Speaker 1: Second date, up date. Making a friendly bet during a
Speaker 1: first date it could be a good move. It's kind
Speaker 1: of flirty a little bit, have a little excitement to
Speaker 1: the night, like, for example, beer chugging contest loser has
Speaker 1: to do the other person's taxes for the next five years.
Speaker 1: Ready go, you suck at chugging beer. Okay, So here's
Speaker 1: my W four and a list of my assets. So
Speaker 1: if you can follow those guys tomorrow, they're already overdue.
Speaker 1: That not working for you, Brook.
Speaker 2: This weird W two W four good good thing.
Speaker 1: You know how to do it, because I certainly don't.
Speaker 1: But one of our listeners had a friendly wager going
Speaker 1: during her first date and apparently didn't go quite the
Speaker 1: way she planned. So let's talk to Tricia about it. Tricia,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hi, thank you.
Speaker 2: You owe more to the irs than you too?
Speaker 3: Is that what happened? Not exactly?
Speaker 1: Okay, you didn't do the tax bad thing?
Speaker 3: No, I didn't.
Speaker 1: Look now he's not calling you back.
Speaker 2: Who is it? Who did you go out with?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 3: I met this guy named Gino, you know, and we
Speaker 3: met online and he really seemed like very kind of happy.
Speaker 3: He's like a very chill guy.
Speaker 2: Okay, those are good qualities in a person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's super cute, So I was like, why not? So, like,
Speaker 3: I know by his profile that he's like a sporty guy,
Speaker 3: and I'm pretty sporty myself. Okay, So I thought we
Speaker 3: would do a game of pickup basketball.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's a great day.
Speaker 1: Thought you'd go to a game, not be in a game.
Speaker 1: That sound as fun, But that's not like a sporty
Speaker 1: thing to do. Watching sports is not an athletic thing.
Speaker 1: But that's not acause I thought I was because.
Speaker 2: I watched so many sports that doesn't on my couch.
Speaker 1: Downing two plates of nachos and under twenty seconds is
Speaker 1: technically it is kind of athletics competitive food, but I
Speaker 1: don't think that's what Tricia had in mind. Okay, so
Speaker 1: you guys wanted to do something sporty. What was your bet?
Speaker 3: So the loser had to buy the drink?
Speaker 2: Oh did you?
Speaker 4: Okay, it's good to play basketball before drinking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, pertably don't want to do that the other way round.
Speaker 2: I mean you could make its tummy cramp.
Speaker 1: Okay, So, uh who won?
Speaker 3: Well he was pretty good and I'm not bad at all,
Speaker 3: so it was close, but I guess he just called
Speaker 3: it a tie because when I made the last shot,
Speaker 3: it hit the rim, and when he turned around to
Speaker 3: make the rebound, it hit him in the nose.
Speaker 4: Oh oh oh did it bleed?
Speaker 3: No, but it looks like it hurt.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, so his pride is hurt. He has it, like
Speaker 2: really dominated the game. And then he just got an awi.
Speaker 3: Yeah he had an alley. And then but he bought drinks.
Speaker 1: Anyhow, Okay, hit him in the face with the ball.
Speaker 3: You didn't pay for the id do it purposely hit
Speaker 3: the rim? Wasn't my flock and she.
Speaker 2: Didn't lose Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Okay, she's a stickler for the rules. Yeah, okay, the
Speaker 1: drinks go good.
Speaker 3: Drinks were great. We have like really good conversation too.
Speaker 2: Okay, this all sounds so good. You're getting doesn't What
Speaker 2: is there any bad things that happened?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: I mean he was talking about like what he is
Speaker 3: looking for in a relationship and how he wants an
Speaker 3: active person, which is awesome because I do too. And
Speaker 3: he talks a little bit about, uh he loves fantasy football,
Speaker 3: which I don't understand at all, but whatever, okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: And then he talked about like how he had a
Speaker 3: big party for his family for their anniversary for his parents.
Speaker 2: Oh that's cute and.
Speaker 3: There's like fifty people, so like he's really family oriented,
Speaker 3: which I thought was great.
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, this is all cute.
Speaker 1: How did you end that date?
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 3: I kissed him on my car?
Speaker 1: Oh, you initiated the kiss?
Speaker 3: I did? Yeah, kisses?
Speaker 1: No, so it felt better. Did you kiss him on
Speaker 1: the mouth?
Speaker 3: Oh? No, I kiss him on the mouth.
