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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: All right, guys, shoot, I forgot to use the restaurant

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Speaker 3: before we start one or two point seven.

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Speaker 2: That's the worst.

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Speaker 1: Everybody you should know.

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Speaker 3: I already disappears like seconds before this show begins to

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Speaker 3: finish that, so I don't have to do it in

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Speaker 3: the middle of it, and I failed. So Hi, good morning,

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Speaker 3: good to see you, guys. We're Thursday, November sixteenth, Today's

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Speaker 3: National Fast Food Day. We've all talked about our favorite

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Speaker 3: fast food establishments before one week from Thanksgiving. So I

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Speaker 3: was reading something about Thanksgiving that came into my feed

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Speaker 3: click click click California, New York. So this is about

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Speaker 3: Thanksgiving pie preferences broken in my state.

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Speaker 1: Okay, why what's wrong.

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Speaker 4: So funny that you say that because I am getting

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Speaker 4: some pies today?

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Speaker 3: Well, then the timing is perfect hilary for California, New York.

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Speaker 3: There is I'm it's hysterical.

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Speaker 4: Last not a pie eater. So this is very random

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Speaker 4: that you're.

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Speaker 1: Saying, are you getting pies?

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Speaker 4: Because two of Robbie's best friends are inviting us over

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Speaker 4: to celebrate our engagement and they and we're bringing pies,

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Speaker 4: but we're bringing.

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Speaker 1: You're having a hard time answering this question. What's really

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Speaker 1: going on.

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Speaker 4: We're bringing an oreo pie and a s'mores pie.

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Speaker 2: But why are you bringing pies if you're not a

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Speaker 2: pie person?

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Speaker 4: Because it's like Thanksgiving season. It feels cute.

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Speaker 1: Cute anyway.

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Speaker 3: So California and New York are their favorite is pumpkin pie.

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Speaker 3: Pumpkin pie in Georgia, sweet potato pie. Florida's key lime

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Speaker 3: pie for Thanksgiving. Arkansas, Indiana peanut butter pie, peanut butter pie.

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Speaker 1: Where you getting the oreo pie? That sounds great?

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: They are vegan and gluten free, thank you very much.

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Speaker 4: It's called Winston and it's on Third Street by Jones.

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Speaker 3: Sounds really good. Feel free to get a few extra pie.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a pie person either, I know, I'm like

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Speaker 3: an unconventional pie guy. Yes, I have a cheesecake. I'm

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Speaker 3: not a cheesecake guy either, but cheese cake factory cheese.

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Speaker 4: There's a peanut butter pie. There's a peanut butter pie too.

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Speaker 3: So in Kansas their favorite pie is a Freedo chili pie.

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Speaker 1: What I might like that? Oh yeah, it is, but

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Speaker 1: it's a savory pie.

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Speaker 4: Kind of like a chili billy.

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Speaker 2: I'll have a bite.

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Speaker 1: Do you do a pecan? Or a pecan or a

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Speaker 1: what do you do?

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Speaker 5: Sis?

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Speaker 2: That's what we do. That's my go to if I

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Speaker 2: was going to pick out a pie, because there's all

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Speaker 2: they're always there, they're always available.

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Speaker 3: I eat the pie crust forward, so start with the

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Speaker 3: back and eat to the point.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would never do that.

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Speaker 1: It's the best stuff. You want to get the best

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Speaker 1: stuff first.

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Speaker 2: I want to have. I want to save. I want

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Speaker 2: to save that for the end.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to eat the whole piece, so or

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Speaker 3: rather eat the back, the trunk of the piece for

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Speaker 3: it and stop halfway through Seisney, What is this that's

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Speaker 3: bothering you?

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Speaker 4: Here?

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Speaker 2: It's okay, so I guess it is bothering me. The

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Speaker 2: other day I was in the conversation with one of

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Speaker 2: my friends and we were talking about the Britney Spears

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Speaker 2: book and I was like, oh, I just read it,

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Speaker 2: and she read it as well. She read a hard copy,

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Speaker 2: like actually bought the book of it. And I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: I listened to it on audible. She's like, well, that's

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Speaker 2: not reading the book. I was like, yes, it is.

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Speaker 1: I finished it.

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Speaker 2: I got all of the info from it that you

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Speaker 2: did by reading it. But the only difference is that

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Speaker 2: I had Michelle Williams Arry, I.

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Speaker 1: Say, you read the book, well, I read.

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Speaker 2: I read the book. But then I sometimes we'll yes,

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Speaker 3: Audible, like reading the book, it's not what it's what

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Speaker 3: it's I listened to that on audio whatever.

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Speaker 4: It's the same thing.

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Speaker 2: I will say, listen. But then but then even so

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Speaker 2: she's saying that it's not considered reading.

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Speaker 1: It's not.

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Speaker 3: But she's bragging about her reading. And she's one of

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Speaker 3: those people that's prove that they're smarter than we are.

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Speaker 3: I'll just admit I'm not that smart when it comes

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Speaker 3: to reading, Like I have to read sentences twice. It

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Speaker 3: takes me forever to finish a book. I carry the

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Speaker 3: same one around like for months.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: And but if you do listen to a book, I

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Speaker 3: do think you say that you listen to it versus

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Speaker 3: read it, or you're trying to be something you're not.

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Speaker 1: You know, but let's just call who we are who

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Speaker 2: But she's also saying that you get more out of

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Speaker 2: it if you actually read it versus listening.

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Speaker 3: That person to be totally yeah, what books are you reading?

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Speaker 3: What books are you reading right now?

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Speaker 4: So you didn't hand write your card And she's.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, you're when you're listening to it, you're distracted,

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Speaker 2: you're driving or doing this. You're not really like she's imagine, well, yes,

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Speaker 2: I am. I totally imagined the whole thing. I was

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Speaker 2: picturing her like in Louisiana and like actually up as

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Speaker 2: a kid, and how troubled her life was and this

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Speaker 4: I think you're smarter when you're listening to it because

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Speaker 4: you're multitasking, so it's like you're cramming in more things

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Speaker 3: But just admit you listen to it. It's like, if

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Speaker 3: you took an uber, do you say you drove there?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true what you say you drove there?

