Speaker 1: Second date of to date. In the dating world, most
Speaker 1: men put in minimal effort for their dates. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: texts at two am, Netflix and chill, maybe Taco Bell delivered, delivered. Maybe.
Speaker 1: The other men, though, they'll go the extra mile, take
Speaker 1: her to Chili's, get some Southwestern egg rolls, offered to
Speaker 1: split the bill like a gentleman. But one guy named
Speaker 1: Max went the extra seventeen miles when he planned his
Speaker 1: first date. That's very specific. Well, I'm just saying he
Speaker 1: didn't go the extra mile. He went way past that mile,
Speaker 1: and I can't wait to hear exactly what he did. Max.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hey guys, thanks for having me on,
Speaker 1: but I cannot wait to hear what you took her.
Speaker 1: Now you feel a lot pressure. That was a lot
Speaker 1: of hype. Jeffrey gave you no no pressure. I mean
Speaker 1: I delivered, you know, right style. He never lets a
Speaker 1: lady down. Tell us about the girl that you went
Speaker 1: out with. What's her name? Her name is Beth Okay
Speaker 1: and we met online. Actually, she's super cute, and I
Speaker 1: tell you the whole sort of backstory about our date.
Speaker 1: We were texting for a while a couple of weeks. Actually,
Speaker 1: just because, but it didn't work with our schedules. Okay,
Speaker 1: I mean, so, were you planning something big and elaborate
Speaker 1: the entire time and the schedule wasn't working out? Or well,
Speaker 1: it's funny you ask. Because we were talking and I
Speaker 1: found out she had never been to prom oh I know, right.
Speaker 1: I think she said her date ditched or something, and sure, okay,
Speaker 1: so I came up with this idea. I surprised her
Speaker 1: recreating prom night for her. That you're going to blow
Speaker 1: that on a first date? I mean, god, I mean
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a then you keep in your
Speaker 1: back pocket for when you're dating six months and then
Speaker 1: you do it. Not him, him, I guess, I know.
Speaker 1: Max brings it all. Date one, we were really connecting
Speaker 1: on the phone. So how did you do this? Would
Speaker 1: you guys do drink in the car before? No? No? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no okay okay, okay. So I just pulled her to
Speaker 1: dress up. Okay, So that's literally all I told her,
Speaker 1: But she didn't know that the prom was coming. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell anything else. Okay, but here's what I do.
Speaker 1: I go to her apartment and I texted her to
Speaker 1: look outside her window and it was sort of dusk,
Speaker 1: like it was getting dark, and I'd set up these
Speaker 1: candles outside and these rose petals. Actually took me a
Speaker 1: long time, but the rose petals were on the sidewalk
Speaker 1: and they spelled out from question mark. Oh you even
Speaker 1: did a promposal. Yeah, you guys get it. You're so
Speaker 1: proud as you should be, sir, guess. But it's probably
Speaker 1: awkward with all the adults walking by that are like,
Speaker 1: why is this old gentleman asking some girl to prom
Speaker 1: This is weird. Should call athy? So you told her
Speaker 1: to look out the window. She looked out, and what happened?
Speaker 1: She looked out and she looked really excited, kind of shocked,
Speaker 1: but she came down. Yeah good. I gave her her corsage,
Speaker 1: even brought the corsage. So what's next? I called it
Speaker 1: uber and I had to uber take us to my
Speaker 1: work parking lot. Okay, okay, okay, it wasn't quit. It
Speaker 1: actually has really good acoustics, which is why we went there.
Speaker 1: Oh it's like a parking garage. Okay, I went to
Speaker 1: a poor high school. I'm gonna tell you, your parking
Speaker 1: garage is probably in better condition than my high school.
Speaker 1: Ye fancy fancy. Okay, so you went to your work
Speaker 1: parking garage and what happened there? Of course, I take
Speaker 1: out my boom box and started playing some old nineties
Speaker 1: songs for her, and we danced, and we took plenty
Speaker 1: photos together. You even took prom photos together. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: used my iPhone, you know, I downloaded the funny background
Speaker 1: that could be really cute or super awkward. I agree,
Speaker 1: there's a fine line here. How is Beth feeling during
Speaker 1: this whole experience? Could you get a read on that
Speaker 1: she seemed to like it? I mean, was she smiling?
Speaker 1: She seemed to like it? That's a very short reviews?
Speaker 1: What made you think that she seemed to like But
Speaker 1: I mean she didn't run away, and like she probably
Speaker 1: could have run away at various points. Don't feels are
Speaker 1: hard to run? I don't know. Concerned that you're judging
Speaker 1: your date's interest based on whether or not she ran away.