Speaker 2: Okay, well it was great.
Speaker 3: And then I went to get my car and he
Speaker 3: started walking towards his car, So then I figured I
Speaker 3: was going to try and be really cute. And then
Speaker 3: I ran up to him by his car and I
Speaker 3: gave him another kiss.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, why did you be so excited?
Speaker 2: If you were a guy, i'd love that. I don't
Speaker 2: know you're saying, no.
Speaker 1: Jeffery, is there any chance that maybe he thought you
Speaker 1: were going to attack him and try and knock him
Speaker 1: down again to finish the job.
Speaker 3: No, No, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: So I mean all that sounds okay, two kisses.
Speaker 2: Rather than one, It sounds really romantic.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: How's the conversation been after the date? Or has there
Speaker 1: been conversation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I've texted him like quite a few times
Speaker 3: and he does respond, but it's like spotty, so like
Speaker 3: he'll do on like every three texts or something. So
Speaker 3: that kind of makes me feel like, oh, maybe I
Speaker 3: did something wrong.
Speaker 1: Any texting from the same number every time?
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, I mean from the same three Burder phones
Speaker 4: that she has.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, she seems like to do the sneak attack things.
Speaker 2: All right, do you have any ideas?
Speaker 3: I have no clue. Did he not like me kiss him?
Speaker 3: Is he like afraid because of the ball mayes? I'm
Speaker 3: not sure what's going on. Like it's been a few
Speaker 3: weeks now too, so sometimes.
Speaker 1: A woman can seem a little bit too overeager with
Speaker 1: things too.
Speaker 3: Maybe I walked forward. I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love an eager woman.
Speaker 1: But all right, well, we'll come back. We'll call Geno
Speaker 1: for you, and we'll try not to like sneak attack
Speaker 1: him too much, but we'll politely ask if he's willing
Speaker 1: to see you another time and try and get your
Speaker 1: second date update right after this. Okay, okay, second date update.
Speaker 5: Out in the parking lot, she lurks dum ducking between cars,
Speaker 5: applying her blueberry lip bomber watching waiting for her moment, okay, to.
Speaker 1: Run up and strike.
Speaker 2: It hurts.
Speaker 1: Her name is Tricia.
Speaker 5: She is the notorious South Side surprise smoocher.
Speaker 2: Why did that guy get sick? I thought her date
Speaker 2: liked it?
Speaker 1: Not to be fair, it was her second kiss of
Speaker 1: the night with Gino, and she was just trying to
Speaker 1: be cute and flirty about it.
Speaker 2: But puke sound for her.
Speaker 1: The sneak kiss may have scared him away to the
Speaker 1: point where he's avoiding her now.
Speaker 2: If she's ducking behind cars, maybe.
Speaker 4: Maybe he's just waiting for her to surprise him again
Speaker 4: and she hasn't done it.
Speaker 3: I can really hope that it wasn't the second kiss.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's insane.
Speaker 1: Okay, Let's call Geno and try and get some answers
Speaker 1: from him. Maybe it's just a big misunderstanding, Okay, Okay.
Speaker 2: Maybe he's a way on business or something and hasn't
Speaker 2: told you.
Speaker 1: Getting his nose reconstructed after you shattered it into a
Speaker 1: little piece of.
Speaker 2: Rhinopla I've heard takes a while.
Speaker 1: So maybe he's just trying to get himself pretty again
Speaker 1: for you. Let's see what he has to say here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hey, is this Gino?
Speaker 6: Yes, this is Geno who's calling?
Speaker 4: Doesn't sound No, we're we're.
Speaker 1: We're radio show man. We're uh, it's called it's called
Speaker 1: Broken Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 6: Oh, that's I mean, I've.
Speaker 1: Heard of you guys.
Speaker 3: That's kind of cool.
Speaker 1: I think it's cool that you've heard of us. We're
Speaker 1: doing something on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You know that.
Speaker 6: No, yeah, I mean i've heard of that.
Speaker 1: I didn't.
Speaker 7: I didn't actually think that happens.
Speaker 3: That's kind of yeah, a lot.
Speaker 1: So you're the lucky guy that we're calling today because
Speaker 1: you recently went out with somebody named Tricia.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it was kind of a minute ago, right,
Speaker 4: like a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's been a two and a half week.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you're one of those guys who likes to
Speaker 1: just take it slow.
Speaker 3: Oh I guess.
Speaker 6: I mean what you guys are asking about how the
Speaker 6: date went or well, it's.
