1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Beat Your Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Srina and we are here. 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 1: Today with Brian and Trista, and we want to do 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: a quick shout out to David's Bridal for sponsoring this podcast. 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much to David's Bridal. We are 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 2: all here in LA for the iHeartRadio Music Awards and 7 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:18,319 Speaker 2: we're so excited chat with you guys today. 8 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 3: Let's get started. 9 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: Ryan, you've never been on this podcast. 10 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 3: Never, Sorry, what. 11 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: Was the last time you've done a podcast? 12 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 3: Well? 13 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 4: I did a half one and a half an hour 14 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 4: ago with Trista. Okay, but prior to that, it's been so. 15 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 3: Long, I don't even remember. 16 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 5: You're all warmed up. 17 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 4: I don't talk a lot, and that's a requirement of 18 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 4: podcasts generally less interesting if you sit there talking. 19 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 20 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: Sure, so you're starting it off like cause I actually 21 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: I'm hosting this and I don't really talk a lot either. 22 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: I do, I do, I do? Okay, So what's new? 23 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: Trista Howard's Special Forces? 24 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 5: It was crazy. 25 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 6: The last time we talked, it was before it aired, 26 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 6: but it had just been announced, right. 27 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: Yes, I think yeah, first had just come out, so 28 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 2: true which is wild that we're not having you back 29 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 2: on and it's just kind of wrapped. 30 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 5: I know, it's crazy. It was intense. 31 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 6: As I said before, I am caught between the I'm 32 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 6: proud of myself and I wish I would have stayed 33 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 6: longer area. And I knew in the moment, you guys 34 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 6: have seen it, yeah. 35 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 5: Or you did it. We saw the first episode, Okay, 36 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 5: so I'm assuming you're okay with me spoiling. 37 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 6: It because it's already out. 38 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 5: So the second episode or. 39 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 6: The the breakdown of episodes is weird. But the second 40 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 6: episode when I leave, I had hypothermia the night before 41 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 6: from like buds training, like Navy seals training the day before, 42 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 6: and I was broken down, like just to my limits 43 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 6: of exhaustion, felt like a shell of myself, and was 44 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 6: just honestly grateful to kind of be alive. And I 45 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 6: had a mirror room interview, which is like when you 46 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 6: sit down and kind of like they put that potato 47 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 6: sack over your head and go talk to you in 48 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 6: this little mini room. 49 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 2: Do you get to take the potato sack off? 50 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 5: They do? They take it off? Yes? No, you talk 51 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 5: to them with the potato sack on. Okay, yeah. 52 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 6: So they take you into this room and they have 53 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 6: the potato sack and then they take it off and 54 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 6: you you just confide. They ask about who you are, 55 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 6: why you're there, all of those things. And I before 56 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 6: the show really wanted to get to that point, like 57 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 6: I wanted to connect with the DS on a human level. 58 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 6: And I got that after I had hypothermia and left 59 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 6: that room and felt like, Okay, really have gotten so 60 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 6: much out of this experience. 61 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 5: I'm gonna give it, you know. 62 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 6: I'm gonna shower, I'm gonna, you know, get as much 63 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 6: sleep as I can, which is not a lot, and 64 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 6: I'll see how I feel in the morning. I'm just 65 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 6: gonna let it play out. And when I was woken 66 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 6: up the next morning when all of us were working, 67 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,399 Speaker 6: woken up by essentially bombs going off, like I mean, 68 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 6: they threw this thing in a like metal trash can 69 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 6: that like it sounded like there was gunfire all around us. 70 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 6: And we woke up to that, and my heart was 71 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 6: just like fool out of my chest, you know, and I. 72 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 5: Thought, Okay, I'm dead. If if we. 73 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 6: Had woken up in a different situation, I might have 74 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 6: stayed Actually yeah, I mean yes, but if we had 75 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 6: woken up and they had been like, Okay, go get 76 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 6: your grub right, go get ready, you know. 77 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: Like a training morning or something that you can kind 78 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: of use to like recenter yourself for ground yourself exactly, 79 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: which they were like. 80 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 6: But I felt like I was in a really good 81 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 6: place where my mind was like, this is okay, You've 82 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 6: done what you could do. You're not I didn't want 83 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 6: to be a burden anymore to the people who were 84 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 6: really helpful to me, including like Golden Tate and Cam and. 85 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 5: Like, like, they really were so helpful to me. In 86 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 5: the moments between. 