WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Promtastrophe

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of to date. In the dating world, most

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<v Speaker 1>men put in minimal effort for their dates. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>texts at two am, Netflix and chill, maybe Taco Bell delivered, delivered. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>The other men, though, they'll go the extra mile, take

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<v Speaker 1>her to Chili's, get some Southwestern egg rolls, offered to

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<v Speaker 1>split the bill like a gentleman. But one guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Max went the extra seventeen miles when he planned his

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<v Speaker 1>first date. That's very specific. Well, I'm just saying he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go the extra mile. He went way past that mile,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't wait to hear exactly what he did. Max.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. Hey guys, thanks for having me on,

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<v Speaker 1>but I cannot wait to hear what you took her.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you feel a lot pressure. That was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hype. Jeffrey gave you no no pressure. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I delivered, you know, right style. He never lets a

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<v Speaker 1>lady down. Tell us about the girl that you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with. What's her name? Her name is Beth Okay

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<v Speaker 1>and we met online. Actually, she's super cute, and I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you the whole sort of backstory about our date.

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<v Speaker 1>We were texting for a while a couple of weeks. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>just because, but it didn't work with our schedules. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so, were you planning something big and elaborate

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<v Speaker 1>the entire time and the schedule wasn't working out? Or well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's funny you ask. Because we were talking and I

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<v Speaker 1>found out she had never been to prom oh I know, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she said her date ditched or something, and sure, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I came up with this idea. I surprised her

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<v Speaker 1>recreating prom night for her. That you're going to blow

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<v Speaker 1>that on a first date? I mean, god, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's a then you keep in your

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<v Speaker 1>back pocket for when you're dating six months and then

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<v Speaker 1>you do it. Not him, him, I guess, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Max brings it all. Date one, we were really connecting

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. So how did you do this? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do drink in the car before? No? No? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no okay okay, okay. So I just pulled her to

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<v Speaker 1>dress up. Okay, So that's literally all I told her,

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<v Speaker 1>But she didn't know that the prom was coming. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell anything else. Okay, but here's what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I go to her apartment and I texted her to

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<v Speaker 1>look outside her window and it was sort of dusk,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was getting dark, and I'd set up these

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<v Speaker 1>candles outside and these rose petals. Actually took me a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, but the rose petals were on the sidewalk

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<v Speaker 1>and they spelled out from question mark. Oh you even

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<v Speaker 1>did a promposal. Yeah, you guys get it. You're so

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<v Speaker 1>proud as you should be, sir, guess. But it's probably

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<v Speaker 1>awkward with all the adults walking by that are like,

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<v Speaker 1>why is this old gentleman asking some girl to prom

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<v Speaker 1>This is weird. Should call athy? So you told her

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<v Speaker 1>to look out the window. She looked out, and what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>She looked out and she looked really excited, kind of shocked,

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<v Speaker 1>but she came down. Yeah good. I gave her her corsage,

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<v Speaker 1>even brought the corsage. So what's next? I called it

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<v Speaker 1>uber and I had to uber take us to my

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<v Speaker 1>work parking lot. Okay, okay, okay, it wasn't quit. It

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<v Speaker 1>actually has really good acoustics, which is why we went there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's like a parking garage. Okay, I went to

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<v Speaker 1>a poor high school. I'm gonna tell you, your parking

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<v Speaker 1>garage is probably in better condition than my high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye fancy fancy. Okay, so you went to your work

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<v Speaker 1>parking garage and what happened there? Of course, I take

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<v Speaker 1>out my boom box and started playing some old nineties

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<v Speaker 1>songs for her, and we danced, and we took plenty

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<v Speaker 1>photos together. You even took prom photos together. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>used my iPhone, you know, I downloaded the funny background

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<v Speaker 1>that could be really cute or super awkward. I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a fine line here. How is Beth feeling during

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<v Speaker 1>this whole experience? Could you get a read on that

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed to like it? I mean, was she smiling?

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<v Speaker 1>She seemed to like it? That's a very short reviews?

