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Speaker 1: Come on, Welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio Morning. Alright,

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Speaker 1: let's go around the room. Oh wait, thank you for

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Speaker 1: being here. You could be anywhere in the whole wide world,

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Speaker 1: but you here with us and we appreciate that. And

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Speaker 1: let's first go over to this guy. He's known for

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Speaker 1: editing video for our show when we talk, but his

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Speaker 1: favorite thing to do might be spilling the tea on

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Speaker 1: lunchbox like that. Here he is producer. Ready, guys, I'm

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Speaker 1: an idiot. I'm an idiot. So when I go to

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Speaker 1: the grocery store, I like wearing I like wearing headphones

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Speaker 1: and listen to music while I shop. Well, I couldn't

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Speaker 1: find my headphones, so I borrowed my son's air pods.

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Speaker 1: I've never used air pods. I put them in. I

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Speaker 1: get my shopping car. I turned my music on and

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Speaker 1: I can hear the music, but it's kind of faint.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like, my kids are so dumb, like they're

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Speaker 1: there skiers are dirty or something, because these things really

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Speaker 1: aren't working that well. But I turned it up all

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Speaker 1: the way. I can hear a little bit. So I shop.

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Speaker 1: People are staring at me and I'm just like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what they're looking at. I get to the

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Speaker 1: counter to check out, and the lady goes, can you

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Speaker 1: please turn your music down? And I'm like, what are

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Speaker 1: you talking? I take my ear pads out and like

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Speaker 1: they weren't even connected. I was playing music from my

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Speaker 1: phone super loud across the horror rosery store. That's an

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Speaker 1: old thing, like an idiot, Yeah, that's an old thing.

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Speaker 1: Have you done that before? No, but I've seen like

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Speaker 1: eighty year olds to do it on the airplane when

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Speaker 1: they can't figure out how to do their bluetooth. I'm

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Speaker 1: so dumb. Are you listening to remember? Like? Also, I dude,

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Speaker 1: I was like, I went shopping for thirty minutes. No

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Speaker 1: one said turn that off except the lady at the checker,

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Speaker 1: and you saw people looking at you. I'm just like, okay,

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Speaker 1: does he know what's happening? But Eddie was like, people

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Speaker 1: are so mean to me now on the roads, Like

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Speaker 1: what do you mean? He goes, nobody'll let me in?

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Speaker 1: Turn out his blinker was broken. Oh crap, I'm getting old.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing all the old all that stuff all right. Next,

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Speaker 1: whereas confidence comes from remains uncertain and you never know

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Speaker 1: what each day we'll bring with this next person here.

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Speaker 1: He is Lunchbox. Everybody, let me tell you something that sucks.

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Speaker 1: The glass Onion, the follow up to Knives Out. It's

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Speaker 1: so stupid, Like Knives Out was overrated when it came out. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it's like it was so high, Tuck, it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: so amazing. Went to it in the theater with my

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Speaker 1: mom and my wife and we're like, oh, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: So glass Onions out. Oh, let me check it out.

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Speaker 1: It's on Netflix. Let me check it out. I started

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Speaker 1: out pretty good. Then it just got so dumb. Movie

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Speaker 1: or movie. Oh it is, it's just the movie movie Mike,

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Speaker 1: did you watch this movie? Oh? Do you think Lunchbox

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Speaker 1: is wrong? I think lead Clock is wrong. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: like anything that has any kind of imagination to it

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Speaker 1: if it's not completely grounded in reality. He doesn't like

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Speaker 1: it if it's not on the nose. So you have

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Speaker 1: to figure it. Yeah. I can't figure it out. No, no, no.

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Speaker 1: I like the mystery part of it, but then the

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Speaker 1: ending is just oh, don't talk about ending. Don't even

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Speaker 1: allude to anything happening in the end. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: saying the first half, the first half, the mystery part

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Speaker 1: is great. No ending talk because Amy doses too and

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Speaker 1: she'll accidentally spoil something. Eddie, you see it. I didn't

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Speaker 1: finish it. I watched about half of it and then

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Speaker 1: kind of on there went back. You like it? No,

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Speaker 1: I just wasn't interested. Again, it's just whatever. It was fine.

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Speaker 1: The first one was great, though. Did you guys finished

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Speaker 1: the last of us? Never started it for Forest and

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Speaker 1: my brother tell me it's great. Yeah, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: say anything about it, but it's over now run the

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Speaker 1: whole series. Yeah, I'm probably gonna. So you think it's

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Speaker 1: better than The Glass Onion. I haven't seen The Glass Onion.

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Speaker 1: That's the TV show versus a movie, so just different. No,

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Speaker 1: you're saying overrated? What do you give it? One and

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Speaker 1: a half islands out of five? Right? She has spelled

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Speaker 1: victim to multiple scamml arts throughout the years, but this

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Speaker 1: has ultimately led to many learning lessons for her peers.

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Speaker 1: Here it is, I went wild with magic eraser around

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Speaker 1: my house. Have you ever used one of those? I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Okay, it's got mister Clean

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Speaker 1: on the front. You can buy them in a four pack,

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Speaker 1: and I bought a four pack in thought, oh, this

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Speaker 1: through the four pack in one day. What do you do?

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Speaker 1: You can? I? I have a lot of white walls,

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Speaker 1: And I didn't realize how many marks we're all over

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Speaker 1: my walls. And I mean, once you see one, you

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Speaker 1: clean it, and then you see another and you go

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Speaker 1: clean it, and then you go see another, and another

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Speaker 1: around your house cleaning up every skub mark everywhere. And

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Speaker 1: it's addicting and amazing. And I need to go get

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Speaker 1: another four pack. You sound, And is it called magic eraser? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's awesome. But here's the truth, guys, it's really so

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Speaker 1: abrasive that it's just taking off whatever's on there's so

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Speaker 1: it's the wall, You're taking off the pain, that's what

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Speaker 1: it's doing. Oh yeah, oh yeah, but my walls look fine.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you had a bad experience. No, I just

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Speaker 1: figured out because I'm like the first ten times, like

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Speaker 1: this is magic? Oh crazy? And then I read more

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Speaker 1: about it. I'm like, oh, it's literally taking the stuff

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Speaker 1: off like acidic or like sandpaper, Like it's so soft,

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Speaker 1: except that it burns my skin. Yeah, it's scraping stuff off.

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Speaker 1: So but you like it magic eraser. Yeah. And then

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Speaker 1: I have this white coffee table. I got stuff off

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Speaker 1: at that. I mean, you could listen. It's addicting. We're listening.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it says magic eraser is a high grit

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Speaker 1: sand paper. Yeah. Man, it's just scraping off whatever. So

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Speaker 1: the table you're taking off all the enamel on it. Fine.

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Speaker 1: My teeth right from Mount Pine in Arkansas. He loves

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Speaker 1: wearing Arkansas red and after games it's hard for him

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Speaker 1: the update on Stanley and his two surgeries, because that's

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Speaker 1: something to say about it. Both his legs have had

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Speaker 1: torn acl ligaments, and his knee. The other one he's

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Speaker 1: ninety percent back, the one from sixty months ago, the

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Speaker 1: other one from like a month ago. He's doing okay.

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Speaker 1: But did you know there's dog rehab. We happen to

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Speaker 1: have one half mile from our house and never heard

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Speaker 1: of such thing. We were looking up dog rehab like

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Speaker 1: things that we could do to him, like from YouTube

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Speaker 1: not for drugs. He's good, he's not. So we call

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Speaker 1: finally took him in. They have dog underwater treadmills like

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Speaker 1: you see athletes doing. Oh wow. We took him in.

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Speaker 1: He did this little like obstacle ladder, of course, to

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Speaker 1: I asked the guy, I said, how did you get

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Speaker 1: into this like dog rehab? I've never heard of it.

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Speaker 1: And he used to work in sports medicine for humans.

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Speaker 1: Do you get banned from me? No? He was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't like working with athletes anymore. They were too whiny.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense. So then he then he started stuff

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Speaker 1: and now does animals. Wow. Never heard of such a thing.

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Speaker 1: They also said, and I kid you not that Stanley

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Speaker 1: was the best behaved bulldogs they've ever had as far

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Speaker 1: sure that any But he rolled over on his side.

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Speaker 1: we've never had bull dog I do this before. It

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Speaker 1: and they be now I can teach. I've told him

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Speaker 1: how to like speak, and he'd be like, he's like

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Speaker 1: but he's on the road to recovery. But more so,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know there was dog rehab places, and there's

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Speaker 1: one right down the road from my house. It serves

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Speaker 1: like three different things. There's also a vet in there,

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Speaker 1: and maybe it's like Uber Eats where they go for

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Speaker 1: Johnny Supreme pizza, but it's really a gas station that

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Speaker 1: don't think that's it, but it's pretty cool. So if

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Speaker 1: you have a dog that's been injured, I have a

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Speaker 1: dog rehabbing your town. No idea. All right, that's it,

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Speaker 1: Bobby Bones, I heard you talking about something similar to

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Speaker 1: what's happening. But my daughter's little older. She has our

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Speaker 1: first real boyfriend. She's fifteen, he's sixteen. He comes to

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Speaker 1: her stepdad, works from home and is around them more

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Speaker 1: than I am. They cuddle on the couch while watching TV,

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Speaker 1: anything wrong. Any advice and had a smooth the situation over, sincerely, Mom,

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Speaker 1: caught in the middle, Yeah, this is easy. Tell him

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Speaker 1: want to go, amy, you have a fifteen year old daughter.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm trying to picture her cuddling on the

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Speaker 1: about part. Those seems weird though too. You just thought

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Speaker 1: him cuddle. Oh but I have friends in junior high

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Speaker 1: high school with their parents. Were the stuff they did

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Speaker 1: I guess I never had a girlfriend, so that's why

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Speaker 1: it seems so foreign, But I would I can't imagine

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Speaker 1: cuddling or right, I guess just having a girl like

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Speaker 1: me then yeah, I mean when you made that joke

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Speaker 1: I knew parents like that, which is wild to me.

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Speaker 1: But I guess I would just say hey, like see,

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Speaker 1: I feel like if you're like no cuddling, then it

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Speaker 1: makes them want to cuddle more. So somehow they need

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Speaker 1: to have like like cuddling before it's boundary type, how

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Speaker 1: can you cuddle it from far away? If it's really

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Speaker 1: about the stepdad, you're just gonna make sure he's not

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Speaker 1: around when they do it. Now, it sounds like she's

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable seeing it, then you just got to separate those two.

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Speaker 1: And if he's there, you can't do it the end

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Speaker 1: or it makes him feel bad. And if he's not,

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Speaker 1: walk over and just unplug everything. And so no, I

421
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Speaker 1: don't thought about it, slam it, pick it up, slamming. Nope,

422
00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,440
Speaker 1: thought about that. Get a fake one that's broken, that's

423
00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:04,679
Speaker 1: not cheap and mighty. You walk in, You're like, I

424
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,800
Speaker 1: am tied, and you take that fake one, you smash

425
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:08,280
Speaker 1: it and then you start kicking it and then you

426
00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 1: pee on it, and then you're like, if you want,

427
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:14,120
Speaker 1: these are the things they will remember and it's not.