87 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 6: The tasks and the travel where you had to run 88 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 6: or with like a thirty five pound pack on your back, 89 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 6: it was really hard for me. I felt like I 90 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 6: just didn't want to be a burden anymore, and I 91 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 6: had gotten a lot. 92 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 5: Out of it, so I left. But yeah, it was 93 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 5: it was. 94 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 6: A really great experience. I wish that he could have 95 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 6: done it because it's so up his alley. 96 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I was gonna I was gonna say, so 97 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: you're a firefighter. Do you think the training is similar? 98 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 6: Uh? 99 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 3: Similar, but not not the same. 100 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 4: I think the the well, the things that she was 101 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 4: sort of impersonating the training that they were sort of 102 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 4: giving her a small taste of is such a small 103 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 4: component of what I think the actual Special Forces guys 104 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 4: are going through. But just to see how difficult it 105 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 4: was for her and for all the other people on 106 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 4: the show to just do that small component of it 107 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 4: was pretty It makes you really respect those men and 108 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 4: women that actually go through the real thing. And and 109 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 4: I mean, like I I was very impressed with Trista. 110 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 4: I mean just seeing her, like like there's this one 111 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 4: scene where this guy I don't know their names, but 112 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 4: he's like you you shouldn't be here, you need to 113 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 4: go home, and she's like, I don't want to go home. 114 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 3: And then and then the next morning, I want to 115 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 3: go home. 116 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 4: It's like it was like the perfect Trista moment, Like 117 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 4: she's so good at like just going all the way 118 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 4: to her breaking point and then it's like that's it. 119 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 3: I'm done, I'm going home. I'm calling it good. 120 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: What parts of the show if you were on it, 121 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: do you think he would have been really good at. 122 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 4: And then maybe struggled with, Well, I probably would have 123 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 4: struggled with all of it, But. 124 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 5: I guess I like that that's probably that's part. 125 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would have been good at struggling because that's 126 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 3: joy I liked. Yeah. Yeah, But I. 127 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 4: Think the stuff that they were doing and then the 128 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 4: stuff they continue to do even after Trista left was 129 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 4: it was crazy, Like it was crazy. 130 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: Was there something you watch back where you're like, oh 131 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: my god, I'm so glad before they did that? 132 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 5: Yes, the fight, the fight and that was the same day. 133 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 5: What's the fight? 134 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 2: Tell us? 135 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 6: More so, they basically put this like boxing helmet thing 136 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 6: on that's like padded. 137 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 5: Yeah, but not here. Okay, so literally this part of 138 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 5: your face do you. 139 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: Have boxing loves on? 140 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: Did they Yeah? Yeah, I think they did. 141 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah I did this, and then I did 142 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 2: on the box storm deads here. Yeah I got punched 143 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 2: in the face. Yeah, I know. I was poppings for 144 00:06:58,279 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 2: like twenty four hours. 145 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 6: So during that three people broke bones, nose and ribs. 146 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 6: Oh no, yeah, so I was really so they were 147 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 6: foret where the took place? 148 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 5: This is the one. What do you mean, oh, on 149 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 5: the top of a cliff? 150 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, so so Nathan Adrian Olympic swimmer, rock star 151 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 6: of a human. 152 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 5: I love him. He's huge, like super tall. 153 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 6: Of course they're gonna pair him with Cam Newton, who 154 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 6: is also massive, but he is like, you know, like 155 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 6: came out fighting guns of blazing and they were on 156 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 6: the edge of a cliff, and from what I understand, 157 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 6: Cam went like balls out, like he was like, I 158 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 6: am going to kill you, you know, like you've given 159 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 6: me a task, guys DS, I'm going to fight him 160 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 6: and and. 161 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that scares me so bad. 162 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 6: But but you know what's funny, I didn't really even 163 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 6: think about that when I was really I was jumping 164 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 6: off of a bridge that was one hundred and thirty 165 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 6: feet I think tall something like that. I did not 166 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 6: even think about the fact that I could potentially die. 167 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 6: I was just doing it because and I felt safe 168 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 6: in the moment. 