WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Double Kiss Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. Making a friendly bet during a

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<v Speaker 1>first date it could be a good move. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of flirty a little bit, have a little excitement to

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<v Speaker 1>the night, like, for example, beer chugging contest loser has

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<v Speaker 1>to do the other person's taxes for the next five years.

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<v Speaker 1>Ready go, you suck at chugging beer. Okay, So here's

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<v Speaker 1>my W four and a list of my assets. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you can follow those guys tomorrow, they're already overdue.

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<v Speaker 1>That not working for you, Brook.

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<v Speaker 2>This weird W two W four good good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how to do it, because I certainly don't.

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<v Speaker 1>But one of our listeners had a friendly wager going

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<v Speaker 1>during her first date and apparently didn't go quite the

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<v Speaker 1>way she planned. So let's talk to Tricia about it. Tricia,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>You owe more to the irs than you too?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what happened? Not exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you didn't do the tax bad thing?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Look now he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Who is it? Who did you go out with?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I met this guy named Gino, you know, and we

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<v Speaker 3>met online and he really seemed like very kind of happy.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like a very chill guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, those are good qualities in a person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's super cute, So I was like, why not? So, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I know by his profile that he's like a sporty guy,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm pretty sporty myself. Okay, So I thought we

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<v Speaker 3>would do a game of pickup basketball.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, that's a great day.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought you'd go to a game, not be in a game.

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<v Speaker 1>That sound as fun, But that's not like a sporty

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<v Speaker 1>thing to do. Watching sports is not an athletic thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not acause I thought I was because.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched so many sports that doesn't on my couch.

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<v Speaker 1>Downing two plates of nachos and under twenty seconds is

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<v Speaker 1>technically it is kind of athletics competitive food, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that's what Tricia had in mind. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you guys wanted to do something sporty. What was your bet?

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<v Speaker 3>So the loser had to buy the drink?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh did you?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's good to play basketball before drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, pertably don't want to do that the other way round.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you could make its tummy cramp.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So, uh who won?

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<v Speaker 3>Well he was pretty good and I'm not bad at all,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was close, but I guess he just called

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<v Speaker 3>it a tie because when I made the last shot,

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<v Speaker 3>it hit the rim, and when he turned around to

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<v Speaker 3>make the rebound, it hit him in the nose.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh oh did it bleed?

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<v Speaker 3>No, but it looks like it hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so his pride is hurt. He has it, like

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<v Speaker 2>really dominated the game. And then he just got an awi.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah he had an alley. And then but he bought drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyhow, Okay, hit him in the face with the ball.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't pay for the id do it purposely hit

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<v Speaker 3>the rim? Wasn't my flock and she.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't lose Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she's a stickler for the rules. Yeah, okay, the

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<v Speaker 1>drinks go good.

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<v Speaker 3>Drinks were great. We have like really good conversation too.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this all sounds so good. You're getting doesn't What

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<v Speaker 2>is there any bad things that happened?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he was talking about like what he is

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<v Speaker 3>looking for in a relationship and how he wants an

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<v Speaker 3>active person, which is awesome because I do too. And

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<v Speaker 3>he talks a little bit about, uh he loves fantasy football,

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<v Speaker 3>which I don't understand at all, but whatever, okay, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>And then he talked about like how he had a

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<v Speaker 3>big party for his family for their anniversary for his parents.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's cute and.

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<v Speaker 3>There's like fifty people, so like he's really family oriented,

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<v Speaker 3>which I thought was great.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry, this is all cute.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you end that date?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I kissed him on my car?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you initiated the kiss?

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<v Speaker 3>I did? Yeah, kisses?

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<v Speaker 1>No, so it felt better. Did you kiss him on

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<v Speaker 1>the mouth?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? No, I kiss him on the mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well it was great.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I went to get my car and he

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<v Speaker 3>started walking towards his car, So then I figured I

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<v Speaker 3>was going to try and be really cute. And then

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<v Speaker 3>I ran up to him by his car and I

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<v Speaker 3>gave him another kiss.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, why did you be so excited?

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<v Speaker 2>If you were a guy, i'd love that. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know you're saying, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffery, is there any chance that maybe he thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to attack him and try and knock him

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<v Speaker 1>down again to finish the job.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean all that sounds okay, two kisses.

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<v Speaker 2>Rather than one, It sounds really romantic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How's the conversation been after the date? Or has there

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<v Speaker 1>been conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I've texted him like quite a few times

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<v Speaker 3>and he does respond, but it's like spotty, so like

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<v Speaker 3>he'll do on like every three texts or something. So

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<v Speaker 3>that kind of makes me feel like, oh, maybe I

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<v Speaker 3>did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Any texting from the same number every time?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, I mean from the same three Burder phones

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<v Speaker 4>that she has.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, she seems like to do the sneak attack things.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, do you have any ideas?

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<v Speaker 3>I have no clue. Did he not like me kiss him?

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<v Speaker 3>Is he like afraid because of the ball mayes? I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not sure what's going on. Like it's been a few

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<v Speaker 3>weeks now too, so sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>A woman can seem a little bit too overeager with

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<v Speaker 1>things too.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I walked forward. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love an eager woman.