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<v Speaker 1>What made you think that she seemed to like But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she didn't run away, and like she probably

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<v Speaker 1>could have run away at various points. Don't feels are

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<v Speaker 1>hard to run? I don't know. Concerned that you're judging

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<v Speaker 1>your date's interest based on whether or not she ran away.

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<v Speaker 1>Gave her three opportunities to run. Now she dialed nine one,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't die the last one, so she must like,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, you know what I mean? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you mean? Or I know we're just giving you a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time man, this we're honestly jealous because you've done

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<v Speaker 1>way more on your first date than we've done on

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<v Speaker 1>any of our dates compared to other second dates. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a lot of effort. It's very creative and very romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>All kidding aside, this is impressive. Dude, I told you

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<v Speaker 1>guys that delivered. Yeah, I mean, thank you. But what

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do after, like, you know you dance like

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<v Speaker 1>once or twice, right, because you dance more than that,

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<v Speaker 1>and it does start to get awkward. Right, Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want a short change. I had fifteen songs on

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<v Speaker 1>the playlist. Wait, you've stayed in the parking lot and

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<v Speaker 1>dance for fifteen songs? Did you have someone yell at

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<v Speaker 1>you for dirty dancing halfway through? You guys are joking,

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<v Speaker 1>But fifteen songs is a long time max that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to give it a full experience. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>real prom is awkward. So the recreation of problems at

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<v Speaker 1>awkward too. So there is like fast songs and slow songs,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys were totally sober, just the two of

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<v Speaker 1>you in a partner garage dancing basically. Yeah, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>bet it's more romantic in real life than what we're

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<v Speaker 1>picturing in our heads. It felt like it. Yeah again

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<v Speaker 1>romantic to the third song. Okay, it's always a lit

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<v Speaker 1>down so this Yeah, so how did this night end?

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<v Speaker 1>We drove to McDonalds and we got some food. Who

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<v Speaker 1>was honestly, it was felf perfect, I guess until the

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<v Speaker 1>end when I walked her through the door and she said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that was such a special night. And then she sort

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<v Speaker 1>of leaned in and like, I kiss me, but she

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<v Speaker 1>kiss another cheek and then I haven't heard from her

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Huh, Well, I mean that's I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a lot of effort to not get a call back. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you should at least get like a pity kiss on

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<v Speaker 1>prom night, I think. So that's what I thought. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's nothing else. You went through all this effort,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what we're gonna try to get you. Right now,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna we're gonna get you a pity kiss. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can get behind that, maybe even a pity second date.

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<v Speaker 1>He was happy that she didn't run. Come on, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call back

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and we'll try and get you a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>up date, A right man? All right? All right, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on if you're just too in for the second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners, Max recreated prom night for his

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<v Speaker 1>date Beth after he found out that she never went

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<v Speaker 1>to hers back in high school. He did a big promposal.

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<v Speaker 1>They danced to old songs in the parking garage at

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<v Speaker 1>his work, and they even took prom photos on his

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<v Speaker 1>iPhone and he didn't get a kiss at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night. After all that, I said, he should

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<v Speaker 1>have at least gotten a pity kiss for all that

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<v Speaker 1>effort that he went through for her. So I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you right now, Max, if we don't get you this

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<v Speaker 1>date and we can't deliver a pity kiss from Beth,

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<v Speaker 1>then our own social media coordinator Alexis has agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>step up and we'll kiss you on the air to

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<v Speaker 1>end this segment. I'm guaranteeing it. If you can go

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<v Speaker 1>all out for a date, then we can go all

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<v Speaker 1>out for a second ja. Yeah. I mean, if anyone's

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<v Speaker 1>the expert on pity kisses, it's definitely you, Jeffrey. So

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<v Speaker 1>take that. Okay, Well, someone on this show was going

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<v Speaker 1>to pity kiss you, Max, whether you want it or not. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just hope you guys give me

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Did you pay for the McDonald's, because then

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<v Speaker 1>I'll totally kiss you. Bro. We split the McDonald's mind.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't pay for McDonald They already paid for everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want from its? Pay for the mixtape

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<v Speaker 1>and the parking girl and the uber ride there and

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<v Speaker 1>the candle and the flowers. I'm sorry, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>your parents hadn't give you an allowance yet, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why he couldn't cover McDonald's. Okay, Brooks Hayton on you

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Max, But you know what, I support you, okay, piece,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna rent some hotel room after the second

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<v Speaker 1>date updating case it goes really well, just for you

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<v Speaker 1>and me. What prom? Did you have? The best prom? Dude?