169 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 2: Hey, well that's good. 170 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: And I guess you could potentially die when you get 171 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 1: in your car too, so one hundred per yeah. 172 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 6: So you know, you have Cam Newton who's massive, and 173 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 6: he was kind of out for blood because they told 174 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 6: him to be out for blood. So he's like following directions, 175 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 6: but he bam broke Nathan's nose and almost pushed him 176 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 6: off a cliff. 177 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 5: So are they like strapped in or anything. 178 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 2: I'd be like, I swear to god, you pushed me 179 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: off this cliff. 180 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 6: No, no, no, they were like on it was like 181 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 6: the you know, the top of the cliff. 182 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 5: But I think they came very close. That's that's that's 183 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 5: it was. So I'm glad that. 184 00:08:55,880 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 6: And then there was the submersion where they essentially sink 185 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 6: you in a boat and you have to recover this 186 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 6: box from under the water. 187 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 5: Even though I was not having as many. 188 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 6: Issues with the water as I thought I was going to, 189 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 6: I think I would have had a hard time with that. 190 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, water's hard. I feel like people underestimate for water sports. 191 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:26,839 Speaker 5: Yeah. 192 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's pivot a little bit to a lighter conversation. 193 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: David's bridal. They I always thought they just did wedding dresses, 194 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: but they do pro homecoming. You guys have children going 195 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: to prom? 196 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 6: Yet, well, we have a junior in a sophomore. At 197 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 6: their high school, it's only upperclassmen. So if Blakesley were 198 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 6: dating an upperclassman, then she would go. 199 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 5: But she's not. 200 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 6: Max is a junior. But he doesn't really have a girlfriend. 201 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 6: I don't know, like social events. I mean, he kind 202 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 6: of comes from this cloth. 203 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 5: Are not really his gig. You go to prom. 204 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 3: I went to senior prom. I did not go to 205 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 3: junior prom. 206 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 2: Okay, interested did you go to prom? 207 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 6: I did? 208 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, any chance I got. 209 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: And your son's a really he's a really good hockey player, right. 210 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 3: He's a pretty good hockey player. Yeah, that's his thing. 211 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 4: Love. 212 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 213 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 4: No, But it's funny you said that, because I I 214 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 4: think that's a sport that I need to start getting into, 215 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 4: because I feel like I can do that as I 216 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 4: get older with my kids. I'm trying to figure out 217 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 4: because I'll play hockey now, but every other time I skate, 218 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,439 Speaker 4: I feel like I get hurt. If not every time 219 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 4: you do, Like I just separated some ribs, Like it's 220 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 4: the It's like, so it's so fun, but I'm just 221 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 4: getting beat up. And golf, I feel like I'm less 222 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 4: likely to get and. 223 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 6: It's actually fun. We went to Top Golf, Like, my 224 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 6: dad took me to Top Golf. I was visiting him 225 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 6: in Saint Louis, and I was like, this is actually 226 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 6: kind of fun, and so I think we could do 227 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 6: it as a family. 228 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 229 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 5: I don't know. 230 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 2: Joe's gotten into golf in the last year or two. 231 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, well I started last year. I'm really bad. 232 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 3: Like it's it's like it's hard. 233 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: It's a journey for sure, but I'm starting. I'm finally 234 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: now starting to see some progress. 235 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 2: I got them golf lessons for Christmas. 236 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 5: Oh that's fun. 237 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 3: That's a key, I think. 238 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta, I feel like take lessons. I don't 239 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 2: know if you could just pick it up. 240 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: But it gets I mean, it also gets pricey. Like 241 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: you take lessons, you take five lessons and I'm like, okay, 242 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:31,959 Speaker 1: well now I'll take five more and then like then 243 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: I do course lessons and it's like okay, like I'm 244 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: spending a lot of money to suck. 245 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 3: At something and like suck less. 246 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess, yeah, yeah, okay. So last December you 247 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 1: to celebrate it twenty one years of marriage. 248 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:50,200 Speaker 2: Does it feel longer? 249 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 6: Shorter? 250 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 5: Huh? 251 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: Answer at the same time. 252 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 4: Both, Ryan, it went by fast. 253 00:11:59,520 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. 254 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 4: It does kind of feel if you think back, Well, 255 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 4: what's really weird is thinking back to how we like 256 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 4: the whole thing. 