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<v Speaker 1>But all right, well, we'll come back. We'll call Geno

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and we'll try not to like sneak attack

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<v Speaker 1>him too much, but we'll politely ask if he's willing

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<v Speaker 1>to see you another time and try and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this. Okay, okay, second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Out in the parking lot, she lurks dum ducking between cars,

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<v Speaker 5>applying her blueberry lip bomber watching waiting for her moment, okay, to.

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<v Speaker 1>Run up and strike.

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<v Speaker 2>It hurts.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Tricia.

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<v Speaker 5>She is the notorious South Side surprise smoocher.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did that guy get sick? I thought her date

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<v Speaker 2>liked it?

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<v Speaker 1>Not to be fair, it was her second kiss of

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<v Speaker 1>the night with Gino, and she was just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be cute and flirty about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But puke sound for her.

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<v Speaker 1>The sneak kiss may have scared him away to the

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<v Speaker 1>point where he's avoiding her now.

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<v Speaker 2>If she's ducking behind cars, maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe he's just waiting for her to surprise him again

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<v Speaker 4>and she hasn't done it.

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<v Speaker 3>I can really hope that it wasn't the second kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's insane.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Let's call Geno and try and get some answers

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<v Speaker 1>from him. Maybe it's just a big misunderstanding, Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he's a way on business or something and hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>told you.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting his nose reconstructed after you shattered it into a

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<v Speaker 1>little piece of.

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<v Speaker 2>Rhinopla I've heard takes a while.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe he's just trying to get himself pretty again

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Let's see what he has to say here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hey, is this Gino?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, this is Geno who's calling?

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't sound No, we're we're.

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<v Speaker 1>We're radio show man. We're uh, it's called it's called

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<v Speaker 1>Broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, that's I mean, I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Heard of you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's cool that you've heard of us. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that.

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<v Speaker 6>No, yeah, I mean i've heard of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't actually think that happens.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of yeah, a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're the lucky guy that we're calling today because

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out with somebody named Tricia.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, it was kind of a minute ago, right,

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<v Speaker 4>like a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's been a two and a half week.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you're one of those guys who likes to

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<v Speaker 1>just take it slow.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I guess.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean what you guys are asking about how the

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<v Speaker 6>date went or well, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like you just give us a nutshell, like your

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<v Speaker 1>take on that date big picture.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>I got hit in the face with a like a basketball, But.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that good for you?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it embarrassing. I bet it was embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I got to say that the reason I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not reaching out is because of like not the date,

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<v Speaker 6>but because of like some of her texts after.

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<v Speaker 7>They gave me some red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, we didn't hear about any of the texts that

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<v Speaker 1>you had. She just said you guys were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>in spotty communication and you weren't responding to her.

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<v Speaker 2>What'd she say? Was it clinging or something?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>You could say that.

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<v Speaker 8>Like after I got home later that night, I got

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<v Speaker 8>like a one sentence text that said, what's the best

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<v Speaker 8>case scenario for us?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>And I was like, how do I answer this? I

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<v Speaker 7>I literally was like, football in the face and more drinks.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty funny. That's a fait tastic response.

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<v Speaker 7>I was like, Okay, maybe she's drunk or something, and

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<v Speaker 7>that was that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but that's funny. But there was more than just that.

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<v Speaker 7>The thing is, the next day she texts me it

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<v Speaker 7>was like, if we got married someday, would you consider

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<v Speaker 7>ditching your fantasy football league to spend time with me?

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<v Speaker 3>It was something like that, And the.

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<v Speaker 1>Media answer is no, Alex question right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Date?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it gives you a good gauge. I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice?

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<v Speaker 2>That would she try to be funny?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that was too serious.

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<v Speaker 7>Questions like that's a big picture question.

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<v Speaker 1>That's two in a row. How did you respond to

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<v Speaker 1>that one?

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<v Speaker 2>I totally ditched my friends in my interest.

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<v Speaker 1>Just for you.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I just got to a point where I thought, Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>this is just a lot off of one date. I

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to be planning out my future with

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<v Speaker 6>this person.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot for anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't sound like you asked her her any deep introspective

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<v Speaker 1>questions about her life. And now is actually your chance, gino,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's on the other line right now, waiting to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what she wants out of your future together.

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<v Speaker 7>This is going to be cute.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh great, so she planned this too, of course she did.

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<v Speaker 2>This doesn't make it less.

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<v Speaker 1>Question is what would you do if I surprisingly put

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<v Speaker 1>you on a radio? Patricia?

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<v Speaker 3>You there, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you didn't mention any of those texts that

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<v Speaker 1>you sent to him.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I didn't think that they were really like that important.

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<v Speaker 2>Who so he hearing what he just said, have you

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<v Speaker 2>changed your mind about.

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<v Speaker 3>That mom issue? It's like I would like to know

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<v Speaker 3>I am a planner.

