WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Disproportionate Typing

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, guys, shoot, I forgot to use the restaurant

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<v Speaker 3>before we start one or two point seven.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody you should know.

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<v Speaker 3>I already disappears like seconds before this show begins to

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<v Speaker 3>finish that, so I don't have to do it in

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<v Speaker 3>the middle of it, and I failed. So Hi, good morning,

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<v Speaker 3>good to see you, guys. We're Thursday, November sixteenth, Today's

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<v Speaker 3>National Fast Food Day. We've all talked about our favorite

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<v Speaker 3>fast food establishments before one week from Thanksgiving. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was reading something about Thanksgiving that came into my feed

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<v Speaker 3>click click click California, New York. So this is about

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<v Speaker 3>Thanksgiving pie preferences broken in my state.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, why what's wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>So funny that you say that because I am getting

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<v Speaker 4>some pies today?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, then the timing is perfect hilary for California, New York.

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<v Speaker 3>There is I'm it's hysterical.

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<v Speaker 4>Last not a pie eater. So this is very random

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<v Speaker 4>that you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, are you getting pies?

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<v Speaker 4>Because two of Robbie's best friends are inviting us over

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<v Speaker 4>to celebrate our engagement and they and we're bringing pies,

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<v Speaker 4>but we're bringing.

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<v Speaker 1>You're having a hard time answering this question. What's really

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<v Speaker 1>going on.

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<v Speaker 4>We're bringing an oreo pie and a s'mores pie.

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<v Speaker 2>But why are you bringing pies if you're not a

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<v Speaker 2>pie person?

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<v Speaker 4>Because it's like Thanksgiving season. It feels cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Cute anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>So California and New York are their favorite is pumpkin pie.

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<v Speaker 3>Pumpkin pie in Georgia, sweet potato pie. Florida's key lime

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<v Speaker 3>pie for Thanksgiving. Arkansas, Indiana peanut butter pie, peanut butter pie.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you getting the oreo pie? That sounds great?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>They are vegan and gluten free, thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 4>It's called Winston and it's on Third Street by Jones.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds really good. Feel free to get a few extra pie.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a pie person either, I know, I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>an unconventional pie guy. Yes, I have a cheesecake. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not a cheesecake guy either, but cheese cake factory cheese.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a peanut butter pie. There's a peanut butter pie too.

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<v Speaker 3>So in Kansas their favorite pie is a Freedo chili pie.

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<v Speaker 1>What I might like that? Oh yeah, it is, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's a savory pie.

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<v Speaker 4>Kind of like a chili billy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll have a bite.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do a pecan? Or a pecan or a

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<v Speaker 1>what do you do?

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<v Speaker 5>Sis?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we do. That's my go to if I

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<v Speaker 2>was going to pick out a pie, because there's all

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<v Speaker 2>they're always there, they're always available.

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<v Speaker 3>I eat the pie crust forward, so start with the

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<v Speaker 3>back and eat to the point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I would never do that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the best stuff. You want to get the best

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<v Speaker 1>stuff first.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to have. I want to save. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to save that for the end.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to eat the whole piece, so or

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<v Speaker 3>rather eat the back, the trunk of the piece for

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<v Speaker 3>it and stop halfway through Seisney, What is this that's

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<v Speaker 3>bothering you?

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<v Speaker 4>Here?

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay, so I guess it is bothering me. The

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<v Speaker 2>other day I was in the conversation with one of

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<v Speaker 2>my friends and we were talking about the Britney Spears

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<v Speaker 2>book and I was like, oh, I just read it,

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<v Speaker 2>and she read it as well. She read a hard copy,

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<v Speaker 2>like actually bought the book of it. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I listened to it on audible. She's like, well, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not reading the book. I was like, yes, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I finished it.

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<v Speaker 2>I got all of the info from it that you

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<v Speaker 2>did by reading it. But the only difference is that

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<v Speaker 2>I had Michelle Williams Arry, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Say, you read the book, well, I read.

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<v Speaker 2>I read the book. But then I sometimes we'll yes,

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<v Speaker 2>listen to it on.

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<v Speaker 3>Audible, like reading the book, it's not what it's what

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<v Speaker 3>it's I listened to that on audio whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say, listen. But then but then even so

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<v Speaker 2>she's saying that it's not considered reading.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not.

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<v Speaker 3>But she's bragging about her reading. And she's one of

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<v Speaker 3>those people that's prove that they're smarter than we are.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll just admit I'm not that smart when it comes

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<v Speaker 3>to reading, Like I have to read sentences twice. It

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<v Speaker 3>takes me forever to finish a book. I carry the

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<v Speaker 3>same one around like for months.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>And but if you do listen to a book, I

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<v Speaker 3>do think you say that you listen to it versus

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<v Speaker 3>read it, or you're trying to be something you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, but let's just call who we are who

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<v Speaker 1>we are.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's also saying that you get more out of

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<v Speaker 2>it if you actually read it versus listening.

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<v Speaker 3>That person to be totally yeah, what books are you reading?

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<v Speaker 3>What books are you reading right now?

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<v Speaker 4>So you didn't hand write your card And she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh, you're when you're listening to it, you're distracted,

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<v Speaker 2>you're driving or doing this. You're not really like she's imagine, well, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I am. I totally imagined the whole thing. I was

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<v Speaker 2>picturing her like in Louisiana and like actually up as

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<v Speaker 2>a kid, and how troubled her life was and this

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<v Speaker 2>and that.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you're smarter when you're listening to it because

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<v Speaker 4>you're multitasking, so it's like you're cramming in more things

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<v Speaker 4>into your day.

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<v Speaker 3>But just admit you listen to it. It's like, if

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<v Speaker 3>you took an uber, do you say you drove there?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's true what you say you drove there?