257 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 3: Like you guys know and. 258 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 4: You'll this would probably be your life at some point, 259 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 4: but that the bachelorette for us was so long ago, 260 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 4: Like it doesn't even feel to me like it was 261 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 4: a part of my actual life because their life is 262 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 4: so much different. 263 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: Than it was limp in time. 264 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, just one little like thing, but it it sparked 265 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 4: all of this, you know, like the wedding. 266 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 3: We got married in Palm Springs, which is a huge 267 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 3: golf community. I don't know if you if you play, 268 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 3: I do. 269 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: Actually I'm just getting started. 270 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 2: Going there for a wedding in two months too. 271 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 5: Amazing. 272 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 3: Well, hopefully the courses will be open. Yeah, year around. 273 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 5: I feel like it was. 274 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 6: It is really still a part of my life just 275 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 6: because I, you know, have made lots of connections and 276 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 6: I I am a social person and so I feel 277 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 6: like I I am still in the bachelor world more. 278 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 5: Than he is. 279 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 6: So to me, it's more like I don't forget and 280 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 6: people come up to us all the time saying, you know, 281 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 6: I watched with my grandma or my mom and or 282 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 6: it was our show, you know whatever. So that takes 283 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 6: me back. 284 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:29,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys, wedding it was televised, Oh yeah, it 285 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 2: was the first. It was the first televised. 286 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 5: On first reality show. 287 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 2: Did you get to pick your own like flowers, dress, food, everything? 288 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 6: So yes, thank god, because I wanted to be a 289 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 6: part of my wedding. The EP at the time was like, 290 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 6: you tell me your list of dream everything right, flowers, 291 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 6: wedding planner, food, I mean everything. She's like just to 292 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 6: create a list, and she asked about dresses. They had 293 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 6: a personal like a fashion show for me and my mom, 294 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 6: Like they had models like showing me the dresses, and 295 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 6: I ended up creating out of a couple different dress 296 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 6: Like I was like, I love this part of this 297 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 6: dress and I love this part. So they created custom 298 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 6: dresses to dresses for me that I still to this 299 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 6: day like, I feel so lucky that I got to 300 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 6: do that. 301 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 2: We were talking, well, we were talking to Kelsey Anderson 302 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 2: because she just posted in a bunch of David's bridal 303 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 2: dresses she's been trying on because she's wedding planning, and 304 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 2: we were asking her about that process and if she 305 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 2: was going to incorporate her mom's wedding dress in any way, 306 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 2: because that's kind of become like a trend of girls 307 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 2: refurbishing their moms. 308 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 5: And I didn't. 309 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 2: I really wish that I had, because honestly, I feel 310 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: like the trend kind of just started around our wedding. 311 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 2: Would you want your daughter to do that even if 312 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 2: it's like a welcome. 313 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 6: Party dress and she's seen it my reception dress, I 314 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 6: think that she I could see her using part of that, 315 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 6: and that would be if she wanted to cut it 316 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 6: up and use parts of it, Like, I would be 317 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 6: totally fine with that. 318 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 5: I've got pictures. It's all good. But yes, I have. 319 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 6: Preserved them, you know how you do afterwards, and they're 320 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 6: ready for if she wants them. 321 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure you both have gotten asked this question so 322 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: many times, so I hate to ask ask it, but 323 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to yeah, because I want to know the answer. 324 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: Would you be okay with one of your children going 325 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: on the bachelor or bachelorette? 326 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 6: We have been asked this question a lot, and my 327 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 6: answer is always the same. I would be a total 328 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 6: hypocrite if I said no, Yeah, you know, like I mean, yes, 329 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 6: the world has changed and the people are i'm sorry, 330 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 6: a little bit meaner and they feel like they have. 331 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 5: Instant access to people through social media and. 332 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 6: They can say whatever they want and there's no repercussions, 333 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 6: you know, and so that like would worry my my 334 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 6: mama heart a little bit. 335 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 5: And she and I say she, because there is no 336 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 5: way that Max would ever want to do a show 337 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 5: like this, But you know what. 338 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 2: I want to said that about you, right similar. 