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Speaker 1: Papa Team six. Welcome to another episode for the dads.

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Speaker 1: This is episode five. You might be listening to me

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Speaker 1: in your car right now. Maybe you're listening to me.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you are in the rock or trying to get

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Speaker 1: the little one back to sleep. Maybe you're at work

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Speaker 1: just so you have one AirPod in listening during a meeting.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're hanging with your wife. Maybe she's giving you

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Speaker 1: a little bit of an ear fool that you deserve,

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Speaker 1: and for whatever reason, you're tuned out a little bit

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Speaker 1: listening to this podcast for the dads. This is episode five.

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Speaker 1: We are on a new YouTube channel. Thank you all

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Speaker 1: for showing up to this YouTube channel. But also dads

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Speaker 1: boom or dads listen. I know men, our attention span

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Speaker 1: can be short and very fleeting. Please subscribe to this channel.

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Speaker 1: If you're part of Papa Team six, you are subscribed

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Speaker 1: for the dads. There are wives, there's mom, there's wives.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of people tuning in. Whether you're a

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Speaker 1: dad that's in it, about to be in it, whether

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Speaker 1: you just want to listen to the guys chopping up

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Speaker 1: and talk. You want to be part of Papa Team six.

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Speaker 1: You are subscribed to this podcast.

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Speaker 2: You're a real second.

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Speaker 1: If you're a real sick dude, if you're a Papa seal.

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Speaker 1: Right now, you might not even be a dad yet

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Speaker 1: and you're just dropping in seeming Team six seed, Team

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Speaker 1: six I love that you like that. Subscribe, subscribe to

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Speaker 1: the channel. The views have been awesome, a lot more

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Speaker 1: views than our subscriptions. I get that. It's a little

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Speaker 1: it's a it's a it's a process. I know last

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Speaker 1: week when we were shutting off the podcast, it was

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Speaker 1: super hard to find because you had to be specific

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Speaker 1: on typing in at for the Dad's Pod. No space

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Speaker 1: is nothing, just like a user name in YouTube to

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Speaker 1: even find this channel. Now you can just type in

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Speaker 1: for the Dads and find it. But again, make sure

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Speaker 1: you're subscribed to the boys. We are on all socials.

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Speaker 1: At for the Dad's Pod are YouTube channels at for

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Speaker 1: the Dad's Pod. But yeah, subscribe to leave comments. The

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Speaker 1: comments have been amazing. They've been been awesome, dude. I

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Speaker 1: was the community is growing.

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Speaker 2: I was overwhelmed. I'll say this later, but I was

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Speaker 2: overwhelmed by all the comments and people that reached out

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Speaker 2: with my DMS. I was overwhelmed. It was crazy.

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Speaker 1: You want to read a few.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love to first of all, shout.

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Speaker 1: Out to people jumping comments. They got to know that

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Speaker 1: we're there, that we're showing up, that we're showing up.

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Speaker 2: One hundred percent. And to your point, shout out to

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Speaker 2: the eight point five k sickos that typed in at

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Speaker 2: for the Dad spot. I like to think they all

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Speaker 2: typed in at for the Dad spot, all typed it

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Speaker 2: in and they're absolute sig gos. They're Papa Team six.

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Speaker 2: I'll start out with Hunter Palell, he said Sherman, the

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Speaker 2: best gift you can give your wife is being the

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Speaker 2: dad she always wanted. My wife grew up with absent

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Speaker 2: up with the dad has healed so many wins for her.

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Speaker 2: Being vulnerable in the comments is sick. Shout out Hunter

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Speaker 2: pal for them, you.

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Speaker 1: Shout out Hunter. I'm reading this one from Blake Blake

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Speaker 1: Lee four six four fellas, and this is a little

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Speaker 1: hack because I didn't even I didn't even think about

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Speaker 1: this one, Fellas. Here's a major w from the first

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Speaker 1: member of Papa Team six, Chad GPT has walked me

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Speaker 1: through the absolute war zone of sleep training with my

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Speaker 1: two and a half year old slept nine hours straight

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Speaker 1: Oh four nights ago. I was asking myself, am I

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Speaker 1: built for this? Am I built for the a gap?

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Speaker 1: Am I truly a member of PT six? And this

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Speaker 1: morning I woke up and realized I might just be

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Speaker 1: Himmothy huge dad w for this dad of two. Shout

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Speaker 1: out the boy Blake.

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Speaker 2: That was Blake that said that, Yeah, Blake, Dude, shout

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Speaker 2: out Blake.

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Speaker 1: Blake Lee, Blake Lee four six four from PT six

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Speaker 1: in two years, Dude, I'm sitting there two nights and

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, oh, man too, like, I don't know how

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Speaker 1: It's a process. Yeah, it's a process.

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Speaker 2: It's a than that Papa Seal can only take on

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Speaker 2: and to that point, Mike Cody eight one A two.

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Speaker 2: He kept it short and sweet. He said, Papa Team

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Speaker 2: six with the flex and don't forget trash today. Remember

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Speaker 2: what got us here, Trash Day got us here. But

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Speaker 2: also shout out Papa Team six. I took a photo today.

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Speaker 2: Today is actually my trash today. We record on Monday.

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Speaker 2: I took a photo. I forgot to tweet it. That's

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Speaker 1: I got it. Papa Seals now, Papa Team six, we

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Speaker 1: gotta get out there. That's the way we engage and

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Speaker 1: build the community. Because people probably wondering, like I did,

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Speaker 1: see people wanting the fatherhood. I think I saw a

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Speaker 1: lot more for Papa Team six, a lot of tea.

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Speaker 1: At first, I was more of a fatherhood guy, but

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Speaker 1: then I got to thinking, I'm like, Papa Team six

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Speaker 1: is just more fun because you know me, I'm a

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Speaker 1: just you know, I never know what the how to

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Speaker 1: refer to it as just say like hey, you know.

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Speaker 1: For example, when I went to war with Expedia, a

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Speaker 1: couple of years ago, it was getting the army, taking

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Speaker 1: There's a part there's a fantasy I have where you

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Speaker 1: just rally Papa Team six, whether it's in the comments,

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Speaker 1: you have fun on social media, you know, I have

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Speaker 1: those little fantasies, but also like playing into it. It's like,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Papa Team six. Yes, you see the fatherhood.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that feels way more universal and generic.

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Speaker 1: Even though I think it's sick, I think it's cool,

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Speaker 1: and I do think we should get those upside down

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Speaker 1: fatherhood hats made. Yeah, but it seems like something that's normal. Right.

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Speaker 1: If you see like welcome to Papa Team six, Like

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Speaker 1: anybody that's outside of the audience that for whatever reason

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Speaker 1: and they see welcome to Papa Team six, it kind

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Speaker 1: of makes you pause for a second. Probably why does

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Speaker 1: everybody saying Papa Team six. It's kind of funny, kind

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Speaker 2: You know, you know who the real real sickos are

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Speaker 2: in Papa Team six. Are those guys that we've been

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Speaker 2: doing PT six on Twitter. I've seen you do it.

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Speaker 2: I've done it myself. I've seen a couple others. People

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Speaker 2: on my wife's Instagram post posting a picture of scarlet

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Speaker 2: and people in the comments welcome to PT six. Sure,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, that's just sick of We need in a

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Speaker 1: We need a mobilized Papa Team six, not not for

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Speaker 1: the wars that probably will be had at some points

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Speaker 1: in time with the TikTok bombs of the world who

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Speaker 1: might come across clips of ours and you know it's found.

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Speaker 2: To happen at some point it will happen, but it

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Speaker 1: Even for recruiting purposes. Yes, you just see somebody you

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Speaker 1: tag in somebody else's video. We need to get this

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Speaker 1: Potential shout out chef too.

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Speaker 2: He had an incredible idea for some merch of just

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Speaker 2: some dads coming through, like clearing a room and you

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Speaker 2: but they like look military. They look like night vision goggles.

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Speaker 1: Maybe a dad was strapped with a carrier with the

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Speaker 2: He's got one on the back back.

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Speaker 1: It'd be so with the backpack on and then out

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Speaker 1: of the side sleeve you just see the top half

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Speaker 1: of a bottle. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. The above the detail the bomb diffuser would be

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Speaker 2: just a guy with the baby Breza and he's computing

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Speaker 1: Be so good. BETWTV dot com. That's where you get

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Speaker 1: our merchandise. And I do I love the detail that

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Speaker 1: our merchandise has. Like there's one oh man, I was

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of like cool detail that I feel

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Speaker 1: like we get to have fun with now that we

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Speaker 1: get to make our own merch.

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Speaker 2: A hundred and just to tease the merchant general. We

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Speaker 2: got a shipment of the Bust and Summer beat the

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Speaker 2: Heat merch in uh last week, I believe. And just

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Speaker 2: seeing some of that, yeah, and I can't I'll just

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Speaker 1: Which product are you talking about? Because it's Wednesday, like

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Speaker 1: we have new merchants just dropped yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well so we do. We do have the Hawaiian

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Speaker 2: that I'm not supposed to do on teasing this merch

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Speaker 2: Do I have permission to go into detail. Yes, there's

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Speaker 2: some polos coming in that are on Are we talking

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Speaker 2: good material polos that some golf dads can wear? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and one that is there's some girl dad homages with

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Speaker 2: one of the polos that I'm telling you, I cannot

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Speaker 2: wait to be on the golf course.

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Speaker 1: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: This is not a pitch for the merch I want

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Speaker 2: to be on the golf course in this one polo immediately,

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Speaker 2: So keep your eyes out for that. It's so sick,

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Speaker 2: so sick.

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Speaker 1: Get his juice. Get the boys rocked up. The Boys

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Speaker 1: rocked up on a Wednesday mornings, out there just getting

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Speaker 1: the trash can bens out to the curve, just getting

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Speaker 1: rocked up. Listening to that little teaser.

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Speaker 2: There's so many w's with the l's, dude, there's so

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Speaker 2: many many.

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Speaker 1: So many w's, buddy, there are so many l's in Paragra.

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Speaker 1: And again, if you're new to this show, we run

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Speaker 1: over a lot of different things. We talk about our

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Speaker 1: dad losses, you know. We talk about what we crack

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Speaker 1: a cold one too? Ye? What are the odds yup

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Speaker 1: survival kit? What to put in the survival kits? Some

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Speaker 1: dad hacks, ye, Some lessons that we're learning along the

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Speaker 1: way in fatherhood to be a papa Seal quote. We

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Speaker 1: go through voicemails, call in six on one, the dad's

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Speaker 1: people call in. We've had a lot of call in. Chef,

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Speaker 1: Chef jack in the back, he uh, he has about

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Speaker 1: what four lined up for us today? Four good ones? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: We gotta keep it tight, and we gotta keep it

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Speaker 1: month old boy's teething right now, and we woke up

438
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Speaker 1: six times last night.

439
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Speaker 2: It's all part of it. Hope everything goes well.

440
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Speaker 1: Shirt Hey. Let you know, Sean, it sounds like everything

441
00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,359
Speaker 1: went very well for our boy, for our boys, shirm

442
00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:41,160
Speaker 1: doing great. You mentioned you got a Manny petty while

443
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,240
Speaker 1: you were in there. I did.

444
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Speaker 2: We had, Hey, we have the Roku stick, huge, dad hack.

445
00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,040
Speaker 2: We brought the Roku stick in there so we are

446
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Speaker 2: extreame smart. It was incredible. We got Tommy Boy rolling

447
00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,080
Speaker 2: on the TV Jill and never seen Tommy Boy. Shout

448
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:55,760
Speaker 2: out Tommy Boy.

449
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Speaker 1: Nice.

450
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Speaker 2: But Jill's overall note was I want you to have fun

451
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,200
Speaker 2: and keep the mood light going into labor. That is

452
00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 2: my only assignment to you, Sherman is I want to

453
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,199
Speaker 2: keep it light. And I don't know if people that

454
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,760
Speaker 2: follow me on Twitter Instagram saw that college football hype

455
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 2: video style I put it to scrilla. Oh buddy, it

456
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,639
Speaker 2: was awesome. I loved watching it, made that hype video.

457
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 2: I didn't show it to her right before delivery, as

458
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:25,880
Speaker 2: I'm sure people that we're reading it and this fucking

459
00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,680
Speaker 2: my question I have is Uh, was she the one

460
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:32,359
Speaker 2: filming you? She wanted to Yeah, she wanted to film me. Okay,

461
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 2: so that shot.

462
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Speaker 1: When you when you're sitting there in your headphones and

463
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Speaker 1: going on im like laughing to myself, thinking are they

464
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Speaker 1: hit the hostle right now? And Jilli Bean you mind

465
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:42,800
Speaker 1: you might just hit a little record for me As

466
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Speaker 1: I just kind of sit with my headphones on.

467
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Speaker 2: There's four people in the waiting room watching it go

468
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Speaker 2: down too, and they're probably looking at us like these

469
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Speaker 2: fucking idiots they.

470
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Speaker 1: Probay just a quick time out. Are your people hearing this?

471
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 2: I would assume they hear the rain, but not to

472
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,880
Speaker 2: the degree that would be like it's loud right now?

473
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 2: It is right now? It is, But even with the

474
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 2: AC that was like running in the back. Oh, it

475
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,920
Speaker 2: just got even louder. I know, I know. We might

476
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: want to wait for it to die down just a

477
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Speaker 2: little bit, or we can press on take five.

478
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Speaker 1: We can take five, but we gotta keep it under

479
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Speaker 1: Sorry for the quick interruption. It was as a dad

510
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Speaker 1: would say, it was raining cats and dogs outside, it's

511
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 1: raining cats and dogs, and say, you see, I got

512
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Speaker 1: some I got some rain on me right now. But

513
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: we had to adapt. We had to improvise. We had

514
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Speaker 1: to overcome as is parenting.

515
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Speaker 2: Yes, welcome to for the dad's new studio.

516
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we had to. We had to just get

517
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Speaker 1: on the bus because it helps with the sound. Is

518
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 1: the rain was getting so loud. I don't know if

519
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,159
Speaker 1: you guys were hearing it in your audio, but it

520
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: gets so loud. At Term's voice gets a little bit

521
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: more faint. So we had to make a pivot. We

522
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 1: had to make a call because we got to keep

523
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Speaker 1: this under ant. We gotta keep it on. I got

524
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Speaker 1: to keep it under an hour.

525
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 2: I told Jill two thirty. It's one forty three.

526
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll keep it.

527
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Speaker 2: We'll keep it under an hour, and you know it.

528
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Speaker 1: I don't want to talk hypotheticals, talk hypothetical Uddie.

529
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Speaker 2: I love you. I'm gonna make it to that.

530
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Speaker 1: But if you're home at two thirty seven.

531
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Speaker 2: That's fine.

532
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 1: It's a dad loss, dad loss. Good for the show,

533
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 1: great for the show. But we had to make a change.

534
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 1: So we're we're in a different studio right now. We're

535
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Speaker 1: on the bus with the boys studio. I appreciate you

536
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 1: doing am make sure you subscribe, but sometimes you gotta

537
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Speaker 1: you gotta adapt on the the environment, the elements to you. Yeah,

538
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: we got some elements. Sometimes you're gonna want to be

539
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 1: at a pool thinking you're gonna be at the pool

540
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: for about four hours, and it's gonna cut short and

541
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: go to two because someone's losing their mind. I'm talking

542
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: to you, Rue, but uh, carry on with carry on

543
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 1: with your story. I kind of forgot where we were,

544
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 1: but I did have a what are the odds? Oh you,

545
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 1: I had what are the odds? I like that what

546
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: are the odds? Shout out the shout out the partner

547
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: fan duel in the background. But I had a what

548
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Speaker 1: are the odds. What are the odds that Jill stayed

549
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Speaker 1: at fort Is that Mitch, it's Matt. Yeah, we're recording.

550
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 2: Hey, shout out, Matt entered Matt.

551
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 1: What are the odds that Jill sat at four centimeters

552
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: over under an hour? What are the odds that you

553
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: had an incredibly smooth delivery, one that a lot of

554
00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: parents would be.

555
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 2: Jel one that people legitimately would get angry about, like

556
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 2: when I facetimed you yesterday and you were checking in

557
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 2: on the FAM and yeah, how to go blah blah blah,

558
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 2: Like a part of me, it hurt a part of

559
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 2: me to tell you how our experience went, because it

560
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 2: was so good.

561
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: It was just what everybody wants.

562
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 2: Which is what everybody if you have.

563
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Speaker 1: An experience like I'm thinking like mine, like who knows

564
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: how it's gonna go in there? Then you're out great.

565
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 1: Everything was if anything, As a dad, I don't want

566
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: to tell Charle how smooth it went, yeah, because she's

567
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 1: gonna be off, just kidding, she's gonna no, no, no,

568
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Speaker 1: But truly, I mean for some of these moms and stuff,

569
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: like they get there too late, they don't get there

570
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Speaker 1: epidural what everybody. Everybody hopes for the delivery you're about

571
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Speaker 1: to tell us about.

572
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Speaker 2: Of course, and Jill, I mean, it absolutely kills it.

573
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Speaker 2: My one of my favorite moments I'll never forget is

574
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Speaker 2: we uh both fall sleep, Jill though it's like sleeping

575
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Speaker 2: in our intervals or like an hour thirty interval, but

576
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 2: because nurse is coming in and checking her because they

577
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: gave her the induction in the mouth and I forget

578
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 2: the name of that pill. But that's not the potosin.

579
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 2: That's not the it's the one before potosinin, pre potosin pill.

