I have to sneak 69 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: to spend quality time with him. He has asked me 70 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: to marry him, and my dad won't allow it. He 71 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: says that he loves me enough to wait for me 72 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: to turn twenty one, but I'm scared of losing him. 73 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: My parents don't understand he's a really good guy. Other 74 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: women are interested in him, So what should I do? Wow, 75 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: she's twenty nineteen. 76 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 3: Actually well, I mean, I mean you're gonna keep saying 77 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 3: it's what you're gonna do it. You've already made that decision. Yeah, 78 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 3: I mean, that's what she's doing. She's sneaks to see him. 79 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 3: She's claimed that he's a really good guy. He said 80 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 3: he's gonna wait for you know, she say other women 81 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 3: are interested. You know they in the Bahamas over but 82 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 3: on Paradise Island. That ain't a lie. What is the 83 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 3: Bahamas twenty one miles long? 84 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, but I love it there. 85 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean love You know, it's easy to 86 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 3: bust it, that's for damn. Show. Can't drive, you can't 87 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 3: run off. All you gotta do is keep going in 88 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 3: the circle. Eventually you're gonna care. 89 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 2: You're gonna catch it sting on the island. 90 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 3: Just wait for people to come back around. 91 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 2: And this is that age when kids don't listen. This 92 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 2: is that age. Oh wow, especially if the parents the 93 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: old hours nowhere. But yeah, am I preaching to the 94 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 2: choir right now? 95 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 3: Listen? 96 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 4: All right, jay, here it is you gotta give up 97 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 4: one thing mister hardy cussing, smoking cigarettes? 98 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 3: The other thing? 99 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 2: Sports? 100 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: No, no, after you are what? 101 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 4: You gotta give up one thing? Cussing, smoking cigars or sports? 102 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 4: Which one you get rid of? 103 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:17,239 Speaker 2: For good? 104 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 3: No more for good. 105 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:20,239 Speaker 2: He's not gonna handle this question. 106 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,799 Speaker 3: Will you see his face. I'm just struggling already. 107 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 2: I thought he would say sports. 108 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 3: I don't know if you can handle. 109 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: I'm not giving up sports, sure, okay, the cigars? 110 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: Can I give up sports? 111 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: You got to give up one? 112 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 4: One one? 113 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 3: Y'all love cigarette, you got to go and you love finish. 114 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 3: Stop cussing. 115 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 2: You gotta sive up one. 116 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 3: I'm gonna work through stuff. No, no, I'm a Cussing 117 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 3: helps me work through things, you know, stress? Okay, girl, 118 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 3: I wouldn't know what to do. Man, if you told 119 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 3: me I couldn't cuss no more, I'll tell you right now. Man, 120 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 3: you beater really threw me into summer. You better come 121 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 3: get these damn cigars because you show ain't finn to 122 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 3: get the cussing. Okay, man, Yeah, I'd have to give 123 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 3: up cigars and that and that's a hall. 124 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 4: Well would you because that you can't have a cigarette, 125 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 4: would you be cussing that I lie. 126 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: And dog for sure. 127 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 3: I wouldn't even know what to do without sports. Okay, 128 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 3: you're smoking cigarees watching sports, but you can't cuss how 129 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 3: that sounds? What he just fumbled? He mixed the dunk? 130 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 4: What your fault? 131 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 2: What the heck? 132 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 3: Man? I take it slip my rich washing? 133 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 1: All right, thank you for l and Jay for that 134 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: final one, mister Steve Rbin Martin shaw Man. 135 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 3: Marriage is one of the biggest compromises you'll ever make 136 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: because it is a continuous compromise. I don't know if 137 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 3: you understand how many times you are going to be 138 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:18,559 Speaker 3: ever so right and just have to apologize for being wrong. 139 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 2: I can't be right there ever. 140 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 3: I'm right. Okay, you be right at the court house, Junior. 141 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 3: You can be right to yourself as much as you want, 142 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 3: but in the relationship you have to just let it 143 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 3: go sometimes, because the gold room of marriage for a 144 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 3: man is this. You can be happy or you can 145 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 3: be right. That's the choice we face all the time. 146 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 2: So who made that rule? They were wrong the whole time. 147 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 3: You're gonna lose it all. See, You're gonna you're gonna 148 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 3: lose your house. You're gonna you're gonna lose it now, 149 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 3: you're gonna lose their thing. 150 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: You got boys. 151 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 3: While your hair falling. Right now, your hairline is steady 152 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,119 Speaker 3: heading back because it can't be up there by your mouth. 153 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 3: That's what's wrong. Your hairline is trying to get away 154 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 3: from the stupid stuff that's coming out of your mouth. 155 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 3: Steve Harby Morning Show coming up right after that.