339 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 4: I get that, actually get that a lot, like how 340 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 4: did you and how did you end up on? 341 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah that show? 342 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? How I what is the answer? 343 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 5: Uh? 344 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 3: What it's I. 345 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 4: I was roommates with the kid in college and he 346 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 4: ended up he was dating a woman who knew the 347 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 4: casting producers for The Bachelor and they were. 348 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 3: Looking for people. 349 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 4: So she gave this guy all of the guys that 350 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 4: were living in this house us as names and they 351 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 4: called and I don't know you guys, have you ever 352 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 4: heard of the show Temptation Island? Yes, So that was 353 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 4: right around the same time, and so they called and 354 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 4: I was like, I don't think I'm the I don't 355 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 4: know I'm the guy, Like, I don't think I'm made for. 356 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 3: This type of stuff. 357 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 4: So I'm also was I also was really bad at 358 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 4: saying no, and they were very persistent. He still so 359 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 4: they just said, well, like just fill out the question here, 360 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 4: or just fly out and let us do an interview 361 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 4: and like just show up the first day, and so 362 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 4: it was. 363 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 3: One Yeah, that's how it was. So I took a 364 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 3: week off of work. 365 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 2: I feel like it was the same with you. That's 366 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 2: how they got you. We'll just jump on one phone call, 367 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 2: we'll fly you out. It's just to day. 368 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 1: Like I essentially turned them down, like because I was 369 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: too shy and felt too embarrassed to film a selfie 370 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: video of like why I should be on the bedroom 371 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: And I said no. I said, respectfully, thank you for 372 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 1: asking me, but I can't do this. Yeah, And they said, 373 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: well then we'll set up a skype. 374 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. They're very good at like watching me do it. 375 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 2: Get You're persistent, Yeah, we have similar we set you 376 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,679 Speaker 2: into it, right, They're like just a little bit and 377 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 2: then thank goodness, you know, yeah, thank goodness. 378 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 3: I showed up and. 379 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 4: There were twenty four other like super handsome guys, Like 380 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I'm out of here. I remember 381 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 4: Jamie blythe I'm like that guy's Kendall, like a real 382 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 4: life Kendle. 383 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 3: I am gone. And I ended up somehow. 384 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 6: He's lasting but obviously very humble, Yes, which is one 385 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 6: of the reasons. I know. 386 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: Do you ever like Trista You've I mean, both of 387 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 1: you made this work, right, but you were the first 388 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: and it's been twenty one years and you're still married 389 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 1: and we do see now like there's not too many 390 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 1: leads that it works. Advice. 391 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's the number one question. And sorry, I was 392 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 6: on my phone. Our daughter is having some drama, so 393 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 6: I don't wanted to make sure she's tucked in. 394 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: She and Dave. It's Bridle dot com. 395 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 5: She would love to be dresses are her thing anyway, So. 396 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 6: Number one question. And I think that it is kind 397 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 6: of cliche. It's what everyone says, like all the books, 398 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 6: all the podcasts, whatever about love and relationships. Is communication, trust, honesty, love, friendship? 399 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 5: Uh, what else? I mean? I've answered this a billion times, 400 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:41,199 Speaker 5: but I think there's lots of grace, grace, lots of grace. 401 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 6: I just feel like, you know, we're all human, and 402 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 6: if you have a bad day, then it's those little forgivenesses. 403 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 6: Like throughout your relationship, it's having fun together, it's enjoying 404 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 6: life together. 405 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:56,719 Speaker 5: It's finding humor. 406 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:02,159 Speaker 6: I feel like laughter is so important. It's you know, 407 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 6: sharing values, being a good kisser. 408 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 4: You have to take a longer term perspective because the show, 409 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 4: like for us, I think it was seven weeks or 410 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 4: something like that, and there is. 411 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 3: No real reality where you should. 