428
00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,680
Speaker 1: That's not the healthier. Yeah, I remember that. That's cool,

429
00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 1: and I remember that in a good way. Like I

430
00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,520
Speaker 1: ain't ever messing with her again. She just beat on

431
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:23,200
Speaker 1: my system. Now, I calmly say, hey, we can play

432
00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 1: video games, but we turn off our lights before. So

433
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 1: did they know you took everything? Yeah? Or are they

434
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 1: just finding out like right now listening, which I don't

435
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,640
Speaker 1: think they are, but I mean, no, A good parent,

436
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,560
Speaker 1: bad parent, amazing parent. I love it. Latch Great Parents.

437
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 1: I think it's hilarious. I think it's hilarious too. I

438
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,159
Speaker 1: don't like it because I could happen to me. Right correct,

439
00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:50,360
Speaker 1: he's probably a walking all around the health right now,

440
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 1: he's probably flipping the couch cushion more time though. Right

441
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: now he's like scratching himself. Yes withdrawals, Yes, going through it. Okay,

442
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:02,680
Speaker 1: good parent, a good parents, Amy, you're officially a good parent.

443
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 1: Good job, good parents of the day. What'd you watch?

444
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,439
Speaker 1: MG three seventy The plane that disappeared on Netflix? Was

445
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,440
Speaker 1: it the Malaysian flight where they just don't know where

446
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 1: it went yet at all? They have There's so many

447
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 1: theories out there, And here's what I thought. I thought

448
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 1: when I watched it. It's a three part docuseries, and

449
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 1: I thought, Okay, we're gonna get some answers, but well,

450
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 1: don't spoil it though it Is this a spoiler where

451
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 1: there's no answer? Maybe? Maybe not? Well, I think if

452
00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 1: there were answers that we'd know from the news, right, yeah, Okay,

453
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,679
Speaker 1: set us back on what happened, because what I remember

454
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 1: is there's this flight and they were flying over a

455
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 1: lot of ocean. Yeah, and then it was just gone.

456
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 1: So they took off from Malaysia at midnight or one

457
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 1: am or something, and then they were supposed to land,

458
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 1: I don't know, somewhere in China, like six am. A

459
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 1: lot of that is over the water, big commercial flight too, right,

460
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,120
Speaker 1: like like hundreds of people, two hundred and thirty nine

461
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:58,400
Speaker 1: or something like that. And at some point over the water,

462
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: not too long after they took off, the pilots sign

463
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 1: off from communication because that's what you do, I guess

464
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night, and so you hear

465
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: the pilot. It's like TV in the seventies. They played

466
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 1: the national anthem and then just shuts off your radar

467
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: and everything still supposed to be on, but I guess

468
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 1: you are like, Okay, good night, and that's the last

469
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 1: thing you hear the pilots say is good night. And

470
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 1: then suddenly they disappear off the radar and that should

471
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 1: not happen, Like there's no that they've never experienced anything

472
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,439
Speaker 1: like that. So the Malaysian like air control, all the

473
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 1: people in charge of the airport, they get calls in

474
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: the middle of the night. They go up to the airport.

475
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 1: Everyone's confused, try and figure out what happened. And yeah,

476
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 1: it's wild to think that these families just lost all

477
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 1: their loved ones on that plane and they still don't

478
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: have answers. Two things I want to say. Number one

479
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: is Eddie and I are flying to De Moine later

480
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 1: to watch Arkasa basketball. I don't like here on plane

481
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 1: crash stories whenever I'm about to fly on a plane. Yeah,

482
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: the thing is, how do you know it crashed? I

483
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 1: don't or planes disappearing. I don't want to be on

484
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: De Moines flight one one one and all of a

485
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: sudden we're gone. I don't want to disappear either. So

486
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: that's one. Two is that show where the plane disappears.

487
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 1: Think shows up ten years later in manifests, like what

488
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 1: if that plane just all of a sudden came back

489
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: in five years and I'll like, they're like, oh we're back.

490
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 1: That's a good and we're all older and they still

491
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 1: think it was their six hour flight? Do they think

492
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 1: that whether aliens? Like, what's the theories here? I've seen

493
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: so many conspiracy theories on this. What's the big theory?

494
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: I don't recall whether or ailing aliens one of the

495
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 1: big theories was that there was something on that plane

496
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 1: or cargo being delivered somewhere, and someone didn't let that happening.

497
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: And so take with you one from that, which seems

498
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 1: really really scary because you have all these innocent people

499
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:46,360
Speaker 1: are just trying to I mean, there was mother's children,

500
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: like it's so they some of the family members were

501
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 1: a part of the documentary and it's just so terrible,

502
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: Like this one man, I felt so bad his wife

503
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: and children on the plane and he was supposed to

504
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: meet up with them at the next stop and then

505
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: they were all gonna be flying together and they just

506
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: never arrived. And then the ocean is so big you

507
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: can't find it. Then if that's what happened or anything,

508
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: like all the seats float right, but it's the ocean, bro,

509
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,479
Speaker 1: I know, really big. Yeah, they find any pirates out

510
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: there and sailors and stuff, popeye, No one's finding a chair. Well.

511
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: This one woman that is photographer, that is she said

512
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: she has a really good eye for things. She pho

513
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,239
Speaker 1: the really good eye. But she volunteered. You know how

514
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 1: people on the internet, what are they called them? They

515
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: volunteered to solve crimes. The idiots go ahead, I don't know,

516
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: so she joyed like there was all these little bubbles

517
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: of people across the world that we're rallying together online

518
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: to try to solve this mystery. And she claims to

519
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: have found parts in the water that look like it,

520
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: but from pictures like satellite images, yes, satellite zoom in. No,

521
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: she feels like she found very specific parts of the plane.

522
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,919
Speaker 1: But then again, she said she really couldn't get anybody

523
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: to listen to her to go check it out because

524
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: she's whack a dooodle. I don't know, she's s pretty,

525
00:24:56,119 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: the plane floating nice anyway. I think officials, unless officials

526
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:02,959
Speaker 1: were involved in it, okay, but that's the thing. At

527
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 1: the press conferences and different things, families were like, what

528
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: you're saying is not making sense, and also you're not

529
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: telling us anything, and why does this steel value? To me?

530
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: Feels like here's what the order. I rate them with

531
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: absolutely no knowledge on the subject, so totally dumb dumb.

532
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: Here one, the government did not want something going from

533
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 1: A to B. So you know the government does a

534
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: shoot it down, B blow it up. That's one two aliens? Wow,

535
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: aliens is a two three grab bag? Could be anything else?

536
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 1: Is that documentary is a good. It's pretty good. I

537
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: had it. I went on while I was like cleaning

538
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: and doing things. It kept me entertained. But then my

539
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 1: son walked in and was like, what's this. I'm like, no,

540
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 1: because I do not want him to be scared to fly.

541
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: I'm scared. We're going to Iowa today. Huh. Well I

542
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 1: fly with him this weekend and I had to like

543
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: slam my computer down. Nothing to see here, kids, that

544
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: would scare him. Yeah. I could see us being on

545
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: the plane and then him being like, what's going to happen?

546
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: Is this playing going to disappear? Are we okay? Because

547
00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: he already thinks at the end of the world's happening

548
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 1: or something. This thing where he saw on TV, like

549
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,439
Speaker 1: the news, and so he thought someone's like coming too

550
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: the house or oh there's been lots of things, so oh,

551
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: it's so common that it could be one of ten things. Yeah,

552
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: he's a he's his brain is always on high alert,

553
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 1: which I think is just some of his trauma, like

554
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: living in fight flight free. So we try to, you know,

555
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: make sure we do our best to keep him like

556
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: I think that Russia's gonna bomb us or something as well.

557
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's one of them. Yeah, I mean one

558
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: of them. Oh no, he thinks we're going into World

559
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: War three? Yes, no, I mean there's I probably only

560
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,199
Speaker 1: shared a couple with y'all, but in my mind, I'm like, well,

561
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 1: there's every day we're kind of dealing with a new

562
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 1: potential tragedy. Ah. I deals with the same thing with me, honesty.

563
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: I mean really it is very similar. Yeah. Yeah. Here

564
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: are your top three songs in country music. At number three,

565
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: Laney Wilson Heart Like a Truck, I Got a Hard

566
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: At number two, Bailey Zimmerman Rock and a Hard Place

567
00:26:54,040 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: between a Rock And that's a good one. Huh oh yeah,

568
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: like I out of Nowhere, Out of Nowhere, that song

569
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 1: is like, hey, that's good. Number one. Luke Hombs going

570
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: Going Gone. So here's this. I'm gonna play the number

571
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 1: one alternative song and it's from Lincoln Park. But it

572
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: has Chester Bennington singing, oh wow, who died? Do you

573
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: remember him dying? Or no? Not really refreshment. Well, there

574
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: are two leads of Lincoln Park. There was like Mike Shinoda,

575
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: the rapper, guy Chester Bennington, the lead singer. Chester died

576
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 1: and so this was a track from an album in

577
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 1: two thousand and three, but they just released it twenty

578
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: years later and it's the number one alternative song and

579
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: it's called Lost. Lincoln Park was massive back in the day.

580
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: For anybody that's like twenty five listening, I don't know

581
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,959
Speaker 1: why you're listening. There are much cooler show than us. However,

582
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 1: Lincoln Park was. I mean, they were awesome. I was

583
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: never a massive fan, but I could appreciate their big

584
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: radio poppy songs, and also I understood why people liked them.

585
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: They wrapp Dan saying, yeah, that's pretty cool. We did that.

586
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: They had two different lead singers. That was so cool.

587
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 1: And then finally the number one pop song, and this

588
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: song is great. It's Miley and Flowers. That's a jam. Okay,

589
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 1: those are your number one songs all across you' Samy's

590
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: Pile of Stories. Reusable water bottles like tumblers, are very

591
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: popular right now, so much so they have a nickname

592
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: Emotional Support water bottles. So many women they don't even

593
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: leave the house without their Stanley sexes men to no

594
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: adult men can have one. Eddie has something over there

595
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: idea right here. I thought when I saw this story,

596
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: they meant reusable water bottles like I will use a

597
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: plastic water bottle, meaning I'll use it three or four times,

598
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: filled up with the water in the fridge. But I

599
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: didn't realize they meant those, which if those have that

600
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: many germs? How many germs my plastic water bottles unformed use.

601
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: Researchers swabbed different parts of the water bottle, the spout,

602
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: the lids, straw, the squeezeop everywhere, and it's got forty

603
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: thousand times more bacteria than the average toilet seats. You

604
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: know me, I always say, toilet seats aren't that gross anyway,

605
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,239
Speaker 1: It's much just your butt cheeks. What are your butt

606
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: cheeks ever touched? And nothing right? And second of all,

607
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: stop swabbing everything, ark swabbing everything. Oh yeah, Ron Swabbin

608
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: also lunch boxes a water bottle in the studio. He's

609
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: never cleaned once. It's sits your every day. Well, no,

610
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: you have some blue light on it that he pushes

611
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: it cleans it all out. I don't believe it. I

612
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: do clean it. I hit the button and it says,

613
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: boom kills nine nine of the bacteria. Look at it.