580
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: So they give her pre potosent pill. It did it

581
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 2: didn't really do anything. So during the middle of the

582
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Speaker 2: night while I'm snooze on recliner being dead of the year, they.

583
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Speaker 1: Sweet know I just edited up this video. You did

584
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Speaker 1: a great job in the past.

585
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 2: I would just literally what I did. You go over there,

586
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 2: I'm in the recliner doing this. I'm going like this

587
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 2: here in the bed, I'm holding her hand like truly

588
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: was so comfy, dude, It's kind of insane how well

589
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 2: it is. Yes, this is me and a recliner with Jill.

590
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 2: Brought these like silk pillows and I have a Barefoot

591
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Speaker 2: Dreams blanket.

592
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Speaker 1: Like I'll tell you what you hat. Like your survival

593
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Speaker 1: kid was ready to.

594
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 2: Go because of jillybe I mean, Jill was so freaking

595
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 2: dial dude. And when we have more time, I want

596
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 2: to do a full survival kit breakdown to everybody, because

597
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 2: it looked like we're going on a two week vacation

598
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 2: with those bags that we were bringing in worth we

599
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: used every single thing we brought, and I swear to

600
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 2: god we did because the luggage, it may look like

601
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 2: that was all closed. It was really like a ton

602
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: of gear burp cloths, diapers. Uh was it called a

603
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: premie diaper? Because uh Scarlet was tiny five five pounds

604
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 2: seven ounces when she came out five pounds seven ounces,

605
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 2: She's smaller than a baby doll. And so we're having

606
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: to use the premi uh dipe's and all this stuff.

607
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 2: But we'll we'll do that another time, and like that

608
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 2: could even be a great like if Jill wanted to

609
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 2: do a call in or something.

610
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: We need to have the wives, Yeah it's gonna happen.

611
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Jill's survival kit was not so dude, and so

612
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,959
Speaker 2: like we really were set up for the absolute worst.

613
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 2: That thank god never happened. And so my favorite moment

614
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: was waking up at like six am, and it was

615
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 2: truly like the scene and Saving Private Ryan where he

616
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 2: loses his hearing on the beach and that guy's and says,

617
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 2: what do we do now?

618
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: Sir.

619
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 2: Jill's like over me. Netflix says are you still watching

620
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: blah blah blah like on the screen, and she's like, honey,

621
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 2: I'm contracting, yeah, yeah, yeah, and I get out of

622
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: the recliner. She's doing the So what unbeknownst to me

623
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 2: in the middle of the night, that thing that they

624
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: put in her mouth. They then did it in the

625
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 2: downstairs later that night to see how that would go. Well,

626
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 2: she went from two. She showed up two centimeters dilated

627
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 2: and for the dad's at home, that's just the cervix,

628
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: which is kind of the gate that the baby has

629
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 2: to go through to enter into the opening where the

630
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 2: baby's gonna come out. So she shows up at a two.

631
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 2: That little thing that they inserted got her to a four.

632
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: Nurse comes in checks her, she's at four centimeters. In

633
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 2: my head, I go, oh bub because we have a

634
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 2: family friend that said at four centimeters as well. For

635
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 2: a long time. Not as long as Charro, but a

636
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 2: long time. So I hear four centimeters, I think of you,

637
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 2: and I think of our family friend. I text you

638
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: and I say we're at four centimeters. And in my

639
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: head it's like, we're at four centimeters. We're at four centimeters.

640
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 2: I'm just like, oh no, that likes.

641
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: Old trigger number.

642
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 2: Oh please, please please. So then they hit her with

643
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,479
Speaker 2: the potosin. We go about three or four hours. All

644
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 2: of a sudden, Jill is like, I really feel pressure,

645
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,959
Speaker 2: like Sherman, I feel pressure and it feels like I

646
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 2: need to poop. And they say that if you feel

647
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 2: like you need to poop, you're gonna have your baby.

648
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 2: And so she tells nurse it's only been three hours

649
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 2: since the potosin. So nurse is kind of like, we'll

650
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 2: get the midwives in here in a little bit, Well

651
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 2: them check you. And then she kind of stopped and

652
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 2: she looked at Jill and she was like, how much pressure?

653
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: And Jill was like a lot of pressure. Well, she

654
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 2: gets her flashlight out, goes underneath the hood, goes, we'll

655
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: get the midwives. Midwives come in, they go fully dilated.

656
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 2: She went from four to ten in three hours. Oh,

657
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,719
Speaker 2: my four to ten centimeters in three hours.

658
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: The white walkers were at the wall, at the.

659
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: Wall, and this walker on the wall was having to

660
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: get in the zone. In that moment, it was like

661
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 2: everything stops. And thankfully Jill had kind of like trained

662
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 2: me and put me through the ringer to know what

663
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 2: to expect.

664
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: So why you have your coffee?

665
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: No, didn't have coffee the entire time I was there.

666
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 2: But the one thing that I forgot to say, dude,

667
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: is Jill was like, I want to feel some of

668
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 2: the contractions before I get the epidural. But Sherman, it's

669
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 2: your job make sure that I get on that epidural.

670
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: I don't want to miss it. Blah blah blah. When

671
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 2: she was sitting at four and like contracting really hard,

672
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: like before they came in to say she was at ten,

673
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 2: She's like, I don't know, sh I gelln the epidural.

674
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: Sh I'm like in my head like Rocky too or

675
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 2: Rocky four, throwing the damn towel, Like I'm sitting there

676
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 2: going take the epidural right now? Why are we waiting?

677
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: She's like, I want to finish my yogurt because I

678
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 2: can't eat after I have epidura. I got the yogurt.

679
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: I'm force feeding your yogurt. I'm like, finish this freaking yogurt.

680
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 2: Because you like girl, you gotta get the epidural. We

681
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 2: get the epidural. They come in, She's at a ten.

682
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 2: We gotta start pushing. Right before we're about to push,

683
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 2: they're like, hey, we don't have an o R room

684
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 2: open for Jill in case things go south, so we

685
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: have to suspend pushing as long as we can Jill

686
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 2: until an our room, an operating room opens up in

687
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 2: case things go south. In the meantime, would you want

688
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 2: anesthesiologists to come in and give you another hit because

689
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: it seems like you have a lot of discomfort. Jill

690
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: was like, yes, that was the biggest blessing in disguise.

691
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: They came in, dude and mainlined some stuff into Jill,

692
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 2: and Jill gives me that look. After fifteen minutes of

693
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 2: getting mainlined with whatever they put in that cocktail, she's like,

694
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 2: I'm ready to push. I feel good, like I'm ready

695
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 2: to go. And they came in. They tell her, Hey,

696
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 2: you're gonna do three pushes per round. It looks like

697
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: this dad, you're gonna hold feet the other nurse is

698
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: gonna hold the other foot.

699
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: You're holding feet, so you're south of the wall.

700
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 2: I was a watcher on the wall I had. I

701
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 2: was able to see south of the wall where the

702
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 2: white Walkers were coming, and I was or sorry, north

703
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: of the wall where the white Walkers are coming and

704
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 2: south of the wall. So I was able to see

705
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 2: both concentrating on Jill but also like interested in seeing

706
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 2: what's going on down there, because midwife was like, Dad,

707
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: if you want to look, baby's head is literally right there.

708
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: That was before we even started pushing. It's because little

709
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: Scarlet is so small, dude.

710
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: She just positioned well.

711
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 2: Positioned well, she knew her role. She was like, I'm ready,

712
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 2: We're doing this right now.

713
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: I do.

714
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 2: I've never been more proud of Jill. Jill was such

715
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 2: a gangster dude, like such a stud. During the pushing,

716
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 2: she did four rounds of three pushes, and each time,

717
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: like on the third push, I'd be like, there's not

718
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: a shot in hell, She's gonna give it what she

719
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 2: did the first two, the third one would always be

720
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 2: the strongest. Scarlet would move the most. On the third one.

721
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: You would hear the midwives go good, there it is there,

722
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 2: it is And I'm sitting there and I'm like, Jill's

723
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 2: a beast, dude. She just covered in sweat and each

724
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 2: time just taking the biggest breast and just bearing down.

725
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 2: I was like, God, I'm so proud of her, Like

726
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 2: she's freaking killing it. And then on the fourth round

727
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 2: of pushes, Scarlet came out. On the third round, Midwife

728
00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 2: looks at her right before we start the fourth pushes

729
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 2: and looks at Jill and goes, hey, it's a really

730
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 2: cool moment for moms that i can get her out

731
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 2: very easily.

732
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:08,240
Speaker 1: I'm not worried.

733
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get her to her torso and you can

734
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: reach down and physically pull her up if you want

735
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 2: to do that. Are you interested in that?

736
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 1: Jill?

737
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 2: And Jill was like, yeah, I want to do that.

738
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,919
Speaker 2: She was like, okay, when I tell you you reach

739
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 2: it out, you'll grab her and you just bring her

740
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,280
Speaker 2: to your chest. And on that third push they got

741
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 2: Scarlet out to her torso. She was holding her umbilical

742
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 2: cord like Batman doing his you know, little gun, and

743
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 2: she comes out like this, and Jill just reached down

744
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: there and grabs Scarlet and brought her to her chest.

745
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: It was unreal, dude, that is incredible.

746
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 2: I'm looking at my wife like, who are you? Like,

747
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:45,720
Speaker 2: that's so sick.

748
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 1: Isn't it wild seeing your wife go through that.

749
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 2: Yes, And I told her like beforehand, I don't know

750
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 2: because I don't know childbirth, but I'm like, if there's

751
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: anybody that can do it, it's you. Like, she's such

752
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 2: a pusher, she's such a grinder, Like, yeah, she just

753
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 2: has that mentality, but she also has a lot of

754
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 2: fearfulness and anxiety. Yeah, and beforehand, I was like, if

755
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 2: anybody's got it, it's you. You're going to destroy this.

756
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 2: And then to see her go out on the field

757
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 2: and perform like you think she's going to make a

758
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 2: coach proud, Make a coach proud, dude, and then that

759
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 2: moment was scarlet.

760
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: Man.

761
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: I can send you some picture, chef, if you want

762
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: to put on the episode. Dude, I'm water works obviously.

763
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 2: Y'all saw me last week.

764
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: Dude.

765
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 2: It was amazing. It was amazing.

766
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: That's incredible, bro.

767
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: And yeah, and I hope that on like everybody that

768
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 2: has a delivery coming up, expecting fathers and stuff. You

769
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 2: wish that on everybody. But we were blessed enough to

770
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,760
Speaker 2: have that and it was awesome.

771
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: Any any lapses on your part, any any dad losses?

772
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: I did.

773
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 2: I actually have a dad loss, but it's a it's

774
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 2: a motherfucked this week? Do you have a dad loss?

775
00:35:58,520 --> 00:35:59,479
Speaker 1: I do have a dad loss.

776
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 2: Do you want to go first? I can do my

777
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:01,240
Speaker 2: mother from.

778
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so my dad loss this week is going to

779
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: go to a dad loss that I took losing I

780
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:14,439
Speaker 1: lost control of myself, losing control of Rue.

781
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 2: Oh no.

782
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. So we got back from our fourth of July,

783
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: from our fourth of July weekend. We got back on Saturday,

784
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: and we went to the pool on Sunday, and we

785
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 1: were expecting to be we got there early, so that

786
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,720
Speaker 1: way we had a good, good little spot, good little setup,

787
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:34,439
Speaker 1: and we're gonna enjoy a little pool day and we're

788
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: hoping to be there probably around four hours. And it

789
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: got cut short two two and a half hours because

790
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: Rue ended up losing her mind throwing a tantrum and

791
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: it was one of those ones where she was throwing

792
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: a tantrum and it was like all right. We told like,

793
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,720
Speaker 1: I told her, I'm like, hey, if you don't stop

794
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: doing this, I'm gonna have to take you somewhere else.

795
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: We're gonna have to leave the pool and walk somewhere

796
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 1: until you can calm down. Because she wanted it. She

797
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: was very particular. It's like you have a three year

798
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: old and their brains, they're just their vocabulary is growing.

799
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,240
Speaker 1: They're they're understanding a lot more, but they're also limited

800
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: in how they can like verbally communicate. So they're just

801
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: dealing with big emotions on how to communicate perfectly. Because

802
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: she's very particular. Yeah, and we were like playing this

803
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: game in the pool where you know, she had this

804
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: crab and she wanted to either drop the crab down

805
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: underwater and go down and get it by herself, but

806
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: she couldn't do it by herself. So I'm like, do

807
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: you want that to help? You know? I can do

808
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: it by myself. And I'm like, okay, do by myself. No, No,

809
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. And so you're just caught in

810
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: this argument of like what do you want? Yeah, like notebook,

811
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: what do you want? Real? Yeah, what do you want? Rue?

812
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 1: Like you have to you're telling me you don't want help,

813
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: But I'm like, okay, you go ahead and do it.

814
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't do it by myself. Okay, well

815
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: then you need me. What do you need me to do?

816
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: And we're kind of caughting this back and forth, so

817
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: I pigure out, my we're gonna have to get out

818
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: of the pool, go and remove it from the situation,

819
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: remove it from the environment. She's having a tantrum. You

820
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: can't communicate well when they're having a tantrum, so you're

821
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 1: just trying to You're just trying to like be their

822
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: form so that way they can calm down.

823
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,959
Speaker 2: You're getting there to the sideline, You're you're showing their tape.

824
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:16,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, and these tantrums, Bro, I'm talking fucking insane. It's

825
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: like I have to. I hate to be like the

826
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: dead law you'll see one day. But it's like, Bro,

827
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: they're like shaking their they're stiffening their bodies up, like

828
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: you try to try to pick them up. And I'm

829
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 1: trying to like hug her and trying to force hug

830
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: her and let her know to come down, and she's

831
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: just like full stiff, like streaming. Yeah, She's like I

832
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: want mama, I want mama. And I'm like, I'll take

833
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: you to mama if you can just calm down just

834
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: a little bit, go over to Mama, because you know

835
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: they're they're out, We're like we're in public, so you

836
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 1: feel like you're getting the looks. You feel like you're

837
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: getting all these things. Yeah, I'm probably my own head

838
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: about it a little bit. I'll take you back over

839
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: to Mama when you can calm down. And she's fucking screaming, like, Mama,

840
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: see Mama, see Mama like this that the other room.

841
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 2: You have to calm down, like she wants to see.

842
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna work yourself up. You're gonna it's it's gonna hurt.

843
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: You're trying to like say all these things to her,

844
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: try to get her to calm down. And I'm standing

845
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:07,760
Speaker 1: there and she's just like sitting down in the corner

846
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 1: and she continues to scream, and I just fucking I

847
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 1: lost it. I lost it. There's like like a demonic

848
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: part of my soul started to fill up. I was

849
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: getting so angry inside, and I was trying to stay calm.

850
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: I was trying to stay collected.

851
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 2: I saw that NCA Impact player at Nebraska.

852
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, And I was like me, wasn't

853
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: they just see my face? They probably know what I'm

854
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:42,359
Speaker 1: talking about too, And I just reached down there. It's

855
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: like it's like I'm sitting there, I'm thinking about all

856
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: the times my dad would just spank me, and I'm

857
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: thinking I'm not gonna spank her, and I just I

858
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: just grab her. I'm like, crow, hey, I'm gonna, I'm

859
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna go to Mama. We are gonna go

860
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: to mom right now. And she's like looking away. I'm

861
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: like look at me, and she's like looking away, and

862
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: I grab her by the face and look over. I'm like,

863
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 1: look at me. Take you to mom. But you better

864
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: stop right now because this is bullshit. And she's you know,

865
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: she's I have her face grab looking at me, and

866
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 1: she's trying to like calm down because she's like hyperventilation.

867
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

868
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, so she's not really making noise anymore. She's just

869
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,839
Speaker 1: kind of like breathing, and I like take her. She's

870
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 1: got her goggles on, her little rainbow goggles, and I

871
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: like rip her rainbow goggles off, and you like you

872
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: just like grab them and pick them up and you're

873
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: like whipping them around on your body. You're like, I'm

874
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: gonna take you to mom, but you are going to

875
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: calm down as I walk over here.

876
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 2: You're not hurting her, but you're also showing her, Hey,

877
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 2: dad has got some strength. Yeah you want to play

878
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 2: with Yeah.

879
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. It got to a point that where like, all right,

880
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 1: we're stop this whole. I'm gonna be calm and we're

881
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 1: gonna play. I'm gonna be nice and be this parent

882
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 1: that you're just gonna stay poised and you're gonna just

883
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: sit there with them and be there with them. No,

884
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: that that turned off. My heart turned black.

885
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 2: That's I so far, this kind of sounds like a win.

886
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 1: I know the part where you feel like it's a

887
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 1: dad loss is you feel better about it when you're

888
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 1: driving homework. I'm like thinking about it all day because

889
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: I got down there, I got on her level and

890
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: I grabbed her face and I like, I like put

891
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: it over the mind. I'm like, look at me, you

892
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: were going to stop this ship right now. It picked

893
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: her up, like you know, like grabbed her goggles, ripped

894
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: it off her head, and I'm like marching over over

895
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: to my wife and I can just hear her hyperventilation,

896
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: her like little breast. And that's what makes me feel

897
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: bad is I'm like, I'm sure I shocked her in

898
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: the moment, which it's like she needed that. In my

899
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: hi brain, I'm like, hey, she did, That's what the

900
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: moment calls for. That's what you had to do. I

901
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 1: had to stop the bleeding. I walk over there and

902
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: I just like kind of toss her kind of like

903
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: toss her down on the chair.