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<v Speaker 3>If you so, if you meet me for lunch and

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<v Speaker 3>I say, oh, how is it, dravy, you go, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I drove here quickly. No, you took an uber. You

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<v Speaker 3>don't lie about taking an uber or driving, so don't

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's like, hey, if you needed to have a

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<v Speaker 2>conversation with me and you text me, do you say

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<v Speaker 2>you talk to me or you text me?

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<v Speaker 1>That one confuses me.

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<v Speaker 4>I said I talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I sometimes I like to say we talked, So

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<v Speaker 3>I cheat on that one a little bit. There's a

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<v Speaker 3>another way of saying, I was, I was, I touched

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<v Speaker 3>base with, I was in touch with I touched base

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<v Speaker 3>and she was saying, and she was saying, or she

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<v Speaker 3>was telling me.

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<v Speaker 1>There are ways around that. One.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell your friend that needs to prove that they read

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<v Speaker 3>the book. Good for you, like good for you to

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<v Speaker 3>have all that time.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, I fall asleep when I read, so it's like, well.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good news.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I'll read a page and I won't know what

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<v Speaker 2>I read.

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<v Speaker 3>I got this great new book. It's like a thousand

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<v Speaker 3>pages called Basic Economics.

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<v Speaker 4>Karen Oka Michael writ in that book.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait let me answer this press conference. Yes, Siny Michael

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<v Speaker 3>read that book. Okay, great, Well tell him I'm carrying

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<v Speaker 3>around haven't opened yet, And Tanya.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it white and green the cover?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Great, I'm now.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I feel like Robbie's been holding that around for

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<v Speaker 4>a while too.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing worse than going on vacation and bringing this

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<v Speaker 2>big book with you and being like, oh, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to read this, and then you didn't read it once

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<v Speaker 2>on vacation and you lugged it around.

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<v Speaker 3>We take your space in your luggage for a big

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<v Speaker 3>hard back book that you never opened. But before you go,

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<v Speaker 3>you're like, you know what, We're gonna have so much

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<v Speaker 3>time to do, nothing to read.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>I never do read.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, I see people around the pool that

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<v Speaker 3>just read makes me feel bad because I'm at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't fuck it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, you know what, they're they're better people than

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<v Speaker 3>I am, because I would, like Margarita, what I want

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<v Speaker 3>to do, keep a hardback book every single morning out

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<v Speaker 3>there ten am with their book. After they save their

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<v Speaker 3>space with their chaise lungs, throw that book down to

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<v Speaker 3>save their chaise lounge.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I think that you could really get into cards.

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<v Speaker 1>Like playing cards. Yeah, how do you know?

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<v Speaker 2>He's not.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I could just see you, like playing

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<v Speaker 4>like Rummy by the pool with like a drink in

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<v Speaker 4>your hand, because it's like, do.

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<v Speaker 1>You play Rummy? Yes, you played gin Rummy.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not we played Serbian Rummy, but U versus Serbian.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I don't know the rules for gin,

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<v Speaker 4>so I just taught Robbie is Serbian rummy. But we

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<v Speaker 4>play at every vacation that we go on, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>like so fun because you're doing something.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, backcammon, I don't like guy I ever played

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<v Speaker 2>that game? Is that that the ball with the net

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<v Speaker 2>thing attached to it? No, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>That gammut is in that little box. Oh with that

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<v Speaker 1>little Yeah, we move the little coins around.

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<v Speaker 2>So impressed it like you figure out.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything our net and our little birdies in our rackets.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're hosting Thanksgiving this year, I was just talking

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<v Speaker 3>to who was hosting twenty people? Somebody I ran into,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, someone somewhere. They're telling me they're hosting

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<v Speaker 3>for twenty people. I said, that sounds like a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of work. Twenty people's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we're at forty you're forty.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're about thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>We're having four, four people Thanksgiving because everyone's going different directions.

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<v Speaker 1>We have four people.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm not hosting. My sister's hosting. But we're

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<v Speaker 2>at forty people.

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<v Speaker 1>Forty people's a lot anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>A new study says two thirds of people prefer the

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<v Speaker 3>side dishes to the main entreent and Thanksgiving. We established that, yep,

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<v Speaker 3>these are the three most popular side dishes in case

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<v Speaker 3>you want to bring one of these. One, mashed potatoes

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<v Speaker 3>have a secret recipe. You gotta have a special recipe,

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<v Speaker 3>something makes them special. Two stuffing. People love stuffing. I

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<v Speaker 3>like cornbread stuffing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't think I've tried cornbread stuffing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of a Southern thing. It's really good, delicious.

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<v Speaker 1>And the other thing. Top three sides. Mac and cheese.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my brother in law makes a good mac and cheese.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you do a signature mac and cheese?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he does a signature one. It's like his own recipe.

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<v Speaker 3>You can tell cheese mac and cheese crunchy on the

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<v Speaker 3>top exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Mashed potatoes pass stuffing since last year to become number one.

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<v Speaker 3>Sweet potatoes, green bean castroll four and five. There you

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<v Speaker 3>go if you want to have a popular side for

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<v Speaker 3>your Thanksgiving meal. Today's quote when life is sweet, say

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<v Speaker 3>thank you and celebrate. When life is bitter, say thank

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<v Speaker 3>you and grow.