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Speaker 3: If you so, if you meet me for lunch and

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Speaker 3: I say, oh, how is it, dravy, you go, well,

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Speaker 3: I drove here quickly. No, you took an uber. You

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Speaker 3: don't lie about taking an uber or driving, so don't

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like, hey, if you needed to have a

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Speaker 2: conversation with me and you text me, do you say

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Speaker 2: you talk to me or you text me?

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Speaker 1: That one confuses me.

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Speaker 4: I said I talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I sometimes I like to say we talked, So

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Speaker 3: I cheat on that one a little bit. There's a

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Speaker 3: another way of saying, I was, I was, I touched

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Speaker 3: and she was saying, and she was saying, or she

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Speaker 1: There are ways around that. One.

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Speaker 3: Tell your friend that needs to prove that they read

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Speaker 3: the book. Good for you, like good for you to

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Speaker 4: Also, I fall asleep when I read, so it's like, well.

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Speaker 1: That's good news.

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Speaker 2: Well I'll read a page and I won't know what

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Speaker 2: I read.

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Speaker 3: I got this great new book. It's like a thousand

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Speaker 3: pages called Basic Economics.

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Speaker 4: Karen Oka Michael writ in that book.

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Speaker 3: Wait let me answer this press conference. Yes, Siny Michael

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Speaker 3: read that book. Okay, great, Well tell him I'm carrying

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Speaker 3: around haven't opened yet, And Tanya.

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Speaker 4: Is it white and green the cover?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Great, I'm now.

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Speaker 4: Because I feel like Robbie's been holding that around for

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Speaker 4: a while too.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing worse than going on vacation and bringing this

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Speaker 2: big book with you and being like, oh, I'm going

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Speaker 2: to read this, and then you didn't read it once

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Speaker 2: on vacation and you lugged it around.

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Speaker 3: We take your space in your luggage for a big

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Speaker 3: hard back book that you never opened. But before you go,

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Speaker 3: you're like, you know what, We're gonna have so much

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Speaker 3: time to do, nothing to read.

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Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: I never do read.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I see people around the pool that

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Speaker 3: just read makes me feel bad because I'm at the bar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: I can't fuck it.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, they're they're better people than

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Speaker 3: I am, because I would, like Margarita, what I want

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Speaker 3: to do, keep a hardback book every single morning out

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Speaker 3: there ten am with their book. After they save their

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Speaker 3: space with their chaise lungs, throw that book down to

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Speaker 3: save their chaise lounge.

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Speaker 4: You know, I think that you could really get into cards.

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Speaker 1: Like playing cards. Yeah, how do you know?

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Speaker 2: He's not.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I could just see you, like playing

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Speaker 4: like Rummy by the pool with like a drink in

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Speaker 1: You play Rummy? Yes, you played gin Rummy.

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Speaker 4: It's not we played Serbian Rummy, but U versus Serbian.

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Speaker 4: so I just taught Robbie is Serbian rummy. But we

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Speaker 4: play at every vacation that we go on, and it's

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Speaker 4: like so fun because you're doing something.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, backcammon, I don't like guy I ever played

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Speaker 2: that game? Is that that the ball with the net

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Speaker 2: thing attached to it? No, that's.

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Speaker 1: That gammut is in that little box. Oh with that

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Speaker 1: little Yeah, we move the little coins around.

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Speaker 2: So impressed it like you figure out.

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Speaker 3: Everything our net and our little birdies in our rackets.

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Speaker 3: If you're hosting Thanksgiving this year, I was just talking

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Speaker 3: to who was hosting twenty people? Somebody I ran into,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, someone somewhere. They're telling me they're hosting

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Speaker 3: for twenty people. I said, that sounds like a lot

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Speaker 3: of work. Twenty people's a lot.

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Speaker 1: Oh we're at forty you're forty.

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Speaker 3: We're having four, four people Thanksgiving because everyone's going different directions.

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Speaker 1: We have four people.

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm not hosting. My sister's hosting. But we're

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Speaker 2: at forty people.

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Speaker 1: Forty people's a lot anyway.

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Speaker 3: A new study says two thirds of people prefer the

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Speaker 3: side dishes to the main entreent and Thanksgiving. We established that, yep,

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Speaker 3: these are the three most popular side dishes in case

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Speaker 3: you want to bring one of these. One, mashed potatoes

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Speaker 3: have a secret recipe. You gotta have a special recipe,

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Speaker 3: something makes them special. Two stuffing. People love stuffing. I

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Speaker 3: like cornbread stuffing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think I've tried cornbread stuffing.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of a Southern thing. It's really good, delicious.

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Speaker 1: And the other thing. Top three sides. Mac and cheese.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my brother in law makes a good mac and cheese.

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Speaker 1: But do you do a signature mac and cheese?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he does a signature one. It's like his own recipe.

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Speaker 3: You can tell cheese mac and cheese crunchy on the

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Speaker 3: top exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Mashed potatoes pass stuffing since last year to become number one.

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Speaker 3: Sweet potatoes, green bean castroll four and five. There you

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Speaker 3: go if you want to have a popular side for

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Speaker 3: your Thanksgiving meal. Today's quote when life is sweet, say

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Speaker 1: Just FM headlines.

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Speaker 2: Well, we experienced the first bit of this storm system

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Speaker 2: bring rain fall throughout the weekend. Some light break from

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Speaker 2: the wet weather today, but scattered showers. O're going to

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Speaker 2: persist with that rainfall back up tomorrow and continue Saturday,

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Speaker 2: possibly through Sunday as well. Thousands of workers at more

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Speaker 2: than two hundred US Starbucks stores plan to walk off

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Speaker 2: the job today in what organizers say is the largest

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Speaker 2: strike yet in the two year old effort to unionize

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Speaker 2: the company's stores. The Workers United Union chose Starbucks's annual

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Speaker 2: Red Cub Day to stage the walkout since it's usually

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Speaker 2: one of the busiest days of the year. The union

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Speaker 2: take part in its Red Cup rebellion. Around thirty stores

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Speaker 2: also stage walkouts yesterday. The City of Riverside will usher

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Speaker 2: in the holiday season this weekend with the Switch On

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Speaker 2: Ceremony for the thirty first annual Festival of Lights. The

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Speaker 2: Switch On Ceremony kicks off the popular attraction with free fireworks, show,

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Speaker 2: live performances, family friendly activities, and plenty of holiday year.