614
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: The blue light going Now, who, why don't we have

615
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,479
Speaker 1: a blue light just on the wall. Then we walk

616
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: up to it let it clean up. Oh that's a

617
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: good idea. I'm just telling you I don't think that

618
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: works like he thinks it works, all right. What else, Well,

619
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: they're swabbing it to remind people to wash it. Stop

620
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: swabbing everything, wash it regularly. You're good. So if you

621
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: want to come to work in a better mood, I

622
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: have an easy thing that you can do. Drive nice.

623
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: That's all you have to do. They say it will

624
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: cut down your work stress by forty percent. And if

625
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: you're wondering what does drive nice mean? Well, you can

626
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: let someone into your lane, you can wave high to

627
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: someone at a stoplight, you can avoid tailgating, and you

628
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: can just be more patient on the road. Eddie, Yeah,

629
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: I like that. No, that's me totally until somebody cuts

630
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: me off. Then it's like then I'm stressed for work.

631
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: Do you feel like that was a targeted ad right there?

632
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: In a little bit, like you're the only one that

633
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: actually heard that second, I mean, never looks at me

634
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: when she's talking about these segments segment, you're the only

635
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: person that's hearing this. Right now, we've now figured out

636
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: targeting radio show for things that people need to hear.

637
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: But to counter what Eddie just said, if someone cuts

638
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: him off, I feel as though he'll arrive to work

639
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: less stressed. If you don't react to the person that

640
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: cut you off, if you decide to be like, you

641
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: know what, they're probably having a rushed morning or a

642
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: bad day. I don't know. There's circumstances. I'm just going

643
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 1: to smile and wave then while it won't affect you,

644
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: and you've cut someone off accidentally occasionally, yeah, my signal

645
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,479
Speaker 1: light wasn't working. Yeah, and I had to know that

646
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: with a working signal light actually accidentally, And then I go, oh,

647
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: but they're so mad at me, going like that idiot,

648
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: but it was an accident. I'm sorry, that's what's up.

649
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: Have you ever just waved with someone at a stoplight? No, Bill,

650
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: I just realized that was one of the things I said.

651
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I like wave people if they let

652
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: me in, like if I thank you, But then I

653
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: look and see if they saw me wave, and if

654
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: they didn't, I get a bigger wave. Then if they

655
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: didn't put more armup the window, and then if they don't,

656
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: my head out then I'm turning. It's like a dumb

657
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: and dumber out of the side of the car. What else?

658
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: Jason Country put out the top saddest country songs of

659
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: all time, according to them. We'll see if you agree,

660
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: And at number three, Hank Williams I'm so lonesome I

661
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: could cry. I'm lot. Yeah, it's very sad. It's so

662
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: old though. That makes me just want to get a beer.

663
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: Then it feels more black and white than it does

664
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: reality side. But yes, it's nineteen forty nine. Yeah, that's

665
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 1: Eddie birth Yer. No, it's the guy. What else? And

666
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: then in from nineteen seventy five is Willie Nelson blue

667
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: Eyes Crying in the rain Watch cry right. This is

668
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: one of my top three, maybe top five favorite songs

669
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: of all time. And I know it's sad. I just

670
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: it's just normal for it. This feels this songs normal

671
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: to me. It's my baseline. It's not even that sad.

672
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: I love sad and I don't know. I hear this

673
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: and go I'm just so sad. There are songs that

674
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: really kick me in then ad sad, These are like

675
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: just generally sad. This one makes me want to get

676
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: another beer. Well, I'm seeing a theme here. Buzz now

677
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: like songs that don't make you feel like they're going

678
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: to be sad and then hit you. It's sad out

679
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 1: of nowhere, Tim mcgirl, I don't hate the girl sad

680
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 1: at the end? M. George Jones. Is that number one?

681
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: By the way, No, it's no, no number one, We'll

682
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: kick you in the or the other one is Reba

683
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: and Brooks and Dunne cow Girls don't because the whole

684
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 1: song is about her and her dad and being like,

685
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: get up on the horse again. Cow girls don't cry.

686
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: And then at the end he dies spoiler alert, and

687
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,239
Speaker 1: she's like cow girls don't cry and you're like, oh,

688
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: like that to me where it walks you somewhere and

689
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: then sweeps your legs out sad like real life. Those

690
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 1: are the most sad ones. What's number one? Well, Vince

691
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: Gill started writing this song in nineteen eighty nine after

692
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: Keith Whitley died. Yeah, but he didn't finish writing it

693
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: until nineteen ninety three after his brother died. And that

694
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: that alone right there gives me all the fields and

695
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 1: it's go rest high on that mountain. That's a very

696
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: sad song because you know it's played at a lot

697
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: of funerals. Vince played it at the Opry last week

698
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: because somebody had passed away somewhat. I don't remember this story.

699
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: There was a there was like a drunk fight, Yeah,

700
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: right up there in front of us. Weird. That's kind

701
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: of distracted, yes and so, but yes, that song is

702
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: so sad. But still he stopped loving her today. That's

703
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: a sad song. Did you know why you stopped loving her?

704
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 1: She died? He died? Oh, he died. That's right. You

705
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 1: go back and listening that. It It means he's loved her

706
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 1: so hard, so hard, and the only time he would

707
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: stop loving her is if he couldn't anymore. So he

708
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: stopped loving her today. That George and Tammy show on Showtime,

709
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: when they do that scene about this song, you guys

710
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 1: haven't seen her, right, No, I don't think i've showtime anymore.

711
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't think I've already asked two people for passwords

712
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: and it's not working. So and I'm gonna refuse to

713
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: give you mine because that is not right. What somewhat

714
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: of integrity does No. I think they're smarter than that,

715
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: and they're not letting a word might leave it written

716
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: on a piece of paper after the show. But I

717
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: have nothing to do with that password. And you having it,

718
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: you find it, You're you're fine. You find that's my pile.

719
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 1: That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the

720
00:34:52,360 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: good news. There's a dog resort and it's in Seattle's

721
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: Lake City neighborhood and it caught fire. Now, what's in

722
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: a dog resort? Dogs? Bunch of dogs, think so employees

723
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 1: that all the places around saw it, and they weren't

724
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: gonna wait for the fire department because they knew they

725
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,240
Speaker 1: had to get those dogs out of there. So PSR

726
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: Mechanicals one of the places. They started running out of

727
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 1: there into the place, grabbing dogs. There was also a

728
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: Mexican restaurant and everybody ran out of that. I started

729
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: grabbed the dogs. In the end, they saved sixty dogs. Wow,

730
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,720
Speaker 1: not a single dog died in the fire. No humans

731
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 1: were injured. The place didn't do well, it didn't bounce,

732
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: you know, it was yeah, but no humans or dogs

733
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 1: died because everybody jumped into action and ran in and

734
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: just started grabbing all these animals and pulling them out

735
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: of there. That's some bravery to run in after a

736
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: dog you don't even know. Yeah, I'd be like, that's

737
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: a pretty big fire, Stanley. You good buddy. I'm just kidding.

738
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: For sure. I'd run in great story. That is what

739
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: it's all about. That was tell me something good. It's

740
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: signed for the speed, Corny. Amy gives us one, Corny.

741
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: We have fifteen seconds to figure it out, ready, Gay,

742
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 1: come on and action. Morning Corny. Why did the chicken

743
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: go to the gym? The gym work out? Lift weights,

744
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 1: lift weights, foul chicken poultry free. Oh we're out the

745
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: time you guys see whole chicken chicken flu bug time.

746
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, what is it to work

747
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: on his pecks? Pecks? That was the morning Corny. I

748
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: thought when you would you say gobble or google or

749
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: would you say I thought when you made some noise

750
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: it was you were getting there. That was just me

751
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: being frustrated. It wasn't chicken noise is not really gonna

752
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: work out his pecks. Though. Sometimes it's mad. Sometimes my

753
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: wife we will watch like Last of Us, the Zombie Show,

754
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: into the World show, and she'll go like, well that

755
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: couldn't happen, like something random and normal, And I'm like,

756
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: it's a whole show about zombie everything, and she's like,

757
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 1: but they don't act like that park's real, and I'm like,

758
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,959
Speaker 1: you don't. It's like watching Batman with her. We watched

759
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: the Robert Pattinson and she's like, why is he a superhero?

760
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean? What does he do

761
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: that's super I don't know. He's like saw fights crime? Well,

762
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: cops do that, okay, But what's his superpower? What he

763
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: like fights? Um? Okay, there are a lot of people

764
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: like can fight. Well he has he has all this equipment.

765
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: So he's rich, yeah, pretty much. And I'm like, you're right,

766
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: he's not a superhero. He's just a rich guy. All right,

767
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: thank you. Okay, walk me through what happened to you.

768
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: You know, when you're in a parking lot, it's like

769
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: Christmas when the car in front of you is not

770
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: is no longer there, so you instead of backing out

771
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,839
Speaker 1: of the parking spot, you get to dry straight through.

772
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: I don't like backing up, you know. So I was

773
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: so excited about driving straight through, so I start to

774
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: do that. Obviously, I proceed with caution because you know,

775
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:11,240
Speaker 1: parking law drives slow cars could be whipping in the spot,

776
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: which is what happened. But I'm already halfway through, like

777
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: about to leave, like the belly of your cars halfway

778
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: over the line. Yes, you're almost nose to the back

779
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,439
Speaker 1: end of the spot. Yes, got it. And this guy

780
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: is pulling in obviously, I get it. It's he's thinking

781
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: he can park there, but he encounters me, and then

782
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: he won't. He won't move, and I'm thinking I'm already like, dude,

783
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: just back up a little bit and I can be

784
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,439
Speaker 1: all my way and then you can part. Yeah. In fact,

785
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 1: you can probably pull up and have the spot I had,

786
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: and that way you can just whip right out when

787
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: you're done and you get to leave. He did not

788
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 1: care to think that way, and we just stood there

789
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: like downmate, just staring at each other. Yeah, Like who's

790
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: going to move first? Yeah? I was like, surely he's

791
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: gonna move. How long are you thinking? Well, it probably

792
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 1: was not that long, but to me it felt like

793
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: five minutes, okay, because I just thought, why is he

794
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 1: not backing up? This is so bizarre, Like if I

795
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: were to pull in and see someone was already doing that,

796
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, okay, one sec I'll back up.

797
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: But if there's no other spot, I was there first,

798
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: but I also understand I might be in the wrong.

799
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,919
Speaker 1: That's why I'm bringing it to y'all. And I don't

800
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: know if I was being ridiculous or if if he was.

801
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: Was he old young? Oh? Probably same as me? Medium?