904
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 2: Here's your daughter.

905
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, she wants you, she wants you. I

906
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: can't do this right now. I like go and take

907
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: a walk. And we have to leave because she like

908
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,439
Speaker 1: she works herself back up again, and we're just like hey,

909
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: oh really, We're like, hey, we're leaving. We're not doing this.

910
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: We're not doing She's got to know that she cannot

911
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: act this way, she cannot behave this way. We are leaving. Yeah,

912
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: And so we end up going home and everything else.

913
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 1: And I was so upset. We were both Charles and

914
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: I both we were both upset. We both did a

915
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: little bit of yelling you're just disappointing.

916
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 2: Y'all, or her at her, like we're.

917
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: Getting in and she still like worked up. Charles snaps

918
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: at her.

919
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 2: So Charles on your side in this moment, yeah, because

920
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 2: she's she's well, oh yeah, but of how you hand

921
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:19,839
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

922
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: She didn't like, she didn't mind it. She didn't mind high.

923
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 3: I know.

924
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:23,439
Speaker 1: We talked later and we were kind of like laughing

925
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: about it, and I was like, Okay, I gotta tell you,

926
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 1: like I went down, I got on her level and

927
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 1: I grabbed her by the face and like jerked it

928
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: over to mine. Oh yeah, And it's like you wanna

929
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: I wanted to. I wanted to tattoo or ask.

930
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:41,919
Speaker 2: Bro oh yeah, And I dude, I've I think you

931
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 2: did a great job in that moment of expressing. It's

932
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 2: like those tiktoks of like the parents that tried to

933
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 2: exhibit that, Like, I know you're feeling bad right now,

934
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,399
Speaker 2: but how can I help you in this situation as

935
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 2: you're having a tantrum.

936
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: Yeah I can't do that. Yeah, No, you're right called

937
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, it called for it. It's just like

938
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: it's like you're thinking about it the rest of the

939
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: day because when I'm reacting, I'm not doing it is

940
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: like predetermined this is the right move to do. I'm like,

941
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm like losing my I'm like losing all my emotion

942
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: to where I'm like physically like grabbing her and jerking

943
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 1: around and turning her face, ripping her goggles off, and

944
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: I'm like thinking on, I'm just like thinking back to mind.

945
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I lost full composure because I was

946
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,919
Speaker 1: fucking pissed off. I know that's gonna happen. But that's

947
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 1: like my dad, because it's funny because you're little your

948
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: little boy, your little girl, whatever it is. They're like

949
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: the only being in the world where you can be

950
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 1: so fucking mad. I'm talking so fucking mad to where

951
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: you stay mad at him like I wasn't cool with

952
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 1: Rue for a good couple hours, yeah, or a good

953
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 1: hour to where it's like, hey, no, if you want

954
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 1: to apologize to us, you're not gonna do it sitting

955
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: on the couch over there and just say I'm sorry,

956
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for acting that way. No, you're gonna walk

957
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: over to me and you're gonna look at me. You

958
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 1: told her that, Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're gonna say sorry

959
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: to me, and you're also gonna walk over and you're

960
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: gonna look at your mom and you're gonna say sorry

961
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: to mom. And how you're gonna give us both of

962
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 1: She did good, she did it, and it's like it's

963
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: and then later on I had to get a sweat

964
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: in charl and knew I kind of needed a moment.

965
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: She's like, Hey, I'm gonna go take a ridge at

966
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: the grocery store. Yeah, you do whatever you gotta do.

967
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,959
Speaker 1: So I kind of had an hour to like decompress

968
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: and everything else. And what I was gonna say is,

969
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 1: like this little human they're the only one. They're the

970
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: only beings in the world that you can be so

971
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 1: fucking mad at. But the minute she gets home and

972
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm upstairs and I hear from downstairs like that that

973
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 1: were are you dad? Dad? Dad? Dad? Look come come

974
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: yuke at this, come yuke at this, And you like

975
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 1: have a smile on your face because you're like excited

976
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: to see them again, and you're just like, well, their

977
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: brains just move on because they're dealing with so you know,

978
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: they're dealing with all their big emotions, and I'm kind

979
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: of you know, you're kind of you kind of go

980
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: from all the way at one hundred to where it's

981
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 1: just completely gone when they come home and like, dad,

982
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: that come yuke, come yuk, that the were are you? You're sweetheart?

983
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:02,959
Speaker 1: It's good to see you.

984
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 2: Don't stand a chance. A good way, yeah, a good way.

985
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: I chalked it up as his dad lost. Now talking

986
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 1: through and talking to you, now, you've made me feel

987
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: better about what my decisions and actions were good. But

988
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: I just felt like it got to that moment to

989
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: where all this this what do you need from me

990
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: bullshit was out the fucking door. Yeah, hard had to

991
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 1: turn black. Papacile had to go in full effect in

992
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:25,320
Speaker 1: the trenches.

993
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 2: One hundred percent, dude. And like for my dad, I

994
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 2: feel like I had a very healthy dose of discipline

995
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: with my brother. And I have a older brother of

996
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: a four year shout out to Jordan, very healthy discipline.

997
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 2: It was never too much or anything like that healthy

998
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 2: relationship with dad growing up. But all Mom had to

999
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 2: say sometimes was you wait till your dad gets home

1000
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 2: from work. Yeah, and bro, that's.

1001
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: All I had. That was that was my kind of

1002
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: I mean, he would dan my ass.

1003
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 4: Bro.

1004
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he got to the point where that's all

1005
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 2: she had to do. I'm up in my room bawling,

1006
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: and then I hear the garage door open.

1007
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: I'm cooked.

1008
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, what the hell was I think? And so like

1009
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 2: I think, not that you like showed force, but like

1010
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 2: you you showed her that. Hey, if you get to

1011
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 2: a level like dad as it might be your favorite person,

1012
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 2: but he is not cool with that kind of behavior.

1013
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. I strongly believe it's like, uh, yeah, they have

1014
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: to they have to understand there's gonna be consequences. Yeah.

1015
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 1: I think everybody agrees with that. And she never got

1016
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: We're not gonna sit here at the pool. We're not

1017
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:30,879
Speaker 1: gonna stay until this is all kumbay and then you're

1018
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: gonna go back in the pool. We're gonna have fun.

1019
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: Because then, to me, in my brain, I'm thinking we're

1020
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 1: just enabling a hundred behavior was until you got what

1021
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: you wanted? Yeah, because once you started to working back

1022
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: in Like Charna, we were both wanting a pool day,

1023
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm wanting to sit out there and catch some rays.

1024
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm honestly pissed that we're having to leave, but I'm like,

1025
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: we have to leave because she has to know that

1026
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: this ship is not all right. Yeah, because Scotty was

1027
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,919
Speaker 1: being great and again, the vibes were good, and man,

1028
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: we wanted a good pool day.

1029
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 2: That's the dad loss in it all.

1030
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just like the dad loss. Losing out on

1031
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: a good pool day. Yeah, that's the dad loss.

1032
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 2: That's the dad loss.

1033
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:03,320
Speaker 1: That's the dad loss.

1034
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 2: You need a good pool day. Yeah, and I love that,

1035
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 2: Like she didn't get what she wanted in the moment,

1036
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 2: Slash didn't get the residuals of that moment because she's

1037
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 2: getting to the age where she realizes Mama's and Dada

1038
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: has wanted to be at the pool too. And I'm

1039
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 2: guessing family friends were there, right, was this?

1040
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: No, it was just us. This was back in the

1041
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: Nashville and sorry went on Sunday morning.

1042
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, but I mean still a fun time. She

1043
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 2: knows mama's and dad does want to have a fun

1044
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 2: time at the pool too.

1045
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: No talking this out. You're right, You're right. The loss

1046
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 1: was not having a full pool day for the fans.

1047
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 2: Okay, good?

1048
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 1: Was the parents not having a pool day?

1049
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 2: Good? Because you're right, Yeah, as you were going through that, guys,

1050
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 2: like I was waiting for like the spanking or whatever.

1051
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 2: And when it never like you feel.

1052
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: It's more like you know you you beat yourself up

1053
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: when you fucking like I like lost myself, you know

1054
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: what I mean? Yes, even though it's like talking through it,

1055
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: like hey, that's what the moment I need it or

1056
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: that's how I'm just fighting my head. Yeah, could be right,

1057
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: could be wrong. Whatever. It's like, I'm thinking back, like

1058
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: I lost full composure of myself because I got so fucking.

1059
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 2: And I know, I know that I'm speaking way out

1060
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 2: of turn. We just said I'm a buck private for

1061
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 2: Papa Team six. But I know for a fact that

1062
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: Papa Team six doesn't sitting that helicopter with a little

1063
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 2: airhorn calling down going hey you better stop that, don't

1064
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 2: do that. That helicopter's laying ropes are coming down. We're

1065
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 2: we're descending, and we're getting in the ship. We're getting

1066
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 2: in the firefight. If you're Papa Team six.

1067
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a moment where you want to do it.

1068
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 1: I want to do waterboard.

1069
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 2: That's okay, that's okay. Hey you might think thinking about it.

1070
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: What was we gotta keep this?

1071
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, my motherfucked is actually really quick this week,

1072
00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: which which will help left Scarlet this morning unattended for

1073
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 2: five seconds on the change on the changing table and

1074
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 2: what you have to do? What was the was I

1075
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 2: was changing her and uh I didn't have the right diapers.

1076
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 2: We have the newborn diapers, and like we talked about earlier,

1077
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 2: Scarlet is quite literally the size of a peanut. So

1078
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 2: we're having to use premium diapers right now, or else

1079
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 2: you're having to use the actual newborn diapers and you're

1080
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 2: rolling those suckers over like three times. Yeah, just to

1081
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 2: get it to where like it's fitting on her. So

1082
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 2: I go, oh, the premis are on the kitchen counter,

1083
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 2: and her nursery is right there. I mean I could

1084
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 2: get there in uh eight steps, Max, So I'm like, oh,

1085
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 2: go grab it, just not even thinking like she's on

1086
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 2: the changing table. It's the you know, shaped like U shaped.

1087
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:53,479
Speaker 2: It would take a lot for her to roll off.

1088
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 2: In my dad brain, I'm like, hey, she's a good Yeah,

1089
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: I got I gotta get to work. I gotta get

1090
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:01,919
Speaker 2: your change. And so I left the room and Jill goes,

1091
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 2: what do you need? I go, I need the premium.

1092
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: And then she sees that I have no baby in hand.

1093
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 2: She goes where is she? And I go, she's She's

1094
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 2: on the changing table, full sprint, full sprint, and like

1095
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: we have hardwood floors. I mean it sounded like, uh

1096
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 2: the Mama bear was charging and she held back on me.

1097
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,719
Speaker 2: I thank her for holding back on me. I did

1098
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 2: when Cheff.

1099
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: Tell me you didn't say, sweetheart, they can't roll it.

1100
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh, you gotta zip it up.

1101
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 2: I knew I fucked up real quick, because.

1102
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,280
Speaker 1: That's a pure That's just a motherfucked moment with the wife,

1103
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 1: wouldn't It's like, you know, you went and you grab

1104
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: the debt, you grab the Premi diapers. Yeah, they're really

1105
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: not going to go anywhere. It's a few seconds, but

1106
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: we're not gonna say that. But effect, if you're listening

1107
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 1: right now, Jilly Bean, you do not here a say no,

1108
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,280
Speaker 1: baby's not going nowhere in five seconds.

1109
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 5: No.

1110
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 2: And also, if Jill and Charlo had their own podcast,

1111
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: that's like Jill's dad loss. Essentially, it's like, what the

1112
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 2: fuck was Sherman thinking? Like why did you think that

1113
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 2: was okay? Which I understand that now. I understand that now.

1114
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 2: And Chef heard me on a phone call with Jill

1115
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 2: before we started recording. You heard a lot of yes

1116
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 2: ma'ams in that phone conversation. I'm sure a lot of

1117
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 2: yes ma'ams.

1118
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta be dials right now.

1119
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 2: I'm a little bit I'm not in the doghouse, but

1120
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 2: let's just keep this thing under it.

1121
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: Now. These are moments you're just gonna have to take

1122
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 1: in and accept and absorb. Yeah, whether right, wrong, indifferent.

1123
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did not fight her, honey. I am so sorry, honey,

1124
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: I really am so sorry. What I also didn't know?

1125
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 2: This is kind of a dad loss too. I do

1126
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:46,879
Speaker 2: have a dad loss. I have been waking up at

1127
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 2: the feeding time. So I had a two thirty feeding time,

1128
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 2: a five thirty feeding time last night. Yeah, I woke

1129
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 2: up at the feeding times unbeknownst to Jill. So I

1130
00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:01,479
Speaker 2: really wasn't feeding her until like three, three thirty six,

1131
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:02,280
Speaker 2: six thirties.

1132
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 1: You gotta get the ball, you gotta get it ready.

1133
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 2: Yes, and get her change and stuff like piss her

1134
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 2: off before you feed her. So then she's like awake

1135
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 2: and you know, ready to feed. And so Jill realized

1136
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:16,240
Speaker 2: that this morning because I had a seven o'clock feeding

1137
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 2: time and she walks in there and it's you know,

1138
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 2: like seven forty five eight, and she's like, are you

1139
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 2: just out feeding her? I was like, yeah, like so proud,

1140
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 2: so proud, so proud in that moment, Yes, honey, I'm

1141
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 2: feeding her. And she Honnie, she's taking it down. She

1142
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 2: already got one ounce down, She's only got another ounce

1143
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:41,880
Speaker 2: to go, and she I could tell, and just so

1144
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 2: much rage in her mind. She did a great job

1145
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 2: of just in that moment, stopping and communicating. You need

1146
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 2: to be waking up at least forty five minutes before though,

1147
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,799
Speaker 2: what are you five? Oh yeah, thirty to forty five

1148
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 2: minutes before the feeding time because she needs to be

1149
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:02,840
Speaker 2: changed and in mouth by feeding time, because, like y'all know,

1150
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 2: it takes me a while to get out of bed.

1151
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 2: So forty five minutes she's gone loses, she's going off

1152
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 2: Sherman's hime. Yeah, she was like, that bottle needs to

1153
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 2: be in mouth at feeding time.

1154
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: This is where you harness for the dads out there listening,

1155
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: you harness these motherfucked moments. Yeah, and these are nice

1156
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 1: little conversations in chemistry builders with your little one. Yeah, hey,

1157
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: Mama didn't like that I left you for five seconds.

1158
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 1: We're gonna keep the secret between us that you're gonna

1159
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: be okay. I know you know that, I know I

1160
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 1: know that you're not rolling. Yeah, she's doing a great job.

1161
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: She just went through a lot. There's a lot going

1162
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 1: on that she can't control. We're just gonna keep this

1163
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 1: between us. I knew you were good. You knew I

1164
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: was good. You knew I was gonna be back quick

1165
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:45,240
Speaker 1: and five ten seconds.

1166
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 2: Hey, those those twenty different babies that came into her

1167
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 2: hospital when she was a nurse. Yeah, bad skull fractures

1168
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 2: because this exact thing happened.

1169
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: I know you're not gonna be I know you're not

1170
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: gonna get a skull frac Come on.

1171
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 2: And she just tell me that calmly, yeah, very sweetly, honey.

1172
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 2: I have seen over ten cases of this myself. You

1173
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 2: cannot do that, Okay, Yes, ma'am, I'm so sorry.

1174
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:12,919
Speaker 1: I didn't handle it great. Yeah, you handled it great.

1175
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 2: And what stunked you?

1176
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 5: It?

1177
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 2: Can't it?

1178
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 4: Can?

1179
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 2: I segue that into my Crack of Cold one.

1180
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,720
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1181
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:25,640
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00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: get back to the episode and what we will crack

1193
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,279
Speaker 1: a old one too, Yeah, crack a cold one.

1194
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:06,359
Speaker 2: Okay, to segue into my crack a cold one. Jill

1195
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 2: has got me fully dialed on uh feeding, Like, I

1196
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 2: feel good, dude, And I know it's a day to

1197
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,839
Speaker 2: day thing. People are probably listening. They're going Sherman thinks

1198
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 2: he's got it all figured out, but like, I gotta

1199
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 2: find the wins where I can find him. And I

1200
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 2: was so freaking nervous and scared about dipey changes feeding

1201
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 2: and stuff, and Jill has me like a well oiled machine.

1202
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 2: I'm just going off her playbook.

1203
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I.

1204
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 2: Love the old The feeding techniques are named after football terminology.

1205
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:41,879
Speaker 2: You have football through points of contact, you have sideline. Yeah,

1206
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:43,919
Speaker 2: I'm like I can roll with this.

1207
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:44,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1208
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,840
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna go with football. I'll do football.

1209
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 2: And they're like, all you gotta do is piss her off,

1210
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: change her her her tires, her diapers, get her pissed,

1211
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 2: turn all the lights on, wake their ass up, take

1212
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 2: the onesie off, let them sit there a little bit

1213
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 2: on the change of tail, let them get cold. Yeah,

1214
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:03,360
Speaker 2: they start doing the.

1215
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're trying to spas.

1216
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 2: And then as soon as I see that mouth got

1217
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 2: I get her in football and bottle in mouth, dude,

1218
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,240
Speaker 2: and she's got a really good suck. Even the nurses

1219
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 2: were like, weird terminology. But the nurses are.

1220
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: Like, yo, you gotta you gotta you gott an eater.

1221
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:26,479
Speaker 2: I got an eater, Dude. She is a peanut. But boy,

1222
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 2: she likes foodies.