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Speaker 2: The ceremony will take place at Orange Street and Mission

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Speaker 2: Inn Avenue, right outside the Mission in Hotel and Spa

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Speaker 2: at five pm on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest. Ryan Seacrest with you, Sistney

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Speaker 1: and Tanya.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for listening to us on this Thursday, one week

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Speaker 3: away from Thanksgiving. Paying your bills today all day long

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Speaker 3: and again tomorrow all day long, plus tomorrow's upfront Friday

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Speaker 3: for those Jingle Bowl tickets. Okay, we're commercial free this

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Speaker 3: entire hour, Systey. You'll tell you more about that in

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Speaker 3: a few but first, let's say hello to one and

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Speaker 3: let's play password. Hello one, Here are you in Palmdale

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Speaker 3: this morning? One?

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm at Burbank this morning. I live in Palmdale.

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Speaker 1: So did you start in Palmdale make your way to Burbank?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 7: Sure?

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Speaker 1: How long did that take you?

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Speaker 6: A fifty minutes?

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Speaker 1: Got you?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to us.

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Speaker 3: While you commute, brother, we're going to play password for

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Speaker 3: Disneyland tickets.

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Speaker 6: You ready, I have been. I haven't heard of this game, but.

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Speaker 3: Yet you don't. I'll explain it to you. It's not

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Speaker 3: that difficult. Actually, it's one of our easier things here.

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Speaker 3: But want tell me about yourself? What do I need

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Speaker 3: to know about you?

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Speaker 6: Well? I got five kids, I have wine, and I

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Speaker 6: work in Burbank.

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Speaker 1: All right, what do you do for work.

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Speaker 6: It's an arrow space company.

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Speaker 1: Got it?

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Speaker 2: All?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Well I don't know what's ask about that? So let's

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Speaker 3: play password. Here's how we play. Uh, those of us

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Speaker 3: in the room one, okay, those of us here and

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Speaker 3: the listeners listening are gonna know the password.

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Speaker 1: They will know it, but you will not know it.

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Speaker 3: Our job one is to get you to say the

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Speaker 3: password by using one word clues.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So for example, if it were let's see, what's what's

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Speaker 3: a good example glasses? Okay, If the password were glasses,

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Speaker 3: I might say son and then time will go classes.

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Speaker 1: You see. Does that make sense?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll help you along. Here we go. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna put you on hold so you don't hear the password,

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Speaker 1: and here we go. One. The password is gravy. Okay.

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Speaker 7: One.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows, but you. Here we go.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna start with our panel, sisity turkey. If you

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Speaker 3: have any guests there, anything come to mind, any word

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Speaker 3: gravy on one, that's correct.

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Speaker 1: Just one. One. You never played this game before. One

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Speaker 1: You just won in one round.

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Speaker 3: One word.

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Speaker 6: Oh it was lucky.

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 2: One.

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Speaker 3: You were intuitive. That's what you work. Congratulations you're going

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Speaker 3: to Disneyland one.

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Speaker 6: All right, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Buddy, thank you for listening to us. Good job, let's

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Speaker 3: play again. I'll put okay, okay, I'll.

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Speaker 4: Go away by bye bye.

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Speaker 1: The password is career.

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Speaker 3: Tell me when okay, all right, go ahead, So who starts?

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Speaker 3: Sistany working working working.

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Speaker 1: Passed? Tanya Host?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Ruby, job are you gonna guess?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: These are terrible clues.

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Speaker 2: You can't guess with any of these nobs.

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Speaker 1: Well, I was gonna say job, I'm gonna think.

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Speaker 3: DJ kiss us we myheart radio. Okay, this is born

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Speaker 3: for everybody listening.

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Speaker 4: A hard one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I give up. What is it?

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Speaker 2: Career?

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Speaker 1: Okay? That was awful.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad one one in one tunny. You don't know

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Speaker 3: about this. I just happened to see a little bit

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Speaker 3: about it. But I'm not quite sure how it all

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Speaker 3: came together. They're saying that people are doing a lot

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Speaker 3: more of and that is spading, right, It's an act,

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Speaker 3: It's an action.

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Speaker 1: It's a verb spaving. Do you spave? Do you cuddle?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: But do you spave?

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Speaker 2: She might spave.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering if you so you do cuddle? What is spooning?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: May interesting because like spooning and cuddling are based on

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Speaker 1: What's the difference in a cuddle in a spoon?

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Speaker 4: Nothing?

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Speaker 2: Well, you can cuddle a bunch of different ways, but

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Speaker 2: you can only spoon one way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, So like, so a spoon is a cuddle,

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Speaker 3: but a cuddle could be more than a spoon, right,

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Speaker 3: But save has nothing to do with that, OA, Like, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know nothing spoon my kids per se.

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Speaker 1: But you spave.

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Speaker 2: Oh I spave, and I need to be better at

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Speaker 2: not spaving.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what is spaving?

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Speaker 4: Somebody help me?

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Speaker 2: Is the act of spending money to save money. When

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Speaker 2: you think about that, are you really saving money?

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Speaker 3: So by spending, meaning like if you buy, it's like

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Speaker 3: the deals where you could you buy one, get one,

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Speaker 3: buy two, get one.

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Speaker 2: Right, you see something on sale, Oh my gosh, Well

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Speaker 2: this sweater was only ten dollars, so I.

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Speaker 1: Don't really love it.

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Speaker 2: But boy, we saved money exactly. But that's still ten

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Speaker 2: dollars coming out of your bank account. So were you

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Speaker 2: really saving or should you just not bought the sweater

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Speaker 2: to begin with?