802
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: What are we a real old medium? Okay? He was medium? Eddie?

803
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: Have a question? Yeah, was there someone behind you? Like,

804
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: was someone trying to get in your spot once you

805
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: already went forward? No? Not yet? Okay, yeah, it would

806
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: have been quite the predicament and you were just driving

807
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 1: through to that. Okay, Yes, let's go around the room here, lunchbox,

808
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: you go first. This is happening. Whose side are you on, Amy, Listen,

809
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: you're a terrible driver. You do terrible things on the

810
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,359
Speaker 1: road and parking lots, but you're absolutely in the ride

811
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: on this one. Everybody. When the parking lot, parking spot

812
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: in front of you was open, you pull through. The

813
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: guy just needed to back up, because what if you

814
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 1: start backing up a car comes from behind, then you're

815
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: stuck between two cars. That guy was in the wrong.

816
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 1: Amy wins this hands down. Wow, that's weird, Eddie. No, no, no, Amy,

817
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: you're looking for convenience here, like your job is to

818
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: back up out of your spot like everyone else in

819
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: that parking lot. But you happen to get lucky. You

820
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: went forward and it bit you in the butt. There's

821
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: a car there, it needs to come forward. In part,

822
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: you should have backed up out of there in one

823
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: to one. Okay, well so far I'm on both sides

824
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: of them now. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Was a

825
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 1: parking lot full ish, but there were other spots. Yeah,

826
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 1: I feel like the guy maybe what was weird about

827
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: that is I would have thought if somebody was doing

828
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: that to me, that they were just driving all the

829
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 1: way through to leave, not just a park. So I'm

830
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: surprised he didn't back up just to let you like

831
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 1: drive out of the spot, even that's what I was

832
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: trying to do. Yeah, but you don't know that. I mean,

833
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: you can't communicate. She could easily just be pulling up

834
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 1: to park there too. Point bones, I didn't think about

835
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: that because there's some cloudiness there. Is she trying to

836
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: park in that spot? I drive through me? No? No, no,

837
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: But he doesn't know that. Yeah, I know, he doesn't know.

838
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,959
Speaker 1: That's staring and all that. I don't know that. Yeah,

839
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm gonna go with you should have

840
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: backed out. Oh god, now I feel bad. But he

841
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: had no idea what you were doing. He didn't know

842
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: your intention. He wanted that spot. He thought maybe you

843
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,839
Speaker 1: were just gonna sit and hold that spot. Okay, well

844
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: guess what I do lose? I did back out. So

845
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: I did lose. Okay, good, that's good for you. But

846
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 1: you still made it him and then backed out. Oh

847
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: I wouldn't quit. Oh no, even if I know I'm wrong,

848
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: I'm digging in and I'm like, I know i'm wrong.

849
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 1: I'mout be even more wrong. But I ain't losing. But

850
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: you should have. You did right in the end. You

851
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: did right. That's right. That's not your spot. There's a

852
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 1: line there for a reason. That line is supposed to

853
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: be a barrier, an indicator. Actually, that's a very valid point.

854
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: I was like, otherwise it would just be a straight

855
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: through spot or an arrow. I can go on through.

856
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: It's a driving lane, okay. I Hey, I can admit

857
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: when I'm wrong. You make a big deal out of it, though,

858
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: when you backed up where you're like, oh, throw your

859
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 1: hands in the air. No, it wasn't like super dramatic,

860
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: but I was like, you give the bird, no, I

861
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 1: have never given anybody that because nobody never I've never

862
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: flipping back in a car. When's the last time he

863
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: flips someone off in your car? Lunchbox? A week and

864
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: a half ago, not that long ago. No, no, But

865
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,919
Speaker 1: it was his fault because I'm in the middle lane

866
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: and he's in the right lane. He's on his dumb

867
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,959
Speaker 1: phone looking at his phone. Cuts over into the middle lane.

868
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: I hank, do the brights, and then he goes over

869
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: the left lane. Nice, no, no, no. And then he

870
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 1: gets back over the middle lane, back over the left lane,

871
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: and I hank again, give the bird. And why give

872
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: the bird because he's on his phone. I get it,

873
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: and he just get out of the way, right, get

874
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: out of my wane. No, okay, go ahead. And here's

875
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: the bad part. My kids were in the car and

876
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: I pull up at the stop light and he comes

877
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: up on my left and I have the windows down,

878
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: and he rolls up next to me and starts clamping.

879
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: He goes, are you freaking happy? But you have your

880
00:42:58,160 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: kids in your car? You're give us a boy the bird?

881
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 1: They could pull a gun on you. Yeah you didn't

882
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: get shot. Yeah, I know I understand that. But I

883
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 1: said get off your dang phone. But I didn't say dang.

884
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: We think he made the end of the story up. Yeah,

885
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: me too, absolutely, thank you Luox. No, what what part

886
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: do you think I made? When you confront somebody in

887
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: perk with your kids, they are no. No. He pulled

888
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,760
Speaker 1: up next to me and started clapping like, oh, good job,

889
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,399
Speaker 1: like I was some he was. I'm like, oh, you're

890
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: so brave, And I said, why don't you get off

891
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 1: your blanket phone. I don't believe the end. I believe

892
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,399
Speaker 1: the rest, just not the end. Guy, you don't believe

893
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: I was there. You can ask my kids, well, what

894
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 1: do you say your kids about that finger? They do

895
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 1: it all the time now. No, my kids said, Dad,

896
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: why are you waving at that guy? He was on

897
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: his phone. This is the wave you do when people

898
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 1: make you unhappy. Let's go over and talk to Maddie,

899
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: who is in Texas. Hey, Maddie, you heard Amy's situation

900
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 1: in the parking lot. What you think about that? Um? Yeah,

901
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: so I don't agree with you with Eddie. I actually

902
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: agree with lunchbox, which I very rare. But that's not

903
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: how driving works. It doesn't matter if Amy's in the

904
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: wrong for pulling through a spot or not. She's in

905
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,879
Speaker 1: the spot, like, you have to give the right away

906
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: to the person who's already there. Doesn't matter if he

907
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 1: wants to keep pulling forward or if he wants that spot.

908
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 1: Amy's already in the spot, like, he has to let

909
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: her do whatever she's doing. Yeah, I hear you. I

910
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: mean there's a line there for a reason. There are

911
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: lines on the road too, for a reason, full lines,

912
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: not broken lines. Again, I would have been upset. I

913
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:35,919
Speaker 1: agree with what you were doing. I just probably would

914
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: have backed out to give him the benefit of it,

915
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: unless he have an eyeballing me hard. I've been thinking

916
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: about this. The harder he's eyeballing me, the more airtated

917
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get though. Yeah, you'd rub the engine a

918
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 1: little bit, and then I would steal me too, and

919
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: I just want to move. And then when he back off,

920
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 1: I'd get out too. And Yeah, it's not good to

921
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 1: get me in a competitive situation. Definitely not. Yeah, I

922
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: hear you. It's there's nuance to it, totally. That's the

923
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: perfect Yeah, there's nuances. Yeah, and then we're in a

924
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 1: land at the time we're nuance isn't accepted, but here

925
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: we are. What is the nuance mean? It means little

926
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:07,799
Speaker 1: things here and there that change it. It's not fully

927
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: black and white. Got it right, because that's definitely the

928
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: situation when y'all brought up somebody brought up the line

929
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: like I drove over the line, Like if there's a

930
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: curb there, I wouldn't be able to do that. Do

931
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 1: you ever hear the saying you cross the line? Yes, don't.

932
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 1: You don't want to cross the line. I mean, hey,

933
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna do this envelope, So this is what's up.

934
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: A year ago, Ray came to us and said it's

935
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: a country music secret, and he goes, I heard this

936
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 1: couple's getting divorced. And we're like, really goes yeah, and

937
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put an envelope. Did you like date it

938
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:38,320
Speaker 1: or something? I did. What's the date on the envelope?

939
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 1: Three fifteen, twenty twenty two. So we're a year and

940
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: one day after Ray put this in the envelope and

941
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: you said to us, what said that? I was given

942
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: inside information that a couple's getting a divorce. It's been

943
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 1: kept on the DL not nobody knows about it, but

944
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: everybody in the industry knows about it, so it's shocking

945
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: it hasn't come out now has It's a year later,

946
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: and so I told her, a, we can't just open

947
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: it and just be reckless, but I said, I will

948
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 1: look at it, and if I don't feel like we're

949
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: gonna get sued, then maybe we reveal what he thought

950
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 1: he knew and he was wrong about by the way,

951
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 1: he was wrong. So do you want to bring me

952
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: the envelope? Yes, I'm ab ring it finally does That's good.

953
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: They're not sweating music because they're not getting divorced. So

954
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: it's a great point. We're doing their vows. This thing

955
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 1: hasn't been opened over a year. Why do you make

956
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: sure the camera doesn't see that? I got you just

957
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: don't face it forward. He doesn't know which way it's facing.

958
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 1: Well I do. Oh it's wow. I'm so glad they

959
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: figured things out and didn't get a divorced Yeah. Oh yeah, okay,

960
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: here we go. This is a strong hand is in

961
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: the envelope? I mean, I'm just saying things like their

962
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 1: love is what love is all about. Oh, that's a

963
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: weird reaction. I don't like this space. Yeah, I don't

964
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: one one. I never heard of this and I kind

965
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: of know the person. I think you just received an

966
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: accurate information. I know, and I honestly will go to

967
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: my source and I'll say, you're never gonna tell me

968
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: stuff like that again, because I did tell the whole

969
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 1: world and it was wrong. I can't share this right now, though.

970
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: What you know the person really well? I would say

971
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: pretty well. I've had less than five dinners with them,

972
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: but more than two. Oh wow, if I think like

973
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: four like like um like not just I'm trying to

974
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: be careful my words. I just professional but social. Yeah,

975
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: I got you. We're friends. It's a I'll say this,

976
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:46,240
Speaker 1: it's a guy. But both did you say both were famous?

977
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: I do not believe I ever said that, because that's

978
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: definitely not the case. Let me take a look at it. Nope,

979
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: what do you mean that wasn't a deal? Well, I

980
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: just that way. I mean you can be Do you

981
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: want to see it? I mean no, no, no, I

982
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: just asked, no, you'll you have a big mouth? No,

983
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: I know you do? You do? He'll spread Actually here,

984
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: careful the cameras. Have you heard that? I feel like

985
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 1: I feel like I did, But I always say I

986
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 1: heard it from Ray. Oh he's telling everyone, and he

987
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: was also telling it as he was like, but I

988
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 1: never knew that. I'm trying to think who says Somebody

989
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: in the glassroom one time alluded to like, oh, I'd

990
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: be careful because you do spoilers all the time. That's all.