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<v Speaker 1>Oars ended in a forest at a cager, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>why you want to do problem with me? Max? Did

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<v Speaker 1>anybody just go home at the end of the only

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<v Speaker 1>one that just was in my own bed? Yeah? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're all getting sidetracked reminiscing about our proms. Let's focus

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<v Speaker 1>on the second date update and Max we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>try and call it right now. You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Beth? Yes, it

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<v Speaker 1>is calling. My name's Jeffrey, work on the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh um, are you

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<v Speaker 1>familiar with us? I'm familiar with you. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why you're calling. Okay, Well, if you're familiar,

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<v Speaker 1>then you might be familiar with a segment that we

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<v Speaker 1>do call the second date Update. That's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out with someone right and afterwards, if they're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, you can email us for help. Oh okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard of it. So recently you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy and you were not calling him back afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's asked us to get in touch with you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's his name? His name is Max. Max. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a hard to forget date, I would imagine

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<v Speaker 1>unless you've gone to a bunch of recreated proms over

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<v Speaker 1>the last week or so. No, I just that one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's goody. So are you purposely not getting back to him,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe you get busy? What did he tell you

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<v Speaker 1>about our date? I mean he basically ran us through

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<v Speaker 1>the whole evening where he did a promposal for you.

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<v Speaker 1>He took you to his parking garage at his work

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<v Speaker 1>to recreate a dance. You guys went to McDonald's afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>and he made it sound like it was a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>fun night. Okay, So dancing in a parking garage and

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<v Speaker 1>going to McDonald sounds fun to you. Okay, not to

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<v Speaker 1>me personally, but I could understand why it nice gesture

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<v Speaker 1>sounds to me? Did it? Okay? I will say when

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<v Speaker 1>Max told us a story, he said that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>danced for like fifteen songs, which to me was overkill. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there were a lot of songs, and he was excited

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<v Speaker 1>about each one of them, like you're remember this one

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<v Speaker 1>and giving me the history of each. Oh, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it is sweet, like he's just trying to recreate promp

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<v Speaker 1>for you because he said you missed your high school prom. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. I mean the whole thing was. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really really sweet. It was just a little maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>childish for me. Does that make them? Well, high school

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<v Speaker 1>we were kind of a kid like meaning like I

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<v Speaker 1>mean like we're growing a dope now, Like it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I missed my prom, Like I'm not sitting here crying

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<v Speaker 1>in a corner all these years later, But you said

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<v Speaker 1>yes to the promposal. So well, she's saying, when the

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<v Speaker 1>proposal was outside her door and he was standing out

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<v Speaker 1>of touch with the candles, she should have just been like,

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<v Speaker 1>uh no, let's just do like I mean, yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>gesture was really cute. I just you know, doing the

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<v Speaker 1>like promposal thing, like it's kind of the cutest part

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<v Speaker 1>of it, right, yeah, kind of everything else, Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just the two of us in this like

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<v Speaker 1>perking garage, you know, and I've just met this guy

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time in real life, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>a little awkward. Yeah, I could see that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely understand what you're saying that that's a weird

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<v Speaker 1>experience to go through. But you have to remember he's

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to create a moment for you, and like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he didn't do it the best way, but going forward,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to do that again. You could just

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<v Speaker 1>do a normal date. Well that was kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>deal breaker for me. Um wait, what was a deal breaker?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, just doing the long prom night thing was

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<v Speaker 1>a deal breaker. No, it was. It was actually a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that we had had at McDonald that just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of turned me off. It wasn't him making you pay

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<v Speaker 1>for your own something else. No, no, no, we can

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<v Speaker 1>book the bill. It's fine. So when he was talking

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<v Speaker 1>to McDonald that he was talking a lot about plans

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<v Speaker 1>for our future dates, which there's something wrong with thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about future dates, but he thought, because I love the

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<v Speaker 1>prom dates so much that he wanted to like recreate

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<v Speaker 1>all of these other events in my life, like my

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen and like my twenty one run and like basically

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<v Speaker 1>all the big moments that people have. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>get that because it I mean, to me, it would

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<v Speaker 1>feel like he's trying to insert himself in my past memories.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's okay that I had a life before I

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<v Speaker 1>met you, man, we could still date without you. Forcing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I also think it's kind of weird that he keeps

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<v Speaker 1>trying to recreate her in her teenage years. Yeah. Run.