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Speaker 1: But you feel so good if you spaved, don't you?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Really do it's it's weird. Enjoy that like you get

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Speaker 2: released from your body. Spavers can't resist a good sale.

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Speaker 2: I am right there with all spavers.

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Speaker 3: The thing is, if you go back and you look

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Speaker 3: at your numbers because you spave, did you end up

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Speaker 3: spending more In the long run, you might have gotten

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Speaker 3: more right inventory, end up spending more dollars for that inventory.

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Speaker 2: And when I come home to a finance guy like Michael,

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Speaker 2: and I tell him, oh my gosh, look at this

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Speaker 2: and I got.

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Speaker 1: It for this, And let me play the role of

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Speaker 1: your husband, why do you need that?

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Speaker 2: Well, because it was so cheap.

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Speaker 1: But what about this blue one? Here?

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Speaker 2: Look how much I'm saving because the original price was this.

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Speaker 2: And look how much I saved because I got it

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Speaker 2: on sale for this amount. It was only fifteen dollars.

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Speaker 4: My girlfriend does this all the time, Like she got

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Speaker 4: she has a coffee maker, she doesn't need a new one,

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Speaker 4: and she's like, but it's on sale. I've never seen

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Speaker 4: it this low before, so she like bought a new one,

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Speaker 4: and I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Hobby maker's break. I break them all the time.

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Speaker 4: Was not broken so much it.

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Speaker 3: Will break to go. I mean, you don't want to

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Speaker 3: go a morning without your coffee machine working. I've been there,

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Speaker 3: You've actually lived through it with me.

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Speaker 1: It's not fun.

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Speaker 2: Another spaving trap that you can see is when they

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Speaker 2: offer free shipping online. If you spend up to fifty

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Speaker 2: around sixty.

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Speaker 3: Five, or you would have bought one thing and paid

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Speaker 3: for shipping and had been much less exactly what.

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Speaker 2: They're like, well, maybe I'll just buy a few more things.

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Speaker 2: Now you're searching online. Should I get some status like

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Speaker 2: I don't even you know exactly like that always happens

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Speaker 2: to me. So I don't know what the what, But

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Speaker 2: the moral here is like just buy, wait to buy

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Speaker 3: Let's just be aware. I think it's about it. It's

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Speaker 3: an awareness campaign, exactly. It is time for Ryan's Roses.

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Speaker 3: That's one or two point seventy Kiss FM.

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Speaker 1: We are in it.

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Speaker 3: Right now with Crystal. So Crystal, tell us a little

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Speaker 3: bit about your husband chatting with someone on his laptop

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Speaker 3: and what's bothering you?

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Speaker 8: Okay, So my husband he's got an office right off

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Speaker 8: the kitchen, so it's very close to where I am

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Speaker 8: all the time, and when I'm there, I can hear

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Speaker 8: him working away like and he just types like crazy

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Speaker 8: all day long, type type type, type type, And whenever

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Speaker 8: I go in to ask him something, there's like three

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Speaker 8: words on the screen and it doesn't add up in

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Speaker 8: my head. And this has happened many, many times. And

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Speaker 8: then one day he didn't know I was in the

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Speaker 8: quickly minimized whatever he was doing and it was just

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Speaker 8: asked him to show me. He said he already closed

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Speaker 8: the window and acted all embarrassed. And honestly, it wouldn't

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Speaker 8: be that big of a deal if he was looking

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Speaker 8: up at four o'clock on a Tuesday afternoon, but I

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Speaker 8: don't think he was. I just get this sense that he's.

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Speaker 1: Lying, and what you did, the sense he's doing.

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Speaker 6: Well.

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Speaker 8: I think he's chatting with another woman, but only on

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Speaker 8: his laptop because it's locked with a password.

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Speaker 5: He's the only one who ever uses it.

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Speaker 8: And I checked on his phone and can't find any

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Speaker 8: evidence there so I think he's using his laptop to

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Speaker 8: talk with someone else.

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Speaker 3: Did you ever have a question about his loyalty in

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Speaker 3: the past. Is this a new thing, a new feeling?

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Speaker 8: It is new.

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Speaker 5: And the reason I'm so even more suspicious is he's

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Speaker 5: Like it's just not how he normally is. And I've

452
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Speaker 5: never really had any suspicions in the past, but now

453
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Speaker 5: I do.

454
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Speaker 2: I mean, is it possible he's purchasing something for you

455
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Speaker 2: for the holidays or trying to plan a sweet surprise?

456
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Speaker 5: I mean, that's a nice idea. I mean, I've thought

457
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Speaker 5: of that. My birthday is in May and our anniversary

458
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Speaker 5: is in July, so that doesn't make any sense. I

459
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Speaker 5: mean the holidays maybe, but she's never really been that

460
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Speaker 5: good at holiday gift giving.

461
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Speaker 1: Before you know, Crystal's on the line.

462
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Speaker 3: She's concerned that her husband's on his laptop communicating with

463
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Speaker 3: another woman. She just feels it. You know, he's saying

464
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Speaker 3: it was something else. Four pm on a Tuesday. He says,

465
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Speaker 3: look at some other things.

466
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Speaker 2: It's crazy that he said that too, that he said

467
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Speaker 2: that he was looking at adult type sits.

468
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Speaker 4: Well, well maybe he thinks that would.

469
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Speaker 1: Just yet did stop asking?

470
00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be like why?

471
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Speaker 1: But she what about five pm on a Tuesday?

472
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 2: Still again not great?

473
00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,679
Speaker 3: So she was not believing it though. That's the thing, like,

474
00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,200
Speaker 3: it didn't help. So Crystal, I need you to say Ryan,

475
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Speaker 3: you my permission to call, and then your husband's name

476
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Speaker 3: on Kiss FM.

477
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Speaker 8: Go ahead, okay, friend, you have my permission to call.

478
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Speaker 3: Where to do that right now? Be very quiet, Let's

479
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Speaker 3: see what we can find out. Okay, hang on, here

480
00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 3: we go.

481
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Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hi, can I speak to Josh please?

482
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Speaker 6: This is Josh.

