1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: All right, This is from Eddie and Steve barbfm Eddie says, 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: my best friend and his girlfriend hang out all the time. 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: I'm not romantically or sexually attracted to my friend's girlfriend, 4 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: but I have developed an attachment I can't shake. Sometimes 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm just counting down the days as to when I 6 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,240 Speaker 1: can see them again. I even watch shows or do hobbies, 7 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: she mentions, because it makes me feel close to her. 8 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: I don't want to make things weird or lose this friendship, 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: but I know something about this isn't healthy. How do 10 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: I get a handle on these feelings about my best 11 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: friend's girl? 12 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: I see right here, doll, you sprung do doll is? 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 3: Get away from this situation? How can I shake this 14 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 3: feeling about? You can't? 15 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: Who? She? 16 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 2: Fine? You can't? You can't unfine nobody? 17 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: Wait what you can? 18 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: What does that mean? He cannot? 19 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 3: Unfine nobody. She's gonna have to do something directly to 20 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: you that's gonna have to cause you a lot of 21 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 3: grief and despair for you not to find her attracted. 22 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: Come on, Okay, okay, But he says he's not romantically 23 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:24,919 Speaker 1: or even sexually attracted to her. What that's what he said? 24 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you that's what he said. 25 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: That's a lie. 26 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 3: Why he's sitting around dreaming of when she's coming over, 27 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 3: trying to do things and get her approval, watching shows 28 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: so they have something to talk about. How old is 29 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 3: a dude that wrote this letter with all the lies 30 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 3: in it. I'm not physically or sexually attracted to her. 31 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: That's a lie. I'm calling him to lie about it. 32 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 3: I can't help you. 33 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: He's developed an attachment to her that he can't shake. 34 00:01:55,640 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: He's developed Sureley, I'm just tell you what he said. 35 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: These are not my words. You don't know never met 36 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: these people. 37 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, this boy sprang head over heels. 38 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 3: He's just trying to deny it because it is his 39 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 3: boy's girl, So he's in denial, and because you're crazy 40 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 3: about this girl. 41 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: Though, Yeah, that's what he's saying. He doesn't want to 42 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: make things weird or lose this friendship. But I know 43 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: something about this isn't healthy. 44 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 2: Your best friend? 45 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 3: Uh huh? 46 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: How do I get a handle on these feelings about 47 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: my best friend's girlfriend. 48 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 3: See, that's what's not healthy. When your best friend find out. 49 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 3: That's when real unhealthy. What happened when he found out. 50 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 2: It's gonna get unhealthy in him. 51 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 1: All Right, we have another one. Jerry and Steve Harvey 52 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: FM says, for the last few months, my wife and 53 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: I have been on a journey to better our health 54 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: and get back into shape. It's been working too. We 55 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 1: are both looking and feeling better than we have in 56 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: a long time. We live in an extremely active Halloween neighborhood, 57 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: so we of course went out and bought a nice 58 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: selection of candy for the kids. The problem is that 59 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: yesterday I found the stash of candy my wife has 60 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: been putting aside for herself, and it's a lot. Clearly 61 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: she didn't want me to find it. So my dilemma 62 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: is this, do I let her keep her secret or 63 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: do I let her know I found out? 64 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 3: Well, I let her keep the secret though they're in 65 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 3: a health journey, right. 66 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 67 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: What you can't do is go somewhere and get just big. 68 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 3: You gain a little bit of weight. I'm gonna cold 69 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 3: that ten fifteen. I'm cool with that. 70 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: I'm cool with that party we meet, party where you're going. 71 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: That's a whole other person now. 72 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so he should just let her have her secret. 73 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, man, because maybe you know the snacks ain't hurting it. 74 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: You say, y'all both looking good, so you know, and 75 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 3: everything in moderation these diets, you're gonna you're still gonna 76 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 3: cheat a little bit. 77 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta reward yourself something. 78 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 3: I'm finna do something today against my program? 79 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: Like what what are you about to do? 80 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: Something? 81 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 2: I want to? Like? What something? 82 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 3: I want to pizza, fried chicken, bac and cheese, something 83 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: like that? Can something? All this healthy eating, drink d 84 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 3: green drinks and all this. You know 85 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show