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<v Speaker 1>Just FM headlines.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we experienced the first bit of this storm system

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<v Speaker 2>yesterday all over the south Land and it'll continue to

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<v Speaker 2>bring rain fall throughout the weekend. Some light break from

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<v Speaker 2>the wet weather today, but scattered showers. O're going to

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<v Speaker 2>persist with that rainfall back up tomorrow and continue Saturday,

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<v Speaker 2>possibly through Sunday as well. Thousands of workers at more

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<v Speaker 2>than two hundred US Starbucks stores plan to walk off

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<v Speaker 2>the job today in what organizers say is the largest

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<v Speaker 2>strike yet in the two year old effort to unionize

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<v Speaker 2>the company's stores. The Workers United Union chose Starbucks's annual

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<v Speaker 2>Red Cub Day to stage the walkout since it's usually

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<v Speaker 2>one of the busiest days of the year. The union

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<v Speaker 2>said it was expecting more than five thousand workers to

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<v Speaker 2>take part in its Red Cup rebellion. Around thirty stores

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<v Speaker 2>also stage walkouts yesterday. The City of Riverside will usher

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<v Speaker 2>in the holiday season this weekend with the Switch On

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<v Speaker 2>Ceremony for the thirty first annual Festival of Lights. The

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<v Speaker 2>Switch On Ceremony kicks off the popular attraction with free fireworks, show,

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<v Speaker 2>live performances, family friendly activities, and plenty of holiday year.

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<v Speaker 2>The ceremony will take place at Orange Street and Mission

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<v Speaker 2>Inn Avenue, right outside the Mission in Hotel and Spa

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<v Speaker 2>at five pm on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>On air with Ryan Seacrest. Ryan Seacrest with you, Sistney

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<v Speaker 1>and Tanya.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for listening to us on this Thursday, one week

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<v Speaker 3>away from Thanksgiving. Paying your bills today all day long

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<v Speaker 3>and again tomorrow all day long, plus tomorrow's upfront Friday

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<v Speaker 3>for those Jingle Bowl tickets. Okay, we're commercial free this

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<v Speaker 3>entire hour, Systey. You'll tell you more about that in

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<v Speaker 3>a few but first, let's say hello to one and

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<v Speaker 3>let's play password. Hello one, Here are you in Palmdale

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<v Speaker 3>this morning? One?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I'm at Burbank this morning. I live in Palmdale.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you start in Palmdale make your way to Burbank?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 7>Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>How long did that take you?

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<v Speaker 6>A fifty minutes?

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<v Speaker 1>Got you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for listening to us.

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<v Speaker 3>While you commute, brother, we're going to play password for

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<v Speaker 3>Disneyland tickets.

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<v Speaker 6>You ready, I have been. I haven't heard of this game, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Yet you don't. I'll explain it to you. It's not

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<v Speaker 3>that difficult. Actually, it's one of our easier things here.

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<v Speaker 3>But want tell me about yourself? What do I need

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<v Speaker 3>to know about you?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? I got five kids, I have wine, and I

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<v Speaker 6>work in Burbank.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, what do you do for work.

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<v Speaker 6>It's an arrow space company.

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<v Speaker 1>Got it?

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<v Speaker 2>All?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Well I don't know what's ask about that? So let's

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<v Speaker 3>play password. Here's how we play. Uh, those of us

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<v Speaker 3>in the room one, okay, those of us here and

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<v Speaker 3>the listeners listening are gonna know the password.

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<v Speaker 1>They will know it, but you will not know it.

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<v Speaker 3>Our job one is to get you to say the

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<v Speaker 3>password by using one word clues.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So for example, if it were let's see, what's what's

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<v Speaker 3>a good example glasses? Okay, If the password were glasses,

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<v Speaker 3>I might say son and then time will go classes.

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<v Speaker 1>You see. Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we'll help you along. Here we go. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put you on hold so you don't hear the password,

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<v Speaker 1>and here we go. One. The password is gravy. Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>One.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody knows, but you. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna start with our panel, sisity turkey. If you

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<v Speaker 3>have any guests there, anything come to mind, any word

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<v Speaker 3>gravy on one, that's correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Just one. One. You never played this game before. One

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<v Speaker 1>You just won in one round.

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<v Speaker 3>One word.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh it was lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go.

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<v Speaker 2>One.

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<v Speaker 3>You were intuitive. That's what you work. Congratulations you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to Disneyland one.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Buddy, thank you for listening to us. Good job, let's

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<v Speaker 3>play again. I'll put okay, okay, I'll.

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<v Speaker 4>Go away by bye bye.

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<v Speaker 1>The password is career.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me when okay, all right, go ahead, So who starts?

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<v Speaker 3>Sistany working working working.

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<v Speaker 1>Passed? Tanya Host?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Ruby, job are you gonna guess?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 1>These are terrible clues.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't guess with any of these nobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I was gonna say job, I'm gonna think.

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<v Speaker 3>DJ kiss us we myheart radio. Okay, this is born

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<v Speaker 3>for everybody listening.

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<v Speaker 4>A hard one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I give up. What is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Career?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? That was awful.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm glad one one in one tunny. You don't know

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<v Speaker 3>about this. I just happened to see a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>about it. But I'm not quite sure how it all

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<v Speaker 3>came together. They're saying that people are doing a lot

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<v Speaker 3>more of and that is spading, right, It's an act,

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<v Speaker 3>It's an action.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a verb spaving. Do you spave? Do you cuddle?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>But do you spave?

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<v Speaker 2>She might spave.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering if you so you do cuddle? What is spooning?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>May interesting because like spooning and cuddling are based on

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<v Speaker 4>the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the difference in a cuddle in a spoon?

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you can cuddle a bunch of different ways, but

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<v Speaker 2>you can only spoon one way.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, So like, so a spoon is a cuddle,

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<v Speaker 3>but a cuddle could be more than a spoon, right,

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<v Speaker 3>But save has nothing to do with that, OA, Like, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know nothing spoon my kids per se.

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<v Speaker 1>But you spave.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I spave, and I need to be better at

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<v Speaker 2>not spaving.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So what is spaving?

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody help me?

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<v Speaker 2>Is the act of spending money to save money. When

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<v Speaker 2>you think about that, are you really saving money?

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<v Speaker 3>So by spending, meaning like if you buy, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>the deals where you could you buy one, get one,

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<v Speaker 3>buy two, get one.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, you see something on sale, Oh my gosh, Well

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<v Speaker 2>this sweater was only ten dollars, so I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't really love it.