412 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 4: Be getting engaged in seven weeks, really, and so we 413 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 4: did because everything is so intense and then you your 414 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 4: real life comes back into play. And she was gone 415 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 4: and actually here in Los Angeles and I was in Colorado, 416 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 4: and she's going to Super Bowl parties and doing all 417 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 4: this really great fun stuff. And I'm going to like 418 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 4: passed out drunk people in the bar, you know, like 419 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 4: I'm doing my job and she's doing hers, and she's 420 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 4: you know, you're You're offered all these different temptations and 421 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 4: all these different sorts of things, and you have to 422 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 4: be able to get You have to be able to 423 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 4: see past that and not just take the easy road, 424 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:56,719 Speaker 4: which I think a lot of people get sort of 425 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,400 Speaker 4: distracted and do that, and then it's hard to come 426 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 4: back from that. 427 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 3: So and and like this was you guys, it's twenty 428 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:04,239 Speaker 3: one years ago. 429 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 4: There's far less to be distracted by than what people 430 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,399 Speaker 4: are dealing with today. So I think I don't blame 431 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 4: anyone who doesn't make it work, because this doesn't work 432 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 4: so hard. We just kind of got lucky, and I 433 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 4: think honestly, luck has something to do with it. 434 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,679 Speaker 2: We're literally just talking about what and where we were, 435 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 2: like I think people need to give luck more credit, 436 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 2: like sometimes your person just wasn't on your season totally. 437 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: Did you do bachelor bachelorette parties? 438 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 6: Oh? 439 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 5: He did? 440 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, where'd you go? We can't talk about that. 441 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 3: Probably our biggest fight in our life. 442 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 5: I thought you met viewing parties of the show. 443 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 1: No brothers, bachelor parties also, like so like we can 444 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 1: talk about golf or bachelor parties. 445 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:51,959 Speaker 4: That's a whole that's a whole series of podcasts, a series. 446 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 7: So it was filmed yeah, yeah, oh, and he always 447 00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 7: said they should do more, like like a series that 448 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 7: includes like following the couples that are getting married or 449 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 7: doing like a big. 450 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 2: Everyone getting married this year, We're sending you on a 451 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 2: boucherette trip. Like I think there's so much that would 452 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 2: be an opportunity. 453 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,719 Speaker 6: There because that they did that for us. It was 454 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 6: for four parts, a four part series. 455 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 3: I think. 456 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 6: And it was like meeting the wedding planner doing all that, 457 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 6: like very like the bridesmaids get their dresses, like all 458 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 6: of the things. We like went to New York and 459 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 6: we asked all of our party, what do you call 460 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 6: wedding party? 461 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 5: Like it was all a. 462 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: Thing so this was like, yeah, this was like a 463 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 1: this was like a minise, like. 464 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 6: It was for sure they should do that though. That 465 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 6: would be really fun. I think a lot of people 466 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 6: love to watch all of the up and coming Yeah, 467 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 6: you know. 468 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 2: Well, and I know for us, like we like it's 469 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 2: so different now, like they're not doing the wedding specials 470 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 2: the way they used to and obviously like the Golden One, 471 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 2: which was amazing, But yeah, I think it's so fun 472 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 2: following along with the been coming couples that are tying them. 473 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 6: Numa, especially if you're like, I'm such a girly girl, 474 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 6: and I feel like a lot of our demographic like 475 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 6: for the show are like probably are similar, and they 476 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 6: probably they want to see it. It's all for me 477 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 6: why I fell in love with the show after I 478 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 6: was on it is just I love love, you know, 479 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,640 Speaker 6: I love watching people fall in love, and I love 480 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 6: everything that's revolved around it. So that would be a 481 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 6: great That would be a great series. But yeah, maybe 482 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 6: don't include the Bachelor and bachelorette parties. 483 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,479 Speaker 4: Okay, we could, we could advise them on what to include. 484 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 4: It ended up being a great time, Like we were 485 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 4: at the same place where we were in Saint something. 486 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 2: Were we to make Thomas, Saint Vincent, Saint Mark's something 487 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 2: like that. 488 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: I want to say one of the saints. 489 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, one of the things. 490 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 4: And we were separate for a while and that's where 491 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 4: things weren't great. 492 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 3: We got back together and everything was really fun. 493 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: Okay, this was very interesting. Thank you guys both so 494 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,440 Speaker 1: much for coming on the podcast and taking the time. 495 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 1: Thank you to David's Bridal sponsoring this podcast. And let's 496 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: go to the iHeart Music Awards. 497 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 2: Thank you both so much for being on Tune into 498 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 2: Grant's finale on Monday and we will have some exclusive 499 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:10,959 Speaker 2: interviews coming your way. Thanks for listening. 500 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 5: Bye,