1223
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: That's good. It's good. Like you're saying, it'll change, and

1224
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: you gotta find the wins where you can find them.

1225
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: But it's better to be absolutely dialed every step of

1226
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 1: the way. So that way when you get a little

1227
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: off track, or something happens, or something changes, or she

1228
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 1: starts to get a little pissed off, or adversity's gonna strike. Yeah, yeah,

1229
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna be so dialed in on step one that hey,

1230
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: you'll be ready to learn step two. Yes, you'll be

1231
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:50,800
Speaker 1: ready to roll with the punches.

1232
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 2: We'll be ready to roll with the punches. So that

1233
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:55,359
Speaker 2: five point thirty feeting, that's my crack of cole when

1234
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,200
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1236
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, my krak of coal, one's gonna go to speaking

1237
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: of cracking a cold one and drinking a lot of

1238
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:11,320
Speaker 1: bud Lights and some neutrals. The Fourth of July party.

1239
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: I think there is a moment where we're all sitting

1240
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 1: around and I made the comment like this, Uh, the

1241
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: party now looks a lot different than it did a

1242
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: few years ago, because a few years ago, it's like

1243
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: you're not married. Maybe somebody has a young kid or

1244
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: like a newborn or something, but other that, some of

1245
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 1: the friends that we have, it's like their kids are

1246
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 1: like in high school and we're all these not married men,

1247
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: still boys, like introducing our wives or girlfriends or whatever

1248
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 1: it is. And now years later we're sitting there and

1249
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: I'm looking around and you got one of the boys

1250
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 1: that were in high school, he's graduated high school. I

1251
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: got two kids of my own. My best friend Nick

1252
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: and Chuck, they got two kids of their own. Like

1253
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: we have all these little kids. We have all these babies.

1254
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: Adam Fodle Shout out the boy Adam, who is our

1255
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: you know, host at the Saint Louis Cardinals.

1256
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's up.

1257
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 1: He's he's with the Cardinals. But he's got four kids

1258
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: in his like eight or nine year old McKinley. She's

1259
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: helping out. You got people like Scotty's sleeping on Caitlin,

1260
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: my brother's girlfriend. It's more of like this tribal mentality.

1261
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 1: We're having this party, and I'm sitting around looking at

1262
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: and mentioning the Kenny and to everybody, like how different

1263
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: this party looks now that we all have families and

1264
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: we all have kids. Because there's a water slide up now,

1265
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: Like the annual cornhole party still happen at Kenny's house.

1266
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: Shout out the boy Kenny Farcas. But we go to

1267
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 1: his spot. He's got a spot, dude, Yeah, he's got

1268
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: a great sup. He's got a garage. Or you can

1269
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: have the cornhole tournament out there in the gravel. We

1270
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 1: got the backyards up to where there's tents because we've

1271
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: learned how hot it gets every year. You need more tents.

1272
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: There's ten yeah, tailgate tents. There's big fans because you

1273
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: know there's gonna be kiddos and little children because you're wanting,

1274
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 1: you know, the parents to stick around as long as

1275
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: we can until it's bedtime. And uh, it's just one

1276
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: of those moments to where you just crack a cold

1277
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 1: one to the moment because you're looking around and you

1278
00:58:56,040 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 1: see all your friends to where there's new families, there's

1279
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: of ours that has their kids and they're graduating. There

1280
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: later in high school, you got some kids that are

1281
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 1: helping out with the other kids. Everybody's kind of letting

1282
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: and helping hand knowing that everybody's got kids now and

1283
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: you're kind of just sitting there with your boys that

1284
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: you grew up with that you're having all these whether

1285
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: it's barbecues or whatever, to celebrate us graduating high school,

1286
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: us going off to college, us graduating college, and now

1287
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: we're at the point to where we're all sitting there

1288
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: with our families. And even though it only happens once

1289
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: a year, it's like you're cherishing those moments because you

1290
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: don't know how many times you get to see all

1291
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: your friends and all your close ones, like in the

1292
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 1: same spot with each other, with the kiddos around the

1293
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 1: same age, and they're making friends and you hope it

1294
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: continues to be something where we get with each other

1295
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: more than just once a year. Yeah, so you just know, like, hey,

1296
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: we're going back to Missouri or we're gonna have them

1297
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: forour the July party, and she knows she's gonna go

1298
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: back and see Hudson, Grady, Chip, all of them do

1299
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 1: to you.

1300
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 2: I think this will make that even better for you.

1301
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 2: Not to make about myself, but I grew up with

1302
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 2: a very similar situation. Shout out Possum Kingdom Lake for

1303
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 2: all the eight one seven ers and two one fours

1304
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 2: in the DFW area. We'd go to the same lake house.

1305
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 2: I would see my two favorite or like same favorite friends,

1306
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 2: Natalie and Emily. We'd stay at their lake house. And Dude,

1307
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, Fourth of July is my favorite holiday

1308
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 2: because of that. But I mean we did it for

1309
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 2: like almost ten years straight, and so Rue, yeah, Ru

1310
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: and Scotty are going to appreciate that.

1311
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: Like a tradition to just look forward to even Yes,

1312
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: do you get the ones a year to get around?

1313
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 1: Yes to everybody that's.

1314
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 2: Gonna be in a ton to them when they get older.

1315
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, But Craig of cole one to those moments yeah, Cole,

1316
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: one of those moments, man, because we're all we're all grown,

1317
01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: we're all in the parenthood, we're all on Papa Team

1318
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: six together we are.

1319
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 2: Do you mind not to put Jill on the spot,

1320
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 2: but do you mind if I call her and see

1321
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 2: if I can't get ten x ten extra minute?

1322
01:00:57,560 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 1: Go ahead? Oka ahead, okay, Papa Team. This is an

1323
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: example when you are up against the clock and we've

1324
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 1: all been there, We've all been there with our boys,

1325
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 1: and you know the time is gonna get probably get

1326
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 1: pushed a little bit, and you're trying to do some

1327
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: damage control. So postpartum mother, few days postpartum. Sureman is

1328
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 1: making the call right now. He's dropping in with some

1329
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 1: night vision.

1330
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 2: Hey hey, honey, how did the chairs go?

1331
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 3: Oh?

1332
01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 2: I don't know I have come yet. Oh okay, So

1333
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 2: I'm calling on the podcast because I'm looking at the

1334
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 2: clock right now. It's two twenty.

1335
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: You got it.

1336
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 2: I just I just wanted to confirm what time did

1337
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 2: you want me hume by two thirty? Is there any

1338
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 2: way that that could be closer to two forty five

1339
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 2: two fifty if we're almost done?

1340
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 4: Yes, I let's do five.

1341
01:01:55,320 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 2: It's to forty five okay, Yes, we're just gonna I I.

1342
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 6: Just want to have extra time because it's raining and

1343
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 6: it's our first appointment, so I just.

1344
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 2: Don't really know where to go, and we're gonna have

1345
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 2: to sign paper. So absolutely right, she's right, She's right,

1346
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 2: Absolute Max. Two forty five. I love you, Thank you.

1347
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:18,080
Speaker 2: Will wants to say hi really quick.

1348
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 1: You're a saint, Jilly Bean, You're a saint. You are

1349
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: a saint, and we love you so much and we

1350
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 1: are so happy you're doing well.

1351
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 6: Thank you guy.

1352
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:28,640
Speaker 3: You will so whatever.

1353
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 1: You need to. Oh, Jillie, you are the best. Thank you, sweetheart.

1354
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: We love you.

1355
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 2: You are my priority and I love you so much

1356
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 2: and I cannot wait to see you. Okay, all right,

1357
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:42,600
Speaker 2: two forty five, Love you.

1358
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: Papa Seal. Mission accomplished, Mission accomplished. Oh all right, we

1359
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 1: gotta lock in. We gotta gotta lock in, gotta lock in.

1360
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 1: Survival kit, survival kit, My survival Kit edition will be

1361
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 1: go to music in a long car ride, so prefaces.

1362
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 1: We drove back to Missouri on Thursday morning. On Wednesday,

1363
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: our ac upstairs went out. Both kiddles were getting over sicknesses.

1364
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: Good you gotta be dialed in. Good were we were

1365
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 1: in the trenches. I had to get an HVAC guy over.

1366
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: Shout out the boy, Robbie. They fixed the problem we needed,

1367
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: like some compressor or some new part that broke or

1368
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 1: whatever it was. But the upstairs was sitting in ninety

1369
01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 1: degrees and it was blowing out hot air. Bro. Thankfully,

1370
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 1: the first floor was good. So the kids are napping

1371
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 1: on the first floor. But all to say, like your

1372
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 1: kind of backs up against the wall. We're about to

1373
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 1: travel again. Long car ride to Missouri about a five

1374
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: hour drive. Recently we went to Florida and that's like

1375
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:42,640
Speaker 1: an eight hour eight nine hour drive. Yeah, both both

1376
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: of them they're in back. Was absolute hell. And all

1377
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of, hell, hell, bro. And so you're going

1378
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: into this five hour car ride and you're just hoping

1379
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 1: for the best. Yeah, I shit you not. It was

1380
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 1: one of those situations to where I would conservatively, conservatively

1381
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 1: say at least three and a half hours of that

1382
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: five hour drive. One of them were screaming. One of

1383
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 1: them was screaming. Oh, it was mostly Scotty, and it

1384
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 1: was bumming me out because she's our little seven month

1385
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 1: going on eight months old. Yeah, she's the best, dude.

1386
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 1: And it's like she's starting to get a little more wiggly,

1387
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: she's starting to not want to be confined to the

1388
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: car seat. And she was just blaring bro and Charles's

1389
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: back there. God bless her. She's showing a rocker and

1390
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 1: singing to her and do all the things because you're

1391
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: not wanting to take him out of the car seat,

1392
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: like that's a bad thing. Yeah. Yeah, And she's like

1393
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 1: shaking a couple of hard extra times and I'm up there.

1394
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 1: She's like, Scotty, come on, come on, like I'm right here.

1395
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 1: I'm right here because she's a big mama's girl right now. Yeah.

1396
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 1: And I'm singing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, just on repeat

1397
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: up while I'm driving, and I'm doing the trying to

1398
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 1: create white noise. We're playing white noise. We probably get

1399
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: them both down for an hour, but it was it

1400
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: was hell man, because it gets so loud. Rue is

1401
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: doing a great job trying to be patient. She starts

1402
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: off really rocky. We're like, dude, we can't do this. Yes,

1403
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: it's a long drive. She's like, I don't want long drives.

1404
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: Why is this so hard? And she heard phrases right

1405
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 1: now is why is this so hard and I can't

1406
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 1: do it. And it's like you're sitting there like it's

1407
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,040
Speaker 1: only as hard as you make it. Rue, you start

1408
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: to get worked up and you're trying to like talk

1409
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: them down, Like, dude, we're locked in the car. You think, Dad,

1410
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 1: I wants to be locked in the car. You think

1411
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 1: I want to drive five hours locked in four doors

1412
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: with you guys screaming. No, Dada doesn't want that. But

1413
01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 1: is Dada crying? Is that isn't? How hard is this? No?

1414
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 2: You got to.

1415
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: Embrace the hard room. You have to embrace the suck.

1416
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: We're in the.

1417
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 2: Sock let your heart turned black?

1418
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 1: Yeah? What can we what can we look at out

1419
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 1: the window? Can we start trying to guess letters? What's

1420
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 1: on this side, what's on that? What's on that side?

1421
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 1: You want us to do a song? I can't do it.

1422
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: I can't with this kid. I can't with this kid

1423
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: right now. She ends up getting calm, and then Scottie

1424
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 1: is pissed about being in.

1425
01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 2: The car seat and you can't. Then it gets the word.

1426
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 1: Ru's like you're yelling hurts my ears, It hurts me.

1427
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, Rue, sweetheart, that's not helping her. She's a baby.

1428
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 1: She doesn't know you did this when you were little.

1429
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 1: Mama and Dadda had to sit through. You gotta just no,

1430
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 1: I get your calmer down, and no, stop it hurts

1431
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 1: my ears. Well if you're yelling, it's gonna hurt her

1432
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 1: ears too. It's hurting my ears. You're just going back.

1433
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 1: God help help God, help us all dude. And finally,

1434
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: oh my god, the white noise helped and knock them

1435
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 1: both out for an hour because we're telling her, sweetheart,

1436
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 1: just fall asleep. You said you're tired, Like, just just

1437
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 1: close your eyes. Ye can't. Why is this so hard? Dude?

1438
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 1: Stop with that ship man. But she ends up falling asleep.

1439
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:40,600
Speaker 1: We get up. They're both out for an hour, but

1440
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 1: the last probably forty five minutes home, Scotty's upset, but rue.

1441
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 1: This is where the Survival Kid go to music in

1442
01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 1: a lone car ride. She ends up talking like I

1443
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 1: want the word song, I want like the faun. It

1444
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 1: was the phonic song, the phonic song by Gracie's Corner. Ooh,

1445
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 1: and she just like goes to the alphabet at at

1446
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 1: a dance for Apple at Apple. I don't know it's

1447
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 1: this phonic song that we just played on repeat because

1448
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 1: you get to where you might have a rollodex of songs,

1449
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: but the only way we want to listen to one

1450
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 1: song over and over and over. And it was phonic

1451
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 1: song by Gracie's Corner, nice little catchy, kind of hip

1452
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 1: hopish song to where you can kind of dance a

1453
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:19,240
Speaker 1: little bit where doesn't want you to sing the words

1454
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 1: help dad, that you don't have to say the words

1455
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 1: I got you sweetheart. It's just catchy. I want to

1456
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:26,480
Speaker 1: sing it. No, I don't want you to sing it

1457
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:28,439
Speaker 1: because she's trying to memorize the song.

1458
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 2: I've been oh, hey, shout out that video that you

1459
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 2: sent me of her memorizing the book.

1460
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:40,440
Speaker 1: That was crazy bro about that. So grou can memorize

1461
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 1: her books. And kids have a very good memory when

1462
01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 1: they're around that age, and it's weird like situations that

1463
01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: they can recall, whether it's a year ago or an

1464
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: old memory, whatever it is, and you're kind of just

1465
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: surprised by them being able to remember that. Remember that

1466
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 1: she does better with names, like remembering people's names better

1467
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 1: than I do. Yeah, And she can memorize these books, dude,

1468
01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:02,200
Speaker 1: And some times, you know, it's like go dog, go

1469
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 1: old hat, new hat, you know, smaller books like that.

1470
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:09,680
Speaker 1: But bro, she has this book Ziggy and the Three Pigs.

1471
01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:12,400
Speaker 1: You know, the three tailor three pigs with the big

1472
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:15,400
Speaker 1: bad Wolf. Well in this in this day and age,

1473
01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:17,559
Speaker 1: and there's now a fourth pig. His name is Ziggy,

1474
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 1: who doesn't live in a house at all. He lives

1475
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 1: under the stars, and he wants to go swimming. And

1476
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 1: he goes by his three little Fred, Ned and Ted,

1477
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 1: who have the house made of straw sticks and bricks.

1478
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: Yeahs them, you want to go for a swim today?

1479
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 1: Haven't you heard? The big Bad Wolf is coming to town.

1480
01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:37,600
Speaker 1: I would be sheltering up if I were you. Ziggy. No,

1481
01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:39,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to stay. I don't want to go inside.

1482
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna go enjoy the water suit yourself. Buddy,

1483
01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 1: big bead Wolf comes and blows every house away, even

1484
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:48,599
Speaker 1: the brick brick even the brick house because old Ned,

1485
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:51,120
Speaker 1: Ted or Fred whoever, whoever lives in the brick house.

1486
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,800
Speaker 1: He's got a new grate that sits on top of

1487
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:55,760
Speaker 1: the fireplace. So hey, big bad Wolf, don't even think

1488
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,040
Speaker 1: about coming down the fireplace because I fix that too,

1489
01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna uffing on PuF and I'm gonna puff

1490
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:02,320
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna huf. I'm gonna blow your house down.

1491
01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: House made of bricks. They're all gone. All the pigs

1492
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 1: are squealing. Where do we go? They run to the

1493
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:08,200
Speaker 1: ocean where Ziggy was having a swim that day he

1494
01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 1: was building sane castles. Now he built a little raft

1495
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 1: out on the water. Ziggy, hey, just swim out to

1496
01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 1: the shore. Uh, let me do the talking. If he

1497
01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 1: blew down our houses, what do you think he's gonna

1498
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:22,320
Speaker 1: do to you' he us for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

1499
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 1: He's gonna have you for a midnight snack. Just swim

1500
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 1: out here and let me do the talking. Big bed

1501
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 1: wolf comes out. He's out of breath. If you don't

1502
01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:31,719
Speaker 1: come off that raft, I'm gonna uffing pluff, I'm gonna

1503
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 1: huff and puff and blow you to pieces and do it.

1504
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:37,599
Speaker 1: Ziggy starts talking shit to the big bed wolf. Hey,

1505
01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:39,640
Speaker 1: last night checked, I heard you. You don't have a

1506
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:43,559
Speaker 1: strong enough breath to blow out a birthday candle gets

1507
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 1: the wolf all worked up, and right when the wolf's

1508
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 1: just about to blow that raft to smithereens, Ziggy lifts

1509
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 1: the sail, the wolf blows him out to sea. They

1510
01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:54,040
Speaker 1: have a pool day and they're happy that Ziggy went

1511
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:58,720
Speaker 1: swimming that day. But this book has I'm talking like

1512
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:02,879
Speaker 1: eight to ten line, multiple lines, multiple lines, and Rue

1513
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 1: knows the entire book word for word.