Speaker 1: Gave her three opportunities to run. Now she dialed nine one,
Speaker 1: but she didn't die the last one, so she must like,
Speaker 1: come on, you know what I mean? Is that what
Speaker 1: you mean? Or I know we're just giving you a
Speaker 1: hard time man, this we're honestly jealous because you've done
Speaker 1: way more on your first date than we've done on
Speaker 1: any of our dates compared to other second dates. This
Speaker 1: is a lot of effort. It's very creative and very romantic.
Speaker 1: All kidding aside, this is impressive. Dude, I told you
Speaker 1: guys that delivered. Yeah, I mean, thank you. But what
Speaker 1: you guys do after, like, you know you dance like
Speaker 1: once or twice, right, because you dance more than that,
Speaker 1: and it does start to get awkward. Right, Well, I
Speaker 1: didn't want a short change. I had fifteen songs on
Speaker 1: the playlist. Wait, you've stayed in the parking lot and
Speaker 1: dance for fifteen songs? Did you have someone yell at
Speaker 1: you for dirty dancing halfway through? You guys are joking,
Speaker 1: But fifteen songs is a long time max that I
Speaker 1: wanted to give it a full experience. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: real prom is awkward. So the recreation of problems at
Speaker 1: awkward too. So there is like fast songs and slow songs,
Speaker 1: and you guys were totally sober, just the two of
Speaker 1: you in a partner garage dancing basically. Yeah, okay, I
Speaker 1: bet it's more romantic in real life than what we're
Speaker 1: picturing in our heads. It felt like it. Yeah again
Speaker 1: romantic to the third song. Okay, it's always a lit
Speaker 1: down so this Yeah, so how did this night end?
Speaker 1: We drove to McDonalds and we got some food. Who
Speaker 1: was honestly, it was felf perfect, I guess until the
Speaker 1: end when I walked her through the door and she said, oh,
Speaker 1: that was such a special night. And then she sort
Speaker 1: of leaned in and like, I kiss me, but she
Speaker 1: kiss another cheek and then I haven't heard from her
Speaker 1: at all. Huh, Well, I mean that's I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just a lot of effort to not get a call back. Dude,
Speaker 1: you should at least get like a pity kiss on
Speaker 1: prom night, I think. So that's what I thought. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's nothing else. You went through all this effort,
Speaker 1: and that's what we're gonna try to get you. Right now,
Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna get you a pity kiss. Okay,
Speaker 1: I can get behind that, maybe even a pity second date.
Speaker 1: He was happy that she didn't run. Come on, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call back
Speaker 1: for you, and we'll try and get you a second date,
Speaker 1: up date, A right man? All right? All right, hold
Speaker 1: on if you're just too in for the second date. Update.
Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Max recreated prom night for his
Speaker 1: date Beth after he found out that she never went
Speaker 1: to hers back in high school. He did a big promposal.
Speaker 1: They danced to old songs in the parking garage at
Speaker 1: his work, and they even took prom photos on his
Speaker 1: iPhone and he didn't get a kiss at the end
Speaker 1: of the night. After all that, I said, he should
Speaker 1: have at least gotten a pity kiss for all that
Speaker 1: effort that he went through for her. So I'm telling
Speaker 1: you right now, Max, if we don't get you this
Speaker 1: date and we can't deliver a pity kiss from Beth,
Speaker 1: then our own social media coordinator Alexis has agreed to
Speaker 1: step up and we'll kiss you on the air to
Speaker 1: end this segment. I'm guaranteeing it. If you can go
Speaker 1: all out for a date, then we can go all
Speaker 1: out for a second ja. Yeah. I mean, if anyone's
Speaker 1: the expert on pity kisses, it's definitely you, Jeffrey. So
Speaker 1: take that. Okay, Well, someone on this show was going
Speaker 1: to pity kiss you, Max, whether you want it or not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just hope you guys give me
Speaker 1: a date. Did you pay for the McDonald's, because then
Speaker 1: I'll totally kiss you. Bro. We split the McDonald's mind.
Speaker 1: You didn't pay for McDonald They already paid for everything else.
Speaker 1: What do you want from its? Pay for the mixtape
Speaker 1: and the parking girl and the uber ride there and
Speaker 1: the candle and the flowers. I'm sorry, I didn't know
Speaker 1: your parents hadn't give you an allowance yet, and that's
Speaker 1: why he couldn't cover McDonald's. Okay, Brooks Hayton on you
Speaker 1: right now, Max, But you know what, I support you, okay, piece,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna rent some hotel room after the second
Speaker 1: date updating case it goes really well, just for you
Speaker 1: and me. What prom? Did you have? The best prom? Dude?