Speaker 1: Just like you just give us a nutshell, like your
Speaker 1: take on that date big picture.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 8: I got hit in the face with a like a basketball, But.
Speaker 2: Was that good for you?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Was it embarrassing. I bet it was embarrassing.
Speaker 6: I mean I got to say that the reason I'm
Speaker 6: not reaching out is because of like not the date,
Speaker 6: but because of like some of her texts after.
Speaker 7: They gave me some red flag.
Speaker 1: Oh, we didn't hear about any of the texts that
Speaker 1: you had. She just said you guys were kind of
Speaker 1: in spotty communication and you weren't responding to her.
Speaker 2: What'd she say? Was it clinging or something?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 3: You could say that.
Speaker 8: Like after I got home later that night, I got
Speaker 8: like a one sentence text that said, what's the best
Speaker 8: case scenario for us?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Relationship?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 7: And I was like, how do I answer this? I
Speaker 7: I literally was like, football in the face and more drinks.
Speaker 2: That's pretty funny. That's a fait tastic response.
Speaker 7: I was like, Okay, maybe she's drunk or something, and
Speaker 7: that was that.
Speaker 2: Okay, but that's funny. But there was more than just that.
Speaker 7: The thing is, the next day she texts me it
Speaker 7: was like, if we got married someday, would you consider
Speaker 7: ditching your fantasy football league to spend time with me?
Speaker 3: It was something like that, And the.
Speaker 1: Media answer is no, Alex question right?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Date?
Speaker 2: I mean it gives you a good gauge. I guess.
Speaker 1: Nice?
Speaker 2: That would she try to be funny?
Speaker 3: I don't know that was too serious.
Speaker 7: Questions like that's a big picture question.
Speaker 1: That's two in a row. How did you respond to
Speaker 1: that one?
Speaker 2: I totally ditched my friends in my interest.
Speaker 1: Just for you.
Speaker 6: You know, I just got to a point where I thought, Okay,
Speaker 6: this is just a lot off of one date. I
Speaker 6: I don't want to be planning out my future with
Speaker 6: this person.
Speaker 2: A lot for anything.
Speaker 1: Doesn't sound like you asked her her any deep introspective
Speaker 1: questions about her life. And now is actually your chance, gino,
Speaker 1: because she's on the other line right now, waiting to
Speaker 1: tell you what she wants out of your future together.
Speaker 7: This is going to be cute.
Speaker 6: Oh great, so she planned this too, of course she did.
Speaker 2: This doesn't make it less.
Speaker 1: Question is what would you do if I surprisingly put
Speaker 1: you on a radio? Patricia?
Speaker 3: You there, I'm here.
Speaker 1: You know you didn't mention any of those texts that
Speaker 1: you sent to him.
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't think that they were really like that important.
Speaker 2: Who so he hearing what he just said, have you
Speaker 2: changed your mind about.
Speaker 3: That mom issue? It's like I would like to know
Speaker 3: I am a planner.
Speaker 1: I could understand you wanting to like plan out your
Speaker 1: week or your month, planning out your entire rest of
Speaker 1: your life. That's a lot to ask a guy after
Speaker 1: one date.
Speaker 3: No, we're not getting any younger. And my deal is,
Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna bother wasting a minute if he's
Speaker 3: not going to tell me honestly what's going on with us,
Speaker 3: or I'm not going to waste a minute if he's
Speaker 3: gonna be like, no, I'm totally keeping my fantasy football
Speaker 3: and then I lose them like every Friday night. No,
Speaker 3: I don't think so, it's actually really on Friday give
Speaker 3: up his stuff for you, Gina.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't know that. Gino. Are you willing to
Speaker 1: give up your stuff?
Speaker 6: I mean, like I said, this is one day, like
Speaker 6: I have to go on a few more dates, Like
Speaker 6: you can't.
Speaker 7: You can't just corner.
Speaker 6: Someone like that. I don't think anybody's gonna.
Speaker 3: That could have been your answer to the first question
Speaker 3: I asked you, what's the best case, Maria? Okay, maybe yeah,
Speaker 3: let's go out a few more times. Okay. Maybe that
Speaker 3: wouldn't have led me to the next question. You're thinking
Speaker 3: me that I'm so psycho or something.
Speaker 7: Okay, I don't think you're psycho. I just I just
Speaker 7: want I did remember another thing you asked, which is,
Speaker 7: would your parents ever let us stay in their house.