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<v Speaker 2>But boy, we saved money exactly. But that's still ten

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<v Speaker 2>dollars coming out of your bank account. So were you

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<v Speaker 2>really saving or should you just not bought the sweater

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<v Speaker 2>to begin with?

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<v Speaker 1>But you feel so good if you spaved, don't you?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Really do it's it's weird. Enjoy that like you get

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<v Speaker 2>released from your body. Spavers can't resist a good sale.

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<v Speaker 2>I am right there with all spavers.

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<v Speaker 3>The thing is, if you go back and you look

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<v Speaker 3>at your numbers because you spave, did you end up

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<v Speaker 3>spending more In the long run, you might have gotten

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<v Speaker 3>more right inventory, end up spending more dollars for that inventory.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I come home to a finance guy like Michael,

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<v Speaker 2>and I tell him, oh my gosh, look at this

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<v Speaker 2>new jacket I got. But the original price was this,

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<v Speaker 2>and I got.

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<v Speaker 1>It for this, And let me play the role of

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<v Speaker 1>your husband, why do you need that?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because it was so cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>But what about this blue one? Here?

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<v Speaker 2>Look how much I'm saving because the original price was this.

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<v Speaker 2>And look how much I saved because I got it

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<v Speaker 2>on sale for this amount. It was only fifteen dollars.

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<v Speaker 4>My girlfriend does this all the time, Like she got

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<v Speaker 4>she has a coffee maker, she doesn't need a new one,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's like, but it's on sale. I've never seen

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<v Speaker 4>it this low before, so she like bought a new one,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>Hobby maker's break. I break them all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Was not broken so much it.

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<v Speaker 3>Will break to go. I mean, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>go a morning without your coffee machine working. I've been there,

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<v Speaker 3>You've actually lived through it with me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Another spaving trap that you can see is when they

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<v Speaker 2>offer free shipping online. If you spend up to fifty

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<v Speaker 2>dollars or up to one hundred dollars and you're right

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<v Speaker 2>around sixty.

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<v Speaker 3>Five, or you would have bought one thing and paid

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<v Speaker 3>for shipping and had been much less exactly what.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, well, maybe I'll just buy a few more things.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you're searching online. Should I get some status like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even you know exactly like that always happens

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<v Speaker 2>to me. So I don't know what the what, But

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<v Speaker 2>the moral here is like just buy, wait to buy

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<v Speaker 2>something full price when you actually really need it.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just be aware. I think it's about it. It's

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<v Speaker 3>an awareness campaign, exactly. It is time for Ryan's Roses.

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<v Speaker 3>That's one or two point seventy Kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 1>We are in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now with Crystal. So Crystal, tell us a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit about your husband chatting with someone on his laptop

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<v Speaker 3>and what's bothering you?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, So my husband he's got an office right off

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<v Speaker 8>the kitchen, so it's very close to where I am

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<v Speaker 8>all the time, and when I'm there, I can hear

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<v Speaker 8>him working away like and he just types like crazy

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<v Speaker 8>all day long, type type type, type type, And whenever

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<v Speaker 8>I go in to ask him something, there's like three

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<v Speaker 8>words on the screen and it doesn't add up in

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<v Speaker 8>my head. And this has happened many, many times. And

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<v Speaker 8>then one day he didn't know I was in the

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<v Speaker 8>kitchen and in he was in his office typing away

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<v Speaker 8>and I burst into the room, said hi, and he

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<v Speaker 8>quickly minimized whatever he was doing and it was just

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<v Speaker 8>off the screen, and he said it was and I

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<v Speaker 8>asked him to show me. He said he already closed

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<v Speaker 8>the window and acted all embarrassed. And honestly, it wouldn't

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<v Speaker 8>be that big of a deal if he was looking

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<v Speaker 8>up at four o'clock on a Tuesday afternoon, but I

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<v Speaker 8>don't think he was. I just get this sense that he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Lying, and what you did, the sense he's doing.

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<v Speaker 6>Well.

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<v Speaker 8>I think he's chatting with another woman, but only on

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<v Speaker 8>his laptop because it's locked with a password.

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<v Speaker 5>He's the only one who ever uses it.

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<v Speaker 8>And I checked on his phone and can't find any

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<v Speaker 8>evidence there so I think he's using his laptop to

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<v Speaker 8>talk with someone else.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you ever have a question about his loyalty in

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<v Speaker 3>the past. Is this a new thing, a new feeling?

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<v Speaker 8>It is new.

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<v Speaker 5>And the reason I'm so even more suspicious is he's

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<v Speaker 5>been like happier and chipper lately and it's really bothering me,

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's just not how he normally is. And I've

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<v Speaker 5>never really had any suspicions in the past, but now

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<v Speaker 5>I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, is it possible he's purchasing something for you

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<v Speaker 2>for the holidays or trying to plan a sweet surprise?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's a nice idea. I mean, I've thought

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<v Speaker 5>of that. My birthday is in May and our anniversary

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<v Speaker 5>is in July, so that doesn't make any sense. I

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<v Speaker 5>mean the holidays maybe, but she's never really been that

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<v Speaker 5>good at holiday gift giving.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you know, Crystal's on the line.

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<v Speaker 3>She's concerned that her husband's on his laptop communicating with

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<v Speaker 3>another woman. She just feels it. You know, he's saying

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<v Speaker 3>it was something else. Four pm on a Tuesday. He says,

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<v Speaker 3>look at some other things.

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<v Speaker 2>It's crazy that he said that too, that he said

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<v Speaker 2>that he was looking at adult type sits.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, well maybe he thinks that would.

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<v Speaker 1>Just yet did stop asking?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would be like why?

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<v Speaker 1>But she what about five pm on a Tuesday?

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<v Speaker 2>Still again not great?