Speaker 1: Oars ended in a forest at a cager, So that's
Speaker 1: why you want to do problem with me? Max? Did
Speaker 1: anybody just go home at the end of the only
Speaker 1: one that just was in my own bed? Yeah? All right,
Speaker 1: we're all getting sidetracked reminiscing about our proms. Let's focus
Speaker 1: on the second date update and Max we're going to
Speaker 1: try and call it right now. You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Beth? Yes, it
Speaker 1: is calling. My name's Jeffrey, work on the radio show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh um, are you
Speaker 1: familiar with us? I'm familiar with you. I just I
Speaker 1: don't know why you're calling. Okay, Well, if you're familiar,
Speaker 1: then you might be familiar with a segment that we
Speaker 1: do call the second date Update. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go out with someone right and afterwards, if they're not
Speaker 1: calling you back, you can email us for help. Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've heard of it. So recently you went out with
Speaker 1: a guy and you were not calling him back afterwards,
Speaker 1: so he's asked us to get in touch with you. Okay,
Speaker 1: what's his name? His name is Max. Max. It's going
Speaker 1: to be a hard to forget date, I would imagine
Speaker 1: unless you've gone to a bunch of recreated proms over
Speaker 1: the last week or so. No, I just that one.
Speaker 1: That's goody. So are you purposely not getting back to him,
Speaker 1: or maybe you get busy? What did he tell you
Speaker 1: about our date? I mean he basically ran us through
Speaker 1: the whole evening where he did a promposal for you.
Speaker 1: He took you to his parking garage at his work
Speaker 1: to recreate a dance. You guys went to McDonald's afterwards,
Speaker 1: and he made it sound like it was a pretty
Speaker 1: fun night. Okay, So dancing in a parking garage and
Speaker 1: going to McDonald sounds fun to you. Okay, not to
Speaker 1: me personally, but I could understand why it nice gesture
Speaker 1: sounds to me? Did it? Okay? I will say when
Speaker 1: Max told us a story, he said that you guys
Speaker 1: danced for like fifteen songs, which to me was overkill. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there were a lot of songs, and he was excited
Speaker 1: about each one of them, like you're remember this one
Speaker 1: and giving me the history of each. Oh, I mean
Speaker 1: it is sweet, like he's just trying to recreate promp
Speaker 1: for you because he said you missed your high school prom. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right. I mean the whole thing was. It was
Speaker 1: really really sweet. It was just a little maybe like
Speaker 1: childish for me. Does that make them? Well, high school
Speaker 1: we were kind of a kid like meaning like I
Speaker 1: mean like we're growing a dope now, Like it's okay,
Speaker 1: I missed my prom, Like I'm not sitting here crying
Speaker 1: in a corner all these years later, But you said
Speaker 1: yes to the promposal. So well, she's saying, when the
Speaker 1: proposal was outside her door and he was standing out
Speaker 1: of touch with the candles, she should have just been like,
Speaker 1: uh no, let's just do like I mean, yeah, the
Speaker 1: gesture was really cute. I just you know, doing the
Speaker 1: like promposal thing, like it's kind of the cutest part
Speaker 1: of it, right, yeah, kind of everything else, Like, you know,
Speaker 1: it was just the two of us in this like
Speaker 1: perking garage, you know, and I've just met this guy
Speaker 1: for the first time in real life, so it was
Speaker 1: a little awkward. Yeah, I could see that. I mean,
Speaker 1: I definitely understand what you're saying that that's a weird
Speaker 1: experience to go through. But you have to remember he's
Speaker 1: just trying to create a moment for you, and like
Speaker 1: maybe he didn't do it the best way, but going forward,
Speaker 1: you don't have to do that again. You could just
Speaker 1: do a normal date. Well that was kind of a
Speaker 1: deal breaker for me. Um wait, what was a deal breaker?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, just doing the long prom night thing was
Speaker 1: a deal breaker. No, it was. It was actually a
Speaker 1: conversation that we had had at McDonald that just kind
Speaker 1: of turned me off. It wasn't him making you pay
Speaker 1: for your own something else. No, no, no, we can
Speaker 1: book the bill. It's fine. So when he was talking
Speaker 1: to McDonald that he was talking a lot about plans
Speaker 1: for our future dates, which there's something wrong with thinking
Speaker 1: about future dates, but he thought, because I love the
Speaker 1: prom dates so much that he wanted to like recreate
Speaker 1: all of these other events in my life, like my
Speaker 1: sixteen and like my twenty one run and like basically
Speaker 1: all the big moments that people have. I mean, I
Speaker 1: get that because it I mean, to me, it would
Speaker 1: feel like he's trying to insert himself in my past memories.