483
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Speaker 2: Hi Josh. My name is Rosie. I'm calling from Unique Flowers.

484
00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 2: How are you doing this morning?

485
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 7: Wow?

486
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 6: This is really weird.

487
00:20:58,359 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 2: How are you doing? Are you good?

488
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 9: Good?

489
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 2: Good?

490
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just you know, I was thinking about picking up.

491
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,879
Speaker 5: Some flowers today and now you called.

492
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 2: Well this is great. Actually, we deliver in Alhambra and

493
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 2: surrounding areas and just trying to promote our business and

494
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 2: offering a promotion for local residents. It's a free dozen

495
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 2: red roses that you can send to anybody that you like.

496
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Speaker 2: Is that something you'd be interested in?

497
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 1: Wow?

498
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,439
Speaker 5: This is quite the promotion. So it's free roses, not

499
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Speaker 5: like a buy one, get one free thing.

500
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Speaker 2: This one's free. Hopefully. If you like our arrangements, you

501
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,640
Speaker 2: come back as a customer, a paying customer one day.

502
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Speaker 2: But we did this about once a month.

503
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, this is great, Sure, let's do it.

504
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Speaker 2: Who would you like to send them to?

505
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Speaker 6: Can you send them to Sonny?

506
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 7: S U N N Y.

507
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 2: Great? And what would you like to put on the card?

508
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Speaker 6: Oh?

509
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 5: Okay, just put see you soon and then my first initial.

510
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 2: Jay see you soon Jay? And is this like a

511
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,920
Speaker 2: I have like a bunch of different types of cards, birthdays, anniversaries,

512
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,879
Speaker 2: I love you around the border hearts? Is it a

513
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,919
Speaker 2: romantic cardship? But like some hearts around the border?

514
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, some hearts sounds good. That sounds like a nice touch.

515
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 5: Thank you great.

516
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Speaker 1: Josh.

517
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Speaker 3: Your voice is being broadcast on the radio right now,

518
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Speaker 3: and I have your wife Crystal on the line. Josh,

519
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Speaker 3: could you explain to us who Sonny is? I think

520
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:22,439
Speaker 3: your wife would like to know.

521
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 5: Well, I really would rather not even right now.

522
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 3: Sounds very strange your response here, Josh, who are you

523
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 3: sending roses to named Sonny? Why are you seeing her soon?

524
00:22:43,680 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 3: Just explain it, Josh, it's your moment, Josh, Josh.

525
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: This is your husband? Is this your husband, Cristal? Yes, okay, Josh,

526
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: and this is very simple. Yes, go ahead, Crystal, listen, I.

527
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 8: Do not I.

528
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 5: Oh, now you can't talk. Sonny is our son's piano teacher.

529
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 3: Let's just get to this, okay, Josh, you're sending roses

530
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Speaker 3: to your son's piano teacher. Your wife told us you're

531
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Speaker 3: talking to somebody on the computer. Can you just tell

532
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 3: her now instead of making this worse?

533
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: What's going on?

534
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 6: I'm not I'm not going to talk about this on

535
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Speaker 6: the radio.

536
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 3: Well, Josh, by not talking about it pretty much says

537
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Speaker 3: it all. So thank you very much.

538
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 2: M hmmm hung up?

539
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: Crystal are you there?

540
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm here.

541
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Speaker 1: Okay.

542
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 3: So so Sonny teaches piano to your kid? Yeah, okay,

543
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 3: Well look here's the thing. Uh, I think you now

544
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 3: know what's going on. Clearly is something and you know

545
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 3: who it is. You know where to find her. Anybody

546
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 3: have a lesson coming up soon?

547
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 7: Yeah?

548
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 8: Today, he's looking forward to.

549
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: He said, seeing her soon.

550
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 3: So if he was supposed to take your child to

551
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Speaker 3: the lesson, I think you need to get involved.

552
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, Crystal, good luck with this.

553
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 3: Sorry about that, thank you. Not much to say there,

554
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 3: that's clearly who Josh was talking to. Yeah, and he

555
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 3: sent the flowers with that, see you soon, Jay, And

556
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 3: didn't you ask were they romantic?

557
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 1: Correct?

558
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 2: Team wanted the hearts around the border.

559
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: There you go.

560
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Speaker 3: So the gist of Crystal and Josh, right, they're married

561
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 3: in Nahambra. She catches him on the computer talking to somebody.

562
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 3: She didn't believe his excuse, which was right, she shouldn't have.

563
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 3: Her intuition was correct on this. I'm pretty strong, and

564
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 3: so we called Josh and he just italy like so

565
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 3: merrit fully, like happily, gleefully sends the roses to a

566
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Speaker 3: woman named Sonny, who is their kid's piano teacher.

567
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: Right, not great, So I'm gonna put some chapstick right now.

568
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't we all need the chapstick these days?

569
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: Dry?

570
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 3: I found myself as soon as I explained that pulling

571
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 3: out my chaps out a habit because my lips.

572
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: Are dry right now?

573
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 2: Really chapped your lips.

574
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Speaker 3: Amelia, This is watermelon flavor. Bird spees think that it

575
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 3: tastes really good. It tastes like a starburst. But yeah,

576
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 3: the calories can smell it.

577
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Speaker 1: Amelia, good morning, How are you?

578
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Speaker 5: Good morning? I'm discussed honestly, but I.

579
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Speaker 3: Mean what discussed you the most? This guy is I

580
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Speaker 3: guess that it's the child's piano teacher.

581
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, is pretty raw.

582
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 5: The whole of it's wrong. I mean, this is why

583
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 5: I'm divorced. Guys can't be trusted.

584
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 1: My arms used to do this and some stations.

585
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,199
Speaker 5: Well, in my experience and in this lady's experience, and

586
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 5: I think in a lot of women's experience. My ex

587
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 5: he would flirt with everybody, trainers, cashiers, a girl who's

588
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 5: cut his hair, and I thought it was harmless. Really,

589
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 5: I gave him the benefit of the doubt. But what

590
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 5: he was waiting for was for someone to actually respond,

591
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 5: like in this circumstance, the piano teacher, I guess responded.

