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Speaker 1: Second date of to date. In the dating world, most

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Speaker 1: men put in minimal effort for their dates. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: texts at two am, Netflix and chill, maybe Taco Bell delivered, delivered. Maybe.

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Speaker 1: The other men, though, they'll go the extra mile, take

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Speaker 1: her to Chili's, get some Southwestern egg rolls, offered to

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Speaker 1: split the bill like a gentleman. But one guy named

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Speaker 1: Max went the extra seventeen miles when he planned his

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Speaker 1: first date. That's very specific. Well, I'm just saying he

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Speaker 1: didn't go the extra mile. He went way past that mile,

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Speaker 1: and I can't wait to hear exactly what he did. Max.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hey guys, thanks for having me on,

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Speaker 1: but I cannot wait to hear what you took her.

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Speaker 1: Now you feel a lot pressure. That was a lot

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Speaker 1: of hype. Jeffrey gave you no no pressure. I mean

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Speaker 1: I delivered, you know, right style. He never lets a

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Speaker 1: lady down. Tell us about the girl that you went

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Speaker 1: out with. What's her name? Her name is Beth Okay

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Speaker 1: and we met online. Actually, she's super cute, and I

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Speaker 1: tell you the whole sort of backstory about our date.

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Speaker 1: We were texting for a while a couple of weeks. Actually,

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Speaker 1: just because, but it didn't work with our schedules. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean, so, were you planning something big and elaborate

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Speaker 1: it's funny you ask. Because we were talking and I

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Speaker 1: found out she had never been to prom oh I know, right.

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Speaker 1: I think she said her date ditched or something, and sure, okay,

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Speaker 1: so I came up with this idea. I surprised her

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Speaker 1: recreating prom night for her. That you're going to blow

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Speaker 1: that on a first date? I mean, god, I mean

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's a then you keep in your

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Speaker 1: Max brings it all. Date one, we were really connecting

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Speaker 1: on the phone. So how did you do this? Would

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Speaker 1: you guys do drink in the car before? No? No? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no okay okay, okay. So I just pulled her to

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Speaker 1: dress up. Okay, So that's literally all I told her,

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Speaker 1: But she didn't know that the prom was coming. No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't tell anything else. Okay, but here's what I do.

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Speaker 1: and they spelled out from question mark. Oh you even

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Speaker 1: did a promposal. Yeah, you guys get it. You're so

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Speaker 1: This is weird. Should call athy? So you told her

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Speaker 1: She looked out and she looked really excited, kind of shocked,

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Speaker 1: uber and I had to uber take us to my

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Speaker 1: Oh it's like a parking garage. Okay, I went to

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Speaker 1: a poor high school. I'm gonna tell you, your parking

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Speaker 1: Ye fancy fancy. Okay, so you went to your work

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Speaker 1: parking garage and what happened there? Of course, I take

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Speaker 1: used my iPhone, you know, I downloaded the funny background

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Speaker 1: that could be really cute or super awkward. I agree,

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Speaker 1: She seemed to like it? That's a very short reviews?

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Speaker 1: What made you think that she seemed to like But

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Speaker 1: hard to run? I don't know. Concerned that you're judging

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Speaker 1: Gave her three opportunities to run. Now she dialed nine one,

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Speaker 1: you for dirty dancing halfway through? You guys are joking,

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Speaker 1: But fifteen songs is a long time max that I

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Speaker 1: We drove to McDonalds and we got some food. Who

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Speaker 1: was honestly, it was felf perfect, I guess until the

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Speaker 1: and that's what we're gonna try to get you. Right now,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna get you a pity kiss. Okay,

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Speaker 1: up date, A right man? All right? All right, hold

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Speaker 1: on if you're just too in for the second date. Update.

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Max recreated prom night for his

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Speaker 1: then our own social media coordinator Alexis has agreed to

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Speaker 1: end this segment. I'm guaranteeing it. If you can go

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Speaker 1: out for a second ja. Yeah. I mean, if anyone's

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just hope you guys give me

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Speaker 1: I'll totally kiss you. Bro. We split the McDonald's mind.

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Speaker 1: You didn't pay for McDonald They already paid for everything else.

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Speaker 1: What do you want from its? Pay for the mixtape

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Speaker 1: the candle and the flowers. I'm sorry, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: right now, Max, But you know what, I support you, okay, piece,

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Speaker 1: and me. What prom? Did you have? The best prom? Dude?

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Speaker 1: why you want to do problem with me? Max? Did

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Speaker 1: try and call it right now. You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Beth? Yes, it

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh um, are you

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Speaker 1: familiar with us? I'm familiar with you. I just I

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Speaker 1: danced for like fifteen songs, which to me was overkill. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is sweet, like he's just trying to recreate promp

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Speaker 1: I missed my prom, Like I'm not sitting here crying

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.