1514
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 2: You need to send that video to Chef and let

1515
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 2: it play out like for listeners of like viewers.

1516
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:13,600
Speaker 1: We'll play it right now to.

1517
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 7: The Veggy stop down Ned's house. Ned was printed grey

1518
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:23,720
Speaker 7: on this. To me, what's stop for the Reggy? Jesseo

1519
01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 7: after by wolf protective? They will no one comes down

1520
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 7: tell me to me, you know, but display is guarantee.

1521
01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 1: Woof.

1522
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 7: I imagine in there and.

1523
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 1: Dangle that video when I send it to you.

1524
01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 2: Absolutely unreal because as I'm watching it, I'm like, Yo,

1525
01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:50,280
Speaker 2: wait is she reading? I was like, how is she reading?

1526
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: At that? Eight? Wait?

1527
01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 2: How old do you learn to read?

1528
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 1: Ballad?

1529
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 2: I can't read.

1530
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 1: They don't know how to.

1531
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:56,679
Speaker 2: Read, because I remember you being like, she can't select

1532
01:10:56,760 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 2: music on Spotify, she doesn't know how to read, Chef, Well,

1533
01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:03,960
Speaker 2: you just watched it going word for word. I'm going

1534
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 2: down the line with her, and it's word for word, dude.

1535
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:09,480
Speaker 2: She's got a nogging.

1536
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 1: And she'll read the page and like look up when

1537
01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:13,080
Speaker 1: she turns and looks up at me with his biggest smile,

1538
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: and it just it just lights up the room. I'm like, oh, rude,

1539
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: that is awesome. That is so proud of you. That's uh.

1540
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 1: That takes a lot of focus and effor and hard work.

1541
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 1: And you're trying to like, you know, encourage them, and yeah,

1542
01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: you pat them on the back for like the attributes

1543
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 1: and characteristics that go into it other than be like,

1544
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:31,719
Speaker 1: you're so smart. But it is, uh, it's fascinating seeing

1545
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 1: these little kids and what they're what their memories are like.

1546
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 2: Bro, it's crazy, dude.

1547
01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:37,439
Speaker 1: It's hard being biased, not thinking, you know, it's this

1548
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 1: kid gonna be his kid's gonna be something special, way

1549
01:11:41,040 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: better than her.

1550
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 2: Old man, I'm having that issue with I talked to

1551
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 2: you this morning about Scarlett. I think she potentially could

1552
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 2: be the cutest baby of all time. Potentially potentially because

1553
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 2: my baby is also the cutest baby of all And

1554
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:59,040
Speaker 2: see that the problem viewers right now their baby, I'm saying,

1555
01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 2: so you say that, I'll I'm thinking, Okay, let's have

1556
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:03,920
Speaker 2: a little cute off. That's the question I've been asking

1557
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:06,719
Speaker 2: Jill is I go, honey, I think she's so cute,

1558
01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:08,000
Speaker 2: but is she really that cute?

1559
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 1: Dude? It's the is she really that cute feeling in

1560
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 1: the world. Man, You're just so enthralled and so in

1561
01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 1: love huh with your child. Man, it is the best feeling.

1562
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 1: And I was telling you this morning that you are

1563
01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:23,760
Speaker 1: because you were talking about how it's just the best

1564
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 1: it's the greatest thing in the world and the best

1565
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 1: thing is and parents know this too, like you are

1566
01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:31,559
Speaker 1: in the best days, and the best days just get better.

1567
01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 1: Like I felt like every month was my favorite month,

1568
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 1: and they just keep getting better. Now I will say

1569
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:38,759
Speaker 1: I'm at a point to where three is the hardest

1570
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:41,639
Speaker 1: age that I've dealt with, to where it's my favorite

1571
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:43,760
Speaker 1: because I love being in these moments and I love

1572
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 1: that we only have so many years. But also three

1573
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:50,160
Speaker 1: is a motherfucker right now. At the Compton household, yeah,

1574
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,720
Speaker 1: because Rue she is independent, wants to do everything on

1575
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: her own. But they are like, bro, it gets better

1576
01:12:57,439 --> 01:12:59,680
Speaker 1: every month. And when people are like, oh, wait till

1577
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 1: they get six months or wait till they get eight months,

1578
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 1: Like I'm sure I'm gonna make those comments to you.

1579
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 1: Wait till they get twelve months or sixteen months, not

1580
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 1: the good ones. But it's like it's gonna get even better,

1581
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 1: and you're just gonna be thinking, Yo, scarlet it two months. Rips,

1582
01:13:12,400 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: like why weren't they saying two months is the best month?

1583
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 1: Like it just it weirdly gets fucking better. Dude, It's awesome.

1584
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm so fired up for you.

1585
01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:23,599
Speaker 2: She rips right now, She rips right now. I'm like you,

1586
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:26,559
Speaker 2: you sleep like crazy, You're awesome at sleeping. You eat

1587
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 2: like crazy, You're awesome. It look out small you are, yeah, like,

1588
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:32,280
Speaker 2: oh my gosh. Okay, So we.

1589
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: Do survival Kit. We gotta keep it under an ounce.

1590
01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:36,920
Speaker 2: Service Survival Kate. I might skip survival Kit because we

1591
01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 2: have an eight minute skip it.

1592
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:38,680
Speaker 1: Skip it.

1593
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:40,120
Speaker 2: Go to skip it, skip it.

1594
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:40,679
Speaker 1: D act.

1595
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:44,639
Speaker 2: Pulling the burp cloth, all right, you put you put

1596
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:47,280
Speaker 2: your baby right here. If you're burping over the shoulder, yeah,

1597
01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 2: one thing you can't do is baby's face into your

1598
01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 2: shoulder because then, yeah, they can't breathe. Yes, How did

1599
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 2: how do I address my baby? Said, I'm scared I'm

1600
01:13:55,920 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 2: gonna break her neck blah blah, burp cloth baby, then

1601
01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:02,479
Speaker 2: grab burp cloth, pull.

1602
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 1: Out more moves their head. Good, dad hack, and that

1603
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 1: that comes to me a jill. But such a good

1604
01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:11,639
Speaker 1: on your dad hack, such a good well.

1605
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:14,519
Speaker 2: I've been doing it. I've been doing it, and it, dude,

1606
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,599
Speaker 2: you feel like a pro. You put her on there

1607
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:19,639
Speaker 2: and then you pull that out and that head turns

1608
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:20,680
Speaker 2: and then you just.

1609
01:14:22,520 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 1: And you hear that. Oh when they get the burn, dude,

1610
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,320
Speaker 1: it's a celebration because sometimes it's a battle getting that

1611
01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: burp out and you're just like, sweetheart, just burp it's

1612
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 1: gonna make you feel better. Yeah.

1613
01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 2: And as soon as she burns, back down to football

1614
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 2: and then wait wait wait.

1615
01:14:36,800 --> 01:14:37,360
Speaker 1: Boom.

1616
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, just easy, easy, she got from somewhere, dad hack.

1617
01:14:48,880 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 1: Unpack the suitcase when you get home. Yeah, unpacked the

1618
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,760
Speaker 1: suitcase when you get home. Time and time again. I'll listen,

1619
01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:56,720
Speaker 1: I've been I've been two and oh with the last

1620
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,040
Speaker 1: two times. But every times when I get home, you

1621
01:14:59,080 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 1: just want to kick their feet up. We're finally home.

1622
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:03,960
Speaker 1: This is nice. Like you want to kick your feet

1623
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 1: up on the couch. You want to maybe enjoy a snack.

1624
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 1: Don't do that, fellas, Yeah, don't do that. Just unpack

1625
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:12,719
Speaker 1: the suitcase with your wife, because your wife's not gonna stop.

1626
01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: They're gonna be going around. Let's unpack, sweet art, Why

1627
01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 1: don't we just I gotta get the I gotta get

1628
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:20,360
Speaker 1: suitcase pack. It's got a suitcase unpacked. I gotta unload.

1629
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 1: I gott unload the food and snacks we got back

1630
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:25,000
Speaker 1: into the pantry. I gotta unpack my stuff. I don't

1631
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:26,680
Speaker 1: like having I don't like when it just sits on

1632
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: the floor and you probably touch it.

1633
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:32,440
Speaker 2: You're probably fighting that car that car ride shit, No, everybody.

1634
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 1: I will sneak in a little too. I'll sneak in

1635
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 1: it too. Sweet. I'm gonna go to the bathroom real quick,

1636
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:37,519
Speaker 1: and then I'll be ready to go. But just unpack

1637
01:15:37,560 --> 01:15:40,680
Speaker 1: the suitcase. If nothing else, unpack the kid's suitcase and

1638
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 1: the stuff that goes back under the pantry and the refrigerator.

1639
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 1: So that way mom knows, hey, you're dialed in just

1640
01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 1: the way she is. Yes, teamwork makes the dream work.

1641
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:51,839
Speaker 1: Because I'm still the cat that doesn't unpack my suitcase.

1642
01:15:51,840 --> 01:15:53,720
Speaker 1: When I get home, I'll leave mine sitting there at

1643
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 1: the edge of the bed or down by the side

1644
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: of the floor, because you never know what I might

1645
01:15:56,960 --> 01:16:00,400
Speaker 1: dig back into to pull out. I never really unpack

1646
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:03,479
Speaker 1: the suitcase when I get back home. I was about

1647
01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:05,600
Speaker 1: to say, I'm terrible at that and will sit in

1648
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 1: there until my next trip, And I'm like, all right,

1649
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 1: and then I'll unpack the suitcase and then repack it

1650
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 1: for my next trip. Pappa Team six six. However, Dad

1651
01:16:13,960 --> 01:16:16,840
Speaker 1: hacked unpacked the suitcase. When you get home, just put

1652
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 1: the head down, put the helmet on, dude, strap up,

1653
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,600
Speaker 1: get the night vision goggles on, and get ready to

1654
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:26,760
Speaker 1: work for everybody else. Do all the work with everybody else,

1655
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 1: with with your wife. Take the kids suitcase to a room,

1656
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:30,600
Speaker 1: unpack it. Sometimes you look in the suitcase, pake, I

1657
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 1: don't know where this shit goes. Wife will know where

1658
01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:34,759
Speaker 1: it goes, but at least place it out so she knows.

1659
01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:39,840
Speaker 1: Oh you're dialed in. Yeah, you can leave your suitcase

1660
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 1: for the dad. You can leave your suitcase pack just

1661
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 1: to be clear, but unpacked the other suitcases.

1662
01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 2: Good call.

1663
01:16:45,880 --> 01:16:47,599
Speaker 1: Unpack the other suitcases, good call.

1664
01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:50,200
Speaker 2: Call call ins. We have four of them and let's

1665
01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:56,880
Speaker 2: get to them, and we have five minutes. First call in, Dude,

1666
01:16:56,880 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 2: do I have this?

1667
01:16:58,479 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: Do you have scrambling? Oh?

1668
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 2: No, you know I have it right here. You're having

1669
01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 2: to play first one. A lot of anonymous this week.

1670
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 2: The only one that wasn't anonymous is a mom, Oh,

1671
01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:10,680
Speaker 2: let's go first first mom calling gotta keep it under

1672
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:11,720
Speaker 2: an hour, let's go, let's go.

1673
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:16,360
Speaker 1: Boys.

1674
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:21,719
Speaker 5: We're in a situation soon to be father, a long

1675
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:23,880
Speaker 5: time soon to be. My wife's in the first trimester

1676
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:28,680
Speaker 5: and she's feeling like absolute duchie. So I hope to

1677
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:30,759
Speaker 5: be a first time dad. But I'm also a first

1678
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:32,840
Speaker 5: year head coach at the age of twenty five. So

1679
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:35,200
Speaker 5: I'm just driving back from the school at eleven thirty

1680
01:17:35,640 --> 01:17:39,679
Speaker 5: pm camp tomorrow morning. I pull into the driveway, literally

1681
01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:43,400
Speaker 5: sitting in the driveway right now being the hero in

1682
01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 5: all rounds, you know, husband, coach, teacher, hopefully father, no

1683
01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 5: God willing, and I'm sitting in my driveway, just got

1684
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:57,839
Speaker 5: a bad bunch of crap downe prepared for tomorrow. Knowing

1685
01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 5: that I told my wife if I do the dishes today,

1686
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 5: because she loves the clean kitchen and she hasn't been

1687
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:09,519
Speaker 5: doing much since her heart and I just know I'm

1688
01:18:09,520 --> 01:18:11,759
Speaker 5: about to go to battle with these dishes at eleven

1689
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:15,960
Speaker 5: thirty pm right now, And so I texted my assistant

1690
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 5: coach told him be ready for violence in the morning,

1691
01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:21,519
Speaker 5: and to be honest, I don't know if that can

1692
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:25,800
Speaker 5: wait till then. I just yeah, anyways, appreciate you boys,

1693
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:27,519
Speaker 5: keep up the podcast.

1694
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 1: Love you buddy. That that calling right there is I've

1695
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:36,559
Speaker 1: always loved the idea of coaching. I love I love it.

1696
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:39,320
Speaker 1: I would love to do You'd be phenomenal. And the

1697
01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:41,720
Speaker 1: only thing that telled me back is just like the

1698
01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,200
Speaker 1: time you have to pour because he's hopefully right knock

1699
01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:47,880
Speaker 1: on wood, soon to be dad, Hopefully all goes well,

1700
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 1: all goes smooth. But you're also like the dad of

1701
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 1: like an entire football team. You're also the guy that's

1702
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:55,280
Speaker 1: operating the coaching staff. You have to get stuff ready

1703
01:18:55,400 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 1: or late nights, it's early mornings, everything in between. You

1704
01:18:58,200 --> 01:19:00,000
Speaker 1: also want to be a family guy at home, all

1705
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,479
Speaker 1: all of that stuff. I could not I can only

1706
01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 1: imagine the stress that man feels sitting sitting in the

1707
01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:09,200
Speaker 1: driveway eleven thirty and I thinking I gotta go Oklahoma,

1708
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:11,479
Speaker 1: drill and meet these dishes in the A gap.

1709
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:14,840
Speaker 2: But he's gonna do it. He's a future dad. He

1710
01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 2: sounds like he's gotta dialed in.

1711
01:19:16,360 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty five year old head coach. Hats off to you, bro.

1712
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:20,759
Speaker 1: That is that is awesome. Shout out you for listening

1713
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:24,040
Speaker 1: to the pod. Can't wait to open, can't wait to

1714
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 1: welcome you with open arms and the Papa Top Papa

1715
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: Team six. I hope the dishes went well because you

1716
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:32,000
Speaker 1: are right, bro. The ladies they want to clean kitchen.

1717
01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:35,040
Speaker 1: They don't like clutter in the house. We have to declutter.

1718
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:37,320
Speaker 1: We have to think about this ship because it's hard

1719
01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 1: for us to think about this ship because I don't

1720
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:41,679
Speaker 1: always remember to get all the boxes. I've talked about

1721
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:45,200
Speaker 1: the box issue before. Then they just start putting stuff

1722
01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:46,880
Speaker 1: away that you're like, I didn't even know we were

1723
01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 1: were taking time right now to put stuff away. But

1724
01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:51,400
Speaker 1: just you gotta be on your shit. He's somebody that's

1725
01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 1: gonna be away from the house a lot. But you

1726
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 1: gotta be dialed in. You gotta be dialed in. You

1727
01:19:56,600 --> 01:20:00,920
Speaker 1: gotta go full. What is it this circle around bull

1728
01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:04,120
Speaker 1: in the ring? You gotta be ready for shots at

1729
01:20:04,200 --> 01:20:06,679
Speaker 1: every angle, yep. And you gotta know you were walking

1730
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:09,040
Speaker 1: into a bull of the ring situation when you get home.

1731
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 1: Because I know he cares about his career. He wouldn't

1732
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: if he didn't care about his career. Wouldn't be a

1733
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:14,519
Speaker 1: head coach at twenty five years old. Yes, you have

1734
01:20:14,600 --> 01:20:18,799
Speaker 1: to be fucking dialed. You gotta want violence and expect violence.

1735
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:23,360
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm quite literally facing the exact same situation as

1736
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 2: far as I have two minutes.

1737
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:27,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go next to say undern hour.

1738
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:29,439
Speaker 2: Got say under an hour? Next caller, please go fast

1739
01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:31,040
Speaker 2: because we gotta say under an hour. This is our

1740
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 2: first mom call.

1741
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:44,360
Speaker 8: In Okay, Betsy.

1742
01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:45,519
Speaker 1: They don't know how to read.

1743
01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:50,640
Speaker 2: It's like music on Spotify's chef going going word for

1744
01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 2: word the line with her and it's.

1745
01:20:56,520 --> 01:20:56,760
Speaker 1: Due.

1746
01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:57,840
Speaker 2: She's got it.

1747
01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 1: The page and like look up when she turns mile

1748
01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:04,719
Speaker 1: and they just they just got all rude. That is awesome.

1749
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: That'sh That takes a lot work. And you're trying to like,

1750
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm on the back for like the

1751
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:10,479
Speaker 1: attribute other than being like, you're so shit. It is

1752
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 1: eights little kids and what they're what.

1753
01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 2: They're crazy, dude, This.

1754
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 1: Kid gonna be something special.

1755
01:21:16,400 --> 01:21:19,000
Speaker 2: Way better that issue with I talked to Scarlett.