592
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 5: And it looks like this guy can't be faithful. So

593
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 5: I think she's better off without him.

594
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,360
Speaker 3: I think you're right there. I mean, if she can

595
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 3: get through the heart ache here, which she will definitely

596
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 3: better off without this guy. And how are you doing so, Melia,

597
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 3: you go through all of that with your ex, how

598
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 3: do you heal that wound for your future relationships?

599
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 5: I don't. I guess I'm not thinking of a future relationship,

600
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 5: to be honest, but you can't.

601
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Speaker 3: I don't have that guy ruin it for the rest

602
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 3: of your life and not be in a loving relationship.

603
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 3: I don't think it's fair to yourself.

604
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 5: Maybe not. Then I guess I haven't worked it.

605
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: How recently did you guys break up?

606
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 5: It was two years ago.

607
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: You still haven't gotten passed it?

608
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 5: Huh. I think I have some I have issues with trust,

609
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 5: you know.

610
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: As as anybody would.

611
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then you're going to meet the right guy,

612
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 2: and I feel like a lot of those issues are

613
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,400
Speaker 2: going to go away because he will make you feel

614
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 2: so secure.

615
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: She's got to be ready to let them go away

616
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: before they go away, that's true.

617
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 5: I don't know I'm quite ready for that yet.

618
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: That's okay, I understand that.

619
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Speaker 2: Thank you for calling it.

620
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you, that was nice.

621
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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to It's okay.

622
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Speaker 7: You take care, Okay, I love you too.

623
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 2: Sessions for everybody.

624
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 3: Hey, everybody's got some issues. Right for the rest of

625
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,239
Speaker 3: her life, she can't write, or she's never going to

626
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 3: feel what she deserves to feel.

627
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: Is just my yes, because at the beginning of that

628
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Speaker 2: phone call. She's very angry towards all men.

629
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,479
Speaker 1: Yes, and I think we got to the it's really

630
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: upset with you.

631
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 3: I felt, I don't know, just something about it made

632
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 3: me feel like she was pointing that at you are

633
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 3: with Ryan Seacrest. All right, So Taylor Lautner did not

634
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 3: marry Taylor Latner. Taylor Lautner married Taylor Dome Dome and

635
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 3: now they're Taylor's Lautner.

636
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 4: They are Taylor's Laughner and think cute story. It's so cute.

637
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: And Taylor Laughner famous from Famous.

638
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 4: From Twilight, and he was Jacob Black and he and

639
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 4: Taylor his wife. They had their one year wedding anniversary

640
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 4: and they celebrated it by having a gala for the

641
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 4: Lemon's Foundation. And actually I attended it. It was Sunday night,

642
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 4: and the Lemon's Foundation is it's to advocate for people

643
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 4: that are struggling with mental health. It's a really amazing foundation.

644
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,959
Speaker 4: But on the carpet, they were talking about the biggest

645
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 4: lesson that they learned in their first year of marriage,

646
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Speaker 4: and that is that communication is key. So everybody says this,

647
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 4: we know it, but the two of them communicate very differently.

648
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 4: So Taylor girl Taylor said, when we do get in

649
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 4: a conversation or disagreement, he knows that I go mute

650
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 4: and I don't really speak. Boy Taylor said, it is

651
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 4: frustrating because it's like I want to talk about everything

652
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 4: right then and there and get it over with. And

653
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 4: so I found those very interesting because I think that

654
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 4: I'm also in a relationship that's very much like this.

655
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 4: And I think that when you're newly in a relationship

656
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 4: learning how your partner communicates, if they need time and

657
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 4: space to process or if they want to handle it

658
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 4: right then and there, I feel like finding that fine

659
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 4: line where you both feel like you're being seen and

660
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 4: heard is such a hard thing to do.

661
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: Can I say something?

662
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Speaker 3: Sisnany do you find I find it that there's never

663
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 3: time or a good time to have any of these

664
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 3: hear me communication conversation Never like it's never a good time, right.

665
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 3: I feel like there's always something moving along or you know,

666
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 3: with everybody's schedule, that it's hard to find a good

667
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: time to have these conversations. Is not like any time

668
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 3: an issue comes up, it's the perfect time to have

669
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Speaker 3: a communication conversation.

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Speaker 4: I know. But the thing is, if you don't have

671
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 4: these conversations. That's how you build resentment.

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Speaker 1: But I hope it goes away by morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes it does. Sometimes I just skip it.

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Speaker 1: Right, and it's nice. I don't know, do I have

675
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Speaker 1: the energy?

676
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 2: You don't have the energy every single time, because sometimes

677
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 2: it's happening as you're rushing or trying to get out

678
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: the door for whatever reason, and you're already late, and

679
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: that's probably why you're arguing, and.

680
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 3: It's and you figure, if I take a deep breath

681
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 3: and we go to sleep, maybe tomorrow things are better,

682
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 3: the sun will come up.

683
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 2: Sometimes they are, But.

684
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Speaker 3: You don't want to build resentment. Resentment, it's a bad

685
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 3: thing to build, Tony. I think that like you and

686
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 3: a relationship would be like being with a life coach.

687
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 3: In a relationship, like you would bring it out of Robbie.

688
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Speaker 2: Right.

689
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Speaker 3: I'm sure Robbie's a great communicator, but you probably have

690
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 3: to more often than he say, let's just talk this down.

691
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 4: Yes I am. I'm definitely the therapist in the relationship,

692
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 4: but he also the way he thinks about things. Sometimes

693
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Speaker 4: I'm just like God, I wish I wish I thought

694
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 4: about things that way. Like I feel like my life

695
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 4: would be so much easier if I let things roll

696
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 4: off my back the way he does.

697
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:07,239
Speaker 2: Try it.

698
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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the problem. I mean, like that doesn't sound

699
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: so tough.

700
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like let things go to the other side.

701
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 3: If that doesn't sound so complicated.

702
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, he goes. You know, as long as I know

703
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 4: I did nothing wrong, the other people's feelings are their feelings.

