Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.
Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 1: Today's tip is to identify the perfect treat to be
Speaker 1: a pick me up when you need one. You may
Speaker 1: have heard about the lipstick effect, the tendency for women
Speaker 1: to spend more on beauty products when the economy is weaker.
Speaker 1: If during an economic downturn, you can't afford a big
Speaker 1: indulgence like a designer purse, the theory is that you
Speaker 1: are more likely to spend on small indulgences to make
Speaker 1: up for it. Lipstick fits the definition of a small
Speaker 1: indulgence pretty well. The actual research on the lipstick effect
Speaker 1: is mixed, but there's a lot to be said for
Speaker 1: the idea. Whatever is going on in the larger world,
Speaker 1: it is nice to have a few little treats that
Speaker 1: you know you can always indulg in. Sometimes a little
Speaker 1: indulgence can go a long way towards boosting your happiness
Speaker 1: and your sense that you get things just for yourself.
Speaker 1: Every now and then, I've been thinking about treats a
Speaker 1: lot lately because well, some of my old standbys no
Speaker 1: longer work due to various boring maladies. I have had
Speaker 1: to give up wine and dairy products. This is a
Speaker 1: shame because chocolate caramels, or a glass of Sauvignon blanc
Speaker 1: or a frothy latte have long been some of my
Speaker 1: favorite picked me ups. Fortunately, the world has plenty of
Speaker 1: treats if you think about it, and I've come up
Speaker 1: with others. Craft beer it's a nice wine substitute, as
Speaker 1: are some of the new higher end packaged mocktails you
Speaker 1: can buy. Larger grocery stores carry a selection of non
Speaker 1: dairy chocolate products such as my new favorite indulgence ben
Speaker 1: and Jerry's Fish Food, non dairy frozen dessert, completely decadent
Speaker 1: and available for a few bucks. Treats also don't have
Speaker 1: to have calories. They can be experiences. I was amazed
Speaker 1: at how often baths came up in my research from
Speaker 1: my upcoming book, Tranquility by Tuesday. Lots of people chose
Speaker 1: reading in their bathtubs as a favorite form of effortful fun,
Speaker 1: and there's definitely something to that. I find it relaxing
Speaker 1: enough that taking a soak in the tub is now
Speaker 1: on my list of favorite treats to indulgen when I
Speaker 1: have the house to myself, or at least I don't
Speaker 1: have the toddler around. Another treat is playing the piano.
Speaker 1: That might have been a chore when I was a kid,
Speaker 1: but these days I like to play a few hymns
Speaker 1: and sing along. I'm not trying to learn any new music,
Speaker 1: just play the old standbys, which makes the experience quite relaxing.
Speaker 1: Then there's puzzles and Lego projects. Before Christmas, my preteen
Speaker 1: kids and I put together the Visit from Santa House,
Speaker 1: and I enjoyed it so much that I bought the
Speaker 1: Lego elf Clubhouse set too. Allegedly it was for the kids,
Speaker 1: but hey, it could also be my treat. When the
Speaker 1: weather is nicer, I like to sit on the porch
Speaker 1: and read a magazine. I know so much as online
Speaker 1: these days, but there's something just more relaxing about reading
Speaker 1: a print magazine that cannot possibly interrupt me with an
Speaker 1: urgent text or email. I save up each issue after
Speaker 1: it arrives and tell I need a treat. In any case,
Speaker 1: it could be hard to think of treats in the moment,
Speaker 1: or at least treats beyond the obvious wine or chocolate.
Speaker 1: And even if we do indulge in the obvious. We
Speaker 1: want to notice that this is what we are doing
Speaker 1: and savor the treat rather than just shoveling it in.
Speaker 1: So if you need some pick me ups, and really,
Speaker 1: who doesn't spend a little time today thinking about your
Speaker 1: favorite treats, make a list where in your daily orbit
Speaker 1: are you most at peace? Where do you feel most uplifted.
Speaker 1: They say we can't buy happiness, but if you are
Speaker 1: looking to spend ten dollars or less, what little indulgence
Speaker 1: would reliably boost your mood. Really, it could be anything
Speaker 1: new office supplies, fun cocktail, napkins, a special pass, and
Speaker 1: a video game. Start making this list and come back
Speaker 1: to it a few times as you think of things.
Speaker 1: Then put this list somewhere you will see it on
Speaker 1: your phone, on the fridge, with a magnet on a
Speaker 1: sticky note in your kitchen. It can be hard to
Speaker 1: think of things in the moment, and particularly when we
Speaker 1: are feeling a bit glum. But if you remember that
Speaker 1: a particular flavor of tea and posts from a certain
Speaker 1: blogger always lift your spirits, you can go indulge in
Speaker 1: those things when you need the boost. Or maybe it's
Speaker 1: listening to a certain podcast. By my account, this is
Speaker 1: the seven hundred fiftieth original episode of Before Breakfast. The
Speaker 1: episode count might be higher in your feed because we
Speaker 1: run repeats on the weekends, but I hope listening to
Speaker 1: a few of these seven hundred fifty episodes has felt
Speaker 1: like a little treat for you. In any case, I
Speaker 1: am always looking for more treat ideas, so let me
Speaker 1: know what you come up with. You can reach me
Speaker 1: at Laura at Laura vander Kim dot com. In the meantime,
Speaker 1: this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making
Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to
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