991
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: She stops. Sorry, I don't think it's true, And right

992
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 1: now I don't think we can say it. But we

993
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: can at some point, just not right now. I don't

994
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: want to get in trouble. Yeah, I don't. I didn't

995
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 1: want to be right. It's like your stuff okay, far

996
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: far away. I didn't want to be right. It's like

997
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: sometimes you just send in bull crap to get on

998
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: the air. Not that. And the person that told me

999
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,479
Speaker 1: I'm getting a divorce from them no longer friends. Okay,

1000
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: that's fair. That's a divorce. We're gonna say then, Ray,

1001
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: And I remember told him that, So why don't you

1002
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: just say who told you that divorce? He's married to Bay.

1003
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: Almost one person really or a couple of people know

1004
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: who she is, so she's part of the I'm sorry, Ray,

1005
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 1: that that is so inaccurate that I cannot Okay, yes,

1006
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: what are you saying? I know she's like one of

1007
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: our side friends, so they knew who she is. You guys,

1008
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 1: got any friend, real friend side friends with this version,

1009
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: you don't know her. Okay, very exciting day because the

1010
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: nc DOUBA Tournament starts today. Oh yeah, well from me,

1011
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 1: he's a very exciting three and a half hours or

1012
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: so it starts and rock and roll, I guess unless

1013
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,240
Speaker 1: you're on the West coast and like hour and fifteen

1014
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: hour and twenty minutes or so it starts because you're

1015
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: hearing this later, But I'm gonna go to Iowa watch

1016
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: Arkansas play tonight against Illinois. It's three thirty. Though three thirty,

1017
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: that's not really tonight. But Ray the crazy weather guy,

1018
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 1: what's your name on when you do the weather? Crazy

1019
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: Ray the weather guy? Thank you, he's gonna do the

1020
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: weather Force coming up in a second, because I'm hearing

1021
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 1: it's little Dicey up there. Oh really, we haven't heard

1022
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 1: some crazy Ray in a long time. Yeah, So we'll

1023
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: get to that in a minute. But first let's do

1024
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 1: the news. Bobby's story. Making your bed is a vital

1025
00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: part of the day if you want to be successful.

1026
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: Now here's thing about that, and I'll read you the story,

1027
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 1: but I'll give you the real reason as well. They

1028
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 1: said the process of making the bed only takes a

1029
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: couple of minutes and it leads to a more productive

1030
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: day overall. The study also found that bedmakers tend to

1031
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: be more ambitious, type a outgoing and goal oriented. This

1032
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 1: is from architectural Digests. That being said, here's the thing,

1033
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 1: you make your bed. Your day is not going to

1034
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: be better just because you made your bed. But people

1035
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 1: that make their bed have similar traits to people that

1036
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 1: do other small things in order to make big things happen. Right.

1037
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: You don't have somebody who is going through their day

1038
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: being extremely efficient, going at this, at this time, this,

1039
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be most effective here, and then they're like,

1040
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave a bed sloppy. It's just part of

1041
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: a character trait of somebody who task oriented, goal oriented.

1042
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: Successful people always do the little things right because if

1043
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: you can't do little things right, you can't do the

1044
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: big things right for the most part. So don't make

1045
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 1: your bed tomorrow, and they get mad at me when

1046
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 1: your day sucks, because that tends to be what happens

1047
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 1: in my DMS. I made my bed today, blue. Why

1048
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: you made your bed at once? Make it the rest

1049
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: of your life, and in that you will learn to

1050
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 1: do little things and some of those traits will carry

1051
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 1: over to other parts of your life. That's what it's about.

1052
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: What do you want to say? I saw you raise

1053
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: your hand up over there. Well, because when I quit snoozing,

1054
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: I also started making my bed, and those were two

1055
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,879
Speaker 1: things that had a domino effect, you said, in other

1056
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: areas of my life. And I feel so much better

1057
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 1: when my bed is made, Like it's amazing now. And

1058
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: I was never a bedmaker. I just didn't see that

1059
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 1: as any like an important step. But like Bobby said,

1060
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: it's the first little thing that you can do where

1061
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, look at me, I did that. Now

1062
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: I can go do this next thing. It also feels

1063
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 1: awesome when you get into a made bed, oh yeah,

1064
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: instead of one where you like can't find the bottom

1065
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: sheet and it's all up around your neck. That part's awesome.

1066
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 1: Hugging is very important. A study of thousands and thousands

1067
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: of couples found that women are more satisfied with the

1068
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: relationships with partners who are affectionate with hugs to want

1069
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:03,240
Speaker 1: to hug all the time. Hugging, massages, holding hands is crucial.

1070
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 1: To how the women in this study said that they

1071
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 1: were shown love. Experts say it's important that if a

1072
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,720
Speaker 1: person is a hugger that they also get daily hugs.

1073
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: You know, this just goes to love languages in general.

1074
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: And I really was always like love languages, what's that

1075
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 1: crap about? But I'd never been in a real relationship

1076
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 1: until my wife, and she definitely has a love language

1077
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,879
Speaker 1: as do I. And just because I feel like it's

1078
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 1: a way of love doesn't mean that's her main method

1079
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,439
Speaker 1: of feeling love. She loves words of affirmation, she loves

1080
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: time spent like that. To her is how she feels

1081
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: the most love, probably because it's how she got as

1082
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: a kid with their family. I, on the other hand,

1083
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: is so stupid gifts because I never got gifts, never

1084
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: got stuff as a kid. So if somebody gives me

1085
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: a gift, I'm like, wow, they must really love me.

1086
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,879
Speaker 1: And so we have this different love language. And it's

1087
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 1: difficult for us because it's not that she doesn't want

1088
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: to get me gifts, but that's usually not what she

1089
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: thinks about. When it's like, let me show how I

1090
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: consistently and constantly love. Yeah, hers is spending time together

1091
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 1: and so we have to remember that the other person's

1092
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: love language isn't ours. Time is hard and we at times,

1093
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: I know she gets frustrated with me because I work

1094
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: all the time, or when I'm not working, I'm like,

1095
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 1: I gotta somehow, like just take it. Take a few

1096
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: minutes for myself, and a few minutes turns into two

1097
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:25,479
Speaker 1: hours playing video games. But it's it's it's time, it's

1098
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: words of affection. Have to remind myself that, so hugging

1099
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: is probably their love language. Yeah, but I never even

1100
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: knew that was a real thing until I had a

1101
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 1: real thing, which is what's funny. You guys do massages?

1102
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: H Yeah? I rarely get them back neck, yeah, and shoulders.

1103
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: She has like a neck and shoulder issue. So mostly

1104
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 1: it's when they're just killing her and I come in

1105
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: and try to save the day. But I don't And

1106
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: I do, okay, but I go way too hard. I

1107
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 1: think it's like if the direction said cook this on

1108
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 1: three hundred degrees for thirty minutes, if her next at

1109
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 1: massage at this level for thirty minutes and be I

1110
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 1: could try to go double for fifteen and then she's like,

1111
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: how wow, stop doesn't work that way. Yeah, so maybe

1112
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:08,720
Speaker 1: I'm not the best in that way, but I totally

1113
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: get the hug thing is just another love language part touch,

1114
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: which probably hurts. Two. I just like gifts. I love

1115
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 1: a gift, never got them. We're all of the shape

1116
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: by the things that affected us as kids. You also,

1117
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: but yeah, that's a gift from her to me. Okay,

1118
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: I do like it. I don't call it being spooned anymore.

1119
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 1: I call it hug me. Please. There you go, get

1120
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 1: that love. Okay, next story up. You need to know CPR,

1121
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 1: they say, but not so much as you have to

1122
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: go take a class. They would like that, but they

1123
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: realize most people won't do that. So what they do

1124
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 1: is they do one line lessons basically, so while you

1125
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 1: should take to class, the two steps are and it's

1126
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 1: only two steps one call nine one one yes, first step,

1127
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,879
Speaker 1: first step And if you don't take a class, two

1128
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 1: is it's just the hand ends on the like the

1129
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: stern on rib cage part of it. Don't go mount

1130
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 1: to mouth. I mean, I guess you can. They said

1131
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: they don't do that anymore. Hey, listen, I guess you can.

1132
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 1: What are they gonna do? There? Struggle? They're unresponse, but

1133
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: they say push hard and fast in the center of

1134
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:17,720
Speaker 1: the chest until the person begins breathing or emergency medical

1135
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: services arrive, and you can do staying alive by the

1136
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: BGS as uh fed he's down, and I'd be like,

1137
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 1: all right, Eddie, we're gonna go mouth to mouth. Eddie

1138
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: comes alive, right, then he doesn't need it anymore. No,

1139
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 1: But then I would think I would go two three,

1140
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: But that's not the way to do it. No, because

1141
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 1: the heart beats to this. Do it again. Here we go.

1142
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: See I'm worried, though, you forget and start dancing. I

1143
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 1: would you in the office when they do this, anybody

1144
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 1: starts dancing. Yeah, that's from the American Heart Association. A

1145
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:54,919
Speaker 1: monkey appears on a woman's ports in Oklahoma and rips

1146
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 1: your air and halfma, that's what I said to Oklahoma.

1147
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,240
Speaker 1: Huh someone's pet monkey attacked in Oklahoma. Woman who called

1148
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 1: police for help, and then someone that she knew shot

1149
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: and killed the monkey. Oh everybody lost. Brendy Parker said

1150
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: she was sitting down looking at her window when she

1151
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:16,320
Speaker 1: spotted the monkey. This from kokh. I took a second glance, like,

1152
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: oh my god, there's a monkey on the front porch.

1153
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: I also would have opened the door. I would have. Yeah,

1154
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: you got to say, what's up to the monkey? That's

1155
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:27,320
Speaker 1: worth the risk reward there totally. I mean the reward

1156
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: you get a selfie with a monkey that just showed

1157
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: up on your port d've been awesome. So I also

1158
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:34,880
Speaker 1: would open the door. The monkey was trying to get

1159
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: into her house. It broke off part of her storm

1160
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 1: doors handle, So a storm door for me would have

1161
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 1: been the screen door to flap indoor outside. She went outside,

1162
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: officers were there. Officer got out of the patrol vehicle.

1163
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 1: The monkey jumped into the back of the vehicle. The

1164
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: monkey ran towards the woman, climbed onto her and attacked

1165
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 1: It crawled up my back, she said. He yanked out

1166
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: multiple wads of here and then ripped my ear in half,

1167
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: and it was just hanging. Oh man, those crazy. She

1168
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 1: had to be like, what was happening? What? What planet

1169
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: are we on right now? Am I dreaming? A monkey

1170
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: showed up in my door? Just ripped my ear off?

1171
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 1: A law enforcement officer continues searching for the monkey. They

1172
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 1: spoke with the monkey's owners, who also tried to catch it.

1173
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: They went back to the house and found that a

1174
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 1: family member of the victim saw it, shot and killed

1175
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 1: the primate. That's from Yahoo. And you know what, it

1176
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 1: sucks that monkey was even held and made domestic because

1177
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: it's not Yeah, that's not domestic. Going to a ports

1178
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: and ripping someone's ear off. They need to be in

1179
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: the jungle. That sucked. And then also it sucks that

1180
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:34,439
Speaker 1: person had to shoot the monkey. You know, they didn't

1181
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: want to shoot a monkey. They didn't wake up that

1182
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: morning go on, oh, show up, monkey shows up saying

1183
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: shoot and kill it. But the monkey was also in

1184
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 1: a bad place and it had to be taken care

1185
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: of one way or the other. My uncle had a monkey,

1186
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 1: my mom and the leg what happened with it? Went

1187
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: to the zoo, They gave it to zoo, donated him.