704
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 4: I don't have to like, I don't worry about that.

705
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 4: And I'm like, wow, what a to live a life

706
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 4: in those shoes.

707
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 3: Let's try because having these conversations over and over again

708
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 3: here and I don't want that resentment. Hello Stephanie, good morning.

709
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Speaker 1: How are you doing. Are you in Glendale?

710
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm in Glendale.

711
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 3: H thank you for listening in Glendale. What's going down?

712
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 3: You're calling us about your boyfriend?

713
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: I am what's up? How can we help listen in? Everybody?

714
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 7: Okay, So me and my boyfriend we've been together for

715
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 7: about three years now, and we also do live together.

716
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 7: I want to start off by saying I really love

717
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 7: him and I for him as much as I can,

718
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 7: but right now we have a situation. So a few

719
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 7: months ago he expressed that, you know, he was unhappy

720
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 7: with work and asked if I would be willing to

721
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 7: help him if if he were to quit, and I said,

722
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Speaker 7: of course, of course, I care about his mental health

723
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 7: and as well being. He was starting to lose hair,

724
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 7: so it was becoming a bigger problem than we both

725
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 7: could have anticipated for. And now it's been four months

726
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 7: and he hasn't really been looking, and I've been paying

727
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,239
Speaker 7: all the bills, and I'm just not sure how to

728
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 7: go about the situation anymore. I don't know if I should.

729
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 7: I don't know how to tell him like he needs

730
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Speaker 7: to start looking, or if I should just be patient

731
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 7: with him until he figures out what his next move

732
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 7: will be.

733
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Speaker 2: Show him the receipts, show him the finances.

734
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Speaker 7: Okay, but I have shown him he knows because we

735
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 7: work on the finances together. But he hasn't, like, he

736
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 7: hasn't really budge to do anything.

737
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Speaker 1: So what does he do all day? Now?

738
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Speaker 7: Well, he's been good about like taking care of the

739
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 7: dogs and cleaning and going and running errands for us,

740
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 7: so you know, he's taking on a little bit of

741
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 7: a more traditional woman or all right, now, I would say,

742
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 7: and he's been great. I mean, I think he's just

743
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 7: getting too comfortable, And I don't know how to push

744
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 7: him without him thinking I'm not being supportive or understanding

745
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 7: of a situation right now.

746
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so tough.

747
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 3: There's got to be a way to do it. There's

748
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 3: got to be a way to acknowledge both sides of this.

749
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Speaker 4: Well, I think there's also a way to do it

750
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 4: without like what you're saying making him feel a certain

751
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 4: type of way. Maybe saying that you can help him

752
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 4: look for things. Let's plan a time in a day

753
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 4: to look for jobs for you and just kind of

754
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 4: help him organize.

755
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 2: Right, Or if you have a friend who knows a

756
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: recruiter or anything along those lines, but you pressuring him

757
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 2: to get a job that he doesn't like or is

758
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 2: happy with, then he's going to have sent men towards you.

759
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Speaker 1: That's all bad.

760
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 3: So I like Tanya's idea of encouraging some segmented, full

761
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 3: court press for looking for that kind of a job

762
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 3: that would work for him, and you sort of being

763
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Speaker 3: supportive with that search.

764
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Speaker 1: Do you think.

765
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Speaker 7: I to get something we can do together, Well, definitely

766
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 7: try that route. It's just it's just he's also been

767
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 7: just everywhere. He doesn't he doesn't know if he wants

768
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 7: to go back to what he was doing, and he's

769
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 7: considering going to school, and so there's a lot of.

770
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Speaker 1: That's all okay, it's all okay.

771
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 3: It's just sort of got to narrow it down to

772
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 3: what needs to happen and what can happen in these

773
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:45,439
Speaker 3: next few weeks.

774
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 2: But you also need to be honest with him, Stephanie.

775
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 2: You need to tell him that you're you're struggling with

776
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 2: the finances right now. You're like, I'm carrying the load

777
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 2: and it's becoming a burden and it's really tough on me,

778
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 2: and I really need your other half or your support

779
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 2: or your help with this. And if he sees that,

780
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 2: you know, frustration in you sort of speak hopefully kind

781
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 2: of like lights some fire under.

782
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 7: Him, you know, hopefully, I really hope that. You know,

783
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 7: he's a sensitive guy, so I just don't I don't

784
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 7: want to step on his toes too much, or.

785
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: But don't worry so much about that. You can't worry

786
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 3: so much about that. You've got to like, yes, you

787
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 3: want to finesse some timing here, but you do have

788
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 3: to have a nice dose of honesty with thoughtfulness.

789
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 2: In this cost in four months.

790
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: Come on, Yeah, all right, good luck to you. Thanks

791
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: for listening.

792
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 6: Thank you.

793
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 3: It's hard when you want to tell your partner something

794
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 3: that's tough and that is sensitive, it's hard.

795
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. It's so much easier for us.

796
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: To say to her to go do it than for

797
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: us to actually do it.

798
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 4: Because you want your partner to be self motivated, you

799
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 4: know what I mean, Like you want them to get

800
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 4: up and do it and have a mission and have

801
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 4: a plan. And so when that, when you don't see that,

802
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 4: I feel like it can be frustrating.

803
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 3: Right, So that's the situation she's in. I think it's time.

804
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 3: All right, take a deep breath. If you're in your

805
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 3: car by yourself, it's a mindful minute.

806
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 1: Have it, Enjoy it.

807
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 6: This is it.

808
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 3: Healthy morning routine is critical, right for setting your day

809
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 3: up for success. Doesn't always happen, may never happen, but

810
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 3: thinking about it, just knowing it should happen, is a

811
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 3: good step. So experts say to challenge yourself to eliminate

812
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 3: tech from your first minutes. Ugh, I some days I

813
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 3: don't grab my phone within I do within minutes, but

814
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 3: I don't grab it immediately.

815
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I take it to the potty.

816
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 2: Isn't that pretty? Immediately after you wake up? No, that's

817
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: real immediate.

818
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:38,720
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

819
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 2: What do you hold your pee for? Like ten?