Speaker 1: Like it's okay that I had a life before I
Speaker 1: met you, man, we could still date without you. Forcing. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I also think it's kind of weird that he keeps
Speaker 1: trying to recreate her in her teenage years. Yeah. Run.
Speaker 1: He also wants are wasted in a back alley somewhere
Speaker 1: being on a garbage can. Yeah. I mean it was
Speaker 1: just a little too much for me, And like in
Speaker 1: the moment, it was hard for me to say anything
Speaker 1: because I was so overwhelmed and kind of taken aback, Like, wait,
Speaker 1: you want to do what Now that you're out of
Speaker 1: that moment, I'm going to put you into a different
Speaker 1: moment where I tell you that Max is on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and he wants to talk to you
Speaker 1: right now. Oh he's on the other line. Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: been saying the whole time. MAXI there, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I didn't know who you were listening. Um.
Speaker 1: Is it cool prom night? Right? I mean, yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: It was really sweet of you to do that. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. It's just that you
Speaker 1: you You did say that you've never been a problem
Speaker 1: that you wished you you had, so I was basically
Speaker 1: making your wish come true. Yeah, it's kind of less
Speaker 1: about the prom aspect and more about like wanting to
Speaker 1: recreate all of these other moments in my life for
Speaker 1: our dates instead of just like going out and getting
Speaker 1: to know each other. Right. Yeah. I just thought that
Speaker 1: those were really important to you, and I wanted to
Speaker 1: maybe experience those moments with you. I thought that would
Speaker 1: be really nice. But is it just that I don't know,
Speaker 1: You're not like attracted to me. To me, it was
Speaker 1: just a little too much. It was a little overkill, especially, like,
Speaker 1: like I said, this prom was super nice, but like
Speaker 1: trying to recreate my sweet sixteen that I already had
Speaker 1: is a little bit different than recreating a prom that
Speaker 1: I never had. Yeah, but I wasn't at your sweet sixteen.
Speaker 1: I mean I would have liked to have been there. Oh, man,
Speaker 1: are you not hearing anything she's saying? Like, I know, man,
Speaker 1: that you may have hurt feelings right now, but I
Speaker 1: feel like it's good with you to be very direct.
Speaker 1: She doesn't want to do that. Yeah, fine, well just
Speaker 1: to the twenty one one and we don't have to
Speaker 1: do it earlier that. I don't think you're understanding what
Speaker 1: she's saying. She's done all that already, She's finished with
Speaker 1: that portion of her life. She'd like to move into
Speaker 1: adulthood and do all the things that adults like to
Speaker 1: do that are fun and until would be an upgrade
Speaker 1: for once you said you liked the driver's license idea
Speaker 1: when you got your driver's license and we were going
Speaker 1: to do that together. What what do you get a
Speaker 1: teacher how to parallel? Again, these are things we don't
Speaker 1: need to relive in life. Nobody wants to relive the
Speaker 1: stress of your driver's license or I never said I
Speaker 1: wanted to do a driver's license party. I just said
Speaker 1: I had never had one, and I don't even know
Speaker 1: if those are like a thing like, well, excuse me
Speaker 1: for being mister, think of others. No, Max, you're being mister.
Speaker 1: Don't listen to anyone who didn't like being celebrated. Okay,
Speaker 1: why don't you have one of those parties for yourself? Then? Yeah,
Speaker 1: recreate taking your first steps and she can be there
Speaker 1: for I will be up for that if that's what
Speaker 1: you all new for the next day. Okay, Well, in
Speaker 1: that case, Beth, we would like to send you out
Speaker 1: one more time with Max. You can you can recreate.
Speaker 1: You can hold his finger why he barely keeps his
Speaker 1: balance and takes his first steps again, and we'll pay
Speaker 1: for that somehow. What are you saying? I don't want
Speaker 1: to keep looking back, So I think that for me
Speaker 1: to move forward from this is not going on a
Speaker 1: second date. Yes, a very good way to say that.
Speaker 1: We could do ever entirement party. Do you want to
Speaker 1: do it? That sounds like fun. Hey you're over the hill. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get a discount on your food. You'll be in
Speaker 1: bed by four o'clock. What do you say? I like you.
Speaker 1: There's some food that easy and it's easy to bite
Speaker 1: through one. Today we all go in gonalds Broke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.