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<v Speaker 1>He also wants are wasted in a back alley somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>being on a garbage can. Yeah. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a little too much for me, And like in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, it was hard for me to say anything

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<v Speaker 1>because I was so overwhelmed and kind of taken aback, Like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do what Now that you're out of

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<v Speaker 1>that moment, I'm going to put you into a different

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<v Speaker 1>moment where I tell you that Max is on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and he wants to talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Oh he's on the other line. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>been saying the whole time. MAXI there, Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I didn't know who you were listening. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it cool prom night? Right? I mean, yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really sweet of you to do that. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say. It's just that you

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<v Speaker 1>you You did say that you've never been a problem

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<v Speaker 1>that you wished you you had, so I was basically

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<v Speaker 1>making your wish come true. Yeah, it's kind of less

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<v Speaker 1>about the prom aspect and more about like wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>recreate all of these other moments in my life for

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<v Speaker 1>our dates instead of just like going out and getting

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<v Speaker 1>to know each other. Right. Yeah. I just thought that

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<v Speaker 1>those were really important to you, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>maybe experience those moments with you. I thought that would

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<v Speaker 1>be really nice. But is it just that I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>You're not like attracted to me. To me, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a little too much. It was a little overkill, especially, like,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, this prom was super nice, but like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to recreate my sweet sixteen that I already had

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<v Speaker 1>is a little bit different than recreating a prom that

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<v Speaker 1>I never had. Yeah, but I wasn't at your sweet sixteen.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I would have liked to have been there. Oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>are you not hearing anything she's saying? Like, I know, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that you may have hurt feelings right now, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's good with you to be very direct.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't want to do that. Yeah, fine, well just

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<v Speaker 1>to the twenty one one and we don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>do it earlier that. I don't think you're understanding what

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<v Speaker 1>she's saying. She's done all that already, She's finished with

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<v Speaker 1>that portion of her life. She'd like to move into

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<v Speaker 1>adulthood and do all the things that adults like to

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<v Speaker 1>do that are fun and until would be an upgrade

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<v Speaker 1>for once you said you liked the driver's license idea

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<v Speaker 1>when you got your driver's license and we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to do that together. What what do you get a

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<v Speaker 1>teacher how to parallel? Again, these are things we don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to relive in life. Nobody wants to relive the

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<v Speaker 1>stress of your driver's license or I never said I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do a driver's license party. I just said

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<v Speaker 1>I had never had one, and I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if those are like a thing like, well, excuse me

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<v Speaker 1>for being mister, think of others. No, Max, you're being mister.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't listen to anyone who didn't like being celebrated. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you have one of those parties for yourself? Then? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>recreate taking your first steps and she can be there

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<v Speaker 1>for I will be up for that if that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you all new for the next day. Okay, Well, in

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<v Speaker 1>that case, Beth, we would like to send you out

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<v Speaker 1>one more time with Max. You can you can recreate.

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<v Speaker 1>You can hold his finger why he barely keeps his

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<v Speaker 1>balance and takes his first steps again, and we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for that somehow. What are you saying? I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to keep looking back, So I think that for me

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<v Speaker 1>to move forward from this is not going on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Yes, a very good way to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>We could do ever entirement party. Do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do it? That sounds like fun. Hey you're over the hill. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you get a discount on your food. You'll be in

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<v Speaker 1>bed by four o'clock. What do you say? I like you.

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<v Speaker 1>There's some food that easy and it's easy to bite

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<v Speaker 1>through one. Today we all go in gonalds Broke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.