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<v Speaker 3>So she was not believing it though. That's the thing, like,

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<v Speaker 3>it didn't help. So Crystal, I need you to say Ryan,

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<v Speaker 3>you my permission to call, and then your husband's name

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<v Speaker 3>on Kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 8>Go ahead, okay, friend, you have my permission to call.

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<v Speaker 3>Where to do that right now? Be very quiet, Let's

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<v Speaker 3>see what we can find out. Okay, hang on, here

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<v Speaker 3>we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Hello, Hi, can I speak to Josh please?

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<v Speaker 6>This is Josh.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi Josh. My name is Rosie. I'm calling from Unique Flowers.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you doing this morning?

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<v Speaker 7>Wow?

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<v Speaker 6>This is really weird.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you doing? Are you good?

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<v Speaker 9>Good?

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<v Speaker 2>Good?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's just you know, I was thinking about picking up.

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<v Speaker 5>Some flowers today and now you called.

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<v Speaker 2>Well this is great. Actually, we deliver in Alhambra and

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<v Speaker 2>surrounding areas and just trying to promote our business and

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<v Speaker 2>offering a promotion for local residents. It's a free dozen

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<v Speaker 2>red roses that you can send to anybody that you like.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that something you'd be interested in?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 5>This is quite the promotion. So it's free roses, not

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<v Speaker 5>like a buy one, get one free thing.

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<v Speaker 2>This one's free. Hopefully. If you like our arrangements, you

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<v Speaker 2>come back as a customer, a paying customer one day.

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<v Speaker 2>But we did this about once a month.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, this is great, Sure, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Who would you like to send them to?

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<v Speaker 6>Can you send them to Sonny?

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<v Speaker 7>S U N N Y.

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<v Speaker 2>Great? And what would you like to put on the card?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, just put see you soon and then my first initial.

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<v Speaker 2>Jay see you soon Jay? And is this like a

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<v Speaker 2>I have like a bunch of different types of cards, birthdays, anniversaries,

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<v Speaker 2>I love you around the border hearts? Is it a

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<v Speaker 2>romantic cardship? But like some hearts around the border?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, some hearts sounds good. That sounds like a nice touch.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you great.

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<v Speaker 1>Josh.

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<v Speaker 3>Your voice is being broadcast on the radio right now,

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<v Speaker 3>and I have your wife Crystal on the line. Josh,

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<v Speaker 3>could you explain to us who Sonny is? I think

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<v Speaker 3>your wife would like to know.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I really would rather not even right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds very strange your response here, Josh, who are you

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<v Speaker 3>sending roses to named Sonny? Why are you seeing her soon?

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<v Speaker 3>Just explain it, Josh, it's your moment, Josh, Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>This is your husband? Is this your husband, Cristal? Yes, okay, Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is very simple. Yes, go ahead, Crystal, listen, I.

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<v Speaker 8>Do not I.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, now you can't talk. Sonny is our son's piano teacher.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just get to this, okay, Josh, you're sending roses

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<v Speaker 3>to your son's piano teacher. Your wife told us you're

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<v Speaker 3>talking to somebody on the computer. Can you just tell

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<v Speaker 3>her now instead of making this worse?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not I'm not going to talk about this on

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<v Speaker 6>the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Josh, by not talking about it pretty much says

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<v Speaker 3>it all. So thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 2>M hmmm hung up?

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<v Speaker 1>Crystal are you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So so Sonny teaches piano to your kid? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>Well look here's the thing. Uh, I think you now

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<v Speaker 3>know what's going on. Clearly is something and you know

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<v Speaker 3>who it is. You know where to find her. Anybody

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<v Speaker 3>have a lesson coming up soon?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>Today, he's looking forward to.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, seeing her soon.

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<v Speaker 3>So if he was supposed to take your child to

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<v Speaker 3>the lesson, I think you need to get involved.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Yeah, Crystal, good luck with this.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry about that, thank you. Not much to say there,

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<v Speaker 3>that's clearly who Josh was talking to. Yeah, and he

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<v Speaker 3>sent the flowers with that, see you soon, Jay, And

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<v Speaker 3>didn't you ask were they romantic?

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<v Speaker 1>Correct?

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<v Speaker 2>Team wanted the hearts around the border.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go.

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<v Speaker 3>So the gist of Crystal and Josh, right, they're married

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<v Speaker 3>in Nahambra. She catches him on the computer talking to somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't believe his excuse, which was right, she shouldn't have.

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<v Speaker 3>Her intuition was correct on this. I'm pretty strong, and

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<v Speaker 3>so we called Josh and he just italy like so

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<v Speaker 3>merrit fully, like happily, gleefully sends the roses to a

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<v Speaker 3>woman named Sonny, who is their kid's piano teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, not great, So I'm gonna put some chapstick right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't we all need the chapstick these days?

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<v Speaker 1>Dry?

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<v Speaker 3>I found myself as soon as I explained that pulling

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<v Speaker 3>out my chaps out a habit because my lips.

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<v Speaker 1>Are dry right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Really chapped your lips.

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<v Speaker 3>Amelia, This is watermelon flavor. Bird spees think that it

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<v Speaker 3>tastes really good. It tastes like a starburst. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>the calories can smell it.

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<v Speaker 1>Amelia, good morning, How are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Good morning? I'm discussed honestly, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean what discussed you the most? This guy is I

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<v Speaker 3>guess that it's the child's piano teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is pretty raw.

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<v Speaker 5>The whole of it's wrong. I mean, this is why

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<v Speaker 5>I'm divorced. Guys can't be trusted.

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<v Speaker 1>My arms used to do this and some stations.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, in my experience and in this lady's experience, and

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<v Speaker 5>I think in a lot of women's experience. My ex

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<v Speaker 5>he would flirt with everybody, trainers, cashiers, a girl who's

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<v Speaker 5>cut his hair, and I thought it was harmless. Really,

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<v Speaker 5>I gave him the benefit of the doubt. But what

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<v Speaker 5>he was waiting for was for someone to actually respond,

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<v Speaker 5>like in this circumstance, the piano teacher, I guess responded.