1756
01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:24,040
Speaker 1: I think Betsy let's Minneapolis, Minnesota and shout out her

1757
01:21:24,080 --> 01:21:27,400
Speaker 1: husband Tyler, a member of Semen Team six. Hey, right, yeah,

1758
01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 1: right now, he's on Semen or Seed Team six. Yeah,

1759
01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:33,640
Speaker 1: he's on that squad right now. Betsy is wanting to

1760
01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 1: show him a positive test result, acting asking for advice

1761
01:21:37,360 --> 01:21:39,920
Speaker 1: on how she should show him. Ye who knows if

1762
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 1: he watches the podcast. But maybe that's the spoiler alert

1763
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 1: right there. Hopefully not, because what I personally would think

1764
01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:49,160
Speaker 1: would be sick. We get her, chef Jack, this is

1765
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:52,559
Speaker 1: on you. Get her merch asap, get her merch a sap. Hey,

1766
01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 1: I got you something. I know you're hopefully Thougher's a

1767
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:57,280
Speaker 1: listener Busting with the Boys. Yeah, I know you're a

1768
01:21:57,280 --> 01:21:58,639
Speaker 1: fan of Busting with the Boys, So I went ahead

1769
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 1: and got you some merch. He'llens it up and it's

1770
01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:04,280
Speaker 1: some for the dad's gear. For the dad's gear. So

1771
01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:08,920
Speaker 1: with a positive pregnancy test and Betsy's sweetheart, I would

1772
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:09,800
Speaker 1: love for you to film it.

1773
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 2: Oh please film it please?

1774
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:14,599
Speaker 1: And I hope this isn't I hope we're not ruining

1775
01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:15,679
Speaker 1: the surprise right now?

1776
01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 2: Should we film a video and send it to Betsy

1777
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 2: of us saying dial it in? We could because the

1778
01:22:24,200 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 2: moment to the other and this is also on that.

1779
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:29,719
Speaker 1: First mom call in future mom, I hope everything goes

1780
01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:32,600
Speaker 1: completely smooth. Betsy, thank you so much for calling in

1781
01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:35,160
Speaker 1: the for the dads. Fires me up. That we had

1782
01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 1: our first art, that we had our first female call in.

1783
01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:41,479
Speaker 1: I love it. That's what we should do, though, Chef,

1784
01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:43,240
Speaker 1: we got it. We gotta we gotta dial that in.

1785
01:22:43,280 --> 01:22:45,559
Speaker 1: We gotta get an address, a SAP and we gotta tell.

1786
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:47,679
Speaker 1: We gotta tell the We gotta tell Garret, we gotta

1787
01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 1: tell the team. We gotta overnight this ship because I

1788
01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: think that would be a great gift. Gotta keep it

1789
01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 1: under an hour it can you play one more?

1790
01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:56,880
Speaker 2: I literally, I literally have to go. You have to

1791
01:22:56,880 --> 01:23:04,599
Speaker 2: go play okay, so really quick. Since technology, the two

1792
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:06,519
Speaker 2: that you need to play is this one and this

1793
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:10,479
Speaker 2: one after you played this one?

1794
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 1: Double click? Which one work? Get out of here? I

1795
01:23:19,200 --> 01:23:28,439
Speaker 1: love everyone, everyone, Hey, call in your dad lesson. You

1796
01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 1: said you had one videoed in and we can put

1797
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:31,439
Speaker 1: it at the end.

1798
01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 2: That's smart. That's smart, a video of my dad lesson everyone.

1799
01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:37,599
Speaker 1: I love you too, bro. Good luck out there. Let

1800
01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:38,320
Speaker 1: me know how it goes.

1801
01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:41,559
Speaker 8: Tell Joe, we love her, we love Joe, we love

1802
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:42,360
Speaker 8: we love.

1803
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:53,639
Speaker 1: I love that song. Bitch, dude, I'll start this over

1804
01:23:53,680 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 1: I'll start.

1805
01:23:58,760 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 2: That comes to be a jill. Well, dude, you feel

1806
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 2: like put her on there and then you pull that

1807
01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 2: and then you just and you hear that.

1808
01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:10,040
Speaker 1: Sweetart, just burp. It's gonna make you as soon as

1809
01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:10,519
Speaker 1: she burps.

1810
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:19,080
Speaker 2: And then wait, wait boom, Dad hacked.

1811
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:21,360
Speaker 1: And you get home. Yeah, and you get home time

1812
01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:22,960
Speaker 1: and time. And I've been two and oh with the

1813
01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: last three times. When I get home, you just want

1814
01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:26,559
Speaker 1: to get finally home. This is nice. Your feet up

1815
01:24:26,600 --> 01:24:30,040
Speaker 1: on the couch. Ack, don't do that, fellas, just unpacked.

1816
01:24:30,080 --> 01:24:33,439
Speaker 1: Wife's not gonna stop. Sweet, Why don't we just suitcase

1817
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:36,479
Speaker 1: and it's unload. I gotta look into the pantry I

1818
01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:38,160
Speaker 1: got on paping. I don't like when it just sits

1819
01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:38,599
Speaker 1: on that ship.

1820
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,879
Speaker 2: You're probably ship everybody.

1821
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 1: I'll sneak in it, too sweet, ready to go, but

1822
01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 1: just unpacked the back the kids suit pantry and the refrigerators. Hey,

1823
01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:50,439
Speaker 1: you're duck. Teamwork makes the drill. The cat that doesn't unpack,

1824
01:24:50,600 --> 01:24:52,080
Speaker 1: I'll leave mine sitting there at the edge of door

1825
01:24:52,120 --> 01:24:54,880
Speaker 1: because you never know what I'm I just want to

1826
01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:57,200
Speaker 1: get back home. No, I don't. I'm terrible at that

1827
01:24:57,280 --> 01:24:58,800
Speaker 1: extrip and I'm like all right, and then I'll like

1828
01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:00,719
Speaker 1: it for my next trip.

1829
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:01,400
Speaker 2: A team said.

1830
01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:04,760
Speaker 1: What was his name?

1831
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:08,240
Speaker 3: That was an anonymous, anonymous caller.

1832
01:25:08,080 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 1: Anonymous caller. That is a great dad hack and a

1833
01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:14,200
Speaker 1: fat w for the scoreboard, because you're not only gonna

1834
01:25:14,200 --> 01:25:16,240
Speaker 1: walk back in your house with a game base on,

1835
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna walk back in the house a hero because

1836
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:22,880
Speaker 1: you went and got the correct milk. Now the dad

1837
01:25:22,960 --> 01:25:25,640
Speaker 1: hack in that moment, because he said something here that

1838
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:29,360
Speaker 1: all dads and POPA Team six need to understand. When

1839
01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:32,280
Speaker 1: those moments arise, you're the first to raise your hand

1840
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:35,439
Speaker 1: and say I'll go get this because it is. It

1841
01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:38,519
Speaker 1: buys you a little break. It buys you a little

1842
01:25:38,560 --> 01:25:40,600
Speaker 1: break getting out of the house. Listen maybe what you

1843
01:25:40,640 --> 01:25:42,479
Speaker 1: want to listen to. It gives you some alone time,

1844
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:45,599
Speaker 1: nice little freedom time. Because you're ultimately doing what needs

1845
01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:47,599
Speaker 1: to be done. You just want to be the first

1846
01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:49,439
Speaker 1: in line to say, Hey, I will go pick up

1847
01:25:49,439 --> 01:25:52,000
Speaker 1: the milk. Hey, I will go get this grocery. Oh,

1848
01:25:52,040 --> 01:25:55,240
Speaker 1: we don't have frozen French fries for dinner. What kind

1849
01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:56,880
Speaker 1: of side do we want for dinner. I'll run down

1850
01:25:56,960 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 1: to Trader Joe's right now and go get that and

1851
01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:01,559
Speaker 1: you get in the car and you enjoy, you enjoy

1852
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:04,040
Speaker 1: that little freedom that you have for a fleeting moment

1853
01:26:04,479 --> 01:26:06,280
Speaker 1: because you're gonna have a smile on your face. Maybe

1854
01:26:06,320 --> 01:26:08,240
Speaker 1: crack a window. But that is a dad hack. That

1855
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:10,760
Speaker 1: is a dad w right there, and that needs to

1856
01:26:10,800 --> 01:26:14,840
Speaker 1: be in everybody. Every dad's playbook is if something's not

1857
01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:16,240
Speaker 1: right at the house, and you can go get it,

1858
01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:18,840
Speaker 1: go go now, Go get it now, because you're gonna

1859
01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:21,360
Speaker 1: get yourself a little window of a bit of a break.

1860
01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:23,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna get yourself a little bit of a break.

1861
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:26,040
Speaker 1: We don't need any moms to see this clip. We

1862
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:29,760
Speaker 1: don't need any moms to hear this episode in that part,

1863
01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:32,960
Speaker 1: because moms they might throw it back on us now

1864
01:26:33,160 --> 01:26:34,840
Speaker 1: now that they know this, now that they know that

1865
01:26:34,840 --> 01:26:37,800
Speaker 1: that's in the little playbook, moms might they might be

1866
01:26:37,840 --> 01:26:39,880
Speaker 1: first in line doing something something like that. Then you're

1867
01:26:39,880 --> 01:26:41,040
Speaker 1: stuck at home with the kiddos.

1868
01:26:41,560 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 3: Yes, CVS is just a mile away, and you're gone

1869
01:26:44,320 --> 01:26:45,479
Speaker 3: for an hour or what was going on.

1870
01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:50,519
Speaker 1: I'll take sometimes, I will take my time. You kind

1871
01:26:50,520 --> 01:26:53,200
Speaker 1: of sit in, catch up on a couple things, you know,

1872
01:26:53,240 --> 01:26:57,120
Speaker 1: work related, of course, of course, but then you pull in,

1873
01:26:57,160 --> 01:26:58,840
Speaker 1: you sit in the driveway. I love that he's backing,

1874
01:26:58,840 --> 01:27:00,280
Speaker 1: and you know he's just sitting in the dry way

1875
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:02,200
Speaker 1: buying a few extra minuts before he walks back into

1876
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:05,160
Speaker 1: the war zone. However, you got the milk in hand.

1877
01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:10,000
Speaker 1: You're a superhero. But appreciate that call anonymous caller. We

1878
01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:11,479
Speaker 1: can get to Oh yeah, I have to do the

1879
01:27:11,479 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 1: final caller.

1880
01:27:12,280 --> 01:27:14,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, just click shure and tell you where to click.

1881
01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:26,360
Speaker 4: Fireworks a non yep, knowing knowing.

1882
01:27:27,760 --> 01:27:30,559
Speaker 6: I told my wife I do the dishes today because

1883
01:27:30,600 --> 01:27:33,599
Speaker 6: she loves the cleanician and she hasn't been doing.

1884
01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:38,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Papa Seal, and I just know I'm about

1885
01:27:38,400 --> 01:27:41,200
Speaker 1: to go to battle with these dishes that right now.

1886
01:27:43,360 --> 01:27:45,400
Speaker 6: And so I texted my assistant coach, told to be

1887
01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:53,280
Speaker 6: ready for violence in the morning. Then I just yeah, anyways,

1888
01:27:53,280 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 6: appreciate you boys, past love.

1889
01:27:57,360 --> 01:28:06,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, I've always I love. I love like hopefully

1890
01:28:06,880 --> 01:28:10,800
Speaker 1: get choke hopefully. But you're also like Papacio, thank you

1891
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:14,639
Speaker 1: for calling in. And I agree with them here, And

1892
01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:16,400
Speaker 1: that's like a turning of the tide, Like you know,

1893
01:28:16,479 --> 01:28:20,560
Speaker 1: are we becoming Karen's by feeling like fireworks shouldn't be

1894
01:28:20,720 --> 01:28:23,599
Speaker 1: just I mean two or three in the morning you're

1895
01:28:23,920 --> 01:28:26,280
Speaker 1: if you're past midnight and you're hearing fireworks go off,

1896
01:28:26,560 --> 01:28:28,800
Speaker 1: I think you have you have the right to step

1897
01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:31,200
Speaker 1: outside and go full dad mode on some kids. I

1898
01:28:31,240 --> 01:28:34,000
Speaker 1: think you have full on right to say, hey, fellas,

1899
01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:36,280
Speaker 1: pipe down a little bit. Trust me, I was in

1900
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:40,080
Speaker 1: your shoes. I love blowing up slugs and blowing up

1901
01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:43,639
Speaker 1: fireworks late into the night hours. I'm not a cop.

1902
01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:45,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna call the cops, but I need you

1903
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:47,679
Speaker 1: to tone them down because I got an eighteen month

1904
01:28:47,680 --> 01:28:50,280
Speaker 1: old upstairs and these loud noises. I have to check

1905
01:28:50,320 --> 01:28:52,800
Speaker 1: on her every time because it scares me that she's

1906
01:28:52,800 --> 01:28:55,040
Speaker 1: gonna get woken up. And if she gets woken up,

1907
01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:58,200
Speaker 1: you can bet your candy asses then I'll be out

1908
01:28:58,240 --> 01:29:00,800
Speaker 1: here and the cops will be called. So you may

1909
01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:03,240
Speaker 1: straightened your shit up, young man. Look at me when

1910
01:29:03,280 --> 01:29:06,280
Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. Yeah, you cut the shit out.

1911
01:29:06,400 --> 01:29:07,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to come back out of here again,

1912
01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:11,320
Speaker 1: because I swear to God, I will rain hell if

1913
01:29:11,320 --> 01:29:14,479
Speaker 1: my eighteen month old gets woken up by your little

1914
01:29:16,400 --> 01:29:19,800
Speaker 1: by your little fucking fireworks. Because I'm with you, I'm

1915
01:29:19,800 --> 01:29:22,040
Speaker 1: with them. I was that little degenerate kid that wanted

1916
01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:23,760
Speaker 1: to stay up as long as possible. My parents would

1917
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Speaker 1: always make me come inside. But if I did have

1918
01:29:26,160 --> 01:29:29,599
Speaker 1: the flexibility to be out as late as I possibly

1919
01:29:29,640 --> 01:29:31,920
Speaker 1: could shooting off fireworks, I would do that because you

1920
01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:33,760
Speaker 1: don't know any better, You don't know how to think

1921
01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:35,920
Speaker 1: of everybody else, and that there's families going on. But

1922
01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:38,120
Speaker 1: he when the fireworks were going off at like ten

1923
01:29:38,240 --> 01:29:41,559
Speaker 1: pm and Scotty's sleeping, thank god she didn't wake up.

1924
01:29:41,560 --> 01:29:43,479
Speaker 1: But every time a pop goes off, I'm like checking

1925
01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 1: down on her to see if this year she's gonna

1926
01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:49,439
Speaker 1: get woken up, because I'm thinking, God, we gotta have

1927
01:29:49,479 --> 01:29:51,360
Speaker 1: some time limit. And then I'm like, oh, well, you're

1928
01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 1: getting a little too old. You're getting a little too

1929
01:29:53,240 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 1: that's kind of some boomerism coming out of you right now.

1930
01:29:56,520 --> 01:30:00,479
Speaker 1: So I feel his pain. That's how I would probably

1931
01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:03,360
Speaker 1: handle it is. If it's going on past midnight, I

1932
01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:05,800
Speaker 1: think you have you gotta go. You gotta go, uh,

1933
01:30:06,160 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 1: you gotta go pop a seal, you gotta go outside.

1934
01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:11,360
Speaker 1: You gotta set the expectation. You gotta let them know. Hey,

1935
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:13,799
Speaker 1: I'm on your side. I was where you were at.

1936
01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 1: But if you keep this ship up, I don't want

1937
01:30:16,760 --> 01:30:18,200
Speaker 1: to call it. I want you guys to have a

1938
01:30:18,280 --> 01:30:20,320
Speaker 1: great time. But if you keep this ship up and

1939
01:30:20,400 --> 01:30:23,880
Speaker 1: my daughter or my son wakes up, bet your sweet

1940
01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:26,000
Speaker 1: little ass, I will be right back out here and

1941
01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:28,360
Speaker 1: the sirens will be going because I will call in

1942
01:30:28,400 --> 01:30:31,920
Speaker 1: the entire army on you guys for interrupting my daughter

1943
01:30:32,040 --> 01:30:35,479
Speaker 1: or my son's sleep. You have a dog, too, right, Waffle.

1944
01:30:35,520 --> 01:30:38,519
Speaker 1: Waffle's terrified of fireworks. She goes and she goes in

1945
01:30:38,640 --> 01:30:41,759
Speaker 1: like nestles in a corner. Some people probably have dogs.

1946
01:30:41,760 --> 01:30:44,639
Speaker 1: At Bark, I was with some dogs get all worked

1947
01:30:44,680 --> 01:30:46,280
Speaker 1: up during the fireworks.

1948
01:30:45,960 --> 01:30:48,400
Speaker 3: Freaked out from the fireworks, and it was the same

1949
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:50,439
Speaker 3: thing they were going off to, like the neighbors. I

1950
01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:53,680
Speaker 3: was up with my girlfriend and her family's house and

1951
01:30:53,720 --> 01:30:56,599
Speaker 3: they have four dogs and they were not it wasn't

1952
01:30:56,600 --> 01:30:59,240
Speaker 3: good and the fireworks going to about midnight and it

1953
01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:00,800
Speaker 3: was right next to him.

1954
01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:06,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you're not opened up to all of this.