1188
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 1: I hate they had to shoot that monkey, but who

1189
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: knows what other ports had have been on, maybe even

1190
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: a deck. A whole family comes out the ears off

1191
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 1: like like kids. I'm thinking when it comes to huge

1192
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: movie releases, you know, I don't want to go to

1193
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 1: the theater and watch a movie, but I love it

1194
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: when they finally get on HBO, Max, Paramount Plus. I

1195
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 1: will watch a movie then, but usually only an hour

1196
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 1: at a time. That being said, I've not seen the

1197
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: ant Man movies. I've seen most of the other Avengered movies,

1198
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: but the ant Man movies to me always look a

1199
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 1: little dumb, so I haven't watched them. But now I'm

1200
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: totally in because aunt Man three is coming out and

1201
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: I don't even care so much, but it's in the

1202
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 1: news because someone leaked the script on Reddit, and so

1203
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: now they're going to the courts being like, hey, we

1204
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: did who did this? Can you please figure it out

1205
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: for us? And they really just leaked like seventy pages

1206
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 1: of a conversation between I think aunt Man and I

1207
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: don't know Cricket Boy. I don't know who the other

1208
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:43,440
Speaker 1: person is in ant Man, but that's what happened. Marvel

1209
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: Studios is now asked the federal judge to help identify

1210
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: the people who released aunt Man and the Wasp Quan

1211
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: Too Mania. The entire plot was posted by someone on Reddit.

1212
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: That's from variety. Yeah, I wonder whow they get it?

1213
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: Who it was? Was it someone inside? Were they mad?

1214
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 1: Were they doing as a way to get back? Do

1215
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: they find it? So? What's out now? Aunt Man two? Oh?

1216
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 1: It is out? They released it even though it's out.

1217
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 1: Who cares? Why is this even going to court? Mike's

1218
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 1: a man good yes or no? Hit me? Probably the

1219
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: least good of all the Marble movies. Why is it

1220
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 1: such a big story if it's already out. They're trying

1221
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 1: to stop them from leaking more movies, because if they

1222
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: can do this one, they can do other movies. That

1223
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: makes the entire plan. So if they set the precedent

1224
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: of if you leak a movie and you don't own

1225
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: the rights to this, we will sue you. We'll find

1226
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: you and sue you protect their further movies. OK. Gotcha,

1227
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: I'm not interesting that story anymore. I was like, hey,

1228
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 1: man three, I thought I knew a little something. Okay.

1229
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: Truck or dash cam shows a ghost on an Arizona highway.

1230
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 1: Here we go. A dash cam footage from a trucker

1231
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 1: driving through Arizona is getting attention. William Church was driving

1232
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:51,479
Speaker 1: down State Route eighty seven and a brighton glare shows

1233
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 1: up on his dash cam. He checked the footage. He said,

1234
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: it shows the spirit of someone standing near the edge

1235
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,840
Speaker 1: of the road. Let me look at this thing here,

1236
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 1: Church says. No other cars were on the road. It

1237
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 1: does look like a small ghost though like a person. No,

1238
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: it looks like a casper, kind of like that little

1239
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: ghost shape, have a little tail on it. Or it

1240
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: looks like a paper bag. You know how Morgan had

1241
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: a ghost or an alien or something on her. As

1242
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: it turned out, it was just moisture, or we think

1243
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: it's moisture. I mean, I'm looking at it though, and

1244
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: as you like zoom, it almost looks creepy like that

1245
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 1: girl in the Ring. Yeah, I never saw the Ring, Mike.

1246
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 1: When you think about this, you've seen all the pictures

1247
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 1: in the video, and a chance you that that's a ghost.

1248
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 1: It kind of has like a bluish tint to it

1249
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: a little bit, don't watch you say it? Yeah, And

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01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: I thought immediately, man, that kind of looks like a ghost.

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Speaker 1: But that looks legit, Okay, drive in it's four twenty

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Speaker 1: five am. It looks like on the date of three

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01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 1: to eleven rights in the merge line. Man, that's crazy

1254
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: when when they show the actual, like really moving footage

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01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: of it, Yeah, because it's not like the truck's going

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01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: slow and it looks set up like it's going full

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01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: speed down the highway middle of the night. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's I mean, but Also, how do we know that's

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Speaker 1: not like a reflection of something? Yeah, but how do

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Speaker 1: we know it's not a ghosts or point? But it's

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Speaker 1: on the road. Is the weird thing about the reflection explanation. Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 1: there's a ghost we'll put up on our Facebook page

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Speaker 1: if you want to see it. There's a new favorite

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Speaker 1: dog breed in the US and it's not a lab

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Speaker 1: for the first time in thirty one years at number one,

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Speaker 1: the French bulldog. I'm gonna tell you right now, do

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Speaker 1: not eat a bulldog. I love my bulldog more than

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Speaker 1: life itself. Well, no I don't, but i'd live. But

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Speaker 1: I do love them a lot. And they're they're they're

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Speaker 1: not meant to be alive. They're they're bread in a

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01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: way that's incestual at times. All their stuff was made

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01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: to look cool instead of work. Their nose, like mine,

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01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 1: has had a ton of surgeries. Everybody I know that

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01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: has a bulldog in any sort of way has had

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Speaker 1: to have a ton of surgeries or a ton of work.

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Speaker 1: French bulldog is at number one. Also, French bulldogs are

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Speaker 1: so expensive too that yeah, keep getting people get you know,

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Speaker 1: killed over them. So it's like it's the most popular.

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01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 1: It's a favorite, but most people can't get them. French

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Speaker 1: bulldogs at one, labs at two, Golden Retrievers at three,

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Speaker 1: German shepherd dogs at four, poodles at five, regular bulldogs

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01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: like mine at six. Where's Chihuahua? Not on here. I'm

1283
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:18,439
Speaker 1: not a big poodle guy, although I like the big poodles. Yeah,

1284
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 1: oh yeah, one of the big dogs. It's the little ones.

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01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: I guess that I'm not a big fan of as much,

1286
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: but I like the big food. Well, yours is like

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01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: a poodle ish type, right, she's a labordoodle, so she's

1288
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 1: a mix those two. But yeah, don't don't get a

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01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: French bulldog unless you find one that needs adopted. Then

1290
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: I'm up. But I just wouldn't go spend your money

1291
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 1: get one from a breeder that you don't gosh now

1292
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 1: because of the demand, Like I'm scared to walk it

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01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 1: in public or something. Well, only one person get shot,

1294
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: but yeah, there's been more. I would leave it. I

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01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't leave it out. I don't know that's the high

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01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: profile case that was talked about. There's more, you know,

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01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:55,439
Speaker 1: the low profits, you know, more cases of people getting

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01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 1: shot over a Frenchies. Yes, bungling burglar left his own

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01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: birth certificate of the crimes and finally a burglar who

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01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: left his birth certificate of prison ID cards at the scene. Okay,

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01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: which has just been jailed. Dumb. Okay, there you go.

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Speaker 1: podcasts wherever you get your podcasts. You know, we love

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Speaker 1: a lot of our lives here on the air with

1314
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: you guys, sometimes alongside you. Sometimes we share stuff so

1315
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 1: you know, you'll get to know us better. Sometimes we

1316
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 1: share stuff because it relates and we think we can help.

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01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: You know, a lot of different reasons. We've been doing

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Speaker 1: this for a long time. I've been doing this since

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01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: dang seventeen, eighteen years old, so I've been doing it

1320
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: for a long time. Four hold am I forty two? Yeah,

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01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: so we did. We try to share a lot with

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01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 1: you for different reasons, and so that's we're going to

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01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 1: do here. And I would just rip the band aid

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Speaker 1: off and just go right at it, That's all I

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01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 1: would do. Yeah. Well, so we share a lot of

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01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: our lives, and I know listeners have walked alongside so

1327
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 1: much that we've been through both of my parents, fascinuway,

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Speaker 1: the adoption of children, you know, the first year of

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Speaker 1: the show. Back in two thousand and six, my first

1330
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 1: year on the show, I got married. And you know,

1331
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Speaker 1: I've been walking through something for the last couple of

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Speaker 1: years that it's not a secret, but it's also something

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01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 1: that we've kept pretty private so that we could heal

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01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: as a family and take care of everyone involved. And

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01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 1: so yeah, talking about it right now isn't easy, but

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01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: it feels right like this is the right time. And

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01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: Ben and I, that's my husband. I don't talk about

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01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 1: him much. He's always been a very private person in fact,

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01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 1: when I joined the show, he was in the Air

1340
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: Force and we called an Air Force guy because he

1341
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: didn't want his name, we did on the radio. Yeah,

1342
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: when we first started dating, you were like, I should

1343
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 1: have picked a different branch though, to not be so

1344
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 1: dialed on that one. Yeah, yeah, but he wasn't. Yeah. Yeah.

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01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: So Ben and I are getting a divorce, and this

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01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 1: is something that was not made lightly at all whatsoever.

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01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 1: In fact, it's, like I said, it's been the last

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Speaker 1: couple of years that we've spent a lot of time

1349
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 1: just working towards what is most loving for everybody involved

1350
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 1: and really most true to the people that we've become.

1351
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 1: And I know from my childhood and now as an adult,

1352
01:05:53,280 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 1: how divorce is painful, stressful, it's emotional, and so really

1353
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: the well being of our kids and co parenting and

1354
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: learning how to co parent in a way to show

1355
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:12,439
Speaker 1: up as the best parents possible for our kids has

1356
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 1: been the top priority through all of this, and so

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Speaker 1: I think that's what we've been working through, and I'm

1358
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: honestly very I'm very proud of how we've as a

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01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: family navigated this whole thing. And I guess it's just

1360
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 1: it's hard to you know, say it again. It's not

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Speaker 1: a secret to our people, but just now putting it

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Speaker 1: out there, just so I can show up authentically as

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01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: myself in this new chapter of my life. And nobody

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01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: wants something like this to happen. I mean, honestly, I

1365
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: never thought it would happen to me, and my younger

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01:06:52,360 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 1: self would have never allowed it. You know. Well, thinking

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01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 1: back to two thousand and six, my first few years

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01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 1: on the radio and marriage, I remember so many topics

1369
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: would come up, and I remember always saying divorce is

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01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:08,360
Speaker 1: not an option, and listeners would even call in and

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01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 1: they probably they had experienced more life than me. And

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Speaker 1: but again I came from a divorced home. But I

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01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 1: think that's why I was. I held so tightly to

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01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 1: that and ended up in a very legalistic environment for

1375
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: a long time. And I think I just that was

1376
01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 1: something that was rooted in me that I couldn't see passed.