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<v Speaker 5>And it looks like this guy can't be faithful. So

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<v Speaker 5>I think she's better off without him.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're right there. I mean, if she can

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<v Speaker 3>get through the heart ache here, which she will definitely

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<v Speaker 3>better off without this guy. And how are you doing so, Melia,

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<v Speaker 3>you go through all of that with your ex, how

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<v Speaker 3>do you heal that wound for your future relationships?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't. I guess I'm not thinking of a future relationship,

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<v Speaker 5>to be honest, but you can't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have that guy ruin it for the rest

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<v Speaker 3>of your life and not be in a loving relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's fair to yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe not. Then I guess I haven't worked it.

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<v Speaker 1>How recently did you guys break up?

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<v Speaker 5>It was two years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>You still haven't gotten passed it?

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<v Speaker 5>Huh. I think I have some I have issues with trust,

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<v Speaker 5>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>As as anybody would.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but then you're going to meet the right guy,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like a lot of those issues are

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<v Speaker 2>going to go away because he will make you feel

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<v Speaker 2>so secure.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got to be ready to let them go away

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<v Speaker 1>before they go away, that's true.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know I'm quite ready for that yet.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay, I understand that.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for calling it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, thank you, that was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for listening to It's okay.

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<v Speaker 7>You take care, Okay, I love you too.

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<v Speaker 2>Sessions for everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, everybody's got some issues. Right for the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>her life, she can't write, or she's never going to

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<v Speaker 3>feel what she deserves to feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Is just my yes, because at the beginning of that

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<v Speaker 2>phone call. She's very angry towards all men.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and I think we got to the it's really

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<v Speaker 1>upset with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt, I don't know, just something about it made

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<v Speaker 3>me feel like she was pointing that at you are

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<v Speaker 3>with Ryan Seacrest. All right, So Taylor Lautner did not

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<v Speaker 3>marry Taylor Latner. Taylor Lautner married Taylor Dome Dome and

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<v Speaker 3>now they're Taylor's Lautner.

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<v Speaker 4>They are Taylor's Laughner and think cute story. It's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And Taylor Laughner famous from Famous.

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<v Speaker 4>From Twilight, and he was Jacob Black and he and

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<v Speaker 4>Taylor his wife. They had their one year wedding anniversary

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<v Speaker 4>and they celebrated it by having a gala for the

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<v Speaker 4>Lemon's Foundation. And actually I attended it. It was Sunday night,

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<v Speaker 4>and the Lemon's Foundation is it's to advocate for people

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<v Speaker 4>that are struggling with mental health. It's a really amazing foundation.

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<v Speaker 4>But on the carpet, they were talking about the biggest

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<v Speaker 4>lesson that they learned in their first year of marriage,

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<v Speaker 4>and that is that communication is key. So everybody says this,

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<v Speaker 4>we know it, but the two of them communicate very differently.

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<v Speaker 4>So Taylor girl Taylor said, when we do get in

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<v Speaker 4>a conversation or disagreement, he knows that I go mute

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<v Speaker 4>and I don't really speak. Boy Taylor said, it is

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<v Speaker 4>frustrating because it's like I want to talk about everything

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<v Speaker 4>right then and there and get it over with. And

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<v Speaker 4>so I found those very interesting because I think that

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<v Speaker 4>I'm also in a relationship that's very much like this.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that when you're newly in a relationship

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<v Speaker 4>learning how your partner communicates, if they need time and

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<v Speaker 4>space to process or if they want to handle it

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<v Speaker 4>right then and there, I feel like finding that fine

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<v Speaker 4>line where you both feel like you're being seen and

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<v Speaker 4>heard is such a hard thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say something?

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<v Speaker 3>Sisnany do you find I find it that there's never

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<v Speaker 3>time or a good time to have any of these

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<v Speaker 3>hear me communication conversation Never like it's never a good time, right.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like there's always something moving along or you know,

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<v Speaker 3>with everybody's schedule, that it's hard to find a good

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<v Speaker 3>time to have these conversations. Is not like any time

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<v Speaker 3>an issue comes up, it's the perfect time to have

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<v Speaker 3>a communication conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>I know. But the thing is, if you don't have

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<v Speaker 4>these conversations. That's how you build resentment.

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<v Speaker 1>But I hope it goes away by morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sometimes it does. Sometimes I just skip it.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, and it's nice. I don't know, do I have

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<v Speaker 1>the energy?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have the energy every single time, because sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>it's happening as you're rushing or trying to get out

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<v Speaker 2>the door for whatever reason, and you're already late, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's probably why you're arguing, and.

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<v Speaker 3>It's and you figure, if I take a deep breath

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<v Speaker 3>and we go to sleep, maybe tomorrow things are better,

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<v Speaker 3>the sun will come up.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes they are, But.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want to build resentment. Resentment, it's a bad

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<v Speaker 3>thing to build, Tony. I think that like you and

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship would be like being with a life coach.

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<v Speaker 3>In a relationship, like you would bring it out of Robbie.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure Robbie's a great communicator, but you probably have

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<v Speaker 3>to more often than he say, let's just talk this down.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes I am. I'm definitely the therapist in the relationship,

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<v Speaker 4>but he also the way he thinks about things. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just like God, I wish I wish I thought

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<v Speaker 4>about things that way. Like I feel like my life

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<v Speaker 4>would be so much easier if I let things roll

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<v Speaker 4>off my back the way he does.

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<v Speaker 2>Try it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's the problem. I mean, like that doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>so tough.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like let things go to the other side.