820
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 3: I've gone within two hours of when I wake up.

821
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 3: Usually try to keep your phone out of the bedroom.

822
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 3: I know that no chance, Like what if someone takes it,

823
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 3: like we're outside of the room, make it.

824
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 1: A dog might take I don't know.

825
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 2: I have it on.

826
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 3: I feel like that's far away side of the lamp

827
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 3: on my night standing and think it's far away. You're

828
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 3: crushing it anyway, That's what they say. Everything on your

829
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 3: phone will still be there when you decide to pick

830
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 3: it up. Make your bedroom a sanctuary for rest and sleep.

831
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 3: That's impossible with our job.

832
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 4: Do you know what's not possible? Oh wait no, no,

833
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 4: the word impossible literally is spelled I'm possible, so nothing

834
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 4: is impossible.

835
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: And confidence is spelled Con. I got con artist.

836
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 3: It's with Con, doesn't it on air with Ryan? If

837
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 3: you were to say to me, Ryan and I love

838
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 3: to cook, but not under pressure. I love to cook,

839
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 3: but not for people. I love to cook. You know,

840
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 3: I'm not good at cooking for a group. I'm not

841
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 3: I get to I feel too much pressure cooking for

842
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 3: a group of people. I can do it for myself.

843
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 3: And one other person slowly.

844
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: I love it. That's sport to me.

845
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 3: It's fun to me leisurely, But for twenty people and

846
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 3: for Thanksgiving, it's not my I'm just not good at it.

847
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:11,760
Speaker 2: And there's never enough time.

848
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 3: But make time by ordering takeout, and don't feel bad

849
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 3: about it, right, don't.

850
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 2: And hide the containers and put them in your own dishes,

851
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:21,240
Speaker 2: you know, fine.

852
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 3: Tell everybody this is takeout, take it or leave it.

853
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:25,839
Speaker 3: Happy Thanksgiving.

854
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 4: Don't understand people that make their whole Thanksgiving dinner. I'm like,

855
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 4: what order? How many stoves and ovens do you?

856
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 2: Our parents did it? We grew up on that.

857
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 4: No, my parents made like three things for Thanksgiving, and our.

858
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: Parents did do it.

859
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 2: I'm just not our parents with one oven.

860
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: Ruby. Sorry, we're bickering here in front of the same way.

861
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 9: Though I don't like I like to cook for like

862
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:46,720
Speaker 9: six people.

863
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 1: Max. Yes, that's my cutoff.

864
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: Max.

865
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 3: All right, So how did you come up with this

866
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: list of the best at a spots for Thanksgiving takeout?

867
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Speaker 9: It's hard because we do have a lot of options,

868
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,760
Speaker 9: but I just had to narrow it down to these three.

869
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 3: I think the message is, don't feel bad about takeout

870
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 3: in these times, yes, out right, don't alleviate. Let's have

871
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 3: a mindful moment, alleviate the things that stress you out

872
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 3: that you can't alleviate and preparing this stuff for everybody,

873
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 3: this can happen.

874
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: Sorry, what's on the list?

875
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 2: Exactly?

876
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 9: The first one is Little Doms, of course, a classic

877
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 9: Italian place on Hillhurst. They offer their famous deep fried turkey.

878
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 9: So if you don't want to do the turkey, which

879
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,280
Speaker 9: a lot of times is the hardest, right cooking the turkey,

880
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 9: they have a really great option.

881
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe get the turkey and do the sides, yes, exactly,

882
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 3: so much easier.

883
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 9: But they also have really good sides, Brussels sprouts with

884
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 9: applewood bacon.

885
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,399
Speaker 1: Little Doms makes it better than we.

886
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 2: Do, Yes they do.

887
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 9: They do definitely fennel sausage and mushroom stuffing, garnet yampuree

888
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 9: would oven roasted heirloom carrots, which I love, and of

889
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 9: course they're brown butter pumpkin pie a good a good holiday.

890
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: Staple, and these are la takeouts for thanks having. What else?

891
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,919
Speaker 9: The second spot is Italy in Century City. So we've

892
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 9: all been to this, you know, multi level Italian marketplace

893
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 9: at the Century City Mall. They have roasted turkey breasts

894
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 9: with fennel pollen, sea salt rub, pushetta stuffing with ficasha,

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Speaker 9: baked with pumpkin ravioli. Yes, and Mark is a mouscarpone,

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Speaker 9: whipped potatoes, broccoli, big butternut squash.

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Speaker 2: So they have a lot of good side dish.

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Speaker 1: Options there, okay. And finally the.

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Speaker 9: Last one would be a Holy Basil in downtown La.

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Speaker 9: So this is good if you want like a different,

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Speaker 9: non traditional option.

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Speaker 2: If you want to spice it up a.

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Speaker 9: Bit, they have a curried local rock crab, river prawns, mussels, squid,

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Speaker 9: crispy pork, belly, jadori chicken, and they also have of

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Speaker 9: course market salad and rice options as well.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, don't be ashamed to take it out for Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 3: It's funny. I was talking to my mother. I'm having

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Speaker 3: my mom and dad, so Meredith's got to go somewhere.

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Speaker 3: It's going to be very small Thanksgiving for us four

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Speaker 3: of us, and I'm going to have my mom and

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Speaker 3: dad for Thanksgiving dinner. And I said to Mom, you

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Speaker 3: know what, let's make it really fun. Let's go back

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Speaker 3: to when we were growing up, and let's make some

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Speaker 3: of the things ourselves, like the oyster Castle role and

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Speaker 3: the green Bean Castle role, and do all the things

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Speaker 3: that we used to do.

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Speaker 1: Silence, and she's like, nah, silence. She's like I did that.

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Speaker 1: I don't really. She's like, you can do that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the thing.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, it's fun for all of us. She's like,

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Speaker 3: I did that for you guys for a long time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a great idea.

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Speaker 3: I was so excited. I don't know if I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: do that. I like Ruby's idea.

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Speaker 2: Actually has the great options as well too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't be ashamed to take it out. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: listening So on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe,

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Speaker 1: and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.