1955
01:31:07,600 --> 01:31:10,559
Speaker 1: I feel like until you kind of become a parent,

1956
01:31:11,040 --> 01:31:14,679
Speaker 1: or you're you're an adult with real responsibilities where maybe

1957
01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:17,000
Speaker 1: you have to be up the next day and some

1958
01:31:17,040 --> 01:31:18,640
Speaker 1: of this stuff's going off and you're thinking, you know,

1959
01:31:18,720 --> 01:31:21,400
Speaker 1: the loud music, but when you're a kid, You're not man.

1960
01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:23,040
Speaker 1: What do they gotta be such a party pooper? Like

1961
01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:25,080
Speaker 1: why does he why do they have to be like that?

1962
01:31:25,160 --> 01:31:26,439
Speaker 1: Like we're just having fun out here.

1963
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know about you, but like, even at

1964
01:31:29,360 --> 01:31:31,360
Speaker 3: twenty three, there's a few things where I remember as a kid,

1965
01:31:31,400 --> 01:31:33,960
Speaker 3: I'll be like my old man would get pissed off

1966
01:31:34,000 --> 01:31:36,280
Speaker 3: about stuff and I'm like, dude, what you know, you

1967
01:31:36,320 --> 01:31:38,160
Speaker 3: need to relax. And even at twenty three, I'll sit

1968
01:31:38,200 --> 01:31:40,519
Speaker 3: there and I'll be like, that motherfucker's driving too fast

1969
01:31:40,560 --> 01:31:41,559
Speaker 3: down through our neighborhood.

1970
01:31:41,760 --> 01:31:44,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I'm like, holy.

1971
01:31:43,960 --> 01:31:46,600
Speaker 3: Shit, I'm turning into my dad and that's terrifying.

1972
01:31:46,800 --> 01:31:49,639
Speaker 1: But like you'll it'll be more and more, especially once

1973
01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:52,960
Speaker 1: you once you get the family going. Yeah, now you'll

1974
01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:56,000
Speaker 1: be a lot more cautious, driving faster down certain roads,

1975
01:31:56,640 --> 01:32:01,000
Speaker 1: driving down roads, just driving in general, because you just

1976
01:32:01,080 --> 01:32:03,600
Speaker 1: never know, Like you have your little one, they're like exploring,

1977
01:32:03,920 --> 01:32:07,719
Speaker 1: they don't know you're trying to teach them, but shit

1978
01:32:07,760 --> 01:32:11,120
Speaker 1: can happen like that. Dude. Appreciate the call in though.

1979
01:32:11,240 --> 01:32:13,479
Speaker 1: Appreciate the calling, and we will get into our last,

1980
01:32:14,360 --> 01:32:18,479
Speaker 1: our last segment, which is a quote a lesson or

1981
01:32:18,560 --> 01:32:21,120
Speaker 1: something that has marinated with us that we would like

1982
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 1: to share, or maybe something that we're trying to learn

1983
01:32:23,479 --> 01:32:26,439
Speaker 1: ourselves to become just better fathers in general. And I

1984
01:32:26,479 --> 01:32:30,800
Speaker 1: came across something on I came across something on Instagram

1985
01:32:30,840 --> 01:32:34,360
Speaker 1: that I will just that, I will just share let's

1986
01:32:34,360 --> 01:32:36,760
Speaker 1: see here children. I do have a collection where it

1987
01:32:36,840 --> 01:32:38,680
Speaker 1: just says children, so that way I can throw in

1988
01:32:38,720 --> 01:32:40,200
Speaker 1: the stuff that I see. I'm like, oh, I like that.

1989
01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:43,519
Speaker 1: I want to come back to it. But I was

1990
01:32:43,520 --> 01:32:45,800
Speaker 1: thinking too, because a lot of times, as parents, you

1991
01:32:45,840 --> 01:32:48,360
Speaker 1: want to be able to provide your kids with like

1992
01:32:48,920 --> 01:32:52,920
Speaker 1: great experiences or trips or take them somewhere because you

1993
01:32:52,920 --> 01:32:54,960
Speaker 1: think it's going to be an awesome memory. A lot

1994
01:32:54,960 --> 01:32:56,840
Speaker 1: of times it is because you're just there and you're

1995
01:32:56,880 --> 01:32:58,680
Speaker 1: just present. But I know there are a lot of

1996
01:32:58,680 --> 01:33:02,320
Speaker 1: people that can afford every trip in the world, and

1997
01:33:02,400 --> 01:33:05,720
Speaker 1: they probably question themselves on if they are being the

1998
01:33:05,840 --> 01:33:08,280
Speaker 1: parent that they that they should be, that they want

1999
01:33:08,280 --> 01:33:10,360
Speaker 1: to be, that they arder their kid because their friends

2000
01:33:10,439 --> 01:33:12,320
Speaker 1: might be doing something cool and they might not get

2001
01:33:12,560 --> 01:33:16,120
Speaker 1: they might not get my wife's calling me, hang on

2002
01:33:16,320 --> 01:33:17,720
Speaker 1: what Ell was going off of? I kind of lost

2003
01:33:17,760 --> 01:33:18,240
Speaker 1: my train.

2004
01:33:18,080 --> 01:33:20,599
Speaker 3: Of thought talking about you have a kid staying on

2005
01:33:20,600 --> 01:33:21,040
Speaker 3: your phone.

2006
01:33:21,240 --> 01:33:23,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was. I was scrolling through Instagram and

2007
01:33:23,320 --> 01:33:25,760
Speaker 1: I saw this, And I know me as a kid

2008
01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:28,639
Speaker 1: growing up, I didn't always get to go on cool

2009
01:33:28,680 --> 01:33:30,840
Speaker 1: trips that I thought, you know, my friends were going

2010
01:33:30,880 --> 01:33:32,880
Speaker 1: on and everything else. So for those parents out there,

2011
01:33:32,800 --> 01:33:35,000
Speaker 1: there something I saw on Instagram that I thought would

2012
01:33:35,000 --> 01:33:38,679
Speaker 1: be fun to read. Shout out at Modern Parents' Guide,

2013
01:33:38,960 --> 01:33:42,200
Speaker 1: good follow on Instagram. You don't need a five thousand

2014
01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:44,720
Speaker 1: dollars Disney trip to build a happy childhood. You need

2015
01:33:44,720 --> 01:33:47,000
Speaker 1: a garden hose, a popsicle, and a parent who's present.

2016
01:33:47,320 --> 01:33:49,840
Speaker 1: And here's the science behind why the backyard is enough.

2017
01:33:50,200 --> 01:33:53,200
Speaker 1: By each five, your child's brain is ninety percent developed.

2018
01:33:53,439 --> 01:33:56,439
Speaker 1: It's not shaped where you go, but by how safe

2019
01:33:56,439 --> 01:33:59,519
Speaker 1: and how connected they feel. The brain doesn't store luxury,

2020
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:03,479
Speaker 1: emotion and repetition. The moments that happen again and again

2021
01:34:03,880 --> 01:34:08,679
Speaker 1: become the wiring beneath everything. Backyard play offers the perfect

2022
01:34:08,720 --> 01:34:13,840
Speaker 1: recipe for healthy brain development. It offers predictable rhythm, emotional coregulation,

2023
01:34:14,160 --> 01:34:17,280
Speaker 1: and sensory rich learning. When your child feels safe in

2024
01:34:17,320 --> 01:34:20,439
Speaker 1: your presence, their nervous system calms and the brain opens

2025
01:34:20,520 --> 01:34:24,600
Speaker 1: up to learn, explore, and grow. This happens best in

2026
01:34:24,720 --> 01:34:28,759
Speaker 1: everyday spaces, so sprinklers, mud puddles, bare feet in the grass.

2027
01:34:29,120 --> 01:34:33,080
Speaker 1: These aren't just fun. They build the sensory maps that

2028
01:34:33,200 --> 01:34:37,720
Speaker 1: wire attention, movement, and emotional control. A one dollar popsicle

2029
01:34:37,800 --> 01:34:40,400
Speaker 1: lights up more lights up, more joy than a one

2030
01:34:40,479 --> 01:34:43,360
Speaker 1: thousand dollars theme park if it comes with the tunement.

2031
01:34:43,680 --> 01:34:46,920
Speaker 1: Your face is what makes the memory magical. Children don't.

2032
01:34:47,080 --> 01:34:51,240
Speaker 1: Children don't need constant stimulation, They need responsive presence. The

2033
01:34:51,280 --> 01:34:54,479
Speaker 1: brain develops best when life slows down enough to feel,

2034
01:34:54,800 --> 01:34:59,160
Speaker 1: and research shows its repetition with emotional safety that wires

2035
01:34:59,240 --> 01:35:03,280
Speaker 1: long term let regulation. That means the same swing, the

2036
01:35:03,360 --> 01:35:06,880
Speaker 1: same snack, the same smile. You're not depriving your child

2037
01:35:06,880 --> 01:35:09,679
Speaker 1: when you stay home more. You're giving them space to rest,

2038
01:35:09,840 --> 01:35:13,559
Speaker 1: to attach, and to trust. The most resilient adults often

2039
01:35:13,640 --> 01:35:17,320
Speaker 1: had childhoods filled with routine attonement and calm nervous systems,

2040
01:35:17,439 --> 01:35:21,679
Speaker 1: not expensive plans. One day, they won't say my childhood

2041
01:35:21,760 --> 01:35:24,960
Speaker 1: was magical because of where we went. They'll say it

2042
01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:27,720
Speaker 1: was magical because of how I felt at home. You

2043
01:35:27,760 --> 01:35:30,120
Speaker 1: already have what they need. Your eyes, your voice, your

2044
01:35:30,120 --> 01:35:33,439
Speaker 1: presence and yes, your backyard. Save this for the days

2045
01:35:33,439 --> 01:35:35,960
Speaker 1: you wonder if it's enough, because it is. The little

2046
01:35:35,960 --> 01:35:40,000
Speaker 1: things don't just matter, they build the brain. Shout out

2047
01:35:40,360 --> 01:35:45,800
Speaker 1: at Modern Parents' Guide for more insights on raising emotionally

2048
01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:49,400
Speaker 1: secure kids. So a little, you know, a little shout

2049
01:35:49,400 --> 01:35:52,439
Speaker 1: out to a profile that I follow, and I saw

2050
01:35:52,479 --> 01:35:53,880
Speaker 1: that too, and I just think it'd be cool for

2051
01:35:54,320 --> 01:35:56,080
Speaker 1: I thought it'd be good for just parents to hear,

2052
01:35:56,120 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 1: because at times you battle with I want to take

2053
01:35:58,479 --> 01:36:00,360
Speaker 1: them here, or this would be really cool for And

2054
01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:02,439
Speaker 1: sometimes it might not fit the schedule, it might not

2055
01:36:02,479 --> 01:36:05,040
Speaker 1: fit the budget, it might not fits it might not

2056
01:36:05,080 --> 01:36:08,080
Speaker 1: fit the madness that goes on in all of our lives.

2057
01:36:08,439 --> 01:36:11,439
Speaker 1: But all those like reminders on the small things are

2058
01:36:11,479 --> 01:36:14,360
Speaker 1: the best things. Those daily traditions, are weekly traditions or

2059
01:36:14,360 --> 01:36:19,679
Speaker 1: monthly traditions, just your presence alone, it build It builds

2060
01:36:19,680 --> 01:36:21,599
Speaker 1: who they are. So that was that was the lesson

2061
01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:24,599
Speaker 1: that I wanted to share, something that kind of resonated

2062
01:36:24,640 --> 01:36:24,880
Speaker 1: with me.

2063
01:36:25,640 --> 01:36:28,240
Speaker 3: It's true, I mean you remember, I mean as a

2064
01:36:28,320 --> 01:36:31,640
Speaker 3: kid growing up, like hanging out with being with my

2065
01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:33,720
Speaker 3: dad and brother is what I always remember a lot,

2066
01:36:33,760 --> 01:36:36,559
Speaker 3: playing sports in the backyard or whether it's going riding

2067
01:36:36,560 --> 01:36:40,439
Speaker 3: my bike around or walking to the neighborhood pool. You know,

2068
01:36:41,040 --> 01:36:42,640
Speaker 3: I was fortunate we got to go on trips and

2069
01:36:42,640 --> 01:36:44,920
Speaker 3: stuff because my dad traveled so much, like for work,

2070
01:36:45,000 --> 01:36:47,160
Speaker 3: that we were able to He got points and stuff.

2071
01:36:47,160 --> 01:36:49,679
Speaker 3: And they always try to expose me and my brother.

2072
01:36:49,760 --> 01:36:51,559
Speaker 3: But like the stuff that I always remember is like

2073
01:36:51,640 --> 01:36:55,599
Speaker 3: that time you spend and like you know, sometimes you

2074
01:36:55,640 --> 01:36:56,000
Speaker 3: make fun.

2075
01:36:56,120 --> 01:36:58,080
Speaker 1: You make fun with yeah, what you have.

2076
01:36:58,280 --> 01:36:59,559
Speaker 3: And I was still I think I was like the

2077
01:36:59,640 --> 01:37:03,360
Speaker 3: last probably generation or age where we didn't grow up

2078
01:37:03,360 --> 01:37:05,640
Speaker 3: with screens. So I grew up. I rode my I

2079
01:37:05,640 --> 01:37:08,280
Speaker 3: got on my bike, and you went over to you know,

2080
01:37:08,400 --> 01:37:11,679
Speaker 3: my buddy Warners, the neighbors, the Edwards, and we would

2081
01:37:11,680 --> 01:37:13,719
Speaker 3: go play football in the backyard, to go build a fort.

2082
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:17,559
Speaker 3: And it wasn't until like maybe like seventh grade now,

2083
01:37:17,800 --> 01:37:20,439
Speaker 3: probably fifth grade, when like the iPod and iPhones started

2084
01:37:20,439 --> 01:37:23,400
Speaker 3: coming around, but that was still like that's how we

2085
01:37:23,479 --> 01:37:26,320
Speaker 3: grew up. We went outside and you know, spent a

2086
01:37:26,320 --> 01:37:27,240
Speaker 3: lot of time doing that.

2087
01:37:27,360 --> 01:37:29,800
Speaker 1: So and just making the most of what you have.

2088
01:37:29,920 --> 01:37:32,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't need a lot to have fun. That's

2089
01:37:33,000 --> 01:37:35,360
Speaker 3: kind of the best part. And I hope that's you

2090
01:37:35,439 --> 01:37:37,920
Speaker 3: know it better. Like I guess kids nowadays with like

2091
01:37:38,000 --> 01:37:41,599
Speaker 3: screens and stuff like you put that in front of someone,

2092
01:37:41,680 --> 01:37:44,559
Speaker 3: like I worry about like that kills creativity and like

2093
01:37:44,640 --> 01:37:46,760
Speaker 3: kills like imagination and stuff like.

2094
01:37:46,840 --> 01:37:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, the screen stuff is such like a unique topic

2095
01:37:51,080 --> 01:37:53,680
Speaker 1: because it's like you just battle, like I feel like

2096
01:37:53,720 --> 01:37:57,320
Speaker 1: we do a pretty good job. And it's almost like,

2097
01:37:57,360 --> 01:37:59,120
Speaker 1: you know, when we got done with that car ride

2098
01:37:59,160 --> 01:38:01,840
Speaker 1: to Missouri, it's like charl ends up making the comment

2099
01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:04,439
Speaker 1: to me, like once we get to the airbnb that

2100
01:38:04,479 --> 01:38:06,479
Speaker 1: we were in, it's like we kind of do it

2101
01:38:06,520 --> 01:38:08,799
Speaker 1: to ourselves because we don't like put You could easily

2102
01:38:08,840 --> 01:38:10,200
Speaker 1: just throw a screen in front of them and just

2103
01:38:10,280 --> 01:38:13,759
Speaker 1: keep them occupied, but you think about the long term

2104
01:38:14,439 --> 01:38:19,559
Speaker 1: of you know, in those situations giving them a screen,

2105
01:38:20,000 --> 01:38:22,240
Speaker 1: then they're dependent. They start to get dependent on the screen.

2106
01:38:22,280 --> 01:38:24,920
Speaker 1: Then anytime they act up or misbehave or you're having

2107
01:38:24,920 --> 01:38:27,439
Speaker 1: those moments where you just you'd rather just put a

2108
01:38:27,439 --> 01:38:30,040
Speaker 1: screen in front of them than leave the pool, and

2109
01:38:30,080 --> 01:38:32,280
Speaker 1: then it's like that's how they start to coregulate or

2110
01:38:32,360 --> 01:38:34,840
Speaker 1: that's how they start to regulate their emotions by being like, oh,

2111
01:38:34,880 --> 01:38:36,400
Speaker 1: I need a screen, And then you chalk it up

2112
01:38:36,400 --> 01:38:39,760
Speaker 1: as like that'll keep their attention on this and not

2113
01:38:39,880 --> 01:38:43,120
Speaker 1: present in the moment, or you're battling through boring moments,

2114
01:38:43,520 --> 01:38:46,639
Speaker 1: moments of tantrums, all the things that, like it's hard

2115
01:38:46,680 --> 01:38:51,200
Speaker 1: for the parent in the moment, but the longevity of

2116
01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:53,400
Speaker 1: it or the long term from it is like, you know,

2117
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:57,120
Speaker 1: you get to where I was reading something to where

2118
01:38:57,120 --> 01:38:59,000
Speaker 1: it's like, if you're putting screens in front of them

2119
01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:01,360
Speaker 1: and I'll have this drop it up for the episode

2120
01:39:01,400 --> 01:39:03,000
Speaker 1: next week. But if you put screens in front of

2121
01:39:03,000 --> 01:39:05,920
Speaker 1: them now and you're doing it to kind of ease

2122
01:39:05,960 --> 01:39:09,040
Speaker 1: the short term pain, then they get dependent on those screens.