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<v Speaker 3>If that doesn't sound so complicated.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he goes. You know, as long as I know

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<v Speaker 4>I did nothing wrong, the other people's feelings are their feelings.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have to like, I don't worry about that.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, wow, what a to live a life

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<v Speaker 4>in those shoes.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's try because having these conversations over and over again

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<v Speaker 3>here and I don't want that resentment. Hello Stephanie, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing. Are you in Glendale?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in Glendale.

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<v Speaker 3>H thank you for listening in Glendale. What's going down?

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<v Speaker 3>You're calling us about your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>I am what's up? How can we help listen in? Everybody?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, So me and my boyfriend we've been together for

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<v Speaker 7>about three years now, and we also do live together.

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<v Speaker 7>I want to start off by saying I really love

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<v Speaker 7>him and I for him as much as I can,

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<v Speaker 7>but right now we have a situation. So a few

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<v Speaker 7>months ago he expressed that, you know, he was unhappy

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<v Speaker 7>with work and asked if I would be willing to

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<v Speaker 7>help him if if he were to quit, and I said,

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<v Speaker 7>of course, of course, I care about his mental health

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<v Speaker 7>and as well being. He was starting to lose hair,

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<v Speaker 7>so it was becoming a bigger problem than we both

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<v Speaker 7>could have anticipated for. And now it's been four months

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<v Speaker 7>and he hasn't really been looking, and I've been paying

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<v Speaker 7>all the bills, and I'm just not sure how to

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<v Speaker 7>go about the situation anymore. I don't know if I should.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know how to tell him like he needs

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<v Speaker 7>to start looking, or if I should just be patient

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<v Speaker 7>with him until he figures out what his next move

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<v Speaker 7>will be.

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<v Speaker 2>Show him the receipts, show him the finances.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, but I have shown him he knows because we

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<v Speaker 7>work on the finances together. But he hasn't, like, he

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<v Speaker 7>hasn't really budge to do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So what does he do all day? Now?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, he's been good about like taking care of the

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<v Speaker 7>dogs and cleaning and going and running errands for us,

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<v Speaker 7>so you know, he's taking on a little bit of

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<v Speaker 7>a more traditional woman or all right, now, I would say,

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<v Speaker 7>and he's been great. I mean, I think he's just

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<v Speaker 7>getting too comfortable, And I don't know how to push

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<v Speaker 7>him without him thinking I'm not being supportive or understanding

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<v Speaker 7>of a situation right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's so tough.

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<v Speaker 3>There's got to be a way to do it. There's

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<v Speaker 3>got to be a way to acknowledge both sides of this.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think there's also a way to do it

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<v Speaker 4>without like what you're saying making him feel a certain

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<v Speaker 4>type of way. Maybe saying that you can help him

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<v Speaker 4>look for things. Let's plan a time in a day

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<v Speaker 4>to look for jobs for you and just kind of

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<v Speaker 4>help him organize.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Or if you have a friend who knows a

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<v Speaker 2>recruiter or anything along those lines, but you pressuring him

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<v Speaker 2>to get a job that he doesn't like or is

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<v Speaker 2>happy with, then he's going to have sent men towards you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all bad.

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<v Speaker 3>So I like Tanya's idea of encouraging some segmented, full

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<v Speaker 3>court press for looking for that kind of a job

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<v Speaker 3>that would work for him, and you sort of being

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<v Speaker 3>supportive with that search.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think.

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<v Speaker 7>I to get something we can do together, Well, definitely

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<v Speaker 7>try that route. It's just it's just he's also been

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<v Speaker 7>just everywhere. He doesn't he doesn't know if he wants

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<v Speaker 7>to go back to what he was doing, and he's

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<v Speaker 7>considering going to school, and so there's a lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all okay, it's all okay.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just sort of got to narrow it down to

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<v Speaker 3>what needs to happen and what can happen in these

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<v Speaker 3>next few weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>But you also need to be honest with him, Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to tell him that you're you're struggling with

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<v Speaker 2>the finances right now. You're like, I'm carrying the load

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<v Speaker 2>and it's becoming a burden and it's really tough on me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I really need your other half or your support

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<v Speaker 2>or your help with this. And if he sees that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, frustration in you sort of speak hopefully kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like lights some fire under.

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<v Speaker 7>Him, you know, hopefully, I really hope that. You know,

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<v Speaker 7>he's a sensitive guy, so I just don't I don't

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<v Speaker 7>want to step on his toes too much, or.

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<v Speaker 3>But don't worry so much about that. You can't worry

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<v Speaker 3>so much about that. You've got to like, yes, you

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<v Speaker 3>want to finesse some timing here, but you do have

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<v Speaker 3>to have a nice dose of honesty with thoughtfulness.

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<v Speaker 2>In this cost in four months.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Yeah, all right, good luck to you. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for listening.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hard when you want to tell your partner something

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<v Speaker 3>that's tough and that is sensitive, it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. It's so much easier for us.

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<v Speaker 1>To say to her to go do it than for

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<v Speaker 1>us to actually do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you want your partner to be self motivated, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean, Like you want them to get

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<v Speaker 4>up and do it and have a mission and have

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<v Speaker 4>a plan. And so when that, when you don't see that,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like it can be frustrating.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, So that's the situation she's in. I think it's time.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, take a deep breath. If you're in your

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<v Speaker 3>car by yourself, it's a mindful minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Have it, Enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 6>This is it.

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<v Speaker 3>Healthy morning routine is critical, right for setting your day

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<v Speaker 3>up for success. Doesn't always happen, may never happen, but

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<v Speaker 3>thinking about it, just knowing it should happen, is a

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<v Speaker 3>good step. So experts say to challenge yourself to eliminate

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<v Speaker 3>tech from your first minutes. Ugh, I some days I

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<v Speaker 3>don't grab my phone within I do within minutes, but

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<v Speaker 3>I don't grab it immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I take it to the potty.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that pretty? Immediately after you wake up? No, that's

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<v Speaker 2>real immediate.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you hold your pee for? Like ten?