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01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 1: And I was like that, I will never do it.

1378
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: And I remember you in lunchbox throwing out different scenarios

1379
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 1: about my husband potentially being in jail or doing this

1380
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 1: or that. In my head grows out of his but

1381
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 1: all kinds of stuff back right and I'd be like,

1382
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 1: not an option, right, We'll stay, you know, not an option.

1383
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:46,960
Speaker 1: Not an option. And so I'm pretty sure it's that younger,

1384
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 1: my younger self that's been the most terrified of all

1385
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: of this, and so I have to I have compassion

1386
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 1: for her and who I was then and who I

1387
01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:58,880
Speaker 1: was even six years ago, Like one of my dear

1388
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 1: friends went through a divorce and I didn't know how

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01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 1: to support her, and that, I mean, that's what gets

1390
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 1: me right now. I mean, we've done the healing and

1391
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:13,959
Speaker 1: in our own relationship, Ben and I both and he's

1392
01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 1: aware we're talking about this right now, and I think

1393
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 1: that's what I heard. For how I didn't know how

1394
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:25,679
Speaker 1: to understand what other people might be going through, because

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01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 1: the reality is you don't ever really know fully what

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01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 1: someone is going through. And I wasn't able to be

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01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 1: there for my friend, and I wasn't able to show

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01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:38,920
Speaker 1: up for her. And we recently, in the last seven

1399
01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 1: or eight months, reconnected and we're able to repair our relationship,

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Speaker 1: and I was able to finally see because what Ben

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01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 1: and I have been walking through, what she was going through,

1402
01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 1: and how I just I think because I didn't understand it,

1403
01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 1: I had some like why can't you figure this out?

1404
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:59,280
Speaker 1: Or a little bit of judgment in there that now

1405
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 1: I have fully released, thank goodness and and thankful now

1406
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:06,680
Speaker 1: that I'll be able to show up for people in

1407
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 1: a different way. And we wouldn't be where we are

1408
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: today at all in this process if it wasn't for

1409
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,360
Speaker 1: the love and support from our family and friends that

1410
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: have walked alongside us with no judgment, and just such

1411
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 1: encouragement and support and wisdom and guidance from therapists. And

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Speaker 1: I just feel like divorce brings up a lot of

1413
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:34,560
Speaker 1: complicated feelings, shame being the number one thing, and so

1414
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Speaker 1: that's what we've been working on releasing, and I feel

1415
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:44,719
Speaker 1: as though we're finally there. We've released ourselves from any stigma.

1416
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: And my hope in sharing this is really that anyone

1417
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:53,560
Speaker 1: else walking through this type of loss will also be

1418
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: able to release any shame they feel around it, because

1419
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: you're not alone in what you're going through. And so

1420
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:06,240
Speaker 1: that is where we are and that everyone is doing well.

1421
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask, like, how are you? It has

1422
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:15,680
Speaker 1: been very it is it has been very hard, But

1423
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:18,519
Speaker 1: I'm how am I? Now I feel like we're finally

1424
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: on the other side. Like we weathered multiple storms at

1425
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 1: the same time, not even just this, there was a

1426
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 1: lot happening at once for our family that almost didn't

1427
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:31,880
Speaker 1: seem like how can this happen all at the same time,

1428
01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:34,160
Speaker 1: But now that we're on the other side of it,

1429
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:38,000
Speaker 1: I see actually how divine each thing was, Like one

1430
01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 1: of the things had to happen for the next thing

1431
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: to be able to happen, and then for the next

1432
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:46,479
Speaker 1: thing to happen like and again those are details that

1433
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:50,000
Speaker 1: are close to our family. And but I say that

1434
01:10:50,200 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: to also, you know, encourage anybody else going through multiple

1435
01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: hard things is to sure you have to process and

1436
01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:02,759
Speaker 1: deal with it. You don't, but but just somewhere, somehow

1437
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: start to process. Okay, what does this make possible? And

1438
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: don't waste it. Don't waste what you've been through and

1439
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 1: linger in that hurt and pain. Like if you can

1440
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 1: process and heal, then you can get to the other

1441
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 1: side and see what came from it. And for our family,

1442
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 1: so much has come from the last two years that

1443
01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 1: actually we're now on the other side better people. What

1444
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:31,599
Speaker 1: do you feel like you've learned about yourself? Um um?

1445
01:11:34,040 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 1: I mean resilient is a word that comes to mind,

1446
01:11:36,479 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 1: which feels weird to say about yourself, but um, all

1447
01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 1: of us like that were involved. Like there was a

1448
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 1: time in probably twenty twenty one that I didn't I

1449
01:11:53,200 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 1: mean I wouldn't. I didn't fear for I didn't think

1450
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:05,040
Speaker 1: I would do anything to myself. But there were times

1451
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 1: where if I'd be driving down the highway and I thought, okay,

1452
01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:12,799
Speaker 1: like if if I were to just get in an accident,

1453
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: that would be okay, you know, Like it was that hard.

1454
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:22,800
Speaker 1: So um resilient comes to mind, because we persevered as

1455
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 1: a family. We showed up for each other. We're a team,

1456
01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 1: we've been and I both our team. Like we went

1457
01:12:31,160 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: to therapy about all of this and mostly just to

1458
01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 1: a lot of co parenting, but us trying to figure

1459
01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: out what was happening and where we were going to

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01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 1: go and what we were going to do. And that

1461
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:48,600
Speaker 1: was a year. We saw one couple's therapists for a

1462
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:51,759
Speaker 1: year every week. A lot of those were two hour sessions.

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01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 1: There was a season where I would leave work and

1464
01:12:57,160 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 1: I had therapy for other things that were going on

1465
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,759
Speaker 1: in our life. That last one of the things was intense,

1466
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 1: like five weeks, three hours a day, and that's where

1467
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 1: I would leave here and go do that, and it was,

1468
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 1: it was heavy. But and I know there was a

1469
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 1: time where I was absent from the show during some

1470
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 1: of that. And like you said, you know, you've said

1471
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 1: many many times before, if you're not in a right space,

1472
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: like go take care of yourself, you don't have to

1473
01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 1: be here. So I'm thankful for that. I mean, this

1474
01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:29,600
Speaker 1: work place, this our work environment is part of that

1475
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:34,600
Speaker 1: support that I'm talking about from family and friends and

1476
01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 1: and again the therapists, like I say all that because

1477
01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: it took work. You can't just come out on the

1478
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 1: other side of stuff like that without really digging deep.

1479
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 1: And it was, it was heavy, and it's hard to

1480
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 1: do stuff like that. But we we came out on

1481
01:13:53,040 --> 01:13:55,040
Speaker 1: the other side, and I feel as though I can

1482
01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:59,040
Speaker 1: see there the rainbow now, like the storms have passed.

1483
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 1: And I know in I fall encounter more storms, for sure,

1484
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:04,800
Speaker 1: but what we've walked through, I just don't think now

1485
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 1: I'll grip so tightly to the umbrella like I feel

1486
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:10,400
Speaker 1: like I just was holding onto it and I couldn't

1487
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:15,679
Speaker 1: see the rainbow. But now now I just have different

1488
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 1: tools and I have different life experience. That is now

1489
01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: I think gonna benefit me in this new chapter. And

1490
01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a different I'm just a different person from

1491
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 1: it all. Yeah, you've been to a lot. I've been

1492
01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 1: a pretty heavy eighteen months or so, maybe two years. Yeah,

1493
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 1: I think back on the end it all, all of this,

1494
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:38,560
Speaker 1: it's probably around twenty twenty a bit, and I know

1495
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: for a lot of people that happen to be the

1496
01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 1: year that everybody's lives probably got a little crazy. But

1497
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 1: none of this has anything to do with COVID it

1498
01:14:48,560 --> 01:14:52,559
Speaker 1: but it all started that year, So it's just a lot. Well,

1499
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you, I love you, we love you,

1500
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:58,920
Speaker 1: and like you and I have talked about many times,

1501
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:01,640
Speaker 1: not even on the air. A lot of people go

1502
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:05,320
Speaker 1: through their version of this and you shouldn't feel alone.

1503
01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 1: But I think it's something that can make you feel

1504
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:10,800
Speaker 1: extremely lonely because you really don't hear a lot of

1505
01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 1: people talking about it in a way like you do.

1506
01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:15,600
Speaker 1: We're not talking about it at all except saying this

1507
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 1: happened onto the next right, And this isn't against not

1508
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 1: something that was decided yesterday. This has been well over

1509
01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:28,080
Speaker 1: like at least two years, well over a year in

1510
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 1: this decision, but we were, we were taking care of

1511
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: our family first before it became a thing, And I think, yeah,

1512
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: I just want to be able to show up here

1513
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:42,280
Speaker 1: in segments and like not to have to get have

1514
01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 1: to dodge certain topics. And you know, Ben and I

1515
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:50,080
Speaker 1: are both again in a good place. Like I when

1516
01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: I say I'm I'm proud of us, I really mean it,

1517
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 1: because it's not easy. And I hope that that's encouragement

1518
01:15:56,600 --> 01:16:00,600
Speaker 1: to anybody else going through something hard like this, is

1519
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 1: that hopefully, and I know not everybody's blessed with two

1520
01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 1: people that are doing the work and two people that

1521
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 1: are getting the healing and two people that are wanting

1522
01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 1: to continue the work to make it right. Because if

1523
01:16:11,439 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 1: you're in this and you're the only one doing the

1524
01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:16,599
Speaker 1: work and the other person's not, I can't even imagine, honestly,

1525
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 1: cannot even imagine. And so my heart goes out to

1526
01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:23,400
Speaker 1: anybody that's in that situation. But I would hope if

1527
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:24,840
Speaker 1: you're listening to this and you're in that and you

1528
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:26,800
Speaker 1: may realize like, oh shoot, I'm not doing the work,

1529
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:28,640
Speaker 1: I might be the person that's kind of making this

1530
01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:33,760
Speaker 1: super difficult. My hope would be that you know, us

1531
01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:36,560
Speaker 1: talking about something like this might be that nudge to

1532
01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 1: get the therapy, get the help, dig deeper, show up

1533
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:43,840
Speaker 1: as a person that you know you can be proud

1534
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 1: of later they handled it well and well for your kids,

1535
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 1: well for your kids, Like that's like for the last year,

1536
01:16:53,080 --> 01:16:55,080
Speaker 1: we have kept the kids in our house, and I

1537
01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 1: know not everybody has this option, and it's going to

1538
01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:01,240
Speaker 1: transition soon. We'll to rotate a week on week off.