Speaker 6: So we can say for our future?
Speaker 1: That was like another one that's kind of a sweet
Speaker 1: little image.
Speaker 7: Met my parents and I hadn't met her parents or anything.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because you're being selfish and you're keeping them
Speaker 1: all to yourself, you should spread the wealth of this
Speaker 1: wonderful family that you have.
Speaker 3: You also said you had fifty people in there, so
Speaker 3: it was big enough for all of us.
Speaker 2: Wait, you actually responded, and it was.
Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't.
Speaker 8: I didn't respond.
Speaker 3: I already told you guys, and we talked about this.
Speaker 3: He told me about mann versary party first parents, where
Speaker 3: he had fifty people.
Speaker 2: I can move in with.
Speaker 1: I mean, she's a planner, she's got help for every
Speaker 1: bad case scenario that might play out.
Speaker 4: It's just a little too much, you know. I know
Speaker 4: you want to know everything right now, but there's just
Speaker 4: no way to know.
Speaker 3: I made it this far in life with knowing everything,
Speaker 3: and I think I'm gonna be fine, you know what
Speaker 3: I mean, I'll be fine without him. But he could
Speaker 3: have just been honest and said, hey, a few more
Speaker 3: dates and I would been like, okay, and then I
Speaker 3: would have chilled out. But then it led me into
Speaker 3: this big spiral and wanting to know more and more more.
Speaker 1: Gino, we could just mooth this whole thing over. If
Speaker 1: you're just willing to admit right now it was all
Speaker 1: your fault.
Speaker 8: Go ahead, Yes, this is all my Fault's.
Speaker 1: Move forward, and since Tricia is such a planner, I
Speaker 1: would love to help her plan your next date, which
Speaker 1: we will pay for out of the generosity of our hearts.
Speaker 2: Are we asking, Gino? Are you asking?
Speaker 1: Well, Actually, that's a good point I do I should
Speaker 1: ask Tricia for permission. Tricia, is it okay if I
Speaker 1: co plan your next date with you?
Speaker 3: It is? It is fine with me for you to
Speaker 3: co plan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, seth that you're still up for it. So, Gino,
Speaker 1: would you like to meet up with Tricia one more
Speaker 1: time on our bill? Your future bride wants to know?
Speaker 5: Oh oh wow.
Speaker 7: Yes, if we can just kind of take it a little.
Speaker 1: Slower what you're saying.
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, I mean, like I said, I had a
Speaker 7: fun time. I just if you're really serious about just
Speaker 7: moving really fast.
Speaker 3: That's not me.
Speaker 6: But if you're willing to just like go out and
Speaker 6: have fun.
Speaker 3: Then I'm down to go out for another day.
Speaker 4: But what we never heard was about that fantasy league
Speaker 4: willing to give it up.
Speaker 1: This is a good start to the communication, a little
Speaker 1: bit of honesty and transparency. It never happens on our show.
Speaker 1: I'm proud of us like it.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 1: It just feel kind of but it's what you want.
Speaker 2: Is that okay with you? Tricia to move slower?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I promise I'll slow it down. I won't ask
Speaker 3: any future questions like about our children's names or anything.
Speaker 3: I will I will reel it in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you already have those planned out and he
Speaker 2: doesn't really.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, there we go again.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the rest of your life, Gino freaking Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning, Brook, I'm just gonna ask, Okay, where
Speaker 1: do you see the show going. What's the best case
Speaker 1: scenario for us here?
Speaker 4: I feel like it's too soon to ask, and that
Speaker 4: makes me feel kind of uncomfortable. I mean, we've only
Speaker 4: been together for over a decade and I'm not ready
Speaker 4: for this level of commitment.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm scared because from what I just heard I
Speaker 1: don't think we're heading to a very good place.
Speaker 4: What they're going out again, Jeff, exactly.
Speaker 1: Suddenly we have people on the phone communicating, listening to
Speaker 1: each other. That's taking a breath and respecting boundaries.
Speaker 2: No, not very funny, say that.
Speaker 1: We need to get this train back on track.
Speaker 4: Okay, if your life is a wreck, that's who we
Speaker 4: need to have.
Speaker 1: If you want to scream cry at someone for taking
Speaker 1: a cruton off of your salad without asking first, you're
Speaker 1: just the type of person we need. Yeah, email the
Speaker 1: show and help us write this sinking ship. We'll call
Speaker 1: the person who isn't calling you back