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<v Speaker 1>I could understand you wanting to like plan out your

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<v Speaker 1>week or your month, planning out your entire rest of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. That's a lot to ask a guy after

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<v Speaker 1>one date.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we're not getting any younger. And my deal is,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not even gonna bother wasting a minute if he's

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<v Speaker 3>not going to tell me honestly what's going on with us,

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<v Speaker 3>or I'm not going to waste a minute if he's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be like, no, I'm totally keeping my fantasy football

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<v Speaker 3>and then I lose them like every Friday night. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so, it's actually really on Friday give

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<v Speaker 3>up his stuff for you, Gina.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we don't know that. Gino. Are you willing to

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<v Speaker 1>give up your stuff?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, like I said, this is one day, like

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<v Speaker 6>I have to go on a few more dates, Like

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<v Speaker 6>you can't.

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<v Speaker 7>You can't just corner.

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<v Speaker 6>Someone like that. I don't think anybody's gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>That could have been your answer to the first question

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<v Speaker 3>I asked you, what's the best case, Maria? Okay, maybe yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>let's go out a few more times. Okay. Maybe that

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't have led me to the next question. You're thinking

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<v Speaker 3>me that I'm so psycho or something.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I don't think you're psycho. I just I just

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<v Speaker 7>want I did remember another thing you asked, which is,

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<v Speaker 7>would your parents ever let us stay in their house.

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<v Speaker 6>So we can say for our future?

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<v Speaker 1>That was like another one that's kind of a sweet

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<v Speaker 1>little image.

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<v Speaker 7>Met my parents and I hadn't met her parents or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, because you're being selfish and you're keeping them

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<v Speaker 1>all to yourself, you should spread the wealth of this

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful family that you have.

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<v Speaker 3>You also said you had fifty people in there, so

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<v Speaker 3>it was big enough for all of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you actually responded, and it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 8>I didn't respond.

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<v Speaker 3>I already told you guys, and we talked about this.

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<v Speaker 3>He told me about mann versary party first parents, where

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<v Speaker 3>he had fifty people.

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<v Speaker 2>I can move in with.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's a planner, she's got help for every

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<v Speaker 1>bad case scenario that might play out.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just a little too much, you know. I know

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<v Speaker 4>you want to know everything right now, but there's just

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<v Speaker 4>no way to know.

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<v Speaker 3>I made it this far in life with knowing everything,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think I'm gonna be fine, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'll be fine without him. But he could

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<v Speaker 3>have just been honest and said, hey, a few more

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<v Speaker 3>dates and I would been like, okay, and then I

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<v Speaker 3>would have chilled out. But then it led me into

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<v Speaker 3>this big spiral and wanting to know more and more more.

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<v Speaker 1>Gino, we could just mooth this whole thing over. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're just willing to admit right now it was all

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<v Speaker 1>your fault.

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<v Speaker 8>Go ahead, Yes, this is all my Fault's.

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<v Speaker 1>Move forward, and since Tricia is such a planner, I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to help her plan your next date, which

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<v Speaker 1>we will pay for out of the generosity of our hearts.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we asking, Gino? Are you asking?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Actually, that's a good point I do I should

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<v Speaker 1>ask Tricia for permission. Tricia, is it okay if I

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<v Speaker 1>co plan your next date with you?

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<v Speaker 3>It is? It is fine with me for you to

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<v Speaker 3>co plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, seth that you're still up for it. So, Gino,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to meet up with Tricia one more

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<v Speaker 1>time on our bill? Your future bride wants to know?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh wow.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, if we can just kind of take it a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Slower what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yeah, I mean, like I said, I had a

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<v Speaker 7>fun time. I just if you're really serious about just

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<v Speaker 7>moving really fast.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not me.

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<v Speaker 6>But if you're willing to just like go out and

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<v Speaker 6>have fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I'm down to go out for another day.

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<v Speaker 4>But what we never heard was about that fantasy league

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<v Speaker 4>willing to give it up.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a good start to the communication, a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of honesty and transparency. It never happens on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of us like it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It just feel kind of but it's what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that okay with you? Tricia to move slower?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I promise I'll slow it down. I won't ask

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<v Speaker 3>any future questions like about our children's names or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I will I will reel it in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because you already have those planned out and he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't really.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, there we go again.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the rest of your life, Gino freaking Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, Brook, I'm just gonna ask, Okay, where

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<v Speaker 1>do you see the show going. What's the best case

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<v Speaker 1>scenario for us here?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like it's too soon to ask, and that

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<v Speaker 4>makes me feel kind of uncomfortable. I mean, we've only

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<v Speaker 4>been together for over a decade and I'm not ready

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<v Speaker 4>for this level of commitment.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm scared because from what I just heard I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we're heading to a very good place.

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<v Speaker 4>What they're going out again, Jeff, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Suddenly we have people on the phone communicating, listening to

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<v Speaker 1>each other. That's taking a breath and respecting boundaries.

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<v Speaker 2>No, not very funny, say that.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to get this train back on track.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, if your life is a wreck, that's who we

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<v Speaker 4>need to have.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to scream cry at someone for taking

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<v Speaker 1>a cruton off of your salad without asking first, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just the type of person we need. Yeah, email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and help us write this sinking ship. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who isn't calling you back