1539
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 1: We're doing fifty fifty custody. But we had an apartment

1540
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:10,880
Speaker 1: close by and the kids would stay in the house

1541
01:17:10,920 --> 01:17:12,960
Speaker 1: and we would rotate. So every week for the last

1542
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: year we've been packing bags midweek and switching and that

1543
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:18,840
Speaker 1: was important for us to do that so the kids

1544
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 1: could feel like they were stable in their home. And

1545
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: now they're involved in the process of their dad getting

1546
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:26,200
Speaker 1: a new house and they we drive by and look

1547
01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 1: at houses and they're like, oh, can you get along

1548
01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 1: with the basement? And you know, so they're they're now

1549
01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 1: involved and they feel like they've got a little agency

1550
01:17:33,600 --> 01:17:35,400
Speaker 1: over this as well. Well. They're also very lucky to

1551
01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:37,840
Speaker 1: have two parents. I love them, Yeah, and we do

1552
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 1: very much. Yeah, Well, I'm proud of you for talking

1553
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:44,640
Speaker 1: about it. It would have come up, and you're right,

1554
01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 1: we had to dodge some stuff. And you know, it's

1555
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:51,040
Speaker 1: got to be tough to come on and go. Young

1556
01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:53,800
Speaker 1: me was kind of uneducated and this version of me

1557
01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:55,800
Speaker 1: is better educated. And I hope to help other people too.

1558
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 1: And that's what you did and that's what you're doing.

1559
01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:59,600
Speaker 1: So you know, I say it again, We love you,

1560
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:03,280
Speaker 1: all love you. Yeah, you know what, worse things have

1561
01:18:03,320 --> 01:18:07,400
Speaker 1: happened to weaker people, but you'll get through this, be

1562
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 1: better for it, and help others and help them get

1563
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 1: through similar things as well. I have no doubt. Yeah,

1564
01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:13,320
Speaker 1: well I'm able to come out and talk about it

1565
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:15,160
Speaker 1: now because I feel like I am on that I've

1566
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:17,000
Speaker 1: made it to that other side. It didn't seem right

1567
01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:19,400
Speaker 1: to come out any sooner than now. Well, and also

1568
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:22,599
Speaker 1: there are things to our listeners we love ninety five

1569
01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:24,639
Speaker 1: percent of five percent of our listener you can't stand.

1570
01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:26,840
Speaker 1: But the five percent they want to get on social

1571
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:28,880
Speaker 1: media and right like Amy, we know like post stuff.

1572
01:18:29,479 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 1: There's a reason she can't share things that. It can

1573
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 1: be legal, it can be kids, it can be there's

1574
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:37,479
Speaker 1: a reason literally, And you're the reason we don't like

1575
01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:39,439
Speaker 1: five percent of you because you want to get online

1576
01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 1: to be like Amy. We know, we know, we never

1577
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:43,840
Speaker 1: see your husband pictures. Amy, What does that even do?

1578
01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:48,080
Speaker 1: There's no reason Amy's a real life human being. Yeah

1579
01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 1: they yeah, there's just nobob gets so mad. Wro see.

1580
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:53,800
Speaker 1: People were like, we know, well, yeah, of course I

1581
01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 1: think people knew, but they didn't get online and be

1582
01:18:56,240 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 1: like they because their lives were so worthless. They got

1583
01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:00,960
Speaker 1: to get online and put up of people's crap out there.

1584
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 1: Of your listeners, I like six percent, I don't and

1585
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 1: I'll get mad. But anyway, okay, racist, we have to

1586
01:19:09,920 --> 01:19:12,760
Speaker 1: get out of this break we're speaking of Ray. I

1587
01:19:12,800 --> 01:19:14,439
Speaker 1: thought he had my name in that employe. So did I.

1588
01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 1: I had ait me this morning. I had Amy this

1589
01:19:16,200 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: morning because we've been talking about this, we're figuring out

1590
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 1: when we could actually talk about this, like legally in

1591
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 1: and then the envelope happened to be today and it

1592
01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:26,839
Speaker 1: takes Amy said, what if your names in the envelope.

1593
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:28,559
Speaker 1: That's why we did the envelope first in case her

1594
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:31,640
Speaker 1: name was in the envelope. It wasn't her name, but

1595
01:19:31,720 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 1: I thought it was Ray. Would you have ever done that? No?

1596
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:38,719
Speaker 1: But man, I would have looked like a genius. Okay,

1597
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:45,559
Speaker 1: hold on, sorry today this story comes us from Verreau Beach, Florida.

1598
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:48,519
Speaker 1: A man that had warrants out for his arrest also

1599
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:50,959
Speaker 1: had a mess in his yard when the homeowners association

1600
01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:52,800
Speaker 1: send him a letter you need to clean it up

1601
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:55,479
Speaker 1: or else. So he said, fine, So we started putting

1602
01:19:55,479 --> 01:19:57,800
Speaker 1: stuff in a pile and burning it. Send it up,

1603
01:19:57,840 --> 01:20:01,559
Speaker 1: smoke signals, big old flames. Our department police show up,

1604
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:05,880
Speaker 1: run his name, and they're resting brows warrants. Yeah, we

1605
01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:08,680
Speaker 1: used to burn trash, which is not good to do,

1606
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 1: by the way, for the environment. But I understand. You

1607
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:15,120
Speaker 1: just can't burn it freely, like light something on fire

1608
01:20:15,160 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: and got everything should catch. We would put it actually

1609
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:19,479
Speaker 1: in barrels. You were in the country too, like the

1610
01:20:19,520 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 1: middle of nowhere. That is also true. He was the

1611
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:24,559
Speaker 1: middle of We also didn't have warrants, so if we did,

1612
01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:26,840
Speaker 1: because we had a volunteer fire department that would come

1613
01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 1: and check and make sure that things weren't burning incorrectly

1614
01:20:29,200 --> 01:20:32,320
Speaker 1: and they would find you. And we didn't have warrants

1615
01:20:32,320 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 1: out for our arrests, so he did everything wrong. Also,

1616
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:37,960
Speaker 1: that's two fire stories in a row. Can we make

1617
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 1: it three? Then we find one more tomorrow. I quite

1618
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:42,880
Speaker 1: finish the week with all burned stories. I mean, I

1619
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,120
Speaker 1: can look, there's a lot of fire. People love fire,

1620
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 1: idiots left fire. Yeah, for sure, I'm lunchbox. That's your

1621
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:53,080
Speaker 1: bonehead story of the day. Well, Ammy's Birthday's coming up.

1622
01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:56,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know today's only Thursday. But did you

1623
01:20:56,760 --> 01:20:58,680
Speaker 1: know her birthday's on Saturday. I'm giving you guys the

1624
01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 1: heads up just so you know know that I forgot.

1625
01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 1: I have no idea. Well, and I'll say this, no

1626
01:21:04,280 --> 01:21:08,760
Speaker 1: idea after what's sixteen years of no idea? What what

1627
01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:12,760
Speaker 1: day is? Saturday? March eighteenth? All right? But here's the thing.

1628
01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 1: I'm not big. I'm knowing people's birthdays. I to people

1629
01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:19,400
Speaker 1: to know my birthday date. But I know Amy's because

1630
01:21:19,400 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 1: we've been together sixteen years. April second, that's you. Yeah,

1631
01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:25,120
Speaker 1: that's me. And I know that my wife took your

1632
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 1: gifts well for your birthday too? To your house? Was

1633
01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:30,439
Speaker 1: yesterday you over there? Yeah? House? But I just want

1634
01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:32,840
Speaker 1: you to know house from me too. Oh yes, No,

1635
01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:35,920
Speaker 1: I know you think it's only her because I was

1636
01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 1: with We picked it out together. We went to all

1637
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 1: the colors and she was like, which one we did

1638
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:41,320
Speaker 1: all of it. I just want you to know it's

1639
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:43,439
Speaker 1: for me too, because that's bullcraft. Did you guys get

1640
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 1: hold on because my wife is really cool and she

1641
01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:47,400
Speaker 1: picks that cool stuff. And there's no way that Amy

1642
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:49,519
Speaker 1: thinks I was involved. Yeah, I mean I was like,

1643
01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 1: oh wow, I would have never bought this myself. Another way,

1644
01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:53,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have known about it for you either, right,

1645
01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:57,240
Speaker 1: because it's it's very cool. But I just want you

1646
01:21:57,240 --> 01:21:59,560
Speaker 1: to know I was then on the process because I

1647
01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 1: know I I don't need the credit, but I need

1648
01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:04,080
Speaker 1: the credit sometimes. You know, iddress that you're defending yourself

1649
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:06,680
Speaker 1: a lot. Something that I knew. First of all, my

1650
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:08,680
Speaker 1: wife on over day Eddie and I had to fly

1651
01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:10,800
Speaker 1: a little rock yesterday because we spoke at this event

1652
01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:13,640
Speaker 1: for a group called Vera Lloyd that works with a

1653
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 1: lot of kids, underprivileged kids, foster kids. So we go

1654
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 1: to speak there and my wife say, can't want he to.

1655
01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 1: Amy's took her birthday present. I'm like, did you tell

1656
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 1: her from me too? She was like, yeah, I said,

1657
01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: did you say it worst you would believe it? Yeah?

1658
01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:30,040
Speaker 1: I heard you just assume y'all are in us. Yeah,

1659
01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:32,920
Speaker 1: but I know what that means, yeah, all the it's y'all,

1660
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:35,640
Speaker 1: I know what that means. But just so you guys know,

1661
01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:38,680
Speaker 1: you have tomorrow if you're going to celebrate Amy, to

1662
01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 1: celebrate Amy. I just got Eddie's birthday present in the mail. Hey,

1663
01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:45,599
Speaker 1: guess his birthday's also coming up. It's coming up spaghetti Eddie,

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01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:48,439
Speaker 1: and I don't worry about that. You can figure it out.

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01:22:48,520 --> 01:22:51,080
Speaker 1: Ask around March something. It's all hey, everybody on the

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01:22:51,080 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 1: street talking about it. Everyone. It gets to me birthday

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01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:57,400
Speaker 1: season here. I like back to back to back, so

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01:22:57,680 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: happy birthday two days in advance. But I'm doing this.

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01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:03,160
Speaker 1: Everybody knows tomorrow's your birthday. Saturday's birthday Saturday? Yeah, okay, yes,

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01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:07,640
Speaker 1: forty two? Mm oh man, I can someone send me

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01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:10,759
Speaker 1: a text on Saturday? You've been forty two for a minute.

1672
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:12,960
Speaker 1: But it's like, oh gosh, I just had a flashback

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01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:14,920
Speaker 1: of ten years ago when I made y'all do the

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01:23:14,960 --> 01:23:18,599
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift thirty two music parody when yeah to her

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01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:21,479
Speaker 1: song twenty two Wow Eddie, and you're what sixty three?

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01:23:21,600 --> 01:23:24,639
Speaker 1: I know next? Only forty four, dude. That's crazy, crazy

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01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 1: forty four years ago. As we're getting older, that's nuts. Okay,

1678
01:23:27,439 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 1: look I remain Peter Pan. You do. That's it. I'm

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01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:35,679
Speaker 1: off to de Moine, Iowa, hopefully to watch Arkansas beat Illinois.

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01:23:35,960 --> 01:23:39,679
Speaker 1: And we will see you tomorrow. By everybody, the Bobby Bones,

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Speaker 1: Showy Bones,