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<v Speaker 3>I've gone within two hours of when I wake up.

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<v Speaker 3>Usually try to keep your phone out of the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that no chance, Like what if someone takes it,

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<v Speaker 3>like we're outside of the room, make it.

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<v Speaker 1>A dog might take I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I have it on.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's far away side of the lamp

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<v Speaker 3>on my night standing and think it's far away. You're

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<v Speaker 3>crushing it anyway, That's what they say. Everything on your

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<v Speaker 3>phone will still be there when you decide to pick

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<v Speaker 3>it up. Make your bedroom a sanctuary for rest and sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>That's impossible with our job.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know what's not possible? Oh wait no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>the word impossible literally is spelled I'm possible, so nothing

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<v Speaker 4>is impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>And confidence is spelled Con. I got con artist.

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<v Speaker 3>It's with Con, doesn't it on air with Ryan? If

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<v Speaker 3>you were to say to me, Ryan and I love

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<v Speaker 3>to cook, but not under pressure. I love to cook,

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<v Speaker 3>but not for people. I love to cook. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not good at cooking for a group. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>I get to I feel too much pressure cooking for

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<v Speaker 3>a group of people. I can do it for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>And one other person slowly.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. That's sport to me.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fun to me leisurely, But for twenty people and

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<v Speaker 3>for Thanksgiving, it's not my I'm just not good at it.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's never enough time.

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<v Speaker 3>But make time by ordering takeout, and don't feel bad

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<v Speaker 3>about it, right, don't.

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<v Speaker 2>And hide the containers and put them in your own dishes,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell everybody this is takeout, take it or leave it.

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<v Speaker 3>Happy Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't understand people that make their whole Thanksgiving dinner. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>what order? How many stoves and ovens do you?

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<v Speaker 2>Our parents did it? We grew up on that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, my parents made like three things for Thanksgiving, and our.

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<v Speaker 1>Parents did do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just not our parents with one oven.

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<v Speaker 1>Ruby. Sorry, we're bickering here in front of the same way.

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<v Speaker 9>Though I don't like I like to cook for like

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<v Speaker 9>six people.

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<v Speaker 1>Max. Yes, that's my cutoff.

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<v Speaker 2>Max.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So how did you come up with this

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<v Speaker 3>list of the best at a spots for Thanksgiving takeout?

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<v Speaker 9>It's hard because we do have a lot of options,

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<v Speaker 9>but I just had to narrow it down to these three.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the message is, don't feel bad about takeout

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<v Speaker 3>in these times, yes, out right, don't alleviate. Let's have

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<v Speaker 3>a mindful moment, alleviate the things that stress you out

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<v Speaker 3>that you can't alleviate and preparing this stuff for everybody,

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<v Speaker 3>this can happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, what's on the list?

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly?

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<v Speaker 9>The first one is Little Doms, of course, a classic

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<v Speaker 9>Italian place on Hillhurst. They offer their famous deep fried turkey.

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<v Speaker 9>So if you don't want to do the turkey, which

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<v Speaker 9>a lot of times is the hardest, right cooking the turkey,

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<v Speaker 9>they have a really great option.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe get the turkey and do the sides, yes, exactly,

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<v Speaker 3>so much easier.

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<v Speaker 9>But they also have really good sides, Brussels sprouts with

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<v Speaker 9>applewood bacon.

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<v Speaker 1>Little Doms makes it better than we.

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<v Speaker 2>Do, Yes they do.

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<v Speaker 9>They do definitely fennel sausage and mushroom stuffing, garnet yampuree

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<v Speaker 9>would oven roasted heirloom carrots, which I love, and of

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<v Speaker 9>course they're brown butter pumpkin pie a good a good holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>Staple, and these are la takeouts for thanks having. What else?

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<v Speaker 9>The second spot is Italy in Century City. So we've

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<v Speaker 9>all been to this, you know, multi level Italian marketplace

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<v Speaker 9>at the Century City Mall. They have roasted turkey breasts

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<v Speaker 9>with fennel pollen, sea salt rub, pushetta stuffing with ficasha,

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<v Speaker 9>baked with pumpkin ravioli. Yes, and Mark is a mouscarpone,

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<v Speaker 9>whipped potatoes, broccoli, big butternut squash.

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<v Speaker 2>So they have a lot of good side dish.

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<v Speaker 1>Options there, okay. And finally the.

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<v Speaker 9>Last one would be a Holy Basil in downtown La.

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<v Speaker 9>So this is good if you want like a different,

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<v Speaker 9>non traditional option.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to spice it up a.

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<v Speaker 9>Bit, they have a curried local rock crab, river prawns, mussels, squid,

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<v Speaker 9>crispy pork, belly, jadori chicken, and they also have of

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<v Speaker 9>course market salad and rice options as well.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, don't be ashamed to take it out for Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny. I was talking to my mother. I'm having

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<v Speaker 3>my mom and dad, so Meredith's got to go somewhere.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going to be very small Thanksgiving for us four

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<v Speaker 3>of us, and I'm going to have my mom and

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<v Speaker 3>dad for Thanksgiving dinner. And I said to Mom, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what, let's make it really fun. Let's go back

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<v Speaker 3>to when we were growing up, and let's make some

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<v Speaker 3>of the things ourselves, like the oyster Castle role and

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<v Speaker 3>the green Bean Castle role, and do all the things

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<v Speaker 3>that we used to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Silence, and she's like, nah, silence. She's like I did that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really. She's like, you can do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, no, it's fun for all of us. She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I did that for you guys for a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was a great idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so excited. I don't know if I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>do that. I like Ruby's idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually has the great options as well too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, don't be ashamed to take it out. Thanks for

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