2123
01:39:09,040 --> 01:39:11,320
Speaker 1: And then when they get to school and they realize

2124
01:39:11,320 --> 01:39:13,960
Speaker 1: there are no screens there, the work that they can

2125
01:39:14,040 --> 01:39:15,800
Speaker 1: do that might not be on a screen, or maybe

2126
01:39:15,840 --> 01:39:18,040
Speaker 1: it is on a screen, but their attention is so

2127
01:39:18,160 --> 01:39:20,920
Speaker 1: locked in on focusing on a screen that they don't

2128
01:39:20,920 --> 01:39:23,439
Speaker 1: have the attention to stay locked in, you know, in

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Speaker 1: a classroom or when they're in group settings to where

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Speaker 1: you know, all the ADHD and stuff kind of starts

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Speaker 1: to spike up or come about or come to the

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Speaker 1: surface a lot more these days, I feel like, and

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Speaker 1: then you know you're starting to medicate your kids all

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Speaker 1: because it's like in the building block developmental brain stages

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Speaker 1: of just fighting, like putting a screen in front of

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Speaker 1: them just because it'll take their attention away from the

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Speaker 1: current moment to put them on a screen, and that'll

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Speaker 1: just you know, it'll be this bad ripple effect that

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Speaker 1: happens like when they do get in school or when

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Speaker 1: they're becoming adults, because they just don't have they don't

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Speaker 1: have that brain development that they should have had when

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Speaker 1: they were little.

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Speaker 3: And it's kind of like, I don't know about when

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Speaker 3: you were growing up, but like I know, my parents

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Speaker 3: were very adamantly no TV in my room, like I

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Speaker 3: know some parents had grown up. I had friends who

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Speaker 3: had they had a TV, and whether it was TV

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Speaker 3: time or something, my parents are like, no TV because

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Speaker 3: we know you and your brother, you guys will turn

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Speaker 3: it on it you'll stay at you'll act a sleep

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01:40:19,640 --> 01:40:21,599
Speaker 3: and then get up in like midnight and watch like

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Speaker 3: a movie or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But that's how we were. That's yeah, that's how

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Speaker 1: we were.

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Speaker 3: Mom, they were adamant. So I grew up and staid,

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Speaker 3: which I actually like at the time you're sitting there,

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01:40:31,320 --> 01:40:32,840
Speaker 3: maybe when you when you're grown up and you're kind

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01:40:32,840 --> 01:40:35,280
Speaker 3: of pissed off, like Billy gets a TV. Yeah, you know,

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01:40:35,360 --> 01:40:37,760
Speaker 3: and you're I have to. But then looking back at it,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, man, Like I'm kind of glad because

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Speaker 3: I learned instead of it in that I read like

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Speaker 3: that was a normal thing, Like I read all the

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01:40:45,240 --> 01:40:47,679
Speaker 3: time to go to sleep, and it's something that even

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Speaker 3: as I'm getting older, I'm like, I I find myself

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Speaker 3: on TikTok and stuff, and I'm like, that will.

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Speaker 1: Keep you up.

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Speaker 3: Like I've learned that I scrolling the doom scrolling man,

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Speaker 3: and I I have to put my I put my

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Speaker 3: phone away, Like for anyone that has issues with that.

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Speaker 3: What I've started doing is that no TikTok, no Instagram

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Speaker 3: reels three hours before bed, like I said, a hard note,

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Speaker 3: and that's like I've started sleeping so much better. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: It's like I feel you on that where it's like

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Speaker 3: you get worried about.

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Speaker 1: You're right though, Like if I even think about mine,

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Speaker 1: like we I had a TV. We had a TV

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Speaker 1: in our room and I'll watch TV. I'd fall asleep

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Speaker 1: to the TV. We've like even though we didn't have screens,

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Speaker 1: like you know, once computers were a thing and you

2180
01:41:28,560 --> 01:41:32,320
Speaker 1: could play backyard baseball or SIMS or roller coaster Tycoon.

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01:41:32,840 --> 01:41:35,960
Speaker 1: We'd be fighting over to have like computer time. And

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Speaker 1: I just feel like with that, I was in the

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Speaker 1: generation of high school where the iPhone came out to

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01:41:40,360 --> 01:41:43,559
Speaker 1: where there was MySpace and Facebook just started. But thinking

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01:41:43,600 --> 01:41:46,360
Speaker 1: of myself now, like there'll be a lot of times

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Speaker 1: like I can just admit that the phone will consume

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Speaker 1: me at times, or where my attention is like fleeting.

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Speaker 1: We don't have a TV in our room now, like

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Speaker 1: Charles a big believer not having a TV in the

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Speaker 1: room and everything else. But Cody was was somebody who

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Speaker 1: had like the like ADHD And if I think about

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Speaker 1: my brain on how my attention works at times, I

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Speaker 1: feel like I can think back to those things and

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Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I was like a menace with whether

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01:42:11,439 --> 01:42:15,040
Speaker 1: playing video games or watching TV, playing video games late

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Speaker 1: at night, wanting to stay up later, sneaking.

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Speaker 3: It, trying to play video games late.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and you know you get reprimanded from it

2199
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Speaker 1: and get disciplined sometimes on weekends not not enough or

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01:42:25,920 --> 01:42:28,160
Speaker 1: not like we probably should have. But if you're just

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Speaker 1: thinking about the screens and everything else, like toe and

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Speaker 1: I are big on just I guess just eating and

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01:42:34,120 --> 01:42:38,400
Speaker 1: leaning into the fray and just it's like making it

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01:42:38,479 --> 01:42:41,479
Speaker 1: hard on ourselves. I guess, to protect what we feel

2205
01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:43,479
Speaker 1: like screens would do if we're putting in front of

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Speaker 1: our kids all the time. Because real get pissed off.

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01:42:45,640 --> 01:42:47,760
Speaker 1: When she ran out of TV coupons last week. You know,

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Speaker 1: we do that coupon system and she used up her

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Speaker 1: last thirty minute coupon tour. It was like, the next day,

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Speaker 1: you don't have anymore. Like, I know you want to

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Speaker 1: watch TV. Trust me, I would love for you to

2212
01:42:55,960 --> 01:42:57,479
Speaker 1: watch TV, so I could just take a break. But

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Speaker 1: your thirty minutes, your coupons ran out. You're just gonna

2214
01:43:00,280 --> 01:43:01,600
Speaker 1: have to know next week. Hey, you're gonna have to

2215
01:43:01,600 --> 01:43:02,840
Speaker 1: spread them out a little bit better.

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Speaker 3: Just deal with it. I, by the way, recommended that

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Speaker 3: to a couple of us all this weekend. They have

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Speaker 3: a little three year old boy shout out Townsend and

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01:43:11,000 --> 01:43:13,040
Speaker 3: the dad logan great guy who looked at me and

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01:43:13,040 --> 01:43:15,240
Speaker 3: he's like, I don't know, dude, he's a fucking demon.

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Speaker 1: Dude, I'm telling you, because like she'll get pissed like that,

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Speaker 1: I kind of watch more. Yes, sweetheart, you have like

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Speaker 1: fifteen more minutes. Yes, you can watch more, like she's

2224
01:43:23,640 --> 01:43:26,400
Speaker 1: always checking, like am I able to watch more? Yeah,

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01:43:26,400 --> 01:43:28,400
Speaker 1: you have like fifteen more minutes. But when it's done,

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01:43:28,600 --> 01:43:31,960
Speaker 1: it's done. You have to turn it off. Yeah, and uh,

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Speaker 1: sometimes it's a battle just because like you're giving them

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01:43:34,240 --> 01:43:36,040
Speaker 1: a little bit of screen time. And again, the screens

2229
01:43:36,040 --> 01:43:38,360
Speaker 1: are just like gravitating. They love to be on those

2230
01:43:38,360 --> 01:43:41,559
Speaker 1: fucking things. And so charl and I we fight our

2231
01:43:41,600 --> 01:43:44,760
Speaker 1: asses off not to not to like go to you know,

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01:43:44,840 --> 01:43:46,519
Speaker 1: she doesn't know what an iPad is, but like give

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01:43:46,520 --> 01:43:48,400
Speaker 1: her an iPad or give her a screen when we're

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Speaker 1: in the car traveling.

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Speaker 3: Do you think it's inevitable that sooner or later?

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01:43:54,240 --> 01:43:57,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course it is, yeah, growing up, but.

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01:43:57,000 --> 01:43:59,560
Speaker 3: Like you're gonna just hold out as long as possible.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not sure until we get there. Like again,

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Speaker 1: like my only experience right now is I have an

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Speaker 1: eight month old and a three year old, Like I

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Speaker 1: don't have, you know, an eight year old, a nine

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Speaker 1: year old, a ten year old, somebody who's going to school,

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Speaker 1: and they might have, you know, screens, and I'm sure

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Speaker 1: that they'll, you know, with the AI movement, just technology

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01:44:16,200 --> 01:44:20,960
Speaker 1: in general, they're gonna they're gonna have to like understand

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01:44:20,960 --> 01:44:23,680
Speaker 1: that world. But I don't know. We talk about it,

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01:44:23,680 --> 01:44:26,160
Speaker 1: like we don't want them to have social media even

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Speaker 1: through high school. Don't want them to have social media.

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Speaker 1: Just the stuff I'm reading in the Strong Father's Strong

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Speaker 1: Daughter stuff, the data it's just scary to think about.

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01:44:35,040 --> 01:44:39,839
Speaker 1: I'll start, I'll continue to put like a frameworker something

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01:44:39,840 --> 01:44:42,080
Speaker 1: to go by later, like as she gets older. But

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01:44:42,160 --> 01:44:44,040
Speaker 1: I know, like right now we want to do whatever

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01:44:44,080 --> 01:44:47,720
Speaker 1: we cannot to not to have them like depending on

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Speaker 1: screens or definitely not social media or having their own phone.

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Speaker 1: That those are like what the conversations we're having now

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Speaker 1: as she's a three year old. So I don't know

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01:44:57,600 --> 01:45:01,920
Speaker 1: how it'll develop or adapt in the future, but I

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01:45:01,920 --> 01:45:03,519
Speaker 1: know it's like, you know, it's one of those things

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Speaker 1: we want to be very want to be very cautious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's all good. I think you guys

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01:45:08,680 --> 01:45:10,479
Speaker 3: have a good mindset of it as someone who's not

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01:45:10,520 --> 01:45:13,800
Speaker 3: a parent, but I can that's kind of stuff that

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Speaker 3: I even I'm like, ah, man, like a lot of

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Speaker 3: that stuff is scary.

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Speaker 1: Social media is a big one, dude. Depression is getting

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Speaker 1: more real at the young age starts to base.

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Speaker 3: Your life off of like that social presence, and it's

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Speaker 3: like it's just so dangerous, and I'm like, and that

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01:45:28,840 --> 01:45:32,040
Speaker 3: was I mean you said high school is when MySpace

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01:45:32,120 --> 01:45:35,880
Speaker 3: came out. When I was in like middle school, Snapchat

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Speaker 3: became big, then Instagram and those were ones that and

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Speaker 3: then like just naturally, I think my age is like

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01:45:44,320 --> 01:45:46,640
Speaker 3: some of the first that really like you grew up

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01:45:46,720 --> 01:45:49,240
Speaker 3: and you started I think I had an Instagram account

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Speaker 3: when I was like in middle school. But it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you start to like, you know, look around. You do

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01:45:55,760 --> 01:45:56,360
Speaker 3: a lot of looking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you do a lot of comparing.

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Speaker 3: Comparisons, and it's just.

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Speaker 1: People can think it's it's it's it's weird, or like

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01:46:03,640 --> 01:46:06,040
Speaker 1: disagree with it. But I think even us as adults,

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01:46:06,040 --> 01:46:08,880
Speaker 1: like even we struggle with it. Yeah, you get called

2284
01:46:08,880 --> 01:46:11,680
Speaker 1: comparing looking at everybody's highlight reels. You want to, you know,

2285
01:46:11,800 --> 01:46:14,599
Speaker 1: post all the best things on your social media if

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01:46:14,640 --> 01:46:16,360
Speaker 1: if you're not somebody who posts a lot, like I'm

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01:46:16,360 --> 01:46:18,880
Speaker 1: sure you sit there and you scroll. Like even we

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01:46:18,960 --> 01:46:20,800
Speaker 1: struggle with it as adults, and it's like, you know,

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01:46:20,920 --> 01:46:23,679
Speaker 1: these these kids that just don't even have a fully

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01:46:23,680 --> 01:46:25,920
Speaker 1: developed brain, or they don't understand how the world works,

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01:46:25,920 --> 01:46:28,519
Speaker 1: and they're getting how the world works from social media

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01:46:28,560 --> 01:46:32,280
Speaker 1: and everything that's not even real consume their brain. Yeah,

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01:46:32,320 --> 01:46:35,960
Speaker 1: I think it's like a slippery slope. So we've started

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01:46:36,040 --> 01:46:39,839
Speaker 1: having those conversations, but I'm sure we'll continue to formulate

2295
01:46:39,880 --> 01:46:42,680
Speaker 1: whatever it is. And you both just approach you with

2296
01:46:42,720 --> 01:46:46,639
Speaker 1: teamwork man arm in arm staying strong, and we sure

2297
01:46:46,640 --> 01:46:48,080
Speaker 1: we sure we don't want to let her watch them

2298
01:46:48,080 --> 01:46:49,760
Speaker 1: blowy right now? Be sure we don't want to letter

2299
01:46:49,800 --> 01:46:51,599
Speaker 1: watch something just to the need to play it down

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 3: It needs parent Team six. Yeah, along with POPA Team six.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Parent Team six.

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Speaker 3: You guys are both in it.

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01:46:58,800 --> 01:47:03,040
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Speaker 9: I shot this horizontally.

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Speaker 2: I hope it works, Chef, thank you for patching us

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Speaker 2: into the episode.

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Speaker 9: Will Here's my lesson of the week.

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Speaker 2: A lesson of the week is to have a mentor

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01:47:29,960 --> 01:47:33,840
Speaker 2: that is in far further along in fatherhood than you are.

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01:47:35,160 --> 01:47:37,240
Speaker 2: Will is that for me. And I told him this

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Speaker 2: morning that he was going to be a lesson of

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Speaker 2: the week. And I don't think Will and I ever

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Speaker 2: really planned, or you know, I never really asked Will

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Speaker 2: to be a mentor to me. It just kind of

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Speaker 2: naturally happened through conversations that we had with each other

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01:47:54,080 --> 01:47:57,920
Speaker 2: about family planning and his kids and his marriage with

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Speaker 2: Charro and my marriage with Jill, and those conversations just

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01:48:02,400 --> 01:48:06,080
Speaker 2: kind of flowed very naturally and easily. But it has

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Speaker 2: been a relationship in my life that I have learned

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01:48:10,000 --> 01:48:13,680
Speaker 2: so much from. And not that your mentor can't be

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01:48:13,880 --> 01:48:16,719
Speaker 2: like a father in law or your own dad, because

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01:48:16,760 --> 01:48:20,559
Speaker 2: obviously they they're further along and father than you. But

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01:48:21,520 --> 01:48:24,080
Speaker 2: somebody that's a third party, somebody that's like outside of

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Speaker 2: your family, maybe outside the traditions of your family, that

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01:48:28,600 --> 01:48:31,400
Speaker 2: has their own thing going on with their kids, and

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Speaker 2: just being able to see another perspective here, another way

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Speaker 2: of doing things.

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Speaker 9: Seeing Will even.

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Speaker 2: Interacting with his kids, and seeing Charro interacting with their kids,

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Speaker 2: it's cool. And so I've just learned a ton from

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Speaker 2: Will over these past couple months and having these conversations

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01:48:52,280 --> 01:48:54,840
Speaker 2: with him that it really has brought not only the

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Speaker 2: confidence to start a family, which we've already.

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Speaker 9: Touched on in the podcast, but it's probably a lot

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Speaker 9: of confie.

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Speaker 2: It's in just being a dad. Just in these first

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what day four of being a dad? So

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Speaker 2: I hope that that message finds anybody well that is

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Speaker 2: planning to start a family or has just started a family,

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Speaker 2: or maybe you got kids in high school, kids in college.

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Speaker 2: I think that that can apply to anyone and everyone.

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Speaker 2: So just finding a mentor finding a friend or accountabcountabil

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Speaker 2: a buddy that is further along in the fatherhood process.

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Speaker 2: And maybe for those PT six Sikahs out there, finding

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Speaker 2: somebody that is just.

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Speaker 9: Becoming a dad.

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Speaker 2: Being that mentor to somebody, I know it meant a

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Speaker 2: lot to me, will kind of coming alongside and teaching

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Speaker 2: me and show me the ropes on a lot of

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Speaker 2: different stuff.

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Speaker 9: And having convos with me.

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Speaker 2: So any PT six Sikos out there that want to

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Speaker 2: recruit their friends into the fatherhood or just be a

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Speaker 2: mentor a guide to them, maybe actively seek out some

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Speaker 2: of those young gun future dads.

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Speaker 9: That was my last thing of the week.

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Speaker 2: I hope you all enjoyed the rest of the podcast.

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Speaker 2: I know Will probably killed it, and again, Chef, thank

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Speaker 2: you for.

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Speaker 9: Patching this into the episode. I hope everybody has a

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Speaker 9: good week.

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Speaker 2: I hope we come it under it now, piece of luck.

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Speaker 9: See you guys,